1 00:00:00,280 --> 00:00:03,880 Speaker 1: This podcast is recorded on gaddigle Land, Always was, always 2 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:09,280 Speaker 1: will be Aboriginal Land. 3 00:00:12,160 --> 00:00:14,640 Speaker 2: Hey Chicks, I'm now and I'm sal and there's two 4 00:00:14,640 --> 00:00:17,360 Speaker 2: Broke Chicks, the show that shares life lessons and tips 5 00:00:17,400 --> 00:00:17,880 Speaker 2: to make. 6 00:00:17,800 --> 00:00:19,759 Speaker 1: You rich in life. 7 00:00:20,000 --> 00:00:24,279 Speaker 2: And welcome back to another doozy, another wonderful whoosh day 8 00:00:24,360 --> 00:00:28,400 Speaker 2: Morning Wow. If you're listening Glorious Morning, the orse morning. 9 00:00:28,520 --> 00:00:30,400 Speaker 3: If you're around number one fan and you listen at 10 00:00:30,480 --> 00:00:33,000 Speaker 3: six am when this drops, there. 11 00:00:32,840 --> 00:00:34,519 Speaker 2: Are there are a lot of people that listen to 12 00:00:34,560 --> 00:00:36,680 Speaker 2: this at six am early birds. Yeah, I love it 13 00:00:36,720 --> 00:00:39,560 Speaker 2: on the work commute and the hot girl walkie in 14 00:00:39,600 --> 00:00:40,040 Speaker 2: the morning. 15 00:00:40,800 --> 00:00:43,559 Speaker 1: This is you and I'm in your ear holes right now. Hi, 16 00:00:44,040 --> 00:00:45,519 Speaker 1: how are you? Do you hear that? 17 00:00:46,520 --> 00:00:50,680 Speaker 4: It's me? It's worry, It's just me, but hey. 18 00:00:50,520 --> 00:00:51,839 Speaker 1: It's you. But hey, it's you. 19 00:00:52,080 --> 00:00:55,240 Speaker 2: And today we are sharing the four types of hobbies 20 00:00:55,440 --> 00:00:56,520 Speaker 2: you need. 21 00:00:57,160 --> 00:01:00,440 Speaker 1: Love a fucking hobby, love a habit, love hobby. 22 00:01:00,560 --> 00:01:03,440 Speaker 2: We do, but before we get into it, we always 23 00:01:03,480 --> 00:01:05,280 Speaker 2: share our obsession of the week. 24 00:01:05,440 --> 00:01:07,559 Speaker 1: So Dowly Bailey, love of my life and best friend 25 00:01:07,600 --> 00:01:14,640 Speaker 1: forever big bong. But your butt looks great today, by 26 00:01:14,680 --> 00:01:15,560 Speaker 1: the way. 27 00:01:15,360 --> 00:01:19,800 Speaker 2: Well, what a sigiwy because my obsession this week is 28 00:01:19,840 --> 00:01:23,679 Speaker 2: a new hair product from People Hair and it's their 29 00:01:23,760 --> 00:01:28,679 Speaker 2: slick Styler, which is only sixteen dollars slig Yeah, you 30 00:01:28,680 --> 00:01:33,160 Speaker 2: can get it from Coal's how fabulous. I love a 31 00:01:33,200 --> 00:01:35,360 Speaker 2: good like beauty buy that you can just get from 32 00:01:35,400 --> 00:01:36,880 Speaker 2: a grocery store or a drug store. 33 00:01:36,959 --> 00:01:40,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, me too. But it's a really good slick styler. 34 00:01:40,920 --> 00:01:44,759 Speaker 3: So if you're a slickbun girlie, definitely grab one because 35 00:01:44,959 --> 00:01:46,240 Speaker 3: helps tame the flyways. 36 00:01:46,280 --> 00:01:48,760 Speaker 1: Who isn't a slickbun girly, that's my question. 37 00:01:48,840 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 2: I saw it being recently saying that slick buns are 38 00:01:52,920 --> 00:01:56,720 Speaker 2: out and like the messy pool back bun yeah is in. 39 00:01:57,000 --> 00:02:00,680 Speaker 2: So it's like more of like the tussled Like, Yeah, 40 00:02:00,720 --> 00:02:02,360 Speaker 2: I've been trying to rock that a little bit more, 41 00:02:02,400 --> 00:02:05,120 Speaker 2: but even that takes like a level of styling, and 42 00:02:05,160 --> 00:02:08,240 Speaker 2: today I just didn't have time. Just there's just something 43 00:02:08,280 --> 00:02:10,639 Speaker 2: about the slickback style that makes. 44 00:02:10,360 --> 00:02:12,640 Speaker 1: Me feel like I've. 45 00:02:12,440 --> 00:02:13,280 Speaker 4: Got it together. 46 00:02:13,400 --> 00:02:17,040 Speaker 1: M Like it's gonna be okay. Yeah, I agree. 47 00:02:17,240 --> 00:02:18,400 Speaker 4: All right, what are you obsessed with? 48 00:02:18,800 --> 00:02:21,240 Speaker 1: Okay, I've got two obsessions. Okay. 49 00:02:21,360 --> 00:02:25,200 Speaker 2: One, I saw an article that says winged eyeliner is 50 00:02:25,320 --> 00:02:27,799 Speaker 2: now the skinny gene for gen Z. 51 00:02:29,040 --> 00:02:29,800 Speaker 4: I've got a winged. 52 00:02:30,919 --> 00:02:31,760 Speaker 1: We're both wearing wind. 53 00:02:32,440 --> 00:02:34,880 Speaker 4: I've seen that too, that it's like another millennial ick. 54 00:02:36,520 --> 00:02:39,120 Speaker 1: I'm sick of this shit, I know. 55 00:02:39,160 --> 00:02:41,440 Speaker 4: And you're on the cusp too, You're still copying a. 56 00:02:41,480 --> 00:02:47,120 Speaker 2: Beaten I lose either way you do. I'm struggling on 57 00:02:47,160 --> 00:02:48,000 Speaker 2: the inside here. 58 00:02:48,520 --> 00:02:54,040 Speaker 5: And then my other obsession is this Saturday, we have 59 00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:59,720 Speaker 5: our very first live show, and I'm bricking in the 60 00:02:59,720 --> 00:03:02,880 Speaker 5: best way and the worst way. 61 00:03:03,040 --> 00:03:04,320 Speaker 1: And I'm shooting myself. 62 00:03:06,560 --> 00:03:08,600 Speaker 3: If that doesn't want to make you guys buy tickets, 63 00:03:08,639 --> 00:03:09,520 Speaker 3: I don't know what will. 64 00:03:09,639 --> 00:03:16,440 Speaker 2: I'm bricked, guess way, but it's it's But my main 65 00:03:16,520 --> 00:03:22,680 Speaker 2: obsession is we have created the most bang for your 66 00:03:22,720 --> 00:03:25,639 Speaker 2: buck show that I think has ever existed. 67 00:03:25,720 --> 00:03:29,440 Speaker 1: Asterisks the no promises made by two brooksticks. 68 00:03:29,800 --> 00:03:33,560 Speaker 2: But our goodie bags are legit the best goodie bags 69 00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:35,840 Speaker 2: that I think have ever existed in a live show. 70 00:03:36,080 --> 00:03:39,440 Speaker 2: The first five hundred tickets that have sold are getting 71 00:03:39,560 --> 00:03:41,960 Speaker 2: a goodie bag that's worth like four hundred dollars, and 72 00:03:42,040 --> 00:03:44,880 Speaker 2: the tickets are forty dollars to sixty. 73 00:03:44,560 --> 00:03:46,960 Speaker 1: Dollars, and then everyone else gets a goodie bag that's 74 00:03:47,000 --> 00:03:48,480 Speaker 1: worth two hundred dollars. 75 00:03:48,680 --> 00:03:52,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, and we're giving away over five thousand dollars in 76 00:03:52,680 --> 00:03:53,040 Speaker 2: the show. 77 00:03:53,360 --> 00:03:55,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, there's so many giveaways. 78 00:03:55,240 --> 00:03:59,640 Speaker 2: Literally, if you don't have tickets, it's actually a bad investment. 79 00:03:59,800 --> 00:04:04,160 Speaker 2: Not too Yeah, it's true, Like we really wanted because 80 00:04:04,240 --> 00:04:07,840 Speaker 2: we know we're in Cozi Lives and people don't really 81 00:04:07,880 --> 00:04:10,760 Speaker 2: have the money to just be putting towards the arts 82 00:04:10,800 --> 00:04:13,520 Speaker 2: for just a show, as much as I wish we did, 83 00:04:14,000 --> 00:04:16,440 Speaker 2: but we wanted to make sure people were going home 84 00:04:16,600 --> 00:04:18,119 Speaker 2: with more than what they spent. 