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Speaker 1: Coming up on Relatable's Petreon this week Hot Take of

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Speaker 1: the Week.

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Speaker 2: You chose to put it all online, tell us what happens,

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Speaker 2: and you.

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Speaker 1: Made money of us viewing it, so you owe us

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Speaker 1: that you Oh, the absolute least you can do, the

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Speaker 1: audacity give us a fitty greedy.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Really, if someone said that to me, I would be like,

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Speaker 1: this chick wants to know what we are, but like

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Speaker 1: he's lying to me.

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Speaker 2: Why for cod or white lies are good now? And

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Speaker 2: then that's a bad liar.

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Speaker 1: But I would be thinking in the back of my

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Speaker 1: mind and be like, did someone actually ask that? Or

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Speaker 1: she like trying to press me for an answer.

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Speaker 2: You're looking into it too deeply. It's like super simple

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Speaker 2: if you realize she's like, Oh, she's just trying to

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Speaker 2: ask me what are we? But she's too scared to

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Speaker 2: say it. I'll be a nice guy and I'll let

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Speaker 2: her know what I think.

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Speaker 1: I think if you're in the scenario where you're too

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Speaker 1: if you're too scared to ask for are we, then

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Speaker 1: you're not in the right scenario.

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Speaker 2: I feel the same around the beating, about the beating

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Speaker 2: around the bush, right, Yeah, but I think what we

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Speaker 2: need to take into account is again, this is for

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Speaker 2: people that are like anxious people, right yeah, that have

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Speaker 2: like probably done exactly what you said you should do

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Speaker 2: in the past because they thought they felt safe. I'm

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Speaker 2: not saying you shouldn't let your past dictate your future,

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Speaker 2: but it's like they were in the past. They thought

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Speaker 2: something's going really good and they said, oh, what are we?

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Speaker 2: And then some guy just fucking ghosted.

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Speaker 1: If you're the girl and you say one of those

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Speaker 1: things and he tells you an answer, but if you

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Speaker 1: just asked the what are we questioned, yeah, and he

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Speaker 1: ghosted you because you said those answers, he didn't ghost you,

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Speaker 1: would you want to be with that guy. No. So

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Speaker 1: if you're saying the only way for him to say

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Speaker 1: the right answer you're looking for is the better around

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Speaker 1: the bush, And I think he's not a good guy

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Speaker 1: and you should just cut your losses anyway, and you

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Speaker 1: should have the conversation and if he doesn't say, if

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Speaker 1: he doesn't have an appropriate response to what are we,

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Speaker 1: then he's not the right person.

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Speaker 2: Someone can have like bad experiences, right yeah, but at

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Speaker 2: the time they didn't realize it was going to be

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Speaker 2: a bad experience. So they now have like walls up

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Speaker 2: is if the person actually likes you and isn't an asshole,

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Speaker 2: is going to realize what's happening.

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Speaker 1: You're going to get that anyway. I reckon you should

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Speaker 1: hold back from having the conversation until you're ready and

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Speaker 1: you feel comfortable in this scenario where you can deal

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Speaker 1: with either sides of the conversation fair enough, so you

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Speaker 1: wait an extra couple of weeks and then you're prepared

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Speaker 1: for yes or no, or I want to date you

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Speaker 1: or I don't want to date you, rather than having

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Speaker 1: a walls up scenario where you're protecting your feelings, because

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Speaker 1: I feel like that's just like not getting You're not

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Speaker 1: getting anywhere with that.

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Speaker 2: We could like clip a small just the segment of this, yeah,

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Speaker 2: to see what other people think, because I'm assuming this

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Speaker 2: is just both a hill we're willing to die.

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Speaker 1: On yea that we disagree on. I would love to

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Speaker 1: see what other people think. I see what you're saying,

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Speaker 1: and I see a reason to do it. But I

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Speaker 1: just think if you do that, you don't win anything

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Speaker 1: out of it. You're still in the same position.

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Speaker 2: This is also a good way to find out if

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Speaker 2: he's a nice guy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but you're also going to find out if he's

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Speaker 1: a nice guy by just being like straight up from

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Speaker 1: the start. When I'm coming into a relationship, I'm okay

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Speaker 1: with the answer of no, maybe they're not in the

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Speaker 1: right position to be in a relationship because they're not

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Speaker 1: okay on their own and they're not ready to be rejected.

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Speaker 2: We were in the car and she goes, I just

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Speaker 2: wanted enough you sleep with anyone else because I'm not.

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Speaker 2: She was like yeah, and I was like, oh no.

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Speaker 2: I was like, okay, cool, Yeah, no, I just and

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Speaker 2: that was the Then I was like, so she was like,

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Speaker 2: we just like had the exclusive chat. Then. Yeah, it

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Speaker 2: was pretty straight and I liked that she was very.

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Speaker 1: Forward with it. I like it. I think the forwardness

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Speaker 1: is good. And then like, also, I don't think there's

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Speaker 1: any right or wrong way to do it. So I've heard,

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Speaker 1: like I've been get dates with girls and they've told

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Speaker 1: me experiences with trash guys and stuff.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the dilemmas we get, yeah, what the just who exists?

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Speaker 1: But also you can see them as trash guys. My

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Speaker 1: dilemma is should I just stick up with it or

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Speaker 1: let him go? Or what should I do?

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Speaker 2: Enough all of that, I think all of that. Imagine

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Speaker 2: if your girlfriend had this group of friends, right, and

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Speaker 2: then you went to it, and then you went to

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Speaker 2: a dinner. So it's like her four best mates, and

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Speaker 2: then there's four dudes that are part of the group.

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Speaker 2: They're all friends, right, and then after the dinner you're like, oh, yeah,

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Speaker 2: James is cool, and she's like, actually kissed him once,

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Speaker 2: could have fallen in love with him. Then you're like, shit, okay,

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Speaker 2: You're like, oh, Tyler was actually he was all right

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Speaker 2: as well, and you're like, yeah, I've actually slept with

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Speaker 2: him and dad in for two months even. And then

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Speaker 2: she's like, I'm going on a ski trip.

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Speaker 1: With all the very insane. Like we don't like to

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Speaker 1: give the advice of break up with him, but I

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Speaker 1: think you know what to do.

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Speaker 2: I think, yeah, I think you know what to do

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Speaker 2: from everything you said. Yeah, what he knows is wrong.

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Speaker 1: Yeah it's fun.

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Speaker 2: Yeah he doesn't care.

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Speaker 1: He's still having fun with these girls. You don't get

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Speaker 1: drunk with them. Who knows what's gonna think the next

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Speaker 1: step ahead, Like when he goes on this ski trip

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Speaker 1: with these girls that he's had sex with, Like, how

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Speaker 1: is my girlfriend going to feel like her head's just

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Speaker 1: going to be spiraling of all these what ifs. What

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Speaker 1: if this happens, What if this happens When he gets

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Speaker 1: home and doesn't text me one night, like what if?

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Speaker 1: Like there's all these little spirals. He doesn't think about

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Speaker 1: his partners partner at all.

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Speaker 2: I think that you know what you have to do.

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Speaker 2: Learn his house down I don't even know. Burn his

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Speaker 2: house down all right, Think of a quick one