WEBVTT - “My life has no purpose”: Kathleen Kirby Pt.2

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<v Speaker 1>The public has had a long held fascination with detectives.

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<v Speaker 1>Detective see a side of life. The average person is

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<v Speaker 1>never exposed her I spent thirty four years as a cop.

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<v Speaker 1>For twenty five of those years I was catching killers.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I did for a living. I was a

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<v Speaker 1>homicide detective. I'm no longer just interviewing bad guys. Instead,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm taking the public into the world in which I operated.

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<v Speaker 1>The guests I talk to each week have amazing stories

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<v Speaker 1>from all sides of the law. The interviews are raw

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<v Speaker 1>and honest, just like the people I talk to. Some

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<v Speaker 1>of the content and language might be confronting. That's because

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<v Speaker 1>no one who comes into contact with crime is left unchanged.

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<v Speaker 1>Join me now as I take you into this world.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome back to part two of my conversation with Kathleen Kirby,

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<v Speaker 1>the mother of murdered nineteen year old Audrey Griffin. I

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<v Speaker 1>travel up to the central case of New South Wales

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<v Speaker 1>to meet Kathleen and talk about the murder of her

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<v Speaker 1>beautiful daughter. I wish I wasn't meeting Kathleen under these circumstances.

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<v Speaker 1>See seven months ago, her daughter Audrey was murdered by

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<v Speaker 1>a stranger when she was walking home late one night.

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<v Speaker 1>That man, Adrian Torrens, was out on bail and had

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<v Speaker 1>an extensive history of domestic violence. Audrey's death was initially

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<v Speaker 1>ruled by police as a misadventure, but Kathleen knew that

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't the case and took matters into her own hands.

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<v Speaker 1>If she hadn't, Torrens might have gotten away with murder.

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<v Speaker 1>Here is part two of my chat with Kathleen the

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<v Speaker 1>CCTV footage which led to the breakthrough. What involvement did

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<v Speaker 1>you have him pushing for finding out more about the

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<v Speaker 1>TV footage?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, once again, when I went in to see the footage,

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<v Speaker 2>which they didn't show me the footage that they released

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<v Speaker 2>the following day, which I asked, I want to see

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<v Speaker 2>all the footage everything. I want to see what stay

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<v Speaker 2>of mind she.

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<v Speaker 1>Is so okay and what we're breaking down here CCTV

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<v Speaker 1>footage taken from businesses along everything they had people walking.

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<v Speaker 1>You've gone in the police station and said I want

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<v Speaker 1>to see it, and they.

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<v Speaker 2>Took them three weeks to get back to me to

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<v Speaker 2>say okay, come in, and then I'm sitting down and

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<v Speaker 2>they're showing me bits and pieces and I said, so

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<v Speaker 2>where's the club. It's upstairs. Didn't I just say I

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<v Speaker 2>wanted to see all of it. So I see all that,

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<v Speaker 2>I see parts of it. I walk out of there.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, Okay, she's happy, she's not drunk, she's not dizzy,

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<v Speaker 2>she's not falling over the place. You know, what I

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<v Speaker 2>have just thought is that she would have had jet leg.

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<v Speaker 2>And then when we've seen that video that was taken

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<v Speaker 2>off her to a friend and she's tired, it's two thirty,

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<v Speaker 2>she's just done Sydney mum out all night walking home

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<v Speaker 2>to thirty jet legged. We did things, as I said

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<v Speaker 2>to you, to have tests done. We had to cremate

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<v Speaker 2>our daughter in a way that no parent would have

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<v Speaker 2>to make that choice. And then to find out now

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<v Speaker 2>they had that footage the day after that, they released

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<v Speaker 2>three and a half weeks and they hadn't shown me.

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<v Speaker 1>Post more than you're talking about there, And it's invasive

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<v Speaker 1>when the postmortems have done. If they were treating it

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<v Speaker 1>as suspicious, I'd have to say just that there would

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<v Speaker 1>be a post more than conducted that needs to be

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<v Speaker 1>conducted unless there was some extremely extenuating the extenuating circumstances.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you know they said to me. What I've been

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<v Speaker 2>informed is that when I came back to them and said,

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<v Speaker 2>that's when they said, maybe we should start looking at

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<v Speaker 2>this a bit more. When I went back after seeing

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<v Speaker 2>Audrey and I said to them, this is not that's

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<v Speaker 2>when from what I've been told now, is when they said,

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<v Speaker 2>that's when they started looking into it more.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what you're being told now when you're pushing with

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<v Speaker 1>the CCTV footage, what happened after you've gone in and

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<v Speaker 1>causing concerns you want to look at it, and demanding

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<v Speaker 1>to look at the CCTV footage, What's what's happened?

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<v Speaker 2>The next day they released they released the photo of

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<v Speaker 2>him walking behind her and two young girls in front.

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<v Speaker 2>The young girls in front lasted a couple of hours,

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<v Speaker 2>I think, on social media, and I think that got

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<v Speaker 2>shut down quite quick and his photo was still there. Now,

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<v Speaker 2>this is where it comes a bit of a blur.

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<v Speaker 2>I remember ringing him and saying, why didn't I see

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<v Speaker 2>that footage? And that's when he was saying to me,

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<v Speaker 2>we didn't find it irrelevant at.

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<v Speaker 1>The time, didn't find it relevant because he was.

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<v Speaker 2>Twenty meters behind. And when I also said, when I

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<v Speaker 2>was there, have you got the footage? What about all

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<v Speaker 2>the footage between here and here? He said, well, we

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<v Speaker 2>don't need that, we've got that, and I said, well,

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<v Speaker 2>I've got footage from two shops one of the real

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<v Speaker 2>estates my girlfriend works in that said to me, Kathleen,

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<v Speaker 2>we've got footage. You want me to have a look,

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<v Speaker 2>and it's him walking behind her that they didn't have.

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<v Speaker 2>And when I said to them, why haven't you got that?

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<v Speaker 2>And he said, because we've got this and that we've

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<v Speaker 2>got enough footage. And I said, well, how do you

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<v Speaker 2>know that something didn't happen in between that time?

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<v Speaker 1>Just help me break that and that for a bit.

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<v Speaker 1>So they've got footage where he's walking behind orgery. This

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<v Speaker 1>is coming from the direction of Gossip Hotel. Correct, we

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<v Speaker 1>know where Audrey's Body's been found, direct aeron the creek.

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<v Speaker 1>And them telling you that there's no need to look

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<v Speaker 1>at other footage because we've got footage.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if they said they didn't need to

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<v Speaker 2>look at footage that from when I said, oh, I've

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<v Speaker 2>got this footage, why haven't you got it? And they said, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>we've got footage from all the other places we didn't

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<v Speaker 2>need that one. And to me, it's like any anyone

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<v Speaker 2>else could have been involved, any like, wouldn't you just

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<v Speaker 2>get all the footage?

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<v Speaker 1>I would say, yes, yes, you would in.

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<v Speaker 2>That strip because it's not that amount of shops.

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<v Speaker 1>Well we say it's five or six kilometers, and that's

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<v Speaker 1>just my guestimate on how far it might be a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit less. There's not that many shops. There's banker shops,

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<v Speaker 1>and we're talking, you know, two hundred meters work for shops,

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<v Speaker 1>the hotel and some service stations, those type of things.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's not like looking the main street of a

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<v Speaker 1>city going through every business. Okay, so how would you

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<v Speaker 1>describe your thoughts about the police what they were doing

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<v Speaker 1>at this point in time.

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<v Speaker 2>I was appalled, absolutely. I was beside myself. I was

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<v Speaker 2>beside myself constantly. We all were. Everybody was by this stage.

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<v Speaker 2>Everyone was just you know a lot of people were

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<v Speaker 2>quite because you know, we didn't know, but everyone in

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<v Speaker 2>the background was like, no way, no way, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>and here myself and the girls that we were all

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<v Speaker 2>in the hotel room were just constantly just at the

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<v Speaker 2>police station, just you know, and seeing them, seeing me

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<v Speaker 2>doing the work that I was doing, they would concern

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<v Speaker 2>for me as well.

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<v Speaker 1>To give a sense, and it might be hard to

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<v Speaker 1>give exact numbers, But in that three weeks from the

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<v Speaker 1>time Audrey's Body's been found until the release of the

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<v Speaker 1>CCTV footage, how many conversations would you say, you and

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<v Speaker 1>the old girlfriends acting on your every day?

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<v Speaker 2>Every day? Every day, maybe a couple of times a day.

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<v Speaker 2>So I was constantly on the phone to them, when

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<v Speaker 2>am I seeing this? When am I picking up this?

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<v Speaker 2>Where's her phone? Where's her bag? Where's this?

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<v Speaker 1>What?

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<v Speaker 2>I was constantly on the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>To them, So twenty you.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, easy, it'll be Look, we could definitely say once a.

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<v Speaker 1>Day, but even more would have your mind been put

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<v Speaker 1>at ease if the police had said to you during

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<v Speaker 1>those frequent contacts, look, we are looking at this is

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<v Speaker 1>suspiciously Absolutely, was that ever said to you. Never, So,

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<v Speaker 1>despite all the stuff that you've brought to them and

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<v Speaker 1>where you've questioned what's been done, there was no point

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm talking up until when the photo was released,

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<v Speaker 1>no point where they've said, look, we've decided to look

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<v Speaker 1>at it in more detail. You have never told me

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<v Speaker 1>ever at once did you give them the opportunity to

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<v Speaker 1>tell that, Like I'm thinking, was that you just ringing

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<v Speaker 1>up and angry at them and hanging up or did

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<v Speaker 1>you never hung up? I was always okay, so you

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<v Speaker 1>gave them the opportunity.

