1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:02,719 Speaker 1: Guys, it is I is I and Blake and we 2 00:00:02,880 --> 00:00:04,880 Speaker 1: are back from the actor. 3 00:00:04,800 --> 00:00:07,600 Speaker 2: Or holy duly, what the fuck was? 4 00:00:10,560 --> 00:00:11,760 Speaker 3: It was so much fun? 5 00:00:12,160 --> 00:00:14,760 Speaker 1: So it was like it was so it was such 6 00:00:14,800 --> 00:00:17,080 Speaker 1: a different experience. I've never done anything like that before, 7 00:00:17,079 --> 00:00:18,720 Speaker 1: and it was like so much fun and such an 8 00:00:18,720 --> 00:00:19,720 Speaker 1: honor to be a part. 9 00:00:19,560 --> 00:00:20,560 Speaker 3: Of it once again. 10 00:00:20,600 --> 00:00:22,760 Speaker 1: Obviously, you guys are the reason we got to go, 11 00:00:22,840 --> 00:00:23,800 Speaker 1: so thank you again. 12 00:00:23,960 --> 00:00:27,080 Speaker 3: But I think we'll just run you through the day, 13 00:00:27,560 --> 00:00:30,880 Speaker 3: the day and the night and the morning, be everything, 14 00:00:31,320 --> 00:00:32,000 Speaker 3: do everything. 15 00:00:32,400 --> 00:00:34,240 Speaker 1: Obviously I had to get up at like four twenty 16 00:00:34,400 --> 00:00:36,600 Speaker 1: am to get my flight, which was at six, which 17 00:00:36,760 --> 00:00:40,040 Speaker 1: is a shit show. But I get to the airport, 18 00:00:40,680 --> 00:00:42,840 Speaker 1: I'm dropping my bags. Did you know that bad drop 19 00:00:42,840 --> 00:00:44,000 Speaker 1: closes forty minutes. 20 00:00:43,720 --> 00:00:44,920 Speaker 3: Before the flight leaves? 21 00:00:44,960 --> 00:00:45,120 Speaker 4: Oh? 22 00:00:45,120 --> 00:00:45,720 Speaker 2: I know nothing. 23 00:00:45,960 --> 00:00:48,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, I thought I thought it would close thirty minutes before, 24 00:00:48,560 --> 00:00:49,800 Speaker 1: Like do you really need forty. 25 00:00:49,600 --> 00:00:50,760 Speaker 2: Minutes That's what it used to be. 26 00:00:50,920 --> 00:00:53,159 Speaker 1: Yeah. So I get there and I'm dropping my bags 27 00:00:53,159 --> 00:00:55,960 Speaker 1: and these ladies are dilly dulling because obviously it's overweight. 28 00:00:56,000 --> 00:00:57,720 Speaker 1: It was twenty seven kilos and it was meant to 29 00:00:57,720 --> 00:01:02,360 Speaker 1: be twenty thirty bucks a kilos jet Star thirty bucks 30 00:01:02,400 --> 00:01:04,440 Speaker 1: a Killer extra and that's fucking insane. 31 00:01:04,560 --> 00:01:05,000 Speaker 2: Ye're great. 32 00:01:05,480 --> 00:01:09,080 Speaker 1: I pack a fucking one Leader moisturizer and that's thirty bucks, 33 00:01:09,120 --> 00:01:09,240 Speaker 1: do you. 34 00:01:09,280 --> 00:01:10,520 Speaker 3: Know what I mean? Like? Fuck that. 35 00:01:11,520 --> 00:01:14,200 Speaker 1: So these young girls, they were obviously like it was 36 00:01:14,240 --> 00:01:15,840 Speaker 1: fucking so early in the morning, and they were they 37 00:01:15,840 --> 00:01:18,200 Speaker 1: were definitely nice, and I was like, Hi, my bag's over. 38 00:01:18,240 --> 00:01:20,160 Speaker 1: They go okay, like you know, kind of like they 39 00:01:20,160 --> 00:01:22,320 Speaker 1: were chatting to each other kind of dilly dallying whatever, 40 00:01:22,560 --> 00:01:25,640 Speaker 1: so fair, and then they go fuck fuck fucking They 41 00:01:25,640 --> 00:01:27,480 Speaker 1: start talking to each other going wait, do I do it? 42 00:01:27,520 --> 00:01:29,520 Speaker 3: Do I do it? Do I do it? And I'm like, 43 00:01:29,560 --> 00:01:31,400 Speaker 3: what are you talking about? Bag? 44 00:01:31,480 --> 00:01:33,920 Speaker 1: Doot closed a minutefore, like a minute ago, and they're 45 00:01:33,959 --> 00:01:35,640 Speaker 1: like should we just like manually push it through? I'm 46 00:01:35,680 --> 00:01:38,399 Speaker 1: like please, because if I don't get this bag, I 47 00:01:38,400 --> 00:01:40,240 Speaker 1: don't go. If I don't get my bag, that's like 48 00:01:40,319 --> 00:01:41,920 Speaker 1: I don't go to the ards, do you know what 49 00:01:41,920 --> 00:01:43,480 Speaker 1: I mean? Can you imagine me rocking up hey like 50 00:01:43,520 --> 00:01:45,479 Speaker 1: hey kids, sorry, I can't go. Therefore you can't either. 51 00:01:45,600 --> 00:01:46,880 Speaker 2: Yeah you've gone without me? 52 00:01:47,280 --> 00:01:47,480 Speaker 4: No? 53 00:01:47,760 --> 00:01:50,240 Speaker 1: Really, what if I said, please, do someone needs to 54 00:01:50,280 --> 00:01:52,280 Speaker 1: accept the award if we were in which we didn't. 55 00:01:52,000 --> 00:01:55,200 Speaker 2: But well, the tickets were like in both of our names, 56 00:01:55,240 --> 00:01:57,560 Speaker 2: but is the Armitage was at the top. I had 57 00:01:57,600 --> 00:01:58,400 Speaker 2: the ticket, Where's he? 58 00:01:58,520 --> 00:01:59,640 Speaker 3: Is he? Yeah shit? 59 00:01:59,760 --> 00:02:02,760 Speaker 1: But it all worked out, got the bag, went back 60 00:02:02,760 --> 00:02:05,280 Speaker 1: to the hotel. I stayed at the Langham, which ended 61 00:02:05,360 --> 00:02:07,720 Speaker 1: up being really lucky because I think the Langham was 62 00:02:07,720 --> 00:02:09,560 Speaker 1: where everyone was staying, Like all the sort of bigger 63 00:02:09,600 --> 00:02:12,520 Speaker 1: actors who were probably having their rooms like paid for 64 00:02:12,680 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 1: by the actors, were staying at the Langham. 65 00:02:14,840 --> 00:02:18,119 Speaker 3: So it was fucking intense in that building. 66 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:21,400 Speaker 1: Hair and makeup done obviously, running late, got a photographer 67 00:02:21,400 --> 00:02:23,040 Speaker 1: to come text and photos of me, which ended up 68 00:02:23,080 --> 00:02:26,680 Speaker 1: being like I was stressed because of time because I'm 69 00:02:26,800 --> 00:02:29,320 Speaker 1: a chronically late person, which everyone will roll their eyes 70 00:02:29,320 --> 00:02:31,360 Speaker 1: at and say that like that's easily fixable, Like, but 71 00:02:31,400 --> 00:02:34,440 Speaker 1: to some people judging time and how long it takes 72 00:02:34,480 --> 00:02:35,840 Speaker 1: me to do things and how long it takes me 73 00:02:35,840 --> 00:02:37,720 Speaker 1: to get place, this is actually really challenging for me. 74 00:02:37,760 --> 00:02:39,400 Speaker 1: I've been like that my whole life, and I really 75 00:02:39,400 --> 00:02:42,040 Speaker 1: do try. Today was the first day I've gotten here 76 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:44,560 Speaker 1: like somewhat on time, and I was late and Blake 77 00:02:44,680 --> 00:02:46,400 Speaker 1: was late. But I can never He'll never hear anything 78 00:02:46,440 --> 00:02:48,560 Speaker 1: about it because he always just shuts his mouth and ever, 79 00:02:48,639 --> 00:02:52,200 Speaker 1: I'm late, so that's okay, and the photos ended up great, 80 00:02:52,200 --> 00:02:53,919 Speaker 1: so I'm glad I did that. And then we got 81 00:02:53,919 --> 00:02:56,320 Speaker 1: to skull like one drink, only to read the thing 82 00:02:56,480 --> 00:03:00,000 Speaker 1: and find out that only water is allowed in the theater. 83 00:03:00,320 --> 00:03:02,800 Speaker 1: You cannot bring alcohol for the duration of the show. 84 00:03:03,120 --> 00:03:05,600 Speaker 1: So I'm like, great, great, great, which is fine. 85 00:03:05,639 --> 00:03:06,080 Speaker 3: It's fair. 86 00:03:06,280 --> 00:03:09,520 Speaker 1: We're in like a nice fancy theater. But like having 87 00:03:09,520 --> 00:03:11,239 Speaker 1: a glass of wine in hands would have made everything 88 00:03:11,320 --> 00:03:12,359 Speaker 1: like perfect. 89 00:03:12,400 --> 00:03:13,880 Speaker 2: We would have behave Oh. 90 00:03:13,760 --> 00:03:17,120 Speaker 3: Absolutely, I'm not getting I'm not getting wasted. But maybe 91 00:03:17,200 --> 00:03:18,120 Speaker 3: I wonder why they do that. 92 00:03:18,240 --> 00:03:20,080 Speaker 1: Is it because of the theater or is it because 93 00:03:20,160 --> 00:03:23,400 Speaker 1: like drunk people make noise their speeches. 94 00:03:23,440 --> 00:03:25,480 Speaker 3: We've gone for longer, they might cause a scene. 95 00:03:25,560 --> 00:03:27,880 Speaker 2: I think maybe Colin a columbe I was sinking for 96 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:30,160 Speaker 2: like the actual broadcast. Imagine if you had all this 97 00:03:30,280 --> 00:03:32,080 Speaker 2: clinking and like a glass smash. 98 00:03:32,400 --> 00:03:33,919 Speaker 1: Yeah, well that's so I think if you were sitting 99 00:03:33,919 --> 00:03:36,640 Speaker 1: on tables. But because we're in like like it was 100 00:03:36,720 --> 00:03:38,360 Speaker 1: like a movie theater kind of vibe. 101 00:03:38,880 --> 00:03:40,120 Speaker 3: The awards obviously started. 102 00:03:40,160 --> 00:03:42,840 Speaker 1: I really liked they showed all the nominees for each category, 103 00:03:42,880 --> 00:03:44,560 Speaker 1: and they would show like a clip of the show 104 00:03:44,600 --> 00:03:45,880 Speaker 1: that they were in, which made. 105 00:03:45,680 --> 00:03:49,760 Speaker 3: It like, as a like observer, more fun than like 106 00:03:49,920 --> 00:03:52,000 Speaker 3: when they just read out the names. Do you know 107 00:03:52,040 --> 00:03:52,440 Speaker 3: what I mean? 108 00:03:53,280 --> 00:03:55,320 Speaker 1: So then that made me realize, fuck, my face is 109 00:03:55,360 --> 00:03:58,240 Speaker 1: going to be on the big screen. Everyone's gonna see it. 110 00:03:58,480 --> 00:04:00,160 Speaker 1: Everyone in this theater is gonna see my face for 111 00:04:00,200 --> 00:04:03,680 Speaker 1: a couple of seconds, and that's terrifying. So our category 112 00:04:03,760 --> 00:04:07,600 Speaker 1: was probably like halfway through, right after the Digital Creator Awards, 113 00:04:07,600 --> 00:04:09,600 Speaker 1: which is the one that like Sofa was nominated in 114 00:04:09,640 --> 00:04:13,880 Speaker 1: as well, and we didn't win. That's okay, shameless one. Congratulations. 