WEBVTT - Dark Horse Is Katy Perry's BEST SONG! Does Adelaide Agree? 0:00:00.480 --> 0:00:12.479 We got Getty morning every day, Alida, Yes, and it's 0:00:12.520 --> 0:00:14.000 a little fierce battle this week. 0:00:14.560 --> 0:00:18.000 So the topic is this Dark Horse by Katie Perry 0:00:18.280 --> 0:00:20.520 is the greatest Katie Perry song of all time. 0:00:20.560 --> 0:00:22.400 I'm for you against and you seem to sit okay 0:00:22.400 --> 0:00:22.599 with this? 0:00:22.800 --> 0:00:24.040 I sit very well with this. 0:00:24.320 --> 0:00:25.040 That's a good Joe. 0:00:25.400 --> 0:00:29.080 I think a lot of us were really really refreshed 0:00:29.160 --> 0:00:32.280 and energized when we learn who the hell Juicy j was. 0:00:32.920 --> 0:00:33.520 It's so true. 0:00:34.000 --> 0:00:36.360 Also, have Katie Perry's listening this morning. Feel free to 0:00:36.400 --> 0:00:37.480 wait in for your songs. 0:00:37.520 --> 0:00:40.600 But that is so true. The lines are open as 0:00:40.640 --> 0:00:43.239 of now. Go for Katie third, three, four day. Do 0:00:43.240 --> 0:00:43.960 you want me to go first? 0:00:44.360 --> 0:00:44.600 Please? 0:00:44.600 --> 0:00:49.519 Okay, here we go, Here we go. I'm up Catherine Perry. 0:00:49.840 --> 0:00:53.519 So many epic songs, one that captured the heart and 0:00:53.640 --> 0:00:56.920 soul of the world. Because we learned about a beautiful 0:00:56.960 --> 0:00:59.840 artist by the name of Juicy j known for his 0:01:00.040 --> 0:01:04.720 trunk style characterized by heavy breathing, stomping sound effects. Juicy 0:01:04.880 --> 0:01:07.959 j Ah, You're a prince of a man, and Juicy 0:01:08.040 --> 0:01:10.399 j was the one who brought this man's work to 0:01:10.440 --> 0:01:16.680 our attention. Your heart help Jeff. And so they were like, Oh, 0:01:16.720 --> 0:01:20.320 who is this Jeffrey Dharma character? Finda sounds nice. Let's 0:01:20.440 --> 0:01:22.480 just give him a bit of a gurgle. Oh, here 0:01:22.520 --> 0:01:29.480 he is Milwaukee Monster, American serial killer dismembering seventeen people. 0:01:29.959 --> 0:01:38.200 Oh my god, why Jeffrey your six? Oh yeah, I 0:01:38.240 --> 0:01:41.959 get it, eat your heart out? Yeah, I understand. Great 0:01:42.000 --> 0:01:46.560 song though, Sorry, Joe's got a little bit side by 0:01:46.600 --> 0:01:49.080 the Milwaukee Monster. But it's a good song. I think 0:01:49.120 --> 0:01:50.000 it's a great song. 0:01:50.480 --> 0:01:53.280 Honestly, get your on the prize, mate. 0:01:53.440 --> 0:01:56.680 I'm sorry, but boy, oh boy, do yourself a favor 0:01:56.840 --> 0:01:59.840 and do not google Jeffrey Darmer. 0:02:00.000 --> 0:02:02.600 Okay, I'm going to dig a little deeper into the 0:02:02.640 --> 0:02:05.280 subject matter of the debate this weekend. That is Katie 0:02:05.320 --> 0:02:12.040 Perry's songs. Let me just drill down on the dark 0:02:12.120 --> 0:02:17.080 Horse rap. Shall I call her Karma? 0:02:17.880 --> 0:02:20.680 She eat You're Hot like Jeffrey drama. 0:02:22.240 --> 0:02:25.600 So incorporating a serial killer with cannibalistic tendencies into a catchy, 0:02:25.639 --> 0:02:29.079 upbeat pop song is very counterintuitive. Dark Horse slaps, But 0:02:29.200 --> 0:02:32.200 Catherine Elizabeth Hudson has had much bigger bangers with much 0:02:32.240 --> 0:02:34.720 more impressive lyrics. Remember that time she sung about the 0:02:34.720 --> 0:02:36.960 biggest Friday Night of her life where she got blackout drunk, 0:02:37.000 --> 0:02:42.720 and then try explaining those lyrics to a five year old? 0:02:42.880 --> 0:02:44.440 And what about the time she sung about being a 0:02:44.480 --> 0:02:45.640 cold bag in a storm? 