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Speaker 3: Shommy, what's the song that you love?

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Speaker 8: These are my second born sister's kids. Firstborn academic excellence.

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Speaker 2: It's just her voice just doesn't match her body.

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Speaker 4: Oh she talks like that, But that's okay. Everyone is

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Speaker 3: Doesn't celebrate with helium.

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Speaker 2: Well I should have brought Tommy what was his name?

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Speaker 2: We had him, the sixteen year old.

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Speaker 5: Guy that I saw a breakfast Oscar Oscar. He got

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Speaker 5: Doesn't match the body because he's quite slight and skinny himself,

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Speaker 1: That is foreigner for your Friday morning. I want to

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Speaker 1: know what love is, get in line for it. Hope

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Speaker 1: you're listening to Smooth ninety five point three and I'm

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Speaker 1: Oscar Oscar the Grouse not grouch grouse because I feel great.

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Speaker 1: There's a beautiful sunrise outside. I've done all my homework

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Speaker 1: and pulsa this weekend or males, you know what. It

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Speaker 2: Is that a joke?

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Speaker 4: Or does he work on smoke? I got him an

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Speaker 4: audition And how old is that kid?

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Speaker 2: He's sixty?

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Speaker 3: Huge plums?

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Speaker 4: Oh that isn't that Tommy?

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Speaker 3: Can we extend on that a little mate? As we

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Speaker 3: say in the old radio Landscape twenty four ten, if you.

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Speaker 4: Could, well, if you don't match, but we can't see them,

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Speaker 3: Know what we're going to do. We're going to read

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Speaker 4: Or we could just listen to them and say, oh, well.

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Speaker 3: You're fifty fi yeah, yeah, guess them.

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Speaker 4: What about the guy that also works downstairs you were

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Speaker 3: As I know.

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Speaker 2: Richard Donkey.

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Speaker 4: There was somebody else for the really deep No, I.

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Speaker 2: Know he doesn't match his body, Richard Hawkins. That's a

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Speaker 2: different topic. His head was rest of Dicky the Donkey.

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Speaker 3: We're fully aware of your donkey were.

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Speaker 8: And with a with Kate Richie podcast.

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Speaker 2: The Absolute Worst Stories of cheating.

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Speaker 4: I'm really keen to hear.

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Speaker 5: I've got I've got permission off a mate to talk

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Speaker 5: say his name is Garrett from Easton, Garrett from Eastern Creek.

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Speaker 4: Is his name Garrett?

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Speaker 2: No, it's not, but he's given me permission to talk

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Speaker 2: about this. Married, two kids, Garretty is garretys rings me

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Speaker 2: the other night emotional. I've split with my wife.

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Speaker 5: When on a fair holiday to the Mau dives together?

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Speaker 5: Not cheap, congratulations, very expensive?

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Speaker 4: When did they go?

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Speaker 2: This was at the end of last year.

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Speaker 4: You want me to stop asking questions?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I do, Okay, I can't believe this. His wife

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Speaker 5: is a scuba diver, all right, love scuba diving. That's

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Speaker 5: On the first day, she said she's booked herself into

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Speaker 5: oh my god, an amazing experience. The water is so clear.

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Speaker 5: I saw so many so much sea life down there.

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Speaker 5: It's unbelievable. Convinces her husband, can I then book in

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Speaker 5: another two sessions on this week one week holiday because

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Speaker 2: And he said, you know what, honey, you love this.

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Speaker 2: I'll look after the kids. You go for another two days.

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Speaker 3: It's a lot of school are on one week.

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Speaker 5: On the final this was the final day before they left,

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Speaker 5: she's out scuba diving, and he decides to go to

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Speaker 5: He walks into the office and he walks in on

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Speaker 3: What movie is that? There's a movie where that happens.

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Speaker 2: While he's looking after He's two.

