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Speaker 1: This is the Fitting In with Kate Richie podcast.

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Speaker 2: Let's talk about this because I know that people get

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Speaker 2: carried away and Taylor Swift fans in particular, will sacrifice

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Speaker 2: anything to become closer to the person they love, and that's.

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Speaker 1: Taylor person that they love. Would they sacrifice the person

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Speaker 1: that wouldn't surprise me?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? I guess. I mean that's a good question on this.

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Speaker 4: If you could have one final meal ye with the

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Speaker 4: love of your life, your partner or Taylor Swift, what

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Speaker 4: would you choose?

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Speaker 1: What about the final show? What about the Where is

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Speaker 1: their final show.

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Speaker 4: Canada in Vancouver? How amazing would that be? Imagine waiting

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Speaker 4: to hear the secret that not the secret songs, the

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Speaker 4: secrets not the surprise songs.

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Speaker 2: As if Travis Kelsey's not getting up on that last

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Speaker 2: show too? Do you think so, Brenda Carpenter, you're bringing

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Speaker 2: all the big guns and if you're in Canada, you've

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Speaker 2: got Buble, You've got Bieber, Chad Kroger, Oh yeah, Nicol,

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Speaker 2: They'll be on stage, they'll get.

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Speaker 1: Invited about to Chad Kroger's ice skating rink at his

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Speaker 1: house after.

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Speaker 2: Can I throw this one at you? Because what's happened.

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Speaker 2: Is one Taylor Swift fan. In her relationship, she has

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Speaker 2: spent all her money on Taylor Swift, tickets and merch.

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Speaker 2: Then it came to pay the rent and boyfriend he

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Speaker 2: was out of a job for a couple of months

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Speaker 2: so needed her support. He told her this prior to

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Speaker 2: her spending the money. So when it came to time

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Speaker 2: to pay the rent, not a dollar was left.

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Speaker 3: There was no rent money.

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Speaker 5: No, there was not.

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Speaker 2: He had to go and borrow the money to pay

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Speaker 2: the rent because she'd spent all the money on Taylor Swift.

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Speaker 1: And he is.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but that money that she spent on Taylor Swift.

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Speaker 2: Don't try and justify this.

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Speaker 4: I'm just saying, let's be very clear about some facts

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Speaker 4: in the story. She's working, she's earning, She's using her

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Speaker 4: hard earned money on something that she loves and that

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Speaker 4: brings her joy. He's unemployed. I don't think he can

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Speaker 4: do it. I don't think he can get quanky about.

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Speaker 1: Point snitchey.

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Speaker 2: He's between jobs.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, go and borrow the money.

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Speaker 2: He did because he had to clean up her mess.

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Speaker 3: He should have done that to start.

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Speaker 2: Irresponsibly spent that money. Now, unless you have that spare

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Speaker 2: for side interests, then by all means, But if we've

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Speaker 2: agreed as a couple that this is what our spreadsheet

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Speaker 2: looks like and this is how we're going to get

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Speaker 2: by a month, month and month.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but Taylor doesn't come, you know, every every year

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Speaker 4: to be like you fitsy with Oasis tickets or something like.

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Speaker 4: I hate to say it, but if it's a once

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Speaker 4: in a lifetime chance to see the person that you've

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Speaker 4: followed for years, it always you have to prioritize that.

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Speaker 3: I think and your partner should understand.

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Speaker 1: Well, see, Taylor's not coming back for a while. She's

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Speaker 1: having it. She's been she's tired, she's been on the

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Speaker 1: road for two years. Mate, she's having a rest. She's

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Speaker 1: so I agree, you know what, go into a bit

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Speaker 1: of debt now to see Taylor. But then you've got

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Speaker 1: this is the thing. You just got to head down,

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Speaker 1: bum up and work hard for the next week.

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Speaker 2: I get back thirteen twenty four ten. What did they

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Speaker 2: spend the money on when it was for the household?

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Speaker 2: I love to know where the money got blown?

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Speaker 3: Wow, we know where it usually goes?

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Speaker 2: Chelsea? Hello, Hello, how are you do you think this

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Speaker 2: is fair? That she celebrated Taylor Swift and spend all

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Speaker 2: the cash.

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Speaker 1: Well, I'm in a bit of fifty sifty.

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Speaker 5: I think if it's a bucket list thing, well and.

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Speaker 1: You've wanted to do it for ages, then yeah, you've

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Speaker 1: got to.

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Speaker 5: Obviously work a lot harder. Three fumes already and followed

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Speaker 5: her onto other.

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Speaker 1: Note do you know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: And then all of a sudden, Chelsea, all of a sudden,

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Speaker 2: one of his mates is getting married and there's a

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Speaker 2: Bucks party in Vegas. Why sorry, honey, this is a

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Speaker 2: once in a lifetime.

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Speaker 3: My best money in the poke is here.

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Speaker 2: Once in a lifetime. Can we celebrate him in Vegas? Jerry?

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Speaker 1: Jerry, you don't agree what's going on?

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Speaker 5: Jess? Yeah? I just think that you know, our partners

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Speaker 5: support each other and when it comes to real living,

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Speaker 5: you help each other out. You don't go wasting money

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Speaker 5: and you're making someone get alone.

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Speaker 3: No, But is there a little part of you, Jerry that.

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Speaker 4: Thinks that if they know, they'll recover from this And

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Speaker 4: this isn't a This isn't like some kind of Taylor

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Speaker 4: Swift addiction that she continues to spend money on that

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Speaker 4: he should think, Okay, it's going to be tough this month,

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Speaker 4: but I know that this is something she's always wanted

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Speaker 4: to do.

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Speaker 5: Well, if you get into a Liane, you're committing to

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Speaker 5: something that could go on for months and months and

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Speaker 5: then effective relationship Jerry.

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Speaker 3: She likes her.

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Speaker 1: Ask Jerry to come to I was going to to Oasis,

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Speaker 1: but she wants obviously save her money.

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Speaker 2: Don't about Jerry. I mean Jerry in Australie. Twist is

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Speaker 2: now they're running for Coldplay tickets, which is great news.

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Speaker 1: And she will sell them off and it will go

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Speaker 1: toward the home what I would like to think.

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