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Speaker 1: It fits in with Kate Richie podcasty Weather with Kate

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Speaker 1: Richief your Thursday podcast.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so I've got on sheet here. Who's this kid's name,

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Speaker 2: Keith Urban?

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Speaker 3: Is that how you say it?

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Speaker 4: My gosh, Apparently he's a gun guitarist and an amazing performer.

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Speaker 2: Never heard of him.

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Speaker 4: Keith Urban's coming on the show, Kate, Do you don't

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Speaker 4: know anything else about him?

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Speaker 5: I think he might have a lovely what yes, I

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Speaker 5: think he has an actress.

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Speaker 4: Wife says to you that he's going to be bringing

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Speaker 4: the old acts out and performing for us, having a

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Speaker 4: bit of a jam.

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Speaker 3: That sounds exciting.

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Speaker 4: Keith Is He's great, isn't he? Yep, I'm not joking.

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Speaker 4: He is one of the best guitarists in the world.

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Speaker 3: Well, that's what they say.

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Speaker 5: I mean, I don't know how to gauge that, but

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Speaker 5: I'm guessing it's it's true.

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Speaker 3: I've got to be guided.

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Speaker 4: Well, he might do a couple of solos for you, Kate.

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Speaker 4: It's in the podcast. Actually he does.

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Speaker 3: We don't pretend you don't know. That's exactly what he's

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Speaker 3: going to do.

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Speaker 4: Three just songs at him that we play here on Nova,

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Speaker 4: And he just picked them up straight away.

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Speaker 2: He's a freak.

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Speaker 4: You that in the podcast This is the Fitz and

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Speaker 4: Whipper with Cape Ritchie podcast, we need to talk about

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Speaker 4: Taylor Swift and Travis Kelsey.

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Speaker 6: Let's feel your man.

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Speaker 5: Well, let's let's stop. Let let's let's not jump the gun.

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Speaker 4: He's just signed a podcast still worth one hundred and

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Speaker 4: forty million dollars. Brother, So he's got what he wanted

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Speaker 4: out of the relationship.

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Speaker 3: Come on, that's with the brother, isn't it.

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Speaker 2: Yep?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, So yesterday you may have seen the news

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Speaker 5: that there was like leaked photographs of a document sitting

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Speaker 5: on top of a desk, I mean, not being hidden,

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Speaker 5: not with secret you know, fake names or anything. Well,

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Speaker 5: basically what the media outlets were saying is this is

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Speaker 5: a real life photo of a contract that may blow

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Speaker 5: the Taylor Swift and Travis Kelsey love story into smithereens

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Speaker 5: and suggest that the love story that we have followed

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Speaker 5: and wanted so much to be real was just in

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Speaker 5: fact a big plan between two PR companies of both

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Speaker 5: these names kidding there for a year long romance, and

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Speaker 5: the contract was detailing how it was going to be,

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Speaker 5: how they would break up and how it would be

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Speaker 5: dealt with with you know, with Grace.

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Speaker 2: Do they actually do this stuff?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, because there isn't there a guy that's come out

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Speaker 4: who actually wrote a book, who's been He's been behind

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Speaker 4: some of the biggest controversies and relationships, celebrity relationships.

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Speaker 3: This is the guy and the manipulation of the media.

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Speaker 4: You mean, yes, he was the one that made to

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Speaker 4: make Rihanna bigger. He was the one that started the

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Speaker 4: rumor I think that Rihanna was hooking up with jay

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Speaker 3: He was married to Beyond.

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Speaker 5: Say, oh, so that may have just been a room Yeah, well,

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Speaker 5: and it does work, let's be honest. But I do

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Speaker 5: think in this situation Travis and I mean especially Taylor. Look,

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Speaker 5: I don't I don't know. Maybe there are benefits to

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Speaker 5: her dating an All American football lad, but she doesn't

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Speaker 5: really need the publicity, does she. But they were you know,

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Speaker 5: the contract was written by a PR firm called Scope.

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Speaker 3: It had they the.

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Speaker 5: Letterhead details and plans around the breakup. It says things

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Speaker 5: like the announcement would be alleged, it would allegedly be gracious, respectful,

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Speaker 5: and stress mutual respect.

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Speaker 3: But they wait for the media frenzy to break to

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Speaker 3: die down.

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Speaker 6: And then when Kate like, is there a timeline on.

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Speaker 5: This, it would be it's coming. Yeah, it's on its

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Speaker 5: it would be on its way.

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Speaker 2: If they have Okay, this is where we need to

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Speaker 2: pick it up.

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Speaker 4: Why would they they name them such high profile celebrity.

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Speaker 3: Well that's what I thought initially.

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Speaker 5: I don't think any paperwork is going to be left

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Speaker 5: on a desk, and I don't think any paperwork like that.

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Speaker 3: It's so tricky. Do you remember, delicate?

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Speaker 4: Do you remember when two GB's contracts got leaked in

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Speaker 4: the photocopy here?

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Speaker 2: Do you remember that's all the people's salaries?

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Speaker 4: Yes, Jones was onlike a million dollars in five five

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Speaker 4: free lime suits a year and stuff like that.

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Speaker 5: That's right, wasn't Well, they're not going to use They're

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Speaker 5: not going to say Taylor Swift or Travis Kelcey in

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Speaker 5: any documents.

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Speaker 3: I wouldn't think.

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Speaker 6: If they'd orchestrated this entire thing. Yeah, well done.