85 00:04:18,440 --> 00:04:19,200 Speaker 1: And I am just. 86 00:04:19,240 --> 00:04:22,440 Speaker 2: So so so happy that we've achieved that. And the 87 00:04:22,520 --> 00:04:25,760 Speaker 2: brands have been so generous with what they're putting in 88 00:04:25,839 --> 00:04:29,159 Speaker 2: because I just am so excited for people to get them. 89 00:04:29,360 --> 00:04:32,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, and there's so many incredible products in these goodie bags. 90 00:04:32,600 --> 00:04:35,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, new chicks are going to love them. It's so good. 91 00:04:35,240 --> 00:04:41,120 Speaker 2: There's makeup, there's skincare, there's haircare, there's wine, there's sex toys. 92 00:04:42,200 --> 00:04:43,400 Speaker 1: Like, what else do you want? 93 00:04:43,600 --> 00:04:45,960 Speaker 4: Honestly, I want one and a good. 94 00:04:45,880 --> 00:04:47,560 Speaker 2: Night out with the cheek and a good night out 95 00:04:47,560 --> 00:04:48,000 Speaker 2: with the chicks. 96 00:04:48,000 --> 00:04:50,000 Speaker 1: I'm like, don't even come to see us. Get your 97 00:04:50,000 --> 00:04:50,560 Speaker 1: goodie bag. 98 00:04:51,000 --> 00:04:53,720 Speaker 2: I'm getting kidding, getting kittingreat No, it's actually going to 99 00:04:53,800 --> 00:04:54,400 Speaker 2: be so fun. 100 00:04:54,440 --> 00:04:55,560 Speaker 1: I can't fucking wait. 101 00:04:56,240 --> 00:04:59,120 Speaker 2: And yeah, yeah, we'll put a link to buy tickets 102 00:04:59,160 --> 00:04:59,799 Speaker 2: in the description. 103 00:05:00,240 --> 00:05:01,520 Speaker 4: Yes, but they're selling fars. 104 00:05:01,640 --> 00:05:04,880 Speaker 2: Yes, they're not sold out by the time this episode 105 00:05:04,960 --> 00:05:07,960 Speaker 2: goes live, but we'll see there's only about one hundred 106 00:05:07,960 --> 00:05:11,000 Speaker 2: tickets left. So get in, like basically as soon as 107 00:05:11,040 --> 00:05:13,760 Speaker 2: you listen to this, if there's any left, and we 108 00:05:13,800 --> 00:05:15,440 Speaker 2: will see you there. This is going to be our 109 00:05:15,480 --> 00:05:17,520 Speaker 2: only live show for twenty twenty four. We might do 110 00:05:17,640 --> 00:05:19,680 Speaker 2: some of the future, we might not, So get in, 111 00:05:20,320 --> 00:05:20,880 Speaker 2: get in. 112 00:05:21,200 --> 00:05:23,040 Speaker 4: Be quick, get your tickets while they're hated. 113 00:05:23,200 --> 00:05:28,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, let's get into the episode. Chikjobs. 114 00:05:30,520 --> 00:05:34,680 Speaker 2: Four hobbies that you need starting with your first one 115 00:05:34,960 --> 00:05:39,040 Speaker 2: is one to fuel and feel your body. It is 116 00:05:39,680 --> 00:05:44,480 Speaker 2: vital to prioritize both your mental and physical health. The 117 00:05:44,480 --> 00:05:47,080 Speaker 2: most important thing, though, is finding something that you enjoy, 118 00:05:47,400 --> 00:05:50,400 Speaker 2: like this shouldn't feel like a chore, but something like 119 00:05:50,480 --> 00:05:53,640 Speaker 2: that makes you feel good and saying this as well 120 00:05:53,680 --> 00:05:58,039 Speaker 2: as two people that are not like the fitness wellness girlies. Yeah, 121 00:05:58,279 --> 00:06:01,680 Speaker 2: I do think this year is the first year. Actually, 122 00:06:01,760 --> 00:06:03,840 Speaker 2: you were really good with it last year, I wasn't 123 00:06:03,880 --> 00:06:06,320 Speaker 2: necessarily very good. You've always been good with it. I'm 124 00:06:06,360 --> 00:06:12,599 Speaker 2: just I'm just what's the word where you put your insecurities. 125 00:06:11,839 --> 00:06:16,800 Speaker 1: On other projecting, projecting that old chestnut. Well, this year 126 00:06:17,120 --> 00:06:18,200 Speaker 1: is the first year that. 127 00:06:18,160 --> 00:06:21,320 Speaker 2: I feel like I've actually been consistent with a habit 128 00:06:22,240 --> 00:06:26,680 Speaker 2: that fuels my body and feels my body. And I've 129 00:06:26,720 --> 00:06:30,680 Speaker 2: never felt more kind of in tune with my body 130 00:06:30,800 --> 00:06:34,359 Speaker 2: as being a vessel and something that works for me 131 00:06:35,040 --> 00:06:37,360 Speaker 2: rather than something that is to be looked at. 132 00:06:37,480 --> 00:06:39,080 Speaker 1: Then I have this year. 133 00:06:39,680 --> 00:06:42,479 Speaker 2: And there was a recent study that showed an MRI 134 00:06:42,800 --> 00:06:45,640 Speaker 2: of a brain before and after a twenty minute walk 135 00:06:45,720 --> 00:06:48,560 Speaker 2: on a group of children, and the results showed that 136 00:06:48,600 --> 00:06:53,040 Speaker 2: those who had walked had significantly more cognitive performance. And 137 00:06:53,080 --> 00:06:57,440 Speaker 2: this is the thing that gets you into the hobby 138 00:06:58,040 --> 00:07:00,440 Speaker 2: because I was saying to you, how at the start 139 00:07:00,440 --> 00:07:03,160 Speaker 2: of this year, like I couldn't run, Like for a minute, 140 00:07:03,360 --> 00:07:06,640 Speaker 2: I was like, also, I reckon, if you go back 141 00:07:06,680 --> 00:07:10,480 Speaker 2: two years I was slagging off running, Yeah, you would 142 00:07:10,520 --> 00:07:13,240 Speaker 2: have been like, I will just never run, which if 143 00:07:13,240 --> 00:07:14,200 Speaker 2: you don't want to, I. 144 00:07:14,160 --> 00:07:15,600 Speaker 1: Would be like, what's the point of running? 145 00:07:15,640 --> 00:07:18,640 Speaker 2: I was like, it's backing, boring, No, no, no, when I 146 00:07:18,720 --> 00:07:20,520 Speaker 2: was in little athletics, I don't know if. 147 00:07:20,480 --> 00:07:22,520 Speaker 1: I've told you this story. I don't know when I 148 00:07:22,560 --> 00:07:25,320 Speaker 1: was in little athletics. I think this was maybe like 149 00:07:25,360 --> 00:07:27,880 Speaker 1: my third week. So I was bored. I was like, oh, 150 00:07:28,040 --> 00:07:29,840 Speaker 1: the dopamine is worn off. Boring. 151 00:07:30,200 --> 00:07:32,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, And I think I was doing the eight hundred 152 00:07:32,520 --> 00:07:34,360 Speaker 2: meters and I rounded the corner or maybe the four 153 00:07:34,440 --> 00:07:35,240 Speaker 2: hundred meters. 154 00:07:35,520 --> 00:07:37,520 Speaker 1: I was doing the circle and there was only one lap. 155 00:07:37,640 --> 00:07:40,880 Speaker 2: Yeah. Anyway, I'm coming around the final bend. My mom's 156 00:07:40,920 --> 00:07:45,760 Speaker 2: there being like, go Alex. I walked off, yeah, and 157 00:07:45,840 --> 00:07:46,960 Speaker 2: then went, Alex, what are you doing? 158 00:07:47,000 --> 00:07:50,800 Speaker 1: I said, why are we running? Like five? 159 00:07:52,320 --> 00:07:53,160 Speaker 4: Why are we running? 160 00:07:54,160 --> 00:07:57,040 Speaker 2: Question? What what am I running to? What am I 161 00:07:57,080 --> 00:08:01,080 Speaker 2: running from? And from that day forward resented running. 162 00:08:01,320 --> 00:08:03,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, Like I like. 163 00:08:03,000 --> 00:08:06,200 Speaker 2: Competitive sports because I'm competitive, so I would enjoy that. 164 00:08:06,400 --> 00:08:09,440 Speaker 1: But I've never been a runner, never been a track star. 165 00:08:09,920 --> 00:08:13,760 Speaker 2: Anyway, this year, I'm obsessed and I ran my first 166 00:08:13,800 --> 00:08:16,160 Speaker 2: four kilometers two days ago. 167 00:08:16,080 --> 00:08:16,559 Speaker 4: So proud. 