WEBVTT - THE PETTIEST REASONS FOR CANCELLING A DATE 0:00:00.040 --> 0:00:03.320 I love popping like pimples on my partner's back. 0:00:03.560 --> 0:00:04.600 Oh yeah, they're good ones. 0:00:04.840 --> 0:00:05.040 Yeah. 0:00:05.360 --> 0:00:07.320 Or I sometimes can get them on my shoulder. I'll 0:00:07.360 --> 0:00:08.960 get a random on my shoulder and I'll just look 0:00:09.000 --> 0:00:12.039 over and I'll just go I love it. So sad. 0:00:12.360 --> 0:00:13.880 Sound is like giving me the ear. 0:00:15.320 --> 0:00:16.720 Sorry for everyone listening at home. 0:00:21.600 --> 0:00:24.000 Where's Your Head At? Is a podcast that talks full 0:00:24.079 --> 0:00:31.760 things right, Hold on a sec, let's give this a refresh. Hi. 0:00:32.159 --> 0:00:34.760 I'm Anna and I'm Matt, and we are now too 0:00:34.880 --> 0:00:37.800 newlywed not to each other. Just a female and male 0:00:37.840 --> 0:00:39.960 best friend here for the good, the bad, and the 0:00:40.040 --> 0:00:41.360 ugly times and. 0:00:41.479 --> 0:00:45.520 Exploring adulthood, family relationships, dilemmas. 0:00:45.159 --> 0:00:47.720 And whatever else we have the mental capacity to deal with. 0:00:48.040 --> 0:00:49.040 Come get the lowdown. 0:00:49.240 --> 0:00:51.000 This is your male and female perspective. 0:00:51.440 --> 0:00:53.600 So, Matt, where's your head at? 0:00:55.720 --> 0:00:59.480 This? Good morning, morning Anna, and good morning to everyone 0:00:59.520 --> 0:01:02.000 who is blue blessing there he is listening to us today. 0:01:03.560 --> 0:01:07.240 You're really like giving yourself some old straight up. 0:01:07.440 --> 0:01:09.160 You know, me always gassing myself. 0:01:10.560 --> 0:01:11.560 How are you today? 0:01:11.880 --> 0:01:14.200 I'm good, I mean Melbourne. Good to be down here. 0:01:14.240 --> 0:01:16.760 I caught it playing down here actually surprise, surprise. How 0:01:16.800 --> 0:01:21.320 should I get down here? But you know me, absolutely right, 0:01:23.040 --> 0:01:28.200 I missed my mouth. I looked up and you literally 0:01:28.319 --> 0:01:31.800 hare feeling. I literally saw your coffee just feel everywhere. 0:01:32.959 --> 0:01:36.919 Oh my god. Okay, well is in my hair? That's okay. 0:01:37.280 --> 0:01:38.760 I don't like the smell of coffee. 0:01:38.959 --> 0:01:41.520 It's actually a chilaste because I actually haven't drunk a 0:01:41.560 --> 0:01:46.480 coffee since being pregnant. Blasphemy, Who am I? Can you 0:01:46.520 --> 0:01:51.400 even recognize it? Literally backing our heyday of coffee where 0:01:51.400 --> 0:01:52.320 we were drinking like. 0:01:52.440 --> 0:01:54.840 Four that's to what I'm doing. 0:01:55.160 --> 0:02:00.400 Well, I have crown up. I just can't stand the tape. 0:02:01.200 --> 0:02:05.920 But yeah, now I'm getting Chai Lastes all down me anyway, right, Well. 0:02:05.760 --> 0:02:08.240 What I was saying was I was saying that I 0:02:08.280 --> 0:02:10.680 was on the plane and I would like to just 0:02:10.760 --> 0:02:15.160 explain to anyone that walked past me in that aisle seat, 0:02:15.240 --> 0:02:17.040 so half the plane would have walked past me to 0:02:17.080 --> 0:02:19.320 go back to the bathroom in that they would have 0:02:19.360 --> 0:02:21.240 seen sitting at the back. No, I was sitting in 0:02:21.240 --> 0:02:24.720 the sorry the emergency exit scene. Anyone that walked past me, 0:02:24.720 --> 0:02:26.400 I know a couple of people did. At this scene, 0:02:26.440 --> 0:02:29.560 I like horrors, real horror. Enough, I was watching Texas 0:02:29.680 --> 0:02:31.000 Chainsaw Massacre. 0:02:30.880 --> 0:02:31.519 On the plane. 