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Speaker 1: Hello, welcome back to hear me Out. I'm your host

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Speaker 1: Easy Armitage. Today we have Riley Armatives, also known as

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Speaker 1: other Easy.

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Speaker 2: Excuse me.

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Speaker 1: I was getting out of my car the other day

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Speaker 1: and the lady next to us who has these really

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Speaker 1: like these three like really cute little kids, and there

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Speaker 1: was like a girl that was sitting in the car

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Speaker 1: seat and she didn't even really see me yet, and she.

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Speaker 2: Starts yelling out, hi Isy, hi Isy.

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, I look at her mom and I go,

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Speaker 1: oh my god. She remembers my name, like that's the

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Speaker 1: sweetest thing ever. And she goes, where's other Easy? And

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Speaker 1: I go Other Easy to her mom? Is there another

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Speaker 1: Easy that lives here? And she goes, no, she meets

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Speaker 1: your sister. Oh awesome, And I said, let's just keep

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Speaker 1: it that way. Well, I couldn't want up be here, okay,

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Speaker 1: so I don't think you can.

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Speaker 2: I can.

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Speaker 1: So I had a don't interrupt with you, you're going

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Speaker 1: to pick up what the story is. I went to

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Speaker 1: a petsyde Chic and oh, I got this for my

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Speaker 1: birthday for our friend too, Okay, whatever, And the woman

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Speaker 1: said that my cats refer to Izzy as the other

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Speaker 1: Lady and me mum, So I'm not mum. I have

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Speaker 1: my own, but other ladies, other ladies sucks. But how

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Speaker 1: you Growing up, I was known as Riley's sister at school,

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Speaker 1: et cetera, because she was older, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: And then all that change and you're now my sister.

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Speaker 1: I'm not to everybody you have brought mentioned that, that's right.

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Speaker 1: I have a you're backtracking, huge community of people who

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Speaker 1: would say that you're rallies. Yeah, okay, you do now

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Speaker 1: on Twitch, I'm Riley's sister, little brother whatever, so on

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Speaker 1: and so forth, on TikTok and stuff.

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Speaker 2: You're my sister. And I also got invited to Coachella.

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Speaker 2: What wait, we can't put this on air.

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Speaker 1: You can anyway, which is exciting because that means I

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Speaker 1: will be going to coach Eeller for a third year

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Speaker 1: and Justin Riever is going to be there, which will

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Speaker 1: be fucking exciting because I've obviously never seen Justin Rieber

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Speaker 1: in concert. Does he He hasn't performed in Australia and

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Speaker 1: has he performed recently? Yeah, not since like twenty sixteen.

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Speaker 1: And I am I'm a reformed believer.

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Speaker 2: So I'm really fucking excited.

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Speaker 1: Anything to say, no, I was just thinking about justin

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Speaker 1: Bieb Officer, I've got lost in a track.

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Speaker 2: I got lost in a train of thoughts.

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Speaker 1: Go and tell the people you're happy for me, but

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Speaker 1: that's very exciting than you. And then after that, I'm

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Speaker 1: going straight to New York with my friend live and

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Speaker 1: then Europe. I think I'll be home in the introim

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Speaker 1: between Europe, like, I'll go to New York, silt till

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Speaker 1: like the end of May, come home for June, and

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Speaker 1: go back.

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Speaker 2: I need to figure it out, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: If I'm over there and I decide like, oh, I

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Speaker 1: could just go straight to New York, I might just

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Speaker 1: have to give my sister a little ring, get her.

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Speaker 2: To pack up my Europe stuff and ship it over

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Speaker 2: to me. Okay, you can have assistance. Who can help

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Speaker 2: you do that? I don't have a Who do you

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Speaker 2: think I actudently?

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Speaker 1: Probably not your girl for that job? What if I

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Speaker 1: paid you, I don't know. It would have to be

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Speaker 1: a lot of money. Oh my god, to pick up

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Speaker 1: some things out of my cupboard that I don't know.

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Speaker 1: It's not pick up some things because I'll have all

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Speaker 1: my shit with me. All I need is summary close.

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Speaker 1: We can fucking talk about this later. But that doesn't

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Speaker 1: sound like something I'm interested in doing. There would be

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Speaker 1: so many people who would want to do that for you,

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Speaker 1: and that you No one wants.

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Speaker 2: To do it.

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Speaker 1: But if you paid your mates, for sure, it's a favor.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if I'm oh yeah, and you do

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Speaker 1: those for.

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Speaker 2: Me all the time.

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Speaker 1: If you paid me and you needed me to grab

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Speaker 1: some summary clothes stuff from your wardrobe and chuck it

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Speaker 1: in a box and ship it over, I know it's.

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Speaker 2: Not that simple.

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Speaker 1: I thought you were going to say, look after your cat.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely no case, he's got that covered. But exciting news, guys,

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Speaker 1: my brother's moving in, very exciting. The sad news is Riley's.

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Speaker 1: Riley's been bumped, she's been booted. I couldn't deal with

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Speaker 1: her anymore and I just thought, can you stay with

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's how it happened.

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Speaker 1: I can't handle the rejection of the fact that she

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Speaker 1: decided to move in with Tessa and not me.

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Speaker 2: And that's fine. Well, you know, run its course. It

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Speaker 2: was goodbye, it lasted.

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Speaker 1: I don't think it ran its course. You just wanted

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Speaker 1: to move in with your girl. It was good while

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Speaker 1: it lasted. Anyway, my brother's moving in, which is going

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Speaker 1: to be amazing, and he's like the biggest angel.

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Speaker 2: I think a lot of people are shocked to know

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Speaker 2: that we have a brother. Yeah, because he's so low key.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's not really on Instagram. I reckon he has

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Speaker 1: like thirty followers if that private account doesn't accept anyone.

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Speaker 2: He always dies every tag him. The bitches love that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I yeah, he needs to change his bro while

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Speaker 1: picture away from like the graffiti tiger.

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Speaker 2: But does have something random, doesn't It's like.

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Speaker 1: A little dig Yeah, he always thinks it's funny whenever

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Speaker 1: we tag him and something he gets like an influx

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Speaker 1: of female requests. And if family, well everyone wants to

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Speaker 1: be part of the Umtage family. But there could be

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Speaker 1: some goodies in there. So I say, I have a

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Speaker 1: little look throat people. Sometimes they just follow you, you

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Speaker 1: follow them back and then someone slides in.

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Speaker 2: No boy needs to Oh he's actually on the dating

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Speaker 2: apps now, so you see him. If you see him,

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Speaker 2: tell him.

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Speaker 1: We say hi, Okay, I have a hearing out and

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Speaker 1: I'm saying I'm not sure if I want to say it,

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Speaker 1: because it could be potentially controversial to the lesbian community,

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Speaker 1: but I do think there are a lot of lesbians

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Speaker 1: small percentage of people that wouldn't people getting extensions and

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Speaker 1: getting the pointer and the middle finger short and the

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Speaker 1: rest of them long is unnecessary. Yeah, Like, no one

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Speaker 1: needs to see your fingers in that way, knowing the moment,

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Speaker 1: knowing the purpose of there's one, one reason and one

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Speaker 2: Well, I don't need to see your fingers. I don't

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Speaker 2: need to see your fingers in a sexual way just

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Speaker 1: I would look at them immediately and just go and

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Speaker 2: I just don't need to think. So you agree with me,

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Speaker 2: that's not okay.

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Speaker 1: I just feel like if you either just have you

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Speaker 1: now short, I just think, yeah, it's very there actually.

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Speaker 2: Isn't in between in your face.

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Speaker 1: You can have nails a bit longer, but they need

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Speaker 1: I'm thinking about, well, look, don't worry, it's not me.

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Speaker 1: Other people I don't know. You can have them a

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Speaker 1: bit longer. You don't need to be doing the fucking

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Speaker 1: Like the clause with the two show I don't like

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Speaker 1: that you're dam my Himia, which I heard that I

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Speaker 1: heard through Blake earlier, is when people ask you to

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Speaker 1: answer before you hear it, the fu favor?

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Speaker 2: Can you do me a favor? Pause? Can I ask

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Speaker 2: Can I ask? It is different because they're asking can

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Speaker 2: I ask a favor? Yeah? You can ask? Can you

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Speaker 2: do a huge favor? It's different? Probably not?

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Speaker 1: Why don't you ask me first? And then I'll decide, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I totally agree, or wait no, maybe that was in

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Speaker 1: my book. I'm really blurring reality.

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Speaker 2: These days, Guys. I've started.

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Speaker 1: Reading a lot of you asked me to talk about

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Speaker 1: books on here, and I think the reason I hesitate

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Speaker 1: book like, aren't into the fantasy romance, or they're just

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Speaker 1: not readers, So like me blabbing on about my books

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Speaker 1: every single day is like not interesting to a lot

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Speaker 1: of people. But I have started a new book and

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Speaker 1: it's taken over my fucking and I'm so happy.

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Speaker 2: What is it?

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Speaker 1: Darkmore Penitentiary it's the don't look at it like that,

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Speaker 1: it's the It's the book series after Zodiac Academy is

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Speaker 1: there's no better feeling in the world than being absorbed

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Speaker 2: Thing, I hang it up. It had that feeling, yeah,

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Speaker 2: because you're stuck in a series. I'm stuck in.

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Speaker 1: On Extorm, actually so close to fucking finishing, like I Reckon.

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Speaker 1: I'm like ten chapters off, but I got there's this

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Speaker 2: And I missed this so fucking much. I'll tell you

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Speaker 1: I'm worried about I miss from reading this series Fourth Wing.

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Speaker 2: I miss Sarah J.

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Speaker 1: Mass so much and the way she writes and gets

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Speaker 1: you captivated that I'm scared to go. I know I'm

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Speaker 1: going to read it. Zodiac Academy but I'm scared. What

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Speaker 1: if they're just as good a writer as whoever wrote

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Speaker 1: Fourth Wing, Like, fuck my life because I'll be disappointed. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but Fourth Wing itself is great on ex Storm. The

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Speaker 1: third book sucks. I think it's boring. I don't like

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Speaker 1: it either. What I'm saying is Crescent City, which is

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Speaker 2: Masters. That's the one that I'm considering reading.

