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Speaker 1: Welcome back to Hotter than Yesterday. I'm so excited to

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Speaker 1: this episode. We have Lexi and Monarchy on from Ossie Shaw.

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Speaker 2: Welcome guys, Hi, thank you.

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Speaker 1: I was like a little bit nervous that I was

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Speaker 1: just saying to them before before we started recording that, like,

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Speaker 1: it's my favorite show to watch when I'm hungover because

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Speaker 1: it kind of makes me feel better about myself.

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Speaker 3: That house is scary. Even I get scared on my.

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Speaker 4: We I think we're the scary part of the house.

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Speaker 2: You guys are my favorite.

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Speaker 1: You guys are my favorite, and Cassie obviously like you

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Speaker 1: three in my favors. But like if I I just

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Speaker 1: said to them, I was like, if I was in

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Speaker 1: the house for more than twelve hours.

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Speaker 2: I think I would have to check myself into hospital. Like,

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Speaker 2: I don't know how you guys do it, but I'm

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Speaker 2: going to. I want to know all the tea.

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Speaker 3: I want to know the.

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Speaker 1: Backstory of the whole show and how it all happens.

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Speaker 2: So you're just gonna spill the beans on my podcast.

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Speaker 3: Oh he's great.

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Speaker 1: Yes, please, I'm gonna eat this cup because I have

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Speaker 1: so many questions all the time. So how do you

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Speaker 1: guys end up getting on the show. Like what is

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Speaker 1: that whole process? Did they come to you?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: So I got reached out to buy a producer because

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Speaker 5: I was actually on like a another show, like when

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Speaker 5: I was like nineteen Oh, no way, it hasn't actually

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Speaker 5: come out yet, so I don't I don't think it's

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Speaker 5: coming out.

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Speaker 3: I was just stupid fucking.

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Speaker 5: First dates right, No, no, id that it's anyways. And

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Speaker 5: the producer on that obviously knew what I was like,

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Speaker 5: and I was just crazy on a show that I

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Speaker 5: probably shouldn't have been crazy on. So he was like, Hey,

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Speaker 5: we've got this show. You should apply. And then that

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Speaker 5: was just my sort of story with it.

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Speaker 4: I also got reached out. I'd done a show in

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Speaker 4: New Zealand. It's a dating show called Heartbreak Island and.

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Speaker 2: Oh I know that one.

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Speaker 4: Yeah it was I think it was Harry Jowsey went

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Speaker 4: our first season, yes, and I was on the third one.

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Speaker 4: And then from the other producer that was he actually

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Speaker 4: used to live in the same house as me, and

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Speaker 4: but when he was at UNI and then he was like, Hey,

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Speaker 4: at the time. I think it was with Melbourne came on.

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Speaker 4: It's kind of weird because I'm not Australian. Yeah, no,

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Speaker 4: apart from cal like, I'm only like non Australian viea

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Speaker 4: but like cow's cow obously yeah, but yeah, and it's

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Speaker 4: kind of just from the air.

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Speaker 2: So were you guys actually like big parties.

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Speaker 3: To be honest?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 5: Actually I loved going out with my friends all the

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Speaker 5: time and like having a few drinks, skin a bit pissed. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: who doesn't exactly. But I actually was low key a

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Speaker 5: little scared to go into the house because I was like,

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Speaker 5: I don't know how going to back it up because.

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Speaker 3: I actually go out one night on the drinks and

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Speaker 3: I'm like, okay, I'm good for a few days.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but it's kind of probably shouldn't say, but it's

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Speaker 5: turned me into a bloody crazy woman.

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Speaker 3: Now I'm like.

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Speaker 5: Fucking Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday cocktails and I'm like, I

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Speaker 5: don't know if that's a good or bad thing, but

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Speaker 5: I was. Yeah, I was actually scared because I wasn't crazy, yeah,

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Speaker 5: but now I'm crazy.

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Speaker 1: They've trained you well, oh yeah, absolutely, because do you

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Speaker 1: guys actually have to go and do your like for

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Speaker 1: anyone who hasn't watched the show. They pretty much party,

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Speaker 1: They go fucking crazy, then they shove their faces with

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Speaker 1: kebabs and then they kick on at this house and

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Speaker 1: they all live in and then Charlotte who was on

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Speaker 1: Jeordie Shore in UK, which is where it all stemmed from.

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Speaker 4: You have to work, yeah, and the actual jobs, like

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Speaker 4: we'll have like two three hours sleep and like be

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Speaker 4: hungover from the night before and they're like, come on,

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Speaker 1: So you actually have to do it the day after.

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Speaker 1: It's not an editing thing.

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Speaker 4: Like mid day, Like you're waking up at six am

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Speaker 4: sometimes to go walk dogs or go and work at

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Speaker 4: like a pealing farm.

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Speaker 1: You up good, because when I'm hungover, I will not

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Speaker 1: leave the house. There's no way I'm leaving the house.

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Speaker 1: There's no way you're getting me to do anything. Like

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Speaker 1: I went out on the weekend and I got home

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Speaker 1: at like five am, and I had a seven am flight.

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Speaker 2: I booked another one.

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Speaker 1: There's no fucking way I'm getting on that fight like

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Speaker 4: And I swear they do choose the most like hungover

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Speaker 4: a drunk person to go work the jobs, because that's

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Speaker 4: the thing is every day, they will just choose people

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Speaker 4: who they want to choose, so you like don't really

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Speaker 4: know who's going to go to work. But yeah, I

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Speaker 4: feel like they'll be like, oh, he looks vulnerable today, literally.

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Speaker 2: Stitching you up.

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Speaker 3: It's like their hobby. I'm like, are you serious?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Nah, fuck that.

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Speaker 1: So there's two seasons that's already come out, and there

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Speaker 1: is like a little bit of they're always fighting, but

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Speaker 1: you guys always been like, yeah, we're like brothers and sisters,

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Speaker 1: brothers and sisters.

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Speaker 2: Is it put on your fighting?

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Speaker 4: No? Yeah, no, no definitely. As an I think when

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Speaker 4: you're in that sort of environment, you're hungover, you're tired,

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Speaker 4: so like something because it is like leaving a cup

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Speaker 4: Like in my normal day to day life, I probably wouldn't,

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Speaker 4: but when you're like on angst and don't have you

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Speaker 4: like your normal routine, I'm gonna snap at you, yeah,

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Speaker 4: and tell you to put your cup away or something.

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Speaker 4: And then it all kind of just like boils up

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Speaker 4: and then everyone starts yelling and then everyone's getting involved.

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Speaker 4: But like, I love a little bit of dramas, even

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Speaker 4: if it's all him, that doesn't really piss me off.

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Speaker 4: It pisses me.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, does it scare you?

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Speaker 4: Do you?

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Speaker 2: Guys ever get like like this is end of friendship?

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Speaker 5: Come I personally we're probably quite similar, Like confrontation doesn't

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Speaker 5: Like if you walk away from an argument, I'm following.

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Speaker 5: I'm following on like you had to call that.

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Speaker 3: Because he had the audacity, Oh here we go, here,

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Speaker 3: we got.

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Speaker 2: Tell you who's in the ruck.

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Speaker 5: I'm like going at him like yeah, and he's eating

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Speaker 5: the bowl of nootral grain and directly like this.

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Speaker 3: Not looking at me. And I'm like I'm gonna look

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Speaker 3: him in the eyes right now and yeah, so I

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Speaker 3: but yeah, no, but it's because you were too stubborn

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Speaker 4: Sorry, we were over that were over that one. We're over.

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Speaker 3: That's not rehash it. I think we've walked over it.

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Speaker 1: So there's how many girls again, there's four, five, five, and.

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Speaker 4: Kind of changes. We started the season off in season

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Speaker 4: one with eight people and then I think we ended

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Speaker 4: with like it was like living and then it went

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Speaker 4: to like ten and so people just come and go

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Speaker 4: as they please, as they please. It's like people come

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Speaker 2: Don't because how long is the filming process, like.

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Speaker 4: A monthish monish. It kind of just deppends. I think

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Speaker 4: on different seasons they can kind of tell when we're

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Speaker 3: It's so fun.

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Speaker 2: At the end of it, we're all like literal corpse.

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Speaker 3: We're just like zombies.

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Speaker 5: And I'm like, mate, we need to be hooked up

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Speaker 5: to IVS or something because this is just ridiculous.

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Speaker 1: And do you have any down days where they're not

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Speaker 1: filming and you guys can have time to like recoup.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we've got one, Like usually it's like a Monday,

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Speaker 5: but it's like it's off days. But I wouldn't call

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Speaker 5: it an off day because we're still like catching up

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Speaker 5: for like all that how do you say it all

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Speaker 5: like the green screens or interviews for like a whole

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Speaker 5: up and do all that. We're not allowed to talk

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Speaker 3: I'm like, we get in trouble all the time.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, they literally like have like mind as that come

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Speaker 4: out and just sit by us to make sure we

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Speaker 4: don't say anything that we're not allowed to, and then

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Speaker 4: it's like they get like buzz in the ears, like

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Speaker 4: monarchy saying this because we also always have to have

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Speaker 4: our mics on even though yeah days and then we

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Speaker 4: get yelled at and we're like, oh my gosh, not again.

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Speaker 2: And so when you're not filming, do you guys actually

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Speaker 2: all catch up?

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Speaker 4: You said no, Like it's like we're all usually pretty

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Speaker 4: busy doing like interview stuff or that's kind of the

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Speaker 4: day where the girls we get the nails done, we'll

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Speaker 4: we always look the same. So we don't really have

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Speaker 4: much time to talk because when we're not doing that,

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Fuck, so Lily, I have a few questions about Lily.

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Speaker 1: Explain the kind of dynamic in the house. Let's give

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Speaker 1: a little rundown and beat. Let's call you guys all characters. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so we have Lexi, Manaki, Katier Con what's the curly

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Speaker 1: hair guy and you guys all call them something.

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Speaker 3: Francisca, San san Fran, I love San sam Fran doesn't

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Speaker 2: Lot going on up there.

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Speaker 4: We were just thinking.

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Speaker 1: About he's like, he's so blissfully underwear, reloading dates, and

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Speaker 1: you can see like whenever all of you guys speak

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Speaker 1: to him, there's nothing is like computing up there.

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Speaker 4: Three days later he will like pick up the conversation

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Speaker 4: that we had. He was like, oh so, and I'm like,

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Speaker 4: what what do you want about?

