Speaker 1: Where's Your Head At is a podcast that talks all
Speaker 1: things relationships, breakups, reality TV, trending shows, and everything in between.
Speaker 2: This is your new go to destination for laughs, gossip,
Speaker 2: intimate details, advice, and much more.
Speaker 3: I'm going to welcome out onto stage tonight your favorite
Speaker 3: two people. I hope we have one who is obsessed
Speaker 3: with dash hounds, cannot park, a little bit obsessed with himself,
Speaker 3: and the other really carefully, you know, put together, a
Speaker 3: little bit dramatic at times, and has finally recovered from
Speaker 3: her let's say, nasty cough. We hope we have Anna
Speaker 3: and Matt who.
Speaker 1: Hello, just hi, everyone in wellcome to our two million
Speaker 1: listens to.
Speaker 4: We're so excited to be here.
Speaker 2: We are welcome to the bright side. We're in bris Vegas.
Speaker 2: Why do they call it bris Vegas? You reckon a.
Speaker 4: Bit like Las Vegas?
Speaker 2: Is it? What happens in bris Vegas stays in bris Vegas? Guys?
Speaker 2: All right, well remember that and keep that so I
Speaker 2: don't share anything if I get to say too much tonight.
Speaker 1: Please you might find some red and green flags on
Speaker 1: your chair, so get them in your hand. We're going
Speaker 1: to get you guys involved tonight we're so excited.
Speaker 2: Wave your flags if you're excited to be here, wave
Speaker 2: them in the air. Not the red ones, the green ones.
Speaker 2: You shouldn't be waiting red ones, so the green ones.
Speaker 2: All right. So it's a really intimate show tonight. So
Speaker 2: we'll be interacting with you guys, and we're excited too,
Speaker 2: So if you want to say anything, feel free to,
Speaker 2: you know, speak up.
Speaker 1: We also sure we also have Melinda from Maths in
Speaker 1: the building.
Speaker 4: We're going to interview her.
Speaker 2: Wave your green flag if you're a fan of Maths.
Speaker 4: Yeah, who watched Masks? Oh that's pretty good? Osod good.
Speaker 2: Yes, this is where I admit but I did not
Speaker 2: watch any of this, so.
Speaker 4: I've got a coverage. Okay, Matt, shall we do this?
Speaker 2: Let's do it?
Speaker 4: How are you?
Speaker 2: I'm good? How are you?
Speaker 5: You?
Speaker 2: Guys should have seen the Melbourne show. Anna literally had
Speaker 2: what was it?
Speaker 1: I had like a d a humidifier and I had
Speaker 1: vics and was so unwell.
Speaker 4: It was really bad.
Speaker 2: Literally, she had like all this stuff sitting around this table.
Speaker 2: I couldn't even put my flag fun anything down. I
Speaker 2: was like, Jesus, move all this stuff.
Speaker 4: He's like I was about to.
Speaker 2: Like you're feeling better though, I'm feeling better.
Speaker 4: I gave it to you. How are you.
Speaker 2: Feeling I'm feeling okay. I've done my course of antibiotics,
Speaker 2: so I'm finished.
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay. So you're on Truth or Shot, Yes I am.
Speaker 2: So we're playing truth or Shot later, guys, So if
Speaker 2: you have any burning questions, we can answer him.
Speaker 4: How was your flight up to Brisbane as.
Speaker 2: Good as it is for someone that's six foot five
Speaker 2: nearly six foot six, pretty brutal.
Speaker 4: He loves to plug his heigh.
Speaker 1: It's just like he like, I don't know if you
Speaker 1: guys know this, you obviously listen to the podcast. He's
Speaker 1: constantly plugging that. He's six foot six, six foot five,
Speaker 1: six foot six. I mean, you change it off. I
Speaker 1: don't know what you actually are.
Speaker 2: Well, I'm one hundred and ninety seven centimeters one hundred
Speaker 2: and ninety eight if I've got my RM boots on.
Speaker 2: So if you if you think about it, that's nearly
Speaker 2: six foot six, it's six five and three quarters. Someone
Speaker 2: going to take measure because someone have a tape measure,
Speaker 2: you can measure me. We'll get it out.
Speaker 1: Well, Look, my flight up here was good for the
Speaker 1: first time ever. I'm like a very heavy packer when
Speaker 1: it comes to traveling, and for the first time ever,
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm not going to bring my twenty
Speaker 1: three kgs of luggage. Said that was silly, and then
Speaker 1: our producer around, but I was like, no, like we
Speaker 1: need twenty helos. He have some things for the show
Speaker 1: that we need to bring anyway, So then I was like, okay,
Speaker 1: So I bought the twenty heloes of luggage and then I.
Speaker 4: Still know far what did you wait over? What'd you
Speaker 4: wait twenty four?
Speaker 2: That's not too bad. I had to pay So what
Speaker 2: did you bring for two nights?
Speaker 1: Like six outfit changes? I don't know what I was thinking.
Speaker 1: I can't like pack light. It's just like not in
Speaker 1: my DNA to pack light. I don't know what do
Speaker 1: you guys think? Can anyone pack light?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 4: Okay, it's hard.
Speaker 2: I did. Okay, I packed like sixteen pairs of jocks
Speaker 2: for like two nights. I don't know why, just for
Speaker 2: some reason. It's jocks more than anything. I just read them.
Speaker 4: Times are changing underwear.
Speaker 2: I'm pretty like when I get home, like I'm pretty,
Speaker 2: you know, pretty hygienic is the word.
Speaker 6: Mum.
Speaker 1: He's doing your washing at the moment, Matt's going through
Speaker 1: bloody jocks like water.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I was saying to Anna that when I was
Speaker 2: living living out a home, I couldn't keep up with
Speaker 2: the dirty washing. So like the dirty washing would like
Speaker 2: pile laugh. But now I'm back at mums, I can't
Speaker 2: keep up with the clean washing. That pile stuff. It
Speaker 2: just keeps coming as quickly as I wear it.
Speaker 4: Red flag, Yes, sorry, what is a.
Speaker 2: Red flag about that?
Speaker 4: That is a red flag.
Speaker 1: I have to agree with you, and I'm so glad
Speaker 1: you put it up. If anyone, if either of us
Speaker 1: say anything throughout tonight, feel free to lift a red flag,
Speaker 1: lift a green flag if you like what we say.
Speaker 2: I'm sure a lot of things, yes, will be a
Speaker 2: green flag that I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Well, that you're recently single. You've posted on social media.
Speaker 1: I was gonna say you posted socially. You've posted on
Speaker 1: social media that you're dating yourself. You've been taking yourself
Speaker 1: to the movies.
Speaker 4: How's that going?
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I thought, you know what, I'm going to
Speaker 2: start dating myself. I get to know who Matt really is.
Speaker 2: Do you know what I mean? Actually, do you know
Speaker 2: what I mean?
Speaker 4: No? We don't.
Speaker 2: Actually a couple of you guys have come here by yourself.
Speaker 2: This is you're dating yourself tonight. Aren't you love it?
Speaker 2: Do you do this often?
Speaker 4: But they're coming together?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 2: No, no, they.
Speaker 4: And you met as friends. I'm my god, that's so cute.
Speaker 2: So you say, I love that for you guys, you
Speaker 2: date yourself. Why didn't you bring your boyfriend?
Speaker 4: He works away?
Speaker 2: Okay, So you go to performances by yourself and all that.
Speaker 4: I love that.
Speaker 2: See yeah, yeah, I did the movies by myself.
Speaker 4: What did you see?
Speaker 2: Barbie?
Speaker 4: What did you think of it?
Speaker 2: We've had this.
Speaker 4: Discussion, Kareen Flag. I love this.
Speaker 2: We actually disagreed on Barbie, didn't you?
Speaker 4: Yeah, put your like put your green flags up? If
Speaker 4: you liked Barbie? What about red Flags?
Speaker 2: What didn't you like?
Speaker 4: I'm in the minority.
Speaker 2: What didn't you like about that cinematic masterpiece?
Speaker 4: Don't worry, I'm with you. Okay. Has anyone seen on
Speaker 4: Netflix Choose Love? No?
Speaker 2: This is going to fall short then, No, it's not
Speaker 2: going to.
Speaker 1: Fall short at all because I'm going to tell you
Speaker 1: guys about it. So it's an interactive Netflix show. I
Speaker 1: know wild you have? Yes, you have to Okay, Okay,
Speaker 1: So this girl has three loves, and we've spoken about
Speaker 1: how everyone has three loves in their life, right, so
Speaker 1: we have your you have your first love, your toxic relationship.
Speaker 2: I don't think toxic's a right word. I think it's
Speaker 2: more like relationship. Yeah, you're learning one where you learn.
Speaker 1: From yeah, and then you have your forever lifelong partner.
Speaker 1: And also that can be people talk about like that
Speaker 1: in soulmate kind of terms like your twin flame, your soulmate,
Speaker 1: and your life partner soul mate.
