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Speaker 2: All right, Hello, guys, welcome back to hear me out.

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Speaker 2: No, you guys did love our episode. I loved recording

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Speaker 1: I think it's a funny dynamic that you just don't

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Speaker 2: So, in case you don't know, my sister Riley is back.

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Speaker 2: I have some interesting questions that the viewers want to hear. Oh,

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Speaker 1: Well? I was straight and now I'm not. I guess

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Speaker 2: So this week's episode is am I the Asshole and

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Speaker 2: So we're just gonna decide basically, are you the problem? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I feel like everyone's just going to judge someone the

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Speaker 2: Long sounds like a riot. Sounds like a fucking.

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Speaker 1: Riot, a fucking riot. I love Karen. Long story short.

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Speaker 2: I reached chipping point after she constantly entered my room

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Speaker 2: But as we know, Karen was not easily approachable. I

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Speaker 1: Do you know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, pretty much had a full vent about how I

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Speaker 2: You know how like sometimes your friends like no, no,

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Speaker 1: I would always just chuck it out. I wouldn't chuck

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Speaker 2: I don't care sharing toothbrushes with certain people me you.

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Speaker 2: Probably not ick, but you do you But that's very sweet, Okay.

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Speaker 1: Fact that she was back.

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Speaker 2: I absolutely there's a certain aspect of that that I'm like,

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I absolutely erupted at ports him. The next time I

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Speaker 1: Or is my reaction valid?

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Speaker 2: They're now broken up because she cheated on him again

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Speaker 1: I know she's not the asshole.

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Speaker 2: I think your home should be a sanctuary, and if

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I feel like there's so many people with roommates

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Speaker 2: Yeah, a really shitty situation in that regard, just for

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Speaker 1: Canfind somewhere Elsely, Tim seems like a nice guy. I'm

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Speaker 2: Tim can find his own And if Tim's broken up

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Speaker 1: I think Tim needs to stay away because you never know.

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Speaker 2: With Karen, you don't. She could sneak in just for

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Speaker 2: the shits, even when they're not together. Because you use

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Speaker 2: in case and buy a new sheets and buy new sheets, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Throw out the mattress or tim. I hope he's doing okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, just another thank you Beyonce, just because I

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Speaker 1: Thank you Beyonce. I literally need to go home and

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Speaker 1: like sleep. I was going to make salmon salmon works.

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Speaker 1: I just want food cooks. I was going to make

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Speaker 1: salmon kale and oh my god, kale. It just gets

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Speaker 2: Kale to me is like I was going to make

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Speaker 2: for Can you buy some broccolini and I'll make myself

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Speaker 2: some brocolini?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Thank you? What type of someone kariochy with what kariarchy?

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Speaker 1: And just kale?

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Speaker 2: Calum rice and kick it? Menace, ketchup, menace, whatever the fuck?

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Speaker 1: Keck up? Okay?

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Speaker 2: Am I the asshole number two? So about a year ago,

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Speaker 2: I was in Bali, Balle. I was in Bali and

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Speaker 2: I met this guy let's call him Ben, at Finn's

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Speaker 1: Right did your pre game?

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Speaker 2: He lives in New Zealand. I live in Australia. I

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Speaker 1: You know how it goes, I actually do.

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Speaker 2: I had no intention of doing it. And then Hannah

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Speaker 2: I thought she'd like gone back, and so I was like, oh, respect,

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Speaker 1: Back.

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Speaker 2: We go to riot with the right city. I was pasted,

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Speaker 2: you know how it goes. We hit it off, spent

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Speaker 2: It was fun, but to me it felt like one

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Speaker 2: Then I don't know where he starts getting super intense,

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Speaker 1: Meanwhile, I honestly don't remember most of it. I was

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Speaker 2: Twice, there will always be gup. So it doesn't matter

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Speaker 2: And then as like I sober up maybe thirty minutes

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Speaker 1: It's constant.

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Speaker 2: It was initially because of my anxiety, meant that I

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Speaker 2: less anyway, not important, that's a tool where I have

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Speaker 2: It felt a bit much, especially since I'd only met

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Speaker 1: I feel like, at this one, this girl probably just

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Speaker 1: was like, that could be like fun, like you just

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Speaker 1: you live. I kind of panicked.