115 00:04:13,920 --> 00:04:17,960 Speaker 1: Obviously they're amazing and they definitely deserved it. But it's 116 00:04:17,960 --> 00:04:20,719 Speaker 1: funny because there was no part of me, I think, 117 00:04:20,760 --> 00:04:24,200 Speaker 1: prior to going in there that I thought I was 118 00:04:24,200 --> 00:04:26,080 Speaker 1: going to win. And I'm very big on like manifesting, 119 00:04:26,080 --> 00:04:28,000 Speaker 1: so I don't like to like verbalize that or say 120 00:04:28,000 --> 00:04:29,840 Speaker 1: that out loud, so I don't. I don't think once 121 00:04:29,839 --> 00:04:31,360 Speaker 1: ever I was like I'm not going to win, Like 122 00:04:31,440 --> 00:04:33,719 Speaker 1: I don't like to put things into the universe, you know. 123 00:04:34,080 --> 00:04:37,400 Speaker 1: But it's different when you're sitting there and you're like, fuck, 124 00:04:37,440 --> 00:04:40,200 Speaker 1: it would actually be really nice. You know, well maybe 125 00:04:40,200 --> 00:04:41,920 Speaker 1: I could maybe, I you know what I mean. 126 00:04:42,120 --> 00:04:45,960 Speaker 2: And I think because we watched a few awards happen 127 00:04:46,120 --> 00:04:48,560 Speaker 2: and maybe not the one you'd think, like even some 128 00:04:48,600 --> 00:04:50,000 Speaker 2: of the people that were winning, like oh my god, 129 00:04:50,040 --> 00:04:50,599 Speaker 2: I can't believe it. 130 00:04:50,640 --> 00:04:52,119 Speaker 3: Yeah, like I didn't prepare for this. I didn't. 131 00:04:52,240 --> 00:04:54,480 Speaker 1: So I'm like, holy shit, Like maybe because you never 132 00:04:54,520 --> 00:04:56,920 Speaker 1: know how they're judging it. Obviously it was audience choice 133 00:04:56,960 --> 00:05:01,039 Speaker 1: or audience voted us into the top eight into the shortlist, 134 00:05:01,680 --> 00:05:04,080 Speaker 1: but then I think from there it's voted. 135 00:05:03,760 --> 00:05:06,760 Speaker 2: By like I think I can be judgeing yeah. 136 00:05:06,640 --> 00:05:08,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, So you just have no idea what they're 137 00:05:08,760 --> 00:05:11,800 Speaker 1: judging it on, you know, versus being like getting to 138 00:05:11,839 --> 00:05:13,800 Speaker 1: the shortlist where it's how many boats you've. 139 00:05:13,640 --> 00:05:14,320 Speaker 3: Gotten, you know. 140 00:05:15,120 --> 00:05:16,719 Speaker 1: So I was like, oh, you never know, you never know, 141 00:05:16,920 --> 00:05:19,240 Speaker 1: and that gets like exciting. Then when you're in that 142 00:05:19,720 --> 00:05:22,040 Speaker 1: like in the hall and you're like listening to the awards, 143 00:05:22,040 --> 00:05:24,800 Speaker 1: You're like, what would I do? How far away after 144 00:05:24,920 --> 00:05:27,560 Speaker 1: walk and make sure I held my dress? Like oh 145 00:05:27,600 --> 00:05:29,400 Speaker 1: my god, Everyone's like, what are you gonna say? I'm like, 146 00:05:29,440 --> 00:05:31,800 Speaker 1: I don't know. We met these great people sitting next 147 00:05:31,839 --> 00:05:33,599 Speaker 1: to us, that were like, oh my god, like so 148 00:05:33,760 --> 00:05:36,120 Speaker 1: great to just be nominated, and it really is like 149 00:05:36,200 --> 00:05:39,159 Speaker 1: I can't thank you guys enough, and I really truly 150 00:05:39,160 --> 00:05:41,120 Speaker 1: I'm grateful to have just even been on that list 151 00:05:41,120 --> 00:05:44,160 Speaker 1: and been invited there. So you know, there's always next year, 152 00:05:44,160 --> 00:05:45,320 Speaker 1: and the year after that, and the year after that 153 00:05:45,360 --> 00:05:46,000 Speaker 1: and the year after that. 154 00:05:46,400 --> 00:05:48,400 Speaker 3: You never know, So that was fun. 155 00:05:49,040 --> 00:05:52,400 Speaker 1: After the awards, we quickly ducked home, so we went 156 00:05:52,440 --> 00:05:56,599 Speaker 1: back to my hotel room and then we just had 157 00:05:56,640 --> 00:05:59,560 Speaker 1: some drinks, which luckily, like can kits, you've gotten prayer. 158 00:06:00,400 --> 00:06:03,240 Speaker 1: They actually left me the sweetest note in my bed, 159 00:06:03,440 --> 00:06:06,359 Speaker 1: which I didn't see until I was going to bed 160 00:06:07,040 --> 00:06:11,400 Speaker 1: the next morning, and it. 161 00:06:11,400 --> 00:06:13,119 Speaker 3: Was so cute. Did you like hid behind my pillows 162 00:06:13,200 --> 00:06:15,239 Speaker 3: or behind my blanky or something my blanky? 163 00:06:15,400 --> 00:06:17,240 Speaker 2: So we came up with a note together, and then 164 00:06:17,240 --> 00:06:19,120 Speaker 2: I was like, kitch, you deploy because I get weird 165 00:06:19,160 --> 00:06:20,960 Speaker 2: about going into people's rooms as well, So. 166 00:06:20,880 --> 00:06:22,960 Speaker 3: Sweet you could enter my bedroom whenever I wouldn't have. 167 00:06:23,120 --> 00:06:24,919 Speaker 2: When you voiced memoed us, I was like, what is 168 00:06:24,960 --> 00:06:25,920 Speaker 2: she talking about? 169 00:06:26,240 --> 00:06:26,560 Speaker 3: Like what? 170 00:06:26,839 --> 00:06:26,880 Speaker 4: No? 171 00:06:27,200 --> 00:06:29,880 Speaker 2: That was like, oh my god. We were actually like 172 00:06:30,120 --> 00:06:32,599 Speaker 2: laughing because I just imagined you would have been in 173 00:06:32,640 --> 00:06:34,240 Speaker 2: such a stay. 174 00:06:34,320 --> 00:06:36,440 Speaker 1: And it fell because I just ripped my pillows off 175 00:06:36,440 --> 00:06:38,159 Speaker 1: my bed and this note like flew out and I 176 00:06:38,200 --> 00:06:38,720 Speaker 1: was like, what's it? 177 00:06:39,040 --> 00:06:40,400 Speaker 2: But I also thought you would have felt paper and 178 00:06:40,440 --> 00:06:41,760 Speaker 2: you're like like, fuck off. 179 00:06:41,880 --> 00:06:44,359 Speaker 1: No, because I like took the pillows off and it 180 00:06:44,400 --> 00:06:44,720 Speaker 1: kind of. 181 00:06:44,640 --> 00:06:45,679 Speaker 3: Like flew onto the floor. 182 00:06:45,760 --> 00:06:46,600 Speaker 2: Oh that's so cute. 183 00:06:46,680 --> 00:06:48,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, but it was very sweet. 184 00:06:48,360 --> 00:06:51,719 Speaker 1: And then we went back to the after party that 185 00:06:51,760 --> 00:06:54,400 Speaker 1: was at the same venue as the awards, and they'd 186 00:06:54,480 --> 00:06:56,400 Speaker 1: kind of gotten rid of all the carpet. It was 187 00:06:56,480 --> 00:06:59,920 Speaker 1: kind of outside the hall. There was like dumplings, food, drinks, 188 00:07:00,040 --> 00:07:02,360 Speaker 1: ice cream. Ice cream is so random, splay any on 189 00:07:02,400 --> 00:07:07,960 Speaker 1: the a ice cream. There were so many people walking around, 190 00:07:08,000 --> 00:07:10,080 Speaker 1: so it was really cool. But then we noticed I 191 00:07:10,280 --> 00:07:11,840 Speaker 1: had split up from Blake and Kitschen. At this point, 192 00:07:11,880 --> 00:07:14,080 Speaker 1: I was with Kira Lei and a girl called Meg 193 00:07:14,200 --> 00:07:20,600 Speaker 1: and it was like karaoke at the actors and we're like, fuck, yes, 194 00:07:20,840 --> 00:07:21,800 Speaker 1: get me in that room. 195 00:07:22,000 --> 00:07:23,000 Speaker 3: So went down. 196 00:07:23,040 --> 00:07:24,840 Speaker 1: There was this dark black room with a stage in 197 00:07:24,880 --> 00:07:26,800 Speaker 1: a mic and it was so much fun, and I 198 00:07:26,840 --> 00:07:28,440 Speaker 1: spotted a couple of friends like to the left of 199 00:07:28,480 --> 00:07:31,600 Speaker 1: the stage and he'd just gone on and I'm like, 200 00:07:31,840 --> 00:07:34,880 Speaker 1: I actually, I absolutely have to. At this point when 201 00:07:34,880 --> 00:07:36,520 Speaker 1: I signed up, I was under the impression that the 202 00:07:36,560 --> 00:07:40,320 Speaker 1: backing track of the song, like the obviously this music plays, 203 00:07:40,960 --> 00:07:44,840 Speaker 1: but I always like when like the actual singing. 204 00:07:44,840 --> 00:07:47,200 Speaker 2: It's a bit of a harmony, like I'll. 205 00:07:47,040 --> 00:07:49,920 Speaker 1: Sing with the singer, you know what I mean. No, 206 00:07:50,160 --> 00:07:53,120 Speaker 1: it's just us singing. So we the three of us 207 00:07:53,160 --> 00:07:56,840 Speaker 1: girls sang Valerie, I Message Blak, and Kitchen. I'm like, 208 00:07:56,840 --> 00:07:58,240 Speaker 1: get the fuck down here right now, I'm about to 209 00:07:58,280 --> 00:07:59,880 Speaker 1: go on for karaoke, Like you cannot miss this. 210 00:08:00,040 --> 00:08:01,880 Speaker 2: And this was the first time we had last years. 211 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:04,640 Speaker 2: I was like, yeah we girrel okay, Yeah, like she's fine, 212 00:08:04,800 --> 00:08:08,000 Speaker 2: I'm karaoke one sing Whay. I was like, oh yeah. 213 00:08:08,040 --> 00:08:10,000 Speaker 1: They got there within thirty seconds I think, and then 214 00:08:10,040 --> 00:08:11,920 Speaker 1: we had to wait another forty five minutes until it 215 00:08:12,000 --> 00:08:13,760 Speaker 1: ended up being our term because you never really know, 216 00:08:13,840 --> 00:08:15,400 Speaker 1: like how many people are going to be before you. 217 00:08:15,760 --> 00:08:17,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, but that was so fun. 218 00:08:17,160 --> 00:08:18,800 Speaker 1: Also another thing where I'm like, I probably would have 219 00:08:18,800 --> 00:08:21,360 Speaker 1: never done that before because that your girl is socially anxious, 220 00:08:21,360 --> 00:08:23,560 Speaker 1: but fuck it. This year is the year of saying 221 00:08:23,640 --> 00:08:26,560 Speaker 1: yes to things, and things seem to be positive. Things 222 00:08:26,600 --> 00:08:28,480 Speaker 1: seemed to be coming my way as I do that, 223 00:08:28,640 --> 00:08:31,800 Speaker 1: so let's just continue on this role. Keep it going, 224 00:08:31,920 --> 00:08:36,120 Speaker 1: keep it going. And then after karaoke we left went 225 00:08:36,160 --> 00:08:38,720 Speaker 1: back to the Langham. There was a Rabban after party 226 00:08:38,760 --> 00:08:40,440 Speaker 1: in the penthouse of the Langham, so we ended up 227 00:08:40,440 --> 00:08:42,000 Speaker 1: going to that as well, which was really fun. There 228 00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:45,120 Speaker 1: were like bowls of like maccas chips and everything everywhere, 229 00:08:45,160 --> 00:08:48,439 Speaker 1: and the DJ and god the penthouse there was insane. 