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Speaker 1: And then there's what's the guy who came in the

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Speaker 1: other guy who came Lucky? And then Jada.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and the ranger. Can you say ranger?

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Speaker 1: She loves yeah, yeah, But it's like a gay guy.

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Speaker 1: Gay guy can call himself gay, but like I can't

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Speaker 1: be like, you're gay, yes, because I'm straight. So it's

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Speaker 1: like I can't call her a ranger, but she can

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Speaker 1: call herself ranger because I.

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Speaker 3: Think that's how orange she loves.

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Speaker 4: She loves it.

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Speaker 1: She embraces her and then Lily and then Lily, so

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Speaker 1: Lily she I think she's a very big character on

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Speaker 1: the show. She's quite outspoken, she doesn't let things slide,

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Speaker 1: and she's kind of always.

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Speaker 2: If Lily, if you're listening, I have no disrespect towards you.

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Speaker 2: I think you're a great human.

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Speaker 1: But like she's always kind of like the instigator of

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Speaker 1: why stuff blows up? What are your personal relationships with

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Speaker 1: her without the show filming.

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Speaker 4: We're amicable, like she's actually really good, Like we're friendly

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Speaker 4: and stuff. I think we newly know that we have

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Speaker 4: to come back every year, hopefully come back everr and stuff.

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Speaker 4: Well, I just think our morals aligned very differently. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: We're in different states too, and that's like true.

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Speaker 5: And Jada, like I'm really close with like con and

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Speaker 3: Can see each other whenever. Yeah, so it makes it easier.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, so I have I think called intimacy issues.

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Speaker 2: I can't have sex. I don't have sex.

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Speaker 1: I like hate men, like I like repellent, like get away.

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Speaker 2: No okay. So then I was like, I have a

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Speaker 1: Like, maybe you're gay, and I was like, with all

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Speaker 2: Are all on heat all the time.

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Speaker 5: Well, this time was really hard because obviously I had

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Speaker 4: Else see I'm on heat on a good day. So

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Speaker 2: You don't have a lot of options.

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Speaker 1: Oh there's no options, And how do you care about

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Speaker 4: I'm lucky it's not earring in New Zealand.

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Speaker 2: Surely because it's on who actually they can't mind it.

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Speaker 4: I think my sister in law watched it and I

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Speaker 3: I would actually stay out of all the the sex

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Speaker 1: I've probably seen enough, like they're not leaving a lot

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Speaker 4: I think the noises are probably the noises.

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Speaker 4: I'm telling you now, I thought I was the Grand

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Speaker 4: Sometimes to hear it from fucking Melbourne and like so

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Speaker 2: But do you ever in.

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Speaker 1: That moment, being like I'm being filmed or are you

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Speaker 3: You honestly probably just forget I think, I mean.

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Speaker 4: Because they as well, like you've only got a really

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Speaker 4: like do you guys give consent? Like they asked if

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Speaker 3: We looking mid mid mid.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, fucking up. We've got to close off, make

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Speaker 4: sure you can see save six and education chat.

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Speaker 2: When I was do you have to like speak into

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Absolutely, And it's like so like unlike I think

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Speaker 1: The beds in Love Island, there's two buttons and when

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Speaker 1: you please press the consent button so then that doesn't

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Speaker 2: Their head and loved.

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Speaker 1: Especially like what is it your shark pad or something sad,

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Speaker 4: Not that we use those, We just used the.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I want to lame gods. How you guys leave?

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Speaker 2: Like I can't believe that.

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Speaker 4: The only thing as well as like the lights are

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Speaker 2: Oh you do?

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Speaker 5: So?

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Speaker 3: Is that a rule? Yeah, it's a real I don't

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Speaker 1: I don't think I break the real rules were broken

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Speaker 2: Are doing it all.

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Speaker 4: This is again my weirdest part to my parents watching it.

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Speaker 4: It's like the amount of people that have to go

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Speaker 2: So yeah, that's a bit too.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and they see us all. That's the thing is

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Speaker 3: They've seen all of it. Everything's out there now.

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Speaker 4: I actually didn't really. It's kind of yuck thinking it,

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Speaker 3: Yes, stop.

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Speaker 4: And everything you do everything? Oh no, that's scary.

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Speaker 1: Do they like kind of like push you guys to

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Speaker 5: I think what it is is everything is like what

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Speaker 5: As a producer and stuff, they've sort of got a

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Speaker 3: Like try and like help make it happen.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and they'll never tell us to say anything like.

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Speaker 4: So we've never been told to be like say this

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Speaker 1: So it's like fool Like you guys just literally get

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Speaker 4: It's very much everything that happens in the show is

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Speaker 4: they're lying.

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Speaker 3: Really, yes, it's literally.

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Speaker 4: Not naming that there's no name name.

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Speaker 3: Come on, if anyone to say that they're lying.

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Speaker 4: You're lying.

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Speaker 2: She did so after the show and everything like that.

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Speaker 1: Now on the night out, is everyone just egging you

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Speaker 3: It's getting for me, it's getting worse. I'm getting worse.

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Speaker 4: She's this weekend.

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Speaker 5: It's a cycle, like it's when I told you it's

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Speaker 3: Really? Absolutely I need.

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Speaker 4: I think there is like a little bit of pressure,

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Speaker 4: then like in real life you're something like boring like

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Speaker 5: Even after season one, I remember we all and after

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Speaker 5: season two, season two, we knew what we were in

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Speaker 5: for again. But after season one I crashed bad. Like

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Speaker 5: many people thought you were and I was he sure,

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Speaker 5: like blah blah blah, and I'm like, oh, like I'm like, no,

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Speaker 5: I am like that, but I'm like I'm just I

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Speaker 2: But it's also like you can't be on all the time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like it's like sometimes I do just like want

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Speaker 2: Crazy, but you guys would have the pressure to.

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Speaker 3: Like keep that up.

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Speaker 4: And I think on the show as well, they only

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Speaker 4: we were all just sitting on the couch just like

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Speaker 1: Absolutely, because like, are there any any nights that you

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Speaker 5: I think we kind of, well, no, but I think

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Speaker 5: Like we'll all usually probably get sick in there at

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Speaker 4: after us, Like if we set you're like, you guys

444
00:19:17,560 --> 00:19:19,800
Speaker 4: don't have to drink. They don't pressure us into it.

445
00:19:19,840 --> 00:19:22,760
Speaker 4: But also when we do go there, it is also work,

446
00:19:22,920 --> 00:19:25,080
Speaker 4: so we have to get up out of bed regardless

447
00:19:25,080 --> 00:19:26,800
Speaker 4: if we stick on and go to the clubs. So

448
00:19:27,119 --> 00:19:29,119
Speaker 4: at least you're going your diff beer. They're like, come on,

449
00:19:29,240 --> 00:19:30,280
Speaker 4: just come for a few hours.

450
00:19:30,480 --> 00:19:33,040
Speaker 1: And so obviously Ozzie Show is like a big part

451
00:19:33,080 --> 00:19:35,080
Speaker 1: of your life now, But what were you guys doing

452
00:19:35,119 --> 00:19:37,880
Speaker 1: before that? Like who are you away from Ossie Shaw?

453
00:19:38,400 --> 00:19:40,960
Speaker 1: Like if I was, if I didn't know you, how

454
00:19:41,000 --> 00:19:43,280
Speaker 1: would you describe yourself? What would you describe yourself as?

455
00:19:43,400 --> 00:19:45,760
Speaker 1: Like what are your hobbies? Like, what's something that you're

456
00:19:45,800 --> 00:19:46,400
Speaker 1: like this is.

457
00:19:46,400 --> 00:19:52,040
Speaker 3: Me go on babe.

458
00:19:52,359 --> 00:19:55,119
Speaker 5: Before the show, I was sort of tapping into like

459
00:19:55,160 --> 00:19:57,800
Speaker 5: social media and stuff anyways, and I was trying to

460
00:19:57,800 --> 00:20:01,000
Speaker 5: build a platform and trying work with brands and do

461
00:20:01,040 --> 00:20:03,119
Speaker 5: all things like that, and I really started to like

462
00:20:03,200 --> 00:20:05,440
Speaker 5: love like being a part of like the LGBT and

463
00:20:05,720 --> 00:20:07,919
Speaker 5: create something like that. And I think that's what I

464
00:20:07,920 --> 00:20:10,560
Speaker 5: always wanted to do. And I think obviously post show,

465
00:20:11,200 --> 00:20:13,720
Speaker 5: it's helped grow a platform and like I think, like

466
00:20:14,040 --> 00:20:16,240
Speaker 5: sounds cringe, but like I really feel like it's part

467
00:20:16,280 --> 00:20:18,440
Speaker 5: of my calling. Like when like young girls and guys

468
00:20:18,440 --> 00:20:20,399
Speaker 5: I come up to me and like you're the reason

469
00:20:20,400 --> 00:20:21,640
Speaker 5: I can come out to my parents stuff.

470
00:20:21,800 --> 00:20:23,560
Speaker 3: I love that And I think that that's what I

471
00:20:23,600 --> 00:20:25,240
Speaker 3: was trying to tap into beforehand.

472
00:20:25,280 --> 00:20:28,240
Speaker 5: It's just like creating a space or a platform where

473
00:20:28,280 --> 00:20:30,840
Speaker 5: it's like safe, and I think that's what I just

474
00:20:30,840 --> 00:20:31,639
Speaker 5: wanted to do before.

475
00:20:31,760 --> 00:20:35,359
Speaker 1: So yeah, and because you on the first season, if

476
00:20:35,400 --> 00:20:37,440
Speaker 1: you guys also don't mind me talking about your sexuality.

477
00:20:37,480 --> 00:20:38,600
Speaker 2: On the first on your.

478
00:20:38,520 --> 00:20:41,040
Speaker 1: First season, you kind of was like I'm bye, like

479
00:20:41,119 --> 00:20:43,680
Speaker 1: I don't really care, yeah, and like did you they

480
00:20:43,840 --> 00:20:46,280
Speaker 1: has it? Like after that and everything as your journey's

481
00:20:46,320 --> 00:20:47,720
Speaker 1: gone on, you're.