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<v Speaker 2>I was always I you know, yes, So maybe it's

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<v Speaker 2>a few times that i'd raised my voice, but I

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<v Speaker 2>always treat them with respect in an anger way of

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<v Speaker 2>a mother grieving. But I was never I. I went

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<v Speaker 2>in their professional in ways that I needed them behind me.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't want to burn bridges in any way. So

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<v Speaker 2>I had that in my mind at all times, and

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<v Speaker 2>I had the girls with me, and to the point

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<v Speaker 2>even with my girlfriend who's a solicitor, walked out and see, Kathleen,

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<v Speaker 2>you handle that so well? Do you know what I mean? So? No?

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<v Speaker 1>So, And why I pose that question? There was just

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<v Speaker 1>opportunities if they had changed their mind, where they could

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<v Speaker 1>have told you, like I'm thinking of them many times

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<v Speaker 1>they trying to justify my own mind. How why they're

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<v Speaker 1>approaching it that way? And I think if if you're

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<v Speaker 1>coming in aggressively, they might have been able to tell

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<v Speaker 1>you that they've turned it round. But you're saying that

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<v Speaker 1>there was.

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<v Speaker 2>Even if that was the case, get a counselor in

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<v Speaker 2>and sit down with me, give me support, but to

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<v Speaker 2>let me go through everything I did and doing what

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<v Speaker 2>I had to do to find out if she'd been

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<v Speaker 2>drugged or pointed or drugged or she was intoxicated before

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<v Speaker 2>we cremated Audrey. That should never have happened. I should

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<v Speaker 2>never have had to do that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And I'm not sure if this is helping you

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<v Speaker 1>however you want to look at it. But if it

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<v Speaker 1>was treated as suspicious, that would have been those types

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<v Speaker 1>of tests that would have been done.

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<v Speaker 2>They had the footage of the day after, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>But they potentially would need to still gather that evidence.

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<v Speaker 1>So the foto's gone out. So you've asked for media attention,

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<v Speaker 1>you've asked for media release early just after Audrey's body

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<v Speaker 1>was found. You've harassed and chased up your own CCTV footage.

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<v Speaker 1>You've gone to the police asking what's on it. You've

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<v Speaker 1>asked to see what's on it, You've seen it, it's

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<v Speaker 1>been released, and then.

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<v Speaker 2>What so then it's released and we're informed to come

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<v Speaker 2>into and at this stage, I'm with my father. He's

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<v Speaker 2>passed pretty much on his last breath, and right at

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<v Speaker 2>the hospital with my family, and I'm asked to come

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<v Speaker 2>into the Surrey Hill's police station. So Trevor and I

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<v Speaker 2>arrived to Surrey Hill's police station later in that afternoon,

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<v Speaker 2>and a different detective who's now taking over the case

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<v Speaker 2>said to me, we've arrested don't want to say his

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<v Speaker 2>name for the murder of Audrey. And I said, has

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<v Speaker 2>he confessed? And he said he's sleeping at the moment,

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<v Speaker 2>And then I said and then he said, sorry, he's

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<v Speaker 2>in custody with the We can't speak to him now

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<v Speaker 2>because he's in custody with the Aboriginal community. I was

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<v Speaker 2>then told that they were going to do what they

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<v Speaker 2>could and that they'd get support team. And I may

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<v Speaker 2>have had a phone call once or twice from someone

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<v Speaker 2>in all this going on that maybe once I think

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<v Speaker 2>she said she reached out. Trevor and I walked out,

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<v Speaker 2>no support. While he's sitting in there being protected. We

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<v Speaker 2>get to walk out at Sorry Hill's Police station without

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<v Speaker 2>daor to be murdered. He's been on the loose for

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<v Speaker 2>three weeks, he's been seen at the location, which they denied,

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<v Speaker 2>and we walk out of there and he gets protection.

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<v Speaker 2>Doesn't matter what color, they said, they said to us

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<v Speaker 2>as well, sorry that we've arrested him, that she scratched

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<v Speaker 2>him with her index finger on the face. We've got

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<v Speaker 2>DNA and we also have seven other people come forward

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<v Speaker 2>enough to arrest him.

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<v Speaker 1>That potentially the way that handle that. I just clarify,

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<v Speaker 1>people in custody have rights, and where's my rights? Sitting

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<v Speaker 1>here hearing your story, I would imagine everyone else would

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<v Speaker 1>feel the same way and go, well, who cares. That's

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<v Speaker 1>the reality of the world.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not reality. It's not reality. This is what we

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<v Speaker 2>need to change. And I get I understand what you're saying,

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<v Speaker 2>and I know what you're going to say, but it's

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<v Speaker 2>not reality. This is a man that's murdered my daughter

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<v Speaker 2>and we're left to walk out of there and he's

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<v Speaker 2>got a roof over his head and probably even feed

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<v Speaker 2>and someone protecting him, and where are we? That is

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<v Speaker 2>just wrong on every level. I'm sorry, I know, I

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<v Speaker 2>know what you're saying.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't have to be sorry, and I can't argue

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<v Speaker 1>back on You're entitled to those views and fully understandable.

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<v Speaker 1>He was charged a couple a couple of things at

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<v Speaker 1>points I want to make here on the charging that

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<v Speaker 1>He's DNA were found under a fingernails, whinding it right

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<v Speaker 1>back to the couple of weeks before when her Audrey's

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<v Speaker 1>body was found. Checking the fingernails for a potential murder investigation?

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<v Speaker 1>Is just homicide? One oh one? The fact that he's

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<v Speaker 1>DNA were found under the fingernails causing me a concern

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<v Speaker 1>that that wasn't enough to prompt that there's a thorough

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<v Speaker 1>homicide investigation. He was only in custody for four days,

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<v Speaker 1>three and a bit before he killed himself in prison.

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<v Speaker 2>How does that happen? How does someone get a razor

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<v Speaker 2>blade to take their life in prison? How does someone

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<v Speaker 2>that's been on a five day bender from what I've

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<v Speaker 2>been informed the week before, on drugs and alcohol and

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<v Speaker 2>put in jail and they turn and the counselors turn

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<v Speaker 2>around and say that he's not suicidal and put him

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<v Speaker 2>in a normal cell where he's handed a raizor blade

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<v Speaker 2>to take his life. How does that happen with a

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<v Speaker 2>history that he has.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't answer that. I know practices have put in

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<v Speaker 1>place to prevent that type of thing, but I'm sure

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<v Speaker 1>that will be encompassed in a cranial investigation. It would

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<v Speaker 1>be treated as a death in custody and an investigation

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<v Speaker 1>will be conducted conducted that way from an emotional point

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<v Speaker 1>of view, from your point of view and Trevors and

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<v Speaker 1>friends and family, how did it make you feel to

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<v Speaker 1>know the person that's been arrested and charged with Audrey's

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<v Speaker 1>murder has taken that part?

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<v Speaker 2>Helleljah, thank you. At the time, we were having a

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<v Speaker 2>ritual for Audrey down at the beach where the whole

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<v Speaker 2>of terrible people for Miles. I don't know if you've

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<v Speaker 2>seen it.

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<v Speaker 1>I've seen it. I've seen that many people that.

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<v Speaker 2>Are people couldn't even get there. It was like people

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<v Speaker 2>were coming from Sydney on the train. They just couldn't

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<v Speaker 2>get there. That was the response that people and we

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<v Speaker 2>found out. So that day at four point fifty we

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<v Speaker 2>were told the ceremony started at five. At four point fifty,

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<v Speaker 2>we got the phone call to say that he'd taken

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<v Speaker 2>his life. So ten minutes prior, I lose my father

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<v Speaker 2>that night and then when i'm you know, when they

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<v Speaker 2>phone me to say how are you feeling? And I said, well,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what, I'm happy. I'm happy because he's off

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<v Speaker 2>the street and he's gone. Did I feel that way later.

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<v Speaker 2>Probably not, But then from what I've been informed, there

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<v Speaker 2>may be a lot of things he may have said

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<v Speaker 2>to me if I did see him face to face

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<v Speaker 2>that I probably never would have come back from. So

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<v Speaker 2>at the end of the day, yes, yes, he will

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<v Speaker 2>never be out to hurt another child, or another woman

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<v Speaker 2>or another man, whoever that'll be.

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<v Speaker 1>I can understand how difficult the whole whole situation, if.

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<v Speaker 2>The whole situation is just appalling, to think that he

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<v Speaker 2>was out on the street for three weeks and hidden,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, he was hidden that I while he was missing,

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<v Speaker 2>he'd been up at casino.

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<v Speaker 1>How are you aware of that?

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<v Speaker 2>I was told by the constable.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, did the police say anything to you about how

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<v Speaker 1>it's gone from misadventure to murder? Did was there any

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<v Speaker 1>apologies or any any oh?

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<v Speaker 2>God knows, God knows?

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<v Speaker 1>Was there any discussions? Did you?

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<v Speaker 2>Like I'm the one that's always brought it up. How

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<v Speaker 2>how do you go from you know, when we went

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<v Speaker 2>to the coroner's report, which I brought my doctor with

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<v Speaker 2>me so she could actually explain the information clearly to

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<v Speaker 2>me so that we could understand. How did it? Ever?

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<v Speaker 2>From what I see of Audrey, how was that ever

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<v Speaker 2>tread as an adventure, and then how did you come

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<v Speaker 2>to the conclusion of this? Yes, they explained all that,

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<v Speaker 2>but still to me, how did they come to that

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<v Speaker 2>conclusion misadventure when you you only had to see her?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I can't comment on that because I didn't see Audrey,

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<v Speaker 1>but I respect your comments as Audrey's mother, But on

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<v Speaker 1>the circumstances, I don't see how you could write that

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<v Speaker 1>off a misadventure. You've got to keep an open mind,

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<v Speaker 1>to open mind to things. So in light of all

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<v Speaker 1>that's happened, have you had to sit down with any

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<v Speaker 1>senior police.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, we've had many of interviews with Chris Min's yes man.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're talking the premiere of the police minister, so

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<v Speaker 1>that the high, high level meetings correct.

