WEBVTT - Just Buns. 0:00:06.720 --> 0:00:12.639 Hi, everyone, it's Show and Tell time. It's Mail, your friend. 0:00:13.240 --> 0:00:15.560 It's Monty, your best friend. 0:00:16.640 --> 0:00:18.520 Oh, you're the best friend and I'm just a friend. 0:00:18.600 --> 0:00:20.759 Heye, you're the friend. You're the one that we're like, 0:00:20.760 --> 0:00:21.680 should we invite mail? 0:00:23.360 --> 0:00:27.520 That's so mean and you're so far from that person. 0:00:27.720 --> 0:00:30.960 I know you're my top choice. 0:00:31.120 --> 0:00:34.360 It is Mela Monte. Thank you for listening into our podcast. 0:00:34.560 --> 0:00:38.560 We love that you are listening to us. Tickles us Pink. 0:00:39.000 --> 0:00:43.400 We're reading your comments the other day on Apple Podcasts 0:00:43.400 --> 0:00:43.919 the other day. 0:00:44.000 --> 0:00:44.200 Fuck. 0:00:44.240 --> 0:00:47.640 They made me just feel so unbelievably good. It was 0:00:47.800 --> 0:00:50.680 just so beautiful. So thank you for taking the time 0:00:50.960 --> 0:00:53.400 to go on there, because it really helps us. If 0:00:53.440 --> 0:00:56.200 you rate our podcast or write a comment, it pushes 0:00:56.280 --> 0:00:58.440 us up in the you know, feed whatever, so more 0:00:58.480 --> 0:00:59.200 people find us. 0:00:59.640 --> 0:01:00.920 But you had a four. 0:01:00.720 --> 0:01:04.040 Point nine as our out of five as our rating, 0:01:04.160 --> 0:01:06.080 and I was like, why four point nine? All these 0:01:06.080 --> 0:01:09.800 comments are so great, And then I scrolled down and 0:01:09.800 --> 0:01:12.520 there was one woman who just who had written just. 0:01:12.680 --> 0:01:15.520 Know, and I loved it so much. 0:01:15.600 --> 0:01:20.920 Marrietta Marrietta, Molly Marietta. It's so funny because podcasts you 0:01:20.959 --> 0:01:22.679 can choose, do you know what I mean, it's not 0:01:22.720 --> 0:01:24.319 the radio where you turn it on and you get 0:01:24.319 --> 0:01:26.760 what you get and you don't get upset. It's like 0:01:26.920 --> 0:01:30.520 you actively press play on this and listen, and did 0:01:30.560 --> 0:01:32.600 you listen to the whole thing and then decide just no, 0:01:33.280 --> 0:01:33.640 I know. 0:01:33.720 --> 0:01:36.319 And this is so childish, but I just made up 0:01:36.319 --> 0:01:40.560 a whole backstory about her, like, oh, yeah, she's a 0:01:40.640 --> 0:01:43.959 she's a fine Christian woman with Christian values, with herny 0:01:44.000 --> 0:01:47.040 little secret. Publicly she has to say she doesn't agree. Yes, 0:01:47.120 --> 0:01:48.200 our podcast, but. 0:01:49.640 --> 0:01:54.160 Warning, yeah we do. We make it morning. Hey, so 0:01:55.360 --> 0:01:57.960 last week you hang on oh your fact? 0:01:59.320 --> 0:01:59.760 Oh my god. 0:01:59.800 --> 0:02:01.600 So we have to start every pod with the fact 0:02:01.600 --> 0:02:03.920 now and have been getting feedback that you love the 0:02:04.000 --> 0:02:05.800 fact in fact, So there you go. 0:02:06.440 --> 0:02:08.960 Do you know what the most common birthday in this 0:02:09.040 --> 0:02:13.919 country is Christmas Day? No, that's the least Okay, well 0:02:13.960 --> 0:02:17.919 actually not technically, So the most common is September seventeenth. 0:02:18.480 --> 0:02:22.480 Why lots of Septembers. Septembers are like the top ten 0:02:22.680 --> 0:02:26.480 or something. Why, yeah, I know? Is it? You know why? 0:02:26.600 --> 0:02:28.919 I think it's around New Year's sort of time that 0:02:28.960 --> 0:02:30.040 you would be getting pregnant. 0:02:30.080 --> 0:02:31.160 Oh my god, it totally would. 0:02:31.160 --> 0:02:33.560 That's one hundred percent what it would be drunk periods 0:02:34.160 --> 0:02:35.360 almost yes, so good. 0:02:35.480 --> 0:02:38.640 Yes, But the least common, this is based on Alepia. 