1 00:00:05,921 --> 00:00:07,801 Speaker 1: Approach production. 2 00:00:12,521 --> 00:00:14,681 Speaker 2: Photo recket. Don't try and make you uncomfortable. 3 00:00:15,041 --> 00:00:22,081 Speaker 1: Yes, rap, Welcome back to season sixteen, episode two of 4 00:00:22,161 --> 00:00:25,680 Speaker 1: The Clink. Yes, it is the Clink still as you 5 00:00:25,801 --> 00:00:29,361 Speaker 1: know it, but as I said in episode one, this 6 00:00:29,481 --> 00:00:32,161 Speaker 1: time round, we've made some changes, and our changes are 7 00:00:32,361 --> 00:00:34,760 Speaker 1: for you to be the best you can be, to 8 00:00:34,801 --> 00:00:37,761 Speaker 1: be able to give you the tools to chase your dreams, 9 00:00:38,161 --> 00:00:42,040 Speaker 1: follow your inspirations, and be whatever it is in life 10 00:00:42,040 --> 00:00:44,800 Speaker 1: that you choose to be. Each of our guests are 11 00:00:44,801 --> 00:00:48,441 Speaker 1: coming on each week with something out of their own toolbox. 12 00:00:49,161 --> 00:00:52,641 Speaker 1: These guests are people who truly have hit rock bottom, 13 00:00:52,801 --> 00:00:55,761 Speaker 1: climbed back up to the top, found the ways and 14 00:00:55,881 --> 00:00:59,560 Speaker 1: have the tools to success. And it hasn't been easy, 15 00:01:00,200 --> 00:01:04,560 Speaker 1: and they still are works in progress every day, but 16 00:01:05,161 --> 00:01:09,601 Speaker 1: leading from the front and today is another fantastic inspiring man, 17 00:01:09,681 --> 00:01:13,401 Speaker 1: someone who I truly have admiration and respect for. Nick Midgley. 18 00:01:13,961 --> 00:01:16,360 Speaker 1: Welcome to the Clink, Brent. 19 00:01:16,560 --> 00:01:18,240 Speaker 3: Love that rap too, man mate. 20 00:01:18,321 --> 00:01:21,761 Speaker 1: It's true. There's no poing bullshitting like it's where men. 21 00:01:22,081 --> 00:01:25,401 Speaker 1: You know. We had Jeremy Donovan on in episode one 22 00:01:25,441 --> 00:01:28,801 Speaker 1: and we touched on the fact that the muscularity of 23 00:01:28,881 --> 00:01:32,360 Speaker 1: us as men for example, once again, I'll touch on 24 00:01:32,401 --> 00:01:34,560 Speaker 1: you and I could walk down a street and it 25 00:01:34,601 --> 00:01:37,321 Speaker 1: would be intimidating to a lot of people if they 26 00:01:37,560 --> 00:01:38,881 Speaker 1: were walking towards us. 27 00:01:39,560 --> 00:01:39,720 Speaker 3: Yeah. 28 00:01:39,801 --> 00:01:41,800 Speaker 1: Put us in a room and we described as being 29 00:01:41,840 --> 00:01:43,921 Speaker 1: in a room full of killers, where we could all 30 00:01:43,920 --> 00:01:47,321 Speaker 1: embrace each other, hug cry in front of each other, 31 00:01:47,401 --> 00:01:49,441 Speaker 1: and support each other and lift each other up and 32 00:01:49,481 --> 00:01:53,281 Speaker 1: tell each other we love each other with conviction and 33 00:01:53,441 --> 00:01:57,800 Speaker 1: true passion. These things are so important in us becoming 34 00:01:58,041 --> 00:02:00,641 Speaker 1: men and women. I believe this space held for women 35 00:02:00,681 --> 00:02:03,761 Speaker 1: as well. I'm just speaking obviously as men. You and 36 00:02:03,761 --> 00:02:07,001 Speaker 1: I sitting here though, to be able to, you know, 37 00:02:07,081 --> 00:02:10,921 Speaker 1: bring something through such a great platform as the Clink 38 00:02:11,361 --> 00:02:15,240 Speaker 1: in making a difference in people's lives, I feel very 39 00:02:15,281 --> 00:02:18,481 Speaker 1: privileged and honored. And today it might be a rap, 40 00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:22,401 Speaker 1: but it's a true rap. And having you on is fantastic, mate, 41 00:02:22,441 --> 00:02:25,681 Speaker 1: because you're on the clink back in our earlier seasons, 42 00:02:25,881 --> 00:02:29,481 Speaker 1: so about mid mid season and a very powerful story. 43 00:02:29,680 --> 00:02:32,601 Speaker 3: It's on round mane, I reckon you get on those pretensions. 44 00:02:33,401 --> 00:02:35,680 Speaker 1: I've got your brother. I just gotta work out you're 45 00:02:35,680 --> 00:02:37,041 Speaker 1: looking to rather buff and help me. 46 00:02:37,161 --> 00:02:40,161 Speaker 4: Man, I gotta stop growing that beautiful body of yours 47 00:02:40,201 --> 00:02:44,960 Speaker 4: developing into such significant muscular areas give me a size 48 00:02:45,001 --> 00:02:49,720 Speaker 4: of a last But you know, your story is one 49 00:02:49,800 --> 00:02:51,361 Speaker 4: for me personally. 50 00:02:51,441 --> 00:02:54,961 Speaker 1: That I really I connect with because I've gotten to 51 00:02:55,001 --> 00:02:58,800 Speaker 1: know you over so many years, even in the spaces 52 00:02:58,841 --> 00:03:00,761 Speaker 1: where we may have not seen each other, when we 53 00:03:00,841 --> 00:03:03,321 Speaker 1: do be in the presence of each other and come together, 54 00:03:03,680 --> 00:03:07,721 Speaker 1: it's a genuine brotherly how are you a hug? You know, 55 00:03:08,121 --> 00:03:11,520 Speaker 1: a warm welcome to each other. I don't think that 56 00:03:11,721 --> 00:03:15,441 Speaker 1: is something that you can buy. It's something that obviously 57 00:03:15,520 --> 00:03:18,680 Speaker 1: as men, you know, we sort of do have that 58 00:03:18,721 --> 00:03:22,201 Speaker 1: sort of we all carry that bravado. Some of us 59 00:03:22,441 --> 00:03:25,321 Speaker 1: know bigger egos than others, but there's never been that 60 00:03:25,401 --> 00:03:28,041 Speaker 1: between us. And you're definitely a man who's been in 61 00:03:28,081 --> 00:03:31,801 Speaker 1: the presence of some strong men, heavy man if you will, 62 00:03:31,881 --> 00:03:35,361 Speaker 1: as myself. But it's a beautiful moment when we do 63 00:03:35,441 --> 00:03:37,521 Speaker 1: come together, and today we have that pleasure. So thank 64 00:03:37,561 --> 00:03:38,241 Speaker 1: you for joining me. 65 00:03:38,641 --> 00:03:41,001 Speaker 3: I'm a pleasure man. I would want to be here man. 66 00:03:41,121 --> 00:03:43,441 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'd love for you to just start. For those 67 00:03:43,521 --> 00:03:46,281 Speaker 1: that may not have heard your story, if we can 68 00:03:46,361 --> 00:03:50,001 Speaker 1: just go over your background story because it is so 69 00:03:50,161 --> 00:03:52,601 Speaker 1: relevant to who Nick is today. If I may just 70 00:03:52,641 --> 00:03:56,681 Speaker 1: be very blunt. Nick was a young young man from 71 00:03:56,721 --> 00:04:00,761 Speaker 1: the streets of Melbourne then ended up in heroin, addiction, gangs, violence, 72 00:04:01,521 --> 00:04:05,481 Speaker 1: definitely lived a life and how he's here today way 73 00:04:06,321 --> 00:04:09,241 Speaker 1: is a beautiful thing because God's kept him here for 74 00:04:09,401 --> 00:04:12,561 Speaker 1: a wonderful reason. And I am into that, brother, because 75 00:04:12,561 --> 00:04:14,641 Speaker 1: you are doing some beautiful things in the space that 76 00:04:14,761 --> 00:04:19,841 Speaker 1: you've created from your own lived experience. Let's let's tell 77 00:04:19,881 --> 00:04:20,401 Speaker 1: the listeners. 78 00:04:21,761 --> 00:04:24,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, I suppose, mate, I wouldn't have expected life to 79 00:04:24,440 --> 00:04:27,001 Speaker 3: turn out like this, you know, just before I go 80 00:04:27,241 --> 00:04:29,361 Speaker 3: back into a little bit of my story, you know, 81 00:04:29,641 --> 00:04:32,361 Speaker 3: I'm really grateful to be asked to come onto the 82 00:04:32,440 --> 00:04:36,481 Speaker 3: clink again and and you know, and your new approach 83 00:04:36,601 --> 00:04:38,401 Speaker 3: with it, to be able to sort of talk more 84 00:04:38,481 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 3: about the process of you know, recovering life together after 85 00:04:42,521 --> 00:04:46,320 Speaker 3: sort of like you know, despair, depression and addiction and 86 00:04:46,320 --> 00:04:49,681 Speaker 3: all that stuff. And I feel like I've been asked 87 00:04:49,961 --> 00:04:52,641 Speaker 3: on enough podcast now I talk about my war stories 88 00:04:52,761 --> 00:04:55,881 Speaker 3: and stuff, And to be honest, I think like I was. 89 00:04:55,921 --> 00:04:58,801 Speaker 3: I was known because like you know, my life imploded publicly, 90 00:04:59,001 --> 00:05:02,161 Speaker 3: you know, and so you know, people saw my mind, 91 00:05:02,241 --> 00:05:05,361 Speaker 3: my life fall apart in front of everyone, and that 92 00:05:05,481 --> 00:05:07,281 Speaker 3: was that was a really fucking hard time for me. 93 00:05:07,361 --> 00:05:08,961 Speaker 3: You know, it was you know, it was the only 94 00:05:09,001 --> 00:05:11,801 Speaker 3: time kind of you know, I actually contemplated suicide, you know, 95 00:05:11,841 --> 00:05:15,041 Speaker 3: because I didn't know, I didn't know another way, you know, 96 00:05:15,161 --> 00:05:15,521 Speaker 3: And so. 97 00:05:15,921 --> 00:05:19,121 Speaker 1: You're very much a present community man. Putting into the 98 00:05:19,121 --> 00:05:24,840 Speaker 1: community was so much positivity to see that negative coming 99 00:05:25,001 --> 00:05:29,481 Speaker 1: and just wipe all that goodness really in the average 100 00:05:29,521 --> 00:05:30,440 Speaker 1: person's eyes. 101 00:05:30,601 --> 00:05:32,681 Speaker 3: Yeah, it was. It was a little bit more shelter 102 00:05:32,841 --> 00:05:34,721 Speaker 3: than that. Man. I'd like to say it was all 103 00:05:35,681 --> 00:05:37,961 Speaker 3: it was all positive, but it came from a really 104 00:05:37,961 --> 00:05:40,681 Speaker 3: insecure place, man, you know, like I had no sense 105 00:05:40,681 --> 00:05:42,721 Speaker 3: of self. So I did a lot of things for 106 00:05:42,721 --> 00:05:44,801 Speaker 3: a lot of other people, and you know, I did 107 00:05:44,841 --> 00:05:49,161 Speaker 3: a lot of community work for external validation, for trying 108 00:05:49,241 --> 00:05:51,281 Speaker 3: for trying to sort of like find a place in 109 00:05:51,320 --> 00:05:53,961 Speaker 3: this world and stuff like that. Because the reality was 110 00:05:54,081 --> 00:05:56,960 Speaker 3: I was full of my secrets, you know, which is 111 00:05:57,361 --> 00:05:59,961 Speaker 3: my past that came came to light, and you know, 112 00:06:00,001 --> 00:06:02,201 Speaker 3: it was full of shame of all that stuff. And 113 00:06:02,361 --> 00:06:05,121 Speaker 3: the way I figured it is like can like you know, 114 00:06:06,320 --> 00:06:09,601 Speaker 3: hide behind all the charitable work, like you would keep 115 00:06:09,641 --> 00:06:13,280 Speaker 3: all that stuff in the dark and mate, and it didn't. 116 00:06:13,481 --> 00:06:15,921 Speaker 3: You know. Now now I actually feel like I actually 117 00:06:15,921 --> 00:06:17,521 Speaker 3: am authentically. 118 00:06:16,921 --> 00:06:22,641 Speaker 1: That how beautiful. I love that. Yeah, and with actual healing, 119 00:06:22,721 --> 00:06:25,081 Speaker 1: that's that's obviously meant to have happened for sure. 120 00:06:25,161 --> 00:06:26,921 Speaker 3: But I just didn't you know, obviously don't see that 121 00:06:26,961 --> 00:06:28,880 Speaker 3: stuff in the time now, at the time when my 122 00:06:28,961 --> 00:06:32,880 Speaker 3: life was literally being you know, being just all my past, 123 00:06:32,961 --> 00:06:35,761 Speaker 3: all my shame, all my secrets, everything just came out 124 00:06:35,761 --> 00:06:39,681 Speaker 3: the light all at once, you know, like people people, 125 00:06:39,880 --> 00:06:42,761 Speaker 3: you know, they saw me fall apart, you know, but 126 00:06:42,921 --> 00:06:47,281 Speaker 3: you know the pressure of like now being now having 127 00:06:47,281 --> 00:06:50,440 Speaker 3: your eyes on me and and being exposed like I 128 00:06:50,481 --> 00:06:52,961 Speaker 3: actually had to study life, you know, I actually had 129 00:06:52,961 --> 00:06:56,921 Speaker 3: to look into like how healthy people live, you know. 130 00:06:57,161 --> 00:07:01,401 Speaker 3: And and Mate, today not only do I do life, 131 00:07:01,601 --> 00:07:04,361 Speaker 3: I feel like I do it really fucking well. And 132 00:07:04,601 --> 00:07:09,241 Speaker 3: you know, come from everywhere to be mentored by me, mate, 133 00:07:09,481 --> 00:07:12,841 Speaker 3: Like it's I just find that absolutely surreal, you know, 134 00:07:13,001 --> 00:07:17,121 Speaker 3: from someone that had no other solution to a to 135 00:07:17,201 --> 00:07:19,241 Speaker 3: a hard problem in life and to stick a needle 136 00:07:19,281 --> 00:07:22,801 Speaker 3: in his arm to someone that can give you know, 137 00:07:22,961 --> 00:07:26,881 Speaker 3: not only not only real support and guidance to you know, 138 00:07:27,041 --> 00:07:29,601 Speaker 3: people that are gone through addiction and you know, mental 139 00:07:29,681 --> 00:07:32,161 Speaker 3: health issues and stuff like that. But a lot of 140 00:07:32,201 --> 00:07:35,361 Speaker 3: my a lot of my clients are corporates and you know. 141 00:07:34,921 --> 00:07:37,241 Speaker 1: People that hide secrets because. 142 00:07:37,001 --> 00:07:39,720 Speaker 3: Well people are high secrets. But people that I once 143 00:07:39,761 --> 00:07:42,041 Speaker 3: assumed were too good for me, that I had on 144 00:07:42,121 --> 00:07:45,041 Speaker 3: pedestals and stuff like that. You know, so what was 145 00:07:45,041 --> 00:07:48,241 Speaker 3: a really humbling process of like, you know, my life 146 00:07:48,281 --> 00:07:51,121 Speaker 3: being stripped out from underneath me. Tend have to be 147 00:07:51,161 --> 00:07:52,641 Speaker 3: the best thing they ever happened for me. 148 00:07:52,641 --> 00:07:55,841 Speaker 1: Man, Amen to that. Look, I'm going to be really 149 00:07:56,041 --> 00:07:57,841 Speaker 1: straight about this. You look a million dollars. 