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Speaker 7: Why it's unbelievable it is you were to put this

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Speaker 7: together as a stunt, as a marketing stunt. I don't

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Speaker 7: want to believe that all American hero because you wanted

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Speaker 7: to build a profile that Taylor Swift was maturing in

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Speaker 7: a solid relationship, that was she was now prepared to

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Speaker 7: show to the public, and this was part of development

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Speaker 7: for Taylor.

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Speaker 2: Brand wants to go to a Super Bowl game? Do

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Speaker 2: you reckon? She wants to go and watch with Lively

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Speaker 2: and everyone. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I think maybe she does and.

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Speaker 2: Then party to three am and kiss him on the lips.

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Speaker 6: If she's not to him, she's an American country girl.

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Speaker 3: It's worth a lot of money.

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Speaker 5: But anyway, I'm not saying that that's the truth, and

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Speaker 5: all Travis Kelcey has come out swinging saying that it's

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Speaker 5: not true either. So yesterday the update was hang on, guys,

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Speaker 5: wore up. This could be an AI generated image and

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Speaker 5: it seems as though there will be legal proceedings in

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Speaker 5: the future.

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Speaker 6: I heard that after married at first sight, quite often

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Speaker 6: the couples will stay together, almost for publicity reasons.

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Speaker 5: You're putting maps in the same sentence as Taylor called.

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Speaker 6: The paparazza for you to say, we're down at Bonda

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Speaker 6: Beats and my bikini's falling off.

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Speaker 3: How often have you called the paps and they just don't.

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Speaker 4: Coup you about the latest filming of Maths three. Three

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Speaker 4: of the three of the contestants have walked away already.

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Speaker 2: But one.

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Speaker 4: One guy, the day after his wedding, said not in

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Speaker 4: and they begged him to stay, and he said, now

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Speaker 4: I'm done.

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Speaker 6: Do you remember the band Tattoo?

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Speaker 3: Remember the band?

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Speaker 2: Remember the band?

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Speaker 3: Sorry, you were in a hurry.

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Speaker 6: We They were not even lesbian.

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Speaker 3: Dropping syllables left, right and center.

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Speaker 6: They weren't even into each other.

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Speaker 2: I remember, I remember, remember me.

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Speaker 3: Remember just quickly.

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Speaker 5: You know that guy you were talking about who works

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Speaker 5: out the media relationships. They call them showmances, not romances,

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Speaker 5: but like a romance for show What a great I

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Speaker 5: think you could use that in everyday life. They're not

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Speaker 5: really into each other. It's a show man I try

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Speaker 5: and use it in a sentence today.

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Speaker 1: This is the Fits In with Kate Richie podcast.

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Speaker 2: Well, isn't this special? We absolutely do all this man.

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Speaker 6: Get started laughing.

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Speaker 3: No, he's easily impressed.

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Speaker 6: Keith.

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Speaker 4: You've got to wait until I introduced you his new

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Speaker 4: album High It's out September twenty. He's brand new song

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Speaker 4: Loving this one with Laney Wilson as well.

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Speaker 2: Go Home with You. This is in here and he's going.

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Speaker 4: To be performing this for us very very soon. He's

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Speaker 4: also got his High and Alive World Tour, which goes

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Speaker 4: on sale Friday, thirteenth September. If you want more details,

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Speaker 4: go to Keith Urban dot com Keith Dern World wo.

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Speaker 3: So now you can speak, Ken, I can talk.

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Speaker 6: That was a really good here. Yeah, thank you.

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Speaker 5: The thing is, once you open your mouth, Keith, we

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Speaker 5: know exactly who it is because you have such a

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Speaker 5: recognizable well know for all the good reasons.

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Speaker 6: Got it?

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Speaker 8: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: No, I was going to say, we gave away thank you, Keith.

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Speaker 4: We gave away a double to a woman that got

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Speaker 4: quite emotional on our show the other day. That was

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Speaker 4: for the intimate show at the Oxford Art Factory. But

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Speaker 4: then you also did you do another one the Bob

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Speaker 4: Hawk Beer and Leisure Center at Merrickville.

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Speaker 9: That is awesome.

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Speaker 6: How do you react when you see so when someone

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Speaker 6: comes up to you, because it is what you do

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Speaker 6: and it's your comfortable place. But when someone's standing there

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Speaker 6: in complete tears because they can't believe they've met you

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Speaker 6: and they love your music, it's a hard way to react.

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Speaker 6: It's tough to react to that, isn't it.

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Speaker 10: Yeah?

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Speaker 9: It means it's beautiful. Of course, it's really powerful, but

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Speaker 9: I always think it's a power of music. That's what

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Speaker 4: Can you can we talk about intimate performances Keith and

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Speaker 4: when you first started your career, because I mean, now

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Speaker 4: you're playing huge arenas, but give us, give us something

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Speaker 4: like what's some of the most the smallest venues that

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Speaker 9: You mean going back to the beginning kind of thing.

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Speaker 9: Begin I played on the baggage carousel at an airport.

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Speaker 9: that's great. And he goes, oh, well, we've got to

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Speaker 9: carpeted strip. That's where you guys are going to play.

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Speaker 9: So we set up on this little strip. There's nobody

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Speaker 9: I went, there's nobody here. He goes, oh, they'll they

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Speaker 9: will come over once they hear the music. I'm yeah, okay.

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Speaker 9: it's not bad. It's looking pretty packed. Next minute and

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Speaker 9: all the bags come out like their bags have pissed off.

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Speaker 12: God, I got you.

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Speaker 9: You say all parties caresphers, Keith your briss.

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Speaker 9: Yes, I got given a jukebox for a gig. I

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Speaker 9: Agons, Yeah, ram In sent talk to myself, horns set

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Speaker 3: You've her before.