0:02:38.880 --> 0:02:42.480 Least common is feb twenty nine. Then in a regular 0:02:42.560 --> 0:02:44.200 year it's December twenty fifth. 0:02:44.560 --> 0:02:48.520 Ah, yeah, go well, I'll never forget the most popular 0:02:48.560 --> 0:02:50.840 one September seventeen. 0:02:50.960 --> 0:02:52.120 Yeah, you'll never forget that. 0:02:52.320 --> 0:02:54.040 It's useless now, of course I will. 0:02:54.240 --> 0:02:59.600 Terrible day anyway, it's there's been a lot of new, like, 0:02:59.639 --> 0:03:02.880 you know, stuff in the news about Obama and Michelle 0:03:03.000 --> 0:03:04.080 and are they breaking up? 0:03:04.080 --> 0:03:05.320 Are they heading for divorce? 0:03:05.919 --> 0:03:09.200 And I can't help it sometimes sniff out when there 0:03:09.360 --> 0:03:11.720 is smoke, there's fire, you know what I mean, Like 0:03:11.760 --> 0:03:15.760 it's random just to choose those two out of everyone 0:03:15.800 --> 0:03:18.320 to go h these two are on the rocks. But 0:03:18.880 --> 0:03:22.160 Michelle has spoken out and she has really openly talked 0:03:22.160 --> 0:03:24.640 about a relationship, and so was he, and he has 0:03:24.680 --> 0:03:28.440 said I was shit for a long time there. I mean, 0:03:28.480 --> 0:03:32.120 being the president of the USA plus being a dad 0:03:32.160 --> 0:03:34.800 because his kids were so young, would be fucking hard, 0:03:35.400 --> 0:03:36.400 like dumb. 0:03:37.200 --> 0:03:39.400 I think I read somewhere that she had said for 0:03:39.440 --> 0:03:42.440 the whole eight years or whatever, because he did two terms. Yes, 0:03:43.560 --> 0:03:47.440 they didn't talk. She said, So. 0:03:47.440 --> 0:03:51.080 They've been together thirty years. For ten years of their relationship, 0:03:51.360 --> 0:03:57.760 she quote couldn't stand him. Isn't that amazing to not 0:03:57.880 --> 0:04:01.320 stand someone for ten years? Like I get going, I 0:04:01.320 --> 0:04:04.000 don't feel in love. I go in and out of love. 0:04:04.600 --> 0:04:07.480 But to not stand them and to stick by their side, 0:04:07.560 --> 0:04:11.280 I guess also she because he was in office. She's like, well, 0:04:11.320 --> 0:04:13.040 we can't break up during this, so I've got to 0:04:13.040 --> 0:04:14.800 stick it out. But she said I'd prefer to have 0:04:15.280 --> 0:04:18.600 twenty great years out of the thirty and just cop 0:04:18.640 --> 0:04:21.039 the ten bat. 0:04:21.520 --> 0:04:28.160 My thought is that that is love because like they 0:04:28.279 --> 0:04:31.440 hung in there. I'm not saying be miserable for ten years. 0:04:31.480 --> 0:04:33.719 I don't think that's right. And I doubt she was 0:04:34.040 --> 0:04:36.200 really miserable for ten years or. 0:04:36.360 --> 0:04:41.200 She was parenting. She said she couldn't stand him. Like 0:04:41.240 --> 0:04:44.040 that's a hectic thing to say publicly. So they clearly 0:04:44.080 --> 0:04:46.920 were hanging on by a thread. They had young kids, 0:04:47.040 --> 0:04:49.160 he was president, so she was just like, oh, this 0:04:49.200 --> 0:04:49.680 is my life. 0:04:49.680 --> 0:04:50.640 I'm going to suck it up. 0:04:51.120 --> 0:04:54.320 Then obviously stay together, and they have, you know, come 0:04:54.320 --> 0:04:54.839 back together. 