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Speaker 1: You're listening to the FITZI and whipp A podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hey, new dating trends have been revealed in an and

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Speaker 2: your report for twenty twenty three or leading into twenty

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Speaker 2: three twenty three. So these are just new sayings that

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Speaker 2: people use in their love life. Okay, okay, So after

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Speaker 2: being endlessly ghosted and falling victim to bread crumbing, a

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Speaker 2: new dating trends.

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Speaker 1: All these all these new dading trends that have emerged.

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Speaker 3: There's one I've been feeling lately called desperate. That sort

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Speaker 3: of I've applied that to myself at home, I'm doing

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Speaker 3: a lot of shoulder tapping but still not getting much

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Speaker 3: of a turn around.

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Speaker 1: Also, tapping on the door of your daughter, don't you

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Speaker 1: get it asleep?

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Speaker 3: Get it asleep? Yeah, it's a weird process.

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Speaker 2: So you tap with your finger on one door and

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Speaker 2: then go to Lisa's door.

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Speaker 3: Lisa, see if she's there.

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Speaker 1: You probably be waking your child up. It's Megan. Has

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Speaker 1: anyone who heard of guard railing?

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Speaker 2: What guard railing is all about setting boundaries and protecting

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Speaker 2: your own energy?

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's guard.

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Speaker 2: Railing work life balance, see you later. That's gone. It's

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Speaker 2: all about love life balance. Now it's really interesting to

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Speaker 2: see people shift in people caring less about career as

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Speaker 2: a status symbol and instead we're prioritizing rest and leisure

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Speaker 2: time within our relations So.

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Speaker 3: Is guardrailing looking after yourself through the process of love?

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Speaker 1: Is that what that is? Like, it's protecting your own

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Speaker 1: energy the whole time.

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Speaker 2: So it could be like, so if your energy, I

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Speaker 2: mean it's I suppose it's just air bag thinking about

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Speaker 2: how you feel in a relationship the whole time. I

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Speaker 2: suppose a lot of times, you know, we get told, oh,

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Speaker 2: you've got to give it time.

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Speaker 1: There's going to be some really rough moments.

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Speaker 2: But I think people are protecting their energy now and say, well,

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Speaker 2: if I don't want to feel like this, I'm out.

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Speaker 3: So you could be air bagging or helmeting or that

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Speaker 3: a safety suit. Helmeting, Well, you're putting helmet on, is

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Speaker 3: guarding yourself guardrailing. I'm just thinking about the safety things

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Speaker 3: that you could actually call this term if you're trying

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Speaker 3: to protect yourself in these moments.

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Speaker 2: Well, now that we're back with international travel, there's a

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Speaker 2: new one called wonder love, and that's people that's people

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Speaker 2: traveling around the world.

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Speaker 1: Again looking for love looking at the romance. How's this

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Speaker 1: for a story.

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Speaker 3: I won't mention his name. He's an American guy rolls

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Speaker 3: into town not long ago, finds a small apartment in Bondai,

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Speaker 3: decides to go for a Bondai Bronti walk with a

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Speaker 3: girl he's met at the gym. It's eight o'clock in

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Speaker 3: the morning. They finished their walk around nine o'clock and

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Speaker 3: it had started to rain. He got he got wet

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Speaker 3: and said, oh, do you want to come back to

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Speaker 3: my apartment. I'm going to change the top. Maybe we

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Speaker 3: could get some breakfast.

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Speaker 1: It's nine o'clock in the morning.

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Speaker 3: Three hour session.

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Speaker 1: Oh that putting his top on? What kind of top?

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Speaker 3: Three at He actually had to He had to make

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Speaker 3: the T shirt. It was screenprinting at the apartment, made

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Speaker 3: the T shirt and it took three hours that he

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Speaker 3: was ready to go for breakfast. So here's this guy

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Speaker 3: who's flown in, met a girl the day before at

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Speaker 3: some yoga class, decides to go for a walk at

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Speaker 3: the first sunlight the next morning. I'll tell you what

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Speaker 3: he got more than a bain guard railing. He's not

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Speaker 3: guard railing. He was completely taking his guard off. That's

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Speaker 3: well he's wonder loving. That's what he's doing. He is

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Speaker 3: traveling the world looking for love.

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Speaker 1: He's for a bit of how's it going. This is

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Speaker 1: the one that I want to focus on though.

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Speaker 2: Open casting, Now, this is a new one where people

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Speaker 2: move like it no open casting. This is where people

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Speaker 2: move away from their traditional type and instead partner with

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Speaker 2: someone that they wouldn't usually go for, because you know what,

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Speaker 2: everyone has a type.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, but the way that is that's just

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Speaker 1: called isn't it called slomin it resorts, this scatter gun

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Speaker 1: approach that's just called desperado. Isn't that called no? No?

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Speaker 1: I think you know what. Growing up, you you have

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Speaker 1: a you have a type they called a cab grab.

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Speaker 1: There's a there's a hair color that you go for.

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Speaker 1: There's a personality type.

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Speaker 2: Minds, even without a doubt, you are always looking for

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Speaker 2: that type.

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Speaker 3: Says you had a type of an irishman that was

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Speaker 3: a front rower.

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Speaker 1: Is Sarah's type? That would still be my type. I

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Speaker 1: just haven't had one appear. Gary's not that he's none

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Speaker 1: at all. Fair to say that you've been open casting.

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Speaker 3: You've been open casting maybe maybe Actually that's a really

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Speaker 3: good point, because he is different.

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Speaker 1: But then maybe I was just always looking for the

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Speaker 1: wrong type.

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Speaker 2: So can I ask you then, if he wasn't your

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Speaker 2: type right when you first saw him, was there an attraction?

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Speaker 3: No, Remember we're at a race day.

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Speaker 1: Whips brought him and said, I've brought my mate. Can

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Speaker 1: you look after him? We've got to go do a

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Speaker 1: Channel seven cross. Yes you did.

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Speaker 3: No, we just sat and chatted, but we didn't speak

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Speaker 3: for sort of a year after that.

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Speaker 1: So no, I thought he was lovely.

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Speaker 3: But wow, to open casting is different to what you've

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Speaker 3: been doing, which where you first make the plaster mold

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Speaker 3: and then pour it with a latex rubber. That's completely

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Speaker 3: different that you've been doing. Honey, I've got work.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to leave you with this. You can telling

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Speaker 1: me about this casting out. I don't know about. I

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Speaker 1: just care. I'm running a Black Friday special.

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Speaker 3: Guys, if anyone's key, there's not many takers yet. You're

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Speaker 3: listening to the Fitz and Whipper podcast.