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Speaker 1: Everybody is what she's considering over Zodiac Academy, which I

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Speaker 1: don't appreciate. But Crescent City is set modern, like in

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Speaker 1: the future. They've got cell phones, they've got all this shit.

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Speaker 1: I have read them both, and I'm telling you I almost.

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Speaker 2: Did not finish Crescent City.

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Speaker 1: It was so fucking bo You didn't love the first

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Speaker 1: book's okay, the second and third suck.

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Speaker 2: I loved Throne Glass. I finished it.

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying I didn't like it as much as

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Speaker 1: I liked Akata. I'm telling you, if you want that

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Speaker 1: love back, I smashed through thirteen Zodiac Academy books in

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Speaker 1: a matter of months.

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Speaker 2: True because of how much I fucking loved it. Okay, True, Can.

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Speaker 1: You please just right here, right now, commit to me

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Speaker 1: that you're gonna read Zodiac Academy next, and you're not

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Speaker 1: going to be concerned about having to get back to

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Speaker 1: Crescent City because you're gonna be so.

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Speaker 2: Engulfed in that.

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Speaker 1: All right, I commit you heard it here first, ladies. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so we have a listener. Hear me out today, guys,

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Speaker 1: hear me out. If you have to buy Wi Fi

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Speaker 1: on a plane, you have.

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Speaker 2: A problem, thoughts. I've bought Wi Fi a couple times

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Speaker 2: Like I actually find it quite a peaceful little reset.

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Speaker 1: Every time I'd go to another country, they'd block me. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: But then I'm also like, if you're like arguing, You're like,

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Speaker 2: There at that point where I'm like, I need Wi Fi.

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Speaker 1: You're not, no bro, Your life needs to hit a

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Speaker 2: And I'm not saying I won't get there again.

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying right now, actually, no, I won't get

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Speaker 1: So basically I think I got diagnosed with idiopathic hypersomnia.

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Speaker 2: So how many times I don't fucking know. I didn't ask.

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Speaker 2: We'll tackle the legs first, and that's going to get you.

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Speaker 1: Oh God, that's gonna be good because I get restless

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Speaker 1: night though. It's like I said to him, can I

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Speaker 1: No, but he said, if your plan on sleeping on

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Speaker 1: I was like, would this work like tonight if I

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Speaker 1: And I don't think I've always been a sleepy person,

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, why can why can everyone else go

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Speaker 1: wake up at five pm. Do you think you're gonna

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Speaker 1: we know what alarm me. You set an alarm and

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Speaker 1: it plays a song of your choice, like really loud,

438
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Speaker 1: and I'll just actually play what mine is for you

439
00:18:20,600 --> 00:18:22,560
Speaker 1: because I like it. Well, I'm not liking it anymore

440
00:18:22,600 --> 00:18:24,280
Speaker 1: because it's been waking me up for a couple months,

441
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Speaker 1: but actually not a couple of months, maybe two weeks,

442
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Speaker 1: but I actually it's really been good.

443
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Speaker 2: This is the song good morning, You're stunning ray of sunshine,

444
00:18:34,080 --> 00:18:36,760
Speaker 2: rise and grind. Do you know what the hell today is?

445
00:18:37,160 --> 00:18:39,400
Speaker 2: Today's the day you remember who the hell you are.

446
00:18:39,800 --> 00:18:41,960
Speaker 2: You did not wake up today to be a lazy pig.

447
00:18:42,119 --> 00:18:46,280
Speaker 2: That's a good one. That's a good nun that wakes

448
00:18:46,280 --> 00:18:47,040
Speaker 2: me up every morning.

449
00:18:47,520 --> 00:18:51,439
Speaker 1: And it slowly gets like louder and louder, which the

450
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Speaker 1: moment I hear the fucking vibrate of the phone before

451
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Speaker 1: it begins, I'm like Gill because there's nothing to think

452
00:18:56,880 --> 00:18:59,760
Speaker 1: about this time. You can't turn it off until you

453
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Speaker 1: can delete certain tasks. So I have to do thirty steps,

454
00:19:05,240 --> 00:19:09,400
Speaker 1: two rounds of buzzles around fifteen squads, and that song

455
00:19:09,440 --> 00:19:13,920
Speaker 1: will continue playing until I haven't done them. It only

456
00:19:14,080 --> 00:19:16,160
Speaker 1: you can choose how many times to snoozer I've just done.

457
00:19:16,160 --> 00:19:17,920
Speaker 1: What of auto sets as you can snooze it three

458
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Speaker 1: times for five minutes at a time, so I usually

459
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Speaker 1: will set it like fifteen minutes before I like really

460
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Speaker 1: really need to be up, because if I get up

461
00:19:24,400 --> 00:19:28,720
Speaker 1: prior to that, great, But once those three snoozes are done,

462
00:19:29,080 --> 00:19:32,120
Speaker 1: unless you like you have to compute, literally can't turn

463
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Speaker 1: the alarm off. It doesn't matter if you exit out

464
00:19:34,119 --> 00:19:36,360
Speaker 1: the app, it doesn't matter. You can't just actually it's

465
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Speaker 1: actually not today easy and you've all did, however, say

466
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Speaker 1: to me, why don't you just turn your phone off?

467
00:19:42,320 --> 00:19:44,400
Speaker 1: And I was like, I wish more than anything.

468
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Speaker 2: You never phone me that. But I'm saying no.

469
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Speaker 1: And if you're mid walking and you start walking, it

470
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Speaker 1: things you've gone back to bed and it starts again

471
00:19:53,000 --> 00:19:57,080
Speaker 1: and it goes get up. If you turn it off, though,

472
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Speaker 1: I feel like that's anxiety on a stick, because then

473
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Speaker 1: you know I'm a mone now and now what, I'm

474
00:20:01,040 --> 00:20:02,920
Speaker 1: just gonna start a vicious cycle of me turning it

475
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Speaker 1: off every time. You know it's alarm. He's getting me

476
00:20:05,520 --> 00:20:08,119
Speaker 1: through it, alarm me. If anyone has a really hard time.

477
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Speaker 2: Waking up, I actually recommended it has really helped me.

478
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Speaker 1: Okay, can I just say how nice it is that

479
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Speaker 1: I don't have to pretend to be on teams right now?

480
00:20:17,560 --> 00:20:20,280
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, this is the first time she's ever sat

481
00:20:20,320 --> 00:20:22,160
Speaker 1: here and I had to pretend she was at work. Yeah,

482
00:20:23,800 --> 00:20:25,880
Speaker 1: you didn't hear that. If you're working at my old workplace,

483
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Speaker 1: Well you're going. Now, what are they gonna do?

484
00:20:27,359 --> 00:20:27,560
Speaker 3: Yeah?

485
00:20:27,600 --> 00:20:27,960
Speaker 2: Fire me?

486
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Speaker 1: Anyway, I'm done. Congrats, done the corporate life. It's fucking lit.

487
00:20:34,359 --> 00:20:38,440
Speaker 2: Done the nine to five. Of course, someone goes.

488
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Speaker 3: If you had a nine de vibe, do you think

489
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Speaker 3: you would be napping during the day though, I'm like, cool,

490
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Speaker 3: maybe not no, but you'd also want I'd have the

491
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Speaker 3: desire to and it wouldn't change my.

492
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Speaker 1: When even me, who's a normal sleeper, would be at

493
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Speaker 1: my desk being like, oh my god, I can't stay awake,

494
00:20:52,840 --> 00:20:54,920
Speaker 1: Like I would have two times in the morning before

495
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Speaker 1: my call center job, and by the time we had

496
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Speaker 1: hit the first break, which would have been an hour

497
00:21:00,280 --> 00:21:02,600
Speaker 1: and a half or two hours before, I would have

498
00:21:02,680 --> 00:21:04,359
Speaker 1: my eyes closed at my desk and I'd have to

499
00:21:04,400 --> 00:21:07,399
Speaker 1: go get one of those disgusting vending machine coffees like

500
00:21:07,560 --> 00:21:10,679
Speaker 1: it was hell on a stick. I've napped under my

501
00:21:10,720 --> 00:21:12,960
Speaker 1: desk for fifteen minutes at the first recess period like

502
00:21:13,680 --> 00:21:16,439
Speaker 1: many times. Wow, it was hell and why did I

503
00:21:16,440 --> 00:21:20,199
Speaker 1: never do this sooner? I feel very free? All Right,

504
00:21:20,240 --> 00:21:24,920
Speaker 1: we're getting into today's theme of the episode, which is debate,

505
00:21:26,280 --> 00:21:26,879
Speaker 1: love a debate.

506
00:21:27,040 --> 00:21:30,320
Speaker 2: Allie, you alive, let's go. Are we against each other? Okay?

507
00:21:30,359 --> 00:21:32,320
Speaker 1: So we could be on the same team, which I

508
00:21:32,320 --> 00:21:33,639
Speaker 1: feel like a lot of the time we have very

509
00:21:33,640 --> 00:21:36,439
Speaker 1: similar opinion similar values. I would say, yeah, like we

510
00:21:36,520 --> 00:21:39,920
Speaker 1: find the same things annoying, we find the same things wrong,

511
00:21:40,000 --> 00:21:42,760
Speaker 1: like what yeah, yeah, we're not really ever opposed in things?

512
00:21:43,160 --> 00:21:44,600
Speaker 2: No, Okay.

513
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Speaker 1: Number one, My family and I divided over this. If

514
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Speaker 1: a family member accidentally killed someone, example a hit and

515
00:21:51,400 --> 00:21:53,440
Speaker 1: run and asked you to help, come help and cover

516
00:21:53,480 --> 00:21:55,760
Speaker 1: it up, would you if there was one hundred percent

517
00:21:55,800 --> 00:21:58,919
Speaker 1: certainty that no one would ever find out? Yes, absolutely,

518
00:21:58,960 --> 00:22:00,159
Speaker 1: I would do it. Even if there was and one

519
00:22:00,240 --> 00:22:01,600
Speaker 1: hundred percent certainty.

