1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:03,640 Speaker 1: This podcast is recorded on gaddigal Land always was, always 2 00:00:03,680 --> 00:00:13,239 Speaker 1: will be Aboriginal Land. Hey Chicks, I'm out and this 3 00:00:13,280 --> 00:00:15,880 Speaker 1: is two bro chicks show where we share life lessons 4 00:00:15,880 --> 00:00:17,239 Speaker 1: and tips to help make you rich in life. 5 00:00:17,320 --> 00:00:20,400 Speaker 2: And we're all high this morning. We're recording on Thursday. 6 00:00:20,520 --> 00:00:24,840 Speaker 1: Bit freaky, bit new, but just got word our Brisbane 7 00:00:24,880 --> 00:00:26,120 Speaker 1: live show just sold out. 8 00:00:26,320 --> 00:00:29,200 Speaker 2: Frizzy Chicks Rise Up is Vegas. 9 00:00:30,080 --> 00:00:36,280 Speaker 1: Let's fucking god. Oh my god. I always underestimated whenever 10 00:00:36,320 --> 00:00:38,240 Speaker 1: we do live shows. I'm like, oh my god, people actually. 11 00:00:38,000 --> 00:00:38,400 Speaker 2: Want to come. 12 00:00:38,520 --> 00:00:41,160 Speaker 3: I know. I'm like expecting that somebody pulled a prank 13 00:00:41,200 --> 00:00:43,360 Speaker 3: and just bought all the tickets and no one's there. 14 00:00:43,600 --> 00:00:43,840 Speaker 2: Cool. 15 00:00:43,840 --> 00:00:45,960 Speaker 1: Thanks for building that in security for me. It's not 16 00:00:46,000 --> 00:00:48,160 Speaker 1: like I was that happened. 17 00:00:48,760 --> 00:00:50,360 Speaker 2: No one has that much money. It's cousy. 18 00:00:50,320 --> 00:00:52,920 Speaker 1: Yeah. I was like, oh my god, and there's less 19 00:00:52,920 --> 00:00:55,760 Speaker 1: than one hundred tickets for Melbourne and Sydney, and who knows, 20 00:00:55,800 --> 00:00:58,279 Speaker 1: by the time this episode comes out, maybe those will 21 00:00:58,320 --> 00:01:00,440 Speaker 1: be sold out as well. So if you haven't got 22 00:01:00,480 --> 00:01:04,800 Speaker 1: your tickets yet, get those. They they're flying out. The 23 00:01:04,880 --> 00:01:07,200 Speaker 1: deal chick Hot com on hot come on, we have 24 00:01:07,480 --> 00:01:10,919 Speaker 1: fifty thousand dollars worth of prizes to give away across 25 00:01:10,959 --> 00:01:17,960 Speaker 1: the tour, including Stax products including Bevies, including holidays, flybys points. 26 00:01:18,040 --> 00:01:20,119 Speaker 2: There's also over a hundred. 27 00:01:20,000 --> 00:01:24,360 Speaker 1: Minor and major prizes to win at every single show, 28 00:01:24,760 --> 00:01:29,680 Speaker 1: so the odds are ever in your favor, and every 29 00:01:29,680 --> 00:01:31,000 Speaker 1: single ticket will. 30 00:01:30,800 --> 00:01:35,199 Speaker 2: Get a surprise gift at the show. So so every 31 00:01:35,240 --> 00:01:36,559 Speaker 2: single person who's going to walk. 32 00:01:36,440 --> 00:01:40,280 Speaker 1: Away with something with something as well as hopefully a 33 00:01:40,280 --> 00:01:42,120 Speaker 1: great night with lots of life exactly. 34 00:01:42,160 --> 00:01:44,200 Speaker 2: And also the show is just really good. 35 00:01:44,360 --> 00:01:48,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like, we're so funny because our management was 36 00:01:48,920 --> 00:01:52,480 Speaker 1: being like, guys, no one does this, like the show 37 00:01:52,600 --> 00:01:56,080 Speaker 1: is the gift, and we're like, no, we must give back, 38 00:01:56,160 --> 00:01:58,200 Speaker 1: like we must give the chicks what they want, and 39 00:01:58,240 --> 00:01:59,160 Speaker 1: we love free shit. 40 00:01:59,600 --> 00:02:00,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, he doesn't. 41 00:02:00,440 --> 00:02:01,040 Speaker 1: Love free shit. 42 00:02:01,320 --> 00:02:03,760 Speaker 2: It's part of the two Road Chicks brands exactly. 43 00:02:04,800 --> 00:02:06,960 Speaker 1: More details to come soon, but we will be having 44 00:02:07,040 --> 00:02:11,720 Speaker 1: solo Chick mixes at every city, so before the show, 45 00:02:11,840 --> 00:02:14,680 Speaker 1: we'll share like a destination like a pub or something 46 00:02:15,120 --> 00:02:17,079 Speaker 1: where you can go and meet a bunch of other 47 00:02:17,160 --> 00:02:19,800 Speaker 1: solo chicks that are going to the show. Don't worry, 48 00:02:19,840 --> 00:02:23,519 Speaker 1: we have team captains who are chicks that have volunteered 49 00:02:23,560 --> 00:02:26,320 Speaker 1: to be the extrovert of the evening. Yep, and we'll 50 00:02:26,320 --> 00:02:30,560 Speaker 1: be wrangling and helping everyone meet each other, but very fun. 51 00:02:30,720 --> 00:02:33,360 Speaker 1: I love that we're doing this because there have been 52 00:02:33,400 --> 00:02:35,160 Speaker 1: so many messages that we've been getting being like, oh 53 00:02:35,160 --> 00:02:37,320 Speaker 1: my god, I've never gone to an event solo before 54 00:02:37,639 --> 00:02:38,639 Speaker 1: and I'm finally doing it. 55 00:02:38,600 --> 00:02:39,760 Speaker 2: Because of this, and I can't wait. 56 00:02:40,160 --> 00:02:41,840 Speaker 1: So oh my god, what if someone like met They're like, 57 00:02:42,639 --> 00:02:45,640 Speaker 1: they're made of honor, I know, like their lover. 58 00:02:45,960 --> 00:02:47,160 Speaker 2: It's going to be such a fun night. 59 00:02:47,200 --> 00:02:49,120 Speaker 3: I can't wait and really excited to bring it to 60 00:02:49,160 --> 00:02:51,560 Speaker 3: Melbourne and bris Vegas. 61 00:02:51,160 --> 00:02:54,400 Speaker 2: And Adelaide and Perth. We know, we hear you. 62 00:02:54,480 --> 00:02:56,560 Speaker 1: We couldn't make it work this time, but don't worry 63 00:02:56,960 --> 00:02:58,760 Speaker 1: in the future one thousand percent. 64 00:02:58,880 --> 00:02:59,760 Speaker 2: Yeah we'll be there. 65 00:03:00,040 --> 00:03:00,280 Speaker 1: Yeah. 66 00:03:00,320 --> 00:03:03,560 Speaker 2: Okay, Salehundro. What is your obsession of the week? 67 00:03:03,800 --> 00:03:06,160 Speaker 3: Okay, My obsession of the week is something that I 68 00:03:06,160 --> 00:03:07,960 Speaker 3: saw on TikTok shock. 69 00:03:08,160 --> 00:03:13,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, a real live version of the holiday. Have you 70 00:03:13,520 --> 00:03:17,480 Speaker 2: seen this? I saw someone posting about this, Yes, yes, yes, Okay. 71 00:03:17,680 --> 00:03:21,040 Speaker 3: So there's this girl, Lahani and she lives in New 72 00:03:21,120 --> 00:03:23,760 Speaker 3: York and she posted a TikTok being like who wants 73 00:03:23,840 --> 00:03:26,480 Speaker 3: to do an apartment swat with me, And she found 74 00:03:26,560 --> 00:03:29,440 Speaker 3: someone named Marie who lives in London and they have 75 00:03:29,639 --> 00:03:31,640 Speaker 3: notting Hill and they've done. 76 00:03:31,720 --> 00:03:32,760 Speaker 2: An apartment swap. 77 00:03:32,840 --> 00:03:36,160 Speaker 3: So Marie's gone to New York, Lahani's gone to London 78 00:03:36,680 --> 00:03:38,920 Speaker 3: and they're documenting the entire process. 79 00:03:39,080 --> 00:03:42,400 Speaker 2: And it is the most wholesome, beautiful piece. 80 00:03:42,200 --> 00:03:45,960 Speaker 3: Of content because, yes, of course, like they've gone on 81 00:03:45,960 --> 00:03:49,120 Speaker 3: a holiday essentially, but because they're living in somebody else's house, 82 00:03:49,160 --> 00:03:52,280 Speaker 3: it's almost like your cosplaying living in a city. And 83 00:03:52,320 --> 00:03:54,960 Speaker 3: that's kind of the vibe that I'm getting, And it's 84 00:03:55,080 --> 00:03:58,240 Speaker 3: just so cute, like seeing the everyday little pieces of 85 00:03:58,320 --> 00:04:01,160 Speaker 3: joy that they have, trying a new cafe or visiting 86 00:04:01,160 --> 00:04:05,040 Speaker 3: a new thrist shop and just encompassing that new way 87 00:04:05,080 --> 00:04:05,600 Speaker 3: of life. 88 00:04:06,040 --> 00:04:08,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that's such a nice obsession to have 89 00:04:08,160 --> 00:04:11,840 Speaker 1: with this episode as well, because it's like maybe watching 90 00:04:11,880 --> 00:04:13,960 Speaker 1: that can show you all the little things that you 91 00:04:14,040 --> 00:04:16,719 Speaker 1: can do, like trying a new cafe or going to 92 00:04:16,760 --> 00:04:19,200 Speaker 1: a different suburb to go thrifting or whatever it is 93 00:04:19,880 --> 00:04:22,480 Speaker 1: that can make you live your holiday fantasy. 