1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:01,840 Speaker 1: Coming up on Relatables. 2 00:00:01,880 --> 00:00:04,600 Speaker 2: But that is the story of how I shout my 3 00:00:04,640 --> 00:00:08,840 Speaker 2: pants across three different countries, through different flights and at work, 4 00:00:09,039 --> 00:00:11,120 Speaker 2: or because I ate a Keila cassion fruit. 5 00:00:13,360 --> 00:00:19,160 Speaker 1: Relatable. 6 00:00:21,160 --> 00:00:25,639 Speaker 3: The Relatables podcast is hosted by myself, Jake freg aka 7 00:00:25,760 --> 00:00:34,280 Speaker 3: Duddy and my podcast in Compadree. 8 00:00:32,280 --> 00:00:37,200 Speaker 1: Aka Mummy Clark wear Conrad Clark, the third Ak Mummy. 9 00:00:37,240 --> 00:00:40,000 Speaker 1: I feel a little bit drained, Jake, because we just 10 00:00:40,120 --> 00:00:44,080 Speaker 1: had a confession session we did and it was one 11 00:00:44,080 --> 00:00:47,280 Speaker 1: of the best. Honestly it was. It was the takes 12 00:00:47,280 --> 00:00:52,120 Speaker 1: the cake, you reckon it takes the cake. It's been 13 00:00:52,120 --> 00:00:55,840 Speaker 1: a while since we've had some confession sessions, so we 14 00:00:55,920 --> 00:00:59,760 Speaker 1: thought we'd start the episode of Fast Heat dropping you 15 00:01:00,120 --> 00:01:02,080 Speaker 1: right in there with it when you got to go, 16 00:01:02,400 --> 00:01:04,840 Speaker 1: you got to go, and I'll tell you what it 17 00:01:04,880 --> 00:01:09,240 Speaker 1: woke me up. Yeah, she was amazing. We we usually 18 00:01:09,319 --> 00:01:13,800 Speaker 1: record where you love to say this, We don't record 19 00:01:13,840 --> 00:01:14,600 Speaker 1: in the mornings. 20 00:01:14,640 --> 00:01:17,959 Speaker 3: Guys, all right, we're not fully awake. We can do shit, 21 00:01:18,240 --> 00:01:21,640 Speaker 3: but we're not fully recording at our best selves for 22 00:01:21,680 --> 00:01:24,360 Speaker 3: you until about one thirty part in the pun we 23 00:01:24,360 --> 00:01:27,160 Speaker 3: could do shit. We can maybe shouldn't say that word, 24 00:01:27,600 --> 00:01:29,440 Speaker 3: so yeah, we're not our best selves for you until 25 00:01:29,480 --> 00:01:33,280 Speaker 3: about one thirty, all right, and so but today we 26 00:01:33,319 --> 00:01:34,280 Speaker 3: had to fit a bunch in. 27 00:01:34,720 --> 00:01:38,279 Speaker 1: We started recording at nine. That's such a hard life. 28 00:01:40,680 --> 00:01:43,480 Speaker 1: But and yeah, that woke me up. That was a 29 00:01:43,480 --> 00:01:46,319 Speaker 1: good story. It really woke me up. I can't even 30 00:01:46,400 --> 00:01:50,480 Speaker 1: begin to fathom use one word to describe it. Oh oh, 31 00:01:50,520 --> 00:01:53,040 Speaker 1: I wish I had a really good like Thesaurus type 32 00:01:53,040 --> 00:01:59,280 Speaker 1: of mind. Here is that frontal lobe. Diabolical. I'm gonna 33 00:01:59,320 --> 00:02:04,640 Speaker 1: say trooper, trooper, ah, diabolical and trooper. So please enjoy 34 00:02:04,760 --> 00:02:09,440 Speaker 1: Confession Sessions. Hello, Hello, welcome to Confession Sessions. How are 35 00:02:09,440 --> 00:02:09,880 Speaker 1: you going? 36 00:02:11,000 --> 00:02:11,480 Speaker 2: I'm good? 37 00:02:11,520 --> 00:02:11,880 Speaker 1: How are you? 38 00:02:12,000 --> 00:02:12,440 Speaker 2: Guys? 39 00:02:12,600 --> 00:02:15,640 Speaker 1: We are going great and joined by Jake Splendid. We 40 00:02:15,680 --> 00:02:18,320 Speaker 1: are excited because we haven't had a confession in a while, 41 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:22,480 Speaker 1: so we're excited to hear your story. First things first 42 00:02:22,560 --> 00:02:24,000 Speaker 1: is would you like to be anonymous? 43 00:02:25,560 --> 00:02:28,880 Speaker 2: No? No, the story? 44 00:02:29,040 --> 00:02:34,440 Speaker 1: Okay, very nice to meet you, Katie. You're from New Zealand. 45 00:02:35,720 --> 00:02:40,400 Speaker 1: Let's narrow it down, which summer in particular? No, I'm kidding. 46 00:02:42,200 --> 00:02:44,920 Speaker 1: The prompt today is when you've got to go, you 47 00:02:45,040 --> 00:02:47,280 Speaker 1: got to go, So take it from the top, don't 48 00:02:47,360 --> 00:02:50,600 Speaker 1: leave out any little details. I think there's a few 49 00:02:50,600 --> 00:02:53,000 Speaker 1: things going on, So keep this rolling on, rolling on, 50 00:02:53,040 --> 00:02:53,680 Speaker 1: and we'll join in. 51 00:02:53,720 --> 00:02:57,480 Speaker 2: Well, we'll listen, all right, Okay. So I was in 52 00:02:57,560 --> 00:03:01,120 Speaker 2: Bali a few years ago, I would be like twenty two, 53 00:03:02,080 --> 00:03:06,000 Speaker 2: and my friends and I decided that lunch we were 54 00:03:06,000 --> 00:03:08,000 Speaker 2: going to get a bunch of fresh fruit from the 55 00:03:08,200 --> 00:03:15,280 Speaker 2: stall on the side of the road yep. And I 56 00:03:15,320 --> 00:03:19,200 Speaker 2: decided to absolutely demolish an entire kilo of passion fruit 57 00:03:19,240 --> 00:03:21,400 Speaker 2: because it was so cheap. It was like four dollars 58 00:03:21,800 --> 00:03:24,400 Speaker 2: and back home that would have cost me like firsty bucks. 59 00:03:24,480 --> 00:03:28,120 Speaker 2: So I was a happy taffy akila fruit. 60 00:03:28,160 --> 00:03:30,200 Speaker 1: How do you eat that? Is it like ten separate 61 00:03:30,200 --> 00:03:35,880 Speaker 1: passion fruit and spoon? You just eat food pretty much? Yeah, 62 00:03:35,920 --> 00:03:39,720 Speaker 1: when you're on holiday, abstely that's sick. Oh wow. 63 00:03:41,920 --> 00:03:44,360 Speaker 2: So I was really fine, like the whole day when 64 00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:49,000 Speaker 2: out drinking. That night got absolutely mortal, as you do 65 00:03:49,160 --> 00:03:52,520 Speaker 2: in Bali, and the nixt day I woke up feeling 66 00:03:52,760 --> 00:03:55,280 Speaker 2: absolutely horrible, and I just put it down to a 67 00:03:55,320 --> 00:04:00,560 Speaker 2: really bad hangover and terrible booze booze, so that I 68 00:04:00,680 --> 00:04:04,320 Speaker 2: was an absolute righte off. But the day after I 69 00:04:04,400 --> 00:04:07,280 Speaker 2: was feeling okay. So I carried on with my plans. 70 00:04:07,400 --> 00:04:11,839 Speaker 2: I went diving, and while I was underwater, I felt 71 00:04:11,880 --> 00:04:14,320 Speaker 2: beneath a fart and I thought this would be fine. 72 00:04:14,720 --> 00:04:17,400 Speaker 2: It will just look like supples coming out of the 73 00:04:17,520 --> 00:04:22,280 Speaker 2: dive tank. But I was so very wrong. Turned out 74 00:04:22,720 --> 00:04:26,800 Speaker 2: to be a shark and it looks out of my 75 00:04:28,880 --> 00:04:29,719 Speaker 2: along behind me. 76 00:04:30,360 --> 00:04:33,320 Speaker 1: Wait wait, wait, wait, so you went you were diving, 77 00:04:33,360 --> 00:04:36,320 Speaker 1: you went to fart, you were trusting it, and then 78 00:04:36,360 --> 00:04:38,440 Speaker 1: it turned out to be a shot and it came 79 00:04:38,600 --> 00:04:39,720 Speaker 1: out of your wetsuit. 80 00:04:40,560 --> 00:04:40,800 Speaker 2: Yeah. 81 00:04:41,240 --> 00:04:44,640 Speaker 1: Oh did anyone to see? Yeah? 82 00:04:44,640 --> 00:04:46,719 Speaker 2: There was like five or six people that thought it, 83 00:04:46,839 --> 00:04:48,839 Speaker 2: but I didn't know them, so it was fine. 84 00:04:48,880 --> 00:04:52,159 Speaker 1: I was never gonna I'm I know them, to be honest. 85 00:04:53,240 --> 00:04:53,680 Speaker 1: Did they. 86 00:04:57,240 --> 00:04:58,480 Speaker 2: They were really good about it? 87 00:04:58,800 --> 00:05:01,480 Speaker 3: Please tell me A bunch fish came up and started 88 00:05:01,520 --> 00:05:02,280 Speaker 3: swarming here. 89 00:05:04,040 --> 00:05:06,440 Speaker 2: I don't think so, I don't know what. 90 00:05:06,520 --> 00:05:08,360 Speaker 1: I prefer to shot or see a shark. 91 00:05:08,839 --> 00:05:12,560 Speaker 3: That's crazy. I prefer to see a shark to be fair. 92 00:05:12,600 --> 00:05:14,960 Speaker 3: If you're going to shot somewhere in the ocean. 93 00:05:14,600 --> 00:05:17,320 Speaker 1: Too easy clean up. But it continues, doesn't it? 94 00:05:18,120 --> 00:05:23,080 Speaker 2: Oh? Yeah, it continues. So by that point I realized 95 00:05:23,080 --> 00:05:28,200 Speaker 2: I definitely had Barley belly, and so I was kind 96 00:05:28,200 --> 00:05:31,799 Speaker 2: of going between what I was doing and the bathroom 97 00:05:31,839 --> 00:05:33,640 Speaker 2: for most of the day. And then later on in 98 00:05:33,680 --> 00:05:36,359 Speaker 2: the afternoon, we were hanging out tanning by the pool 99 00:05:36,920 --> 00:05:39,520 Speaker 2: and I had to go. And when you go to 100 00:05:39,520 --> 00:05:44,160 Speaker 2: go to yep and so I get up, I don't 101 00:05:44,200 --> 00:05:46,880 Speaker 2: even make it the five meters to the bathroom and 102 00:05:47,680 --> 00:05:51,960 Speaker 2: I just had no control of my ballance leaks out 103 00:05:51,960 --> 00:05:54,000 Speaker 2: of me and I'm wearing a bikini and it just 104 00:05:54,320 --> 00:05:57,080 Speaker 2: runs down my leg in front of the entire hostel. 105 00:05:58,880 --> 00:06:03,520 Speaker 2: It's probably about any people thought, and I was absolutely wacified. 106 00:06:03,640 --> 00:06:11,200 Speaker 4: Wow, wow, oh, I get so much. 107 00:06:12,640 --> 00:06:15,279 Speaker 1: I can't believe when you had Bali belly, didn't you 108 00:06:15,279 --> 00:06:17,800 Speaker 1: feel the urge to like be bedridden When me and 109 00:06:17,880 --> 00:06:19,719 Speaker 1: Jake had it, Like, I didn't want to leave my bed. 110 00:06:19,839 --> 00:06:22,360 Speaker 1: I was because of this exact scenario. Making it from 111 00:06:22,400 --> 00:06:24,160 Speaker 1: your bed to the toilet was hard enough. 112 00:06:24,279 --> 00:06:27,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it was. I was playing a very risky game. 113 00:06:29,000 --> 00:06:33,159 Speaker 3: I slept for like eighteen hours. 114 00:06:34,040 --> 00:06:37,919 Speaker 2: But at the end that night I finally got to 115 00:06:37,960 --> 00:06:41,160 Speaker 2: sleep and I woke up. It was really hot, as 116 00:06:41,200 --> 00:06:43,359 Speaker 2: it wasn't Bali, and I woke up and what I 117 00:06:43,400 --> 00:06:45,120 Speaker 2: thought was a puddle of sweat, and so I get up, 118 00:06:45,160 --> 00:06:48,400 Speaker 2: go to the bathroom, go shower, cool off, and I 119 00:06:48,520 --> 00:06:53,960 Speaker 2: realized I had actually shat the bed where it was 120 00:06:54,400 --> 00:06:57,640 Speaker 2: Diarius or for my DearS, and. 121 00:07:00,480 --> 00:07:01,160 Speaker 1: You thought it was. 122 00:07:03,920 --> 00:07:08,080 Speaker 2: No There was no smell. I wasn't even eating anything. 123 00:07:08,120 --> 00:07:14,160 Speaker 2: It was just water. That's choice. I clean up. I 124 00:07:14,200 --> 00:07:16,120 Speaker 2: clean my pajamas in the shower, cut them in a 125 00:07:16,120 --> 00:07:18,080 Speaker 2: plastic bag. I figure I will deal with this when 126 00:07:18,120 --> 00:07:20,600 Speaker 2: I get home. I'm leaving tomorrow. The hall will be 127 00:07:20,600 --> 00:07:21,080 Speaker 2: over zone. 128 00:07:21,200 --> 00:07:25,400 Speaker 1: Wait you some pajamas back in your suitcase? 129 00:07:25,440 --> 00:07:28,200 Speaker 2: Would I did clean? I did clean them. 130 00:07:30,440 --> 00:07:36,040 Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, okay, the first place, the first thing I 131 00:07:36,080 --> 00:07:38,920 Speaker 1: think you did wrong. Look, not you did anything wrong. 132 00:07:39,360 --> 00:07:41,280 Speaker 1: The first thing, let's be real. The first thing you 133 00:07:41,280 --> 00:07:43,280 Speaker 1: did wrong was eat a bunch of fucking passion for 134 00:07:43,320 --> 00:07:46,160 Speaker 1: it to the side of the road. But I think 135 00:07:46,200 --> 00:07:49,360 Speaker 1: the second thing you did wrong was stay at the hostel. 