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Speaker 2: We begin today by acknowledging the traditional custodians of the

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Speaker 2: to their elders past and present. We extend that respect

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Speaker 3: Welcome to the Grow and Glow Podcast. I'm Ashy, I'm Kiara.

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Speaker 3: This is a podcast where we learn, laugh, and level

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Speaker 1: The emotions flow, and find the lessons to Grow and Glow.

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Speaker 1: Nothing is off the table with Grow and Glow and

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Speaker 1: we're here to be your expander. Hello guys, welcome back

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Speaker 1: to Grow and Glow. We've got a very big episode today.

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Speaker 3: We do grab your popcorn and before we get into it,

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Speaker 3: It Yeah, really does mean a lot.

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Speaker 1: We appreciate it so much. So today we are diving

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Speaker 1: into sex again. No, but just a massive conversation around relationships.

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Speaker 1: This is a hot topic. Whenever we put out questions box,

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Speaker 1: this is majority of what we get asked about and

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Speaker 1: we love talking about it. And there's quite a few

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Speaker 1: different aspects of relationships that we're going to be covering today. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but before we get into it, the highs and the

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Speaker 1: low sedato, Yes, definitely, all the in between. Yeah, some

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Speaker 1: things that have changed now dynamics. Anyways, we'll get into it. Yes,

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Speaker 1: what's your share of the week?

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Speaker 3: My share of the Week's actually a story?

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, so have I heard it?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 3: So you know how we've spoken before and you have

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Speaker 3: been walked in before. Yes, on by tag.

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Speaker 1: Yes, what are you guys doing?

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Speaker 3: Yes, So we finally had the occasion arrived, which kid

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Speaker 3: was a Lincoln in New Wait. It was the most

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Speaker 3: innocent thing I've ever heard in my whole life. So

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Speaker 3: we had like some music playing quite loudly. Kids were

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Speaker 3: already asleep, so we thought that night time. You're like, okay,

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Speaker 3: Finally like had some time together. It was a well

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Speaker 3: later it had you have been half an hour later

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Speaker 3: because we like had our snuggles, like hung out. Anyway,

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Speaker 3: music is playing and it's quite loud. You need to

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Speaker 3: know this to understand the story.

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Speaker 1: Curny.

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Speaker 3: Obviously, both I've gotta giggle. Obviously we're both but naked. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: because that's what happens when you do those things.

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Speaker 1: Court is on top.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he's like the details a thing.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, what's what did he say? Why didn't you.

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Speaker 3: Guys tell me you're having a dance party? What was moving.

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Speaker 1: Music? Oh my goodness, you.

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Speaker 3: Guys have me a dance party without me?

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Speaker 1: Did he ask where you were naked?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 1: Just that's just normal.

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Speaker 3: They do see us like a bit often. Yeah, oh

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Speaker 3: then after that and I'm like, that is it when

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Speaker 3: cannot like if you're only doing it for that amount

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Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, but yeah it happened. And then I

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Speaker 1: don't know if this is too much information, but can

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Speaker 1: For once it went yeah, good, okay, fully ruin it.

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Speaker 3: But it was just like I was, I can't believe

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Speaker 1: Had Oh that's so funny. A dance party that is?

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Speaker 3: Are you so dead? Seriously? Walks. I can't believe you're

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Speaker 3: having a dance party without me.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, that's so funny, so funny.

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Speaker 3: Oh so, what's your share of the week.

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Speaker 1: Mine's really random, but everyone knows I love sweets and

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Speaker 1: I love lollies. I really love lollies. And it's these

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Speaker 1: healthier lollies that are out now. They're called fun Day. Oh.

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Speaker 1: The ones I bought member I put them that time

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Speaker 1: they've got strawberries and cream. They've got Cola bottles, peach ones, snakes,

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Speaker 1: gummy bears, and the strawberries and cream. I swear they

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Speaker 1: and they've got fire from them. And I showed the

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Speaker 1: packet to Levia. Anything that I'm unsure of, and I

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Speaker 1: Because I always want the healthiest, cleanest al turned it

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Speaker 1: sounds like an ad. I mean, I wish they would

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Speaker 1: sponsor me. They don't. I buy them from Flatteries. But yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't know how they've done it, Like the ingredients

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Speaker 1: are amazing. And the guy who started I started following

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Speaker 1: them on TikTok and they tell a bit of a

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Speaker 1: and just like love sweets, but hated all the sugar

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Speaker 1: and crap that was in them. But they're really yummy.