0:02:45.840 --> 0:02:50.200 Do you ever feel like a plastic bell sifting through 0:02:50.280 --> 0:02:54.360 the winding starting? Yeah, lyrical genius? 0:02:54.560 --> 0:02:59.560 What about this banger I got, the the tune that 0:02:59.600 --> 0:03:02.200 made people dump it Toxi Partners and buy a tiger? 0:03:02.360 --> 0:03:03.960 And where would you be without the song that launched 0:03:03.960 --> 0:03:09.400 a thousand Master Chef contestants' careers? How very dare you 0:03:09.400 --> 0:03:12.000 try to imagine a world without Julie Goodwin, Callum han 0:03:12.000 --> 0:03:14.359 and poland yell the real name Sharon by the way, 0:03:14.440 --> 0:03:17.919 sun fact in some reason ever put Katie in a corner. 0:03:17.960 --> 0:03:20.960 She's an AFL Grand Final singing goddess married to Orlando, 0:03:21.000 --> 0:03:25.480 and she's magnificently unhinged and we love her suck. 0:03:30.440 --> 0:03:35.600 Okay, Yeah, it's gotta be tough for me from here. 0:03:35.720 --> 0:03:38.680 Off the back of that, Jason, Okay, you just finished 0:03:38.760 --> 0:03:39.320 so strong. 0:03:42.200 --> 0:03:46.040 I love that audio from Katie. 0:03:46.280 --> 0:03:52.920 Michelle take us through who won the debate? In your eyes? Okay? 0:03:53.000 --> 0:03:54.080 What was it? What was it? 0:03:54.160 --> 0:03:54.360 Was it? 0:03:54.360 --> 0:03:58.920 The way that she even even I felt defeated as 0:03:58.920 --> 0:04:00.760 soon as I've done it, so that's okay. 0:04:01.240 --> 0:04:04.480 I don't be down on yourself, Michelle, thank you. So 0:04:04.560 --> 0:04:05.040 she has. 0:04:04.920 --> 0:04:07.040 Got so many good songs. That's very, very true. It's 0:04:07.120 --> 0:04:12.240 Vicky from Goodwa Good morning Vicky, Good morning morning Vicky. 0:04:12.920 --> 0:04:21.200 Sorry though, do you know what Eve? 0:04:21.240 --> 0:04:24.000 And I can very much agree with you. Jody had 0:04:24.040 --> 0:04:25.440 a bit of debate this week, also. 0:04:25.320 --> 0:04:26.720 Don't apologize, Vicky. 0:04:27.160 --> 0:04:30.280 The anything left for Vicky to save him was it's 0:04:30.320 --> 0:04:30.960 not you, it's me. 0:04:31.160 --> 0:04:33.159 Yeah, okay, do you know what? It is? Best? The three? 0:04:33.240 --> 0:04:34.880 But can I at least try and make it too one? 0:04:34.880 --> 0:04:37.240 Can we go to Taylor from Roseworthy? Taylor, who are 0:04:37.240 --> 0:04:42.080 you voting for this week's three? Zip yep? Awesome? Thank you? 0:04:44.560 --> 0:04:46.560 That really sort of splatted in my face. 0:04:46.680 --> 0:04:48.640 Feeling really bad for you. But then I think his 0:04:48.760 --> 0:04:51.040 songs a song, song song, and I go nutscrew him? 0:04:51.120 --> 0:04:54.360 Oh that is true. Congrats Joe's It's now five to 0:04:54.400 --> 0:04:56.720 one in the debates, and it would seem that there 0:04:56.720 --> 0:04:59.960 are better Katie Perry songs and dark Horse Yeah, well. 0:05:00.040 --> 0:05:01.599 And she's got a Monty off them and I can't 0:05:01.600 --> 0:05:03.240 wait to hear the matter concerts is mate? 0:05:03.480 --> 0:05:05.000 Thank you so much for everyone who voted. You got 0:05:05.000 --> 0:05:07.039 yourself on air. You're now on standby this Frey winter 0:05:07.080 --> 0:05:09.800 weekend Escape. We will draw that on Friday, and let's 0:05:09.880 --> 0:05:12.560 leave you with this and maybe you will never like 0:05:12.640 --> 0:05:13.400 dark Horse again. 0:05:14.120 --> 0:05:15.520 I need to know, I need to know now. I 0:05:15.520 --> 0:05:16.920 need to know. I need to know. 0:05:17.080 --> 0:05:19.560 I need to know what news today to know. 0:05:19.600 --> 0:05:21.520 This is what you need to know. 0:05:21.960 --> 0:05:24.760 What you need to know with Jody. And as weather 0:05:24.880 --> 0:05:28.520 outside is weather, it's very weathery. 