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<v Speaker 2>And then there was Karen web police commissioner correct which

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<v Speaker 2>she looked me in the eye, which tears as a woman,

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<v Speaker 2>as a mother with a broken heart, and said to me, Kathleen,

0:19:07.080 --> 0:19:09.560
<v Speaker 2>we had him locked up, they just let him out.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Well, that's that's another part of this whole story

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<v Speaker 1>that concerns me. And I'm not being critical of Karen

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<v Speaker 1>Webb here, the former former commissioner, but I'm somewhat confused.

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<v Speaker 1>You might be able to add some clarity to it.

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<v Speaker 1>But when he was, and I'll respect the fact you

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<v Speaker 1>don't want his name mentioned, so he doesn't deserve it, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>When he was charged with Audrey's murder, he was also

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<v Speaker 1>charged with eleven other counts of the breaching AVOs and

0:19:46.320 --> 0:19:52.760
<v Speaker 1>domestic violence related related matters. My understanding, he was put

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<v Speaker 1>before the courts in October, granted the corrections order and released.

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<v Speaker 1>It was fairly stringent, and then he was sentenced on

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<v Speaker 1>the sixteenth of January correctional orders. These breaches of the

0:20:07.960 --> 0:20:15.280
<v Speaker 1>avas related to his former wife. And I've also picked

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<v Speaker 1>up on the information that she's saying that she was

0:20:20.320 --> 0:20:23.800
<v Speaker 1>concerned about the amount of times that she contacted the

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<v Speaker 1>police asking whether he's been located, and he hadn't been located.

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<v Speaker 1>My concerns, and this is speculating here that he can't

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<v Speaker 1>be that difficult to find because he was committing the

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<v Speaker 1>fences by using his telephone.

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<v Speaker 2>Correct.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, if someone's got their telephone, as police officers, we

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<v Speaker 1>can find them.

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<v Speaker 2>This is what I'm saying about the location. When my

0:20:46.440 --> 0:20:50.240
<v Speaker 2>girlfriend saw him at the location the week later, I said,

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<v Speaker 2>when I was driving up for the ritual that day,

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<v Speaker 2>and I drove past the creek. I was coming from

0:20:55.960 --> 0:20:58.440
<v Speaker 2>Sydney and I was driving past to come up to Terrgill.

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<v Speaker 2>And I went past and I saw all the police there,

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<v Speaker 2>and I pulled in and I said, what's going on.

0:21:04.280 --> 0:21:07.040
<v Speaker 2>They said, we're doing a reenactment. And I walked up

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<v Speaker 2>to one of the detectives that was being there from

0:21:08.960 --> 0:21:12.679
<v Speaker 2>day dot and said to her, I've been informed a

0:21:12.720 --> 0:21:17.560
<v Speaker 2>girlfriend had phoned in about seeing him the week after,

0:21:18.160 --> 0:21:20.679
<v Speaker 2>and she came in and did a statement because obviously

0:21:20.720 --> 0:21:23.199
<v Speaker 2>by this stage she saw the photo and identified the

0:21:23.200 --> 0:21:27.000
<v Speaker 2>clothing he was wearing. She said to me, yes, his

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<v Speaker 2>phone diged to the location, right.

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<v Speaker 1>They denied that later when your girlfriend said she saw

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<v Speaker 1>saw him, he was there, that when they were doing

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<v Speaker 1>the re enactment. Was that after he'd been arrested. Yes, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I understand that.

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<v Speaker 2>This was the day of the ritual.

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<v Speaker 1>Getting back to the offenses that he was wanted for now,

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<v Speaker 1>I've heard the Commission of Web say that, yeah, we

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<v Speaker 1>put him before, put him before the courts, and I

0:22:00.440 --> 0:22:03.480
<v Speaker 1>understand that. I understand the frustration from the police, like

0:22:03.520 --> 0:22:05.560
<v Speaker 1>we can't control the courts. We've got to accept the

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<v Speaker 1>court's decisions. I'm just curious how long, with eleven breaches

0:22:11.280 --> 0:22:14.960
<v Speaker 1>of avas, how long police were looking for him before?

0:22:15.200 --> 0:22:16.840
<v Speaker 2>Correct? That's what I think too.

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<v Speaker 1>Audrey's murder and what efforts were done to find him?

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<v Speaker 2>Correct?

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<v Speaker 1>When were those offenses committed? Because I look at his

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<v Speaker 1>criminal history. Well, I've seen of his criminal history and

0:22:29.760 --> 0:22:33.520
<v Speaker 1>the past offenses and the threats that were made to

0:22:33.600 --> 0:22:39.200
<v Speaker 1>his ex wife. They're concerning in anyone's level. You don't

0:22:39.200 --> 0:22:42.800
<v Speaker 1>have to be a cop to think this person's potentially dangerous.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to know exactly what happened from day dot.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to know exactly exactly what was done. Why

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<v Speaker 2>we were told it was a misadventure, Why it was

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<v Speaker 2>put down as a misadventure. Why nothing was ever said

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<v Speaker 2>to me, even if they, like you said, if I

0:23:01.920 --> 0:23:04.199
<v Speaker 2>was a lunatic or whatever, and they felt they couldn't

0:23:04.200 --> 0:23:06.760
<v Speaker 2>approach me, Why didn't I get the support so that song.

0:23:07.040 --> 0:23:09.280
<v Speaker 2>Why did they allow me to come in there knowing

0:23:09.320 --> 0:23:13.040
<v Speaker 2>I was very stressed and I was looking for answers.

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<v Speaker 2>At no stage did they ever say to me, Kathleen,

0:23:18.400 --> 0:23:20.679
<v Speaker 2>we're looking into this, or we're doing this, We're going

0:23:20.760 --> 0:23:24.000
<v Speaker 2>to look or even we're going to try and do this,

0:23:24.119 --> 0:23:29.040
<v Speaker 2>or we're going to do this nothing misadventure. Would that

0:23:29.480 --> 0:23:33.440
<v Speaker 2>make absolutely make a difference, absolutely absolutely if I knew

0:23:33.440 --> 0:23:35.840
<v Speaker 2>they were looking. If I knew they were looking, and

0:23:36.720 --> 0:23:41.120
<v Speaker 2>I would still wouldn't stopped myself because obviously if they

0:23:41.160 --> 0:23:46.800
<v Speaker 2>were looking, why is it that I found we found

0:23:46.800 --> 0:23:49.280
<v Speaker 2>all this stuff? How do you not find a phone?

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<v Speaker 2>How do you not go down the lot? That's what

0:23:51.119 --> 0:23:53.120
<v Speaker 2>I said to him. How did you not go down

0:23:53.119 --> 0:23:55.880
<v Speaker 2>there in low tide? He said, because we've got the divers.

0:23:56.040 --> 0:23:58.440
<v Speaker 2>So three people on three different days have gone down

0:23:58.480 --> 0:24:02.119
<v Speaker 2>there scouting, and yet no one thinks to go and

0:24:02.119 --> 0:24:03.960
<v Speaker 2>look for low type. But yes, let's pay for the

0:24:04.000 --> 0:24:06.760
<v Speaker 2>government to go and send some divers down there. Lets

0:24:06.760 --> 0:24:09.440
<v Speaker 2>them do that when all they had to do is

0:24:09.480 --> 0:24:11.520
<v Speaker 2>go down low tide and they would have found it. Strange.

0:24:12.040 --> 0:24:14.800
<v Speaker 1>I think they are just in my opinion, I think

0:24:14.840 --> 0:24:18.200
<v Speaker 1>they want the divers in there as well, even at

0:24:18.240 --> 0:24:21.200
<v Speaker 1>low tide. These are the type of things. But yeah,

0:24:21.320 --> 0:24:23.960
<v Speaker 1>as I said, if you can't find the phone of

0:24:24.040 --> 0:24:27.879
<v Speaker 1>a girl that's found de sea in water, you'd be

0:24:27.920 --> 0:24:31.480
<v Speaker 1>looking at Okay, Well, there's a potential something suspicious there

0:24:31.280 --> 0:24:33.639
<v Speaker 1>where is the phone? Because we've we keep our phones

0:24:33.680 --> 0:24:35.760
<v Speaker 1>in their pockets or keep them close to us. Where

0:24:36.240 --> 0:24:38.359
<v Speaker 1>is where is the phone? Was it the robbery?

0:24:38.520 --> 0:24:40.479
<v Speaker 2>Can I just say in regards to that, So in

0:24:40.520 --> 0:24:43.360
<v Speaker 2>this time that I'm stressing about the phone, where's the phone?

0:24:43.359 --> 0:24:45.160
<v Speaker 2>Where's a phone? This is when I picked the car

0:24:45.280 --> 0:24:48.440
<v Speaker 2>up and I found the computer. So when you think

0:24:49.000 --> 0:24:51.520
<v Speaker 2>they'd go through the computer which I found on her.

0:24:51.400 --> 0:24:53.360
<v Speaker 1>iPad linked to the phone.

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<v Speaker 2>No, that she'd phoned a cab, So why didn't they

0:24:57.160 --> 0:25:00.560
<v Speaker 2>find that? Why didn't they go through her computer and

0:25:00.600 --> 0:25:01.000
<v Speaker 2>have a lot.

0:25:01.200 --> 0:25:04.679
<v Speaker 1>You're sorry you're found on her computer when you've gone from.