0:04:55.320 --> 0:04:59.400 Yeah. And of course, like when I say this, I 0:04:59.480 --> 0:05:03.440 don't mean people who are in abusive relationships or if 0:05:03.440 --> 0:05:07.760 there is legitimately no love there anymore. But I think 0:05:08.200 --> 0:05:11.760 the thing with long term relationships is being able to 0:05:11.800 --> 0:05:15.000 see we can get through this fucked up patch. Yeah, 0:05:15.040 --> 0:05:16.919 the love, Like when you were saying going in and 0:05:16.920 --> 0:05:18.480 out of love, I don't think you go in and 0:05:18.480 --> 0:05:22.120 out of love. I think you always love them, but 0:05:22.160 --> 0:05:26.239 you're not in the feeling. And there are times where 0:05:26.680 --> 0:05:28.800 you almost are like just the sight of. 0:05:28.760 --> 0:05:33.560 You, oh with someone all the time, like even you 0:05:33.640 --> 0:05:35.680 just need your own space, and you're like there's always 0:05:35.680 --> 0:05:39.440 people in the house, Like it's almost not normal how 0:05:39.520 --> 0:05:44.320 we live in a house and there's always people around. 0:05:44.440 --> 0:05:46.680 You don't have any of your own time, Like it 0:05:46.720 --> 0:05:49.840 wouldn't have been like that back in the oldie days, 0:05:49.960 --> 0:05:52.640 you know what I mean. People would have gone off 0:05:52.680 --> 0:05:55.960 and hunted by themselves for weeks at a time. So 0:05:56.000 --> 0:05:58.880 it just feels like and we our brains haven't evolved 0:05:58.920 --> 0:06:01.680 since then at all, So it's like we're sucking up 0:06:01.720 --> 0:06:05.279 this way of living. But it doesn't really work for everyone. 0:06:05.720 --> 0:06:09.200 But I also I read that what keeps a relationship 0:06:09.240 --> 0:06:12.839 together is when you and the words were when you 0:06:12.920 --> 0:06:15.800 fall in and out of love at different times. It's 0:06:16.120 --> 0:06:19.839 when you both are like out of love at the 0:06:19.920 --> 0:06:23.159 same time is when you can get in real problems 0:06:23.200 --> 0:06:26.159 and that's when the relationships usually end. 0:06:26.839 --> 0:06:29.760 Yeah, I would agree with that. I just think I 0:06:29.800 --> 0:06:33.359 think the unrealistic thing is people thinking it's going to 0:06:33.360 --> 0:06:36.240 be good all the time, because it's not totally like 0:06:36.320 --> 0:06:39.200 if people. And maybe that's the thing with her that 0:06:39.240 --> 0:06:41.440 people say they're on the rocks sortever, is because she's 0:06:41.440 --> 0:06:44.520 been so honest about it. Yeah, And I wonder how 0:06:44.560 --> 0:06:47.599 he feels about that. He's also admitted it too, so 0:06:47.640 --> 0:06:49.440 I don't know. They must have said, well, let's just 0:06:49.480 --> 0:06:51.520 be honest about it. I think it's really helpful for 0:06:51.560 --> 0:06:55.000 people though, because you look at other people's relationships and 0:06:55.040 --> 0:06:56.840 you're like, oh my god, they're having so much more 0:06:56.880 --> 0:06:59.279 sex than us, they are so much happier than us, 0:06:59.320 --> 0:07:02.400 there's so much more connected. God, we have no idea 0:07:02.400 --> 0:07:04.200 what goes on behind closed doors. 0:07:04.960 --> 0:07:05.960 And do you know what the thing is? 0:07:06.839 --> 0:07:10.600 Like, everyone's relationship, I'm sure has an element of it 0:07:10.880 --> 0:07:15.160 that everyone's envious of. Whether it's a good sex life 0:07:15.600 --> 0:07:19.920 or maybe great conversation that you have or whatever. There's 0:07:19.960 --> 0:07:22.320 always something that people will look at. No one's seeing 0:07:22.360 --> 0:07:24.160 the inner workings of a. 0:07:24.160 --> 0:07:27.600 Relationship because they can be used terribly unsexy the day 0:07:27.640 --> 0:07:29.240 to day running relationship. 