WEBVTT - MUM'S BEWARE! (We're the targets)

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<v Speaker 1>Apod shape production.

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<v Speaker 2>Book back to another episode, a new episode, a new

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<v Speaker 2>season of.

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<v Speaker 1>Am I a Bad Mum Podcast? Hope holidays went well?

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<v Speaker 3>School holidays? Aren't they a treat? Everyone's breathing that big

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<v Speaker 3>sigh of relief as the kids skip off to school

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<v Speaker 3>again for another term.

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<v Speaker 2>Did they skip off to school though, or did they

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<v Speaker 2>kind of like stumble their way there, going.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't buy my other shoe.

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<v Speaker 2>And I did the whole Make sure you've got all

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<v Speaker 2>your stuff organized, make sure you know where both your

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<v Speaker 2>shoes are, make sure you know your hats are.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I did the same thing. I was, like, I

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<v Speaker 3>said to both of them as they were going to

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<v Speaker 3>bed the night before school going back, At least you

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<v Speaker 3>could do would be to get your school bag out

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<v Speaker 3>of the cupboard that's been in there for two weeks

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<v Speaker 3>and hope to God that there is no food, no

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<v Speaker 3>old water bottles, no leftover sports gear that still smells.

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<v Speaker 3>Because I usually go through on the last day and

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<v Speaker 3>clear out the bag, and I did not those holidays.

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<v Speaker 2>Allowing them to figure that out themselves. Oh morning off,

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<v Speaker 2>Oh your old lunchbox is still in there with the

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<v Speaker 2>moldy food from two weeks ago.

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<v Speaker 3>Honestly, anything could have been in there. The least you

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<v Speaker 3>could do the night before would be to get your

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<v Speaker 3>bags out of the cupboard and check that your stuff

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<v Speaker 3>is basically ready to go.

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<v Speaker 2>Am I bad mum for not worrying about my kids.

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<v Speaker 3>Just in general. Well, is the back end of holidays.

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<v Speaker 2>There was an incident where they pulled me up and

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, oh shit, yeah, I just was completely

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<v Speaker 2>thinking about myself, which is such not a mum thing

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<v Speaker 2>to do. But I'm going to start off this actually

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<v Speaker 2>with just explaining something a little bit more serious that

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<v Speaker 2>happened over the holidays, in that someone tried to break

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<v Speaker 2>into our house. So we were away and we had

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<v Speaker 2>a girl who was house sitting for us and feeding

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<v Speaker 2>the pets and all the rest of.

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<v Speaker 1>It, which was great.

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<v Speaker 2>She sends me a message whilst we were away saying, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>think my car got broken into last night. Any chance

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<v Speaker 2>she could check your cameras. So I'm like, oh shit,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm checking the cameras and I've gone back and I'm

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<v Speaker 2>like there's literally nothing. Like I've gone back the whole

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<v Speaker 2>night and I cannot find anything. She was like, it's

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<v Speaker 2>definitely been broken into. I've called the police. I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>gonna touch it. I'm just gonna wait and see, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>make sure I don't put any fingerprints on it and

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<v Speaker 2>all the rest of it. And I was like, this

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<v Speaker 2>is really weird. Like I'm looking at the camera and

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<v Speaker 2>there's literally nothing. You know why, right, Because it happened

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<v Speaker 2>at seven point thirty that morning. I was not thinking

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<v Speaker 2>someone's trying to break into the house with two cars

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<v Speaker 2>in the driveway at seven point thirty in the morning,

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<v Speaker 2>neighbors are out, bright sunshine on.

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<v Speaker 3>Daylight, gord daylight.

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<v Speaker 2>And the reason that I'm telling this story is because

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<v Speaker 2>I want mums to be aware, because the police actually

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<v Speaker 2>told us that it's a very common time for people

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<v Speaker 2>to break in around that seven thirty eight am kind

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<v Speaker 2>of time, and the reason being because mums are getting

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<v Speaker 2>kids ready for school, and the amount of times you

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<v Speaker 2>get into the car and you go, oh shit, I

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<v Speaker 2>forgot the lunch box, and then you run in to

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<v Speaker 2>get the lunch box, leave your car unlocked, possibly possibly

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<v Speaker 2>leave your front door unlocked. That's when they're coming in

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<v Speaker 2>and getting stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, right, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>And the other time that's really popular apparently now is

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<v Speaker 2>four pm. Same thing that kind of get in between in.

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<v Speaker 3>Between the in between rush of getting home, unpacking, grabbing.

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<v Speaker 2>The sports stuff for the after school activities, that kind

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<v Speaker 2>of thing. So this guy rage honestly didn't even try

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<v Speaker 2>to look not dodgy, like full dodgy black tracksuit, hood up,

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<v Speaker 2>wearing a glove so that he obviously couldn't leave any fingerprints.