482
00:20:47,560 --> 00:20:52,400
Speaker 5: Like I'm gay, Like I think, yeah, So before season one,

483
00:20:52,520 --> 00:20:54,640
Speaker 5: I had been in a relationship with a woman for

484
00:20:54,880 --> 00:20:57,960
Speaker 5: two years, and then when I was obviously single again,

485
00:20:58,000 --> 00:21:01,760
Speaker 5: I was obviously like, oh yeah, still experimenting with both.

486
00:21:01,840 --> 00:21:05,560
Speaker 5: I was like yeah, yeah, but honestly, like being with men,

487
00:21:05,640 --> 00:21:07,320
Speaker 5: it was really deteriorating.

488
00:21:07,640 --> 00:21:11,159
Speaker 3: It was stale. It wasn't giving me anything. And I'm like, well,

489
00:21:11,240 --> 00:21:13,320
Speaker 3: am I what am I holding on for? Yeah? This

490
00:21:13,400 --> 00:21:17,080
Speaker 3: is shit, Yeah, this is stimulating nothing. So then I

491
00:21:17,119 --> 00:21:18,160
Speaker 3: was just like nah.

492
00:21:18,280 --> 00:21:18,399
Speaker 4: Oh.

493
00:21:18,600 --> 00:21:20,960
Speaker 5: I was like, I was like nah, nah, sorry, I

494
00:21:20,960 --> 00:21:22,960
Speaker 5: can't do it. And then just realize it's just the

495
00:21:22,960 --> 00:21:23,560
Speaker 5: women for me.

496
00:21:23,920 --> 00:21:26,840
Speaker 1: And how has your sexuality journey like evolved of years?

497
00:21:26,840 --> 00:21:29,239
Speaker 1: Like when did you start experimenting for girls that like

498
00:21:29,720 --> 00:21:31,080
Speaker 1: don't really understand.

499
00:21:30,680 --> 00:21:33,280
Speaker 2: Or they are curious about that? Like how did you

500
00:21:33,359 --> 00:21:35,880
Speaker 2: kind of come to terms with everything like that?

501
00:21:36,000 --> 00:21:39,639
Speaker 5: I mean I was very very straight up until nineteen

502
00:21:39,680 --> 00:21:42,120
Speaker 5: and I was playing footy and when out foot He's

503
00:21:42,200 --> 00:21:44,800
Speaker 5: like and I was just like ah, And then I

504
00:21:44,880 --> 00:21:47,080
Speaker 5: just started getting curious. And then as soon as I

505
00:21:47,160 --> 00:21:50,439
Speaker 5: went there, game over like yeah, and I just started

506
00:21:50,480 --> 00:21:52,760
Speaker 5: like My first sign was I was nervous where I

507
00:21:52,840 --> 00:21:54,840
Speaker 5: was around a guy, Like I'd have a girl come

508
00:21:54,920 --> 00:21:56,760
Speaker 5: up to me and I'd get like the red cheeks

509
00:21:56,760 --> 00:21:59,320
Speaker 5: and I'd be like.

510
00:21:57,960 --> 00:21:59,680
Speaker 3: Oh, like why am I feeling like this?

511
00:22:00,040 --> 00:22:01,760
Speaker 5: And I think there was so many signs when I

512
00:22:01,800 --> 00:22:05,040
Speaker 5: was younger that I did like I would never realize.

513
00:22:05,080 --> 00:22:07,480
Speaker 5: But I think also I didn't grow up with anyone

514
00:22:07,760 --> 00:22:11,159
Speaker 5: that was like gay, yeah, any I actually met no

515
00:22:11,240 --> 00:22:13,959
Speaker 5: one that was yeah. So I don't think I was

516
00:22:14,480 --> 00:22:15,880
Speaker 5: what's called like you.

517
00:22:15,840 --> 00:22:18,000
Speaker 1: Weren't exposed to it, so you didn't really understand like

518
00:22:18,080 --> 00:22:20,280
Speaker 1: what all mental like what that could be and everything.

519
00:22:20,560 --> 00:22:23,560
Speaker 3: When I was exposed, I was exposed.

520
00:22:23,840 --> 00:22:24,840
Speaker 4: That's what I want to do.

521
00:22:25,600 --> 00:22:28,639
Speaker 2: I want a bit of that. And what about you

522
00:22:28,720 --> 00:22:31,280
Speaker 2: monarchy like you kind of on the first season you

523
00:22:31,280 --> 00:22:33,879
Speaker 2: were also a bit like a yeah bye, like it

524
00:22:33,880 --> 00:22:35,280
Speaker 2: doesn't really matter then.

525
00:22:35,440 --> 00:22:37,560
Speaker 4: I think for me, so, I'm like from this really

526
00:22:37,600 --> 00:22:42,159
Speaker 4: small town in New Zealand called Hipatta, and my dad's

527
00:22:42,160 --> 00:22:43,960
Speaker 4: actually from I was like, was one of the leader

528
00:22:44,000 --> 00:22:46,240
Speaker 4: of the gangs there. My mum's family were really religious,

529
00:22:46,280 --> 00:22:48,760
Speaker 4: so growing up it was like very much like a

530
00:22:48,800 --> 00:22:51,439
Speaker 4: culmination of like what am I? What am I doing?

531
00:22:51,880 --> 00:22:54,240
Speaker 4: I think when I came to Australia, everyone's a lot

532
00:22:54,280 --> 00:22:57,760
Speaker 4: more accepting, well yeah thing, But I think a big

533
00:22:57,800 --> 00:22:59,359
Speaker 4: reason why I do a lot of the stuff is

534
00:22:59,400 --> 00:23:01,399
Speaker 4: just to see you're a presentation. Like growing up, I

535
00:23:01,400 --> 00:23:04,080
Speaker 4: didn't see anyone that looked like me being brown and

536
00:23:04,200 --> 00:23:06,720
Speaker 4: you know, heavily tattered with all my cultural tattoos and

537
00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:10,160
Speaker 4: also being like by your gay. Yeah, I think first

538
00:23:10,200 --> 00:23:13,520
Speaker 4: season definitely was more bye. And then I actually got

539
00:23:13,520 --> 00:23:15,760
Speaker 4: with Cardia in the first few days and I was like,

540
00:23:16,119 --> 00:23:17,840
Speaker 4: I'm gay.

541
00:23:18,359 --> 00:23:20,800
Speaker 3: It came in because she thought we was flirting with me.

542
00:23:21,359 --> 00:23:23,680
Speaker 4: It was, I know, the tea.

543
00:23:23,840 --> 00:23:27,000
Speaker 1: Wait, so you've hooked up with Cardia and then you

544
00:23:27,040 --> 00:23:28,919
Speaker 1: were like actually, dick.

545
00:23:29,560 --> 00:23:36,480
Speaker 4: Wow, And like, honestly, I go back and floor sometimes

546
00:23:36,560 --> 00:23:39,000
Speaker 4: and like, you know, a guy puts me off from

547
00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:40,720
Speaker 4: like maybe I'm straight, and then I will kind of

548
00:23:40,720 --> 00:23:42,359
Speaker 4: get with a girl or going to date with a girl.

549
00:23:42,400 --> 00:23:45,159
Speaker 4: And but Lyxie and Cody have kind of banned me

550
00:23:45,200 --> 00:23:47,160
Speaker 4: from seeing girls because I said it would be really weird.

551
00:23:47,359 --> 00:23:49,800
Speaker 4: I got with a girl. Now it doesn't really match

552
00:23:49,880 --> 00:23:53,320
Speaker 4: the group's fight everything, like we're not allowed to walk

553
00:23:53,359 --> 00:23:55,360
Speaker 4: around the house and naked. If you get with girls

554
00:23:55,520 --> 00:23:59,680
Speaker 4: would just be weird. I don't want my gay card revokes,

555
00:23:59,720 --> 00:24:01,360
Speaker 4: so I'm like stick with the guys for now.

556
00:24:01,480 --> 00:24:01,720
Speaker 2: Yeah.

557
00:24:02,280 --> 00:24:04,560
Speaker 4: I think I'm still very fluid with my sexuerlity, Like

558
00:24:04,800 --> 00:24:06,880
Speaker 4: I'm very much just a person on a person basis

559
00:24:06,920 --> 00:24:09,000
Speaker 4: so if it works out for me, it works out

560
00:24:09,040 --> 00:24:12,320
Speaker 4: for me. But yeah, at the moment, guys, where it's at?

561
00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:15,320
Speaker 1: But so how obviously because you just said that, like

562
00:24:15,359 --> 00:24:17,440
Speaker 1: your mum's quite religious and then your dad was part

563
00:24:17,440 --> 00:24:19,359
Speaker 1: of a gang, Like how did that all go with

564
00:24:19,440 --> 00:24:22,600
Speaker 1: like feeling accepted? And because you just said that everyone

565
00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:24,320
Speaker 1: you didn't really know a lot of people, but your

566
00:24:24,320 --> 00:24:25,440
Speaker 1: family were quite accepting.

567
00:24:25,840 --> 00:24:26,960
Speaker 3: Amazing, and then.

568
00:24:27,160 --> 00:24:31,479
Speaker 4: How did you aren't necessarily accepting? But they are one

569
00:24:31,520 --> 00:24:33,879
Speaker 4: of those people that they will never say anything to

570
00:24:33,920 --> 00:24:36,200
Speaker 4: my face, will never be like put me down or anything.

571
00:24:36,240 --> 00:24:38,119
Speaker 4: But they're not gonna if I bring a boyfriend home,

572
00:24:38,160 --> 00:24:40,600
Speaker 4: They're not going to celebrate it, which is fair enough

573
00:24:40,600 --> 00:24:43,080
Speaker 4: like growing up in small towns and then also having

574
00:24:43,119 --> 00:24:45,440
Speaker 4: so many different dynamics of it, Like I'm not expecting

575
00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:47,600
Speaker 4: them to celebrate it. But as long as they're not

576
00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:49,960
Speaker 4: talking shit about it is Yeah, where my head kind

577
00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:50,639
Speaker 4: of lays at.

578
00:24:50,800 --> 00:24:52,560
Speaker 2: And you're both like quite confident people.

579
00:24:52,600 --> 00:24:55,399
Speaker 1: Does it ever play on your mind that you like

580
00:24:55,480 --> 00:24:58,000
Speaker 1: question or do you guys have like full confidence in

581
00:24:58,040 --> 00:24:59,800
Speaker 1: yourself And it's like I am who I am?

582
00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:01,320
Speaker 2: You love it, ely leave it.