168 00:08:16,560 --> 00:08:17,640 Speaker 1: And do you want to know how I did it? 169 00:08:17,880 --> 00:08:19,240 Speaker 1: I've already told you. I'll tell you. 170 00:08:19,320 --> 00:08:22,880 Speaker 2: Chicks released Me by Agnes came out as my final song, 171 00:08:23,400 --> 00:08:25,480 Speaker 2: and I was running next to this like really fit, 172 00:08:25,840 --> 00:08:28,960 Speaker 2: like footy play next me on the treadmill and I said, 173 00:08:29,080 --> 00:08:34,040 Speaker 2: it's fucking on and heye won. But like it just 174 00:08:34,320 --> 00:08:37,160 Speaker 2: having this hobby, whatever it is, whatever it looks like 175 00:08:37,200 --> 00:08:39,560 Speaker 2: for you, because you know, we've tried basically everything under 176 00:08:39,600 --> 00:08:41,360 Speaker 2: the sun, and it is about finding the thing that 177 00:08:41,440 --> 00:08:45,880 Speaker 2: sticks and that you enjoy. But it's not the actual 178 00:08:46,200 --> 00:08:48,719 Speaker 2: I don't know, it's how you feel after it. It's 179 00:08:48,760 --> 00:08:51,360 Speaker 2: how the hobby makes you feel after it. And I 180 00:08:51,360 --> 00:08:55,480 Speaker 2: feel like finding that thing that makes you like, makes 181 00:08:55,520 --> 00:08:58,080 Speaker 2: your body feel like a vessel rather than something to 182 00:08:58,120 --> 00:09:00,960 Speaker 2: be looked at, is always going to fuel you in 183 00:09:01,000 --> 00:09:04,520 Speaker 2: all areas of your life. Yeah, well, because the alternative 184 00:09:04,600 --> 00:09:07,880 Speaker 2: is so not motivating, or at least it's not motivating 185 00:09:07,920 --> 00:09:11,360 Speaker 2: in like a healthy and sustainable way. If you want 186 00:09:11,360 --> 00:09:14,439 Speaker 2: to go to pilates and that's the movement that you 187 00:09:14,480 --> 00:09:16,959 Speaker 2: get that feeling afterwards, that you get that dopamine hit, 188 00:09:17,320 --> 00:09:17,839 Speaker 2: that's great. 189 00:09:17,840 --> 00:09:19,600 Speaker 4: If it's a hot girl walk, fabulous. 190 00:09:19,640 --> 00:09:23,320 Speaker 2: If it's a dance class, if it's a YouTube high 191 00:09:23,360 --> 00:09:25,400 Speaker 2: school musical dance class routine. 192 00:09:25,440 --> 00:09:25,680 Speaker 1: Yeah. 193 00:09:26,600 --> 00:09:27,920 Speaker 4: The one direction one. 194 00:09:27,760 --> 00:09:29,720 Speaker 1: Is have we done one of those together? 195 00:09:29,880 --> 00:09:30,160 Speaker 2: We did? 196 00:09:30,160 --> 00:09:33,400 Speaker 3: Think in lockdown, I think, but not together, like not 197 00:09:33,480 --> 00:09:35,360 Speaker 3: together in the same room, but we definitely did them 198 00:09:35,360 --> 00:09:36,000 Speaker 3: in lockdown. 199 00:09:36,120 --> 00:09:37,160 Speaker 1: We should do one together. 200 00:09:37,320 --> 00:09:41,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, they're really At first, you feel really stupid, they're hard. 201 00:09:41,720 --> 00:09:44,160 Speaker 2: You feel really silly when you're doing these like dance 202 00:09:44,160 --> 00:09:45,319 Speaker 2: workouts on YouTube. 203 00:09:45,679 --> 00:09:48,319 Speaker 1: By the end of it, it's so much fine. 204 00:09:48,400 --> 00:09:51,640 Speaker 4: They're the best and they're a real workout. They're challenging. 205 00:09:51,960 --> 00:09:54,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, what's your hobby that you do. Mine would be 206 00:09:54,880 --> 00:09:57,720 Speaker 2: going to the gym, and I like it because it's 207 00:09:57,760 --> 00:10:00,000 Speaker 2: an excuse not to touch my fie. 208 00:10:00,280 --> 00:10:02,599 Speaker 4: Oh and look at my phone Asterix. 209 00:10:03,040 --> 00:10:06,680 Speaker 3: Currently, I'm doing a program on the kickapp, which I love. 210 00:10:06,920 --> 00:10:08,959 Speaker 3: So my phone's present and I am looking at a 211 00:10:09,000 --> 00:10:11,680 Speaker 3: screen to follow the instructions. But you know, I'm not 212 00:10:11,720 --> 00:10:12,880 Speaker 3: getting distracted. 213 00:10:12,960 --> 00:10:15,600 Speaker 4: I'm listening to music and it's a really good opportunity 214 00:10:15,640 --> 00:10:16,440 Speaker 4: to switch off. 215 00:10:17,080 --> 00:10:19,680 Speaker 3: And I really like going late at night because I 216 00:10:19,679 --> 00:10:21,880 Speaker 3: feel like it helps me switch off before I go 217 00:10:21,960 --> 00:10:22,319 Speaker 3: to bed. 218 00:10:22,480 --> 00:10:23,640 Speaker 1: That's what I've always. 219 00:10:23,360 --> 00:10:26,559 Speaker 2: Been a morning person, and I've definitely transitioned to an 220 00:10:26,559 --> 00:10:27,400 Speaker 2: eve R though. 221 00:10:27,760 --> 00:10:28,120 Speaker 4: Yeah. 222 00:10:28,280 --> 00:10:31,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, so it's like looking at it as that for me, 223 00:10:31,520 --> 00:10:33,600 Speaker 2: like it's a good way to put a full stop 224 00:10:33,640 --> 00:10:37,200 Speaker 2: on the day. Close the laptop finish work and go 225 00:10:37,240 --> 00:10:39,080 Speaker 2: do that. I don't have to talk to anybody, I 226 00:10:39,080 --> 00:10:40,440 Speaker 2: don't have to think about anything. 227 00:10:40,640 --> 00:10:42,560 Speaker 4: I can just do that, listen to some tunes. 228 00:10:43,200 --> 00:10:45,920 Speaker 2: And I do really like using the kickapp or some 229 00:10:45,960 --> 00:10:48,160 Speaker 2: sort of like workout program so. 230 00:10:48,080 --> 00:10:49,640 Speaker 4: That somebody can basically tell me what to do. 231 00:10:49,800 --> 00:10:51,920 Speaker 1: Yeah. Do you feel your mood change like when you're 232 00:10:51,960 --> 00:10:53,120 Speaker 1: on the way home from the. 233 00:10:53,160 --> 00:10:54,240 Speaker 4: One thousand percent? 234 00:10:55,080 --> 00:10:58,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm always like walking out like thinking I'm in 235 00:10:58,000 --> 00:11:02,160 Speaker 2: a film clear, yes, sinking for my life, yeah, legit. 236 00:11:02,400 --> 00:11:05,120 Speaker 2: Like I don't ever think, oh, yeah, I'm excited to 237 00:11:05,120 --> 00:11:05,640 Speaker 2: go to the gym. 238 00:11:05,640 --> 00:11:07,920 Speaker 1: I want to go to the gym. I think I 239 00:11:08,000 --> 00:11:08,839 Speaker 1: know what. 240 00:11:08,840 --> 00:11:11,000 Speaker 2: I'm going to feel like when I have dinner and 241 00:11:11,000 --> 00:11:12,880 Speaker 2: I sit down to watch TV if I do go, 242 00:11:13,400 --> 00:11:15,480 Speaker 2: whereas if I don't, I feel like a little stale 243 00:11:15,600 --> 00:11:16,880 Speaker 2: piece of bread. Yeah. 244 00:11:16,880 --> 00:11:18,640 Speaker 4: It always makes me so ready for bed too. 245 00:11:18,720 --> 00:11:21,600 Speaker 2: Ye. And I'm like, I've never really been these girlies, 246 00:11:21,600 --> 00:11:24,040 Speaker 2: but look at us now me. 247 00:11:24,280 --> 00:11:27,760 Speaker 1: Your next hobby that you need is one. 248 00:11:27,720 --> 00:11:31,480 Speaker 2: To let you be creative. I think this is my 249 00:11:31,559 --> 00:11:33,440 Speaker 2: favorite one, or it's up there. 250 00:11:33,600 --> 00:11:34,160 Speaker 1: It's up there. 