0:07:29.640 --> 0:07:32.920 God, I know. And I read this really great quote 0:07:33.000 --> 0:07:35.960 that it's good to finish this off. It was so nice. 0:07:35.960 --> 0:07:38.880 It was like, here's the least romantic thing you'll read 0:07:38.920 --> 0:07:41.600 all day and the deepest truth I know about love. 0:07:42.040 --> 0:07:44.280 Pick a partner who can sit in a hospital room 0:07:44.320 --> 0:07:47.080 with you. Oh yeah, And I thought that's very Oh 0:07:47.120 --> 0:07:47.960 my god, that gives. 0:07:47.720 --> 0:07:49.200 Me full goosebumps. 0:07:49.320 --> 0:07:51.160 Yeah, because that's what it is. 0:07:51.200 --> 0:07:54.320 I think, like, and you have proven that because your 0:07:54.400 --> 0:07:57.120 husband went through cancer. Can you fucking believe he went 0:07:57.160 --> 0:08:00.360 through can so? Do you sometimes go oh my god, yeah, 0:08:00.400 --> 0:08:00.680 I do. 0:08:01.040 --> 0:08:04.360 Yep. But it's funny. It's you know, we talk well. 0:08:04.440 --> 0:08:06.920 I've said before how I'm not like a strong I'm 0:08:06.920 --> 0:08:09.600 not a strong person, Like I crumble at small things. 0:08:09.600 --> 0:08:12.400 I overanalyze things. But it is funny that when you're 0:08:12.400 --> 0:08:16.200 thrown into those moments, how you just sort of I 0:08:16.200 --> 0:08:18.280 don't know, like maybe it is when they say certain 0:08:18.320 --> 0:08:21.200 people are shit with every day things, but they're good 0:08:21.200 --> 0:08:22.040 in a crisis. 0:08:22.440 --> 0:08:26.840 Yeah, you were phenomenal because I was nervous because I 0:08:26.920 --> 0:08:32.280 was like, fuck, yeah, you were incredible, Like a whole 0:08:32.280 --> 0:08:35.640 other strength came out of you, and you just dealt 0:08:35.640 --> 0:08:37.840 with it. You just fucking dealt with it. You didn't wallow. 0:08:37.960 --> 0:08:39.800 You're like, this is what we're dealing with, and we're 0:08:39.800 --> 0:08:42.840 just doing it. We didn't stop podcasting, you didn't stop working, 0:08:43.160 --> 0:08:45.920 You kept everything running. You made sure the kids were okay, 0:08:46.440 --> 0:08:49.800 and you went to his appointments with him like full 0:08:50.040 --> 0:08:51.080 on phenomenal. 0:08:51.440 --> 0:08:53.040 Thanks for saying that. That's nice. 0:08:53.120 --> 0:08:55.800 That makes me feel sad, Oh doesn't Why? 0:08:56.000 --> 0:08:59.079 Yeah, I don't know, because I don't often think about it, like. 0:08:59.200 --> 0:09:03.240 Yeah, it was hell. There was a time they were like, fuck, 0:09:03.880 --> 0:09:08.559 what's going on here? Like that's terrifying. Yeah. Anyway, moving 0:09:08.559 --> 0:09:14.920 on to sexy things from husband's cancer. The other day, 0:09:15.000 --> 0:09:18.120 I was on Instagram and Doci to me is the 0:09:18.320 --> 0:09:20.560 coolest chick of all time. 0:09:20.679 --> 0:09:22.280 She's on the anxiety. 0:09:22.320 --> 0:09:24.360 Did you know she insisted before that song? 0:09:24.520 --> 0:09:25.560 I no, no, of course not. 0:09:25.880 --> 0:09:27.800 I actually saw her at the MTV I think it 0:09:27.840 --> 0:09:30.520 was the MTV Music Awards. They had all new artists 0:09:30.559 --> 0:09:34.400 performing and it was phenomenal. They went from like each 0:09:34.480 --> 0:09:36.280 new artist and she was one of them, and she 0:09:36.440 --> 0:09:38.920 just smashed it, and I was like, oh, she's clearly 0:09:38.960 --> 0:09:41.400 the hottest new thing. I'm never in the car, so 0:09:41.480 --> 0:09:44.640 I never hear I know nothing the same, nothing that's 0:09:44.679 --> 0:09:47.959 going on, like no new music. My kids will talk 0:09:48.000 --> 0:09:50.280 to me about stuff and I have to constantly go, 0:09:50.520 --> 0:09:52.720 I don't know who you're talking about. I just don't 0:09:52.720 --> 0:09:57.240 know anything. Anyway, she put this on her socials and 0:09:57.240 --> 0:09:59.559 I was like, good on you, because you are the 0:09:59.600 --> 0:10:02.079 hottest th at the moment. Everyone wants to be you. 0:10:02.080 --> 0:10:03.320 The guys would want to bone you. 0:10:03.480 --> 0:10:04.760 But this is what she said. 0:10:05.520 --> 0:10:06.240 I'm gonna fight. 