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Speaker 1: This is the Fitting In with Her with Kate Richie podcast.

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Speaker 1: As we look outside at the dark clouds, we think

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Speaker 1: of how we can get away and into the sun.

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Speaker 1: Kate with the holidays, I'm always thinking holidays. Yeah, And

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Speaker 1: you know what I want to ask this morning? How

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Speaker 1: social is your partner when you go on holidays with them?

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Speaker 1: There's a viral video that's gone crazy. Couple in Jamaica

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Speaker 1: and he's on a sun bed on the beach. She's

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Speaker 1: having a great time reading his book. His wife comes back.

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Speaker 1: She's met a couple in the ocean and she's decided

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Speaker 1: to invite them to dinner that night. Oh no, so

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Speaker 1: you know. She then starts filming his reaction after this happens.

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Speaker 2: All I did was make some friends in the ocean,

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Speaker 2: and Shaula is.

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Speaker 3: Speak with the random people and then we're going to

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Speaker 3: help dinner with them.

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Speaker 2: Wants to change what restaurant we're going to go eat

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Speaker 2: at to avoid canon Connie and then we have to

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Speaker 2: spend the.

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Speaker 1: Next sixties Joel, are you excited to be social tonight?

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Speaker 1: I don't really feel like making new friends. Now. What

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Speaker 1: are you going to say to your new friend?

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Speaker 3: Ken?

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Speaker 1: Apologize for my wife?

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Speaker 4: Being such a social butterfly.

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Speaker 1: But we're not having dinner with you.

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Speaker 3: I get that.

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Speaker 5: I would hate That's one of my worst night men BJS.

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Speaker 1: She loves Paul bar loves nothing more than meeting a

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Speaker 1: mom from Gosford and going yeah, yeah, you guys going

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Speaker 1: to that restaurant, will meet you there?

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Speaker 5: Oh no, look there's a different You can swim up

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Speaker 5: to the bar and enjoy a mocktail with somebody that

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Speaker 5: you've only just met, but you don't need to then

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Speaker 5: continue on with them. I don't think they then become

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Speaker 5: part of your holiday. I think that screams unhappy relationship.

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Speaker 3: I mean I was Lesha and I went to look

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Speaker 3: a look at Look at a resort and it was.

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Speaker 3: It was a great holiday. But I reckon it was

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Speaker 3: the second night where she had been chatting with a

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Speaker 3: couple because she'd seen them going back and forth to

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Speaker 3: the buffet a couple of times, and then said, why

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Speaker 3: don't you join us at the table? Met this lovely

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Speaker 3: lady Irene, and I think Steve is a partner. Hey,

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Speaker 3: you guys come and see with ours.

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Speaker 1: Don't get me wrong, I don't want to talk to them.

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Speaker 1: I don't mind having a chat at a thirteen twenty

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Speaker 1: four ten. How social is your partner? What have you

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Speaker 1: had to do whilst you're on holidays? Anyone that gets

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Speaker 1: on the show you going, they're running for ten kday mate,

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Speaker 1: And I don't mind having a conversation with anyone at

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Speaker 1: a pull Bart that's great, but don't make plans. We're

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Speaker 1: only here for four or five days. I want to

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Speaker 1: spend it with you, honey.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, or with no one. If it's not you, it's

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Speaker 5: with no one, it's with my book. I actually think

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Speaker 5: and this might be controversial, but I think there are

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Speaker 5: some couples and maybe thirteen twenty four ten, if you've

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Speaker 5: been partnered with someone like this before, where you go

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Speaker 5: on holidays and your partner just wants to find someone

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Speaker 5: to drink with.

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Speaker 3: Well, that's why we take the nanny because Lisa doesn't

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Speaker 3: drink a lot.

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Speaker 5: Oh, and you drink with the nanny. Yeah, but isn't

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Speaker 5: the nanny meant to look after the children?

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Speaker 3: But I'm paying the nanny to.

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Speaker 5: Drink with you, spirits. But you do that only one

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Speaker 5: basically you just like you know, you fly.

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Speaker 1: Your friend babysitting services at the hotel. It's very nice.

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Speaker 3: They can't help me on the plane and stuff.

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Speaker 1: So they get their own room. The nanny.

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Speaker 3: No, they'll often share with a kid.

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Speaker 1: They'll be in Oh my god, I thought you were

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Speaker 1: about to stay share with me.

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Speaker 5: I actually thought that was about drology time.

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Speaker 1: But I do.

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Speaker 5: I do think some people like to go how many

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Speaker 5: holidays have you been on? This is to drink with

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Speaker 5: no and then you go to bed and your partner

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Speaker 5: goes out with people they've met at the bar.

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Speaker 3: We ended up in We ended up doing a bushwalk

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Speaker 3: with Irene and Steve.

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Speaker 1: Let's see, we went the next day, we went to Vietnam. Right,

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Speaker 1: We went to an island in Vietnam called fou Quok

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Speaker 1: Lot and it was amazing. Right, it's a tiny little

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Speaker 1: lie get off at this tiny little airport. Kate, you

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Speaker 1: have to drive forty minutes down to the resort that

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Speaker 1: we were staying at in the middle of nowhere. We're

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Speaker 1: staying sort of in this little hut that's near the beach,

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Speaker 1: and I could hear it, and I said to the

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Speaker 1: woman at reception, I go, there's a fair bit of

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Speaker 1: commotion going on it there. She said, yeah, there's a wedding.

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Speaker 1: So we went down for to her heart and then

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Speaker 1: we walked down to the beach and this wedding and

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Speaker 1: they're all going off with oh, this is amazing, Frisy.

