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He's non recyclable catching member. 0:00:56.280 --> 0:00:58.320 I love being Love, I love Love. 0:00:58.840 --> 0:01:01.720 On today's episode, where's your Head Out, we are drunk 0:01:01.720 --> 0:01:05.560 texting one another and looking at the psychology behind why 0:01:05.680 --> 0:01:08.760 we feel the need to send risk a messages when 0:01:08.760 --> 0:01:10.240 we are ten shots deep. 0:01:10.680 --> 0:01:12.880 Look, Anna, we've all been there, so we're going to 0:01:12.920 --> 0:01:15.920 help you successfully write and respond to those what are 0:01:15.959 --> 0:01:17.080 you doing text messages? 0:01:17.319 --> 0:01:20.120 Stay tuned to find out whether drunk texts are truly 0:01:20.360 --> 0:01:27.959 sober thoughts. Where's Your Head Out is a podcast that 0:01:28.040 --> 0:01:32.959 talks all things relationships, breakups, reality TV, trending shows, and 0:01:33.000 --> 0:01:34.040 everything in between. 0:01:34.319 --> 0:01:37.000 This is your new go to destination for laughs, gossip, 0:01:37.200 --> 0:01:45.559 intimate details, advice, and much more. Welcome back and another 0:01:45.640 --> 0:01:47.240 day in the studio. How are you feeling. 0:01:47.440 --> 0:01:49.360 I'm okay. Can you see a bit of deep heat. 0:01:49.480 --> 0:01:53.200 I've got to sow next. I feel like pour it 0:01:53.280 --> 0:01:56.360 on my neck to try and like loosen it. You 0:01:56.360 --> 0:01:59.560 know when you just wake up rush. Yeah, I've just 0:01:59.560 --> 0:02:01.040 been waking up a bit rough lately. 0:02:01.120 --> 0:02:02.720 I thought that smell was taking me back to the 0:02:02.720 --> 0:02:06.360 footy change rooms, getting the rubbed down by the weird 0:02:06.360 --> 0:02:09.800 looking trainers telling me that they've never seen muscles as 0:02:09.840 --> 0:02:10.520 big as mine. 0:02:10.919 --> 0:02:13.840 Oh my god. I feel like sometimes you make up 0:02:13.840 --> 0:02:14.519 these comments. 0:02:14.639 --> 0:02:16.720 I swear I hear it, so I don't know if 0:02:16.720 --> 0:02:18.360 someone says it or I think it. It's still in 0:02:18.400 --> 0:02:18.760 my mind. 0:02:18.840 --> 0:02:20.680 Oh god, how's your week been? Good? 0:02:20.840 --> 0:02:25.280 Good? We haven't touched on something though, the fashion show 0:02:25.320 --> 0:02:26.880 from a couple of weeks ago we went to Do 0:02:26.960 --> 0:02:28.200 you remember that one? 0:02:28.680 --> 0:02:31.720 I do remember that one. I actually can't believe you're 0:02:31.720 --> 0:02:33.800 bringing that back up, but yes, I do remember. 0:02:33.919 --> 0:02:36.080 Yes, we didn't touch on the fact that someone was 0:02:36.120 --> 0:02:38.399 walking in there and we had to watch them front row. 0:02:40.360 --> 0:02:43.000 I mean, you didn't want me to bring this up, teacher. 0:02:43.520 --> 0:02:45.720 I didn't really expect Matt to bring this up. So 0:02:45.800 --> 0:02:48.480 I'm a little bit shook. But yes, Matt, I did 0:02:48.520 --> 0:02:51.200 go to a fashion show a few weeks back. Now, 0:02:51.639 --> 0:02:55.119 I thought I had like avoided that chat. But here 0:02:55.120 --> 0:02:55.400 we are. 0:02:55.480 --> 0:02:57.520 I'm being busy. We've had guests in the meantime we've 0:02:58.480 --> 0:03:00.240 chat about, but here it is. We need to it 0:03:00.280 --> 0:03:03.639 as Yeah, so do you want me to Well, we 0:03:03.639 --> 0:03:06.679 were sitting front row, sitting there. It was you meeting 0:03:06.800 --> 0:03:08.880 Jen and Michael, sitting front. 