520
00:22:02,480 --> 00:22:03,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, I probably.

521
00:22:03,359 --> 00:22:06,800
Speaker 1: Ah, that's your family. You're not doing it for your family,

522
00:22:06,840 --> 00:22:09,199
Speaker 1: then you're no. I believe if you're not doing that

523
00:22:09,240 --> 00:22:11,280
Speaker 1: for your family, then you're not a good person.

524
00:22:11,400 --> 00:22:11,600
Speaker 2: Yeah.

525
00:22:11,600 --> 00:22:13,280
Speaker 1: It's like there's that debate of like, would you kill

526
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Speaker 1: someone if your family was in danger.

527
00:22:14,760 --> 00:22:16,200
Speaker 2: App so fucking lutely I wouldn't.

528
00:22:16,560 --> 00:22:19,040
Speaker 1: And then your family member is in fucking danger if

529
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Speaker 1: you don't help them. Yeah, no, I would definitely come

530
00:22:22,359 --> 00:22:25,919
Speaker 1: and help. Although I have an although here, didn't I

531
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Speaker 1: call you once and I tell you that I had

532
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Speaker 1: a dead cat in the back of my car and

533
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Speaker 1: asked if you could help me, and you said.

534
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Speaker 2: No, No. I don't think I said no. I think

535
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Speaker 2: I was just like crying. I was crying. I was like,

536
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Speaker 2: oh my god.

537
00:22:35,880 --> 00:22:37,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, I called her and said I ran over a

538
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Speaker 1: cat and it's in the back of my car, and

539
00:22:39,160 --> 00:22:40,080
Speaker 1: Raley was it?

540
00:22:40,240 --> 00:22:44,000
Speaker 2: Did I do?

541
00:22:44,200 --> 00:22:45,919
Speaker 1: By the way, But what was my What was my

542
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Speaker 1: Although it depends how this person died. If it was

543
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Speaker 1: an accident, sure, if fucking it's a violent oh absolutely that.

544
00:22:55,520 --> 00:22:56,280
Speaker 2: Is totally different.

545
00:22:56,440 --> 00:22:57,879
Speaker 1: But what if they got in a bar fight with

546
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Speaker 1: a guy and the king hit them outside the bar

547
00:23:00,560 --> 00:23:02,400
Speaker 1: like one punch hit the wrong part, then.

548
00:23:02,320 --> 00:23:04,720
Speaker 2: I probably just advised them to be honest about it.

549
00:23:04,760 --> 00:23:06,600
Speaker 2: But it depends. It really depends on what happens. King

550
00:23:06,680 --> 00:23:10,800
Speaker 2: hitting someone it would be manslaughter, wouldn't it. Yah?

551
00:23:10,960 --> 00:23:13,679
Speaker 1: I think God, I have no idea. Can we move on.

552
00:23:13,840 --> 00:23:16,920
Speaker 1: This is making me feel weird, but yes, basically we

553
00:23:17,040 --> 00:23:17,879
Speaker 1: absolutely would.

554
00:23:18,480 --> 00:23:23,360
Speaker 2: Okay. Two would you rather kill oh, my god, more bad?

555
00:23:23,920 --> 00:23:25,639
Speaker 1: Would you rather kill someone and get away with it

556
00:23:25,640 --> 00:23:29,240
Speaker 1: forever or know someone else kills someone and frames you

557
00:23:29,320 --> 00:23:31,080
Speaker 1: for it and you go to jail knowing you.

558
00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:33,040
Speaker 2: Didn't do it. I'd rather kill someone to get away with.

559
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Speaker 1: It, absolutely. I mean, why would I want to go

560
00:23:35,000 --> 00:23:36,720
Speaker 1: to jail for no fucking reason? But knowing it's like

561
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Speaker 1: a moral dilemma of like you know in your hype,

562
00:23:39,240 --> 00:23:42,560
Speaker 1: personally would I'd have to turn myself in. I couldn't

563
00:23:42,560 --> 00:23:44,920
Speaker 1: live with myself accidentally though, like a hit and run,

564
00:23:44,920 --> 00:23:47,320
Speaker 1: you're just saying, no, you cover it quite family. Yeah,

565
00:23:47,359 --> 00:23:49,000
Speaker 1: for my family, I wasn't the one who did it.

566
00:23:49,080 --> 00:23:49,280
Speaker 2: Yeah.

567
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Speaker 1: I think it would be a really slow downhill spiral.

568
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Speaker 1: And it's very easy to say like, yeah, I'd probably

569
00:23:53,240 --> 00:23:55,600
Speaker 1: turn live my life, but I think you'd become very

570
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Speaker 1: severely depressed, absolutely depressed, And so I don't know, that's

571
00:23:58,440 --> 00:24:00,080
Speaker 1: a bit you know, touch and go there. I don't know,

572
00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:02,399
Speaker 1: but I would rather kill someone to get away with

573
00:24:02,480 --> 00:24:03,800
Speaker 1: I do not want to get framed for someone else's

574
00:24:03,840 --> 00:24:05,240
Speaker 1: mom because I'd rather be dead than in jail for

575
00:24:05,240 --> 00:24:09,040
Speaker 1: the rest of my life. Yeah, yep, agreed, because I

576
00:24:09,040 --> 00:24:11,080
Speaker 1: don't think. I don't think i'd go very well in there.

577
00:24:12,600 --> 00:24:15,240
Speaker 1: Yeah I wouldn't. I wouldn't either. I'd have to make

578
00:24:15,280 --> 00:24:18,320
Speaker 1: a few more connections before I would in jail. Connections

579
00:24:18,359 --> 00:24:20,280
Speaker 1: with people in girl, people who could help me. Yeah,

580
00:24:20,320 --> 00:24:21,400
Speaker 1: I don't think we have any of those.

581
00:24:21,440 --> 00:24:21,840
Speaker 2: Okay.

582
00:24:22,040 --> 00:24:24,720
Speaker 1: Number three, Hey, Isy, I need you to settle a

583
00:24:24,800 --> 00:24:28,240
Speaker 1: very real relationship debate. My partner and I cannot agree

584
00:24:28,240 --> 00:24:30,880
Speaker 1: on one thing. A dog's meant to be outside animals

585
00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:34,240
Speaker 1: or are they basically family members who belong inside for contacts.

586
00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:35,920
Speaker 1: We both still live at home and these are technically

587
00:24:35,920 --> 00:24:38,480
Speaker 1: our family dogs. My dog lives inside. He has a

588
00:24:38,480 --> 00:24:40,720
Speaker 1: warm bed, of basketful of toys, and a proper warm

589
00:24:40,760 --> 00:24:46,400
Speaker 1: dinner every night, warm dinner, daily, walks, and if I'm honest,

590
00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:48,200
Speaker 1: he's basically the favorite child in the house. He's part

591
00:24:48,240 --> 00:24:50,480
Speaker 1: of everything. He sleeps near us, he's included, he's loved,

592
00:24:50,520 --> 00:24:52,960
Speaker 1: and he's not just a dog his family. This is

593
00:24:52,960 --> 00:24:55,159
Speaker 1: where he gets tricky. My partner's family dog is what

594
00:24:55,200 --> 00:24:57,800
Speaker 1: they call an outside dog. He lives outside full time,

595
00:24:57,920 --> 00:24:58,880
Speaker 1: sits in the rain.

596
00:24:59,320 --> 00:25:00,040
Speaker 2: Oh my.

597
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Speaker 1: Real sad side note very briefly, I found out last

598
00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:12,719
Speaker 1: week that giraffes to get shelter when it rains, so

599
00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:15,000
Speaker 1: when there's a big storm in Africa and shit, they

600
00:25:15,040 --> 00:25:17,520
Speaker 1: literally just have to stand there and bear it. And

601
00:25:17,560 --> 00:25:20,280
Speaker 1: I would recommend against searching up a video because it's

602
00:25:20,280 --> 00:25:22,240
Speaker 1: exactly what you think it is and it's really fucking sad.

603
00:25:22,280 --> 00:25:24,000
Speaker 1: I don't want to talk about it. So he sits

604
00:25:24,000 --> 00:25:28,080
Speaker 1: in the rain, gets one skip of drive food at night. Guys,

605
00:25:28,080 --> 00:25:30,399
Speaker 1: this sounds like this poor dog's being neglect a lot

606
00:25:30,440 --> 00:25:32,520
Speaker 1: of people. Is often left alone outside when the family

607
00:25:32,560 --> 00:25:35,240
Speaker 1: goes away on holidays, gets yelled at for being excited

608
00:25:35,560 --> 00:25:41,080
Speaker 1: when given the chance to come inside, then immediately removed

609
00:25:41,119 --> 00:25:42,920
Speaker 1: back outside because he's too over the top when he's

610
00:25:42,920 --> 00:25:46,320
Speaker 1: really just excited to finally get some attention. Okay, this

611
00:25:46,440 --> 00:25:49,240
Speaker 1: dog sounds like he needs a new home. This dog

612
00:25:49,280 --> 00:25:53,880
Speaker 1: needs to be rehomed. The fact he's excited to come inside.

613
00:25:55,280 --> 00:25:56,800
Speaker 1: You can't talk about it now, but our dog's always

614
00:25:56,840 --> 00:25:58,400
Speaker 1: excited it's coming O. No, I mean the fact he's

615
00:25:58,440 --> 00:26:00,560
Speaker 1: so excited to come outside and then he's punished for it,

616
00:26:00,600 --> 00:26:01,960
Speaker 1: that makes me want to fucking die.

617
00:26:02,400 --> 00:26:05,080
Speaker 2: No, no, No, it absolutely breaks my heart.