Speaker 2: Yes.
Speaker 1: Anyway, this Netflix show, it's really good if you guys watch.
Speaker 4: I really liked it. I mean this is kind of
Speaker 4: like a recommendation.
Speaker 1: So basically the girl has to choose between the three
Speaker 1: different guys. So like, because it's an interactive thing, you
Speaker 1: get to pick.
Speaker 2: What is she dating them or yeah?
Speaker 1: So she's like seeing these three different guys, go on
Speaker 1: the dates with them?
Speaker 4: No, like you use the remote. So it's like should
Speaker 4: she go on a date with Rex? Yes or no?
Speaker 1: And I was like yes, And it's like should she
Speaker 1: make out with Rex? And I was like absolutely, and
Speaker 1: I was like fucking up her life?
Speaker 7: Royally, that's currently banging his head with the I've never
Speaker 7: seen that happen anyway, I completely like ruined this girl's life.
Speaker 1: But it was just so interesting that the choices you
Speaker 1: make have such an impact.
Speaker 2: You know, well, what were the impacts to this video game?
Speaker 1: Well, in my ending, she ended up with Rex, But
Speaker 1: like this, I felt like, did she the longhaired guy?
Speaker 4: How hot was he is? He? So was he? I knew?
Speaker 2: How does it work? Do you like choose? And then
Speaker 2: it like she walks?
Speaker 4: Yeah, you pick?
Speaker 2: So it's practically like a PlayStation game. Yeah, someone might
Speaker 2: play it when I get home.
Speaker 4: It's called Choose Love.
Speaker 1: If you guys want to watch it, if you guys
Speaker 1: want to determine someone's fate.
Speaker 4: I enjoyed determining her fay, even though maybe.
Speaker 1: Maybe I fucked it up, but maybe I actually put
Speaker 1: her back on the right path.
Speaker 4: Who knows.
Speaker 2: Maybe she's happy with her ex right.
Speaker 4: Now, maybe she is.
Speaker 3: Well.
Speaker 1: Look, Matt, you have recently been caught up in a
Speaker 1: PDA moment, so I thought we could talk all things
Speaker 1: PDA tonight.
Speaker 4: Yes, what's your thoughts on PDA.
Speaker 2: I'm a big fan of PDA. Wave those green or
Speaker 2: red flags if you are take out nap. You don't
Speaker 2: like po there's a.
Speaker 4: Lot of green. There's a lot of green.
Speaker 2: There's a lot of green. Yes, not really.
Speaker 4: I think I think there's a time and a place
Speaker 4: for PDA. I will say that.
Speaker 1: So like in front of friends and family, Oh no, sorry,
Speaker 1: in front of family is a no?
Speaker 4: Friends, like not really, like you can maybe peck on
Speaker 4: the lips. What do you think?
Speaker 2: I think it's fine. Like if you're really into someone,
Speaker 2: just let them go, let them, you know, have some
Speaker 2: affection to each other. Like who is it hurting?
Speaker 4: Who is what?
Speaker 2: Who is it hurting if they're you know, he said
Speaker 2: who was dirty? It's not hurting you if they're like,
Speaker 2: you know, cuddling and making out.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it could be seen as like offensive. For instance,
Speaker 1: my first media moment was happened when I was seventeen.
Speaker 1: And this is like the first time I was ever
Speaker 1: even like doing like being PDA with someone. I was seventeen.
Speaker 1: I was in a movie theater and you know when
Speaker 1: it's like really awkward and like you have your hands
Speaker 1: it's the first day. Yeah, it was the first day,
Speaker 1: and you have your hands like on the.
Speaker 2: What's it called the rest of the arms.
Speaker 1: Armress and then like your pinkies touch and slowly you
Speaker 1: like start to hold hands, and then you're holding hands
Speaker 1: and you're like make in the cinema you okay, okay,
Speaker 1: I don't know why you have to say no, that's
Speaker 1: not what happened.
Speaker 4: But we started to make.
Speaker 2: It of PDA and I'm probably not cool with that.
Speaker 4: What is wrong with you? So basically we were holding hands.
Speaker 1: Then we started to make out and once like we
Speaker 1: started like we weren't really looking like stopping, like we
Speaker 1: were like into it.
Speaker 4: I was into it, he was into it.
Speaker 1: But I just heard this like like tutting.
Speaker 2: How fool was the cinema?
Speaker 1: It wasn't that busy, Like I didn't think it was
Speaker 1: that busy, but there was this like woman with like
Speaker 1: two kids behind me and she was tutting at me.
Speaker 4: And I turned around and she like scowled at me.
Speaker 2: I hate that. That's so bad. But I guess you
Speaker 2: shouldn't have straddled him in the movie theater, though I didn't.
Speaker 2: I did.
Speaker 1: We were literally like like very PG stuff.
Speaker 4: You know.
Speaker 2: Well, I've been watching Seinfeld recently. Has does anyone watch Seinfouda?
Speaker 2: Those flags? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Watch it?
Speaker 4: So I don't know you're gonna have to explain this one.
Speaker 2: So the episode was they sit in the booth together
Speaker 2: on the same side. Couple. Who thinks that's acceptable? If
Speaker 2: you're going to you go out for dinner with your
Speaker 2: partner and you see it on the same side of
Speaker 2: the table, you don't sit opposite each other.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so you can.
Speaker 1: So you're on a date and you're like in a
Speaker 1: restaurant with a booth, I would sit I would want
Speaker 1: to sit beside this.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I think that's who would want to sit beside them? Yeah, yeah, Okay,
Speaker 4: you're like you're a red flag. You're like, no, stay
Speaker 4: away from me.
Speaker 2: You wouldn't want to sit next to him.
Speaker 1: Also, so you want to have like a good chat
Speaker 1: you want to okay yep, yeah yeah, not unless.
Speaker 4: You're forcing it.
Speaker 2: I think you should sit next to each other.
Speaker 1: It's cute, okay, Yeah, Like I want to look at
Speaker 1: you deep in your eyes.
Speaker 4: I don't know, it depends. It depends what type of
Speaker 4: date it is.
Speaker 1: I think if it's like a first to fifth oh no,
Speaker 1: I still want to sit side Michael.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you'd want to sit on the side piers and
Speaker 2: be affectionate.
Speaker 4: Anyway, where are you going, well, that's.
Speaker 2: Where I was going. I was asking everyone who thought
Speaker 2: they would.
Speaker 1: Do Oh god, Well, what's interesting is Matt's like a
Speaker 1: big pier and his sister once told me a story
Speaker 1: of Matt and Pda.
Speaker 4: Do you want to tell that stuff?
Speaker 2: So years ago I went to the movies with my
Speaker 2: ex and our family and we were sitting in the
Speaker 2: theater and when we left, I was like, what do
Speaker 2: you guys think of the movie? What do you think?
Speaker 2: Blah blah blah, And they're like, yeah, it was good.
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, I'd probably give it a nine
Speaker 2: out of ten. I reckon, it wasn't too bad. My
Speaker 2: sister's like, as if you even watched any of you
Speaker 2: guys were just making out and groping the whole time.
Speaker 4: Do you see what I mean? That's not normal.
Speaker 2: Like when you're young, you're in love, it's fine.
Speaker 1: If I saw my brother making out with someone, I
Speaker 1: would be disgusted.
Speaker 4: I would want to vom.
Speaker 2: What about your parents?
Speaker 1: Oh no, has anyone ever seen their parents' kiss on
Speaker 1: the lips? It's really repulsive. I'm like, guys, take it else, swear.
Speaker 2: I actually remember this one time. It was like New
Speaker 2: Year's Day and I was eating my breakfast at the bench,
Speaker 2: and then it was when my parents were together and
Speaker 2: my dad came down and my mum was doing the
Speaker 2: dishes and he gave her like a pinch on the ass,
Speaker 2: and I remember being like, I was like, no, it's
Speaker 2: haunted me. Still haunting me. Now. I was like, I
Speaker 2: don't know.
Speaker 1: What it is about being a kid, but you just
Speaker 1: don't want to see like any sort of like I
Speaker 1: mean like maybe like holding hands. My parents would always
Speaker 1: hold hands, but I mean anything like other than holding hands.
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, well, look, do you reckon that PDA
Speaker 1: is because of someone's what's it called their language?
Speaker 4: Love languages? Thank you? Do you think that it's maybe
Speaker 4: when they're a physical touch type of person? Yeah?
Speaker 2: Yeah, screen flags?
Speaker 1: Okay, so what is the five love languages. There's words
Speaker 1: of affirmation, physical touch, receiving gifts, quality times, and acts
Speaker 1: of service. Okay, so we're gonna play game. You guys
Speaker 1: can pick two each to put a green flag up to,
Speaker 1: and we want to see what everyone is. So words of.
Speaker 2: Affirmation, So words of affirmation is like telling you you
Speaker 2: love them, you think they're good looking? Are you? Words
Speaker 2: of affirmation?
