1 00:00:05,921 --> 00:00:07,281 Speaker 1: Apogae production. 2 00:00:23,001 --> 00:00:25,921 Speaker 2: Okay to another episode of Am I A Bad Mom? 3 00:00:26,481 --> 00:00:27,281 Speaker 1: Podcast? 4 00:00:28,081 --> 00:00:30,601 Speaker 2: Something happened the other day where I was trying to 5 00:00:30,641 --> 00:00:34,161 Speaker 2: work out something on my phone and Holly turned around 6 00:00:34,201 --> 00:00:35,961 Speaker 2: and went, oh, you know you could do this. I 7 00:00:36,001 --> 00:00:37,521 Speaker 2: can't even remember what it was. I was like, it 8 00:00:37,561 --> 00:00:38,121 Speaker 2: blew my mind. 9 00:00:38,161 --> 00:00:39,560 Speaker 1: I was like what I was like? 10 00:00:39,601 --> 00:00:41,721 Speaker 2: How did I never know that my phone. 11 00:00:41,480 --> 00:00:45,681 Speaker 1: Could do that? Yeah, because you're a millennial. Okay, calm down. 12 00:00:45,961 --> 00:00:47,801 Speaker 1: Was it you creating your own emoji? 13 00:00:48,441 --> 00:00:48,481 Speaker 3: No? 14 00:00:48,601 --> 00:00:50,641 Speaker 1: I don't know how to do that. I've got no 15 00:00:52,760 --> 00:00:53,841 Speaker 1: surprise myself. 16 00:00:53,961 --> 00:00:55,920 Speaker 3: You can create your own emoji of like your own 17 00:00:55,961 --> 00:00:58,881 Speaker 3: face so that you come up instead of all the 18 00:00:58,881 --> 00:01:00,200 Speaker 3: smiley faces. You know. 19 00:01:00,481 --> 00:01:01,200 Speaker 2: Have you done that? 20 00:01:01,321 --> 00:01:02,041 Speaker 1: Yeah? 21 00:01:02,200 --> 00:01:08,881 Speaker 3: I put in like something like fun forty fabulous, loves champagne, 22 00:01:09,161 --> 00:01:12,321 Speaker 3: and then it selects it from then your photo type 23 00:01:12,481 --> 00:01:14,481 Speaker 3: and then generates like these emojis. 24 00:01:14,961 --> 00:01:16,801 Speaker 1: Now I said I love champagne. 25 00:01:16,840 --> 00:01:20,080 Speaker 3: It did not need to give me two glasses of champagne. 26 00:01:20,241 --> 00:01:22,600 Speaker 1: It just like could have stopped with one. 27 00:01:23,401 --> 00:01:25,800 Speaker 2: So when you call, is that what comes up? 28 00:01:26,000 --> 00:01:26,200 Speaker 1: No? 29 00:01:26,360 --> 00:01:27,961 Speaker 3: Like you know on the bottom, when you can send 30 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:31,321 Speaker 3: emoji's like hey babe, how are you? It's rach here 31 00:01:31,601 --> 00:01:33,841 Speaker 3: and like instead of putting like the smiley face with 32 00:01:33,881 --> 00:01:36,520 Speaker 3: the winking you put in your little emoji. 33 00:01:36,280 --> 00:01:39,761 Speaker 2: So you could say it like you it's Rach here, 34 00:01:40,360 --> 00:01:43,560 Speaker 2: and then the emoji of yougne like just in case 35 00:01:43,640 --> 00:01:45,360 Speaker 2: I didn't know who Rach was. 36 00:01:46,801 --> 00:01:47,401 Speaker 1: Coming from? 37 00:01:47,521 --> 00:01:51,521 Speaker 2: Your number? Like that's such a So we're millennial. What's 38 00:01:51,561 --> 00:01:53,520 Speaker 2: the boomer is that the older one? 39 00:01:53,641 --> 00:01:53,880 Speaker 1: Yeah? 40 00:01:54,001 --> 00:01:56,921 Speaker 2: Got My dad still to this day puts at the 41 00:01:57,001 --> 00:01:59,401 Speaker 2: end of a text, love Dad, like I don't know 42 00:01:59,441 --> 00:02:14,321 Speaker 2: who it's come from. Am I bad mum for being 43 00:02:14,601 --> 00:02:15,560 Speaker 2: out of touch? 