583
00:25:01,480 --> 00:25:04,000
Speaker 5: I'm confident in who I am, but I'm also like

584
00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:06,280
Speaker 5: the way I just I don't know why I think

585
00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:09,040
Speaker 5: like this, but like I feel like I'm very much

586
00:25:09,119 --> 00:25:12,720
Speaker 5: a in the present type of girl with like, yes,

587
00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:17,320
Speaker 5: I'm confident with who I am now, but things like change,

588
00:25:17,359 --> 00:25:19,600
Speaker 5: and I think I want to always make sure I'm

589
00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:22,800
Speaker 5: comfortable with change. Yes, scary, but like it's like when

590
00:25:22,840 --> 00:25:25,200
Speaker 5: I was straight and then I was questioning into girls,

591
00:25:25,200 --> 00:25:26,040
Speaker 5: I'm like, that was scary.

592
00:25:26,080 --> 00:25:28,440
Speaker 3: But I'm like, I feel like even though you might

593
00:25:28,440 --> 00:25:29,200
Speaker 3: be confident.

594
00:25:28,960 --> 00:25:30,800
Speaker 5: Who you are right now, like things are going to

595
00:25:30,920 --> 00:25:33,280
Speaker 5: throw you off and then you're going to be like lost.

596
00:25:33,320 --> 00:25:35,480
Speaker 5: You can be wait, what's happening, but you just got

597
00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:38,239
Speaker 5: to like ride the wave. And that's how I look

598
00:25:38,280 --> 00:25:39,879
Speaker 5: at it. Anyway, It's like she could change.

599
00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:42,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think for me, I'm very confident in my skin.

600
00:25:42,520 --> 00:25:44,960
Speaker 4: I think growing up cultural just had given me a

601
00:25:44,960 --> 00:25:47,640
Speaker 4: whole nother found of like confidence. Yeah, I think knowing

602
00:25:47,640 --> 00:25:50,000
Speaker 4: where I've come from and knowing who I am just

603
00:25:50,040 --> 00:25:52,880
Speaker 4: like definitely help me. But I think in this kind

604
00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:54,800
Speaker 4: of work, and you know, in social media and stuff,

605
00:25:54,840 --> 00:25:57,560
Speaker 4: we all have insecurities. And I think when where we

606
00:25:57,640 --> 00:26:00,679
Speaker 4: hide out insecurities is by being a lot bigger or

607
00:26:00,720 --> 00:26:02,480
Speaker 4: like a lot more confident than maybe what we may

608
00:26:02,520 --> 00:26:05,240
Speaker 4: lit on. So I think you're definitely confident, but we

609
00:26:05,280 --> 00:26:07,800
Speaker 4: all still have heaps of insecurities that we kind of

610
00:26:07,880 --> 00:26:10,520
Speaker 4: hide by this little facade that we try to put on,

611
00:26:10,560 --> 00:26:11,880
Speaker 4: which is confident, because.

612
00:26:11,960 --> 00:26:14,479
Speaker 1: That's something I definitely admire about you guys, is like

613
00:26:14,520 --> 00:26:17,000
Speaker 1: I am in the public eye, but like I'm a

614
00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:20,600
Speaker 1: very insecure person, and I think something about me is

615
00:26:20,640 --> 00:26:23,159
Speaker 1: like you can see that from like the way I

616
00:26:23,240 --> 00:26:25,240
Speaker 1: like post about it online, but the way you guys

617
00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:27,359
Speaker 1: post in the way you guys hold yourself on that

618
00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:30,280
Speaker 1: show is like like admirable because you guys look like

619
00:26:30,320 --> 00:26:33,560
Speaker 1: you're so confident and secure with who you guys as

620
00:26:33,600 --> 00:26:36,719
Speaker 1: an individual, and it's really admiring and especially for like

621
00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:39,480
Speaker 1: young people. It's like you do really walk into that

622
00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:41,760
Speaker 1: show and like I haven't met you guys out, but

623
00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:45,280
Speaker 1: like with a big like zero fox given like care

624
00:26:45,320 --> 00:26:48,280
Speaker 1: factor is zero, which is like admirable to just like

625
00:26:48,400 --> 00:26:52,200
Speaker 1: be who you are and like authentically like not give

626
00:26:52,200 --> 00:26:54,960
Speaker 1: a fuck, which is something that you guys do very well,

627
00:26:55,440 --> 00:26:57,440
Speaker 1: even if you hide it, like it's a very very

628
00:26:57,440 --> 00:27:01,840
Speaker 1: good thing, which is like never like I could like

629
00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:02,679
Speaker 1: I feel.

630
00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:04,560
Speaker 2: Like it sometimes online I'm a bit of a character.

631
00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:07,159
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think, yeah, we all kind of play that

632
00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:09,240
Speaker 4: bit of a character. I think a lot of people

633
00:27:09,280 --> 00:27:11,480
Speaker 4: are like that. But I think for so many years

634
00:27:11,520 --> 00:27:14,040
Speaker 4: for me anyway, kind of having to hide my authentic

635
00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:15,600
Speaker 4: south or kind of dull it down for a lot

636
00:27:15,640 --> 00:27:16,080
Speaker 4: of people.

637
00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:18,280
Speaker 2: Now I'm like, in what way do you mean?

638
00:27:18,359 --> 00:27:21,720
Speaker 4: Like what I guess, Like even even taking back to

639
00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:23,719
Speaker 4: a few years ago, like I deepened my voice been

640
00:27:23,720 --> 00:27:26,880
Speaker 4: therever I was like uncomfortable around straight males, just kind

641
00:27:26,880 --> 00:27:29,719
Speaker 4: of like not acting as I'm not necessarily flamboyant, but

642
00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:31,600
Speaker 4: like you know, just being a little bit more comfortable

643
00:27:31,880 --> 00:27:34,600
Speaker 4: in myself. Whereas now I'm like I really couldn't give

644
00:27:34,640 --> 00:27:36,720
Speaker 4: two tosses what you think about me. Yeah, I'm just

645
00:27:36,800 --> 00:27:39,359
Speaker 4: kind of be who I want to be. But yeah,

646
00:27:39,400 --> 00:27:42,680
Speaker 4: I think like now I'm like, I'm my authentic self

647
00:27:42,680 --> 00:27:44,960
Speaker 4: in this moment, and yeah, you can either like it

648
00:27:45,080 --> 00:27:46,440
Speaker 4: or fuck off?

649
00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:50,199
Speaker 1: And do you think the show taught you guys that? Like,

650
00:27:50,240 --> 00:27:53,040
Speaker 1: what has the show taught you about yourself in that aspect?

651
00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:56,320
Speaker 4: I think for me, once i've people have seen me

652
00:27:56,359 --> 00:27:59,359
Speaker 4: have six on TV, I've kind of got no like yeah,

653
00:28:01,280 --> 00:28:02,960
Speaker 4: I've got like there's not really much more of me

654
00:28:03,040 --> 00:28:05,040
Speaker 4: you could really see, so like it's a really intimate

655
00:28:05,080 --> 00:28:07,520
Speaker 4: moment that you share with the world and even like

656
00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:10,040
Speaker 4: me like you know, crying on TV or opening up

657
00:28:10,080 --> 00:28:14,200
Speaker 4: about my past experiences with like life and stuff. Once

658
00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:16,000
Speaker 4: the world kind of sees that, you're like, well, I've

659
00:28:16,080 --> 00:28:17,760
Speaker 4: lit you in, so you might as well.

660
00:28:17,960 --> 00:28:19,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, I have it all?

661
00:28:19,640 --> 00:28:20,760
Speaker 2: And are you single?

662
00:28:24,280 --> 00:28:29,480
Speaker 3: A picture? This man in a relationship, Troy, what's toxic about?

663
00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:33,600
Speaker 3: He's just a love bomber. He'll he'll be there.

664
00:28:33,840 --> 00:28:36,000
Speaker 5: It meets you five minutes, I'm so in love with you,

665
00:28:36,520 --> 00:28:37,439
Speaker 5: and then he leaves.

666
00:28:37,800 --> 00:28:39,040
Speaker 3: But then you leave and it's a block.

667
00:28:39,360 --> 00:28:41,040
Speaker 4: I'm in love with you for point and.

668
00:28:41,240 --> 00:28:44,960
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, I feel like we're on the

669
00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:47,400
Speaker 1: same way. I'm like one of those people that like

670
00:28:47,840 --> 00:28:51,200
Speaker 1: I don't move slowly because like I struggle to like people.

671
00:28:51,280 --> 00:28:53,960
Speaker 1: So then once I see like a glimmer, I'm like,

672
00:28:54,600 --> 00:28:57,560
Speaker 1: let's move and get married, like I'm like, but then

673
00:28:57,600 --> 00:28:59,800
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, fuck like your way, Like I'll be

674
00:28:59,840 --> 00:29:01,280
Speaker 1: like yeah, yeah, you're all down for it, and then

675
00:29:01,320 --> 00:29:02,680
Speaker 1: they like start to come on to me more and

676
00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:03,440
Speaker 1: I'm like too much.

677
00:29:05,160 --> 00:29:09,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, like it's just too much, like I can't do it.

678
00:29:09,360 --> 00:29:11,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm like I'm like, why are you like acting

679
00:29:11,400 --> 00:29:13,080
Speaker 4: someone to me right now? Like it was way better

680
00:29:13,080 --> 00:29:14,000
Speaker 4: when I was into you.

681
00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:16,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, I said to my best friend all the time,

682
00:29:16,120 --> 00:29:19,040
Speaker 1: I'm like, I just love people who give me nothing.

683
00:29:20,320 --> 00:29:21,120
Speaker 2: It's so bad.

684
00:29:21,400 --> 00:29:24,680
Speaker 4: It's it is a chase, but like the that's the

685
00:29:24,720 --> 00:29:26,680
Speaker 4: thing is like what's love without a little bit of.

686
00:29:26,680 --> 00:29:27,720
Speaker 3: A chase exactly.

687
00:29:28,360 --> 00:29:30,440
Speaker 1: So if you don't like people who are like too

688
00:29:30,560 --> 00:29:33,040
Speaker 1: fast and everything, but you're the fast person, yeah.

689
00:29:32,920 --> 00:29:34,920
Speaker 4: I'm the fast, ferviost and like I'll be I'm like

690
00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:36,480
Speaker 4: meeting people's parents at third time.

