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Speaker 1: Seeing with Her with Kate Richie Podcast.

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Speaker 2: It is a bit of fun when a family member

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Speaker 2: or a friend brings home a new partner, isn't it,

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Speaker 2: and you dissect them. When they leave the room, you

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Speaker 2: sort of sit down and you have a bit of

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Speaker 2: a chat together.

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Speaker 3: Told you it's awful when you are that person, because

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Speaker 3: you do know that as soon as you've met them,

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Speaker 3: and then you leave the room, there's the kind of

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Speaker 3: like god like, even if it's just the raised eyebrows,

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Speaker 3: or do you like her?

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Speaker 4: I told you about the guy one time. My sister

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Speaker 4: bought him around for dinner one time. We hadn't met

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Speaker 4: him before, and go we're halfway through our manes and

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Speaker 4: he told a story about how he was circumcised and

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Speaker 4: then it was buried in the backyard. No, we did

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Speaker 4: put his knife and fork down and she's just send

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Speaker 4: the tree that grew.

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Speaker 3: But he got so nervous, he got so nervous he

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Speaker 3: didn't know what to say. And I'm sure as those

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Speaker 3: words were coming out of it's like, what am I doing?

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Speaker 1: I've done the circumcision thing.

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Speaker 5: What how long did you hate date? Ivan? My lapfall?

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Speaker 1: Oh, you can't make it. In the last stories, and Campbellton.

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Speaker 4: You really let's move on from that.

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Speaker 2: So a woman was left mortified after her brothers gave

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Speaker 2: her ex boyfriend a brutal and disapproving nickname. She's twenty,

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Speaker 2: she was twenty years of age doesn't help when she

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Speaker 2: brings am a forty year old bloke to family.

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Speaker 1: Well, age shouldn't matter.

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Speaker 2: She really liked him, but after three months she had

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Speaker 2: to break up with him after she was sick of

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Speaker 2: everyone calling him old man River, old man.

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Speaker 1: Families are so annoying, love, she.

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Speaker 2: Said, I broke up with him and I only dated

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Speaker 2: men my own age after that. I just couldn't deal

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Speaker 2: with it anymore. It was such an ick to hear

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Speaker 2: that nickname. Every time I brought him into their lives,

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Speaker 2: he would just say the wound how the words, old man.

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Speaker 1: Old man River.

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Speaker 2: I told you about Christian, the girl that I was

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Speaker 2: seeing in Sydney, and then I got traded to Adelaide

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Speaker 2: and I started a long distance relationship Kate.

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Speaker 5: And I thought, okay, let's do this.

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Speaker 2: She was a bit iffy about it, and I said no,

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Speaker 2: let's just try a long distance relationship.

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Speaker 5: A week later.

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Speaker 2: A one week later, she was seen at East gardens

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Speaker 2: at the movies with another guy. They say she got

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Speaker 2: the nickname Pearl Harbor because that's the movie that she

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Speaker 2: was seeing at the time, and she.

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Speaker 5: Left behind a trail of destruction.

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Speaker 1: Can I just say one thing, Vizy.

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Speaker 3: If you want to attempt a long distance relationship and

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Speaker 3: one of you is iffy about it, which is the

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Speaker 3: way you described it, it's best not to try.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, my sister dated another guy who was short. Her

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Speaker 4: hid around the door and dad found him one time

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Speaker 4: when it's knuck into the house. So he was just

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Speaker 4: referred to as the sneaky wrestler. He was the wrestler.

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Speaker 4: He didn't last long either.

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Speaker 5: But brutal nicknames for partners Kate and Manly. What do

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Speaker 5: you got for us? Kate? Hello Kate?

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Speaker 6: Chicken chicken legs?

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Speaker 1: And who is that? Now?

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Speaker 2: Does he how does he go with being cooled chicken legs?

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Speaker 2: Does he have a bit of a laugh Kate? Or

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Speaker 2: is he over it?

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Speaker 6: It's sort of worn off now, but it was definitely

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Speaker 6: definitely put him in his place when he first was

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Speaker 6: introduced to the family.

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Speaker 3: Last time he wears shortss coming that's.

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Speaker 2: Good Leanne and Campbelltown. What was the nickname Leanne.

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Speaker 5: It was trushcan Oh, trushcan Why?