44 00:02:17,041 --> 00:02:19,121 Speaker 3: I mean, I feel like I spend most of my 45 00:02:19,201 --> 00:02:22,281 Speaker 3: time out of touch. I learn a lot nowadays in 46 00:02:22,321 --> 00:02:25,921 Speaker 3: the car to and from drop off to high school. 47 00:02:26,121 --> 00:02:27,400 Speaker 1: I'm learning so much. 48 00:02:27,721 --> 00:02:29,841 Speaker 2: Yeah, you need to get on TikTok and you're learning. 49 00:02:29,921 --> 00:02:30,761 Speaker 1: Oh no, no no. 50 00:02:31,121 --> 00:02:33,161 Speaker 3: If I really want you and I'm in that headspace, 51 00:02:33,201 --> 00:02:35,841 Speaker 3: I can piss up the wall so many hours on 52 00:02:36,001 --> 00:02:39,201 Speaker 3: Instagram actually get real down on myself afterwards, like real 53 00:02:39,281 --> 00:02:39,961 Speaker 3: kicking cans, like. 54 00:02:40,001 --> 00:02:41,881 Speaker 1: You just wasted three hours of your life. 55 00:02:42,041 --> 00:02:46,961 Speaker 2: Yeah, and didn't even read anything inspirational or helping. 56 00:02:46,800 --> 00:02:50,161 Speaker 1: Any value to somebody else's life. Age. You just pissed 57 00:02:50,121 --> 00:02:50,601 Speaker 1: three hours. 58 00:02:50,761 --> 00:02:58,800 Speaker 2: I just watched someone go get ready with me. No, 59 00:02:59,041 --> 00:03:03,601 Speaker 2: so I have been brought into a whole new world 60 00:03:03,800 --> 00:03:05,321 Speaker 2: of teenagers. 61 00:03:04,761 --> 00:03:07,121 Speaker 1: Going to concerts. Yes, my girls. 62 00:03:07,601 --> 00:03:11,401 Speaker 2: As you know massive Billie Eilish fans. Billie Eilish came 63 00:03:11,561 --> 00:03:16,561 Speaker 2: to Brisbane. They bought three tickets for three of her 64 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:21,680 Speaker 2: four shows, much to my horror, and I actually kept saying, 65 00:03:21,761 --> 00:03:24,000 Speaker 2: you are not spending your money on another ticket to Billy, 66 00:03:24,361 --> 00:03:26,361 Speaker 2: it's the same concert you're. 67 00:03:26,161 --> 00:03:28,960 Speaker 1: Going to, same show, same show. Yeah. 68 00:03:29,081 --> 00:03:31,041 Speaker 2: It was a losing battle and they ended up with 69 00:03:31,081 --> 00:03:33,840 Speaker 2: three tickets to three of the shows. Not only that, 70 00:03:33,881 --> 00:03:37,880 Speaker 2: they planned to camp out so they could get barricade, 71 00:03:37,961 --> 00:03:38,441 Speaker 2: which is. 72 00:03:39,081 --> 00:03:40,601 Speaker 1: Mind blowing in itself. 73 00:03:40,401 --> 00:03:43,761 Speaker 2: Where Billy does like a run around and touches everyone's hand. 74 00:03:44,481 --> 00:03:46,561 Speaker 1: Okay, I just need to ask the question, did they 75 00:03:46,601 --> 00:03:47,241 Speaker 1: touch her hand? 76 00:03:47,321 --> 00:03:47,561 Speaker 3: Yes? 77 00:03:47,601 --> 00:03:52,281 Speaker 2: Twice and bloody thank god for it, Rache. I got 78 00:03:52,321 --> 00:03:54,161 Speaker 2: to the point where I was so anxious about it. 79 00:03:54,161 --> 00:03:57,201 Speaker 2: In fact, I text you so the girls were down 80 00:03:57,281 --> 00:04:00,481 Speaker 2: there camping. Jay went down with camper van because he 81 00:04:00,561 --> 00:04:03,321 Speaker 2: was worried about two sixteen year old girls in a 82 00:04:03,401 --> 00:04:07,121 Speaker 2: tent overnight next to boonebo train station. 