691
00:29:36,400 --> 00:29:39,560
Speaker 2: I've met them and they're like full like and then I'm.

692
00:29:39,440 --> 00:29:41,520
Speaker 4: Like, probably not anymore, but.

693
00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:44,000
Speaker 3: Like the hearts, you're going to be breaking to me.

694
00:29:44,080 --> 00:29:47,600
Speaker 4: Fair. I'm also very open with how how I think.

695
00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:49,800
Speaker 4: I'm like, I'm not ready for a relationship, but i

696
00:29:49,840 --> 00:29:52,760
Speaker 4: think like my words versus my actions because I'm completely

697
00:29:52,760 --> 00:29:55,760
Speaker 4: different because like I'm like a physical touch, I'll give

698
00:29:55,760 --> 00:29:57,640
Speaker 4: you love, but I'm like I don't want a relationship,

699
00:29:57,640 --> 00:29:59,520
Speaker 4: but like hold my hand, but you're telling me.

700
00:29:59,480 --> 00:30:04,880
Speaker 1: Love, So what would make you then be like, yeah,

701
00:30:04,920 --> 00:30:08,320
Speaker 1: I want to date you like, what what? What are

702
00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:11,720
Speaker 1: you against having a boyfriend or a girlfriend right now?

703
00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:14,680
Speaker 4: No, Look, I actually want I'm single and I'm reading

704
00:30:14,720 --> 00:30:17,400
Speaker 4: I actually do want a relationship. I think that's.

705
00:30:17,480 --> 00:30:20,840
Speaker 1: Literally just I'm single and ready to mingle and I

706
00:30:21,000 --> 00:30:24,080
Speaker 1: want a relationship like mingle.

707
00:30:23,880 --> 00:30:25,120
Speaker 4: And like get a relationship.

708
00:30:25,200 --> 00:30:28,880
Speaker 3: Wait, is that the thing be in an open relationships?

709
00:30:28,920 --> 00:30:29,800
Speaker 4: No? Yeah, I can't.

710
00:30:30,680 --> 00:30:31,480
Speaker 2: Yeah I'm jealous.

711
00:30:31,560 --> 00:30:31,760
Speaker 4: Yeah.

712
00:30:31,800 --> 00:30:35,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like if I like, if I like a guy,

713
00:30:36,200 --> 00:30:38,160
Speaker 2: I'm like, I like you, I wouldn't tell them I

714
00:30:38,280 --> 00:30:38,560
Speaker 2: like them.

715
00:30:38,600 --> 00:30:41,760
Speaker 1: There's no signs. There's no signs, Like, they don't know

716
00:30:41,800 --> 00:30:43,400
Speaker 1: that I like them. But then if they look at

717
00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:45,560
Speaker 1: a girl that night, you'll never hear from a word

718
00:30:45,560 --> 00:30:45,760
Speaker 1: from me.

719
00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:48,120
Speaker 4: If I see another black boy in the phone, I'm like,

720
00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:49,160
Speaker 4: I'm not talking to you ever again.

721
00:30:49,440 --> 00:30:51,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, you get to eat that quickly.

722
00:30:51,480 --> 00:30:53,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'll be like that too, even though they matter

723
00:30:53,720 --> 00:30:55,200
Speaker 4: not talk to me for two from like to the

724
00:30:55,200 --> 00:30:57,880
Speaker 4: fact that I saw the name in there's probably off.

725
00:30:58,280 --> 00:30:59,880
Speaker 2: So but you're single and ready to.

726
00:30:59,800 --> 00:31:03,000
Speaker 4: Mean, I want to find my partner. To be fair,

727
00:31:03,040 --> 00:31:06,280
Speaker 4: I'm pretty for a relationship, but I think in our

728
00:31:06,320 --> 00:31:08,400
Speaker 4: line of work, though, it's it's you need someone that's

729
00:31:08,520 --> 00:31:11,360
Speaker 4: very confident and show themselves. And I think my type

730
00:31:11,640 --> 00:31:15,280
Speaker 4: is like someone that's a little bit more like broody bikes.

731
00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:16,760
Speaker 2: What what's that mean?

732
00:31:16,920 --> 00:31:19,640
Speaker 4: Like like straight man a bit more introverted. I guess

733
00:31:19,800 --> 00:31:22,960
Speaker 4: like straight man introverted. So that complete opposite of me,

734
00:31:23,040 --> 00:31:24,200
Speaker 4: and I just need them.

735
00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:26,040
Speaker 2: That's good though, because you balance each other out.

736
00:31:26,400 --> 00:31:28,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, but you just need to be like really secure

737
00:31:28,400 --> 00:31:30,480
Speaker 4: in yourself because I feel like when you're going out

738
00:31:30,520 --> 00:31:32,520
Speaker 4: and people coming up to you and you like a

739
00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:35,600
Speaker 4: bit of insecurity, I'm like, no, not for that.

740
00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:37,120
Speaker 2: And that's what is that? What gives you the eg?

741
00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:41,600
Speaker 4: Yeah? Yeah, i' a lot of other things?

742
00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:43,000
Speaker 2: What's your other ex?

743
00:31:43,040 --> 00:31:45,040
Speaker 4: Like? What a you people that walk with these like

744
00:31:45,080 --> 00:31:48,120
Speaker 4: shoelaces untired and they're walking on their shoelaces as Honestly,

745
00:31:48,240 --> 00:31:50,800
Speaker 4: it seems like such a weird thing. I've ended stuff

746
00:31:50,800 --> 00:31:51,320
Speaker 4: over it.

747
00:31:51,320 --> 00:31:52,200
Speaker 3: It's a shoelace.

748
00:31:52,560 --> 00:31:53,960
Speaker 4: Shoelace. I can't do it.

749
00:31:54,160 --> 00:31:55,720
Speaker 2: Oh so you're no, you're working me?

750
00:31:56,160 --> 00:31:58,280
Speaker 3: What's your I don't know.

751
00:31:58,360 --> 00:32:00,480
Speaker 2: It's not necessarily that I have ex. It's just like

752
00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:02,200
Speaker 2: I actually just don't like you.

753
00:32:03,440 --> 00:32:07,080
Speaker 1: I can't remember the last time I've like I'm always

754
00:32:07,080 --> 00:32:09,880
Speaker 1: one foot in, one foot out, Like it's like I'm

755
00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:12,080
Speaker 1: a bit tit for tat, Like if you're going to

756
00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:14,160
Speaker 1: do something, don't worry, I've already done it, Like I've

757
00:32:14,160 --> 00:32:16,480
Speaker 1: already like mentally prepared that you've done that. So it's

758
00:32:16,560 --> 00:32:19,040
Speaker 1: just like I can never then open up like emotionally

759
00:32:19,080 --> 00:32:21,040
Speaker 1: because it's just like I'm ready to walk.

760
00:32:22,640 --> 00:32:24,080
Speaker 4: I think we're just emotionally guarded.

761
00:32:24,320 --> 00:32:28,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, it probably is, but it's just like I don't

762
00:32:28,600 --> 00:32:31,440
Speaker 1: want to tell you like that I'm going here or

763
00:32:31,480 --> 00:32:33,120
Speaker 1: doing this, Like I don't want to speak to you

764
00:32:33,160 --> 00:32:35,520
Speaker 1: flat four days, but like then to get a boyfriend,

765
00:32:35,560 --> 00:32:37,440
Speaker 1: you need to speak to them flat every day.

766
00:32:37,800 --> 00:32:40,840
Speaker 4: Look, I only want you on the Sunday to Yeah.

767
00:32:40,680 --> 00:32:42,320
Speaker 1: I said this the other I said this last week

768
00:32:42,320 --> 00:32:45,240
Speaker 1: in my podcast, like Folk says having a boyfriend's overrated

769
00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:53,600
Speaker 1: until a fucking Sunday the only thing. Yeah, but how

770
00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:55,320
Speaker 1: do you go with a girlfriend on the show?

771
00:32:55,640 --> 00:32:57,880
Speaker 2: Like how does how has she taken all of that on?

772
00:32:58,160 --> 00:32:59,960
Speaker 5: I think one of the biggest reasons why we were

773
00:33:00,360 --> 00:33:03,719
Speaker 5: is because of how good she's about that stuff, Like

774
00:33:03,840 --> 00:33:07,560
Speaker 5: I will not ever get into a relationship if I

775
00:33:07,560 --> 00:33:10,080
Speaker 5: feel like someone's holding me back or if I sense

776
00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:12,720
Speaker 5: any bit of controlling this or judgment. Like when I

777
00:33:12,760 --> 00:33:14,640
Speaker 5: met her, I was like, this is what's happening, and

778
00:33:14,680 --> 00:33:17,520
Speaker 5: she was just like absolutely and like so supportive. And

779
00:33:17,560 --> 00:33:20,280
Speaker 5: I think that's why we work, yeah, so well, because

780
00:33:20,280 --> 00:33:22,720
Speaker 5: if she tried to pull me back in or be

781
00:33:22,840 --> 00:33:26,200
Speaker 5: like or like you can't go party with your friends,

782
00:33:26,880 --> 00:33:28,680
Speaker 5: it just wouldn't have worked because I would be like,

783
00:33:28,720 --> 00:33:29,480
Speaker 5: this is what I'm doing.

784
00:33:29,800 --> 00:33:31,000
Speaker 3: And I think that's just where I was at in

785
00:33:31,040 --> 00:33:31,360
Speaker 3: my life.

786
00:33:31,400 --> 00:33:33,560
Speaker 5: I was so stern and strong in my mind that

787
00:33:33,600 --> 00:33:35,080
Speaker 5: I was like, this is what I want to do.

788
00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:37,640
Speaker 2: Join me or don't.

789
00:33:37,960 --> 00:33:39,800
Speaker 1: And I think like that's the thing that I maybe

790
00:33:39,800 --> 00:33:42,320
Speaker 1: struggle with is like if I get an opportunity to

791
00:33:42,320 --> 00:33:44,400
Speaker 1: go to America next week, I'm going to go to

792
00:33:44,440 --> 00:33:46,920
Speaker 1: America whether you like it or not. So it's like

793
00:33:47,680 --> 00:33:50,640
Speaker 1: sometimes it's like they're gonna hate it, and it's like, well,

794
00:33:50,840 --> 00:33:52,240
Speaker 1: I don't want to then be in America and we

795
00:33:52,280 --> 00:33:55,000
Speaker 1: fight every single day because you hate me being there

796
00:33:55,240 --> 00:33:57,880
Speaker 1: when I'm actually not doing anything wrong, Like I'm the

797
00:33:57,920 --> 00:33:59,000
Speaker 1: most loyal person.

