Speaker 1: Hi, Happy Thursday.
Speaker 2: Welcome to the Just for a Girls Girls Guide when.
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Speaker 3: Today we are doing what is your Friendship Style?
Speaker 1: So there's a New York Times.
Speaker 3: Little quiz that tells you what your friendship style is.
Speaker 3: So we're just gonna go through, read the questions, figure
Speaker 3: out who we are and what our.
Speaker 2: Friendship styles are. Yeah, okay, and it's good because it's
Speaker 2: like we can hold each other account alone. Be like,
Speaker 2: that is not the answer for you.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're not like that. No, yeah, all right. Question
Speaker 3: number one out of ten. It's Friday night after a
Speaker 3: busy week. Your friend calls you last minute to invite
Speaker 3: you to a party. What is your first thought, A,
Speaker 3: let's hop on FaceTime, I need to help choosing an outfit.
Speaker 3: Or Nope, I'm already in my pjs. I feel like
Speaker 3: we're both Nope, we're already in our pjs because once
Speaker 3: we're once, we're stuck in a thing where both of
Speaker 3: us don't really get out of that.
Speaker 2: That people would think I'd probably be like, let's help
Speaker 2: on FaceTime, I need to help choosing it. But if
Speaker 2: it's been a busy week, which says I'm going to
Speaker 2: already be on the game.
Speaker 3: Yes, And I'm a bit of a like I need
Speaker 3: you to already know a plan. So if I'm going
Speaker 3: into a Friday night knowing I'm not doing anything, I'm
Speaker 3: looking forward to that Friday night, knowing I'm going into
Speaker 3: a party for a Friday, I'm like, yes, But if
Speaker 3: I'm not good at spontaneity.
Speaker 2: And let's say if it was Saturday and I'd already
Speaker 2: stayed in on the Friday, it would be different. But
Speaker 2: Friday night, if I've had a busy week, I'm in
Speaker 2: my pjs.
Speaker 1: Yeah, same, all right?
Speaker 2: Question number two. In a group setting, you're more likely
Speaker 2: to a make small talk with people. We have a
Speaker 2: heart to heart with someone.
Speaker 1: I'm a heart to heart a heart to heart as well.
Speaker 1: We love a deep chat.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Question and number three, how do you recharge your batteries?
Speaker 1: One plug myself.
Speaker 3: Into the sofa and power up Netflix or two head
Speaker 3: out with a partner or friends for a little socializing.
Speaker 2: Mind's Netflix one hundred percent.
Speaker 1: Mine's probably number two. Yeah, because I'm always around people. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Oras Like what I say is I love being social,
Speaker 2: But how I actually recharge is being by myself.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like I love recharging the like I feel like
Speaker 3: there's different friendships, Like some people that don't take social
Speaker 3: battery out, like they're not draining and you can just
Speaker 3: be around them. You don't really have to socialize and
Speaker 3: make effort with Like, I just love being around and
Speaker 3: being present in those people.
Speaker 1: So I'd be number two.
Speaker 2: Mine's definitely being alone, is how I recharge.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Question number four, how would your friends describe you a
Speaker 2: easier to talk to about personal matters or be a
Speaker 2: bit slow to get to know on a.
Speaker 1: Deeper level, I would say you're number one, I'd say.
Speaker 2: Your number two. Yeah, really, yeah, one hundred percent.
Speaker 1: I'm a bit closed off.
Speaker 2: It takes people a little while to kind of get
Speaker 2: under that shell.
Speaker 3: Yes, especially when you're first interacting with Izzy and I.
Speaker 3: I think I'm a little bit more reserved. I don't
Speaker 3: think I used to be like that. I think I've
Speaker 3: now become like that now my life is on social media.
Speaker 3: I think I start to question what people's intentions are
Speaker 3: a little bit more so I'm a little bit more reserved.
Speaker 2: I think you're a little bit more of an egg crack.
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, I agree.
Speaker 2: Question number five.