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Speaker 1: So you can get them from coals, I think, Woolies

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Speaker 1: and Flatteries and some service stations too. Yeah, they go

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Speaker 1: at Fun Day if you're listening, sponsor, gonna be on.

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Speaker 3: Your pr list. They don't have any our coals and

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Speaker 3: that know. But I get outs from the Chuggan markets

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Speaker 1: Gosh, they're good. They're so yeah.

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Speaker 3: You got me hooked on those.

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Speaker 1: So that's my share of the week.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, nice, so good.

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Speaker 1: All right, let's get into it. Okay, today's yeah all

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Speaker 1: about relationships. Different things. We've been feeling different things we've

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Speaker 3: Let's start with a forum. We haven't touched on this

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Speaker 3: to that one over on our forum, we had some

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Speaker 3: we were highlighting how different our sex lives were two theirs.

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Speaker 1: And it made them feel like something's wrong with their

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Speaker 1: want to preface with saying, like, our sex life isn't

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Speaker 1: Yeah, as it does change so much, and as you

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Speaker 1: guys know, on this podcast, we don't just share the highlights.

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Speaker 1: And everyone comes through with like good intentions, but overwhelming can.

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Speaker 1: You tried everything.

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Speaker 3: It's been going on for months now. We have tried

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Speaker 3: so many things, and we have just kind of accepted now,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, even just to like connect, Like I feel like

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Speaker 3: but not actually having and they're there and not what

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Speaker 3: where you feel like you're just passing each other but

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Speaker 1: such a nice shift. So I wanted to share this

433
00:18:13,241 --> 00:18:15,480
Speaker 1: because I didn't realize how much I was in my

434
00:18:15,561 --> 00:18:18,160
Speaker 1: masculine and tool this shift. So it's cool for you

435
00:18:18,521 --> 00:18:21,520
Speaker 1: guys listening to just check in and what are you

436
00:18:21,600 --> 00:18:24,720
Speaker 1: at your core and where are you neglecting that and

437
00:18:24,721 --> 00:18:27,200
Speaker 1: how could you invite some more of that like yummy

438
00:18:27,281 --> 00:18:31,600
Speaker 1: energy that feels good for you naturally, and sometimes even

439
00:18:31,600 --> 00:18:33,521
Speaker 1: listening you might be like, I don't fucking know, and

440
00:18:33,561 --> 00:18:35,200
Speaker 1: that goes to show how out of touch you are

441
00:18:35,640 --> 00:18:38,761
Speaker 1: with where you're sitting at. So it's a really good

442
00:18:38,761 --> 00:18:41,361
Speaker 1: reflection and something i'd love everyone and bite you all

443
00:18:41,400 --> 00:18:44,881
Speaker 1: to reflect on and see where you can make some changes. Yeah.

444
00:18:44,961 --> 00:18:49,680
Speaker 3: I noticed too, when I'm really in my masculine, Kurt

445
00:18:49,801 --> 00:18:53,801
Speaker 3: starts to go really into his fem exactly what happens, Yeah, yep,

446
00:18:53,840 --> 00:18:55,400
Speaker 3: And then I'm like oh, and I'm like, hang on

447
00:18:55,441 --> 00:18:57,521
Speaker 3: a second. So yeah, this last year is well, we've

448
00:18:57,600 --> 00:19:00,080
Speaker 3: changed a lot of roles and it just feels so

449
00:19:00,441 --> 00:19:01,601
Speaker 3: well aligned.