0:10:08.280 --> 0:10:11.720 I'm a grown woman. I've gone through a lot in 0:10:11.760 --> 0:10:16.240 this country. I'm going to fight. I am a human, 0:10:17.280 --> 0:10:24.640 fucking girl. I'm not a machine. I'm gassy. I'm gonna fight, 0:10:25.360 --> 0:10:26.360 and it is what it is. 0:10:27.880 --> 0:10:30.000 So she goes on for a bit, but I'm just like, 0:10:30.840 --> 0:10:34.880 you have made yourself very vulnerable in that short amount 0:10:34.920 --> 0:10:38.880 of time, because thinking people fighting is crook, yet everyone 0:10:38.960 --> 0:10:39.320 does it. 0:10:39.640 --> 0:10:42.280 But she's just like a fight, I'm gassy. I'm like, 0:10:42.360 --> 0:10:43.760 you're a bloody legend. 0:10:44.200 --> 0:10:46.480 I know. And it also sort of goes without saying, 0:10:47.000 --> 0:10:50.360 of course you are or you're but I think I've 0:10:50.400 --> 0:10:52.920 said this. I've probably said this numerous times, but sometimes 0:10:52.960 --> 0:10:57.400 if I feel intimidated, I think of that person wiping 0:10:57.400 --> 0:10:58.199 their arts. 0:10:58.640 --> 0:11:00.160 So I'm like, a good idea. 0:11:00.360 --> 0:11:02.319 Everybody's shits and has to wipe their arms. 0:11:02.520 --> 0:11:05.640 Are yes, it doesn't matter who you are. It's so true. 0:11:05.679 --> 0:11:08.720 And they do fart and they do things like that. 0:11:08.880 --> 0:11:11.760 It brings you onto a level playing field when you're like, 0:11:11.800 --> 0:11:14.240 you're just human. You're so spot on. I need to 0:11:14.280 --> 0:11:18.440 think of that more often. Yeah, people wiping their ass. 0:11:19.040 --> 0:11:21.400 You think it's a good one because we are just 0:11:22.200 --> 0:11:24.120 we are just human. And you know, sometimes you see 0:11:24.160 --> 0:11:27.480 someone do something and you think I could do that, 0:11:28.240 --> 0:11:30.680 or I could probably do that better or whatever, and 0:11:30.679 --> 0:11:32.800 I think, how did they get that? And it's like, well, 0:11:33.160 --> 0:11:36.439 probably because they have the confidence. It's the confidence that's everything. 0:11:36.840 --> 0:11:40.679 You don't just completely bullshit your way through anything and 0:11:40.720 --> 0:11:41.400 get anywhere. 0:11:41.440 --> 0:11:45.160 God, So it's like eighty percent confidence and hard work 0:11:45.200 --> 0:11:49.160 and twenty percent talent with most things. You know, it's 0:11:48.840 --> 0:11:51.280 just like pushing and pushing and pushing till you get it. 0:11:51.320 --> 0:11:52.160 That's what I did. 0:11:52.600 --> 0:11:54.440 Like, I'm not saying this for you to go no, 0:11:54.480 --> 0:11:56.800 you're very talented, but in terms of the people that 0:11:57.320 --> 0:12:03.160 I was working with unbelievably naturally talented, very funny. I 0:12:03.320 --> 0:12:05.880 was never quite that, Like I used to have to 0:12:05.920 --> 0:12:08.960 work double time to their time to get where I was. 0:12:09.880 --> 0:12:12.600 It's true, and I'm totally okay with that. I'm not 0:12:12.640 --> 0:12:16.080 a comedian, but I can be funny. But you know, 0:12:16.120 --> 0:12:18.640 working with comedians that are naturally funny, like just seeing 0:12:18.640 --> 0:12:20.920 how their brains work, it works differently. 