230 00:08:48,559 --> 00:08:51,240 Speaker 1: I don't know if you saw the master bedroom. Oh yeah, 231 00:08:51,480 --> 00:08:53,760 Speaker 1: never have I seen a bedroom That'd be my fucking life. 232 00:08:53,800 --> 00:08:55,079 Speaker 2: I was just having a d and I'm in there 233 00:08:55,080 --> 00:08:57,559 Speaker 2: with the champagne. It's beautiful, done it. 234 00:08:57,760 --> 00:08:59,200 Speaker 1: So that was our night and then we went home 235 00:08:59,200 --> 00:09:00,760 Speaker 1: from there. But luckily enough, I just had to go 236 00:09:00,840 --> 00:09:02,920 Speaker 1: down the elevator and now I'm in my room again. 237 00:09:03,160 --> 00:09:04,880 Speaker 3: Perfect, So it was great. 238 00:09:04,960 --> 00:09:07,800 Speaker 1: Obviously, I was exhausted, having so little sleep from the 239 00:09:07,920 --> 00:09:09,640 Speaker 1: night before because I had to get up so early, 240 00:09:09,720 --> 00:09:11,960 Speaker 1: So I spent ninety eight percent of the next day 241 00:09:12,040 --> 00:09:15,200 Speaker 1: just chilling in my room. And then I thought, I 242 00:09:15,280 --> 00:09:17,600 Speaker 1: really haven't utilized gold Coast, so I'm going to say 243 00:09:17,600 --> 00:09:18,120 Speaker 1: another night. 244 00:09:18,400 --> 00:09:20,679 Speaker 2: I was too scared to message you the next day. 245 00:09:20,800 --> 00:09:23,680 Speaker 2: Why because of your anxiety. Yeah, I wanted to send 246 00:09:23,720 --> 00:09:25,760 Speaker 2: you the karaoke video, but I was scared that would 247 00:09:25,800 --> 00:09:26,400 Speaker 2: like tip you over. 248 00:09:26,520 --> 00:09:29,480 Speaker 3: No the karaoke video, I was very much still vibes 249 00:09:29,720 --> 00:09:31,960 Speaker 3: in happy land drunk, do you know what I mean? 250 00:09:32,120 --> 00:09:34,400 Speaker 1: It's like, but if you see a video of you, 251 00:09:34,520 --> 00:09:36,640 Speaker 1: like later in the night drunk, maybe where there's like 252 00:09:36,720 --> 00:09:38,760 Speaker 1: bits and pieces where you've been a little bit too drunk, 253 00:09:38,880 --> 00:09:41,200 Speaker 1: that's like a mess. But karaoke is very much all 254 00:09:41,240 --> 00:09:43,400 Speaker 1: still in my memory, and I think it's a really funny. 255 00:09:43,600 --> 00:09:45,320 Speaker 3: It was like the highlight. It was so fun. It 256 00:09:45,400 --> 00:09:47,040 Speaker 3: was like, yeah, one of my favorites. 257 00:09:47,040 --> 00:09:49,480 Speaker 1: But the next day then I just hung up with 258 00:09:49,520 --> 00:09:51,240 Speaker 1: some friends, Malita Isabelle Mitch. 259 00:09:52,000 --> 00:09:53,480 Speaker 3: We went to the beach CA. 260 00:09:54,080 --> 00:09:57,800 Speaker 1: Melita made us some like garlic tomato, like a Rizoni 261 00:09:57,880 --> 00:10:00,959 Speaker 1: pasta with steaks salad. It was very wholesome. Then we 262 00:10:01,000 --> 00:10:02,959 Speaker 1: played him pos stuff for like two hours, so it 263 00:10:03,000 --> 00:10:05,839 Speaker 1: was wholesome and the day I needed. And then now 264 00:10:05,880 --> 00:10:08,560 Speaker 1: we're back back for two days. Head off to Sydney 265 00:10:08,559 --> 00:10:11,800 Speaker 1: tomorrow morning for Maybelne and the Withering Heights premiere. 266 00:10:12,160 --> 00:10:14,160 Speaker 3: See you soon, my man, my love. 267 00:10:14,600 --> 00:10:16,240 Speaker 1: See by the time this comes out, will already be 268 00:10:16,320 --> 00:10:18,839 Speaker 1: getting married, so it's fun. See I make this show, 269 00:10:20,960 --> 00:10:23,120 Speaker 1: I make these jokes. I filmed this video and I 270 00:10:23,240 --> 00:10:26,520 Speaker 1: found up on Route two Gold Coasts that he obviously 271 00:10:26,520 --> 00:10:28,680 Speaker 1: wasn't going to be there because I'm talking about Draco 272 00:10:28,720 --> 00:10:30,280 Speaker 1: BLORDI by the way, that he wasn't. 273 00:10:30,360 --> 00:10:31,920 Speaker 3: I say this like I know the man, I don't. 274 00:10:31,960 --> 00:10:34,360 Speaker 1: I just think you guys are my friends now so 275 00:10:34,440 --> 00:10:36,360 Speaker 1: I can talk to you about this. I found out 276 00:10:36,360 --> 00:10:37,640 Speaker 1: on the way there that he wasn't going to be 277 00:10:37,679 --> 00:10:40,520 Speaker 1: there because he's the premiere of Withering Heights in London 278 00:10:40,559 --> 00:10:43,160 Speaker 1: was happening at the exact same time, so fucking fair 279 00:10:43,320 --> 00:10:44,280 Speaker 1: obviously shattered. 280 00:10:44,320 --> 00:10:45,360 Speaker 3: But the show goes on. 281 00:10:46,040 --> 00:10:48,480 Speaker 1: And I made this video and it's like this sound 282 00:10:48,480 --> 00:10:49,840 Speaker 1: for Ross from Friends, and it's. 283 00:10:49,720 --> 00:10:52,160 Speaker 3: Like I'm fine, Like I'm fine. 284 00:10:52,160 --> 00:10:54,240 Speaker 1: And I literally said it to like and go, if 285 00:10:54,240 --> 00:10:57,359 Speaker 1: I post this, am I going to like ruin my chances? 286 00:10:58,320 --> 00:11:01,160 Speaker 3: Which he probably never will, but. 287 00:11:00,280 --> 00:11:01,559 Speaker 2: But it's good to have that in the back. 288 00:11:01,760 --> 00:11:01,960 Speaker 5: You know. 289 00:11:02,040 --> 00:11:04,200 Speaker 3: It's called manifestation. Guys. 290 00:11:04,360 --> 00:11:09,559 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, like Sewer Girl for like having some some goals, 291 00:11:10,000 --> 00:11:13,440 Speaker 1: you know, like I'm just working towards what i want. 292 00:11:14,360 --> 00:11:17,280 Speaker 1: But I've got an event with Maybeline, which is really cute. 293 00:11:17,320 --> 00:11:19,720 Speaker 1: And then yeah, the Weathering Heights premiere, and then I 294 00:11:19,720 --> 00:11:22,280 Speaker 1: actually fly to Adelaide and I've never been to Adelaide before. 295 00:11:22,320 --> 00:11:23,720 Speaker 3: Have you been to Adelaide. 296 00:11:23,400 --> 00:11:25,040 Speaker 2: For like six hours? 297 00:11:25,280 --> 00:11:28,240 Speaker 3: Oh yeah the other week? Yeah, isn't that the other way? 298 00:11:28,280 --> 00:11:29,559 Speaker 2: It's like December last year? 299 00:11:29,720 --> 00:11:31,559 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it feels like. 300 00:11:32,880 --> 00:11:36,040 Speaker 2: But speaking of crazy trips, no, it was cute. You'll 301 00:11:36,040 --> 00:11:38,240 Speaker 2: be shocked. It's like a big country town, so like 302 00:11:38,760 --> 00:11:41,560 Speaker 2: there's this like skyline building and then a house next 303 00:11:41,600 --> 00:11:41,959 Speaker 2: to it, and. 304 00:11:41,920 --> 00:11:44,000 Speaker 3: You're like, what's going here? 305 00:11:44,320 --> 00:11:44,880 Speaker 2: Yeah? 306 00:11:44,960 --> 00:11:47,440 Speaker 3: Interesting? And then I got to live golf. 307 00:11:47,920 --> 00:11:49,240 Speaker 2: Good things about the wineries. 308 00:11:49,600 --> 00:11:52,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, well I'm there for live golf and I have 309 00:11:52,280 --> 00:11:54,840 Speaker 3: never been to anything like that before. But I'm really excited. 310 00:11:54,880 --> 00:11:57,320 Speaker 1: Like I love that this is not to be a 311 00:11:57,360 --> 00:12:00,400 Speaker 1: big bitch. I never want to be a pick me. 312 00:12:00,800 --> 00:12:02,480 Speaker 1: Always pull me up in my sound like one. But 313 00:12:02,559 --> 00:12:06,320 Speaker 1: I do love like going to like watching a sport 314 00:12:06,400 --> 00:12:09,160 Speaker 1: and like drinking with friends is like so fun. So 315 00:12:09,240 --> 00:12:11,160 Speaker 1: because it's like a golf tournament, it's like going to 316 00:12:11,200 --> 00:12:12,959 Speaker 1: the AO or the f one or the football. 317 00:12:13,000 --> 00:12:15,400 Speaker 3: It's like those environments. I feel like everyone's just in 318 00:12:15,440 --> 00:12:17,480 Speaker 3: such a good mood and everyone's just drinking and like 319 00:12:17,960 --> 00:12:19,720 Speaker 3: it'll be in the sun and it'll be fun. So 320 00:12:19,760 --> 00:12:20,839 Speaker 3: I'm really excited for that. 321 00:12:21,200 --> 00:12:23,240 Speaker 2: It's like a lot more than sport now. 322 00:12:23,160 --> 00:12:25,760 Speaker 1: Completely, but like having something to watch at the same 323 00:12:25,760 --> 00:12:27,800 Speaker 1: time as doing these things versus just being like a 324 00:12:27,880 --> 00:12:30,480 Speaker 1: day event. Like having something kind of going on in 325 00:12:30,520 --> 00:12:33,200 Speaker 1: the background is fine. Golf, you know what, maybe I'll 326 00:12:33,200 --> 00:12:34,720 Speaker 1: be a golf fan at the end of this weekend. 327 00:12:35,200 --> 00:12:36,640 Speaker 3: Okay, we'll see you're. 328 00:12:41,640 --> 00:12:44,200 Speaker 2: I'm gonna like make this story as quick as possible, 329 00:12:44,600 --> 00:12:47,640 Speaker 2: like it's not interesting to anyone. But I had my parents, 330 00:12:47,679 --> 00:12:49,800 Speaker 2: please do shit. I had my mum and I'm staying 331 00:12:49,800 --> 00:12:51,920 Speaker 2: with me the night of the actors, so I got 332 00:12:51,960 --> 00:12:54,640 Speaker 2: my boyfriend to look after them for dinner the night 333 00:12:54,679 --> 00:12:57,640 Speaker 2: I was away. But obviously I have a terrible guilt complex. 