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Speaker 1: This is the fits in with Her with Kate Richie podcast.

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Speaker 1: I mean, this is another case of cost of living

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Speaker 1: here fits and I know where they're coming from here.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I wouldn't do it myself, but you know

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Speaker 1: how a crack at it. A woman has sparked huge

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Speaker 1: debate after revealing she charges other parents to have their

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Speaker 1: kids over for playdates. How do you invoice that? Do

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Speaker 1: you let them know beforehand? I mean when you have

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Speaker 1: let's say you've got one kid comes over for a playdate.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes it's two mate, sometimes it's three. Half the neighborhood

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Speaker 1: will drop in. The mum has come out and said

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Speaker 1: when kids come over to my house, the cost to

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Speaker 1: me in food has gone through the roof. What you

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Speaker 1: can so snacks, meals, drinks, pumps of soap. She even

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Speaker 1: said forty five minutes of electricity cleaning fees yep, and

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Speaker 1: ten minutes using market pens.

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Speaker 2: See.

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Speaker 3: This is such an amateur move though, because then you

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Speaker 3: can never offload your kids to anyone else's house.

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Speaker 1: They're always well. You kind of feel like what goes

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Speaker 1: around comes around, don't you. I mean, we went for

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Speaker 1: a walk the other day and one of Jack's mates

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Speaker 1: came along and we wandered past Chugg and Charlie's Oh

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Speaker 1: I wants a chicken burger. Well, that's chicken burger.

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Speaker 3: That's more you.

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Speaker 1: Not for kid's mate, that's more you. I bought a

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Speaker 1: little man of chicken burger. I didn't say, Hey, by

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Speaker 1: the way, when we drop your home, if you could

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Speaker 1: just run out fifteen dollars with a chicken.

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Speaker 3: Burger, you say that to us, not even with the kids.

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Speaker 1: You've got a large chips as well, and we did

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Speaker 1: sweet potato chips. So if you could just if you

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Speaker 1: can drop us a tenor at least, we'll go halves.

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Speaker 1: To tell you what, we'll go halves in it. Do

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Speaker 1: you do you remember?

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Speaker 3: Do you remember when you first got your peas, and

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Speaker 3: remember when you used to get all the shrappers out

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Speaker 3: of your pockets to pay your mate's petty money.

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Speaker 1: M hm.

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Speaker 3: So you would go, hey, let's go into the city.

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Speaker 3: There's a great you know, underage disc girl something like

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Speaker 3: oh god, I can't even say disco anymore.

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Speaker 1: That sounds so old, man.

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Speaker 3: But remember you would get we would get into coops

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Speaker 3: as volksware, and I remember you're just just looking for shrappers,

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Speaker 3: going any money there you go. Yeah, he's ye, he's

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Speaker 3: seven bucks coops, thanks for taking us into the into

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Speaker 3: the city.

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Speaker 1: So I mean, yeah, sure, this mom's gone too far,

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Speaker 1: she said. For example, I weighed out how many ounces

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Speaker 1: of each sopa is in the in the pump bottle.

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Speaker 1: Then I took the cost of the bottle and divided

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Speaker 1: via the amount of ouncers in there. She said. Then

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Speaker 1: I was personally charged. Oh, hang on a minute, she said,

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Speaker 1: I was charged by another parent at another house. So

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Speaker 1: this isn't the first time. It's so in the neighborhood

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Speaker 1: they're all charging each other.

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Speaker 3: Well, it's you know, the new Apple feature on the

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Speaker 3: iPhone is that tapped to pay friends. That's that's that's

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Speaker 3: pretty simple, so that it can be as something as

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Speaker 3: simple as transferring something really quickly. Can you if I

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Speaker 3: transfer you wait bucks? Can you look after Johnny for

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Speaker 3: a couple of days?

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Speaker 1: And And now I feel bad because Ted went out

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Speaker 1: for sushi train the other night with another family. Should

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Speaker 1: I have rather them? And said I'll drop some cash around?

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Speaker 1: How many plates did he collect? Mate?

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Speaker 3: What we took Lenny to sushi train for his birthday?

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Speaker 3: Go move because the kids just keep that were eating

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Speaker 3: sushi that they've never tried.

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Speaker 1: Be noofore and I'm paying for where you are mate, Chloe?

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Speaker 1: Of course a settle down mate.

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Speaker 3: Of course you don't like sushimi. It's raw, kid, so

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Speaker 3: don't try it.

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Speaker 1: Because I'm paying. That's on the gold plate. That's nine dollars.

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Speaker 1: Chloe's in Oakdale. Would you pay for a playdate? Cloth?

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Speaker 2: Not a chair? We raise children in a village these days,

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Speaker 2: and if the village is charging you, I'm not sure

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Speaker 2: what kind of village deliver in.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're in the wrong village, aren't You're in the

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Speaker 1: wrong village in twenty twenty four? That's the problem. How

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Speaker 1: many kids have you got?

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Speaker 2: I have two little ones, one and a three year old,

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Speaker 2: so it is quite often we need the help. And

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Speaker 2: I just don't understand.

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Speaker 1: What if you went further though, and you went, oh,

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Speaker 1: I'm going to take little Timmy and his mate to

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Speaker 1: the movies, would you expect a bit of coin for

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Speaker 1: the movie ticket?

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Speaker 2: If you're offering and it wasn't pre arranged, well that's

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Speaker 2: on you. But if it was pre arranging and I'm

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Speaker 2: happy to play for it, then it was organized.

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Speaker 3: Do you know when your child gets picked up right,

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Speaker 3: it's just something. It's as simple as a ten dollars zero.

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Speaker 3: And as the parents looking at you, you go, all right, guys,

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Speaker 3: go and have a good day. Here you go, Lenny,

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Speaker 3: here's your ten dollars. Put it in their pocket. You

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Speaker 3: know that they're not going.

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Speaker 1: To spend it.

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Speaker 3: No, no, they're going to come back with a ten dollars.

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Speaker 3: But it looks like you're making an effort.

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Speaker 1: If you go, it does feel a little bit like

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Speaker 1: it does feel a bit like, no, i'ld clean up,

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Speaker 1: but you haven't got up from the table. I do

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Speaker 1: that all the time. No, no, no, no, you sit down.

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Speaker 1: Oh you're already got me a beauty there, and I

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Speaker 1: was keen to do that. It's in Whippa. It's Kate

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