0:05:29.120 --> 0:05:32.760 When you said before hate weather chat next, everyone must 0:05:32.760 --> 0:05:33.159 have been. 0:05:33.040 --> 0:05:34.800 Like, whoa stick around for that joke? 0:05:35.040 --> 0:05:35.440 We got me. 0:05:36.960 --> 0:05:38.960 Nowhere because that's what people go to when they've got 0:05:39.040 --> 0:05:39.960 nothing else to say. 0:05:40.120 --> 0:05:41.119 You talk about the weather. 0:05:41.320 --> 0:05:43.000 Shut up, they're about to talk about the weather. 0:05:44.760 --> 0:05:47.960 Sivie weather swept across our beautiful state last night, causing 0:05:48.000 --> 0:05:51.280 some significant traffic disruptions and safety concerns as well. There 0:05:51.320 --> 0:05:53.200 was a delay of about fifty five minutes on the 0:05:53.240 --> 0:05:57.960 Southern Expressway between Lonsdale and Seaford. The salt Fleet Street 0:05:58.200 --> 0:06:00.400 Bridge at Portland in London was closed for this second 0:06:00.440 --> 0:06:02.679 time in a month due to flooding. How would Fitzer 0:06:02.720 --> 0:06:03.320 get to his house? 0:06:03.320 --> 0:06:06.080 That's my question. Oh my gosh, that's the gateway to fits. 0:06:05.920 --> 0:06:08.039 His manch yould probably fly. That man can do anything. 0:06:08.160 --> 0:06:09.320 Yeah, that's true. 0:06:09.640 --> 0:06:11.800 And in the Adelaide Hills there was morning hail, there 0:06:11.800 --> 0:06:14.040 was heavy rain, there were icy roads near Mount Barker, 0:06:14.800 --> 0:06:17.440 so very hazardous at driving conditions as well, and then 0:06:17.440 --> 0:06:19.240 there was a three car crash near the His and 0:06:19.240 --> 0:06:20.960 Tunnels at around six thirty. 0:06:21.040 --> 0:06:23.800 Oh goodness, gracious, it's all happening. You've got any updates 0:06:23.800 --> 0:06:26.480 as well in your area, please get involved thirteen twenty 0:06:26.480 --> 0:06:28.600 four ten gifts cool, send us a text as well. 0:06:28.800 --> 0:06:31.400 Fall double nine nine one nine. Let's get through this 0:06:31.480 --> 0:06:35.040 crazy weather together. Yes, so, particularly if there's any stoppages 0:06:35.240 --> 0:06:37.560 or delays on your road, let us know so we 0:06:37.560 --> 0:06:38.560 can spread the good words. 0:06:38.640 --> 0:06:39.520 Yeah. Absolutely. 0:06:40.160 --> 0:06:42.720 So the good news is the forecast for the rest 0:06:42.720 --> 0:06:46.479 of today. There's still a high chance of showers and 0:06:46.600 --> 0:06:50.360 damaging winds, but it'll ease by this afternoon, which is good. 0:06:50.360 --> 0:06:51.799 And then the rest of the week looks okay. 0:06:52.000 --> 0:06:55.640 Cloud in fifteen sixteen, Friday fifteen and fifteen. 0:06:55.279 --> 0:06:55.880 For the weekend. 0:06:56.080 --> 0:06:58.120 There you go, it's all right, it's not great, but 0:06:58.120 --> 0:06:59.240 it's the middle of winter, so. 0:06:59.360 --> 0:07:01.120 You know, you feel like as well, it wasn't that 0:07:01.120 --> 0:07:02.760 long ago. We We're like, wow, it was a rain 0:07:02.839 --> 0:07:05.280 for so long. It's so dry in the city, and 0:07:05.279 --> 0:07:08.680 that all of a sudden they went, Okay, we'll make 0:07:08.760 --> 0:07:10.320 up for it. We'll make up for yeah. 0:07:10.400 --> 0:07:11.120 Yeah. 0:07:11.200 --> 0:07:14.000 And also I just have to say, I'm just lying 0:07:14.040 --> 0:07:16.560 in bed last night, and as lovely as the rain 0:07:16.680 --> 0:07:17.680 is hazy on your. 0:07:17.640 --> 0:07:21.560 Roof, I just I thought, I hope that there's a Code. 0:07:21.360 --> 0:07:24.480 Blue tonight with these heavy showers, because obviously a lot 0:07:24.480 --> 0:07:27.200 of people sleep rough. But Nat drove into work this 0:07:27.280 --> 0:07:29.520 morning and we're bangs back in the middle of the 0:07:29.560 --> 0:07:31.880 city at ho Much Square here, and I saw two 0:07:31.960 --> 0:07:33.920 homeless people and I thought, oh, my goodness, you guys 0:07:33.920 --> 0:07:34.800 slept in that last night. 