150 00:07:58,401 --> 00:08:01,441 Speaker 3: I appreciate that. Wow, I really appreciate that. And I 151 00:08:01,481 --> 00:08:05,201 Speaker 3: feel like that's you know, that's that's the result of 152 00:08:06,401 --> 00:08:08,641 Speaker 3: this work that I've been able to do for myself, 153 00:08:08,681 --> 00:08:11,561 Speaker 3: you know, because I mean, you know, as well as 154 00:08:11,601 --> 00:08:18,921 Speaker 3: being you know, a highly disregulated you know, heroin addict 155 00:08:19,121 --> 00:08:23,280 Speaker 3: or not just heroin addict, like like because my drug 156 00:08:23,441 --> 00:08:26,521 Speaker 3: use and my drug problems started with heroin, you know, 157 00:08:26,641 --> 00:08:28,721 Speaker 3: but like you know, throughout the years, you know, like 158 00:08:28,921 --> 00:08:33,801 Speaker 3: there's a lot of other stuff of course, but yeah, 159 00:08:33,881 --> 00:08:38,201 Speaker 3: you know, there there were the reasons I took all 160 00:08:38,241 --> 00:08:40,961 Speaker 3: those drugs, is you know, essentially like I just could 161 00:08:41,081 --> 00:08:43,561 Speaker 3: never I could never sit with myself, you know, like 162 00:08:44,201 --> 00:08:47,041 Speaker 3: for me to sit alone with myself with my thoughts 163 00:08:47,161 --> 00:08:51,521 Speaker 3: and and you just sit in stillness and sitting quiet, 164 00:08:51,561 --> 00:08:54,841 Speaker 3: and it's used to just torture me, you know. You know, 165 00:08:54,921 --> 00:08:58,561 Speaker 3: I had so much you know, internal stuff going on 166 00:08:58,641 --> 00:09:02,161 Speaker 3: for me that that I needed to distract from, you know, 167 00:09:02,361 --> 00:09:05,641 Speaker 3: and you know I chose distractions, you know, all throughout 168 00:09:05,721 --> 00:09:09,881 Speaker 3: my life, you know, and you know that they are temporarily, 169 00:09:10,401 --> 00:09:14,201 Speaker 3: that they're fixings temporarily, you know. But you know, after 170 00:09:14,241 --> 00:09:17,761 Speaker 3: a while, like you know, the drugs got harder, you know, 171 00:09:18,041 --> 00:09:21,481 Speaker 3: like they got more consistent, the habits went up, and 172 00:09:21,641 --> 00:09:23,881 Speaker 3: I got to a stage where and they no longer 173 00:09:23,921 --> 00:09:28,201 Speaker 3: worked anymore. You know, every shot was a borderline or overdose, 174 00:09:28,401 --> 00:09:32,361 Speaker 3: and you know, like it became so so dangerous at 175 00:09:32,361 --> 00:09:33,881 Speaker 3: the end, you know, like you know, I got to 176 00:09:33,961 --> 00:09:36,681 Speaker 3: stage where so I could no longer run from, you know, 177 00:09:36,721 --> 00:09:38,161 Speaker 3: all the things I was running from, and I had 178 00:09:38,161 --> 00:09:40,561 Speaker 3: to sort of actually stop and you know and go 179 00:09:40,641 --> 00:09:40,921 Speaker 3: through it. 180 00:09:42,041 --> 00:09:42,201 Speaker 4: Mum. 181 00:09:42,401 --> 00:09:44,881 Speaker 1: I'm going to share this with you because it's something 182 00:09:44,921 --> 00:09:49,121 Speaker 1: that you know, I'm still on the back of and 183 00:09:49,201 --> 00:09:51,721 Speaker 1: for many out there that No. November last year, I 184 00:09:51,761 --> 00:09:54,601 Speaker 1: went into hospital with a severe back in dury, which 185 00:09:54,641 --> 00:09:57,401 Speaker 1: I remember, Yeah, I had a triple spineal fusion. In 186 00:09:57,441 --> 00:10:01,001 Speaker 1: the end, I know, with two hundred and seventy three 187 00:10:01,081 --> 00:10:04,481 Speaker 1: shots and morphine over the course of three weeks, I 188 00:10:04,521 --> 00:10:07,201 Speaker 1: loved it. In the end, I was waiting by the 189 00:10:07,241 --> 00:10:09,201 Speaker 1: clock very three hours to come and give me a 190 00:10:09,201 --> 00:10:13,241 Speaker 1: shot in the guards. My stomach was black. I was 191 00:10:13,561 --> 00:10:17,441 Speaker 1: released from hospital telling them that I was basically in 192 00:10:17,441 --> 00:10:20,921 Speaker 1: a lot of pain, which I do have pain obviously, 193 00:10:20,961 --> 00:10:24,841 Speaker 1: you know it doesn't just heal. But it was me 194 00:10:26,081 --> 00:10:27,801 Speaker 1: if I can be really honest and open on this 195 00:10:28,001 --> 00:10:30,161 Speaker 1: platform with you, because I feel that I can be, 196 00:10:30,241 --> 00:10:32,401 Speaker 1: and you could probably help me, as well as many 197 00:10:32,401 --> 00:10:36,361 Speaker 1: others that we're here to share this with. Today I 198 00:10:36,521 --> 00:10:39,921 Speaker 1: was eating whatever apioits I could get. I've never been 199 00:10:39,961 --> 00:10:42,721 Speaker 1: one to chase the apiots, but I truly found the 200 00:10:42,761 --> 00:10:47,921 Speaker 1: grip of the opioids and still do when I still do. 201 00:10:49,761 --> 00:10:53,561 Speaker 1: I'm taking a tage in the day, which is still 202 00:10:53,601 --> 00:10:55,921 Speaker 1: part of I guess the back end of an addiction 203 00:10:56,881 --> 00:11:01,481 Speaker 1: six months later. It sometimes scares me to think that 204 00:11:01,521 --> 00:11:04,361 Speaker 1: if I don't take that tablet, how will I function today? 205 00:11:05,241 --> 00:11:08,161 Speaker 1: When I truly feel that I've used a lot of 206 00:11:08,161 --> 00:11:10,681 Speaker 1: it to mask because I have gone through the last 207 00:11:10,801 --> 00:11:14,441 Speaker 1: sort of four years some really terrible times. It's been hard, 208 00:11:14,921 --> 00:11:19,241 Speaker 1: but I found that the opioids were enabling me to 209 00:11:19,441 --> 00:11:27,961 Speaker 1: pretend that I'm like, okay, how how do you start 210 00:11:27,961 --> 00:11:32,121 Speaker 1: to peel away those thoughts and step away from that 211 00:11:32,241 --> 00:11:34,961 Speaker 1: thought of I need to wake up and have that 212 00:11:34,961 --> 00:11:38,481 Speaker 1: that tablet or that shot or that that that hit, 213 00:11:38,681 --> 00:11:40,481 Speaker 1: because otherwise I won't be able to find I mean, 214 00:11:40,481 --> 00:11:42,761 Speaker 1: I do I wake up three o'clock in the sweats 215 00:11:42,801 --> 00:11:45,321 Speaker 1: because there are a long term release and I only 216 00:11:45,321 --> 00:11:46,001 Speaker 1: take one a day. 217 00:11:46,041 --> 00:11:51,201 Speaker 3: So I'm in withdrawing with yets. It's a good time. 218 00:11:51,281 --> 00:11:52,921 Speaker 3: You know, give a little bit of a warning to anyone, 219 00:11:53,001 --> 00:11:55,321 Speaker 3: you know, like even the prescription no pits and stuff 220 00:11:55,321 --> 00:11:59,441 Speaker 3: like that. You know they have they're physically addictive, which 221 00:11:59,481 --> 00:12:01,761 Speaker 3: means if you don't have them, you know you will 222 00:12:01,801 --> 00:12:06,201 Speaker 3: physically withdraw and sometimes the pain and discomfort physical withdrawal 223 00:12:06,521 --> 00:12:09,401 Speaker 3: is what what what brings you back to having more? 224 00:12:09,801 --> 00:12:13,561 Speaker 3: But other than the physical withdrawal that the substance for 225 00:12:13,641 --> 00:12:17,001 Speaker 3: me is pretty irrelevant, you know, Like I based a rehab, 226 00:12:17,801 --> 00:12:21,521 Speaker 3: you know, a very successful rehab. Now that under the 227 00:12:21,521 --> 00:12:24,881 Speaker 3: philosophy that you know, it's not the substance, it's that 228 00:12:24,921 --> 00:12:27,561 Speaker 3: they're needing to distract from what's going on inside you. 229 00:12:27,561 --> 00:12:31,561 Speaker 3: You know. So when you say like the feeling back process, 230 00:12:31,641 --> 00:12:34,641 Speaker 3: for me, it is just you know, taking away all 231 00:12:35,521 --> 00:12:38,921 Speaker 3: all distractions because you know, often when people take away there, 232 00:12:39,441 --> 00:12:42,281 Speaker 3: you know that they go to they go to they 233 00:12:42,281 --> 00:12:43,841 Speaker 3: go to a rehab, they go to re I think, 234 00:12:43,841 --> 00:12:45,721 Speaker 3: and they've got a drug problem, you know where it's 235 00:12:45,721 --> 00:12:48,361 Speaker 3: really they're they've got they've got a life problem that 236 00:12:48,401 --> 00:12:50,441 Speaker 3: they're running away from, you know. So you take away 237 00:12:50,441 --> 00:12:52,441 Speaker 3: the drug problem, they had to go in there with 238 00:12:52,441 --> 00:12:55,041 Speaker 3: a heroin habit. You know, they get cleaned up the heroin, 239 00:12:55,481 --> 00:12:58,081 Speaker 3: you know, they will find other ways to distract from that, 240 00:12:58,161 --> 00:13:02,361 Speaker 3: you know, and uh, unless unless they're aware of them 241 00:13:02,401 --> 00:13:05,001 Speaker 3: doing that, you know, they end up just finding others, 242 00:13:05,161 --> 00:13:07,521 Speaker 3: you know, dysfunctional ways to distract and they usually end 243 00:13:07,561 --> 00:13:09,841 Speaker 3: up going back to the you know, the original one 244 00:13:09,881 --> 00:13:13,601 Speaker 3: that almost comfortable with. So there, the idea is to 245 00:13:13,641 --> 00:13:15,321 Speaker 3: sort of you know, you know, to get off all 246 00:13:15,361 --> 00:13:17,921 Speaker 3: the drugs, you know, spend a bit of time off 247 00:13:17,921 --> 00:13:21,361 Speaker 3: the phone, spend time away from TV, spend a bit 248 00:13:21,361 --> 00:13:26,321 Speaker 3: of time away from work and allow yourself just to 249 00:13:26,441 --> 00:13:28,921 Speaker 3: sit with all the stuff that you're covering up. You know, 250 00:13:30,241 --> 00:13:34,841 Speaker 3: our bodies are such an intelligent system, and our bodies 251 00:13:34,841 --> 00:13:37,681 Speaker 3: will heal itself. Like if you cut yourself, like you know, 252 00:13:37,561 --> 00:13:39,241 Speaker 3: you know, you don't know, you don't have to freak 253 00:13:39,241 --> 00:13:43,961 Speaker 3: yourself out the cut, will you peel back over and 254 00:13:43,961 --> 00:13:47,521 Speaker 3: stuff like that from work. If you tear a muscle, 255 00:13:47,521 --> 00:13:50,081 Speaker 3: it'll do the same. It's the same for us internally 256 00:13:50,121 --> 00:13:54,481 Speaker 3: and spiritually. If we if we can just stop distracting, 257 00:13:54,801 --> 00:13:57,561 Speaker 3: you know, like the distraction is like being cut and 258 00:13:57,641 --> 00:14:00,121 Speaker 3: just like you know, you know, every day, just you 259 00:14:00,201 --> 00:14:02,201 Speaker 3: can up recutting the wound. You know, if we can 260 00:14:02,241 --> 00:14:04,721 Speaker 3: just sort of like sit with it, you know, you know, 261 00:14:05,561 --> 00:14:10,601 Speaker 3: and sit with the silence that you know, we're the 262 00:14:11,001 --> 00:14:14,841 Speaker 3: uncomfortable feelings and emotions and stuff that comes up, we 263 00:14:14,881 --> 00:14:17,401 Speaker 3: will become aware of what we're actually running away from. 264 00:14:17,801 --> 00:14:22,201 Speaker 3: We don't get taught how to process emotion. An emotion 265 00:14:22,441 --> 00:14:25,641 Speaker 3: is just energy emotion, and you know, if we don't 266 00:14:25,721 --> 00:14:29,521 Speaker 3: process it, it gets trapped and locked into us, and you know, 267 00:14:29,641 --> 00:14:31,601 Speaker 3: and it becomes stagnant. It can make us feel really 268 00:14:31,681 --> 00:14:34,641 Speaker 3: uncomfortable and stuff like that, and so when we go 269 00:14:34,761 --> 00:14:39,521 Speaker 3: through a life experience, you know, particularly one that's that 270 00:14:39,601 --> 00:14:41,041 Speaker 3: was unpleasant or traumatic. 271 00:14:41,321 --> 00:14:43,161 Speaker 1: Well, for me, it was four years of walking around 272 00:14:43,161 --> 00:14:46,081 Speaker 1: with an ankle bracelet, you know, suppressing that whole emotion 273 00:14:46,241 --> 00:14:48,841 Speaker 1: of walking with my children hand in hand, my daughter, 274 00:14:49,441 --> 00:14:52,401 Speaker 1: you know, going to football, going presently in public and 275 00:14:52,441 --> 00:14:54,721 Speaker 1: not caring what people were thinking, not giving a fuck. 276 00:14:55,601 --> 00:14:59,321 Speaker 1: Where's deep within I was caring. I was hurting, I 277 00:14:59,441 --> 00:15:03,081 Speaker 1: was embarrassed. I was ashamed because I'm thinking, I know 278 00:15:03,121 --> 00:15:07,321 Speaker 1: what these perceptions are of, you know, like it took 279 00:15:07,361 --> 00:15:11,801 Speaker 1: its toll, but I couldn't let that out. And then 280 00:15:11,881 --> 00:15:16,401 Speaker 1: having it off, I've already masked myself because I was 281 00:15:16,441 --> 00:15:20,281 Speaker 1: in this escape plan of Okay, I've gone through an operation, 282 00:15:20,361 --> 00:15:24,241 Speaker 1: a traumatic, I feel good. I'm getting these drugs, these 283 00:15:24,321 --> 00:15:27,321 Speaker 1: drugs unfunctioning. No one would know other than me throwing 284 00:15:27,321 --> 00:15:30,121 Speaker 1: myself under the bus right now, and I'm okay with 285 00:15:30,161 --> 00:15:31,841 Speaker 1: that because I feel that's part of my healing and 286 00:15:31,921 --> 00:15:38,441 Speaker 1: me I become imploded to my family. I've become separated 287 00:15:38,441 --> 00:15:41,361 Speaker 1: from a twenty one year relationship, you know, like it's 288 00:15:42,001 --> 00:15:44,721 Speaker 1: not worked in my favor at all. So there comes 289 00:15:44,721 --> 00:15:46,841 Speaker 1: a time in the last nine weeks where I've had 290 00:15:46,841 --> 00:15:48,721 Speaker 1: to look in the mirror and go how much do 291 00:15:48,761 --> 00:15:50,961 Speaker 1: I love me? And want to make me a better man? 292 00:15:52,401 --> 00:15:55,801 Speaker 1: And I feel almost like I wanted to use this 293 00:15:55,841 --> 00:15:58,001 Speaker 1: as a bit of a therapy session if I can, 294 00:15:58,641 --> 00:16:02,361 Speaker 1: because I feel there's a lot of people out there 295 00:16:02,441 --> 00:16:04,801 Speaker 1: that are in this same space and you may not 296 00:16:05,121 --> 00:16:07,561 Speaker 1: have that opportunity to talk to someone like Nick right 297 00:16:07,601 --> 00:16:11,801 Speaker 1: at this moment, But if we can share what your 298 00:16:11,881 --> 00:16:14,681 Speaker 1: knowledge is and what you do and how you're helping 299 00:16:14,721 --> 00:16:18,561 Speaker 1: people and what tools enable people to grow from these 300 00:16:18,921 --> 00:16:22,081 Speaker 1: negative things, then this is a really worthy place to 301 00:16:22,121 --> 00:16:22,721 Speaker 1: be right now. 302 00:16:22,881 --> 00:16:26,601 Speaker 3: For sure. You know it's sort of you know, touching 303 00:16:26,601 --> 00:16:29,081 Speaker 3: on before. So it's just all self inquiries. If you 304 00:16:29,121 --> 00:16:32,241 Speaker 3: sit with yourself long enough, you know you're going to 305 00:16:32,401 --> 00:16:37,001 Speaker 3: feel certain emotions, you know, And for me to started 306 00:16:37,041 --> 00:16:41,281 Speaker 3: doing this process, you know, I didn't have any emotional intelligence. 