136 00:07:50,200 --> 00:07:51,240 Speaker 1: I'm fair. 137 00:07:51,960 --> 00:07:53,760 Speaker 3: Obviously it's expensive to you go get a hotel for 138 00:07:53,800 --> 00:07:56,520 Speaker 3: a night. But I'm the type of person that is 139 00:07:56,520 --> 00:07:58,920 Speaker 3: going to be like comfort over anything in that moment. 140 00:07:59,800 --> 00:08:00,600 Speaker 1: How are you feeling? 141 00:08:02,000 --> 00:08:03,400 Speaker 2: I was I was not feeling great. 142 00:08:04,080 --> 00:08:07,200 Speaker 1: What about like a mental state like you shake yourself 143 00:08:07,240 --> 00:08:09,680 Speaker 1: in front of what twenty five people are now, and. 144 00:08:13,320 --> 00:08:16,200 Speaker 2: I was just so over it by this point, I 145 00:08:16,320 --> 00:08:18,559 Speaker 2: was like, what, what's going to happen is going to happen, 146 00:08:18,600 --> 00:08:19,880 Speaker 2: and I just have to deal with it. 147 00:08:20,080 --> 00:08:22,520 Speaker 1: Oh, I like that attitude, to be fair, that's a 148 00:08:22,560 --> 00:08:24,600 Speaker 1: good attitude, Like, oh, you know, I'll just look back 149 00:08:24,640 --> 00:08:25,240 Speaker 1: on this and laugh. 150 00:08:26,240 --> 00:08:28,320 Speaker 2: Yeah. I knew eventually it was going to turn into 151 00:08:28,320 --> 00:08:29,080 Speaker 2: a funny story. 152 00:08:29,520 --> 00:08:30,720 Speaker 1: How was the flight home? 153 00:08:32,000 --> 00:08:39,640 Speaker 2: Not good? It was not good. I was on the flight. 154 00:08:39,679 --> 00:08:43,160 Speaker 2: It was a night flight, and I had the window seat, 155 00:08:44,160 --> 00:08:49,439 Speaker 2: and maybe three four hours into the flight, I had 156 00:08:49,440 --> 00:08:51,600 Speaker 2: to go. So I wake up for people sitting next 157 00:08:51,600 --> 00:08:54,240 Speaker 2: to me, climb over them while trying not to literally 158 00:08:54,280 --> 00:08:59,920 Speaker 2: shit in their faces, and leg it down the aisle 159 00:09:00,080 --> 00:09:02,120 Speaker 2: to the bathroom and I don't quite make it. I 160 00:09:02,200 --> 00:09:04,480 Speaker 2: make it to the bathroom, but I don't make it 161 00:09:04,559 --> 00:09:05,400 Speaker 2: onto the toilet. 162 00:09:06,840 --> 00:09:09,360 Speaker 1: Did you have your pants down yet? Yeah? 163 00:09:09,400 --> 00:09:15,480 Speaker 4: I did, yeah, yeah, but there there was a little 164 00:09:15,480 --> 00:09:18,600 Speaker 4: bit of contamination onto my clothes, but it was fine 165 00:09:18,679 --> 00:09:20,480 Speaker 4: because I had a change of clothes in my caring. 166 00:09:20,679 --> 00:09:25,760 Speaker 2: For this very reason, I planned a hit by this point, you, Yeah, yeah, 167 00:09:25,920 --> 00:09:28,280 Speaker 2: I had. I had seen in the future, and I 168 00:09:28,360 --> 00:09:29,760 Speaker 2: knew exactly what was going to happen. 169 00:09:30,400 --> 00:09:35,800 Speaker 1: I would have been thinking like, is this just my life? Now? Yeah? 170 00:09:35,960 --> 00:09:41,240 Speaker 2: It pretty much was. So I got change. I get 171 00:09:41,280 --> 00:09:43,719 Speaker 2: to Melbourne. It's fine, but I still have one more 172 00:09:43,720 --> 00:09:49,880 Speaker 2: flight back to Wellington and I'm just praying to all things, colleague, 173 00:09:49,920 --> 00:09:56,960 Speaker 2: that I make it in one piece, clean and not good. 174 00:10:00,840 --> 00:10:03,360 Speaker 2: I had an entire road myself, which made me feel 175 00:10:03,400 --> 00:10:08,760 Speaker 2: so much better, but I again shipped myself before I 176 00:10:08,760 --> 00:10:11,920 Speaker 2: got to the toilet, but this time I didn't have 177 00:10:11,960 --> 00:10:16,959 Speaker 2: a clean change of clothes. So I told the you're 178 00:10:17,040 --> 00:10:22,080 Speaker 2: host there, I'm so sorry. I was apologizing profusely, and 179 00:10:23,320 --> 00:10:25,959 Speaker 2: she gave me a blanket to wrap myself in and 180 00:10:26,480 --> 00:10:29,600 Speaker 2: thankfully it didn't smell. It was that was one good thing. 181 00:10:30,520 --> 00:10:33,400 Speaker 2: And I just wrapped myself in a blanket, just sit 182 00:10:34,040 --> 00:10:39,600 Speaker 2: in my shit covered clothes for this. And I get 183 00:10:39,640 --> 00:10:43,120 Speaker 2: to Wellington and customs was like, are you well? Have 184 00:10:43,240 --> 00:10:45,920 Speaker 2: you been sick? Are you bringing home any diseases? And 185 00:10:45,920 --> 00:10:47,960 Speaker 2: I'm like, no, I just really want to go home. 186 00:10:54,400 --> 00:10:56,400 Speaker 1: Which airline were you flying with? They should have given 187 00:10:56,440 --> 00:10:57,840 Speaker 1: you some business pajamas there. 188 00:10:58,120 --> 00:10:59,719 Speaker 2: I was quanted. 189 00:11:00,920 --> 00:11:05,120 Speaker 1: My business pajamas in there that's so. 190 00:11:06,960 --> 00:11:09,359 Speaker 2: They were stingy I should have fallen in New Zealand. 191 00:11:11,280 --> 00:11:14,120 Speaker 1: Countius is usually like a good airline. Maybe they just 192 00:11:14,160 --> 00:11:19,040 Speaker 1: like like pretentious. Maybe I don't like people shouldn't probably not. 193 00:11:20,880 --> 00:11:23,440 Speaker 1: So you made it fine? I did. 194 00:11:23,840 --> 00:11:25,559 Speaker 2: I did, and I was feeling good. So I went 195 00:11:25,559 --> 00:11:29,360 Speaker 2: back to work the next day. Yeah, I was feeling 196 00:11:29,400 --> 00:11:32,400 Speaker 2: absolutely fine. And then I was at work. I was 197 00:11:32,440 --> 00:11:34,080 Speaker 2: working for a dentist at the time, so I was 198 00:11:34,080 --> 00:11:36,720 Speaker 2: treating a patient and I felt like I needed to fart, 199 00:11:37,520 --> 00:11:40,440 Speaker 2: but I thought, given my history, I should probably play 200 00:11:40,440 --> 00:11:43,200 Speaker 2: this safe, so I excused myself. I get someone to 201 00:11:43,240 --> 00:11:46,000 Speaker 2: come to treatment, and I absolutely leg it to the 202 00:11:46,000 --> 00:11:51,800 Speaker 2: bathroom and I made it. But I don't make it. 203 00:11:51,960 --> 00:11:54,319 Speaker 1: What when is this end? 204 00:11:56,080 --> 00:11:59,600 Speaker 2: That was kind of the end. But yeah, I shut 205 00:11:59,640 --> 00:12:06,560 Speaker 2: myself were so I clean them off and the sink 206 00:12:06,720 --> 00:12:08,680 Speaker 2: and it's a table toilet. I go to my boss 207 00:12:08,679 --> 00:12:10,920 Speaker 2: and like, hey, I have to go. I am still 208 00:12:10,960 --> 00:12:13,200 Speaker 2: not well, sharing you I had barley belly, but yeah, 209 00:12:13,520 --> 00:12:17,320 Speaker 2: go home, You're just look after yourself. And then I 210 00:12:17,360 --> 00:12:21,199 Speaker 2: go to the doctor and I did protest, you know, 211 00:12:21,200 --> 00:12:23,439 Speaker 2: I piled a cup and I find out I have 212 00:12:23,520 --> 00:12:26,480 Speaker 2: shit Galla and Cambeller backtor which are both really bad 213 00:12:27,520 --> 00:12:33,040 Speaker 2: food poisoning type bugs, I guess, and it's notifiable diseases 214 00:12:33,080 --> 00:12:34,920 Speaker 2: and e Zealand. So he had to report me to 215 00:12:35,240 --> 00:12:39,560 Speaker 2: the literal government what so they could like crack and 216 00:12:39,600 --> 00:12:41,199 Speaker 2: make sure there's no like outbreak. 217 00:12:41,840 --> 00:12:43,160 Speaker 1: Wow, it's contagious. 218 00:12:43,880 --> 00:12:46,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, like very contagious. I didn't know that. 219 00:12:46,440 --> 00:12:48,400 Speaker 1: No, I wouldn't if I didn't know. I didn't. 220 00:12:48,400 --> 00:12:50,920 Speaker 3: I thought barly belly was just food poisoning, like the 221 00:12:50,960 --> 00:12:52,280 Speaker 3: gastro whatever you call it. 222 00:12:52,320 --> 00:12:57,319 Speaker 1: I think broad statement, you had very different type of 223 00:12:57,720 --> 00:12:59,680 Speaker 1: You just basically contracted a disease. 224 00:13:00,600 --> 00:13:03,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I brought it back into the country. 225 00:13:03,520 --> 00:13:10,239 Speaker 1: You left everywhere. Yeah, that's the trail of disease behind you. 226 00:13:10,960 --> 00:13:13,920 Speaker 2: I really did. But that is the story of how 227 00:13:14,080 --> 00:13:18,400 Speaker 2: I shut my pants across three different countries, two different flights, 228 00:13:18,800 --> 00:13:20,960 Speaker 2: and at work, or because I ate a kilo of 229 00:13:21,000 --> 00:13:25,800 Speaker 2: passion fruit, which I later found out is actually a laxative. Yeah, 230 00:13:26,120 --> 00:13:27,000 Speaker 2: makes so much. 231 00:13:27,440 --> 00:13:29,920 Speaker 3: I was going to say, there's certain fruits that you 232 00:13:29,920 --> 00:13:32,720 Speaker 3: can eat too many of them and it makes you constipated, 233 00:13:32,760 --> 00:13:33,760 Speaker 3: and then you can eat too many of them and 234 00:13:33,800 --> 00:13:34,760 Speaker 3: it's actually a laxative. 235 00:13:34,840 --> 00:13:37,320 Speaker 1: I did know that. Well, how long did it take 236 00:13:37,360 --> 00:13:38,760 Speaker 1: you to get better after that? 237 00:13:40,880 --> 00:13:42,920 Speaker 2: I had been sick in barley for like a week 238 00:13:43,000 --> 00:13:45,240 Speaker 2: and it took me another week back time to get better, 239 00:13:45,280 --> 00:13:47,000 Speaker 2: so it was like two weeks total. 240 00:13:47,600 --> 00:13:49,360 Speaker 1: Did the doctor give you any medicine? 241 00:13:50,880 --> 00:13:54,200 Speaker 2: No, there is nothing you can do, just drink lots 242 00:13:54,200 --> 00:13:54,560 Speaker 2: of water. 243 00:13:55,640 --> 00:13:58,280 Speaker 1: Well, I feel for you, but I love your attitude. Yeah, 244 00:13:58,320 --> 00:14:02,320 Speaker 1: you're go and kept getting out of the day. I 245 00:14:02,400 --> 00:14:07,920 Speaker 1: want to know, uh that first solid ship. Genuinely, was 246 00:14:07,920 --> 00:14:10,280 Speaker 1: there a happier day of your life? No? 247 00:14:10,440 --> 00:14:15,520 Speaker 2: Five, you felt. I picked my friends, I called my mom. 248 00:14:15,720 --> 00:14:17,679 Speaker 2: I was so happy. 249 00:14:18,320 --> 00:14:20,000 Speaker 1: If you're a boy, you would have taken a photo 250 00:14:20,320 --> 00:14:21,040 Speaker 1: of it and been like. 251 00:14:21,040 --> 00:14:30,840 Speaker 3: Yes, my god, that is honestly, hands down the best 252 00:14:31,720 --> 00:14:33,120 Speaker 3: I ever had it ever. 253 00:14:36,200 --> 00:14:40,600 Speaker 1: Well, thanks so much for coming on. Yes, that's all right, 254 00:14:40,840 --> 00:14:46,000 Speaker 1: you're a champion. You really are. Enjoy the rest of 255 00:14:46,000 --> 00:14:46,600 Speaker 1: your day. 256 00:14:47,400 --> 00:14:50,360 Speaker 2: Thank you, you two speculator. 257 00:14:51,160 --> 00:14:59,920 Speaker 1: Wait, I'm speechless. That is the worst, best, worst story 258 00:15:00,200 --> 00:15:03,640 Speaker 1: ever heard. When everyone was submitting their confession sessions, all 259 00:15:03,680 --> 00:15:06,120 Speaker 1: of them were like one paragraph, one paragraph, one paragraph. 260 00:15:06,200 --> 00:15:11,480 Speaker 1: I clicked on this one. It was fucking I'm surprised 261 00:15:11,520 --> 00:15:14,800 Speaker 1: you read it. I surprised you read it. I'm glad 262 00:15:14,800 --> 00:15:17,320 Speaker 1: I did. Was there any other good confessions that were 263 00:15:17,360 --> 00:15:18,720 Speaker 1: in there? There was a few, There was a few. 264 00:15:18,920 --> 00:15:20,280 Speaker 1: This one took the cake by far. 265 00:15:20,760 --> 00:15:23,000 Speaker 3: I was just going to say, we should have saved 266 00:15:23,080 --> 00:15:26,040 Speaker 3: it for some sort of finale if we ever have one. 267 00:15:26,040 --> 00:15:28,600 Speaker 3: You know what, Now the series for confession sessions is 268 00:15:29,120 --> 00:15:30,640 Speaker 3: who has a better one? 269 00:15:31,080 --> 00:15:34,120 Speaker 1: That? I don't know if you can beat it, that's genuinely, 270 00:15:34,760 --> 00:15:38,680 Speaker 1: in my opinion, unbeatable. Well, I think, I think not 271 00:15:38,720 --> 00:15:42,320 Speaker 1: being mean. Some people learn from their mistakes. She kept going, 272 00:15:42,680 --> 00:15:44,400 Speaker 1: kept going. At least she learned the Dennis to be fair. 273 00:15:44,600 --> 00:15:47,640 Speaker 1: Trust Yeah. Yeah, she didn't make it. The way she 274 00:15:47,640 --> 00:15:49,280 Speaker 1: didn't learn from a mistake there is that she went 275 00:15:49,320 --> 00:15:52,560 Speaker 1: to work. She got, what are you doing? 