0:02:31.680 --> 0:02:33.880 On the plane, and there was a scene when the 0:02:33.960 --> 0:02:36.280 leather Face hops onto the school of the bus and 0:02:36.280 --> 0:02:37.640 he starts slaughtering everyone. 0:02:37.880 --> 0:02:38.560 All the kids. 0:02:38.800 --> 0:02:41.000 Wow, they're not kids, they're teenagers, college kids, like they 0:02:41.120 --> 0:02:42.919 just and he was just going nuts on everyone, and 0:02:42.919 --> 0:02:44.919 there was blood everywhere, and I reckon I had it 0:02:45.000 --> 0:02:47.040 set up like on the plane there, so people walking 0:02:47.040 --> 0:02:48.679 past would have seen that and would have thought that, 0:02:49.200 --> 0:02:50.200 what's this boke watching? 0:02:50.240 --> 0:02:53.160 He must be really it's mildly inappropriate. And I'll say 0:02:53.200 --> 0:02:57.200 that it's mildly inappropriate. It's kind of like I see 0:02:57.200 --> 0:03:00.359 this a lot on long haul flights. I see people 0:03:00.560 --> 0:03:04.800 and they're watching you know, The Notebook or Marley and 0:03:04.919 --> 0:03:07.720 Me or one of those real tear jerk of movies, 0:03:07.840 --> 0:03:10.720 and they're bawling their eyes out. They've got like tissues 0:03:10.720 --> 0:03:13.080 in both hands and they're like crying, and I'm like, 0:03:13.080 --> 0:03:15.359 oh my god, you're on an international flight. 0:03:15.600 --> 0:03:17.440 I wouldn't watch that on a fly. I wouldn't watch that. 0:03:17.440 --> 0:03:19.240 In general. I don't like movies that make me cry. 0:03:19.440 --> 0:03:21.040 I don't like the movies that make me cry. I 0:03:21.040 --> 0:03:22.960 don't like movies that make me sad. I don't like 0:03:23.040 --> 0:03:24.440 movies that make me scared. 0:03:24.639 --> 0:03:25.880 Do you just not like cinema? 0:03:26.400 --> 0:03:28.440 I love comedy, romance. 0:03:28.760 --> 0:03:32.639 Well, yeah, that's good. I don't. I'm just cud good 0:03:32.680 --> 0:03:34.680 for you. I'm here just to say to everyone that 0:03:35.040 --> 0:03:38.600 walked past say and had to say, it's sorry. I 0:03:38.760 --> 0:03:41.000 like my horrors and I'll continue to watch them. 0:03:41.080 --> 0:03:44.760 Crazy Psycho watches full. 0:03:44.760 --> 0:03:48.280 Murder blood scenes for the guy with a chainsaw going nuts. 0:03:48.440 --> 0:03:51.240 That's hilarious. So so he about being out in public, 0:03:51.320 --> 0:03:55.839 out in the wild. I saw this girl the other 0:03:55.960 --> 0:04:01.120 day and she had the biggest hickey on her neck 0:04:01.400 --> 0:04:02.600 that you have ever seen? 0:04:03.360 --> 0:04:05.920 Right, ever see a girl with one? 0:04:06.040 --> 0:04:07.760 A girl with one? It was on the net. 0:04:07.960 --> 0:04:09.880 I feel like you've ever seen girls with hickey? 0:04:10.080 --> 0:04:13.040 I was like, number one, does she even know the 0:04:13.080 --> 0:04:13.800 hickey is there? 0:04:13.960 --> 0:04:14.320 Yes? 0:04:14.760 --> 0:04:18.400 Number two, I don't think she does, because if she did, 0:04:18.440 --> 0:04:20.360 surely you would put makeup on it and hide it. 0:04:20.440 --> 0:04:22.400 That's what I mean. You never see girls with hickeys. 0:04:22.640 --> 0:04:23.599 They cover it. 0:04:23.839 --> 0:04:25.800 Oh you never really see dudes with them anyway, Like, 0:04:25.800 --> 0:04:27.359 when was the last time you actually saw a hickey? 0:04:27.600 --> 0:04:30.280 I mean, I mean I saw one on you recently. 