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Speaker 1: Hi, Happy Thursday.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to the Just for a Girls Girls Guide when.

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Speaker 3: I always fucking American Just for Girls Girls GUIDs Girl's Guide.

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Speaker 3: Today we are doing what is your Friendship Style?

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Speaker 1: So there's a New York Times.

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Speaker 3: Little quiz that tells you what your friendship style is.

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Speaker 3: So we're just gonna go through, read the questions, figure

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Speaker 3: out who we are and what our.

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Speaker 2: Friendship styles are. Yeah, okay, and it's good because it's

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Speaker 2: like we can hold each other account alone. Be like,

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Speaker 2: that is not the answer for you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you're not like that. No, yeah, all right. Question

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Speaker 3: number one out of ten. It's Friday night after a

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Speaker 3: busy week. Your friend calls you last minute to invite

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Speaker 3: you to a party. What is your first thought, A,

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Speaker 3: let's hop on FaceTime, I need to help choosing an outfit.

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Speaker 3: Or Nope, I'm already in my pjs. I feel like

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Speaker 3: we're both Nope, we're already in our pjs because once

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Speaker 3: we're once, we're stuck in a thing where both of

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Speaker 3: us don't really get out of that.

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Speaker 2: That people would think I'd probably be like, let's help

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Speaker 2: on FaceTime, I need to help choosing it. But if

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Speaker 2: it's been a busy week, which says I'm going to

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Speaker 2: already be on the game.

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Speaker 3: Yes, And I'm a bit of a like I need

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Speaker 3: you to already know a plan. So if I'm going

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Speaker 3: into a Friday night knowing I'm not doing anything, I'm

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Speaker 3: looking forward to that Friday night, knowing I'm going into

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Speaker 3: a party for a Friday, I'm like, yes, But if

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Speaker 3: I'm not good at spontaneity.

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Speaker 2: And let's say if it was Saturday and I'd already

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Speaker 2: stayed in on the Friday, it would be different. But

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Speaker 2: Friday night, if I've had a busy week, I'm in

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Speaker 2: my pjs.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, same, all right?

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Speaker 2: Question number two. In a group setting, you're more likely

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Speaker 2: to a make small talk with people. We have a

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Speaker 2: heart to heart with someone.

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Speaker 1: I'm a heart to heart a heart to heart as well.

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Speaker 1: We love a deep chat.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Question and number three, how do you recharge your batteries?

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Speaker 1: One plug myself.

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Speaker 3: Into the sofa and power up Netflix or two head

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Speaker 3: out with a partner or friends for a little socializing.

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Speaker 2: Mind's Netflix one hundred percent.

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Speaker 1: Mine's probably number two. Yeah, because I'm always around people. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Oras Like what I say is I love being social,

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Speaker 2: But how I actually recharge is being by myself.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Like I love recharging the like I feel like

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Speaker 3: there's different friendships, Like some people that don't take social

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Speaker 3: battery out, like they're not draining and you can just

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Speaker 3: be around them. You don't really have to socialize and

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Speaker 3: make effort with Like, I just love being around and

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Speaker 3: being present in those people.

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Speaker 1: So I'd be number two.

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Speaker 2: Mine's definitely being alone, is how I recharge.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Question number four, how would your friends describe you a

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Speaker 2: easier to talk to about personal matters or be a

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Speaker 2: bit slow to get to know on a.

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Speaker 1: Deeper level, I would say you're number one, I'd say.

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Speaker 2: Your number two. Yeah, really, yeah, one hundred percent.

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Speaker 1: I'm a bit closed off.

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Speaker 2: It takes people a little while to kind of get

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Speaker 3: Yes, especially when you're first interacting with Izzy and I.

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Speaker 3: I think I'm a little bit more reserved. I don't

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Speaker 3: think I used to be like that. I think I've

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Speaker 3: now become like that now my life is on social media.

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Speaker 3: I think I start to question what people's intentions are

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Speaker 3: a little bit more so I'm a little bit more reserved.

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Speaker 2: I think you're a little bit more of an egg crack.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, I agree.

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Speaker 2: Question number five.

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Speaker 1: You're hosting a party at home?

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Speaker 3: What does it look like one a quiet dinner with

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Speaker 3: a couple of friends, I wouldn't even call it a

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Speaker 3: I'm hosting something, I'm like, I want all your friends

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Speaker 3: Bring your friend, bring her friend's sister. Like, I don't

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Speaker 1: I would say you're like that too, if you're hosting

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Speaker 2: It's funny because it's like if all I think about

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Speaker 2: hate to have that in my own, say apartment. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: if I'm like having a party like when I was younger,

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Speaker 2: Like you best believe it's like anyone the more of

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Speaker 2: than Marria.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Well, I wouldn't host a party in my house anyway,

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Speaker 3: but if I were to, I would because my friend

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Speaker 3: I wanted to.

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Speaker 2: Be a fun party for myself. Therefore, I'm like the

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Speaker 2: more the fucking marriage.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and that sometimes I have had like afters that

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Speaker 3: mine I'm like, yeah, bring whoever whatever?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, okay.

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Speaker 2: Question six, what kinds of conversations light you up? A

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Speaker 2: light is the keyword. Let's keep it light? Or B

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Speaker 2: let's discuss the meaning of life. I'll go first.

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Speaker 1: I'm b unbeaten. Let's go fucking deep.

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Speaker 3: I love having like political questions and shit like that.

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Speaker 1: Like I love having a debate.

