1 00:00:04,240 --> 00:00:07,800 Speaker 1: Hi, I'm Britney Saunders and welcome to Big Business, the 2 00:00:07,840 --> 00:00:10,600 Speaker 1: place where business is far from boring. And today I'm 3 00:00:10,640 --> 00:00:14,520 Speaker 1: recording on gaddigall Land. Now I somehow manage to build 4 00:00:14,560 --> 00:00:17,840 Speaker 1: an empire from the garage underneath my house and I'm 5 00:00:17,880 --> 00:00:20,079 Speaker 1: here to share it all with you, from the wins, 6 00:00:20,400 --> 00:00:25,440 Speaker 1: the losses, the huge mistakes and the funny moments in between. So, 7 00:00:25,760 --> 00:00:28,520 Speaker 1: whether you're in business, not in the game at all, 8 00:00:28,640 --> 00:00:31,240 Speaker 1: you're looking for some inspiration, or you simply just want 9 00:00:31,280 --> 00:00:33,559 Speaker 1: to hear the tea, this is the podcast for you. 10 00:00:34,080 --> 00:00:37,680 Speaker 1: Coming up on today's episode, I'm going to be chatting 11 00:00:37,840 --> 00:00:41,839 Speaker 1: with one of my great friends, Tara mckeehon. She is 12 00:00:41,880 --> 00:00:44,840 Speaker 1: the founder of Proud Poppy Clothing, which is an inclusive 13 00:00:44,880 --> 00:00:48,720 Speaker 1: fashion label that stocks sizes six through to thirty two. 14 00:00:48,800 --> 00:00:51,199 Speaker 1: She's giving me a run for my money with that 15 00:00:51,320 --> 00:00:54,720 Speaker 1: size range, let me tell you. Proud Poppy Clothing launched 16 00:00:54,720 --> 00:00:58,040 Speaker 1: in twenty nineteen from a tub of clothes in Tara's 17 00:00:58,080 --> 00:01:01,600 Speaker 1: hallway and has since grown into a multiple award winning 18 00:01:01,640 --> 00:01:05,160 Speaker 1: brand with a global e commerce presence and brick and 19 00:01:05,240 --> 00:01:09,080 Speaker 1: mortar stores in Queensland and Victoria. Before venturing into the 20 00:01:09,120 --> 00:01:12,760 Speaker 1: fashion industry, Tara worked as an emergency nurse with a 21 00:01:12,800 --> 00:01:17,040 Speaker 1: postgraduate degree in critical care. Her career has been diverse, 22 00:01:17,319 --> 00:01:21,160 Speaker 1: including roles such as a Smirrnoff promo girl, selling Raffle 23 00:01:21,160 --> 00:01:25,040 Speaker 1: tickets at the mcg and handing out yogurt samples at Woolly's. 24 00:01:25,520 --> 00:01:28,760 Speaker 1: She's a proud mum of two busy kids. She truly 25 00:01:28,840 --> 00:01:33,040 Speaker 1: has done it all. Tara is passionate about community and 26 00:01:33,160 --> 00:01:36,200 Speaker 1: is dedicated to empowering women around the world to live 27 00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:42,120 Speaker 1: their best lives unapologetically as themselves. Tara, Welcome to big Business. 28 00:01:42,560 --> 00:01:44,360 Speaker 2: Thank you so good to be here. 29 00:01:44,720 --> 00:01:47,160 Speaker 1: Excited, so excited, You've flown all the way from the 30 00:01:47,240 --> 00:01:47,800 Speaker 1: Gold Coast. 31 00:01:47,920 --> 00:01:50,400 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I know, just for me, just for you. 32 00:01:50,840 --> 00:01:52,160 Speaker 1: I should have brought you a gift. 33 00:01:52,360 --> 00:01:53,400 Speaker 2: You bought me coffee? 34 00:01:53,440 --> 00:01:58,320 Speaker 1: I did, I did. Now before we get anyone on, 35 00:01:58,960 --> 00:02:01,920 Speaker 1: I always liked to send our guests a bit of 36 00:02:01,920 --> 00:02:04,120 Speaker 1: a questionnaire. Now, because we're friends, I didn't send you 37 00:02:04,160 --> 00:02:08,320 Speaker 1: my full questionnaire. But when guests come on my podcast, 38 00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:11,560 Speaker 1: I want to talk with them about just real shit. 39 00:02:12,280 --> 00:02:14,560 Speaker 1: I don't want this to be a podcast. It's like, oh, 40 00:02:14,639 --> 00:02:18,200 Speaker 1: business is just so great and amazing, and everything's butterflies 41 00:02:18,240 --> 00:02:23,240 Speaker 1: and rainbows. So I remember texting you. I can't remember 42 00:02:23,360 --> 00:02:26,520 Speaker 1: exactly what I said, but I said something along the 43 00:02:26,560 --> 00:02:30,040 Speaker 1: lines of, do you have any like massive fuck ups 44 00:02:30,040 --> 00:02:32,200 Speaker 1: that you've made in your business journey so far? And 45 00:02:32,280 --> 00:02:34,120 Speaker 1: your response was just priceless. 46 00:02:34,720 --> 00:02:37,480 Speaker 2: I think I said something like, how many do you want? 47 00:02:37,800 --> 00:02:39,000 Speaker 1: No, you said how much time? 48 00:02:39,200 --> 00:02:40,400 Speaker 2: How much time do we have? 49 00:02:41,040 --> 00:02:44,440 Speaker 1: Oh man? Which is so true because I think thanks 50 00:02:44,440 --> 00:02:48,919 Speaker 1: to social media, you know, business can look like fun, amazing, 51 00:02:49,800 --> 00:02:53,880 Speaker 1: but it's just not the reality. And what's crazy is, 52 00:02:54,480 --> 00:02:57,080 Speaker 1: even though all of us are on our own business journey, 53 00:02:57,120 --> 00:03:00,480 Speaker 1: we do go through a lot of similar things, especially 54 00:03:00,480 --> 00:03:02,640 Speaker 1: for you and I where where in fashion I feel 55 00:03:02,639 --> 00:03:04,360 Speaker 1: like even more so the things that we know. 56 00:03:04,440 --> 00:03:05,320 Speaker 2: And talk about it. 57 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:07,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, So that's what we're going to do today. We're 58 00:03:07,320 --> 00:03:09,400 Speaker 1: going to talk about all the fucked up things that 59 00:03:09,520 --> 00:03:12,040 Speaker 1: you have done. 60 00:03:13,000 --> 00:03:13,840 Speaker 2: He's so good at this. 61 00:03:15,720 --> 00:03:19,040 Speaker 1: Okay, So when I did ask you for a list 62 00:03:19,120 --> 00:03:21,960 Speaker 1: of things right that we could chat about, one of 63 00:03:22,000 --> 00:03:25,400 Speaker 1: the big ones that stood out to me was taking 64 00:03:25,440 --> 00:03:28,960 Speaker 1: out loans within your business, and in particular, I think 65 00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:30,200 Speaker 1: you mentioned a Shopify. 66 00:03:30,720 --> 00:03:33,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, Shopify capital is a big one I think at 67 00:03:33,280 --> 00:03:35,360 Speaker 2: the minute, especially for e comm brand. 68 00:03:35,320 --> 00:03:38,160 Speaker 1: For anyone that's listening and maybe doesn't know what Shopify 69 00:03:38,320 --> 00:03:40,440 Speaker 1: capital is or how it works, do you want to 70 00:03:40,440 --> 00:03:41,480 Speaker 1: give them a little rundown. 71 00:03:41,880 --> 00:03:45,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, So Shopify capital is something that's offered. I don't 72 00:03:45,600 --> 00:03:47,400 Speaker 2: think it's offered to everyone. I think you have to 73 00:03:47,520 --> 00:03:50,119 Speaker 2: qualify in the way that they I think that they 74 00:03:50,200 --> 00:03:52,280 Speaker 2: get you to qualify as they see if you're an 75 00:03:52,360 --> 00:03:54,720 Speaker 2: e commerce brand and all your sales go through Shopify, 76 00:03:54,840 --> 00:03:57,840 Speaker 2: they can see the rhythm of your sales, they can 77 00:03:57,880 --> 00:04:00,520 Speaker 2: see the trends, they know how many sales you're put through. 78 00:04:00,640 --> 00:04:04,440 Speaker 2: So then they offer you capital. So it's a click 79 00:04:04,440 --> 00:04:06,840 Speaker 2: of the button. It can be up to you know, 80 00:04:06,920 --> 00:04:09,720 Speaker 2: one point eight two million dollars, and you don't have 81 00:04:09,760 --> 00:04:11,560 Speaker 2: to jump through any hoops like a bank would make 82 00:04:11,600 --> 00:04:14,560 Speaker 2: you do. They base it strictly off the amount of 83 00:04:14,600 --> 00:04:17,520 Speaker 2: sales that you have coming through, and you know, you 84 00:04:17,560 --> 00:04:19,400 Speaker 2: just click click click, click click, and then it's in 85 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:20,120 Speaker 2: your bank. 86 00:04:20,000 --> 00:04:20,960 Speaker 1: And it's that easy. 87 00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:21,719 Speaker 2: It's so fucked. 88 00:04:21,839 --> 00:04:25,839 Speaker 1: And the funny thing is I haven't heard about or 89 00:04:25,920 --> 00:04:28,599 Speaker 1: seen Shopify capital. And for those of you that don't 90 00:04:28,600 --> 00:04:30,720 Speaker 1: know what Shopify is, it's the platform that we use 91 00:04:30,920 --> 00:04:33,640 Speaker 1: for our websites, which is an amazing platform, and most people. 92 00:04:33,440 --> 00:04:36,640 Speaker 2: Are using it now to like, I love Shopify. 93 00:04:36,920 --> 00:04:39,920 Speaker 1: They're dangerous when it comes to this kind of stuff. Yeah, 94 00:04:39,960 --> 00:04:43,840 Speaker 1: And I think for me, it was only last year 95 00:04:43,960 --> 00:04:46,480 Speaker 1: or maybe even this year, that I started getting on 96 00:04:46,520 --> 00:04:50,920 Speaker 1: my Shopify and in my inbox it's quite literally invitations 97 00:04:51,240 --> 00:04:54,280 Speaker 1: to get Shopify. I want a million bucks, yes, and 98 00:04:54,360 --> 00:04:58,240 Speaker 1: so I'll get an email and it's like, hey, you 99 00:04:58,279 --> 00:05:00,800 Speaker 1: can be part of shopify capital, get up to one 100 00:05:00,800 --> 00:05:03,719 Speaker 1: point four million dollars. Click here. And then when I 101 00:05:03,800 --> 00:05:07,200 Speaker 1: open my Shopify dashboard, like every day I jump in, 102 00:05:07,760 --> 00:05:10,599 Speaker 1: it's right there, like a huge fat banner with like 103 00:05:10,760 --> 00:05:14,320 Speaker 1: cash pictures all over it, and they make it look 104 00:05:14,920 --> 00:05:19,360 Speaker 1: very enticing. Yeah, and I can imagine, especially if you're 105 00:05:19,400 --> 00:05:22,359 Speaker 1: a business where maybe you're going through a little bit 106 00:05:22,400 --> 00:05:25,960 Speaker 1: of a financial struggle or you'd like some more money 107 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:28,480 Speaker 1: to invest into your business to grow it, which. 