251 00:11:34,960 --> 00:11:38,760 Speaker 2: But I just think there's so much pressure to have 252 00:11:38,800 --> 00:11:42,160 Speaker 2: like results as an adult to have like your income 253 00:11:42,600 --> 00:11:45,319 Speaker 2: or buy a house, or get married and have kids 254 00:11:45,320 --> 00:11:48,200 Speaker 2: by a certain age of these like made up rules 255 00:11:48,200 --> 00:11:51,199 Speaker 2: that society gave us that we measure ourselves against. It's 256 00:11:51,200 --> 00:11:55,840 Speaker 2: like we have okayrs for life, right, But for me 257 00:11:55,920 --> 00:11:59,000 Speaker 2: this hobby, the word creative could be swapped out for 258 00:11:59,040 --> 00:12:04,400 Speaker 2: the word place. I agree, And I just think we 259 00:12:04,559 --> 00:12:09,800 Speaker 2: could play a lot more. And I've recently been speaking 260 00:12:09,960 --> 00:12:15,160 Speaker 2: with someone and the amount of times the word play 261 00:12:15,240 --> 00:12:17,800 Speaker 2: comes up that I just want to play, I just 262 00:12:17,840 --> 00:12:18,600 Speaker 2: want to have fun. 263 00:12:19,320 --> 00:12:24,200 Speaker 1: I I just want to play, And they think we 264 00:12:24,400 --> 00:12:26,520 Speaker 1: don't make enough time for this. 265 00:12:26,679 --> 00:12:29,240 Speaker 2: You don't make enough time to play and have fun 266 00:12:29,320 --> 00:12:32,280 Speaker 2: and giggle and be silly and be creative because we're 267 00:12:32,280 --> 00:12:36,080 Speaker 2: too focused on these stupid fucking okayrs that someone set 268 00:12:36,400 --> 00:12:39,920 Speaker 2: who we are. Also, that's someone like we're also setting 269 00:12:39,920 --> 00:12:42,200 Speaker 2: these okayrs in our minds and then failing because we 270 00:12:42,240 --> 00:12:44,160 Speaker 2: don't want to do them, but then we're upset that 271 00:12:44,200 --> 00:12:44,839 Speaker 2: we didn't do them. 272 00:12:45,160 --> 00:12:48,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, And the reason why this. 273 00:12:48,080 --> 00:12:51,320 Speaker 2: Needs to be a hobby is because play can also 274 00:12:51,520 --> 00:12:55,920 Speaker 2: improve our memory and stimulates the growth of the cerebral cortex. 275 00:12:55,960 --> 00:12:59,200 Speaker 1: To get all science y on youtigis. 276 00:12:58,520 --> 00:13:02,720 Speaker 2: And researchers cats playful adults into four types. 277 00:13:03,559 --> 00:13:05,360 Speaker 4: I love this shit. How do we play? 278 00:13:05,720 --> 00:13:07,880 Speaker 1: So there's four types of adults that play. 279 00:13:08,520 --> 00:13:12,559 Speaker 2: Those who outwardly enjoy fooling around with friends, colleagues, relatives, 280 00:13:12,559 --> 00:13:13,439 Speaker 2: and acquaintances. 281 00:13:13,520 --> 00:13:14,160 Speaker 4: Falling around. 282 00:13:14,280 --> 00:13:17,040 Speaker 1: Eh, she's playing right now. 283 00:13:18,160 --> 00:13:22,120 Speaker 2: Those who are generally lighthearted and not preoccupied by the 284 00:13:22,120 --> 00:13:23,800 Speaker 2: future consequences of their. 285 00:13:23,679 --> 00:13:25,240 Speaker 4: Behavior must be nice. 286 00:13:26,160 --> 00:13:29,840 Speaker 2: Those who play with thoughts and ideas, and those who 287 00:13:29,840 --> 00:13:30,760 Speaker 2: play with themselves. 288 00:13:30,800 --> 00:13:31,320 Speaker 1: I'm kidding. 289 00:13:35,320 --> 00:13:38,440 Speaker 2: I thought you were going to say something else, but 290 00:13:38,480 --> 00:13:46,040 Speaker 2: there was a full start. Those who are whimsical exhibit 291 00:13:46,120 --> 00:13:49,840 Speaker 2: interest in strange and unusual things, and are amused by small, 292 00:13:49,920 --> 00:13:51,240 Speaker 2: everyday observations. 293 00:13:51,480 --> 00:13:53,319 Speaker 1: Hello, that's cute. 294 00:13:53,840 --> 00:13:58,160 Speaker 2: In the fourth category, I reckon, I reckon or like 295 00:13:58,240 --> 00:14:01,120 Speaker 2: those who play with thoughts and ideas, but we also 296 00:14:01,200 --> 00:14:04,839 Speaker 2: love giggling and his friends. I have them accept the 297 00:14:04,920 --> 00:14:09,000 Speaker 2: one one that doesn't care about the future. But among 298 00:14:09,520 --> 00:14:13,280 Speaker 2: like its many benefits, adult play can boost your creativity, 299 00:14:13,640 --> 00:14:16,400 Speaker 2: sharpen your sense of humor, and help you cope better 300 00:14:16,600 --> 00:14:21,200 Speaker 2: with stress. So if you can't think of something that's 301 00:14:21,520 --> 00:14:25,080 Speaker 2: that hobby right now, I really want you to prioritize 302 00:14:25,080 --> 00:14:27,960 Speaker 2: that this week. If you can't think of something where 303 00:14:28,080 --> 00:14:31,800 Speaker 2: you've played this week, and it might not necessarily be 304 00:14:31,880 --> 00:14:35,080 Speaker 2: a consistent hobby that you do every week. 305 00:14:35,160 --> 00:14:36,120 Speaker 4: It is good if you. 306 00:14:36,080 --> 00:14:37,160 Speaker 1: Can find something like that. 307 00:14:37,240 --> 00:14:40,720 Speaker 2: Our friend Jem, she goes to pottery every Tuesday. 308 00:14:41,040 --> 00:14:42,400 Speaker 1: And maybe it's. 309 00:14:42,280 --> 00:14:45,240 Speaker 2: Reading your book and then talking about it, like starting 310 00:14:45,280 --> 00:14:47,400 Speaker 2: a book club with your friends and or just one 311 00:14:47,480 --> 00:14:50,240 Speaker 2: friend and talking about that book together and like giggling 312 00:14:50,280 --> 00:14:52,360 Speaker 2: and kicking your feet about his quivering member. 313 00:14:52,600 --> 00:14:55,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, even like filling out your good reads. Yeah, 314 00:14:55,720 --> 00:14:57,600 Speaker 3: and like having a little creative writing. 315 00:14:57,320 --> 00:14:59,240 Speaker 4: Exercise about the book that you've read. 316 00:15:00,040 --> 00:15:02,720 Speaker 1: It's just it's fun to play. 317 00:15:02,880 --> 00:15:05,400 Speaker 4: It is fun to play to play. I love that. 318 00:15:05,920 --> 00:15:08,440 Speaker 3: I think an example of that for me would be 319 00:15:08,680 --> 00:15:12,840 Speaker 3: live music for sure. Yes, like that is definitely one 320 00:15:12,920 --> 00:15:16,720 Speaker 3: of my favorite and most consistent hobbies throughout my life. 321 00:15:16,760 --> 00:15:19,480 Speaker 3: And I think that is one time when that is 322 00:15:19,520 --> 00:15:23,480 Speaker 3: a time when I do feel that real childlike joy 323 00:15:23,760 --> 00:15:26,960 Speaker 3: and like reckless, abandoned and it's just so fun and 324 00:15:27,000 --> 00:15:28,880 Speaker 3: you feel so like alive. 325 00:15:29,520 --> 00:15:30,480 Speaker 4: So I love doing that. 326 00:15:30,560 --> 00:15:32,960 Speaker 3: But another thing that I would be keen to get 327 00:15:32,960 --> 00:15:36,240 Speaker 3: into maybe in the new year, is like scrap booking. 328 00:15:37,520 --> 00:15:38,560 Speaker 1: I like scrapbooking. 329 00:15:38,760 --> 00:15:41,480 Speaker 4: And yeah that's cute, or you do it like junk journaling. 330 00:15:41,560 --> 00:15:44,800 Speaker 4: Have you seen that trend? Were you just right? It's 331 00:15:44,840 --> 00:15:45,680 Speaker 4: like you just. 332 00:15:45,600 --> 00:15:47,640 Speaker 3: Stick in like anything, and you can do it for 333 00:15:47,720 --> 00:15:49,600 Speaker 3: like the months, like it doesn't have to be They 334 00:15:49,600 --> 00:15:52,320 Speaker 3: always end up looking aesthetic. But it's not so much 335 00:15:52,360 --> 00:15:55,040 Speaker 3: like scrap booking as it was traditionally thought. 336 00:15:55,240 --> 00:15:57,200 Speaker 4: I like rapples and stuff. 337 00:15:59,480 --> 00:16:00,080 Speaker 2: Into it. 338 00:16:00,120 --> 00:16:02,120 Speaker 1: Soal, hit me with our next hobby. 339 00:16:03,240 --> 00:16:07,600 Speaker 4: So the third hobby that you need is one to 340 00:16:07,680 --> 00:16:10,480 Speaker 4: manage your money. Whoah, yeah exciting. 341 00:16:10,920 --> 00:16:12,400 Speaker 1: Think this sounds boring, but it's not. 342 00:16:13,560 --> 00:16:16,400 Speaker 3: I mean, a hobby that makes you money seems like 343 00:16:16,480 --> 00:16:19,040 Speaker 3: a win win situation, and I think it can be, 344 00:16:19,720 --> 00:16:21,720 Speaker 3: especially in the current climate. 345 00:16:21,800 --> 00:16:24,200 Speaker 4: As we said, you know, we're going through a cozy lives. 