94 00:04:22,640 --> 00:04:25,359 Speaker 3: Yeah, if you could do it the holiday anywhere in 95 00:04:25,400 --> 00:04:27,600 Speaker 3: the world, where would you do it? 96 00:04:30,080 --> 00:04:32,400 Speaker 2: Probably like Dublin. 97 00:04:34,320 --> 00:04:39,120 Speaker 1: That would be so good and like a Christmas obviously, oh. 98 00:04:38,960 --> 00:04:43,760 Speaker 2: My god, yeah, that would be the drain. Oh imagine 99 00:04:44,320 --> 00:04:44,920 Speaker 2: and it's like. 100 00:04:48,279 --> 00:04:52,839 Speaker 1: I just really evaporate like the Avengers click, like goodbye. 101 00:04:53,160 --> 00:04:55,080 Speaker 2: That's it reached my final form. 102 00:04:55,240 --> 00:04:57,479 Speaker 3: You also know that like a winter Christmas market in 103 00:04:57,560 --> 00:04:59,640 Speaker 3: Dublin would go the fuck off? 104 00:05:00,400 --> 00:05:03,480 Speaker 1: Did you see? Tanamojo liked one of our tiktoks, which 105 00:05:03,520 --> 00:05:05,719 Speaker 1: one the Christmas one? No worry? 106 00:05:07,480 --> 00:05:12,600 Speaker 2: Oh my god, Arianna, what are you doing? But say 107 00:05:12,800 --> 00:05:15,600 Speaker 2: you are good? Yeah, she's looking for a new podcast 108 00:05:15,640 --> 00:05:20,440 Speaker 2: to join. I know third Broke Chick. Let's go. Oh 109 00:05:20,480 --> 00:05:23,480 Speaker 2: my god. She's like, I like one TikTok. You fucking 110 00:05:23,520 --> 00:05:28,440 Speaker 2: will leave me alone. No, you're obsessed. I'm like coming 111 00:05:28,480 --> 00:05:28,839 Speaker 2: to astro. 112 00:05:29,160 --> 00:05:29,440 Speaker 3: Let's go. 113 00:05:29,600 --> 00:05:31,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, I love that. Okay, what's your obsession? 114 00:05:31,640 --> 00:05:35,159 Speaker 1: My obsession of the week is a hatch alarm clock. 115 00:05:35,640 --> 00:05:39,200 Speaker 1: Doup Oh so I saw a chicky posting about this 116 00:05:39,240 --> 00:05:45,919 Speaker 1: on TikTok. I'll tag her below and I am signed, sealed, delivered, 117 00:05:46,080 --> 00:05:48,359 Speaker 1: sold like I've bought it and I'm going to do 118 00:05:48,400 --> 00:05:52,120 Speaker 1: a full review. But the hatch alarm clock has been 119 00:05:52,160 --> 00:05:55,200 Speaker 1: one of those viral products that You've seen every man 120 00:05:55,279 --> 00:05:58,560 Speaker 1: and their dog talking about and I just truly couldn't 121 00:05:58,600 --> 00:06:02,719 Speaker 1: really grasp how incredible this clock was. Whenever you see 122 00:06:02,720 --> 00:06:04,600 Speaker 1: those posts of people being like, what's the one thing 123 00:06:04,600 --> 00:06:08,359 Speaker 1: that changed your life? Without a doubt, the Hatch alarm 124 00:06:08,360 --> 00:06:09,919 Speaker 1: clock is in those comments. 125 00:06:10,000 --> 00:06:13,440 Speaker 3: It's always on there, except this motherfucker is like four 126 00:06:13,520 --> 00:06:14,200 Speaker 3: hundred dollars. 127 00:06:15,240 --> 00:06:17,480 Speaker 2: I can't justify that. It's on Amazon. 128 00:06:17,560 --> 00:06:20,279 Speaker 1: And it's literally just called the Sunrise Alarm Clock White 129 00:06:20,320 --> 00:06:24,080 Speaker 1: Noise Machine, and it has a natural wake up light, 130 00:06:24,520 --> 00:06:28,839 Speaker 1: a dimmable clock with a Bluetooth speaker, and it also 131 00:06:28,920 --> 00:06:32,600 Speaker 1: has twenty five sleep sounds, and you can actually change 132 00:06:33,040 --> 00:06:36,600 Speaker 1: the light on it to be like a natural light, 133 00:06:36,720 --> 00:06:38,120 Speaker 1: a red light, a blue light. 134 00:06:38,160 --> 00:06:40,880 Speaker 2: Like red light's supposed to help you fall asleep quicker. 135 00:06:41,400 --> 00:06:44,159 Speaker 1: And it also like mimics the natural sunrise so that 136 00:06:44,240 --> 00:06:46,160 Speaker 1: it kind of helps with your circadian rhythm. 137 00:06:46,320 --> 00:06:47,880 Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, like waking up. 138 00:06:48,520 --> 00:06:52,880 Speaker 1: It has one to thirty levels of sunrise brightness, and 139 00:06:52,960 --> 00:06:55,680 Speaker 1: the sunrise duration can go from five. 140 00:06:55,400 --> 00:06:58,120 Speaker 2: Minutes to sixty minutes, so you can do like a 141 00:06:58,160 --> 00:07:02,360 Speaker 2: real slow duration. It also has bluetooth activity if you 142 00:07:02,360 --> 00:07:03,599 Speaker 2: want to play music in the morning. 143 00:07:03,880 --> 00:07:06,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, I love that because I've been saying a lot 144 00:07:06,040 --> 00:07:09,360 Speaker 3: as well, people buying like radio alarm clocks to play 145 00:07:09,480 --> 00:07:10,320 Speaker 3: music in the morning. 146 00:07:10,640 --> 00:07:12,520 Speaker 2: So if you could do that, like that would be 147 00:07:12,600 --> 00:07:13,200 Speaker 2: so sick. 148 00:07:13,440 --> 00:07:16,200 Speaker 1: Yeah. You can get it in like a beige color, 149 00:07:16,560 --> 00:07:21,120 Speaker 1: a green color, and also a pink color. And it's 150 00:07:21,160 --> 00:07:24,800 Speaker 1: eighty nine to ninety nine. It's less than one hundred dollars. Wow, 151 00:07:24,840 --> 00:07:27,560 Speaker 1: compared to the mortgage you would have to take out 152 00:07:27,600 --> 00:07:28,040 Speaker 1: to get that. 153 00:07:28,120 --> 00:07:30,640 Speaker 2: And the Hatch alarm clock in Australia. Yeah, I was 154 00:07:30,680 --> 00:07:33,080 Speaker 2: gonna say, And to get the hatch alarm clock in 155 00:07:33,120 --> 00:07:36,280 Speaker 2: Australia it's kind of hard, really hard, and it's really expensive. 156 00:07:36,360 --> 00:07:38,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll give you guys an updated review on it. 157 00:07:39,280 --> 00:07:43,000 Speaker 1: But that is, without a doubt, my obsession of the week. 158 00:07:43,160 --> 00:07:43,600 Speaker 2: I love that. 159 00:07:43,960 --> 00:07:46,160 Speaker 1: I also have another obsession that I saw a podcast 160 00:07:46,200 --> 00:07:49,640 Speaker 1: talking about how leggings are apparently out. 161 00:07:50,600 --> 00:07:51,640 Speaker 2: Yeah I saw this too. 162 00:07:51,720 --> 00:07:55,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, apparently leggings are now the millennial core at the 163 00:07:55,200 --> 00:07:59,160 Speaker 1: gym and like jen Z where trackies and shit, I 164 00:07:59,200 --> 00:08:00,320 Speaker 1: can't get behind that. 165 00:08:00,720 --> 00:08:03,080 Speaker 3: Yeah you'd get too hot, Yeah, you get too hot. 166 00:08:03,200 --> 00:08:05,960 Speaker 3: Tracksuit pants are not for working out. Like I think 167 00:08:06,000 --> 00:08:09,080 Speaker 3: we've evolved from that to get to leggings, like that's 168 00:08:09,240 --> 00:08:09,920 Speaker 3: one place. 169 00:08:10,040 --> 00:08:11,160 Speaker 2: It's a pendulum. 170 00:08:11,480 --> 00:08:15,440 Speaker 1: It'll swing back and forth, Like, just give it another 171 00:08:15,520 --> 00:08:19,200 Speaker 1: couple of years and with Jen Alpha, they'll be the leggings. 172 00:08:19,240 --> 00:08:20,920 Speaker 2: It's just yeah, totally. 173 00:08:21,040 --> 00:08:24,560 Speaker 3: But in terms of functionality, wearing a tracksuit pant unless 174 00:08:24,600 --> 00:08:27,560 Speaker 3: it's cinched on the ankle, is not gonna work like 175 00:08:27,640 --> 00:08:29,960 Speaker 3: you have like your pant like falling down while you're 176 00:08:30,000 --> 00:08:33,080 Speaker 3: doing like leg raisors and shit, which is like maybe 177 00:08:33,080 --> 00:08:33,839 Speaker 3: the biggest dick. 178 00:08:35,720 --> 00:08:36,440 Speaker 2: Do you know what? 179 00:08:36,440 --> 00:08:41,040 Speaker 1: What I'm wearing to the gym, whatever's clean, whatever is 180 00:08:41,520 --> 00:08:43,240 Speaker 1: maybe on the floor, and I've. 181 00:08:43,080 --> 00:08:45,240 Speaker 2: Got easy access to when I go, ea, that'll do. 182 00:08:45,760 --> 00:08:47,880 Speaker 2: Sometimes it's what I wanted the gym the day before. 183 00:08:48,440 --> 00:08:51,240 Speaker 2: I'm not afraid to admit it. Yeah, because that's the 184 00:08:51,280 --> 00:08:53,199 Speaker 2: real me, because that's who I am. 185 00:08:53,400 --> 00:08:56,160 Speaker 1: Anyway, now we've got our positions out of the way, 186 00:08:56,559 --> 00:09:00,439 Speaker 1: let's get into the episode five plus ways to have 187 00:09:00,720 --> 00:09:04,840 Speaker 1: a good day every Day backed by Science, And I 188 00:09:04,840 --> 00:09:07,040 Speaker 1: wanted to give a little bit of a spiel to 189 00:09:07,120 --> 00:09:11,840 Speaker 1: start us off on why you can truly have a 190 00:09:11,840 --> 00:09:16,840 Speaker 1: good day every day by choice and that you do 191 00:09:16,920 --> 00:09:19,760 Speaker 1: have a lot more control over this than you might think. 