Speaker 4: Okay, physical touch definitely one. I'm waving learning my green flag.
Speaker 2: I'm physical. What about what about receiving gifts?
Speaker 4: Only one and a half? Okay, quality time.
Speaker 2: We're going to get to quality time in a second,
Speaker 2: so probably wave the flag. Then all right, we're up
Speaker 2: to quality time.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm introducing quality time.
Speaker 4: Thank you.
Speaker 2: No, I'm quality time as well.
Speaker 4: Okay. Well.
Speaker 1: Interestingly, in twenty eighteen, Hinge analyzed their app and found
Speaker 1: the most common love language was quality.
Speaker 4: Time ding ding.
Speaker 2: There's nothing I love more than like, you know, watching
Speaker 2: a movie titdling and like that's quality time, don't you know?
Speaker 2: Is that quality time and physical touch together? I saw
Speaker 2: this TikTok today or yesterday, I can't remember. It was
Speaker 2: of Ja Shetty. Do you know Shetty? Thet I'm halfway
Speaker 2: through reading his book, I think like a monk. Has
Speaker 2: anyone read that? No green flag? Yeah? When I say
Speaker 2: like halfway through, like I'm getting there, I'll finish it eventually.
Speaker 4: He's a slow reader.
Speaker 2: I'm a slow reader. But he said on the TikTok
Speaker 2: that spend like quality time is not watching a movie
Speaker 2: with your partner.
Speaker 4: Yeah, what do you think of that? Guys?
Speaker 2: I was like, shut up. I was like, I love
Speaker 2: doing that.
Speaker 4: I love doing that.
Speaker 1: Yeah. But also like I think maybe he means like
Speaker 1: if you just like turn on the TV and the
Speaker 1: news is on and you're.
Speaker 2: Both sitting there, like maybe like you're sitting both sitting
Speaker 2: on your phones and just got the TV on in
Speaker 2: the background. But if you're both watching the movie and
Speaker 2: you're both into it, I think that's quality time.
Speaker 1: There's nothing better than having a series that you're really
Speaker 1: into with your partner and you like get home from
Speaker 1: work and you're like, oh my god, I can't wait.
Speaker 4: To watch there.
Speaker 2: I do. I do love that.
Speaker 4: Yeah, recommendations for me really?
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: She's like, yeah, absolutely, Well, we're all speaking about PDA,
Speaker 1: but I've actually been having a little bit of a
Speaker 1: dry spell recently.
Speaker 4: What do you mean, I haven't had sex like three weeks.
Speaker 4: It's the longest since we actually started dating. I know.
Speaker 1: She's very show flagging myself.
Speaker 2: So why aren't you and Michael sleeping together?
Speaker 4: Well, we got back from Europe, which was.
Speaker 2: So you slip together heaps in Europe?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean we're.
Speaker 2: In Europe, just different hotels. What just in each hotel? Yeah,
Speaker 2: we said that hotel. Sex is different, gravy.
Speaker 4: Different gravy.
Speaker 2: It's good times.
Speaker 4: It really is good. Ah do you guys agree surely?
Speaker 1: Yeah, Yeah, she's like changed great group, Like, yeah it is,
Speaker 1: it's great. But I got home got really sick. As
Speaker 1: you guys know, I don't want to half on about
Speaker 1: it too much.
Speaker 2: We've all heard about it. We've all seen this Instagram.
Speaker 1: But yeah, I just was so sick that we couldn't
Speaker 1: have sex. But I think after this weekend, I think, like,
Speaker 1: it's so.
Speaker 2: You just didn't do anything. You just didn't get go
Speaker 2: to second base? What's second base? What's second base?
Speaker 4: The base?
Speaker 1: Do we know the bases? I don't know the bases.
Speaker 1: When people talk about the bases, I'm like.
Speaker 2: So you just you just haven't been in the mid.
Speaker 4: Say we have got to second base. I don't know
Speaker 4: what it is. We don't need to go into it.
Speaker 2: How's Michael finding it?
Speaker 4: Yeah, he's excited for me to get home from Brittin.
Speaker 2: Because I've noticed with my AHD, like apparently it's a trait,
Speaker 2: like your libido goes like one minute it's up and
Speaker 2: then the next minute like just crashes and you're not
Speaker 2: in the mood. For it at all? Yeah, is that
Speaker 2: what's happening to you?
Speaker 1: Well, Okay, Matt Always, I don't know if you guys
Speaker 1: have heard on the podcast, but Matt Always like thinks
Speaker 1: that he's been recently diagnosed with ADHD and he tries
Speaker 1: to tell me that I have ADHD.
Speaker 2: Does anyone else think that green flags?
Speaker 4: You can't green flag, red flag? Has AHD? Worried?
Speaker 1: He's like, yeah, definitely, he's thinking about his partner's like,
Speaker 1: don't put up a flag.
Speaker 2: Anna does show a lot of the traits, and I'm like, I.
Speaker 4: Mean, I am very all or nothing. I will say
Speaker 4: that Tray, I'm fat. I don't know what to say.
Speaker 1: I don't I don't know. We'll see. Maybe I'll get tested.
Speaker 1: That can be like journey is it tested?
Speaker 2: It's like examined. I guess is assessed? Assessed would be
Speaker 2: the right word.
Speaker 4: Yeah, assessed?
Speaker 2: Right?
Speaker 4: I should get that right?
Speaker 3: Right?
Speaker 2: Before we keep rambling on should we get Guess out here?
Speaker 1: I think it is time to get our guests out.
Speaker 1: Let's welcome to the stage, Melinda from that Hello, Melinda,
Speaker 1: welcome to wh're Oh the microphone's just fallen down. That's okay,
Speaker 1: do you want to fix that. Matt sounds like a
Speaker 1: mat job. Welcome to Where Is at Your Head? Out
Speaker 1: Live Melinda?
Speaker 2: We test one too.
Speaker 4: We're excited to have her, aren't we.
Speaker 1: Guys, put your green flags in the egg.
Speaker 4: Give a big round of applause.
Speaker 6: Thank you everyone.
Speaker 4: Have you ever done a live show before?
Speaker 6: I don't think I have.
Speaker 4: We're popping your cherry.
Speaker 2: Look how lo I am? So you just came from
Speaker 2: a podcast? So did you ready for this one?
Speaker 6: My second one for today?
Speaker 2: It was exciting.
Speaker 4: They saved the best to last because the soun's laugh.
Speaker 1: Well, look, let's talk a little bit about mass.
Speaker 4: Firstly, what made you apply for the show?
Speaker 6: I was literally single for like four years. And when
Speaker 6: I say single, I mean like I had broken up
Speaker 6: with an ex that I thought was like a toxic
Speaker 6: relationship working on whatever you said toxic relationship learning was
Speaker 6: a learning was VERI And then I just went into
Speaker 6: this self development phase for like two years before I
Speaker 6: went on one date. The date was really awkward and
Speaker 6: I didn't want to do it again. And then I
Speaker 6: went on another two years to just be single, and
Speaker 6: I was like literally going to be single forever. So yeah, no, seriously,
Speaker 6: I was watching the final vows of the season before me,
Speaker 6: and I was like, I don't know. I just grabbed
Speaker 6: the phone. I had no makeup on, nothing. It was
Speaker 6: like really late at night, and I just did my
Speaker 6: application and centered in and was like, yeah, I'm going
Speaker 6: to go on here and I'm going to find my
Speaker 6: man get a girl.
Speaker 4: And you did, and she did and I did.
Speaker 2: You finished with light.
Speaker 6: Everyone makes out they didn't watch the show, and I
Speaker 6: know you did.
Speaker 4: He's like, you called me, Oh yeah, you called it.
Speaker 2: No, I'll tune into it here and there.
Speaker 6: Yeah, And who was your favorite?
Speaker 4: Ah, well, we spoke to Claire.
Speaker 2: Yes, Claire, Claire, it's my favorite.
Speaker 6: I'm not trying to tell you're not not friends with Claire.
Speaker 2: No, Okay, she wasn't my favorite at all. I just
Speaker 2: love the show. You're my favorite.
Speaker 6: Thank you very much.
Speaker 1: Well, look, you said before that before you met Leyton,
Speaker 1: you're in a toxic relationship.
Speaker 4: Does that mean that Layton is your forever love?
Speaker 6: I feel like there's just like people that are your person,
Speaker 6: and I think there's so much like pressure on this,
Speaker 6: like forever in love, love, love, loves Sorry. I feel
Speaker 6: like you've just got to find your best match, your
Speaker 6: best person. That obviously makes you feel in love.
Speaker 2: But then you saw me, like you feel more pressure
Speaker 2: as while coming off a show fishing together, I don't
Speaker 2: say the word forever.
Speaker 4: I'm like, oh no.
Speaker 6: Then everyone's like, okay, cool, get married, have babies, do
Speaker 6: all this.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I finished our show with someone, and then
Speaker 2: you obviously felt pressure.