346 00:16:24,720 --> 00:16:27,760 Speaker 3: Everybody is looking for more ways to make money, and 347 00:16:27,800 --> 00:16:29,920 Speaker 3: I think that if you can find avenues to make 348 00:16:30,040 --> 00:16:33,400 Speaker 3: money that are also based in passion and things that 349 00:16:33,440 --> 00:16:37,720 Speaker 3: you enjoy, that's great. Like for example, like I said, 350 00:16:37,720 --> 00:16:40,640 Speaker 3: I've always had a passion for music and live music. 351 00:16:40,440 --> 00:16:43,280 Speaker 2: Especially, and I always love writing about it. When I 352 00:16:43,320 --> 00:16:44,760 Speaker 2: was a teenager and i'd write like. 353 00:16:44,680 --> 00:16:47,120 Speaker 4: Blogs and stuff that's cool. 354 00:16:47,640 --> 00:16:51,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, Tumbler and MySpace bulletins, and then as I got older, 355 00:16:51,560 --> 00:16:55,160 Speaker 3: eventually turned that into like a side hustle doing music 356 00:16:55,200 --> 00:16:58,840 Speaker 3: journalism and interviewing artists or reviewing albums and gigs and 357 00:16:58,840 --> 00:17:01,680 Speaker 3: stuff like that, which was great and a great way 358 00:17:01,720 --> 00:17:03,760 Speaker 3: to make some money on the side. But for me, 359 00:17:04,080 --> 00:17:07,399 Speaker 3: the money was I guess, the cherry on top, and 360 00:17:07,440 --> 00:17:10,679 Speaker 3: it was more so getting the opportunity to listen to 361 00:17:10,720 --> 00:17:14,040 Speaker 3: albums before they were released, or going to a show 362 00:17:14,080 --> 00:17:16,480 Speaker 3: and having my name on the door and knowing that 363 00:17:16,520 --> 00:17:18,680 Speaker 3: I was going to review one of my favorite artists, 364 00:17:18,760 --> 00:17:21,560 Speaker 3: or getting to speak with someone who I really admired 365 00:17:21,600 --> 00:17:25,199 Speaker 3: about a piece of work that they produced, and the 366 00:17:25,240 --> 00:17:27,199 Speaker 3: money was sort of just a nice silver lining. 367 00:17:28,080 --> 00:17:30,120 Speaker 4: So I think that that is great if. 368 00:17:30,040 --> 00:17:33,840 Speaker 2: You can make money from your hobby and you want to. However, 369 00:17:34,840 --> 00:17:37,600 Speaker 2: we've also been existing in a gig economy for the 370 00:17:37,680 --> 00:17:41,240 Speaker 2: last what ten fifteen years, and I think a lot 371 00:17:41,240 --> 00:17:44,920 Speaker 2: of us feel the pressure to turn our hobbies into 372 00:17:44,920 --> 00:17:48,399 Speaker 2: side hustles. And I think that's the distinction that we 373 00:17:48,440 --> 00:17:52,880 Speaker 2: want to make here, that you don't have to make money. 374 00:17:52,760 --> 00:17:55,320 Speaker 4: Out of your hobbies. It's only if you want to. 375 00:17:55,840 --> 00:17:57,880 Speaker 3: And I think that if there's ever an instance where 376 00:17:57,880 --> 00:18:02,080 Speaker 3: you're feeling pressure from other people to make money from 377 00:18:02,119 --> 00:18:04,560 Speaker 3: your hobby, or you start doing it and then you 378 00:18:04,640 --> 00:18:07,359 Speaker 3: realize that you're not having fun with your hobby. 379 00:18:07,119 --> 00:18:11,200 Speaker 1: Bringing you joy. Yeah, and that is statistically speaking. There 380 00:18:11,200 --> 00:18:12,160 Speaker 1: are studies at show. 381 00:18:12,240 --> 00:18:16,160 Speaker 2: Once you start earning money from a hobby, you start 382 00:18:16,240 --> 00:18:19,040 Speaker 2: enjoying that hobby a little bit less. 383 00:18:18,920 --> 00:18:19,960 Speaker 1: Or a lot a bit less. 384 00:18:20,400 --> 00:18:20,640 Speaker 4: Yeah. 385 00:18:21,080 --> 00:18:24,320 Speaker 3: I even found that with internships in my early twenties 386 00:18:24,359 --> 00:18:25,040 Speaker 3: and late teens. 387 00:18:25,160 --> 00:18:26,560 Speaker 1: Lets we romanticize it. 388 00:18:26,640 --> 00:18:29,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'd be enjoying it so much more. 389 00:18:29,320 --> 00:18:31,879 Speaker 2: And then I actually started getting paid and I was like, 390 00:18:32,640 --> 00:18:33,640 Speaker 2: now I have to be here. 391 00:18:34,240 --> 00:18:36,720 Speaker 4: You know, it's not always the case. 392 00:18:36,920 --> 00:18:39,280 Speaker 3: So if you don't want to have a hobby that 393 00:18:39,480 --> 00:18:42,840 Speaker 3: makes you money, maybe aim to have one that helps 394 00:18:42,880 --> 00:18:46,760 Speaker 3: you manage your money instead. So this could include things 395 00:18:46,840 --> 00:18:50,440 Speaker 3: like learning to invest. We did a two part episode 396 00:18:50,640 --> 00:18:54,119 Speaker 3: on how to learn how to invest and get into investing. 397 00:18:54,480 --> 00:18:55,640 Speaker 4: We can link it in the show notes. 398 00:18:55,680 --> 00:18:57,639 Speaker 3: It's a really good start if you are a beginner 399 00:18:57,640 --> 00:19:02,359 Speaker 3: and you're interested. Also adding yourself regular money challenges like 400 00:19:02,440 --> 00:19:05,920 Speaker 3: a no spend month or maybe a goal to save 401 00:19:05,960 --> 00:19:08,760 Speaker 3: a certain amount, and you can switch these up every month. 402 00:19:08,800 --> 00:19:11,480 Speaker 3: But knowing that you have a goal on the first 403 00:19:11,520 --> 00:19:14,200 Speaker 3: day of every month to set yourself a different money 404 00:19:14,280 --> 00:19:15,320 Speaker 3: challenge could be fun. 405 00:19:15,440 --> 00:19:18,560 Speaker 2: I like that, like those money bingo cards, Yeah, they're 406 00:19:18,680 --> 00:19:21,000 Speaker 2: so fun. Or you can have a weekly money date 407 00:19:21,119 --> 00:19:23,520 Speaker 2: to manage your finances with your partner or. 408 00:19:23,480 --> 00:19:24,320 Speaker 4: Maybe with a friend. 409 00:19:25,280 --> 00:19:27,119 Speaker 2: You know, you could do it over coffee and brecky, 410 00:19:27,359 --> 00:19:29,960 Speaker 2: or like put a little charcuterie board together and might 411 00:19:30,040 --> 00:19:32,600 Speaker 2: put some tunes on. Most importantly, I think this is 412 00:19:32,600 --> 00:19:35,560 Speaker 2: a hobby that, like future you will really thank you for. 413 00:19:35,680 --> 00:19:36,280 Speaker 4: Absolutely. 414 00:19:36,400 --> 00:19:39,080 Speaker 2: I think all of these hobbies are things that future 415 00:19:39,119 --> 00:19:41,119 Speaker 2: you will thank you for. But this is really something 416 00:19:41,200 --> 00:19:43,679 Speaker 2: that's going to relieve stress in the future. When you 417 00:19:43,720 --> 00:19:47,000 Speaker 2: manage your money now, you're less stressed in the future. 418 00:19:47,040 --> 00:19:49,359 Speaker 2: I think all of these hobbies save you stress. 419 00:19:49,119 --> 00:19:49,639 Speaker 1: In the future. 420 00:19:49,800 --> 00:19:54,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, but some money micro hobbies that you can build 421 00:19:55,119 --> 00:19:58,920 Speaker 2: into your routine from our chicks that sent these in 422 00:19:59,640 --> 00:20:02,639 Speaker 2: is painting your own nails. That's always a very common 423 00:20:02,640 --> 00:20:06,960 Speaker 2: hobby that we gets sent in. Eating before grocery shopping. Honestly, 424 00:20:07,400 --> 00:20:09,680 Speaker 2: like that would save me hundreds of dollars. 