192 00:09:19,800 --> 00:09:25,120 Speaker 1: You do, And it's actually a psychological term called your 193 00:09:25,200 --> 00:09:26,600 Speaker 1: locus of control. 194 00:09:27,559 --> 00:09:30,000 Speaker 2: So your locus of control. 195 00:09:29,600 --> 00:09:32,760 Speaker 1: Is the belief in how much your actions shape your 196 00:09:32,800 --> 00:09:35,720 Speaker 1: life and like the world around you and what happens. 197 00:09:36,400 --> 00:09:39,760 Speaker 1: So the idea of a locus of control comes from 198 00:09:39,840 --> 00:09:42,800 Speaker 1: psychology and refers to how much a person believes they 199 00:09:42,840 --> 00:09:45,840 Speaker 1: can shape the events in their life. It is essentially 200 00:09:45,880 --> 00:09:49,439 Speaker 1: about whether someone feels their choices and actions truly influence 201 00:09:49,600 --> 00:09:53,720 Speaker 1: what happens around them. How much of a locus of 202 00:09:53,760 --> 00:09:55,000 Speaker 1: control do you feel you have? 203 00:09:57,120 --> 00:10:00,640 Speaker 3: Honestly, I feel like it ebbs and flows, yes, from 204 00:10:00,720 --> 00:10:04,360 Speaker 3: day to day, depending on how I feel. But I 205 00:10:04,559 --> 00:10:08,160 Speaker 3: do notice that when I sort of like pause for 206 00:10:08,200 --> 00:10:10,920 Speaker 3: a second and say, like that's out of my control. 207 00:10:11,120 --> 00:10:13,280 Speaker 3: I can leave that, or like I can do this 208 00:10:13,320 --> 00:10:15,559 Speaker 3: one thing and I know that will make me feel better. 209 00:10:15,840 --> 00:10:18,040 Speaker 3: Like I literally did that this morning by putting on 210 00:10:18,160 --> 00:10:20,320 Speaker 3: I was like kind of feeling a little bit flat, 211 00:10:20,880 --> 00:10:22,880 Speaker 3: and then I was like, no, I want today to 212 00:10:22,960 --> 00:10:25,720 Speaker 3: be a good day. So I put on the throwback 213 00:10:25,760 --> 00:10:26,760 Speaker 3: Thursday and like. 214 00:10:26,640 --> 00:10:28,520 Speaker 2: What was it? It's a good one. 215 00:10:29,120 --> 00:10:32,240 Speaker 3: So it actually was. The title was can you guess 216 00:10:32,280 --> 00:10:36,280 Speaker 3: what it is? And I'm pretty sure it's that every 217 00:10:36,320 --> 00:10:37,520 Speaker 3: song title is a question. 218 00:10:38,240 --> 00:10:41,680 Speaker 2: So it's just like it was so cool. 219 00:10:41,960 --> 00:10:44,360 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, So like then I was like, I just 220 00:10:44,800 --> 00:10:46,600 Speaker 3: had a little dance while I made my coffee and 221 00:10:46,600 --> 00:10:49,800 Speaker 3: made my toes and like ripped open my boyfriend's office 222 00:10:49,800 --> 00:10:53,280 Speaker 3: store and like danced and like made him like get involved. 223 00:10:53,320 --> 00:10:55,600 Speaker 2: And then I was like, okay, bye, like again, I'm 224 00:10:55,640 --> 00:10:59,520 Speaker 2: done until I needed get out. But anyway, answer your question, 225 00:10:59,880 --> 00:11:02,720 Speaker 2: I feel like it. It kind of flows ebbs and flows, 226 00:11:02,880 --> 00:11:03,640 Speaker 2: and that's okay. 227 00:11:03,679 --> 00:11:06,440 Speaker 1: That's a good way to also understand that, you know, 228 00:11:06,520 --> 00:11:11,000 Speaker 1: these things aren't like set and done, you know. But 229 00:11:11,080 --> 00:11:15,760 Speaker 1: people with strong internal locus of control are convinced that 230 00:11:15,800 --> 00:11:19,320 Speaker 1: their efforts directly affect their outcomes, and then because of 231 00:11:19,320 --> 00:11:24,200 Speaker 1: this belief, they often experience lower stress levels, higher confidence, 232 00:11:24,480 --> 00:11:28,400 Speaker 1: and even better overall health because they're capable of steering 233 00:11:28,559 --> 00:11:33,120 Speaker 1: their circumstances and their mood, which helps complete the motivation 234 00:11:33,200 --> 00:11:37,280 Speaker 1: that comes with the trajectory of joy. On the other hand, 235 00:11:37,440 --> 00:11:41,760 Speaker 1: individuals with external locus of control tend to view life 236 00:11:41,840 --> 00:11:45,360 Speaker 1: as something that simply happens to them. Yeah, so it's 237 00:11:45,400 --> 00:11:49,720 Speaker 1: shaped by like fate or chance or other people's decisions. 238 00:11:49,800 --> 00:11:52,080 Speaker 1: And I love the idea of like fate and a 239 00:11:52,160 --> 00:11:54,079 Speaker 1: chance and like magic and blah blah blah blah blah. 240 00:11:54,120 --> 00:11:55,559 Speaker 2: I don't I. 241 00:11:55,559 --> 00:11:57,959 Speaker 1: Don't ever want to feel like those things don't exist 242 00:11:58,440 --> 00:11:59,640 Speaker 1: like that, you know, and that's. 243 00:11:59,440 --> 00:12:01,760 Speaker 2: Like like per like and you know, everyone's different. 244 00:12:02,240 --> 00:12:08,640 Speaker 1: But having an external locus of control can often create 245 00:12:09,400 --> 00:12:13,840 Speaker 1: greater anxiety, frustration, and a tendency to blame external forces 246 00:12:13,840 --> 00:12:17,160 Speaker 1: for setbacks. It can kind of be that person that 247 00:12:17,200 --> 00:12:19,680 Speaker 1: maybe it pops into your mind that they're always a victim. Yeah, 248 00:12:19,720 --> 00:12:23,200 Speaker 1: everyone's always mean to them, like this has happened to them, 249 00:12:23,400 --> 00:12:25,560 Speaker 1: blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah. Nothing's ever 250 00:12:26,360 --> 00:12:30,120 Speaker 1: their responsibility in their control. Life is simply happening to them, 251 00:12:30,160 --> 00:12:33,360 Speaker 1: And over time it can trap you if you have 252 00:12:33,480 --> 00:12:38,439 Speaker 1: this thought process in a cycle of powerlessness, that reinforces 253 00:12:38,559 --> 00:12:41,079 Speaker 1: the idea that you never had control in the first place, 254 00:12:41,400 --> 00:12:43,640 Speaker 1: which is never a situation that we want to be in. 255 00:12:43,960 --> 00:12:46,760 Speaker 1: So exactly like what you did this morning, The best 256 00:12:46,760 --> 00:12:49,240 Speaker 1: thing about things like this is becoming aware that they exist. 257 00:12:49,600 --> 00:12:52,680 Speaker 1: So being like, okay, like now I know what locus 258 00:12:52,679 --> 00:12:56,600 Speaker 1: of control is. I can recognize when or if it's 259 00:12:56,640 --> 00:13:00,040 Speaker 1: happening within my life. I think knowing that what so, 260 00:13:00,080 --> 00:13:02,360 Speaker 1: what it is is a good way to like what 261 00:13:02,400 --> 00:13:08,000 Speaker 1: you're saying. How this morning you were like, h vibe shift, yeah, 262 00:13:08,080 --> 00:13:11,920 Speaker 1: the violu. I'm waiting for the day to happen to me. 263 00:13:12,200 --> 00:13:15,080 Speaker 1: I'm not going off to experience the day, so let's 264 00:13:15,120 --> 00:13:17,600 Speaker 1: switch that, erase it. 265 00:13:17,679 --> 00:13:20,440 Speaker 3: And it reminded me, or relates to a tip that 266 00:13:20,520 --> 00:13:22,719 Speaker 3: I saw when I was doing research for this episode, 267 00:13:23,120 --> 00:13:26,479 Speaker 3: and it's from a TikTok creator whose name is Catherine, 268 00:13:26,600 --> 00:13:28,920 Speaker 3: And I'll link the TikTok in the show notes, but 269 00:13:28,960 --> 00:13:32,560 Speaker 3: this particular post got seven hundred and seventy seven thousand likes. 270 00:13:34,840 --> 00:13:35,200 Speaker 2: Lucky. 271 00:13:35,760 --> 00:13:37,280 Speaker 3: I'll have to look at what the angel number is 272 00:13:37,280 --> 00:13:40,560 Speaker 3: for seven seven seven, but yeah, lucky number. But yeah, 273 00:13:40,559 --> 00:13:42,920 Speaker 3: So obviously this resonated with a lot of people. And 274 00:13:42,960 --> 00:13:45,640 Speaker 3: in this TikTok she said the best skill you can 275 00:13:45,679 --> 00:13:47,840 Speaker 3: develop is to figure out how to stay in a 276 00:13:47,880 --> 00:13:51,400 Speaker 3: good mood. And she talked about how it's not about 277 00:13:51,559 --> 00:13:55,120 Speaker 3: ignoring your problems. You still need to acknowledge your problems 278 00:13:55,160 --> 00:13:58,199 Speaker 3: and any chaos that's happening in the day, but recognizing 279 00:13:58,280 --> 00:14:01,160 Speaker 3: you can still have a good day, bad moments in it. 280 00:14:01,720 --> 00:14:04,040 Speaker 3: So this isn't like toxic positivity, being. 