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Speaker 2: I didn't know how serious he were, and I started

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Speaker 2: wondering whether I'd accidentally given him the wrong idea. When

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Speaker 2: I didn't hear anything more about it, I assumed it

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Speaker 2: Around that time, I met someone at work. Let's call

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Speaker 2: him Harry. He lived five minutes away, asked me out.

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Speaker 2: We had the best first day.

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Speaker 1: Everything felt easy and exciting in a real world, grounded way.

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Speaker 1: One day, one day it happened to you. One day,

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Speaker 1: I'm happy for you, girl, you're the asshole, next question.

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Speaker 2: We kept seeing each other and pretty quickly it started

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Speaker 2: to feel like something really special. Then, about a month

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Speaker 2: after Ben's drunk call, I get a totally unexpected message

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Speaker 1: See you this weekend.

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00:19:42,480 --> 00:19:44,760
Speaker 2: He's a bit d Lulu. Ben needed to have followed

441
00:19:44,760 --> 00:19:47,440
Speaker 2: that up. Yeah, I hadn't spoken to him in weeks.

442
00:19:48,040 --> 00:19:51,800
Speaker 2: Weeks quiplash spoken.

443
00:19:51,440 --> 00:19:57,560
Speaker 1: To him in weeks all right, all right, suffering. I

444
00:19:57,600 --> 00:19:59,840
Speaker 1: was confused and replied with a bunch of question marks.

445
00:20:01,040 --> 00:20:04,679
Speaker 2: Oh, okay, fair enough, but no, but someone needs to

446
00:20:04,720 --> 00:20:06,760
Speaker 2: fucking address the elephant in the room and have a

447
00:20:06,800 --> 00:20:13,080
Speaker 2: real conversation here, you know, question mark B direct? Yeah,

448
00:20:13,119 --> 00:20:15,080
Speaker 2: are you coming to make this weekend?

449
00:20:15,359 --> 00:20:18,080
Speaker 1: Do you know where I am? Yeah? I was confused

450
00:20:18,080 --> 00:20:19,639
Speaker 1: and replied with a bunch of question marks.

451
00:20:19,720 --> 00:20:21,760
Speaker 2: That's when he tells me I'm coming to see you

452
00:20:21,760 --> 00:20:24,280
Speaker 2: in six days and actually sends me his flight details.

453
00:20:24,359 --> 00:20:26,160
Speaker 1: Okay, there's the directness we need. Yeah.

454
00:20:26,320 --> 00:20:29,880
Speaker 2: I asked if he was bringing a friend good as

455
00:20:29,880 --> 00:20:31,960
Speaker 2: in like are you coming to Melbourne, like just with mates,

456
00:20:32,440 --> 00:20:34,639
Speaker 2: or if this trip was primarily to spend the weekend

457
00:20:34,680 --> 00:20:37,359
Speaker 2: with me. He said it was all about seeing me,

458
00:20:37,480 --> 00:20:39,280
Speaker 2: and then he missed the connection we had and we

459
00:20:39,359 --> 00:20:41,880
Speaker 2: had been holding off telling me properly because he was nervous.

460
00:20:42,600 --> 00:20:43,080
Speaker 1: Okay.

461
00:20:43,640 --> 00:20:46,000
Speaker 2: If I had slept with a man in another country,

462
00:20:46,480 --> 00:20:49,960
Speaker 2: seen him once, and then flown home, I could not

463
00:20:50,119 --> 00:20:52,080
Speaker 2: imagine the audacity of just booking a flight to this

464
00:20:52,080 --> 00:20:53,359
Speaker 2: guy's country and just letting him know that.

465
00:20:53,600 --> 00:20:55,000
Speaker 1: Yeah. No, it is a little bit ridiculous.

466
00:20:55,040 --> 00:20:57,560
Speaker 2: And for him to say I didn't feel comfortable telling

467
00:20:57,600 --> 00:21:01,560
Speaker 2: you why I was coming. You're doing making a giant step.

468
00:21:01,960 --> 00:21:04,359
Speaker 2: You need to tell her that you're spending the entire

469
00:21:04,440 --> 00:21:06,760
Speaker 2: time with her. You can't just let that go by

470
00:21:06,800 --> 00:21:08,400
Speaker 2: the wayside. Needs to be addressed.