0:07:34.880 --> 0:07:35.800 That's tough, isn't it. 0:07:35.800 --> 0:07:38.880 It's so spare a thought for those people who aren't 0:07:38.920 --> 0:07:40.080 fortunate enough to have a home. 0:07:40.360 --> 0:07:43.560 Spot on fifteen degrees across Adelaide, say, probably feels like 0:07:43.560 --> 0:07:46.280 seven eight degrees thirteen and twenty four to ten. Matthews 0:07:46.280 --> 0:07:49.240 caught through. Hey Matthew, can you please share your feelings 0:07:49.280 --> 0:07:51.240 about the whole This is what it is, but what 0:07:51.280 --> 0:07:54.040 it feels like? Are you four or against that little philosophy. 0:07:55.120 --> 0:07:56.840 I am absolutely against it. 0:07:57.760 --> 0:08:00.640 Who haven't made that feels like weather? 0:08:00.880 --> 0:08:01.080 Oh? 0:08:01.200 --> 0:08:03.760 Mate, that's a terrible belly. 0:08:03.800 --> 0:08:05.800 Does it upset you so much? Matthew, I feel like 0:08:05.840 --> 0:08:06.600 you really triggered. 0:08:08.320 --> 0:08:10.240 I am. I always look at the weather and then 0:08:10.320 --> 0:08:13.040 see that feels like it just grinds my. 0:08:13.040 --> 0:08:17.400 Gears on team Matt with this one. 0:08:17.480 --> 0:08:19.840 Yeah, because you're optimistic when you see a temperature of 0:08:19.880 --> 0:08:22.040 around fifteen to sixteen, and then you see the feels 0:08:22.120 --> 0:08:23.000 like eight or nine. 0:08:23.040 --> 0:08:24.160 You go, well, thanks for that. 0:08:24.360 --> 0:08:26.680 Just give it to me straight, sugarcreat it all right. 0:08:26.720 --> 0:08:26.960 Yeah. 0:08:27.040 --> 0:08:27.240 Yeah. 0:08:27.240 --> 0:08:28.880 It's like when you walk into a party and you 0:08:28.880 --> 0:08:29.920 think this is going to be a bit of fun 0:08:29.960 --> 0:08:31.360 and then they go, no, it's our goal free and. 0:08:31.280 --> 0:08:34.840 You go, oh, god, appreciate the gore mat lines are 0:08:34.840 --> 0:08:39.280 always open. Thirty and twenty fourteen. Jode's the correct age 0:08:39.320 --> 0:08:42.560 to get married? Oh, I mean, love knows no rules, 0:08:42.679 --> 0:08:45.480 It's true. Yeah, sometimes it's timing is poor. Yeah, and 0:08:45.559 --> 0:08:48.960 who can absolutely schedule these things? Do you know what 0:08:48.960 --> 0:08:49.200 I mean? 0:08:49.559 --> 0:08:50.640 You can't tell love what to do. 0:08:50.760 --> 0:08:52.840 They have done a study, though, and it's found that 0:08:52.880 --> 0:08:55.600 men who marry after I said, after the age of 0:08:55.640 --> 0:08:58.640 twenty five tend to live longer than those who marry younger. 0:08:59.240 --> 0:09:01.240 Is this because you always need to sew some motes? 0:09:01.480 --> 0:09:04.200 I'm not really sure. Researchers believe that out of maturity, 0:09:04.280 --> 0:09:07.240 emotional stability, and better financial footing later in life may 0:09:07.240 --> 0:09:11.280 contribute to improve longevity in relationship satisfaction. Men who marry 0:09:11.280 --> 0:09:14.000 in their late twenties or early thirties are more likely 0:09:14.080 --> 0:09:17.480 to enter healthier, more stable marriages. According to the data, 0:09:17.679 --> 0:09:22.640 early marriages, while not inherently harmful, showed more signs of stress, conflict, 0:09:22.679 --> 0:09:23.640 and instability. 