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Speaker 1: Apod shape production.

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Speaker 2: Book back to another episode, a new episode, a new

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Speaker 2: season of.

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Speaker 1: Am I a Bad Mum Podcast? Hope holidays went well?

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Speaker 3: School holidays? Aren't they a treat? Everyone's breathing that big

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Speaker 3: sigh of relief as the kids skip off to school

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Speaker 3: again for another term.

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Speaker 2: Did they skip off to school though, or did they

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Speaker 2: kind of like stumble their way there, going.

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Speaker 1: I can't buy my other shoe.

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Speaker 2: And I did the whole Make sure you've got all

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Speaker 2: your stuff organized, make sure you know where both your

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Speaker 2: shoes are, make sure you know your hats are.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I did the same thing. I was, like, I

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Speaker 3: said to both of them as they were going to

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Speaker 3: bed the night before school going back, At least you

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Speaker 3: could do would be to get your school bag out

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Speaker 3: of the cupboard that's been in there for two weeks

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Speaker 3: and hope to God that there is no food, no

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Speaker 3: old water bottles, no leftover sports gear that still smells.

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Speaker 3: Because I usually go through on the last day and

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Speaker 3: clear out the bag, and I did not those holidays.

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Speaker 2: Allowing them to figure that out themselves. Oh morning off,

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Speaker 2: Oh your old lunchbox is still in there with the

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Speaker 2: moldy food from two weeks ago.

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Speaker 3: Honestly, anything could have been in there. The least you

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Speaker 3: could do the night before would be to get your

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Speaker 3: bags out of the cupboard and check that your stuff

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Speaker 3: is basically ready to go.

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Speaker 2: Am I bad mum for not worrying about my kids.

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Speaker 3: Just in general?

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Speaker 1: Well, what is it?

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Speaker 3: Back end of holidays?

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Speaker 2: There was an incident where they pulled me up and

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Speaker 2: I was like, oh shit, yeah, I just was completely

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Speaker 2: thinking about myself, which is such not a mum thing

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Speaker 2: to do. But I'm going to start off this actually

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Speaker 2: with just explaining something a little bit more serious that

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Speaker 2: happened over the holidays, in that someone tried to break

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Speaker 2: into our house. So we were away and we had

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Speaker 2: a girl who was house sitting for us and feeding

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Speaker 2: the pets and all the rest of.

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Speaker 1: It, which was great.

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Speaker 2: She sends me a message whilst we were away saying, hey,

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Speaker 2: think my car got broken into last night. Any chance

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Speaker 2: she could check your cameras. So I'm like, oh shit,

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Speaker 2: I'm checking the cameras and I've gone back and I'm

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Speaker 2: like there's literally nothing. Like I've gone back the whole

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Speaker 2: night and I cannot find anything. She was like, it's

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Speaker 2: definitely been broken into. I've called the police. I'm not

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Speaker 2: make sure I don't put any fingerprints on it and

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Speaker 2: all the rest of it. And I was like, this

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Speaker 2: is really weird. Like I'm looking at the camera and

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Speaker 2: there's literally nothing. You know why, right, Because it happened

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Speaker 2: at seven point thirty that morning. I was not thinking

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Speaker 2: someone's trying to break into the house with two cars

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Speaker 2: in the driveway at seven point thirty in the morning,

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Speaker 3: Daylight, gord daylight.

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Speaker 2: And the reason that I'm telling this story is because

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Speaker 2: I want mums to be aware, because the police actually

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Speaker 2: told us that it's a very common time for people

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Speaker 2: of time, and the reason being because mums are getting

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Speaker 2: get into the car and you go, oh shit, I

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Speaker 2: forgot the lunch box, and then you run in to

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Speaker 2: leave your front door unlocked. That's when they're coming in

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Speaker 2: and getting stuff.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, right, yeah.

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Speaker 2: And the other time that's really popular apparently now is

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Speaker 2: four pm. Same thing that kind of get in between in.

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Speaker 3: Between, the in between rush of getting home, unpacking, grabbing.

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Speaker 2: The sports stuff for the after school activities, that kind

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Speaker 2: of thing. So this guy rage honestly didn't even try

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Speaker 2: He's come down our driveway. He's been startled by a

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Speaker 2: neighbor opening their garage door. He's hopped over the fence,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I know he's peering.

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Speaker 2: So my thing was like, I spent honestly days going

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Speaker 2: what the fuck would have happened if that door was open? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: one of the doors was unlocked. You could see him

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Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my.

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Speaker 2: God, oh my god, he's opening the door. Luckily safe

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Speaker 2: was locked. But how many times do you have your

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Speaker 2: back door unlocked while you're home? And that's exactly why

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Speaker 1: In at those times. Yeah, right, So public service safety.

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Speaker 3: And announcement, Katie's on it.

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Speaker 2: Lock your car if you have to pop back in,

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Speaker 2: because if we've gotten something for school, lock your car,

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Speaker 2: lock your front door, lock your back doors.