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<v Speaker 2>He's come down our driveway. He's been startled by a

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<v Speaker 2>neighbor opening their garage door. He's hopped over the fence,

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<v Speaker 2>he's gone into our back garden. You can see him

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<v Speaker 2>Rache peering around because he can see the person in

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<v Speaker 2>the house.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I know he's peering.

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<v Speaker 2>Around, and then he still goes to try and unlock

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<v Speaker 2>the back doors and the side laundry.

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<v Speaker 3>Door, Yeah, whilst watching the person and outside.

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<v Speaker 2>So my thing was like, I spent honestly days going

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<v Speaker 2>what the fuck would have happened if that door was open? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>one of the doors was unlocked. You could see him

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<v Speaker 2>in the video opening.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, oh my.

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<v Speaker 2>God, oh my god, he's opening the door. Luckily safe

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<v Speaker 2>was locked. But how many times do you have your

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<v Speaker 2>back door unlocked while you're home? And that's exactly why

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<v Speaker 2>they're coming.

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<v Speaker 1>In at those times. Yeah, right, So public service safety.

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<v Speaker 3>And announcement, Katie's on it.

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<v Speaker 2>Lock your car if you have to pop back in,

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<v Speaker 2>because if we've gotten something for school, lock your car,

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<v Speaker 2>lock your front door, lock your back doors.

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<v Speaker 1>It's sad that we have to do that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and I'm not like taking the safety message away

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<v Speaker 3>from this, but I mean, if you're having that kind

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<v Speaker 3>of day and your kids are still in the car,

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<v Speaker 3>do you have to lock it then or just hope.

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<v Speaker 2>That Honestly, he would have tried to take the car

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<v Speaker 2>with the kids, He would have returned it really.

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<v Speaker 3>Quickly at the moment, would be heavily returned quite quickly

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<v Speaker 3>with the car.

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<v Speaker 1>Take the car back, here's your keys. I thought this

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<v Speaker 1>would be a great idea.

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<v Speaker 3>I've changed your mind.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I really want to do this.

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<v Speaker 2>So the worrying about my kids thing is that this

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<v Speaker 2>morning was the first morning that I was in the

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<v Speaker 2>house by myself, and I found it a bit traumatic,

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<v Speaker 2>the thinking about someone being right there in my backyard. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>like it's just safe space. I could see him trying

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<v Speaker 2>all of our doors like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>It's affected me quite a bit, like I've become a

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<v Speaker 2>little bit paranoid, but like, I didn't want to hang

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<v Speaker 2>washing out on my washing line for a good few

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<v Speaker 2>days because that's you know where he was, That's where

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<v Speaker 2>he jumped over the fence. Like it just I don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>it just freaked me out a little bit. But I've

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<v Speaker 2>been okay. But I realized that I've been okay because

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<v Speaker 2>there's always been someone else in the house. This morning

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<v Speaker 2>was the first time that I was going to be

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<v Speaker 2>in the house by myself.

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<v Speaker 3>Rach.

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<v Speaker 2>Honestly, I went and had a shower and put the

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<v Speaker 2>alarm on downstairs. Whilst I was in the shower, You're like,

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<v Speaker 2>I just gonna I was watching the camera because we

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<v Speaker 2>got all new cameras. People that alert you, Yeah, because

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<v Speaker 2>that was the problem, Like we had those security cameras,

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<v Speaker 2>but it didn't alert me.

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<v Speaker 1>So I didn't think I needed to have a look back. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>until she said that her car was broken into.

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<v Speaker 2>And so now we've got all these new cameras. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 2>just but I've put the shower on to get warm,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm checking the driveway.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just some neurotic But.

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<v Speaker 2>It's funny because Day said to the girls as he

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<v Speaker 2>was taking them to school, he said, oh, Mom's a

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<v Speaker 2>bit nervous. They were like, why is she nervous? He said,

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<v Speaker 2>she's a bit nervous because it's the first time she's

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<v Speaker 2>been in the house by herself. They turned around today

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<v Speaker 2>and they went.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, she left us in the house by ourselves all

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<v Speaker 1>last week.

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<v Speaker 3>Were they all right? They've done well off the back

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<v Speaker 3>of this.

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<v Speaker 1>They were fine. They were surprisingly fine.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I definitely thought that there would be some kind of

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<v Speaker 2>back to the days of I'm not staying home by

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<v Speaker 2>myself and calling me what time are you coming home?

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<v Speaker 1>That kind of thing.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what I thought, at least one of them. I

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<v Speaker 3>thought we'd have that much. I would have going. Actually,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to think of it, probably not keen to

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<v Speaker 3>stay by ourselves.

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<v Speaker 2>I found it quite strange. I mean, it's good that

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<v Speaker 2>they're not scared, but I kind of fully expected them

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<v Speaker 2>to be. And I was having a chat to one

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<v Speaker 2>of my neighbors about it, and she was like, yeah, well,

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<v Speaker 2>probably because their brain isn't going to the places where

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<v Speaker 2>your brain is in that he was right here. What

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<v Speaker 2>would have happened if that door was unlocked, she was

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<v Speaker 2>in the.