83 00:04:08,121 --> 00:04:11,921 Speaker 3: I text you, yeah, it's pretty funny. You text me 84 00:04:11,961 --> 00:04:14,281 Speaker 3: about the girls camping out, and then we sort of 85 00:04:14,321 --> 00:04:17,881 Speaker 3: spun it into how terrible your living conditions. 86 00:04:17,361 --> 00:04:18,960 Speaker 1: Were at home. 87 00:04:19,761 --> 00:04:23,161 Speaker 3: Yeah, so they're in Boondle at the train station, Whereas 88 00:04:23,201 --> 00:04:25,200 Speaker 3: in my head I was thinking when you said they 89 00:04:25,241 --> 00:04:27,161 Speaker 3: were camping out, in my head, I thought they were 90 00:04:27,201 --> 00:04:31,681 Speaker 3: like just outside the gates to the entertainment center, so 91 00:04:31,721 --> 00:04:33,960 Speaker 3: I didn't think train station. But the train station is 92 00:04:33,961 --> 00:04:37,361 Speaker 3: basically on top of the entertainment center, right. 93 00:04:37,440 --> 00:04:40,320 Speaker 2: And as we know, train stations dodgy times. 94 00:04:40,521 --> 00:04:44,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, the first person that ever flashed me, like you know, flashy, 95 00:04:44,880 --> 00:04:47,081 Speaker 3: was like at the Zilmia train station, which I think 96 00:04:47,161 --> 00:04:49,041 Speaker 3: is like the next one on from Boondle. So in 97 00:04:49,041 --> 00:04:51,440 Speaker 3: my head I was like, you can't let the girls 98 00:04:51,521 --> 00:04:53,361 Speaker 3: be there. But then Jay took the hit. 99 00:04:53,801 --> 00:04:56,441 Speaker 2: Yeah, Jay went down there, and so I text you 100 00:04:56,561 --> 00:05:00,401 Speaker 2: and said, they're currently battling mosquitoes in the tent, and 101 00:05:00,481 --> 00:05:04,001 Speaker 2: you said four things. Are you doing okay with the animals? 102 00:05:04,001 --> 00:05:07,440 Speaker 2: You'll clean bed and mossie insiet, are you coping okay? 103 00:05:07,721 --> 00:05:10,401 Speaker 2: So I send a photo of me with my feet 104 00:05:10,521 --> 00:05:13,880 Speaker 2: up on the lounge watching TV, saying I'm. 105 00:05:13,681 --> 00:05:15,521 Speaker 1: Hanging in their tough conditions. 106 00:05:15,761 --> 00:05:19,721 Speaker 2: So Monday after school. My instructions were pe at school early. 107 00:05:19,880 --> 00:05:22,681 Speaker 2: We're running straight out. The camping stuff's all in my 108 00:05:22,761 --> 00:05:27,041 Speaker 2: car already. I've got to not speed, but go as 109 00:05:27,081 --> 00:05:31,681 Speaker 2: fast as i can. Yeah, down to the entertainment center. 110 00:05:31,921 --> 00:05:33,921 Speaker 2: They get out of the car, there's a whole bunch 111 00:05:33,961 --> 00:05:37,001 Speaker 2: of people already there camping. They put up their tent 112 00:05:37,241 --> 00:05:40,960 Speaker 2: and they get a wristband. Right, and the people already 113 00:05:41,001 --> 00:05:43,921 Speaker 2: there camping are camping for the Tuesday night concert. 114 00:05:44,281 --> 00:05:46,761 Speaker 1: So that was the first one, right's first one. 115 00:05:46,880 --> 00:05:50,041 Speaker 2: The girls are there camping for the Wednesday night concert. 