307 00:16:41,321 --> 00:16:45,121 Speaker 3: I didn't know what I was feeling, couldn't pinpointed when 308 00:16:45,401 --> 00:16:48,681 Speaker 3: all our emotions are signals, you know, when we can 309 00:16:48,681 --> 00:16:53,281 Speaker 3: break the emotion down, it'll tell us what it needs 310 00:16:53,281 --> 00:16:56,761 Speaker 3: to tell us what we need, you know. You know, 311 00:16:56,841 --> 00:16:59,681 Speaker 3: for instance, the shame that you felt, you know, like 312 00:17:00,641 --> 00:17:03,921 Speaker 3: you know, shame is a signal that you're behaving in 313 00:17:03,921 --> 00:17:06,801 Speaker 3: a way that's an alignment to you, you know. And 314 00:17:06,881 --> 00:17:10,001 Speaker 3: so if you know, if you continue to act in 315 00:17:10,041 --> 00:17:13,041 Speaker 3: that way, you'll continue to feel shame, you know, and 316 00:17:13,120 --> 00:17:16,480 Speaker 3: say all that's doing is just a bit of internal guidance, say, man, 317 00:17:16,640 --> 00:17:20,281 Speaker 3: do better, you know, for yourself. And what people do 318 00:17:20,441 --> 00:17:22,640 Speaker 3: is they go into what they call like a shame cycle. 319 00:17:22,721 --> 00:17:25,360 Speaker 3: What they feel shame. They don't know what the signal 320 00:17:25,400 --> 00:17:29,080 Speaker 3: of shame means, you know, they feel uncomfortable because the 321 00:17:29,201 --> 00:17:31,521 Speaker 3: feeling of shame is not pleasant, you know, and so 322 00:17:31,640 --> 00:17:33,401 Speaker 3: they do drugs alcohol. 323 00:17:34,041 --> 00:17:35,801 Speaker 1: I just do it to numb it because then I 324 00:17:36,080 --> 00:17:38,721 Speaker 1: just blank faced it, face the world and not care, 325 00:17:39,001 --> 00:17:40,840 Speaker 1: not take on that feeling of. 326 00:17:41,001 --> 00:17:43,521 Speaker 3: But you do. But the reality is you do. You 327 00:17:43,561 --> 00:17:46,321 Speaker 3: do care, and you numb it, right, and so when 328 00:17:46,400 --> 00:17:48,840 Speaker 3: when when you affects it the drugs wear off, you know, 329 00:17:49,080 --> 00:17:51,761 Speaker 3: you then feel shame because you know you've taken a 330 00:17:51,801 --> 00:17:54,240 Speaker 3: drug to do it, to do it, you know, and 331 00:17:54,281 --> 00:17:56,880 Speaker 3: then and then you feel shame again. And then to 332 00:17:56,961 --> 00:17:59,041 Speaker 3: avoid feeling shame, you take a drug again. And that's 333 00:17:59,041 --> 00:18:02,880 Speaker 3: a shame cycle, you know. So what what the emotions 334 00:18:02,880 --> 00:18:05,481 Speaker 3: want us to do is want us to learn from it, 335 00:18:04,840 --> 00:18:09,080 Speaker 3: you know, and all emotions are same, Like jealousy is 336 00:18:09,080 --> 00:18:11,160 Speaker 3: just inspired action, you know. Like you know, so if 337 00:18:11,160 --> 00:18:14,200 Speaker 3: you're jealous of someone, for example, you know there's actually 338 00:18:14,201 --> 00:18:17,680 Speaker 3: something in them that that that that you admire, you know, 339 00:18:18,120 --> 00:18:20,001 Speaker 3: sort of hating on them and bringing them down and 340 00:18:20,080 --> 00:18:21,921 Speaker 3: ripping them down, which is what we want to do, 341 00:18:22,041 --> 00:18:22,680 Speaker 3: because that's the. 342 00:18:23,400 --> 00:18:24,600 Speaker 1: S a lot of isn't it today? 343 00:18:24,801 --> 00:18:27,761 Speaker 3: What's what we see a lot of? Yeah, that's right, 344 00:18:27,840 --> 00:18:30,001 Speaker 3: It's it's sort of what we want to do to 345 00:18:30,041 --> 00:18:32,360 Speaker 3: make ourselves feel better in the moment, you know. But 346 00:18:32,400 --> 00:18:35,561 Speaker 3: if we can sort of like avoid sort of you know, 347 00:18:35,880 --> 00:18:38,401 Speaker 3: using it in that toxic manner and go, Okay, look, 348 00:18:38,721 --> 00:18:41,840 Speaker 3: this guy's triggering some jealousy of me. He's not making 349 00:18:41,840 --> 00:18:44,840 Speaker 3: me come, he's making me uncomfortable. I may not like 350 00:18:44,921 --> 00:18:47,240 Speaker 3: everything about him, but there is something about him that 351 00:18:47,281 --> 00:18:49,921 Speaker 3: I actually admire. What is it? You know? Because when 352 00:18:49,921 --> 00:18:51,720 Speaker 3: I know what it is and I can apply it 353 00:18:51,721 --> 00:18:54,160 Speaker 3: to my own life, you know, and that's that's me 354 00:18:54,281 --> 00:18:55,640 Speaker 3: listening to the signals, you know. 355 00:18:56,321 --> 00:18:59,161 Speaker 1: So there's an education in that we could say, yeah, 356 00:18:59,521 --> 00:19:03,681 Speaker 1: there is value in feeling that that well, I don't 357 00:19:03,681 --> 00:19:05,360 Speaker 1: want to use the word. 358 00:19:05,160 --> 00:19:09,521 Speaker 3: What what what? What was in this case? It is jealous? Yeah, 359 00:19:09,600 --> 00:19:12,801 Speaker 3: you know, it's you know, everything's happening for us, you know, 360 00:19:13,120 --> 00:19:15,240 Speaker 3: like you know, we're never you know, like you know, 361 00:19:15,321 --> 00:19:18,400 Speaker 3: everything's you know, everything is just a process. You know, 362 00:19:18,481 --> 00:19:22,680 Speaker 3: we're we we look at things were our mentalized things 363 00:19:22,721 --> 00:19:24,481 Speaker 3: and think that you know, if we if we want 364 00:19:24,481 --> 00:19:25,961 Speaker 3: to sort of work on our stuff, we've got to 365 00:19:26,041 --> 00:19:28,520 Speaker 3: like go and do a retreat. And we do it 366 00:19:28,561 --> 00:19:32,321 Speaker 3: in a retreat. But the process of like you know 367 00:19:32,840 --> 00:19:36,600 Speaker 3: of call it healing or you know, or evolution or 368 00:19:37,080 --> 00:19:39,640 Speaker 3: or self development whatever, you know, it doesn't happen in 369 00:19:39,721 --> 00:19:42,600 Speaker 3: these small little places in his books and stuff like that, 370 00:19:42,600 --> 00:19:46,681 Speaker 3: Like it does happen there, but it's throughout life like journey, 371 00:19:46,801 --> 00:19:51,201 Speaker 3: every conversation, every interaction is our curriculum, you know, where 372 00:19:51,001 --> 00:19:54,481 Speaker 3: we are actually meant to evolve in something from from 373 00:19:54,521 --> 00:19:58,400 Speaker 3: those experiences, you know. Uh, and this is where you know, 374 00:19:58,481 --> 00:19:59,960 Speaker 3: this is where it gets a little bit, you know, 375 00:20:00,120 --> 00:20:02,120 Speaker 3: like you know, we woo and stuff like you know, 376 00:20:02,241 --> 00:20:04,360 Speaker 3: and you know people can fall off sometimes and stuff. 377 00:20:04,400 --> 00:20:05,960 Speaker 3: But like if you can look at it, you know 378 00:20:06,201 --> 00:20:09,561 Speaker 3: as this whole life experience is just like it's just 379 00:20:09,600 --> 00:20:12,360 Speaker 3: a way for us to evolve into our higher self. 380 00:20:12,400 --> 00:20:14,561 Speaker 3: You know, there's actually nothing that we need to run from, 381 00:20:14,600 --> 00:20:16,920 Speaker 3: you know, like you know, there's a there's nothing we 382 00:20:16,961 --> 00:20:17,961 Speaker 3: need to distract from. 383 00:20:18,041 --> 00:20:18,120 Speaker 1: You. 384 00:20:18,360 --> 00:20:21,160 Speaker 3: All the stuff we're distracting from actually our biggest blessings, 385 00:20:21,201 --> 00:20:25,481 Speaker 3: you know, and and that that can make us uncomfortable. 386 00:20:25,721 --> 00:20:30,080 Speaker 3: You know. They're evolving us to a to a to 387 00:20:30,241 --> 00:20:35,080 Speaker 3: a person that's capable of you know, having all the 388 00:20:35,521 --> 00:20:40,241 Speaker 3: you know, having the maximized life that we can't into experience. 389 00:20:40,640 --> 00:20:46,161 Speaker 3: We have to build ourselves up to a to a 390 00:20:46,160 --> 00:20:47,720 Speaker 3: an empowered state, you know. 391 00:20:47,921 --> 00:20:51,400 Speaker 1: So would you call it nick self worth? Oh for sure? 392 00:20:51,681 --> 00:20:52,801 Speaker 3: Yeah, sure, you know, like. 393 00:20:53,080 --> 00:20:57,561 Speaker 1: And touching on that, the importance of self love, being 394 00:20:57,600 --> 00:20:59,600 Speaker 1: able to look in the mirror, and we just talked 395 00:20:59,640 --> 00:21:03,360 Speaker 1: about this in our last episode, the importance of love 396 00:21:03,600 --> 00:21:06,521 Speaker 1: looking in the mirror. And so I love you Brot, yeah, 397 00:21:06,721 --> 00:21:13,561 Speaker 1: I love me. Yeah, that is so valuable. And is 398 00:21:13,600 --> 00:21:17,801 Speaker 1: this something that within the structure of your healings and 399 00:21:18,160 --> 00:21:22,041 Speaker 1: better ways of life choices that you help people to 400 00:21:22,120 --> 00:21:26,561 Speaker 1: grow understanding what love is as well as for sure 401 00:21:26,640 --> 00:21:27,801 Speaker 1: accepting that it's okay? 402 00:21:28,120 --> 00:21:31,681 Speaker 3: Yeah, absolutely, So that's and that's essentially what I do, 403 00:21:32,001 --> 00:21:34,641 Speaker 3: you know, I have a I have a you know, 404 00:21:35,120 --> 00:21:38,721 Speaker 3: obviously I have a rehab for people to move through 405 00:21:39,441 --> 00:21:42,521 Speaker 3: real traumatic stuff, you know, but also you know, help 406 00:21:42,561 --> 00:21:45,080 Speaker 3: coach people on the outside as well, and through a 407 00:21:45,120 --> 00:21:47,880 Speaker 3: sixteen week process, I teach people how to how to 408 00:21:47,921 --> 00:21:50,201 Speaker 3: love themselves again, you know, because it is a process. 409 00:21:50,241 --> 00:21:53,640 Speaker 3: And at the end of the day, like when we 410 00:21:53,681 --> 00:21:56,840 Speaker 3: are doing the things that we tell ourselves we're going 411 00:21:56,880 --> 00:21:59,041 Speaker 3: to do and keeping the promises to ourselves, it will 412 00:21:59,080 --> 00:22:02,121 Speaker 3: build our confidence, it will build our self respect, are 413 00:22:02,120 --> 00:22:04,920 Speaker 3: a pot with ourselves and stuff like that, and and 414 00:22:05,160 --> 00:22:09,321 Speaker 3: over doing these things consistently over a long period of time, 415 00:22:09,721 --> 00:22:13,321 Speaker 3: you know, we you know, we developed enough self worth 416 00:22:13,400 --> 00:22:17,080 Speaker 3: to stop sabotaging all our you know, all our outcomes 417 00:22:17,120 --> 00:22:19,640 Speaker 3: and stuff like a sabotage is just it's just something 418 00:22:19,640 --> 00:22:21,080 Speaker 3: that we do when we create a life that we 419 00:22:21,120 --> 00:22:23,360 Speaker 3: feel like we're not worthy of having, you know, So 420 00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:25,761 Speaker 3: when we when we when we start to create self 421 00:22:25,801 --> 00:22:28,921 Speaker 3: love and self worth, you know, we stopped just butchering 422 00:22:28,961 --> 00:22:32,161 Speaker 3: our lives, you know, like you that word, well, because 423 00:22:32,921 --> 00:22:35,600 Speaker 3: you know, I remember, I remember sabotage, you know, just 424 00:22:35,600 --> 00:22:38,961 Speaker 3: just sabotaging you know, my life, you know, just going 425 00:22:39,001 --> 00:22:40,681 Speaker 3: what the fuck would I do that like it made 426 00:22:40,721 --> 00:22:43,840 Speaker 3: no sense, you know, like i'd it's hard for people 427 00:22:43,880 --> 00:22:45,640 Speaker 3: to understand and comprehend. 428 00:22:45,360 --> 00:22:48,201 Speaker 1: Because sorry not to sort of take away from your story, 429 00:22:48,201 --> 00:22:52,680 Speaker 1: but Nichols too is a very successful boxing promoter and 430 00:22:52,721 --> 00:22:56,160 Speaker 1: being involved in the sport now for some time. And 431 00:22:56,801 --> 00:23:00,441 Speaker 1: I would had the honor of being invited to your 432 00:23:00,521 --> 00:23:04,761 Speaker 1: last big show, which was phenomenal, just the class and 433 00:23:04,801 --> 00:23:07,600 Speaker 1: they it was done, and you as a person being 434 00:23:07,721 --> 00:23:12,121 Speaker 1: present and just mingling and you know, talking about what 435 00:23:12,160 --> 00:23:15,600 Speaker 1: it is that we're here today, which is about empowerment, 436 00:23:15,681 --> 00:23:19,281 Speaker 1: giving people the tools in life to better themselves and 437 00:23:19,360 --> 00:23:25,321 Speaker 1: finding better choices through self worth and health and mindset. 