0:04:30.520 --> 0:04:33.279 If you actually watch out nova thing. That's the video 0:04:33.400 --> 0:04:34.800 I have a little one there, So I. 0:04:34.760 --> 0:04:36.720 Mean, you're rolling around with some hickeys, but this. 0:04:36.720 --> 0:04:39.000 Girl I don't like kickey so I sort of got 0:04:39.000 --> 0:04:40.719 a little bit like s don't but like in the 0:04:40.800 --> 0:04:42.040 moment like. 0:04:42.040 --> 0:04:45.160 Yeah, yeah, well yeah, I think that at the start 0:04:45.200 --> 0:04:47.960 of a relationship, I liked giving hickeys because I like 0:04:48.000 --> 0:04:51.600 to mark my territory because I'd be like, well, you know, 0:04:51.920 --> 0:04:55.320 we're not exclusive yet, right, We've only just went on 0:04:55.360 --> 0:04:58.280 our five dates and now we're sleeping together, give you 0:04:58.279 --> 0:05:02.159 a kikeys. So I mean they still could, but I 0:05:02.200 --> 0:05:07.720 felt like, in my mind there was less chance. It's 0:05:07.760 --> 0:05:10.320 a real marking of the territory type of thing. 0:05:11.080 --> 0:05:14.600 Yeah, I think it's to me, I related so much 0:05:14.640 --> 0:05:17.400 back to like younger, like being a teenager. 0:05:17.320 --> 0:05:20.720 Because it was like, yeah, it's not like a teenager thing, 0:05:20.920 --> 0:05:23.000 and like you'd learn to like give hickeys as well. 0:05:23.040 --> 0:05:24.360 People be like how do you do it? And then 0:05:24.360 --> 0:05:25.880 you do it on your hand to try and like. 0:05:25.880 --> 0:05:27.440 How do you do it? I don't really you. 0:05:27.480 --> 0:05:31.600 Like suck on the skin until the blood vessels part. 0:05:31.880 --> 0:05:32.760 Is that how it works? 0:05:32.920 --> 0:05:35.560 Yeah, And then it goes into a bruise. I think 0:05:35.920 --> 0:05:37.320 I'm pretty sure, right. 0:05:37.520 --> 0:05:39.520 I remember one time I got some bite. 0:05:39.640 --> 0:05:42.599 You can obviously you suck and bite. What do you 0:05:42.640 --> 0:05:45.719 mean we suck and bite? Have you never given anyone 0:05:45.720 --> 0:05:47.599 a hic he not in. 0:05:47.520 --> 0:05:52.320 Like the last ten years, You've lost your way. 0:05:52.480 --> 0:05:55.320 It's like you suck and I don't want to give 0:05:55.320 --> 0:05:56.920 myself one. Actually, I'm not going to do that. 0:05:57.279 --> 0:05:58.400 You buy it like. 0:05:58.400 --> 0:06:00.159 You bite it a little bit, you suck it it 0:06:00.360 --> 0:06:06.200 like quite hard, like like you know, I hard pressure, 0:06:06.320 --> 0:06:07.000 soft pressure. 0:06:07.320 --> 0:06:08.560 When the last time you gave a hickey? 0:06:09.520 --> 0:06:11.400 I don't know. Maybe I'll give one to Michael to 0:06:12.520 --> 0:06:12.880 it's just. 0:06:12.920 --> 0:06:18.000 Damn he's walking around with aickey. I remember I got 0:06:18.000 --> 0:06:19.920 one one time when I was younger, and my mum 0:06:20.080 --> 0:06:22.640 was like, no, like you can't have that. And I 0:06:22.680 --> 0:06:26.040 had this like anti bruise cream that you put on it. Yeah, 0:06:26.120 --> 0:06:28.120 she bought me this cream and I think a hemorrhoids. 0:06:28.200 --> 0:06:31.600 Think what a hemorrhoids? Bruce Bruiz is that mate? And 0:06:31.680 --> 0:06:34.160 I'm pretty sure that was something like that. I'll have 0:06:34.200 --> 0:06:39.279 to double check herhids. What I don't know, well, it 0:06:39.360 --> 0:06:41.440 was something that wasn't it was for I don't know 0:06:41.440 --> 0:06:44.440 if it was hemorrhoids. What a hemorrhoids? 0:06:45.279 --> 0:06:46.760 Something comes out of your battle. 0:06:50.480 --> 0:06:51.800 I don't know if it was that. I don't know 0:06:51.800 --> 0:06:55.640 if it was that hemorrhoids. No, I thought they were 0:06:55.640 --> 0:06:57.880 like bruises of the skin. 0:06:58.240 --> 0:07:03.240 Hemorrhoids are swollen and inflamed veins in the rectum and 0:07:03.279 --> 0:07:07.479 anus that causes discomfort and bleeding. Hemorrhoids are usually caused 0:07:07.520 --> 0:07:15.040 by straining during bowel movements, obesity or pregnancy. 