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Speaker 1: This is the fitting in Whip Her with Kate Richie podcast.

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Speaker 2: I liked, well, she's no good, he's got an athlete

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Speaker 2: box wasted. We don't make a list of.

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Speaker 3: This is great?

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Speaker 1: Isn't a start of a relationship? Three is and it

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Speaker 1: doesn't matter. You can always draw up your frozen cons

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Speaker 1: Fitty and I will help you work out whether you

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Speaker 1: should be in that relationship. Alex and Caring by Alo Hi, Alex,

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Speaker 1: this is exciting to think about. How long have you

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Speaker 1: been with your man? And what's his name?

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Speaker 4: I've been here for twelve years and his name is rich.

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Speaker 5: Rick ric Or race the race climbing.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we love all right, twelve years long time, Alex.

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Speaker 2: I mean he must have some good traits. What are

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Speaker 2: the pros?

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Speaker 4: Ah, the pools?

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Speaker 6: I would say, the big man with a big heart,

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Speaker 6: that's for sure. All that for him?

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Speaker 3: Yeah okay, yeah, good heart, yep, Okay.

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Speaker 5: What else?

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Speaker 3: What else do you love about Rece? What else do

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Speaker 3: I love about him?

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Speaker 1: I would say he's always trying to look at the

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Speaker 1: bright side on every situation.

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Speaker 2: I mean he's big man, big heart, looks at the

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Speaker 2: bride side.

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Speaker 5: I mean, there's nothing spectacularly it.

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Speaker 1: Sounds like he's got a great attitude in life and

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Speaker 1: that's important.

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Speaker 3: Anything else you love about him? Is he a good kisser?

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Speaker 6: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: After twelve years and I can't remember when we have

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Speaker 4: a real one, Alex.

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Speaker 3: I don't even need your cons. I reckon it's done.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, No, what can you pros of your coms?

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Speaker 5: What are the things that worry you about?

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Speaker 1: Race?

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Speaker 5: So he has this big thing of the ordering, So

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Speaker 5: he doesn't wear the ordering.

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Speaker 3: Wear the odorant?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, because you think it's really bad for the environment.

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Speaker 3: But after a big day at.

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Speaker 4: Work, I can tell you it's not something that I'm

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Speaker 4: really interested wondering.

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Speaker 3: I haven't kissed him in so long.

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Speaker 5: He stinks? Can you describe he's aroma? Alex? What does

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Speaker 5: he smell like?

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Speaker 4: Well, it's a.

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Speaker 3: Bit of a you know, for the construction work.

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Speaker 4: Smelt a little bit of a waiting cigarette.

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Speaker 5: And he's a pig that's not fair.

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Speaker 1: He's a piglet.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so it's got a bit of stain on it.

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Speaker 5: Okay, Any other cons, Alex?

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Speaker 3: When you say late that.

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Speaker 4: Night eating the snacks for the girls lunch the next day,

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Speaker 4: and I.

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Speaker 1: Think, okay, so he's the kids lunchboxes. Okay, I'm right,

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Speaker 1: here's a pig. He's an absolute snout in the trough.

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Speaker 5: How many kids do you have Alex with him?

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Speaker 1: I have two little girls.

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Speaker 5: They're going to be without a f.

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Speaker 3: Alex. We're going to organize a singles party. You can

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Speaker 3: come along.

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Speaker 1: My god, I don't know how we look at this

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Speaker 1: as a positive, but you're in there, so good luck

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Speaker 1: with love.

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Speaker 5: She's actually quite happy. Thank God.

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Speaker 3: Someone's told me that mom and dad weren't going to

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Speaker 3: tell me Tommy. Are we going to throw in a

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Speaker 3: divorce lawyer?

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Speaker 2: Yeh?

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Speaker 5: I think we should.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, Caitlin's in Floyd in part Caitlyn, who's like,

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Speaker 2: what's his name?

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Speaker 4: His name is Daniel, Jenny.

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Speaker 1: Daniel.

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Speaker 5: Where's your first con? How long have you been seeing

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Speaker 5: the old damn Daniel.

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Speaker 4: For about six months?

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well that's.

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Speaker 1: A good time to draw propos and CON's list. If

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Speaker 1: you asked me, this is a healthy exercise for the relationship. Okay,

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Speaker 1: are we going to start with your your prosye? What

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Speaker 1: do we love about Danny boy?

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Speaker 4: I suppose he's really good with kids. So we've got

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Speaker 4: a two year old niece and he absolutely loves chasing

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Speaker 4: her around hours on end, playing with her and reading

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Speaker 4: her storybook.

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Speaker 1: Trying to prove himself in front of you, but loves

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Speaker 1: handing them back.

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Speaker 5: At least you know that. You know he's going to

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Speaker 5: be an amazing father one day. What else do you

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Speaker 5: like about him?

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Speaker 2: Kayler.