334 00:12:57,679 --> 00:12:59,719 Speaker 2: I was like, I ended up first seeing the next 335 00:12:59,840 --> 00:13:02,319 Speaker 2: day to be back with them. Yeah, So we wrapped 336 00:13:02,400 --> 00:13:04,080 Speaker 2: up about like one point thirty two. 337 00:13:04,559 --> 00:13:07,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, my flight was at six, so it's like insane. 338 00:13:07,720 --> 00:13:10,560 Speaker 2: I got up just past four. I get it. 339 00:13:10,600 --> 00:13:15,080 Speaker 1: So you had two hours sleep, yeah, and two hours 340 00:13:15,080 --> 00:13:17,680 Speaker 1: sleep soba sucks when you've got like a flight like 341 00:13:17,720 --> 00:13:20,199 Speaker 1: I have but you also have a hangover. 342 00:13:20,640 --> 00:13:24,640 Speaker 2: Yeah. So I wake up profusely sweating. It's not even hot, 343 00:13:24,640 --> 00:13:26,360 Speaker 2: but I think my body was just like, what's going 344 00:13:26,400 --> 00:13:26,960 Speaker 2: on again? 345 00:13:27,360 --> 00:13:29,360 Speaker 3: And you're anxious? You'll be like yeah, yeah. 346 00:13:29,400 --> 00:13:31,080 Speaker 2: Then I get into the back of my Uber and 347 00:13:31,120 --> 00:13:33,080 Speaker 2: I was just like, can you please blast the air con. 348 00:13:33,160 --> 00:13:35,120 Speaker 2: I'm laying down in the back seat in front of 349 00:13:35,120 --> 00:13:35,600 Speaker 2: the air con. 350 00:13:35,760 --> 00:13:37,199 Speaker 3: You're lie right. 351 00:13:37,160 --> 00:13:39,480 Speaker 2: To stay alive. I'll wear Are you off to today? 352 00:13:39,800 --> 00:13:40,679 Speaker 3: Don't fucking talk to. 353 00:13:40,640 --> 00:13:43,600 Speaker 2: Me to the airport? Oh? We at the event last night? 354 00:13:43,640 --> 00:13:46,160 Speaker 2: How was that? I saw that. I was like, I'm 355 00:13:46,200 --> 00:13:46,679 Speaker 2: about to fuck. 356 00:13:46,960 --> 00:13:48,959 Speaker 1: This is when you need to pay extra for uber 357 00:13:49,000 --> 00:13:51,439 Speaker 1: comfort so you can because it comes. What preference do 358 00:13:51,440 --> 00:13:53,599 Speaker 1: you want? I want cold, Aaron, I want no conversation? 359 00:13:53,880 --> 00:13:56,679 Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you. It was the death of me. And 360 00:13:56,720 --> 00:13:58,800 Speaker 2: then I had to take like I had to sit 361 00:13:58,880 --> 00:14:01,000 Speaker 2: three times before going through through security. I was just 362 00:14:01,080 --> 00:14:04,080 Speaker 2: about to faint. Oh, I don't know. I don't know 363 00:14:04,080 --> 00:14:06,400 Speaker 2: how I made it through security. I had to walk 364 00:14:06,480 --> 00:14:08,000 Speaker 2: and get an apple juice. I don't know why. 365 00:14:08,040 --> 00:14:10,760 Speaker 1: That's my juice is amazing for a hangover seven dollars. 366 00:14:11,000 --> 00:14:13,280 Speaker 1: There was fresh juices at the Gold Coast airport. My 367 00:14:13,400 --> 00:14:16,120 Speaker 1: brain just apple juice, apple juice, Yeah. 368 00:14:15,920 --> 00:14:18,480 Speaker 2: And I did. My brain wasn't processing. Yeah, I had 369 00:14:18,480 --> 00:14:21,120 Speaker 2: to get an apple juice. Sculled that seven dollars. 370 00:14:21,200 --> 00:14:23,080 Speaker 3: What it felt so shit after you sculled that too? 371 00:14:23,240 --> 00:14:26,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I walk like one minute. Then I'm about 372 00:14:26,120 --> 00:14:28,880 Speaker 2: to faint again. So I go to a table buy 373 00:14:28,920 --> 00:14:31,480 Speaker 2: another apple juice for seven dollars, skull that said a 374 00:14:31,520 --> 00:14:34,280 Speaker 2: three minute timer, and fell asleep at the table. Then 375 00:14:34,320 --> 00:14:35,680 Speaker 2: I'm drawling my way. 376 00:14:35,680 --> 00:14:38,640 Speaker 3: Hang on, you gave yourself three minutes to sleep. 377 00:14:38,800 --> 00:14:41,760 Speaker 2: I just needed something and that did it help. 378 00:14:41,840 --> 00:14:44,000 Speaker 1: It's because I think your stomach like when you drink 379 00:14:44,160 --> 00:14:46,160 Speaker 1: a lot of water or eat a lot of food hungover, 380 00:14:46,200 --> 00:14:48,920 Speaker 1: Like I am not someone that like shovels food. And 381 00:14:48,920 --> 00:14:51,560 Speaker 1: when I'm hungover, it hits my stomach like a fucking 382 00:14:51,680 --> 00:14:54,720 Speaker 1: lead balloon, Like I want to die when I drink 383 00:14:54,800 --> 00:14:57,880 Speaker 1: or eat hungover. It just you need to was shaking 384 00:14:57,920 --> 00:14:58,760 Speaker 1: like a fucking leaf. 385 00:14:59,040 --> 00:15:01,520 Speaker 2: And then I'm like making up by my last legs. 386 00:15:01,560 --> 00:15:02,920 Speaker 2: I'm gonna run late by this point. 387 00:15:02,960 --> 00:15:05,120 Speaker 3: So were you flying jets virgeon? 388 00:15:05,800 --> 00:15:07,160 Speaker 2: It was at the very virgin. 389 00:15:06,960 --> 00:15:09,400 Speaker 1: Chairs are actually like I did jetstar weigh there virgin 390 00:15:09,440 --> 00:15:11,960 Speaker 1: way back and like I actually slept the whole way 391 00:15:11,960 --> 00:15:16,000 Speaker 1: back comfortably like croolk. You know, Jet Star seats are 392 00:15:16,080 --> 00:15:19,720 Speaker 1: fucking small, Like there's actually absolutely smaller than virgins. 393 00:15:19,720 --> 00:15:21,520 Speaker 3: I'm always going to choose virgin over that now. 394 00:15:21,480 --> 00:15:25,080 Speaker 2: No, that's my one of my newest resolutions. Randomly, then 395 00:15:25,080 --> 00:15:28,480 Speaker 2: I'm trowling to the gate almost late. Guess who appears 396 00:15:28,760 --> 00:15:32,920 Speaker 2: Norris Nuts, the whole family, and then a swarm of 397 00:15:33,040 --> 00:15:37,640 Speaker 2: kids just like around me. Oh my god, Saber whatever 398 00:15:37,680 --> 00:15:41,360 Speaker 2: their name is, tackling Norris Nuts, and I'm just. 399 00:15:41,320 --> 00:15:44,320 Speaker 3: Like, get out of my full of you, And. 400 00:15:44,240 --> 00:15:45,840 Speaker 2: Then I just hit the did you cry? 401 00:15:46,200 --> 00:15:46,280 Speaker 3: Oh? 402 00:15:46,320 --> 00:15:48,480 Speaker 2: I was close to her. Yeah, I just need to 403 00:15:48,480 --> 00:15:52,080 Speaker 2: get seated. Yeah, I hit the seed and I don't 404 00:15:52,120 --> 00:15:55,400 Speaker 2: remember the rest and I wake up and yeah good, 405 00:15:55,440 --> 00:15:57,520 Speaker 2: and oh my god, I got a whole aisle to myself. 406 00:15:57,560 --> 00:15:58,520 Speaker 2: It was a full plane. 407 00:15:58,840 --> 00:16:01,800 Speaker 1: You mean you had three so you got to lie down. Yeah, 408 00:16:01,840 --> 00:16:04,480 Speaker 1: oh that is the universe looking out for you there. 409 00:16:04,560 --> 00:16:06,280 Speaker 2: Yeah. I actually did wake up. At one point. It 410 00:16:06,400 --> 00:16:08,560 Speaker 2: was like dribble running down and they're like, I actually don't. 411 00:16:08,680 --> 00:16:10,800 Speaker 2: I was facing a woman and I'm like sorry, due. 412 00:16:12,240 --> 00:16:14,600 Speaker 1: See leg is obsessed with Norris nuts, and I actually 413 00:16:14,880 --> 00:16:17,240 Speaker 1: didn't know anything about them until I saw. We were 414 00:16:17,240 --> 00:16:20,160 Speaker 1: at my beach house and we leg and I are like, 415 00:16:20,440 --> 00:16:22,360 Speaker 1: I think the reason our relationship works so well is 416 00:16:22,400 --> 00:16:26,440 Speaker 1: because we let each other just be meaning like we're 417 00:16:26,480 --> 00:16:29,320 Speaker 1: eating the same meal we've just cooked for fucking two hours, 418 00:16:29,320 --> 00:16:31,160 Speaker 1: and we will sit with headphones in across from each 419 00:16:31,160 --> 00:16:33,680 Speaker 1: other watching our own shows on our phone, like because 420 00:16:33,680 --> 00:16:36,280 Speaker 1: that is to us, our enjoyable way to eat. Like 421 00:16:36,320 --> 00:16:39,120 Speaker 1: if we're facetiming and my past is ready, she just 422 00:16:39,160 --> 00:16:41,240 Speaker 1: knows that, Like I'm gonna hang up because I want 423 00:16:41,280 --> 00:16:43,800 Speaker 1: to watch my TV and me and that's the same thing. 424 00:16:43,840 --> 00:16:46,520 Speaker 1: But she's watching this fucking thing, and I'm like, what 425 00:16:46,880 --> 00:16:48,680 Speaker 1: is that? She goes Nora's Nuts. 426 00:16:48,760 --> 00:16:51,479 Speaker 3: You haven't heard of Nora's Nuts. I'm like, huh. 427 00:16:51,560 --> 00:16:53,920 Speaker 2: With Noris Nuts, it's either you have no idea. 428 00:16:53,680 --> 00:16:55,440 Speaker 3: Who they are, or you're obsessed. 429 00:16:55,560 --> 00:16:56,360 Speaker 2: I'm so confused. 430 00:16:56,400 --> 00:16:58,840 Speaker 1: Like I'm sure if I sat down and watched a video, 431 00:16:58,960 --> 00:17:01,080 Speaker 1: maybe I would then become I'm like, I'm me very 432 00:17:01,160 --> 00:17:03,320 Speaker 1: Like I went through a period of being very infatuated 433 00:17:03,320 --> 00:17:06,359 Speaker 1: with David Dobrick's YouTube channel, like the little four minute, 434 00:17:06,400 --> 00:17:08,320 Speaker 1: twenty second videos. I thought they were like the funniest 435 00:17:08,320 --> 00:17:10,480 Speaker 1: things in the world, not the funniest things in the world. 436 00:17:10,480 --> 00:17:11,200 Speaker 3: They're entertaining. 437 00:17:11,440 --> 00:17:13,679 Speaker 1: But she's like that with Nourostunce right now, which, in 438 00:17:13,680 --> 00:17:15,680 Speaker 1: case anyone didn't realize, I feel like. 439 00:17:15,600 --> 00:17:17,959 Speaker 3: This Oxy show to see me like a truck. 