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Speaker 6: I love it.

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Speaker 6: Is she sitting there going, Keith, give me a bit

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Speaker 9: I like that sometimes?

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Speaker 6: You did?

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Speaker 9: Didn't he even say good about just wishin you with cozy?

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Speaker 9: It's a funny thing because you you still need the

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Speaker 12: You?

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Speaker 4: Reckon, Keith? Is it your Zach Bryan's We spoke to

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Speaker 9: Look, they're just rootsy, authentic storytelling people, you know, and

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Speaker 12: You know?

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Speaker 2: It's so good to have you back home. Were you

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Speaker 5: You have to do it.

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Speaker 9: But my band hadn't done it, so I thought I'll

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Speaker 6: Gatt, thank you for coming in and playing. That's really special.

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Speaker 6: It's a really special seat live and so close.

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Speaker 1: This is the Fits In with Kate Richie podcast.

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Speaker 6: What have you Got?

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Speaker 2: Tom Oh?

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Speaker 5: And by the way, my mother told me last nights

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Speaker 5: No, can I tell you I know who the person is.

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Speaker 6: Oh my god, let's have a listen to the call

452
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Speaker 6: we got yesterday.

453
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Speaker 11: I had broke my phone and I asked my family

454
00:21:23,119 --> 00:21:26,840
Speaker 11: who had a fair phone. My sister in law had said, oh,

455
00:21:26,880 --> 00:21:28,920
Speaker 11: I've got a fair phone. I'll let you have this phone.

456
00:21:29,040 --> 00:21:31,040
Speaker 11: So you know those old phones that it came up

457
00:21:31,080 --> 00:21:34,800
Speaker 11: with a message at first her said I love So

458
00:21:34,920 --> 00:21:37,240
Speaker 11: I had to look through and there were messages in

459
00:21:37,320 --> 00:21:40,639
Speaker 11: there from maybe up to five different men. When I

460
00:21:40,880 --> 00:21:45,600
Speaker 11: got down to another message, it was my current partner, So.

461
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Speaker 12: What I know.

462
00:21:49,160 --> 00:21:52,399
Speaker 11: The time in which she was talking to him, my brother,

463
00:21:52,760 --> 00:21:58,080
Speaker 11: her husband was in hospital with cancer. So oh, just

464
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Speaker 11: sh needless to say, she is now my ex sister

465
00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:02,920
Speaker 11: in law. But I made sure I did that in

466
00:22:03,040 --> 00:22:06,680
Speaker 11: front of the whole family, just so everyone understood the situation.

467
00:22:06,800 --> 00:22:09,280
Speaker 3: So your mum and dad were there, Yeah, absolutely.

468
00:22:09,920 --> 00:22:11,399
Speaker 6: I went and got a beronafone yesterday.

469
00:22:11,440 --> 00:22:13,960
Speaker 5: It just sounded like so much fun with all I

470
00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:16,080
Speaker 5: mean you just, I mean, I'm surprised you don't have

471
00:22:16,160 --> 00:22:17,720
Speaker 5: one fits because you love a bit of gossip and

472
00:22:17,920 --> 00:22:19,040
Speaker 5: like all the stuff going on.

473
00:22:19,480 --> 00:22:21,399
Speaker 2: Oh, so many elements to that story.

474
00:22:21,960 --> 00:22:24,440
Speaker 5: She's getting better and that's the way she delivered it

475
00:22:24,600 --> 00:22:27,160
Speaker 5: so well as well. And we were like, oh my god,

476
00:22:27,200 --> 00:22:30,280
Speaker 5: and she's like, wait, wait, it gets better. There's another

477
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Speaker 5: layer to.

478
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Speaker 6: This extraordinary I want to know thirteen twenty four to ten,

479
00:22:34,280 --> 00:22:37,399
Speaker 6: if a bombshell has been dropped around the family table

480
00:22:38,000 --> 00:22:40,640
Speaker 6: where you've got everybody together, you've sat down and you said,

481
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Speaker 6: I need to tell you that what was that moment,

482
00:22:45,040 --> 00:22:47,320
Speaker 6: because you never know if that's the right environment to

483
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Speaker 6: come out with something significant.

484
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Speaker 5: I think sometimes people do it because they feel as

485
00:22:52,960 --> 00:22:55,040
Speaker 5: though it's the best way to do it with an

486
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Speaker 5: audience for the maximum effect.

487
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Speaker 6: It's not just telling everybody at the one time to

488
00:23:00,359 --> 00:23:00,920
Speaker 6: keep it simple.

489
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Speaker 3: Oh no, oh no, it's not time management. It is drama,

490
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Speaker 3: I think.

491
00:23:07,160 --> 00:23:08,960
Speaker 2: I think it's maximum impacts.

492
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Speaker 8: Yeah.

493
00:23:09,880 --> 00:23:12,600
Speaker 2: And you know another it doesn't have to be just

494
00:23:12,680 --> 00:23:15,920
Speaker 2: the family. I mean, let's put it out there as well. Weddings.

495
00:23:16,400 --> 00:23:20,159
Speaker 4: Yeah, Funerals are a great one as well, where secrets

496
00:23:20,320 --> 00:23:21,760
Speaker 4: can be brought up in front.

497
00:23:21,480 --> 00:23:22,959
Speaker 2: Of the whole family exactly.

498
00:23:23,960 --> 00:23:25,760
Speaker 3: Friendship groups especially.