0:03:08.680 --> 0:03:10.000 Row with our partners. 0:03:10.200 --> 0:03:14.280 Yes, we're watching this beautiful fashion show, some beautiful clothes. 0:03:14.480 --> 0:03:17.080 It was an all male runway, so they're coming out 0:03:17.280 --> 0:03:20.680 and who none other that comes out than your ex 0:03:20.800 --> 0:03:24.880 Josh Packham. I'll give you this, he actually did look 0:03:24.919 --> 0:03:25.840 good in what he was wearing. 0:03:25.960 --> 0:03:28.440 I did like it, But to be honest, I was 0:03:28.440 --> 0:03:31.320 surprised you weren't asked because you were an actual model, 0:03:31.480 --> 0:03:38.080 Like you're six foot five. You've I've walked saying no more. 0:03:38.120 --> 0:03:41.040 But I was surprised to see you weren't asked to 0:03:41.120 --> 0:03:42.240 do that runway show. 0:03:42.280 --> 0:03:45.560 But then, to be honest, maybe got lost in my 0:03:45.640 --> 0:03:50.360 junk male. Maybe it's too popular everything. Maybe they knew 0:03:50.360 --> 0:03:52.320 they couldn't afford it. I don't know who knows, but 0:03:52.400 --> 0:03:54.400 yeah I was. I wasn't too surprised. I was an 0:03:54.440 --> 0:03:56.280 inn I sene. I haven't walked a catwalk in what years? 0:03:56.280 --> 0:03:57.520 When was the last time you walked one? 0:03:57.880 --> 0:03:59.880 A long time? I wouldn't do it again. 0:04:00.720 --> 0:04:03.120 Yeah, we did say afterwards so that i'd find it 0:04:03.160 --> 0:04:04.720 pretty weird to do now. I don't think i'd be 0:04:04.720 --> 0:04:06.200 able to take it as seriously as I used to, 0:04:06.360 --> 0:04:08.480 you know what I mean. It'd be different. 0:04:08.320 --> 0:04:11.000 Yeah, like I used to take them very seriously, Like 0:04:11.080 --> 0:04:14.600 I was like full Zoolander mode on I know. 0:04:14.600 --> 0:04:17.160 You definitely I wanted to get that good photo, and 0:04:17.240 --> 0:04:17.600 I mean. 0:04:17.680 --> 0:04:19.839 The guys on the Runway did an amazing job and 0:04:19.839 --> 0:04:21.000 they were very Zoolander. 0:04:21.640 --> 0:04:24.840 So let's talk about it though. Josh Packham, your ex, 0:04:24.880 --> 0:04:29.080 everyone knows that, come strutting out looking very Zoolander. You're 0:04:29.160 --> 0:04:32.440 sitting front row with your ring glistening in the light. 0:04:32.560 --> 0:04:34.760 We made Michael sitting. 0:04:34.480 --> 0:04:36.520 Next to you, John me talking through what emotions you're 0:04:36.520 --> 0:04:37.560 feeling when that happens. 0:04:38.080 --> 0:04:40.400 I didn't really feel any emotions. I was just kind 0:04:40.400 --> 0:04:43.720 of like, I mean, pre show you were like, hey, 0:04:44.320 --> 0:04:47.800 just a little heads up, Josh, your ex and his 0:04:47.880 --> 0:04:50.200 twin brother are walking in the show. So I was like, oh, okay, 0:04:50.279 --> 0:04:54.080 like that's fine, Like it is what it is. You know, 0:04:54.200 --> 0:04:57.039 Josh and I are on like fine terms. There's no 0:04:57.160 --> 0:04:59.560 bad blood. So I was just like that's cool. When 0:04:59.600 --> 0:05:02.839 I saw him, Like, I didn't really feel any type 0:05:02.880 --> 0:05:04.840 of way. I was just like, it is what it is. 0:05:04.920 --> 0:05:07.359 I mean, you were like camera at the ready, like 0:05:07.480 --> 0:05:10.760 zooming in on him, Like that's a bit much, do 0:05:10.839 --> 0:05:11.359 you mad? 0:05:11.640 --> 0:05:13.800 I wanted to get here and then your reaction, but 0:05:13.839 --> 0:05:16.320 you told nothing. You didn't give anything away. It didn't 0:05:16.320 --> 0:05:17.080 look like anything. 