438 00:23:25,681 --> 00:23:28,120 Speaker 1: You were able to present that to a full room 439 00:23:28,360 --> 00:23:30,960 Speaker 1: like and I mean a big auditorium and it was 440 00:23:31,041 --> 00:23:31,561 Speaker 1: well done. 441 00:23:31,681 --> 00:23:34,921 Speaker 3: That the reason that but well, thank you, thank you. 442 00:23:35,561 --> 00:23:37,960 Speaker 3: I mean I didn't done it. I didn't held the 443 00:23:38,001 --> 00:23:40,761 Speaker 3: boxing show. I mean I used to do I used 444 00:23:40,761 --> 00:23:43,080 Speaker 3: to hold Fox sold boxing shows and stuff like that, 445 00:23:43,201 --> 00:23:47,201 Speaker 3: Sea goals and stuff four years ago, pushing five years. 446 00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:51,961 Speaker 1: It's a bit of a time you think back to where. 447 00:23:52,120 --> 00:23:54,521 Speaker 3: But I hadn't done a show in a long time. 448 00:23:54,600 --> 00:23:56,360 Speaker 3: The reason I actually did that show the tur Club, 449 00:23:56,441 --> 00:23:58,680 Speaker 3: not long ago. Was just to just to get some 450 00:23:58,761 --> 00:24:01,561 Speaker 3: media attention around what I'm actually doing today. A lot 451 00:24:01,600 --> 00:24:05,321 Speaker 3: of people didn't actually know, you know, I thought just 452 00:24:05,360 --> 00:24:07,080 Speaker 3: dropped off the boxing a little bit. He is doing 453 00:24:07,080 --> 00:24:10,161 Speaker 3: this hope and health stuff, and you know he's on 454 00:24:10,481 --> 00:24:13,961 Speaker 3: Facebook and Instagram spreaking some weird spiritual ship you. 455 00:24:13,921 --> 00:24:15,880 Speaker 1: Know, wing out here, and he's lost his ship. 456 00:24:16,080 --> 00:24:19,521 Speaker 3: Yeah. Well, like at the end of the day, like 457 00:24:19,600 --> 00:24:22,441 Speaker 3: you know, like I'll cop that, but I will say, 458 00:24:23,120 --> 00:24:26,680 Speaker 3: you know, like I also know that a lot of 459 00:24:26,721 --> 00:24:30,001 Speaker 3: people have reached out to me in that time. And 460 00:24:30,041 --> 00:24:32,401 Speaker 3: one of the reasons I keep spreaking all that spiritual 461 00:24:32,441 --> 00:24:35,160 Speaker 3: ship is because I know it's true. You know, like 462 00:24:35,201 --> 00:24:37,761 Speaker 3: I spend time studying these laws of the universe and 463 00:24:37,840 --> 00:24:43,480 Speaker 3: understanding that there are laws that and energies in this 464 00:24:43,681 --> 00:24:47,720 Speaker 3: universe that we either learned to live with, learned to 465 00:24:47,761 --> 00:24:51,521 Speaker 3: align ourselves with and harmonize ourselves to them, or they 466 00:24:51,561 --> 00:24:54,680 Speaker 3: you know, or we risk them completely fucking up our lives, 467 00:24:54,721 --> 00:24:55,321 Speaker 3: you know, like. 468 00:24:55,360 --> 00:25:00,201 Speaker 1: Sat imbalancement, isn't it the gravity of the these. 469 00:24:59,561 --> 00:25:02,241 Speaker 3: Aren't like you know, man made laws of police, laws 470 00:25:02,241 --> 00:25:04,360 Speaker 3: that you might get away with. Sometimes, you know, there's 471 00:25:04,400 --> 00:25:06,561 Speaker 3: a spiritual or is that you can never fuck with, 472 00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:09,640 Speaker 3: you can never manipulate, you know. And so once you 473 00:25:09,721 --> 00:25:12,880 Speaker 3: understand these laws, you automatically just become a better person 474 00:25:12,921 --> 00:25:16,760 Speaker 3: because you realize that you can't you can't do shitty 475 00:25:16,761 --> 00:25:18,481 Speaker 3: things in this life and expect a good life. 476 00:25:18,521 --> 00:25:21,721 Speaker 1: You know, come as a bitch, as they say, yeah. 477 00:25:21,400 --> 00:25:23,440 Speaker 3: Well you know, I mean, you know, I mean, can't 478 00:25:23,521 --> 00:25:26,360 Speaker 3: come as like a lifelong thing. And the immediate effect 479 00:25:26,441 --> 00:25:28,521 Speaker 3: is cause and effect, you know, like you start doing 480 00:25:28,521 --> 00:25:32,360 Speaker 3: shitty things, you know, like a shitty action causes shitty things, 481 00:25:32,441 --> 00:25:34,480 Speaker 3: you know, and then you know, and then yeah, you 482 00:25:34,600 --> 00:25:35,840 Speaker 3: experience shitty things. 483 00:25:35,880 --> 00:25:39,881 Speaker 1: The environment becomes you started, that's right. 484 00:25:39,961 --> 00:25:43,561 Speaker 3: And then what people who don't understand, like, you know, 485 00:25:43,681 --> 00:25:47,480 Speaker 3: like a law cause and effect, they'll they will blame 486 00:25:47,521 --> 00:25:50,200 Speaker 3: the effects, you know, the shitty things that are happening 487 00:25:50,201 --> 00:25:52,360 Speaker 3: in their life for the way they feel when they 488 00:25:52,360 --> 00:25:54,840 Speaker 3: don't realize the actual shitty things that are happening in 489 00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:57,521 Speaker 3: the life due to things that the facts you've done. 490 00:25:57,640 --> 00:26:01,801 Speaker 1: You know, we talk about gratefulness and appreciating the moment. 491 00:26:02,281 --> 00:26:05,640 Speaker 1: I'm appreciating right now, this moment I'm feeling, as expressed, 492 00:26:06,160 --> 00:26:11,080 Speaker 1: feeling exceptionally relaxed and comfortable in your presence. So much 493 00:26:11,321 --> 00:26:14,761 Speaker 1: energy in a beautiful way is coming across. But then 494 00:26:14,801 --> 00:26:17,120 Speaker 1: I'm also sitting here whilst we're talking, and I'm thinking, 495 00:26:17,160 --> 00:26:20,240 Speaker 1: as you're speaking about certain triggering words and so on, 496 00:26:20,360 --> 00:26:23,921 Speaker 1: it's taking me back to my traumas and moving forward 497 00:26:23,961 --> 00:26:28,600 Speaker 1: from that. I wouldn't be sitting here absorbing this information 498 00:26:28,840 --> 00:26:31,960 Speaker 1: being able to share this information to these thousands and 499 00:26:32,001 --> 00:26:34,721 Speaker 1: thousands and hundreds of thousands of beautiful people out there 500 00:26:35,080 --> 00:26:37,640 Speaker 1: that are soul searching right now and looking for a 501 00:26:37,681 --> 00:26:40,081 Speaker 1: way that they can better themselves and lives. We wouldn't 502 00:26:40,801 --> 00:26:47,240 Speaker 1: be helping and giving back the clarity through sobriety, the 503 00:26:47,281 --> 00:26:52,481 Speaker 1: clarity through education, the clarity through connecting with like mine 504 00:26:52,521 --> 00:26:57,521 Speaker 1: and a networking with people like ourselves is beyond words 505 00:26:58,120 --> 00:27:01,841 Speaker 1: when you realize once you open your channels in your 506 00:27:01,840 --> 00:27:06,960 Speaker 1: mind to what can come in, are you also of 507 00:27:07,001 --> 00:27:11,840 Speaker 1: the belief that you know the path that you initially 508 00:27:11,880 --> 00:27:14,321 Speaker 1: walked has led you here today to be here to 509 00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:19,920 Speaker 1: help and heal. Yeah, Like, I guess more for the 510 00:27:19,961 --> 00:27:22,440 Speaker 1: fact of someone questioning themselves out there, why am I 511 00:27:22,481 --> 00:27:22,881 Speaker 1: going through? 512 00:27:22,961 --> 00:27:23,041 Speaker 3: Is? 513 00:27:23,080 --> 00:27:23,640 Speaker 1: What's happening? 514 00:27:23,681 --> 00:27:24,640 Speaker 3: What? Fuck? You know? Like? 515 00:27:24,681 --> 00:27:28,920 Speaker 1: I hate my life? Just hold hold, hold, just stop 516 00:27:28,961 --> 00:27:32,640 Speaker 1: and just just breathing. And and it's fucking hard because, 517 00:27:32,801 --> 00:27:35,041 Speaker 1: like you said, it's taking years of work and education 518 00:27:35,201 --> 00:27:38,441 Speaker 1: and self work and I'm a working well works in progress. 519 00:27:39,681 --> 00:27:42,680 Speaker 1: But if you're listening to this right now, just just 520 00:27:42,761 --> 00:27:47,200 Speaker 1: take a breath, because Nick's got some some really really 521 00:27:47,521 --> 00:27:50,321 Speaker 1: worthy information and I'm feeling that. 522 00:27:51,201 --> 00:27:54,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, like I just I don't know, like 523 00:27:54,640 --> 00:27:57,361 Speaker 3: you know, I mean, I've been sticking needles and arms 524 00:27:57,360 --> 00:28:01,880 Speaker 3: since I was thirteen, you know, and I've experienced just 525 00:28:02,640 --> 00:28:05,240 Speaker 3: so many fucking lows in my life, you know, like 526 00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:10,360 Speaker 3: not just physical loads. I've experienced homelessness and stuff I've 527 00:28:10,400 --> 00:28:13,801 Speaker 3: experienced on like you know, physical loads and some but 528 00:28:14,241 --> 00:28:18,321 Speaker 3: it's it's like the emotional loads I felt, like, made 529 00:28:18,441 --> 00:28:22,241 Speaker 3: levels of despair that just been so fucking dark, you know. 530 00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:26,281 Speaker 1: Husband, wife, family, children, Yeah. 531 00:28:26,120 --> 00:28:28,240 Speaker 3: I mean, I mean I've lost stuff like that before, 532 00:28:28,321 --> 00:28:32,041 Speaker 3: you know, like I love and understand that stuff, you know, 533 00:28:32,120 --> 00:28:36,401 Speaker 3: like I understand when you know, you know, like I've 534 00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:39,641 Speaker 3: been that person that's been fucking judged my whole life 535 00:28:39,681 --> 00:28:42,161 Speaker 3: for the things I've done, for sticking needles in my arm, 536 00:28:42,201 --> 00:28:44,161 Speaker 3: you know. But you know, if you if you're judging 537 00:28:44,241 --> 00:28:47,561 Speaker 3: someone who's willing to risk their life to change the 538 00:28:47,601 --> 00:28:50,720 Speaker 3: way they feel for half an hour, then something is 539 00:28:50,841 --> 00:28:53,401 Speaker 3: really fucking wrong with you, you know, like you know that, 540 00:28:53,601 --> 00:28:55,761 Speaker 3: and that just goes to the lack of compassion and 541 00:28:55,801 --> 00:28:58,521 Speaker 3: empathy in this world. You know, like people are willing 542 00:28:58,561 --> 00:29:01,241 Speaker 3: to stick a needle in their arms with a really 543 00:29:01,281 --> 00:29:04,121 Speaker 3: fucking dangerous substance. You know that, you know that is 544 00:29:04,241 --> 00:29:07,041 Speaker 3: killing people all around the world, you know, risk and 545 00:29:07,121 --> 00:29:10,721 Speaker 3: losing the families, the loved ones and everything sacrificed, absolutely 546 00:29:10,761 --> 00:29:13,281 Speaker 3: everything that change the way they feel, even for a 547 00:29:13,401 --> 00:29:15,841 Speaker 3: very short period of time. You know, it's a real 548 00:29:15,921 --> 00:29:22,041 Speaker 3: lack of understanding. Yeah, and so when when when I 549 00:29:22,161 --> 00:29:27,041 Speaker 3: was blessed enough to be able to, you know, find 550 00:29:27,121 --> 00:29:30,281 Speaker 3: my own way out more through the guidance of some 551 00:29:30,481 --> 00:29:34,081 Speaker 3: very very powerful mentals and people in my life. You know, 552 00:29:34,681 --> 00:29:37,321 Speaker 3: I mean I just knew that that I had to 553 00:29:37,361 --> 00:29:39,521 Speaker 3: give this back, you know, I just knew that, you know, 554 00:29:39,601 --> 00:29:41,720 Speaker 3: this was this was now my calling, you know, this 555 00:29:41,841 --> 00:29:45,001 Speaker 3: is and this made sense of everything. You know when 556 00:29:45,001 --> 00:29:46,881 Speaker 3: you said before, did you I feel like I had 557 00:29:46,921 --> 00:29:49,321 Speaker 3: to go through what I went through to do what 558 00:29:49,321 --> 00:29:52,561 Speaker 3: I'm doing? Yeah, It's like, yeah, absolutely, I don't like 559 00:29:52,601 --> 00:29:55,081 Speaker 3: I don't know, and hats off to anyone who's just 560 00:29:55,121 --> 00:29:58,041 Speaker 3: a good samaritan that's sort of like that wants to 561 00:29:58,681 --> 00:30:00,801 Speaker 3: help people with drugs and alcohol. I haven't walked that 562 00:30:00,841 --> 00:30:03,200 Speaker 3: path themselves, fucking you know, kudos to you. And I 563 00:30:03,281 --> 00:30:05,801 Speaker 3: love that people are empathetic like that. I've got a 564 00:30:05,841 --> 00:30:08,161 Speaker 3: huge amount of respect for anyone sort of like, you know, 565 00:30:08,201 --> 00:30:10,321 Speaker 3: anyone in the medical field and stuff like that. So 566 00:30:11,441 --> 00:30:16,200 Speaker 3: you know, like any any doctors, any GPS, psychologists, psychotherapists, 567 00:30:16,241 --> 00:30:18,841 Speaker 3: you know, psychiatrists and stuff that You've got a huge 568 00:30:18,881 --> 00:30:22,321 Speaker 3: amount of respect for for for for what they're doing. 569 00:30:22,361 --> 00:30:26,481 Speaker 3: It's not shit canning them, but there is no there's 570 00:30:26,121 --> 00:30:28,881 Speaker 3: there's there's all different ways it's going to cut, you know, 571 00:30:29,001 --> 00:30:35,401 Speaker 3: And and you know, I want to make sure that 572 00:30:37,561 --> 00:30:41,281 Speaker 3: that for all those people that have you know, gone 573 00:30:41,281 --> 00:30:45,720 Speaker 3: to GPS and you know psychiatrists and end up, you know, 574 00:30:45,761 --> 00:30:47,841 Speaker 3: in a methadone program or they end up. 575 00:30:47,721 --> 00:30:49,721 Speaker 1: On the liquid handcuffs as they call it. 576 00:30:49,961 --> 00:30:52,961 Speaker 3: Well for some people, yeah, you know, like but like 577 00:30:53,721 --> 00:30:58,001 Speaker 3: I want to make sure that for those people that 578 00:30:58,161 --> 00:31:01,041 Speaker 3: tried all those avenues as I did, you know, I 579 00:31:01,081 --> 00:31:03,121 Speaker 3: wanted to make sure that it's not the end of 580 00:31:03,161 --> 00:31:05,321 Speaker 3: the road when they get to where I got, you know, 581 00:31:05,401 --> 00:31:08,641 Speaker 3: where every avenue you know, the methadone and the bub 582 00:31:10,441 --> 00:31:17,561 Speaker 3: neltres you know, like and the meetings. I did everything. 