Speaker 1: I felt like the biggest amount of pressure to stay together,
Speaker 1: and we probably stayed together way too long because of it.
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that's your situation at all, but that
Speaker 1: was just my personal experience. Like I feel like reality
Speaker 1: TV does put a lot of pressure on you, So
Speaker 1: I don't know if you feel that type of pressure.
Speaker 6: There's definitely a lot of pressure to it. But me
Speaker 6: and like we're really good at like shutting out that
Speaker 6: noise and like just even during the experiment, shutting out
Speaker 6: the cameras, we were really really good at it. Probably
Speaker 6: like too good at it. That's why you saw like
Speaker 6: a whole heap of shit go down, like a lot
Speaker 6: of fights. But definitely after it, like it when we
Speaker 6: watched it, we couldn't walk together anymore because we would
Speaker 6: literally end up back in that exact same bite. And
Speaker 6: then we wouldn't talk for like a whole week. Then
Speaker 6: we'd missed all the episodes, and then we went away
Speaker 6: for Valentine's Day and we were we hadn't watched Masks
Speaker 6: for like a whole week, and then we were like,
Speaker 6: should we just watch one episode? We think this one's
Speaker 6: a nice memory, and then we put it on ship
Speaker 6: it's a van again and we're like not talking on
Speaker 6: Valentine's Day, so it's like we keep reliving it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, we didn't.
Speaker 2: We didn't have that when we were on our show.
Speaker 2: It was like the next day, so we didn't have
Speaker 2: to really like that'd be weird, you know, film me, yeah.
Speaker 6: Because we were good, like we were in our best
Speaker 6: spot ever and we were like we are forever, like
Speaker 6: we've got this. Yeah, and then the bloody show aired well.
Speaker 1: Mass is renowned for being toxic and so like, of course,
Speaker 1: I think even the most like neutral, calm loving couples
Speaker 1: are going to just be like hit with this crazy
Speaker 1: like drama.
Speaker 4: So I can only imagine that it would have just
Speaker 4: Rea brought up all of the issues.
Speaker 6: Because like you, they call them boxes. You chat to
Speaker 6: this camera and it's like a deer diary. And when
Speaker 6: you're doing it. You don't ever think it's gonna like
Speaker 6: get out right. You just think like your producers, your
Speaker 6: best friend, You're gonna tell them everything. But then when
Speaker 6: it airs, you're like ship the boxy is like, I'm
Speaker 6: gonna hear what he said behind my back. He's gonna
Speaker 6: hear what I've said.
Speaker 2: And then it's just like, all did they did they
Speaker 2: frank and buy anything of yours?
Speaker 6: What is frank?
Speaker 4: Do you want to explain it?
Speaker 2: So it's like when say they put together, so they
Speaker 2: say they air like b roll on the screen, and
Speaker 2: then they put your voice together and it's like today
Speaker 2: I went to and you know they cut it together.
Speaker 6: Yeah, they did that in the wedding. I don't know
Speaker 6: if anyone remembers the wedding.
Speaker 4: I do remember the wedding.
Speaker 6: But there was a lot of like, oh, this is
Speaker 6: not worth my time, I don't want to be here,
Speaker 6: like and they put that on the wedding.
Speaker 2: Day worth and it's like, doesn't make sense.
Speaker 6: And it then said something like it brought my businesses
Speaker 6: in and it was just like this beach hatch job.
Speaker 6: But they did it a lot like with the other
Speaker 6: couples at the commitment ceremonies. You literally hear like the
Speaker 6: change of the change of audio, and it changes everything
Speaker 6: that happened that night. It's yeah, it's pretty like crazy
Speaker 6: to watch back, but they get the essence of the room.
Speaker 4: I suppose.
Speaker 1: So how are you feeling after the first episode if
Speaker 1: that was your most edited clip where you like, holy shit,
Speaker 1: I'm for a huge ride here.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I wasn't. Okay, Like I'm a pretty strong, resilient person,
Speaker 6: but I, like I've said this a few times. I
Speaker 6: was literally like, oh, people don't know me. It doesn't matter, Like,
Speaker 6: you know, I have all my family, all my friends,
Speaker 6: like all my clients. There's one in the audience, but
Speaker 6: you know I had all these people. And then I
Speaker 6: was like it's gonna bypass, Like it literally bypasses your
Speaker 6: mind and into your soul and you can't shake it.
Speaker 6: Because it's not these comments that you can't stop reading
Speaker 6: because there's like two thousand of them and you're like
Speaker 6: going through them and you're looking for this one nice
Speaker 6: one and it's nowhere, Like that's how edited this is.
Speaker 6: It's like they make you hate this person. And then
Speaker 6: it's more it's not the comments, it's more you're looking
Speaker 6: at it. You're looking at you on the screen and
Speaker 6: you're like, that's not me, and these people are coming
Speaker 6: at me saying that to me, but it's not me,
Speaker 6: and it's just mind fuck.
Speaker 2: So would you say your edit was true to who
Speaker 2: you are or was it a bit?
Speaker 6: I would say overall, mate ed, it was true to
Speaker 6: who I am, like super opinionated, like yeah, no filter,
Speaker 6: call people out for bullshit like I do that. That's
Speaker 6: I definitely agree that. I have three brothers, so I've
Speaker 6: done it my whole life. That Harrison was just like
Speaker 6: not even a yeah, he was not even he was
Speaker 6: never gonna win.
Speaker 4: Yeah much. He was worse in real life, right, Harrison?
Speaker 2: That the Muppet? Yeah, that guy.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 6: But the wedding day, I guess it was me, but
Speaker 6: more in a sarcastic version of me. So, but they
Speaker 6: way they took out the context and put it together
Speaker 6: was like I was this nasty person, yeah, and that
Speaker 6: I didn't like, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 4: What other couples did you think would last?
Speaker 6: So I thought, well, we all thought, because it was
Speaker 6: like this, you always got asked by the producer, who's
Speaker 6: gonna last? Who's gonna last? We all thought of Listener
Speaker 6: and Duncan. Surprisingly, we've all thought Cam and Lyndall surprisingly
Speaker 6: I thought them too, yeah, yeah, and Tiny and Ollie,
Speaker 6: Yeah they're cute. Yeah, but I mean I didn't know
Speaker 6: about me and Layton. I was hoping, but we were
Speaker 6: so rocky all the time. Yeah, but then everyone else
Speaker 6: thought we would last.
Speaker 4: So who knows.
Speaker 2: Well, how's it been since coming off the show now?
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's much better being completely like removed from the show,
Speaker 6: and things are much better because you actually start to
Speaker 6: really learn this person.
Speaker 7: Now.
Speaker 6: You think you know them right because you live with
Speaker 6: them for three months, and then it airs and you
Speaker 6: think you know them a bit more because you've seen
Speaker 6: them a bit more. And then yeah, so we've gone rocky.
Speaker 6: We've gone like exactly like you see it's on the
Speaker 6: show now in real life. But we used to fight
Speaker 6: every four days, and then we'd go to the commitment
Speaker 6: ceremony and we'd be good, and then one time we'd
Speaker 6: be really good, and then we'd be bad, and it
Speaker 6: just always ended up on the commitment ceremony that we
Speaker 6: were always good. So everyone started to be like, you
Speaker 6: guys are faking it, like you know, but in real
Speaker 6: life now the stints are like more like a good month,
Speaker 6: a bad day. Yeah you know, yeah, yeah, so it's
Speaker 6: were much much much better.
Speaker 4: What did you learn about lake it and Layton was
Speaker 4: out Melbourne?
Speaker 2: Yes?
Speaker 1: What did you learn about Layton after coming off the show?
Speaker 1: When the cameras switched off because I know Ireland a
Speaker 1: few everything was.
Speaker 6: Yeahls, they definitely do.
Speaker 1: But I mean that's dating, right, Like even when you
Speaker 1: start dating someone like you kind of like try to
Speaker 1: show the best version of you forward, that's not forward.
Speaker 6: I feel like guys do that a lot. Actually, I
Speaker 6: feel like guys are definitely a catfish when it comes
Speaker 6: to like traits, personality and girls.
Speaker 4: Do you guys looks like flag right? Flag from the understood?
Speaker 6: What was the question.
Speaker 4: In the beginning?
Speaker 6: I was so scared to ask that.
Speaker 1: I just like the question was what did you find
Speaker 1: out about later?
Speaker 6: Yes? I would say that Layton's a lot more sensitive
Speaker 6: than I realized, and that he's more like he's during
Speaker 6: the show. I was always like, you don't care about me,
Speaker 6: make me a priority, like you know, it was like
Speaker 6: always this wingy thing. But then I realized that his
Speaker 6: love language is not words, it's action. Yeah, so he
Speaker 6: can't like genuinely say the words I love you, but
Speaker 6: he can write it in a letter, he can put
Speaker 6: it in an email, and he can do these actions
Speaker 6: where it's like this cute little surprise picnic, you know,
Speaker 6: and the sun said and like all these things. So
Speaker 6: I learned that I have to learn Laighton's love language.
