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Speaker 1: Okay, I have a dilemma. What is it?

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Speaker 2: It's lunchtime and I don't have any food in my fridge.

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Speaker 3: Let's go get good, Let's go get g y G baby,

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Speaker 3: mex exactly what I wanted.

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Speaker 1: That's exactly what I wanted. Dilemmas are back, Baby, dilemmas

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Speaker 1: are back. Thanks everyone for tuning in. Let's jump into

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Speaker 1: the episode.

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Speaker 2: All right, don't want to go first? Yeah, Hey guys,

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Speaker 2: I'm nineteen and I'm from the UK and I've been

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Speaker 2: talking to this guy for around three years and I

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Speaker 2: really love talking to him and he tells me he

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Speaker 2: does as well. I could really picture him being in

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Speaker 2: my life in a more than friendship way. But the

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Speaker 2: problem is he's Canadian. I don't know what to do

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Speaker 2: as I absolutely love talking and facetiming him, but if

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Speaker 2: it's not realistic for us to even meet anytime soon,

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Speaker 2: should I just lay off the situation?

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Speaker 1: Please?

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Speaker 2: Any advice you have I do appreciate from the UK.

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Speaker 2: I'm just looking for a little guidance from another person's perspective.

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Speaker 1: So she's the UK, he's Canada. I love listen. Some

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Speaker 1: of our listeners are so sweet. I mean, I'm trying

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Speaker 1: to three years of talking. I reckon, how long is

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Speaker 1: the flight from UK can? I was just gonna say,

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Speaker 1: go buy a fly it works out? This is three

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Speaker 1: years is too long to not try? No, not at

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Speaker 1: all delusional or not. And I don't give a fuck.

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Speaker 1: I say give it a crack.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, and then and then if it doesn't work out,

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Speaker 2: it doesn't work out, and you'll come home and.

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Speaker 1: You'll know, Yeah, you'll know.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I would say, it's the simplest answer, but you need

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Speaker 1: to know, especially after it's three years.

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Speaker 2: Surely three years of talking to someone and you're genuinely thinking,

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Speaker 2: like I want to start a long term relationship with

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Speaker 2: them through the phone is like enough for you to

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Speaker 2: buy a ticket to go see them.

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Speaker 1: What's with? Though? So my answer is the same as Jakes,

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Speaker 1: go buy a flight and find out what's with? You

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Speaker 1: know that shows on Netflix like Catfishes and people who

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Speaker 1: Talk Forever, Like, how does that happen? How do people

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Speaker 1: get so emotionally investive with someone who doesn't exist? Well,

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Speaker 1: they think they exist, yeah, but how does someone portray

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Speaker 1: themselves as like this beautiful person when they're like, surely

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Speaker 1: they FaceTime and every night or something like they always

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Speaker 1: think of a way to not. They always think of

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Speaker 1: a way to not. But my immediate thought is make

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Speaker 1: sure he's real.

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Speaker 2: But that show Catfish is like a yeah, they they

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Speaker 2: target the right person. They target a lonely person. That's

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Speaker 2: what they do.

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Speaker 1: No, there was one I saw one on Netflix. Really

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Speaker 1: it was this star quarterback. He made a documentary about it.

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Speaker 1: But you never know. He could have been a lonely guy.

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Speaker 1: But he got catfish by like some random girl. But

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Speaker 1: he got and they were talking for like months and

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Speaker 1: media saying he was taken and they've ever met.

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Speaker 2: Wow, some people just get manipulated a fucking gas lip

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Speaker 2: into anything.

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Speaker 1: So make sure he's real. Buy a flight, go on

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Speaker 1: there and find out, have some bang as sex and

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Speaker 1: remember maybe not and it's not good sex.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Do you remember ages ago, years ago? You were

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Speaker 2: still living here. It was so long ago, and we

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Speaker 2: had the podcast. It was in that corner, but it was.

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Speaker 1: The old Cara. Yeah, And I had matched.

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Speaker 2: I was single matchurally go on Tinder, and I think

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Speaker 2: there was like two dates where she canceled.

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Speaker 1: One we rescheduled to cancel, another one rescheduled I do

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Speaker 1: remember she was a flight attendant.

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Speaker 2: She's a flight attendant, so I remember, I remember. I

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Speaker 2: think after the second day cancer, I was just like,

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm gonna give up. I don't give a

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Speaker 1: fuck now. But do you reckon? She was cat fish?

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Speaker 1: Maybe never FaceTime never? We just all we did was planned.

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Speaker 2: Like I got, I got, I went straight to text.

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Speaker 2: I should have gone straight to Instagram.