583 00:31:17,601 --> 00:31:21,241 Speaker 3: I did everything, and at that point I was just lost, 584 00:31:21,281 --> 00:31:25,441 Speaker 3: you know, and so I need to do things my way. 585 00:31:25,521 --> 00:31:28,001 Speaker 3: And it's something that's not only worked for me, it's 586 00:31:28,081 --> 00:31:30,321 Speaker 3: worked for a huge amount of my clients, you know, 587 00:31:30,641 --> 00:31:33,521 Speaker 3: over four countries and wealth and amazing. 588 00:31:33,801 --> 00:31:36,960 Speaker 1: This this is something that I'm excited to talk about 589 00:31:37,241 --> 00:31:40,681 Speaker 1: now is where you are right now and being present 590 00:31:40,761 --> 00:31:43,361 Speaker 1: with you know, the things that you're doing and have done. 591 00:31:44,921 --> 00:31:47,041 Speaker 1: You know, we've just touched on a little background, but 592 00:31:47,921 --> 00:31:51,681 Speaker 1: you know, presently right now you are doing amazing things. 593 00:31:52,441 --> 00:31:57,601 Speaker 1: Let's let's introduce your Centai Fui and I relate to 594 00:31:57,601 --> 00:31:59,960 Speaker 1: it as a wellness center, would that be yeah, I 595 00:32:00,001 --> 00:32:06,361 Speaker 1: mean it's a place of self building. Yeah, a beautiful 596 00:32:06,641 --> 00:32:09,921 Speaker 1: space where you can find you together out Let's let's 597 00:32:09,961 --> 00:32:11,401 Speaker 1: talk about. 598 00:32:10,801 --> 00:32:12,921 Speaker 3: That's the thing that we do, like, you know, we 599 00:32:12,961 --> 00:32:17,241 Speaker 3: help everyone, you know, and that's the beautiful thing about 600 00:32:17,281 --> 00:32:20,481 Speaker 3: our brand, you know, like when we say we're holistic, yeah, 601 00:32:20,521 --> 00:32:22,481 Speaker 3: we've got the yet we know, we do yoga, we 602 00:32:22,521 --> 00:32:25,881 Speaker 3: do breath work, you know, and we do meditation stuff, 603 00:32:25,881 --> 00:32:28,081 Speaker 3: but we offer that stuff anymore. We don't make anyone 604 00:32:28,121 --> 00:32:31,281 Speaker 3: do anything necessarily, but we offer this stuff, you know. 605 00:32:31,961 --> 00:32:33,721 Speaker 3: But we offer this stuff as well as we have 606 00:32:33,801 --> 00:32:36,961 Speaker 3: the clinical integrity to be able to sort of really 607 00:32:37,001 --> 00:32:41,801 Speaker 3: whole complex you know, mental health conditions as well, you know. Uh, 608 00:32:41,881 --> 00:32:45,161 Speaker 3: And everyone that inquires to come into our program gets 609 00:32:45,161 --> 00:32:49,681 Speaker 3: the individual assessment with the individualized treatment plan. So all 610 00:32:49,721 --> 00:32:52,681 Speaker 3: our clinicians, Yeah, so all our clinicians and all our 611 00:32:52,721 --> 00:32:57,761 Speaker 3: contractors work together to come up with a combined treatment plan. 612 00:32:57,921 --> 00:33:01,201 Speaker 3: So you know, like our breathwork constructors for instance, well 613 00:33:02,481 --> 00:33:04,361 Speaker 3: we'll have this. We will be in the same clinical 614 00:33:04,401 --> 00:33:07,601 Speaker 3: review meeting is as you know as a GPS and 615 00:33:07,681 --> 00:33:11,641 Speaker 3: you know, psychologists for instance, and so they understand what 616 00:33:11,761 --> 00:33:15,081 Speaker 3: sort of breath work would work well for this particular client. 617 00:33:17,121 --> 00:33:21,681 Speaker 3: And and we you know, and we don't make them 618 00:33:21,721 --> 00:33:23,881 Speaker 3: do anything they don't want to do, you know, if 619 00:33:23,881 --> 00:33:26,561 Speaker 3: they really resistant to something, you know, we have other 620 00:33:26,641 --> 00:33:29,801 Speaker 3: modalities that we can we can chop and change with 621 00:33:29,961 --> 00:33:32,041 Speaker 3: and stuff. I have to find something that's comfortable for 622 00:33:32,121 --> 00:33:35,681 Speaker 3: that individual. But what we do do is we hold 623 00:33:35,681 --> 00:33:39,081 Speaker 3: everyone accountable to a framework where they find something to 624 00:33:39,081 --> 00:33:44,801 Speaker 3: do physically, emotionally and spiritually you know, every single day 625 00:33:45,361 --> 00:33:47,481 Speaker 3: to help to help them grow, sort. 626 00:33:47,281 --> 00:33:50,161 Speaker 1: Of like a pillared structure. Yeah, that is it, okay 627 00:33:50,161 --> 00:33:51,161 Speaker 1: if I put it that way. 628 00:33:51,121 --> 00:33:55,241 Speaker 3: Yeah, absolutely, Yeah, Yeah, it's just a framework. I mean, 629 00:33:55,681 --> 00:33:57,681 Speaker 3: you don't have to be religious. Well, I mean, whether 630 00:33:57,681 --> 00:34:00,081 Speaker 3: you're religious or not, it's irrelevant, but you need to 631 00:34:00,161 --> 00:34:02,641 Speaker 3: understand that you're a three part being there. So we're 632 00:34:02,841 --> 00:34:05,280 Speaker 3: a physical being. We got this body, you know, you know, 633 00:34:05,361 --> 00:34:07,361 Speaker 3: so we need to train and we need to exercise. 634 00:34:07,401 --> 00:34:09,121 Speaker 3: We need to look after it. So there's the vessel 635 00:34:09,161 --> 00:34:11,761 Speaker 3: that carries us soul around. You know, it's important that 636 00:34:11,801 --> 00:34:14,161 Speaker 3: we look after it. The better our body, you know, 637 00:34:14,361 --> 00:34:16,161 Speaker 3: like the better our mental health as well. And then 638 00:34:16,201 --> 00:34:18,961 Speaker 3: we have our emotional self, you know, and that's the 639 00:34:19,001 --> 00:34:21,361 Speaker 3: part that needs connection with other people. You know, we 640 00:34:21,401 --> 00:34:24,561 Speaker 3: need to nurture that. We need to connect with other people, 641 00:34:25,401 --> 00:34:28,241 Speaker 3: you know, building our relationships with our children, I loved ones, 642 00:34:29,441 --> 00:34:31,881 Speaker 3: intimate partners and stuff like that. We need to be 643 00:34:31,881 --> 00:34:34,321 Speaker 3: able to socialize with our friends. We also need to 644 00:34:34,361 --> 00:34:36,601 Speaker 3: be able to have time with ourselves, you know, and 645 00:34:37,521 --> 00:34:40,561 Speaker 3: all that's really important. Then we have our spiritual selves, 646 00:34:40,601 --> 00:34:45,201 Speaker 3: and we all have this like individual calling and path 647 00:34:45,601 --> 00:34:47,721 Speaker 3: that we need to start to listen to, you know. 648 00:34:48,041 --> 00:34:50,121 Speaker 3: And that's what sort of I was referring to earlier 649 00:34:50,201 --> 00:34:51,961 Speaker 3: on in this segment, is like, you know, when we 650 00:34:52,401 --> 00:34:56,601 Speaker 3: get really still with ourselves likes path, our path and 651 00:34:56,641 --> 00:34:59,321 Speaker 3: our direction show, we'll come to us, you. 652 00:34:59,281 --> 00:35:02,761 Speaker 1: Know, and can relate. And obviously, you know, speaking openly 653 00:35:02,801 --> 00:35:05,481 Speaker 1: about my experience at the present moment where I'm at 654 00:35:05,521 --> 00:35:08,361 Speaker 1: and on the back end of it, it's not being easy. 655 00:35:08,441 --> 00:35:10,921 Speaker 1: And you know, I might come across as a bit 656 00:35:10,961 --> 00:35:13,721 Speaker 1: of a mask wearing person. I have been, and you know, 657 00:35:13,841 --> 00:35:16,761 Speaker 1: because I don't want people looking down. I'm ashamed, you 658 00:35:16,801 --> 00:35:21,681 Speaker 1: know what I mean. But as the days progress, as 659 00:35:21,681 --> 00:35:24,081 Speaker 1: I invest in my health, as I do some more 660 00:35:24,121 --> 00:35:28,081 Speaker 1: reading and research and education which I find hard to concentrate. 661 00:35:28,161 --> 00:35:31,001 Speaker 1: So I'm still trying to learn that, but I'm finding 662 00:35:31,001 --> 00:35:33,881 Speaker 1: the clarity getting up at four o'clock in the morning' 663 00:35:33,921 --> 00:35:36,481 Speaker 1: making my bed, putting my joggers on, going running a 664 00:35:36,481 --> 00:35:39,561 Speaker 1: minimum of twelve k's, you know, just walking out, going 665 00:35:39,641 --> 00:35:41,601 Speaker 1: left or right, no directional. But I just have a 666 00:35:41,681 --> 00:35:45,241 Speaker 1: number that I like to go at or above because 667 00:35:45,281 --> 00:35:48,121 Speaker 1: I know that's my feel good sort of barrier, and 668 00:35:48,761 --> 00:35:53,681 Speaker 1: it is getting clearer and clearer to where I was 669 00:35:53,681 --> 00:35:59,001 Speaker 1: eight nine weeks ago, and prior of this fogginess, it's 670 00:35:59,121 --> 00:35:59,761 Speaker 1: very relative. 671 00:36:00,081 --> 00:36:03,641 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's because you're breaking through, you know. And so 672 00:36:03,681 --> 00:36:07,561 Speaker 3: what a lot of people do is they imitate things 673 00:36:07,601 --> 00:36:10,201 Speaker 3: on the outside. They've seen that, they see the work. 674 00:36:10,281 --> 00:36:13,161 Speaker 3: So they find these like you know, these athletes or 675 00:36:13,241 --> 00:36:15,841 Speaker 3: like you know, mentors and stuff, people that they idolize 676 00:36:15,841 --> 00:36:18,440 Speaker 3: and stuff like that, and they look at what they 677 00:36:18,521 --> 00:36:20,561 Speaker 3: do and they try to mimic what they do, you know. 678 00:36:20,641 --> 00:36:23,161 Speaker 3: But it's not about the actions that they're doing. You know, 679 00:36:23,241 --> 00:36:27,841 Speaker 3: these people are successful and because they embody what they do, 680 00:36:27,921 --> 00:36:30,001 Speaker 3: you know, so they have a process that they live by, 681 00:36:30,161 --> 00:36:32,401 Speaker 3: you know, so it's not just something to tack onto 682 00:36:32,441 --> 00:36:36,881 Speaker 3: their life. You know, Like we can be emotionally or 683 00:36:37,001 --> 00:36:40,921 Speaker 3: process driven people. You know, people when they're backs up 684 00:36:40,921 --> 00:36:43,121 Speaker 3: against the wall, they get a bit of desperate motivation 685 00:36:43,281 --> 00:36:45,081 Speaker 3: stuff like that. So for a short period of time 686 00:36:45,121 --> 00:36:47,721 Speaker 3: they can do stuff to get themselves into a bit 687 00:36:47,801 --> 00:36:49,561 Speaker 3: of a better state and stuff like that, you know, 688 00:36:49,721 --> 00:36:53,441 Speaker 3: but then they don't the consistency make self worth to 689 00:36:53,481 --> 00:36:55,601 Speaker 3: maintain it, you know. And so when you've got a 690 00:36:55,681 --> 00:36:59,601 Speaker 3: process that you live by and when you're doing stuff, 691 00:36:59,881 --> 00:37:04,001 Speaker 3: even when the motivation drops low or goes completely, but 692 00:37:04,041 --> 00:37:07,961 Speaker 3: you still do it regardless. You know. Then that builds 693 00:37:07,961 --> 00:37:11,241 Speaker 3: self confidence because you're doing you keeping the promises to yourself. Yeah, 694 00:37:11,241 --> 00:37:13,881 Speaker 3: and once you're doing that for long enough consistently and 695 00:37:14,001 --> 00:37:17,161 Speaker 3: becomes a habit, well, it becomes habit and becomes you, 696 00:37:17,161 --> 00:37:19,561 Speaker 3: you know, and that that then becomes a new new 697 00:37:19,921 --> 00:37:20,161 Speaker 3: like that. 698 00:37:20,321 --> 00:37:23,241 Speaker 1: I like that word nick you oh yeah, because we habit. 699 00:37:23,241 --> 00:37:26,321 Speaker 1: It's a word that we generally it's a dirty word sometimes, isn't. 700 00:37:26,081 --> 00:37:28,761 Speaker 3: It Like yeah, but like you know, but it's yeah, 701 00:37:28,801 --> 00:37:30,681 Speaker 3: what it can be like, it can be. 702 00:37:30,961 --> 00:37:33,721 Speaker 1: Well we related if someone says habit, I mean unless 703 00:37:33,761 --> 00:37:36,121 Speaker 1: you're in the industry of fitness and health and wellness 704 00:37:36,121 --> 00:37:39,401 Speaker 1: and we create healthy habits or psychology to the to 705 00:37:39,481 --> 00:37:42,481 Speaker 1: the I won't say average, but to that, I suppose 706 00:37:42,601 --> 00:37:45,801 Speaker 1: majority that are a little bit more exposed to life 707 00:37:45,841 --> 00:37:48,521 Speaker 1: and aren't in touch with everything, that we all have 708 00:37:48,641 --> 00:37:52,281 Speaker 1: some sort of habits. A habit could be a bad thing. Oh, 709 00:37:52,401 --> 00:37:55,401 Speaker 1: I drink every weekend, Well, that's a habit. I smoke drugs, 710 00:37:55,521 --> 00:37:58,321 Speaker 1: that's a habit, snort speed, I shoot ice, whatever it 711 00:37:58,401 --> 00:38:04,681 Speaker 1: might be. Instantly we go habit negative, but yet flip. 712 00:38:04,401 --> 00:38:07,121 Speaker 3: It, Yeah, for sure, because at the end of the day, 713 00:38:07,361 --> 00:38:09,361 Speaker 3: you know, we are our habits. So if we've got 714 00:38:09,401 --> 00:38:12,201 Speaker 3: bad habits, you know, and then then we become we 715 00:38:12,361 --> 00:38:15,401 Speaker 3: become those bad habits, you know, like you know, like 716 00:38:15,601 --> 00:38:18,801 Speaker 3: you know, we create our habits, and our habits will 717 00:38:18,801 --> 00:38:21,801 Speaker 3: create us, you know, like, and so if we have 718 00:38:21,921 --> 00:38:23,761 Speaker 3: a you know, actually actually this is a post on 719 00:38:23,841 --> 00:38:26,321 Speaker 3: this this morning. You know that you know, when we 720 00:38:26,361 --> 00:38:28,801 Speaker 3: have an idea and we get this inspired idea, you 721 00:38:28,841 --> 00:38:30,601 Speaker 3: know that we're going to jump on straight away. You know. 722 00:38:30,841 --> 00:38:33,201 Speaker 3: It's in those it's in those moments. You know, when 723 00:38:33,201 --> 00:38:35,520 Speaker 3: we have the idea, we get a bit of inspiration. Okay, 724 00:38:35,561 --> 00:38:37,761 Speaker 3: so have the big idea. Okay, So what are the 725 00:38:37,841 --> 00:38:39,841 Speaker 3: daily habits and rituals that we've got to do every 726 00:38:39,881 --> 00:38:41,321 Speaker 3: single day. They're going to bring us closer. 