0:05:17.279 --> 0:05:19.640 What was strange about that though? And I know that 0:05:19.720 --> 0:05:23.919 you knew this was happening was directly across from me 0:05:24.040 --> 0:05:29.400 and you on this rumway catwalk was the Daily Mail, 0:05:29.520 --> 0:05:31.960 and they had like a camera set up just pointing 0:05:32.040 --> 0:05:36.920 directly at me, Michael, you, and Jen. And I was like, 0:05:37.440 --> 0:05:41.080 is this because they know that my ex boyfriend is 0:05:41.160 --> 0:05:45.080 walking in the rumway and I'm sitting here with my 0:05:45.160 --> 0:05:47.960 new fiance, Like, is that why they're pointing the camera 0:05:48.000 --> 0:05:49.880 at us? Because I was a little bit shook about that. 0:05:50.200 --> 0:05:52.080 Yeah, that was a bit awkward, I reckon. I saw 0:05:52.080 --> 0:05:55.919 that as well, and I was like, look too to 0:05:56.720 --> 0:05:58.880 I don't know, look too angry at him or too like, 0:05:59.120 --> 0:06:00.080 you just have to be new. 0:06:00.480 --> 0:06:03.599 Right, Like you can't be happy, you can't laugh, You 0:06:03.680 --> 0:06:04.960 definitely can't look angry. 0:06:05.240 --> 0:06:08.640 In wrestling, we call it no selling, just blank face. 0:06:08.839 --> 0:06:10.600 Yeah, I think I did a good blank face. 0:06:10.720 --> 0:06:12.719 You did well. Had you spoken to Josh since you 0:06:12.760 --> 0:06:13.600 guys got engaged. 0:06:14.040 --> 0:06:16.400 No, actually, so. 0:06:16.440 --> 0:06:18.600 No congratulations message or anything from No. 0:06:18.720 --> 0:06:19.960 I didn't I don't think so. 0:06:21.040 --> 0:06:23.600 Maybe maybe you've had too many messages you've lost his. 0:06:24.560 --> 0:06:26.440 No, I'm pretty sure I didn't get a message from him, 0:06:26.440 --> 0:06:27.039 But that's okay. 0:06:27.279 --> 0:06:31.320 Well, speaking of messages, so Jen and I celebrated out 0:06:31.480 --> 0:06:33.480 one year, a couple of weeks ago. 0:06:34.320 --> 0:06:35.640 A big milestone. 0:06:35.880 --> 0:06:36.880 It's gone so quickly. 0:06:37.080 --> 0:06:38.440 What did you guys do for it? 0:06:38.560 --> 0:06:41.400 Well, we went to Crown, spent the night there, had 0:06:41.400 --> 0:06:46.320 a nice night, really played Holy moly, golf, had a 0:06:46.360 --> 0:06:49.240 little bit of friendly competition. Let's just put it this way. 0:06:49.480 --> 0:06:53.320 There were some sexual acts up for grabs for whoever. 0:06:53.360 --> 0:06:58.440 Weans a lot at stake. Really, a couple of hole 0:06:58.520 --> 0:07:00.680 in ones would lead to maybe a hole in one, 0:07:00.680 --> 0:07:05.560 who knows. But yeah, so we're gone. We were looking 0:07:05.600 --> 0:07:08.159 back at old messages and we're like, let's reminisce on 0:07:08.320 --> 0:07:11.520 before we started dating. So she's sitting there in the 0:07:11.560 --> 0:07:14.200 bed and we're going through them, and she took it 0:07:14.320 --> 0:07:15.960 right back. So she went back to the start of 0:07:15.960 --> 0:07:17.120 our Instagram conversation. 0:07:17.840 --> 0:07:20.560 It's hard to get right back. It's a lot of scrolling. 0:07:20.640 --> 0:07:22.600 There was a lot of scrolling, and she got there. 