0:09:23.800 --> 0:09:26.520 Because it's that passion, isn't It's that passion of youth 0:09:27.240 --> 0:09:29.800 need get to get with someone, and it just explodes, 0:09:29.800 --> 0:09:30.600 and sometimes. 0:09:30.240 --> 0:09:33.600 There's fireworks, and sometimes the fireworks they laugh. 0:09:33.960 --> 0:09:36.120 Sometimes that's the problem is all out. 0:09:36.840 --> 0:09:38.800 You said something about sewing some oats nice and early. 0:09:39.160 --> 0:09:41.160 I think for a lot of guys as well. And 0:09:41.200 --> 0:09:43.520 how do I say this without sounding just a little 0:09:43.520 --> 0:09:44.400 bit peculiarly. 0:09:44.480 --> 0:09:45.400 I don't think you can. 0:09:45.720 --> 0:09:48.840 I think a lot of boks need to get things 0:09:48.880 --> 0:09:50.280 out of their systems when they're young. 0:09:50.320 --> 0:09:52.240 Why do you just say blokes though some women like 0:09:52.280 --> 0:09:52.720 to do that. 0:09:53.360 --> 0:09:55.439 And some women as well, And then what would happen. 0:09:55.559 --> 0:09:57.640 Is for a lot of blokes. Once they get that 0:09:57.679 --> 0:09:59.160 out of the system, somethin For a lot of them, 0:09:59.200 --> 0:10:01.679 you realize, well, it's not that fulfilling anyway. No, But 0:10:01.760 --> 0:10:04.040 then the guys that don't do that, and maybe they 0:10:04.120 --> 0:10:06.480 got shacked up nice and early, always have that in 0:10:06.520 --> 0:10:08.760 the back of their mind. And you can't explain to 0:10:08.760 --> 0:10:10.600 some of those blokes that, hey, those things that you 0:10:10.679 --> 0:10:14.000 wanted to do, you're probably going to be unfulfilled anyway. Yeah, right, 0:10:14.080 --> 0:10:15.160 until it actually happens. 0:10:15.320 --> 0:10:17.960 My god, this is the wisdom of Uncle Andrew, isn't it beautiful? 0:10:18.080 --> 0:10:19.440 I why I say something intelligent here? 0:10:19.640 --> 0:10:20.000 Vaguely? 0:10:20.120 --> 0:10:21.720 What's going on? Hey, guys, what happened? I just blacked 0:10:21.720 --> 0:10:23.040 out for two minutes? Where are we? 0:10:24.240 --> 0:10:26.600 Can we resume? Can we resume business as usual? 0:10:26.640 --> 0:10:26.880 Please? 0:10:26.880 --> 0:10:27.560 Fuddy footy? 0:10:27.760 --> 0:10:30.439 The other thing I will say as well, is it guys? Am? 0:10:30.480 --> 0:10:30.760 I right? 0:10:30.800 --> 0:10:35.640 Where itiots? We're absolute idiots. Early twenties, mid twenties come on, 0:10:36.160 --> 0:10:40.200 Like when I was twenty five, I was such a child. Yeah, 0:10:40.280 --> 0:10:42.480 I don't think I started to really understand what was 0:10:42.520 --> 0:10:46.719 going on until forty about forty two, and I'm forty now, 0:10:47.240 --> 0:10:49.560 so in two years time, I'll start to work it 0:10:49.559 --> 0:10:52.040 out dead set, early thirties, mid thirties, you start to 0:10:52.080 --> 0:10:53.000 work out what's going on. 0:10:53.000 --> 0:10:57.240 I reckon Pasily, what's after twenty five? Is right? 0:10:57.280 --> 0:10:59.600 All the good things happen, But when is the ideal 0:10:59.679 --> 0:11:01.320 time do you think to get married? 