727 00:38:42,441 --> 00:38:45,881 Speaker 1: Here are the tools, guys, This is no beautiful nicks. 728 00:38:45,961 --> 00:38:47,961 Speaker 1: Just hit the nail on the head here, because this 729 00:38:48,001 --> 00:38:51,081 Speaker 1: is your purpose of being present here today, is sharing 730 00:38:51,121 --> 00:38:55,761 Speaker 1: this beautiful moment because of what you have now created 731 00:38:56,081 --> 00:38:57,881 Speaker 1: and what you've ran the table. When we talk about 732 00:38:58,241 --> 00:39:02,641 Speaker 1: each guest leaving some tools, I e. Two tools per 733 00:39:02,721 --> 00:39:05,000 Speaker 1: guess at the end of each tour, I personally feel 734 00:39:05,041 --> 00:39:06,721 Speaker 1: he is one of the tools coming right now. 735 00:39:07,121 --> 00:39:09,521 Speaker 3: Yeah, well, I mean look on a very basic level, 736 00:39:09,601 --> 00:39:11,721 Speaker 3: so I do this with every aspect of my life, 737 00:39:11,761 --> 00:39:14,641 Speaker 3: you know. So we've like, you know, my work life 738 00:39:14,721 --> 00:39:16,480 Speaker 3: and all the rest of it. You know, I work 739 00:39:16,521 --> 00:39:20,001 Speaker 3: out what what what what? You know, the amount of 740 00:39:20,041 --> 00:39:21,761 Speaker 3: time I've got every day, At the amount of time I've 741 00:39:21,761 --> 00:39:23,921 Speaker 3: got every week I can designate to work, you know, 742 00:39:24,321 --> 00:39:26,241 Speaker 3: how much time I've got to designate to my children 743 00:39:26,241 --> 00:39:27,921 Speaker 3: and stuff like, what I can give to work and 744 00:39:27,961 --> 00:39:30,921 Speaker 3: in that time, what I can actually sort of like 745 00:39:30,961 --> 00:39:32,881 Speaker 3: accomplish in that time, you know. So I have to 746 00:39:32,921 --> 00:39:34,681 Speaker 3: do whatever I can the best I can, and I 747 00:39:34,801 --> 00:39:35,801 Speaker 3: just have to surrender the rest. 748 00:39:36,041 --> 00:39:37,441 Speaker 1: I was just about to say, what if you don't 749 00:39:37,481 --> 00:39:39,761 Speaker 1: fulfill because you know, anything can happen in that day, 750 00:39:40,321 --> 00:39:44,481 Speaker 1: how do you then, as somebody who now has structured 751 00:39:44,521 --> 00:39:49,000 Speaker 1: life and purpose obviously, and life does have weird ways 752 00:39:49,001 --> 00:39:50,881 Speaker 1: to throw on sort of spanners in the works. It 753 00:39:50,881 --> 00:39:52,681 Speaker 1: happened to yesterday on a job, but. 754 00:39:52,841 --> 00:39:55,561 Speaker 3: It does, it does. But from my experience, you know, 755 00:39:56,521 --> 00:39:58,361 Speaker 3: is it's just you're just got to do whatever you 756 00:39:58,401 --> 00:40:01,001 Speaker 3: can in that day, and it's just a daily it's 757 00:40:01,041 --> 00:40:04,081 Speaker 3: just a daily process. The process process is just what 758 00:40:04,121 --> 00:40:05,521 Speaker 3: we can do every day, be the. 759 00:40:05,441 --> 00:40:09,161 Speaker 1: Best you can be to that potential on that day. 760 00:40:08,921 --> 00:40:11,241 Speaker 3: You know, and then tomorrow is a new page and 761 00:40:11,241 --> 00:40:14,761 Speaker 3: we do it again, you know. And it's a consistency practices. Man. 762 00:40:15,241 --> 00:40:18,480 Speaker 3: You know, Ed Might let we write a book called 763 00:40:18,521 --> 00:40:20,441 Speaker 3: The Power of One More. And in that book he 764 00:40:20,521 --> 00:40:23,841 Speaker 3: talks about like there was about the pinata. I mean, 765 00:40:23,881 --> 00:40:25,721 Speaker 3: you see his kids, you know, they built it like 766 00:40:25,761 --> 00:40:28,441 Speaker 3: a thousand times just to get and all of a 767 00:40:28,441 --> 00:40:31,001 Speaker 3: sudden that one more, that that last one and just 768 00:40:31,041 --> 00:40:33,281 Speaker 3: busts open. And so that's the consistency. 769 00:40:33,321 --> 00:40:33,561 Speaker 1: Yeah. 770 00:40:33,601 --> 00:40:37,001 Speaker 3: So when you when you're consistent, sometimes you do something 771 00:40:37,041 --> 00:40:40,721 Speaker 3: consistently for months, years, a long time, you know, and 772 00:40:40,761 --> 00:40:43,841 Speaker 3: there's there seems to be no reward, you know, but 773 00:40:43,921 --> 00:40:47,401 Speaker 3: there's an energy that that's getting built up through momentum 774 00:40:47,641 --> 00:40:51,241 Speaker 3: that's really powerful, you know. And we we we live 775 00:40:51,281 --> 00:40:55,401 Speaker 3: in an energetic universe. Yeah, and so if you're consistent 776 00:40:55,681 --> 00:41:00,841 Speaker 3: with an intention, you know, this world, this universe has 777 00:41:00,881 --> 00:41:03,521 Speaker 3: no choice by law, by law of attraction. Boy. So 778 00:41:03,561 --> 00:41:05,721 Speaker 3: when anything's got law in front of it, it's absolutely 779 00:41:06,041 --> 00:41:09,321 Speaker 3: by law. It has to come true, it has to 780 00:41:09,641 --> 00:41:13,281 Speaker 3: become manifest you know, you just it just needs that 781 00:41:13,361 --> 00:41:17,561 Speaker 3: consistency and the amount of people that drop off right 782 00:41:17,601 --> 00:41:20,001 Speaker 3: before they're about to be blessed with all their stuff. 783 00:41:20,041 --> 00:41:21,041 Speaker 3: It's incredible. 784 00:41:21,241 --> 00:41:24,801 Speaker 1: This is what we're here about. That, this is the 785 00:41:24,841 --> 00:41:27,041 Speaker 1: purpose of where we're heading with the Clink is to 786 00:41:27,561 --> 00:41:32,321 Speaker 1: try and give people those tools to realize they are great. Yeah, 787 00:41:32,361 --> 00:41:34,921 Speaker 1: there is greatness and you are doing great things. 788 00:41:36,081 --> 00:41:43,801 Speaker 3: It's just yeah, with this world is just unfortunate. It's 789 00:41:43,841 --> 00:41:46,681 Speaker 3: just been there's been too many broken dreams because too 790 00:41:46,721 --> 00:41:50,441 Speaker 3: many people just they lack their self discipline to stay 791 00:41:50,521 --> 00:41:53,481 Speaker 3: consistent to their dreams. Yeah. So when the when the 792 00:41:53,561 --> 00:41:56,561 Speaker 3: dreams aren't actualized in short periods of time, you know, 793 00:41:57,041 --> 00:42:00,401 Speaker 3: people choose to comfort you know, you know, they resort 794 00:42:00,481 --> 00:42:03,241 Speaker 3: back to what they know and they give up on themselves, 795 00:42:03,321 --> 00:42:06,241 Speaker 3: right and sort of like right deciding this is what 796 00:42:06,281 --> 00:42:08,721 Speaker 3: I want is what I'm going to do every day 797 00:42:08,801 --> 00:42:11,201 Speaker 3: until it comes, you know, and people get they get 798 00:42:11,201 --> 00:42:12,841 Speaker 3: attached to an outcome. They go, well, if I do 799 00:42:12,881 --> 00:42:14,521 Speaker 3: this for a year, I should get it. 800 00:42:14,521 --> 00:42:15,361 Speaker 1: It's an expectation. 801 00:42:15,641 --> 00:42:17,281 Speaker 3: They don't. Yeah, what they don't get it in a year. 802 00:42:17,321 --> 00:42:21,121 Speaker 3: They give up the power of like you know, of processes. 803 00:42:21,841 --> 00:42:26,641 Speaker 3: You know, is having the self worth, the self belief 804 00:42:26,881 --> 00:42:29,561 Speaker 3: and the understanding of the laws of this universe and 805 00:42:29,561 --> 00:42:33,001 Speaker 3: how it actually works is to wake up every single morning, 806 00:42:33,361 --> 00:42:36,081 Speaker 3: despite if you're seeing results or not, and commit to 807 00:42:36,121 --> 00:42:40,961 Speaker 3: this process of your life. You know, so and it 808 00:42:41,081 --> 00:42:42,681 Speaker 3: just has to happen if you look at like you're 809 00:42:43,921 --> 00:42:46,121 Speaker 3: just say you had like a physical goal, I say, 810 00:42:46,121 --> 00:42:48,921 Speaker 3: I say, I'm saying and so I'll use mind for example, 811 00:42:49,001 --> 00:42:51,521 Speaker 3: you know, so I want to be under one hundred kilos. 812 00:42:51,561 --> 00:42:54,321 Speaker 3: I want to be like, you know, around ninety eight kilos, 813 00:42:54,401 --> 00:42:58,201 Speaker 3: under ten percent body fat. So for me, you know, 814 00:42:57,881 --> 00:43:01,521 Speaker 3: I know I work out. Okay, So what sort of 815 00:43:01,521 --> 00:43:03,961 Speaker 3: foods I eat? What are my macros? You know, like, 816 00:43:04,561 --> 00:43:07,561 Speaker 3: how how often can I eat? How often do I 817 00:43:07,601 --> 00:43:09,961 Speaker 3: need to train? You know, how many? How many how 818 00:43:10,321 --> 00:43:12,681 Speaker 3: much cardio do I need to do? Like how often 819 00:43:12,721 --> 00:43:15,481 Speaker 3: do I stretch? How many sores and ice baske can 820 00:43:15,521 --> 00:43:19,281 Speaker 3: I do? Like you know, what what's my what's my process? 821 00:43:19,361 --> 00:43:21,601 Speaker 3: You know? What foods do I eat? And stuff like that, 822 00:43:21,721 --> 00:43:24,761 Speaker 3: and like you know, and then it's very simple. It's 823 00:43:24,761 --> 00:43:27,321 Speaker 3: like okay, once I work that out. All I have 824 00:43:27,361 --> 00:43:29,081 Speaker 3: to do is fucking train. When I say I'm going 825 00:43:29,081 --> 00:43:30,960 Speaker 3: to train, eat what I say I'm going to eat, 826 00:43:31,161 --> 00:43:35,121 Speaker 3: and then like I get the results and people are 827 00:43:35,441 --> 00:43:37,641 Speaker 3: it's incredible. How do you you know? How do you 828 00:43:37,681 --> 00:43:37,921 Speaker 3: do that? 829 00:43:38,841 --> 00:43:41,601 Speaker 1: A cake? Isn't it? You buy the ingredients. The ingredients 830 00:43:41,601 --> 00:43:44,681 Speaker 1: are instructional. They tell you how many grams of whatever 831 00:43:44,721 --> 00:43:47,321 Speaker 1: it may be, or the measurements of water. You add 832 00:43:47,321 --> 00:43:49,961 Speaker 1: that in a mixing bowl, you stir it up. It 833 00:43:50,001 --> 00:43:52,801 Speaker 1: tells you you need to put it into a buttered container, 834 00:43:53,201 --> 00:43:55,161 Speaker 1: and you bake it for X amount of time on 835 00:43:55,241 --> 00:43:58,601 Speaker 1: such heat. After it comes out, it's it. And if 836 00:43:58,641 --> 00:44:01,041 Speaker 1: you follow the instructions, you end up with a beautiful bread. 837 00:44:01,281 --> 00:44:03,881 Speaker 3: Well yeah, I mean cake, that's right, That's right. 838 00:44:03,961 --> 00:44:05,881 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm just trying to put it in a 839 00:44:06,321 --> 00:44:09,241 Speaker 1: very simple form. I mean, obviously it can be somewhat, 840 00:44:09,441 --> 00:44:11,481 Speaker 1: you know, a little bit more technical, but is that 841 00:44:12,041 --> 00:44:13,041 Speaker 1: pretty well for sure? 842 00:44:13,121 --> 00:44:14,721 Speaker 3: I mean, and I was just talking about a lot 843 00:44:14,761 --> 00:44:17,041 Speaker 3: of my physical goals and to you know, but you 844 00:44:17,161 --> 00:44:19,321 Speaker 3: do the same thing. You know, it's the same your relationship. 845 00:44:19,361 --> 00:44:21,721 Speaker 3: You know, if your relationships you know struggling and you 846 00:44:21,761 --> 00:44:25,401 Speaker 3: want a better relationships. Okay, well, how often am I 847 00:44:25,401 --> 00:44:30,241 Speaker 3: actually seeing my wife or my partner? How often? How 848 00:44:30,281 --> 00:44:32,281 Speaker 3: often do I bring her something home? How often do 849 00:44:32,361 --> 00:44:34,321 Speaker 3: I take her out in the date night? You know 850 00:44:34,961 --> 00:44:37,881 Speaker 3: a speech? How often do I ask her how she is? 851 00:44:37,921 --> 00:44:40,641 Speaker 3: And stuff that? Mate? Not that I should be giving 852 00:44:40,681 --> 00:44:44,321 Speaker 3: anyone fucking relationship advice, and I'm just gone to break 853 00:44:44,361 --> 00:44:51,401 Speaker 3: up Myself's. 854 00:44:47,961 --> 00:44:50,441 Speaker 1: All we look, well, we're in the same boat pretty 855 00:44:50,441 --> 00:44:51,321 Speaker 1: well there right now. 856 00:44:52,121 --> 00:44:53,801 Speaker 3: Yeah, but you know, if you if you want a good, 857 00:44:53,841 --> 00:44:56,441 Speaker 3: healthy relationship, and you've got to be able to fucking 858 00:44:56,801 --> 00:44:58,081 Speaker 3: you know, you got to be able to hear them, 859 00:44:58,081 --> 00:44:59,881 Speaker 3: you're about to listen to them, you know, and you've 860 00:44:59,881 --> 00:45:02,241 Speaker 3: got to be able to evolve with and grow with them. 861 00:45:03,081 --> 00:45:06,561 Speaker 3: People way over complicate life, you know, and if you 862 00:45:06,641 --> 00:45:12,041 Speaker 3: can simplify into a process, you know. Okay, well, that's 863 00:45:12,521 --> 00:45:14,521 Speaker 3: takes all the guesswork out of it, you know. So 864 00:45:14,641 --> 00:45:17,241 Speaker 3: if I know what I want to be, if I 865 00:45:17,241 --> 00:45:18,521 Speaker 3: want to know how I want to look, you know, 866 00:45:18,961 --> 00:45:20,961 Speaker 3: you know how how heavy I want to be, you 867 00:45:21,001 --> 00:45:23,041 Speaker 3: know how fit I want to be? You know what 868 00:45:23,121 --> 00:45:25,161 Speaker 3: present your body fat I want to be? You know 869 00:45:25,241 --> 00:45:26,761 Speaker 3: I want to you know, like I want to make 870 00:45:26,801 --> 00:45:29,001 Speaker 3: a certain amount of money. I want a certain career. 