0:12:21.520 --> 0:12:23.680 Well, I'm not trying to pump you up in saying this, 0:12:23.840 --> 0:12:27.480 but what I would say that you have is, you know, 0:12:27.520 --> 0:12:29.640 you were just talking about what's her name, do Chi, 0:12:30.080 --> 0:12:33.080 do Chie, dough Chi. You were just talking about Dochi 0:12:33.200 --> 0:12:37.160 being vulnerable, right, That's something that you have always been 0:12:37.240 --> 0:12:41.400 able to, Like you've been able to be vulnerable publicly, 0:12:41.720 --> 0:12:45.319 which gives people comfort, which is that relatability. A lot 0:12:45.320 --> 0:12:47.760 of those other people that you worked with were amazing 0:12:47.800 --> 0:12:51.200 at their job, but maybe they didn't bring you know, 0:12:51.240 --> 0:12:54.280 like we all bring elements of something. What you brought 0:12:54.920 --> 0:12:57.920 is that vulnerability. And also you are quick when you're 0:12:58.360 --> 0:13:00.000 when you're on your home on you know. 0:13:00.040 --> 0:13:03.760 Hey, I've tried hold on. Sorry, I've just got to plug. 0:13:03.480 --> 0:13:07.280 In my not your fucking organizational skill shit. 0:13:09.760 --> 0:13:11.240 Speaking of like quick quick. 0:13:11.280 --> 0:13:14.560 I've tried Arlo's rittle and today my middle child's writtle, 0:13:14.600 --> 0:13:16.400 and so I do have eighty h year but I've 0:13:16.440 --> 0:13:21.040 had no luck trying medications like I've tried. I feel 0:13:21.080 --> 0:13:23.040 like I've tried everything under the sun, but I haven't 0:13:23.040 --> 0:13:26.320 tried his writtle and long acting. I tried the short 0:13:26.360 --> 0:13:29.720 acting the other day. I was so anxious, I felt 0:13:29.720 --> 0:13:32.040 so sick. But then I talked to my parching. He said, 0:13:32.040 --> 0:13:34.480 it can be the long acting and short acting can 0:13:35.080 --> 0:13:38.240 do you know, can treat you differently. I don't feel 0:13:38.240 --> 0:13:41.320 a huge amount. I do feel racy, and I did 0:13:41.360 --> 0:13:45.000 feel nauseous. So I'm just like, I don't know if 0:13:45.000 --> 0:13:46.840 it's done anything. I think I have to give it 0:13:46.880 --> 0:13:50.320 about a week to try and then see, give. 0:13:50.200 --> 0:13:52.000 It a go, make sure the head's okay. 0:13:52.559 --> 0:13:55.600 Yeah, I just it doesn't so nervous that it's going 0:13:55.640 --> 0:13:57.960 to give me a migraine. It hasn't done that. 0:13:57.960 --> 0:13:58.640 Which is good. 0:13:58.800 --> 0:14:00.720 But I did go to pilate this morning and I 0:14:00.760 --> 0:14:02.320 had to take it really easy. I had to take 0:14:02.360 --> 0:14:04.800 deep breast because it made me feel really nauseous. Did 0:14:04.840 --> 0:14:06.600 it make you feel nauseous at the start? 0:14:07.600 --> 0:14:11.480 No, And I didn't feel racy at all either. Ye see, 0:14:11.480 --> 0:14:16.079 that's I feel the opposite. I feel like more focused. 0:14:16.120 --> 0:14:20.160 The problem is that the focus can be directed in 0:14:20.240 --> 0:14:22.920 the wrong thing, so I can get caught up in 0:14:23.000 --> 0:14:26.640 doing something that I shouldn't do. I should be, you know, 0:14:26.760 --> 0:14:31.840 like you should be setting up your podcast little workstation, 0:14:32.240 --> 0:14:35.240 but I'm blending my shadow like it's you know, you've 0:14:35.280 --> 0:14:35.680 got to be. 0:14:36.080 --> 0:14:38.800 You've got to keep on track of what you're doing. Anyway, 0:14:38.840 --> 0:14:40.760 I'm going to keep testing it because I am at 0:14:40.800 --> 0:14:44.040 the point where I'm like, my mind is racing so quickly, 0:14:44.840 --> 0:14:47.200 and my psyche was like, if you find the right medication, 0:14:47.280 --> 0:14:49.600 it definitely does help that. So I'm like, Okay, I'm 0:14:49.600 --> 0:14:51.280 going to get back on board doing it. But I 0:14:51.400 --> 0:14:54.920 just it's so hard with ADHD medication because everyone