450
00:19:01,160 --> 00:19:03,360
Speaker 1: To exactly what you said. That happens and then it

451
00:19:03,481 --> 00:19:07,321
Speaker 1: ruins the sexual polarity, and you wonder why little things

452
00:19:07,360 --> 00:19:09,440
Speaker 1: that they do are turning you off or it's just

453
00:19:09,481 --> 00:19:13,281
Speaker 1: like an ick. Whereas when they're strong in their core energy,

454
00:19:13,281 --> 00:19:16,281
Speaker 1: whether that is masculine or feminine, whatever that is, you're

455
00:19:16,281 --> 00:19:19,121
Speaker 1: so much more drawn to them because they're confident, they're

456
00:19:19,120 --> 00:19:21,321
Speaker 1: standing what feels good for them, and they're doing the

457
00:19:21,360 --> 00:19:23,240
Speaker 1: things they're good at and they feel good at, and

458
00:19:23,321 --> 00:19:26,921
Speaker 1: vice versa. So that polarity and that attraction is just like, yeah,

459
00:19:27,681 --> 00:19:30,321
Speaker 1: do something with my hands. Like you're drawn together, You're

460
00:19:30,521 --> 00:19:33,160
Speaker 1: you know, you're a magnetized magnetized Yeah, this is what

461
00:19:33,201 --> 00:19:36,281
Speaker 1: this is. The type of thing is together it is.

462
00:19:36,281 --> 00:19:38,121
Speaker 1: It's like a magnet. You're more drawn to each other.

463
00:19:38,400 --> 00:19:42,041
Speaker 1: That naturally happens when that polarity is beautifully balanced in

464
00:19:42,080 --> 00:19:42,801
Speaker 1: the right energy.

465
00:19:43,120 --> 00:19:46,281
Speaker 3: So true. And yeah, when I'm fully masculine as well,

466
00:19:46,561 --> 00:19:48,160
Speaker 3: i can't even tell it where he looks at me.

467
00:19:48,201 --> 00:19:50,760
Speaker 3: I'm like, you're not feeling me right now, Like especially

468
00:19:50,761 --> 00:19:52,240
Speaker 3: if work is done for the day and I'm like

469
00:19:52,281 --> 00:19:54,401
Speaker 3: stressing out things blah blah blah. But then when I'm

470
00:19:54,400 --> 00:19:57,880
Speaker 3: like like I'm gonna go do my nails, like oh,

471
00:19:57,961 --> 00:20:01,880
Speaker 3: bath the kids and just reel flowy and going.

472
00:20:01,241 --> 00:20:04,481
Speaker 1: Else I've noticed too, is like I'm singing and dancing

473
00:20:04,521 --> 00:20:07,801
Speaker 1: and just being I don't know, just it is flowy.

474
00:20:07,880 --> 00:20:09,521
Speaker 1: Such a beautiful word. And when I think of the

475
00:20:09,561 --> 00:20:12,520
Speaker 1: word feminine, I mean one person I think of is

476
00:20:12,521 --> 00:20:15,440
Speaker 1: my beautiful girlfriend, Megsie. She's so feminine and she is

477
00:20:15,441 --> 00:20:19,360
Speaker 1: the most flowy, go with the flow, like unstructured, non

478
00:20:19,441 --> 00:20:21,840
Speaker 1: routine person. And even when you go to her house,

479
00:20:21,840 --> 00:20:24,881
Speaker 1: she's always in the flowy dress and like her hair's out.

480
00:20:24,921 --> 00:20:27,080
Speaker 1: And once again, that doesn't mean if you don't do

481
00:20:27,120 --> 00:20:28,920
Speaker 1: that doesn't mean you're not feminine. But these are the

482
00:20:28,961 --> 00:20:31,640
Speaker 1: things that she does that makes her feel feminine. She

483
00:20:31,761 --> 00:20:34,161
Speaker 1: at night, you know, it's getting in the robe, it's

484
00:20:34,201 --> 00:20:36,360
Speaker 1: rubbing the moisture car rising creams on. It's light in

485
00:20:36,400 --> 00:20:38,801
Speaker 1: the candles, it's having moody music. She has all these

486
00:20:38,801 --> 00:20:40,721
Speaker 1: little things that I've learned to do for myself too,

487
00:20:41,281 --> 00:20:44,281
Speaker 1: that just keeps her in that feminine energy for longer.

