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Speaker 1: Apodjay Production. Welcome to the She Rises Podcast. I'm Ashy

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Speaker 1: and I'm Tiana.

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Speaker 2: This podcast is about female empowerment and encouraging you to

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Speaker 2: be your biggest, boldest, and most authentic version of yourself.

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Speaker 1: We help you shed the shame, grow to new level.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna laugh, cry, and talk about the topics everyone

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Speaker 1: else is too afraid to talk about.

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Speaker 2: Get ready for your next level of self. Welcome back

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Speaker 2: to another episode off She Rises Ashly and Tiana. Today's

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Speaker 2: episode is all about surgeries that we're going to get.

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Speaker 1: We're both getting surgery.

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Speaker 3: We are Bob bub Bu in twenty twenty six.

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Speaker 2: Yes, this is something we kind of haven't really spoken

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Speaker 2: about on the podcast or have not really debated talking about,

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Speaker 2: but just.

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Speaker 1: You know a little bit.

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Speaker 2: There's obviously a lot of pushback when it comes to

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Speaker 2: these sorts of things, but we're both super transparent and

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Speaker 2: want to be transparent about the journeys that we're going

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Speaker 2: to be going on and we'll probably take you along

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Speaker 2: for the ride too.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, and having no shame around the surgeries that

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Speaker 1: we're getting. But before we get started, we've got to

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Speaker 1: share the week we stay. What is your share of

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Speaker 1: the week.

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Speaker 2: My share of the week is actually just it's almost

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Speaker 2: like a horoscope thing when they read it to you,

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Speaker 2: but it's based on the day. So it's from an

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Speaker 2: account called moon Omens. You show me this account, it's

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Speaker 2: both favorite account.

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Speaker 3: I really really like them.

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Speaker 2: And it says there will come a day where everything

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Speaker 2: starts to make sense, where all of the details, all

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Speaker 2: of the delays and the disappointments will no longer feel

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Speaker 2: like punishment. They'll feel like protection, like the universe was

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Speaker 2: holding something back until you were truly ready to receive it,

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Speaker 2: until you were steady enough to hold it with both hands.

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Speaker 2: And that day will come. But in the meantime, be

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Speaker 2: proud of the version of yourself who keeps going, who

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Speaker 2: keeps believing, and who chooses hope even before the evidence arrives.

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Speaker 1: Wow, I love that so beautiful that it's not really beautiful.

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Speaker 2: I feel like sometimes we just need a reminder that

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Speaker 2: we're moving in the right direction. Yes, And I think

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Speaker 2: we can be so hard on ourselves, so sometimes we

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Speaker 2: do need little reminders like that.

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Speaker 1: Social media has the light and dark side. But the

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Speaker 1: light side of it is sometimes you just see something

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Speaker 1: or you read something like, for example, last night is

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Speaker 1: just just wasn't in the mood. To be completely honest,

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Speaker 1: it sounds awful. And then I was on my phone,

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Speaker 1: which distraction. But the thing that popped up was like,

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Speaker 1: don't miss the ten minutes before they go to sleep.

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Speaker 1: It's not dragging it out, it's connection time. And it

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Speaker 1: went into this whole thing about that's when like all

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Speaker 1: their downloads from the day comes up, anything that they're

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Speaker 1: worried about their slowing down, so that it's their time

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Speaker 1: to like bring it all forward to you. I was

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Speaker 1: like wow, to put my phone down, went in the

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Speaker 1: bed with him. We read books, and then he told

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Speaker 1: me about his day, and yes, it dragged on his bedtime,

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Speaker 1: but it was like a full time of connection. So

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Speaker 1: I just needed to see that in that time. I

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Speaker 1: love social media for that, because I read my horoscope

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Speaker 1: or something pops up and I'm like, wow, that was

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Speaker 1: meant for me.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you.

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Speaker 3: Oh I love that. That's a and that just a

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Speaker 3: quick little perception.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, perspective shift, so good. What's your show that we mine?

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Speaker 1: Are nine sentences that will flip a switch in your brain.

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Speaker 3: We'll bring it on.

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Speaker 1: What a blessing to be tied in the pursuit of

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Speaker 1: a challenge of your own choosing. When someone is drowning,

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Speaker 1: that is not the time to teach them how to swim.