0:25:04.720 --> 0:25:07.199
<v Speaker 2>Her computer, she's got another iPad at home. The iPad,

0:25:07.240 --> 0:25:09.719
<v Speaker 2>so they're all connected. She made a call to an

0:25:09.800 --> 0:25:11.919
<v Speaker 2>uber and I don't know if it turned up or

0:25:12.040 --> 0:25:15.240
<v Speaker 2>what happened, but she'd made that call. And when I

0:25:15.320 --> 0:25:18.160
<v Speaker 2>said to them, why you know, my consum was, why

0:25:18.240 --> 0:25:20.280
<v Speaker 2>didn't they go into that computer? Like it's linked to

0:25:20.359 --> 0:25:23.119
<v Speaker 2>her phone. Anything that was on that phone would have

0:25:23.119 --> 0:25:24.919
<v Speaker 2>been lenked. She would have known who she was talking to,

0:25:25.200 --> 0:25:28.159
<v Speaker 2>who she had, you know, all that stuff, and they

0:25:28.160 --> 0:25:29.040
<v Speaker 2>didn't take the computer.

0:25:30.280 --> 0:25:32.360
<v Speaker 1>Is that? At what point did they take a car

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<v Speaker 1>straight away? Where was from?

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<v Speaker 2>Terrible?

0:25:36.040 --> 0:25:41.600
<v Speaker 1>It was that terrible? So they sees that that straight away.

0:25:42.480 --> 0:25:44.640
<v Speaker 1>Do you hope to at some point in time sit

0:25:44.680 --> 0:25:49.520
<v Speaker 1>down with police that take ownership of what has happened

0:25:49.920 --> 0:25:53.560
<v Speaker 1>in regards to this investigation or from your perspective and

0:25:53.720 --> 0:25:56.040
<v Speaker 1>until we hear from the police, we don't know their

0:25:56.119 --> 0:25:59.560
<v Speaker 1>side of the story from your perspective. Failings in an investigation?

0:25:59.640 --> 0:26:03.680
<v Speaker 1>Do you have to have a sit down and go

0:26:03.040 --> 0:26:07.440
<v Speaker 1>through those so this type of thing doesn't happen again?

0:26:08.520 --> 0:26:13.200
<v Speaker 2>No, why they've done it? What's going to be done?

0:26:13.240 --> 0:26:16.280
<v Speaker 2>Like when I asked if the constable that was there

0:26:16.320 --> 0:26:18.919
<v Speaker 2>the day that we found Audrey, and he walked up

0:26:18.920 --> 0:26:20.919
<v Speaker 2>to me and he said, sorry for your condolence, and

0:26:20.960 --> 0:26:23.680
<v Speaker 2>then he was telling you so when I said to him,

0:26:23.840 --> 0:26:25.600
<v Speaker 2>I wanted to you know, like I wanted to put it.

0:26:25.640 --> 0:26:28.280
<v Speaker 2>I was angry. I want to put a complaint in.

0:26:28.359 --> 0:26:30.919
<v Speaker 2>And they when he is being addressed, is that's been sorted?

0:26:31.560 --> 0:26:34.520
<v Speaker 2>Do you really need to make it further? And I

0:26:34.600 --> 0:26:37.120
<v Speaker 2>kind of went, well, Okay, well it's been addressed.

0:26:37.160 --> 0:26:40.640
<v Speaker 1>Maybe not see I see something like that, And I said,

0:26:40.840 --> 0:26:44.120
<v Speaker 1>I'd be honest with you. I see people in situations

0:26:44.240 --> 0:26:46.160
<v Speaker 1>like that, young young police. They don't know how.

0:26:46.160 --> 0:26:46.720
<v Speaker 2>He's not young.

0:26:48.040 --> 0:26:53.119
<v Speaker 1>Don't wreck my version of events. Okay, he might be inexperienced,

0:26:53.160 --> 0:26:56.639
<v Speaker 1>just but inexperience some people don't know how. So if

0:26:56.680 --> 0:27:01.920
<v Speaker 1>it's a clumsiness in the way to talk to a victim, perhaps.

0:27:01.640 --> 0:27:05.000
<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry, Okay, might take that all right, don't be

0:27:05.040 --> 0:27:08.320
<v Speaker 2>in the industry. He's a police officer, for God's sake.

0:27:08.480 --> 0:27:11.240
<v Speaker 1>I had that view and look where it got me.

0:27:13.119 --> 0:27:18.359
<v Speaker 1>You well, there's no higher honor as an investigator, as

0:27:18.359 --> 0:27:22.600
<v Speaker 1>a police officer than too and higher honor and responsibility

0:27:22.640 --> 0:27:26.080
<v Speaker 1>to investigate someone's death. And you know where people are

0:27:26.680 --> 0:27:30.679
<v Speaker 1>making comments that you choose the wrong word, and that

0:27:30.680 --> 0:27:33.040
<v Speaker 1>can be like a triggering effect for someone that's been

0:27:33.240 --> 0:27:35.959
<v Speaker 1>through what you've gone through. I see how mistakes can

0:27:36.000 --> 0:27:41.480
<v Speaker 1>be made, and genuine mistakes like that what I'm looking

0:27:41.520 --> 0:27:43.800
<v Speaker 1>at from what you've told me, And I think with this,

0:27:43.880 --> 0:27:46.640
<v Speaker 1>and we don't normally go this far, but I think

0:27:46.680 --> 0:27:49.240
<v Speaker 1>we'll reach out to the police and see if if

0:27:49.520 --> 0:27:52.000
<v Speaker 1>they can give their perspective on a couple of things,

0:27:52.040 --> 0:27:54.080
<v Speaker 1>because some of the things that you've told me are

0:27:54.160 --> 0:27:56.520
<v Speaker 1>quite quite shocking, and I think it is a failing

0:27:57.000 --> 0:28:00.320
<v Speaker 1>in regards to the way matters should be investigated. And

0:28:00.400 --> 0:28:05.200
<v Speaker 1>see what they say. You have said you don't want

0:28:05.520 --> 0:28:08.080
<v Speaker 1>or it doesn't matter because it's happened.

0:28:08.800 --> 0:28:11.360
<v Speaker 2>Oh no, I'm sorry. I'll probably rephrase it. It's not

0:28:11.400 --> 0:28:13.760
<v Speaker 2>that I don't want to because at the coroner's report,

0:28:13.840 --> 0:28:15.280
<v Speaker 2>that's when I want it to come out. That's when

0:28:15.320 --> 0:28:16.959
<v Speaker 2>I want to hear it. I want to hear it

0:28:17.760 --> 0:28:21.760
<v Speaker 2>all the excuses. I mean, I suppose it's probably good

0:28:21.760 --> 0:28:23.640
<v Speaker 2>to hear what their excuses are.

0:28:24.160 --> 0:28:28.800
<v Speaker 1>Well, a speculation here. I don't know what was acting

0:28:28.840 --> 0:28:31.879
<v Speaker 1>on their mind, but I know when I was involved

0:28:31.880 --> 0:28:36.480
<v Speaker 1>in it, I would say to junior police and bosses

0:28:36.520 --> 0:28:38.240
<v Speaker 1>that I respect people that have seeing you to me,

0:28:39.040 --> 0:28:42.040
<v Speaker 1>you make a mistake, a genuine mistake, and will support

0:28:42.040 --> 0:28:46.240
<v Speaker 1>you like a genuine mistake, so a wrong assumption or

0:28:46.560 --> 0:28:50.760
<v Speaker 1>different things, genuine mistake. I've seen the power of them,

0:28:51.040 --> 0:28:53.480
<v Speaker 1>and in matters that I've been involved in where the

0:28:53.520 --> 0:28:58.320
<v Speaker 1>commissioner has come up and apologized to some families and

0:28:58.600 --> 0:29:00.800
<v Speaker 1>it meant a lot to them, and it was as

0:29:00.880 --> 0:29:04.280
<v Speaker 1>simple as we're sorry, we could have done better, correct

0:29:04.440 --> 0:29:07.240
<v Speaker 1>and that meant it didn't fix what was being done,

0:29:08.560 --> 0:29:11.880
<v Speaker 1>but he did also say and will learn from these mistakes,

0:29:12.120 --> 0:29:15.440
<v Speaker 1>So that I thought was very powerful, and that took

0:29:15.480 --> 0:29:18.400
<v Speaker 1>about ten years to get the commissioner to come to

0:29:18.480 --> 0:29:21.640
<v Speaker 1>this community and talk like that. But I know from

0:29:21.680 --> 0:29:23.480
<v Speaker 1>their point of view, and I think they're comfortable with

0:29:23.520 --> 0:29:26.160
<v Speaker 1>me speaking on their behalf. It did help them at

0:29:26.280 --> 0:29:29.640
<v Speaker 1>least there was some acknowledgment that the mistakes were being made.

0:29:30.200 --> 0:29:34.160
<v Speaker 1>Anyone that's listening to the podcasts to our chat here

0:29:34.880 --> 0:29:38.320
<v Speaker 1>can hear the pain that you're going through and what

0:29:38.360 --> 0:29:42.360
<v Speaker 1>you've been through, and the circumstances added to that pain

0:29:43.120 --> 0:29:47.440
<v Speaker 1>is when police haven't done their job or you don't

0:29:47.840 --> 0:29:50.680
<v Speaker 1>believe they've done their job, and that just adds adds

0:29:50.720 --> 0:29:51.440
<v Speaker 1>to the trauma.

0:29:53.320 --> 0:29:59.560
<v Speaker 2>Absolutely, like I don't know who I am anymore. I

0:29:59.560 --> 0:30:03.680
<v Speaker 2>don't need you know. People say how are you? How

0:30:03.680 --> 0:30:07.480
<v Speaker 2>do I answer that. I get up every day, I

0:30:07.480 --> 0:30:10.479
<v Speaker 2>get dressed, I move on. I do what I have

0:30:10.560 --> 0:30:15.719
<v Speaker 2>to do. I went to my doctor last night and

0:30:15.760 --> 0:30:18.560
<v Speaker 2>she's like, are you using anything? Are you drinking? And

0:30:18.600 --> 0:30:22.520
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, no, I'm not drinking, I'm not taking drugs.