471
00:21:08,600 --> 00:21:11,360
Speaker 1: He also admitted he assumed I was on the same page.

472
00:21:11,800 --> 00:21:14,800
Speaker 1: That's the assumption is wrong. What is it? Assumption is

473
00:21:14,840 --> 00:21:17,840
Speaker 1: the thief of joy or is that something that's comparison honey,

474
00:21:17,880 --> 00:21:18,919
Speaker 1: Oh alright, whatever?

475
00:21:19,040 --> 00:21:25,760
Speaker 2: Assumption is the thief thief joy fit assumpthing is the

476
00:21:25,800 --> 00:21:32,159
Speaker 2: thief of toy. I hate when people say sayings with

477
00:21:32,359 --> 00:21:34,640
Speaker 2: like heavy confidence and.

478
00:21:34,440 --> 00:21:43,080
Speaker 1: They're wrong, Like I just assumpthing is the thief of thoy. Okay. Continue.

479
00:21:43,440 --> 00:21:45,639
Speaker 2: He also admitted he assumed I was on the same page,

480
00:21:45,680 --> 00:21:48,280
Speaker 2: especially since I didn't shut him down when he told

481
00:21:48,280 --> 00:21:51,480
Speaker 2: me about it during that drunk call. In his mind,

482
00:21:51,640 --> 00:21:54,280
Speaker 2: because I'd spent that one night with him, it meant something,

483
00:21:54,320 --> 00:21:54,560
Speaker 2: and he.

484
00:21:54,640 --> 00:21:56,960
Speaker 1: Figured I'd just go along with it. I didn't know

485
00:21:56,960 --> 00:21:57,640
Speaker 1: how to respond.

486
00:21:58,000 --> 00:21:59,879
Speaker 2: I ended up telling him I didn't have anywhere for

487
00:22:00,200 --> 00:22:03,119
Speaker 2: to stay, and then I already had plans that weekend,

488
00:22:03,160 --> 00:22:05,480
Speaker 2: which I didn't. The truth is I was developing something

489
00:22:05,520 --> 00:22:08,040
Speaker 2: genuine with Harry and spending the weekend with someone I

490
00:22:08,080 --> 00:22:11,040
Speaker 2: barely knew, someone I hadn't seen in a year, would have.

491
00:22:11,000 --> 00:22:12,080
Speaker 1: Completely derailed that.

492
00:22:13,000 --> 00:22:16,359
Speaker 2: Fair enough, Ben, It was disappointed, but didn't argue, and

493
00:22:16,400 --> 00:22:18,960
Speaker 2: we haven't spoken since. Now Harry and I have been

494
00:22:19,000 --> 00:22:21,200
Speaker 2: dating for nine months and it's going incredibly well. You

495
00:22:22,160 --> 00:22:24,480
Speaker 2: happy for you, girl, But I still wonder was I

496
00:22:24,520 --> 00:22:27,080
Speaker 2: the asshole for asking Ben to cancel an international flat

497
00:22:27,640 --> 00:22:30,240
Speaker 2: just a week out. I never invited him, he never

498
00:22:30,280 --> 00:22:32,680
Speaker 2: confirmed it with me, but I also never fully shut

499
00:22:32,720 --> 00:22:33,479
Speaker 2: things down earlier.

500
00:22:33,880 --> 00:22:35,440
Speaker 1: No, No, you're not the asshole.

501
00:22:35,520 --> 00:22:38,040
Speaker 2: You don't needs, not even a little bend anytime with

502
00:22:38,119 --> 00:22:40,240
Speaker 2: anyone you don't want to see. And it's like you

503
00:22:40,440 --> 00:22:43,160
Speaker 2: liked this guy, You're building something genuine with him. Why

504
00:22:43,160 --> 00:22:45,919
Speaker 2: would you even risk that it could be derailed just

505
00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:48,680
Speaker 2: for the not having an uncomfortable And this guy should

506
00:22:48,760 --> 00:22:51,719
Speaker 2: have confirmed, should have said should I book these flights?

507
00:22:51,760 --> 00:22:52,280
Speaker 1: Gay or nay?