281 00:14:03,960 --> 00:14:06,199 Speaker 2: Like every day is the perfect day, but. 282 00:14:06,160 --> 00:14:08,599 Speaker 3: At least trying to go into it being like, overall, 283 00:14:08,880 --> 00:14:10,520 Speaker 3: this is going to be a good day, and I 284 00:14:10,600 --> 00:14:12,920 Speaker 3: know that there's maybe gonna be a couple of setbacks 285 00:14:13,040 --> 00:14:15,600 Speaker 3: or not so fun moments in it. Yeah, and having 286 00:14:15,640 --> 00:14:20,200 Speaker 3: that sense of stoicism which allows you to let go 287 00:14:20,280 --> 00:14:22,880 Speaker 3: of those things that you can't control and embrace the 288 00:14:22,920 --> 00:14:23,600 Speaker 3: things that you can. 289 00:14:24,800 --> 00:14:26,400 Speaker 2: So yeah, I really loved that. 290 00:14:26,720 --> 00:14:29,160 Speaker 1: As I'm getting older, the more I stop believing in 291 00:14:29,240 --> 00:14:31,040 Speaker 1: the idea of woke up on the wrong. 292 00:14:30,840 --> 00:14:31,520 Speaker 2: Side of the bed. 293 00:14:31,960 --> 00:14:36,560 Speaker 1: M I think it's potentially just an excuse to like 294 00:14:36,920 --> 00:14:40,720 Speaker 1: winge or moan or focus on the negative. And I 295 00:14:40,760 --> 00:14:44,400 Speaker 1: think just waking up and being grumpy and just saying 296 00:14:44,440 --> 00:14:45,840 Speaker 1: I woke up on the wrong side of the. 297 00:14:45,760 --> 00:14:48,000 Speaker 2: Bed is just like the shittest excuse. 298 00:14:48,800 --> 00:14:52,200 Speaker 1: And there's it just is such a waste of time, 299 00:14:53,000 --> 00:14:56,920 Speaker 1: like you know, because exactly what you're saying, like the 300 00:14:57,080 --> 00:14:59,680 Speaker 1: fucking annoying moments are gonna happen, the spanner is going 301 00:14:59,720 --> 00:15:00,440 Speaker 1: to get thrown. 302 00:15:01,120 --> 00:15:03,160 Speaker 2: You might as well duck, dip, dive, duck. 303 00:15:03,040 --> 00:15:06,600 Speaker 1: And dodge, you know, like if you are going to 304 00:15:06,680 --> 00:15:09,400 Speaker 1: go through every single day with the hope that there's 305 00:15:09,480 --> 00:15:12,880 Speaker 1: no spanner. You've got to wake up and realize you're 306 00:15:12,920 --> 00:15:18,120 Speaker 1: in a toolshit, you know there's gonna be a spanner. 307 00:15:18,240 --> 00:15:20,720 Speaker 1: Just pick up a hammer, you know. I don't know 308 00:15:20,760 --> 00:15:23,560 Speaker 1: where my fucking metaphors come from, like it, and they 309 00:15:23,600 --> 00:15:27,120 Speaker 1: scare me. I definitely was let someone's dad. 310 00:15:26,880 --> 00:15:31,840 Speaker 2: And for sure, which I love. But the average. 311 00:15:31,480 --> 00:15:37,240 Speaker 1: Person is awake for approximately sixteen to eighteen hours per day, right, 312 00:15:38,320 --> 00:15:41,240 Speaker 1: how depressing would it be to realize you were spending 313 00:15:41,600 --> 00:15:45,720 Speaker 1: sixteen hours straight not having a good time. Yeah, you know, 314 00:15:45,960 --> 00:15:49,960 Speaker 1: like sixteen hours criticizing the way that you look, sixteen 315 00:15:50,000 --> 00:15:53,080 Speaker 1: hours stressing whether or not some loser has like texted 316 00:15:53,120 --> 00:15:56,920 Speaker 1: you back, sixteen hours stressing about a three pm meeting 317 00:15:56,960 --> 00:15:59,440 Speaker 1: with a boss that you don't even respect. You know, 318 00:15:59,720 --> 00:16:03,560 Speaker 1: Like the greatest gift we have is free will and 319 00:16:03,600 --> 00:16:06,000 Speaker 1: the fact that you can choose how you want to 320 00:16:06,000 --> 00:16:09,320 Speaker 1: spend that sixteen to eighteen hours a day, And the 321 00:16:09,440 --> 00:16:11,880 Speaker 1: easiest choice in that is to choose to have a 322 00:16:11,880 --> 00:16:15,560 Speaker 1: good time. Obviously, there's going to be moments where less 323 00:16:15,600 --> 00:16:19,280 Speaker 1: than vibe, But I do think we have this tendency 324 00:16:19,320 --> 00:16:21,680 Speaker 1: to focus on things that we could probably let go 325 00:16:21,760 --> 00:16:22,640 Speaker 1: of a lot. 326 00:16:22,600 --> 00:16:24,880 Speaker 2: Quicker than we do. Yeah, of course. 327 00:16:25,000 --> 00:16:25,360 Speaker 1: Yeah. 328 00:16:25,400 --> 00:16:27,840 Speaker 3: And I think as well, like it's important to acknowledge 329 00:16:27,880 --> 00:16:32,359 Speaker 3: we're not talking about when people are experiencing genuine depression 330 00:16:32,640 --> 00:16:35,800 Speaker 3: and mental health issues, but also acknowledging that you don't 331 00:16:35,840 --> 00:16:37,760 Speaker 3: have to have a bad day every day, and if 332 00:16:37,800 --> 00:16:41,440 Speaker 3: you feel like that you are then perhaps part of 333 00:16:42,240 --> 00:16:45,880 Speaker 3: reshaping that is looking into maybe booking an appointment with 334 00:16:45,920 --> 00:16:48,480 Speaker 3: your GP and talking about how you're feeling, or looking 335 00:16:48,560 --> 00:16:50,960 Speaker 3: into mental health plan options and things that you can 336 00:16:51,040 --> 00:16:54,000 Speaker 3: do to feel better, Because I think if you have 337 00:16:54,120 --> 00:16:56,440 Speaker 3: always felt like that, and you wake up like that 338 00:16:56,600 --> 00:16:59,120 Speaker 3: every day and you do have that sense of. 339 00:16:59,480 --> 00:17:02,040 Speaker 2: But that like me, That's what I'm saying exactly. 340 00:17:02,160 --> 00:17:05,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, that was me like four years ago, five years ago, 341 00:17:05,600 --> 00:17:07,920 Speaker 1: and you think it's just then every day I. 342 00:17:08,119 --> 00:17:10,160 Speaker 2: Just was like today's not my day. 343 00:17:10,760 --> 00:17:13,560 Speaker 1: Was literally in the pits of like probably some of 344 00:17:13,560 --> 00:17:16,520 Speaker 1: the most hardcore depression ever. It was so hard to 345 00:17:16,560 --> 00:17:19,399 Speaker 1: pull myself out of those moods and it would just 346 00:17:19,520 --> 00:17:20,960 Speaker 1: stay like hooked on these things. 347 00:17:20,960 --> 00:17:22,440 Speaker 2: And absolutely I agree. 348 00:17:22,160 --> 00:17:24,119 Speaker 1: And I think it is really important to say that 349 00:17:24,600 --> 00:17:27,760 Speaker 1: sometimes you do need help being able to steer your 350 00:17:27,760 --> 00:17:30,720 Speaker 1: brain away from it, and I think that's really good 351 00:17:30,720 --> 00:17:31,480 Speaker 1: to acknowledge. 352 00:17:31,800 --> 00:17:33,880 Speaker 2: But I also wanted. 353 00:17:33,560 --> 00:17:35,680 Speaker 1: To share this because if you are feeling like that, 354 00:17:35,760 --> 00:17:39,320 Speaker 1: it's not forever and that like you do have more 355 00:17:39,359 --> 00:17:42,960 Speaker 1: control and choice and it's like a muscle. The more 356 00:17:43,040 --> 00:17:46,120 Speaker 1: that you decide, okay, do you know what? That's less 357 00:17:46,160 --> 00:17:48,280 Speaker 1: than ideal. But I'm not going to get too deep 358 00:17:48,320 --> 00:17:49,720 Speaker 1: on it now and I'm not going to focus on that. 359 00:17:49,760 --> 00:17:51,359 Speaker 2: I'm going to do this instead, and I'm going to 360 00:17:51,440 --> 00:17:55,679 Speaker 2: try to shake it off. You'll probably like a yo yo, 361 00:17:56,240 --> 00:17:56,760 Speaker 2: go back. 362 00:17:57,200 --> 00:18:00,560 Speaker 1: Like it's like when you meditate right like, which I 363 00:18:00,600 --> 00:18:03,040 Speaker 1: don't do that often. This is the example of whenever 364 00:18:03,080 --> 00:18:04,960 Speaker 1: you go to like a meditation teacher, they always say 365 00:18:04,960 --> 00:18:08,399 Speaker 1: like people go, oh, I overthink, I overthink, I can't concentrate, 366 00:18:08,480 --> 00:18:10,320 Speaker 1: and it say like, that's okay, that's what that. 367 00:18:10,480 --> 00:18:11,800 Speaker 2: Happens to everyone. 368 00:18:11,680 --> 00:18:14,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, that it's like when you start thinking about something 369 00:18:14,320 --> 00:18:18,480 Speaker 1: to slowly bring yourself back to focusing on calm and relaxation. 