108 00:05:28,240 --> 00:05:29,919 Speaker 2: We all would, Yeah, we all would. 109 00:05:30,160 --> 00:05:33,760 Speaker 1: We'd like some free money, why not. Yeah, they make 110 00:05:33,839 --> 00:05:38,560 Speaker 1: it very accessible, and in my opinion, it's very dangerous. Like, yeah, 111 00:05:38,600 --> 00:05:40,839 Speaker 1: I know when I log into my Shopify, I clicked 112 00:05:40,839 --> 00:05:42,520 Speaker 1: a little X in the top and then I think 113 00:05:42,520 --> 00:05:43,760 Speaker 1: you can click like I don't want to see this 114 00:05:43,760 --> 00:05:45,760 Speaker 1: for another thirty days. So that's what I mean. I've 115 00:05:45,760 --> 00:05:52,400 Speaker 1: been doing go away, but in your instance, yeah you freaking. 116 00:05:52,120 --> 00:05:54,159 Speaker 2: Click, you did it a click? 117 00:05:54,600 --> 00:05:55,440 Speaker 1: When was this? 118 00:05:56,200 --> 00:06:01,560 Speaker 2: So we had a situation at the end of last 119 00:06:01,640 --> 00:06:06,160 Speaker 2: year where we ended up having shortage in stock, so 120 00:06:06,240 --> 00:06:09,080 Speaker 2: our stock didn't come through and you would know being 121 00:06:09,120 --> 00:06:12,520 Speaker 2: in fashion that you know, having that massive end of 122 00:06:12,640 --> 00:06:14,919 Speaker 2: years kind of sets you up for the beginning of 123 00:06:14,960 --> 00:06:17,560 Speaker 2: the next year. Absolutely it helps your cash flow. So 124 00:06:17,720 --> 00:06:19,760 Speaker 2: we had a real dint in that and a drop 125 00:06:19,800 --> 00:06:22,400 Speaker 2: in that, so I went into panic mode. We reached 126 00:06:22,440 --> 00:06:25,200 Speaker 2: out to banks, but proud Poppies and your brand to 127 00:06:25,240 --> 00:06:28,160 Speaker 2: what you have and we've only been around just coming 128 00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:31,039 Speaker 2: up to five years now, so banks really want to see, 129 00:06:31,600 --> 00:06:33,960 Speaker 2: you know, the history. They want four to five years 130 00:06:34,000 --> 00:06:36,680 Speaker 2: worth of history, which we just didn't have. So not everyone, 131 00:06:36,800 --> 00:06:39,599 Speaker 2: like I think Commonwealth came to us and said, you know, 132 00:06:39,680 --> 00:06:43,200 Speaker 2: your sales are amazing, the growth should be wreck like, 133 00:06:43,400 --> 00:06:45,280 Speaker 2: you should be so proud of what you've done, but 134 00:06:45,320 --> 00:06:47,200 Speaker 2: come back and see us since September. 135 00:06:46,880 --> 00:06:49,360 Speaker 1: Especially because when your business is new, even though you've 136 00:06:49,400 --> 00:06:51,920 Speaker 1: been around for nearly five years, especially those first couple 137 00:06:51,960 --> 00:06:53,719 Speaker 1: of years. Like I always say, it's like the trial 138 00:06:53,720 --> 00:06:56,840 Speaker 1: period your business, Like you can't really use that as stats, no, 139 00:06:56,880 --> 00:06:58,520 Speaker 1: because that's when you're just figuring it all out. 140 00:06:58,600 --> 00:07:01,320 Speaker 2: Don't forget we had Covid as well in between, so 141 00:07:01,480 --> 00:07:04,040 Speaker 2: there's really like two years of complete write off. But 142 00:07:04,080 --> 00:07:06,000 Speaker 2: I think there's been a lot of brands that started 143 00:07:06,040 --> 00:07:08,640 Speaker 2: that were COVID babies that have had this massive growth 144 00:07:08,680 --> 00:07:12,720 Speaker 2: and don't really know how to tackle that moving forward. So, yeah, 145 00:07:12,720 --> 00:07:15,480 Speaker 2: we had this situation where we had not enough stock 146 00:07:15,840 --> 00:07:17,840 Speaker 2: coming through to be able to meet the sales that 147 00:07:17,880 --> 00:07:21,400 Speaker 2: we needed to achieve. So I needed to find capital 148 00:07:21,400 --> 00:07:24,120 Speaker 2: from somewhere else. We reached out to the banks. The 149 00:07:24,160 --> 00:07:27,160 Speaker 2: bank said no, and there it was on the Shopify 150 00:07:27,240 --> 00:07:29,480 Speaker 2: dashboard do you want a million bucks? 151 00:07:29,680 --> 00:07:31,440 Speaker 1: And you were like, okay, fucking. 152 00:07:31,240 --> 00:07:32,440 Speaker 2: Yes, I want a million bucks. 153 00:07:32,480 --> 00:07:35,240 Speaker 1: How easy was it like when you did click through that? Like? 154 00:07:35,280 --> 00:07:36,920 Speaker 1: What did you have to feel out any information? 155 00:07:37,160 --> 00:07:40,160 Speaker 2: I'm sure you did, but at the time, I think, like, 156 00:07:40,240 --> 00:07:42,960 Speaker 2: looking back, there's definitely things that I would do differently 157 00:07:43,080 --> 00:07:46,320 Speaker 2: because at the time, you know, you're trying to what 158 00:07:46,440 --> 00:07:48,840 Speaker 2: you think is protect your business. You're trying to keep 159 00:07:48,880 --> 00:07:50,960 Speaker 2: all your stuff in jobs and look after people, but 160 00:07:51,000 --> 00:07:53,880 Speaker 2: you're really not protecting your business, and you're not thinking 161 00:07:53,920 --> 00:07:57,040 Speaker 2: about your business. You're thinking about everything else but your business. 162 00:07:57,680 --> 00:08:02,360 Speaker 2: So you know, there were forms very minor like sign here, 163 00:08:02,440 --> 00:08:04,360 Speaker 2: read this, scroll to the bottom. 164 00:08:04,240 --> 00:08:07,000 Speaker 1: Tick the box, an online form which again makes it 165 00:08:07,080 --> 00:08:09,440 Speaker 1: so easy to just sign up to something rather than 166 00:08:09,480 --> 00:08:11,160 Speaker 1: going through a bank. Can happen to do all the. 167 00:08:11,120 --> 00:08:12,200 Speaker 2: One hundred paperwork. 168 00:08:12,280 --> 00:08:15,800 Speaker 1: Yeah wow. And so from what I've read, because I've 169 00:08:16,280 --> 00:08:19,440 Speaker 1: looked at the Shopify Capital, stop looking. I'm not, I'm 170 00:08:19,480 --> 00:08:23,400 Speaker 1: not looking to bloody sign up, but I'm curiously right 171 00:08:23,800 --> 00:08:25,360 Speaker 1: from what I've read just on the banners and in 172 00:08:25,400 --> 00:08:29,240 Speaker 1: those emails and stuff. So just say, like, you you borrow, like, 173 00:08:29,280 --> 00:08:31,000 Speaker 1: it's obviously not free money, you're gonna have. 174 00:08:30,960 --> 00:08:33,160 Speaker 2: To pay it back one hundred percent. Yeah, like, and 175 00:08:33,200 --> 00:08:33,960 Speaker 2: it's crazy. 176 00:08:34,040 --> 00:08:36,920 Speaker 1: And the way that shopify Capital works is because you're 177 00:08:36,960 --> 00:08:40,680 Speaker 1: getting this money through this system that you're using, they 178 00:08:40,760 --> 00:08:44,440 Speaker 1: then deduct what you owe them through your daily sales 179 00:08:44,480 --> 00:08:48,840 Speaker 1: every day. Every day they're pulling money out yea every day. 180 00:08:49,080 --> 00:08:51,640 Speaker 1: So then the other thing is as well, like obviously 181 00:08:51,679 --> 00:08:53,840 Speaker 1: just say, if you borrow one point five million from them, 182 00:08:53,840 --> 00:08:56,080 Speaker 1: you're not going to pay back one point five million, 183 00:08:56,920 --> 00:08:58,800 Speaker 1: do you know, like what kind of interest they were 184 00:08:58,880 --> 00:08:59,400 Speaker 1: charging you. 185 00:08:59,520 --> 00:09:02,400 Speaker 2: So they do something where they give you an amount 186 00:09:02,440 --> 00:09:04,760 Speaker 2: at the start, which is your interest overall? 187 00:09:05,000 --> 00:09:07,480 Speaker 1: And do they just dump the money into your bank account? 188 00:09:07,559 --> 00:09:11,800 Speaker 2: Done just like your daily Shopify payout in your bank account. 189 00:09:12,080 --> 00:09:14,560 Speaker 1: So they just put that, Like, can you say how 190 00:09:14,640 --> 00:09:15,559 Speaker 1: much you've got off them? 191 00:09:15,760 --> 00:09:17,120 Speaker 2: One point five million dollars? 192 00:09:17,320 --> 00:09:19,720 Speaker 1: Wow? Yeah, so you just have one point five straight 193 00:09:19,760 --> 00:09:22,679 Speaker 1: into your bank account. Yep, that's insane. 