499
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Speaker 5: I think we've even heard a story on this show

500
00:23:27,680 --> 00:23:31,040
Speaker 5: where you know that somebody is playing up on somebody

501
00:23:31,119 --> 00:23:33,639
Speaker 5: else and you know that the wife is being treated

502
00:23:33,720 --> 00:23:36,480
Speaker 5: like a fool. So let's get all the friends together

503
00:23:36,600 --> 00:23:39,160
Speaker 5: and say, hey, mate, what have you got to tell

504
00:23:39,200 --> 00:23:39,720
Speaker 5: your wife?

505
00:23:40,400 --> 00:23:42,760
Speaker 3: Because we all know and we're going to tell her

506
00:23:42,800 --> 00:23:43,919
Speaker 3: if you don't kind of thing.

507
00:23:44,440 --> 00:23:47,119
Speaker 4: I remember Dad did it in front of we were

508
00:23:47,160 --> 00:23:49,399
Speaker 4: young kids at the time, but it was when credit

509
00:23:49,520 --> 00:23:53,520
Speaker 4: cards first came in and Mum went on a shopping spray.

510
00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:58,359
Speaker 4: Mum went crazy, and I remember Dad calling my sister

511
00:23:58,440 --> 00:24:01,120
Speaker 4: and I in and in front of it, Dad goes,

512
00:24:01,160 --> 00:24:02,880
Speaker 4: all right, I need to tell you this because these

513
00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:06,280
Speaker 4: these credit cards. We've decided to get one because everybody's

514
00:24:06,320 --> 00:24:09,120
Speaker 4: getting one. And I remember Dad got out the scissors

515
00:24:09,200 --> 00:24:11,399
Speaker 4: in front of everyone, in front of mum and this

516
00:24:11,600 --> 00:24:15,120
Speaker 4: is the first and last credit card that the FitzGeralds

517
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Speaker 4: ever have, and he.

518
00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:17,520
Speaker 2: Cut it up in front of him.

519
00:24:17,720 --> 00:24:21,080
Speaker 3: You're still talking about maximum pass.

520
00:24:21,160 --> 00:24:23,280
Speaker 6: Yes, now he's got five, Dad, save.

521
00:24:23,200 --> 00:24:24,520
Speaker 3: That and they're all maxed down.

522
00:24:24,600 --> 00:24:26,840
Speaker 6: Yeah, they're all maxed out because he's got a gambling problem.

523
00:24:26,880 --> 00:24:27,840
Speaker 2: But that's another story.

524
00:24:28,200 --> 00:24:30,160
Speaker 6: If there was a big announcement around the dinner table,

525
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Speaker 6: get involved. Give us called Jess in Rosemeadow.

526
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Speaker 12: Her Yes, Hi, guys, how are you going?

527
00:24:35,160 --> 00:24:35,840
Speaker 6: What was the news?

528
00:24:36,720 --> 00:24:39,840
Speaker 12: Well, it was Christmas. I was probably twelve, and my

529
00:24:40,000 --> 00:24:42,440
Speaker 12: parents told my sisters and I had to sit down,

530
00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:44,920
Speaker 12: and we were so excited, were thinking we were getting

531
00:24:44,960 --> 00:24:49,280
Speaker 12: some amazing present like motorbike or puppy or something. No,

532
00:24:49,880 --> 00:24:53,720
Speaker 12: they told me that I wasn't my dad's real daughter

533
00:24:55,520 --> 00:24:57,200
Speaker 12: on Christmas Day. To be fair, I think it was

534
00:24:57,240 --> 00:25:01,440
Speaker 12: off the back of too many beers. They told me

535
00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:02,760
Speaker 12: that I wasn't my dad's your daughter?

536
00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:05,680
Speaker 2: So question how old were you at the time, Jess?

537
00:25:05,880 --> 00:25:07,480
Speaker 12: I was probably twelve.

538
00:25:08,720 --> 00:25:09,440
Speaker 2: Christmas Day?

539
00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:10,720
Speaker 12: Christmas Day?

540
00:25:10,960 --> 00:25:13,080
Speaker 3: Christmas does weird things to people?

541
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Speaker 4: Can I ask you, as a twelve year old, how

542
00:25:15,680 --> 00:25:18,640
Speaker 4: that hits you? Just like, are you mature enough yet

543
00:25:18,760 --> 00:25:20,240
Speaker 4: to understand what's going on?

544
00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:21,040
Speaker 11: No?

545
00:25:21,160 --> 00:25:24,920
Speaker 12: I definitely was like my parents had a very toxic relationship,

546
00:25:25,160 --> 00:25:28,920
Speaker 12: so to be honest, I was kind of please. And

547
00:25:29,280 --> 00:25:30,480
Speaker 12: also I kind of.

548
00:25:30,520 --> 00:25:31,200
Speaker 11: Think I knew.

549
00:25:31,480 --> 00:25:34,040
Speaker 12: I don't know how, but I think maybe probably in

550
00:25:34,240 --> 00:25:36,760
Speaker 12: arguments that had over the years, like I'll tell her,

551
00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:39,280
Speaker 12: I'll tell her. So I don't know how I knew,

552
00:25:39,440 --> 00:25:41,639
Speaker 12: but it didn't come as a big shock to me.

553
00:25:41,840 --> 00:25:43,680
Speaker 12: Where did you met my real dad?

554
00:25:43,840 --> 00:25:47,080
Speaker 3: And okay, where did you come in the sisters? Were

555
00:25:47,119 --> 00:25:48,200
Speaker 3: you the eldest.

556
00:25:47,960 --> 00:25:49,479
Speaker 9: Child or I was the eldest?

557
00:25:49,600 --> 00:25:49,800
Speaker 8: Yeah?