276 00:15:54,720 --> 00:15:57,480 Speaker 3: I guess it's like, uh, you know, you get, you 277 00:15:57,560 --> 00:16:00,120 Speaker 3: take a couple of weeks off work. Yeah, and you 278 00:16:00,440 --> 00:16:01,800 Speaker 3: back and you're sick, and you don't want to be like, 279 00:16:03,920 --> 00:16:08,160 Speaker 3: I'm sick. Still I am sick, And then so you go, 280 00:16:08,280 --> 00:16:10,240 Speaker 3: I'm trying to be a trooper. I'm going to go 281 00:16:10,280 --> 00:16:12,600 Speaker 3: to work even though I'm sick because I've just had 282 00:16:12,600 --> 00:16:13,760 Speaker 3: a bunch of time off. You know, they had to 283 00:16:13,760 --> 00:16:17,120 Speaker 3: get someone into cover my shifts and then you shoot yourself. 284 00:16:20,240 --> 00:16:23,560 Speaker 1: I love it because everyone has a story similar to this. 285 00:16:23,640 --> 00:16:27,280 Speaker 1: Everyone has some one way similar to that, similar to 286 00:16:27,320 --> 00:16:28,440 Speaker 1: when you gotta go, you gotta go. 287 00:16:28,560 --> 00:16:29,960 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, everyone has that when you've gotta go, you 288 00:16:30,000 --> 00:16:32,880 Speaker 5: gotta go, but no one has that story, bro, And 289 00:16:32,920 --> 00:16:36,160 Speaker 5: if you have one that compares to that, reach out 290 00:16:36,360 --> 00:16:41,080 Speaker 5: Yeah at uh fuck it Relatable sixty nine at gmail 291 00:16:41,120 --> 00:16:41,520 Speaker 5: dot com. 292 00:16:41,720 --> 00:16:44,320 Speaker 1: Shit all right, because we will read that. 293 00:16:44,480 --> 00:16:47,360 Speaker 3: You're giving a mail, actually email Relatables sixty nine at 294 00:16:47,400 --> 00:16:50,880 Speaker 3: gmail dot com reach out Confession Sessions when you've gotta go, 295 00:16:50,880 --> 00:16:52,080 Speaker 3: you gotta go, you gotta be Katie. 296 00:16:52,080 --> 00:16:53,880 Speaker 1: Though that sounds like Jake's taking the piss, he's not. 297 00:16:53,920 --> 00:17:05,920 Speaker 1: That's an email that's actually okay. Damn. Yeah that was 298 00:17:05,960 --> 00:17:07,960 Speaker 1: a good one. Yeah, that was crazy. I hope you 299 00:17:08,000 --> 00:17:09,040 Speaker 1: guys enjoying that. 300 00:17:10,320 --> 00:17:12,199 Speaker 3: Yeah, and again I said it at the end of there, 301 00:17:12,280 --> 00:17:16,520 Speaker 3: but please reach out reach out to that email. I 302 00:17:16,560 --> 00:17:18,879 Speaker 3: think with confession sessions, we used to try and do 303 00:17:18,920 --> 00:17:21,840 Speaker 3: different themes. We had like bad first date obviously, when 304 00:17:21,880 --> 00:17:23,000 Speaker 3: you've got to go, you gotta go it was always 305 00:17:23,040 --> 00:17:24,639 Speaker 3: but and then I think we just like did broad 306 00:17:24,640 --> 00:17:25,919 Speaker 3: spectrum confess anything. 307 00:17:26,359 --> 00:17:27,680 Speaker 1: But when you got to go, You got to Go. 308 00:17:29,119 --> 00:17:30,800 Speaker 1: I think that's the only one we do forever. I 309 00:17:30,840 --> 00:17:34,320 Speaker 1: think it's the most relatable because everyone's had a story, 310 00:17:35,080 --> 00:17:37,160 Speaker 1: like you said, not similar, but everyone's got a story 311 00:17:37,160 --> 00:17:40,000 Speaker 1: of shooting himself. So it's so funny, and we sort 312 00:17:40,000 --> 00:17:42,000 Speaker 1: of steered clear into like the other ones are a 313 00:17:42,040 --> 00:17:43,960 Speaker 1: bit more deeper, and like, what's some advice to yourself 314 00:17:44,000 --> 00:17:46,200 Speaker 1: in your twentis. Yeah, they're not really confessions, but these are. 315 00:17:46,640 --> 00:17:49,360 Speaker 1: And I love that you didn't want to be anonymous. Yeah, true. Yeah, 316 00:17:49,359 --> 00:17:53,320 Speaker 1: we should stop asking if people want to own that 317 00:17:53,359 --> 00:17:56,000 Speaker 1: ship unless it's something that no one knows about it 318 00:17:56,000 --> 00:17:58,120 Speaker 1: that they're really confessing for the first ever time. 319 00:17:59,600 --> 00:18:05,760 Speaker 3: I recently took Joanna to the airport. Maybe it must 320 00:18:05,760 --> 00:18:07,640 Speaker 3: to be about two weeks ago now, is. 321 00:18:07,600 --> 00:18:09,880 Speaker 1: That when she flew back to Canada, Go move back 322 00:18:09,920 --> 00:18:18,879 Speaker 1: to Canada? Is gone? And so I, I, like I 323 00:18:19,000 --> 00:18:20,320 Speaker 1: have forever. 324 00:18:20,400 --> 00:18:23,440 Speaker 3: I've had something something wrong with my tummy right slowly 325 00:18:23,480 --> 00:18:25,920 Speaker 3: trying to like figure stuff out. I started doing and 326 00:18:25,960 --> 00:18:28,080 Speaker 3: start doing like low flow map diet. It's going to start. 327 00:18:28,119 --> 00:18:29,680 Speaker 3: The only one of the things I have said is 328 00:18:29,680 --> 00:18:32,280 Speaker 3: that I've never cut out caffeine or coffee. And that's 329 00:18:32,280 --> 00:18:34,480 Speaker 3: what I'm slowly starting to do, like mixing decaf with 330 00:18:34,600 --> 00:18:36,320 Speaker 3: caffeinated and stuff. 331 00:18:36,400 --> 00:18:38,840 Speaker 1: Have you started. I've started, So I've at home. 332 00:18:38,920 --> 00:18:41,560 Speaker 3: I've got fifty percent decap fifty percent caffeinated. 333 00:18:42,119 --> 00:18:44,399 Speaker 1: Are you like weaning off? Is that how you do it? 334 00:18:44,440 --> 00:18:46,040 Speaker 3: I'm going to wean off because it like fucks you 335 00:18:46,160 --> 00:18:48,960 Speaker 3: up when you're addicted to it and you can't really Yeah, 336 00:18:49,600 --> 00:18:52,720 Speaker 3: what's the did you follow through? Because what I was 337 00:18:52,760 --> 00:18:55,080 Speaker 3: gonna say is I had a cot here, I had 338 00:18:55,160 --> 00:18:57,479 Speaker 3: like full one hundred percent caffeine because I didn't want 339 00:18:57,520 --> 00:18:59,800 Speaker 3: I didn't bring my fifty to fifty mix and it's 340 00:18:59,840 --> 00:19:00,560 Speaker 3: a affecting me. 341 00:19:00,720 --> 00:19:04,520 Speaker 1: Really, how do you establish if you addicted on it? Well, 342 00:19:04,520 --> 00:19:08,080 Speaker 1: I've had caffeine every day for a long time. Yeah. Right, interesting, 343 00:19:08,240 --> 00:19:12,320 Speaker 1: So I don't know if I like, I don't, I 344 00:19:12,480 --> 00:19:15,480 Speaker 1: just I just dare say I'm addicted. Do you reckon? 345 00:19:15,560 --> 00:19:17,560 Speaker 1: It's going to affect your podcasting ability? I don't know. 346 00:19:17,600 --> 00:19:18,080 Speaker 1: We'll find it. 347 00:19:19,000 --> 00:19:21,359 Speaker 3: Just like where I was going with that was so 348 00:19:21,440 --> 00:19:23,480 Speaker 3: I took Joanna to the night before Joanna stayed at 349 00:19:23,520 --> 00:19:25,000 Speaker 3: Beth and II's house, and we went out for dinner, 350 00:19:25,880 --> 00:19:30,080 Speaker 3: and we went and got this thing called malletang. So 351 00:19:30,080 --> 00:19:32,639 Speaker 3: I'm like, it's like an Asian dish where it's like 352 00:19:32,960 --> 00:19:35,000 Speaker 3: it wasn't smart, especially for Juanna to. 353 00:19:34,960 --> 00:19:35,440 Speaker 1: Go on a flight. 354 00:19:36,400 --> 00:19:37,840 Speaker 3: But the next morning I'm driving to you round to 355 00:19:37,840 --> 00:19:40,879 Speaker 3: the airport and I felt fine, and instantly the feeling 356 00:19:40,920 --> 00:19:42,680 Speaker 3: of shitting needed to come upon me. So I had 357 00:19:42,680 --> 00:19:45,480 Speaker 3: to pull off and take a shit just while dropping 358 00:19:45,480 --> 00:19:47,440 Speaker 3: to Juana to the airport, and I was. 359 00:19:47,400 --> 00:19:49,520 Speaker 1: That's like fifteen minutes from your air I can't fuck it. 360 00:19:49,359 --> 00:19:52,560 Speaker 3: It is a circlos I can't hold shits in when 361 00:19:52,560 --> 00:19:54,520 Speaker 3: I need to go. It's fucking insane when. 362 00:19:54,400 --> 00:19:56,359 Speaker 1: You got to go, legit like when you gotta go, 363 00:19:56,359 --> 00:19:56,760 Speaker 1: you gotta go. 364 00:19:56,840 --> 00:19:58,760 Speaker 3: I live and die by that. And I always know 365 00:19:58,880 --> 00:20:02,199 Speaker 3: where public toilets are. I'm dead serious. 366 00:20:02,560 --> 00:20:04,840 Speaker 1: It must be so hard being you and like in 367 00:20:04,880 --> 00:20:07,200 Speaker 1: your brain you're companding where's the closest public toilet? 368 00:20:07,280 --> 00:20:10,800 Speaker 3: I need it my, you know how, there's like a 369 00:20:10,880 --> 00:20:15,320 Speaker 3: instinctual thing in men's brains of knowing where the closest 370 00:20:15,320 --> 00:20:16,720 Speaker 3: exit is. 371 00:20:16,720 --> 00:20:21,320 Speaker 1: Is there is it's I was reading this. It feels 372 00:20:21,320 --> 00:20:23,040 Speaker 1: like a throw I told you about this. 373 00:20:23,160 --> 00:20:24,760 Speaker 3: No, it is a thing I told you about this 374 00:20:25,920 --> 00:20:28,240 Speaker 3: book that thing of why men don't listen and women 375 00:20:28,280 --> 00:20:30,280 Speaker 3: can't read maps. It's just about the difference of men 376 00:20:30,320 --> 00:20:33,720 Speaker 3: and women by this like science couple. And one of 377 00:20:33,760 --> 00:20:36,800 Speaker 3: the things is like men do always know where the 378 00:20:36,800 --> 00:20:38,960 Speaker 3: nearest exit is. But I think it's starting to slowly 379 00:20:39,000 --> 00:20:41,520 Speaker 3: wean out with our generation because I can't read a map, 380 00:20:41,720 --> 00:20:44,240 Speaker 3: and I don't look for exits because I look for toilets. 381 00:20:44,680 --> 00:20:46,720 Speaker 1: I don't look for I look for toilets. Maybe that's 382 00:20:46,760 --> 00:20:50,240 Speaker 1: what we've involved to evolved to fair fair, we're all 383 00:20:50,280 --> 00:20:52,080 Speaker 1: fucked up in the stomach, maybe because we just need 384 00:20:52,119 --> 00:20:55,080 Speaker 1: all these process crap. Well, did you look into those 385 00:20:55,080 --> 00:20:56,720 Speaker 1: pods I told you about? Did you reckon I was 386 00:20:56,720 --> 00:20:57,240 Speaker 1: a good idea. 387 00:20:57,760 --> 00:20:59,479 Speaker 3: I'm happy to try him. Yeah, she said, there's three 388 00:20:59,520 --> 00:21:01,280 Speaker 3: hundred bucks bag or a bottle, But. 389 00:21:01,320 --> 00:21:05,280 Speaker 1: Imagine that fixed out. Just get a couple of good 390 00:21:05,280 --> 00:21:07,920 Speaker 1: for your gut and they have like a billion good 391 00:21:08,000 --> 00:21:11,280 Speaker 1: bacteria and it's got like the best Peruvian I don't 392 00:21:11,280 --> 00:21:14,760 Speaker 1: know bacteria. Our type. Stuff could fix me as his 393 00:21:14,840 --> 00:21:17,240 Speaker 1: black pod needs ones like fifteen dollars ag and it's 394 00:21:17,280 --> 00:21:19,280 Speaker 1: meant to be really good for your gut and your 395 00:21:19,280 --> 00:21:19,800 Speaker 1: gut health. 