0:07:22.680 --> 0:07:26.040 And let's just say, a couple of those messages from me, 0:07:26.200 --> 0:07:28.559 I think I've touched on them. They were thirsty, were 0:07:28.600 --> 0:07:31.440 they like I was sending some serious like are you 0:07:31.560 --> 0:07:34.560 sending you're my dream girl? You're eleven out of ten, 0:07:34.680 --> 0:07:37.120 I'm going to pick you up. I'll post these on 0:07:37.160 --> 0:07:39.360 the Facebook group if anyone wants to see them. There's 0:07:39.360 --> 0:07:39.760 some really. 0:07:39.840 --> 0:07:41.480 She goes, I'm excited to see there. 0:07:41.480 --> 0:07:43.840 I think one of them, she says. I go, I'm 0:07:43.880 --> 0:07:46.520 going to pick you up for drinks on Monday. Let's 0:07:46.520 --> 0:07:48.240 share a bottle of red. And she's like, I don't 0:07:48.280 --> 0:07:50.680 drink red or something. I can't remember exactly word for word, 0:07:50.680 --> 0:07:53.160 but it was really painful to look back on. But 0:07:53.680 --> 0:07:55.800 we're looking at him. We're looking at the time that 0:07:55.840 --> 0:07:58.080 they were sent in the date, because you see it obviously. 0:07:58.120 --> 0:08:00.400 And I was like, I was like, let's see what 0:08:00.440 --> 0:08:02.800 I was doing, because that time's a very random time. 0:08:03.320 --> 0:08:05.160 So I've gone into my cameraroll. I paid for the 0:08:05.400 --> 0:08:07.680 iCloud Supreme, so I've got it all. I can look 0:08:07.680 --> 0:08:10.040 at photos from like four, five, six years ago. So 0:08:10.080 --> 0:08:12.800 I scroll out. I'm going through my photos. I look, 0:08:12.840 --> 0:08:14.560 I try, I find the month, find the month, I 0:08:14.600 --> 0:08:17.280 find the time, and I figure out I was on 0:08:17.320 --> 0:08:19.920 the Gold Coast with my mates, a having a fun 0:08:19.960 --> 0:08:21.240 trip with the boys that weekend. 0:08:21.240 --> 0:08:23.000 I still having a boys trip when you sent these 0:08:23.000 --> 0:08:23.880 messages to Jen. 0:08:24.160 --> 0:08:27.280 So I'm looking through them. I'm looking through them, and 0:08:27.360 --> 0:08:29.840 I said, what time was that sentence. She was like, oh, 0:08:29.920 --> 0:08:32.240 it looks like eleven something or whatever time it was, 0:08:32.280 --> 0:08:35.079 and I was like, oh my god, you're kidding. And 0:08:35.280 --> 0:08:36.560 I don't remember the exact time, but it was like 0:08:36.600 --> 0:08:39.120 eleven twenty eight. I sent the messages and at eleven 0:08:39.360 --> 0:08:42.720 thirty there was a photo of me in a booth 0:08:42.840 --> 0:08:46.280 with my mates the huge fish bowl, just absolutely pissed 0:08:46.320 --> 0:08:48.920 out of my eyelids, just like this with a fishbowl. 0:08:48.960 --> 0:08:52.080 So two minutes before I had taken that photo pissed, 0:08:52.080 --> 0:08:53.960 I was sending Jen thirsty messages. 0:08:54.240 --> 0:08:56.079 We love a drunk text, don't we. 0:08:56.200 --> 0:08:58.280 But it was completely not gonna get me anywhere. She 0:08:58.360 --> 0:08:59.960 was in Melbourne. I was on the Gold Coast. 0:09:00.160 --> 0:09:02.640 See that just shows the levels that you're willing to 0:09:02.679 --> 0:09:05.240 go for for Jen. Like you were so obsessed with 0:09:05.280 --> 0:09:07.520 her that even although you were in different states, you 0:09:07.559 --> 0:09:10.679 were like, I don't care. You're getting a drunk text night. 