425 00:20:09,720 --> 00:20:12,400 Speaker 1: I don't want to admit it, but it's so it's true. 426 00:20:12,800 --> 00:20:17,000 Speaker 2: And then canceling memberships you don't use using cash. 427 00:20:17,119 --> 00:20:18,480 Speaker 1: That's a really popular one. 428 00:20:18,720 --> 00:20:21,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, because it's very it's a lot more mindful than 429 00:20:22,200 --> 00:20:22,920 Speaker 2: a bank card. 430 00:20:23,560 --> 00:20:26,480 Speaker 1: And then only going to events that you actually want 431 00:20:26,520 --> 00:20:29,880 Speaker 1: to go to. It's gonna change your life that one. Yeah, 432 00:20:29,960 --> 00:20:31,840 Speaker 1: it's gonna blow your fucking. 433 00:20:31,600 --> 00:20:33,400 Speaker 4: Mand That's like my favorite. 434 00:20:33,520 --> 00:20:38,000 Speaker 2: I love that, Yeah, because saying that it's my favorite. 435 00:20:38,080 --> 00:20:42,240 Speaker 2: Was watching sal get like pressured into coming to a 436 00:20:42,280 --> 00:20:45,320 Speaker 2: party once by like four people, and then in front 437 00:20:45,320 --> 00:20:48,199 Speaker 2: of everyone that was going to this party that just 438 00:20:48,240 --> 00:20:50,200 Speaker 2: wanted so how to come, she goes, I just don't 439 00:20:50,240 --> 00:20:51,080 Speaker 2: fucking want. 440 00:20:50,880 --> 00:20:52,720 Speaker 1: To, and then everyone shut up. 441 00:20:53,240 --> 00:20:56,760 Speaker 2: I start pressuring her and I was just this math 442 00:20:56,920 --> 00:20:59,720 Speaker 2: wouldn't sorry. When Bush comes to shop, I have to 443 00:20:59,760 --> 00:21:01,159 Speaker 2: tell you the real reason why I don't want to 444 00:21:01,160 --> 00:21:04,960 Speaker 2: come and so fucking want to, And everyone's like, yep, 445 00:21:05,800 --> 00:21:07,280 Speaker 2: you can't really argue against that one. 446 00:21:07,400 --> 00:21:09,040 Speaker 4: Nah, it's a good one to have in the back pocket. 447 00:21:09,280 --> 00:21:13,320 Speaker 1: Honesty best policy. Maybe we should put that shit on 448 00:21:13,359 --> 00:21:15,440 Speaker 1: a ship, put that ship on a show. 449 00:21:15,760 --> 00:21:21,679 Speaker 2: You have to say it that way, but it's quite grading, 450 00:21:21,800 --> 00:21:24,560 Speaker 2: I've realized listening back to the episodes. But alas, let's 451 00:21:24,640 --> 00:21:27,879 Speaker 2: move on to our fourth and final hobby that you 452 00:21:28,000 --> 00:21:33,560 Speaker 2: need one to advance your knowledge. Smutty pants, smutty girls. Yeah, 453 00:21:33,680 --> 00:21:34,760 Speaker 2: I love being smart. 454 00:21:34,840 --> 00:21:36,200 Speaker 4: Hot girls love to learn. 455 00:21:36,359 --> 00:21:38,280 Speaker 1: Not say I'm sorry that came out wrong. 456 00:21:39,119 --> 00:21:39,399 Speaker 4: Smart. 457 00:21:39,440 --> 00:21:41,080 Speaker 1: I love getting smart. 458 00:21:41,359 --> 00:21:45,240 Speaker 3: But learning doesn't have to finish when you wrap up 459 00:21:45,359 --> 00:21:47,560 Speaker 3: UNI and high school, and I think for a lot 460 00:21:47,560 --> 00:21:51,680 Speaker 3: of people that's where the learning journey does sort of end. Obviously, 461 00:21:51,720 --> 00:21:53,720 Speaker 3: you know, we're learning life lessons all the time and 462 00:21:53,760 --> 00:21:55,840 Speaker 3: picking up new things as you go into adulthood. But 463 00:21:55,880 --> 00:21:59,840 Speaker 3: I'm talking about intentional learning and actually putting time as 464 00:22:00,400 --> 00:22:02,600 Speaker 3: to learn something that you want to. 465 00:22:02,680 --> 00:22:06,200 Speaker 4: Learn, because I think that it is more. 466 00:22:06,000 --> 00:22:09,160 Speaker 3: Rewarding perhaps than what we did experience in school or UNI, 467 00:22:09,320 --> 00:22:11,679 Speaker 3: because you actually have some autonomy you. 468 00:22:11,720 --> 00:22:13,600 Speaker 1: Had to choose. How cool is that? 469 00:22:13,960 --> 00:22:15,040 Speaker 2: Yeah? 470 00:22:15,080 --> 00:22:18,680 Speaker 4: And I actually saw an article by National Geographic. Maybe 471 00:22:18,720 --> 00:22:20,080 Speaker 4: they's smartiest pain. 472 00:22:20,200 --> 00:22:22,679 Speaker 2: Maybe they skewed the results because they're like, you know 473 00:22:22,720 --> 00:22:25,920 Speaker 2: how you'll do this, pick up the mag But adults 474 00:22:25,960 --> 00:22:29,760 Speaker 2: are apparently better learners because we have better self regulation. 475 00:22:29,600 --> 00:22:34,120 Speaker 4: And we're intent when we want to learn something. So 476 00:22:34,240 --> 00:22:35,159 Speaker 4: I know the saying is you. 477 00:22:35,160 --> 00:22:37,880 Speaker 3: Can't teach an old dog new tricks, but yeah, because 478 00:22:37,880 --> 00:22:40,600 Speaker 3: you're actually learning things that you want to and not 479 00:22:40,720 --> 00:22:43,240 Speaker 3: just how to play the recorder, but if you want to. 480 00:22:43,240 --> 00:22:45,359 Speaker 1: Learn how to do that, you do that, you do that, 481 00:22:45,520 --> 00:22:46,680 Speaker 1: get that hot cross bun. 482 00:22:48,480 --> 00:22:51,320 Speaker 2: And not only is it rewarding, I think when you 483 00:22:51,359 --> 00:22:55,360 Speaker 2: feel yourself learning new things and picking up new skills, 484 00:22:55,400 --> 00:22:59,040 Speaker 2: but it can also help maintain and improve our cognitive function, 485 00:22:59,240 --> 00:23:03,359 Speaker 2: which apparently usually begins to plateau after the age of 486 00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:04,479 Speaker 2: thirty or forty. 487 00:23:05,520 --> 00:23:07,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, hey, you going over there, sow. I mean, I 488 00:23:07,760 --> 00:23:10,480 Speaker 4: think the results speak for itself. It's not looking. 489 00:23:10,200 --> 00:23:13,840 Speaker 2: Good that it's time to pick up a new hobby. 490 00:23:14,040 --> 00:23:16,159 Speaker 3: But I think that you know, there's so many different 491 00:23:16,160 --> 00:23:20,120 Speaker 3: hobbies that you could try to advance your knowledge, some 492 00:23:20,160 --> 00:23:23,119 Speaker 3: of which including learn a new language on duo lingo. 493 00:23:23,440 --> 00:23:26,840 Speaker 3: Next one, pick a topic and make it your hyper fixation. 494 00:23:27,119 --> 00:23:32,040 Speaker 3: Yes I'm talking books, podcasts, documentaries, do it all and 495 00:23:32,160 --> 00:23:35,520 Speaker 3: just become obsessed and indulged in a topic and try 496 00:23:35,520 --> 00:23:37,119 Speaker 3: and learn everything that you can about it. 497 00:23:38,040 --> 00:23:41,480 Speaker 4: I'm like, why not we need to pick. 498 00:23:41,280 --> 00:23:43,760 Speaker 1: Something and you can pick whatever the fuck you want. 499 00:23:43,840 --> 00:23:46,280 Speaker 2: Like that's the best part is you know how there 500 00:23:46,359 --> 00:23:48,480 Speaker 2: was those subjects in school and you're like, eh, and 501 00:23:48,480 --> 00:23:49,240 Speaker 2: then there were the ones. 502 00:23:49,119 --> 00:23:52,560 Speaker 1: That you're like, whe Yeah, Like do like learn about 503 00:23:52,600 --> 00:23:53,360 Speaker 1: whatever you want? 504 00:23:53,440 --> 00:23:56,760 Speaker 2: If that is honestly watching makeup tutorials on YouTube, that 505 00:23:56,920 --> 00:23:57,800 Speaker 2: is still learning. 506 00:23:58,000 --> 00:23:58,280 Speaker 4: Yeah. 507 00:23:58,359 --> 00:24:00,439 Speaker 1: I think a lot of things we think have to 508 00:24:00,480 --> 00:24:01,800 Speaker 1: be these really. 509 00:24:01,480 --> 00:24:06,440 Speaker 2: Analytical and intelligently stereotypical things, but. 510 00:24:06,400 --> 00:24:07,240 Speaker 1: It doesn't have to be. 511 00:24:07,440 --> 00:24:10,639 Speaker 2: It can literally be watching YouTube videos of makeup tutorials 512 00:24:11,160 --> 00:24:15,280 Speaker 2: or like true crime podcasts, like it's scary, it's not 513 00:24:15,320 --> 00:24:17,840 Speaker 2: fit yeat, she's a little bit too, she's too skinned. 