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Speaker 4: Kids, and he's been considerate to go and find out

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Speaker 5: She breaks down, cries her eyes out, runs back, runs

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Speaker 5: She then breaks down and says to him, after knowing

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Speaker 2: What after three days?

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Speaker 4: Is this a real life story? This happened at the

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Speaker 2: This is a real life story. Did she He mean?

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Speaker 5: He said, I he goes fits. I then had to

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Speaker 5: it's all, oh God.

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Speaker 2: There they'd be.

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Speaker 4: Like six and four, Okay, so they're little, They're unaware relatively,

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Speaker 2: Just thought, is that not what is going through your mind?

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Speaker 2: You know?

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Speaker 3: It would have been hard to understand too, because I

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Speaker 3: assume it went something like I'm leaving you, I'm in

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Speaker 5: So she's gone diving on the first day, maybe the

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Speaker 4: Okay, so this, okay, How how does it happen? How

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Speaker 4: does that happen? How do you fall head over heels

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Speaker 4: looking forward to, when you know that your partner and

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Speaker 3: These moments scare me. These moments scare me because they

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Speaker 3: the question is on. It's hard to say. She doesn't

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Speaker 2: I'm not sure at this stage.

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Speaker 4: But Kate, she can learn to love anything he loves.

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Speaker 3: Well, that's true, depending on how they want. Kate, here's

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Speaker 3: the thing. Do you suggest that this relationship is in

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Speaker 3: trouble already? Of course it is, so there's a breakdown

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Speaker 3: to drag her away from it, which became the scuba instructor.

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Speaker 3: Do you think this is a happy marriage. But the

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Speaker 4: No, I don't think anything about it is And I mean,

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Speaker 4: I don't know this bloke, and I'm sure is heartbroken.

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Speaker 4: But I would imagine if you go on holidays and

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Speaker 4: all is well. No, you're already out of the relationship

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Speaker 5: Surely, We've got a call from Annie in Hirshfield. We're

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Speaker 2: What do you got for us? Annie?

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Speaker 12: Hey, good morning. Yeah. So while I was married, we

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Speaker 12: and then I get a pocket doll and I'm thinking

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Speaker 12: And he's in a taxi with one of his mates

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Speaker 12: and he says, hey, mates, shall we get more viagra?

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Speaker 13: Oh my, I said.

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Speaker 12: Hello, and he way, oh oh, and then the phone

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Speaker 12: But it was there, you know, And then you try

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Speaker 3: What was the excuse though, when I mean, you must

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Speaker 12: Yeah no, no, he says, no, that wasn't me. I said,

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Speaker 12: but how can they not be you?

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Speaker 2: It's your number, it's your number, you're ringing me?

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Speaker 12: Did he read you've pockets ouled me? So it's almost

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Speaker 12: like the universe saying, all right, go to girl, time

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Speaker 12: to get a move on.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you need this information. Did he resort to telling

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Speaker 4: you that he was, in fact having a hot love

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Speaker 12: Back of the uber with no there was a guy friend?

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Speaker 2: So did you find and did you find out? Yes?

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Speaker 12: They eventually admitted it because then everything else started coming

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Speaker 12: was just one of multiple, multiple indiscretions. And like I said,

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Speaker 12: universe said Harry, I'm going to put this right up

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Speaker 2: Up all right, worst cases of cheating? Can you beat that? Fatin?

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Speaker 5: He's given us a call from banks down. What happened

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Speaker 13: Basically, I was seven months pregnant on my second child

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Speaker 13: hair which wasn't mine. Did some digging, opening up his wallet,

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Speaker 3: His wallet, took the photo, did you and said what's

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Speaker 12: Yep?

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Speaker 13: I was living at my parents' house waiting for a

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Speaker 13: was having an affair? I said, do you love He

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Speaker 13: goes no. I said, well do you love me? And

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Speaker 3: I love that's cop out ye.

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Speaker 13: And then basically he said, oh, I don't.