116 00:05:50,320 --> 00:05:52,921 Speaker 2: They are number one and number two in line for 117 00:05:53,001 --> 00:05:55,320 Speaker 2: Wednesday night's concert. This is going to blow your mind 118 00:05:55,361 --> 00:05:57,320 Speaker 2: because the whole thing is run by the fans. Right, 119 00:05:57,641 --> 00:05:59,681 Speaker 2: Because they were number one and number two in line, 120 00:05:59,761 --> 00:06:03,761 Speaker 2: they had to run the line it's called, which meant 121 00:06:04,241 --> 00:06:08,361 Speaker 2: we had to go and buy five hundred wristbands from 122 00:06:08,401 --> 00:06:11,161 Speaker 2: office works. It's like two hundred dollars. 123 00:06:11,241 --> 00:06:14,281 Speaker 3: Also, did the girls know that this was going to 124 00:06:14,320 --> 00:06:17,161 Speaker 3: be part of their roles and responsibilities of going to 125 00:06:17,161 --> 00:06:17,841 Speaker 3: Billie Eilish. 126 00:06:17,961 --> 00:06:21,081 Speaker 2: No, it's because they were the first ones there, so 127 00:06:21,481 --> 00:06:25,201 Speaker 2: they were in charge of putting wristbands on everybody else. 128 00:06:25,201 --> 00:06:29,921 Speaker 2: That arrived there for the Wednesday night concert, which meant rage. 129 00:06:30,041 --> 00:06:33,361 Speaker 2: They had to stay up all night because people were 130 00:06:33,681 --> 00:06:36,681 Speaker 2: turning up at all different times of the night. They 131 00:06:36,681 --> 00:06:39,281 Speaker 2: had to put a wristband on with a number so 132 00:06:39,320 --> 00:06:41,241 Speaker 2: that it was all fair and they were all going 133 00:06:41,320 --> 00:06:46,161 Speaker 2: to get in in order that they came right. They 134 00:06:46,721 --> 00:06:50,881 Speaker 2: have stayed Monday night, they've said, Tuesday night, I've gone down. 135 00:06:50,921 --> 00:06:52,121 Speaker 2: They've had like three hours sleep. 136 00:06:52,201 --> 00:06:54,481 Speaker 1: Rage, And you went down what day with and took 137 00:06:54,521 --> 00:06:55,080 Speaker 1: them snacks. 138 00:06:55,161 --> 00:06:59,561 Speaker 2: Yeah, they looked like a couple of homeless, like true hobos. Yeah, 139 00:06:59,641 --> 00:07:03,521 Speaker 2: they had shoes, no shoes, same clothes that they got 140 00:07:03,521 --> 00:07:07,121 Speaker 2: there in. They had three hour sleep. And then what 141 00:07:07,201 --> 00:07:10,201 Speaker 2: they have to do is the security for the entertainment 142 00:07:10,241 --> 00:07:14,001 Speaker 2: center only work with the person that's running the line, 143 00:07:14,201 --> 00:07:17,441 Speaker 2: because otherwise, if everybody knows the plan, there's too many 144 00:07:17,441 --> 00:07:19,121 Speaker 2: people running to get their spot. 145 00:07:19,161 --> 00:07:19,841 Speaker 1: All the rest of it. 146 00:07:20,401 --> 00:07:23,041 Speaker 2: The girls were told they had to wake everyone up 147 00:07:23,081 --> 00:07:26,521 Speaker 2: at two am on the Wednesday morning. Yeah, the gates 148 00:07:26,561 --> 00:07:30,921 Speaker 2: would open at three am. They had to send the 149 00:07:31,041 --> 00:07:36,641 Speaker 2: people in batches of fifty fifty. Jay's there trying to 150 00:07:36,721 --> 00:07:40,721 Speaker 2: help out, trying to be organized. He's the bloody line nuts. 151 00:07:40,721 --> 00:07:43,121 Speaker 2: This poor girl steps out of line. 152 00:07:43,281 --> 00:07:44,521 Speaker 1: He goes, where are you going? 