558
00:25:50,320 --> 00:25:52,440
Speaker 12: Did you look I still have his surname.

559
00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:55,840
Speaker 2: Did you look like your dad, Jess when you first

560
00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:57,200
Speaker 2: saw your biological father?

561
00:25:57,840 --> 00:26:00,800
Speaker 12: No, actually, I look like my mom. I was very

562
00:26:00,920 --> 00:26:04,480
Speaker 12: much like my this my seconds, like my second sister,

563
00:26:04,600 --> 00:26:05,680
Speaker 12: and then my third years.

564
00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:06,280
Speaker 8: To look stuff like that.

565
00:26:06,560 --> 00:26:09,120
Speaker 6: Did you find out the relationship between your biological dad

566
00:26:09,160 --> 00:26:13,240
Speaker 6: and your mom like, was it just a short She was.

567
00:26:13,320 --> 00:26:15,280
Speaker 12: Like eighteen when she had me, so yeah, it was

568
00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:18,199
Speaker 12: just boyfriend and girlfriend and then yeah, they just went

569
00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:20,159
Speaker 12: their separate ways and then she'd met.

570
00:26:20,080 --> 00:26:24,040
Speaker 6: My dad and yeah, what a Christmas surprise.

571
00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:26,800
Speaker 12: And the thing is like, we like it's a kind

572
00:26:26,800 --> 00:26:29,480
Speaker 12: of a joke now, and my sister like, you know, timing,

573
00:26:29,600 --> 00:26:32,920
Speaker 12: and my mom's like, I did not tell you on Christmas.

574
00:26:33,400 --> 00:26:33,600
Speaker 4: Yeah.

575
00:26:33,960 --> 00:26:36,600
Speaker 5: Moms always have a very short memory to do with

576
00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:37,960
Speaker 5: things like that, don't They.

577
00:26:38,080 --> 00:26:39,880
Speaker 6: Be very nervous when Christmas comes around?

578
00:26:40,640 --> 00:26:40,800
Speaker 12: I know.

579
00:26:41,160 --> 00:26:44,080
Speaker 5: I have to say, as the mother, I would imagine

580
00:26:44,119 --> 00:26:46,040
Speaker 5: that once the news is out, if you're in a

581
00:26:46,119 --> 00:26:50,000
Speaker 5: toxic relationship and you have someone holding something over you

582
00:26:50,160 --> 00:26:52,040
Speaker 5: for years, I'm going to tell her. I'm going to

583
00:26:52,119 --> 00:26:54,920
Speaker 5: tell her there must have been an element for your mom, Jess,

584
00:26:55,000 --> 00:26:58,480
Speaker 5: where as tough as it was, and as awful timing

585
00:26:58,520 --> 00:27:01,000
Speaker 5: as it was, that the fact that the news or

586
00:27:01,080 --> 00:27:04,639
Speaker 5: that you finally knew, was one less thing for your

587
00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:05,880
Speaker 5: dad to hold over her.

588
00:27:06,560 --> 00:27:09,199
Speaker 12: Oh absolutely, it must have been relief. And honestly they

589
00:27:09,320 --> 00:27:13,520
Speaker 12: separated not long after that, and yeah, everywhere.

590
00:27:15,160 --> 00:27:15,840
Speaker 3: Great story.

591
00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:18,240
Speaker 2: Can we give Jess one of these as.

592
00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:22,480
Speaker 5: Yeah, absolutely, because she didn't she didn't get one for

593
00:27:22,600 --> 00:27:23,520
Speaker 5: Christmas that yet.

594
00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:27,640
Speaker 4: No, it's just it's a great story, Jess, and every

595
00:27:27,720 --> 00:27:30,840
Speaker 4: caller today wins a new generation Echo Show five that's

596
00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:33,560
Speaker 4: with Alexa and It's all Yours is a perfect device

597
00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:34,240
Speaker 4: for the bench.

598
00:27:37,000 --> 00:27:39,280
Speaker 2: Wake up to us, Jess, thank you very much for

599
00:27:39,359 --> 00:27:40,080
Speaker 2: giving us a call.

600
00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:40,680
Speaker 6: Thank you.

601
00:27:42,080 --> 00:27:45,080
Speaker 9: This is the Fits and Whipper with Cape Ritchie podcast.

602
00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:50,359
Speaker 5: Okay, we want to talk about apparently she's a greedy

603
00:27:50,440 --> 00:27:54,159
Speaker 5: pregnant woman. Now, I don't want to, you know, be

604
00:27:54,400 --> 00:27:56,560
Speaker 5: too critical. She's got a lot going on.

605
00:27:56,800 --> 00:27:59,520
Speaker 6: Should be greedy in what way? In the fact that

606
00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:03,439
Speaker 6: you are going through something extraordinary and if you need

607
00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:07,800
Speaker 6: help or you need something, you probably deserve it. Pregnancy

608
00:28:08,200 --> 00:28:09,600
Speaker 6: is the second best excuse.

609
00:28:10,560 --> 00:28:13,520
Speaker 4: What I think you would you know, I thought you

610
00:28:13,600 --> 00:28:17,399
Speaker 4: would do. I think you would love being pregnant, you know,

611
00:28:17,680 --> 00:28:23,080
Speaker 4: because you're reading for two Funny imagine if it was twins.

612
00:28:24,240 --> 00:28:26,400
Speaker 4: I've got two in here and there's one up here.

613
00:28:26,920 --> 00:28:31,200
Speaker 6: Sorry, mate, Because if I want to get a set

614
00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:33,639
Speaker 6: at a restaurant or something, or I don't want to

615
00:28:33,720 --> 00:28:36,400
Speaker 6: go to an event, Okay, to be able to say

616
00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:39,840
Speaker 6: I'm pregnant is the ultimate excuse. That's what I'm saying.