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Speaker 1: It was an Australian wedding. For the next hour, I

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Speaker 1: was having a few beers with the guys down there

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Speaker 1: at the bar because they were getting ready for the wedding. Well,

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Speaker 1: I looked back, I was the one that was being

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Speaker 1: social and Bej was not too happy that we'd just

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Speaker 1: arrived at the results.

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Speaker 3: Similar to when you were spotted in the red light

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Speaker 3: district in Amsterdam. Kate and box Hill, Hello, Hi, what

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Speaker 3: happened to UK?

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Speaker 1: Are you the social one?

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Speaker 4: Yes? I think we both are a little bit, but

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Speaker 4: definitely me more so than my husband.

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Speaker 1: How far do you go?

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Speaker 3: What's your story?

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Speaker 4: Well, we met a couple while we were holidaying in

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Speaker 4: CD and then when they came to Australia, we flew

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Speaker 4: the Cans to catch up with them, and then when

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Speaker 4: we were in Europe. They're from Germany. We met up

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Speaker 4: with them in Sulwig.

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Speaker 5: Because he's made lifelong friends. Yeah, not just we have

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Speaker 5: you know summer.

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Speaker 1: Or spring Jackie and Penrith. How social was your partner?

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Speaker 6: Well, we were on our honeymoon thirty years ago, and

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Speaker 6: I'm in Queensland, Gold Coast and my husband met a

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Speaker 6: guy that think he knew he actually knew him, but

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Speaker 6: he said, I wanted to come and join us when

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Speaker 6: we go over to day Dream Island.

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Speaker 4: And next minute, there they are in the resorts that

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Speaker 4: were got he didn't move into.

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Speaker 6: Well, no, we stayed together, so we're still together after

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Speaker 6: thirty years. They said, after.

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Speaker 1: Two Oh there, Jack, there's a win for you.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, keep pickles coming.

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Speaker 1: Neddie in Rose Bay? Your husband? Your husband? Neddie tell us.

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Speaker 7: Yes, well, we're both pretty social but often will go

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Speaker 7: out and this one particular time, it was a birthday

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Speaker 7: of his and I decided to take us to Beat

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Speaker 7: Fight and it's a beautiful three court Yeah, and.

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Speaker 8: We did the overnight stay. I thought I'd have a

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Speaker 8: lie down and have a siesta, and then I woke

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Speaker 8: up about two three in the morning and my partner's

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Speaker 8: not there. He's still out there having a good old

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Speaker 8: time for his birthday with all.

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Speaker 7: The staff and some other people that were staying overnight.

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Speaker 3: What's his name, Neddie Mark.

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Speaker 1: Did you go and join him or did you go

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Speaker 1: about the slate? Neddie no, I did join him. Good girl,

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Speaker 1: world done, Shannon in them And what happened on your holiday? Shan?

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Speaker 9: We're going out for dinner and we were just having

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Speaker 9: a nice little dinner and my partner's the biggest introvert,

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Speaker 9: doesn't like people very much. He had one too many

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Speaker 9: and then invited everyone back to our apartment.

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Speaker 1: You're kidding for what the kick ons?

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Speaker 2: For?

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Speaker 9: Kicks?

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Speaker 3: Oh my god? What kind did it? Wrap up?

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Speaker 9: From? Shannon?

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Speaker 3: And then he wakes up the next day and he's

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Speaker 3: sober again. He doesn't want to talk to anybody, but

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Speaker 3: now he's made all these new friends.

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Speaker 1: Aaron in Sutherland, you barely you had any gosh, tell

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Speaker 1: us about your partner.

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Speaker 2: Er On our honeymoon, we went to four different locations

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Speaker 2: and in every location that we went to, he made

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Speaker 2: new friends. So we spent half of our honeymoon having

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Speaker 2: dinners with strangers and lunches and breakfast.

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Speaker 5: And how do you feel about that?

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Speaker 1: Heroin?

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Speaker 2: I knew who I married.

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Speaker 1: You know still with him?

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Speaker 2: Are you er appropriated with him? So I've just made little.

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Speaker 1: Mini okay, what's his name?

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Speaker 3: Him and Aaron.

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Speaker 1: But that's what we love about Australians because you're let's

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Speaker 1: see you can have a quick little bit with each

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Speaker 1: other at the cool bar. I'm fine with.

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Speaker 5: That locking in if it's if it's that, it's a

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Speaker 5: bit of an issue when.

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Speaker 1: It's a session.

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Speaker 5: If it's a session, and then it all turns to

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Speaker 5: rubbish when.

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Speaker 1: They're like, honey, I've locked us in for an hour

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Speaker 1: snorkeling with Dave and Jenny over there.

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Speaker 4: I do that.

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Speaker 3: You can't talk when you're snorkeling. You can hide away

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Speaker 3: under a under to reach somewhere.

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Speaker 1: We're going to talk to them on the boat.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you got the hour out there.

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Speaker 1: On the hour back.

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Speaker 3: Oh did you see any fish?

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Speaker 1: Share? God? That stripping one was cool. Tom was getting

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Speaker 1: to know when you got married over in France. You

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Speaker 1: were getting you know, some of the people that were

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Speaker 1: on holiday around you, Tom.

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Speaker 3: To There were two girls in particular, Tom, Yes, in

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Speaker 3: a bathtub beside where we are getting married as a

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Speaker 3: distraction during my wedding cape.

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Speaker 5: There was an open wind.

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Speaker 3: Two girls making out in the hot tub. Yes, and

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Speaker 3: Tom was there and he looked very excited about the wedding.

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Speaker 1: Tom couldn't say I do quick enough.

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Speaker 3: Well, you're all on the run in my don't put

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