508
00:22:52,400 --> 00:22:54,840
Speaker 2: And if he'd said that and you said yes, then

509
00:22:54,960 --> 00:22:55,800
Speaker 2: yes you're the asshole.

510
00:22:55,880 --> 00:22:56,960
Speaker 1: But if he didn't do that, I.

511
00:22:56,880 --> 00:22:59,480
Speaker 2: Had a couple more fucking conversations with you before booking

512
00:22:59,480 --> 00:23:01,520
Speaker 2: an international or flight and assuming that he can stay

513
00:23:01,520 --> 00:23:04,560
Speaker 2: with you, yeah, like to say I am coming to

514
00:23:04,560 --> 00:23:08,280
Speaker 2: see you, not reconfirm until six days out yeah, fucking

515
00:23:08,359 --> 00:23:11,399
Speaker 2: crazy to me, You're not the asshole. That boy's just

516
00:23:11,480 --> 00:23:13,959
Speaker 2: living in his Delulu and hopefully he snapped out of it.

517
00:23:14,119 --> 00:23:15,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, agreed, all right.

518
00:23:15,400 --> 00:23:17,960
Speaker 2: Next, Hey Ezy, I just want to say I love

519
00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:20,320
Speaker 2: the new podcast. You're absolutely smashing it and I'm so

520
00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:21,240
Speaker 2: proud of you.

521
00:23:24,480 --> 00:23:32,520
Speaker 1: It just looks like gollum. Oh you went w god girl,

522
00:23:32,880 --> 00:23:36,840
Speaker 1: Thank you and thank you Beyonce. Thank you, Beyonce. That's

523
00:23:36,920 --> 00:23:42,159
Speaker 1: very sweet. You're an asshole. Not you, my sister, not you, Beyonce. Not.

524
00:23:44,880 --> 00:23:46,679
Speaker 2: I wanted to get your thoughts on something that's been

525
00:23:46,680 --> 00:23:48,800
Speaker 2: going on at school. At the start of the year,

526
00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:50,760
Speaker 2: it was just me and my two best friends, but

527
00:23:50,840 --> 00:23:53,320
Speaker 2: our friendship circle has grown to about seven girls.

528
00:23:53,320 --> 00:23:53,560
Speaker 1: Now.

529
00:23:54,040 --> 00:23:56,119
Speaker 2: I'm a massive extrovert and get along with most of

530
00:23:56,160 --> 00:23:58,560
Speaker 2: the girls in our year levels, so I've really enjoyed it.

531
00:23:58,600 --> 00:24:01,120
Speaker 2: But one of my closest friends, that's all Sally, isn't

532
00:24:01,160 --> 00:24:03,760
Speaker 2: the same way. Sally is an only child and has

533
00:24:03,800 --> 00:24:07,000
Speaker 2: a really strict parents, no drinking, no boys, that kind

534
00:24:07,040 --> 00:24:09,440
Speaker 2: of thing. I totally respect her boundaries, but I've started

535
00:24:09,440 --> 00:24:12,680
Speaker 2: becoming really close with another girl, Hannah. Hannah and I

536
00:24:12,720 --> 00:24:14,720
Speaker 2: have been to quite a few house parties this year

537
00:24:14,760 --> 00:24:16,760
Speaker 2: and have had a bit of an experience with boys.

538
00:24:17,080 --> 00:24:20,200
Speaker 2: I've kissed three, nothing major, but I'm also super focused

539
00:24:20,200 --> 00:24:21,919
Speaker 2: on sport and training, so I'm not looking for a

540
00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:24,560
Speaker 2: boyfriend or anything right now. I've also had some tough

541
00:24:24,560 --> 00:24:26,840
Speaker 2: family stuff over the past two years, and to be honest,

542
00:24:26,880 --> 00:24:29,480
Speaker 2: Sally hasn't been there for me at all. When things

543
00:24:29,480 --> 00:24:31,600
Speaker 2: first started happening at home, she made me feel really

544
00:24:31,640 --> 00:24:35,520
Speaker 2: guilty and self conscious, mostly because she just couldn't relate well.