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Speaker 1: Isn't that so true? Don't give them advice, Just hold

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Speaker 1: them up and save them. Help them breathe, try to

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Speaker 1: and help them breathe. There are two pains in life,

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Speaker 1: the pain of discipline and the pain of regret. Discipline

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Speaker 1: weighs ounces, Regret weighs tons. So true, you can never

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Speaker 1: gain cold. Cold is the absence of heat. Maybe hatred

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Speaker 1: doesn't exist. Maybe it's the absence of love. Well, don't

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Speaker 1: be scared to start over. You might like your new

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Speaker 2: I love that.

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Speaker 1: Life is funny because one day you're wishing for something

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so easy to do that.

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Speaker 1: Some things have to be felt to be understood. People

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Speaker 1: may laugh at me because I'm different. I laugh at

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Speaker 1: them because they're all the same. You'll never be lonely

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Speaker 1: if you like the person you're alone with. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's not beautiful. Yeah it's on this page. We think

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Speaker 1: deeply on Instagram and they post the most epic things.

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Speaker 1: Every time I read it, I'm like, oh, once again,

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Speaker 1: I just needed to hear that.

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Speaker 2: Such potent, potent little sentences.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that alter your brain.

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Speaker 3: They've really hit differently, don't they.

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Speaker 1: They do. So I am getting an upper bluff plasterreeze.

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Speaker 1: He say it upper bleff's good upper bleff. It's basically

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Speaker 1: where they take skin from your upper eyelids. When you've

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Speaker 1: got hooded eyes or as you age, the skin drops

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Speaker 1: I've been crying a lot, and just I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I'm on camera every single day, so I can see

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Speaker 1: I'm really excited because ever when I know that's how

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Speaker 1: goes on better. Like even my eye shadow and concealer

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So tell us about just your decision to go

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Speaker 2: you think this is genuinely something that you've wanted for

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Speaker 2: maybe you know, social media or being on camera has

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Speaker 1: It's a good question. I can handle my heart say

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Speaker 1: this is something I'm doing for me. People make comments

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Speaker 1: When I first started to notice that, I didn't think

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Speaker 1: I can feel fresher and younger and feel more confident

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Speaker 1: And I know it's different, but it's like, if you

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Speaker 2: Like what you're initiating, what you're promoting? Yes, promoting is

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Speaker 2: the word that I was looking for. Yes, So I'd

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Speaker 2: Wanting to like, why have you shared this online? And

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Speaker 2: what do you think is going to be the pushback

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Speaker 2: of you promoting plastic surgery? Do you think people are

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't want to say I'm promoting plastic surgery

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Speaker 1: because I'm not like, oh my gosh, everyone, here's where

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Speaker 1: I've gone, hashag exponsored ad. You know you should get

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Speaker 1: this done. This is my body, my experience. I think

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Speaker 1: plastic surgery. No matter what I decide to do, there's

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Speaker 1: But I think people will notice that my eyes look

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Speaker 1: a lot presher, so I'm like a mass will just talk.

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Speaker 2: About it, and it's something you've done for so long,

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Speaker 2: over the years as well, So I kind of stop

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Speaker 2: after fifteen years.

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Speaker 1: I just don't think it's going to affect me if

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Speaker 1: people make judgments or comments. I've watched numerous tiktoks YouTube

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Speaker 1: videos of women getting the surgery. There's not one part

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Speaker 1: of me. The judges are for getting me done. I'm

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Speaker 1: that feels right for me. It's got nothing to do

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I do have a daughter. I've thought about all

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Speaker 2: two stories, three stories low, moderate, and high. Yes, all

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Speaker 2: different implants can either be like one story high, two

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Speaker 2: stories high, or three stories high. And he's like, your

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Speaker 2: implants are like three stories high. He's like, yours project

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Speaker 2: the furthest out, whereas a lot of implants that he has,

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Speaker 2: they are wider and then maybe only two stories.

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Speaker 1: That's me because we were carrying sizes. Hey, And I

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Speaker 1: was like, why dim I not look as because yours

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Speaker 1: but might a more wider but softer and yes not droopy,

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Speaker 1: but good wie.

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Speaker 2: No yours are Yours are wider and they don't protrude it,

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Speaker 2: don't project out, whereas mine are smaller in width, but

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Speaker 2: they protrude further and they're like they.