396 00:21:20,200 --> 00:21:22,080 Speaker 3: It could fix me you never know. Maybe it's just 397 00:21:22,240 --> 00:21:24,840 Speaker 3: fucking struggle with it. Yeah, Like half way through this episode, 398 00:21:24,840 --> 00:21:25,920 Speaker 3: I reckon, I'm going to have to go take a 399 00:21:25,960 --> 00:21:28,440 Speaker 3: shit because of the co and I I think I'm 400 00:21:28,440 --> 00:21:30,439 Speaker 3: putting it down. The only thing that's changed for the 401 00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:32,480 Speaker 3: last week is now that I've had normal one hundred 402 00:21:32,480 --> 00:21:35,119 Speaker 3: percent caffeine coffee. H Well, it's going to be a 403 00:21:35,119 --> 00:21:37,920 Speaker 3: long process. What does it actually like feel like to have. 404 00:21:38,720 --> 00:21:40,440 Speaker 1: Maybe something wrong with you is not the best way 405 00:21:40,480 --> 00:21:43,000 Speaker 1: to put it, but like you'll deal with something like 406 00:21:43,040 --> 00:21:44,679 Speaker 1: with your gut that you can't really figure out the 407 00:21:44,680 --> 00:21:47,840 Speaker 1: issue too, and like how does that affect your mental state? 408 00:21:47,880 --> 00:21:48,320 Speaker 1: And stuff. 409 00:21:49,000 --> 00:21:52,800 Speaker 3: Kind of annoying because doctor's always just like I've had 410 00:21:52,920 --> 00:21:56,600 Speaker 3: like a camera down my stomach and my mum's telling 411 00:21:56,600 --> 00:21:58,000 Speaker 3: me I need to go back. She's like, there's all 412 00:21:58,000 --> 00:22:01,480 Speaker 3: these things that you could have, and the longer you wait, 413 00:22:02,760 --> 00:22:04,119 Speaker 3: she was like, you're gonna have to beg a doctor 414 00:22:04,160 --> 00:22:06,399 Speaker 3: to test for him because she's a nurse. And my 415 00:22:06,480 --> 00:22:09,040 Speaker 3: mum has all these things because she's had all these 416 00:22:09,040 --> 00:22:12,280 Speaker 3: stomach issues. My dad has them, and they all wouldn't 417 00:22:12,280 --> 00:22:14,240 Speaker 3: get tested until they got to such a bad state 418 00:22:14,280 --> 00:22:15,840 Speaker 3: where the doctor goes, okay, well it could be this, 419 00:22:16,040 --> 00:22:18,560 Speaker 3: and now it's a full point where it's irreversible because 420 00:22:18,600 --> 00:22:20,439 Speaker 3: like you do all these like micro damages to your 421 00:22:20,440 --> 00:22:22,960 Speaker 3: stomach that's so minutes cool that you can only test 422 00:22:23,040 --> 00:22:25,159 Speaker 3: for if they take like a biopsy of your stomach, 423 00:22:25,440 --> 00:22:26,800 Speaker 3: like a biopsy of something your bum. 424 00:22:26,880 --> 00:22:28,520 Speaker 1: I don't know if you can't wrap your bum and 425 00:22:29,440 --> 00:22:31,600 Speaker 1: can you do that one? Yeah, I know. I actually 426 00:22:31,640 --> 00:22:33,159 Speaker 1: think I need to do it. Broye, I want you 427 00:22:33,200 --> 00:22:35,639 Speaker 1: to do that. So but the friend, you should do 428 00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:40,919 Speaker 1: that one. Oh, we got private health insurance. Now I 429 00:22:40,960 --> 00:22:43,120 Speaker 1: got my private health insurance. So I'll go and I'm 430 00:22:43,160 --> 00:22:43,800 Speaker 1: gonna go to the doctor. 431 00:22:43,840 --> 00:22:45,640 Speaker 3: I'm just gonna say, Okay, look, I want to care 432 00:22:45,800 --> 00:22:47,679 Speaker 3: up my book, me in for the thing, give me 433 00:22:47,720 --> 00:22:50,560 Speaker 3: a biopsy. I'm sick of there's all this bullshit, all right. 434 00:22:51,000 --> 00:22:53,239 Speaker 3: I'm sick of taking the pill every day just to 435 00:22:53,280 --> 00:22:54,600 Speaker 3: like try and stay good. 436 00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:58,919 Speaker 1: And so yeah, I guess that's that's yeah. What's it like? 437 00:22:59,000 --> 00:23:00,720 Speaker 1: It's annoying because doctors, every time I go to the 438 00:23:00,720 --> 00:23:05,720 Speaker 1: doctor and I've asked, they just don't give a shit. 439 00:23:05,880 --> 00:23:08,399 Speaker 1: I feel like doctors don't listen. No, if you're not 440 00:23:08,480 --> 00:23:11,720 Speaker 1: saying like the definition of a disease or something wrong 441 00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:13,200 Speaker 1: with you, they're like, oh, here you go this, go 442 00:23:13,400 --> 00:23:15,840 Speaker 1: take some pills. They really don't help that much unless 443 00:23:15,880 --> 00:23:17,760 Speaker 1: you find like a really, really good one who cares 444 00:23:17,760 --> 00:23:18,840 Speaker 1: and wants to get to the bottom of it. 445 00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:22,280 Speaker 3: When I watched that Brian Johnson thing, that guy he's 446 00:23:22,280 --> 00:23:26,520 Speaker 3: a psycho again psychotic, but he said he made a 447 00:23:26,520 --> 00:23:30,159 Speaker 3: good point that in our western world and East ever, 448 00:23:30,320 --> 00:23:33,719 Speaker 3: in the whole world, basically the way our medical system 449 00:23:33,760 --> 00:23:39,399 Speaker 3: is set up is you wait until and the medical 450 00:23:39,440 --> 00:23:43,120 Speaker 3: system they they wait until something goes wrong with you, 451 00:23:43,560 --> 00:23:45,639 Speaker 3: and then they try to fix it instead of trying 452 00:23:45,680 --> 00:23:46,640 Speaker 3: to prevent it. 453 00:23:46,800 --> 00:23:49,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, it is weird when you say it like that. 454 00:23:49,720 --> 00:23:51,720 Speaker 1: It's like, why don't we at here trying to prevent shit? 455 00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:54,879 Speaker 1: It's because you add to the income for the government. 456 00:23:54,920 --> 00:23:57,920 Speaker 1: Everything you're buying medicine, you're going to the doctors. Good 457 00:23:58,000 --> 00:24:00,800 Speaker 1: for the ecosystem, economy and everything like that. I'll tell 458 00:24:00,800 --> 00:24:03,199 Speaker 1: you what's interesting, too, did you find when you were 459 00:24:03,240 --> 00:24:05,000 Speaker 1: a kid you could deal with it a lot more 460 00:24:05,080 --> 00:24:08,320 Speaker 1: like I'm talking fifteen to eighteen a little bit more. Yeah, 461 00:24:08,359 --> 00:24:11,240 Speaker 1: I'm the same too, So I inherited from my mum, 462 00:24:11,600 --> 00:24:15,440 Speaker 1: really really bad hay fever. Okay, not the same magnitude 463 00:24:15,440 --> 00:24:19,399 Speaker 1: of problems now that would annoy me, bro so fucking annoying, 464 00:24:19,640 --> 00:24:21,840 Speaker 1: that would annoy me. It is the annoying, annoyingest thing 465 00:24:21,840 --> 00:24:25,280 Speaker 1: ever and the hardest thing that about having a girlfriend 466 00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:27,560 Speaker 1: is going to her house and there's a lot of 467 00:24:27,560 --> 00:24:30,080 Speaker 1: female products and smells going around, and she likes to 468 00:24:30,080 --> 00:24:32,359 Speaker 1: have her house smelling nice, which I like for the 469 00:24:32,440 --> 00:24:34,960 Speaker 1: ambiance to smell and everything like that. But I have 470 00:24:35,080 --> 00:24:37,920 Speaker 1: like hay fever attacks there and my eyes start worrying, 471 00:24:38,040 --> 00:24:40,400 Speaker 1: looks like I'm high as fuck and I'm just sneezing. 472 00:24:40,400 --> 00:24:42,159 Speaker 1: I'm sneezing, And if I don't have my medicine on me, 473 00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:44,280 Speaker 1: I fully have to go home because I can't stay 474 00:24:44,280 --> 00:24:47,200 Speaker 1: around there. She's like, you, how is this prevented? Do 475 00:24:47,280 --> 00:24:50,200 Speaker 1: you say? She feels bad? Get rid of the fucking flowers? 476 00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:54,159 Speaker 1: But sometimes I come over unannounced and stuff, and she like, 477 00:24:54,600 --> 00:24:59,560 Speaker 1: and you got your I feel like the biggest simp. 478 00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:04,600 Speaker 1: I can't come in here. Had one of those are 479 00:25:04,600 --> 00:25:06,879 Speaker 1: they called air purifies, those ones that put out like 480 00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:11,199 Speaker 1: essentral oils. Yep, It's smelt really nice in there. Like 481 00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:12,480 Speaker 1: fifteen minutes in, I'm just. 482 00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:16,880 Speaker 3: Like okay, okay, and Catchy's defense, it's like I can 483 00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:19,919 Speaker 3: understand if she had flowers and like a bunch of 484 00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:22,160 Speaker 3: flowers and they were setting you off, Yeah, I would 485 00:25:22,160 --> 00:25:23,960 Speaker 3: say get rid of the flowers for your boyfriend. 486 00:25:24,080 --> 00:25:26,880 Speaker 1: But if she can't have essential oils, yeah, and sometimes 487 00:25:26,920 --> 00:25:29,800 Speaker 1: Alsozy for her defense. I don't know actually what it is. 488 00:25:29,840 --> 00:25:32,000 Speaker 1: It could be a plant that's flowering outside her house, 489 00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:34,439 Speaker 1: and the flower the pollen's going around her house and 490 00:25:34,440 --> 00:25:36,359 Speaker 1: then I walk in and it's just like, oh my god, 491 00:25:36,440 --> 00:25:39,240 Speaker 1: that's just her area. But I definitely have inherited it, 492 00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:44,320 Speaker 1: inherited it, inherited it longer, like later in my life. Interesting, 493 00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:46,119 Speaker 1: like when I maybe I just copped it when I 494 00:25:46,119 --> 00:25:48,800 Speaker 1: was younger. But now I've turned almost turning twenty five, 495 00:25:49,080 --> 00:25:51,199 Speaker 1: I feel like it's got so much worse. And my 496 00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:53,760 Speaker 1: brother's got like the fool. You can go get different 497 00:25:53,880 --> 00:25:56,440 Speaker 1: needles and they like test for all the different tried allergens, 498 00:25:56,920 --> 00:25:59,119 Speaker 1: and he says it works because they test for all 499 00:25:59,119 --> 00:26:00,919 Speaker 1: the ones you're allergic to and then inject you to 500 00:26:00,960 --> 00:26:02,880 Speaker 1: it so you're immune. That's sick. It kind of feels 501 00:26:02,920 --> 00:26:04,600 Speaker 1: like some like walking dead type shit. I might do it. 502 00:26:04,920 --> 00:26:06,520 Speaker 3: I've had an allergy test when I was younger, and 503 00:26:06,560 --> 00:26:10,080 Speaker 3: you go in and they basically will It's like they're 504 00:26:10,080 --> 00:26:12,320 Speaker 3: giving you a microdose of things that are super common to. 505 00:26:12,280 --> 00:26:14,240 Speaker 1: Be allergic to, and they prick your arm. Yeah. And 506 00:26:14,280 --> 00:26:16,680 Speaker 1: I had like twelve pricks on my arm and if 507 00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:19,440 Speaker 1: one of them weltered up, then you're allergic to that thing. Yeah. 508 00:26:19,560 --> 00:26:21,639 Speaker 1: Luckily I didn't well touch twenty of them. But I 509 00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:22,800 Speaker 1: should really do it. It's cool. 510 00:26:22,800 --> 00:26:24,760 Speaker 3: I remember going in like, because when I was younger, 511 00:26:24,800 --> 00:26:29,760 Speaker 3: I had I would always from young I've always had 512 00:26:29,760 --> 00:26:31,159 Speaker 3: this thing where when I need shit, I need a 513 00:26:31,160 --> 00:26:32,159 Speaker 3: shit and I can't hold it in. 514 00:26:32,240 --> 00:26:34,560 Speaker 1: My mom was like, that's not normal, because actually isn't normal. 