488
00:20:44,400 --> 00:20:46,840
Speaker 1: It's not once a month go to a dance class,

489
00:20:46,840 --> 00:20:48,840
Speaker 1: which I love going to dance class, and that definitely

490
00:20:48,840 --> 00:20:51,001
Speaker 1: fills up my feminine cup. I feel so sexy and

491
00:20:51,041 --> 00:20:53,400
Speaker 1: flowy and is flow with your body. But it's like,

492
00:20:53,441 --> 00:20:56,561
Speaker 1: how do you bring in more of that energy things

493
00:20:56,840 --> 00:21:00,041
Speaker 1: every single day? One percent every single day. That's three

494
00:21:00,120 --> 00:21:03,201
Speaker 1: hundred and sixty five percent improvement over a year. Yeah,

495
00:21:03,281 --> 00:21:05,720
Speaker 1: that adds up, and that the more you practice it,

496
00:21:05,761 --> 00:21:07,880
Speaker 1: the more it just becomes a part of who you

497
00:21:07,921 --> 00:21:09,720
Speaker 1: are and you don't have to consciously think about it.

498
00:21:09,840 --> 00:21:13,080
Speaker 1: The goal is to unconsciously just do that stuff, right. Yeah,

499
00:21:13,080 --> 00:21:15,160
Speaker 1: but if you're not doing it now what we have

500
00:21:15,241 --> 00:21:17,481
Speaker 1: to do to start something. It's like a healthy food

501
00:21:17,521 --> 00:21:20,521
Speaker 1: journey or excise unit. You have to consciously implement these

502
00:21:20,561 --> 00:21:23,041
Speaker 1: habits until you unconsciously just do it.

503
00:21:23,120 --> 00:21:25,161
Speaker 3: What do they say six weeks to create a new habit?

504
00:21:25,241 --> 00:21:27,880
Speaker 1: Hey, and everyone's different. I don't love those like twenty

505
00:21:27,921 --> 00:21:29,600
Speaker 1: one days for a new habits six weeks. I feel

506
00:21:29,600 --> 00:21:32,521
Speaker 1: like everyone's really different depending on how long they've been

507
00:21:32,561 --> 00:21:35,360
Speaker 1: in a habit for. So try not put a timeline

508
00:21:35,400 --> 00:21:35,761
Speaker 1: on it.

509
00:21:35,801 --> 00:21:38,201
Speaker 3: But I think minimum six weeks because if you start

510
00:21:38,241 --> 00:21:40,041
Speaker 3: trying to pick something up, it's not going to become

511
00:21:40,041 --> 00:21:43,080
Speaker 3: in your you know less, you're passing it for a

512
00:21:43,120 --> 00:21:44,841
Speaker 3: minimum solid amount of time.

513
00:21:44,801 --> 00:21:48,880
Speaker 1: One hundred percent. So yeah, it's been really really nice,

514
00:21:48,921 --> 00:21:50,360
Speaker 1: And like I said, when I gave you guys my

515
00:21:50,441 --> 00:21:53,600
Speaker 1: health update, even though it's a really really hard week

516
00:21:53,640 --> 00:21:55,561
Speaker 1: and a lot to process, and you know, I've got

517
00:21:55,600 --> 00:21:57,360
Speaker 1: to get these check ups to the rest of my life. Now.

518
00:21:57,521 --> 00:21:59,440
Speaker 1: I'm so glad all of that happened because there's been

519
00:21:59,481 --> 00:22:02,680
Speaker 1: so many changes in my work life, in my personal life,

520
00:22:03,041 --> 00:22:05,441
Speaker 1: in my body, in my energy, how I'm sure up.

521
00:22:05,521 --> 00:22:09,601
Speaker 1: So it's like your relationship in my relationships just so beautiful,

522
00:22:10,201 --> 00:22:12,160
Speaker 1: so nice, And it's crazy when you've been with your

523
00:22:12,201 --> 00:22:14,921
Speaker 1: partner for like we're the same sixteen years we've both

524
00:22:14,961 --> 00:22:17,360
Speaker 1: been with our partner, you really do get to know

525
00:22:17,521 --> 00:22:20,681
Speaker 1: so many versions of that person and you grow so much.