617
00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:42,280
Speaker 6: Besides death, pregnancy's next.

618
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Speaker 3: I don't think people fall pregnant in order to have

619
00:28:45,280 --> 00:28:45,960
Speaker 3: an excuse.

620
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Speaker 2: Not we don't know.

621
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Speaker 6: The kid is just a side bonus.

622
00:28:51,480 --> 00:28:57,680
Speaker 5: I do think that having children can become a good excuse. Anyway,

623
00:28:57,720 --> 00:29:00,440
Speaker 5: we're talking about this woman because there's a bloke that

624
00:29:00,560 --> 00:29:03,240
Speaker 5: she works with, and he has had enough of working

625
00:29:03,320 --> 00:29:06,880
Speaker 5: with the pregnant woman because he's trying to be considerate.

626
00:29:07,120 --> 00:29:09,840
Speaker 5: Like you said, I'm considerate of the woman. She's going

627
00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:13,880
Speaker 5: through a lot, but they work in a hospital. She's

628
00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:17,760
Speaker 5: she's just one of his peers and she's still working

629
00:29:17,800 --> 00:29:20,200
Speaker 5: although things are a little bit tough. He does say though,

630
00:29:20,560 --> 00:29:23,000
Speaker 5: that she's nice but pretty lazy.

631
00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:25,080
Speaker 3: So that's how he starts out.

632
00:29:25,600 --> 00:29:32,760
Speaker 5: Now, what's what he is upset about is that everybody

633
00:29:32,960 --> 00:29:36,440
Speaker 5: at the workplace has been expected to throw in money

634
00:29:36,720 --> 00:29:38,840
Speaker 5: to put on a bit of a baby shower for

635
00:29:39,320 --> 00:29:41,560
Speaker 5: So give us a call thirteen twenty four ten if

636
00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:47,760
Speaker 5: you are just over over spending money on other people's

637
00:29:47,880 --> 00:29:50,600
Speaker 5: kids and gifts, and what do you mean, I've got

638
00:29:50,640 --> 00:29:53,120
Speaker 5: to put twenty dollars towards this gift and we're buying

639
00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:55,520
Speaker 5: flowers for jan on Friday, it's her birthday.

640
00:29:55,720 --> 00:29:58,040
Speaker 3: Can you please transfer ten dollars to my account?

641
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Speaker 12: Do you know?

642
00:29:58,440 --> 00:30:00,000
Speaker 2: Like present?

643
00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:00,520
Speaker 7: All?

644
00:30:00,720 --> 00:30:02,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, all of that. Well, that's up to the partner,

645
00:30:02,960 --> 00:30:04,360
Speaker 3: isn't it to buy the push present?

646
00:30:04,480 --> 00:30:06,240
Speaker 6: Steve? You're on cupcakes? Am I?

647
00:30:06,560 --> 00:30:08,160
Speaker 2: What was your push present?

648
00:30:09,080 --> 00:30:10,320
Speaker 3: Did you buy a push present?

649
00:30:10,520 --> 00:30:11,800
Speaker 2: You've had three push presents?

650
00:30:12,080 --> 00:30:13,160
Speaker 6: You have three push presents?

651
00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:15,080
Speaker 3: Really, I never got one.

652
00:30:15,200 --> 00:30:17,400
Speaker 6: It annoyed me a bit. They were c section birth too,

653
00:30:17,600 --> 00:30:30,360
Speaker 6: So really, you haven't You haven't really done, do you

654
00:30:30,400 --> 00:30:30,880
Speaker 6: know what I mean?

655
00:30:30,960 --> 00:30:31,000
Speaker 12: Like?

656
00:30:31,520 --> 00:30:34,600
Speaker 5: Oh no, I'm actually going to save you here, because

657
00:30:34,640 --> 00:30:36,560
Speaker 5: that is one of the most peaks tried to do,

658
00:30:36,880 --> 00:30:39,560
Speaker 5: piggish things that anyone could ever say.

659
00:30:39,600 --> 00:30:42,040
Speaker 6: It's even worse not buying your wife a push present?

660
00:30:43,280 --> 00:30:46,120
Speaker 2: Got the c section? Did you get a Chanelle or

661
00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:48,520
Speaker 2: Coco or well? It was up to her.

662
00:30:48,760 --> 00:30:51,560
Speaker 6: I mean I said to her. Also, the greatest present

663
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:53,880
Speaker 6: possible is a new child. So how do we top

664
00:30:53,960 --> 00:30:54,560
Speaker 6: that with a brand?

665
00:30:54,920 --> 00:30:58,160
Speaker 3: You didn't say a new child. It's not like a car.

666
00:30:58,560 --> 00:30:59,600
Speaker 6: This is the latest design.

667
00:31:01,160 --> 00:31:03,000
Speaker 3: Oh wow, it was so shiny and new.

668
00:31:03,320 --> 00:31:05,520
Speaker 6: It's a twenty model. This is extraordiary.

669
00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:07,320
Speaker 3: Are you done.

670
00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:10,800
Speaker 5: I'm warving up anyway. I didn't get a push present.

671
00:31:10,960 --> 00:31:12,560
Speaker 5: I did get anyway, it doesn't matter.

672
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Speaker 3: Anyway. So that he's had to put in the he's

673
00:31:15,680 --> 00:31:17,280
Speaker 3: putting all the money in and you know that, like

674
00:31:17,360 --> 00:31:17,960
Speaker 3: you said, they've.