515 00:26:34,680 --> 00:26:36,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, And I also would always vomit whenever we had 516 00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:40,000 Speaker 3: spaghetti bowln a's that's weird, right, And so my mom 517 00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:42,040 Speaker 3: thought that obviously the first time she thought she undercooked 518 00:26:42,040 --> 00:26:43,760 Speaker 3: the meat and only I was affected blah blah blah 519 00:26:43,760 --> 00:26:46,159 Speaker 3: ah this time, and then she worked out I just 520 00:26:46,240 --> 00:26:48,280 Speaker 3: I kept vomiting, and she worked out it was every 521 00:26:48,280 --> 00:26:52,080 Speaker 3: time that we had spaghetti. And so we went and 522 00:26:52,160 --> 00:26:55,399 Speaker 3: I got tested and I got confirmed. 523 00:26:54,960 --> 00:26:55,800 Speaker 1: To have Celiac. 524 00:26:56,200 --> 00:26:59,199 Speaker 3: So I was vomiting from the pasta and so I 525 00:26:59,240 --> 00:27:02,840 Speaker 3: was confirmed ceiling. And then about a year later is 526 00:27:02,840 --> 00:27:06,680 Speaker 3: when my dad got custody of us, or not even 527 00:27:06,800 --> 00:27:08,199 Speaker 3: it was not even a year, to be honest with you, 528 00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:09,919 Speaker 3: it was so quick, and so I went straight from 529 00:27:10,280 --> 00:27:12,480 Speaker 3: and my So my Mom's going, he's Celiac, Like, you 530 00:27:12,560 --> 00:27:14,520 Speaker 3: gotta if you're taking him, you gotta fucking feed him 531 00:27:14,520 --> 00:27:15,160 Speaker 3: gilluting free shit. 532 00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:16,199 Speaker 1: D's like whatever. 533 00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:19,320 Speaker 3: So when we got there, I think my dad knew that, 534 00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:22,200 Speaker 3: and I said, Dad, no, that stuff tastes bad. 535 00:27:22,560 --> 00:27:25,720 Speaker 1: Because it was still semi new. I was like, especially 536 00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:27,360 Speaker 1: as a kid. Yeah, I was like, like, it's hard 537 00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:28,920 Speaker 1: to be a Celiac. And I feel like, hell, old, 538 00:27:28,960 --> 00:27:31,200 Speaker 1: you're ten or something. I was like ten, yeah, eleven, Yeah, 539 00:27:31,240 --> 00:27:32,840 Speaker 1: you would have been like yuck. I was like, bro, 540 00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:37,600 Speaker 1: this stuff tastes dad. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, so I would. Yeah. 541 00:27:37,600 --> 00:27:40,720 Speaker 3: Basically, I was like when I just said, no, we're 542 00:27:40,720 --> 00:27:42,880 Speaker 3: not doing gluten free, and I would have wheat picks 543 00:27:42,920 --> 00:27:46,399 Speaker 3: every morning, and Kate started my stepmom started noticing. She 544 00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:49,760 Speaker 3: was like, every single time Jake eats wheatbis not even 545 00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:53,239 Speaker 3: four minutes later he takes a ship. She goes, this 546 00:27:53,320 --> 00:27:57,800 Speaker 3: isn't normal. And I get tested in Australia for Celiac negative. Oh, 547 00:27:57,840 --> 00:27:59,840 Speaker 3: and I was like, I was like, I full said 548 00:27:59,920 --> 00:28:01,000 Speaker 3: the I was like, I'll be honest. 549 00:28:01,040 --> 00:28:02,919 Speaker 1: One was in Canada a year ago. I tested positive. 550 00:28:02,920 --> 00:28:05,280 Speaker 1: You guys are well your negative here? I said, okay, fair, 551 00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:08,919 Speaker 1: okay fair. So I just really have just been putting 552 00:28:08,960 --> 00:28:09,280 Speaker 1: up with it. 553 00:28:09,359 --> 00:28:11,959 Speaker 3: I sometimes eat gluten free, sometimes I don't, and I 554 00:28:12,040 --> 00:28:13,280 Speaker 3: really don't notice the difference. 555 00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:13,560 Speaker 1: Yeah. 556 00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:16,720 Speaker 3: When I eat gluten free, I just think my metabolism 557 00:28:16,800 --> 00:28:19,320 Speaker 3: is just like it works in hyperdrive. 558 00:28:19,359 --> 00:28:21,440 Speaker 1: I remember when we traveled up the East coast of Australia. 559 00:28:21,440 --> 00:28:24,159 Speaker 1: You were in your gluten free ever. Yeah, and I 560 00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:25,760 Speaker 1: remember all the food you had to eat. It's very 561 00:28:25,840 --> 00:28:28,480 Speaker 1: like it wasn't the nicest of stuff. But it does. 562 00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:30,960 Speaker 1: You get used to it. It's better, but it's also 563 00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:33,440 Speaker 1: a little more expensive. It is too, which is really annoying, 564 00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:36,200 Speaker 1: but it is. It's hard to deal with the cards 565 00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:39,800 Speaker 1: you're delt. Yeah, recently, I've cut out lactose ma. You're 566 00:28:39,840 --> 00:28:40,440 Speaker 1: just trying everything. 567 00:28:40,480 --> 00:28:44,640 Speaker 3: I'm trying lactose free milk in my coffee. I just 568 00:28:44,720 --> 00:28:49,400 Speaker 3: have rice, chicken, beef, avocado fruit. 569 00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:50,640 Speaker 1: I'm chilling. 570 00:28:51,560 --> 00:28:55,160 Speaker 3: Recently, I wasn't doing gluten free, but then this week 571 00:28:55,280 --> 00:28:57,600 Speaker 3: was the first week I bought glmen freebred. 572 00:28:58,840 --> 00:29:00,480 Speaker 1: And yeah, I don't know. I'll see what I and scars. 573 00:29:00,520 --> 00:29:01,920 Speaker 1: I'll keep you updated. This is why we need to 574 00:29:01,920 --> 00:29:04,200 Speaker 1: go do all that big testing. Yeah we do. We 575 00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:06,120 Speaker 1: need to book that in. Yeah, we got to book 576 00:29:06,160 --> 00:29:08,680 Speaker 1: that in. I'll put that on you. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 577 00:29:08,720 --> 00:29:10,280 Speaker 1: all right. If I write it next next time, to 578 00:29:10,320 --> 00:29:11,400 Speaker 1: be fair, if I write it down, I'll do it. 579 00:29:11,400 --> 00:29:13,160 Speaker 1: My notes has been good. Next time you have some 580 00:29:13,200 --> 00:29:15,840 Speaker 1: week pics and then you ship for twenty minutes, call 581 00:29:15,880 --> 00:29:17,920 Speaker 1: a place and be like, guys, I need some help, 582 00:29:18,080 --> 00:29:18,840 Speaker 1: to be honest with you. 583 00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:21,560 Speaker 3: Though having a lot of time on the toilet, you 584 00:29:21,600 --> 00:29:23,400 Speaker 3: get shipped done the other day. 585 00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:26,280 Speaker 1: So we obviously post clips every single day on Instagram 586 00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:29,920 Speaker 1: and TikTok, and Jake posted on Instagram and usually has 587 00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:31,680 Speaker 1: he has a little system in his head of how 588 00:29:31,720 --> 00:29:33,680 Speaker 1: he does things. And the Instagram one posted I normally 589 00:29:33,760 --> 00:29:35,080 Speaker 1: go like him and watch him again because I haven't 590 00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:37,200 Speaker 1: seen him because Jake edits him. Then now we went 591 00:29:37,240 --> 00:29:39,040 Speaker 1: past and I was like, how to check TikTok see 592 00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:40,680 Speaker 1: if it's up there. I think two hours went past. 593 00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:42,360 Speaker 1: It was like, I wonder what he's doing. I just 594 00:29:42,360 --> 00:29:44,440 Speaker 1: send him a little voice message. I'm like, oh, maybe 595 00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:47,360 Speaker 1: the TikTok one you posted didn't work. He's like, oh no, 596 00:29:47,480 --> 00:29:50,360 Speaker 1: I was taking this shit posted the Instagram. Then I 597 00:29:50,440 --> 00:29:52,720 Speaker 1: must have finished, so you know what I mean. It's 598 00:29:52,760 --> 00:29:53,239 Speaker 1: brain right. 599 00:29:53,320 --> 00:29:55,680 Speaker 3: I posted the instagram, got stuck on reels, and then 600 00:29:55,680 --> 00:29:57,360 Speaker 3: I finished my shit and forgot about it. 601 00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:00,680 Speaker 1: I don't know when these bricks are coming. Yeah, well 602 00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:02,719 Speaker 1: I don't know when they're coming. We didn't get off 603 00:30:02,720 --> 00:30:07,120 Speaker 1: our phone. Yeah, okay, Well I got a deep question 604 00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:09,200 Speaker 1: for you, Adie. Yeah, I like we did this on Patreon. 605 00:30:09,240 --> 00:30:12,080 Speaker 3: Actually, yeah, we wanted to bring deep back in a 606 00:30:12,120 --> 00:30:15,000 Speaker 3: way where we just enjoyed. 607 00:30:15,040 --> 00:30:17,880 Speaker 1: It feels organic, and also we're going to learn something 608 00:30:17,920 --> 00:30:20,840 Speaker 1: about each other. But more so the question Jake's about 609 00:30:20,840 --> 00:30:24,080 Speaker 1: the ask you can also answer in the comments. Yeah, boy, 610 00:30:24,400 --> 00:30:26,280 Speaker 1: and we want to get to know the audience. Yes. 611 00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:28,440 Speaker 1: I think it's a good little concept. Yes we do. 612 00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:31,000 Speaker 1: But Jake, before you do that, I feel like this 613 00:30:31,040 --> 00:30:34,760 Speaker 1: would be the perfect time to plug Patreon. Yes, and 614 00:30:34,840 --> 00:30:36,640 Speaker 1: we said we're going to come up with a new 615 00:30:36,680 --> 00:30:39,800 Speaker 1: little script to plug it each week, and Jake actually 616 00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:42,320 Speaker 1: came up with one organically. When we're just talking, I 617 00:30:42,440 --> 00:30:48,239 Speaker 1: remember what it was. No, So on Patreon, I think 618 00:30:48,280 --> 00:30:51,000 Speaker 1: we have about eighteen hundred members. Don't worry, not all 619 00:30:51,000 --> 00:30:53,880 Speaker 1: of them are paid. But if we get to two 620 00:30:53,920 --> 00:30:57,719 Speaker 1: thousand members, we will do a live show. Oh no, 621 00:30:57,800 --> 00:31:00,600 Speaker 1: my idea was if we get one thousand paid members, 622 00:31:00,640 --> 00:31:02,160 Speaker 1: will do a live show. Okay, that's what it is. 623 00:31:02,200 --> 00:31:04,960 Speaker 1: Every thousand paid members, we're going to do a live show. Okay, 624 00:31:05,080 --> 00:31:07,480 Speaker 1: because we get messages. When's the live show? How about 625 00:31:07,520 --> 00:31:08,800 Speaker 1: a live show? We get emails? Whatever? 626 00:31:08,800 --> 00:31:10,400 Speaker 3: How about a live show? We get messages on Patreon? 627 00:31:10,440 --> 00:31:12,880 Speaker 3: How about a live show? The messages on Patreon? You 628 00:31:12,880 --> 00:31:15,520 Speaker 3: guys are committing to the course. Yeah, so we've got 629 00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:16,760 Speaker 3: put your money where your mouth is. 630 00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:18,760 Speaker 1: So how we've got it? Says there. 