370 00:18:18,720 --> 00:18:22,040 Speaker 1: That's kind of the outlook that I have with a 371 00:18:22,040 --> 00:18:25,000 Speaker 1: good day mentality or I'm gonna have a good day mentality. 372 00:18:25,040 --> 00:18:28,000 Speaker 1: That it's like when that spanner happens when the shitty 373 00:18:28,040 --> 00:18:30,560 Speaker 1: thing happens when I'm not having a good day, that's 374 00:18:30,600 --> 00:18:33,199 Speaker 1: okay to sit with it, but try to pull it 375 00:18:33,280 --> 00:18:37,320 Speaker 1: back to the Okay, I've acknowledged it. 376 00:18:37,960 --> 00:18:41,440 Speaker 2: We're there and I'm going to move on. Next one 377 00:18:41,640 --> 00:18:42,000 Speaker 2: hit me. 378 00:18:43,080 --> 00:18:45,800 Speaker 3: My next tier is to set a daily mission statement, 379 00:18:46,920 --> 00:18:49,280 Speaker 3: So for me personally, and. 380 00:18:50,000 --> 00:18:51,840 Speaker 2: What's your daily mission statement? Aware of this. 381 00:18:52,720 --> 00:18:56,639 Speaker 3: My daily mission statement was actually to be in a 382 00:18:56,640 --> 00:19:01,639 Speaker 3: good mood today. So gonna try to do whatever I 383 00:19:01,680 --> 00:19:05,960 Speaker 3: can to keep that, keep that gun, keep that keep 384 00:19:06,800 --> 00:19:11,000 Speaker 3: keep the Vibesaldro vibes exactly like it. Yeah, but I 385 00:19:11,040 --> 00:19:13,760 Speaker 3: do think you can relate it back to anything like 386 00:19:13,800 --> 00:19:15,680 Speaker 3: it could be something broad like that, or it could 387 00:19:15,760 --> 00:19:18,920 Speaker 3: be in relation to work or like life admin or 388 00:19:18,960 --> 00:19:21,119 Speaker 3: something fun that you want to do. Like really, you 389 00:19:21,160 --> 00:19:23,919 Speaker 3: can cater it to whatever you want however you feel. 390 00:19:24,000 --> 00:19:27,280 Speaker 3: But for me personally, and like Al is very aware 391 00:19:27,320 --> 00:19:29,880 Speaker 3: of this as well, that for me, if I'm having 392 00:19:29,960 --> 00:19:31,600 Speaker 3: a bad day a lot of the time, it's because 393 00:19:31,600 --> 00:19:34,360 Speaker 3: there's like a lot going on and I feel out 394 00:19:34,440 --> 00:19:37,840 Speaker 3: of control of like a bunch of different plates that 395 00:19:37,840 --> 00:19:40,959 Speaker 3: we're spinning, or you know, whether that's like we've got 396 00:19:41,119 --> 00:19:42,800 Speaker 3: you know, some social things happening, and then I'm like, 397 00:19:42,800 --> 00:19:44,280 Speaker 3: oh shit, I've got to do this at home, and 398 00:19:44,320 --> 00:19:46,719 Speaker 3: you know, there's just a lot going on. So I 399 00:19:46,760 --> 00:19:51,680 Speaker 3: think that focusing on a single daily mission statement can 400 00:19:51,720 --> 00:19:54,240 Speaker 3: give you that north star to be like, as long 401 00:19:54,280 --> 00:19:57,560 Speaker 3: as I can achieve this one thing, then I'm in 402 00:19:57,600 --> 00:20:01,280 Speaker 3: control and it can be fun or it can be productive, 403 00:20:01,600 --> 00:20:03,160 Speaker 3: it can be whatever you want it to be. 404 00:20:03,400 --> 00:20:06,920 Speaker 2: I did see a study about multitasking. 405 00:20:06,320 --> 00:20:10,679 Speaker 3: And how that really does negatively impact you, even on 406 00:20:10,720 --> 00:20:12,960 Speaker 3: a long term as well as just in a single day. 407 00:20:13,560 --> 00:20:16,280 Speaker 2: So apparently task switching can cost up to. 408 00:20:16,160 --> 00:20:19,760 Speaker 3: Forty percent of your productive time due to the cognitive 409 00:20:19,840 --> 00:20:22,639 Speaker 3: load of moving between tasks. 410 00:20:23,359 --> 00:20:25,960 Speaker 2: So I think a lot of us we have to multitask. 411 00:20:26,119 --> 00:20:29,879 Speaker 2: It's just part of life. Es actually, like mums exactly, 412 00:20:30,000 --> 00:20:32,919 Speaker 2: you know, we're not even there. We don't even have children. 413 00:20:33,240 --> 00:20:37,160 Speaker 2: I imagine we would puzz away literally. 414 00:20:37,359 --> 00:20:39,320 Speaker 3: So I am also saying that I know that this 415 00:20:39,520 --> 00:20:41,159 Speaker 3: is like a privilege, and oh. 416 00:20:41,000 --> 00:20:43,479 Speaker 1: But everyone that's not me saying that, like anyone who 417 00:20:43,520 --> 00:20:47,320 Speaker 1: doesn't have kids can't be stressed, you know, like everyone 418 00:20:47,560 --> 00:20:51,480 Speaker 1: is in their own pond with their own fishes, were 419 00:20:51,560 --> 00:20:51,800 Speaker 1: in a. 420 00:20:51,800 --> 00:20:54,040 Speaker 2: Pond where are we going to go next? 421 00:20:54,080 --> 00:20:54,560 Speaker 1: I don't know. 422 00:20:54,920 --> 00:20:57,720 Speaker 2: I'm excited like the magic fucking school bus. Bitch, yes 423 00:20:57,920 --> 00:20:59,320 Speaker 2: with the freeze, no. 424 00:21:02,000 --> 00:21:02,160 Speaker 1: Love. 425 00:21:02,600 --> 00:21:05,320 Speaker 3: So while multitasking may feel like it's more effective and 426 00:21:05,359 --> 00:21:09,879 Speaker 3: more productive, it actually can result in significant time loss 427 00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:13,680 Speaker 3: and significantly reduce your productivity on the task that you're 428 00:21:13,720 --> 00:21:18,520 Speaker 3: working on. And this same article also found that prolonged 429 00:21:18,640 --> 00:21:23,480 Speaker 3: multitasking can result in brain hyperactivity that even has connections 430 00:21:23,720 --> 00:21:28,840 Speaker 3: with people who do experience anxiety and depression. So I 431 00:21:28,880 --> 00:21:33,280 Speaker 3: think that we all have very busy lives. It's very 432 00:21:33,400 --> 00:21:36,560 Speaker 3: unlikely that every single day we just have one task 433 00:21:36,960 --> 00:21:38,760 Speaker 3: on our list and that's all we have to do. 434 00:21:39,320 --> 00:21:42,360 Speaker 3: But I do think that setting a daily mission statement 435 00:21:42,480 --> 00:21:45,600 Speaker 3: can help you focus at least most of your energy 436 00:21:45,760 --> 00:21:48,720 Speaker 3: on one thing, so that even when you go to 437 00:21:48,720 --> 00:21:52,280 Speaker 3: bed at night, you know, well, I achieved that and 438 00:21:52,320 --> 00:21:54,920 Speaker 3: that's what I set out to do today. Everything else 439 00:21:55,000 --> 00:21:58,000 Speaker 3: was nice to have, And that can help you regain 440 00:21:58,040 --> 00:22:00,800 Speaker 3: some focus and clarity on what you should be concentrating 441 00:22:00,840 --> 00:22:02,000 Speaker 3: on that particular day. 442 00:22:02,359 --> 00:22:04,160 Speaker 1: I like that, and I do think that ties into 443 00:22:04,400 --> 00:22:10,840 Speaker 1: this multi casking self improvement productivity crack drug that like 444 00:22:11,040 --> 00:22:12,960 Speaker 1: is literally all over the internet. 445 00:22:13,040 --> 00:22:14,080 Speaker 2: Of like my. 446 00:22:14,119 --> 00:22:16,040 Speaker 1: Five to nine before my nine to five and my 447 00:22:16,280 --> 00:22:17,919 Speaker 1: five to nine out of the nine to five, and 448 00:22:17,920 --> 00:22:19,320 Speaker 1: then the tho when do you go to bed? 449 00:22:19,560 --> 00:22:23,160 Speaker 3: Literally like the five to nine, then the timestamp TikTok 450 00:22:23,200 --> 00:22:25,240 Speaker 3: of your day and then you're five to nine, Like, 451 00:22:25,480 --> 00:22:26,440 Speaker 3: oh my god. 452 00:22:26,880 --> 00:22:31,080 Speaker 1: That's how I know my algorithm has gotten confused. Whenever 453 00:22:31,119 --> 00:22:34,520 Speaker 1: it's one like a gym bro and he's like doing 454 00:22:34,600 --> 00:22:36,720 Speaker 1: his like protein at for him, and I'm like, are 455 00:22:36,760 --> 00:22:37,280 Speaker 1: you lost? 456 00:22:37,480 --> 00:22:37,800 Speaker 2: Yeah. 457 00:22:38,640 --> 00:22:41,800 Speaker 3: Like, there's some Australian TikTokers especially who do this, and 458 00:22:41,840 --> 00:22:44,800 Speaker 3: I love it because they're actually funny and they're not 459 00:22:44,920 --> 00:22:45,399 Speaker 3: based on. 460 00:22:45,840 --> 00:22:47,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, like being super productive. 