618
00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:07,520
Speaker 1: He's a little kervoodl, not some big farm working dog

619
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Speaker 1: built for hearthsh weather. He's small, he's fluffy, and he

620
00:26:10,080 --> 00:26:12,439
Speaker 1: just wants to be loved. When it's raining.

621
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Speaker 2: I would break up with my partner over this.

622
00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:17,200
Speaker 1: Oh, when he's raining, it got Oh my god, this

623
00:26:17,320 --> 00:26:20,280
Speaker 1: girl's tugging the heart strings on purpose, and I hate

624
00:26:20,320 --> 00:26:22,800
Speaker 1: it for it. When it's raining and cold, he sits

625
00:26:22,800 --> 00:26:24,760
Speaker 1: at the window looking in while the whole family is

626
00:26:27,119 --> 00:26:29,320
Speaker 1: I'm not laughing because I would cry if I saw this.

627
00:26:29,920 --> 00:26:32,160
Speaker 1: I genuinely feel six seeing him wet and shivering. I'm

628
00:26:32,200 --> 00:26:34,440
Speaker 1: just wanting to be near his people. My partner says

629
00:26:34,440 --> 00:26:36,800
Speaker 1: dogs are meant to be outside, and he's just a canine.

630
00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:41,080
Speaker 2: He's not a canine, he's a kervoodle. Why owned a dog? Yeah,

631
00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:44,080
Speaker 2: like a dog? Yeah, if you don't want to be

632
00:26:44,119 --> 00:26:46,760
Speaker 2: near the dog. Ever, what's the fucking point, She's.

633
00:26:46,640 --> 00:26:48,520
Speaker 1: Like, I can't wrap my head around it. Obviously, she

634
00:26:48,600 --> 00:26:51,280
Speaker 1: goes on, and I'm really sad. A dog's meant to

635
00:26:51,280 --> 00:26:51,679
Speaker 1: be outside?

636
00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:54,480
Speaker 2: Animals? Or do you bring a dog into your life?

637
00:26:54,520 --> 00:26:56,640
Speaker 1: Does that make them a family or a greater responsibility

638
00:26:56,680 --> 00:27:00,600
Speaker 1: than just existing outside? Yeah, fucking absolutely. Our dog is

639
00:27:00,600 --> 00:27:03,200
Speaker 1: an outside dogs. But the good thing is with our dog,

640
00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:06,120
Speaker 1: she actually got trained. I think it's really important at

641
00:27:06,160 --> 00:27:09,080
Speaker 1: first to train them, to train them that they can

642
00:27:09,160 --> 00:27:11,520
Speaker 1: be outside. I think our dog slept out. She did

643
00:27:12,040 --> 00:27:15,840
Speaker 1: in a very warm, little, very house. There was like

644
00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:18,200
Speaker 1: a wooden house, and Mum would heat up her blood.

645
00:27:18,320 --> 00:27:21,000
Speaker 1: But then we also would let her let her inside

646
00:27:21,240 --> 00:27:23,199
Speaker 1: the first thing in the morning and then last thing

647
00:27:23,240 --> 00:27:25,560
Speaker 1: at night. Yeah, so like she was an inside dog

648
00:27:25,680 --> 00:27:27,359
Speaker 1: and if it was cold or raining, she would sleep

649
00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:29,320
Speaker 1: inside on her bed. And that was for the first

650
00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:32,239
Speaker 1: couple of years. I think now she even and then no,

651
00:27:32,280 --> 00:27:35,439
Speaker 1: we just let her in. Now she sleeps inside on

652
00:27:35,560 --> 00:27:38,399
Speaker 1: mum's bed. But even for the first couple years, she

653
00:27:38,480 --> 00:27:40,280
Speaker 1: wasn't really loud on the couch. There were lines on

654
00:27:40,280 --> 00:27:42,240
Speaker 1: the floor where she wouldn't so she wouldn't go into

655
00:27:42,240 --> 00:27:44,439
Speaker 1: the kitchen. And now, to be honest, all of that's

656
00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:45,760
Speaker 1: kind of gone out of the window because she's a

657
00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:48,359
Speaker 1: very very well trained Because all of that trained her

658
00:27:48,520 --> 00:27:51,000
Speaker 1: so well, like having those rules in place, she is

659
00:27:51,000 --> 00:27:52,439
Speaker 1: now the most well behaved dog and now she can

660
00:27:52,480 --> 00:27:54,119
Speaker 1: do it. Ever, I don't think you should ever have

661
00:27:54,160 --> 00:27:56,320
Speaker 1: a dog where you leave them outside when it's raining,

662
00:27:56,359 --> 00:27:57,800
Speaker 1: Like you don't want a dog then, and I think

663
00:27:57,840 --> 00:28:00,639
Speaker 1: we shouldring home if they're fucking stuck outside in the

664
00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:01,359
Speaker 1: freezing cold.

665
00:28:01,440 --> 00:28:05,320
Speaker 2: That's abusive. Yeah, for what why are you? Why do

666
00:28:05,320 --> 00:28:05,760
Speaker 2: you have a dog?

667
00:28:05,880 --> 00:28:05,960
Speaker 3: No?

668
00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:08,080
Speaker 1: Literally, it's like I read this I posted on my

669
00:28:08,119 --> 00:28:09,520
Speaker 1: story the other day, so a lot of you would

670
00:28:09,520 --> 00:28:11,320
Speaker 1: have seen it. But that thing about like a dog,

671
00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:13,120
Speaker 1: an animal sleeping in your bed? Did you read it? It

672
00:28:13,080 --> 00:28:15,960
Speaker 1: would on me fucking cry, Like I actually cried when

673
00:28:15,960 --> 00:28:17,760
Speaker 1: I read it. Did you see my story? It was

674
00:28:17,760 --> 00:28:18,160
Speaker 1: so sad.

675
00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:20,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was really sad, but it was really really sweet.

676
00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:22,960
Speaker 1: It's a what a privilege it is to have a

677
00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:25,240
Speaker 1: little less room in the bed because a little creature

678
00:28:25,280 --> 00:28:28,679
Speaker 1: thinks it's the safest place to spend the night. Like

679
00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:31,000
Speaker 1: I'm always like, oh, Bobby's like right where I want

680
00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:33,919
Speaker 1: to lie. But it's like she is so happy. I know,

681
00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:37,200
Speaker 1: I know, and that is all that matters. My feelings

682
00:28:37,200 --> 00:28:41,800
Speaker 1: do not matter when it comes to the cats. By

683
00:28:41,800 --> 00:28:44,600
Speaker 1: the way, there's vomit all over the rug because we're

684
00:28:44,640 --> 00:28:46,320
Speaker 1: just going to chuck it straight out, please do. I

685
00:28:46,360 --> 00:28:47,680
Speaker 1: didn't want to clean it because I knew you weren't

686
00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:48,560
Speaker 1: going to be No, I just leave it.

687
00:28:48,560 --> 00:28:49,440
Speaker 2: We'll chuck it.

688
00:28:49,640 --> 00:28:52,240
Speaker 1: I'm so excited to not have to clean mom regularly

689
00:28:52,320 --> 00:28:53,320
Speaker 1: off my fucking covert.

690
00:28:53,480 --> 00:28:55,080
Speaker 2: I feel like the cons out way the pro. I

691
00:28:55,080 --> 00:28:55,880
Speaker 2: had someone come up.

692
00:28:55,960 --> 00:28:57,880
Speaker 1: They do, but I had someone come over to finally

693
00:28:57,920 --> 00:28:59,480
Speaker 1: hang my paintings that have been sitting on the floor

694
00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:00,360
Speaker 1: for a year and half.

695
00:29:00,200 --> 00:29:01,440
Speaker 2: Of my room looks so much better.

696
00:29:01,480 --> 00:29:03,920
Speaker 1: I've lived with Easy for a year and a half

697
00:29:03,960 --> 00:29:07,800
Speaker 1: basically and almost almost year and a half, and we

698
00:29:07,840 --> 00:29:12,120
Speaker 1: have had our paintings and mirrors and artworks all sitting

699
00:29:12,120 --> 00:29:15,560
Speaker 1: on the floor this entire fucking time, and we've been like, oh,

700
00:29:15,760 --> 00:29:18,520
Speaker 1: we really should get someone to hang these up once

701
00:29:18,560 --> 00:29:21,880
Speaker 1: a month. And I moved out two days ago, quite

702
00:29:21,920 --> 00:29:24,280
Speaker 1: close I think to organizing it. And two days ago

703
00:29:24,400 --> 00:29:26,600
Speaker 1: I moved out and one day ago is.

704
00:29:26,560 --> 00:29:31,520
Speaker 2: He hung up all the artworks? So how good is that? Okay?

705
00:29:31,680 --> 00:29:36,280
Speaker 1: In my defense, in my defense, I posted a story

706
00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:39,800
Speaker 1: about a month and a half ago of my mirror

707
00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:42,200
Speaker 1: on the floor saying, any chance anyone can help me

708
00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:47,520
Speaker 1: hang this my legs. Boyfriend's older brother, lucal legs, you

709
00:29:47,560 --> 00:29:50,480
Speaker 1: said my legs. I was saying, my best friends and

710
00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:52,600
Speaker 1: then I said leg was confusing for the leg my

711
00:29:52,680 --> 00:29:56,600
Speaker 1: best friend, her boyfriend's brother, Lucas. He listens, Hey, Lucas,

712
00:29:56,680 --> 00:30:00,360
Speaker 1: thank you. Said yeah, I can hang them. They've been

713
00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:01,960
Speaker 1: sitting on the floor for that long, Like, I will

714
00:30:01,960 --> 00:30:05,120
Speaker 1: do it. It's easy. He was going to come a couple

715
00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:07,280
Speaker 1: of weeks ago. It kept having to get moved because

716
00:30:07,280 --> 00:30:09,560
Speaker 1: of our schedules. So it happened to fall when Riley

717
00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:12,920
Speaker 1: had just moved up and he came over, and I

718
00:30:13,040 --> 00:30:15,440
Speaker 1: was felt like a fucking nonnah, Like I was like,

719
00:30:15,560 --> 00:30:17,520
Speaker 1: have this protein, I have this piece of chocolate. What

720
00:30:17,520 --> 00:30:18,880
Speaker 1: about this from the fridge? Do you feel like an

721
00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:21,680
Speaker 1: oxy shred? I ended up giving him prepair of my headphones.