0:11:01.720 --> 0:11:04.520 Well, I mean, if you had to schedule it out, 0:11:04.520 --> 0:11:09.320 i'd say early thirties. Yeah, right, because, yeah, the difference 0:11:09.320 --> 0:11:12.120 between early twenties and early thirties, it feels like decades 0:11:12.120 --> 0:11:13.880 and decades, not just ten years. You know what I mean? 0:11:14.000 --> 0:11:17.120 In terms of knowledge twenty one year old boys to 0:11:17.200 --> 0:11:20.560 twenty five, Yeah, I think there's something that sort of 0:11:20.600 --> 0:11:24.320 prioritizes laugh, knowledge and other things, if you know what 0:11:24.360 --> 0:11:25.959 I mean. Joe, Yeah, I know. 0:11:25.920 --> 0:11:27.640 I understand exactly what he's saying. What do you make 0:11:27.679 --> 0:11:29.760 of twenty old twenty one year old women who make 0:11:29.800 --> 0:11:31.560 the decision to get married. What do you think about that? 0:11:31.760 --> 0:11:32.880 Is that distance to flourish? 0:11:33.040 --> 0:11:35.320 Well, I'm not really sure. It depends on your partner. 0:11:35.679 --> 0:11:37.840 But once again, and I know people. I know people 0:11:37.840 --> 0:11:41.400 who got married nice and early and it's fantastic, beautiful relations. 0:11:41.520 --> 0:11:43.800 And equally there's people that get married in their thirty 0:11:43.800 --> 0:11:46.400 who are divorced by forty two, So who's to say? 0:11:46.520 --> 0:11:49.120 Whatever it was for you, love is love God, just 0:11:49.200 --> 0:11:49.719 roll with it. 0:11:49.880 --> 0:11:51.600 Yeah, but you know how I'm talking to, don't you 0:11:51.760 --> 0:11:54.160 wink wink? That's right, you dropping on the road down 0:11:54.200 --> 0:12:01.719 Now you're dirty birds easy, forty live blessed. Didn't think 0:12:01.720 --> 0:12:03.319 i'd find myself in the situation where I'm giving you 0:12:03.360 --> 0:12:04.679 some sort of laugh advice. But here we go. 0:12:04.880 --> 0:12:06.880 I didn't see you coming in, To be honest, no 0:12:06.920 --> 0:12:07.560 one really did. 0:12:07.679 --> 0:12:09.800 Okay, as we lead up to the big night on Thursday, 0:12:09.880 --> 0:12:11.480 each and every day, I got two little bits of 0:12:11.600 --> 0:12:15.440 laugh advice for you, the wisdom that comes with forty. Okay, 0:12:15.600 --> 0:12:20.240 first bit, when reheating pizza, don't put the pizza box 0:12:20.280 --> 0:12:23.880 in the oven because it will catch a light. Unfortunately 0:12:23.920 --> 0:12:27.679 I did that first hand. Okay, not that long ago, all. 0:12:27.520 --> 0:12:30.280 The things you've learnt in your life. Don't put a 0:12:30.320 --> 0:12:32.120 cardboard pizza box in the oven. 0:12:32.160 --> 0:12:34.480 It'll catch a light. Guys, well done, it will catch 0:12:34.800 --> 0:12:37.800 a light. All right, I'll save you from putting yourself 0:12:37.800 --> 0:12:40.000 in that really potentially disastrous situation. 0:12:40.080 --> 0:12:42.080 How many twenty year old blots out there going, oh 0:12:42.200 --> 0:12:43.400 my god, thank God. 0:12:43.280 --> 0:12:45.720 For haze, Oh jeez, worrying up for dinner tonight. Now 0:12:46.480 --> 0:12:48.319 you might have to whack it in the microwave. I've 0:12:48.320 --> 0:12:50.040 got another one for you. Maybe it's a bit more serious. 0:12:50.400 --> 0:12:52.440 Stop giving time and attention to people you don't like. 0:12:52.960 --> 0:12:55.640 Do you know what I've learned that in the last 0:12:55.920 --> 0:12:59.520 year or so, I reckon, you ignore You don't pay 0:12:59.600 --> 0:13:01.600 enough for two to the people that you do like 0:13:02.000 --> 0:13:04.560 and that they like you because you're too busy trying 0:13:04.600 --> 0:13:07.640 to make other people like you, and you give time 0:13:07.720 --> 0:13:11.000 and appreciation to the people who don't like you. Yeah, 0:13:11.040 --> 0:13:13.680 I know, So just move on because what you do 0:13:13.840 --> 0:13:16.400 learn is that there's a bunch of people that don't 0:13:16.480 --> 0:13:18.600 like you, whether you like it or not. The most 0:13:18.640 --> 0:13:23.760 popular people on earth still