545
00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:39,160
Speaker 2: Sally sounds like a rich nah family problems are hud

546
00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:41,960
Speaker 2: so I stopped opening up to her and started turning

547
00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:44,639
Speaker 2: to Hannah, who really gets it. Our home lives are

548
00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:48,640
Speaker 2: pretty similar and we've gotten really close really fast. Lately, though,

549
00:24:48,760 --> 00:24:51,040
Speaker 2: Sally has been acting jealous of my friendship with Hannah

550
00:24:51,080 --> 00:24:53,919
Speaker 2: and it's starting to feel toxic. She constantly judges me

551
00:24:53,960 --> 00:24:56,200
Speaker 2: for going to parties, talking to boys, and even going

552
00:24:56,240 --> 00:24:59,200
Speaker 2: to the footy. She's made comments that basically imply I'm

553
00:24:59,240 --> 00:24:59,679
Speaker 2: a slut.

554
00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:00,840
Speaker 1: Really hurts.

555
00:25:01,119 --> 00:25:03,240
Speaker 2: I've only kissed a few guys and I've always made

556
00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:05,720
Speaker 2: choices that I'm comfortable with, but she makes me feel

557
00:25:05,760 --> 00:25:08,760
Speaker 2: ashamed for doing things she wouldn't do. Herself now, I'm

558
00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:11,879
Speaker 2: just wondering, am I the asshole from distancing myself from Sally.

559
00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:15,000
Speaker 2: We've been best friends since he's seven wherein you're eleven now,

560
00:25:15,080 --> 00:25:16,920
Speaker 2: but lately she makes you feel like crap and I'm

561
00:25:16,920 --> 00:25:21,280
Speaker 2: tired of walking on eggshells around her. Thanks so much, Jilly,

562
00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:25,720
Speaker 2: definitely not the asshole. No, anyone who makes you feel

563
00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:31,240
Speaker 2: guilty about choices you're making actually or romantically can fuck

564
00:25:31,280 --> 00:25:35,320
Speaker 2: off because even if you had kissed the entire year level,

565
00:25:36,160 --> 00:25:40,040
Speaker 2: even slept with the entire that is still notrogative a slut,

566
00:25:40,040 --> 00:25:43,280
Speaker 2: that's your fucking business. So anybody who makes you feel

567
00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:46,879
Speaker 2: guilty about that, you can easily let go from your life,

568
00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:50,520
Speaker 2: in my opinion, And it's like, why wouldn't you bond

569
00:25:50,560 --> 00:25:53,440
Speaker 2: and create a friendship with someone that's seeing you and

570
00:25:53,520 --> 00:25:56,879
Speaker 2: being understanding towards you. That doesn't mean you can't be

571
00:25:56,920 --> 00:25:58,760
Speaker 2: friends with Sally. And I feel like there is a

572
00:25:58,800 --> 00:26:02,960
Speaker 2: real ish you sometimes with girls and jealousy people getting

573
00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:06,280
Speaker 2: closer to other people, especially when you're younger, and it's

574
00:26:06,320 --> 00:26:08,159
Speaker 2: all you kind of knew to be friends with this person.

575
00:26:08,160 --> 00:26:10,840
Speaker 2: But bottom line is, you can't ever assume that the

576
00:26:10,840 --> 00:26:14,560
Speaker 2: people you meet in a proximity friendship almost in a

577
00:26:14,600 --> 00:26:17,560
Speaker 2: school are going to be your friends, your best friends

578
00:26:17,560 --> 00:26:19,080
Speaker 2: for the rest of your life. You are gonna meet

579
00:26:19,080 --> 00:26:21,760
Speaker 2: people that are better for you, people that see you more,

580
00:26:22,119 --> 00:26:24,440
Speaker 2: make you more comfortable. And that's just the reality of things,

581
00:26:24,440 --> 00:26:25,760
Speaker 2: you know. And if Sally and you are meant to

582
00:26:25,800 --> 00:26:29,760
Speaker 2: be friends, you will absolutely stay friends. But but it's okay,

583
00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:33,359
Speaker 2: I have multiple best friends provide different things for you.

584
00:26:33,480 --> 00:26:36,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, I drifted from so many friends. I practically from

585
00:26:36,359 --> 00:26:37,760
Speaker 1: high friends that I went to school with.