0:30:22.560 --> 0:30:28.080
<v Speaker 2>I'm not using any medication. I would swim to clear

0:30:28.120 --> 0:30:31.560
<v Speaker 2>my head. I can't do that. Now I haven't been

0:30:31.560 --> 0:30:33.680
<v Speaker 2>able to get back into the ocean and swim with

0:30:33.720 --> 0:30:47.040
<v Speaker 2>my friends. She has recommended that she's amazing and once

0:30:47.080 --> 0:30:50.000
<v Speaker 2>again she's behind us as well, and it is going

0:30:50.040 --> 0:30:52.640
<v Speaker 2>to be following this journey with me, and she has come,

0:30:53.160 --> 0:30:55.840
<v Speaker 2>she will be coming to the coroner's report. Well, what's

0:30:55.920 --> 0:31:03.960
<v Speaker 2>happening now is up every day. And she said to me,

0:31:05.680 --> 0:31:08.880
<v Speaker 2>you know at early stage when she said to me, look, Kathleen,

0:31:09.200 --> 0:31:14.760
<v Speaker 2>you need to own, you need to accept for you

0:31:14.840 --> 0:31:21.200
<v Speaker 2>to start moving forward. I haven't even started to grieve.

0:31:21.320 --> 0:31:23.600
<v Speaker 2>I can't talk to my How many people say, do

0:31:23.640 --> 0:31:24.720
<v Speaker 2>you talk to her? Do you do this?

0:31:24.800 --> 0:31:25.120
<v Speaker 1>Do that?

0:31:26.320 --> 0:31:29.280
<v Speaker 2>I have got a war so high. I know she's

0:31:29.320 --> 0:31:32.040
<v Speaker 2>with me. I love her every day, but I have

0:31:32.160 --> 0:31:34.880
<v Speaker 2>got a war that is just protecting me so high

0:31:34.880 --> 0:31:39.000
<v Speaker 2>because I need. I need some justice for my daughter.

0:31:39.320 --> 0:31:43.640
<v Speaker 2>And if I crumble, I will crumble. And when I crumble,

0:31:43.960 --> 0:31:47.800
<v Speaker 2>I know I am so scared to stop. I am

0:31:47.840 --> 0:31:51.600
<v Speaker 2>so scared to stop motivating or I can't be alone.

0:31:52.200 --> 0:31:57.600
<v Speaker 2>You know I can't. I'm not. I don't know who

0:31:57.640 --> 0:31:59.240
<v Speaker 2>I am and I don't know who I'm ever going

0:31:59.320 --> 0:32:02.240
<v Speaker 2>to be again. And I know people say time heills,

0:32:02.280 --> 0:32:05.560
<v Speaker 2>but I'm sorry. I don't see that. I don't see

0:32:05.600 --> 0:32:12.400
<v Speaker 2>how my life has any purpose. And don't get me wrong,

0:32:12.440 --> 0:32:15.760
<v Speaker 2>I'm not you know, as I said, I'm not doing drugs,

0:32:15.800 --> 0:32:18.760
<v Speaker 2>I'm not doing alcohol, I'm not suicidal, I'm not anything.

0:32:19.160 --> 0:32:23.800
<v Speaker 2>But my life is not looking pretty. And for me,

0:32:24.040 --> 0:32:27.000
<v Speaker 2>every day I get up is just purely for my

0:32:27.160 --> 0:32:31.920
<v Speaker 2>daughter to get justice, because she is not a number.

0:32:33.440 --> 0:32:36.880
<v Speaker 2>She is an amazing young woman that I will fight

0:32:37.040 --> 0:32:45.960
<v Speaker 2>for until we get justice. I'm not even sure what

0:32:46.000 --> 0:32:47.080
<v Speaker 2>that looks like yet.

0:32:47.880 --> 0:32:50.800
<v Speaker 1>I was going to ask you what in your mind?

0:32:50.880 --> 0:32:51.880
<v Speaker 1>What is justice?

0:32:52.560 --> 0:32:57.600
<v Speaker 2>Justice is? Once again, those little steps of people like

0:32:57.720 --> 0:33:00.720
<v Speaker 2>him apologizing. What are the government? They all get to

0:33:00.720 --> 0:33:02.720
<v Speaker 2>sit there and just tick their little boxes and just

0:33:02.920 --> 0:33:07.480
<v Speaker 2>move on. Where's the heart? Where is the heart? There's

0:33:07.560 --> 0:33:13.240
<v Speaker 2>no heart, there's no And for me and Trevor, where

0:33:14.040 --> 0:33:16.800
<v Speaker 2>the case is finished as far as they're concerned, because

0:33:16.800 --> 0:33:20.200
<v Speaker 2>he murdered himself and now it's just put in a

0:33:20.200 --> 0:33:23.360
<v Speaker 2>filing cabinet and put away and we're just there to

0:33:23.480 --> 0:33:28.720
<v Speaker 2>just And how does that happen? How does someone let

0:33:28.760 --> 0:33:33.200
<v Speaker 2>someone out that has a record and a history to

0:33:33.320 --> 0:33:35.800
<v Speaker 2>do that to it? Not a girl that's been in

0:33:35.880 --> 0:33:38.440
<v Speaker 2>any kind of trouble with domestic violence. Didn't know. The

0:33:38.480 --> 0:33:41.760
<v Speaker 2>man takes a woman who was going to serve for

0:33:41.800 --> 0:33:49.520
<v Speaker 2>our country and a beautiful soul. He murders her. He

0:33:49.600 --> 0:33:53.840
<v Speaker 2>takes her life away from her. He takes his life

0:33:54.280 --> 0:33:56.320
<v Speaker 2>and it gets put in a filing cabinet and off

0:33:56.320 --> 0:34:01.600
<v Speaker 2>we go. Where is where is the justice for her?

0:34:02.000 --> 0:34:05.000
<v Speaker 2>Where is the justice for her friends who found her?

0:34:05.600 --> 0:34:10.760
<v Speaker 2>That the support? There's been no support whatsoever for them. Children.

0:34:11.239 --> 0:34:15.359
<v Speaker 2>They're all struggling. They're nineteen, the kids, they're nineteen years

0:34:15.400 --> 0:34:18.040
<v Speaker 2>of age. Where's the support? The government have done this,

0:34:18.760 --> 0:34:23.120
<v Speaker 2>they allowed him out. They need to take some responsibility

0:34:23.800 --> 0:34:26.480
<v Speaker 2>and instead of keep fixing the people that are damaged

0:34:26.960 --> 0:34:31.440
<v Speaker 2>in regards to drugs and alcohol and all that stuff,

0:34:31.719 --> 0:34:34.640
<v Speaker 2>how about helping the people that are good people that

0:34:34.719 --> 0:34:37.360
<v Speaker 2>have been out there. They're doing well, they're going to university,

0:34:37.400 --> 0:34:39.560
<v Speaker 2>they're trying to make something their life, and they've been

0:34:39.560 --> 0:34:41.960
<v Speaker 2>put in a situation that the government's put them in

0:34:42.280 --> 0:34:46.400
<v Speaker 2>and there's not one bit of support, no counseling, no nothing,

0:34:47.280 --> 0:34:50.440
<v Speaker 2>not even for me, but for them. It breaks my

0:34:50.600 --> 0:34:54.040
<v Speaker 2>heart to think at nineteen, these young girls have to

0:34:54.080 --> 0:34:57.360
<v Speaker 2>go through this. That's what the Where's the platform and

0:34:57.400 --> 0:34:58.240
<v Speaker 2>where's the heart?

0:34:58.640 --> 0:35:04.759
<v Speaker 1>Well, look in the answer to the questions, what is

0:35:04.920 --> 0:35:10.000
<v Speaker 1>justice wears the heart? All these failings of the system.

0:35:10.120 --> 0:35:14.120
<v Speaker 1>I look at it, breaking it down in parts. How

0:35:14.239 --> 0:35:19.160
<v Speaker 1>was it investigated? Now, if mistakes were made, we've got

0:35:19.160 --> 0:35:21.480
<v Speaker 1>to learn from those mistakes because someone else is going

0:35:21.560 --> 0:35:24.000
<v Speaker 1>to be sitting in And I know this from my

0:35:24.080 --> 0:35:26.920
<v Speaker 1>time in homicide. If we don't learn, someone else will

0:35:26.960 --> 0:35:30.920
<v Speaker 1>be sitting in your position because more mistakes will be made.

0:35:31.360 --> 0:35:34.040
<v Speaker 1>I have had so many families reach out to me

0:35:34.520 --> 0:35:36.120
<v Speaker 1>when I was in the cops and when I'm out

0:35:36.160 --> 0:35:38.480
<v Speaker 1>of the cops, saying, we're not sure if this has

0:35:38.560 --> 0:35:41.799
<v Speaker 1>been done properly. Did the police check this. I've been

0:35:41.800 --> 0:35:45.520
<v Speaker 1>involved in investigations that were written off as misadventure and

0:35:45.600 --> 0:35:49.359
<v Speaker 1>turned out to be something something more more sinister. I've

0:35:49.400 --> 0:35:52.360
<v Speaker 1>been involved in it. So I think that's an important

0:35:52.440 --> 0:35:55.600
<v Speaker 1>platform that's about justice making sure that these type of

0:35:55.640 --> 0:36:00.879
<v Speaker 1>things are handled properly. Everyone makes mistakes, and I don't

0:36:00.920 --> 0:36:03.279
<v Speaker 1>get the sense and in all my conversations with you

0:36:03.320 --> 0:36:06.000
<v Speaker 1>haven't been beating up on them. Want this person that person,

0:36:06.320 --> 0:36:09.240
<v Speaker 1>You're just going this is what's happened. It shouldn't happen

0:36:09.560 --> 0:36:12.960
<v Speaker 1>and by talking about it, hopefully it won't happen and

0:36:12.960 --> 0:36:16.160
<v Speaker 1>people understand there is a responsibility that comes with investigating

0:36:16.200 --> 0:36:17.359
<v Speaker 1>someone's death.

