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Speaker 1: This podcast.

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Speaker 2: What's the best time to text somebody after a first date? Fitz,

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Speaker 2: what do you think?

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Speaker 3: Well, do you know what, I've never worried about holding off.

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Speaker 3: If you really like the person, you tell them straight up.

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Speaker 3: I really enjoyed that and I'd love to do it again. Right,

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Speaker 3: So you've just got home, you've gone, you've gone out

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Speaker 3: for a little of town.

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Speaker 1: What about in the cab on the way home?

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Speaker 3: As soon as they leave the restaurant, se bang straight

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Speaker 3: onto the blower bangs you text straight Upay, I know

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Speaker 3: it's a bit keen.

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Speaker 1: It's I'm with the Stage four clinger.

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Speaker 2: So you're waving with one hand and you're texting with

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Speaker 2: the other at the same time.

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Speaker 3: I'm finishing off my dessert and texting at the same time.

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Speaker 2: So you're able to yell out did you get that?

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Speaker 2: Did I come through?

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 1: I'm loving this date?

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Speaker 2: What about you? It's like Kino or play the next morning?

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Speaker 2: I think the next runing would be appropriate.

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Speaker 3: Then do you knock on the bathroom window and say, look,

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Speaker 3: is there any chance I can come in at.

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Speaker 2: I mean, obviously yeah, if it's winter and you're cold

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Speaker 2: and the bush or the bushes turn off your flashlight

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Speaker 2: and then, Kate, what about you? What do you think

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Speaker 2: about what when you should send the first You would

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Speaker 2: never send the first text message.

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Speaker 1: To I don't even remember the last date I went on.

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Speaker 1: I've never been out on a date.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, if you were to go on a date hypothetically,

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Speaker 2: Kate Richie, when do you think you'd send maybe a follow.

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Speaker 1: Up text message so you never text them again?

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Speaker 2: All right, Well, you're considered unreliable according to the study.

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Speaker 1: I think the next morning is great because that's cutely.

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Speaker 2: Correct. You are meant to do it the following morning.

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Speaker 2: A lot of guys depending on how the date's gone,

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Speaker 2: do you think. I mean, I haven't been on a

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Speaker 2: date for a long time, but I remember going on

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Speaker 2: a date once. Whether the discussion happened at the table

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Speaker 2: about whether we were going to go on a date again,

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Speaker 2: I think if it'ssual because she said, oh we'll do

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Speaker 2: it again.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I do think she would have said it.

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Speaker 3: I think she would have just trying to find every

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Speaker 3: escape roofe in the restaurant.

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Speaker 2: I just absolutely can't. I thought, what was what were

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Speaker 2: you doing? What was your hand movement for suggesting that

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Speaker 2: she wouldn't have wanted a second date with me.

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Speaker 1: What I realized was that I had leaned back in

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Speaker 1: my seat and like I was chatting to you in

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Speaker 1: the office, and realize I'm on the radio. I've got

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Speaker 1: to talk into the microphone. But I think that if

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Speaker 1: the date, I would have thought that sometimes you're going

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Speaker 1: to say that the date's gone nicely on just not

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Speaker 1: get around to that part of the conversation and then

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Speaker 1: go home and yeah and deal with it. Then I

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Speaker 1: don't think you don't have to hand down.

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Speaker 2: What the future of the couple, yeah, before.

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Speaker 1: You leave the table, do you Why can't.

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Speaker 3: You express your feelings straight away if you really like them?

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Speaker 3: You know what if you guys are waiting til the

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Speaker 3: next morning to text back because I've taxed straight away

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Speaker 3: after the date, I'm cooking them breakfast the next morning.

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Speaker 3: If you know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: Is they.

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Speaker 1: Do you know?

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Speaker 3: What?

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Speaker 1: Do you know? If reminds me of you know that

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Speaker 1: this is a very old film, but jas you know

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Speaker 1: the film Noting Hill right and where Julia Roberts comes

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Speaker 1: out and she sees the skinny little guy, skinny in

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Speaker 1: his andies and he's got his scuba diving gear. On

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Speaker 1: or exactly Coup believe she's there. I reckon. If you

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Speaker 1: if you spend the night with fifty, that's what you'd

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Speaker 1: be greeted to in the water.

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Speaker 3: Grand Room.

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