Speaker 1: You're hosting a party at home?
Speaker 3: What does it look like one a quiet dinner with
Speaker 3: a couple of friends, I wouldn't even call it a
Speaker 3: party or to every friend, bring a friend and a
Speaker 3: betverage i would say I'm number two because I love
Speaker 3: having people included, and I'm like more the merrier if
Speaker 3: I'm hosting something, I'm like, I want all your friends
Speaker 3: to feel involved. I don't want anyone to feel left out.
Speaker 3: Bring your friend, bring her friend's sister. Like, I don't
Speaker 3: like anyone being left out, So I would say I'm
Speaker 3: number two.
Speaker 1: I would say you're like that too, if you're hosting
Speaker 1: a party.
Speaker 2: It's funny because it's like if all I think about
Speaker 2: when I think about that question is like I would
Speaker 2: hate to have that in my own, say apartment. Yeah,
Speaker 2: if I'm like having a party like when I was younger,
Speaker 2: Like you best believe it's like anyone the more of
Speaker 2: than Marria.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Well, I wouldn't host a party in my house anyway,
Speaker 3: but if I were to, I would because my friend
Speaker 3: I wanted to.
Speaker 2: Be a fun party for myself. Therefore, I'm like the
Speaker 2: more the fucking marriage.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and that sometimes I have had like afters that
Speaker 3: mine I'm like, yeah, bring whoever whatever?
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, okay.
Speaker 2: Question six, what kinds of conversations light you up? A
Speaker 2: light is the keyword. Let's keep it light? Or B
Speaker 2: let's discuss the meaning of life. I'll go first.
Speaker 1: I'm b unbeaten. Let's go fucking deep.
Speaker 3: I love having like political questions and shit like that.
Speaker 1: Like I love having a debate.
Speaker 2: Oh definitely not political, but I like to hear about
Speaker 2: your deep dark traumas. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, totally. I
Speaker 2: don't think I'm good at light conversation like small talk,
Speaker 2: for example, is not something I would classify myself as
Speaker 2: particularly greater. I struggle to ever keep things light.
Speaker 3: Yes. Question number seven, how full is your ideal Google calendar?
Speaker 3: A It's a rainbow of social events, friend hangs and
Speaker 3: future festivities. Or B it's a gloriously sparse except for
Speaker 3: the occasional date with friends. I feel like personally, just
Speaker 3: because of our jobs and the industry that we're in,
Speaker 3: it's a yeah, because we have events.
Speaker 1: We are social, like, we always have something going on.
Speaker 1: It's fucked.
Speaker 2: It's like, I like, i'd say A because I like
Speaker 2: it to be filled with events, for example, But I
Speaker 2: look at my week and it's filled with workshit that's due.
Speaker 2: It's like my worst fucking nightmare and I want it
Speaker 2: to be spars. But like, We've got an event on
Speaker 2: every single like night this week, and I'm like excited
Speaker 2: for the week. Yes, like I like that. Yeah, But
Speaker 2: because it is that, I'll then keep my days as
Speaker 2: fast as I can. So I'm definitely a bit of both.
Speaker 2: But social events always. God, I just fucking love getting
Speaker 2: dressed up. You know, I think if really I was
Speaker 2: told to, like, yeah, I like to look nice, look
Speaker 2: or feel good. But all right, how much do you
Speaker 2: lean on close friends for support? A my inner circle
Speaker 2: knows pretty much everything about me, or B. I tend
Speaker 2: to rely on myself and my own intuition more.
Speaker 1: I would say, I'm b B, you do tell your.
Speaker 2: Friends a lot. But I think if we're talking in
Speaker 2: the grand scheme of things, you'd like to keep your.
Speaker 3: I tell you, guys, after it's happened, I'm like, I'll
Speaker 3: proce it myself. I'll do my own thing, and then
Speaker 3: I'll tell you what I did. You're like, I'm coming
Speaker 3: to you straight with the ISSUEXT.
Speaker 1: What do I say?