0:36:17.440 --> 0:36:21.319
<v Speaker 2>But what about also to the support And that's the

0:36:21.400 --> 0:36:24.560
<v Speaker 2>part too, Like, yes, the police, they've done it, they'll

0:36:24.560 --> 0:36:26.879
<v Speaker 2>get a slap on the wrist, off they go, and

0:36:27.000 --> 0:36:30.000
<v Speaker 2>you know, obviously these people have been involved, they're going

0:36:30.080 --> 0:36:33.359
<v Speaker 2>to be more alert of course after this, especially having

0:36:33.400 --> 0:36:38.280
<v Speaker 2>someone like me that's just not backing down. What about support?

0:36:38.600 --> 0:36:39.200
<v Speaker 2>Where's that?

0:36:39.840 --> 0:36:44.759
<v Speaker 1>Where's the support were you put in contact when it

0:36:44.840 --> 0:36:49.279
<v Speaker 1>was confirmed that Audrey had been murdered? The victims of homicide?

0:36:49.280 --> 0:36:55.000
<v Speaker 2>Did they a gracehouse? Amazing? Look, look they're great, they're great,

0:36:55.040 --> 0:36:57.440
<v Speaker 2>they're beautiful, they're great.

0:36:58.360 --> 0:37:00.359
<v Speaker 1>But the other people will be okay, But.

0:37:02.160 --> 0:37:09.560
<v Speaker 2>Without being disrespectful, I'm talking to somebody that hasn't And look,

0:37:09.960 --> 0:37:15.000
<v Speaker 2>and as I said, I'm not here to rubbish or

0:37:15.040 --> 0:37:19.279
<v Speaker 2>do anyone, but I'm not talking to people that are

0:37:19.760 --> 0:37:25.120
<v Speaker 2>in a situation who have Oh I don't know how

0:37:25.160 --> 0:37:28.560
<v Speaker 2>to put this across. They're great and you know, the

0:37:28.640 --> 0:37:33.799
<v Speaker 2>support in many ways they've been great. Anything to do

0:37:34.000 --> 0:37:37.680
<v Speaker 2>with that situation For me, I'm like, oh my god,

0:37:38.239 --> 0:37:43.919
<v Speaker 2>do you actually have children. How can you sit here

0:37:43.960 --> 0:37:48.360
<v Speaker 2>and say to me, we've granted you twenty hours of counseling,

0:37:51.600 --> 0:37:56.720
<v Speaker 2>we can only one I'm unlyavailable between nine and five. Sorry,

0:37:56.800 --> 0:37:58.719
<v Speaker 2>I can only have a breakdown between nine and five.

0:38:00.160 --> 0:38:02.239
<v Speaker 2>I should be twenty four hours a day. I should

0:38:02.280 --> 0:38:04.560
<v Speaker 2>be for the rest of my life if I need it.

0:38:05.400 --> 0:38:07.319
<v Speaker 2>I'm not out there doing drugs and taking our cal

0:38:07.440 --> 0:38:08.600
<v Speaker 2>I'm trying my best.

0:38:09.280 --> 0:38:12.640
<v Speaker 1>I hear what you're saying, and you're a supports wrong.

0:38:12.960 --> 0:38:15.520
<v Speaker 1>You're a victim of crime and the support is not

0:38:15.600 --> 0:38:20.600
<v Speaker 1>adequate in regards to it. So that's something again, it's

0:38:20.640 --> 0:38:24.359
<v Speaker 1>worthwhile worthwhile raising whether I don't know whether it can

0:38:24.840 --> 0:38:27.120
<v Speaker 1>be improved or how it could be improved, but I

0:38:27.160 --> 0:38:29.960
<v Speaker 1>do take on board what you're saying there, and the

0:38:30.040 --> 0:38:34.920
<v Speaker 1>type of help you need might vary from what it

0:38:35.080 --> 0:38:38.799
<v Speaker 1>might not be what other people need. Each trauma is

0:38:39.080 --> 0:38:44.200
<v Speaker 1>handled differently by each each person. With the other people

0:38:44.320 --> 0:38:47.440
<v Speaker 1>affected by crime, we need to have someone that they

0:38:47.480 --> 0:38:50.200
<v Speaker 1>can go to to see are they entitled to? And

0:38:50.400 --> 0:38:54.560
<v Speaker 1>I can only imagine Audrey's friends that what they've been through,

0:38:54.600 --> 0:38:58.239
<v Speaker 1>and especially the ones that were at the scene, and

0:38:57.880 --> 0:39:03.680
<v Speaker 1>how they're coping with it. In regards to we've talked

0:39:03.719 --> 0:39:08.560
<v Speaker 1>about the investigation. I think something that's really worthwhile finding

0:39:08.600 --> 0:39:11.640
<v Speaker 1>out is hold it. Because we talk tough, we're very

0:39:11.680 --> 0:39:14.720
<v Speaker 1>good at talking tough about we're cracking down on domestic violence,

0:39:14.760 --> 0:39:19.279
<v Speaker 1>and all these women have been killed by their ex

0:39:19.400 --> 0:39:23.000
<v Speaker 1>partners and different things like that. I want to know

0:39:23.040 --> 0:39:25.239
<v Speaker 1>and I hopefully, hopefully it will come out in the

0:39:25.280 --> 0:39:29.120
<v Speaker 1>inquest about the person that killed Audrey? When did he

0:39:29.160 --> 0:39:32.200
<v Speaker 1>commit the offenses he was charged with, and how long

0:39:32.239 --> 0:39:35.960
<v Speaker 1>he was on the run for and what efforts were

0:39:35.960 --> 0:39:39.920
<v Speaker 1>made to locate him? Because to me, they looked like

0:39:40.080 --> 0:39:43.120
<v Speaker 1>that person was a serious risk of committing a violent

0:39:43.840 --> 0:39:48.160
<v Speaker 1>or significant offense. What efforts were made after he's been

0:39:48.200 --> 0:39:51.600
<v Speaker 1>granted bail from court, if he's committing other offenses, what

0:39:51.680 --> 0:39:54.560
<v Speaker 1>efforts were made to locate him? And it's not that

0:39:54.680 --> 0:39:56.840
<v Speaker 1>easy for people to hide these days.

0:39:57.280 --> 0:40:00.640
<v Speaker 2>They retrieved that conversation from his phone what he did

0:40:00.640 --> 0:40:03.480
<v Speaker 2>to my daughter, confessed to what he did. How are

0:40:03.520 --> 0:40:07.560
<v Speaker 2>these people not accountable? How do these people hide him

0:40:07.600 --> 0:40:11.920
<v Speaker 2>for three weeks, get a phone call and nothing can

0:40:11.960 --> 0:40:16.239
<v Speaker 2>be done? How is that? How is that?

0:40:16.360 --> 0:40:21.800
<v Speaker 1>Right now? Is this a hearing for the cornial inquest

0:40:21.880 --> 0:40:23.799
<v Speaker 1>on the twenty third of October, or is it the mention?

0:40:24.400 --> 0:40:28.680
<v Speaker 2>I guess again once again, I think I think it's

0:40:28.719 --> 0:40:30.800
<v Speaker 2>just a meeting where we catch up. It's not a hearing.

0:40:31.040 --> 0:40:32.000
<v Speaker 2>It's definitely not a hearing.

0:40:32.120 --> 0:40:37.200
<v Speaker 1>Okay, so it's just a meeting. I think that before

0:40:37.239 --> 0:40:40.400
<v Speaker 1>the meeting you gave their well planned with These are

0:40:40.440 --> 0:40:46.040
<v Speaker 1>the questions I want asks and have those document them.

0:40:46.160 --> 0:40:49.000
<v Speaker 1>Have them. These are the questions I hope you can't demand,

0:40:49.080 --> 0:40:52.480
<v Speaker 1>but you can hope there are from an inquest and

0:40:53.120 --> 0:40:58.080
<v Speaker 1>put them on notice there for this podcast, and I'll

0:40:58.160 --> 0:41:02.520
<v Speaker 1>look at my producer to hear that we might revisit

0:41:02.560 --> 0:41:05.239
<v Speaker 1>this one, will put it out, but we also might

0:41:05.600 --> 0:41:08.920
<v Speaker 1>revisit it after the inquest and just see see if

0:41:08.920 --> 0:41:13.600
<v Speaker 1>anything has been achieved. And people listening to listening to

0:41:13.680 --> 0:41:15.840
<v Speaker 1>the podcast before the inquest will know that we'll be

0:41:15.880 --> 0:41:20.160
<v Speaker 1>watching closely about what potential lessons.

0:41:20.440 --> 0:41:23.800
<v Speaker 2>I mean, the whole idea of light up, the whole,

0:41:23.920 --> 0:41:28.280
<v Speaker 2>the ritual, the whole everything is to get the support

0:41:28.440 --> 0:41:32.120
<v Speaker 2>and the backing. We need as much people behind us

0:41:32.160 --> 0:41:35.320
<v Speaker 2>to help me. I need help, and I'm not saying

0:41:35.440 --> 0:41:38.160
<v Speaker 2>I'm going to change the world. I want justice for

0:41:38.280 --> 0:41:41.120
<v Speaker 2>my daughter, and that's where it's got to start. First.

0:41:41.760 --> 0:41:43.880
<v Speaker 2>I can't move forward for any I've had a lot

0:41:43.920 --> 0:41:46.160
<v Speaker 2>of people try and reach out to me. I'm sorry,

0:41:46.320 --> 0:41:49.799
<v Speaker 2>I can't. I don't have that energy for anyone else.