440 00:17:19,200 --> 00:17:22,320 Speaker 1: I drank an Oxy shod before I came here, and 441 00:17:22,359 --> 00:17:25,520 Speaker 1: I feel like, weirdly, all my thoughts are clear though, 442 00:17:25,760 --> 00:17:27,480 Speaker 1: do you know what I mean? Like I'm speaking a 443 00:17:27,480 --> 00:17:29,720 Speaker 1: million miles an hour, but like it's coming out exactly 444 00:17:29,800 --> 00:17:34,080 Speaker 1: how I wanted to. Now it's a new podcast, it's 445 00:17:34,080 --> 00:17:36,960 Speaker 1: actually not sponsored. But yeah, Norris Nunce is just a family. 446 00:17:37,040 --> 00:17:40,040 Speaker 1: It's like a family of family loggers on YouTube. 447 00:17:40,240 --> 00:17:43,159 Speaker 2: Yeah, they blew up because Karl Sefanovic remember when he 448 00:17:43,240 --> 00:17:46,359 Speaker 2: interviewed the young girl and I don't remember any she 449 00:17:46,400 --> 00:17:50,479 Speaker 2: wont to surf competition and like something she was and 450 00:17:50,600 --> 00:17:52,880 Speaker 2: something came up about the dad and she's like, oh, yeah, 451 00:17:52,920 --> 00:17:55,359 Speaker 2: my dad used to be a surfer. Now is fat? 452 00:17:55,480 --> 00:17:57,600 Speaker 2: And then like that went viral and she ended up 453 00:17:57,600 --> 00:17:58,960 Speaker 2: on Allen Right. 454 00:17:59,160 --> 00:18:02,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, so they're blogging from that. Yeah, is that saber? 455 00:18:02,720 --> 00:18:04,679 Speaker 2: Yeah? Right, that's her coming up story. 456 00:18:04,760 --> 00:18:08,200 Speaker 1: Okay, well that is the actor recap for you. We're 457 00:18:08,200 --> 00:18:11,000 Speaker 1: going to do some quick fire hear me out today, go. 458 00:18:11,160 --> 00:18:15,480 Speaker 2: Okay, hear me out. Stop trying to make men wearing 459 00:18:15,520 --> 00:18:18,879 Speaker 2: thongs happen again. And I don't mean like for the beach, 460 00:18:18,960 --> 00:18:23,560 Speaker 2: that's fine, but I'm seeing increasingly men in jeans on 461 00:18:23,600 --> 00:18:26,160 Speaker 2: my TikTok paired with a thong. What's going on? 462 00:18:26,520 --> 00:18:30,240 Speaker 1: Okay, I hear I like jeans and a thong on 463 00:18:30,280 --> 00:18:32,960 Speaker 1: a girl. I think it's very like two thousands. I 464 00:18:34,160 --> 00:18:36,120 Speaker 1: don't think I've seen men and jeans in the song, 465 00:18:36,200 --> 00:18:37,800 Speaker 1: so I'm not sure, but I'm going to quickly have 466 00:18:37,800 --> 00:18:39,359 Speaker 1: a search and see if I like it, because I 467 00:18:39,359 --> 00:18:40,560 Speaker 1: actually feel like good. 468 00:18:40,840 --> 00:18:42,960 Speaker 2: I just don't want to see their dogs like. 469 00:18:42,960 --> 00:18:45,400 Speaker 3: Their dogs, no, completely, they need to take care of them. 470 00:18:45,640 --> 00:18:48,760 Speaker 2: Like there's some outfits. It does look okay, but I 471 00:18:48,800 --> 00:18:52,200 Speaker 2: think it's more so just the foot. I think that's my. 472 00:18:52,359 --> 00:18:55,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, I like a boy in like Boston birks over like. 473 00:18:56,040 --> 00:18:57,400 Speaker 3: The classic bird. 474 00:18:57,440 --> 00:18:58,720 Speaker 2: Are they the close ones? 475 00:18:59,080 --> 00:18:59,280 Speaker 3: Yes? 476 00:18:59,600 --> 00:19:00,600 Speaker 2: I don't and maybe it's. 477 00:19:00,640 --> 00:19:04,359 Speaker 3: Oh you know, oh, I don't hate it. I don't 478 00:19:04,400 --> 00:19:04,760 Speaker 3: hate it. 479 00:19:05,160 --> 00:19:07,120 Speaker 2: Just wait until you get a bat only if they're. 480 00:19:06,920 --> 00:19:07,720 Speaker 3: Ever in lexities. 481 00:19:07,760 --> 00:19:10,560 Speaker 1: Seriously, baug you jeans, like if the genes even show 482 00:19:10,640 --> 00:19:13,080 Speaker 1: a single inch of the shape of your leg, like 483 00:19:13,160 --> 00:19:14,240 Speaker 1: you take those songs off. 484 00:19:14,320 --> 00:19:16,119 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know what I mean. But yeah, I feel you. 485 00:19:16,359 --> 00:19:19,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, and we have a listener hear me out. Okay, 486 00:19:19,320 --> 00:19:22,360 Speaker 2: I'm surprised I didn't write this. Hear me out. If 487 00:19:22,400 --> 00:19:25,800 Speaker 2: someone owes you money, not a heap, just enough to 488 00:19:25,960 --> 00:19:28,719 Speaker 2: you know, get the next shout of a drink or something, 489 00:19:29,200 --> 00:19:31,080 Speaker 2: and you still offer to pay because you're a decent 490 00:19:31,160 --> 00:19:33,800 Speaker 2: human being, and they don't offer or insist to be 491 00:19:33,880 --> 00:19:36,480 Speaker 2: like no, no, it's my round. It's just rude and 492 00:19:36,520 --> 00:19:38,000 Speaker 2: they're probably just taking freebies. 493 00:19:38,119 --> 00:19:40,480 Speaker 3: I don't really get the wording of that, Okay, So. 494 00:19:41,680 --> 00:19:44,040 Speaker 1: Meaning like, if someone owes me like twenty bucks, i'd 495 00:19:44,119 --> 00:19:45,720 Speaker 1: rather them just be like, I'll just buy the next 496 00:19:45,800 --> 00:19:47,199 Speaker 1: round for you then pay me. 497 00:19:47,640 --> 00:19:50,040 Speaker 2: Well one, I thought that's what originally was, which I 498 00:19:50,040 --> 00:19:52,800 Speaker 2: think is interesting. I agree with that. That's what I'm min. 499 00:19:53,000 --> 00:19:55,520 Speaker 3: This is if we're out getting like drinks or something. 500 00:19:55,600 --> 00:19:58,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, but what this listener is saying, essentially, if that 501 00:19:58,640 --> 00:20:01,160 Speaker 2: is the agreement, I'll just shout your next time we're out, 502 00:20:01,320 --> 00:20:03,680 Speaker 2: and they consistently don't, They just. 503 00:20:03,720 --> 00:20:06,320 Speaker 1: Oh, yeah, unless we are going around for round and 504 00:20:06,359 --> 00:20:08,800 Speaker 1: we are sitting down like at a bar where you 505 00:20:08,840 --> 00:20:11,119 Speaker 1: can actually go and get me the next round, like 506 00:20:11,200 --> 00:20:12,520 Speaker 1: right then and there. But if it's like, oh, I 507 00:20:12,560 --> 00:20:13,760 Speaker 1: bought you lunch, and they'll be like, I'll buy your 508 00:20:13,800 --> 00:20:15,080 Speaker 1: lunch next time, it's like, well you won't. 509 00:20:15,280 --> 00:20:17,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, you won't, and that's fine. 510 00:20:17,440 --> 00:20:18,800 Speaker 1: You might as well just try andswer me to twenty 511 00:20:18,840 --> 00:20:21,000 Speaker 1: dollars because like you're probably never gonna give me that money, 512 00:20:21,040 --> 00:20:22,600 Speaker 1: but like I'd rather just have it now, thank you. 513 00:20:22,640 --> 00:20:26,200 Speaker 2: No, literally, but I do struggle. And it's like, of course, 514 00:20:26,240 --> 00:20:28,880 Speaker 2: if you need money, of course, but like I do 515 00:20:28,960 --> 00:20:31,159 Speaker 2: struggle sometimes with my friends, like can you send me 516 00:20:31,200 --> 00:20:33,800 Speaker 2: sixteen dollars fifty? I'm like, I will just buy you 517 00:20:33,840 --> 00:20:34,480 Speaker 2: a cocktail. 518 00:20:34,840 --> 00:20:37,560 Speaker 1: No, absolutely, I think if it's if it's blow fifteen dollars, 519 00:20:37,640 --> 00:20:39,480 Speaker 1: you just kind of take the l unless it's a 520 00:20:40,280 --> 00:20:42,719 Speaker 1: consistent thing. Like I'm always someone that if I'm at 521 00:20:42,760 --> 00:20:44,159 Speaker 1: the bar with like three of my friends, I'm like, 522 00:20:44,200 --> 00:20:46,119 Speaker 1: I'll just get this round, yeah, do you know what 523 00:20:46,160 --> 00:20:48,040 Speaker 1: I mean, and then like someone will buy me the 524 00:20:48,080 --> 00:20:49,760 Speaker 1: next string. There's always going to be that one person 525 00:20:49,800 --> 00:20:51,879 Speaker 1: that never ends up getting mesh there round. 526 00:20:52,600 --> 00:20:54,000 Speaker 3: You just need to take note of that and not 527 00:20:54,040 --> 00:20:55,960 Speaker 3: be doing that again totally, you know what I mean? 528 00:20:56,040 --> 00:20:57,639 Speaker 1: And it was always people that just will take a 529 00:20:57,680 --> 00:20:59,760 Speaker 1: freebie and it fucking shits me up the wall. Singy 530 00:20:59,760 --> 00:21:01,720 Speaker 1: people or like one of my least favorite people. 531 00:21:01,560 --> 00:21:04,600 Speaker 2: On that am I like counter argument to the like 532 00:21:04,640 --> 00:21:09,040 Speaker 2: they're probably just taking freebies. I do think people forget absolutely, 533 00:21:09,040 --> 00:21:09,440 Speaker 2: It's like. 534 00:21:09,680 --> 00:21:11,200 Speaker 3: It's just depends if it's a pattern. 535 00:21:11,280 --> 00:21:13,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, all right. Should we get into the main 536 00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:14,119 Speaker 2: part of this? 537 00:21:14,359 --> 00:21:18,000 Speaker 1: All right, so when this comes out, Valentine's a will 538 00:21:18,000 --> 00:21:20,639 Speaker 1: have just been and no, I do not have a 539 00:21:20,720 --> 00:21:24,200 Speaker 1: Valentine this year, but I absolutely will have a Valentine 540 00:21:24,240 --> 00:21:26,399 Speaker 1: next year, so it's all good. But we are going 541 00:21:26,440 --> 00:21:30,520 Speaker 1: to get into some Valentine's and like situationship horror stories 542 00:21:31,119 --> 00:21:33,760 Speaker 1: because it'll make me feel better, thank you. All right, 543 00:21:33,880 --> 00:21:39,280 Speaker 1: let's get std situationship horror story, my short term situationship. Like, so, 544 00:21:39,359 --> 00:21:41,920 Speaker 1: short term situationship is it even really a situationship or 545 00:21:41,960 --> 00:21:43,120 Speaker 1: are you just like sleeping with someone? 