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Speaker 1: Look good to explain it bigger.

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Speaker 2: And I found that really fascinating because I always wondered,

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Speaker 2: like why my boobs, in comparison to a couple of

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Speaker 2: friends of mine, looked so much bigger, and I was like,

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Speaker 2: what on earth has happened here?

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Speaker 1: And also when they're captulated, he said, they look a

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Speaker 1: lot larger because they're under stress and it makes them rise.

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Speaker 1: Because you showed me a photo when you've got them done,

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Speaker 1: just when you were younger. Yes, they are completely completely different.

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Speaker 1: You don't look like you've got implants, and they look

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Speaker 1: like I have a natural double D literally, and that's

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Speaker 1: how when I loved.

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Speaker 3: My implants, I was like, oh my god, I love them.

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Speaker 2: It looks so beautiful and so feminine. Now I don't

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Speaker 2: feel and they were soft.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, and if I've had like a friend of

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Speaker 2: mine who's a urse to be like, you need to

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Speaker 2: go get that sorted because obviously captulation isn't good long term. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you need to sort that out because obviously the body

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Speaker 2: is fighting it.

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Speaker 3: So that's kind of what I'm doing.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, we're both booked in next year. Can give

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Speaker 1: dates or anything, just how we go.

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Speaker 2: But I'm excited because where I'm at now, with how

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Speaker 2: they feel and how firm they are and how much

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Speaker 2: they've changed in terms of how they look, it makes

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Speaker 2: me feel insecure, Like it does make me feel less

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Speaker 2: feminine because it makes me feel a bit bigger. It

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Speaker 2: makes me feel a bit like they don't look as

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Speaker 2: feminine when they sit on my chest wall anymore. So

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Speaker 2: I am looking forward to seeing the change of the

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Speaker 2: new surgery, how they will sit, how they will be positioned,

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Speaker 2: feeling a little bit more feminine. Even going that little

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Speaker 2: bit smaller, I'm really excited for. And I feel like

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Speaker 2: maybe even in the future, I'll probably even go a

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Speaker 2: little bit smaller. Yeah, you know, so we'll see.

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Speaker 3: We'll see how we goes.

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Speaker 1: It's exciting, excited. Yeah, and I feel just good at

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Speaker 1: even having that capsulation out.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I'm so excited for that.

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Speaker 2: I can't tell you how frustrating that has been.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, even a lot of dresses you put on, you're like,

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Speaker 1: I just don't like my chest in this. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: just don't like the way they sit. I don't like

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Speaker 1: that they're protruding out. It's gonna be so nice for

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Speaker 1: you to have implants that you feel really good in.

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Speaker 2: I can't even lay on my chest like it puts, yeah,

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Speaker 2: because they already have so much pressure. I feel nervous

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Speaker 2: to lay on my chest because it's already so tight

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Speaker 2: and constricted because of the capsulation.

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Speaker 3: So I'm excited to just like not have to worry

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Speaker 3: about this.

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Speaker 1: It's so good and be her little nurse. And she's

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Speaker 1: gonna be my little nurse.

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Speaker 3: Yes.

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Speaker 1: Oh so yeah, that's our surgery update.

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Speaker 2: We just wanted to share about what's going on and

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Speaker 2: what's real for us in our life because I know

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Speaker 2: you guys love that.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, just being open and honest about what's happening

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Speaker 3: in our lives.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, if you have any questions or if you're going

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Speaker 2: through anything like this, you can drop it in the

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Speaker 2: best of your advice as well, and we'd love to

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Speaker 2: hear about it.

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Speaker 1: Anyone's been through either of these surgeries, like is it

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Speaker 1: a reconstruction? Is that what you're getting? Yes, reconstruction surgery

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Speaker 1: and the upper bluff. I'd love to hear from you vision.

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Speaker 1: I think revision maybe, sure, there's a special word for you. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you got any questions for us, or you've gone through

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Speaker 1: these surgeries, we would love to hear from you, because

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Speaker 1: a little bit nervous but excited as well.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, or if you have any stories around you wanted

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Speaker 2: to get anything done or anything like that, just.

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Speaker 3: Bringing in I'd love to hear from it.

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Speaker 1: Thanks guys. We'll see the next episode.

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Speaker 3: Bye bye.