Speaker 2: Did you get angry at him one time because he
Speaker 2: didn't stick up for you in an argument with Harris
Speaker 2: and I didn't? Yeah, it looked I remember that. I
Speaker 2: remember that now.
Speaker 6: Man, we were there for four hours.
Speaker 4: This was a retreat.
Speaker 2: It was the episode that I had to watch him
Speaker 2: in the hotel. I thought I was going on that
Speaker 2: podcast and I was getting full anxiety watching.
Speaker 1: Did Maths podcast and that was forced into watching this
Speaker 1: episode and it was like I'm stressed, I'm anxious.
Speaker 2: I was like me out. I was like, oh, I
Speaker 2: remember that scene.
Speaker 6: Yeah, you would, I do too. That was one that
Speaker 6: we stopped talking to for a week.
Speaker 2: Over but talking to myself, I was stressful, as yeah, I.
Speaker 6: Feel like you didn't really see much of me and
Speaker 6: lighton for the first three to four weeks, and then
Speaker 6: from retreat it was like bam, yeah, like you knew
Speaker 6: who we were probably not in a good way. But yeah,
Speaker 6: that went for four hours, and I was trying to say, like,
Speaker 6: this guy is trying to meddle in our relationship and
Speaker 6: Layton was like, no, but I had your back. I
Speaker 6: had your back at Boys' Night and I was like, yes,
Speaker 6: but he's saying you didn't. And he's like, but I did,
Speaker 6: And I'm like, but I'm not saying that you didn't.
Speaker 6: I'm saying that he's making out you didn't. End It
Speaker 6: went on for four hours and producers pulled him aside
Speaker 6: to say, lat you're not getting it. You just got
Speaker 6: to have a back. Yeah, and then it edited like
Speaker 6: I was going crazy in the kitchen.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I remember that I.
Speaker 6: Was going crazy.
Speaker 4: Fair enough, I'll go crazy to have my back. Got
Speaker 4: to have your girls back.
Speaker 2: That's just like free. Okay. So it was the most
Speaker 2: shocking moment at a dinner party because I've seen pretty wild.
Speaker 2: They say, my everybody's fueled up with Pierce. What was
Speaker 2: the most you know, shocking moment.
Speaker 6: I feel like the dinner parties were all pretty wild. Yeah,
Speaker 6: they go for like fourteen hours and they.
Speaker 2: Were Yeah, it's a long time.
Speaker 6: You get ready at ten am and then you get
Speaker 6: home at like three am, and the commitment ceremonies go
Speaker 6: to six am because the sun comes up and they
Speaker 6: have to stop. So you're looking at like some pretty
Speaker 6: pressure cooker and moments some pretty like wear all nut jobs.
Speaker 6: That's how you get on mosk and then put some
Speaker 6: alcohol in there. They cut us off. They cut us
Speaker 6: off after two drinks. So everyone goes in there and
Speaker 6: they try and drink as much as they can before
Speaker 6: they take it. So some have the two and some
Speaker 6: have six. Yeah, and then you won't see them that
Speaker 6: episode because they're not allowed to chat to the camera,
Speaker 6: so they pull them. Yeah, so you go to your
Speaker 6: boxing and you're like super drunk, and if you really
Speaker 6: don't want to be boxied or chatted camera, you're just
Speaker 6: actually yeah really but yeah, wild the butt dial scene,
Speaker 6: I mean that was pretty wild. Yeah we know it
Speaker 6: was stage now, but it.
Speaker 4: Was yeah, wow, that's some TV. Because I didn't know that.
Speaker 4: Did you guys know that you knew?
Speaker 6: Okay, yeah, I didn't actually know at the time. I
Speaker 6: only got told after and I was already in there
Speaker 6: defending and fighting, and then when I got told, I
Speaker 6: was like, this is not going to look good, like
Speaker 6: for the people involved, but yeah, so, but d happened
Speaker 6: like there was three one minute calls, but they didn't
Speaker 6: hear like Evelyn didn't hear Dan, which Dan was never
Speaker 6: on the other line, so as you made it up,
Speaker 6: she only heard Hugo and Rupert came home drunk and
Speaker 6: told Evelyn everything and that Sandy wasn't getting along with Dan. Sorry.
Speaker 6: Sandy was friends with Evelyn and told her can you
Speaker 6: say this? That you heard this? And then they went
Speaker 6: to the dinner and when we heard.
Speaker 1: This look speaking of Evelyn. We just want to really
Speaker 1: briefly talk.
Speaker 4: About them, but do we.
Speaker 1: I mean, we don't have to, but I just wanted
Speaker 1: to ask one thing because I feel like everyone in
Speaker 1: the mass cast has fallen out with Evelyn Duncan, and
Speaker 1: I just want to know why.
Speaker 6: Without getting into it, I feel like you you definitely
Speaker 6: form your friends on there, and you think you know people,
Speaker 6: but there are cameras around and some people are there
Speaker 6: knowing that there's like all these viewers on the other side,
Speaker 6: so you'll build like a bond with them and a
Speaker 6: rapport with them, and as soon as you come off
Speaker 6: the show and it starts airing, it's like the masks
Speaker 6: come off the colors change, and we just we went
Speaker 6: from being best friends to just completely not aligning on
Speaker 6: many things that I just couldn't morally align with.
Speaker 1: Well, you seem like a very genuine person, so I
Speaker 1: can imagine that's obviously a hard pill to swallow if
Speaker 1: you know you've made like a what you thought was
Speaker 1: a bond on there.
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's I feel like it's a bit of a
Speaker 6: sad breakup, that one, because we did go through like
Speaker 6: a lot of shit in that show. We went through
Speaker 6: together like bush scene if you guys watched, wasn't that
Speaker 6: like the best thing ever? We got in so much
Speaker 6: trouble for them. We ran into the bush to spy
Speaker 6: on the boys in like manure everything. I still had
Speaker 6: the heels. I could auction them. Do you think that
Speaker 6: I pay them sage them?
Speaker 5: No?
Speaker 6: Yeah, so there was some good time.
Speaker 4: Friendship breakups are really hard. I don't know if you
Speaker 4: guys have been through a friendship breakup, but they are.
Speaker 4: People don't talk about it enough. Yeah.
Speaker 6: I feel like sometimes people that get in like you
Speaker 6: get into a relationship and then that friend's kind of
Speaker 6: like gone. It's like, yeah, they get into a relationship
Speaker 6: and everything changes. Yeah, you know, and that's kind of
Speaker 6: what happened there as well.
Speaker 4: So well, what's what's happening this year for you? What
Speaker 4: have you got?
Speaker 2: Saw in your story the other day and it's pretty exciting.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm doing some things we want to know. Well,
Speaker 6: I don't know if many of you guys know, but
Speaker 6: obviously have feather Sisters, my online brand. So I'm trying
Speaker 6: to look through a new product, send through any ideas
Speaker 6: that you have because I'm in product development mode. I
Speaker 6: want something really exciting. And then we're just launched, very
Speaker 6: softly launched, like our clothing label, Boss Are Store amazing.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 6: Yeah, so we now need to just like learn how
Speaker 6: to do fashion because I don't really but we're going
Speaker 6: to figure it out and launch a few more collections
Speaker 6: of that. I've got my someone up and running, which
Speaker 6: is just lashes.
Speaker 2: Brows nails here Brisbane.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's just down the road amazing.
Speaker 1: Ye needs slashing, yeah, if you need somethings.
Speaker 6: And then I've been doing some collaborations so yeah, some
Speaker 6: big deals.
Speaker 2: Big year coming in then in twenty four.
Speaker 4: I love the Boss energy. It's so good. Lots of
Speaker 4: lots of brands, lots of I.
Speaker 6: Know it's so weird, like even I think I was
Speaker 6: saying before, Like even like panels coming up where I'm
Speaker 6: sitting on the stage amongst like really big CEOs and
Speaker 6: really big people that like are actually doing proper boss stuff, right,
Speaker 6: and then I'm like, well, why am I sitting here
Speaker 6: because I did a reality show. But we're going to
Speaker 6: fake it till we make it. If you see me
Speaker 6: on that panel.
Speaker 4: You will smash it.
Speaker 2: Smash.
Speaker 1: Thank you so much for coming to wears your head out,
Speaker 1: like can we get.
Speaker 2: Thank you?
Speaker 3: I get.
Speaker 8: I'm doing seen.
Speaker 1: Before, bears ain't come, but extreme the sure, I'm a
Speaker 1: demon lord love what I ain't seen.
Speaker 6: The horse card job duffer, save the sauce.
Speaker 4: See made something that I need no more.
Speaker 1: Because bitch I said what they said.
Speaker 6: I rarely be famous, sister.
Speaker 1: You guys have been an awesome audience. Honestly, I love
Speaker 1: the interactions. Keep them coming.