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Speaker 2: Oh definitely not political, but I like to hear about

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Speaker 2: your deep dark traumas. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, totally. I

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Speaker 2: don't think I'm good at light conversation like small talk,

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Speaker 2: for example, is not something I would classify myself as

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Speaker 2: particularly greater. I struggle to ever keep things light.

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Speaker 3: Yes. Question number seven, how full is your ideal Google calendar?

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Speaker 3: A It's a rainbow of social events, friend hangs and

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Speaker 3: future festivities. Or B it's a gloriously sparse except for

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Speaker 3: the occasional date with friends. I feel like personally, just

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Speaker 3: because of our jobs and the industry that we're in,

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Speaker 3: it's a yeah, because we have events.

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Speaker 1: We are social, like, we always have something going on.

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Speaker 2: It's like, I like, i'd say A because I like

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Speaker 2: it to be filled with events, for example, But I

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Speaker 2: look at my week and it's filled with workshit that's due.

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Speaker 2: It's like my worst fucking nightmare and I want it

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Speaker 2: fast as I can. So I'm definitely a bit of both.

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Speaker 2: But social events always. God, I just fucking love getting

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Speaker 2: or feel good. But all right, how much do you

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Speaker 2: lean on close friends for support? A my inner circle

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Speaker 1: I would say, I'm b B, you do tell your.

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Speaker 2: Friends a lot. But I think if we're talking in

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Speaker 2: the grand scheme of things, you'd like to keep your.

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Speaker 3: I tell you, guys, after it's happened, I'm like, I'll

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Speaker 3: proce it myself. I'll do my own thing, and then

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Speaker 3: I'll tell you what I did. You're like, I'm coming

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Speaker 3: to you straight with the ISSUEXT.

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Speaker 1: What do I say?

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Speaker 2: How do I answer it? Yes?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, you're definitely A.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like I know everything about easy before, like when

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Speaker 2: I feel like I almost don't.

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Speaker 1: Rely probably own one problem.

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Speaker 3: One problem.

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Speaker 1: Shared is a problem halfed or something.

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Speaker 2: You're a bit like the shared is a problem half totally.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I'll fucking take everyone's troll wrong.

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Speaker 2: And then I'll find out later and I'm like, why

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm like, oh, I just didn't think it was

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Speaker 2: Yeah it is okay, John Don. I don't know who

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Speaker 2: fucking John Donn is, but John Don said, no man

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Speaker 2: is an island. Is that true for you? A. I

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Speaker 2: I want to be where the people are. B. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: so I'm weird. I love being alone, but I don't

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Speaker 2: like being alone in public. Yes, she's so.

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Speaker 2: Then I like to be alone. I think more than

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Speaker 2: if I'm a home, it's like, I don't want anyone

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Speaker 2: I was like, stress, I call my mom, I call

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Speaker 2: I went to Chatty on my own to just shop. Wow,

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Speaker 2: And then I just shot. I buy some food and

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Speaker 3: Question ten. When people open up to you, how do

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Speaker 2: B Yeah, it's definitely be like I don't like when

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Speaker 2: the result. Okay, do you want to read first?

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Speaker 1: Okay? I am an ever green name, all right? So

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Speaker 1: that pretty much means.

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Speaker 3: Picture a mighty spruce tree, lush green and a reliable

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Speaker 1: Oh that's nice.

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Speaker 2: It is cute.

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Speaker 3: It seems to always be healthy and thriving, so long

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Speaker 3: as it's getting enough sunlight and water Everygone's like, you

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Speaker 3: feel most alive when you're being nourished by frequent interactions

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Speaker 3: with close friends, and you tend to prefer it when

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Speaker 3: the interactions feel deep and meaningful. You easily give love

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Speaker 3: to others and that's what makes them easy to love

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Speaker 2: That's cute. I kind of wish we are different ones.

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Speaker 2: You do think we are very different.

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Speaker 3: I think we're very similar when it comes to friendships,

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Speaker 3: though maybe Like I was speaking to Nellie, my housemate,

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Speaker 3: She was like, you guys will always be open to

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Speaker 1: That's a very nice I was like, really kind, thank you, Nellie.

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Speaker 2: There are three other friendship styles that you can be

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Speaker 1: I feel like we're deep humans.

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Speaker 2: We are.

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Speaker 1: We're like analyzing that.

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Speaker 2: We like the deeper compos Yeah, there.

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Speaker 1: I feel like you're both a bit of a mix.

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Speaker 2: But it's that weirdness that I need to be alone

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Speaker 1: Well, there you go, easy and I both.

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Speaker 3: But make sure you guys, if you want to find

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Speaker 1: You are, just give it a little hit.

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Speaker 2: I love a fucking quiz. Yeah, that's so fun, the

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Speaker 2: BuzzFeed quizzes. Yeah, I remember I had a subject called

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Speaker 2: every single BuzzFeed quiz on that whole thing. They're really fun.

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Speaker 3: I think on about next episodes that we should do.

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Speaker 3: Is the Morris Speak character.

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Speaker 2: Test, like the four letter No.

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Speaker 1: It's like it's like a thing.

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Speaker 3: It's a very interesting test. We used to do it

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Speaker 3: at school. Maybe we'll do that as an episode.

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Speaker 3: You guys have any other quizzes that you want us

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Speaker 3: read that one too.

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Speaker 1: But that was our Girls Guide for the week.

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Speaker 2: Just nice little light one nice.

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Speaker 1: Not bad, not bad.

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Speaker 3: All right, Well, we'll see you guys next Tuesday, Girls Headquarters. Bye.