514 00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:20,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, she's a bit sky. Yeah, but like that's the thing. 515 00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:23,960 Speaker 2: I think when we look at something as an interest, 516 00:24:24,040 --> 00:24:25,600 Speaker 2: we devalue what it is. 517 00:24:26,760 --> 00:24:27,840 Speaker 1: But that's not the case. 518 00:24:28,200 --> 00:24:32,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, definitely also going to museums and art galleries one 519 00:24:32,400 --> 00:24:35,560 Speaker 3: of my personal faves. Or learn a new skill like 520 00:24:35,600 --> 00:24:39,440 Speaker 3: you were saying, So that could be cooking, or photography, writing, 521 00:24:39,840 --> 00:24:43,680 Speaker 3: makeup and beauty, hair, whatever I think piques your interest. 522 00:24:44,080 --> 00:24:46,240 Speaker 3: If you could wake up tomorrow with a new skill 523 00:24:46,359 --> 00:24:48,760 Speaker 3: or hobby and be like an expert status sada, what 524 00:24:48,760 --> 00:24:49,199 Speaker 3: would you be? 525 00:24:49,800 --> 00:24:50,359 Speaker 4: What would you have? 526 00:24:50,720 --> 00:24:54,160 Speaker 2: Oh that's hard because I want to pick something practical. 527 00:24:54,720 --> 00:24:57,399 Speaker 4: Like imagine if I was really good at investing and 528 00:24:57,440 --> 00:24:59,320 Speaker 4: I just knew everything about it and I had to 529 00:24:59,359 --> 00:25:01,240 Speaker 4: wake up something fine, something fine. 530 00:25:01,280 --> 00:25:03,800 Speaker 3: I'd like to know how to play an instrument that 531 00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:04,480 Speaker 3: was fine. 532 00:25:04,720 --> 00:25:05,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, like if. 533 00:25:05,520 --> 00:25:07,080 Speaker 1: You got instrument the proparnette. 534 00:25:08,240 --> 00:25:10,359 Speaker 3: I already know how to play the clarinet. Baby, all right, 535 00:25:10,400 --> 00:25:11,920 Speaker 3: I got years of experience. 536 00:25:12,040 --> 00:25:13,840 Speaker 1: You do you actually remember how to play the clarinet? 537 00:25:13,960 --> 00:25:15,320 Speaker 4: I think I'd be able to. 538 00:25:15,400 --> 00:25:18,640 Speaker 2: Really if I brought a clarinet in here in this studio, 539 00:25:18,760 --> 00:25:20,960 Speaker 2: you could play it. It would take me a couple 540 00:25:20,960 --> 00:25:22,840 Speaker 2: of goos. It's pretty hard. 541 00:25:24,720 --> 00:25:26,720 Speaker 4: It's a hard instrument, yeah it is. 542 00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:29,640 Speaker 2: But yes, I've already got that one down, so that's fine. 543 00:25:29,720 --> 00:25:30,600 Speaker 2: I could pick that one up. 544 00:25:30,920 --> 00:25:32,440 Speaker 4: But maybe like the electric. 545 00:25:32,119 --> 00:25:35,160 Speaker 1: Guitar or the drums, Yeah, the drums are hard. 546 00:25:36,840 --> 00:25:39,400 Speaker 4: The drug would be so much fun and you'd get 547 00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:40,320 Speaker 4: a lot out, like you. 548 00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:44,280 Speaker 2: Just get so much energy that yeah, yeah, what's yours? 549 00:25:44,480 --> 00:25:48,200 Speaker 2: Mine was going to be piano, but maybe another language. 550 00:25:48,240 --> 00:25:49,879 Speaker 2: Maybe I'd love to wake up and just be that 551 00:25:49,960 --> 00:25:53,840 Speaker 2: fluent in Italian. So to wrap that before we get 552 00:25:53,840 --> 00:25:56,960 Speaker 2: into advice to the chicks. Your four hobbies that you 553 00:25:57,080 --> 00:26:00,680 Speaker 2: need a want to fuel and feel your body, one 554 00:26:00,960 --> 00:26:05,240 Speaker 2: for your creativity, one to manage your money, and one 555 00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:08,200 Speaker 2: to expand your knowledge. 556 00:26:08,400 --> 00:26:14,439 Speaker 4: Hot Heart Paytis. 557 00:26:14,800 --> 00:26:17,560 Speaker 2: Just finish reading your book and loved it. So many 558 00:26:17,600 --> 00:26:20,480 Speaker 2: stories that resonated and life lessons to learn. I have 559 00:26:20,560 --> 00:26:24,199 Speaker 2: a question for an in between friendship. A group of 560 00:26:24,280 --> 00:26:27,760 Speaker 2: us girls met directly or indirectly through Bumble Friends, and 561 00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:29,720 Speaker 2: initially it was nice hanging out for. 562 00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:30,760 Speaker 1: Food dates and such. 563 00:26:30,960 --> 00:26:33,480 Speaker 2: However, as time went on, I found that I'm getting 564 00:26:33,520 --> 00:26:35,600 Speaker 2: closer to just a few of the girls in the 565 00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:39,000 Speaker 2: group and drifting away from a couple. I'm hosting a 566 00:26:39,040 --> 00:26:42,080 Speaker 2: housewarming party soon and I'm conflicted with how I should 567 00:26:42,080 --> 00:26:45,040 Speaker 2: hand out invites. I would love to just invite the 568 00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:48,040 Speaker 2: ones that I feel have formed a genuine connection with me, 569 00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:50,520 Speaker 2: but I don't want to offend the rest of the group. 570 00:26:50,920 --> 00:26:53,720 Speaker 2: I find it tricky because this isn't a classic fizzle 571 00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:57,040 Speaker 2: out friendship when there are other girls involved. 572 00:26:57,440 --> 00:26:58,760 Speaker 4: That's a really tough one. 573 00:26:59,200 --> 00:26:59,600 Speaker 1: Yeah. 574 00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:05,159 Speaker 2: My initial reaction is if they're not bad people, and 575 00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:07,800 Speaker 2: they're nice and you still enjoy spending time with them, 576 00:27:08,160 --> 00:27:10,440 Speaker 2: I don't think there's any harm with throwing the invite 577 00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:14,919 Speaker 2: out there. If they don't want to come because they 578 00:27:14,960 --> 00:27:18,240 Speaker 2: also feel like the friendship is sort of not giving 579 00:27:18,240 --> 00:27:21,320 Speaker 2: you both what you need, then they probably won't show up, 580 00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:25,359 Speaker 2: and if they do, then nobody's feelings are getting hurt. 581 00:27:26,680 --> 00:27:28,760 Speaker 2: But then at the same time, I'm like, I understand 582 00:27:28,840 --> 00:27:32,480 Speaker 2: it's a housewarming, it's an intimate affair, and. 583 00:27:32,560 --> 00:27:35,080 Speaker 4: You probably only want the people that you really like there. 584 00:27:35,200 --> 00:27:37,640 Speaker 2: But with people like this that it's not like, oh, 585 00:27:37,720 --> 00:27:41,000 Speaker 2: this is a friend who you know is toxic, or 586 00:27:41,040 --> 00:27:42,600 Speaker 2: someone I've had a falling out with, or. 587 00:27:42,600 --> 00:27:47,000 Speaker 3: Someone who I just don't like. That makes it a 588 00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:48,879 Speaker 3: little bit more black and white, whereas this's a. 589 00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:49,879 Speaker 4: Bit of a gray area. 590 00:27:51,200 --> 00:27:53,840 Speaker 2: My perspective on stuff like this is because I feel 591 00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:57,320 Speaker 2: like I do a lot of hosting within like our friendships. 