798
00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:02,160
Speaker 2: I'm never gonna like be sketchy about that, but the

799
00:34:02,200 --> 00:34:03,200
Speaker 2: way you're behaving.

800
00:34:04,840 --> 00:34:07,040
Speaker 4: That's also my thing is when I am talking with someone,

801
00:34:07,120 --> 00:34:09,400
Speaker 4: like that's the only person I'm talking. Yeah, so like

802
00:34:09,440 --> 00:34:13,239
Speaker 4: I am quite you don't have a roster. I do,

803
00:34:13,360 --> 00:34:15,680
Speaker 4: but I will cancel the roster while I'm talking to him.

804
00:34:15,920 --> 00:34:16,919
Speaker 4: Oh okay, I'm talking.

805
00:34:16,960 --> 00:34:18,759
Speaker 1: And then it's like okay, it's like, yeah, it's been

806
00:34:18,760 --> 00:34:20,240
Speaker 1: a couple of days. Hey, sorry it was busy.

807
00:34:20,480 --> 00:34:23,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, because it's like I also, my brain just can't

808
00:34:23,239 --> 00:34:25,919
Speaker 4: do like fifty million people at once. Yeah, I don't

809
00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:28,680
Speaker 4: understand how people do that. Like I'm like your mind

810
00:34:28,719 --> 00:34:35,399
Speaker 4: for now, for now, your mind, But then like after

811
00:34:35,440 --> 00:34:37,279
Speaker 4: a while, I'm like, yeah, I just can't do a

812
00:34:37,320 --> 00:34:39,439
Speaker 4: lot of people. So it's a loyal thing. But that's

813
00:34:39,440 --> 00:34:41,399
Speaker 4: the same thing as we're all quite like young, and

814
00:34:41,520 --> 00:34:43,680
Speaker 4: I think opportunities come up and to say no to

815
00:34:43,760 --> 00:34:46,439
Speaker 4: them because you're in a relationship, Like I would hate

816
00:34:46,440 --> 00:34:48,080
Speaker 4: for a partner to do that. I wouldn't even do

817
00:34:48,120 --> 00:34:48,920
Speaker 4: that to my partner.

818
00:34:49,000 --> 00:34:51,719
Speaker 1: So yeah, and like you said your girlfriend, was she

819
00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:54,080
Speaker 1: ever then nervous like once you came off the show

820
00:34:54,120 --> 00:34:56,560
Speaker 1: to watch it or did it almost because you were

821
00:34:56,560 --> 00:34:58,560
Speaker 1: so respectful, like the whole time you were so amazed.

822
00:34:58,600 --> 00:35:00,719
Speaker 5: Some people think that like being like shaking my ass

823
00:35:00,800 --> 00:35:03,360
Speaker 5: on Cardi and stuff that she's dancing like that, and

824
00:35:03,400 --> 00:35:06,359
Speaker 5: I'm like, that just shows how secure I am. Yeah,

825
00:35:06,400 --> 00:35:08,719
Speaker 5: like it's also my best friend. Yeah, and I'm like,

826
00:35:08,840 --> 00:35:09,920
Speaker 5: but no, she wasn't.

827
00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:12,520
Speaker 3: Worried when I came off at all, because like when.

828
00:35:12,320 --> 00:35:14,400
Speaker 1: She watched the show, was she also like that's almost

829
00:35:14,400 --> 00:35:17,080
Speaker 1: like security that like you did nothing, like it's like

830
00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:17,960
Speaker 1: probably give them.

831
00:35:18,400 --> 00:35:20,680
Speaker 4: She was just like what the show didn't show as

832
00:35:20,680 --> 00:35:22,319
Speaker 4: well as she was crying every night forgot.

833
00:35:22,400 --> 00:35:26,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, I was like crying cuddling photos.

834
00:35:26,600 --> 00:35:28,879
Speaker 4: So yeah, like we would have to cuddle every night

835
00:35:28,920 --> 00:35:33,360
Speaker 4: because she would be like crying. Like So when Cody

836
00:35:33,400 --> 00:35:36,000
Speaker 4: finally came into the house, like back in the season two,

837
00:35:36,520 --> 00:35:40,200
Speaker 4: it was like like a big relief moment because there.

838
00:35:40,120 --> 00:35:43,000
Speaker 5: Was a screaming everyone ate. I was screaming con screaming

839
00:35:43,040 --> 00:35:43,719
Speaker 5: at you.

840
00:35:43,800 --> 00:35:44,080
Speaker 2: I was.

841
00:35:44,120 --> 00:35:46,839
Speaker 5: I was actually losing a crashing out. Yeah, I've never

842
00:35:46,880 --> 00:35:49,440
Speaker 5: been a crashed out until season two crash Out City.

843
00:35:49,640 --> 00:35:51,319
Speaker 4: But I think that's probably why we end up getting

844
00:35:51,360 --> 00:35:54,040
Speaker 4: so close, is because like very much like brother and

845
00:35:54,080 --> 00:35:56,080
Speaker 4: sister vibes. Like even when I go home to her parents,

846
00:35:56,120 --> 00:35:57,960
Speaker 4: everyone's always like, you guys are brother and sis. Then

847
00:35:58,239 --> 00:35:59,960
Speaker 4: It's so funny because a lot of people like think

848
00:36:00,040 --> 00:36:04,000
Speaker 4: for in a relationship, especially like we're walking the shop

849
00:36:04,120 --> 00:36:06,759
Speaker 4: sometimes and like she'll like say something like should I

850
00:36:06,880 --> 00:36:08,680
Speaker 4: should I get this? Like no, you're looking fat today,

851
00:36:08,719 --> 00:36:10,520
Speaker 4: And then like we'll see like people look at us

852
00:36:10,560 --> 00:36:13,239
Speaker 4: and I'm like, no, no, no, I'm not your partner, Like.

853
00:36:15,040 --> 00:36:17,319
Speaker 3: It doesn't look sometimes that looks shiit on you take

854
00:36:17,320 --> 00:36:19,160
Speaker 3: it off you.

855
00:36:19,320 --> 00:36:21,040
Speaker 4: And we're like having the mystics and people we think

856
00:36:21,040 --> 00:36:23,879
Speaker 4: we're dating, but I think, yes, it's our relationship. We've

857
00:36:23,880 --> 00:36:25,920
Speaker 4: just gotten so close over these last few months and

858
00:36:25,960 --> 00:36:28,160
Speaker 4: like over since we've been filming and stuff.

859
00:36:27,920 --> 00:36:30,240
Speaker 2: Because when do you film? What mom?

860
00:36:30,760 --> 00:36:31,479
Speaker 3: April May?

861
00:36:31,920 --> 00:36:35,520
Speaker 2: Okay, so you guys moved in after right after time.

862
00:36:35,520 --> 00:36:38,600
Speaker 4: After yeah, and we were just it was just convenient

863
00:36:38,640 --> 00:36:40,040
Speaker 4: for us at the time, and then we've kind of

864
00:36:40,080 --> 00:36:42,960
Speaker 4: just been there ever since. And we were talking about

865
00:36:42,960 --> 00:36:44,640
Speaker 4: this the other day, like we would not be able

866
00:36:44,640 --> 00:36:45,800
Speaker 4: to live without each other now.

867
00:36:45,719 --> 00:36:48,239
Speaker 5: Or even when I'm married and raising children, I still

868
00:36:48,280 --> 00:36:49,080
Speaker 5: want him in the house.

869
00:36:49,480 --> 00:36:53,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, fair like he's part of furniture. That's like me

870
00:36:53,400 --> 00:36:54,040
Speaker 2: with my best friend.

871
00:36:54,080 --> 00:36:56,239
Speaker 1: I'm like I always feel like I have like a

872
00:36:56,280 --> 00:36:59,480
Speaker 1: constant plus one like she's just always there like she

873
00:36:59,560 --> 00:36:59,840
Speaker 1: has to.

874
00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:02,400
Speaker 2: It's just come along, like there's no question about it.

875
00:37:02,440 --> 00:37:07,080
Speaker 4: But now I'm like the plus three because like it's

876
00:37:07,080 --> 00:37:09,560
Speaker 4: always like him turn and I'm like, I'm cavin I

877
00:37:09,600 --> 00:37:09,960
Speaker 4: don't care.

878
00:37:10,320 --> 00:37:12,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, we don't ask anymore. We're just like okay,

879
00:37:13,120 --> 00:37:13,800
Speaker 5: cool coming.

880
00:37:13,880 --> 00:37:14,359
Speaker 3: I love it.

881
00:37:14,680 --> 00:37:18,160
Speaker 1: Maybe that's also probably why you struggle maybe in relationships,

882
00:37:18,200 --> 00:37:19,839
Speaker 1: because you get what you need from them.

883
00:37:20,160 --> 00:37:24,000
Speaker 4: Actually this is true, you get it all. Yeah, I'll

884
00:37:24,040 --> 00:37:26,279
Speaker 4: be like cuddling on a Sunday with them. People like

885
00:37:26,800 --> 00:37:28,759
Speaker 4: like some people might think it's weird, but I'm like,

886
00:37:28,800 --> 00:37:30,160
Speaker 4: it's just it's just us.

887
00:37:30,239 --> 00:37:30,479
Speaker 3: Yeah.

888
00:37:30,560 --> 00:37:33,040
Speaker 1: Because I say that to Bill, my like my best friend.

889
00:37:33,080 --> 00:37:35,680
Speaker 1: I'm like, I come visit your house. You've got the

890
00:37:35,680 --> 00:37:38,080
Speaker 1: fridge like stocked up for me, you drop me off,

891
00:37:38,160 --> 00:37:39,680
Speaker 1: you do all these things for me. You make sure

892
00:37:39,760 --> 00:37:41,120
Speaker 1: the sheets are washed and everything.

893
00:37:41,120 --> 00:37:41,840
Speaker 3: I'm like, why needable?

894
00:37:41,920 --> 00:37:46,800
Speaker 1: I don't even have to ask like it yeah exactly

895
00:37:46,840 --> 00:37:48,520
Speaker 1: so he and it just doesn't all warm me.