194 00:09:23,080 --> 00:09:23,320 Speaker 2: Wow. 195 00:09:23,520 --> 00:09:25,640 Speaker 1: Did you feel like rich for a second for about 196 00:09:25,640 --> 00:09:30,439 Speaker 1: a minute to spend it? Yeah? So you got the money? Yeah, 197 00:09:30,480 --> 00:09:31,720 Speaker 1: and then what was the plan? 198 00:09:31,840 --> 00:09:31,880 Speaker 3: Like? 199 00:09:31,920 --> 00:09:32,480 Speaker 1: What were you got? 200 00:09:32,600 --> 00:09:35,280 Speaker 2: Plan was just to help bridge with some stock, so 201 00:09:35,840 --> 00:09:38,559 Speaker 2: stock that we'd planned in with supplies that we had 202 00:09:38,600 --> 00:09:42,840 Speaker 2: really good terms with that that stock hadn't come through, 203 00:09:42,880 --> 00:09:44,840 Speaker 2: so I needed to find something else. But I needed 204 00:09:44,880 --> 00:09:47,480 Speaker 2: to pay for all of our stock upfront, so there 205 00:09:47,559 --> 00:09:49,600 Speaker 2: was no you know how you can get thirty days, 206 00:09:49,679 --> 00:09:52,520 Speaker 2: ninety days, whatever your payment terms are. It was pay 207 00:09:52,600 --> 00:09:55,160 Speaker 2: up front. So I needed to come up with enough 208 00:09:55,200 --> 00:09:58,480 Speaker 2: money to be able to get us through the season upfront, 209 00:09:58,640 --> 00:10:01,960 Speaker 2: which we didn't have. But I needed to find it 210 00:10:02,240 --> 00:10:05,079 Speaker 2: somewhere otherwise I would have had to really scale the 211 00:10:05,120 --> 00:10:08,040 Speaker 2: business back what should have been a really pivotal moment 212 00:10:08,080 --> 00:10:09,800 Speaker 2: in our business, and it should have been the biggest 213 00:10:09,800 --> 00:10:13,400 Speaker 2: season we had. So it was really shit. It was 214 00:10:13,440 --> 00:10:16,160 Speaker 2: really stressful. I didn't want to let anyone go. I 215 00:10:16,160 --> 00:10:18,040 Speaker 2: didn't want to make any of my staff redundant. I 216 00:10:18,040 --> 00:10:20,240 Speaker 2: didn't want to do anything. But you know, I have 217 00:10:20,280 --> 00:10:22,559 Speaker 2: a really great brand. I still have a great brand, 218 00:10:23,640 --> 00:10:26,280 Speaker 2: but at that time, it was something that I'd never 219 00:10:27,080 --> 00:10:30,079 Speaker 2: encountered before, like this, what do you mean there's no stock? 220 00:10:30,120 --> 00:10:33,640 Speaker 2: I remember sitting in the meeting with somebody and finally 221 00:10:33,679 --> 00:10:35,760 Speaker 2: realizing this person that was meant to help me bring 222 00:10:35,800 --> 00:10:38,079 Speaker 2: the stock in that it wasn't even on the like 223 00:10:38,200 --> 00:10:41,240 Speaker 2: in production. So when someone says stock is coming to me, 224 00:10:41,280 --> 00:10:44,839 Speaker 2: it's on the fucking boat coming. So at least getting made. 225 00:10:45,120 --> 00:10:46,839 Speaker 1: But it wasn't even getting made at all. 226 00:10:47,000 --> 00:10:53,080 Speaker 2: No, and we were in September, so yeah, shit. Yeah. 227 00:10:53,120 --> 00:10:55,680 Speaker 1: And so when you got the loan and they put 228 00:10:55,720 --> 00:10:58,520 Speaker 1: all the money into your bank account, is it then 229 00:10:58,600 --> 00:11:01,560 Speaker 1: like immediately that you will start paying them back? Like 230 00:11:01,600 --> 00:11:03,000 Speaker 1: from the moment shop, I think. 231 00:11:02,880 --> 00:11:06,360 Speaker 2: You get like a grace period, but it's not very long, 232 00:11:06,400 --> 00:11:07,160 Speaker 2: Like it's a couple of. 233 00:11:07,160 --> 00:11:10,480 Speaker 1: Days maybe, and every day, is it? How do they 234 00:11:10,559 --> 00:11:11,960 Speaker 1: calculate what they're taking back? 235 00:11:12,120 --> 00:11:14,840 Speaker 2: So you agree on a percentage at the start, there's 236 00:11:14,960 --> 00:11:19,840 Speaker 2: little to no negotiation. So like, our percentage was seventeen percent, 237 00:11:20,280 --> 00:11:22,679 Speaker 2: So seventeen percent of your daily sales. 238 00:11:22,400 --> 00:11:25,240 Speaker 1: Which is huge through business, Like seventeen percent of your 239 00:11:25,280 --> 00:11:28,160 Speaker 1: daily sales just out the door. Gone wow. 240 00:11:28,400 --> 00:11:33,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, so seventeen percent every day taken out. Yeah, so 241 00:11:33,760 --> 00:11:35,480 Speaker 2: as a killer, But you don't really think about that 242 00:11:35,520 --> 00:11:37,120 Speaker 2: at the time. You're like, Okay, how am I going 243 00:11:37,160 --> 00:11:39,160 Speaker 2: to get this stock? Let's deal with this problem. But 244 00:11:39,200 --> 00:11:42,199 Speaker 2: all it does is fix one problem and then until 245 00:11:42,200 --> 00:11:44,920 Speaker 2: you've paid, until that loan's gone, you are not making 246 00:11:45,040 --> 00:11:48,800 Speaker 2: You're just selling to sell. Yeah wow, with no profit. 247 00:11:49,400 --> 00:11:53,360 Speaker 2: That's crazy wild. And there's so many businesses out there, 248 00:11:53,400 --> 00:11:58,240 Speaker 2: like great brands, really big brands that I know that 249 00:11:58,280 --> 00:12:02,040 Speaker 2: have either got this in about to go under. Like 250 00:12:02,080 --> 00:12:05,280 Speaker 2: it's just it's so prevalent out there in the industry, 251 00:12:05,280 --> 00:12:08,120 Speaker 2: but no one talks about it. No, I'm really lucky 252 00:12:08,120 --> 00:12:11,480 Speaker 2: that I'm in quite a few little circles where you know, 253 00:12:11,520 --> 00:12:15,240 Speaker 2: we can collaborate and share information, Like I feel like 254 00:12:15,280 --> 00:12:17,360 Speaker 2: you and I are very similar like that, where it's 255 00:12:17,400 --> 00:12:17,880 Speaker 2: not so much. 256 00:12:17,880 --> 00:12:19,719 Speaker 1: I love when I get my nightly text from you 257 00:12:19,920 --> 00:12:22,720 Speaker 1: and you're like blowing up about something and I'm just like, 258 00:12:23,040 --> 00:12:24,240 Speaker 1: tell me all about it. 259 00:12:24,760 --> 00:12:27,160 Speaker 2: Well, you know, it's really nice to have people that 260 00:12:27,200 --> 00:12:29,440 Speaker 2: you can collaborate with and share and be at like. 261 00:12:29,640 --> 00:12:32,240 Speaker 2: It can be really lonely running a business. But I 262 00:12:32,240 --> 00:12:35,480 Speaker 2: guess through speaking to these brands, I've seen people like 263 00:12:35,640 --> 00:12:39,800 Speaker 2: founders just break down because they've got these amazing brands 264 00:12:39,840 --> 00:12:42,520 Speaker 2: and they've taken this out to really take their business 265 00:12:42,600 --> 00:12:44,640 Speaker 2: to the next level, and all it has done is 266 00:12:44,720 --> 00:12:45,760 Speaker 2: destroy them. 267 00:12:45,800 --> 00:12:48,360 Speaker 1: And I think that's one of the scariest things about 268 00:12:48,400 --> 00:12:51,920 Speaker 1: being in business is you can have this really successful business. 269 00:12:52,000 --> 00:12:54,120 Speaker 1: You know, you've got lots of customers, you've got lots 270 00:12:54,120 --> 00:12:57,280 Speaker 1: of orders or clients, whatever the business may be, but 271 00:12:57,760 --> 00:13:01,960 Speaker 1: you're always just one wrong decision away from fucking up 272 00:13:01,960 --> 00:13:02,600 Speaker 1: the whole thing. 273 00:13:03,000 --> 00:13:04,280 Speaker 2: Thanks for reminding me. 274 00:13:05,120 --> 00:13:06,679 Speaker 1: But that's one of the scary things for me. I'm 275 00:13:06,679 --> 00:13:08,400 Speaker 1: not saying for you. Yeah, I get it, I get it, 276 00:13:08,559 --> 00:13:12,120 Speaker 1: and dig at you anhead of us are going so 277 00:13:12,320 --> 00:13:15,840 Speaker 1: great and you've got thousands of customers, you as the 278 00:13:15,880 --> 00:13:18,360 Speaker 1: owner or any of us owners, can just make one 279 00:13:18,480 --> 00:13:22,319 Speaker 1: choice that we might think got so much responsibility. Yeah, 280 00:13:22,360 --> 00:13:26,040 Speaker 1: you can make one decision that can essentially change everything. 281 00:13:26,559 --> 00:13:26,839 Speaker 2: Yep. 282 00:13:27,480 --> 00:13:29,760 Speaker 1: Wow, which clickity click click. 283 00:13:29,640 --> 00:13:30,360 Speaker 2: That's what I did. 284 00:13:34,720 --> 00:13:37,520 Speaker 1: What has been your biggest lesson out of taking out 285 00:13:37,559 --> 00:13:38,920 Speaker 1: that loan with Shopify? 286 00:13:39,760 --> 00:13:42,880 Speaker 2: I think at the time, what I was trying to 287 00:13:42,880 --> 00:13:46,440 Speaker 2: do was protect my team, protect the jobs, protect the business, 288 00:13:46,640 --> 00:13:49,440 Speaker 2: continue to scale. If I had my time again and 289 00:13:49,480 --> 00:13:52,840 Speaker 2: I was put in that same position, I would just 290 00:13:52,960 --> 00:13:56,679 Speaker 2: have to make those really difficult decisions, have those hard conversations, 291 00:13:56,679 --> 00:13:59,720 Speaker 2: and scale back. It was a lesson that I learned 292 00:14:00,280 --> 00:14:03,040 Speaker 2: from trusting someone that I probably shouldn't have trusted. But 293 00:14:03,240 --> 00:14:05,400 Speaker 2: there gets to a point where you have to trust someone. 294 00:14:05,880 --> 00:14:07,400 Speaker 2: You can't do it on your own forever. 295 00:14:07,880 --> 00:14:10,920 Speaker 1: No, And that's what another scary thing about business is 296 00:14:10,920 --> 00:14:13,480 Speaker 1: putting that trust into people, but are going to help 297 00:14:13,480 --> 00:14:14,320 Speaker 1: you run your business? 298 00:14:14,440 --> 00:14:16,400 Speaker 2: Well, I'm never fucking trusting anyone to get. 299 00:14:17,880 --> 00:14:20,480 Speaker 1: Hard conversations easy live. Yeah. So if you could do 300 00:14:20,520 --> 00:14:22,960 Speaker 1: it all again, you would have scaled back the business instead. 301 00:14:23,040 --> 00:14:24,880 Speaker 2: Well, a lot of the people that I was trying 302 00:14:24,920 --> 00:14:27,480 Speaker 2: to look after and not with me anymore, because they 303 00:14:27,480 --> 00:14:30,240 Speaker 2: can go get another job, they can move on, their 304 00:14:30,240 --> 00:14:33,200 Speaker 2: life changes. This is it For me, this is I'm 305 00:14:33,240 --> 00:14:36,200 Speaker 2: all in, this is my passion, this is my business, 306 00:14:36,240 --> 00:14:39,120 Speaker 2: this is my baby, you know, so I need to 307 00:14:39,160 --> 00:14:41,280 Speaker 2: protect the business absolutely right. 