546 00:21:43,160 --> 00:21:43,800 Speaker 3: Do you know what I mean? 547 00:21:43,960 --> 00:21:47,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, situationships. I feel like I've never been in one. 548 00:21:47,680 --> 00:21:53,160 Speaker 1: It's because I never stick around. But that's okay, that's 549 00:21:53,160 --> 00:21:55,800 Speaker 1: not a bad thing. My short term situationship found me 550 00:21:55,840 --> 00:21:58,919 Speaker 1: after a long term and shitty relationship and picked me 551 00:21:59,000 --> 00:22:01,159 Speaker 1: up just when I wore isn't ready to find someone. 552 00:22:01,640 --> 00:22:03,439 Speaker 1: Sometimes you meet someone at a shitty time, but you 553 00:22:03,520 --> 00:22:05,639 Speaker 1: go for it anyways because they're the complete opposite of 554 00:22:05,640 --> 00:22:08,160 Speaker 1: your ex in a good way. We saw each other 555 00:22:08,200 --> 00:22:12,199 Speaker 1: over the summer, think summer romance. See that's fun. Everything 556 00:22:12,200 --> 00:22:14,760 Speaker 1: I needed after a shitty breakup. However, I wasn't the 557 00:22:14,800 --> 00:22:17,479 Speaker 1: most amazing person to be in a situationship with. I 558 00:22:17,520 --> 00:22:20,040 Speaker 1: was emotionally unavailable and carrying lots of baggage after a. 559 00:22:20,000 --> 00:22:21,080 Speaker 3: Four year relationship. 560 00:22:21,600 --> 00:22:23,919 Speaker 1: I told this guy let's call him Chack, and I 561 00:22:23,960 --> 00:22:26,320 Speaker 1: was happy being casual because I wasn't ready to jump 562 00:22:26,359 --> 00:22:28,600 Speaker 1: into a relationship two months after a long one. 563 00:22:28,840 --> 00:22:31,280 Speaker 3: It's very fair, I think, and I think that's healthy 564 00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:32,560 Speaker 3: for context. 565 00:22:32,640 --> 00:22:34,840 Speaker 1: My ex cheated on me, so moving on quick wasn't 566 00:22:34,840 --> 00:22:36,600 Speaker 1: an issue for anyone but myself. 567 00:22:37,560 --> 00:22:39,080 Speaker 3: A love it. 568 00:22:39,680 --> 00:22:42,119 Speaker 1: Jack understood and decided to keep seeing me from November 569 00:22:42,200 --> 00:22:43,040 Speaker 1: until January. 570 00:22:43,600 --> 00:22:45,960 Speaker 3: Oh see, that's not it's not that short term. It's 571 00:22:46,000 --> 00:22:47,240 Speaker 3: like a couple months. I thought. 572 00:22:47,240 --> 00:22:48,520 Speaker 1: When you said like short term, I thought you were 573 00:22:48,520 --> 00:22:51,120 Speaker 1: talking like two weeks. I'm like, that's just a little fling. 574 00:22:51,760 --> 00:22:54,959 Speaker 1: January rolls around and he realizes I won't change my mind. See, 575 00:22:55,000 --> 00:22:57,080 Speaker 1: I think that's the key in a lot of situationships. 576 00:22:57,240 --> 00:22:58,320 Speaker 3: I feel like it. 577 00:22:58,240 --> 00:23:01,439 Speaker 1: Sadly tends to be the girl hopes like if I 578 00:23:01,480 --> 00:23:03,520 Speaker 1: see this person for long enough, they'll catch feelings. And 579 00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:07,760 Speaker 1: definitely it happens. But I think it's the exception, not 580 00:23:07,800 --> 00:23:09,800 Speaker 1: the rule for the most part. Do you know what 581 00:23:09,800 --> 00:23:10,120 Speaker 1: I mean? 582 00:23:10,640 --> 00:23:12,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's kind of refreshing when it happens to the guy. 583 00:23:13,240 --> 00:23:15,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, I like it. I'm enjoying this so far. It's 584 00:23:15,960 --> 00:23:18,920 Speaker 1: refreshing when the guy gets sucked over. So January rolls around. 585 00:23:18,960 --> 00:23:20,600 Speaker 1: He realized I won't change my mind, and then I 586 00:23:20,640 --> 00:23:22,960 Speaker 1: need to heal and better myself. After a relationship that 587 00:23:23,080 --> 00:23:25,240 Speaker 1: ruined me, I told him I was happy to keep 588 00:23:25,240 --> 00:23:28,480 Speaker 1: things casual until I sorted my shit out. Once Jack 589 00:23:28,520 --> 00:23:30,439 Speaker 1: realized I wouldn't change my mind, he backed out and 590 00:23:30,440 --> 00:23:34,240 Speaker 1: started break crumbling me and practically ghosting me the week, Like, 591 00:23:34,320 --> 00:23:36,439 Speaker 1: don't ghost just say hey. I kind of wanted it 592 00:23:36,480 --> 00:23:38,879 Speaker 1: to be something more. I've got feelings, like, obviously you're 593 00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:40,679 Speaker 1: not feeling that way. So like, let's just leave it 594 00:23:40,720 --> 00:23:43,119 Speaker 1: here kind of yeah, you know, ghosts. The week he 595 00:23:43,160 --> 00:23:44,680 Speaker 1: goes to me, I saw his friends at our local 596 00:23:44,720 --> 00:23:46,680 Speaker 1: pub and one of them apologized and said, I'm sorry, 597 00:23:46,760 --> 00:23:48,600 Speaker 1: Jack is ghosting you. And I laughed and said, what 598 00:23:48,640 --> 00:23:50,879 Speaker 1: do you mean, and he replied saying, oh shit, I 599 00:23:50,960 --> 00:23:54,080 Speaker 1: wasn't meant to say that. I went home devastated. Sunday morning. 600 00:23:54,080 --> 00:23:56,880 Speaker 1: I'm puffy eyed and sad until I see Jack typing. 601 00:23:57,280 --> 00:24:00,320 Speaker 1: I'm so happy thinking we're back. See, maybe I did 602 00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:03,320 Speaker 1: like Jack a little bit until I read the message 603 00:24:03,400 --> 00:24:06,280 Speaker 1: just before Valentine's Day. Hey, I got tested and I've 604 00:24:06,280 --> 00:24:09,000 Speaker 1: got chlamydia and goneria. You should probably get tested too. 605 00:24:09,440 --> 00:24:13,040 Speaker 1: Turns out I was completely clear. Oh noahs City. That 606 00:24:13,160 --> 00:24:16,160 Speaker 1: was the only Valentine's present I got that year. Dummy 607 00:24:16,640 --> 00:24:18,280 Speaker 1: didn't like being alone, so I told him that we 608 00:24:18,320 --> 00:24:20,520 Speaker 1: could work through it. Wait, that means he was obviously 609 00:24:20,560 --> 00:24:22,840 Speaker 1: sleeping with someone else, yes, Jack. 610 00:24:23,320 --> 00:24:25,919 Speaker 2: But then I guess they were having protected sex. 611 00:24:27,080 --> 00:24:31,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, which is a positive girl, girl, the only positive here. 612 00:24:31,440 --> 00:24:33,560 Speaker 1: Give me a week to think and i'll call you. 613 00:24:33,600 --> 00:24:35,560 Speaker 1: To this day, I've never received that call, and he 614 00:24:35,640 --> 00:24:37,600 Speaker 1: was just at another girl's house. The next week to 615 00:24:37,680 --> 00:24:40,000 Speaker 1: end on a positive note. I'm now in a happy relationship. 616 00:24:40,040 --> 00:24:42,919 Speaker 1: This was two years ago. He's still still single and 617 00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:44,840 Speaker 1: does hard drugs. So it's safe to say I dodge 618 00:24:44,880 --> 00:24:48,320 Speaker 1: a bought. Yeah, I'd say it is safe to say. 619 00:24:48,359 --> 00:24:48,600 Speaker 3: Girl. 620 00:24:48,640 --> 00:24:51,280 Speaker 1: Also, he shouldn't be at a girl's house the next 621 00:24:51,280 --> 00:24:52,919 Speaker 1: week if he's got chlamydia and gonerie. 622 00:24:52,960 --> 00:24:54,440 Speaker 3: I feel like it takes longer than that to clear 623 00:24:54,480 --> 00:24:54,920 Speaker 3: those things. 624 00:24:55,000 --> 00:24:55,720 Speaker 2: Clear that up, and. 625 00:24:55,840 --> 00:24:58,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, clear that up, and then you can go, wow, 626 00:24:58,359 --> 00:24:58,840 Speaker 1: we got it too. 627 00:24:58,920 --> 00:25:01,800 Speaker 2: I mean, like considering us his horror stories, I think 628 00:25:01,840 --> 00:25:03,080 Speaker 2: this is kind of out pretty. 629 00:25:02,800 --> 00:25:09,160 Speaker 3: Well, pretty well for you. Absolutely all right? Number two? 630 00:25:10,240 --> 00:25:13,000 Speaker 1: Hi, is he love the podcast? Yet another submission from me? 631 00:25:13,160 --> 00:25:15,600 Speaker 1: Oh she's a regular submitter. 632 00:25:15,880 --> 00:25:18,400 Speaker 5: Well, thank you, girl, Appreciate you were still he because 633 00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:22,080 Speaker 5: if you if meeting Mink from Love Island causes a 634 00:25:22,200 --> 00:25:24,240 Speaker 5: man you haven't even been on a date with yet 635 00:25:24,320 --> 00:25:26,280 Speaker 5: to accuse you of cheating this story it might be 636 00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:26,640 Speaker 5: for you. 637 00:25:27,160 --> 00:25:28,760 Speaker 3: If I haven't been on a date with you, I 638 00:25:28,760 --> 00:25:30,239 Speaker 3: can do whatever the fuck I want, do you know 639 00:25:30,240 --> 00:25:30,720 Speaker 3: what I mean? 640 00:25:30,880 --> 00:25:34,120 Speaker 1: Like that is not cheating. We're not in a relationship anyway. 641 00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:35,960 Speaker 1: So this all starts in twenty twenty four when I 642 00:25:36,040 --> 00:25:39,719 Speaker 1: fractured my spine shit, and to my physio, let's call 643 00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:42,360 Speaker 1: him Jai Gi. It's like kind of a hot name, 644 00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:45,159 Speaker 1: do you know what I mean? Like it's not like 645 00:25:45,240 --> 00:25:47,360 Speaker 1: a common name like you usually met an awful dry 646 00:25:47,720 --> 00:25:50,080 Speaker 1: I don't really know many. I just feel like it 647 00:25:50,160 --> 00:25:53,320 Speaker 1: kind of gives hot. He was six to four, brunette, 648 00:25:53,320 --> 00:25:56,679 Speaker 1: tan tattooed objectively hot, slight horse face. 649 00:25:59,280 --> 00:26:00,119 Speaker 3: I feel like though. 