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Speaker 1: This is the Fits In with Kate Richie podcast.

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Speaker 2: Got a bit of a trade in the studio right

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Speaker 2: now because one lady has launched a brand new book.

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Speaker 2: It's called Us Jules. You may have seen it around

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Speaker 2: because the front cover is the best photography I have

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Speaker 2: ever seen.

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Speaker 3: Jules and Camp welcome to the show.

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Speaker 4: Guy, thanks for having her take this photo?

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Speaker 1: Did you mate? Rumor has an idea?

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Speaker 5: I have?

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Speaker 6: And now it's on the resume. I'm a professional photography

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Speaker 6: front cover of an award winning bestselling book.

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Speaker 2: You've decided to bring out a book and a baby

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Speaker 2: at the same time.

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Speaker 3: I'm not much on at the moment.

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Speaker 2: Like a bit of pressure in my life, don't I

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Speaker 2: My god, how are you feeling any moment now?

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Speaker 3: Is it? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: I think it's coming early, this one.

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Speaker 3: Do you mean like could be today? It could be

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Speaker 3: now right now.

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Speaker 4: It could be right now.

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Speaker 5: Yesterday I thought we were in a bit of a

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Speaker 5: bit of strife for walking around ring them all and

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Speaker 5: bricks and hicks were happening, and Cam's like, we're on

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Speaker 5: and I was like, oh my god, my pe so

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Speaker 5: don't don't have it at we're the more.

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Speaker 1: No, I haven't noticed you yes, in.

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Speaker 4: The next ten minutes.

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Speaker 1: Actually, can you tell me more about the book as Jewels.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Arstools was probably the hardest thing I've ever done.

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Speaker 5: I missed four deadlines, but I got there, and I'm

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Speaker 5: really proud of it. It's really honest, it's really vulnerable.

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Speaker 5: It's started from a hashtag hashtag as Jewels because so.

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Speaker 4: Many women would reach.

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Speaker 5: Out to me and ask me questions about hair and makeup, confidence,

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Speaker 5: where I get my clothes, and over time, my community

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Speaker 5: has just been so amazing and so loyal over the

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Speaker 5: last five years, and I do try and keep up

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Speaker 5: with it. It's very hard when you get inundated with questions,

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Speaker 5: but women really share their heart and soul with me

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Speaker 5: a lot, and they share a lot of deep personal things,

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Speaker 5: and so I've kind of put it all in one place,

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Speaker 5: so the main things that people come to me about.

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Speaker 5: So it's got a memoir vibe, which is three big sections,

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Speaker 5: which is style, love, and soul. And it's got my

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Speaker 5: hot tips of every section, my professional advice on hair

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Speaker 5: and beauty and fashion. But it's a lot of my

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Speaker 5: life lessons, my mistakes, things that I could have done

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Speaker 5: a little bit different.

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Speaker 3: When you put a book out like that.

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Speaker 2: Were there many discussions with Cam about is this over sharing?

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Speaker 3: Is this too far?

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Speaker 5: So funny story to that, he very kindly brought the

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Speaker 5: audible version, which I loved bringing to life, and so

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Speaker 5: we'd be listening and sometimes it's so weird, like listening

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Speaker 5: to my own voice in the car. But he's really

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Speaker 5: enjoyed it. And then after each section he pauses it.

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Speaker 5: He's like the nosiest journalist you've ever met. He's like, well, well, well,

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Speaker 5: let's back up. What is that?

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Speaker 4: So are you saying you've discovered.

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Speaker 6: Things about There was a couple of things that I

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Speaker 6: didn't realize it were actually in the book that were

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Speaker 6: past relationships and things like that where she.

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Speaker 4: Went into a Beiti fed fex lovers, you know, was like.

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Speaker 6: One of them was like made my inside go to

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Speaker 6: jelly type stuff and I was like, oh, and I

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Speaker 6: had to pause. And we're driving down the freeway back from.

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Speaker 1: Gosha, very easy.

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Speaker 6: I should have just okay.

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Speaker 1: Let's talk about that for a second. What do I

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Speaker 1: make you feel good?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: How do I compare poor old Travis?

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Speaker 4: Kelsey feels like listening to.

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Speaker 2: Taylor in the page seventy three has been ripped out

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Speaker 2: of every copy along that time. We would love you

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Speaker 2: guys to stick around for a thing we like to

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Speaker 2: do on the show called Couples Confessions. You can ask

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Speaker 2: a question and maybe this is a nice time to

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Speaker 2: balance things out of it can and we hope for honesty.