Speaker 2: Okay, guys, wave around those green flags like you just
Speaker 2: don't care because it's time for red flag, green flag.
Speaker 2: Quick shout out to my mum Jeanine. She made them all.
Speaker 2: Thank you, appreciate you, thank you.
Speaker 1: If you're listening, Janine, you'll be getting your manicure and pedicure.
Speaker 4: Our biggest that. I love it. Okay, Matt should that
Speaker 4: with an easy one.
Speaker 1: Yes, let's go, Okay, get those flags at the ready.
Speaker 1: Red flag green flag says things like sleigh.
Speaker 2: Do they do they like? I mean, if you're saying
Speaker 2: it in like an if you're saying it in like
Speaker 2: an ironic way, like slay girl, get him Like that's
Speaker 2: that's pretty funny. Like I would allow that.
Speaker 1: I love the way that Matt says, Sligh, do that
Speaker 1: one more time, that's pretty funny.
Speaker 2: If they said it like that, I reckon. But and
Speaker 2: if they're doing it seriously, then no.
Speaker 1: Red flag Okay uses frank Green as an emotional support bottle.
Speaker 2: I use mine? I actually, I actually wait, why do
Speaker 2: you think it's a red flag? Sorry?
Speaker 8: Yetti all the way a yetti bottle?
Speaker 2: And apparently there's a new one as well, Stanley or something.
Speaker 4: You Stanley, Okay, she's got both, got both, which is better? Stanley?
Speaker 8: Matt?
Speaker 2: I left my Frank Green bottle back at home, sorry
Speaker 2: in the hotel, and I did say it's.
Speaker 4: Been emotional ever since we're in reception.
Speaker 2: I was like, fuck, should I go back up? Alright?
Speaker 2: I've got one. This one's a bit close to home.
Speaker 2: I personal they don't know how to parallel park. Mat
Speaker 2: I know how to parallel park. I just prefer not
Speaker 2: too after it lost me twenty thousand dollars.
Speaker 4: Is the worst driver ever?
Speaker 2: I'm not bad.
Speaker 8: Why is it a red flag for you ab to
Speaker 8: parallel park? Yeah, they need to be able to parallel
Speaker 8: park her car as well.
Speaker 2: Okay, look, I don't not know how to parallel park.
Speaker 2: I prefer to do.
Speaker 4: Another accidentally crashed into someone.
Speaker 2: To find another caspot before I parallel park.
Speaker 4: I know what. I think.
Speaker 1: It's an ich of mine when a guy can't parallel park,
Speaker 1: so much so that I've actually taught one of my
Speaker 1: ex friends how to parallel path because I was sick
Speaker 1: of him driving past the only spot and then we'd
Speaker 1: have to drive around for like five hours.
Speaker 2: I was like, Oh, that's me at the moment till
Speaker 2: I get my confidence back.
Speaker 4: Your frank green bottle and you're driving.
Speaker 2: I don't even have my frank green bottle.
Speaker 4: Down, So okay.
Speaker 1: Their phone is always dying or low on battery. Red
Speaker 1: flag or green flag? Ooh, a lot of red flags?
Speaker 2: Why is that a red flag?
Speaker 1: Because you should charge it or not be on your
Speaker 1: phone as much. Anyone, anyone want to explain.
Speaker 2: I want to explain why that's are you're waving the flag,
Speaker 2: but who you've been texting?
Speaker 8: And why it's not me?
Speaker 4: You've not texted me? No, who is it?
Speaker 2: They are always running twenty minutes late.
Speaker 8: Everyone's read out here.
Speaker 4: I mean that's always late. No, you're you're always late.
Speaker 2: As late as each other.
Speaker 4: The MAT's is.
Speaker 1: Really late or he's like extremely early. He's like so
Speaker 1: like one or the other one or the other one
Speaker 1: or the other.
Speaker 2: Okay, I've got a good one. Actually, go for it
Speaker 2: this one actually, Okay, I'm wondering what people think. So
Speaker 2: say your partner goes out with their friends and they
Speaker 2: don't text you while they're out. Red flag or green flag?
Speaker 8: We have one green?
Speaker 2: Why do you think?
Speaker 4: I don't care?
Speaker 2: You're chilly, you're secure as fuck.
Speaker 4: I don't care. He can secure right here in the front.
Speaker 4: I love it.
Speaker 2: Why is that a red flag?
Speaker 9: Like it doesn't need to be constant, but just a
Speaker 9: little check in every once in a while to make
Speaker 9: sure you're right.
Speaker 2: No one is too busy that they can't message you
Speaker 2: within like you know, every hour or so, Like you
Speaker 2: check your.
Speaker 1: Phone just once an hour. I feel like it's okay,
Speaker 1: like when you take a toilet break.
Speaker 2: Imagine. Yeah, it's a bit of a red flag if
Speaker 2: they went like m I A for like three hours,
Speaker 2: four hours?
Speaker 4: Okay.
Speaker 1: One keep their X on social media?
Speaker 2: Do you mean follow their ex? Yeah?
Speaker 4: Follow?
Speaker 2: I think that's a green flag. Where does it depend on?
Speaker 4: Yep? That's true.
Speaker 2: Well, what happens if you're still friends with your ex
Speaker 2: as well?
Speaker 4: She's like a strong nough.
Speaker 2: You can't be friends with your ex. I don't know.
Speaker 8: We have a green flag over there.
Speaker 4: You can't be friends with the X. That's completely normal.
Speaker 8: Let's hear from this green flag over here.
Speaker 4: Yeah, let's hear.
Speaker 2: I think you can be.
Speaker 6: I just think if you're friends with your ex, you're
Speaker 6: like you're just grown.
Speaker 4: Like it's over all that petty stuff.
Speaker 2: Okay. They keep photos of themselves and their X on
Speaker 2: their social media? Red flag or green flag?
Speaker 1: I want to say red flag, but I've also kind
Speaker 1: of done it. I don't want to like red flags.
Speaker 8: She's still green over here. She's still green with that one.
Speaker 4: Go for it, like good memories.
Speaker 8: Right, you live in your loan, I.
Speaker 1: Mean you still lived in it once upon a time.
Speaker 1: Like you can't just like cut out everything from your life.
Speaker 8: We've got one more statement over here.
Speaker 4: You could archive them. I did do a bit of
Speaker 4: an archive with you.
Speaker 8: Wait have you done this?
Speaker 4: Because you get back, you get back to your ex.
Speaker 2: And then you know, I, actually that's funny. So I
Speaker 2: actually had an exit would delete them like straight away.
Speaker 2: As soon as we had an argument, I'd be like, fuck,
Speaker 2: that's so dramatic.
Speaker 4: Didn't you like change the caption on one of yours?
Speaker 2: Yeah, so so it was like a love heart and
Speaker 2: then I changed it to like a tombstone.
Speaker 1: Because the relationship died. It's pretty savage. So funny because
Speaker 1: no one would have seen it.
Speaker 2: No one's seen it. Now, you know you might be
Speaker 2: able to go, Okay, this one watches True crime right
Speaker 2: before bed.
Speaker 4: Agree, it's a.
Speaker 2: Red flag I get. I used to watch Criminal Minds
Speaker 2: right before bed, and I'd get this serious nightmares and
Speaker 2: it's not true crime.
Speaker 3: But the whole room is green, Matt, You're you're kind
Speaker 3: of ruled over if you hear everyone's green.
Speaker 8: No one agrees with you on that way.
Speaker 2: Ima loves true crime as well, so you guys don't
Speaker 2: like to have a buffer before you go to sleep,
Speaker 2: you know, like something lighthearted.
Speaker 8: You're the only one I know who has nightmares about this.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're with me for someone with me?
Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, okay, I just like comedy shows.
Speaker 8: I just like that, like lightness and laugh before bed.
Speaker 4: Light in the mood. Just happy vibes, happy vibes.
Speaker 2: Okay. I've got one trains without headphones.
Speaker 1: Trains without headphones, Like goes to the gym without headphones.
Speaker 2: Imagine, Like the gym music is always that bad.
Speaker 1: Like I just can't be motivated without my motivational playlist.
Speaker 3: I've got someone here who listens to you the gym
Speaker 3: music once again, Okay.
Speaker 4: I agree to Like, I don't know if you know Fitstom,
Speaker 4: but their music's really good. Okay. Yeah, it's always like
Speaker 4: DJ mixes and stuff like that. But it's like a
Speaker 4: coach class.
Speaker 8: So I kind of have to hear what people are saying.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I guess I did.
Speaker 2: If you're getting personal trained doing a group fitness.
Speaker 4: What about forty five?
Speaker 2: I can't do forty five.
Speaker 4: I'd be like your protein and just coffee people.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I can't. I can't do group fitness something about
Speaker 2: it just quit F forty five.
Speaker 5: Okay, then because of their music, did anyone take my
Speaker 5: recommendation and listen to that Britney Spears song work bitch?