871 00:45:29,201 --> 00:45:31,161 Speaker 3: I want this sort of family structure. I want to 872 00:45:31,201 --> 00:45:33,561 Speaker 3: see my children this offen, and I want this sort 873 00:45:33,561 --> 00:45:36,201 Speaker 3: of relationship and stuff. I get really clear on that stuff. 874 00:45:36,401 --> 00:45:39,121 Speaker 3: Build a fucking process around it. So when the alarm 875 00:45:39,161 --> 00:45:41,161 Speaker 3: goes off every morning, you just get up and do 876 00:45:41,201 --> 00:45:42,201 Speaker 3: the things that you said you're going. 877 00:45:42,121 --> 00:45:43,401 Speaker 1: To do naturally, grill full. 878 00:45:43,441 --> 00:45:46,641 Speaker 3: And I'll get people laughing at me because I wake 879 00:45:46,721 --> 00:45:48,801 Speaker 3: up at one thirty every morning, you know, and you. 880 00:45:48,801 --> 00:45:52,321 Speaker 1: And a very dear brother of ours have this amazing 881 00:45:52,481 --> 00:45:55,201 Speaker 1: way of dealing with that. I have issues with sleep. 882 00:45:55,281 --> 00:45:57,281 Speaker 1: I'm two thirty three o'clock bang, and I can't go 883 00:45:57,361 --> 00:45:59,521 Speaker 1: back to sleep, so I lay there till four, and 884 00:45:59,561 --> 00:46:01,961 Speaker 1: then because I'm okay, I get up at four every 885 00:46:02,001 --> 00:46:06,321 Speaker 1: morning to run that's my program. But I'm fine. And Tyro, 886 00:46:06,761 --> 00:46:11,561 Speaker 1: we love you. You're a beautiful man and your neck wow. 887 00:46:11,681 --> 00:46:15,601 Speaker 1: You blame me away, but yet you both will utilize 888 00:46:15,721 --> 00:46:20,481 Speaker 1: that time and not waste that time to better yourself. 889 00:46:21,441 --> 00:46:26,201 Speaker 3: Yeah. Look, I I meditated that time because it's it's 890 00:46:26,241 --> 00:46:28,521 Speaker 3: the best time for me to meditate. You know. It's 891 00:46:28,521 --> 00:46:33,121 Speaker 3: the least amount disturbance around stuff. So I've got one 892 00:46:33,121 --> 00:46:37,361 Speaker 3: of my mentors instructing me to meditate that time, and 893 00:46:38,201 --> 00:46:42,801 Speaker 3: I did for long enough that that just became it's 894 00:46:42,841 --> 00:46:44,561 Speaker 3: now just the time that I wake up, you know, 895 00:46:45,081 --> 00:46:48,121 Speaker 3: and such an empowered time to wake up, because you know, 896 00:46:48,161 --> 00:46:51,001 Speaker 3: my phone's not ringing, there's no email shooting life, and 897 00:46:51,041 --> 00:46:53,561 Speaker 3: so there's no distraction. So I've got like a six 898 00:46:53,641 --> 00:46:56,801 Speaker 3: or seven hour jump on everyone else, you know, where 899 00:46:56,921 --> 00:46:59,721 Speaker 3: I get everything done for myself, you know, and I 900 00:46:59,801 --> 00:47:02,440 Speaker 3: give myself to a really sort of peak state, you know. 901 00:47:02,681 --> 00:47:05,761 Speaker 3: And so when we're talking about some of the people 902 00:47:05,801 --> 00:47:08,401 Speaker 3: need to understand too, you know, we live in a 903 00:47:08,601 --> 00:47:11,561 Speaker 3: we live in the universe, you know that that that 904 00:47:12,601 --> 00:47:16,721 Speaker 3: energetic field, and so like we are putting out a frequency, 905 00:47:17,041 --> 00:47:19,441 Speaker 3: you know, like you know how we feel puts out 906 00:47:19,441 --> 00:47:22,081 Speaker 3: a frequency, like if we feel like ship, we put 907 00:47:22,081 --> 00:47:25,321 Speaker 3: out a frequency. Yeah, we put out a frequency that 908 00:47:25,121 --> 00:47:29,361 Speaker 3: we feel like ship, so we attract ship. Yeah. And 909 00:47:29,401 --> 00:47:33,681 Speaker 3: so so when I wake up in the mornings and 910 00:47:33,761 --> 00:47:36,161 Speaker 3: all of a sudden, I'm doing this, you know, I 911 00:47:36,281 --> 00:47:39,161 Speaker 3: go straight in the breath work. I do, you know, 912 00:47:40,041 --> 00:47:44,321 Speaker 3: some intentions and gratitude. I do some meditation, I do 913 00:47:44,361 --> 00:47:46,681 Speaker 3: a bit a lot therapy and decree work, you know, 914 00:47:46,761 --> 00:47:48,401 Speaker 3: for the people to know, you know what that is, 915 00:47:49,521 --> 00:47:52,601 Speaker 3: do a little bit of journaling. I ate a healthy breakfast, 916 00:47:52,641 --> 00:47:55,001 Speaker 3: and I get out to the gym, have a train, 917 00:47:55,121 --> 00:47:58,401 Speaker 3: I do a walk, you know, I get out in nature. 918 00:48:00,161 --> 00:48:03,001 Speaker 1: And so people are going to ask, and I'm going 919 00:48:03,081 --> 00:48:05,041 Speaker 1: to ask them out where do you find the energy 920 00:48:05,161 --> 00:48:07,761 Speaker 1: you in this? And I can, I can get what 921 00:48:07,801 --> 00:48:10,481 Speaker 1: you're saying. But for those out there that don't truly 922 00:48:10,561 --> 00:48:15,001 Speaker 1: understand this whole shift and process within, I know the 923 00:48:15,081 --> 00:48:17,481 Speaker 1: energy I get with rising with the sun. Like when 924 00:48:17,481 --> 00:48:20,281 Speaker 1: I say rising, I'm out running in the dark to 925 00:48:20,441 --> 00:48:23,321 Speaker 1: rise with the sun. That for me is very important. 926 00:48:23,361 --> 00:48:27,161 Speaker 1: Every day you're talking about something before you've got to 927 00:48:27,161 --> 00:48:29,161 Speaker 1: have adel's sleep. You know, how do you do function 928 00:48:29,241 --> 00:48:29,441 Speaker 1: on that? 929 00:48:29,481 --> 00:48:30,841 Speaker 3: And it's a fucking paradigm. 930 00:48:31,641 --> 00:48:36,361 Speaker 1: It's you explain though to our listeners in a pretty 931 00:48:36,561 --> 00:48:39,241 Speaker 1: I guess simple term for them to understand you can 932 00:48:39,361 --> 00:48:42,921 Speaker 1: function and have these energies and not go I'm so 933 00:48:43,081 --> 00:48:44,761 Speaker 1: tired since like a four o'clock. 934 00:48:45,441 --> 00:48:48,841 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, you've got a bankcard with a daily 935 00:48:48,921 --> 00:48:51,801 Speaker 3: limit on it. You know, if you're living your life 936 00:48:51,881 --> 00:48:55,441 Speaker 3: in you know, walking around with you know, feeling shameful, 937 00:48:55,881 --> 00:48:59,361 Speaker 3: grateful and remorse and stuff like that that gives you 938 00:48:59,361 --> 00:49:02,001 Speaker 3: a daily balance of thirty dollars to go enjoy your 939 00:49:02,041 --> 00:49:02,440 Speaker 3: day with. 940 00:49:02,761 --> 00:49:03,161 Speaker 1: Yeah. 941 00:49:03,321 --> 00:49:05,561 Speaker 3: Yeah, but if you wake up at one thirty in 942 00:49:05,601 --> 00:49:08,121 Speaker 3: the morning and you cultivate, you know, you jump straight 943 00:49:08,121 --> 00:49:10,681 Speaker 3: in the cold shower or something, it's something that you 944 00:49:10,721 --> 00:49:12,801 Speaker 3: don't want to do, you know, something takes a bit 945 00:49:12,841 --> 00:49:14,361 Speaker 3: of courage to do. You know, you're going to bring 946 00:49:14,361 --> 00:49:16,801 Speaker 3: yourself up to two hundred. If you can do something 947 00:49:16,841 --> 00:49:20,721 Speaker 3: with unconditional love, something of service without expecting anything back, 948 00:49:20,921 --> 00:49:23,161 Speaker 3: or you know, something just had a pure love of it, 949 00:49:23,241 --> 00:49:25,801 Speaker 3: you know, like loving, like a loving thing to do 950 00:49:25,921 --> 00:49:28,281 Speaker 3: for someone else, you know, just for the sake of 951 00:49:28,321 --> 00:49:30,041 Speaker 3: putting that out there. You know, it brings out the 952 00:49:30,041 --> 00:49:33,601 Speaker 3: five forty. If you can marry that up with something successful, Yeah, 953 00:49:34,361 --> 00:49:36,201 Speaker 3: you can bank a bit of success as well, brings 954 00:49:36,241 --> 00:49:38,521 Speaker 3: out the seven twenty, you know. And if you can 955 00:49:39,121 --> 00:49:42,801 Speaker 3: practice and like you know, and daily do all your 956 00:49:42,841 --> 00:49:45,361 Speaker 3: spiritual like you know, a line stuffing and bring out 957 00:49:45,361 --> 00:49:47,801 Speaker 3: to a thousand. Yeah, and so if you you know, 958 00:49:48,161 --> 00:49:50,281 Speaker 3: which is an enlightenment, you know, and like you know, 959 00:49:50,361 --> 00:49:52,721 Speaker 3: if you can calibrate that sort of energy every day, 960 00:49:52,801 --> 00:49:55,081 Speaker 3: you know, that's like going to the ATM pulling out 961 00:49:55,081 --> 00:49:57,561 Speaker 3: a thousand bucks. So if you imagine you're wealthy, well, 962 00:49:57,761 --> 00:50:00,281 Speaker 3: if you imagine the difference of your lot of your day, 963 00:50:00,401 --> 00:50:02,481 Speaker 3: how different your day would look if you've got twenty 964 00:50:02,521 --> 00:50:04,561 Speaker 3: dollars spend or a thousand bucks to spend. You know, 965 00:50:04,561 --> 00:50:07,121 Speaker 3: you got two dolls will spend, you know, you know, 966 00:50:08,241 --> 00:50:10,881 Speaker 3: you know, yeah, you might buy yourself a coffee in 967 00:50:10,881 --> 00:50:14,321 Speaker 3: the morning. The rest of the package skin, you know, 968 00:50:14,401 --> 00:50:16,081 Speaker 3: and you've got a thousands dollars a day, mate, you 969 00:50:16,081 --> 00:50:19,281 Speaker 3: know you can enjoy that. You And I know how 970 00:50:19,321 --> 00:50:21,481 Speaker 3: my life can look if I'd only by this and 971 00:50:21,521 --> 00:50:23,321 Speaker 3: this is my process. Yeah, when we talked about it 972 00:50:23,321 --> 00:50:26,281 Speaker 3: before about being processed driven, not emotional driven. The emotional 973 00:50:26,321 --> 00:50:28,241 Speaker 3: driven person, your alarm will go for one there and go, 974 00:50:28,321 --> 00:50:31,841 Speaker 3: oh fucking beds warm Sunday, it's raining outside. I want 975 00:50:31,841 --> 00:50:34,681 Speaker 3: to sleep in. The process driven person goes now fucking 976 00:50:34,761 --> 00:50:37,041 Speaker 3: I told myself, I'm going to do this for myself 977 00:50:37,041 --> 00:50:39,721 Speaker 3: because I want this best life for me and this 978 00:50:39,801 --> 00:50:41,801 Speaker 3: is the path to get there. So when the alarm 979 00:50:41,801 --> 00:50:43,201 Speaker 3: goes off, I'm just going to do what I said 980 00:50:43,201 --> 00:50:45,401 Speaker 3: I'm going to do. And then it will eventually just happen. 981 00:50:45,641 --> 00:50:47,921 Speaker 1: I've learned to love those moments from a point of view. 982 00:50:47,921 --> 00:50:50,481 Speaker 1: When you talk about, you know, the rain and the embed, 983 00:50:50,841 --> 00:50:52,960 Speaker 1: I actually throw my shoes on and go how good 984 00:50:53,001 --> 00:50:55,881 Speaker 1: is this and why? Because I find that it's cleansing 985 00:50:56,001 --> 00:51:00,761 Speaker 1: of the soul physically mentally. I you would think I'm mad, 986 00:51:00,801 --> 00:51:03,841 Speaker 1: like I literally all go out and run. I every 987 00:51:03,841 --> 00:51:07,281 Speaker 1: week do a half marathon every week without its religious 988 00:51:07,841 --> 00:51:11,321 Speaker 1: and every week I do somewhere between twenty and thirty 989 00:51:11,401 --> 00:51:13,721 Speaker 1: kilometers on a day as well. So I'm averaging between 990 00:51:13,761 --> 00:51:17,041 Speaker 1: eighty and one hundred kilometers a week in those distance runs. 991 00:51:17,081 --> 00:51:19,801 Speaker 1: And that's holding between six and six twenty a kilometer 992 00:51:19,841 --> 00:51:20,881 Speaker 1: for one hundred and ten kilo. 993 00:51:20,961 --> 00:51:21,761 Speaker 3: Bloke, that's not bad. 994 00:51:21,921 --> 00:51:25,081 Speaker 1: I'm going all right. So I'm doing okay. But my 995 00:51:25,521 --> 00:51:27,721 Speaker 1: point being is no matter whether it be rain, hail, 996 00:51:27,881 --> 00:51:29,801 Speaker 1: or shine, I always see it as a challenge and 997 00:51:29,841 --> 00:51:32,801 Speaker 1: I get excited about that because there's always something good. 998 00:51:32,881 --> 00:51:36,281 Speaker 1: You're running into a headwind. But if you were to 999 00:51:36,401 --> 00:51:39,241 Speaker 1: passed me, you'd think I was mad because I'm laughing. 1000 00:51:40,121 --> 00:51:43,401 Speaker 1: I'm laughing, I'm singing while I'm running. I'm twenty six 1001 00:51:43,481 --> 00:51:45,601 Speaker 1: k's deep going up a flight of stairs at North 1002 00:51:45,641 --> 00:51:48,721 Speaker 1: Burlier and most people be going fucking hell. And I'm like, 1003 00:51:49,121 --> 00:51:51,761 Speaker 1: all right, let's go up the knees and I'm pumping 1004 00:51:51,761 --> 00:51:54,721 Speaker 1: the arms, getting the oxygen and I'm this energy, just 1005 00:51:54,761 --> 00:52:01,081 Speaker 1: this feeling of I'm alive and I feel good. Yeah, 1006 00:52:01,121 --> 00:52:03,041 Speaker 1: it's at an extreme point for a lot of people, 1007 00:52:03,121 --> 00:52:06,521 Speaker 1: but it's not extreme for me. It's actually pleasurable. And 1008 00:52:06,561 --> 00:52:11,161 Speaker 1: I enjoy that process. And you know, like it's such 1009 00:52:11,201 --> 00:52:13,921 Speaker 1: a beautiful feeling. And I'm just teaching my son, who's 1010 00:52:14,001 --> 00:52:16,121 Speaker 1: joining me now on these runs, you know, three times 1011 00:52:16,121 --> 00:52:19,001 Speaker 1: a week, just stepped me in it. But he's enjoying 1012 00:52:19,121 --> 00:52:22,201 Speaker 1: the waking with the sun, rising with the sun. That 1013 00:52:22,641 --> 00:52:25,361 Speaker 1: the peacefulness of out running with just me and him 1014 00:52:25,401 --> 00:52:27,641 Speaker 1: and no one out there and just it it's our well, 1015 00:52:27,881 --> 00:52:28,601 Speaker 1: it's our moment. 