is 0:14:55.000 --> 0:14:58.040 so different and you just have to trial and error it. 0:14:58.360 --> 0:15:00.960 I know another person I know that has it trilled 0:15:01.000 --> 0:15:04.600 all the different types of stimulant medication and it just 0:15:04.640 --> 0:15:06.640 never worked for them. And they also said they felt 0:15:06.680 --> 0:15:12.200 like they weren't themselves, like they felt like there because 0:15:12.200 --> 0:15:14.440 this person was sort of quite funny and quick and 0:15:14.440 --> 0:15:16.440 sharp and whatever, and they were like, I feel like 0:15:16.480 --> 0:15:20.960 it took that away from me. So everyone's everyone's brain 0:15:21.080 --> 0:15:21.800 is a bit different. 0:15:21.920 --> 0:15:23.880 I reckon, I'm one of those people that just doesn't 0:15:23.920 --> 0:15:27.680 work for and I just have to suck it up. Anyway, 0:15:27.800 --> 0:15:30.400 Easter time what a horseshit kind of thing. 0:15:30.480 --> 0:15:34.280 Easter Well, yeah, like if if you're not religious, I'm 0:15:34.760 --> 0:15:38.160 clearly not. My daughter doesn't eat chocolate. She doesn't like it. 0:15:38.200 --> 0:15:41.680 It just shook that. That is that's what she's like. 0:15:42.280 --> 0:15:44.480 She made a decision when she was about four that 0:15:44.520 --> 0:15:47.080 she didn't like chocolate, and that is it. She won't 0:15:47.080 --> 0:15:51.120 even sniff it now. It's anyway, that's a whole of 0:15:51.200 --> 0:15:56.360 the story. But my son loves chocolate. Mark went to 0:15:56.920 --> 0:15:58.520 the shops the other day and he came back and 0:15:58.560 --> 0:16:01.880 he bought, you know, some blocks of chocolate, and then 0:16:01.920 --> 0:16:06.120 he brought home a brought home a bag of caramelo 0:16:06.200 --> 0:16:09.880 little Easter eggs. Because then my fa to you how 0:16:09.960 --> 0:16:11.800 much that Oh my god, I was going to say 0:16:11.800 --> 0:16:16.680 that they were like ten dollars. Yes, don't ever buy 0:16:16.720 --> 0:16:20.880 those again. I said to Luca, I'll buy you ten 0:16:20.920 --> 0:16:23.040 blocks of chocolate if you want. I'm not fucking buying 0:16:23.080 --> 0:16:23.680 Easter eggs. 0:16:23.760 --> 0:16:24.200 I don't know. 0:16:24.280 --> 0:16:27.680 I think it's something about the cocoa. There's something happening 0:16:27.720 --> 0:16:27.960 in the. 0:16:27.880 --> 0:16:32.000 World with cocoa. Chocolate is through the roof. 0:16:32.040 --> 0:16:35.280 I bought Odie goes to like a family daycare, and 0:16:35.360 --> 0:16:36.920 I have to bribe him to get in there, so 0:16:36.960 --> 0:16:39.280 I always have to go and buy treats over the 0:16:39.320 --> 0:16:42.120 road at the green grosser that we've got here. A 0:16:42.320 --> 0:16:47.840 small bag of just your normal cabris was twelve dollars 0:16:48.160 --> 0:16:50.600 and I was when I pay for it, I'm like, 0:16:50.720 --> 0:16:53.360 is that right? She's like yes, and I'm like, God, 0:16:53.400 --> 0:16:55.280 I'm gonna have to go and spend all like I 0:16:55.360 --> 0:16:58.520 need to with Odi being four do Easter the Easter 0:16:58.600 --> 0:17:01.080 egg hunt, but I also can't have it in the 0:17:01.080 --> 0:17:03.680 house until the night before Easter, and normally they're all 0:17:03.720 --> 0:17:06.320 sold out, but we will rip through them. 0:17:06.359 --> 0:17:07.520 I bought a little bag. 0:17:07.320 --> 0:17:11.080 Of crunchy ones, tiny and they were seven dollars and 0:17:11.119 --> 0:17:13.719 I ate them all in one sitting too. Of course, 0:17:13.840 --> 0:17:18.159 of course, there's something so enjoyable though about ripping the 0:17:18.240 --> 0:17:22.199 foil off an Easter egg. I love the little hollow ones. 0:17:22.960 --> 0:17:27.879 Just the sensory of it all is just beautiful to me. 0:17:28.000 --> 0:17:29.200 I love a process. 