153 00:07:45,441 --> 00:07:48,561 Speaker 2: She goes, I'm just kidding, my pillow. He's like, get 154 00:07:48,601 --> 00:07:52,681 Speaker 2: to the back of the line. Honestly, Range, It's. 155 00:07:52,601 --> 00:07:55,321 Speaker 1: Like he took his job way too seriously. 156 00:07:55,521 --> 00:07:58,241 Speaker 2: There were no other adults there. It was just Jay 157 00:07:58,521 --> 00:08:00,921 Speaker 2: helping out the girls. And then all these kids that 158 00:08:01,001 --> 00:08:03,841 Speaker 2: had been camping out for realie eilish, if they didn't 159 00:08:03,841 --> 00:08:06,281 Speaker 2: have a wristband. He was sending them to the back 160 00:08:06,321 --> 00:08:09,241 Speaker 2: of the Oh my gosh, this is so good. Then 161 00:08:09,401 --> 00:08:13,481 Speaker 2: at about eight nine am they open up the doors 162 00:08:13,481 --> 00:08:16,481 Speaker 2: to the sports hall and the five hundred people that 163 00:08:16,521 --> 00:08:19,481 Speaker 2: had been camping with wristbands are allowed into the sports hall. 164 00:08:19,801 --> 00:08:22,401 Speaker 2: And then by the time the doors opened properly at 165 00:08:22,441 --> 00:08:26,081 Speaker 2: like six pm, the time normal people go to the concert, right, 166 00:08:26,641 --> 00:08:28,921 Speaker 2: the security come and get them and allow them to 167 00:08:28,961 --> 00:08:33,081 Speaker 2: go in in line and get their spot before the 168 00:08:33,121 --> 00:08:35,881 Speaker 2: doors open to the normal general public. 169 00:08:36,121 --> 00:08:37,761 Speaker 3: Once I get to the sports hall, they don't have 170 00:08:37,801 --> 00:08:39,241 Speaker 3: to stay in their lines, do they. 171 00:08:39,281 --> 00:08:40,841 Speaker 1: They can just sort of mingle. 172 00:08:41,081 --> 00:08:44,521 Speaker 2: Yeah, because the entertainment sent to replaced their wristbands. I 173 00:08:44,561 --> 00:08:47,761 Speaker 2: spent two hundred dollars on the How. 174 00:08:47,681 --> 00:08:49,161 Speaker 1: Else was everyone else doing it? 175 00:08:49,201 --> 00:08:49,441 Speaker 3: Though? 176 00:08:49,481 --> 00:08:49,761 Speaker 1: There was. 177 00:08:50,201 --> 00:08:52,161 Speaker 3: Surely the other people would have come with their own 178 00:08:52,201 --> 00:08:54,401 Speaker 3: structure of like being able to manage everyone. 179 00:08:54,521 --> 00:08:55,001 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. 180 00:08:55,041 --> 00:08:57,801 Speaker 1: I wasn't like a nickel on the hand. Number one, 181 00:08:57,961 --> 00:08:59,481 Speaker 1: I wasn't informed enough. 182 00:08:59,641 --> 00:09:02,121 Speaker 2: I feel like the girls were very prepared, but we 183 00:09:02,121 --> 00:09:04,961 Speaker 2: weren't prepared for running the line, like it was stressed. 184 00:09:05,521 --> 00:09:07,401 Speaker 3: Yeah, but there's nothing telling you that you're going to 185 00:09:07,441 --> 00:09:10,401 Speaker 3: be running the line for five hundred people. No, no, 186 00:09:10,681 --> 00:09:14,961 Speaker 3: five hundred people. That's not like U fifty here, like 187 00:09:15,081 --> 00:09:19,241 Speaker 3: it's like holy shit. Now, Jay was like running the line. 188 00:09:19,561 --> 00:09:22,281 Speaker 2: They went to the Wednesday concert. They don't even remember it. 189 