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Speaker 4: He's a really good cook, so when he does his

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Speaker 4: magical he makes amazing food.

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Speaker 3: What's his signature dish, Caitlin? What does he cook up?

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Speaker 4: Definitely a good steak, a.

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Speaker 1: Steak, so he loves a barbecue, the proof steak. So

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Speaker 1: he puts something on a hot grill, turns it after

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Speaker 1: four and a half minutes to the other side, and

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Speaker 1: then he's a good cook, is he?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but he doesn't overcook it. It's not burnt. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: beautiful medium, so I don't want it burnt.

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Speaker 5: Awesome, so he can watch watch anything else? Is he romantic?

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Speaker 5: What's he like in the relationship? Any other pros?

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Speaker 6: The other one would be.

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Speaker 4: He takes you on a surprise date. So if I've

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Speaker 4: had a really bad week up work, then he'll surprise

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Speaker 4: me on the weekend with like massages.

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Speaker 5: Or going to the spar Okay, that's beautiful.

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Speaker 3: Sounds guilty son. What's his fashion like? Does he dress well?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, seem like Pino's and his T shirt so nothing fancy.

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Speaker 6: But Daniel the one he loves the white vans. Let's

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Speaker 6: go into the cons. Now, what don't you look about him, Caitlin?

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Speaker 4: So he's always fighting whenever we're eating a.

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Speaker 3: Meal, he's always sorry, sorry, so go again.

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Speaker 4: He's always fighting when we're eating meals, even out in public.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So at the dinner table he'll drop his guts.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, throughout the restaurant and you can absolutely hear it.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 2: So does he set it up beforehand, Caitlin and try

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Speaker 2: to get a laugh out of you?

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Speaker 5: Is he one of those?

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Speaker 4: Or it feels like it's intentional?

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Speaker 3: Okay?

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Speaker 1: Can I ask Caitlyn how soon into the relationship did

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Speaker 1: he start letting Smoky.

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Speaker 5: Off the chain?

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Speaker 4: About three months in?

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Speaker 3: Okay, So that's a big way to affair. Well, and

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Speaker 3: do you pass wind in front of him?

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Speaker 4: No, I'm still very hesitant. I guess the other cons

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Speaker 4: I find base in his tat. So he's always telling me, oh,

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Speaker 4: he doesn't bathe anymore, he stops, But then I'm constantly

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Speaker 4: finding new ones in his far and different colored ones.

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Speaker 1: On the water.

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Speaker 5: Still, We've got to get through this. Any other cons

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Speaker 5: or do you want to move on? Have you got

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Speaker 5: another one?

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Speaker 4: There's one more that really irritates me. So I feel

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Speaker 4: like chat GPT helps him write and letters Tommy because.

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Speaker 6: There at writing.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you know what I agree with this one. I look,

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Speaker 2: I'm all for AI, but when it's from the heart,

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Speaker 2: you can't get assistance. I'm sorry, I agree.

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Speaker 1: I sent a message to my wife text message to

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Speaker 1: my wife just this morning from chat and she wrote

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Speaker 1: back chat GPT question mark and I wrote back, Mike GPT.

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Speaker 5: Mate, you would be you, you would be all over this.

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Speaker 3: So this is what lies.

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Speaker 1: This is what I wrote, Like a moth to a

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Speaker 1: Your sweet sweet kisses drive me insane, from your lips

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Speaker 1: to mine. Our love will never be broken, like find

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Speaker 1: a finally weave twine where.

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Speaker 5: You can't even read them properly. So you didn't write

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Speaker 5: There's no way you wrote it, Caitlin on that one.

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Speaker 3: OK. Here's what concerns me.

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Speaker 1: He's using the vape to hide his farts in the

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Speaker 1: car right just in case one of his work mates

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Speaker 1: jump in.

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Speaker 5: He's not vaping to hide far.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I think he is that it smells like a

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Speaker 3: weird watermelon in here?

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Speaker 6: What is that? If he does it at the table,

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Speaker 6: he's not trying to hide the smell in the car.

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Speaker 3: I said.

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Speaker 1: In the car when he passes wind, he's using his

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Speaker 1: vape there in case he's got to give one of

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Speaker 1: his workmates a lift.

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Speaker 3: Right, So this is what he's doing. So he's got

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Speaker 3: a bum trumpet issue. But he's also trying to kill himself.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what to do here. The kids in

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Speaker 3: the cooking the steak didn't really win it for me.

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Speaker 1: Leave it to me.

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Speaker 5: He sounds like an amazing guy. Kids, He cooks and

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Speaker 5: he takes you out in surprise days.

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Speaker 3: Stick with him, Caitlin, I hope we've helped.

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Speaker 4: Absolutely, Thank you so much.

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Speaker 6: Well, we've kept we've kept the six six months relationship

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Speaker 6: together and we've broken up the twelve year relationship with two.

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