1016 00:52:29,081 --> 00:52:32,281 Speaker 3: Well, I mean, it's actually a way where we're designed 1017 00:52:32,321 --> 00:52:34,841 Speaker 3: to be. He We're designed to wake up work with 1018 00:52:34,961 --> 00:52:37,481 Speaker 3: the sun. So when we're meant to actually sort of 1019 00:52:37,841 --> 00:52:40,321 Speaker 3: wake up toward sunrise, you know, and when we sort 1020 00:52:40,321 --> 00:52:43,481 Speaker 3: of like the actual sun rising in the morning, you know, 1021 00:52:43,761 --> 00:52:48,161 Speaker 3: like it starts ocading rhythm our clock, you know, And 1022 00:52:48,241 --> 00:52:50,961 Speaker 3: so like twelve to sixteen hours later, you know, like 1023 00:52:51,081 --> 00:52:53,561 Speaker 3: melotonum will naturally dump into asist and help us go 1024 00:52:53,601 --> 00:52:56,401 Speaker 3: to sleep. People got all these fucked up sleeping patterns 1025 00:52:56,401 --> 00:52:59,201 Speaker 3: and stuff like that because they're waking up too late, 1026 00:52:59,361 --> 00:53:01,281 Speaker 3: or they're you know, or they're working all sorts of 1027 00:53:01,281 --> 00:53:04,481 Speaker 3: fucked up shifts, you know. Whereas in like you know, 1028 00:53:06,001 --> 00:53:09,921 Speaker 3: our body and our moods get regulated through the natural 1029 00:53:10,361 --> 00:53:13,401 Speaker 3: cycles of the earth, you know, like and so you know, 1030 00:53:14,041 --> 00:53:16,321 Speaker 3: the idea and so I was saying before about laws 1031 00:53:16,321 --> 00:53:18,121 Speaker 3: of universe and stuff like that, you know, is to 1032 00:53:18,201 --> 00:53:20,440 Speaker 3: understand these laws and the plugging dor them as best 1033 00:53:20,481 --> 00:53:23,121 Speaker 3: we can, you know. And so and I'm so grateful 1034 00:53:23,161 --> 00:53:27,201 Speaker 3: because like it took me fucking you know, it took 1035 00:53:27,241 --> 00:53:29,281 Speaker 3: me to have my back agendst the wall and like 1036 00:53:29,401 --> 00:53:32,241 Speaker 3: you know, and my life falling apart from me to 1037 00:53:32,321 --> 00:53:34,881 Speaker 3: have to do this, you know. And it's also it 1038 00:53:34,961 --> 00:53:37,001 Speaker 3: also is what keeps me accountable to it. 1039 00:53:37,161 --> 00:53:39,081 Speaker 1: When it's the right time, though, And you know that's 1040 00:53:39,121 --> 00:53:41,161 Speaker 1: the thing, you know, you wouldn't be someone with the 1041 00:53:41,201 --> 00:53:44,921 Speaker 1: lived experience that you have had that not occurred. I mean, 1042 00:53:44,961 --> 00:53:48,161 Speaker 1: if if anything, I mean, as somebody from the outside 1043 00:53:48,161 --> 00:53:52,041 Speaker 1: looking in, I truly think you've been blessed to for sure, man, 1044 00:53:52,081 --> 00:53:54,961 Speaker 1: I'd be able to have that journey and now be 1045 00:53:55,041 --> 00:53:57,801 Speaker 1: here right at this moment and sharing this advice because 1046 00:53:58,121 --> 00:54:03,481 Speaker 1: really we don't really, I feel, have the warrant to 1047 00:54:03,521 --> 00:54:05,841 Speaker 1: be able to give advice if you have an experience 1048 00:54:05,881 --> 00:54:10,041 Speaker 1: to understood truly, Yeah talking about. 1049 00:54:10,481 --> 00:54:12,241 Speaker 3: And I never want to come across like I'm giving 1050 00:54:12,281 --> 00:54:14,201 Speaker 3: you advice. What I what I do is like for 1051 00:54:14,281 --> 00:54:16,681 Speaker 3: people to follow me, is I share my life experiences 1052 00:54:16,721 --> 00:54:20,121 Speaker 3: and and that way people can people can choose what 1053 00:54:20,161 --> 00:54:22,921 Speaker 3: you want, because I mean, no one, no one wants 1054 00:54:22,921 --> 00:54:25,641 Speaker 3: to get live advice. Anytime anyone giving me live advice, 1055 00:54:25,681 --> 00:54:28,081 Speaker 3: you know, goes up against the wall. You go, fuck you, 1056 00:54:28,121 --> 00:54:31,281 Speaker 3: what would you know about me? And what I do? 1057 00:54:31,441 --> 00:54:35,921 Speaker 3: I just share my life experiences and people resonate, you know. Yeah, look, 1058 00:54:35,961 --> 00:54:39,081 Speaker 3: I just I just really want to make sure that, 1059 00:54:39,201 --> 00:54:43,681 Speaker 3: like you know, people understand that that there is another 1060 00:54:43,721 --> 00:54:46,361 Speaker 3: way and as it was such a fucking you know, 1061 00:54:46,441 --> 00:54:48,521 Speaker 3: a simple way to live, you know, and like you know, 1062 00:54:48,681 --> 00:54:51,641 Speaker 3: take all the complications out of life and stuff like that, 1063 00:54:51,681 --> 00:54:53,481 Speaker 3: you know, and like you know, stop listening to all 1064 00:54:53,481 --> 00:54:55,681 Speaker 3: the ship that other people try to do, all the 1065 00:54:55,681 --> 00:54:59,481 Speaker 3: ship we're programmed to do all the educated so you know, 1066 00:54:59,561 --> 00:55:03,440 Speaker 3: go to school, get this whatever, like you know, like 1067 00:55:03,521 --> 00:55:05,281 Speaker 3: you know, when you shut all the noise out and 1068 00:55:05,561 --> 00:55:10,841 Speaker 3: to listen to yourself. Just fucking man, that's what you're 1069 00:55:10,841 --> 00:55:11,121 Speaker 3: here for. 1070 00:55:11,681 --> 00:55:15,321 Speaker 1: Nick. Where can we find your beautiful place of wellness 1071 00:55:15,361 --> 00:55:17,881 Speaker 1: these days? Can we have some sort of information just 1072 00:55:17,921 --> 00:55:20,681 Speaker 1: briefly before we leave this call today, because I'd love 1073 00:55:20,721 --> 00:55:23,201 Speaker 1: for people to be able to contact you, reach out 1074 00:55:23,281 --> 00:55:29,201 Speaker 1: and guys, look, I kid, You're not you know, Nick 1075 00:55:29,361 --> 00:55:33,121 Speaker 1: is a presence that I'm so blessed to be in 1076 00:55:33,161 --> 00:55:36,321 Speaker 1: this space at the moment, and I've probably needed to 1077 00:55:36,361 --> 00:55:40,601 Speaker 1: feel this neutralizing of energies because I've been on such 1078 00:55:40,601 --> 00:55:44,641 Speaker 1: a high and low and I'm not pissing in your pocket. 1079 00:55:44,721 --> 00:55:46,481 Speaker 1: I feel like you've come in here and just balanced 1080 00:55:46,521 --> 00:55:49,921 Speaker 1: me out, and I feel good and I'm going thank 1081 00:55:50,001 --> 00:55:52,841 Speaker 1: you in deep within me, and I believe that I'm 1082 00:55:52,881 --> 00:55:55,641 Speaker 1: on the right path, and I feel grateful that I've 1083 00:55:55,641 --> 00:55:58,041 Speaker 1: been able to throw my cards on the table and 1084 00:55:58,161 --> 00:56:00,041 Speaker 1: put myself, so to speak, under the bus and be 1085 00:56:00,121 --> 00:56:03,041 Speaker 1: open and not feel that any of the listeners are 1086 00:56:03,041 --> 00:56:05,041 Speaker 1: anything out there's going to be judged, but we're helping 1087 00:56:05,281 --> 00:56:10,001 Speaker 1: somebody to make a better life choices for you, for 1088 00:56:10,081 --> 00:56:12,761 Speaker 1: others to reach out to you and contact you. Where 1089 00:56:12,801 --> 00:56:14,521 Speaker 1: can we where can we find you? 1090 00:56:14,721 --> 00:56:16,401 Speaker 3: Yes, so we've got we've got a couple of different 1091 00:56:16,401 --> 00:56:18,641 Speaker 3: facilities at the moment. We've got one on the Gold 1092 00:56:18,641 --> 00:56:20,841 Speaker 3: Coast and one in the Northern River's New South Wales, 1093 00:56:20,881 --> 00:56:22,641 Speaker 3: and we've got a couple more opening up next year 1094 00:56:22,681 --> 00:56:25,721 Speaker 3: as well. But if they can just go on the 1095 00:56:25,761 --> 00:56:29,440 Speaker 3: website for now, just inquire in the inquiry box which 1096 00:56:29,481 --> 00:56:34,401 Speaker 3: is on ww dot hope inhealth dot com dot au 1097 00:56:34,841 --> 00:56:36,521 Speaker 3: I in tape Manager'll be able to get back to 1098 00:56:36,561 --> 00:56:38,401 Speaker 3: them and take it to the process. 1099 00:56:39,561 --> 00:56:44,361 Speaker 1: Nick Bachley, mate, I'm grateful, honored and thank you for 1100 00:56:44,521 --> 00:56:47,521 Speaker 1: being here and sharing this beautiful process. The last time 1101 00:56:47,561 --> 00:56:52,481 Speaker 1: we spoke, it was all in. It was manifestation. It 1102 00:56:52,641 --> 00:56:56,081 Speaker 1: was it was a vision that you had. It wasn't 1103 00:56:56,121 --> 00:56:58,121 Speaker 1: something that was cemented. It was all a little bit 1104 00:56:58,641 --> 00:57:02,881 Speaker 1: what you were hoping wanting. Moving forward Now sometime I 1105 00:57:02,881 --> 00:57:05,321 Speaker 1: think it's probably a couple of years now and well 1106 00:57:05,401 --> 00:57:09,641 Speaker 1: into action and living the process. 1107 00:57:09,601 --> 00:57:11,761 Speaker 3: And then that's that's what I think. Yeah, and that's 1108 00:57:11,801 --> 00:57:14,441 Speaker 3: that's yeah, that's what I think. So good that people 1109 00:57:14,641 --> 00:57:17,521 Speaker 3: and that that saw me sprink all that spiritual manifestation 1110 00:57:17,641 --> 00:57:22,121 Speaker 3: stuff early on. You know, like it's good to you know, 1111 00:57:22,201 --> 00:57:24,441 Speaker 3: it's good to now see that that stuff. You know, 1112 00:57:25,001 --> 00:57:27,561 Speaker 3: it fucking works, you know, like I applied all that 1113 00:57:27,641 --> 00:57:29,961 Speaker 3: stuff into my life and you know, now I've got 1114 00:57:29,961 --> 00:57:33,281 Speaker 3: you know, two and two facilities and growing thirty eight staff, 1115 00:57:33,521 --> 00:57:36,401 Speaker 3: incredible stuff that have all that have all come to 1116 00:57:36,481 --> 00:57:38,921 Speaker 3: us because they want to work with us. So they're 1117 00:57:38,961 --> 00:57:40,921 Speaker 3: not not people that we've had to put. 1118 00:57:40,721 --> 00:57:43,281 Speaker 1: Out coach and get heads out and stuff. 1119 00:57:43,361 --> 00:57:45,681 Speaker 3: Like the people that believe in the vision and know 1120 00:57:45,761 --> 00:57:48,761 Speaker 3: what we're doing something really really fucking special, you know, 1121 00:57:48,881 --> 00:57:53,121 Speaker 3: and that is so different but so needed in this industry. 1122 00:57:53,241 --> 00:57:56,761 Speaker 3: And I'm so fucking happy and proud about to offer 1123 00:57:56,841 --> 00:57:59,841 Speaker 3: this to people. You know, like if there is anyone 1124 00:57:59,881 --> 00:58:02,321 Speaker 3: there that is HA has tried all the other stuff, 1125 00:58:02,441 --> 00:58:04,601 Speaker 3: tried all the other you know, like you know, they're 1126 00:58:05,801 --> 00:58:08,081 Speaker 3: the other models of rehabs. I'm not saying any of 1127 00:58:08,081 --> 00:58:10,601 Speaker 3: them bad, but they might not be you know, a 1128 00:58:10,761 --> 00:58:13,361 Speaker 3: super to that particular person. If they want to try 1129 00:58:13,401 --> 00:58:16,961 Speaker 3: something else, you know, get in contact with us, you know, 1130 00:58:17,161 --> 00:58:18,961 Speaker 3: like you know we're here for you. 1131 00:58:19,601 --> 00:58:22,521 Speaker 1: Well, it's one of those things where you know I 1132 00:58:22,561 --> 00:58:25,801 Speaker 1: can honestly say that it's a moment that I'm grateful for, 1133 00:58:25,881 --> 00:58:30,041 Speaker 1: I appreciate, and it's an honor to see Nick moving 1134 00:58:30,081 --> 00:58:33,281 Speaker 1: forward and chasing his dreams. And we've left obviously a 1135 00:58:33,321 --> 00:58:36,481 Speaker 1: couple of tools that I think are very valuable adding 1136 00:58:36,521 --> 00:58:40,121 Speaker 1: on to this season of The Clink that enables you, 1137 00:58:40,241 --> 00:58:42,601 Speaker 1: the listener, to be able to, at the end of 1138 00:58:42,641 --> 00:58:46,401 Speaker 1: our ten episodes, have at least twenty tools to better 1139 00:58:46,401 --> 00:58:48,241 Speaker 1: your life and to be the best you can be 1140 00:58:48,361 --> 00:58:51,201 Speaker 1: and just being that one percent better each day. Thank 1141 00:58:51,201 --> 00:58:53,681 Speaker 1: you everybody for listening. Thank you Nick for your time. 1142 00:58:53,841 --> 00:58:57,481 Speaker 1: I know that coming up here today was a wonderful 1143 00:58:57,521 --> 00:58:57,921 Speaker 1: thing for. 1144 00:58:57,881 --> 00:58:58,241 Speaker 3: You to do. 1145 00:58:58,361 --> 00:59:02,681 Speaker 1: And tell everybody out there, I really hope that Nick 1146 00:59:02,721 --> 00:59:05,041 Speaker 1: has been able to inspire you, and please reach out 1147 00:59:05,201 --> 00:59:05,641 Speaker 1: if you need. 1148 00:59:06,401 --> 00:59:08,561 Speaker 2: For the record, I'm done trying to make y'all comfortable 1149 00:59:09,641 --> 00:59:11,561 Speaker 2: for the record. You ain't trying to grow downy stuff 1150 00:59:11,601 --> 00:59:14,801 Speaker 2: for your for the record, live on me going all 1151 00:59:14,841 --> 00:59:17,801 Speaker 2: the way for the record, ain't trying to link, no 1152 00:59:17,881 --> 00:59:19,681 Speaker 2: trying to waste for. 1153 00:59:19,681 --> 00:59:25,161 Speaker 5: The record, for the record, for the for the record, 1154 00:59:26,081 --> 00:59:29,961 Speaker 5: for the record, for the record, for the record. 1155 00:59:34,401 --> 00:59:34,761 Speaker 3: M HM