0:41:50.080 --> 0:41:54.480
<v Speaker 2>This is purely for me right now, about Audrey and

0:41:54.560 --> 0:41:57.480
<v Speaker 2>getting her story of who she is, that she was

0:41:57.520 --> 0:42:00.640
<v Speaker 2>not in a domestic violence relationship. She didn't. I did

0:42:00.640 --> 0:42:04.160
<v Speaker 2>not know this gentleman, who Audrey is, this amazing young woman,

0:42:04.920 --> 0:42:10.400
<v Speaker 2>and that we get answers and there's change and there's justice,

0:42:10.480 --> 0:42:18.080
<v Speaker 2>and there's some kind of I don't know, Like as

0:42:18.120 --> 0:42:22.120
<v Speaker 2>I said, I really still don't exactly know, but it

0:42:22.160 --> 0:42:25.560
<v Speaker 2>will come. It'll come what you're looking for, it'll come

0:42:25.760 --> 0:42:28.480
<v Speaker 2>because I'm not I'm not settling for I will not.

0:42:29.160 --> 0:42:29.600
<v Speaker 2>I will not.

0:42:31.040 --> 0:42:35.320
<v Speaker 1>I Look, I'm not an expert on dealing with the

0:42:35.360 --> 0:42:37.920
<v Speaker 1>emotional trauma, but I've seen enough of it in my

0:42:38.320 --> 0:42:42.759
<v Speaker 1>time in homicide, and I think what people. You can't

0:42:42.800 --> 0:42:44.200
<v Speaker 1>even articulate what you want?

0:42:44.719 --> 0:42:46.080
<v Speaker 2>You know where I want to live?

0:42:46.160 --> 0:42:48.239
<v Speaker 1>You want to grab it, you want to you want this.

0:42:49.160 --> 0:42:51.600
<v Speaker 1>You want to find out what's happened. You want to

0:42:51.680 --> 0:42:55.640
<v Speaker 1>be know exactly what's happened, understand why it happened, how

0:42:55.680 --> 0:42:57.000
<v Speaker 1>it happened, and.

0:42:57.120 --> 0:43:00.480
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I want accountability to accountability from the all the

0:43:00.480 --> 0:43:04.640
<v Speaker 2>accountability from what they have done, what they have done,

0:43:04.680 --> 0:43:07.680
<v Speaker 2>they have done. He murdered my daughter, but he would

0:43:07.800 --> 0:43:11.120
<v Speaker 2>never have done that if they actually locked him up.

0:43:11.440 --> 0:43:15.760
<v Speaker 2>That's where it starts. It's a rippling effect that people

0:43:15.920 --> 0:43:17.680
<v Speaker 2>just can't This is where the heart goes. This is

0:43:17.719 --> 0:43:20.879
<v Speaker 2>what I'm saying. If someone's in a job constantly where

0:43:20.920 --> 0:43:24.200
<v Speaker 2>it just becomes replacing and they just they become hard,

0:43:24.920 --> 0:43:26.880
<v Speaker 2>and they make mistakes and they pulled back for a

0:43:26.920 --> 0:43:29.239
<v Speaker 2>little while, have a holiday, go and do what you

0:43:29.280 --> 0:43:31.040
<v Speaker 2>have to do, and learn to have a heart again,

0:43:31.280 --> 0:43:33.759
<v Speaker 2>because when you start getting into that place where you

0:43:33.960 --> 0:43:37.680
<v Speaker 2>don't have a heart, you're not helping anyone. And for

0:43:37.800 --> 0:43:41.280
<v Speaker 2>me having a heart and how I feel about my daughter,

0:43:41.840 --> 0:43:43.600
<v Speaker 2>I'm going to rock this world and I'm telling you

0:43:43.640 --> 0:43:46.719
<v Speaker 2>I'm going to get justice because I won't stop. I

0:43:46.760 --> 0:43:47.520
<v Speaker 2>will not stop.

0:43:50.040 --> 0:43:53.200
<v Speaker 1>To me, it looks like Audrey has been caught up

0:43:53.200 --> 0:43:56.160
<v Speaker 1>in this domestic violence discussions that we've had in the

0:43:57.719 --> 0:43:59.920
<v Speaker 1>and she wasn't even in the relationship. She was just

0:44:00.120 --> 0:44:02.799
<v Speaker 1>an innocent person that was caught up in the wrong

0:44:02.840 --> 0:44:05.879
<v Speaker 1>place at the wrong time by this creep that's looking

0:44:05.920 --> 0:44:09.960
<v Speaker 1>at the inflicting violence on someone and she she's been

0:44:10.000 --> 0:44:12.080
<v Speaker 1>one of the innocent people caught up in this. So

0:44:12.160 --> 0:44:16.160
<v Speaker 1>all the discussion about domestic violence, this is a potential

0:44:16.160 --> 0:44:17.840
<v Speaker 1>flow on effect from it. And if we're going to

0:44:17.880 --> 0:44:20.280
<v Speaker 1>get touch and in that.

0:44:20.680 --> 0:44:25.120
<v Speaker 2>We've we've got a nonprofit charity set up, and as

0:44:25.160 --> 0:44:31.040
<v Speaker 2>I said, when I get justice, I will be putting

0:44:31.080 --> 0:44:35.120
<v Speaker 2>myself hopefully be able to do that move forward into

0:44:35.920 --> 0:44:41.239
<v Speaker 2>Audrey's nonprofit charity court stand with Audrey, and that is

0:44:41.320 --> 0:44:43.799
<v Speaker 2>a rippling effect for all my friends and all the

0:44:43.800 --> 0:44:46.799
<v Speaker 2>people around me that need to do what they need

0:44:46.840 --> 0:44:50.680
<v Speaker 2>to do here. But for me, I need to just

0:44:50.719 --> 0:44:54.160
<v Speaker 2>focus one hundred and ten percent on Audrey and then

0:44:54.239 --> 0:44:58.319
<v Speaker 2>later we'll see what happens. But I'm there anyway, all

0:44:58.360 --> 0:45:00.600
<v Speaker 2>the time, for all of them, all her friends, everyone,

0:45:01.160 --> 0:45:03.560
<v Speaker 2>I'm the one that's picking up the phone and talking

0:45:03.600 --> 0:45:03.959
<v Speaker 2>to them.

0:45:04.800 --> 0:45:09.240
<v Speaker 1>Well, I can see the emotion, I can see the passion,

0:45:09.280 --> 0:45:11.319
<v Speaker 1>and I can feel the anger, and I can feel

0:45:11.360 --> 0:45:13.799
<v Speaker 1>the energy, and I can feel the sadness all that's

0:45:13.800 --> 0:45:17.439
<v Speaker 1>coming across. And you said that you're not a helicopter parent,

0:45:17.800 --> 0:45:18.719
<v Speaker 1>You're a lioness.

0:45:19.000 --> 0:45:20.799
<v Speaker 2>What do I do when it's all finished? Like what

0:45:20.840 --> 0:45:22.400
<v Speaker 2>do I do when I have to stop?

0:45:22.520 --> 0:45:22.600
<v Speaker 3>Like?

0:45:22.719 --> 0:45:25.000
<v Speaker 2>How how do I live?

0:45:25.320 --> 0:45:25.400
<v Speaker 3>Like?

0:45:25.560 --> 0:45:27.240
<v Speaker 2>How how do I breathe?

0:45:27.280 --> 0:45:29.680
<v Speaker 3>How do I get up? How do I when I

0:45:29.760 --> 0:45:37.759
<v Speaker 3>start feeling this, when those roles come in and I

0:45:37.800 --> 0:45:38.680
<v Speaker 3>can't stop them.

0:45:40.840 --> 0:45:44.120
<v Speaker 2>I know how painful it is. And I put that

0:45:44.200 --> 0:45:46.759
<v Speaker 2>wall up, and I've taken up cigarettes and I have

0:45:46.760 --> 0:45:50.439
<v Speaker 2>a cigarette and I have a cigarette because I need

0:45:50.440 --> 0:45:52.840
<v Speaker 2>to block this to be fine. The I need to

0:45:52.880 --> 0:45:57.600
<v Speaker 2>find the strength. And I'm looking after myself. I'm eating,

0:45:59.560 --> 0:46:04.719
<v Speaker 2>not sweat, but I'm eating, and I'm sleeping as much

0:46:04.760 --> 0:46:07.960
<v Speaker 2>as I can. And I've got so much support around me.

0:46:08.760 --> 0:46:12.839
<v Speaker 2>I'm going about it in all the right ways.

0:46:14.520 --> 0:46:19.680
<v Speaker 1>I learned something about the grief on the podcast a

0:46:19.719 --> 0:46:23.799
<v Speaker 1>couple of episodes ago. And it's funny you think you've

0:46:23.800 --> 0:46:27.560
<v Speaker 1>seen all sides of it and understand it. And someone

0:46:27.600 --> 0:46:30.719
<v Speaker 1>who had been through horrific circumstances said. The kind of

0:46:30.800 --> 0:46:33.879
<v Speaker 1>thing that was said to the person was how are

0:46:33.880 --> 0:46:38.080
<v Speaker 1>you feeling today? Because when people come up, and I thought,

0:46:39.080 --> 0:46:41.640
<v Speaker 1>it's not a bad way because you are going to

0:46:41.680 --> 0:46:45.480
<v Speaker 1>go on that emotional rollcase and it's just a check

0:46:45.520 --> 0:46:48.000
<v Speaker 1>in how you're feeling. Today Today might be a little

0:46:48.000 --> 0:46:50.680
<v Speaker 1>bit better than yesterday, it might be worse than tomorrow,

0:46:50.719 --> 0:46:53.480
<v Speaker 1>who knows. But yeah, how you're feeling today? And the

0:46:53.600 --> 0:46:56.000
<v Speaker 1>lesson I took away from that is that you've just

0:46:56.000 --> 0:46:57.840
<v Speaker 1>got to take each day as it comes.

0:46:58.840 --> 0:47:01.160
<v Speaker 2>Well, I can't answer that. That's a hard one for me.