00:09:22,281 --> 00:09:25,241 Speaker 2: They were so fucking tired. I made them get up 190 00:09:25,281 --> 00:09:27,761 Speaker 2: and go to school on the Thursday Friday. They then 191 00:09:27,881 --> 00:09:31,001 Speaker 2: went back to Boondle on the Friday evening. Yeah, they 192 00:09:31,041 --> 00:09:34,321 Speaker 2: did the Friday Friday night concert. They left two songs 193 00:09:34,361 --> 00:09:37,481 Speaker 2: early so they could run back around camp again and 194 00:09:37,521 --> 00:09:41,721 Speaker 2: camp again, and that night rage I was like, I 195 00:09:41,761 --> 00:09:45,201 Speaker 2: am confident. This is a nice little community of you know, 196 00:09:45,321 --> 00:09:48,601 Speaker 2: good billy fans. Left them there on their own. J 197 00:09:48,761 --> 00:09:49,201 Speaker 2: came home. 198 00:09:49,401 --> 00:09:52,881 Speaker 1: Jay come home. Yeah, Oh gosh, that's just so much 199 00:09:52,921 --> 00:09:55,841 Speaker 1: camping just at Boondle. I know, that's a lot. 200 00:09:56,001 --> 00:09:58,201 Speaker 3: I'm a fan of you know a lot of people, 201 00:09:58,361 --> 00:10:00,321 Speaker 3: but I don't know if I'd line up for that long. 202 00:10:00,961 --> 00:10:03,281 Speaker 3: But you know we are of a different age group. 203 00:10:03,521 --> 00:10:05,041 Speaker 1: Yeah, we're millennial in the room. 204 00:10:05,121 --> 00:10:09,121 Speaker 3: Well don't know, you don't understand Billy and how powerful 205 00:10:09,161 --> 00:10:09,481 Speaker 3: she is. 206 00:10:09,561 --> 00:10:12,481 Speaker 1: We have never been teenagers. We've never been there. 207 00:10:13,241 --> 00:10:15,921 Speaker 3: All right, Well, Billie Eilish, I can't say they've ever 208 00:10:15,921 --> 00:10:19,241 Speaker 3: done it. So I'm very proud of them showing absolute 209 00:10:19,561 --> 00:10:23,841 Speaker 3: like this for you as a parent, reflectively great. 210 00:10:23,441 --> 00:10:24,721 Speaker 1: Work, thank you. 211 00:10:25,401 --> 00:10:29,081 Speaker 2: I mean they are the biggest Billy Eilish fans of dedication, 212 00:10:29,401 --> 00:10:33,281 Speaker 2: dedication to the point where they will say, mum, do 213 00:10:33,361 --> 00:10:36,601 Speaker 2: you know Billy donated a million dollars to climate change. 214 00:10:36,761 --> 00:10:38,321 Speaker 1: She's done this, she's done that. 215 00:10:38,761 --> 00:10:40,521 Speaker 2: She's all about her fans. It was like, if she 216 00:10:40,641 --> 00:10:42,561 Speaker 2: is all about her fans, why is she still charging 217 00:10:42,561 --> 00:10:44,361 Speaker 2: you two hundred dollars for a ticket and making you 218 00:10:44,441 --> 00:10:45,881 Speaker 2: camp for two days to get here. 219 00:10:46,161 --> 00:10:53,001 Speaker 1: And she didn't dress like she's sustainable. Oh I don't 220 00:10:53,081 --> 00:10:56,081 Speaker 1: get it. She is ur iconic. She's going to be 221 00:10:56,121 --> 00:10:58,681 Speaker 1: one of those artists that are. 222 00:10:58,761 --> 00:11:02,001 Speaker 3: You know, like the Madonnas, the Mariah carry the ones 223 00:11:02,041 --> 00:11:06,201 Speaker 3: that you just know whatever because her boys is phenomenal. 224 00:11:06,481 --> 00:11:08,521 Speaker 2: Yeah, the stress is like a twelve year old boy. 225 00:11:08,561 --> 00:11:11,721 Speaker 1: I don't get it. Nope,