722
00:30:22,960 --> 00:30:25,000
Speaker 1: I'm brand new pair of Apple headphones because I was like,

723
00:30:25,000 --> 00:30:27,440
Speaker 1: I just feel so bad because it was he's doing

724
00:30:27,440 --> 00:30:29,200
Speaker 1: me a favor and it looks so much better.

725
00:30:29,320 --> 00:30:31,960
Speaker 2: It does look great, all right. Four.

726
00:30:32,400 --> 00:30:35,240
Speaker 1: My partner thinks the body counts are different. I don't

727
00:30:35,280 --> 00:30:38,520
Speaker 1: even want to get into this discussion. My partner thinks

728
00:30:38,560 --> 00:30:41,320
Speaker 1: the body counts, which means for people that don't that

729
00:30:41,360 --> 00:30:43,280
Speaker 1: live under a rock, how many people you've had sex with,

730
00:30:44,120 --> 00:30:46,320
Speaker 1: are different for guys because they are naturally built to

731
00:30:46,360 --> 00:30:48,720
Speaker 1: be horny and they don't get attached like girls too,

732
00:30:48,760 --> 00:30:51,160
Speaker 1: So my body count being half of his equals at

733
00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:54,080
Speaker 1: mind being far worse. It infuriates me, but it's the

734
00:30:54,080 --> 00:30:55,720
Speaker 1: only thing we can't agree on. I just want to

735
00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:58,680
Speaker 1: say a couple of things. Break up with this cun

736
00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:01,880
Speaker 1: and he's upolutely wrong and needs a good punch in

737
00:31:01,920 --> 00:31:04,160
Speaker 1: the face to get his shit together. That's all I'm

738
00:31:04,160 --> 00:31:06,719
Speaker 1: gonna say. I'm really sick of men. Are even one

739
00:31:06,760 --> 00:31:10,160
Speaker 1: of the guys on maths that douchebag tyson. His defense

740
00:31:10,280 --> 00:31:12,360
Speaker 1: was men have testosterone and that's what makes him sleep

741
00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:15,160
Speaker 1: with more people. I'm like, I actually think you sound

742
00:31:15,200 --> 00:31:19,480
Speaker 1: like a fucking cunt, Like you misogynistic prick go back

743
00:31:19,520 --> 00:31:22,320
Speaker 1: to the fucking nineteen twenties and live on a farmland

744
00:31:22,320 --> 00:31:25,560
Speaker 1: with no running water, because I actually like, fuck off.

745
00:31:25,640 --> 00:31:28,200
Speaker 2: I actually can't disgusting. I can.

746
00:31:28,280 --> 00:31:30,720
Speaker 1: I can't if any boy asked me what my body

747
00:31:30,760 --> 00:31:34,160
Speaker 1: count is like unless friend and it's.

748
00:31:34,000 --> 00:31:35,520
Speaker 2: Like a casual discussion.

749
00:31:35,840 --> 00:31:37,680
Speaker 1: But like, if I get someone asking me out, like

750
00:31:37,720 --> 00:31:39,400
Speaker 1: on a date, like yeah, that will be the last

751
00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:41,960
Speaker 1: thing we ever say. Yeah, none of you got damn

752
00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:44,280
Speaker 1: fucking business. Quite frankly and it's like people, Oh.

753
00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:46,360
Speaker 3: They're just defending themselves because they've had six to a

754
00:31:46,360 --> 00:31:47,360
Speaker 3: lot of people, And.

755
00:31:47,320 --> 00:31:50,160
Speaker 2: I say, I've actually never ever asked another person. It

756
00:31:50,160 --> 00:31:50,680
Speaker 2: doesn't matter.

757
00:31:50,960 --> 00:31:52,960
Speaker 1: I know it literally I had it. Even a friend

758
00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:54,720
Speaker 1: the other day and it kind of shited me. Was

759
00:31:54,760 --> 00:31:56,760
Speaker 1: talking about how upset they were that they were almost

760
00:31:56,800 --> 00:32:00,400
Speaker 1: at double digits, and I'm like, why are we even

761
00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:00,880
Speaker 1: talking about this?

762
00:32:01,240 --> 00:32:02,680
Speaker 2: M h do you know what I mean?

763
00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:04,640
Speaker 1: Does it really make a difference whether it's nine or

764
00:32:04,720 --> 00:32:06,440
Speaker 1: ten or twenty or thirty?

765
00:32:06,800 --> 00:32:08,400
Speaker 2: No? You know.

766
00:32:08,520 --> 00:32:10,480
Speaker 1: The only time I would say body count would ever

767
00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:13,760
Speaker 1: become a problem for me being realistic and honest here

768
00:32:14,320 --> 00:32:17,680
Speaker 1: is if it's like a couple fucking hundred and I'm like,

769
00:32:17,720 --> 00:32:19,600
Speaker 1: are we walking around and you've had sex with every

770
00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:20,920
Speaker 1: single girl in the vicinity.

771
00:32:21,160 --> 00:32:22,360
Speaker 2: That's when maybe I'd have a problem.

772
00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:23,720
Speaker 1: And the only reason I don't even know anyone that

773
00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:25,240
Speaker 1: said sex with that many people. But like sometimes I

774
00:32:25,360 --> 00:32:28,200
Speaker 1: love Island. Oh right, their body counts down, which a

775
00:32:28,200 --> 00:32:31,800
Speaker 1: stupid fucking game, and the boys are like seven hundred.

776
00:32:31,920 --> 00:32:34,560
Speaker 1: I'm like, ew, like, you'll no, you know you haven't.

777
00:32:34,400 --> 00:32:35,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I know.

778
00:32:35,720 --> 00:32:37,280
Speaker 1: I think then that's a bit of a sex addiction.

779
00:32:37,320 --> 00:32:40,000
Speaker 1: That's another issue, and it's like, yeah, I just wouldn't.

780
00:32:40,840 --> 00:32:43,360
Speaker 1: It's more the fact of, like, we will run into

781
00:32:43,400 --> 00:32:44,920
Speaker 1: every single person you've ever had sex with, Like I

782
00:32:44,920 --> 00:32:46,800
Speaker 1: will never be able to escape someone in the room

783
00:32:46,840 --> 00:32:47,840
Speaker 1: that hasn't also had.

784
00:32:47,680 --> 00:32:52,600
Speaker 2: Sex with you. Yeah, yep, either way, fuck this guy next. Okay,

785
00:32:53,280 --> 00:32:58,280
Speaker 2: hi is go on, say what you got to say? Oh?

786
00:32:58,320 --> 00:33:01,680
Speaker 2: Think My man and I have this continuous argument every day.

787
00:33:02,480 --> 00:33:03,240
Speaker 2: It's not ideal.

788
00:33:03,920 --> 00:33:05,800
Speaker 1: I get so mad and this has been an ongoing

789
00:33:05,800 --> 00:33:06,760
Speaker 1: debate which will not end.

790
00:33:06,960 --> 00:33:08,040
Speaker 2: He's a sink dumper.

791
00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:11,360
Speaker 1: Oh that's why it's every day, because it's happening every

792
00:33:11,400 --> 00:33:14,160
Speaker 1: fucking day. He dumps the dishes in the fucking sink,

793
00:33:14,160 --> 00:33:15,640
Speaker 1: even though he knows that's the one thing that will

794
00:33:15,640 --> 00:33:16,960
Speaker 1: literally send me over the edge.

795
00:33:17,040 --> 00:33:18,600
Speaker 2: Every day. I'll be like, dude, what the fuck.

796
00:33:18,640 --> 00:33:20,120
Speaker 1: It's the same action to put your dishes in the

797
00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:23,520
Speaker 1: dishrusher that basically then put it in the sink. He

798
00:33:23,560 --> 00:33:27,000
Speaker 1: won't do it because he's just being lazy. Then he

799
00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:28,760
Speaker 1: here on the flip side, gets mad at me the

800
00:33:28,760 --> 00:33:31,040
Speaker 1: way I stack the dishousher because I'm not stacking it

801
00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:33,640
Speaker 1: like a fucking architect. I just chuck shit in. If

802
00:33:33,680 --> 00:33:36,360
Speaker 1: it fits, it sits right. I believe if it fits,

803
00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:39,840
Speaker 1: it's it's when it comes to a dishwasher, oh I'm not.

804
00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:41,960
Speaker 1: I'm not one of those people that stacks all my

805
00:33:42,000 --> 00:33:44,040
Speaker 1: forks and almost moons in one row and nos in.

806
00:33:44,120 --> 00:33:46,240
Speaker 2: We just throw things in and if it fits it clean.

807
00:33:46,320 --> 00:33:48,000
Speaker 1: Say, and if it ends up dirty, I'll leave it

808
00:33:48,000 --> 00:33:49,840
Speaker 1: in there for next time and hopefully it gets cleaned,

809
00:33:49,880 --> 00:33:50,160
Speaker 1: you know.

810
00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:50,520
Speaker 2: What I mean?

811
00:33:50,760 --> 00:33:52,760
Speaker 1: Just put your fucking dishes in the fucking dish And

812
00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:55,960
Speaker 1: because you do that knowing that someone else going to

813
00:33:56,240 --> 00:33:58,320
Speaker 1: do it, and my thing, and I think why living

814
00:33:58,520 --> 00:34:01,440
Speaker 1: with ry like we've been okay and we don't actually

815
00:34:01,520 --> 00:34:05,400
Speaker 1: argue too much about housework. We always will like there's

816
00:34:05,440 --> 00:34:07,040
Speaker 1: never anything left in the kitchen at the end of

817
00:34:07,040 --> 00:34:08,920
Speaker 1: the night, and we will always clean up our own dishes,

818
00:34:08,920 --> 00:34:10,480
Speaker 1: Like unless we are in the biggest rush and we

819
00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:12,000
Speaker 1: have to leave a cup in the sink, we'll just

820
00:34:12,080 --> 00:34:13,400
Speaker 1: leave it and the person will clean it when they

821
00:34:13,480 --> 00:34:14,000
Speaker 1: have a chance.