Speaker 2: How do I answer it? Yes?
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, you're definitely A.
Speaker 3: Yeah, like I know everything about easy before, like when
Speaker 3: it's happening. Yeah, you know, I'm like, oh, this is
Speaker 3: what happened on the weekend. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I feel like I almost don't.
Speaker 1: Rely probably own one problem.
Speaker 3: One problem.
Speaker 1: Shared is a problem halfed or something.
Speaker 2: You're a bit like the shared is a problem half totally.
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'll fucking take everyone's troll wrong.
Speaker 2: And then I'll find out later and I'm like, why
Speaker 2: the fuck didn't you tell me that was happening.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm like, oh, I just didn't think it was
Speaker 1: a big deal.
Speaker 2: Yeah it is okay, John Don. I don't know who
Speaker 2: fucking John Donn is, but John Don said, no man
Speaker 2: is an island. Is that true for you? A. I
Speaker 2: don't mind floating solo or B. Mister Donn was correct.
Speaker 2: I want to be where the people are. B. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: so I'm weird. I love being alone, but I don't
Speaker 2: like being alone in public. Yes, she's so.
Speaker 1: Bad at that, but then I have to go to
Speaker 1: the toilet with her like everything.
Speaker 2: Then I like to be alone. I think more than
Speaker 2: that Ridge person. Even when I'm like, buy my Like
Speaker 2: if I'm a home, it's like, I don't want anyone
Speaker 2: else there. But if I'm going out to do something,
Speaker 2: I like other people to do that, I would you
Speaker 2: think I like to be where the people are. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I was like, stress, I call my mom, I call
Speaker 2: my friend. I need people to like comfort me. But
Speaker 2: I went to Chatty on my own to just shop. Wow,
Speaker 2: that's roke. It was actually really fun. No one like
Speaker 2: dragging me the shops I didn't want to go to.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I love putting headphones in and doing it them.
Speaker 2: And then I just shot. I buy some food and
Speaker 2: I my car and eat it and then I get
Speaker 2: to go home.
Speaker 1: It's wonderful.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 3: Question ten. When people open up to you, how do
Speaker 3: you feel. I wish I could back into a hedge
Speaker 3: or I should be charging by the hour because I'm
Speaker 3: a pretty good listener.
Speaker 2: B Yeah, it's definitely be like I don't like when
Speaker 2: I found out that like a friend of mine has
Speaker 2: had something happen and I haven't been told about it.
Speaker 2: Didn't like. I was like, I wish you would have
Speaker 2: told me, like I could have helped. I definitely don't
Speaker 2: want to back into a hedge. I like when people
Speaker 2: talk to me makes me feel all right, go to
Speaker 2: the result. Okay, do you want to read first?
Speaker 1: Okay? I am an ever green name, all right? So
Speaker 1: that pretty much means.
Speaker 3: Picture a mighty spruce tree, lush green and a reliable
Speaker 3: year round.
Speaker 1: Oh that's nice.
Speaker 2: It is cute.
Speaker 3: It seems to always be healthy and thriving, so long
Speaker 3: as it's getting enough sunlight and water Everygone's like, you
Speaker 3: feel most alive when you're being nourished by frequent interactions
Speaker 3: with close friends, and you tend to prefer it when
Speaker 3: the interactions feel deep and meaningful. You easily give love
Speaker 3: to others and that's what makes them easy to love
Speaker 3: in return.
Speaker 2: That's cute. I kind of wish we are different ones.
Speaker 2: You do think we are very different.
Speaker 3: I think we're very similar when it comes to friendships,
Speaker 3: though maybe Like I was speaking to Nellie, my housemate,
Speaker 3: the other night, and she was like, you and Easy
Speaker 3: are both very generous people guys. Like she was like,
Speaker 3: you're both so and I was like, that is so nice.
Speaker 3: She was like, you guys will always be open to
Speaker 3: helping each other out, and like like when Easy as
Speaker 3: a date, like you're always open to being there helping
Speaker 3: each other out, like when you need help like you're
Speaker 3: both very reliable friends.