0:09:10.920 --> 0:09:13.480 Yeah, you're looking fit in whatever story you're posted. You're 0:09:13.480 --> 0:09:20.000 getting someone please lock me up. Not doing well. 0:09:20.200 --> 0:09:22.600 Look on that note, I think it's time to took 0:09:22.720 --> 0:09:31.960 all things at drunk texts. Okay, Matt, So you used 0:09:32.000 --> 0:09:35.560 to drunk text you're now girl friend Jen before you 0:09:35.600 --> 0:09:38.240 guys had even met, and you used to send her 0:09:38.440 --> 0:09:41.480 heaps of drunk messages. But the question that I want 0:09:41.480 --> 0:09:44.160 to ask is why did you drunk text? Like, why 0:09:44.200 --> 0:09:45.600 do we drunk text? 0:09:45.880 --> 0:09:49.600 Well, I think that one was I was quite drunk. 0:09:50.240 --> 0:09:54.720 I'm not gonna lie. I'm probably pretty horny throwing some 0:09:54.800 --> 0:09:57.120 feelers out there. Hail Mary is I like to call them. 0:09:57.120 --> 0:10:00.720 So in American football, hail Mary, Yeah, is when the 0:10:00.800 --> 0:10:04.280 quarterback will throw it and just hope it lands. 0:10:04.400 --> 0:10:07.920 So you're sending out a few hail marys. 0:10:07.600 --> 0:10:09.560 Mary. When I used to get drunk and I was single, 0:10:10.040 --> 0:10:12.120 being one of them will land. You know, I'm not 0:10:12.160 --> 0:10:14.680 picking up right now, but she was in a different state. 0:10:14.960 --> 0:10:15.960 I was hoping it landed. 0:10:16.480 --> 0:10:19.000 It landed for the following weekend. 0:10:20.200 --> 0:10:22.400 It eventually landed, and that's the point of hail Mary. 0:10:22.480 --> 0:10:25.920 It eventually. So but why would you send a drunk text? 0:10:26.240 --> 0:10:29.000 Well, look, I think we all send drunk texts because 0:10:29.000 --> 0:10:31.360 we have a bit of Dutch courage. We're feeling a 0:10:31.360 --> 0:10:35.000 little bit more confident. We probably think less about the 0:10:35.120 --> 0:10:37.840 ramifications of that text the next day when you're sober, 0:10:37.960 --> 0:10:41.480 So I guess we're maybe less accountable for our actions. 0:10:42.200 --> 0:10:44.880 How about the next day when you wake up and 0:10:44.920 --> 0:10:48.319 you see some of the messages you've said demons demons 0:10:48.960 --> 0:10:50.319 just straight swipe to leave. 0:10:50.520 --> 0:10:53.040 I don't even look stop it, so you won't even 0:10:53.080 --> 0:10:54.280 go in to see the chat. 0:10:55.200 --> 0:10:55.840 I never would. 0:10:55.920 --> 0:10:58.120 I just feel like that It doesn't like they're not 0:10:58.320 --> 0:10:59.960 knowing stress you out even more. 0:11:00.080 --> 0:11:04.360 Ignorance is bliss. That's not the mindset that I have, Like, 0:11:04.679 --> 0:11:06.400 I just don't want to know what I've said because 0:11:06.400 --> 0:11:08.600 I've known I've seen in some states and I would 0:11:08.640 --> 0:11:11.599 have sent some real fucked up stuff and used to 0:11:11.720 --> 0:11:14.440 lead it. I've got one for you. 0:11:14.679 --> 0:11:15.400 Yeah. 0:11:15.520 --> 0:11:17.800 Do you know when a guy is sending you a 0:11:17.800 --> 0:11:18.800 hail Mary text? 0:11:19.000 --> 0:11:21.000 What do you mean? Like they're just throwing it out 0:11:21.040 --> 0:11:23.880 their drunk texts, as in like he's trying to get late. 0:11:24.440 --> 0:11:25.800 Do you know when they come through? 0:11:26.000 --> 0:11:26.280 Yeah? 0:11:26.600 --> 0:11:28.160 Absolutely surely. 0:11:28.280 --> 0:11:31.680 How do you like a wyd are what you're doing 0:11:32.120 --> 0:11:36.040 is like if someone's throwing out a wyd you know 0:11:36.120 --> 0:11:38.480 that it's a booty call, right, Like it's not even 0:11:38.520 --> 0:11:39.640 a hey, how you going? 