526
00:22:20,761 --> 00:22:22,880
Speaker 1: They grow so much, you grow as a couple, and

527
00:22:22,921 --> 00:22:26,041
Speaker 1: there is ebbs and flows where you're like navigating different things.

528
00:22:26,041 --> 00:22:27,961
Speaker 1: But I don't know about you, but I just feel

529
00:22:27,961 --> 00:22:30,681
Speaker 1: like the longer you're with them, the deeper the connection

530
00:22:31,241 --> 00:22:33,200
Speaker 1: because it is all that stuff that you're just so

531
00:22:33,281 --> 00:22:35,080
Speaker 1: proud of them for what they've overcome and what they've

532
00:22:35,080 --> 00:22:38,521
Speaker 1: grown through and who they are now can just see

533
00:22:38,761 --> 00:22:40,521
Speaker 1: all those parts and you're like, I'm so proud of you.

534
00:22:40,561 --> 00:22:43,041
Speaker 1: But also it's a mirror reflection because I see what

535
00:22:43,160 --> 00:22:45,241
Speaker 1: Steve's done, and I'm like, I've also done that work

536
00:22:45,241 --> 00:22:47,761
Speaker 1: with him and it's this beautiful like picture it like

537
00:22:47,801 --> 00:22:51,001
Speaker 1: a dance that you're doing with them. You're constantly intertwining

538
00:22:51,041 --> 00:22:54,880
Speaker 1: and twisting and turning together, but it's so beautiful, so beautiful.

539
00:22:54,961 --> 00:22:57,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like this whole trip, this time up

540
00:22:57,681 --> 00:23:00,041
Speaker 3: here at Brisbane. We have just been loving on our

541
00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:00,801
Speaker 3: husbands to each other.

542
00:23:01,600 --> 00:23:04,561
Speaker 1: Like last night, I was like, how credible we both

543
00:23:04,561 --> 00:23:06,680
Speaker 1: called our and I was like, how incredible are our

544
00:23:06,761 --> 00:23:10,321
Speaker 1: husbands are just so supportive and so loving and I'm

545
00:23:10,321 --> 00:23:12,761
Speaker 1: so grateful, so grateful.

546
00:23:12,360 --> 00:23:14,360
Speaker 3: And even like with Reagan, I said to Ashy, I

547
00:23:14,400 --> 00:23:16,201
Speaker 3: was like, oh fuck, I feel like bad and weird

548
00:23:16,201 --> 00:23:18,440
Speaker 3: about like Reagan and like got a message to the

549
00:23:18,481 --> 00:23:20,880
Speaker 3: sat down about to start recording and it's like, don't worry, babe,

550
00:23:20,921 --> 00:23:22,721
Speaker 3: I've got it. Like you're like your time.

551
00:23:23,201 --> 00:23:23,401
Speaker 1: Yes.

552
00:23:23,481 --> 00:23:24,681
Speaker 3: It was like that's who I need, Like.

553
00:23:26,120 --> 00:23:29,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, you feel so safe and like just support it

554
00:23:29,400 --> 00:23:32,440
Speaker 1: and held even though he's tired. He's like, I've got this, babe,

555
00:23:32,441 --> 00:23:32,840
Speaker 1: you go do it.

556
00:23:32,921 --> 00:23:34,680
Speaker 3: Just gave me so much confidence and made me not

557
00:23:34,721 --> 00:23:37,960
Speaker 3: feel like any guilt about leaving him when he's not

558
00:23:38,041 --> 00:23:39,241
Speaker 3: saving and he's exhausted.

559
00:23:40,441 --> 00:23:41,521
Speaker 1: Both so good like that.

560
00:23:41,521 --> 00:23:43,561
Speaker 3: And even Steve, like you watch and he's like kissing

561
00:23:43,561 --> 00:23:44,880
Speaker 3: her while she's having a battle.