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Speaker 1: It's sad that we have to do that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and I'm not like taking the safety message away

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Speaker 3: from this, but I mean, if you're having that kind

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Speaker 3: do you have to lock it then or just hope.

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Speaker 2: That Honestly, he would have tried to take the car

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Speaker 2: with the kids, He would have returned it really.

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Speaker 3: Quickly at the moment, would be heavily returned quite quickly

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Speaker 3: with the car.

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Speaker 1: Take the car back, here's your keys. I thought this

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Speaker 3: I've changed your mind.

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Speaker 1: I don't think I really want to do this.

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Speaker 2: So the worrying about my kids thing is that this

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Speaker 2: morning was the first morning that I was in the

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Speaker 2: the thinking about someone being right there in my backyard. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: like it's just safe space. I could see him trying

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: It's affected me quite a bit, like I've become a

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Speaker 2: little bit paranoid, but like, I didn't want to hang

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Speaker 2: days because that's you know where he was, That's where

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Speaker 2: he jumped over the fence. Like it just I don't know,

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Speaker 2: it just freaked me out a little bit. But I've

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Speaker 2: been okay. But I realized that I've been okay because

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Speaker 2: there's always been someone else in the house. This morning

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Speaker 3: Rach.

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Speaker 2: Honestly, I went and had a shower and put the

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Speaker 2: I just gonna I was watching the camera because we

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Speaker 2: got all new cameras. People that alert you, Yeah, because

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Speaker 2: that was the problem, Like we had those security cameras,

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Speaker 2: but it didn't alert me.

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Speaker 1: So I didn't think I needed to have a look back. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: And so now we've got all these new cameras. Honestly,

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Speaker 1: It's just some neurotic But.

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Speaker 2: It's funny because Day said to the girls as he

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Speaker 2: was taking them to school, he said, oh, Mom's a

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Speaker 2: bit nervous. They were like, why is she nervous? He said,

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Speaker 1: Well, she left us in the house by ourselves all

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Speaker 3: Were they all right? They've done well off the back

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Speaker 1: They were fine. They were surprisingly fine.

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Speaker 2: I definitely thought that there would be some kind of

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Speaker 1: That kind of thing.

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Speaker 3: That's what I thought, at least one of them. I

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Speaker 2: I found it quite strange. I mean, it's good that

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Speaker 2: probably because their brain isn't going to the places where

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Speaker 3: House and he was carrying something, wasn't he he was

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think he was carrying a knife. You can

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Speaker 2: How traumatic for the girl that was housted in for

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Speaker 3: And nothing sort of deterred him either. I mean, not

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Speaker 3: that your dog is very deterrent, but the noise that

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Speaker 2: It's running around after him, barking, like play with me.

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Speaker 2: I'm so glad he didn't, like because because she's a

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Speaker 3: Just That's what I was, like, I'm about to get

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Speaker 2: Like it's because I was blow drying my hair. Age

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Speaker 2: kept thinking I've got the hair drawer and I can't

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Speaker 2: when something like this happens, it's like WHOA like this

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Speaker 2: can happen kind of thing. Absolutely, It's funny because I

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Speaker 2: got a bit emotional last week and I was like,

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Speaker 2: you know what I'm gonna do.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to record a video.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to say what I need to say, and

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Speaker 2: I don't want to get into a whole you know,

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Speaker 2: this is not about politics or the government or who's

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Speaker 2: in power or whatever, but it is about who's in

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Speaker 2: charge of what happens to these people. Because technically he

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Speaker 2: didn't steal anything. He didn't get into the house because

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Speaker 2: we had the doors locked, but he had every intention

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Speaker 2: It's about you as people and how traumatic that is

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Speaker 2: and what your mind then does afterwards in terms of

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Speaker 2: not feeling safe, feeling a bit violated, someone's been in

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Speaker 2: I did this video which I was going to post

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Speaker 2: on Instagram. It was twelve minutes long. So I mean,

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Speaker 2: I'm no Instagram expert. But you know, I even know

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Speaker 2: that twelve minutes probably a bit much and rage. Honestly,

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Speaker 2: it's probably just therapy in itself.

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Speaker 1: I did this video. I got really emotional and I

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Speaker 2: I'm scared to go into back guard, like I don't

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Speaker 2: and so I wait, can you just like edit this

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Speaker 2: she went, I would watch that video on Instagram and

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Speaker 2: I'd go, oh, poor you in your privileged house, crying

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Speaker 2: I won't post it then, and just an FYI, I

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Speaker 3: I love the way that she thinks. When we spoke

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Speaker 3: about it and I said to you, you said, what

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Speaker 3: post it, because that is probably just a bit of therapy,

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Speaker 3: it out. Yep. So just sit in a moment of reflection,

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Speaker 3: have a cup of tea.

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Speaker 1: And just let this one slide.

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Speaker 3: To let it slide. Polly has gone in with an

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Speaker 3: absolute brutal mind,