896
00:37:48,640 --> 00:37:51,000
Speaker 4: I love Yeah, she does it all for me.

897
00:37:51,760 --> 00:37:54,080
Speaker 5: I Like I said to him the other night, because

898
00:37:54,239 --> 00:37:55,879
Speaker 5: I'm like going to bed and goes, can you get

899
00:37:55,880 --> 00:37:57,880
Speaker 5: me a glass of water and I'm walking, can you

900
00:37:57,880 --> 00:37:59,719
Speaker 5: turn the light off? And I said, I'm like, you're

901
00:37:59,760 --> 00:38:03,640
Speaker 5: best friend, your sister, and your fucking mum all in one.

902
00:38:03,760 --> 00:38:07,239
Speaker 3: And then he's like, can I love you all right?

903
00:38:07,280 --> 00:38:08,960
Speaker 2: What are your biggest eggs about each other?

904
00:38:09,000 --> 00:38:09,160
Speaker 4: Then?

905
00:38:09,360 --> 00:38:11,840
Speaker 1: Oh shit, you go like what's the thing that you

906
00:38:11,960 --> 00:38:14,080
Speaker 1: just you're like, can't stand about each other?

907
00:38:14,360 --> 00:38:23,000
Speaker 5: Oh so oh no, I'll actually got it. It's not

908
00:38:23,040 --> 00:38:25,279
Speaker 5: even like that bad, but it really pisses me off.

909
00:38:25,560 --> 00:38:27,520
Speaker 5: I like to clean my mirror because when I'm taking

910
00:38:27,840 --> 00:38:30,040
Speaker 5: nice mirror for its it needs to be clean. No,

911
00:38:30,160 --> 00:38:33,400
Speaker 5: she comes in, Oh there's two things. Actually comes in

912
00:38:33,480 --> 00:38:37,200
Speaker 5: brushing his teeth, walks into my room every time, like

913
00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:40,480
Speaker 5: doing this splutter, paints my mirror every time. Like now

914
00:38:40,600 --> 00:38:42,960
Speaker 5: he get out and the way he eats as well.

915
00:38:43,040 --> 00:38:43,920
Speaker 3: I love you somebody.

916
00:38:44,520 --> 00:38:48,080
Speaker 2: Oh you're open. No, nah, I can't do that.

917
00:38:48,920 --> 00:38:52,440
Speaker 4: Well since we're on the top. Yeah, I onlycking out

918
00:38:52,440 --> 00:38:54,920
Speaker 4: her as a driving. She can't drive the life for me.

919
00:38:55,560 --> 00:38:57,840
Speaker 4: What do you mean on your cat hot girls take curves?

920
00:38:58,000 --> 00:39:00,719
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, and this is us even in the car

921
00:39:00,760 --> 00:39:04,080
Speaker 4: ideas He stopped because she's like this like daydreaming.

922
00:39:03,680 --> 00:39:06,200
Speaker 5: Anxious passenger because my driving is perfectly.

923
00:39:06,280 --> 00:39:07,319
Speaker 2: Why don't you drive then?

924
00:39:07,719 --> 00:39:10,000
Speaker 4: Because I don't drive. I have a passenger princess.

925
00:39:10,880 --> 00:39:12,520
Speaker 2: Anything ever happened? You have your license?

926
00:39:13,400 --> 00:39:16,120
Speaker 4: Oh really, I'm a passenger princess.

927
00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:18,040
Speaker 3: You're like thing like.

928
00:39:18,000 --> 00:39:19,839
Speaker 4: You know when everyone's like looking for a service driver,

929
00:39:19,920 --> 00:39:21,400
Speaker 4: I'm like, we don't have my license.

930
00:39:21,880 --> 00:39:24,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I love driving, like I hate being the

931
00:39:24,160 --> 00:39:26,840
Speaker 1: passenger princess, Like even if I hang out with a guy, like,

932
00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:27,800
Speaker 1: I want to be the driver.

933
00:39:28,840 --> 00:39:30,920
Speaker 4: I've been in seventeen car accidents and none of them

934
00:39:30,960 --> 00:39:34,440
Speaker 4: have been driving. Yeah, so I'm like to be behind me.

935
00:39:34,480 --> 00:39:37,080
Speaker 4: You're just a bit like angsty because of it, but

936
00:39:37,120 --> 00:39:37,640
Speaker 4: I'm like the.

937
00:39:37,560 --> 00:39:39,239
Speaker 1: Best Like you then can't but you don't have a

938
00:39:39,280 --> 00:39:41,200
Speaker 1: leg to stand on because you can't fucking drive. So

939
00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:44,440
Speaker 1: let the girl get the fucking curb because you wouldn't

940
00:39:44,440 --> 00:39:45,200
Speaker 1: have a car.

941
00:39:45,560 --> 00:39:47,560
Speaker 4: This is a very very fair statement, and I'm feeling

942
00:39:47,600 --> 00:39:48,120
Speaker 4: a to action.

943
00:39:48,520 --> 00:39:49,799
Speaker 3: Do you have any others about me?

944
00:39:50,360 --> 00:39:54,280
Speaker 4: Not really much. We're pretty and it's like not meaning

945
00:39:54,320 --> 00:39:56,319
Speaker 4: anything that you could do that. I'm like, it's just

946
00:39:56,360 --> 00:39:56,920
Speaker 4: like normal.

947
00:39:57,120 --> 00:39:59,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think you've seen worse.

948
00:39:59,040 --> 00:40:01,640
Speaker 4: Of like I People say, like you're probably queathing her

949
00:40:01,680 --> 00:40:02,719
Speaker 4: a farting, but like.

950
00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:03,480
Speaker 3: Okay out me.

951
00:40:03,680 --> 00:40:04,319
Speaker 4: It's like not.

952
00:40:04,239 --> 00:40:06,240
Speaker 2: Really maybe'bouted yourself myself?

953
00:40:07,800 --> 00:40:10,920
Speaker 3: You do that all You're not wrong?

954
00:40:11,360 --> 00:40:14,440
Speaker 1: What's your What do you think her biggest red flag is?

955
00:40:14,480 --> 00:40:16,640
Speaker 1: And what do you think his biggest red flag is?

956
00:40:16,640 --> 00:40:18,520
Speaker 2: His toxicity? In what way?

957
00:40:18,840 --> 00:40:20,160
Speaker 3: With boys?

958
00:40:20,400 --> 00:40:21,000
Speaker 2: What did you do?

959
00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:22,960
Speaker 4: Love? What?

960
00:40:23,040 --> 00:40:25,839
Speaker 3: I like? Love bombs drags on?

961
00:40:26,480 --> 00:40:28,520
Speaker 4: Sorry, keep going?

962
00:40:28,680 --> 00:40:31,279
Speaker 1: Do you just do you ever like like are you

963
00:40:31,320 --> 00:40:33,440
Speaker 1: a ghoster or blocker?

964
00:40:33,719 --> 00:40:34,120
Speaker 3: Ghoster?

965
00:40:34,760 --> 00:40:36,560
Speaker 2: Which you don't even end it, you just block it.

966
00:40:36,600 --> 00:40:39,399
Speaker 4: So then sorry, like this is an ending and less

967
00:40:39,480 --> 00:40:41,120
Speaker 4: than going. Ah, then two days later I'll just go

968
00:40:41,239 --> 00:40:45,160
Speaker 4: to quick block. This is so bad. I'm even getting

969
00:40:45,160 --> 00:40:46,000
Speaker 4: a relationship after this.

970
00:40:46,400 --> 00:40:47,200
Speaker 3: We're helping you out.

971
00:40:49,680 --> 00:40:51,480
Speaker 2: No, that's a good thing that you've like at least

972
00:40:51,520 --> 00:40:53,320
Speaker 2: you've communicated that it's not going anywhere.

973
00:40:53,440 --> 00:40:56,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, I would say my biggest red flag for you,

974
00:40:57,880 --> 00:41:02,200
Speaker 4: I think she she stuff under the rug very She

975
00:41:02,360 --> 00:41:04,759
Speaker 4: was just like a forgive and forget very easily. But

976
00:41:04,880 --> 00:41:07,160
Speaker 4: like she'll be like heat in the moment. But then

977
00:41:07,200 --> 00:41:09,239
Speaker 4: I'm like, you're just kind of think also how much

978
00:41:09,320 --> 00:41:13,080
Speaker 4: how easy she pops up? Actually she's a fence setter.

979
00:41:13,880 --> 00:41:17,200
Speaker 4: You're a fence yes, you sides.

980
00:41:20,760 --> 00:41:23,439
Speaker 3: But you're also like a I don't like that person.

981
00:41:23,560 --> 00:41:24,640
Speaker 3: You can't like that person. I'm like.

982
00:41:26,640 --> 00:41:34,800
Speaker 6: One, okay, each other's worst habit. He's chewing when he eats.

983
00:41:35,320 --> 00:41:36,760
Speaker 6: You eat like a horse.

984
00:41:37,400 --> 00:41:38,240
Speaker 3: It's so loud.

985
00:41:38,520 --> 00:41:39,360
Speaker 4: Worse habit.

986
00:41:39,840 --> 00:41:41,640
Speaker 3: You didn't really have anything genuinely perfect.

987
00:41:43,360 --> 00:41:47,239
Speaker 4: She leaves her clothes everywhere. Actually there's one her room.

988
00:41:47,520 --> 00:41:52,600
Speaker 4: Her room is like her worst. It's literally disgusting, your.

989
00:41:52,760 --> 00:41:55,760
Speaker 2: Fucked up house. You cannot speak about disgusting.

990
00:41:57,200 --> 00:41:59,319
Speaker 4: She's actually a clean that our whole house is clean.

991
00:41:59,400 --> 00:42:00,720
Speaker 4: And then her room is like a bomb.

992
00:42:00,600 --> 00:42:02,359
Speaker 2: Site that's actually mine.

993
00:42:02,520 --> 00:42:05,400
Speaker 1: Like I think, like my house mate is like O

994
00:42:05,560 --> 00:42:08,720
Speaker 1: C D Central, So I clean like our communal areas.

995
00:42:09,160 --> 00:42:10,920
Speaker 2: But like she doesn't have to walk in her room.

996
00:42:11,080 --> 00:42:13,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly. And like when I'm getting ready for things,

997
00:42:14,440 --> 00:42:15,000
Speaker 3: I can't.