822
00:34:14,320 --> 00:34:15,000
Speaker 2: Do you know what I mean?

823
00:34:15,120 --> 00:34:18,759
Speaker 1: Like expecting someone else to do your shit is fucking yeah,

824
00:34:18,800 --> 00:34:22,880
Speaker 1: it's not so annoying. Oh something else, say, hey, don't

825
00:34:23,160 --> 00:34:25,040
Speaker 1: if you don't have any sinc creator, don't just like

826
00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:28,360
Speaker 1: leave food sitting in the fucking sink. Bit now, wash

827
00:34:28,400 --> 00:34:31,399
Speaker 1: that shit down. Actually, always make sure there's no food

828
00:34:31,440 --> 00:34:31,799
Speaker 1: in the sink.

829
00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:34,160
Speaker 2: It's gross. It's fucking disgusting.

830
00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:36,360
Speaker 1: Even when I go to like Sorrento, sometimes I'll notice that,

831
00:34:36,400 --> 00:34:39,160
Speaker 1: like Dad even will have stuff like left legs, a

832
00:34:39,200 --> 00:34:42,440
Speaker 1: little like a little bits, and it miscerally makes me gag.

833
00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:44,279
Speaker 1: I know, and it's like, I don't know how long

834
00:34:44,280 --> 00:34:45,800
Speaker 1: that's been sitting there. I have to fucking put it

835
00:34:45,840 --> 00:34:47,200
Speaker 1: down the sink now because I can't look at it.

836
00:34:47,200 --> 00:34:49,399
Speaker 2: And if I want to eat, I can't eat now.

837
00:34:49,680 --> 00:34:51,879
Speaker 2: You've ruined it. Can't fathom house.

838
00:34:51,920 --> 00:34:54,040
Speaker 1: Someone who sink dumbs has the right tell me I'm

839
00:34:54,080 --> 00:34:57,360
Speaker 1: stacking incorrectly. Also, if you have a problem with my stacking,

840
00:34:57,400 --> 00:34:59,359
Speaker 1: fix it yourself, because I'm happy with how it's sitting

841
00:34:59,400 --> 00:35:00,719
Speaker 1: right now and it gets the job done.

842
00:35:01,000 --> 00:35:04,560
Speaker 2: Anyway, You're correct to go, You win, you win, all right.

843
00:35:04,680 --> 00:35:07,360
Speaker 2: Hello to my favorite sister du.

844
00:35:09,640 --> 00:35:11,279
Speaker 1: Sorr. I'm deciding to have a dinner. Yeah that's really

845
00:35:11,320 --> 00:35:12,880
Speaker 1: not what you having for dinner. I don't know you

846
00:35:13,040 --> 00:35:18,239
Speaker 1: are eating our house, no mine, in Casey's house. No

847
00:35:18,840 --> 00:35:22,560
Speaker 1: what are you eating I don't know, you have no idea?

848
00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:23,879
Speaker 2: Are you eating out? No?

849
00:35:23,960 --> 00:35:28,520
Speaker 1: I could eat out? Okay, I'm like bolonnaise. Okay, in

850
00:35:28,600 --> 00:35:30,360
Speaker 1: case you wanted to know, can you talk to me

851
00:35:30,360 --> 00:35:32,200
Speaker 1: about what your options are? I'm like so hungry that

852
00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:33,879
Speaker 1: like talking about food right now would make me feel

853
00:35:33,880 --> 00:35:37,040
Speaker 1: really good. I want something meaty and carby, like Bolonnai's

854
00:35:38,560 --> 00:35:40,360
Speaker 1: nail on the head. Bolonnais is at my house and

855
00:35:40,400 --> 00:35:42,360
Speaker 1: you don't live there anymore, so you can't have it.

856
00:35:42,600 --> 00:35:45,719
Speaker 1: That's fine, Okay, I need your opinions on something. This

857
00:35:45,840 --> 00:35:48,680
Speaker 1: was a debate, of course, don't you reckon? People get

858
00:35:48,719 --> 00:35:51,960
Speaker 1: really really defensive over their bolonnais rests, specifically, everyone thinks

859
00:35:52,000 --> 00:35:55,680
Speaker 1: it's the best. Mom and dad had like an ongoing

860
00:35:55,719 --> 00:35:59,760
Speaker 1: debate our whole special have it. They get really protective

861
00:35:59,760 --> 00:36:01,560
Speaker 1: over there bow and accese. They cook them completely different.

862
00:36:01,560 --> 00:36:05,080
Speaker 1: Everyone Mums is very basic, very it doesn't take too long.

863
00:36:05,120 --> 00:36:07,319
Speaker 1: It's just you know exactly what you think, Like, there's

864
00:36:07,320 --> 00:36:09,840
Speaker 1: no vegetables in it besides like tomatoes and onion and garlic,

865
00:36:10,280 --> 00:36:13,279
Speaker 1: and it's delicious, fucking love it. Dad's is one of

866
00:36:13,320 --> 00:36:16,200
Speaker 1: those like slow cook takes a fucking hour let's throw

867
00:36:16,239 --> 00:36:18,680
Speaker 1: the whole kitchen sink in it. Yeah, we've over the

868
00:36:18,760 --> 00:36:21,400
Speaker 1: years slowly weaned that ingredients that we don't appreciate, Like

869
00:36:22,600 --> 00:36:26,040
Speaker 1: his Celery's back gone for about ten years because I

870
00:36:26,080 --> 00:36:28,000
Speaker 1: hear it in celery. Now that I've grown up and

871
00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:29,600
Speaker 1: I don't care, I've noticed he's added it back in.

872
00:36:29,680 --> 00:36:31,440
Speaker 1: But there was he used to put pan cheddar and

873
00:36:31,440 --> 00:36:33,880
Speaker 1: shit in it. I don't like that bacon. Yeah, no,

874
00:36:34,040 --> 00:36:35,759
Speaker 1: that's all gone. But mushrooms are in there, and I

875
00:36:35,800 --> 00:36:37,439
Speaker 1: like the mushrooms. They're great when I get a bite

876
00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:37,960
Speaker 1: with the mushroom.

877
00:36:37,960 --> 00:36:39,319
Speaker 2: But yeah, but sometimes the shit in there, you don't

878
00:36:39,320 --> 00:36:42,000
Speaker 2: even know what it is. No, and he started adding anchovies.

879
00:36:43,200 --> 00:36:45,680
Speaker 2: Did you know that I'm criminal? Anyway?

880
00:36:46,320 --> 00:36:48,880
Speaker 1: They debated. They've debated it for years, Honest to god.

881
00:36:49,000 --> 00:36:51,160
Speaker 1: I have gone through like year long periods where I

882
00:36:51,160 --> 00:36:52,880
Speaker 1: prefer the other ones and the other like where I

883
00:36:52,880 --> 00:36:54,640
Speaker 1: prefer one or the other, and it just changes, like

884
00:36:54,680 --> 00:36:55,600
Speaker 1: I don't have a preference.

885
00:36:55,600 --> 00:36:56,480
Speaker 2: They're both so different.

886
00:36:56,800 --> 00:36:59,239
Speaker 1: It's like Tessa, like, I like my Bolonaise the most

887
00:36:59,239 --> 00:37:01,520
Speaker 1: because I make it exactly how I like it, like

888
00:37:01,560 --> 00:37:06,080
Speaker 1: I have like and like cherry smart and Testa makes

889
00:37:06,080 --> 00:37:08,759
Speaker 1: it very Italian style, you know what I mean. And

890
00:37:08,760 --> 00:37:10,560
Speaker 1: she's like, you'll love it. You'll love it like it's

891
00:37:10,600 --> 00:37:12,200
Speaker 1: the best malonaise ever, And I love it. It's great,

892
00:37:12,200 --> 00:37:13,759
Speaker 1: but I would prefer to eat mine because I make

893
00:37:13,800 --> 00:37:17,040
Speaker 1: it exactly how I like it. Anyway, I want to

894
00:37:17,040 --> 00:37:19,239
Speaker 1: know if that's like a common family thing, because I

895
00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:23,840
Speaker 1: feel like I think it is Volina specifically, I really think, Yeah, Okay,

896
00:37:23,880 --> 00:37:25,440
Speaker 1: this was the debate between me and my ex, and

897
00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:26,840
Speaker 1: I want to know if I'm the only one that

898
00:37:26,840 --> 00:37:29,560
Speaker 1: feels this way since we've broken up. He's actually said

899
00:37:29,560 --> 00:37:31,319
Speaker 1: he understands why it bothered me and can see my

900
00:37:31,320 --> 00:37:33,440
Speaker 1: point of view. Now, that's always fucking happens. They come

901
00:37:33,440 --> 00:37:37,480
Speaker 1: around when they're when they don't need to. Okay, yeah,

902
00:37:37,560 --> 00:37:39,600
Speaker 1: this is classic, and I know exactly where you'll stand.

903
00:37:40,480 --> 00:37:43,759
Speaker 2: Actually actually go on.

904
00:37:46,960 --> 00:37:49,439
Speaker 1: I feel like liking other girls half naked Instagram photos

905
00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:52,000
Speaker 1: while you're in a relationship falls into a similar category

906
00:37:52,040 --> 00:37:55,000
Speaker 1: as watching porn. It's not outright cheating, but depending on

907
00:37:55,040 --> 00:37:57,560
Speaker 1: how often it happens, it can start to feel that way.