650 00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:06,840 Speaker 4: An mutually exclusive no slight horse face and objectively hot, 651 00:26:07,400 --> 00:26:10,280 Speaker 4: which my friends noticed immediately, but I ignored because I 652 00:26:10,359 --> 00:26:12,960 Speaker 4: was vulnerable and on painkillers at the time. 653 00:26:13,040 --> 00:26:15,520 Speaker 1: I was in an on and off relationship, so nothing happened. 654 00:26:15,840 --> 00:26:18,880 Speaker 1: We followed each other on Instagram innocent small town behavior, 655 00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:21,120 Speaker 1: and left it there. I don't know how i'd feel 656 00:26:21,119 --> 00:26:23,840 Speaker 1: about an objectively hot person massaging my body. 657 00:26:23,800 --> 00:26:26,560 Speaker 3: Do you know what I mean? It made me really nervous. 658 00:26:26,840 --> 00:26:28,520 Speaker 2: I just can't get the horsing out of my head. 659 00:26:28,560 --> 00:26:30,040 Speaker 2: I think you need to send us a visual. 660 00:26:30,320 --> 00:26:30,560 Speaker 3: I do. 661 00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:32,639 Speaker 1: I would like it visually, of like, I want to 662 00:26:32,640 --> 00:26:35,159 Speaker 1: know if he actually has like his horse face, you know, 663 00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:37,760 Speaker 1: but if all of your friends notice and you're the 664 00:26:37,800 --> 00:26:39,280 Speaker 1: only one that didn't, I think he might have a 665 00:26:39,320 --> 00:26:42,679 Speaker 1: horse face, which no one's said to say that's a 666 00:26:42,720 --> 00:26:46,359 Speaker 1: bad thing or a good thing. You know, everyone's different. 667 00:26:47,080 --> 00:26:50,040 Speaker 1: Fast forward a year, I'm single. Suddenly gay starts liking 668 00:26:50,080 --> 00:26:54,280 Speaker 1: my stories, not posts, just stories. I fucking hate when 669 00:26:54,320 --> 00:26:59,400 Speaker 1: guys don't like my posts. 670 00:26:57,840 --> 00:26:58,800 Speaker 3: But like my stories. 671 00:26:58,840 --> 00:27:01,280 Speaker 1: I agree, it's kind of like an extra like on 672 00:27:01,320 --> 00:27:03,919 Speaker 1: my post doesn't matter. But it's like you're clearly like 673 00:27:03,920 --> 00:27:06,040 Speaker 1: trying to slide in, but like you're not even liking 674 00:27:06,080 --> 00:27:07,200 Speaker 1: my posts, you know what I mean. 675 00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:08,840 Speaker 2: I just think it's and you don't want to put 676 00:27:08,840 --> 00:27:09,119 Speaker 2: your name. 677 00:27:09,280 --> 00:27:11,679 Speaker 3: It's fuck boy energy is what I get from that. 678 00:27:11,800 --> 00:27:14,280 Speaker 3: The story is a private one, Yes, that's that's. 679 00:27:14,040 --> 00:27:17,080 Speaker 1: What I think. Then he uploads a gym first trap. 680 00:27:17,119 --> 00:27:20,000 Speaker 1: I swipe up and we start talking. I hate that 681 00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:22,239 Speaker 1: he didn't swipe up first, Like I hate that, Like 682 00:27:22,720 --> 00:27:24,840 Speaker 1: they just like like like like until you have the 683 00:27:24,920 --> 00:27:26,760 Speaker 1: balls to fucking do something about it, and it pisces 684 00:27:26,800 --> 00:27:27,840 Speaker 1: me off anyway. 685 00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:29,439 Speaker 3: At first, it's amazing. 686 00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:32,600 Speaker 1: He's attentive, talking about future plans, things will do together, 687 00:27:32,960 --> 00:27:36,160 Speaker 1: and even brings up string theory like we cross paths 688 00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:38,520 Speaker 1: years ago because of fate, which is wild considering our 689 00:27:38,560 --> 00:27:41,600 Speaker 1: first meeting involves him telling me my glutes weren't activating 690 00:27:43,080 --> 00:27:45,680 Speaker 1: About a week in. He's sending red love heart emojis 691 00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:48,680 Speaker 1: and saying he misses me. How do you miss someone 692 00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:51,280 Speaker 1: you ever met? Reminder we live for our hours apart 693 00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:55,919 Speaker 1: and we've only met once. Minor concern I ignored around Christmas. 694 00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:58,080 Speaker 1: His friend slides into my DMS and I shut it 695 00:27:58,080 --> 00:27:59,840 Speaker 1: down immediately, saying I'm talking to jar. 696 00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:02,760 Speaker 3: I wonder how long you guys have been talking at 697 00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:03,200 Speaker 3: this point. 698 00:28:03,359 --> 00:28:06,160 Speaker 1: That same friend then warns me that Gi is fresh 699 00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:09,160 Speaker 1: out of a relationship and a bit of a player. Well, yeah, 700 00:28:09,280 --> 00:28:11,840 Speaker 1: this is confusing because Gay told me his last relationship 701 00:28:11,920 --> 00:28:14,560 Speaker 1: was two years ago, and then he was deeply traumatized 702 00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:18,000 Speaker 1: from being cheated on. Naturally, I think I can fix him. 703 00:28:18,520 --> 00:28:20,760 Speaker 1: I don't think Gie's deeply traumatized from being cheated on. 704 00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:22,480 Speaker 1: I think GI was the cheater, and I can say 705 00:28:22,520 --> 00:28:25,320 Speaker 1: that just from these couple little sentences I've read. GI 706 00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:28,199 Speaker 1: finds out his friend messaged me and absolutely loses it 707 00:28:28,240 --> 00:28:31,280 Speaker 1: at me, not the friend me. He tells me to 708 00:28:31,320 --> 00:28:35,200 Speaker 1: delete hinge reminder, we haven't met it's been two weeks. 709 00:28:35,200 --> 00:28:39,880 Speaker 1: Oh okay, and technically I don't even know his middle name. 710 00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:43,120 Speaker 1: I apologize way too much. That's always the thing. Yeah, 711 00:28:43,200 --> 00:28:46,160 Speaker 1: that's my big fault that I'm really hoping moving forward. 712 00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:49,040 Speaker 1: I've learned from in time is to stop apologizing for 713 00:28:49,120 --> 00:28:52,920 Speaker 1: things that aren't my fault. He takes a day to think, 714 00:28:53,040 --> 00:28:55,960 Speaker 1: then decides to give us a chance. How generous, How 715 00:28:56,000 --> 00:28:59,040 Speaker 1: fucking generous? Then New Year's Eve, I mean Mick from 716 00:28:59,080 --> 00:29:03,160 Speaker 1: Love Island. I post it because he's iconic and funny 717 00:29:03,560 --> 00:29:05,120 Speaker 1: and absolutely not my boyfriend. 718 00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:11,240 Speaker 3: Yeah. Absolutely. Gai, however, decides this is evidence. He implies, 719 00:29:11,240 --> 00:29:11,960 Speaker 3: I'm dating Mick. 720 00:29:12,200 --> 00:29:15,000 Speaker 1: People act like because I post someone on my story 721 00:29:15,080 --> 00:29:17,160 Speaker 1: like a random guy, it's like, that's my boyfriend. Best 722 00:29:17,160 --> 00:29:19,440 Speaker 1: believe if it was my boyfriend, I wouldn't be randomly 723 00:29:19,480 --> 00:29:20,840 Speaker 1: posting like that, do. 724 00:29:20,880 --> 00:29:21,480 Speaker 3: You know what I mean? 725 00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:23,200 Speaker 2: I'd make it a bit clear if it were. 726 00:29:23,160 --> 00:29:25,320 Speaker 1: I'd wait, or you'd wait a bit longer, you know 727 00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:27,760 Speaker 1: what I mean? Like, he implies I'm dating Mick and 728 00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:30,280 Speaker 1: says I should spend more time with my boyfriend, suggesting 729 00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:33,120 Speaker 1: I cheated on him with Mick Gai, who I haven't 730 00:29:33,160 --> 00:29:35,240 Speaker 1: even been on a date with yet. From that point on, 731 00:29:35,480 --> 00:29:39,360 Speaker 1: he's weirdly petty, pulling back, acting distance, making comments about 732 00:29:39,400 --> 00:29:42,640 Speaker 1: how I'm not that into him, or because I once 733 00:29:42,800 --> 00:29:46,320 Speaker 1: existed near a man from reality TV. If you're texting 734 00:29:46,360 --> 00:29:48,480 Speaker 1: anyone saying I don't think you're that into me, or 735 00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:49,760 Speaker 1: like you're not that into me, it's over. 736 00:29:49,840 --> 00:29:51,920 Speaker 3: It's already over. Do you know what I mean? Just 737 00:29:51,920 --> 00:29:52,440 Speaker 3: give it up. 738 00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:56,480 Speaker 1: Finally, we go on a date, drinks, share, plate's genuinely nice, 739 00:29:56,680 --> 00:29:59,240 Speaker 1: just a bit awkward. Everything shuts early, so we go 740 00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:01,600 Speaker 1: back to his place. We sleep together, and he asked 741 00:30:01,600 --> 00:30:03,240 Speaker 1: me to stay the night, which I take as a 742 00:30:03,280 --> 00:30:07,920 Speaker 1: green flag. Morning comes, daylight exposes crimes, facial hair clippings 743 00:30:07,920 --> 00:30:11,680 Speaker 1: all over the sink, and the toilet is brown. Not metaphorically, 744 00:30:12,080 --> 00:30:15,840 Speaker 1: I love the way this girl writes clothes everywhere. I 745 00:30:15,880 --> 00:30:17,600 Speaker 1: wake up with the bug bites that I still have 746 00:30:17,680 --> 00:30:19,959 Speaker 1: scars from the aura was not just off, it had 747 00:30:20,000 --> 00:30:22,480 Speaker 1: left the building. A week later, we had a huge 748 00:30:22,600 --> 00:30:24,600 Speaker 1: argument because I asked him what he's having for dinner 749 00:30:24,640 --> 00:30:27,760 Speaker 1: and jokingly say tuna and rice because that's all he 750 00:30:27,880 --> 00:30:31,200 Speaker 1: meal preps. He snaps, goes cold and tells me I 751 00:30:31,240 --> 00:30:32,400 Speaker 1: don't make him feel secure. 