461 00:22:47,480 --> 00:22:50,119 Speaker 3: Like it genuinely seems like a timestamp version of their 462 00:22:50,200 --> 00:22:52,760 Speaker 3: day and they have moments where they're like it'll be 463 00:22:52,800 --> 00:22:56,040 Speaker 3: like three point thirty talking shit and stuff like that. 464 00:22:56,119 --> 00:22:57,960 Speaker 2: So I'm like, I actually do love that or love 465 00:22:58,200 --> 00:23:01,000 Speaker 2: love that shit, and it's just a each to their own. 466 00:23:01,320 --> 00:23:03,600 Speaker 1: I don't want to yuck people's young, yeah, and like 467 00:23:03,960 --> 00:23:07,840 Speaker 1: that's also respect, you know, just not for me. Yeah, 468 00:23:07,920 --> 00:23:13,440 Speaker 1: the Virgos and capricauns out there, Okay. My next tip 469 00:23:13,480 --> 00:23:16,400 Speaker 1: on how to have a good day is get dressed. 470 00:23:17,080 --> 00:23:20,359 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, So you might have seen this doing the 471 00:23:20,480 --> 00:23:21,200 Speaker 1: round as well. 472 00:23:21,240 --> 00:23:23,760 Speaker 2: But recent video from Nara Smith on the. 473 00:23:23,720 --> 00:23:27,159 Speaker 1: J Shatty podcast has gone viral for saying that she 474 00:23:27,280 --> 00:23:30,639 Speaker 1: doesn't own sweatpants and that. 475 00:23:31,840 --> 00:23:34,240 Speaker 2: Could never be me. Yeah. 476 00:23:34,320 --> 00:23:38,560 Speaker 1: Again, each to their own, but it did kind of 477 00:23:38,600 --> 00:23:42,520 Speaker 1: tie into this whole narrative around like getting dressed for 478 00:23:42,560 --> 00:23:44,600 Speaker 1: the day and how like getting dressed is like this 479 00:23:44,720 --> 00:23:50,240 Speaker 1: boundary point and to that I do understand to a degree, right, So, 480 00:23:50,240 --> 00:23:53,399 Speaker 1: social psychologists suggests that what we wear is more than 481 00:23:53,520 --> 00:23:56,160 Speaker 1: just fabric on our bodies, but an extension of who 482 00:23:56,200 --> 00:23:59,679 Speaker 1: we are, and simply putting on clothes can trigger a 483 00:23:59,760 --> 00:24:03,560 Speaker 1: men shift that influences mood and outlook. And I do 484 00:24:03,600 --> 00:24:07,280 Speaker 1: think we got quite a strong understanding. 485 00:24:06,640 --> 00:24:09,280 Speaker 2: Of this during the Pea years. 486 00:24:10,520 --> 00:24:16,119 Speaker 1: But it's actually a phenomenon called enclosed cognition. So it 487 00:24:16,240 --> 00:24:18,679 Speaker 1: highlights how clothing doesn't just sit on the surface but 488 00:24:18,880 --> 00:24:23,280 Speaker 1: shapes our psychological state, because your outfit can alter the 489 00:24:23,280 --> 00:24:25,600 Speaker 1: way that you think and behave not only because of 490 00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:29,439 Speaker 1: its appearance, but how it feels against your skin, and 491 00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:32,520 Speaker 1: how the very act of getting dressed is a ritual 492 00:24:32,640 --> 00:24:34,240 Speaker 1: that impacts your mindset. 493 00:24:35,040 --> 00:24:38,960 Speaker 2: And I was like absolutely, yeah, like that is so true. 494 00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:41,920 Speaker 2: Like if I. 495 00:24:40,720 --> 00:24:43,720 Speaker 1: Wake up and I don't get changed and I sit 496 00:24:43,840 --> 00:24:45,800 Speaker 1: in my pajamas until. 497 00:24:45,520 --> 00:24:49,280 Speaker 2: Like midday, I feel like a sluggy piece of shit. Yeah. 498 00:24:49,400 --> 00:24:53,160 Speaker 1: Same, Like I do not feel like I've had that 499 00:24:53,240 --> 00:24:55,640 Speaker 1: like mental switch in my brain that I'm like, oh, 500 00:24:55,920 --> 00:24:58,119 Speaker 1: like the days here, the sun is shining, the coffee 501 00:24:58,119 --> 00:24:59,400 Speaker 1: is flung through my veins, the. 502 00:24:59,320 --> 00:25:00,000 Speaker 2: Tank is cleaned. 503 00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:05,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, the tank is clean in there, 504 00:25:06,080 --> 00:25:09,040 Speaker 1: like getting dressed in the morning is a the tank 505 00:25:09,160 --> 00:25:12,600 Speaker 1: is clean vibe. But true, if you don't get it, 506 00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:16,919 Speaker 1: get out finding NEMO for everyone who is not cool. 507 00:25:17,960 --> 00:25:18,359 Speaker 2: But yeah. 508 00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:21,960 Speaker 1: So this idea stems from the broader theory of embodied cognition, 509 00:25:22,440 --> 00:25:27,000 Speaker 1: which proposes that our physical actions like slipping into an outfit, 510 00:25:28,119 --> 00:25:31,480 Speaker 1: can shape mental processes just as much as our thoughts 511 00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:36,320 Speaker 1: influence what we do. So it really, it sounds so obvious, 512 00:25:36,640 --> 00:25:40,480 Speaker 1: and I know that, but it truly. 513 00:25:40,320 --> 00:25:42,960 Speaker 2: Is such an important step in the process. 514 00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:47,280 Speaker 1: And also being able to maybe put an extra ten 515 00:25:47,920 --> 00:25:51,040 Speaker 1: minutes five minutes into your morning routine to think, Okay, 516 00:25:51,080 --> 00:25:52,320 Speaker 1: what do I want to wear tomorrow? That's going to 517 00:25:52,359 --> 00:25:56,720 Speaker 1: make me excited because I know whenever I especially when 518 00:25:56,720 --> 00:25:59,400 Speaker 1: we're going into the office, like every single day when 519 00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:02,280 Speaker 1: I was wearing something that I was like, yeah, I 520 00:26:02,400 --> 00:26:03,159 Speaker 1: like what I'm wearing. 521 00:26:03,400 --> 00:26:04,960 Speaker 2: That was a good day. It was it was a 522 00:26:04,960 --> 00:26:05,360 Speaker 2: good day. 523 00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:08,280 Speaker 3: It improves the day by at least thirty percent. 524 00:26:08,880 --> 00:26:14,840 Speaker 1: Oh, I wou'd even go ahead and say it's. 525 00:26:13,320 --> 00:26:18,920 Speaker 2: A good outfit. Some good undies that changes. 526 00:26:19,080 --> 00:26:21,560 Speaker 1: That changes everything, because you know how like when you 527 00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:23,840 Speaker 1: get to the end of your washing and it's like, oh, 528 00:26:24,119 --> 00:26:30,040 Speaker 1: this is left. Those ones are so uncomfortable, and it's 529 00:26:30,080 --> 00:26:32,320 Speaker 1: like the ones that look like the Spider Man mask. 530 00:26:32,400 --> 00:26:37,160 Speaker 2: Fully like a yeah, yeah, it's always that. 531 00:26:38,600 --> 00:26:41,800 Speaker 3: No, I completely agree, And I don't know that the 532 00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:44,399 Speaker 3: Naira Smith comment like kind of made me be like 533 00:26:44,760 --> 00:26:46,719 Speaker 3: and because I've heard that before, I can't remember there 534 00:26:46,760 --> 00:26:48,000 Speaker 3: was some fashion designer. 535 00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:51,200 Speaker 2: It was either like Tom Ford or Carl Lagerfeld or 536 00:26:51,240 --> 00:26:51,840 Speaker 2: some yeah. 537 00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:57,160 Speaker 3: Yeah who said that like tracksuit pants are the epitome 538 00:26:57,200 --> 00:27:00,119 Speaker 3: of giving up or something like that. But I do 539 00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:02,120 Speaker 3: you think that you can pick an outfit that makes 540 00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:04,360 Speaker 3: you feel confident and makes you feel like yourself and 541 00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:06,000 Speaker 3: be comfortable. 542 00:27:06,359 --> 00:27:08,199 Speaker 1: Getting dressed in the morning, ken mean and putting on 543 00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:12,160 Speaker 1: sweatpons totally like I'm not saying you need to go 544 00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:15,120 Speaker 1: and put on like a fucking Reformation dress and six 545 00:27:15,200 --> 00:27:18,440 Speaker 1: inch heels. Yeah, Like, I'm just talking about the physical 546 00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:20,520 Speaker 1: act of getting dressed in something that you're. 547 00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:24,080 Speaker 2: Like, Oh, I feel cute, I feel comfy. Don't wear 548 00:27:24,119 --> 00:27:27,439 Speaker 2: something uncomfortable. Oh no, I hate that. Yeah, I used 549 00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:31,560 Speaker 2: to wear this makes me actually cringe. 