Speaker 1: That's a very nice I was like, really kind, thank you, Nellie.
Speaker 2: There are three other friendship styles that you can be
Speaker 2: from this quiz. So one is a butterfly. Picture a
Speaker 2: butterfly flutter from flower to flower, drinking nectar and pollinating
Speaker 2: plants along the way. Butterfly friends tend to thrive with
Speaker 2: frequent social interaction and are drawn to more casual forms
Speaker 2: of connections. So like excellent party guess, comfortable in all
Speaker 2: social situations, a bit more light maybe than the averagin.
Speaker 1: I feel like we're deep humans.
Speaker 2: We are.
Speaker 1: We're like analyzing that.
Speaker 2: We like the deeper compos Yeah, there.
Speaker 3: Is also a wallflower, and there are plenty of clerks
Speaker 3: of being a wolflower. Forget any negative interactions that you
Speaker 3: might have heard. Wolflowers are lively to be somewhat shy
Speaker 3: and tend to be selective about how they spend their time.
Speaker 3: Their social calendars are fairly light, and they are drawn
Speaker 3: to walk casual forms of connection. Their superpower is talking
Speaker 3: information and being sensitive from what's going on around them.
Speaker 1: My brother's a wolf wolflower, so it's mine.
Speaker 2: But wolf flowers are the best.
Speaker 1: Yeah, they're my favorite. They're good people to have around,
Speaker 1: all right.
Speaker 2: And then last, we've got a firefly. Imagine a firefly
Speaker 2: flitting through the air on a warm summer night, glowing
Speaker 2: brightly in the company of its fellow bugs, and then
Speaker 2: receding mysteriously to the dark night sky. So I feel
Speaker 2: like that's me. Five flights limit how many social engagements
Speaker 2: they have, but light up when they feel deeply connected
Speaker 2: to others. In social situations, Five flights tend to be
Speaker 2: highly present and focused when they're connecting. They're connecting deeply,
Speaker 2: and that a gift to others.
Speaker 1: I feel like you're both a bit of a mix.
Speaker 3: Yeah, well you can always touch into each franchise.
Speaker 2: But it's that weirdness that I need to be alone
Speaker 2: that I feel like I can't quite place where that.
Speaker 1: Well, there you go, easy and I both.
Speaker 2: Every suits tall trees standing the test of time, and
Speaker 2: we're just tiving all year round currently.
Speaker 3: But make sure you guys, if you want to find
Speaker 3: out what friendship style.
Speaker 1: You are, just give it a little hit.
Speaker 2: I love a fucking quiz. Yeah, that's so fun, the
Speaker 2: BuzzFeed quizzes. Yeah, I remember I had a subject called
Speaker 2: Biokem and I sit in the back corner row with
Speaker 2: this shit called Gabby and every single time I just
Speaker 2: refresh and there'd be like ten more quizzes. I've done
Speaker 2: every single BuzzFeed quiz on that whole thing. They're really fun.
Speaker 3: I think on about next episodes that we should do.
Speaker 3: Is the Morris Speak character.
Speaker 2: Test, like the four letter No.
Speaker 1: It's like it's like a thing.
Speaker 3: You get a list of twenty five and it gives
Speaker 3: you the characteristics of what's important from you from one
Speaker 3: to twenty five and you have like all your character strengths.
Speaker 3: It's a very interesting test. We used to do it
Speaker 3: at school. Maybe we'll do that as an episode.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Or if.
Speaker 3: You guys have any other quizzes that you want us
Speaker 3: to do, let us know on our Instagram or on
Speaker 3: our TikTok or check us an email and we can
Speaker 3: read that one too.
Speaker 1: But that was our Girls Guide for the week.
Speaker 2: Just nice little light one nice.
Speaker 1: Not bad, not bad.
Speaker 3: All right, Well, we'll see you guys next Tuesday, Girls Headquarters. Bye.