0:07:15.960 --> 0:07:19.640 Have you got hemorrhoids? I'll find out what. I'll find 0:07:19.640 --> 0:07:21.320 out what the cream was. But it got rid of 0:07:21.320 --> 0:07:22.280 the bruise on my neck. 0:07:22.840 --> 0:07:25.480 That's so hilarious, like it's from my hemorrhoids. 0:07:25.600 --> 0:07:27.040 No, well, my mum went and got it and she 0:07:27.080 --> 0:07:28.760 knew this cream that got bruise. 0:07:28.640 --> 0:07:33.200 Outed someone in your family's. 0:07:32.960 --> 0:07:35.200 No one does. We went and bought the cream and 0:07:35.240 --> 0:07:36.920 she said to get rid of bruises, and I put 0:07:36.960 --> 0:07:38.560 it on and within that two days it was gone. 0:07:38.680 --> 0:07:41.800 Yeah. No, I have actually tried that cream. I'm still laughing. 0:07:42.360 --> 0:07:44.680 I think when I got my lips done, like back, 0:07:44.760 --> 0:07:46.640 the very first time I'd ever got it done, and 0:07:46.640 --> 0:07:48.240 they give you that there's this cream that you can 0:07:48.280 --> 0:07:49.240 buy and it helps. 0:07:49.640 --> 0:07:52.240 I thought it was for something else. Maybe hemorrhois is 0:07:52.240 --> 0:07:52.720 the wrong word. 0:07:53.480 --> 0:07:56.520 You should don't forget that word, because ever a word 0:07:56.640 --> 0:07:59.200 you want to remember, keep that one in the front 0:07:59.200 --> 0:08:03.880 of mind. Well, speaking about marks on the body, I 0:08:03.920 --> 0:08:07.760 do have this really irritating pimple at the moment right 0:08:07.800 --> 0:08:11.720 on my jaweline. It's been Ma's like sitting in on 0:08:11.760 --> 0:08:12.520 it with his eyes. 0:08:13.120 --> 0:08:14.560 Yeah, I'm trying to find it. 0:08:14.560 --> 0:08:16.840 It's like right on my jaweline, but also in the 0:08:16.880 --> 0:08:18.840 area of like the double chin, so like if my 0:08:19.120 --> 0:08:21.320 chin goes back, it's like right in the double chin area. 0:08:21.320 --> 0:08:24.840 It's really annoying me. I've tried like. 0:08:24.880 --> 0:08:26.400 Multiple a real blind one. 0:08:26.480 --> 0:08:29.000 I also put like a pimple patch on it, and 0:08:29.000 --> 0:08:31.440 it made it into more of a scab, which I 0:08:31.480 --> 0:08:35.440 don't think they're meant to do that. Yeah, it looks 0:08:35.480 --> 0:08:37.040 really cute at the time, but then it made it 0:08:37.080 --> 0:08:39.120 into a scab and I was like, what's on it? 0:08:39.800 --> 0:08:41.840 I don't know. I think it's meant to pull out 0:08:41.920 --> 0:08:45.480 the infection or the pass or whatever. But anyway, do you. 0:08:45.480 --> 0:08:48.560 Use all that stuff on your skin, like washing stuff 0:08:48.600 --> 0:08:52.080 and all that was washing soaps in the shower and shit, 0:08:52.960 --> 0:08:53.439 I don't. 0:08:53.320 --> 0:08:55.480 Use soap on my skin, like a block of soap 0:08:55.559 --> 0:08:58.680 because it's really drying. But I have like a cleanser. 0:08:59.160 --> 0:09:02.520 Yeah right, that's stuff so foreign to me. Yeah, like 0:09:02.559 --> 0:09:04.520 I said, I used the one thing for my whole body, 0:09:04.840 --> 0:09:07.199 use goldi B. I use Goldie B. Yes, but I'm 0:09:08.320 --> 0:09:11.400 washing my skin. I just literally only use this one 0:09:11.400 --> 0:09:13.080 head and shoulders for my whole body. 0:09:13.600 --> 0:09:15.679 Well and your face. Yeah, just wash my whole self 0:09:15.760 --> 0:09:17.520 and they look at you go with your perfect skin 0:09:17.559 --> 0:09:20.160 as well, and then it too much. 0:09:20.280 --> 