908
00:37:57,760 --> 00:37:59,640
Speaker 1: It's not something I think should be a regular habit

909
00:37:59,680 --> 00:38:00,680
Speaker 1: when you're admitted to someone.

910
00:38:00,800 --> 00:38:03,440
Speaker 2: Am I crazy for seeing okay. My response is twofold.

911
00:38:03,600 --> 00:38:07,640
Speaker 1: It is nothing like watching porn, I don't think, but

912
00:38:07,719 --> 00:38:10,200
Speaker 1: I do agree that they probably your partner should not

913
00:38:10,239 --> 00:38:14,399
Speaker 1: be liking other girls bikini photos. My stance on it

914
00:38:14,440 --> 00:38:17,320
Speaker 1: is I fucking hate it. I'd appreciate it not happening.

915
00:38:17,400 --> 00:38:22,400
Speaker 1: But I had a real problem with my ex boyfriend

916
00:38:22,400 --> 00:38:24,320
Speaker 1: because he would say I didn't he didn't want me

917
00:38:24,400 --> 00:38:27,360
Speaker 1: liking any boys photos. I said, Rye, Okay, I'll go

918
00:38:27,400 --> 00:38:30,400
Speaker 1: if that's something you want, fine, if it's gonna cause like,

919
00:38:30,480 --> 00:38:32,600
Speaker 1: I won't and I didn't. It is not My finger

920
00:38:32,640 --> 00:38:34,600
Speaker 1: does not slip on a like button. I'm not a

921
00:38:34,600 --> 00:38:37,960
Speaker 1: big Instagram like I have to consciously like my friend's photos.

922
00:38:38,000 --> 00:38:39,560
Speaker 1: Do you know what I mean? It's not something I do.

923
00:38:39,760 --> 00:38:41,920
Speaker 1: I'll always comment and I'll realize I haven't even liked it.

924
00:38:43,440 --> 00:38:45,880
Speaker 1: He would go, I go, okay, fine, Sam goes for you.

925
00:38:45,880 --> 00:38:47,480
Speaker 1: Then if I'm not liking any guys photos, you're not

926
00:38:47,520 --> 00:38:49,279
Speaker 1: liking any girls photos. And then I would see his

927
00:38:49,280 --> 00:38:51,280
Speaker 1: fucking name under a girls photo, and I'm like, Okay,

928
00:38:51,760 --> 00:38:54,960
Speaker 1: either we're liking everyone's photos or we're not liking anyone's

929
00:38:55,200 --> 00:38:58,640
Speaker 1: Because I now know that you're specifically liking certain people's photos,

930
00:38:58,680 --> 00:39:00,480
Speaker 1: and it was always certain people I'd have a problem with.

931
00:39:00,760 --> 00:39:02,000
Speaker 1: So it's one of those things where it's like, if

932
00:39:02,000 --> 00:39:04,000
Speaker 1: you're not liking any bikini photers, then they slip up

933
00:39:04,080 --> 00:39:06,640
Speaker 1: under like one girl or two girls that then you

934
00:39:06,719 --> 00:39:07,520
Speaker 1: focus on those girls.

935
00:39:07,600 --> 00:39:08,600
Speaker 2: That shits you up the wall.

936
00:39:09,239 --> 00:39:12,319
Speaker 1: I do think so what I'm saying sorry quickly is

937
00:39:12,400 --> 00:39:15,080
Speaker 1: she goes shouldn't happen too often. No, it's either not

938
00:39:15,200 --> 00:39:18,120
Speaker 1: happening at all, or you can like them all. Yeah,

939
00:39:18,280 --> 00:39:19,880
Speaker 1: you need to have that discussion with your partner. I

940
00:39:19,920 --> 00:39:24,560
Speaker 1: think it matters relationship to relationship depends. I personally don't

941
00:39:24,560 --> 00:39:26,719
Speaker 1: care that. I think it's better to start out not

942
00:39:26,760 --> 00:39:30,719
Speaker 1: having limits on photos whatsoever. You trust your partner, you're

943
00:39:30,719 --> 00:39:31,880
Speaker 1: secure in your relationship.

944
00:39:31,920 --> 00:39:34,240
Speaker 2: You don't have an issue with your partner liking anyone's Yeah.

945
00:39:34,080 --> 00:39:35,759
Speaker 1: Because the moment you put limits on it, and then

946
00:39:35,800 --> 00:39:37,759
Speaker 1: they sneak alike through and then you're like, why did

947
00:39:37,800 --> 00:39:41,319
Speaker 1: you like that specific girls, and then it's it's a

948
00:39:41,400 --> 00:39:44,239
Speaker 1: Standward's fucking spiral. I know a lot of people care

949
00:39:44,280 --> 00:39:46,200
Speaker 1: about this, but I do think it also cans stem

950
00:39:46,280 --> 00:39:50,160
Speaker 1: from insecurity. Yeah, but I also time I don't think

951
00:39:51,280 --> 00:39:53,800
Speaker 1: that my partner should be seeing girls and mikinis and

952
00:39:53,880 --> 00:39:58,239
Speaker 1: going yep, like no, it might be enough situation. They're

953
00:39:58,280 --> 00:40:00,320
Speaker 1: not doing it really anyway, and it isn't a problem.

954
00:40:00,360 --> 00:40:01,960
Speaker 1: I think if you think about what the photo is

955
00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:04,960
Speaker 1: that you like, I think your boyfriend's actively liking bikini photos.

956
00:40:04,960 --> 00:40:07,359
Speaker 1: I think it's they shouldn't be doing that because they

957
00:40:07,360 --> 00:40:09,000
Speaker 1: don't want to do that. You know, they're kind of

958
00:40:09,000 --> 00:40:10,880
Speaker 1: doing it to give validation to that girl, because there

959
00:40:10,960 --> 00:40:14,080
Speaker 1: is people that look through their fucking likes and go, oh,

960
00:40:14,120 --> 00:40:15,040
Speaker 1: that guy like my photo.

961
00:40:15,200 --> 00:40:15,399
Speaker 2: Yeah.

962
00:40:15,480 --> 00:40:17,239
Speaker 1: I actually, to be honest, like, if I posted a

963
00:40:17,239 --> 00:40:20,520
Speaker 1: bikini photo, I would expect that men with girlfriends aren't

964
00:40:20,520 --> 00:40:20,840
Speaker 1: liking it.

965
00:40:20,920 --> 00:40:22,799
Speaker 2: That's so what I Yeah, and if I saw one like.

966
00:40:22,719 --> 00:40:24,319
Speaker 1: It, I'd be like, I'd be like, okay, he's either

967
00:40:24,360 --> 00:40:25,680
Speaker 1: single or very souce.

968
00:40:25,840 --> 00:40:28,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, so think so yeah, just think about

969
00:40:28,920 --> 00:40:30,840
Speaker 2: what the photos are. If it's a bikini photo, probably

970
00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:31,760
Speaker 2: just don't I don't.

971
00:40:31,640 --> 00:40:33,719
Speaker 1: Go trigger happy on the like button. Yeah, like your

972
00:40:33,719 --> 00:40:35,880
Speaker 1: friend's ship, then you don't need to like fucking everything.

973
00:40:36,280 --> 00:40:38,640
Speaker 3: So I'm just I just like everything. It's reflex now,

974
00:40:38,640 --> 00:40:39,560
Speaker 3: it's fucking.

975
00:40:39,280 --> 00:40:44,320
Speaker 1: Not I'm sick of it. Okay, sorry I brought up trauma.

976
00:40:46,280 --> 00:40:48,440
Speaker 1: Hey is I and Riley love the pod? My boyfriend

977
00:40:48,440 --> 00:40:52,200
Speaker 1: and I actually debating whether guys and girls can actually

978
00:40:52,280 --> 00:40:55,760
Speaker 1: just be friends. I think girls can be genuinely friends

979
00:40:55,760 --> 00:40:59,160
Speaker 1: with a guy for purely his personality. No attractive no attraction,

980
00:40:59,239 --> 00:41:01,840
Speaker 1: no hidden agenda, just vibes. But I'm not convinced it

981
00:41:01,880 --> 00:41:03,480
Speaker 1: works the same the other way around. I feel like

982
00:41:03,560 --> 00:41:05,239
Speaker 1: if a guy becomes friends with a girl, there's at

983
00:41:05,280 --> 00:41:08,759
Speaker 1: least some level of attraction there. Also, I don't you

984
00:41:08,800 --> 00:41:10,480
Speaker 1: don't really see men going out of their way to

985
00:41:10,480 --> 00:41:13,080
Speaker 1: befriend women they don't find attractive. Am I being dramatic?

986
00:41:13,200 --> 00:41:14,880
Speaker 1: Or is there some truth to this? Please settle it.

987
00:41:14,880 --> 00:41:19,799
Speaker 1: There's actually psychological truth to this that men who I look.

988
00:41:19,840 --> 00:41:21,640
Speaker 1: I'm gonna like fumble with my words. I don't know

989
00:41:21,680 --> 00:41:23,760
Speaker 1: this exactly, but someone will know what I'm talking about.

990
00:41:24,080 --> 00:41:27,600
Speaker 1: They did a study on men and how attracted they

991
00:41:27,600 --> 00:41:29,760
Speaker 1: were to their friends their girl mates.

992
00:41:30,440 --> 00:41:32,520
Speaker 2: All of them were attracted to their girl mates.

993
00:41:32,600 --> 00:41:34,839
Speaker 1: I do believe that men don't and they didn't have

994
00:41:34,880 --> 00:41:37,799
Speaker 1: friends they weren't attracted to. It's actually they're not going

995
00:41:37,840 --> 00:41:42,200
Speaker 1: to approach a girl out probably unless they find them attractive. Therefore,

996
00:41:42,239 --> 00:41:43,920
Speaker 1: maybe it might form a friendship in the future and

997
00:41:43,960 --> 00:41:46,799
Speaker 1: not anything romantic. I do think girls. I think girls

998
00:41:46,840 --> 00:41:49,399
Speaker 1: can have guy mates as well. It's actually a psychological thing.