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Speaker 1: Which I didn't do. Maybe that's the thing photos, and

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Speaker 1: maybe that's it. That's why Snapchat is good to be fair,

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Speaker 3: It's I think Snapchat's for Okay, we're in this weird

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Speaker 3: error us three in our generation that we're all you.

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Speaker 1: You communicate through Snapchat. That's such an ick.

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Speaker 2: You go two years older than us, Joanna, that's all

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Speaker 2: she uses, all right, That's all her and her friends use,

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Speaker 3: All they fucking use for some reason, wearing this weird

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Speaker 1: We're always trying to be cool.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, fucking hell, Like, if you don't know

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Speaker 2: I message me, you're a fucking loser.

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Speaker 1: Yeah do it? You w with to yourself. Next dilemma.

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Speaker 1: This one's short and simple, but it's a relatable dilemma.

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Speaker 1: I'm a first year in university studying Bachelor of Health

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Speaker 1: and Physical Education. However, it's a long drive to Woollongong

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Speaker 1: with early mornings and late nights. I need help in

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Speaker 1: deciding what I should do, if I should quit or

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Speaker 1: hold on and push through. I've been told for most

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Speaker 1: of my life I should be a teacher. I love

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Speaker 1: to put others first in achieving their goals, but I

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Speaker 1: don't think I have the mental capacity to keep going

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Speaker 1: for four years, considering I'm only four weeks in and

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Speaker 1: feel burnt out. Love the pod, thanks heaps. Fuck So

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Speaker 1: she was in Sydney Sydney to Wollongong. Was that like

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Speaker 2: Oh right, right right, and I'm gonna say it's probably

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like with traffic and stuff. Yeah, this always happens though,

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Speaker 1: Like people are like, you're such a good teacher, you'd

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Speaker 2: good fireman. Yeah, And I was like, well, I want

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Speaker 2: to be a fireman. And then when I came here,

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Speaker 2: I remember just like saying I want to do my

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Speaker 2: Like you know, and like yeah, everyone says to me, like,

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Speaker 2: everyone only like grandparents also like you you can make

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Speaker 1: And I'm just like, yeah, but I fucking hated life. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: It's clearly impossible for us to buy house. Yeah. Fuck,

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Speaker 1: I really tried to go to university, you did, I

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Speaker 1: Like everyone says, like go to university and you have

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Speaker 2: Yeah, which acts a plumber? And you do, you're doing

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Speaker 1: How many days a week?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a hard thing to ask yourself because university,

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Speaker 1: did like you do it in school. Apprenticeship, Yeah, no,

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Speaker 1: I've got the answer for us, the same thing. It's

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Speaker 1: the same thing. So university is daunting because it's four

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Speaker 1: this is the longest time period in my life. There's

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Speaker 1: a year teaching degree. You can be a teacher's aid. Yep,

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Speaker 1: just go, it's take course two nights a week. She's

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Speaker 1: teacher's aid and you help kids, which is simply essentially

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Speaker 1: the same thing on a less scale. And if you

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Speaker 1: four years where if you don't like that, then it's

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Speaker 1: only a year wasted, not four and you don't have

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Speaker 1: an eighty thousand dollars day. I think that's a great

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Speaker 1: idea because they make really good money too. When you

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Speaker 2: I say, everyone, you're going to get so many family members.

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Speaker 2: I'm just assuming it's not guarantee, but I assume you'll

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Speaker 2: get family members saying like, oh, why don't you finish

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Speaker 2: blah blah blah, and I say, fuck them, Yeah, seriously

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Speaker 2: fuck them. You could just say to them like, oh,

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Speaker 2: I'm doing this in a way where I actually want

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Speaker 2: my life. Yeah, and they're just going to be like

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Speaker 2: oh okay, like they will have nothing to say to that.

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Speaker 1: I think me and Jake got really lucky with their

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Speaker 1: more like they can figure it out, it's their life. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I was never forced We're never forced to do an

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Speaker 2: Like didn't work again, Yeah, my parents never once gave

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Speaker 1: Yeah. They were just like it like they had just

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Speaker 1: a big parent saying no to your parents and you

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Speaker 1: know what you like, So if you're doing it for

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Speaker 1: should do it. Love it all right, guys, we're cutting

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Speaker 1: it short. There, that's all you get. Sorry. The full

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Speaker 1: hour length episode is on Patreon yep, so if you

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Speaker 1: want that, go subscribe. It will be under the Spider

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Speaker 1: the rest of it. It's a very spicy episode. It's

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Speaker 1: very spicy, it's very sexual. Yeah, very funny, and it's

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Speaker 1: a first episode with our production man, Jack Jenkins. He's

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Speaker 1: fact checked and everything, and yeah, we're up in the quality.

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Speaker 1: Head on over the Patreon