562
00:23:44,600 --> 00:23:48,921
Speaker 1: At the so beautiful, So nice, But it's also once again,

563
00:23:49,001 --> 00:23:50,961
Speaker 1: like we were talking this morning about some really hard

564
00:23:50,961 --> 00:23:53,080
Speaker 1: times we went through when we were younger, with both

565
00:23:53,120 --> 00:23:55,200
Speaker 1: of out men having some really bad stages with like

566
00:23:55,241 --> 00:23:58,000
Speaker 1: just drinking lots and just different yucky stages have been

567
00:23:58,080 --> 00:24:01,321
Speaker 1: through like this hasn't always been like this, And I

568
00:24:01,360 --> 00:24:03,960
Speaker 1: don't like it when people say, oh, you're so lucky.

569
00:24:04,160 --> 00:24:06,280
Speaker 1: I feel very black, don't get me wrong, but like

570
00:24:06,400 --> 00:24:09,921
Speaker 1: a relationship with depth and understanding and a level of

571
00:24:10,481 --> 00:24:12,680
Speaker 1: love that we have and gratitude for them. That's taken

572
00:24:12,721 --> 00:24:15,521
Speaker 1: a lot of work. It's taken a lot of self

573
00:24:15,561 --> 00:24:19,121
Speaker 1: awareness from us and from them and working together and

574
00:24:19,201 --> 00:24:24,281
Speaker 1: having hard, uncomfortable conversations and holding space for that person

575
00:24:24,840 --> 00:24:28,481
Speaker 1: and compromise. That's all relationships, right. I feel like friendships,

576
00:24:28,521 --> 00:24:33,561
Speaker 1: intimate relationships, it's not something that comes easy. No, it's

577
00:24:33,600 --> 00:24:36,201
Speaker 1: not so fucking worth it if you put that work in.

578
00:24:36,721 --> 00:24:38,401
Speaker 1: I feel like we've never been in the dating scene

579
00:24:38,400 --> 00:24:40,481
Speaker 1: where it's like the Tinder and swipe left or right.

580
00:24:40,521 --> 00:24:42,521
Speaker 1: But I feel like a lot of relationships these days.

581
00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:44,561
Speaker 1: They give up when things start to get hard. And

582
00:24:44,600 --> 00:24:46,561
Speaker 1: for sure, if something's not feeling right and you feel

583
00:24:46,561 --> 00:24:49,721
Speaker 1: you're on different paths, definitely, Like you know, some relationships

584
00:24:49,761 --> 00:24:51,360
Speaker 1: aren't meant to be forever. And that's so fine. I

585
00:24:51,400 --> 00:24:54,200
Speaker 1: believe we have lots of soul mates. But it's so

586
00:24:54,321 --> 00:24:56,001
Speaker 1: easy for people to just swipe left and right and

587
00:24:56,041 --> 00:24:57,801
Speaker 1: think that the grass is greener. But if you can

588
00:24:58,120 --> 00:25:01,080
Speaker 1: really water the grass that you're on now and nurture

589
00:25:01,120 --> 00:25:03,041
Speaker 1: that relationship and put the work and put the time,

590
00:25:03,080 --> 00:25:06,041
Speaker 1: put the energy, I feel like it will flyw I definitely,

591
00:25:06,080 --> 00:25:07,840
Speaker 1: but both parties have to be prepared to the work.

592
00:25:07,921 --> 00:25:10,201
Speaker 1: That's it. If one's not, then you're gonna go around

593
00:25:10,201 --> 00:25:11,400
Speaker 1: completely different directions and.

594
00:25:11,481 --> 00:25:12,440
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna last.

595
00:25:12,721 --> 00:25:13,041
Speaker 1: Nope.

596
00:25:13,160 --> 00:25:15,481
Speaker 3: Something else that's happened as well these last few weeks,

597
00:25:15,481 --> 00:25:18,120
Speaker 3: which I haven't really spoken about yet online. I haven't

598
00:25:18,120 --> 00:25:21,400
Speaker 3: even sad anything about on Instagram. But Kurt went last

599
00:25:21,521 --> 00:25:24,481
Speaker 3: year and got a skin check done, we both did,

600
00:25:24,801 --> 00:25:27,240
Speaker 3: and he ended up getting a referral to go and

601
00:25:27,321 --> 00:25:30,521
Speaker 3: get a second opinion on his lips. He's struggled a

602
00:25:30,521 --> 00:25:32,600
Speaker 3: lot with them throughout the years because he was young