Speaker 4: It is a good workout, so to be fair, it's good.
Speaker 4: It's good.
Speaker 2: It's the best song to work out too. I got
Speaker 2: that on repeat.
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, yeah, I can see that.
Speaker 1: Complains I have no money, but they're out drinking all weekends.
Speaker 2: Huge. Red Flag, guys, huge, there's no debate about that.
Speaker 2: I have one where did it go? Talks through a movie?
Speaker 2: You guys know how much I love my movies, Red
Speaker 2: Red Flag?
Speaker 1: But you know what, me and I actually watched Jaws
Speaker 1: because we were doing a podcast, like we're going on
Speaker 1: someone else's podcast. I know that you hate me telling
Speaker 1: this story, but it's true. The only time I've ever
Speaker 1: watched a movie with Matt. He talked the whole way
Speaker 1: through it. He was asking me for relationship advice, and
Speaker 1: I was like, we have to recap this movie. And
Speaker 1: he's like, I've already seen it, and I was.
Speaker 4: Like, but I haven't.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've already seen it. I was not interested watching it.
Speaker 4: I've got a.
Speaker 8: Couple here who look like they're disagreeing.
Speaker 4: Okay, we love that disagreeing couple. Let's let's talk. Okay.
Speaker 9: I talked throughout movies and he's like, the fuck up,
Speaker 9: I haven't seen it?
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's concept. Are you the sort of Are you
Speaker 2: the sort of person that will be like, why are
Speaker 2: they doing that? What does that mean? And you're like,
Speaker 2: I haven't seen it either? Yeah, yeah, who's that?
Speaker 4: What do you think about his actions?
Speaker 2: Like?
Speaker 9: Do you think they're okay? And he's like maybe, and
Speaker 9: I'm like the answer is no.
Speaker 1: Do you know what's so funny is if Michael starts
Speaker 1: talking when we're watching something, I'll literally like one second,
Speaker 1: I have to pause it, and I'll be like continue,
Speaker 1: I like, literally have I need to know the storyline?
Speaker 2: If someone talks through something, I'll actually rewind and be
Speaker 2: like I need to see what's going on.
Speaker 4: You didn't rewind the Jaws?
Speaker 2: I've seen it one hundred times. Who hasn't seen Jaws? Right?
Speaker 2: I got one. I think we'll do a couple more
Speaker 2: and then we'll go talks about their ex on a
Speaker 2: first date? Red Flag, Green Flag? But what happens if
Speaker 2: you know that, like you guys are like.
Speaker 8: They're on good terms.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's fair, Like we're co parent, Yeah, that's fair.
Speaker 1: Anything else, know, like I missed my ex really bad?
Speaker 2: Well, that would be just the biggest red flag, would it.
Speaker 2: We shouldn't be on a date.
Speaker 4: If you're doing that, I'll just go fuck myself?
Speaker 2: All right, do you have one more and we'll finish
Speaker 2: it up.
Speaker 1: Because last one, lucky last takes photos of their food
Speaker 1: at a.
Speaker 2: Restaurant, that's everybody does that. That's a green flag.
Speaker 4: Okay, I will say, what.
Speaker 2: Happens if you went on a date and with a
Speaker 2: guy and it was like the first date, and he
Speaker 2: took a photo of the food, red flag?
Speaker 4: I think?
Speaker 2: Do you guys agree with that?
Speaker 1: I think I think for me, if I take the photo,
Speaker 1: it's allowed.
Speaker 4: If he does, it's a no.
Speaker 1: Like it's not a two way street, Like this is
Speaker 1: not equal flameing field.
Speaker 2: So if Michael took a photo of his food, would
Speaker 2: that be a red flag?
Speaker 4: Not now, but on a first date?
Speaker 2: Okay, what happens if I took a photo of my food.
Speaker 4: Just like in normal life.
Speaker 2: On a date, on a first date, would that be
Speaker 2: a red flag?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 2: You're like xammed from men, just asking any question?
Speaker 4: Okay, guys.
Speaker 1: We have a very special segment for you guys that
Speaker 1: we're going to do a bit of a trial run on.
Speaker 1: Now we didn't get this, Sydney's not getting this. We
Speaker 1: are going to play a game with you called am
Speaker 1: I the Asshole?
Speaker 2: It's so new I don't even have it on my script. Like,
Speaker 2: I'm not even joking. There's no point me looking at that.
Speaker 1: Okay, this is called am I the Asshole? I'm going
Speaker 1: to tell you a story, and you guys need to
Speaker 1: tell me if this person is being an asshole? Okay,
Speaker 1: am I the asshole? For not wanting to hang out
Speaker 1: with my friends because my ex is in the group.
Speaker 1: Back when my ex and I were dating, I brought
Speaker 1: her into my friend group and she got to be
Speaker 1: pretty good friends with them as time went on. About
Speaker 1: six months ago, I found out she cheated on me
Speaker 1: and broke things off.
Speaker 4: Fast forward to last weekend.
Speaker 1: I was at a football game and planned to go
Speaker 1: hang out with my friends for a bit until I
Speaker 1: found out that my ex was over with them.
Speaker 4: One of my buddies was there and.
Speaker 1: Actually warned me that she was going to be there
Speaker 1: because he figured I'd be uncomfortable. They also want to
Speaker 1: do something this weekend, but I don't want to hang
Speaker 1: out with them in case she is there. I feel
Speaker 1: really dog dodging my friends, but don't want to be
Speaker 1: involved with her anymore and don't want to see her.
Speaker 1: Am I an asshole? Red flag? If he's an asshole?
Speaker 1: Green flag if he's not an asshole?
Speaker 2: Okay, first question.
Speaker 4: Lots of green flag?
Speaker 2: Okay, first question. So he introduced him to his mates.
Speaker 4: So she Yeah, he introduced her.
Speaker 2: To his mates and then she cheated on him. Yeah,
Speaker 2: and they're still friends with her. Yeah, they're friends of
Speaker 2: the assholes. Why are they still hanging out with her?
Speaker 2: What the fuck?
Speaker 6: You know what?
Speaker 4: That's a very good point. I didn't think of that
Speaker 4: it what's that?
Speaker 2: Is that something you would do?
Speaker 4: No, it's just a good thing, Like picked that up.
Speaker 4: I didn't think of that. That's actually a good point.
Speaker 2: He probably couldn't you reckon? She cheated maybe with one
Speaker 2: of those guys.
Speaker 4: Well, she is a cheater this pool.
Speaker 2: We don't even know who she is. It's a hypothetical, uh,
Speaker 2: bits of it?
Speaker 4: Yeah, and then what happened to him?
Speaker 2: And then Robin ended up with Ted Barney? Wait, what.
Speaker 4: That's like? This is so new to me.
Speaker 2: Who did ted end up with?
Speaker 4: She died?
Speaker 2: Spoiler alert spoiler Just that just really lowered the tone
Speaker 2: of Okay, so what do we all think? Is he
Speaker 2: the asshole? Are the friends the asshole? Or she's definitely.
Speaker 4: Do you know? What's interesting.
Speaker 1: Is a friend of mine is actually in a very
Speaker 1: similar situation to this, but she's a girl who hangs
Speaker 1: out with the friend group.
Speaker 2: But so she's the girl that she's a girl.
Speaker 1: Hanging out and I've said to her multiple times, I'm like,
Speaker 1: this is a bit weird. And now her ex has
Speaker 1: a new girlfriend, and the new girlfriend's.
Speaker 4: Not okay with it.
Speaker 1: She's like, why is your ex still hanging out with
Speaker 1: like your friends?
Speaker 4: And it's like this big drama and I hope she
Speaker 4: doesn't listened to this.
Speaker 2: What happens if they have Like if they had a
Speaker 2: mutual breakup, that's not too bad, I feel.
Speaker 1: I know, But no one wants to hang out with
Speaker 1: the Rexes, right yeah, Like I mean not on a
Speaker 1: Saturday night when you're drinking.
Speaker 4: Like that's just a no from me.
Speaker 2: Do you have another one? I don't have this on
Speaker 2: my script.
Speaker 1: That's our only one, but we want to ask you guys,
Speaker 1: do you like am I the asshole? This is honest,
Speaker 1: red flag, green flag, be honest, that's a full house.
Speaker 2: Okay, they're all green flags.
Speaker 1: Okay, so maybe am I the Asshole will be coming
Speaker 1: to wear to hear that very soon.
Speaker 2: All right, guys. So next, it's the time of the
Speaker 2: night where we're going to play truth or shot.
Speaker 1: I hope you've been thinking of your juicy questions to
Speaker 1: ask us.
Speaker 4: You get to us two each, because we don't want
Speaker 4: to get too drunk.
Speaker 2: Yes, so you guys get to ask us or that's
Speaker 2: three a question and there's three and we either answer
Speaker 2: us or don't be shy. I found like Melbourne, we
Speaker 2: were a bit.
Speaker 4: Like, oh oh toebag mel Oh.