0:11:39.880 --> 0:11:41.640 What guys are sent? Actually sending that? 0:11:41.920 --> 0:11:45.080 Someone sent me a wyd and I was like, I 0:11:45.120 --> 0:11:47.720 literally I remember he sent it. To me the week 0:11:47.800 --> 0:11:49.640 prior and then the next week I was out at 0:11:49.679 --> 0:11:52.200 the club and I was like, the audacity of you 0:11:52.360 --> 0:11:54.360 to send me a wyd Like. 0:11:55.000 --> 0:11:56.760 How did you know him? How well did you know? 0:11:56.960 --> 0:11:59.120 He was? Just like he's just like the town player 0:11:59.160 --> 0:12:01.960 and fuck boy, so like it wasn't a surprise to 0:12:02.000 --> 0:12:04.679 get to what you're doing from him. But like I 0:12:04.720 --> 0:12:07.439 was just thinking, like I wonder how many wyds he 0:12:07.559 --> 0:12:10.200 sent out that night, like at least ten, at least 0:12:10.280 --> 0:12:13.800 at a minimum, at a minimum ten. But yeah, I 0:12:13.840 --> 0:12:19.320 think to answer your question personally, for me, I think 0:12:19.360 --> 0:12:22.760 the difference between a nine to fifty nine message and 0:12:22.800 --> 0:12:25.760 a ten o'clock message is massive because I think when 0:12:25.800 --> 0:12:29.320 it ticks over to ten o'clock, it's a booty call. Right. 0:12:29.640 --> 0:12:31.839 You said this before, and I was saying that, I 0:12:31.840 --> 0:12:35.720 think that's still a bit early, I know, kicking around 0:12:35.880 --> 0:12:36.720 twelve one. 0:12:37.280 --> 0:12:41.160 I think like in general, if someone's messaging you after 0:12:41.320 --> 0:12:46.080 seven pm on a Friday or a Saturday night, you 0:12:46.120 --> 0:12:49.760 can guarantee they're out drinking with their friends. They're not 0:12:49.800 --> 0:12:51.760 messaging you because they're trying to tea up a day. 0:12:51.880 --> 0:12:54.559 They're messaging you because they're like I'm out. I want 0:12:54.600 --> 0:12:57.360 to see if you're out and like, let's link up later. 0:12:58.200 --> 0:13:01.880 Yeah, I've definitely yeah, everyone's stuff, definitely sent them. I 0:13:01.960 --> 0:13:04.120 just want to know if girls actually know that they're 0:13:04.160 --> 0:13:07.679 coming in hot as a wid text an actual like 0:13:07.760 --> 0:13:08.360 you know what I mean? 0:13:08.400 --> 0:13:08.959 What do you mean? 0:13:09.080 --> 0:13:11.080 No, So, like a guy sends you on, have you 0:13:11.080 --> 0:13:12.760 ever woken up to guys sending him to? 0:13:12.960 --> 0:13:14.680 Absolutely? Yeah, what do you do? 0:13:14.760 --> 0:13:15.199 Just laugh? 0:13:15.640 --> 0:13:18.320 I just don't reply. I'm like, that's embarrassing and like 0:13:18.360 --> 0:13:22.239 you're probably gonna look at that in the morning and go, yeah, 0:13:22.280 --> 0:13:25.760 but if you like them then but if you like them, 0:13:25.800 --> 0:13:29.160 then maybe you would reply be like haha, someone had 0:13:29.160 --> 0:13:32.199 a big night last night, you know, like a bit 0:13:32.240 --> 0:13:33.000 of cheekiness. 0:13:33.080 --> 0:13:33.320 Yeah. 0:13:34.000 --> 0:13:37.600 I remember. Actually I was seeing this guy probably like 0:13:37.679 --> 0:13:41.439 two years before I met Michael, and it's actually someone 0:13:41.840 --> 0:13:44.559 that Michael has met a couple of times. So Michael 0:13:44.640 --> 0:13:47.160 is aware of this person who I used to date. 0:13:47.360 --> 0:13:50.520 As a civil obviously who you and the guy still civil? No? 0:13:50.520 --> 0:13:53.840 No, we don't talk and we hadn't talked for a while. Yeah, 