550 00:27:32,119 --> 00:27:34,240 Speaker 1: But when I first got like my first full time job, 551 00:27:34,320 --> 00:27:37,440 Speaker 1: I used to wear like fucking six inch heels into 552 00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:39,920 Speaker 1: work every day. And if you do, that's so fine, 553 00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:42,000 Speaker 1: that so you. But I wasn't wearing them for myself. 554 00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:43,800 Speaker 1: I was wearing them for like the way that they looked. 555 00:27:44,119 --> 00:27:47,600 Speaker 1: And now is someone who is literally a baby goat 556 00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:49,040 Speaker 1: in heels? 557 00:27:50,119 --> 00:27:52,280 Speaker 2: What was she down? How do you like? Stomp through 558 00:27:52,320 --> 00:27:58,359 Speaker 2: the city and those the hottest thing? You were like 559 00:27:58,400 --> 00:27:59,960 Speaker 2: my sex in the city fantasy. 560 00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:04,400 Speaker 1: Like I was being like first full time job, shopping joannealists. 561 00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:05,680 Speaker 2: And like the clip clock through the lobby. 562 00:28:05,800 --> 00:28:13,920 Speaker 1: I thought I yearving the trotters that Now yeah, now 563 00:28:14,119 --> 00:28:19,280 Speaker 1: I wear socks that are mismatched and they're both my 564 00:28:19,280 --> 00:28:23,119 Speaker 1: boyfriends and my slides and it's great And that's just 565 00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:25,080 Speaker 1: what I liked where And I still feel like I 566 00:28:25,119 --> 00:28:28,040 Speaker 1: got dressed, you did, but like, that's the thing is 567 00:28:28,080 --> 00:28:28,359 Speaker 1: that's me. 568 00:28:28,520 --> 00:28:29,200 Speaker 2: I got dressed. 569 00:28:29,240 --> 00:28:32,480 Speaker 1: I' mean like baggy jeans and a T shirt that 570 00:28:32,600 --> 00:28:34,600 Speaker 1: is probably older than my dad. 571 00:28:34,960 --> 00:28:37,600 Speaker 2: But it's good to that's my dressed. 572 00:28:37,840 --> 00:28:41,000 Speaker 1: So like, your dress can be six inch heels and 573 00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:44,000 Speaker 1: a reformation dress if you want it to be. Whatever, 574 00:28:44,120 --> 00:28:47,240 Speaker 1: like helps you feel like you are hitting that seventy 575 00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:50,320 Speaker 1: percent good day dressed energy slate. 576 00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:54,720 Speaker 3: My next air is spend at least thirty minutes socializing. 577 00:28:55,840 --> 00:28:57,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, we've got very. 578 00:28:56,920 --> 00:28:59,600 Speaker 3: Similar tips, which I feel like is a good sign. 579 00:29:00,480 --> 00:29:03,160 Speaker 3: So I saw a study that apparently socializing for more 580 00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:05,600 Speaker 3: than thirty minutes each day was one of the most 581 00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:06,960 Speaker 3: important activities to. 582 00:29:06,960 --> 00:29:08,480 Speaker 2: Have a good day. 583 00:29:08,480 --> 00:29:12,880 Speaker 3: Interestingly, there was little additional benefit beyond two hours, though. 584 00:29:13,200 --> 00:29:17,480 Speaker 2: Oh I was like thirty minutes two hours longer than that. 585 00:29:17,600 --> 00:29:19,400 Speaker 1: Go home? I love that. 586 00:29:19,600 --> 00:29:21,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, which I found that's slay. 587 00:29:22,120 --> 00:29:24,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm like sick, Like I feel like that's whore 588 00:29:24,200 --> 00:29:27,360 Speaker 3: my social batteries Like okay, cool, Like I've had enough. 589 00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:32,600 Speaker 3: But yeah, spending time with friends specifically has an almost 590 00:29:32,680 --> 00:29:36,880 Speaker 3: boundlessly positive effect. According to the researchers of the American 591 00:29:36,920 --> 00:29:39,760 Speaker 3: Time You Survey, for the average cheek who doesn't work 592 00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:43,520 Speaker 3: with it with their best friend and isn't socializing with 593 00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:44,600 Speaker 3: their friends every day. 594 00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:47,120 Speaker 1: It doesn't require sucking their best friend's blood as their 595 00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:47,800 Speaker 1: life force. 596 00:29:48,000 --> 00:29:52,440 Speaker 2: That's privately selling our relationship here, big snee on the open. 597 00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:52,840 Speaker 1: Stay. 598 00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:55,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, making a conscious effort to put that into your 599 00:29:56,000 --> 00:29:58,880 Speaker 3: day if you can, like booking the gym class with 600 00:29:58,920 --> 00:30:01,440 Speaker 3: your friend, or going for a morning swim or getting 601 00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:01,960 Speaker 3: a coffee. 602 00:30:01,960 --> 00:30:04,000 Speaker 2: If you guys are doing it more and I love it. 603 00:30:04,120 --> 00:30:06,200 Speaker 2: I've been seeing more of it. Is it because we're 604 00:30:06,360 --> 00:30:07,520 Speaker 2: the little morning walks. 605 00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:10,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, they've got their little like you know what, we'll 606 00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:13,360 Speaker 1: go have like the quick dinner. Yeah, after work, it's 607 00:30:13,360 --> 00:30:14,960 Speaker 1: like we both work in the city. We'll go get 608 00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:15,960 Speaker 1: like some pad tie. 609 00:30:15,800 --> 00:30:16,440 Speaker 2: And then go home. 610 00:30:17,080 --> 00:30:21,080 Speaker 3: Love that or like yeah, doing like journaling together or 611 00:30:21,120 --> 00:30:24,840 Speaker 3: a book club or coloring in books, like little activities 612 00:30:24,880 --> 00:30:26,680 Speaker 3: like that that as well. Don't feel like it's a 613 00:30:26,680 --> 00:30:28,320 Speaker 3: lot of effort, And also you don't have to spend 614 00:30:28,400 --> 00:30:31,360 Speaker 3: heaps of money. But whatever that is, like, try to 615 00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:34,200 Speaker 3: make a conscious effort of putting more of those in 616 00:30:35,120 --> 00:30:37,920 Speaker 3: every week. I think it's probably a lot to ask 617 00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:40,840 Speaker 3: to do that every single day, especially if you're going 618 00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:43,600 Speaker 3: from like zero to nothing, but start somewhere like in 619 00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:46,440 Speaker 3: the next week, book in two different social activities with 620 00:30:46,480 --> 00:30:48,640 Speaker 3: friends that you can do during the week. 621 00:30:48,760 --> 00:30:53,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, into it cum Okay. My final one which a 622 00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:58,160 Speaker 2: final countdown, also crucial for a good day. But that's 623 00:30:58,920 --> 00:31:01,600 Speaker 2: guaranteed a good day. That's my crashout song. 624 00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:05,880 Speaker 1: Oh really, it's a great crash out song, the final countdown. 625 00:31:05,880 --> 00:31:11,560 Speaker 2: What are you talking about? Come on, like. 626 00:31:11,560 --> 00:31:14,720 Speaker 1: Imagine like fall on, meltdown, crying in your car to 627 00:31:14,760 --> 00:31:15,680 Speaker 1: the final countdown. 