752 00:30:33,720 --> 00:30:34,480 Speaker 3: Eh. 753 00:30:34,520 --> 00:30:36,960 Speaker 1: He continues yet again to bring up Mick from Love Island. 754 00:30:37,640 --> 00:30:39,480 Speaker 1: I think he was in love with him at this point, 755 00:30:40,080 --> 00:30:41,880 Speaker 1: tries to bring my ex into it and makes more 756 00:30:41,880 --> 00:30:42,720 Speaker 1: silly remarks. 757 00:30:43,040 --> 00:30:44,080 Speaker 3: This becomes a pattern. 758 00:30:44,600 --> 00:30:47,000 Speaker 1: He gets upset at harmless jokes, pulls away, and then 759 00:30:47,040 --> 00:30:49,760 Speaker 1: comes back the next day acting like nothing happened. I 760 00:30:49,840 --> 00:30:52,440 Speaker 1: hate that, even like having an argument with a friend 761 00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:54,600 Speaker 1: and then the next day they just pretend everything's fine. 762 00:30:54,640 --> 00:30:58,720 Speaker 1: It's like, no, like, let's discuss because we're still now 763 00:30:58,760 --> 00:30:59,120 Speaker 1: going to. 764 00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:01,120 Speaker 3: Be angry about it, and we like, do you know 765 00:31:01,160 --> 00:31:01,640 Speaker 3: what I mean? 766 00:31:01,800 --> 00:31:02,040 Speaker 4: Yeah? 767 00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:04,360 Speaker 3: I hate when people pretend like things just haven't happened. 768 00:31:04,560 --> 00:31:05,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, they're like, let's just park it. 769 00:31:05,720 --> 00:31:06,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, let's just. 770 00:31:06,200 --> 00:31:10,360 Speaker 1: Pretend this didn't happen. No, just gas lading. The final 771 00:31:10,440 --> 00:31:12,200 Speaker 1: straw comes when he's in Melbourne for a wedding and 772 00:31:12,200 --> 00:31:14,080 Speaker 1: he asked to say at my place. I say no, 773 00:31:14,720 --> 00:31:17,880 Speaker 1: I already have a friend over and he has accommodation. 774 00:31:18,400 --> 00:31:19,680 Speaker 3: I give him plenty of notice. 775 00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:23,040 Speaker 1: He ignores this, travels into the city anyway, repeatedly calls me, 776 00:31:23,200 --> 00:31:25,120 Speaker 1: swears at me, and then tells me he's sleeping on 777 00:31:25,160 --> 00:31:28,120 Speaker 1: a bench at Southern Cross Station because of me. And 778 00:31:28,120 --> 00:31:31,560 Speaker 1: then I've made him homeless. A fully employed physio with accommodation. 779 00:31:31,760 --> 00:31:35,680 Speaker 1: Homeless by choice checks out, It does check up. He 780 00:31:35,720 --> 00:31:37,200 Speaker 1: wouldn't have been on a bench. He wouldn't have been 781 00:31:37,200 --> 00:31:39,440 Speaker 1: anywhere in Southern Cross Station when he sent that message. 782 00:31:39,600 --> 00:31:41,480 Speaker 1: My friends and I have since made an aimeme of 783 00:31:41,520 --> 00:31:43,680 Speaker 1: him asleep on the bench with tuna and rice, because 784 00:31:43,760 --> 00:31:47,800 Speaker 1: healing isn't linear, but human sure helps. I think I ignored 785 00:31:47,640 --> 00:31:49,880 Speaker 1: the red flags because he was a physio twenty five 786 00:31:49,920 --> 00:31:52,240 Speaker 1: and buying a house. Turns out that none of that 787 00:31:52,320 --> 00:31:55,440 Speaker 1: equals emotional regulation. He has now blocked my spine. 788 00:31:55,520 --> 00:31:58,959 Speaker 3: Healed faster than this situationship hilarious. That sounds like a 789 00:31:58,960 --> 00:31:59,960 Speaker 3: fucking nightmare. 790 00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:04,040 Speaker 2: Holy crap, Poor girl who ends up with that submission? 791 00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:06,640 Speaker 1: Three, Hey is he By the way, You're absolutely glowing 792 00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:08,480 Speaker 1: and I love your pot. It honestly makes my week. 793 00:32:08,560 --> 00:32:11,640 Speaker 1: Thank you so much, angel girl. Okay, So I started 794 00:32:12,280 --> 00:32:13,920 Speaker 1: talking to this guy, and at first I was like, 795 00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:16,840 Speaker 1: he's a bit too perfect, exactly my type, super caring, 796 00:32:17,000 --> 00:32:21,200 Speaker 1: replying fast, remembering tiny things, sending good morning texts, And 797 00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:24,680 Speaker 1: I'm like, wow, is this emotional maturity? No, it was 798 00:32:24,720 --> 00:32:27,479 Speaker 1: the trailer before the horror movie. I saw this thing 799 00:32:27,520 --> 00:32:29,960 Speaker 1: on Instagram the other day on a real side note, 800 00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:32,400 Speaker 1: and it was like being loved is to be considered 801 00:32:32,920 --> 00:32:36,480 Speaker 1: like people like considering your feelings and considering like things. 802 00:32:36,280 --> 00:32:38,000 Speaker 3: Like that, And I was like, that's so sweet. Okay, 803 00:32:38,040 --> 00:32:38,760 Speaker 3: first red flag? 804 00:32:39,920 --> 00:32:42,920 Speaker 1: He added me on everything, Instagram, Snapchat, TikTok, and even 805 00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:44,000 Speaker 1: LinkedIn Snapchat. 806 00:32:44,280 --> 00:32:45,440 Speaker 3: Is my first red flag? 807 00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:46,160 Speaker 2: There LinkedIn? 808 00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:49,920 Speaker 1: You fucking dare add me on Snapchat. I don't care. 809 00:32:50,040 --> 00:32:52,160 Speaker 1: We're dating for three years. I don't want to see 810 00:32:52,200 --> 00:32:55,120 Speaker 1: your name on my Snapchat. I really need to delete 811 00:32:55,120 --> 00:32:56,920 Speaker 1: that shit. We hung out a few times and it 812 00:32:56,960 --> 00:33:00,760 Speaker 1: was fun and it was fun. Then he says I 813 00:33:00,760 --> 00:33:05,720 Speaker 1: had a dream about you. Cute, then continues you got kidnapped. Okay, 814 00:33:06,160 --> 00:33:07,479 Speaker 1: we'd only been on three dates. 815 00:33:07,760 --> 00:33:10,640 Speaker 3: Maybe that means he's thinking about you. He cares about you. 816 00:33:11,920 --> 00:33:13,760 Speaker 1: Then I post a story at a cafe and he says, 817 00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:16,920 Speaker 1: thought you hated MATCHA. I mentioned it once in a voice, 818 00:33:16,960 --> 00:33:19,320 Speaker 1: not a month ago. Who stores that kind of information. 819 00:33:20,080 --> 00:33:22,000 Speaker 1: He then starts showing up to places I said I 820 00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:25,080 Speaker 1: might go, the area being forty minutes from his house. 821 00:33:25,800 --> 00:33:29,280 Speaker 1: It's fucking creepy. The final boss moment, I'm out with 822 00:33:29,360 --> 00:33:32,320 Speaker 1: friends and I didn't say where. He texts me saying, 823 00:33:32,520 --> 00:33:35,920 Speaker 1: bluetop looks good on you. I said I was wearing 824 00:33:35,960 --> 00:33:38,160 Speaker 1: a bluetop, but I hadn't posted it. Turns out he 825 00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:41,400 Speaker 1: followed my friends, stalked her stories. I confronted him and 826 00:33:41,400 --> 00:33:44,400 Speaker 1: he just said, I like knowing you're safe, safe from what? 827 00:33:44,840 --> 00:33:44,959 Speaker 3: Like? 828 00:33:45,520 --> 00:33:49,080 Speaker 1: No, that's fucking terrifying. I blocked him, changed my privacy 829 00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:52,560 Speaker 1: settings and felt like I needed witness protection. Two months later, 830 00:33:52,600 --> 00:33:56,640 Speaker 1: he requested my mom's Instagram. My mom has like fourteen followers. 831 00:33:57,040 --> 00:34:00,480 Speaker 1: That's terrifying. Some men just need to just relax. 832 00:34:01,080 --> 00:34:01,560 Speaker 3: Relax. 833 00:34:01,800 --> 00:34:03,040 Speaker 2: Girls gotta run. 834 00:34:03,120 --> 00:34:06,360 Speaker 3: Girls, Actually she did run. Yeah, rum's got to I 835 00:34:06,360 --> 00:34:07,640 Speaker 3: don't trust run. 836 00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:13,560 Speaker 1: What else that was today's episode? Obviously it was a 837 00:34:13,600 --> 00:34:16,239 Speaker 1: shorty bitty goodie. We'll do a part two to these 838 00:34:16,320 --> 00:34:20,919 Speaker 1: submissions next week and we'll get some guests rolling in soon. 839 00:34:20,960 --> 00:34:23,719 Speaker 1: These last couple of weeks have been really hectic, so 840 00:34:23,800 --> 00:34:26,600 Speaker 1: I like, you know, just recording with myself. 841 00:34:26,239 --> 00:34:29,080 Speaker 3: Because that's how I'm comfortable. But I definitely, you know, 842 00:34:29,080 --> 00:34:31,000 Speaker 3: we're pushing ourselves out of my convient zone this year, 843 00:34:31,040 --> 00:34:32,480 Speaker 3: so I need to get some bodies on. I will. 844 00:34:32,600 --> 00:34:35,000 Speaker 3: I promise to stay chick, stay checked, Love you guys, 845 00:34:35,000 --> 00:34:36,640 Speaker 3: and I'll speak to you next week. But I