0:09:21.920 I get a pimple here and there, and I would 0:09:21.920 --> 0:09:25.560 just pop that motherfucker. How satisfying is it? Same? And 0:09:25.640 --> 0:09:27.760 you just get that Yeah. 0:09:27.840 --> 0:09:31.200 I love popping like pimples on my partner's back. 0:09:31.400 --> 0:09:32.480 Oh yeah, they're good ones. 0:09:32.720 --> 0:09:32.920 Yeah. 0:09:33.200 --> 0:09:35.200 Or I sometimes can get them on my shoulder. I'll 0:09:35.200 --> 0:09:36.839 get a random on my shoulder and I'll just look 0:09:36.880 --> 0:09:39.880 over and I'll just go and I love it so sad. 0:09:40.240 --> 0:09:41.720 Sound is like giving me the eck. 0:09:43.160 --> 0:09:45.920 Sorry for everyone listening at home gracing areas. 0:09:47.200 --> 0:09:49.920 Anyway, I was at my friend's tens party on the 0:09:49.920 --> 0:09:51.960 weekend and I was like, oh, I have this pimple 0:09:52.040 --> 0:09:56.000 is like driving me insane, and my friend actually said 0:09:56.000 --> 0:10:01.720 to me that if she gets simples in specific areas, 0:10:01.960 --> 0:10:06.160 it forces her to cancel specific plans. So, for instance, 0:10:06.640 --> 0:10:09.160 she got a pimple in the middle of her eyebrows, 0:10:09.200 --> 0:10:11.440 like directly in the middle of her face, and she 0:10:11.559 --> 0:10:13.520 actually canceled a date because of it. 0:10:13.679 --> 0:10:15.520 Really she didn't want to just like cover it up 0:10:15.559 --> 0:10:17.160 with a pimple patch or something. 0:10:17.880 --> 0:10:20.080 Like of love heart right in the middle of the face. 0:10:20.400 --> 0:10:24.559 I mean, kincealer would be my preference. Like, I don't 0:10:24.559 --> 0:10:26.559 think I would cancel a date over it. But then 0:10:26.559 --> 0:10:28.200 it just made me think, like I wonder what the 0:10:28.280 --> 0:10:32.960 pettiest raisons are for people to cancel dates. 0:10:33.000 --> 0:10:34.479 Have you canceled any dates? 0:10:35.000 --> 0:10:36.920 I think I canceled a date once when I was 0:10:37.080 --> 0:10:41.000 super nervous. I'm like a very nervous data So when 0:10:41.000 --> 0:10:43.880 I get there, I'm completely fine, But the lead up 0:10:44.000 --> 0:10:47.400 and before I'm so anxious and stressed out, and I 0:10:47.440 --> 0:10:49.679 work myself up. Like before me and Michael went on 0:10:49.840 --> 0:10:52.080 our first date, I had two Tila shots. I remember 0:10:52.120 --> 0:10:56.679 you saying, can't my nerves because I was freaking out. Yeah, well, 0:10:56.679 --> 0:11:00.880 we all can't be, mister confidence. It's not It's not 0:11:00.920 --> 0:11:02.640 that I'm not confident, like I feel like as soon 0:11:02.679 --> 0:11:05.599 as I see them, I'm normal and I'm myself and 0:11:05.640 --> 0:11:07.520 everything like that. I think it's like the lead up, 0:11:07.559 --> 0:11:11.720 and I think it's more so I'm worried about getting 0:11:11.800 --> 0:11:15.160 stuck spending time with someone and not being able to 0:11:15.160 --> 0:11:16.920 get out of it if it's not going well, and 0:11:16.960 --> 0:11:19.920 I don't like them. I think that's my main feel. 0:11:20.400 --> 0:11:21.920 I've only had that once. 0:11:22.840 --> 0:11:29.760 I've only maybe twice twice too many. Like remember that 0:11:29.920 --> 0:11:32.640 date when you had to come yeah right, And I 0:11:32.679 --> 0:11:34.040 was on a date that was on a date and 0:11:34.040 --> 0:11:36.280 I was like I need help, like I can't. 0:11:36.120 --> 0:11:38.000 So me and my date rocked off and health to you. 0:11:38.520 --> 0:11:40.200 I remember one I took a girl to dinner and 0:11:40.200 --> 0:11:43.000 the conversation was so fucking shit, like it was like 0:11:43.040 --> 0:11:45.800 pulling like blood from a stone. But we'd organized the 0:11:45.840 --> 0:11:50.000 movie afterwards, and I really wanted to watch that movie. 