308 00:14:41,720 --> 00:14:43,960 Speaker 1: And for those listening that maybe haven't heard of you, 309 00:14:44,280 --> 00:14:46,120 Speaker 1: do you want to give us like a brief little 310 00:14:46,600 --> 00:14:49,760 Speaker 1: overhaul of like Proud Poppy and why you started it 311 00:14:49,960 --> 00:14:52,000 Speaker 1: and so it all came to be. 312 00:14:52,480 --> 00:14:56,440 Speaker 2: Proud Poppy was a brand that I started in twenty nineteen, 313 00:14:56,560 --> 00:14:59,680 Speaker 2: so not that long ago really at all. I am 314 00:14:59,720 --> 00:15:04,080 Speaker 2: an emergency nurs so I've cared for lots of people 315 00:15:04,160 --> 00:15:08,120 Speaker 2: that have come through the doors, all different shape, sizes, backgrounds, abilities, 316 00:15:08,880 --> 00:15:12,960 Speaker 2: And one thing that you know, really stood out for 317 00:15:13,040 --> 00:15:16,080 Speaker 2: me was there's so many different people out there that 318 00:15:16,120 --> 00:15:18,600 Speaker 2: are going through so many different things that cause their 319 00:15:18,600 --> 00:15:20,400 Speaker 2: bodies to change. Whether it's you know, you're having a 320 00:15:20,440 --> 00:15:22,720 Speaker 2: baby or whether you're training for the marathon. You know, 321 00:15:22,800 --> 00:15:26,520 Speaker 2: it goes both ways. And everyone just wants to feel good, 322 00:15:26,600 --> 00:15:29,480 Speaker 2: even on your darkest days. But there's so many people 323 00:15:29,480 --> 00:15:33,480 Speaker 2: out there that aren't represented. Or you know, there's brands 324 00:15:33,560 --> 00:15:36,640 Speaker 2: that stock sizes but only online and not in store, 325 00:15:36,680 --> 00:15:39,920 Speaker 2: so they want them to shop online secretly, but don't 326 00:15:39,920 --> 00:15:42,000 Speaker 2: be seen in our store, you know, and it just 327 00:15:42,280 --> 00:15:47,080 Speaker 2: really just irked me. So I used to be one 328 00:15:47,160 --> 00:15:49,080 Speaker 2: hundred and forty kilos. I think I was up to 329 00:15:49,120 --> 00:15:53,440 Speaker 2: about a size twenty four, and I ended up going 330 00:15:53,440 --> 00:15:56,560 Speaker 2: on maternity leave. I lost some weight after my baby, 331 00:15:57,080 --> 00:15:59,880 Speaker 2: and I just I didn't really want to go back 332 00:15:59,880 --> 00:16:02,880 Speaker 2: to nursing, but I wanted to do something that would 333 00:16:02,880 --> 00:16:05,280 Speaker 2: help women in another way. And I used to sit 334 00:16:05,280 --> 00:16:07,520 Speaker 2: at this little cafe in my hometown and I used 335 00:16:07,560 --> 00:16:10,600 Speaker 2: to watch people go into this little store. Women they'd 336 00:16:10,640 --> 00:16:12,440 Speaker 2: go in, they'd go out. I was a size twenty four. 337 00:16:12,480 --> 00:16:15,200 Speaker 2: I couldn't shop there, and I'd watch all women come 338 00:16:15,240 --> 00:16:17,480 Speaker 2: in and go out with a bag, all different sizes, 339 00:16:17,520 --> 00:16:20,600 Speaker 2: but just no plus sized gals. And I would say 340 00:16:20,640 --> 00:16:22,360 Speaker 2: to my husband, God, I wish I could shop in 341 00:16:22,360 --> 00:16:24,880 Speaker 2: that store, and he would say one day, one day. 342 00:16:25,160 --> 00:16:27,480 Speaker 2: And then one day I got down I think to 343 00:16:27,520 --> 00:16:29,480 Speaker 2: a size eighteen, and I would managed to go into 344 00:16:29,520 --> 00:16:32,440 Speaker 2: the store and I found one dress. And it was 345 00:16:32,600 --> 00:16:34,920 Speaker 2: like a huge moment because I'd sat across the road 346 00:16:34,920 --> 00:16:38,280 Speaker 2: at the bar and the restaurant, eating three entrees and 347 00:16:38,320 --> 00:16:40,760 Speaker 2: just watching all these women shop. And I ended up 348 00:16:40,800 --> 00:16:43,160 Speaker 2: going in and I found one dress. It was horrible. 349 00:16:43,400 --> 00:16:45,240 Speaker 2: It was loose, but I bought it because it fit, 350 00:16:45,280 --> 00:16:48,120 Speaker 2: and I remember thinking, how good's this? I can finally 351 00:16:48,120 --> 00:16:49,720 Speaker 2: shop here. And then I went home and I was like, 352 00:16:50,240 --> 00:16:52,800 Speaker 2: I've watched people come in and out. How come me 353 00:16:52,840 --> 00:16:56,440 Speaker 2: as like a size eighteen, eight twenty could find one dress? 354 00:16:56,960 --> 00:16:57,040 Speaker 1: Like? 355 00:16:57,120 --> 00:16:59,480 Speaker 2: Why was there only one option for me? And so 356 00:16:59,520 --> 00:17:01,560 Speaker 2: I got really mad and I said to my husband, 357 00:17:01,720 --> 00:17:04,000 Speaker 2: I think, you know, I think I can do a 358 00:17:04,000 --> 00:17:06,000 Speaker 2: better job of this because there's so many women, Like 359 00:17:06,080 --> 00:17:08,920 Speaker 2: I'd lost a lot of weight, I wasn't even at 360 00:17:08,960 --> 00:17:11,520 Speaker 2: my largest, but there still wasn't any options for me. 361 00:17:12,000 --> 00:17:14,960 Speaker 2: So I wanted to create a space where whether you 362 00:17:14,960 --> 00:17:17,000 Speaker 2: were a size six or a size twenty six, you 363 00:17:17,000 --> 00:17:20,240 Speaker 2: could come in store and have a beautiful shopping experience. 364 00:17:20,280 --> 00:17:23,040 Speaker 2: You could shop online, just to have a beautiful space 365 00:17:23,080 --> 00:17:27,600 Speaker 2: for everybody to feel welcomed and represented. Very similar to 366 00:17:27,680 --> 00:17:31,400 Speaker 2: your story, Like not the story, but very similar values. 367 00:17:31,600 --> 00:17:37,320 Speaker 1: I think, Yeah, you were competitor. I'm kidding, I'm kidding. 368 00:17:37,640 --> 00:17:39,960 Speaker 1: I love that pitch of proud Poppy. You didn't start 369 00:17:39,960 --> 00:17:40,800 Speaker 1: at once just then. 370 00:17:41,200 --> 00:17:43,480 Speaker 2: I've said it a couple of times, but I think 371 00:17:43,520 --> 00:17:46,320 Speaker 2: it's I think it's like, it's definitely a passion of mine. 372 00:17:46,359 --> 00:17:50,400 Speaker 2: I didn't start Proud Poppy to be a massive business, 373 00:17:50,400 --> 00:17:52,200 Speaker 2: and I think that's where a bit of my downfall 374 00:17:52,280 --> 00:17:54,280 Speaker 2: is too, because I don't know how to manage a business. 375 00:17:54,280 --> 00:17:56,919 Speaker 2: I'm learning on the run. I'm an ex nurse. I 376 00:17:56,960 --> 00:17:58,960 Speaker 2: started from a tub of clothes in my hallway and 377 00:17:58,960 --> 00:18:02,560 Speaker 2: now it's just gone astronomical over a few years. So 378 00:18:03,119 --> 00:18:04,600 Speaker 2: I'm going to fuck up along the way. I'm going 379 00:18:04,680 --> 00:18:06,399 Speaker 2: to make mistakes because you only know what you know. 380 00:18:06,520 --> 00:18:08,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, we're going to fuck up forever. I think forever. 381 00:18:08,480 --> 00:18:10,879 Speaker 1: Like and I always say on my podcast here, like 382 00:18:11,280 --> 00:18:12,760 Speaker 1: I think the bigger we get, like, the more fuck 383 00:18:12,800 --> 00:18:15,280 Speaker 1: ups we're going to make. We're dealing with things every 384 00:18:15,359 --> 00:18:18,640 Speaker 1: day that is just new and we're like we're experiencing 385 00:18:18,640 --> 00:18:20,400 Speaker 1: this for the first time ourselves as well. 386 00:18:20,440 --> 00:18:21,800 Speaker 2: Everything's new to me so. 387 00:18:22,119 --> 00:18:24,960 Speaker 1: Too, But I think that's the beauty of it. 388 00:18:25,119 --> 00:18:27,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I like say, they're not mistakes, they're lessons, right, 389 00:18:28,040 --> 00:18:29,679 Speaker 2: because you'll never do the same thing again. 390 00:18:29,680 --> 00:18:33,440 Speaker 1: You're saying all the stuff that I say on this podcast. Yeah, 391 00:18:33,520 --> 00:18:36,800 Speaker 1: this is I take notes. Oh, I love it well. 392 00:18:36,840 --> 00:18:40,639 Speaker 1: I love the story of Proud Poppy, And I think 393 00:18:41,600 --> 00:18:45,360 Speaker 1: even though you and I are. Essentially we're not competitive, 394 00:18:45,400 --> 00:18:46,120 Speaker 1: don't I think so? 395 00:18:46,320 --> 00:18:49,000 Speaker 2: I don't see, But I also think I've always said 396 00:18:49,160 --> 00:18:51,919 Speaker 2: that the more women or people that we can get 397 00:18:52,000 --> 00:18:54,560 Speaker 2: out there who are confident, and we say, we don't 398 00:18:54,560 --> 00:18:57,199 Speaker 2: sell dresses, we sell confidence, we sell a feeling. So 399 00:18:57,280 --> 00:18:58,960 Speaker 2: the more people that we can get out there living 400 00:18:59,000 --> 00:19:01,359 Speaker 2: their best lives and just not giving a shit about 401 00:19:01,359 --> 00:19:03,720 Speaker 2: what other people think, that's going to be better for 402 00:19:03,760 --> 00:19:05,840 Speaker 2: everyone because they're gonna want to come and shop, They're 403 00:19:05,880 --> 00:19:07,480 Speaker 2: going to want to be a part of our community. 404 00:19:07,640 --> 00:19:12,240 Speaker 2: So you know, the more you inspire people and the 405 00:19:12,280 --> 00:19:14,600 Speaker 2: more confidence you give people, the better it is for 406 00:19:14,680 --> 00:19:15,800 Speaker 2: me in the lovely right. 