628 00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:17,200 Speaker 2: You can't, yes, you. 629 00:31:17,200 --> 00:31:19,280 Speaker 3: Can, no in a good way, I mean, but then 630 00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:21,760 Speaker 3: it like you can't be sad for long? 631 00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:28,080 Speaker 2: I think it you underestimate my power. Like okay. 632 00:31:28,480 --> 00:31:33,840 Speaker 1: My final one is to verbally express either gratitude or 633 00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:39,320 Speaker 1: sincere compliment to someone in your life. I promise you, 634 00:31:39,440 --> 00:31:42,920 Speaker 1: if you give someone a compliment, a sincere compliment, or 635 00:31:42,960 --> 00:31:47,000 Speaker 1: express gratitude or thank towards someone sincerely, you will have 636 00:31:47,120 --> 00:31:51,360 Speaker 1: a good day. There is no fucking way that you 637 00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:54,040 Speaker 1: can like get when you get your coffee and you 638 00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:56,280 Speaker 1: get it from your barrister, and if you say your 639 00:31:56,280 --> 00:32:00,400 Speaker 1: hair looks really nice today, you will walk away feeling 640 00:32:00,480 --> 00:32:02,360 Speaker 1: so gassed even though you were the one that gave 641 00:32:02,480 --> 00:32:05,880 Speaker 1: the compliment. And there's actually like a law surrounding it, 642 00:32:06,120 --> 00:32:09,280 Speaker 1: the law of reciprocity, And it kicks into high gear 643 00:32:09,360 --> 00:32:12,000 Speaker 1: when you do this, and not in terms of the 644 00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:13,800 Speaker 1: act being returned. 645 00:32:13,320 --> 00:32:16,360 Speaker 2: To you, but in how you feel after you do it. 646 00:32:16,640 --> 00:32:19,800 Speaker 1: So when you give someone a compliment, you feel as 647 00:32:19,800 --> 00:32:24,200 Speaker 1: if someone gave you one. So true, right, And it 648 00:32:24,320 --> 00:32:27,360 Speaker 1: might feel a bit weird at first to you know, 649 00:32:27,720 --> 00:32:31,680 Speaker 1: maybe genuinely stop and express gratitude to someone that you know, 650 00:32:32,200 --> 00:32:34,120 Speaker 1: or to stop a stranger and give them a compliment, 651 00:32:34,360 --> 00:32:36,640 Speaker 1: but once you start, you can't stop. 652 00:32:37,240 --> 00:32:39,520 Speaker 2: It's the healthiest addiction in the world. 653 00:32:40,360 --> 00:32:44,120 Speaker 1: And like, I truly love doing this, like I love 654 00:32:44,160 --> 00:32:45,800 Speaker 1: seeing a girlipop and being like, I'm going to love 655 00:32:45,800 --> 00:32:46,200 Speaker 1: your nails. 656 00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:48,040 Speaker 2: By the way, Yeah, it looks so good. What shade 657 00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:48,960 Speaker 2: is that? Write it down? 658 00:32:49,560 --> 00:32:54,400 Speaker 1: You know, Like it's just the best way to go 659 00:32:54,440 --> 00:32:56,600 Speaker 1: about life is And. 660 00:32:56,560 --> 00:32:58,120 Speaker 2: I'm not saying like you need to look around and 661 00:32:58,120 --> 00:33:00,480 Speaker 2: be like, fuck, who can a compliment today? But I 662 00:33:00,480 --> 00:33:01,480 Speaker 2: think we've said it before. 663 00:33:01,560 --> 00:33:05,920 Speaker 3: If you are thinking something nice about somebody, say it. Yeah, 664 00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:08,480 Speaker 3: I've been doing that like a lot with not with me, 665 00:33:10,400 --> 00:33:13,520 Speaker 3: You're like, actually, you probably could peel it back. No, 666 00:33:13,640 --> 00:33:16,479 Speaker 3: But I've been doing it a lot with my partner 667 00:33:16,560 --> 00:33:20,760 Speaker 3: Chris recently, and I always say, I'm like, he'll be 668 00:33:20,800 --> 00:33:23,160 Speaker 3: saying something and I don't know, he'll like smile. 669 00:33:22,880 --> 00:33:24,960 Speaker 2: And I'll just like think he looks really beautiful, but 670 00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:26,760 Speaker 2: I won't want to like interrupt him as he's talking, 671 00:33:26,800 --> 00:33:27,360 Speaker 2: so I'll be. 672 00:33:27,280 --> 00:33:31,080 Speaker 3: Like, you know, news saying blah blah, he's smile and 673 00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:35,840 Speaker 3: you look really beautiful, and he's like, okay, Like I'm 674 00:33:35,880 --> 00:33:38,360 Speaker 3: just like, why not like because when I like see it, 675 00:33:38,360 --> 00:33:41,200 Speaker 3: it makes me, like, you know, feel nice inside, So 676 00:33:41,240 --> 00:33:42,320 Speaker 3: I'm like, why not share that? 677 00:33:42,480 --> 00:33:42,720 Speaker 1: Yeah? 678 00:33:42,760 --> 00:33:45,200 Speaker 3: But I do think they're doing that too, strangers and 679 00:33:45,360 --> 00:33:48,280 Speaker 3: just looking out for those opportunities where you can spread 680 00:33:48,360 --> 00:33:51,479 Speaker 3: something nice because as much as it isn't about you know, 681 00:33:51,600 --> 00:33:55,040 Speaker 3: like getting something back from them, but if you put 682 00:33:55,200 --> 00:33:57,320 Speaker 3: yourself in their shoes and you think about times when 683 00:33:57,320 --> 00:34:00,520 Speaker 3: people have complimented your hair or perfume or your nail, like. 684 00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:02,640 Speaker 2: You feel so gassed after doing that. 685 00:34:02,720 --> 00:34:05,760 Speaker 3: So also knowing that you're doing something really nice for 686 00:34:05,840 --> 00:34:08,279 Speaker 3: somebody else, like it's a win win. 687 00:34:08,560 --> 00:34:12,400 Speaker 2: Yeah. But to wrap this episode, I have a really. 688 00:34:12,120 --> 00:34:15,480 Speaker 1: Good quote that is going to be like your kick 689 00:34:15,560 --> 00:34:18,240 Speaker 1: up the bum of motivation to put these steps in place. 690 00:34:18,960 --> 00:34:22,040 Speaker 2: And it's from a creator called Frankie Simmons. 691 00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:24,360 Speaker 1: I'll link her below, and it's You're better at planning 692 00:34:24,360 --> 00:34:27,160 Speaker 1: than you think you are. A successful schedule or to 693 00:34:27,200 --> 00:34:29,520 Speaker 1: do list for your day is not one where you 694 00:34:29,560 --> 00:34:34,359 Speaker 1: get done every single thing on the schedule. A successful 695 00:34:34,360 --> 00:34:36,600 Speaker 1: plan for your day is one where you get more 696 00:34:36,640 --> 00:34:39,080 Speaker 1: done than you would have without the plan. 697 00:34:39,719 --> 00:34:40,680 Speaker 2: I like that right. 698 00:34:40,760 --> 00:34:42,800 Speaker 3: It's a good way to wrap the episode, I feel 699 00:34:42,840 --> 00:34:47,120 Speaker 3: because it encompasses everything. So often we like just write 700 00:34:47,200 --> 00:34:49,880 Speaker 3: these to do lists and plans a productivity of like 701 00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:51,400 Speaker 3: I'm going to do all these things and if I 702 00:34:51,440 --> 00:34:53,440 Speaker 3: don't get all this done, then I haven't succeeded. 703 00:34:53,480 --> 00:34:56,120 Speaker 2: I haven't had a good day. I haven't done being mainbong. 704 00:34:56,400 --> 00:34:59,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, but maybe shifting that and not even maybe shifting 705 00:34:59,680 --> 00:35:03,440 Speaker 1: that is looking at it like, Okay, these are my plans, 706 00:35:03,840 --> 00:35:06,480 Speaker 1: this is what I want to do, and if you 707 00:35:06,680 --> 00:35:09,359 Speaker 1: got half of that done, it's more than you would 708 00:35:09,400 --> 00:35:10,560 Speaker 1: have done without a plant. 709 00:35:10,640 --> 00:35:16,920 Speaker 2: Mmmm in your fingertips by a little chick. Fucking well, 710 00:35:17,480 --> 00:35:20,560 Speaker 2: thanks chicks. That is a wrap for this week's episode. 711 00:35:20,680 --> 00:35:24,719 Speaker 2: We love to be in your ear hose, and we'll 712 00:35:24,760 --> 00:35:30,759 Speaker 2: see it on this day. We'll see that magic. See 713 00:35:30,880 --> 00:35:36,640 Speaker 2: the live show Brisbvegas. We're coming for Bye bye you 714 00:35:37,120 --> 00:35:38,359 Speaker 2: remember