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<v Speaker 3>House and he was carrying something, wasn't he he was

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<v Speaker 3>carrying a weapon or something.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think he was carrying a knife. You can

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<v Speaker 1>see it happened.

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<v Speaker 2>How traumatic for the girl that was housted in for

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<v Speaker 2>us if he had gone in whilst she was there.

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<v Speaker 3>And nothing sort of deterred him either. I mean, not

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<v Speaker 3>that your dog is very deterrent, but the noise that

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<v Speaker 3>a dog can make can sometimes deter the fact that

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<v Speaker 3>they'll either stay or go. Kind of thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Our dog you can see in the camera. Oh dog

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<v Speaker 1>is chased.

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<v Speaker 2>It's running around after him, barking, like play with me.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so glad he didn't, like because because she's a

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<v Speaker 2>tiny dog, you could have.

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<v Speaker 3>Just That's what I was, like, I'm about to get

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<v Speaker 3>wild if he touches her. But when do you think

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<v Speaker 3>it's going to be enough time for you to feel

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<v Speaker 3>comfortable again and safe enough in your own home, Like

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<v Speaker 3>is it time that sort of holds that key to

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<v Speaker 3>feeling comfortable again and not sort of on edge as

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<v Speaker 3>much that you're checking a camera whilst showering.

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<v Speaker 2>Like it's because I was blow drying my hair. Age

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<v Speaker 2>kept thinking I've got the hair drawer and I can't

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<v Speaker 2>hear if someone's coming up into the room, like I

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<v Speaker 2>just kept thinking that. I think it's just because we

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<v Speaker 2>get a bit complacent. I think, as we should feel

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<v Speaker 2>safe in our own homes, we feel safe, and then

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<v Speaker 2>when something like this happens, it's like WHOA like this

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<v Speaker 2>can happen kind of thing. Absolutely, It's funny because I

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<v Speaker 2>got a bit emotional last week and I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what I'm gonna do.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to record a video.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to say what I need to say, and

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to get into a whole you know,

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<v Speaker 2>this is not about politics or the government or who's

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<v Speaker 2>in power or whatever, but it is about who's in

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<v Speaker 2>charge of what happens to these people. Because technically he

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<v Speaker 2>didn't steal anything. He didn't get into the house because

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<v Speaker 2>we had the doors locked, but he had every intention

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<v Speaker 2>of going in. And it's not just about what he steals.

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<v Speaker 2>It's about you as people and how traumatic that is

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<v Speaker 2>and what your mind then does afterwards in terms of

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<v Speaker 2>not feeling safe, feeling a bit violated, someone's been in

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<v Speaker 2>his space, like all that kind of stuff. And so

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<v Speaker 2>I did this video which I was going to post

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<v Speaker 2>on Instagram. It was twelve minutes long. So I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm no Instagram expert. But you know, I even know

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<v Speaker 2>that twelve minutes probably a bit much and rage. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 2>it's probably just therapy in itself.

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<v Speaker 3>Right.

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<v Speaker 1>I did this video. I got really emotional and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, I can't hang my watching out.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm scared to go into back guard, like I don't

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<v Speaker 2>want the doors. I locked on my home and did

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<v Speaker 2>this whole video, and then I got Holly to watch

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<v Speaker 2>it because I wanted her to edit it. And she's

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<v Speaker 2>good at that stuff because she's fifteen and I know nothing,

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<v Speaker 2>and so I wait, can you just like edit this

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<v Speaker 2>in cap cup, make it a bit shorter. And then

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<v Speaker 2>she got to the end of it and no one,

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<v Speaker 2>what did you think? And she went Honestly, I went, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>she went, I would watch that video on Instagram and

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<v Speaker 2>I'd go, oh, poor you in your privileged house, crying

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<v Speaker 2>about someone being in your garden. I was like, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I won't post it then, and just an FYI, I

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<v Speaker 2>really am quite sad about someone being in my garden,

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<v Speaker 2>my garden.

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<v Speaker 3>I love the way that she thinks. When we spoke

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<v Speaker 3>about it and I said to you, you said, what

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<v Speaker 3>do you think I should do? Should I post it?

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<v Speaker 3>And I was like, I think you should get a

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<v Speaker 3>cup of tea. I think you should sit and watch

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<v Speaker 3>the twelve minutes and tell me whether you want to

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<v Speaker 3>post it, because that is probably just a bit of therapy,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, like some people are in journals. You took

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<v Speaker 3>a video and it's probably good for you to get

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<v Speaker 3>it out. Yep. So just sit in a moment of reflection,

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<v Speaker 3>have a cup of tea.

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<v Speaker 1>And just let this one slide.

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<v Speaker 3>To let it slide. Polly has gone in with an

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<v Speaker 3>absolute brutal mind,