407 00:19:15,920 --> 00:19:19,840 Speaker 1: And I would see any fashion brand as a competitor 408 00:19:19,920 --> 00:19:24,399 Speaker 1: of ours because I just think like more power to women, 409 00:19:24,440 --> 00:19:28,240 Speaker 1: the better. And that's why I have loved connecting with you. 410 00:19:28,720 --> 00:19:31,240 Speaker 1: We do love a wine, but also we do love 411 00:19:31,240 --> 00:19:35,080 Speaker 1: a wine. And Tara, you do a lot of pop 412 00:19:35,160 --> 00:19:37,720 Speaker 1: up shops. Yeah, maybe we can keep that for another episode, 413 00:19:37,760 --> 00:19:39,720 Speaker 1: like all about pop up shop yecause I know nothing 414 00:19:39,720 --> 00:19:42,160 Speaker 1: about pop up shops and our community is always asking. 415 00:19:42,400 --> 00:19:44,080 Speaker 2: I definitely think you should do a pop up shot. 416 00:19:44,119 --> 00:19:46,879 Speaker 1: Really, Yeah, it seems like a whole lot of fucking words. 417 00:19:46,960 --> 00:19:50,120 Speaker 1: It really is like you have a truck, right, Yeah, 418 00:19:50,240 --> 00:19:53,880 Speaker 1: you have a whole like semi trailer truck. Well, no, 419 00:19:54,160 --> 00:19:56,800 Speaker 1: a mini one, like I can drive it. 420 00:19:56,920 --> 00:19:58,120 Speaker 2: Okay, I'm not a truck driver. 421 00:19:58,320 --> 00:19:59,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's a truck. 422 00:19:59,200 --> 00:19:59,480 Speaker 2: Yeah. 423 00:19:59,600 --> 00:20:02,120 Speaker 1: You truck your sheep to different states? 424 00:20:02,200 --> 00:20:04,880 Speaker 2: Yeah? Fuck, we're going to Cans this weekend. 425 00:20:05,280 --> 00:20:09,240 Speaker 1: Can yeah be driving there? No? Oh, you're getting someone 426 00:20:09,240 --> 00:20:10,160 Speaker 1: else to drive the truck. 427 00:20:10,520 --> 00:20:11,920 Speaker 2: We're gonna ship the stuff to kid. 428 00:20:11,960 --> 00:20:15,000 Speaker 1: Oh yes, yeah, that'd be a big drive. Yeah, it's 429 00:20:15,000 --> 00:20:17,520 Speaker 1: really hot up there. I've heard it's gonna be lovely. Yeah, 430 00:20:17,560 --> 00:20:21,520 Speaker 1: I bet compared to Foggy Sinky today. But I have 431 00:20:21,680 --> 00:20:24,959 Speaker 1: loved being able to connect with you. And I remember 432 00:20:25,800 --> 00:20:28,639 Speaker 1: you posted because I follow your account and the Proud 433 00:20:28,640 --> 00:20:31,560 Speaker 1: Poppy account and you posted like a little graphic and 434 00:20:31,600 --> 00:20:35,560 Speaker 1: you were like Proud Poppy is coming to Newcastle and 435 00:20:35,600 --> 00:20:37,840 Speaker 1: then I DMed it to you straight away and I 436 00:20:37,880 --> 00:20:39,200 Speaker 1: was like, oh my god, this is so cool. 437 00:20:39,280 --> 00:20:40,840 Speaker 2: And it was really near your shop. 438 00:20:40,920 --> 00:20:42,919 Speaker 1: It was like and I didn't know it and I 439 00:20:42,960 --> 00:20:45,639 Speaker 1: was like, oh, this is mad. And I message was like, 440 00:20:45,680 --> 00:20:48,000 Speaker 1: oh my god, this is epic, and You're like, I'm 441 00:20:48,080 --> 00:20:51,160 Speaker 1: so fucking sorry. Like, I had no idea, and I'm like, Tara, 442 00:20:51,359 --> 00:20:54,199 Speaker 1: why are you sorry? I said, this is great, and 443 00:20:54,240 --> 00:20:56,640 Speaker 1: I saw that as an opportunity for both of us 444 00:20:56,880 --> 00:20:59,840 Speaker 1: to come together and collaborate. So then I came up 445 00:20:59,840 --> 00:21:03,400 Speaker 1: with this idea for us to do a skit as 446 00:21:03,400 --> 00:21:05,960 Speaker 1: an Instagram reel And when was this? When was it 447 00:21:06,000 --> 00:21:06,600 Speaker 1: that you came down? 448 00:21:06,680 --> 00:21:08,840 Speaker 2: God, I don't know. I've still got the scars on 449 00:21:08,840 --> 00:21:11,320 Speaker 2: my knee from when I fell over and the street 450 00:21:11,760 --> 00:21:13,160 Speaker 2: going to outdo. 451 00:21:14,480 --> 00:21:18,240 Speaker 1: So we got together and we made this reel, which 452 00:21:18,240 --> 00:21:20,439 Speaker 1: you can still find on both of our ines. 453 00:21:20,520 --> 00:21:22,000 Speaker 2: Definitely watch it. We're pretty funny. 454 00:21:22,040 --> 00:21:24,840 Speaker 1: It is good, and so the whole skit is it's 455 00:21:24,840 --> 00:21:27,600 Speaker 1: me in my shop and then my phone dings and 456 00:21:27,640 --> 00:21:30,600 Speaker 1: then I'm like, oh, proud Poppies coming to Newcastle. And 457 00:21:30,600 --> 00:21:32,480 Speaker 1: then I look a bit closer and then I realized 458 00:21:32,520 --> 00:21:35,280 Speaker 1: that the address is across the street, and I'm like 459 00:21:35,400 --> 00:21:38,040 Speaker 1: those bitches, and then I storm across the road like 460 00:21:38,040 --> 00:21:41,000 Speaker 1: it's a whole video thing, and I walk into Tara's 461 00:21:41,000 --> 00:21:44,080 Speaker 1: pop up shop and she's there like awkwardly baby, and 462 00:21:44,119 --> 00:21:46,560 Speaker 1: it's this like awkward moment. But then we come together 463 00:21:46,800 --> 00:21:49,800 Speaker 1: and we stand each other around we're skipping down the 464 00:21:49,800 --> 00:21:52,080 Speaker 1: street and then I'm in her store and you come 465 00:21:52,080 --> 00:21:54,840 Speaker 1: to mine, and then it was just this like video 466 00:21:54,920 --> 00:21:57,960 Speaker 1: about women supporting women in those things that people just. 467 00:21:57,880 --> 00:22:00,919 Speaker 2: Wouldn't expect us to be friends. 468 00:22:01,200 --> 00:22:03,920 Speaker 1: See, well, I'm all for that. Like even if you're 469 00:22:04,400 --> 00:22:07,000 Speaker 1: two business owners in the same sort of industry, yeah, 470 00:22:07,280 --> 00:22:11,240 Speaker 1: come together. Yeah, Like with more people, there's more power 471 00:22:11,280 --> 00:22:14,639 Speaker 1: one hundred percent. And I would love more businesses that 472 00:22:14,720 --> 00:22:17,879 Speaker 1: are even similar businesses to come together and support one another. 473 00:22:18,400 --> 00:22:21,240 Speaker 1: Like how you say you're in all these exclusive groups, 474 00:22:21,280 --> 00:22:22,520 Speaker 1: Like I feel like I'm missing out. 475 00:22:22,560 --> 00:22:24,760 Speaker 2: I know you've got all these sound like a wank, no, 476 00:22:26,520 --> 00:22:29,119 Speaker 2: Like in e commerce, there's so many communities that you know, 477 00:22:29,160 --> 00:22:31,720 Speaker 2: you just have to get your own newcastle, so you're 478 00:22:31,840 --> 00:22:32,639 Speaker 2: very limited with that. 479 00:22:33,240 --> 00:22:35,240 Speaker 1: In my own bubble, you're in your own bubble. 480 00:22:35,400 --> 00:22:38,480 Speaker 2: You are your own exclusive groups. So you know, and 481 00:22:38,520 --> 00:22:40,760 Speaker 2: I think that I saw a quote that said, you know, 482 00:22:40,840 --> 00:22:44,440 Speaker 2: collaboration happens at the top, which is something when you're 483 00:22:44,840 --> 00:22:47,800 Speaker 2: confident in your brand. But also I guess when you're 484 00:22:47,840 --> 00:22:49,920 Speaker 2: doing things, Yes, we're running a business, but when you're 485 00:22:50,040 --> 00:22:52,800 Speaker 2: really passionate about it, then you're more open to collaboration. 486 00:22:52,960 --> 00:22:53,879 Speaker 2: Rather than competition. 487 00:22:54,560 --> 00:22:58,399 Speaker 1: Yes, and I love being connected with you and a 488 00:22:58,440 --> 00:23:00,800 Speaker 1: few other women that are in similar businesses to us, 489 00:23:00,840 --> 00:23:04,679 Speaker 1: and we share our ideas with each other. Yeah. The 490 00:23:04,760 --> 00:23:07,560 Speaker 1: other day I was at work with one of my 491 00:23:08,359 --> 00:23:12,399 Speaker 1: staff and I texted something to Marissa, who's from the 492 00:23:12,440 --> 00:23:15,520 Speaker 1: Laala By Club, which is another women's fashion brand, and Kim, 493 00:23:15,560 --> 00:23:16,919 Speaker 1: who I was sitting with at the time, She's like, 494 00:23:17,040 --> 00:23:20,440 Speaker 1: I love that you two are messaging each other things 495 00:23:20,480 --> 00:23:23,840 Speaker 1: like to help one another with your businesses. And I'm like, yeah, 496 00:23:23,880 --> 00:23:26,200 Speaker 1: but I'm like, I'm all for that. I think we 497 00:23:26,240 --> 00:23:29,320 Speaker 1: should see more of that in our industry and in 498 00:23:29,400 --> 00:23:32,360 Speaker 1: all industries. What's the point of just like being out 499 00:23:32,400 --> 00:23:33,800 Speaker 1: there doing your own thing when you could be. 500 00:23:33,720 --> 00:23:36,000 Speaker 2: Connected lonely it's really lonely. 501 00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:39,359 Speaker 1: It's great to catch up over a wine and talk shit. Definitely, 502 00:23:43,600 --> 00:23:46,639 Speaker 1: before we came into the studio, we sat outside with 503 00:23:46,760 --> 00:23:48,920 Speaker 1: our ice. We didn't sit outside, we sat inside because 504 00:23:48,920 --> 00:23:53,360 Speaker 1: it's freezing without slack. Because when I love that, I'm 505 00:23:53,400 --> 00:23:57,440 Speaker 1: an iced drink person all year round, even just fresh. 506 00:23:57,480 --> 00:24:00,760 Speaker 2: Have you had a Marcher, Yes, and the much I 507 00:24:00,800 --> 00:24:02,600 Speaker 2: don't even know how to say that I love. 508 00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:04,439 Speaker 1: But I've only had a much at my cafe, and 509 00:24:04,480 --> 00:24:06,440 Speaker 1: I know it's good. I've never tried one outside. 