603
00:25:32,961 --> 00:25:36,160
Speaker 3: out in the sun a lot, surfing in the salt water,

604
00:25:36,640 --> 00:25:40,561
Speaker 3: and his lips just copped a lot of damage. So anyways,

605
00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:44,401
Speaker 3: he finally went and got the check up done, and yeah,

606
00:25:44,521 --> 00:25:47,241
Speaker 3: his lips were not in great shape. They said in

607
00:25:47,241 --> 00:25:49,041
Speaker 3: another couple of years if he left it, it would

608
00:25:49,080 --> 00:25:52,041
Speaker 3: probably be the start of becoming cancerous, which is pretty scary,

609
00:25:52,321 --> 00:25:54,200
Speaker 3: but also so glad that he went and got it

610
00:25:54,321 --> 00:25:57,041
Speaker 3: looked at. And we're taking the steps to manage all

611
00:25:57,120 --> 00:25:59,360
Speaker 3: of that and you know, try to do what we can.

612
00:25:59,681 --> 00:26:02,081
Speaker 3: But he straight away those one sun spot and once

613
00:26:02,120 --> 00:26:03,561
Speaker 3: what where He's like, I'm not even letting you walk

614
00:26:03,561 --> 00:26:05,041
Speaker 3: out of here with that. He's like, I'm burning this

615
00:26:05,160 --> 00:26:05,600
Speaker 3: right now.

616
00:26:06,321 --> 00:26:08,321
Speaker 1: So he had to get this massive.

617
00:26:08,001 --> 00:26:12,440
Speaker 3: Burn done on his lip and his whole lip, like

618
00:26:12,481 --> 00:26:13,880
Speaker 3: I've showed it ashy photos.

619
00:26:13,961 --> 00:26:14,960
Speaker 1: That's a big blood blister.

620
00:26:15,160 --> 00:26:18,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, and then it popped and it's been weeping, so

621
00:26:18,120 --> 00:26:20,840
Speaker 3: we haven't been able to kiss. Oh that's tough, I know.

622
00:26:20,921 --> 00:26:22,920
Speaker 3: And then now he's also got to go back again

623
00:26:23,360 --> 00:26:26,921
Speaker 3: to get the whole entire bottom lip blazered as well.

624
00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:30,120
Speaker 3: So yeah, that was like a really big deep burn.

625
00:26:30,160 --> 00:26:32,521
Speaker 3: But then he's got it the whole lip done. So

626
00:26:32,681 --> 00:26:34,561
Speaker 3: that's kind of just been another thing that's been thrown

627
00:26:34,561 --> 00:26:36,361
Speaker 3: into the mix as well, because I feel like that's

628
00:26:36,360 --> 00:26:38,521
Speaker 3: such a beautiful way to canags.

629
00:26:38,600 --> 00:26:39,360
Speaker 1: Yeah.

630
00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:42,761
Speaker 3: So yeah, it's been like the foreplay, I've been doing

631
00:26:42,761 --> 00:26:45,641
Speaker 3: like the side kisses because I'm trying to avoid that side.

632
00:26:45,721 --> 00:26:48,321
Speaker 3: But obviously it's so painful for him, like getting the

633
00:26:48,360 --> 00:26:51,401
Speaker 3: actual burn done. He was like it was so effing painful,

634
00:26:51,521 --> 00:26:55,521
Speaker 3: and the aftermath is like it was awful ulco or something.

635
00:26:55,561 --> 00:26:59,321
Speaker 3: They're like how sensitive and sore. Yeah, but also this

636
00:26:59,360 --> 00:27:00,801
Speaker 3: is your reminder if you need to get a skin

637
00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:02,440
Speaker 3: check done.

638
00:27:02,961 --> 00:27:03,121
Speaker 1: Yeah.

639
00:27:03,201 --> 00:27:04,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, that was my first I'm ever getting a skin

640
00:27:04,761 --> 00:27:08,160
Speaker 3: check yea, yeah I do want Yeah, yeah, definitely.

641
00:27:08,521 --> 00:27:10,840
Speaker 1: And Steve's about to go away to Japan for nine days.