631 00:31:18,760 --> 00:31:20,360 Speaker 3: We have eighteen hundred members, but they're not all paid 632 00:31:20,360 --> 00:31:22,200 Speaker 3: because you can be a member and they're not paid. 633 00:31:22,240 --> 00:31:25,840 Speaker 1: Patreon does the dumbest thing when when you unsubscribe, you 634 00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:27,680 Speaker 1: stay a member, so you just get to see all 635 00:31:27,680 --> 00:31:29,600 Speaker 1: our content, but you can't click on any of Yeah, 636 00:31:29,640 --> 00:31:31,440 Speaker 1: which is the weirdest content? Is weird? Yeah? 637 00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:33,880 Speaker 3: I guess they try and do it because like they 638 00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:36,680 Speaker 3: want the person to still get the notification to then 639 00:31:36,680 --> 00:31:40,440 Speaker 3: maybe try and resubscribe because Patreon takes it makes money. 640 00:31:40,720 --> 00:31:41,560 Speaker 1: That used to be our money. 641 00:31:41,640 --> 00:31:47,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, no, it's we used to provide that person with content. 642 00:31:47,960 --> 00:31:50,320 Speaker 1: Content. But no, So if we get a thousand. 643 00:31:50,080 --> 00:31:53,800 Speaker 3: Paid members, we will, yeah, we will one hundred percent 644 00:31:53,880 --> 00:31:56,400 Speaker 3: do a live show on dredercent So that's the plug. 645 00:31:56,440 --> 00:31:58,440 Speaker 3: That's the plug, thousand paid members, live show. And then 646 00:31:58,480 --> 00:32:00,760 Speaker 3: once we get that two thousand pay members live show, 647 00:32:01,560 --> 00:32:03,280 Speaker 3: and if we like live shows, we might do more. 648 00:32:03,320 --> 00:32:06,320 Speaker 3: But that's the first step, one thousand paid members. So 649 00:32:06,480 --> 00:32:09,160 Speaker 3: my deep question, ohdie, is. 650 00:32:11,640 --> 00:32:16,720 Speaker 1: How do you or what are your thoughts. 651 00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:21,680 Speaker 3: And how do you feel about love now compared to 652 00:32:21,760 --> 00:32:22,600 Speaker 3: five years ago? 653 00:32:23,240 --> 00:32:28,120 Speaker 1: Oh? So were you were nineteen? I was twenty. I 654 00:32:28,200 --> 00:32:30,160 Speaker 1: kind of even like the question of how do I 655 00:32:30,200 --> 00:32:33,520 Speaker 1: feel about love before and after my girlfriend for a year? Okay, 656 00:32:33,720 --> 00:32:36,040 Speaker 1: can I use that? I mean, maybe you go and 657 00:32:36,120 --> 00:32:41,760 Speaker 1: change my question, do it? I like the bored spectrum, 658 00:32:41,800 --> 00:32:43,880 Speaker 1: but okay, how do I feel about it? When I? 659 00:32:43,920 --> 00:32:47,960 Speaker 1: How old was I twenteen? Nineteen eighteen twenty young whipper snapper. 660 00:32:49,760 --> 00:32:51,760 Speaker 3: And everyone listening, Yeah, how did you feel about love 661 00:32:51,760 --> 00:32:54,440 Speaker 3: five years ago is compared to now. My idea of 662 00:32:54,480 --> 00:32:57,600 Speaker 3: love definitely when I was nineteen was like being the 663 00:32:57,720 --> 00:33:02,280 Speaker 3: same human and you're live was like revolved around each other. 664 00:33:02,280 --> 00:33:04,640 Speaker 3: And I definitely believed in like two fifty percent of 665 00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:07,640 Speaker 3: people add together and they make the perfect person, the 666 00:33:07,680 --> 00:33:08,400 Speaker 3: perfect couple. 667 00:33:09,560 --> 00:33:12,560 Speaker 1: And what if I learned along the journey. I know 668 00:33:12,600 --> 00:33:16,840 Speaker 1: what I think now, obviously, But along that journey, I 669 00:33:16,880 --> 00:33:19,600 Speaker 1: think I learn a lot of independence, and I think 670 00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:22,160 Speaker 1: I learned what makes up me as a person and 671 00:33:22,240 --> 00:33:26,160 Speaker 1: my contribution to a relationship. And I figured out that 672 00:33:26,240 --> 00:33:28,560 Speaker 1: I need to be one hundred percent confident in myself 673 00:33:28,640 --> 00:33:31,200 Speaker 1: prior to getting into a relationship. So what I think 674 00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:35,360 Speaker 1: about love now is you're two one hundred percents and 675 00:33:35,880 --> 00:33:39,200 Speaker 1: you add together your own independent thing and you build 676 00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:42,840 Speaker 1: this beautiful little entity that like coincide together and work 677 00:33:42,880 --> 00:33:45,240 Speaker 1: together as a team and benefit each other. It's sort 678 00:33:45,240 --> 00:33:48,880 Speaker 1: of also like us as a podcast when I'm doing something, 679 00:33:48,920 --> 00:33:50,680 Speaker 1: if I'm confident doing something good, you sort of like 680 00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:53,040 Speaker 1: steer away. But if I'm struggling, you pick up and 681 00:33:53,080 --> 00:33:54,600 Speaker 1: you pick up the slack of the rope a little bit, 682 00:33:54,600 --> 00:33:56,880 Speaker 1: which is like a relationship and you work as a 683 00:33:56,920 --> 00:34:00,240 Speaker 1: team in like cohesive nature, which is really really really good. 684 00:34:02,000 --> 00:34:02,560 Speaker 1: What about you? 685 00:34:03,080 --> 00:34:08,040 Speaker 3: Well, when so I was twenty, I reckon so five 686 00:34:08,160 --> 00:34:12,560 Speaker 3: years ago, I think I was still stuck in the 687 00:34:12,600 --> 00:34:21,440 Speaker 3: mindset of like, if you weren't the way you were, like, 688 00:34:21,480 --> 00:34:26,360 Speaker 3: if the whole thing wasn't honeymoon phase, then you weren't 689 00:34:26,400 --> 00:34:28,759 Speaker 3: meant for each other. Yeah, that's what I used to 690 00:34:28,880 --> 00:34:31,600 Speaker 3: kind of think, Like, I vaguely remember those conversations too. 691 00:34:31,719 --> 00:34:34,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, I used to think, like, he's always meant to 692 00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:35,640 Speaker 1: be like the honeymoon stage, you know. 693 00:34:35,760 --> 00:34:39,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, because social media was obviously already huge, it's mass, 694 00:34:39,480 --> 00:34:41,640 Speaker 3: it was still massive, blah blah blah. So we're all 695 00:34:41,680 --> 00:34:45,520 Speaker 3: influenced by social media and you see stuff and maybe 696 00:34:45,640 --> 00:34:49,560 Speaker 3: growing up watching I used to love watching a lot 697 00:34:49,560 --> 00:34:55,200 Speaker 3: of vlogs on YouTube. And uh, it's interesting that I 698 00:34:55,239 --> 00:34:59,560 Speaker 3: will say, the relationships that you see in front of 699 00:34:59,560 --> 00:35:03,080 Speaker 3: you in real life, I find aren't the ones that 700 00:35:03,239 --> 00:35:07,400 Speaker 3: I would compare to. Not that you should compare, but 701 00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:12,520 Speaker 3: you know, I you don't see I see my parents 702 00:35:12,560 --> 00:35:17,239 Speaker 3: be sexually physical. No, I don't see grandparents do that. 703 00:35:17,320 --> 00:35:23,919 Speaker 3: And they look like friends. But and I would say 704 00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:25,160 Speaker 3: they have a great relationship. 705 00:35:25,200 --> 00:35:29,279 Speaker 1: But I would compare my relationship to those online that 706 00:35:30,520 --> 00:35:32,600 Speaker 1: look like they're in the honeymoon phase for their whole time, 707 00:35:32,800 --> 00:35:34,440 Speaker 1: like the whole relationship. 708 00:35:33,880 --> 00:35:37,719 Speaker 3: And so when that would end, I wouldn't leave a 709 00:35:37,760 --> 00:35:41,279 Speaker 3: person because then I would say to myself, well, then 710 00:35:41,440 --> 00:35:45,880 Speaker 3: I'm just leaving them for the wrong reason, and I 711 00:35:45,880 --> 00:35:47,759 Speaker 3: would It would take me ages to admit that I 712 00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:49,960 Speaker 3: wasn't right for someone and they went right for me. 713 00:35:50,040 --> 00:35:52,160 Speaker 1: It's interesting too, because I feel like that error of 714 00:35:52,239 --> 00:35:56,080 Speaker 1: content we were consuming was very fake and everything was 715 00:35:56,080 --> 00:36:00,360 Speaker 1: trying to be portrayed as perfection, and now it's a 716 00:36:00,360 --> 00:36:02,239 Speaker 1: bit more real and organic and you see the real 717 00:36:02,320 --> 00:36:04,799 Speaker 1: side of things. But I definitely felt the same in 718 00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:07,000 Speaker 1: a lot of aspects too. And one thing I've learned 719 00:36:07,000 --> 00:36:08,920 Speaker 1: about being in a relationship now is I kind of 720 00:36:09,040 --> 00:36:13,280 Speaker 1: like those highs and lows and like, obviously the honeymoon 721 00:36:13,280 --> 00:36:15,480 Speaker 1: stage is amazing, and then you go through this phase 722 00:36:15,480 --> 00:36:18,480 Speaker 1: where you like sort of just like being friends. Obviously 723 00:36:18,520 --> 00:36:20,359 Speaker 1: you still love each other. Yeah, I feel like that's 724 00:36:20,400 --> 00:36:22,880 Speaker 1: the beauty of love. It still holds you together no 725 00:36:22,920 --> 00:36:25,640 Speaker 1: matter what. Yeah, And there's moments where you're thinking, like, oh, yeah, 726 00:36:25,680 --> 00:36:27,600 Speaker 1: this is fucking the best thing ever. Then there's moments 727 00:36:27,640 --> 00:36:31,319 Speaker 1: you're like, oh, this is just chill. Yeah, I think yeah, 728 00:36:30,560 --> 00:36:34,040 Speaker 1: I feel like people are lying themselves when they think like, oh, 729 00:36:34,520 --> 00:36:37,200 Speaker 1: it's always just yeah. You need to have this fire 730 00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:39,839 Speaker 1: inside of you and you need to feel like you're 731 00:36:39,880 --> 00:36:45,520 Speaker 1: exploding with love. Sometimes you're probably gonna genuinely question if 732 00:36:45,560 --> 00:36:47,759 Speaker 1: you even like this person. You're going to know that 733 00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:50,600 Speaker 1: you love them because you that's when love conquers. Yeah, 734 00:36:50,640 --> 00:36:53,439 Speaker 1: and but you're going to think, honestly, I just don't 735 00:36:53,440 --> 00:36:55,040 Speaker 1: even like you right now. Just get out of my 736 00:36:55,120 --> 00:36:58,040 Speaker 1: freaking site. But so the way I look at it 737 00:36:58,080 --> 00:37:00,960 Speaker 1: now is a lot more. 738 00:37:02,239 --> 00:37:08,320 Speaker 3: Hm, let me think about this kind of that one. 739 00:37:08,760 --> 00:37:10,600 Speaker 3: It's obviously going to be difficult. 740 00:37:11,640 --> 00:37:15,960 Speaker 1: And I definitely thought love was easy when I was nineteen. Yeah, 741 00:37:15,960 --> 00:37:17,680 Speaker 1: I used to think it should have been easy. Yeah, 742 00:37:17,719 --> 00:37:19,320 Speaker 1: if you're in love with someone, it's going to be 743 00:37:19,360 --> 00:37:22,600 Speaker 1: the easiest thing ever. And I didn't think relationships will work. Yes, 744 00:37:22,880 --> 00:37:26,480 Speaker 1: when they are constantly working, Yes, I just I think 745 00:37:26,880 --> 00:37:30,879 Speaker 1: like accepting that is a big thing. But the way 746 00:37:30,880 --> 00:37:32,200 Speaker 1: I look at it now is kind of. 747 00:37:35,080 --> 00:37:38,480 Speaker 3: More like I want it to just be like the 748 00:37:38,520 --> 00:37:43,520 Speaker 3: best friendship and I still hate you. Still see things 749 00:37:43,560 --> 00:37:49,600 Speaker 3: online where it'll be like a relationship guru saying that 750 00:37:49,880 --> 00:37:52,080 Speaker 3: if you're having troubles in your relationship, the thing that's 751 00:37:52,120 --> 00:37:54,440 Speaker 3: going to fix it all is like think about the 752 00:37:54,520 --> 00:37:57,040 Speaker 3: last time you had sex or whatever. And I think 753 00:37:57,080 --> 00:38:03,120 Speaker 3: that that just puts so much pressure on relationships. Again, 754 00:38:03,600 --> 00:38:07,040 Speaker 3: sex is obviously a huge part of it, but I 755 00:38:07,080 --> 00:38:09,920 Speaker 3: think that when people slow down the amount that they 756 00:38:09,960 --> 00:38:12,920 Speaker 3: have sex, it's a thing that people get stressed about. 