510 00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:07,879 Speaker 2: I only ever had one, and I'm like, yeah, I 511 00:24:07,960 --> 00:24:09,679 Speaker 2: drink much like. 512 00:24:09,680 --> 00:24:11,520 Speaker 1: It's a very big trend at the moment, isn't it. 513 00:24:12,560 --> 00:24:16,080 Speaker 1: But when we were outside, we were chatting, and you 514 00:24:16,119 --> 00:24:18,240 Speaker 1: were talking about how you feel like you don't have 515 00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:24,159 Speaker 1: enough time to do anything, live, to live and to 516 00:24:24,240 --> 00:24:25,960 Speaker 1: do all the things that you want to do, and 517 00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:27,760 Speaker 1: you've got all this shit going on, but you just 518 00:24:27,800 --> 00:24:30,359 Speaker 1: want to focus on growing the business. And I think 519 00:24:30,640 --> 00:24:32,919 Speaker 1: I can definitely relate to that as well as probably 520 00:24:32,960 --> 00:24:36,800 Speaker 1: all about business owner and entrepreneur listeners, is that you 521 00:24:36,960 --> 00:24:39,199 Speaker 1: just always have that feeling of not being able to 522 00:24:39,240 --> 00:24:39,800 Speaker 1: do anything. 523 00:24:40,160 --> 00:24:44,240 Speaker 2: To do list is never done it. What's the point 524 00:24:44,240 --> 00:24:46,480 Speaker 2: of even having to do just to roll it over 525 00:24:46,560 --> 00:24:47,359 Speaker 2: to the next day. 526 00:24:47,600 --> 00:24:49,560 Speaker 1: I'm just going to move those to the next day 527 00:24:49,760 --> 00:24:52,360 Speaker 1: and the next day and the next day. But one 528 00:24:52,400 --> 00:24:56,080 Speaker 1: thing that I guess fascinates me and something that I 529 00:24:56,160 --> 00:24:58,560 Speaker 1: have an experience that I'd love to hear your experience on, 530 00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:02,360 Speaker 1: is how do you juggle doing everything that you do 531 00:25:02,560 --> 00:25:05,320 Speaker 1: running your business, having all these stuff, all these pop 532 00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:08,600 Speaker 1: up shops going all around the country, and you also 533 00:25:08,680 --> 00:25:09,560 Speaker 1: are a mum of two? 534 00:25:10,280 --> 00:25:13,960 Speaker 2: Yes, I have the children. Yes, I have the children. 535 00:25:14,560 --> 00:25:17,320 Speaker 1: Did you have your kids once Proud Poppy had started 536 00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:18,000 Speaker 1: or before? 537 00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:23,560 Speaker 2: So I had Brody. So my son is six, he 538 00:25:23,720 --> 00:25:27,840 Speaker 2: was little, yeah, and then Charlie was during during. 539 00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:29,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, how did you find that? 540 00:25:31,200 --> 00:25:33,760 Speaker 2: At the start with Brody, well, it kind of was. 541 00:25:33,920 --> 00:25:36,200 Speaker 2: We were in COVID and lockdown, so it was very 542 00:25:36,280 --> 00:25:40,760 Speaker 2: very different. But with Charlie. I so Charlie's two and 543 00:25:40,840 --> 00:25:43,720 Speaker 2: a bit. I was booked in for an induction. So 544 00:25:43,840 --> 00:25:47,280 Speaker 2: when they make the baby come for those listening and 545 00:25:47,480 --> 00:25:52,240 Speaker 2: Britney teach me everywhere, and I was booked in for 546 00:25:52,280 --> 00:25:55,199 Speaker 2: an induction. So the day and that was say, the Wednesday, 547 00:25:55,520 --> 00:25:57,639 Speaker 2: the day before I was back to back with meetings. 548 00:25:57,640 --> 00:25:59,040 Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm gonna get my shit done. 549 00:25:59,040 --> 00:26:00,879 Speaker 1: And I went right up and took the day before. 550 00:26:01,080 --> 00:26:03,320 Speaker 2: Yeah. And then the baby came a day early. 551 00:26:03,160 --> 00:26:10,679 Speaker 1: Didn't she? Yeah, so rude, so serush with my plans. 552 00:26:11,080 --> 00:26:13,800 Speaker 2: Luckily she came really fast. So then I was literally 553 00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:16,280 Speaker 2: on zoom calls in the birthing suite and the midwives 554 00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:17,760 Speaker 2: would come in and I was like, I'm just in 555 00:26:17,800 --> 00:26:21,600 Speaker 2: a meeting and I think I just thought I was 556 00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:24,520 Speaker 2: like kidding, but I was like, I'm actually on a call, 557 00:26:24,760 --> 00:26:26,800 Speaker 2: like the baby was out, but there was still He's. 558 00:26:26,680 --> 00:26:28,200 Speaker 1: Just chilling next to you and you're on a call 559 00:26:28,240 --> 00:26:28,760 Speaker 1: straight away. 560 00:26:28,880 --> 00:26:31,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, because I was booked Dar, I had a lot 561 00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:31,600 Speaker 2: going on. 562 00:26:32,160 --> 00:26:33,960 Speaker 1: You are hustling. 563 00:26:34,080 --> 00:26:37,240 Speaker 2: It was wild. So anyway, I wanted to get through 564 00:26:37,280 --> 00:26:39,560 Speaker 2: because I really wanted to try and have two weeks 565 00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:43,040 Speaker 2: off with my new one just too Yeah, but I didn't. 566 00:26:43,080 --> 00:26:44,879 Speaker 2: I ended up. I think I ended up going into 567 00:26:44,920 --> 00:26:48,000 Speaker 2: the office on the day on the way home stop, 568 00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:53,520 Speaker 2: which yeah, it was. It was a lot, So I've 569 00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:58,320 Speaker 2: always been really busy. It's definitely harder with Charlie than 570 00:26:58,359 --> 00:27:00,399 Speaker 2: what it was with Brodie, just because of the growth 571 00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:02,720 Speaker 2: and the expansion the business had seen. And I really 572 00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:06,040 Speaker 2: wanted to be like more present because I definitely have 573 00:27:06,119 --> 00:27:09,600 Speaker 2: regrets from when Brody was little, like really little, about 574 00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:11,959 Speaker 2: not being as present because that was when you know, 575 00:27:12,040 --> 00:27:14,200 Speaker 2: I was doing all the product uploads I was driving 576 00:27:14,200 --> 00:27:16,080 Speaker 2: into the city because I didn't want to pay twenty 577 00:27:16,080 --> 00:27:18,400 Speaker 2: five dollars for my box of freight to be delivered 578 00:27:18,400 --> 00:27:20,560 Speaker 2: to me, so I drive in to get it to 579 00:27:20,600 --> 00:27:21,800 Speaker 2: set it funny, like you. 580 00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:26,040 Speaker 1: Know, when you're starting out of business, like that example 581 00:27:26,040 --> 00:27:28,760 Speaker 1: that you just gave the things that you eventually learned 582 00:27:28,760 --> 00:27:30,240 Speaker 1: that it's better to just pay for. 583 00:27:30,520 --> 00:27:31,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, so your time. 584 00:27:31,480 --> 00:27:33,920 Speaker 1: Can Yeah you can spend your time on other things. 585 00:27:34,160 --> 00:27:36,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, if you can. But I think at the time, 586 00:27:36,359 --> 00:27:40,080 Speaker 2: like I didn't have the money, so everything went back in. 587 00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:46,040 Speaker 2: But definitely now, like I always look at outsourcing what 588 00:27:46,160 --> 00:27:48,200 Speaker 2: I'm not good at, especially all what's going to take 589 00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:50,359 Speaker 2: me heaps of time because it's not a good use 590 00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:52,680 Speaker 2: of my time. You really have to manage your time. 591 00:27:53,119 --> 00:27:56,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, and how do you manage that? Not Wow, I'm 592 00:27:56,680 --> 00:27:58,000 Speaker 1: wanting some advice here. 593 00:27:59,760 --> 00:28:02,439 Speaker 2: Not, well, I have a to do list and another 594 00:28:02,520 --> 00:28:02,800 Speaker 2: to do. 595 00:28:02,840 --> 00:28:04,720 Speaker 1: List, and then you have the to do list for 596 00:28:04,760 --> 00:28:05,320 Speaker 1: your kids. 597 00:28:05,160 --> 00:28:07,480 Speaker 2: For the to do list, Yes, yeah, because. 598 00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:09,520 Speaker 1: I feel like I know obviously know nothing about being 599 00:28:09,520 --> 00:28:11,360 Speaker 1: a mum, but like I can only imagine that being 600 00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:13,120 Speaker 1: a mum is a full time job and a half 601 00:28:13,200 --> 00:28:13,600 Speaker 1: and more. 602 00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:16,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm really lucky, Like we've got my mum helps 603 00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:21,280 Speaker 2: with the kids, So I don't have anything against nanny's 604 00:28:21,320 --> 00:28:22,919 Speaker 2: But I think that it was my regrets of not 605 00:28:22,960 --> 00:28:25,600 Speaker 2: being as present with Brody, like not his hands on, 606 00:28:25,760 --> 00:28:27,359 Speaker 2: Like it's still when I say that he was in 607 00:28:27,359 --> 00:28:29,760 Speaker 2: the office sleeping, importer cribs and stuff with me. But 608 00:28:30,240 --> 00:28:32,920 Speaker 2: it's just that mum gelt mums or no, it's mum Guelt. 