have haters. I worry about 0:13:23.760 --> 0:13:25.760 the people that can't, that are not ever going to 0:13:25.880 --> 0:13:26.040 like you. 0:13:26.160 --> 0:13:28.480 It's a lot of jealousy though, too, I think, don't 0:13:28.520 --> 0:13:30.880 you reckon? I think if people actively don't like you, 0:13:30.920 --> 0:13:31.240 there's a. 0:13:31.160 --> 0:13:34.000 Fear amount of jealousy involved. Okay, because I can't imagine 0:13:34.000 --> 0:13:35.360 any idea and. 0:13:35.280 --> 0:13:37.760 You're situpactual he DAGs through. What are they jealous of? 0:13:38.200 --> 0:13:41.360 Ask you? Oh? Having a bit of a. 0:13:42.840 --> 0:13:44.240 No, no, but do you know what I mean? So 0:13:44.280 --> 0:13:46.760 when you think of the top people on the planet, 0:13:47.440 --> 0:13:50.600 they've still Gottron James Lebron James has got so many 0:13:50.640 --> 0:13:53.360 haters and for whatever reason, and it's not just me, 0:13:53.440 --> 0:13:56.600 we're wired to really try and convert the people that 0:13:56.640 --> 0:13:59.679 don't like us instead of just keeping on giving channeling 0:13:59.679 --> 0:14:01.520 that love the people you do have a connection with, 0:14:01.559 --> 0:14:02.959 because when it's all said and done, there will be 0:14:03.000 --> 0:14:05.240 a time where you go, why did I waste so 0:14:05.320 --> 0:14:08.080 much time on those absolute knobs who don't like me 0:14:08.160 --> 0:14:10.080 and never want to like me? You can't flick it? 0:14:10.280 --> 0:14:13.319 Yeah, absolutely, And we're here for such a finite time 0:14:13.320 --> 0:14:15.720 on the planet. God stop, don't stress. I agree. 0:14:15.800 --> 0:14:17.640 This is a really big one that I think you 0:14:17.760 --> 0:14:20.040 learn sort of a little bit later in life. Oh 0:14:20.080 --> 0:14:22.680 my god, stop giving energy to people who don't deserve it. 0:14:22.840 --> 0:14:27.160 Yes, there we Yes, Joe's Oh my gosh. 0:14:26.720 --> 0:14:28.520 So deep and I don't know what to do now. 0:14:28.720 --> 0:14:30.560 How do you have so much wisdom when you're fortieth 0:14:30.560 --> 0:14:31.520 is so far away? 0:14:33.080 --> 0:14:33.960 Spoil kids. 0:14:34.360 --> 0:14:36.960 It's a really fine line, isn't it, in between giving 0:14:36.960 --> 0:14:39.640 them what they want and making them happy, but also 0:14:40.040 --> 0:14:42.040 being a little bit disciplined and being like, you can't 0:14:42.080 --> 0:14:42.560 have everything. 0:14:43.440 --> 0:14:48.000 I mean, yes, dad, no joke, particularly with my daughter. Yeah, 0:14:48.160 --> 0:14:52.000 she rules the house. Harsh from my son, absolute sucker 0:14:52.040 --> 0:14:52.480 for my daughter. 0:14:52.600 --> 0:14:55.160 Yeah, I know. And little girls do that to their dads. 0:14:55.640 --> 0:14:58.960 Their dad's fingers are like this. Little girls have little 0:14:59.000 --> 0:15:02.320 pinky fingers, more fingers, Yeah, and you dad's just wrapped 0:15:02.320 --> 0:15:03.320 around them like that. 0:15:03.400 --> 0:15:06.080 How I'm six foot two completely wrapped around that tiny 0:15:06.120 --> 0:15:07.800 little finger. Does it even work physically? 0:15:07.800 --> 0:15:09.760 It doesn't seem possible, and yet here we are. 0:15:10.280 --> 0:15:13.240 So we're bringing this up because Ossie DJ Fisher real 0:15:13.320 --> 0:15:16.320 name Paul Fisher has given his one year old daughter 0:15:16.480 --> 0:15:17.840 a designer. 0:15:17.360 --> 0:15:19.280 Bag for her birthday. I'm not even joking. 