0:13:54.440 --> 0:13:58.760 but I remember when that guy who I used to 0:13:58.800 --> 0:14:03.400 see found out that I was seeing Michael, he then 0:14:03.960 --> 0:14:07.160 sent me like a twelve o'clock message being like, what 0:14:07.280 --> 0:14:11.080 are you up to? Are you out? And then Michael 0:14:11.120 --> 0:14:14.240 saw them. Yeah, me and Michael were in bed and 0:14:14.280 --> 0:14:17.560 Michael saw the message and he's like, he knows that 0:14:17.600 --> 0:14:20.520 we're seeing each other, and he has a messaged you 0:14:20.600 --> 0:14:23.040 in about six months, and the fact that this is 0:14:23.040 --> 0:14:25.800 a message at midnight that he's sending you when he 0:14:25.880 --> 0:14:29.200 knows that we're seeing each other, it's just playing rude, right. 0:14:29.240 --> 0:14:30.920 Yeah, So what do you think the meaning behind that 0:14:30.960 --> 0:14:31.320 would be? 0:14:31.400 --> 0:14:34.680 Then, well, I don't really know specifically, but I have 0:14:34.720 --> 0:14:38.600 a few theories. The first one would be like, obviously, 0:14:39.440 --> 0:14:41.920 this other guy is kind of like, well I was 0:14:41.960 --> 0:14:46.160 seeing Anna before Michael, so he's kind of like seeing 0:14:46.240 --> 0:14:49.920 if I'm still open to the idea of him, which 0:14:49.960 --> 0:14:52.760 I wasn't and I didn't reply, So maybe he was 0:14:52.800 --> 0:14:55.080 just like testing the waters to see like where my 0:14:55.120 --> 0:14:57.200 head was at, and my head was with Michael, and 0:14:57.480 --> 0:15:00.560 he never got a reply again he got to go sting. 0:15:02.000 --> 0:15:05.040 Poor guy, throwing throwing out those text messages. Well, there's 0:15:05.040 --> 0:15:05.760 a lot of reasons. 0:15:05.800 --> 0:15:07.760 I don't know would you do that, Like if you 0:15:07.800 --> 0:15:11.200 were seeing someone like six months ago, and then let's 0:15:11.240 --> 0:15:13.920 just say you're single, for the argument's sake, So you're 0:15:13.960 --> 0:15:16.880 seeing someone six months ago, and then someone who you've 0:15:16.880 --> 0:15:19.600 met a few times, like a guy, start seeing that person. 0:15:20.440 --> 0:15:22.440 Wouldn't give a fuck to be honest. 0:15:22.440 --> 0:15:24.680 Okay, So what would make you send a message like that? 0:15:25.280 --> 0:15:28.320 I don't know, why would you send a message unless 0:15:28.320 --> 0:15:29.920 you were trying to like cook back up with them. 0:15:30.680 --> 0:15:32.000 I don't think i'd give a shit if they were 0:15:32.000 --> 0:15:32.840 seeing someone else. 0:15:33.280 --> 0:15:35.280 Yeah, so maybe he's trying to see maybe. 0:15:35.120 --> 0:15:36.520 You're trying to see how serious you are with the 0:15:36.520 --> 0:15:36.880 other person. 0:15:37.000 --> 0:15:38.320 So yeah, can you have another. 0:15:38.040 --> 0:15:38.600 Crack at him? 0:15:38.800 --> 0:15:42.200 Yeah? And I think that's why, Yeah, that happened. 0:15:42.680 --> 0:15:45.160 Okay. So there's a lot of meanings behind sending a 0:15:45.200 --> 0:15:47.560 drunk text. I feel a lot of them would be 0:15:47.600 --> 0:15:50.680 that if you've received a drunk text from someone, they're 0:15:50.720 --> 0:15:51.280 thinking of you. 0:15:51.600 --> 0:15:57.320 Yeah, absolutely, And like also, I feel like sometimes I 0:15:57.400 --> 0:16:01.240 reckon that I've sent drunk texts because I maybe feel 0:16:01.240 --> 0:16:04.600 a certain way about someone, but I really have no 0:16:04.720 --> 