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Speaker 3: It was my son's ex girlfriend and my youngest son

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Speaker 3: just thought she was trashy.

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Speaker 5: And he's like, she's trash can Oh?

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Speaker 2: Did the brother ever find out? Did your son find

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Speaker 2: out that the nickname was there?

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Speaker 5: Leanne?

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Speaker 1: I found out?

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Speaker 2: And if we still talk about it, to be staying,

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Speaker 2: I'm talking fifteen years lady, we still refer to her as.

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Speaker 5: Track I went.

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Speaker 4: I went with this girl who turned up with a

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Speaker 4: fluffy hat on once and the rest of the family

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Speaker 4: caught her skin the Cat. She was known as skin

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Speaker 4: the cat and still a skin the cat cat.

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Speaker 1: Because it looked like a skimmed cat on a head.

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Speaker 1: Why did she wear a fluffy hat?

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Speaker 2: Don't know?

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Speaker 1: Where did you leave Russia?

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Speaker 5: It was gold Adam in Peekers. What's the nickname? Madgie Mony?

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Speaker 6: Guys, we used to call our sisters ex the pothole

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Speaker 6: because at parties you do everything to avoid him.

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Speaker 4: Was he that bad? Adam?

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Speaker 6: He was terrible? Just the one word answered. You'd ask

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Speaker 6: how the holiday when saying, and he's great. You must

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Speaker 6: have some great stories to tell from six weeks overseas.

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Speaker 4: No, what a pest what a pothole can ruin your

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Speaker 4: car and your night out?

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Speaker 5: Leanne?

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Speaker 4: Nania?

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Speaker 5: What did you called your sister in law?

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Speaker 2: Leanne?

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Speaker 1: We used to call her the rash?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Why the rash?

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Speaker 5: Because no matter how hard you charge, you could never

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Speaker 5: get rid of.

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Speaker 1: Have you got rid of an hour? After all these years? Leandy?

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Speaker 5: When did you break it?

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Speaker 4: Was?

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Speaker 5: Actually it should been riding him because some of her

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Speaker 5: partners her boyfriend.

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Speaker 4: Right, So when I mean when you when they had left,

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Speaker 4: was it okay? Or did you tell them that the

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Speaker 4: nickname was the rash? Do you reveal the nickname?

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Speaker 1: My brothers were very brutal, they used to tell him

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Speaker 1: all the time.

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Speaker 5: I mean, you can have that. These is sort of

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Speaker 5: you could have in the background. Can't you tell me

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Speaker 5: what they are?

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Speaker 3: Funny though, aren't they when you know you're all talking

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Speaker 3: about the same person.

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Speaker 1: But it is a bit.

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Speaker 4: Tommy, you went out with a girl and used to

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Speaker 4: call her snado O'Connor? Remember that?

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Speaker 5: Why was they no?

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Speaker 1: Well?

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Speaker 5: She shaved her head unctively.

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Speaker 4: Yes, yes, because you used to go things aren't good

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Speaker 4: with your name? Yeah, and you go it's been seven.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, which and it wasn't It wasn't for charity, because

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Speaker 2: if you did it for charity, that's awesome.

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Speaker 5: She just she just did it either.

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: She wasn't joining the army.

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Speaker 4: It wasn't on your head.

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Speaker 1: Maybe it was hot.

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Speaker 5: It does it looks O'Connor and Natalie Portman.

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Speaker 4: How long did you last after that shaved?

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Speaker 5: That sort of broke us up?

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Speaker 2: I thought.

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Speaker 5: A sign in the Yeah, but at.

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Speaker 3: Least you didn't wake up in the in the middle

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Speaker 3: of the night with her shaving your.

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Speaker 4: I would probably would have preferred that.

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Speaker 1: I mean, what's strange.

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Speaker 5: Tommy with a shaved he would look amaze.

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Speaker 1: You have to have a good head.

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Speaker 4: You've got one, Tommy. All right, you're on the this

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Speaker 4: red room. You could be at the Kidner Roy, what

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Speaker 4: do you.

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Speaker 5: Say he should not show?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 1: No, what, I'm sorry? That was not passing judgment on

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Speaker 1: your head.

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Speaker 5: Thank you. I take all feedback on board.

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Speaker 4: That's okay, can thanks.

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Speaker 2: Thanks. Pothole Sits in Whipper with Kate Ritchie is a

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