0:11:50.040 --> 0:11:52.400 I bought tickets as well. It was like Alien, the 0:11:52.480 --> 0:11:54.160 New Alien, like a year, a couple of years ago, 0:11:54.679 --> 0:11:57.360 and I was just like fuck it. So we went 0:11:57.400 --> 0:11:59.240 and I remember we left in it early because I 0:11:59.280 --> 0:12:01.760 was because I thought there was enough times we sat 0:12:01.840 --> 0:12:03.520 in like the thing at the movies, waiting for it 0:12:03.520 --> 0:12:05.280 to start just like that, and I think we saw 0:12:05.320 --> 0:12:08.560 the whole all the advertising, like all of it, like 0:12:08.600 --> 0:12:10.839 you know, all the trailers, all the shitty ads before 0:12:10.840 --> 0:12:13.400 we just sat there because there was no conversation. Yeah, 0:12:13.440 --> 0:12:14.319 there's no conversation. 0:12:14.400 --> 0:12:15.760 How did you not have conversation? 0:12:15.880 --> 0:12:17.959 You can talk to a brick wall, I could, honestly, 0:12:18.120 --> 0:12:20.560 and this one was like literally hard as fuck. 0:12:20.679 --> 0:12:22.319 Well it was. It kind of like if you were like, oh, 0:12:22.320 --> 0:12:23.559 how's your day and they're like, good. 0:12:23.600 --> 0:12:25.040 Yeah, what are you up to? 0:12:25.160 --> 0:12:25.439 Nothing? 0:12:25.600 --> 0:12:25.800 Yeah? 0:12:26.040 --> 0:12:28.440 Literally tell me about yourself. 0:12:28.520 --> 0:12:32.920 No, no, no, you didn't ask me about my son. 0:12:35.720 --> 0:12:38.840 Okay. So we asked our audience what was some of 0:12:38.880 --> 0:12:42.079 the pettiest reasons that they've canceled a date? And these 0:12:42.280 --> 0:12:45.480 honestly make me laugh. So the first one was that 0:12:46.080 --> 0:12:49.720 they found out his last name, so they met on 0:12:49.760 --> 0:12:55.040 Instagram the last name was not in his profile, and 0:12:55.080 --> 0:12:57.880 then they found him on Facebook and his last name 0:12:57.960 --> 0:13:01.199 had the word cock in it, and they just thought, 0:13:01.920 --> 0:13:06.640 I can't imagine myself being a cock whatever Amy Cock 0:13:06.720 --> 0:13:10.320 Clee or whatever, and they canceled the date. What do 0:13:10.360 --> 0:13:13.520 you think on the level of pettiness, tend being the 0:13:13.520 --> 0:13:14.800 most petty? What are we thinking. 0:13:14.960 --> 0:13:17.480 I mean, he's probably probably a really good guy. 0:13:17.559 --> 0:13:19.400 It's probably a really nice guy. 0:13:19.840 --> 0:13:22.880 I mean, that's petty. That reminds me of when I 0:13:22.960 --> 0:13:26.880 was in London and it was like, this is the 0:13:27.000 --> 0:13:29.760 cock of the tube, but you say the cock Fosters 0:13:30.160 --> 0:13:33.000 last stuff is cock Foster's and we would just pissing 0:13:33.040 --> 0:13:37.320 ourselves every time we heard it. That's petty. 0:13:38.080 --> 0:13:40.840 Okay. Another one we have someone said that they canceled 0:13:40.840 --> 0:13:44.120 a date because it was raining and their hair would 0:13:44.120 --> 0:13:44.680 get frizzy. 0:13:45.960 --> 0:13:47.920 I don't, I don't. I don't approve that sort. 0:13:47.720 --> 0:13:50.160 Of stuff half his self. Would you be If you're 0:13:50.160 --> 0:13:53.560 the guy you're so excited to take this girl out 0:13:53.600 --> 0:13:55.480 and they canceled because it's raining. 0:13:55.280 --> 0:13:57.479 He's come off the winner. He shouldn't stress. 0:13:57.520 --> 0:13:59.320 This is why I feel like in dating you just 0:13:59.360 --> 0:14:00.959 can't take any thing too personally. 