0:15:20.000 --> 0:15:23.240 He has given her a sixteen hundred dollar Eve Saint 0:15:23.320 --> 0:15:26.840 Laurent handbag, isn't it. I'm sorry, that's ridiculous, all. 0:15:26.680 --> 0:15:29.080 Fun of game until she starts carried in with text. 0:15:30.680 --> 0:15:34.880 I know, finger painting on it doesn't. That just seem obscene? 0:15:34.920 --> 0:15:38.160 But as parents, we're all walking that fine line of 0:15:38.640 --> 0:15:41.400 just how do you keep your kids happy but also 0:15:41.480 --> 0:15:44.000 not spoiled. There are seven signs, and I've taken the 0:15:44.000 --> 0:15:46.800 liberty of looking them up on Fisher's behalf to see 0:15:46.880 --> 0:15:48.840 if you're spoiling your child. 0:15:48.640 --> 0:15:50.560 Or if you have a spoilt brat for a kid. 0:15:50.800 --> 0:15:53.040 Ready for This is going to be confronting, isn't it. 0:15:53.120 --> 0:15:57.000 Let's worst, let's work backwards. They refuse to complete even 0:15:57.040 --> 0:15:59.360 simple tasks until you beg or bribe them. 0:15:59.400 --> 0:16:01.760 Oh, this is kids, I'm kids. 0:16:02.920 --> 0:16:06.680 This is classic Gregotti. This is hey, go and have 0:16:06.760 --> 0:16:09.960 a shower, or you don't get a chocolate, or we'll. 0:16:09.800 --> 0:16:12.440 Give you a blue note? Was a blue note ten dollars? 0:16:12.560 --> 0:16:15.160 Oh wow, yeah, go and have a shower. And then 0:16:15.720 --> 0:16:17.760 I'm not even joking. A minute half later it's like, 0:16:18.120 --> 0:16:19.640 if you're going to have a shower and get your chocolate? 0:16:19.720 --> 0:16:21.920 Yeah, Like, come on, I'll give you a peaknote. And 0:16:21.920 --> 0:16:23.440 then the response is your kidnap you? 0:16:23.640 --> 0:16:23.760 Right? 0:16:23.760 --> 0:16:24.240 A blue note? 0:16:25.840 --> 0:16:26.400 Number six. 0:16:26.640 --> 0:16:28.720 They don't give up until they get what they want. 0:16:28.720 --> 0:16:31.560 Oh the nagging, The nagging that gets you, doesn't it? 0:16:31.760 --> 0:16:35.360 Number five? They sore losers, so when a sporting sense, 0:16:35.520 --> 0:16:37.320 if they lose, then they pick up their bat and. 0:16:37.360 --> 0:16:39.600 Ball and go home. Henry saw loser. 0:16:40.240 --> 0:16:41.720 He's good now, it's good now. I think it was 0:16:41.760 --> 0:16:43.640 early on where we sort of had to really drill 0:16:43.640 --> 0:16:45.400 into him where it was almost like if he wasn't 0:16:45.440 --> 0:16:47.520 good at something instantly didn't want to do it, so 0:16:47.680 --> 0:16:50.000 to really sort of knuckle in the whole perseverance thing. 0:16:50.200 --> 0:16:50.600 Yeah. 0:16:50.680 --> 0:16:53.640 Yeah, so that's like my daughter Harper doesn't want to 0:16:53.640 --> 0:16:56.080 do acro on a Saturday dance because she. 0:16:56.120 --> 0:16:57.040 Falls on her head. 0:16:57.240 --> 0:16:58.880 Yeah. 0:16:59.040 --> 0:17:05.679 Number number four. They demand things asap. I want it 0:17:05.720 --> 0:17:07.760 and I want it now. Number three. They think the 0:17:07.800 --> 0:17:09.840 world revolves around them. I know it as adults like that. 0:17:11.160 --> 0:17:12.919 It's their world. We're just living in it. 0:17:13.000 --> 0:17:14.480 Some people grow out of it, some people don't. 0:17:14.520 --> 0:17:15.200 Yeah. Number two. 0:17:15.240 --> 0:17:17.800 Then never satisfied with what they have, they always want more, 0:17:17.840 --> 0:17:19.480 doesn't matter. They could have all the toys in the world, 0:17:19.480 --> 0:17:20.280 Andrew Hayes, but. 0:17:20.240 --> 0:17:25.879 They still want more. Or he now house houses on roadblocks. 0:17:26.359 --> 0:17:26.920 Oh my god. 0:17:27.160 --> 0:17:29.360 Yeah, we go through a robox phase as well. Yeah yeah, 0:17:29.359 --> 0:17:30.960 Big Lego Fast two was still going through that. But 0:17:31.040 --> 0:17:33.120