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Speaker 10: Know what to do.

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Speaker 13: Whether I should stay with you with the kids are

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Speaker 4: Oh yeahnt so cold?

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Speaker 2: So what you just booted him straight away? Fateens.

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Speaker 13: Well, yeah, well basically I said, well, can you leave

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Speaker 13: because we're live in my parents. He would't leave the house.

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Speaker 13: He basically made me move into and your apartment and

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Speaker 13: he left. I had my son was two, and my daughter.

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Speaker 3: Was Oh my god, I'm old.

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Speaker 11: Man.

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Speaker 3: Oh man, I hate to say it. He's a shocker.

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Speaker 13: Yeah. Ended up marrying the other the other thirteen year

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Speaker 13: younger than him, younger than him.

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Speaker 2: Are they still together?

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Speaker 8: No?

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Speaker 13: They had three kids. She did the dirty on him

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Speaker 13: and he ended up raising the other three kids. Never

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Speaker 13: saw his first kids.

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Speaker 2: That stuff.

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Speaker 3: What about your love life? Have you got someone special

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Speaker 3: now on?

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Speaker 13: And I've been been a bit hard I had raised

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Speaker 13: the kids.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, of course, yeah, he.

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Speaker 3: Said a different traffic dating Tommy, you're a very strong woman, Fateena.

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Speaker 5: Let's go to Caroline now from seven Hills. Tell us

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Speaker 5: about your boyfriend.

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Speaker 14: Oh hi, how are you? Yeah? I was with my

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Speaker 14: last boyfriend for about seven months, which I thought was

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Speaker 14: my boyfriend. We spent the Saturday night together. The Monday morning,

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Speaker 14: he ghosted me. I got I've got him his Facebook

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Speaker 14: and there he was introducing him the love of his life.

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Speaker 8: And his new family to the world.

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Speaker 14: And I commented saying, but you're with me on Saturday night,

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Speaker 14: And the next minute another seven fils popped up saying that, yeah,

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Speaker 14: he's been sleeping with them for the last seven Well he's.

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Speaker 2: A busy boy.

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Speaker 14: Busy he was, And I was like, yeah, the more

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Speaker 14: we get talk him, the more we found out.

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Speaker 6: And he had.

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Speaker 14: Him just on a dating site.

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Speaker 5: So how many did you find out altogether did he

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Speaker 5: have on the side?

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Speaker 7: Eight?

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Speaker 2: What a stinker?

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Speaker 4: This is the whole thing about the meaning. They're just

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Speaker 4: so like blase about thing. It's like if you are

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Speaker 4: out there and you've got all these people that you're

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Speaker 4: hooking up with who actually think you're in a relationship

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Speaker 4: and then you're just willing nelly posting about your family

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Speaker 4: that you're in love with as well. It's so entitled.

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Speaker 3: And what did he say when you confronted him?

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Speaker 14: Curly, Well, when I finally got to confront him and

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Speaker 14: told me that, yeah, I deserve someone who actually loves me,

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Speaker 14: and that's what he said to everybody else, and such

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Speaker 14: a good guy.

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Speaker 3: It's really thoughtful man like that sounds like it was

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Speaker 3: just physical.

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Speaker 2: In paramounta tell about your tell us about your mum's friend.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, Hey, so mom has this friend. Let's call her Annie.

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Speaker 14: Right.

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Speaker 7: So Annie is happily married or was has three pretty

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Speaker 7: much adult kids.

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Speaker 2: Right.

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Speaker 7: Annie walked home one day to find her husband with

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Speaker 7: her mother.

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Speaker 2: What what the mom?

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Speaker 7: We's been going on so close to three years? Annie's

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Speaker 7: mom with Annie's husband.

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Speaker 2: What was mum's excuse a Lise? What did mom say about?

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Speaker 7: They were in love? They loved each other. Annie had

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Speaker 7: to file for bankruptcy, like the whole thing kind of

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Speaker 7: everything just started to unravel.