609 00:28:32,960 --> 00:28:36,440 Speaker 2: And I think, you know, even when I was emergency nursing, 610 00:28:37,240 --> 00:28:39,760 Speaker 2: if I got a night shift on Christmas, I wouldn't 611 00:28:39,760 --> 00:28:42,480 Speaker 2: be at Christmas. I would be miss birthdays. But it's 612 00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:47,120 Speaker 2: because I feel like I'm choosing this life. When nursing 613 00:28:47,200 --> 00:28:49,000 Speaker 2: was like, this is your roster, this is what you 614 00:28:49,080 --> 00:28:51,200 Speaker 2: have to do, so no one ever questioned it. Where 615 00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:53,880 Speaker 2: now I'm like, well, I'm actually choosing this, which is 616 00:28:54,120 --> 00:28:57,360 Speaker 2: just not right. But it's just a mental thing. Yeah. 617 00:28:57,400 --> 00:29:01,560 Speaker 2: So my mum actually helps as nanny, but the kids 618 00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:03,560 Speaker 2: just think it's grandma. 619 00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:05,280 Speaker 1: It's actually a nanny. 620 00:29:05,440 --> 00:29:08,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, so Monday to Friday she helps in the morning 621 00:29:08,760 --> 00:29:10,800 Speaker 2: till we get home from work, like my son's at 622 00:29:10,840 --> 00:29:13,280 Speaker 2: school and Charlie goes to daycare a few days. But 623 00:29:13,320 --> 00:29:17,080 Speaker 2: she just helps keep things, you know, my shit together 624 00:29:17,360 --> 00:29:17,920 Speaker 2: a little bit. 625 00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:20,240 Speaker 1: Do you feel like you could do it all if 626 00:29:20,280 --> 00:29:21,880 Speaker 1: you didn't have the help of your mum. 627 00:29:22,360 --> 00:29:25,280 Speaker 2: I could, but Charlie would be in full time care 628 00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:28,120 Speaker 2: as well, and I like, I love her daycare and 629 00:29:28,120 --> 00:29:30,520 Speaker 2: I've got nothing against that, like Brody was in full 630 00:29:30,520 --> 00:29:33,200 Speaker 2: time care, but I just didn't want to do that 631 00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:37,320 Speaker 2: this time around. I definitely still think it's hard, just 632 00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:40,000 Speaker 2: like if they're unwell, sometimes I can't stay home with 633 00:29:40,080 --> 00:29:41,840 Speaker 2: them and all I want to do is cuddle up 634 00:29:41,880 --> 00:29:43,960 Speaker 2: with them on the couch, or you know, if I've 635 00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:45,520 Speaker 2: got a call, or if I have to go to 636 00:29:45,600 --> 00:29:48,800 Speaker 2: cans or you know, pop up shop because I don't 637 00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:51,400 Speaker 2: have the staff and we've committed to it. You know, 638 00:29:51,480 --> 00:29:52,640 Speaker 2: that's really hard. 639 00:29:52,440 --> 00:29:54,440 Speaker 1: Because you go to all of your pop up shops 640 00:29:54,520 --> 00:29:55,560 Speaker 1: right like you're there. 641 00:29:55,640 --> 00:29:58,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, I have most of them, most of them. Yeah, 642 00:29:58,520 --> 00:30:01,560 Speaker 2: I probably will have to step back from doing that 643 00:30:01,640 --> 00:30:03,400 Speaker 2: a little bit. But I still I love getting out 644 00:30:03,440 --> 00:30:05,400 Speaker 2: there and meeting the community, so I don't want to 645 00:30:05,440 --> 00:30:08,520 Speaker 2: lose that aspect. But because I do so much in 646 00:30:08,560 --> 00:30:11,840 Speaker 2: the business, if I go to a pop up shop Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday, 647 00:30:12,240 --> 00:30:15,080 Speaker 2: I lose four days because I work on the weekends. 648 00:30:15,560 --> 00:30:17,520 Speaker 1: I feel you, you know. 649 00:30:17,840 --> 00:30:20,800 Speaker 2: So I'm still catching up from a month ago when 650 00:30:20,840 --> 00:30:21,520 Speaker 2: we're in Adelaide. 651 00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:23,760 Speaker 1: I'm still recovering from Boxing Day last year. Let me 652 00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:28,760 Speaker 1: tell you, I'm still trying to get over that I 653 00:30:28,760 --> 00:30:30,520 Speaker 1: think that's one of the hard things when you are 654 00:30:31,040 --> 00:30:33,360 Speaker 1: a business owner, as well as learning that you do 655 00:30:33,440 --> 00:30:37,400 Speaker 1: need to step away from certain things. And not that 656 00:30:37,480 --> 00:30:39,480 Speaker 1: I have mum guilt or anything like that, but I 657 00:30:39,520 --> 00:30:41,200 Speaker 1: think I get like business owner guilt. 658 00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:42,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's all relative. 659 00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:45,440 Speaker 1: You know. When we open new stores, I'm always there 660 00:30:45,480 --> 00:30:47,960 Speaker 1: for the opening, but I'm there for a couple of 661 00:30:48,080 --> 00:30:50,400 Speaker 1: days or maybe a few days. And every store that 662 00:30:50,400 --> 00:30:52,360 Speaker 1: we've opened, I've been there less and less and less, 663 00:30:52,400 --> 00:30:54,000 Speaker 1: Like I be there for the time that I know 664 00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:56,240 Speaker 1: I need to be and then I know I need 665 00:30:56,280 --> 00:31:00,160 Speaker 1: to go. Whereas when we opened our second store in Sydney, 666 00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:03,720 Speaker 1: I work there for like fourteen days straight because I 667 00:31:03,840 --> 00:31:05,360 Speaker 1: was like I need to be here, like I can't 668 00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:05,960 Speaker 1: just go home. 669 00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:08,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, but you want to be there too. 670 00:31:08,120 --> 00:31:09,840 Speaker 1: Yes, that's a really hard thing. It's like you want 671 00:31:09,840 --> 00:31:12,360 Speaker 1: to be on the ground doing all the nitty gritty things. Yeah, 672 00:31:12,440 --> 00:31:14,720 Speaker 1: but then you've also got like to run the company. 673 00:31:14,960 --> 00:31:18,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, the boring stuff, the boring stuff that 674 00:31:18,400 --> 00:31:21,520 Speaker 2: no one else can do. So as fun as it 675 00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:23,560 Speaker 2: is to spend as much time in the stores and 676 00:31:23,600 --> 00:31:25,720 Speaker 2: pop ups, you've got to do the real shit. 677 00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:28,240 Speaker 1: Otherwise you're going home and getting on your otherwise again 678 00:31:28,360 --> 00:31:34,640 Speaker 1: shopery loans and you haven't meetings in the birthing suite. 679 00:31:35,960 --> 00:31:39,120 Speaker 1: What would be your advice? What would be your advice 680 00:31:39,160 --> 00:31:41,440 Speaker 1: to anyone out there that, let's say, is a mum 681 00:31:41,760 --> 00:31:45,040 Speaker 1: and they're starting up a business or they're in business 682 00:31:45,040 --> 00:31:47,120 Speaker 1: for a couple of years and they're trying to juggle 683 00:31:47,120 --> 00:31:49,600 Speaker 1: it all and scale a business, but you know, be 684 00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:52,720 Speaker 1: there as a mom, and what would be your overall 685 00:31:52,760 --> 00:31:53,400 Speaker 1: advice to them. 686 00:31:53,440 --> 00:31:55,840 Speaker 2: The best piece of advice I've ever been given was 687 00:31:55,880 --> 00:31:58,200 Speaker 2: from one of my old next door neighbors who had 688 00:31:58,240 --> 00:31:58,959 Speaker 2: five kids. 689 00:31:59,240 --> 00:31:59,560 Speaker 1: Wow. 690 00:32:00,000 --> 00:32:02,480 Speaker 2: I was just like, how the hell do you do it? Like, 691 00:32:02,480 --> 00:32:04,960 Speaker 2: I'm about to have another one. I can't even can't 692 00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:07,640 Speaker 2: even manage one. Now I'm gonna have another one. And 693 00:32:07,680 --> 00:32:09,959 Speaker 2: the best thing she ever said to me, And at 694 00:32:09,960 --> 00:32:12,160 Speaker 2: the time, I was like, that's so weird, but it 695 00:32:12,480 --> 00:32:18,400 Speaker 2: resonates was lower your standards so and you what. Yeah, 696 00:32:18,440 --> 00:32:22,400 Speaker 2: I was like, Okay, weird, but whatever, But I love her. 697 00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:24,160 Speaker 2: I love her. If she ever listens to this, I 698 00:32:24,200 --> 00:32:26,760 Speaker 2: love her. But she knows exactly what I mean. But 699 00:32:27,160 --> 00:32:30,560 Speaker 2: you know, you as a mom, especially if you're a 700 00:32:30,640 --> 00:32:33,160 Speaker 2: first time mum, like I'm definitely more relaxed as a 701 00:32:33,200 --> 00:32:36,320 