999
00:41:49,400 --> 00:41:50,759
Speaker 1: I don't know what it is, but I know there's

1000
00:41:50,800 --> 00:41:52,839
Speaker 1: this like agreeing, Yes, I do think girls can because

1001
00:41:52,840 --> 00:41:54,040
Speaker 1: I have a lot of guy friends that I am

1002
00:41:54,040 --> 00:41:54,919
Speaker 1: not attracted to. Yeah.

1003
00:41:54,920 --> 00:41:56,920
Speaker 2: Absolutely, But that then.

1004
00:41:56,840 --> 00:41:59,319
Speaker 1: Comes very arrogant saying that those guy mates then are

1005
00:41:59,360 --> 00:42:01,839
Speaker 1: attracted to me. I feel like it also then matters

1006
00:42:01,840 --> 00:42:04,600
Speaker 1: if they're in a relationship or not. Up they're friends

1007
00:42:04,600 --> 00:42:07,080
Speaker 1: with your friends, if they're dating a friend of yours, there's.

1008
00:42:06,880 --> 00:42:08,200
Speaker 2: Always going to be like the anomaly.

1009
00:42:08,280 --> 00:42:11,279
Speaker 1: Like I believe that my guy friends aren't attracted to

1010
00:42:11,320 --> 00:42:14,160
Speaker 1: me at all. Well, I don't agree with that. I

1011
00:42:14,200 --> 00:42:17,080
Speaker 1: think they would think you're good looking the single ones, Yeah,

1012
00:42:17,080 --> 00:42:17,800
Speaker 1: but thinking I'm.

1013
00:42:17,640 --> 00:42:19,400
Speaker 2: Good looking and being attracted to me is different.

1014
00:42:19,760 --> 00:42:21,759
Speaker 1: I do agree, though, though I think it doesn't it's

1015
00:42:21,840 --> 00:42:26,000
Speaker 1: not equal. I think it's more likely that girls aren't

1016
00:42:26,000 --> 00:42:26,600
Speaker 1: attractive to.

1017
00:42:26,600 --> 00:42:31,959
Speaker 2: Their boyfriends than the other way around. Hazy love the party.

1018
00:42:32,000 --> 00:42:33,919
Speaker 1: That's genuinely what I will look forward to in my week.

1019
00:42:34,160 --> 00:42:37,520
Speaker 1: Thanks Angel Girl, my parents and I can never agree

1020
00:42:37,520 --> 00:42:40,359
Speaker 1: that the oldest child syndrome is a thing being the No,

1021
00:42:40,400 --> 00:42:43,319
Speaker 1: I'm not even giving you this fucking validation because I

1022
00:42:43,360 --> 00:42:48,160
Speaker 1: totally disagree, but I'll read it anyway. Oldest child syndrum

1023
00:42:48,200 --> 00:42:50,680
Speaker 1: is a thing being. The oldest child has more responsibility, pressure,

1024
00:42:50,719 --> 00:42:52,480
Speaker 1: and standings to live up to than the first one

1025
00:42:52,719 --> 00:42:55,200
Speaker 1: to do everything in the younger kids get everything easily.

1026
00:42:55,560 --> 00:42:57,560
Speaker 1: I'm the oldest child at twenty, and my younger brother

1027
00:42:57,640 --> 00:43:00,319
Speaker 1: is eighteen and my younger sister is nine. Either of

1028
00:43:00,320 --> 00:43:02,239
Speaker 1: my parents are the oldest child and their family both

1029
00:43:02,280 --> 00:43:04,440
Speaker 1: are the youngest, and I feel like that's key information.

1030
00:43:05,120 --> 00:43:07,360
Speaker 1: I believe that I've always had the responsibility of paying

1031
00:43:07,480 --> 00:43:10,480
Speaker 1: for everything, getting my other siblings' places. Since the day

1032
00:43:10,520 --> 00:43:13,040
Speaker 1: I turned eighteen, I've automatically out to turn into a

1033
00:43:13,040 --> 00:43:15,880
Speaker 1: fully functioning adult, where my brother, who has just recently

1034
00:43:15,880 --> 00:43:18,880
Speaker 1: turned eighteen, gets his data paid for, most life issues

1035
00:43:18,880 --> 00:43:21,960
Speaker 1: handed for him, handle for him, and problems always help

1036
00:43:22,000 --> 00:43:25,400
Speaker 1: with solutions of my life where I had to do

1037
00:43:25,440 --> 00:43:28,360
Speaker 1: things like start UNI and transition as an adult by myself.

1038
00:43:28,800 --> 00:43:30,680
Speaker 1: I just know that when the younger sister turns eighteen,

1039
00:43:30,719 --> 00:43:32,640
Speaker 1: she's probably gonna have a range drover be full decked

1040
00:43:32,640 --> 00:43:34,720
Speaker 1: out life style til pretty much be an only child.

1041
00:43:35,160 --> 00:43:37,080
Speaker 1: Do you find this with you O'Riley or have friends

1042
00:43:37,080 --> 00:43:41,240
Speaker 1: that are like this, or my being stupid in our situation,

1043
00:43:41,280 --> 00:43:43,400
Speaker 1: I feel like it's kind of notice pretty not literally

1044
00:43:43,440 --> 00:43:45,839
Speaker 1: like that. The only thing that I think I had

1045
00:43:45,880 --> 00:43:50,000
Speaker 1: harder was doing all the firsts, you know, drinking relations,

1046
00:43:50,040 --> 00:43:53,200
Speaker 1: boy friends, drinking partying. That was the only thing that

1047
00:43:53,280 --> 00:43:56,240
Speaker 1: I struggled with, and that was only during teenage years. Otherwise,

1048
00:43:56,600 --> 00:44:00,200
Speaker 1: everything else we've been given pretty money wise and everything

1049
00:44:00,239 --> 00:44:01,760
Speaker 1: and paying for that out.

1050
00:44:01,800 --> 00:44:02,960
Speaker 2: My big rule is.

1051
00:44:02,840 --> 00:44:06,680
Speaker 1: Like, and I like lock into this rule every time.

1052
00:44:07,520 --> 00:44:09,520
Speaker 1: If Riley, like, if Dad goes to Riley, Okay, you're

1053
00:44:09,520 --> 00:44:13,319
Speaker 1: gonna start paying for your phone data this year, I

1054
00:44:13,360 --> 00:44:15,439
Speaker 1: say to Dad, Like, you'll say to both of us, okay,

1055
00:44:15,520 --> 00:44:17,920
Speaker 1: girls like you guys have to start paying for your

1056
00:44:17,960 --> 00:44:18,759
Speaker 1: own phone data now.

1057
00:44:18,880 --> 00:44:19,440
Speaker 2: I'll say.

1058
00:44:19,760 --> 00:44:21,640
Speaker 1: Riley had to stop when she was twenty seven. I'll

1059
00:44:21,640 --> 00:44:22,520
Speaker 1: stop when I'm twenty seven.

1060
00:44:22,520 --> 00:44:23,719
Speaker 2: I have something to say that. I say, I get

1061
00:44:23,719 --> 00:44:24,320
Speaker 2: two more years.

1062
00:44:24,600 --> 00:44:26,920
Speaker 1: You do realize we've got phones at the same time. No,

1063
00:44:26,960 --> 00:44:29,799
Speaker 1: we didn't you add an iPhone three when we were outside.

1064
00:44:30,400 --> 00:44:32,960
Speaker 1: I remember it specifically when we would wait for school,

1065
00:44:33,400 --> 00:44:34,680
Speaker 1: wait to be picked up from school, and that the

1066
00:44:34,840 --> 00:44:37,200
Speaker 1: outside outside junior school, you had an iPhone. I fucking

1067
00:44:37,239 --> 00:44:40,120
Speaker 1: didn't really, Yes, really, we did not get a phone

1068
00:44:40,120 --> 00:44:41,640
Speaker 1: at the same time. You got one first, and they

1069
00:44:41,640 --> 00:44:43,439
Speaker 1: called it our phone, but you got to hold onto

1070
00:44:43,440 --> 00:44:46,279
Speaker 1: it and I only got to call my parents, so

1071
00:44:46,480 --> 00:44:47,919
Speaker 1: fuck off either way.

1072
00:44:48,040 --> 00:44:49,400
Speaker 2: I actually don't care. I don't care that much.

1073
00:44:49,440 --> 00:44:50,920
Speaker 1: You got all of it, but no, I do think

1074
00:44:50,960 --> 00:44:53,560
Speaker 1: it's probably a thing. I think in our family, Riley

1075
00:44:53,560 --> 00:44:55,080
Speaker 1: and I probably have it pretty evenly. And I do

1076
00:44:55,120 --> 00:44:57,320
Speaker 1: think Casey escapes through life a little bit differently though.

1077
00:44:57,920 --> 00:45:00,359
Speaker 2: His life is a breeze. But he's very the very

1078
00:45:00,680 --> 00:45:02,560
Speaker 2: person he does.

1079
00:45:02,719 --> 00:45:04,879
Speaker 1: He's not demanding of anything, so I think that's why

1080
00:45:04,920 --> 00:45:07,839
Speaker 1: we don't care. It's like Casey had like a hand

1081
00:45:07,920 --> 00:45:09,400
Speaker 1: me down car for ages and then he gets a

1082
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Speaker 1: new one, and it's like we're all he gets one

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Speaker 1: because he doesn't ask for anything, so Casey can do

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Speaker 1: what ever he wants. I think Riley and I are

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Speaker 1: pretty even, all right, guys, that's the end. It's the

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Speaker 1: easy episode. Yeah, share, Yeah, I'm gonna have to start organizing.

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Speaker 1: We're going to be recruding in laws in New York.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to be coming to you. For some reason,

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Speaker 1: I feel like you're not leaving. I'm going for like

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Speaker 1: two months. This isn't my big stint. I'll be back

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Speaker 1: in like June.

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Speaker 2: Are you going to miss me? Okay, bhye Hi