586
00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:40,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, because you change, and as you change, your friends

587
00:26:40,800 --> 00:26:42,800
Speaker 2: don't change in the same way all the time, and

588
00:26:42,840 --> 00:26:43,280
Speaker 2: you drift.

589
00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:44,919
Speaker 1: And that's just like, you're not the asshole.

590
00:26:44,960 --> 00:26:48,640
Speaker 2: And I think, honestly, it's seeming like something that once

591
00:26:48,640 --> 00:26:50,840
Speaker 2: you're out of school, you'll probably be quite close to

592
00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:52,840
Speaker 2: Hannah and not as close to something anymore. And even

593
00:26:52,840 --> 00:26:55,240
Speaker 2: if you drift from Hannah eventually too, you will always

594
00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:57,520
Speaker 2: also find some friends come and go based on what

595
00:26:57,560 --> 00:26:59,359
Speaker 2: you need in that period. Maybe Hannah might be a

596
00:26:59,359 --> 00:27:00,840
Speaker 2: friend that you need for what's going on in your

597
00:27:00,840 --> 00:27:01,439
Speaker 2: family right now.

598
00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:03,000
Speaker 1: You're not the asshole.

599
00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:07,200
Speaker 2: You're not to prioritize your feelings always. That's what I've

600
00:27:07,200 --> 00:27:08,600
Speaker 2: been doing this year, and thinks I've been working up

601
00:27:08,640 --> 00:27:10,720
Speaker 2: pretty good. Put yourself birthed?

602
00:27:11,160 --> 00:27:13,320
Speaker 1: All right? Am I the asshole? Hey girl? So I've

603
00:27:13,320 --> 00:27:14,160
Speaker 1: been stuck in a pickle.

604
00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:16,360
Speaker 2: I have feelings for my boyfriend, but I don't love

605
00:27:16,400 --> 00:27:19,160
Speaker 2: him in the way he loves me. He's my first boyfriend,

606
00:27:19,240 --> 00:27:20,960
Speaker 2: and I feel like I should have butterflies and want

607
00:27:20,960 --> 00:27:22,679
Speaker 2: to be around him all the time and miss him

608
00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:25,159
Speaker 2: when I'm not. We've been together for seven months. I

609
00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:28,160
Speaker 2: tried to end things with him one month in because

610
00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:31,320
Speaker 2: something just didn't feel right. He stopped me and begged

611
00:27:31,359 --> 00:27:33,720
Speaker 2: me to try harder in the relationship. Over the last

612
00:27:33,760 --> 00:27:36,439
Speaker 2: few months, we've had some good times together and I

613
00:27:36,480 --> 00:27:38,359
Speaker 2: said I loved him once and we were drunk, But

614
00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:42,160
Speaker 2: since then it hasn't come out naturally. I hadn't had

615
00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:44,480
Speaker 2: doubts throughout the last few months until the last month

616
00:27:45,000 --> 00:27:47,400
Speaker 2: that feeling came back again where I want more for myself.

617
00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:50,280
Speaker 2: I want to feel what love feels like. So I decided,

618
00:27:50,320 --> 00:27:53,000
Speaker 2: even though I like this guy, something is missing. I

619
00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:54,760
Speaker 2: tried to end things again the other night and he

620
00:27:54,800 --> 00:27:57,320
Speaker 2: was begging me to stay again. I tried to walk

621
00:27:57,359 --> 00:27:59,760
Speaker 2: out the door and he was calling me disrespectful forgiving

622
00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:02,880
Speaker 2: after everything he's done for me. Keep in mind he's

623
00:28:02,880 --> 00:28:05,320
Speaker 2: only done the better minimum of what a partner normally does.

624
00:28:05,920 --> 00:28:07,800
Speaker 2: He was grabbing my bags and not letting me leave.

625
00:28:07,840 --> 00:28:09,639
Speaker 2: He even stood in front of the door to stop me.

626
00:28:10,200 --> 00:28:12,480
Speaker 2: I didn't find it scary. He's not abusive or anything

627
00:28:12,480 --> 00:28:14,080
Speaker 2: like that. It just made it a whole lot harder

628
00:28:14,160 --> 00:28:16,680
Speaker 2: to leave. He begged me to stay the night and talk,

629
00:28:16,760 --> 00:28:18,679
Speaker 2: and we talked a little and then went to sleep.