757 00:38:13,200 --> 00:38:16,280 Speaker 3: I mean, me included, Yeah, me too, Me included because 758 00:38:16,320 --> 00:38:20,000 Speaker 3: you even think, like because like you could go like 759 00:38:20,160 --> 00:38:23,799 Speaker 3: a week without, you know, sleeping next to the same 760 00:38:23,800 --> 00:38:25,720 Speaker 3: person each night and being like, oh, we haven't had sex, 761 00:38:26,040 --> 00:38:27,440 Speaker 3: how come they aren't making me horny? 762 00:38:27,960 --> 00:38:30,240 Speaker 1: And it's like you're just fucking going through a phase 763 00:38:30,320 --> 00:38:32,960 Speaker 1: where you're not that horny. Yeah. Literally, like it's probably 764 00:38:32,960 --> 00:38:36,000 Speaker 1: just hormonal. And but you know, the way I look 765 00:38:36,000 --> 00:38:40,200 Speaker 1: at it now is more of like a just I 766 00:38:40,239 --> 00:38:42,080 Speaker 1: don't know, because with Beth, she's the first one I've 767 00:38:42,080 --> 00:38:45,080 Speaker 1: lived with, and I don't know, it just like feels 768 00:38:45,960 --> 00:38:49,120 Speaker 1: like he doesn't feel like home anymore. Home is your 769 00:38:49,120 --> 00:38:52,160 Speaker 1: heart is with her? Yeah, he doesn't feel like home. 770 00:38:52,280 --> 00:38:55,319 Speaker 1: That's interesting. I definitely felt when I was nineteen. I 771 00:38:55,360 --> 00:38:58,360 Speaker 1: think a hormonal imbalance was definitely a contributing factor. But 772 00:38:59,280 --> 00:39:01,520 Speaker 1: I still obviously value sex in a relationship. But I 773 00:39:01,760 --> 00:39:04,480 Speaker 1: prioritize sex a lot more when I was younger and 774 00:39:04,600 --> 00:39:07,879 Speaker 1: thought its value was a lot higher. And like you said, 775 00:39:07,880 --> 00:39:10,680 Speaker 1: if I wasn't having sex, something was wrong. But I 776 00:39:10,719 --> 00:39:14,960 Speaker 1: feel like sex is like the added benefit at the 777 00:39:15,080 --> 00:39:18,359 Speaker 1: end of all the beautiful things about love, and that's 778 00:39:18,440 --> 00:39:20,640 Speaker 1: just like that connection at the end. There's like the 779 00:39:20,719 --> 00:39:23,160 Speaker 1: cherry on top. And when you have it, even if 780 00:39:23,200 --> 00:39:25,680 Speaker 1: it is three weeks or a month after a gap, 781 00:39:26,239 --> 00:39:27,719 Speaker 1: sometimes you stress it in your head, but then you 782 00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:31,440 Speaker 1: have it and it's sort of like reassurance. I think 783 00:39:31,440 --> 00:39:32,799 Speaker 1: that's what sex is at the end of the day 784 00:39:32,840 --> 00:39:34,839 Speaker 1: for a relationship. It's just like, yeah, it is kind 785 00:39:34,840 --> 00:39:37,040 Speaker 1: of becomes like a reassurance thing. Yeah, it's like, oh, 786 00:39:37,080 --> 00:39:40,600 Speaker 1: this is right, it is good. It's not necessarily like yeah, 787 00:39:40,600 --> 00:39:42,479 Speaker 1: I just got a fuck it. It's more like, fuck, 788 00:39:42,520 --> 00:39:45,480 Speaker 1: that felt amazing. I love that we just did that together. 789 00:39:45,840 --> 00:39:49,440 Speaker 1: I feel like that's what sex is. No fair, fair, 790 00:39:49,680 --> 00:39:52,120 Speaker 1: but it is. It's yeah, it's funny, but it's funny 791 00:39:52,120 --> 00:39:53,799 Speaker 1: how much growth have had in even such a little 792 00:39:53,800 --> 00:39:57,000 Speaker 1: amount of time. Yeah, I even't feel like at the 793 00:39:57,040 --> 00:40:00,520 Speaker 1: start of the podcast, when we first started it, we 794 00:40:00,640 --> 00:40:03,960 Speaker 1: may have had the mindset of it's two fifty percent 795 00:40:04,080 --> 00:40:05,520 Speaker 1: making a one hundred. I think we did. 796 00:40:05,600 --> 00:40:07,920 Speaker 3: I have a feeling like I recall talking about that 797 00:40:08,000 --> 00:40:10,360 Speaker 3: with a microphone in front of my face for some reason. 798 00:40:10,680 --> 00:40:12,560 Speaker 3: So it's even in that amount of time changed from 799 00:40:12,560 --> 00:40:15,879 Speaker 3: none of no, it's to one Hundred's where you need 800 00:40:15,920 --> 00:40:20,719 Speaker 3: to look at it as I'm okay, I'm okay alone, yeah, 801 00:40:20,840 --> 00:40:23,400 Speaker 3: I'm one, yeah, and then you come together and yeah. Well, 802 00:40:23,440 --> 00:40:26,120 Speaker 3: I also like to from this podcast, we've been exposed 803 00:40:26,160 --> 00:40:29,439 Speaker 3: to so many female brains. Yeah, and it's a very 804 00:40:29,560 --> 00:40:32,560 Speaker 3: unique experience, and I'd like to say we're pretty good 805 00:40:32,600 --> 00:40:36,200 Speaker 3: prior to it already, but even more so being exposed 806 00:40:36,239 --> 00:40:40,640 Speaker 3: to what happens to them in the world unfair and 807 00:40:40,680 --> 00:40:43,399 Speaker 3: the positives as well, but also like how they think, 808 00:40:43,440 --> 00:40:46,560 Speaker 3: has really changed our thinking process in a lot of ways. 809 00:40:47,120 --> 00:40:51,319 Speaker 3: And I think that's somewhat affected how we perceive love 810 00:40:51,800 --> 00:40:54,400 Speaker 3: and how we perceive females in the world, and I 811 00:40:54,400 --> 00:40:57,000 Speaker 3: think it's a benefit in the long run, to be honest. 812 00:40:56,880 --> 00:41:00,000 Speaker 1: No facts, I agree that even getting an email from 813 00:41:00,120 --> 00:41:02,680 Speaker 1: someone that goes, I really like you guys, but you 814 00:41:02,719 --> 00:41:06,279 Speaker 1: said this one thing and I think you're wrong. Here's 815 00:41:06,280 --> 00:41:09,480 Speaker 1: why I think you're wrong. And then them changing our 816 00:41:09,520 --> 00:41:12,520 Speaker 1: mind on something like someone changed my mind. It was 817 00:41:12,600 --> 00:41:13,239 Speaker 1: ages ago. 818 00:41:13,960 --> 00:41:16,080 Speaker 3: I was in the mindset of like, why are we 819 00:41:16,080 --> 00:41:17,759 Speaker 3: getting married if you're not going to take my last name? 820 00:41:17,840 --> 00:41:18,200 Speaker 1: Yeah? 821 00:41:18,239 --> 00:41:19,799 Speaker 3: And then someone sent me like it sent this really 822 00:41:19,840 --> 00:41:21,919 Speaker 3: good email, and I was like thinking, I really thought 823 00:41:21,920 --> 00:41:22,279 Speaker 3: about it, and. 824 00:41:22,280 --> 00:41:24,200 Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, fuck that. Why would why would 825 00:41:24,200 --> 00:41:26,680 Speaker 1: they take your last name? To be fair, why I would? 826 00:41:27,320 --> 00:41:28,959 Speaker 1: I actually have no reason to think is why would 827 00:41:28,960 --> 00:41:31,480 Speaker 1: they do it? Unless they just genuinely wanted to, And 828 00:41:31,480 --> 00:41:33,360 Speaker 1: of course I would want you to. I was pissed 829 00:41:33,360 --> 00:41:36,120 Speaker 1: because I was fighting for they were last name. Took 830 00:41:36,120 --> 00:41:41,720 Speaker 1: an email for you to. She just was way more articulate. 831 00:41:42,920 --> 00:41:45,640 Speaker 1: It was interesting though. Yeah, it's funny. Yeah, it's a 832 00:41:45,640 --> 00:41:47,399 Speaker 1: cool concept, that's for sure. It is cool. 833 00:41:47,400 --> 00:41:48,759 Speaker 3: And I think one other thing that's good about the 834 00:41:48,800 --> 00:41:51,440 Speaker 3: PUZ is that you and I are exposed to each other. Yeah, 835 00:41:51,480 --> 00:41:54,400 Speaker 3: and again with so say, with the question that I 836 00:41:54,480 --> 00:41:57,239 Speaker 3: just asked, we lead into this ten to fifteen minute 837 00:41:57,239 --> 00:42:01,960 Speaker 3: conversation of things that like if we went and hung 838 00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:03,000 Speaker 3: out with our friends and had dinner. 839 00:42:03,080 --> 00:42:05,359 Speaker 1: No one's going to sit there and go boys, like, 840 00:42:05,480 --> 00:42:07,520 Speaker 1: how did you feel about love five years ago? Competed 841 00:42:07,520 --> 00:42:10,160 Speaker 1: to now? Not that we can't do it, And to 842 00:42:10,200 --> 00:42:12,719 Speaker 1: be completely honest, I reckon our mates would probably answer 843 00:42:12,760 --> 00:42:15,320 Speaker 1: it after a laugh of like ah ha, you you idiot, whatever, 844 00:42:15,719 --> 00:42:17,200 Speaker 1: but they would probably answer it to be fair, if 845 00:42:17,200 --> 00:42:20,080 Speaker 1: you're like, no, no, I'm serious, but it just doesn't happen. 846 00:42:20,239 --> 00:42:22,600 Speaker 1: It doesn't hit the same either because we kind of 847 00:42:22,640 --> 00:42:25,399 Speaker 1: really think about it, whereas some of it. To be fair, 848 00:42:25,520 --> 00:42:27,799 Speaker 1: half of our friends would say like I still feel 849 00:42:27,840 --> 00:42:30,000 Speaker 1: the same way. Yeah, like I just love her, loves 850 00:42:30,040 --> 00:42:32,600 Speaker 1: just love. It would be wouldn't be completely surprised if 851 00:42:32,600 --> 00:42:35,160 Speaker 1: we had a friend that goes I mean, if you 852 00:42:35,160 --> 00:42:40,080 Speaker 1: you should have that fire inside. But that's why we're 853 00:42:40,120 --> 00:42:43,880 Speaker 1: all on different journeys and like our developmental phase happens 854 00:42:43,920 --> 00:42:47,319 Speaker 1: at different stages for everybody. Yeah no, yeah, real, but 855 00:42:47,400 --> 00:42:49,960 Speaker 1: ours is just happening together because we do things together. Yeah. 856 00:42:50,680 --> 00:42:54,239 Speaker 1: Any also any deep questions you guys, yeah, common ask us. 857 00:42:54,320 --> 00:42:56,520 Speaker 1: You can be saying we're open to other ones. But 858 00:42:56,640 --> 00:42:58,480 Speaker 1: to be fair, again, easy to think of there's so 859 00:42:58,600 --> 00:43:10,240 Speaker 1: many yeah, yeah, ig question this week was what gives 860 00:43:10,280 --> 00:43:11,480 Speaker 1: off big dick energy? 861 00:43:11,560 --> 00:43:15,239 Speaker 3: Yes, good lead on from last week answers to this, 862 00:43:15,520 --> 00:43:17,759 Speaker 3: I think of better than the answers to what gives 863 00:43:17,760 --> 00:43:18,760 Speaker 3: off small dick energy? 864 00:43:19,040 --> 00:43:21,960 Speaker 1: Maybe because people think about it more because they want 865 00:43:21,960 --> 00:43:24,120 Speaker 1: that in their life. Yeah, so should we are we 866 00:43:24,120 --> 00:43:26,240 Speaker 1: going to say what gives off BDE? It's a pretty 867 00:43:26,239 --> 00:43:29,080 Speaker 1: well known phrase BDE? Is it? What gives off b D? 868 00:43:29,440 --> 00:43:30,120 Speaker 1: Big Dick energy? 869 00:43:30,200 --> 00:43:30,359 Speaker 2: Yeah? 870 00:43:30,440 --> 00:43:33,960 Speaker 1: B D is that well known. I didn't know it. Okay, Well, okay, 871 00:43:34,000 --> 00:43:36,520 Speaker 1: I because you can't say dick for the cliffs, No, 872 00:43:36,600 --> 00:43:38,239 Speaker 1: it's easy to cut out, okay, Yeah, No, I was 873 00:43:38,239 --> 00:43:39,640 Speaker 1: just saying that, do we say b D? You can 874 00:43:39,640 --> 00:43:42,080 Speaker 1: say man, you can be different, Okay, cool and stuff. 875 00:43:42,120 --> 00:43:46,000 Speaker 3: So what gives off big dick energy? I'm going to 876 00:43:46,040 --> 00:43:49,120 Speaker 3: start off with what I think will be the best answer, 877 00:43:49,480 --> 00:43:51,280 Speaker 3: and I want to spend the rest of the segment 878 00:43:51,520 --> 00:43:53,200 Speaker 3: trying to get an answer. 879 00:43:52,920 --> 00:43:53,440 Speaker 1: As good as that. 880 00:43:53,640 --> 00:43:57,680 Speaker 3: Okay, okay, So what gives off big dick energy? 