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Speaker 3: That will never happen with Lisa and her mum.

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Speaker 2: That would never happen.

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Speaker 4: It would be Lisa and your mom or your dad.

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Speaker 2: That's you hooking up with deb That's right.

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Speaker 3: I'm just saying now for the record, that would never happen.

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Speaker 3: Lisa will never come home and find Debray and I

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Speaker 3: involved in some sort of hot mood rumble.

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Speaker 2: What about the other way? Could Could there be a

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Speaker 2: child that John and Lisa.

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Speaker 3: Highly unlikely the age of seventy five? And what yours

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Speaker 3: up for it?

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Speaker 11: Could you?

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Speaker 4: Would you have a little vomit? What physical reaction do

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Speaker 4: you have when you walk? You put the key in

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Speaker 4: the door, and you walk down the hallway and then

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Speaker 4: you're in the lounde room and on the couch is

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Speaker 4: your parent and your partner?

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Speaker 2: Are you who are you more disappointed with mum?

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Speaker 4: Your parent?

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Speaker 2: What would you.

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Speaker 3: Would you say to Heather?

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Speaker 2: Heather, you walk in and there in the kitchen, okay, quite.

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Speaker 4: Can you stop? I know mom's Mom's in the car

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Speaker 4: right now and most likely with my.

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Speaker 2: Daughter's not what it looks like. That's the first thing

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Speaker 2: you would say to Heather, I'd say.

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Speaker 4: Should I put the kettle on?

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Speaker 2: You know?

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Speaker 3: Can I tell you something? A maid of mine, a

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Speaker 3: maide of mine, not long ago, he was at home

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Speaker 3: and the cleaner was there, and they started talking about intimacy.

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Speaker 3: The cleaner says, it's been a while for me. I

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Speaker 3: really miss it. He says, it's been a while for

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Speaker 3: me as well. The next thing, you know, right there

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Speaker 3: in the kitchen it is on for young and old.

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Speaker 2: Is this was he in a relationship?

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Speaker 3: No, in a relationship. He's got about four girls on

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Speaker 3: the go. He's a bit of a shocker.

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Speaker 4: This is friend yours.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, And I just I'm always fascinated how these

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Speaker 3: moments which seem random, like a mother involved or a

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Speaker 3: cleaning lady. How it actually gets to that point of going.

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Speaker 3: I woke up this morning and this was a regular day,

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Speaker 3: my wheetbeaks for breakfast, I read the paper, I checked

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Speaker 3: my email, and the next thing you know, I'm on

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Speaker 3: the lino in the kitchen getting it on with the clean.

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Speaker 4: Like interesting life. But that stuff isn't happening.

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Speaker 2: There's some man, there's stuff.

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Speaker 4: Going on out there, wold and crazy.

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Speaker 2: Put down the mister sheets and there isn't there that.

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Speaker 4: I think it's people looking for connection.

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Speaker 3: I don't think it is they're just bored.

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Speaker 4: No, I think people are desperate for connection and deeply, deeply,

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Speaker 4: deeply unhappening in their own lives. And before you know it.

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Speaker 4: You can't fake chemistry if you're standing. How many people

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Speaker 4: have got cleaners and they never fancy them at all?

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Speaker 3: No, I mean bum Bums done a bit of work

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Speaker 3: at our place. It was a cleaner. Her name's bum Bum.

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Speaker 3: And I've never ever looked at her and thought.

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Speaker 2: Well, you've never touched bum Bum?

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Speaker 3: No, No, I haven't, Tom.

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Speaker 4: What does bum bum do in your house?

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Speaker 2: Upstairs?

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Speaker 3: Downstairs?

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Speaker 2: Where is she from?

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Speaker 3: She is from Malaysia.

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Speaker 4: Did you Okay, she just boom boom and you just

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Speaker 4: say sits in.

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