Speaker 2: You know they're a bit nervy. All right, so far away, guys.
Speaker 1: I love how I've got my tea here and then
Speaker 1: I've got my shot. So okay, Amber is gonna come
Speaker 1: over with the mic.
Speaker 9: All right, I'll do one for Matt one for Anna,
Speaker 9: because I'm pretty sure you won't answer either. God, Anna,
Speaker 9: where did you buy?
Speaker 4: Where did I buy? The suburb? The suburb? Why?
Speaker 2: That's actually a really good question.
Speaker 4: It's really we're gonna be drunk agay, choose to me,
Speaker 4: and I've got one for Matt.
Speaker 9: Yeah, Matt, what's your relationship status with Tammy?
Speaker 8: He's doing the shop.
Speaker 4: It's actually really strong.
Speaker 2: I mean it's just yeah.
Speaker 4: Good. That was really good questions, good question down the shot,
Speaker 4: just like a stroke. Okay, Okay, I've.
Speaker 8: Got a question.
Speaker 4: Matt.
Speaker 3: Do you think that Anna takes a long time to
Speaker 3: get ready?
Speaker 2: Do you?
Speaker 4: I don't reckon, I do, No, she does.
Speaker 1: I can get ready in fifteen minutes, like flat. But
Speaker 1: how quick did I get ready? Very very quickly. So
Speaker 1: I'm going to follow up question for Anna. Do you
Speaker 1: think that Matt takes a long time parody?
Speaker 4: Yes, way longer than me.
Speaker 2: I was reading pretty quickly. I was waiting for you guys.
Speaker 8: We got down to the lobby before you.
Speaker 2: Technicalities.
Speaker 8: Okay, Anna, is Matt needy?
Speaker 4: Yeah? Very We all know that.
Speaker 8: We've got another one someone else.
Speaker 9: Yes, what about Michael gives you the ick? Certain behaviors,
Speaker 9: you know what?
Speaker 1: I just love and so much nothing like genuinely every
Speaker 1: other guy I've dated, Like I told him, like remember
Speaker 1: that time I told you about how like this guy
Speaker 1: blew his nose wrong? And I was like I'm off here.
Speaker 1: It was it was so savage, but I couldn't help it.
Speaker 1: Like I just was like, nah, Michael, nothing.
Speaker 2: I got asked this the other day, what gives me
Speaker 2: the ick? And I said, if I like someone, nothing
Speaker 2: gives me the ick? Like you know, they're just yeah,
Speaker 2: got rose tinted glass. I think perfect because I hate
Speaker 2: those tiktoks and they're like, oh he's doing this, that's
Speaker 2: the ick. It's like, let him live. They're just having fun,
Speaker 2: do you guys reckon?
Speaker 1: I's are just for like like people you're dating or
Speaker 1: is it like people you're actually in a relationship with?
Speaker 2: Both so you reckon? You could be in a relationship
Speaker 2: with army man over here?
Speaker 4: And what's his eggs?
Speaker 2: Okay, Oh that's sure.
Speaker 4: She's a wedding planer. She's very organized, So I.
Speaker 2: Dude, come on, you got be doing better.
Speaker 3: Okay, we've got a question question over here? Anna, do
Speaker 3: you have any surprises plan for your wedding? I'm curious
Speaker 3: because I'm going.
Speaker 2: Making me MC wave. You're green flags If you think
Speaker 2: I should be MC of Anna's.
Speaker 4: Wedding, it's actually red flag.
Speaker 8: Over there. Why don't you think Matt would be a
Speaker 8: good m C.
Speaker 6: Yeah, tell us why I think he'll just say something
Speaker 6: that will embarrass at of?
Speaker 2: Isn't that the whole point of an MC?
Speaker 8: No, I'm a feeling it will be the Matt show.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I'll steal the wedding.
Speaker 1: Matt doesn't like preparations. I feel like you wouldn't like
Speaker 1: prepare you just like you like?
Speaker 2: And anyone listened to the Did anyone listen to the
Speaker 2: episode when I said what I was going to do
Speaker 2: at the wedding? Was that not a funny gag? It
Speaker 2: was fucking hilarious.
Speaker 4: Can't say your own gags are funny? How there you
Speaker 4: have to say to just?
Speaker 2: Do you want me to reiterate what it was?
Speaker 4: There?
Speaker 6: You go?
Speaker 2: So I said that I would like, you know, give
Speaker 2: go like at the reception, I'd give keys, like a
Speaker 2: set of keys to everyone. So I'd give him to like,
Speaker 2: you know, like maybe Anna's mom, maybe like Anna's like
Speaker 2: a bunch of random women in the audience, and I'd
Speaker 2: be like, all right, guys, look, Michael is now married.
Speaker 2: He's off the table. So I put a bowl down
Speaker 2: and be like, if you have keys to Michael's house,
Speaker 2: please return them. And then they stand up and with
Speaker 2: the keys in the vaulted was the best gag because
Speaker 2: it would have been so fucking angry.
Speaker 8: But now they live together.
Speaker 2: So yeah, but that's the point. That's the point they
Speaker 2: have keys to get in.
Speaker 4: I'm just gonna swear the conversation this night as a
Speaker 4: girl at the.
Speaker 2: Back that's been going.
Speaker 6: In for one Well, I was gonna say, Anna, why
Speaker 6: won't you let Matt be the MC at your wedding?
Speaker 6: But then you're ready said it?
Speaker 4: Why won't I? Yeah, I think just I want you
Speaker 4: to enjoy the wedding.
Speaker 1: I don't want to give you like any sort of
Speaker 1: like responsibility yep, fall platform to embarrass you, any other
Speaker 1: questions anything at all.
Speaker 4: How about we give one person a shot and they
Speaker 4: can ask a question shot available? Sure, Okay, well I'm tripping, Okay,
Speaker 4: you have to bring a question MC our wedding.
Speaker 9: God, there is like no the ninth of December.
Speaker 2: Yeah, done them there.
Speaker 1: We actually Okay, at our first live show, we got
Speaker 1: invited to a wedding.
Speaker 2: I premise I saw it. Yeah, okay, is my story.
Speaker 2: So there was this lovely couple in the front row,
Speaker 2: Janeine and Craig. They ended up coming back to my
Speaker 2: mate's house. We're partying all night with them. They loved us.
Speaker 2: They invited us to the wedding, but we were busy.
Speaker 1: I had a wedding and we couldn't go. So we
Speaker 1: were like, want to do where's your head out?
Speaker 4: Wedding?
Speaker 2: I nearly I nearly went in the end, remember, but
Speaker 2: I had some couldn't check with her partner.
Speaker 4: Back there.
Speaker 9: But we actually do need an even number.
Speaker 2: So can we come?
Speaker 4: Can we so?
Speaker 8: Anat are going to host your wedding?
Speaker 4: What date in December?
Speaker 9: Ninth of December?
Speaker 4: We could make your schedules.
Speaker 1: We're going, I'm excited going to talk after the show.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll definitely do that. Definitely.
Speaker 4: Do you want to give away one more for a question?
Speaker 4: Have to bribe you guys? Oh? Sure, you want to
Speaker 4: do that.
Speaker 1: That's like lifting the whole tray. Okay, who's got the
Speaker 1: next question?
Speaker 2: To do a shot with us?
Speaker 1: It's a wet pussy, delicious, it's a strong wet pussy.
Speaker 8: Yes, we've got one.
Speaker 4: You have to give a question drink safely driving and drinking.
Speaker 4: What's the worst thing that's ever happened to both of you?
Speaker 4: Ring sex, Whether you've cried or screamed either.
Speaker 2: All I broake my banjo. Yeah yeah, yeah, that's probably
Speaker 2: worth saying. That was years ago. Those schoolies. Did that hurt?
Speaker 2: That sucked? Twang?
Speaker 8: Yeah, I want to answer this, do it?
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I got my period and I didn't really
Speaker 1: really know and it was like, it's really that's fine.
Speaker 1: That was like the worst thing that's happened to me.
Speaker 1: And I was like a bit shocked, but you know,
Speaker 1: that's the end of it. Should we do a shop Yes?
Speaker 2: Does anyone.
Speaker 4: A way to any show? Oh my god?
Speaker 1: Okay, guys, thank you so much for coming to our show.
Speaker 1: We really appreciate it. It's been so fun. And we're
Speaker 1: gonna come have a drink with you.
Speaker 4: Guys.
Speaker 2: Stick around, We're going to have a drink.
Speaker 1: Flag He's like, yes, thank you so much for coming.
Speaker 1: Thank you for sharing our podcast. It means honestly the
Speaker 1: world to us. Thank you to everyone who's traveled farm wide.
Speaker 1: I'm Anna and I'm mass we are. Where's your head at?
Speaker 1: Keep listening and thank you for coming.
Speaker 4: Bye.
Speaker 2: We'll come back out and have a drink with everyone.
Speaker 2: In a second. Let me just
Speaker 1: Frien