0:17:29.520 --> 0:17:31.680 It's a process yes. 0:17:32.240 --> 0:17:34.360 Hey, did you know my daughter sent me a mean 0:17:34.440 --> 0:17:36.560 thing the other day? You know, kinder surprise eggs? 0:17:36.840 --> 0:17:37.080 Yes? 0:17:37.840 --> 0:17:39.359 Did you know? You know how there's the you know, 0:17:39.400 --> 0:17:41.520 the yellow thing on the inside that's got the tween. 0:17:41.880 --> 0:17:43.160 Yeah, did you know that it's meant to. 0:17:43.080 --> 0:17:44.880 Be the yolk? Oh? 0:17:44.920 --> 0:17:49.680 My god, no, neither did. I never ever thought of it. 0:17:49.760 --> 0:17:52.840 How funny is that? That is so funny? Yeah? 0:17:52.960 --> 0:17:54.120 Do you like a cream egg? 0:17:54.600 --> 0:17:57.800 I fucking hate a cream egg? So does Mark. I 0:17:57.920 --> 0:17:59.480 fucking love a cream egg. 0:18:00.119 --> 0:18:03.320 Don't get caught with their go on your face, don't 0:18:03.320 --> 0:18:05.399 don't yet. 0:18:05.680 --> 0:18:08.600 It's so funny. Remember that ad and they had the desks, 0:18:08.680 --> 0:18:10.560 the old school desks that they would lift up and 0:18:10.600 --> 0:18:11.720 eat them yuck. 0:18:11.840 --> 0:18:16.040 My sister loved them, and I just find them so disgusting. 0:18:16.040 --> 0:18:18.720 They're so sweet that it's like it has to eat 0:18:18.760 --> 0:18:20.800 them alone. Now they're like it. 0:18:21.119 --> 0:18:23.400 They're one of those they're one of those sexual things 0:18:23.440 --> 0:18:28.560 to eat from them. Hey, we're speaking of things. We 0:18:28.600 --> 0:18:31.360 eat it easter time. What are your thoughts on hot 0:18:31.359 --> 0:18:32.360 cross buns? Oh? 0:18:32.960 --> 0:18:35.440 I want to shove them in every orifice. I love 0:18:35.480 --> 0:18:39.040 them so much. I love them. 0:18:39.560 --> 0:18:41.840 Is there a particular because you know there's not just 0:18:42.080 --> 0:18:45.359 the standard hot Cross bun anymore. It's like a million 0:18:45.400 --> 0:18:46.080 different flavors. 0:18:46.160 --> 0:18:47.880 It's got to be standard. I don't want your apple 0:18:47.920 --> 0:18:50.000 and cinnamon. Shove that up your ass. Don't even give 0:18:50.040 --> 0:18:54.520 me your chop chips, the plain one with the sultanas 0:18:54.560 --> 0:18:57.359 and you put them so they cook and then you 0:18:57.400 --> 0:18:59.760 put a bucket load of butter on them, and I 0:18:59.880 --> 0:19:02.680 just love it so much. And then sometimes I'm putting 0:19:02.680 --> 0:19:07.280 a taler on it as well. Oh okay, it's one 0:19:07.320 --> 0:19:09.800 of my all time favorite things, same as because it's 0:19:09.800 --> 0:19:12.679 on par with fruitcake, and I love fruitcake. 0:19:14.119 --> 0:19:18.160 Fruitcake. You know what fruitcake is to me. Fruitcake is 0:19:18.280 --> 0:19:22.840 the Chanel number five of the food world. Chanell number 0:19:22.880 --> 0:19:27.720 five is the fucking foulest smelling person. It smells like 0:19:27.840 --> 0:19:29.120 old lady. 0:19:29.400 --> 0:19:31.240 I mean fruitcake's very old lady. 0:19:31.600 --> 0:19:32.800 Yeah, that's what I'm saying. 0:19:33.040 --> 0:19:36.600 That you get a good fruitcake without the glazed cherries 0:19:36.640 --> 0:19:38.879 in it. I don't want your glaze cherries, but god 0:19:39.840 --> 0:19:43.719 so d ahshous I never get it because I'd eat 0:19:43.760 --> 0:19:45.080 the whole thing in one hit as well. 0:19:45.440 --> 0:19:47.879 Well. Every year there's this thing about, oh, they're coming 0:19:47.920 --> 0:19:50.200 out earlier and earlier, so like you know they're saying 0:19:50.359 --> 0:19:52.600