998
00:42:14,800 --> 00:42:17,279
Speaker 5: See my clothes when they're in. I need them everywhere

999
00:42:17,640 --> 00:42:20,239
Speaker 5: so I can see what I'm trying to wear, you

1000
00:42:20,320 --> 00:42:20,680
Speaker 5: know what I mean.

1001
00:42:21,040 --> 00:42:23,239
Speaker 4: It's the biggest red flag. And as a car, I

1002
00:42:23,280 --> 00:42:25,560
Speaker 4: don't know if you've seen videos, but it's actually discussing

1003
00:42:25,640 --> 00:42:27,759
Speaker 4: this mold. Come see it after that.

1004
00:42:28,000 --> 00:42:29,799
Speaker 2: I dee park next year.

1005
00:42:31,400 --> 00:42:33,879
Speaker 3: There's a few empty cooked CROs already in the car.

1006
00:42:33,920 --> 00:42:37,279
Speaker 4: Folder, there's coffees, there's McDonald's.

1007
00:42:37,320 --> 00:42:38,879
Speaker 2: There's like full closet in the bag.

1008
00:42:40,200 --> 00:42:44,680
Speaker 3: Now I'm feeling it's but I like it gives to

1009
00:42:44,800 --> 00:42:45,440
Speaker 3: me character.

1010
00:42:45,920 --> 00:42:47,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's comfort in the car.

1011
00:42:47,760 --> 00:42:50,759
Speaker 4: She's like, get your bag. I'm like, we're out them.

1012
00:42:50,760 --> 00:42:55,560
Speaker 2: I supposed to work in the bag. Who's the messiest,

1013
00:42:55,640 --> 00:43:00,000
Speaker 2: then I'll take it. Yeah, that's okay, we're.

1014
00:43:00,280 --> 00:43:01,920
Speaker 3: But then I'm the clean like I clean up.

1015
00:43:03,560 --> 00:43:05,839
Speaker 1: There's a different there's I think there's two different things.

1016
00:43:05,880 --> 00:43:10,120
Speaker 1: There's a thing between messy and being clean. Like I'm messy,

1017
00:43:10,239 --> 00:43:12,840
Speaker 1: but I'm a clean person. Like my life is a

1018
00:43:12,880 --> 00:43:16,319
Speaker 1: bit messy, like my boots a pigsty, but it's clean. Yes,

1019
00:43:16,800 --> 00:43:18,719
Speaker 1: But then there's a difference between like being like a

1020
00:43:18,880 --> 00:43:23,400
Speaker 1: dirty person, like not hygienic and stuff like that.

1021
00:43:23,680 --> 00:43:24,480
Speaker 4: No, that's a car.

1022
00:43:28,200 --> 00:43:29,080
Speaker 3: I don't understand right.

1023
00:43:29,160 --> 00:43:31,360
Speaker 5: Just quickly, I went and chalked out a maca you

1024
00:43:31,440 --> 00:43:33,719
Speaker 5: know how you I don't know about you, guys. I

1025
00:43:34,160 --> 00:43:37,320
Speaker 5: leave like macas KC bags and they're for months, for months,

1026
00:43:37,400 --> 00:43:39,640
Speaker 5: like I'll leave them sit there with like god knows

1027
00:43:39,680 --> 00:43:41,680
Speaker 5: what in there. And I left a Maca's bag in

1028
00:43:41,719 --> 00:43:43,279
Speaker 5: there for a few days. I was like, okay, I'll

1029
00:43:43,320 --> 00:43:45,200
Speaker 5: just quickly get it out. I'm not even taking the

1030
00:43:45,239 --> 00:43:49,360
Speaker 5: piers full grown blow like for mold.

1031
00:43:49,760 --> 00:43:55,600
Speaker 4: No air out the car before you jump in. It's

1032
00:43:55,640 --> 00:43:57,840
Speaker 4: like we washing, like.

1033
00:43:57,880 --> 00:44:00,920
Speaker 3: I always know you can't eat my car. Oh you can't.

1034
00:44:04,160 --> 00:44:06,160
Speaker 2: Yeah no, I know macas and no thing because of

1035
00:44:06,239 --> 00:44:10,000
Speaker 2: the smellingers. She doesn't have a coffee in my.

1036
00:44:10,080 --> 00:44:10,680
Speaker 3: Car, but that's it.

1037
00:44:11,640 --> 00:44:12,120
Speaker 2: No food.

1038
00:44:12,200 --> 00:44:15,520
Speaker 3: I've got like coffees like upside down, just spilt everywhere.

1039
00:44:16,000 --> 00:44:17,680
Speaker 2: Can you get your car detailed? Please?

1040
00:44:19,000 --> 00:44:21,000
Speaker 4: Her appearance boom and go home because she gets it,

1041
00:44:21,040 --> 00:44:23,239
Speaker 4: gets cleaned out, and then it's like two days later

1042
00:44:23,280 --> 00:44:24,040
Speaker 4: it's back to miss.

1043
00:44:24,280 --> 00:44:26,200
Speaker 2: It's not just me, though, who else?

1044
00:44:27,600 --> 00:44:30,120
Speaker 3: You are always in my car and you leave everything

1045
00:44:30,200 --> 00:44:30,520
Speaker 3: in there.

1046
00:44:31,600 --> 00:44:34,360
Speaker 1: All right, let's leave off something of this episode. On

1047
00:44:34,440 --> 00:44:36,799
Speaker 1: a high the thing you love most about each other.

1048
00:44:37,360 --> 00:44:41,600
Speaker 2: Oh oh my god, she's like you first.

1049
00:44:41,880 --> 00:44:44,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, she already knows it. Felt like how she's literally

1050
00:44:44,960 --> 00:44:47,320
Speaker 4: like a mother. She's like got such a motherly and stinks.

1051
00:44:47,880 --> 00:44:49,480
Speaker 4: And I guess that's like I feel like just so

1052
00:44:49,640 --> 00:44:52,520
Speaker 4: safe and accepted around her. Whenever I do anything, it

1053
00:44:52,560 --> 00:44:54,680
Speaker 4: doesn't matter if I'm being toxic or if I'm being

1054
00:44:55,200 --> 00:44:57,640
Speaker 4: whatever monarchy does. She's I just know that she'll always

1055
00:44:57,680 --> 00:44:58,120
Speaker 4: accepted that.

1056
00:44:58,800 --> 00:44:59,600
Speaker 3: That's all sweet.

1057
00:44:59,680 --> 00:44:59,960
Speaker 2: That's like.

1058
00:45:01,480 --> 00:45:05,440
Speaker 3: Month to watch it, like, it's like it's like fluttering. Yeah,

1059
00:45:05,440 --> 00:45:09,520
Speaker 3: it's fluttering because he doesn't compliments.

1060
00:45:10,400 --> 00:45:12,359
Speaker 1: No, but you're like me, are you not someone who

1061
00:45:12,480 --> 00:45:14,560
Speaker 1: tells people all the time that you love them? But

1062
00:45:14,640 --> 00:45:16,440
Speaker 1: when you do tell them you love them, it's like,

1063
00:45:16,520 --> 00:45:17,880
Speaker 1: oh my god, I'm gonna hold on for that for

1064
00:45:18,040 --> 00:45:19,640
Speaker 1: so long because it doesn't come often.

1065
00:45:19,760 --> 00:45:21,399
Speaker 4: Yeah. I told her that once, like six months ago,

1066
00:45:21,440 --> 00:45:23,040
Speaker 4: and she'll like bring it up when never we're drunk.

1067
00:45:23,280 --> 00:45:26,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, so lovely. See it's nice.

1068
00:45:26,760 --> 00:45:30,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, Okay, I love I've said this before.

1069
00:45:31,000 --> 00:45:34,160
Speaker 5: I love that I feel like in any situation, I

1070
00:45:34,280 --> 00:45:36,520
Speaker 5: can guarantee he's always going to pick up the phone,

1071
00:45:36,880 --> 00:45:40,000
Speaker 5: Like if I need something, he's there. It feels like

1072
00:45:40,560 --> 00:45:43,440
Speaker 5: a safety blanket, like he's my older brother, but you're

1073
00:45:43,440 --> 00:45:48,759
Speaker 5: younger actually. And I also love that I'm literally completely

1074
00:45:48,880 --> 00:45:51,520
Speaker 5: fully myself because I feel like I'm a bit of

1075
00:45:51,600 --> 00:45:55,040
Speaker 5: a crazy weird unit and I feel like sometimes it's

1076
00:45:55,080 --> 00:45:56,520
Speaker 5: just people that you don't feel like you can like

1077
00:45:56,640 --> 00:45:59,600
Speaker 5: fully one yourself around, and with him, I'm like, you

1078
00:45:59,640 --> 00:46:01,680
Speaker 5: don't even have to question it nothing, and like he

1079
00:46:01,840 --> 00:46:02,920
Speaker 5: just brings it out of me more.

1080
00:46:02,920 --> 00:46:04,799
Speaker 3: And I love that because I feel like it tastes

1081
00:46:04,880 --> 00:46:07,319
Speaker 3: like certain people. I'm feeling we're giving you something like.

1082
00:46:07,560 --> 00:46:14,399
Speaker 1: That's so nice though, that's a testaments to who you are.

1083
00:46:15,160 --> 00:46:18,359
Speaker 1: That's a really good thing to be someone's home.

1084
00:46:18,520 --> 00:46:22,160
Speaker 4: Should we see I'll go to call her, I'll and

1085
00:46:22,239 --> 00:46:24,040
Speaker 4: have to call like six times before she picks out.

1086
00:46:24,320 --> 00:46:25,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm bad on my phone. It's always on D

1087
00:46:25,960 --> 00:46:28,520
Speaker 2: and D. Blake also knows may produce. I'd never reply.

1088
00:46:29,160 --> 00:46:31,240
Speaker 1: Well, thanks so much for coming on the episode, guys,

1089
00:46:31,280 --> 00:46:33,680
Speaker 1: Thanks for having I'm gonna ask them to some tea

1090
00:46:33,719 --> 00:46:34,000
Speaker 1: off air.

1091
00:46:34,120 --> 00:46:36,160
Speaker 2: Sorry you guys can't here, but thanks for coming on,

1092
00:46:36,440 --> 00:46:38,719
Speaker 2: Thanks for having me, and I'll see you guys next week.

1093
00:46:39,000 --> 00:46:40,080
Speaker 2: Peace out, russ S Grounce