0:14:01.200 --> 0:14:03.839 No, you can't unless they say I don't want to 0:14:03.920 --> 0:14:08.720 see you because of your last name. That's a bit personal. 0:14:09.320 --> 0:14:12.880 Okay. We also have because of the place. So someone 0:14:12.920 --> 0:14:15.440 said that they were going to take her to grilled 0:14:15.840 --> 0:14:18.840 and that was a big no no from her. Kind 0:14:18.840 --> 0:14:21.800 of reminds me of the recent season of Maths where 0:14:21.840 --> 0:14:24.640 Adrian was like, well, I took her to Nando's and 0:14:24.640 --> 0:14:27.640 everyone was like, oh my god. I mean I love Nando's. 0:14:27.680 --> 0:14:32.040 I love Grilled, I love Grilled, I have nothing love everything. 0:14:32.080 --> 0:14:35.160 You love Subway two weeks ago, Like, you're just like 0:14:35.200 --> 0:14:35.760 being fair? 0:14:36.880 --> 0:14:37.720 Should we grilled? 0:14:37.760 --> 0:14:41.440 After this, you're going to say that I've got a 0:14:41.440 --> 0:14:43.080 busy day. 0:14:43.280 --> 0:14:47.080 That Subway was actually really bad. I'm gonna say bad 0:14:47.080 --> 0:14:49.080 because Subway. I love you guys. If you want to reach. 0:14:48.960 --> 0:14:52.680 Out, this is not it. This is not your like 0:14:52.840 --> 0:14:56.040 personal like shout out myself. 0:14:57.200 --> 0:15:00.000 No, I love Subway, But that one's a bit disappoin 0:15:00.240 --> 0:15:03.840 The bun was a bit off. Yeah, there's something that 0:15:04.200 --> 0:15:05.440 maybe that will have a bad batch. 0:15:05.600 --> 0:15:10.120 Who knows final one, final one, final one. The reason 0:15:10.280 --> 0:15:13.000 and this is my favorite of the reason why someone 0:15:13.040 --> 0:15:17.280 canceled a date because she was on a period. And look, 0:15:17.440 --> 0:15:19.720 people do get bad period. It's like, I have a 0:15:19.760 --> 0:15:23.000 friend who has endo and she gets really painful periods. 0:15:23.040 --> 0:15:27.000 So if you're getting a painful period, totally understood. But 0:15:27.520 --> 0:15:30.360 this girl just said, you know, she doesn't want to 0:15:30.440 --> 0:15:31.960 date someone whilst on no period. 0:15:32.280 --> 0:15:35.000 Yeah, I could see that to be relaxing at home. 0:15:35.040 --> 0:15:36.440 You don't want to be sitting there with cramps at 0:15:36.440 --> 0:15:38.200 the table while you're trying to talk to someone. 0:15:38.320 --> 0:15:40.280 See, that wouldn't put I would never do that. 0:15:40.520 --> 0:15:42.960 Yeah, I could imagine that being unpleasant as well well, 0:15:43.400 --> 0:15:45.680 sitting there cramping and in pain while trying to like 0:15:45.760 --> 0:15:46.800 talk to someone. 0:15:46.560 --> 0:15:49.600 And yeah, I'd probably just like I don't, I get 0:15:49.640 --> 0:15:52.480 bad period pain, but I would just take a couple 0:15:52.520 --> 0:15:54.640 of pan at all, and I wouldn't stop my life 0:15:54.680 --> 0:15:56.800 because of my period. Obviously I don't have endo, so 0:15:56.800 --> 0:15:58.920 it's a bit different. If you do, then that's a 0:15:58.920 --> 0:16:02.760 different story. But if you just have a period, Look. 0:16:02.680 --> 0:16:03.520 I can't relate at all. 0:16:03.640 --> 0:16:06.840 I've never I didn't think you'd be able to eat. 0:16:08.400 --> 0:16:09.800 Yeah, I feel like if you're in pain, I could 0:16:09.880 --> 0:16:11.560 imagine anything less of being in pain trying to chat 0:16:11.600 --> 0:16:15.320 someone up on day true. 0:16:16.080 --> 0:16:19.640 Okay, Matt, this next segment has come in from our 0:16:19.840 --> 0:16:24.200 beautiful producer Blake. We have not been able to read 0:16:24.240 --> 0:16:28.880 this because it will ruin the surprise, but essentially, there 0:16:29.120 --> 0:16:34.000 is the spoon fork a knife personality test. I've personally 0:16:34.040 --> 0:16:35.640 never heard of it before, have you? 0:16:35.680 --> 0:16:37.440 No first time I've heard of it, the first. 