675
00:31:17,800 --> 00:31:21,200
Speaker 5: Done the baby shower and then she's come back to

676
00:31:21,320 --> 00:31:24,680
Speaker 5: work after the baby shower in the weeks still leading

677
00:31:24,760 --> 00:31:27,840
Speaker 5: up to the child, and her expectation now is of

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Speaker 5: her co workers that she has a.

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Speaker 3: Like a birth baby birth registry, which I didn't know

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Speaker 3: you could have on Amazon.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, has let all of the employees other employees know

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Speaker 5: that if you'd really like to contribute to the birth

683
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Speaker 5: of the baby, I put all of this stuff on Amazon.

684
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Speaker 5: And these these are the things now, which are you know,

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Speaker 5: the necessities for a child to come into the world,

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Speaker 5: whether that be you know, nappies and all of the

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Speaker 5: day today stuff. But I'm in my honest opinion is

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Speaker 5: that a child doesn't need anything.

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Speaker 12: But you.

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Speaker 5: Don't get bogged down in like, don't I didn't have

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Speaker 5: a flashy pram. Don't get bogged down in all that

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Speaker 5: stuff because when the baby comes, it's like it's just

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Speaker 5: it's not important to the needs you that is it on.

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Speaker 6: Our wedding day, Tom Williams, Tom the Chippy Thomas Napier

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Speaker 6: stitched me up a beauty. I'm about a week out

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Speaker 6: from our wedding. He says, Oh, what have you got

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Speaker 6: Lisa for the wedding day present? What list a wedding

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Speaker 6: day present? And he said, yeah, the tradition is that

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Speaker 6: you have something special on the morning of the wedding.

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Speaker 3: I said, She's.

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Speaker 6: Already got an engagement ring. She's about to get another

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Speaker 6: ring on the day, which I'm getting one.

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Speaker 3: Too, And you're about to get married.

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Speaker 6: Biggest win of.

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Speaker 2: All and she won't be having a win that night,

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Speaker 2: that's for sure.

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Speaker 3: You know what it could be the consolation prize.

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Speaker 6: She's snagged, like top dollar, Like congratulations.

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Speaker 3: Top shelf, top top shelf.

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Speaker 6: Man, like for life? You get that.

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Speaker 3: That's not for life, not for life. It's never well,

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Speaker 3: quite often one out of.

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Speaker 2: Two is not for life.

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Speaker 9: Is two out of three statistically.

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Speaker 3: I'm going to continue to save you.

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Speaker 7: Here.

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Speaker 3: Let's go to Monica and will and gone, Good morning, Monica,

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Speaker 3: good morning. Now tell us you're having a baby. Do

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Speaker 3: you have one of these registries?

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Speaker 12: No, I am having a baby shower in a few weeks.

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Speaker 12: But there's no registry. If you choose to bring something,

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Speaker 12: you can, but it's just to come and cell braid.

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Speaker 11: Us from the baby that's coming.

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Speaker 8: So wow, that's But if you would like to get

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Speaker 8: us something, they know that they can touch baby.

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Speaker 2: You're either in or you're not.

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Speaker 4: You've got to say, what did you write down on

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Speaker 4: the invite? Did you say, look, we don't need anything,

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Speaker 4: or what did you write?

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Speaker 8: We left it completely blank?

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Speaker 6: Do you know what a test?

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Speaker 2: That's a test?

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Speaker 6: You know what I've heard is frustrating. You throw a

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Speaker 6: baby shower and then everybody turns up and you might

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Speaker 6: have a glass of champagne. Some people get sloshed, but

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Speaker 6: poor mum, mum to be you can't drink. That's another

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Speaker 6: bad baby that you see at these parties.

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Speaker 3: We just don't have champagne then.

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Speaker 4: And I still do the nappy test thing what they

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Speaker 4: do with the chocolate in the nappy and you taste

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Speaker 4: it or something.

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Speaker 2: Isn't that a funny?

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Speaker 6: Sorry?

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Speaker 9: Mate?

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Speaker 2: Is this like a little game a baby shower?

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Speaker 12: What do they do?

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Speaker 2: What isn't it?

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Speaker 6: So one nappy's got pooh, one napp he's got chocolate? Crack?

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Speaker 4: No, I don't know the actual game. I got told

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Speaker 4: that there is. It's a funny game. What is this

751
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Speaker 4: veggie mind? Or is it feces?

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Speaker 7: You know?

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Speaker 6: Are you going to the nappy testing game?

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Speaker 3: Do you know what this is?

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Speaker 2: Anyone know what the nappy testing game is? At a

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Speaker 2: baby shower, chotel, Am I on the right track?

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Speaker 12: Here?

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Speaker 2: Where am I going? In the right direction?

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Speaker 11: A very post direction.

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Speaker 8: I recently went through a baby shower and the game

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Speaker 8: was there was about eight nappies that had been laid out.

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Speaker 8: Somebody had went and bought eight different chocolates. We weren't

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Speaker 8: aware of what they were. They were melted in the microwaves,

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Speaker 8: smeared in the nappy each and then we all had

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Speaker 8: to try and work out what chocolate it was. And

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Speaker 8: it was pretty interesting watching the mum sort of roll

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Speaker 8: them back and forth and look to find, you know,

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Speaker 8: if there was nut residue, coconut?

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Speaker 6: Oh god?

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Speaker 11: Yeah.

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Speaker 8: So there was some experienced sums there that knew how

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Speaker 8: to sort of work a nappy working.

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Speaker 6: I was going to say, none of them are like

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Speaker 6: the chocolate Sunday at the COULDI.