592 00:27:57,680 --> 00:27:59,119 Speaker 2: I kind of always look at it as like a 593 00:27:59,200 --> 00:28:03,719 Speaker 2: more the Maria situation, and I think I think you 594 00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:06,440 Speaker 2: end up spending time with the people that you want 595 00:28:06,440 --> 00:28:09,960 Speaker 2: to spend time with. Anyway, I think it takes away 596 00:28:10,000 --> 00:28:12,440 Speaker 2: from how much you'll enjoy yourself. 597 00:28:12,760 --> 00:28:13,720 Speaker 1: I also think. 598 00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:18,520 Speaker 2: Healthy friendships can spend quality time within those friendships, so 599 00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:20,520 Speaker 2: you don't always have to hang out as a group. 600 00:28:20,600 --> 00:28:25,919 Speaker 2: You can hang out with more intimate groups within friendship groups, 601 00:28:25,920 --> 00:28:28,080 Speaker 2: like you don't always have to do the massive thing, 602 00:28:28,520 --> 00:28:31,240 Speaker 2: And that's fine, but I just for this kind of thing. 603 00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:33,000 Speaker 1: I always go with them more of. 604 00:28:32,960 --> 00:28:36,920 Speaker 2: The merrier because, as Saul said, if they're not toxic friends, 605 00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:38,840 Speaker 2: if they're not going to take away from how much 606 00:28:38,840 --> 00:28:42,280 Speaker 2: you enjoy the evening and then not like a drama 607 00:28:42,560 --> 00:28:44,040 Speaker 2: or like a bit of a stain on the night, 608 00:28:44,440 --> 00:28:47,080 Speaker 2: I think it's better to extend the invitation. 609 00:28:47,440 --> 00:28:48,720 Speaker 1: They might come, they might not. 610 00:28:49,480 --> 00:28:53,800 Speaker 2: And that's the thing because in saying that you don't 611 00:28:53,800 --> 00:28:56,280 Speaker 2: have to. If you just want to invite your four friends, 612 00:28:56,600 --> 00:28:58,960 Speaker 2: just do that. There is absolutely We're not saying no, 613 00:28:59,080 --> 00:29:02,160 Speaker 2: you have to. That's personally just what we do in 614 00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:05,880 Speaker 2: that situation. But I also think if you want to 615 00:29:05,920 --> 00:29:09,320 Speaker 2: have an intimate night with your closer friends, that is 616 00:29:09,320 --> 00:29:09,760 Speaker 2: so fine. 617 00:29:09,880 --> 00:29:11,920 Speaker 1: You are within every single right to do that. 618 00:29:12,800 --> 00:29:16,280 Speaker 2: I would probably just not post about it because that 619 00:29:16,440 --> 00:29:19,640 Speaker 2: you do run the risk of people's feelings being hurt 620 00:29:19,720 --> 00:29:22,680 Speaker 2: that they weren't invited. If you do want to, you 621 00:29:22,800 --> 00:29:27,120 Speaker 2: also need to understand that that may set a standard 622 00:29:27,520 --> 00:29:30,120 Speaker 2: for that to also be you in the future. Exact 623 00:29:30,160 --> 00:29:33,000 Speaker 2: they might hang out and you might not be invited. 624 00:29:33,040 --> 00:29:35,720 Speaker 2: And if that's something that you are okay with, then 625 00:29:35,760 --> 00:29:38,280 Speaker 2: that is gorgeous. That is fine, But that might be 626 00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:40,880 Speaker 2: something that then sets that standard in the future that 627 00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:43,760 Speaker 2: they hang out and you don't get invited, and that's 628 00:29:43,760 --> 00:29:46,240 Speaker 2: something that you have to be comfortable and okay with. 629 00:29:46,560 --> 00:29:47,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, I agree. 630 00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:49,960 Speaker 2: And if that's not something that you're comfortable and okay with, 631 00:29:50,600 --> 00:29:52,920 Speaker 2: then I would just invite everyone. 632 00:29:52,960 --> 00:29:53,880 Speaker 4: It's a nice thing to do. 633 00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:56,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm just like a whatever, all the marrier. 634 00:29:56,400 --> 00:29:59,360 Speaker 4: Let's all have fun to as long as you byo. 635 00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:03,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, don't open the balcony door and we're all good. Exactly. 636 00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:05,240 Speaker 4: Those are the house fun Yeah, those are the house 637 00:30:05,280 --> 00:30:06,000 Speaker 4: party rules. 638 00:30:06,640 --> 00:30:09,320 Speaker 1: And clean a clean a cup before you leave. 639 00:30:09,960 --> 00:30:12,080 Speaker 4: I like that. 640 00:30:12,080 --> 00:30:14,840 Speaker 2: That's so that's a cleaner cup, and clean a plate 641 00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:19,240 Speaker 2: and then get out. 642 00:30:17,400 --> 00:30:19,200 Speaker 1: And nothing good happens up to two am. 643 00:30:19,320 --> 00:30:21,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, remember that that's the most important one. But have 644 00:30:21,840 --> 00:30:23,640 Speaker 2: you have a fab house warming? And thank you so 645 00:30:23,720 --> 00:30:25,760 Speaker 2: much for your kind words on the book. 646 00:30:25,920 --> 00:30:29,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, so sweet, loved it. And that is a wrap 647 00:30:29,600 --> 00:30:31,640 Speaker 1: for today's episode of Two Broke Chick Jerk Chicks. 648 00:30:31,680 --> 00:30:33,360 Speaker 4: Thanks for having us in the ear holes. We would 649 00:30:33,440 --> 00:30:34,360 Speaker 4: love to be here. 650 00:30:34,880 --> 00:30:37,080 Speaker 3: I was going to say as well, if you want 651 00:30:37,120 --> 00:30:39,640 Speaker 3: to send in a submission for advice with the Chicks, 652 00:30:39,640 --> 00:30:41,440 Speaker 3: if you have a question that you'd like us to answer, 653 00:30:41,520 --> 00:30:43,720 Speaker 3: There's always a link in the description of our sale 654 00:30:43,720 --> 00:30:44,480 Speaker 3: and our episodes. 655 00:30:44,880 --> 00:30:47,560 Speaker 2: Or you can dm us a voice note yeah, or 656 00:30:47,640 --> 00:30:49,840 Speaker 2: d ch dm us some voice notes. 657 00:30:49,880 --> 00:30:50,480 Speaker 1: I love that. 658 00:30:50,880 --> 00:30:53,320 Speaker 2: I will have absolutely no self control and I'll listen 659 00:30:53,320 --> 00:30:55,320 Speaker 2: to them in the moment. But then we can play 660 00:30:55,320 --> 00:30:56,200 Speaker 2: them on the podcast. 661 00:30:56,320 --> 00:30:59,080 Speaker 1: That's so fine, Yeah, exactly, Then. 662 00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:01,720 Speaker 2: We can hear the emotion, yes, behind the story of 663 00:31:01,920 --> 00:31:08,040 Speaker 2: the past friend, but the mushrooms, the muscles anyway, Love 664 00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:09,960 Speaker 2: you chicks, thank you the m ik made for making 665 00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:12,000 Speaker 2: this episode of Two brow Cheeks Happened. Love You see 666 00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:14,040 Speaker 2: you On Thursday, we have a very exciting podcast episode 667 00:31:14,040 --> 00:31:14,760 Speaker 2: with our favorite guests. 668 00:31:16,080 --> 00:31:23,240 Speaker 1: Bye.