630
00:28:19,080 --> 00:28:21,320
Speaker 2: Things didn't and I felt too bad for him. He

631
00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:23,680
Speaker 2: was crying and telling me he can't do this again.

632
00:28:24,240 --> 00:28:26,360
Speaker 2: Both times I've tried to end things, he was coercing

633
00:28:26,400 --> 00:28:27,840
Speaker 2: me and trying to make me stay and make it

634
00:28:27,840 --> 00:28:30,640
Speaker 2: more difficult to leave. My friends and family are telling

635
00:28:30,640 --> 00:28:32,359
Speaker 2: me I need to do it by texts. It's just

636
00:28:32,400 --> 00:28:35,119
Speaker 2: not working in person. Am I the asshole? If I

637
00:28:35,160 --> 00:28:37,520
Speaker 2: break up with him overtext like this?

638
00:28:37,560 --> 00:28:41,600
Speaker 1: Says Layers. I've been broken up over text both times.

639
00:28:41,680 --> 00:28:45,120
Speaker 1: I have broken it up with people over text several times.

640
00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:48,560
Speaker 1: It was brutal, but I feel like it was much

641
00:28:48,600 --> 00:28:50,920
Speaker 1: easier for me to do it that way. To be honest,

642
00:28:51,520 --> 00:28:52,719
Speaker 1: I feel like you've tried.

643
00:28:53,160 --> 00:28:55,880
Speaker 2: I actually think you've given it a good crack in person,

644
00:28:56,040 --> 00:28:57,400
Speaker 2: and now it actually might.

645
00:28:57,240 --> 00:28:59,600
Speaker 1: Be phone cool, happy medium.

646
00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:02,200
Speaker 2: If you're breaking up with someone that doesn't want to

647
00:29:02,360 --> 00:29:05,360
Speaker 2: leave you, they are always going to be like, no, please, don't, please,

648
00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:07,160
Speaker 2: don't do you know what I mean? Like, what are

649
00:29:07,200 --> 00:29:08,960
Speaker 2: you doing? I don't want this to happen, you know.

650
00:29:09,120 --> 00:29:12,200
Speaker 2: So I've never broken up with anyone. I've only ever

651
00:29:12,240 --> 00:29:14,120
Speaker 2: been broken up with. Yeah, boohoo, poor me.

652
00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:18,400
Speaker 1: But like you're just kinda probably have to push through it,

653
00:29:18,480 --> 00:29:19,800
Speaker 1: Like what's your experience with that?

654
00:29:20,280 --> 00:29:23,560
Speaker 2: Breaking up with someone is not equally as hard, but

655
00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:25,840
Speaker 2: it is very hard in a different way because you

656
00:29:25,960 --> 00:29:28,080
Speaker 2: really have to be strong and even if they're the person,

657
00:29:28,320 --> 00:29:30,520
Speaker 2: breaking up someone is so much harder than being breakway.

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Speaker 2: Then I'm like, shut your I have I haven't actually had.

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Speaker 2: I haven't been broken up with before touchwood perfect girl. No,

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Speaker 2: not perfect. But so I actually don't know how hard

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Speaker 2: that is. But breaking up with someone is hard in

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Speaker 2: the way that you actually have to be fucking strong

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Speaker 2: because the other person is not going to be strong

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Speaker 2: for you.

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Speaker 1: Because they want you to say yeah.

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Speaker 2: They're going to do everything in their power obviously to

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Speaker 2: stay with you. So you need to be strong and

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Speaker 2: you need to go into that and saying nothing that

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Speaker 2: this person is going to say is going to make

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Speaker 2: me change my mind because it's not fair because he isn'

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Speaker 2: fair for the other person to have to go through

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Speaker 2: this over all.

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Speaker 1: And it's also not fair.

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Speaker 2: I think i'm this guy now because you're biding your

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Speaker 2: time right now until you can do it. So yeah, Cookie,

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Speaker 2: you do it the bead hing the long run for

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Speaker 2: both of you.

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Speaker 1: Do it and stick.