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Speaker 3: Bay allowed to talk about them?

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Speaker 2: So I'm the baby shower experience the chocolate nappy guy.

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Speaker 6: Congratulations. Why don't we try that tomorrow on the show top.

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Speaker 1: This is the City in with with Kate Richie podcast.

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Speaker 6: Can we talk about this one? Because Kate, I think

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Speaker 6: you fall into this category.

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Speaker 3: Here we go.

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Speaker 6: Four out of ten people have said that they hate

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Speaker 6: saying the word sorry, sorry because guys are more famous.

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Speaker 3: And hang on, let's go back to the hang on

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Speaker 3: a second.

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Speaker 5: Let's go back to the bit where you said that

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Speaker 5: I fall into that calera saying sorry.

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Speaker 3: I say sorry way too much.

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Speaker 5: In fact, in a past life when I've had to

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Speaker 5: do work on myself, I was put on a bit

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Speaker 5: of a contract where I wasn't allowed.

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Speaker 3: To use the word sorry. What do you mean because

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Speaker 3: I use the word sorry because it didn't mean.

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Speaker 5: Because I continually apologize for myself and my choices and

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Speaker 5: all the things. So I'm always saying.

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Speaker 6: You didn't actually mean it. No, I mean more dangerous.

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Speaker 3: Okay, here we go. So nice to hear on this show. Sometimes.

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Speaker 6: Okay, I remember growing up and Mum say to Dad,

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Speaker 6: why can't you just say sorry? What is it with

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Speaker 6: the word sorry?

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Speaker 2: He'd say that into the mic. You're off mark at the.

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Speaker 6: Most, So why can't you just And I've heard it

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Speaker 6: from my wife, but I get things wrong. You know,

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Speaker 6: we're not robots, we're humans, do you I believe it

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Speaker 6: or not. I make mistakes and.

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Speaker 3: You had moments, right, you are the mistake.

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Speaker 4: Had moments where you know you've stuffed up and you're

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Speaker 4: pacing around the house because.

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Speaker 2: You know you have to say sorry. But it is

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Speaker 2: just the worst thing in your head going. I can't,

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Speaker 2: can't believe I can. But you know what it's like

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Speaker 2: when once you do it, you feel so much better.

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Speaker 3: And it's a muscle. You need to exercise that.

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Speaker 5: But you need to exercise the muscle to be able

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Speaker 5: to say it. Doesn't mean I'm a bad person by

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Speaker 5: saying sorry. In fact, I'm the real winner here because

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Speaker 5: I'm taking responsibility for my own Wow.

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Speaker 4: So are you saying with the sorry? So back in

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Speaker 4: the day you were one of the best bodybuilders going around.

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Speaker 6: Where did you keep your sorry muscle?

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Speaker 2: You're on ryds God.

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Speaker 3: So ripped and spray and that muscle.

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Speaker 6: But they're sorry and then they're sorry, isn't there?

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Speaker 3: And I can imagine you're a passive, aggressive sorrier.

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Speaker 6: So I will do a lot of like I've said

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Speaker 6: your saying I'm sorry, sorry, that's how you made you feel.

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Speaker 6: But then I'll do a lot of sorry. I stuffed up,

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Speaker 6: all right, I got that rough. I didn't I didn't

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Speaker 6: read the situation. I'm sorry about that. That was my bad.

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Speaker 6: We should have gone home six hours earlier. I just

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Speaker 6: couldn't read the play, Honey, I didn't realize we were

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Speaker 6: outstanding her welcome.

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Speaker 4: Well, it's like ray Gun last night went on the

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Speaker 4: project and she said, I'm really sad to hear about

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Speaker 4: those criticisms, and I'm very sorry for the backlash that

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Speaker 4: the community has experienced.

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Speaker 2: Is that a sorry?

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Speaker 6: I think that sorry, that's a legitimate sorry.

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Speaker 2: Well, she's basically said, if you feel like that, I'm

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Speaker 2: sorry that you feel like that.

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Speaker 5: But I think there is an element that that comes

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Speaker 5: from a sincere place for her. I don't think when

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Speaker 5: Whipper says it, it's sincere, it's passive aggressive. I think

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Speaker 5: when ray Gun says it, she's because.

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Speaker 6: You can't see you're sorry, muscle.

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Speaker 5: You can't be responsible for other people's feelings. You have

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Speaker 5: to act in your own way, and you can't. I mean,

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Speaker 5: if you're intentionally trying to incite a feeling in somebody.

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Speaker 3: That's unfair politicians. It is up to you to feel

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Speaker 3: your own feelings when the politician.

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Speaker 2: Does, I'm sorry that you feel like that. So it

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Speaker 2: just rolls me up so much.

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Speaker 6: Is there anybody in the studio that wants to say

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Speaker 6: sorry for something like right now? Put it on the

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Speaker 6: record that you're okay with saying, well.

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Speaker 4: This show has been going for close to fourteen years.

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Speaker 4: I've been apologizing to everyone for fourteen years.

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Speaker 3: The audience, Sorry, we'll be back at six o'clock.

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Speaker 6: I'm sorry, that's how made you feel.

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Speaker 4: Other radio shows around Sydney announced that they've gotten a

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Speaker 4: contract extensions.

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Speaker 2: We apologize every.

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Speaker 4: Time we get on.

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Speaker 6: I'm sorry, guys, we're going to be every a bit longer.

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Speaker 6: Sitzen Whipper with Kate Ritchie is a Nova podcast walk

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Speaker 6: great shows like this. Download the Nova player via the

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Speaker 6: App Store or Google Play.

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Speaker 1: They