Speaker 2: second second time round. But you just have this. You 702 00:32:36,360 --> 00:32:39,360 Speaker 2: put such a high amount of pressure on everything being 703 00:32:39,400 --> 00:32:41,640 Speaker 2: perfect and having all your ducks in a row, and 704 00:32:41,920 --> 00:32:44,440 Speaker 2: you know, doing everything to one hundred percent, and all 705 00:32:44,480 --> 00:32:46,520 Speaker 2: you're gonna do is stretch yourself. So you really just 706 00:32:46,560 --> 00:32:51,000 Speaker 2: need to prioritize what's actually important. Time Block your time, 707 00:32:51,160 --> 00:32:54,120 Speaker 2: even if that means, like I know this sounds terrible, 708 00:32:54,120 --> 00:32:55,760 Speaker 2: but time block the time that you're going to spend 709 00:32:55,760 --> 00:32:58,160 Speaker 2: with your kids so that you're present. There's no point 710 00:32:58,320 --> 00:33:00,440 Speaker 2: having time with them and being on your phone or 711 00:33:00,480 --> 00:33:03,440 Speaker 2: being on emails because it's not actually quality time. So 712 00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:07,160 Speaker 2: block out that time so when you get home five 713 00:33:07,160 --> 00:33:10,040 Speaker 2: o'clock whatever time it is, phones away until they're in 714 00:33:10,040 --> 00:33:12,600 Speaker 2: bed and then you can really be present. Because if 715 00:33:12,640 --> 00:33:15,800 Speaker 2: you're going to try and do work and you're trying 716 00:33:15,800 --> 00:33:17,440 Speaker 2: to be present and be with them and do all 717 00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:18,840 Speaker 2: this stuff, you're not going to be a good mum 718 00:33:18,840 --> 00:33:20,320 Speaker 2: and you're not going to get you done with. 719 00:33:20,720 --> 00:33:22,680 Speaker 1: Your work if it's going to not be right anywhere. 720 00:33:22,680 --> 00:33:24,480 Speaker 2: So you might as well block your time. So lower 721 00:33:24,520 --> 00:33:27,560 Speaker 2: your standards. Don't try and do everything at once, don't 722 00:33:27,560 --> 00:33:29,080 Speaker 2: try and keep all the balls in the air because 723 00:33:29,080 --> 00:33:32,120 Speaker 2: something's going to fall, and chances are it'll probably be you, 724 00:33:33,200 --> 00:33:36,280 Speaker 2: which is something that you want to try to prevent 725 00:33:36,280 --> 00:33:37,520 Speaker 2: because you need to be a happy mum. 726 00:33:37,560 --> 00:33:38,680 Speaker 1: You've got to put yourself first. 727 00:33:38,760 --> 00:33:40,920 Speaker 2: You do have to put yourself first, and it's not selfish, 728 00:33:40,960 --> 00:33:42,920 Speaker 2: because if you don't look after yourself, then you can't 729 00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:45,120 Speaker 2: run the business and you can't keep the children alive. 730 00:33:46,240 --> 00:33:47,120 Speaker 1: I love that advice. 731 00:33:48,080 --> 00:33:49,280 Speaker 2: See it's actually good advice. 732 00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:53,040 Speaker 1: First you thought that's lower your standards. Everyone, lower your standards. 733 00:33:53,040 --> 00:33:55,520 Speaker 2: Stop trying to be We can't have everything to everyone 734 00:33:55,560 --> 00:33:58,040 Speaker 2: all the time, and just do the bloody best you can. 735 00:33:58,640 --> 00:33:59,800 Speaker 2: I love that. Thanks. 736 00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:01,840 Speaker 1: This has been so good to have you on. 737 00:34:02,240 --> 00:34:04,120 Speaker 2: Thanks for having me. It's been so fun. 738 00:34:04,280 --> 00:34:07,479 Speaker 1: You've been absolutely natural. Oh I feel thanks. This has 739 00:34:07,520 --> 00:34:11,279 Speaker 1: been your episode the Blonde Bobs. It is everyone needs 740 00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:14,240 Speaker 1: to love with their standards and get a bob. Power Bobs, 741 00:34:14,360 --> 00:34:18,640 Speaker 1: Power Bobs. My overall takeaway from my episode with you 742 00:34:18,680 --> 00:34:23,160 Speaker 1: today has been don't get a loan. What would be 743 00:34:23,160 --> 00:34:25,319 Speaker 1: your advice around that if you could give anyone some 744 00:34:25,440 --> 00:34:27,719 Speaker 1: last We always end big Business with a tip of 745 00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:30,000 Speaker 1: the week, but maybe we can make it about taking 746 00:34:30,040 --> 00:34:32,640 Speaker 1: out loans, right, What would be your advice when it 747 00:34:32,680 --> 00:34:35,839 Speaker 1: does come to businesses and being tempted to take out 748 00:34:35,880 --> 00:34:36,200 Speaker 1: a loan. 749 00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:39,440 Speaker 2: I think that there's no room for ego in business. 750 00:34:39,560 --> 00:34:41,799 Speaker 2: You need to leave your ego at the door. So 751 00:34:42,880 --> 00:34:45,359 Speaker 2: the reason that I took out the loan was because 752 00:34:45,400 --> 00:34:47,480 Speaker 2: I didn't want to admit that I'd fucked up and 753 00:34:47,560 --> 00:34:49,759 Speaker 2: I'd made this big mistake and we were going to 754 00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:51,759 Speaker 2: have to scale back. If I had my time again, 755 00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:55,799 Speaker 2: i'd scale right back, pull in, stay strong, build that 756 00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:58,239 Speaker 2: foundation back up again and go again. I've got the 757 00:34:58,280 --> 00:35:01,360 Speaker 2: brand to be able to do that. But my ego 758 00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:01,839 Speaker 2: took over. 759 00:35:02,480 --> 00:35:03,120 Speaker 1: Very interesting. 760 00:35:03,239 --> 00:35:05,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, No one wants to admit that they've made a mistake, 761 00:35:05,880 --> 00:35:09,440 Speaker 2: you know, and especially in modern day business, which I 762 00:35:09,520 --> 00:35:12,359 Speaker 2: just wish there was more people that spoke about it. 763 00:35:12,760 --> 00:35:15,640 Speaker 2: No one wants to admit that they've failed, but so 764 00:35:15,719 --> 00:35:17,960 Speaker 2: many of us have done it at one stage or another. 765 00:35:18,520 --> 00:35:21,359 Speaker 2: It happens all the time. So leave your ego at 766 00:35:21,360 --> 00:35:21,719 Speaker 2: the door. 767 00:35:22,640 --> 00:35:28,440 Speaker 1: Mine's outside. Good. Oh this has been so good chatting 768 00:35:28,440 --> 00:35:31,480 Speaker 1: with you, Tara. You've been absolute natural and I couldn't 769 00:35:31,520 --> 00:35:34,080 Speaker 1: be more grateful that you have quite literally flown from 770 00:35:34,160 --> 00:35:37,080 Speaker 1: the gold coast to come and be on big business. 771 00:35:37,560 --> 00:35:38,719 Speaker 2: What else would I be doing? 772 00:35:39,320 --> 00:35:41,200 Speaker 1: The one hundred and ten things on your true? 773 00:35:41,360 --> 00:35:42,080 Speaker 2: It is true. 774 00:35:42,320 --> 00:35:44,600 Speaker 1: Surely you're going to make some good use of your 775 00:35:44,600 --> 00:35:45,080 Speaker 1: time in city. 776 00:35:45,160 --> 00:35:45,880 Speaker 2: You've got a bit to do. 777 00:35:46,120 --> 00:35:47,520 Speaker 1: You're going to go somewhere else after this. 778 00:35:47,640 --> 00:35:50,160 Speaker 2: I am yeah, go get a many petty. 779 00:35:50,280 --> 00:35:52,239 Speaker 1: Nice There's actually just a place around the corner that 780 00:35:52,280 --> 00:35:54,439 Speaker 1: I've been one day. It was actually pretty good. 781 00:35:55,040 --> 00:35:57,480 Speaker 2: Check it out. Thanks for having me. 782 00:35:57,600 --> 00:35:59,840 Speaker 1: Where can everyone find you? Before we head off. 783 00:36:00,080 --> 00:36:01,239 Speaker 2: At the manny Panny. 784 00:36:01,080 --> 00:36:06,920 Speaker 3: Panny, everyone can foss the petty place around the corner 785 00:36:07,000 --> 00:36:10,359 Speaker 3: where you'll be so you can chat with us at 786 00:36:10,400 --> 00:36:12,200 Speaker 3: Proudpoppyclothing dot com dot au. 787 00:36:12,560 --> 00:36:16,840 Speaker 2: We also have a store in Dorian in Victoria, Rabina 788 00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:20,880 Speaker 2: Town Central in Queensland and opening soon into Wombo and Queensland. 789 00:36:21,280 --> 00:36:23,440 Speaker 1: How exciting. And you have a personal account too if 790 00:36:23,440 --> 00:36:24,440 Speaker 1: anyone wants to follow that. 791 00:36:24,840 --> 00:36:29,400 Speaker 2: It's just Tara McKeon Tara Underscore. McKeon underscore. I think 792 00:36:30,320 --> 00:36:32,440 Speaker 2: I love it. I'm not as good as at that 793 00:36:32,520 --> 00:36:33,160 Speaker 2: stuff as you. 794 00:36:33,200 --> 00:36:35,200 Speaker 1: But your post. I like what you post. I love 795 00:36:35,280 --> 00:36:37,560 Speaker 1: that you just keep it absolutely real. I feel like 796 00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:39,640 Speaker 1: what you see is what you get with you on 797 00:36:39,719 --> 00:36:42,520 Speaker 1: Proud Poppy and on your personal account. I feel like 798 00:36:42,520 --> 00:36:43,560 Speaker 1: we're very similar in a. 799 00:36:43,920 --> 00:36:45,880 Speaker 2: Very similar and I think that's why we get along, 800 00:36:46,560 --> 00:36:47,560 Speaker 2: because we're Bogans. 801 00:36:47,719 --> 00:36:53,919 Speaker 1: Yeah. Thanks Tara, No worries,