0:47:01.719 --> 0:47:05.160
<v Speaker 2>For me would be more, tell me about Audrey. Tell

0:47:05.160 --> 0:47:07.719
<v Speaker 2>me about Audrey, Give me something about Audrey. Let's not

0:47:07.840 --> 0:47:10.439
<v Speaker 2>focus on me on how I feel because I don't

0:47:10.440 --> 0:47:12.600
<v Speaker 2>know how to answer that, and I can't go I'm

0:47:12.640 --> 0:47:17.040
<v Speaker 2>great or I'm shit. So excuse me, but do you

0:47:17.080 --> 0:47:19.520
<v Speaker 2>know what I mean? Like I can't. I'm not a liar.

0:47:20.080 --> 0:47:21.880
<v Speaker 2>I say it how it is. So I don't want

0:47:21.920 --> 0:47:24.239
<v Speaker 2>to sit there and go, oh I'm fine or oh

0:47:24.280 --> 0:47:25.640
<v Speaker 2>no I'm not. I don't want to be heavy. I

0:47:25.680 --> 0:47:27.600
<v Speaker 2>don't want to be this. I just want to go

0:47:28.760 --> 0:47:33.000
<v Speaker 2>tell someone, walk up and just go tell me about Audry,

0:47:33.040 --> 0:47:34.960
<v Speaker 2>or tell me this about Audery, or talk about Audrey.

0:47:35.480 --> 0:47:39.839
<v Speaker 1>You told a lot of people about Audrey the day. Yeah,

0:47:40.160 --> 0:47:43.400
<v Speaker 1>plays rugby league, swims after sharks rides, made the bikes,

0:47:43.440 --> 0:47:45.160
<v Speaker 1>travels overseas, going skiing.

0:47:46.160 --> 0:47:49.040
<v Speaker 2>No, she did everything, playing the violin, playing the piano,

0:47:49.080 --> 0:47:55.400
<v Speaker 2>playing guitar, you know, traveling. She just rock climbing, you know,

0:47:55.600 --> 0:47:59.000
<v Speaker 2>like she worked two jobs, going to university doing a

0:47:59.080 --> 0:48:01.520
<v Speaker 2>nine man. This girl just.

0:48:01.960 --> 0:48:04.040
<v Speaker 1>These are the people of the worlds.

0:48:04.680 --> 0:48:06.839
<v Speaker 2>That's what she got into the navy. And how good

0:48:06.840 --> 0:48:11.520
<v Speaker 2>would she have done? And she wanted you know, her

0:48:11.560 --> 0:48:16.200
<v Speaker 2>goals three five novels but a year which were all inspiration,

0:48:16.880 --> 0:48:18.839
<v Speaker 2>you know, how to change the thinking of brain, and

0:48:18.840 --> 0:48:22.399
<v Speaker 2>how to motivate and all this to do I man,

0:48:22.480 --> 0:48:25.160
<v Speaker 2>which she succeeded to buy a house at the end

0:48:25.160 --> 0:48:26.399
<v Speaker 2>of twenty twenty five.

0:48:27.239 --> 0:48:28.120
<v Speaker 1>You wouldn't doubt it.

0:48:28.200 --> 0:48:30.839
<v Speaker 2>Oh, she already had thirty grand in the bank. Like,

0:48:30.920 --> 0:48:35.000
<v Speaker 2>and she worked two jobs, could you RSL and Kunolla RSL?

0:48:35.320 --> 0:48:37.399
<v Speaker 2>You know, like she was doing uni goal from one

0:48:37.440 --> 0:48:39.800
<v Speaker 2>to another, training for the affluon up at five o'clock

0:48:39.800 --> 0:48:44.480
<v Speaker 2>every morning, doing spin classes and then running. Getting up

0:48:44.520 --> 0:48:46.960
<v Speaker 2>in the morning doing a spin class, going running, doing

0:48:47.000 --> 0:48:50.200
<v Speaker 2>in a sunrise swim, coming home doing of that, then

0:48:50.239 --> 0:48:52.680
<v Speaker 2>going for another run, jumping in the ocean for sunset.

0:48:53.200 --> 0:48:58.640
<v Speaker 2>She was a wise soul, certainly amazing beautiful. That was

0:48:59.000 --> 0:49:03.240
<v Speaker 2>just she was always a blossom. She's a natural beauty.

0:49:04.320 --> 0:49:07.799
<v Speaker 2>But she found herself and she was on that way.

0:49:08.040 --> 0:49:11.960
<v Speaker 2>She was happy, she was bribing and he took that

0:49:12.840 --> 0:49:19.320
<v Speaker 2>from her and us And how I cannot find someone

0:49:19.440 --> 0:49:20.040
<v Speaker 2>like her? A kid?

0:49:23.800 --> 0:49:25.839
<v Speaker 1>That's how they found finances? Is it?

0:49:29.160 --> 0:49:33.360
<v Speaker 2>As I said, I'll be told, this is probably my purpose.

0:49:34.560 --> 0:49:37.279
<v Speaker 2>I didn't come into this world to fight, but I

0:49:37.320 --> 0:49:37.759
<v Speaker 2>will be.

0:49:40.760 --> 0:49:48.960
<v Speaker 1>Well the person that you bought into the world short

0:49:49.400 --> 0:49:51.440
<v Speaker 1>short time. But gee, she burnt bright.

0:49:54.680 --> 0:49:55.359
<v Speaker 2>She sure did.

0:49:57.040 --> 0:50:04.240
<v Speaker 1>She's left an indelible mark. Or the concert that Gosford Stadium,

0:50:04.360 --> 0:50:10.440
<v Speaker 1>I call it Gosford Stadium, poly Tech outdoor head up,

0:50:10.440 --> 0:50:14.160
<v Speaker 1>both birds of take. Oh my god, she'd be smiling

0:50:14.239 --> 0:50:15.480
<v Speaker 1>looking looking at that.

0:50:15.840 --> 0:50:18.200
<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, it should be at the front. And that

0:50:18.320 --> 0:50:19.839
<v Speaker 2>was the thing. She loved a music. It was so

0:50:19.880 --> 0:50:23.799
<v Speaker 2>funny like she you know, she was so romantic and

0:50:23.880 --> 0:50:27.319
<v Speaker 2>loved and had such high standards of you know, love

0:50:27.440 --> 0:50:30.760
<v Speaker 2>and you know what she wanted in so many ways.

0:50:30.760 --> 0:50:35.480
<v Speaker 2>But you know, then there was the music, like she

0:50:35.680 --> 0:50:38.080
<v Speaker 2>just loved that, you know. And that's why everyone used

0:50:38.080 --> 0:50:40.560
<v Speaker 2>to think she drank because you just like, but she didn't,

0:50:40.840 --> 0:50:44.680
<v Speaker 2>you know, like she just lived high correct.

0:50:45.239 --> 0:50:47.600
<v Speaker 1>Well, she she had a concert there and other things

0:50:47.600 --> 0:50:49.360
<v Speaker 1>that they've they've done for it. She's not going to

0:50:49.360 --> 0:50:52.680
<v Speaker 1>be forgotten, and that's certainly why you're you're you're here.

0:50:52.760 --> 0:50:53.080
<v Speaker 1>She's not.

0:50:55.200 --> 0:50:59.520
<v Speaker 2>Definitely not, definitely not, and you know, and I want

0:50:59.600 --> 0:51:02.520
<v Speaker 2>her to her be the girl she is, not the

0:51:02.560 --> 0:51:06.480
<v Speaker 2>girl that was taken at the Creek by domestic violence.

0:51:06.520 --> 0:51:09.920
<v Speaker 2>I want her to be Audrey. And I want everyone

0:51:10.560 --> 0:51:15.400
<v Speaker 2>to learn who she is and what she is and

0:51:15.480 --> 0:51:17.400
<v Speaker 2>take a book, take a page out of her book,

0:51:17.719 --> 0:51:23.319
<v Speaker 2>because honestly, she was one of her kind. And if

0:51:23.320 --> 0:51:25.560
<v Speaker 2>you was to say that things happen in a reason

0:51:25.600 --> 0:51:28.279
<v Speaker 2>and this was her time, I would take that and

0:51:28.320 --> 0:51:31.040
<v Speaker 2>say yep. But the fact that is the way she

0:51:31.280 --> 0:51:37.200
<v Speaker 2>was taken. I have reached out to so many religions

0:51:38.960 --> 0:51:45.359
<v Speaker 2>and just try to get there, get a feel on

0:51:45.680 --> 0:51:49.160
<v Speaker 2>how this is. And nothing makes sense. No one can

0:51:49.200 --> 0:51:54.080
<v Speaker 2>tell me so, And I'm the one that has to

0:51:54.120 --> 0:51:58.360
<v Speaker 2>live every day of that last vision and how she passed,

0:52:01.160 --> 0:52:03.400
<v Speaker 2>and how it's just been put in a filing cabinet

0:52:03.400 --> 0:52:03.960
<v Speaker 2>and put to bed.

0:52:05.760 --> 0:52:09.919
<v Speaker 1>It won't be put to bed, no, it's more. I look,

0:52:10.840 --> 0:52:12.800
<v Speaker 1>I've got to thank you for coming on the podcast.

0:52:14.200 --> 0:52:17.279
<v Speaker 1>I know Undernard and how hard it is for you

0:52:17.320 --> 0:52:21.719
<v Speaker 1>to talk about the answers that you want will try

0:52:21.760 --> 0:52:22.840
<v Speaker 1>and get bad chances.

0:52:23.560 --> 0:52:27.000
<v Speaker 2>So I need to get there, and you need to

0:52:27.000 --> 0:52:30.800
<v Speaker 2>be honest a little enough. I know that the whole

0:52:30.840 --> 0:52:32.440
<v Speaker 2>team behind is there.

0:52:33.719 --> 0:52:37.600
<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't like to be taking you guys on. We

0:52:37.680 --> 0:52:40.920
<v Speaker 1>might we might wrap it up here, So thanks for

0:52:40.960 --> 0:52:41.319
<v Speaker 1>your time.

0:52:41.400 --> 0:52:45.000
<v Speaker 2>Thanksgiving