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Speaker 2: To it so that he doesn't have to go through

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Speaker 2: this again. Also, do it over the phone. Do it,

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Speaker 2: call him and say this is happening. Please, don't try

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Speaker 2: and change my mind. If you want to have a

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Speaker 2: conversation in person about it, we can.

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Speaker 1: But this is what's happening.

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Speaker 2: Like we are we are done, we are broken up

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Speaker 2: now I'm not, but.

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Speaker 1: This is what's happening. You know how you're like I

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Speaker 1: was thinking about this the other day. It's just so

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Speaker 1: off topic, but like how you were just like.

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Speaker 2: I'll be like itching and like dying and like so far,

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Speaker 2: like I've had the worst fucking exper and everything all year,

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Speaker 2: and Riley goes you itching is just like so fucking

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Speaker 2: annoying for me, and I'm like, excuse you, bitch, You're

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Speaker 2: not the one that is scratching your whole fucking body constantly.

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Speaker 2: You know you know what that reminds me of as

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Speaker 2: well well. And you will agree with me on this.

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Speaker 2: We're on the same team here, Okay. Coughing, Yeah, we

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Speaker 2: don't judge each other's coffee. We don't judge anyone for

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Speaker 2: coughing over and over again.

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Speaker 1: You go nuts and you let it out, skirls. Friend.

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Speaker 2: I had, like, I actually had to leave my artelve

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Speaker 2: exams early because of coughing fits, you know, and you

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Speaker 2: know it always hits you when it's quiet in the Yeah,

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Speaker 2: And I had to leave the last fifteen minutes of

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Speaker 2: a couple of my exams because I was like coughing

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Speaker 2: to the point of vomiting. It's like someone when I

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Speaker 2: left the exam, someone said that was so fucking annoying,

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Speaker 2: like can you not?

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Speaker 1: And I just wanted to smack them on the head.

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Speaker 2: I was coughing, bawling, my eyes like tears streaming down

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Speaker 2: my face.

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Speaker 1: I couldn't write. I had to leave.

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Speaker 2: You got twenty minutes more exam time than I did,

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Speaker 2: and you're annoyed.

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Speaker 1: It's shut your socking mouth.

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Speaker 2: So yes, it's annoying, but like we're not people. We

717
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Speaker 2: will never judge you.

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Speaker 1: Will never judge you for cock because it's.

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Speaker 2: So I know how bad it feels, because you're so

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Speaker 2: stressed out. I actually had a coughing fit at my job,

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Speaker 2: so it happens. I thought that this was something I

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Speaker 2: would leave in childhood. No, no, no, it comes with

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Speaker 2: you as a fucking adult. I was in the office,

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Speaker 2: it was silent as hell, yeah, and I was having

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Speaker 2: coughing fits and I had to go and stand in

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Speaker 2: the disabled bathroom for no drug twenty minutes that at

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Speaker 2: the call center, I remember, and I just I was

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Speaker 2: dying and I was so embarrassed and like I had

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Speaker 2: to leave work that day because I was like, I

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Speaker 2: can't fucking stop. And everyone's looking at you like this

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Speaker 2: is so annoying. I'm like annoying for me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that is the only.

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Speaker 2: Person this is anyway, that's totally irrelevant, But we just

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Speaker 2: want to say another hemiou you are the arshole of

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Speaker 2: you judge people for having coughing Yeah, you are the

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Speaker 2: asshole if Yeah what is he said?

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Speaker 1: And thank you Beyonce all the time.

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Speaker 2: Thank you Beyonce. This episode is dedicated to Beyonce and

739
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Speaker 2: everything you do for the world. We love your country

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Speaker 2: music and if you want us to be bet at

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Speaker 2: the Illuminati, whatever you say things, we will join the Illuminati.

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Speaker 1: All right, guys, that was am I the asshole.

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Speaker 2: We have so many amazing submissions, so I'm definitely going

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Speaker 2: to do a part two as Riley has to fucking

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Speaker 2: leave like a booch. But we love you guys. Thank

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Speaker 2: you for listening every week. Appreciate you, Riley, say something

747
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Speaker 2: for the people. We appreciate y'all. So go Riot, dude,

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Speaker 2: go Riot, and on three two, thank you for your

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Speaker 2: saf