0:16:08.320 idea if those feelings are reciprocated, And so then I'm 0:16:08.360 --> 0:16:12.440 kind of like, well, I'm not going to say anything, 0:16:12.520 --> 0:16:14.520 But then when I get a little bit tipsy, I'm 0:16:14.520 --> 0:16:16.640 like fuck it, I'm just gonna like tell them how 0:16:16.720 --> 0:16:20.120 I feel and test the waters and confess all of 0:16:20.120 --> 0:16:22.120 my feelings towards them kind of thing. You know. 0:16:22.120 --> 0:16:23.600 I reread it the next day and you got that 0:16:23.720 --> 0:16:27.960 hangover anxiety hangover from hell. Yeah. This so another reason 0:16:28.120 --> 0:16:31.840 be something reminded you of them. So I was remember 0:16:31.880 --> 0:16:35.760 New Year's Eve, Jen, someone she used to see, texted her, Yeah, 0:16:35.960 --> 0:16:39.200 actually was something that reminded them of her. She didn't 0:16:39.200 --> 0:16:41.040 reply over sleep because me and her were having a 0:16:41.080 --> 0:16:44.480 cute romantic thing. But like, that's an ambitious way to 0:16:44.520 --> 0:16:47.720 slide into someone's like DMS or rekindle something. 0:16:47.640 --> 0:16:50.320 I've had that though, have you. Yeah, Like someone will 0:16:50.360 --> 0:16:53.000 be like, oh, I'm at this restaurant that we once 0:16:53.040 --> 0:16:55.480 went to, and then they'll be like this reminded me 0:16:55.520 --> 0:16:57.840 of you, or like something like that, And it is 0:16:57.920 --> 0:17:01.120 it's definitely a slide in like and especially if someone's 0:17:01.120 --> 0:17:04.720 in a relationship, it's very like you know what I mean, 0:17:04.800 --> 0:17:08.000 Like it's definitely on that boundary of crossing a line, 0:17:08.440 --> 0:17:12.040 but it also could be super harmless with no malice. 0:17:12.240 --> 0:17:15.399 I don't think it was it was him. It was 0:17:15.640 --> 0:17:20.160 very share of details they could feel intimidated by you 0:17:20.240 --> 0:17:22.640 and they can't talk to you sober. So I think 0:17:22.680 --> 0:17:28.919 a lot of girls have felt this. Messaged me. Have 0:17:29.040 --> 0:17:31.320 you been intimidated by someone who message to him while 0:17:31.320 --> 0:17:32.800 you were drunk and you can talk to him while 0:17:32.800 --> 0:17:35.359 you were sober? Michael, do that to you? 0:17:36.080 --> 0:17:38.240 I mean me and Michael definitely had like a lot 0:17:38.240 --> 0:17:42.520 of drunk messages, like back and forth before we actually 0:17:42.560 --> 0:17:46.439 had a first day, Like we would kind of chat 0:17:46.600 --> 0:17:48.320 when he was out and I was out, and then 0:17:48.359 --> 0:17:50.000 we'd like try and kind of meet up, but then 0:17:50.000 --> 0:17:53.000 it wouldn't work out. But I have a question for you. 0:17:53.040 --> 0:17:55.760 Do you think that you can send a drunk text 0:17:55.800 --> 0:17:57.960 and it's just like a genuine mistake, Like it just 0:17:58.000 --> 0:17:59.920 has no meaning behind it. 0:18:00.160 --> 0:18:02.520 Like the wrong person or you used to know, like you. 0:18:02.560 --> 0:18:06.240 Send the message maybe because you're bored, or like you're 0:18:06.520 --> 0:18:09.040 maybe reaching out to like everyone in your phone book 0:18:09.040 --> 0:18:12.199 who comes up, and like there's literally no meaning behind it. 0:18:12.200 --> 0:18:14.199 So you could send someone a message and I don't know, 0:18:14.240 --> 0:18:16.879 like flame react to something of someone, and then you 0:18:16.920 --> 0:18:18.720