0:16:37.240 --> 0:16:40.120 Time we've both heard of it, and basically the spoon, fork, 0:16:40.160 --> 0:16:44.640 a knife. Personality theory suggests that people can be categorized 0:16:44.760 --> 0:16:50.800 based on their reaction to this challenge. So blind react 0:16:50.960 --> 0:16:53.040 this is for me and that. But also, if you're 0:16:53.080 --> 0:16:57.520 listening from wherever you're listening from, would you classify yourself 0:16:58.680 --> 0:17:03.960 as a fork, a knife, or a spoon. I have 0:17:04.000 --> 0:17:08.320 a think, what's resonating with you? What's pulling you there? 0:17:09.119 --> 0:17:13.440 I feel like a spoon is more of a docile 0:17:14.119 --> 0:17:15.600 sort of utensil. 0:17:15.680 --> 0:17:18.240 It's more of like you know, someone might be thinking, 0:17:18.280 --> 0:17:19.240 I think I'm a spoon. 0:17:19.680 --> 0:17:22.440 Well that's like like a spoon. You look at them 0:17:22.520 --> 0:17:24.119 like you look at a fork and a knife their shaft. 0:17:24.160 --> 0:17:26.639 I feel like a knife, I'm a fork. I was 0:17:26.640 --> 0:17:28.200 gonna say a fork as well. I feel like a forks, 0:17:28.200 --> 0:17:31.080 a go getter, go like go getter, whereas a knife 0:17:31.119 --> 0:17:33.920 is like a real like spiteful one. It's coming in with. 0:17:33.920 --> 0:17:34.840 The forks, getting the meat. 0:17:35.040 --> 0:17:37.000 Yeah, the fork's going in and getting it, it's going 0:17:37.040 --> 0:17:40.320 out there, whereas a spoon is like nicely gently scooping 0:17:40.359 --> 0:17:41.120 it up, and. 0:17:41.040 --> 0:17:43.280 A knife sounds lovely, yeah. 0:17:43.080 --> 0:17:44.560 You know what I mean. As a knife feels like 0:17:44.600 --> 0:17:46.440 an attacking angry. 0:17:47.160 --> 0:17:49.640 Yeah, I think I resonate with four. 0:17:49.760 --> 0:17:53.440 I feel like a fork or a spark, not in 0:17:53.520 --> 0:17:56.399 it in between. 0:17:58.400 --> 0:18:01.600 Okay, So if you you are listening to this and 0:18:01.680 --> 0:18:06.200 you resonate most with a spoon, spoon people represent those 0:18:06.280 --> 0:18:10.639 who are easily overwhelmed by everyday tasks and challenges. They 0:18:10.720 --> 0:18:14.560 may struggle with maintaining energy and focus, often feeling drained 0:18:14.600 --> 0:18:18.880 and depleted, and think of spoons as representing the limited 0:18:19.080 --> 0:18:24.000 resources of energy one has to cope with daily life. 0:18:24.280 --> 0:18:24.960 You're interesting. 0:18:26.160 --> 0:18:27.159 Yeah, I'm not a spoon. 0:18:27.400 --> 0:18:29.600 Yeah, you're definitely not a sphone. I'm not a spoon either. 0:18:30.560 --> 0:18:33.399 Let's do knife people next. So if you've listened to 0:18:33.480 --> 0:18:35.600 this and you thought, I think I resonate the most 0:18:35.640 --> 0:18:40.800 with a knife, knife people are focused, analytical, and deliberate 0:18:40.840 --> 0:18:44.560 in their approach to challenges, often needing time to process 0:18:44.640 --> 0:18:48.720 information and make decisions. They're driven by passions and goals, 0:18:48.840 --> 0:18:52.240 using their skills and knowledge to overcome obstacles and achieve 0:18:52.320 --> 0:18:56.520 their objectives. And knives can represent the powerful force of 0:18:56.600 --> 0:19:00.840 passions and how they can propel us. Yeah. 0:19:00.920 --> 0:19:02.920