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Speaker 6: Only honestly only sounds like a good way to go

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Speaker 6: about confessions. Confessions, couples concessions.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I don't getting hot, actually.

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Speaker 1: Blustered, So would you like to kick it off with

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Speaker 1: a confession?

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Speaker 4: Okay, I will.

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Speaker 5: I'm going to sign up for this, all right, honey.

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Speaker 5: Not once, but many times I have lied about the

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Speaker 5: time I've crawled into bed when I've been on a

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Speaker 5: Do you mean lying about it when you were crawling

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Speaker 5: into a different bed or into.

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Speaker 4: Oh what times you get home? Ah? About one?

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Speaker 1: That's probably about five.

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Speaker 2: Good I'm standing up to.

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Speaker 1: This is unbelievable. All do that?

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Speaker 4: No, I've never done that. You're terrible.

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Speaker 6: Here, I tell you what. She's one of the greats.

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Speaker 6: Like when she goes, she really goes.

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Speaker 5: If I'm saying I'm going out, I'm going out and.

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Speaker 6: I've got to put a red line through the next day,

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Speaker 6: that's for sure. And I'm in charge.

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Speaker 3: Anything you'd like to say.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 6: So, currently we are doing some bathroom renows, as you

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Speaker 6: do when you're nesting. And at the moment, we've got

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Speaker 6: three bathroom renows that we're doing. So now we had

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Speaker 6: a demo two of them, we've only got one bathroom

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Speaker 6: to share. There's only one shower. On the very first night,

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Speaker 6: when we run out of hot water, I may.

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Speaker 1: Have blamed the plumber.

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Speaker 6: So you used all the hot water, knowing that I

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Speaker 6: needed to have been myself and olive keV the plumber.

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Speaker 6: I just couldn't believe it made.

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Speaker 4: It's really selfish, isn't it? Yeah?

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Speaker 6: It is?

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Speaker 4: Is there even a keV the plumb heaven?

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Speaker 5: You should be confessing to Kevin because you've probably been

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Speaker 5: a bit sour with him.

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Speaker 1: Since I like that we've started to ramp up here.

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Speaker 4: Really really got me under the skin, though.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry about it.

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Speaker 5: I had words with.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So I reckon.

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Speaker 6: Oli would have been about twelve months of age, and

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Speaker 6: Jewels always wanted a friend, a partner, or a pet

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Speaker 6: of some description, and someone for Oli to play with.

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Speaker 6: He loves his animals, he loves his dinosaurs and Jewels

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Speaker 6: On four separate occasions, had a dog, another dog at

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Speaker 6: one stage, and two cats lined up to lined up

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Speaker 6: to purchase, and I was always under the depression, like, honey,

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Speaker 6: we've got a little bit on at the moment. On

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Speaker 6: every single one of those occasions, I show I got

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Speaker 6: your details. I've got the details. And I went directly

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Speaker 6: to that owner and said, if my wife confirms this purchase.

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Speaker 6: He did not, can you please make up an excuse

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Speaker 6: to not have that pet. I apologize. I love I

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Speaker 6: love everything that you're doing in the breeding world.

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Speaker 1: I really respect.

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Speaker 6: It, but right now this is we're not probably the

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Speaker 6: best home for that puppy. I just felt that that

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Speaker 6: was the best decision for our family as second child

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Speaker 6: on the way.

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Speaker 5: Who are you gonna call about the baby to say.

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Speaker 3: The caves on to it?

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Speaker 5: So I learned from this, just don't tell you and

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Speaker 5: just do it.

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Speaker 1: That's what conversation.

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Speaker 5: I have got one more?

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 4: You ready for this breath? Is it to do with

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Speaker 4: a bed again? I love your to do in his childhood?

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Speaker 4: All right?

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Speaker 5: Those basketball cards or that I actually put in the attic,

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Speaker 5: I actually threw half of them away.

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Speaker 3: Consion any value in there?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 6: Any nineteen they wore ninety six collector will know.

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Speaker 5: Sorry when you had children, there are things you must

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Speaker 5: get rid of from your life to make the boxes

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Speaker 5: for years.

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Speaker 2: And think of the guys at the tip who saw

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Speaker 2: them all that many rookie cars. I hope we've only

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Speaker 2: strengthened the relationship by doing couples confessions.

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Speaker 6: Thank you. You have a lot to chat about in

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Speaker 6: the car, deep breathing, some debriefing.

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Speaker 3: Go and have a baby. Good luck.

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