642
00:27:11,041 --> 00:27:14,520
Speaker 1: I know nine days. Wow, that's the longest he's been

643
00:27:14,561 --> 00:27:17,000
Speaker 1: away from us for so long, and longest he's been

644
00:27:17,001 --> 00:27:20,160
Speaker 1: away from obviously the kids. Yeah, I'm so excited for him, Like,

645
00:27:20,201 --> 00:27:22,281
Speaker 1: because we've both been to Japan, I just wasn't keen

646
00:27:22,321 --> 00:27:24,360
Speaker 1: to go back, like I liked it. I'm glad I

647
00:27:24,441 --> 00:27:25,801
Speaker 1: got to take it off, but it's not a country

648
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Speaker 1: that I'm like, oh, I can't wait to go back,

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Speaker 1: but he really loved it and wanted to explore more

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Speaker 1: parts of it. So I was like, oh, we should

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Speaker 1: go with a friend, like definitely tick it off. So

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Speaker 1: he's going over. They got really cheap flights and he's

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Speaker 1: super excited. But yeah, I was saying to Kiara, like,

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Speaker 1: I feel like, I hope this doesn't come across the

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Speaker 1: wrong way, but it's just how I feel. I'm not

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Speaker 1: codependent on Steve at all. I'm very independent and I'm

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Speaker 1: with him because I want to be with him, not

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Speaker 1: because I need to be with him for the first

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Speaker 1: time in so long, just because I've been having a

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Speaker 1: really tough time. I really feel like I need him

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Speaker 1: at the moment, like I need him around. He's just

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Speaker 1: holding such a nice space in me and just therefore

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Speaker 1: my tears full and when I'm not feeling great or

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Speaker 1: when I'm feeling tired. So I'm a little bit like.

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Speaker 3: He's such an incredible emotional support for you. He's been

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Speaker 3: like a solid rock.

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Speaker 1: Every single day that I've just whatever I've needed is

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Speaker 1: just been there for me. Some a little bit like

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Speaker 1: nervous for him to go away, Like I know I

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Speaker 1: can handle it, but I'm just gonna miss him so

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Speaker 1: fucking March and there was a freaking tsunami warning in Japan.

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Speaker 1: There was an earthquake in Taiwan. They like cleared a

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Speaker 1: lot of the beaches in this one particular part of Japan.

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Speaker 1: But I was like, oh my gosh, keeping on. So

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Speaker 1: but I was like, wouldn't be mad if you didn't go,

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Speaker 1: But no, I'm really excited. We both want to make

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Speaker 1: sure that we can still like tick the things off

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Speaker 1: that we want to do, and I'm so glad we

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Speaker 1: can support each other and that stuff. So, yeah, he's

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Speaker 1: gonna have a good trip, but I'm gonna fucking miss him. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I feel like I'll be calling him all the time.

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Speaker 1: I miss you. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Actually this morning, I was like, what's so long

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Speaker 3: as you guys have been a past it's having kids,

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Speaker 3: And she's like, this will be it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it it's a long time. So before kids, we

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Speaker 1: used to go on like lots of trips together, and

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Speaker 1: I used to go on quite a few trips with

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Speaker 1: my girlfriends, like to American stuff. But yeah, we haven't

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Speaker 1: been away from each other for this long, and he

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Speaker 1: hasn't been away from the kids for this long. I

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Speaker 1: did five nights in balley with mom last year. That

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Speaker 1: was the longest I've been away from my kids since

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Speaker 1: we've had Tala. Yeah, nine days is a long time,

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Speaker 1: so long time they go for FaceTime though. Honestly, like

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Speaker 1: even my mom doesn't see my kids often, but Tla

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Speaker 1: and her face time like probably every second day, and

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Speaker 1: when she pops up on the phone, she's like Mady

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Speaker 1: mad me, like she knows who she is. So face

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Speaker 1: time is beautiful that you can stay connected like that.

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Speaker 3: So good.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. PS, you're always one decision away from a totally

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Speaker 1: new or different life. Don't forget the power that you hold. That.

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Speaker 3: Ps, you look so good when you don't give a fuck.

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Speaker 2: I love that.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for joining us, guys. Thanks bye,