881 00:43:57,719 --> 00:44:02,600 Speaker 1: Knowing how to use a small dick? Oh that is 882 00:44:02,800 --> 00:44:07,440 Speaker 1: a great answer. Yeah. I just I saw that and 883 00:44:07,520 --> 00:44:10,759 Speaker 1: I froze, that's what you do. It is what it is. 884 00:44:10,800 --> 00:44:14,480 Speaker 1: At least I'm giving off that b dee Bro. I 885 00:44:14,480 --> 00:44:18,400 Speaker 1: don't know about this BDE stuff. Okay, I think I 886 00:44:18,640 --> 00:44:21,799 Speaker 1: maybe have a better answer to stuff. Shit, Okay, what 887 00:44:21,960 --> 00:44:26,279 Speaker 1: gives off big dick energy? Resent? Oh fuck, that is 888 00:44:26,320 --> 00:44:33,480 Speaker 1: a good one, bro, he does. I've been aura, I've 889 00:44:33,480 --> 00:44:36,959 Speaker 1: been stuck on. I got on Akator TikTok. And there's 890 00:44:37,000 --> 00:44:39,880 Speaker 1: all these animations or like AI animation. I don't know 891 00:44:39,920 --> 00:44:42,400 Speaker 1: who does, haven't been getting them. They're amazing wow. But 892 00:44:42,440 --> 00:44:47,840 Speaker 1: it made me realize my imagination of Akator is like 893 00:44:47,920 --> 00:44:52,400 Speaker 1: povo oh. Like these these animations are like amazing. I 894 00:44:52,440 --> 00:44:54,719 Speaker 1: was like, oh shit, these people look insane in my head, 895 00:44:54,920 --> 00:44:58,200 Speaker 1: like I feel like I'm poor. No, No, I wasn't. 896 00:44:58,000 --> 00:44:59,960 Speaker 3: Feel like that in my head. What's been wigging out 897 00:45:00,160 --> 00:45:03,600 Speaker 3: me is a little bit is in. I've read just 898 00:45:03,600 --> 00:45:06,080 Speaker 3: the first couple of chapters of a quarter of misin Fury. Yeah, 899 00:45:06,280 --> 00:45:09,840 Speaker 3: and I also have been listening to the graphic audio 900 00:45:10,160 --> 00:45:11,200 Speaker 3: and it's pretty sick. 901 00:45:11,680 --> 00:45:13,880 Speaker 1: Have you started tomorrow? Okay? 902 00:45:13,880 --> 00:45:18,960 Speaker 3: Sweet and so so it's pretty sick. But what was 903 00:45:19,000 --> 00:45:21,680 Speaker 3: wiggering me out with a quard of thorns and roses, 904 00:45:21,760 --> 00:45:24,520 Speaker 3: and just like the whole universe is I was trying 905 00:45:24,520 --> 00:45:28,439 Speaker 3: to like, what time period are they in? Because they 906 00:45:28,480 --> 00:45:31,560 Speaker 3: have a flushing toilet, you'll figure that it doesn't give 907 00:45:31,600 --> 00:45:33,400 Speaker 3: anything away, just like within the first couple of pages, 908 00:45:33,440 --> 00:45:36,120 Speaker 3: like Farah talks about a toilet and flushing it, and 909 00:45:36,120 --> 00:45:37,759 Speaker 3: I was like, okay, fair, Like I knew they probably 910 00:45:37,800 --> 00:45:41,400 Speaker 3: had to go somewhere, but it made it sond to me. 911 00:45:41,440 --> 00:45:42,879 Speaker 3: It seems like they're in an age where they don't 912 00:45:42,880 --> 00:45:46,640 Speaker 3: even have an electricity. I'm thinking no electricity because everything's magic. 913 00:45:46,680 --> 00:45:47,480 Speaker 1: I was thinking at in one. 914 00:45:47,440 --> 00:45:50,440 Speaker 3: Hundreds, see, I'm thinking like flames on the walls at 915 00:45:50,520 --> 00:45:52,719 Speaker 3: night type of thing, you know, And I'm thinking just 916 00:45:53,000 --> 00:45:54,920 Speaker 3: everything that there's no cars, everything that you get there 917 00:45:54,920 --> 00:45:57,920 Speaker 3: by horse. And then in Prithian obviously they're magical and 918 00:45:57,920 --> 00:46:00,279 Speaker 3: they can do all this shit whatever. But so yeah, 919 00:46:00,480 --> 00:46:02,680 Speaker 3: I'm trying to figure out what time period they're in 920 00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:06,719 Speaker 3: because also, like I was also onder the impression they 921 00:46:06,719 --> 00:46:09,960 Speaker 3: didn't have paper, but then she's got canvases to paint on, right, 922 00:46:10,320 --> 00:46:13,239 Speaker 3: and then there's a there's just a line in the 923 00:46:13,280 --> 00:46:15,800 Speaker 3: first couple pages of A Quarter of Mist and Fury 924 00:46:16,160 --> 00:46:19,879 Speaker 3: where Fara goes Ah like Tamlin came to bed late 925 00:46:19,960 --> 00:46:22,480 Speaker 3: because he was doing a lot of paperwork. Oh, I 926 00:46:22,520 --> 00:46:23,840 Speaker 3: was like, why is Tamly doing paperwork? 927 00:46:23,840 --> 00:46:26,560 Speaker 1: He's a fucking magical high Lord of Pricky who turned 928 00:46:26,560 --> 00:46:29,120 Speaker 1: into a beast and killed Amarantha. Well, they had back 929 00:46:29,160 --> 00:46:31,160 Speaker 1: in the day like ink used to dip, like the 930 00:46:31,280 --> 00:46:35,520 Speaker 1: felt tip pens. What's you do a paperwork? True? I 931 00:46:35,520 --> 00:46:39,040 Speaker 1: feel like one benefit of Akator and Sarah j Mass's 932 00:46:39,040 --> 00:46:41,799 Speaker 1: books is because they haven't been depicted into a movie. 933 00:46:42,320 --> 00:46:45,080 Speaker 1: I kind of think Harry Potter has ruined the books 934 00:46:45,080 --> 00:46:48,840 Speaker 1: because everyone's seen the movies and everyone pictures HP Harry 935 00:46:48,840 --> 00:46:51,920 Speaker 1: Potter as he is, whereas this is all up to 936 00:46:52,440 --> 00:46:55,080 Speaker 1: the reader's imagination. That's a very good point, which is 937 00:46:55,120 --> 00:46:57,479 Speaker 1: kind of cool because I think differently to what you think. 938 00:46:57,640 --> 00:46:58,319 Speaker 1: That's a good point. 939 00:46:58,320 --> 00:46:59,799 Speaker 3: I was listening to Ships and Gigs today and they 940 00:47:00,520 --> 00:47:03,839 Speaker 3: they're reading Fourth Wing, which we now can't read because 941 00:47:03,880 --> 00:47:06,560 Speaker 3: I know everything about it. But they were saying like, 942 00:47:06,640 --> 00:47:08,440 Speaker 3: it would be sick if they did a movie depiction 943 00:47:08,600 --> 00:47:10,440 Speaker 3: or a show depiction right. But then they were saying 944 00:47:10,800 --> 00:47:14,480 Speaker 3: so James said, it's so hard to get a book 945 00:47:14,600 --> 00:47:18,560 Speaker 3: right because of how each individual reader reads the book, 946 00:47:18,840 --> 00:47:20,760 Speaker 3: and then the person that's going to write the show. 947 00:47:21,360 --> 00:47:23,359 Speaker 1: They read the book and they see it with their 948 00:47:23,400 --> 00:47:25,440 Speaker 1: own imagination. It's going to be different to yours. It 949 00:47:25,480 --> 00:47:27,359 Speaker 1: can't be the exact same. Yeah, that's why you need 950 00:47:27,400 --> 00:47:29,680 Speaker 1: the writer to have it how they want it. 951 00:47:29,760 --> 00:47:33,640 Speaker 3: And they were saying, I would like this, but I 952 00:47:33,680 --> 00:47:35,239 Speaker 3: don't know if you would. But they were saying, if 953 00:47:35,280 --> 00:47:37,120 Speaker 3: they did it via animation. 954 00:47:37,040 --> 00:47:39,439 Speaker 1: Ooh, these animations. I've been saying. 955 00:47:39,600 --> 00:47:42,479 Speaker 3: The thing that's good about animation is with the same 956 00:47:42,560 --> 00:47:46,040 Speaker 3: budget you can do like, you don't need CGI. You 957 00:47:46,560 --> 00:47:50,120 Speaker 3: can draw anything, so you may. I think if they 958 00:47:50,160 --> 00:47:52,640 Speaker 3: do it, they need to do an animation or they 959 00:47:52,640 --> 00:47:53,840 Speaker 3: need the budget to be so high. 960 00:47:53,680 --> 00:47:55,600 Speaker 1: That they can have the best CGI. Check your tiktoks man, 961 00:47:55,640 --> 00:47:56,480 Speaker 1: I've sent you some animation. 962 00:47:56,520 --> 00:47:59,759 Speaker 3: Okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, I'll go. What gives off 963 00:47:59,760 --> 00:48:03,239 Speaker 3: Big Dick? What gives off Big Dick energy texting you 964 00:48:03,360 --> 00:48:04,520 Speaker 3: back on a night out. 965 00:48:04,840 --> 00:48:08,839 Speaker 1: Oh that is big Dick energy. That's just class. Yeah, 966 00:48:08,880 --> 00:48:14,239 Speaker 1: that's class. It's so hard. Yeah. What gives off big 967 00:48:14,280 --> 00:48:17,040 Speaker 1: Dick energy It being his idea to use a toy 968 00:48:17,120 --> 00:48:20,239 Speaker 1: or vibrator. Oh really, let me just go grab the 969 00:48:20,239 --> 00:48:25,879 Speaker 1: toy the vibrator. Damn Okay, it's hard to time as 970 00:48:25,880 --> 00:48:28,719 Speaker 1: a man. Yeah, because sometimes it's so intimate that like 971 00:48:28,880 --> 00:48:30,480 Speaker 1: when you change your positions or something like, do you 972 00:48:30,480 --> 00:48:32,640 Speaker 1: mind if I go grab a vibrator? I feel that 973 00:48:32,640 --> 00:48:35,759 Speaker 1: he is hot. That is kind of hot. Like I'm 974 00:48:35,840 --> 00:48:39,640 Speaker 1: not threatened by a little vibright his little vibrator. You 975 00:48:39,680 --> 00:48:41,120 Speaker 1: can just do whatever it wants. But I'm going to 976 00:48:41,200 --> 00:48:43,359 Speaker 1: finish you off. Yeah, use it to benefit your game. 977 00:48:43,480 --> 00:48:45,799 Speaker 3: Yeah, like I'm going to make the lead up, but 978 00:48:45,840 --> 00:48:47,680 Speaker 3: I'm gonna this thing's not going to finish you off. 979 00:48:48,920 --> 00:48:57,560 Speaker 1: That's crazy. It probably will what gives off Big Dick 980 00:48:57,800 --> 00:49:02,840 Speaker 1: energy whatever. The opposite of non chalant is Yeah, so 981 00:49:02,840 --> 00:49:05,799 Speaker 1: salon isn't a word. We figured that out. I disagree. 982 00:49:06,320 --> 00:49:08,920 Speaker 1: Chalant is very much a word, and it's the opposite 983 00:49:08,960 --> 00:49:12,280 Speaker 1: of nonchalant. Or should I say the opposite of schalant 984 00:49:12,360 --> 00:49:14,920 Speaker 1: is nonchalant because you don't create a word with the 985 00:49:14,920 --> 00:49:16,880 Speaker 1: word non in front of it without there being a 986 00:49:16,920 --> 00:49:19,399 Speaker 1: word already. Yeah, yeah, I hear, I hear, but I 987 00:49:19,440 --> 00:49:24,560 Speaker 1: definitely agree. Impressed unimpressed. Impressed was first. Yeah, Big Dick 988 00:49:24,600 --> 00:49:27,040 Speaker 1: Angie is caring. Yeah, that's what it is. It is. 989 00:49:27,400 --> 00:49:30,800 Speaker 1: That's one thing not about love. But my idea is 990 00:49:30,800 --> 00:49:32,960 Speaker 1: about five years about I don't know, getting girls. Compared 991 00:49:33,000 --> 00:49:34,520 Speaker 1: to now is I used to think you've got to 992 00:49:34,520 --> 00:49:37,279 Speaker 1: be cool and seen as this cool guy. No, you 993 00:49:37,320 --> 00:49:40,080 Speaker 1: got to care. Yes, you gotta be caring. Agreed and 994 00:49:40,120 --> 00:49:43,759 Speaker 1: put an effort. Agreed, that's what's important. Yeah. What gives 995 00:49:43,800 --> 00:49:48,440 Speaker 1: off Big Dick angie? No social media? Oh I thought 996 00:49:48,520 --> 00:49:50,839 Speaker 1: some people lies? I was just gonna say, is that 997 00:49:51,120 --> 00:49:54,000 Speaker 1: I thought they give off kind of like red flaggish lies. 998 00:49:54,400 --> 00:49:57,080 Speaker 1: I think, like, imagine if you found, like, I don't know, 999 00:49:57,200 --> 00:50:00,200 Speaker 1: some carpenter or like someone and he's like this hard working, 1000 00:50:00,360 --> 00:50:03,200 Speaker 1: we're hardworking, has a nice car, It's like, oh, what's 1001 00:50:03,239 --> 00:50:05,160 Speaker 1: your socials? Like I don't have it. He's a bit 1002 00:50:05,200 --> 00:50:11,080 Speaker 1: of a green flower kind of Yeah. Also serial kill vibes. True, True, 1003 00:50:11,360 --> 00:50:14,200 Speaker 1: it's giving. I'm trying to think you. I feel like 1004 00:50:14,320 --> 00:50:16,200 Speaker 1: maybe that would be good. No social media could be 1005 00:50:16,239 --> 00:50:18,320 Speaker 1: the go. It would be good. It would be simple, 1006 00:50:18,360 --> 00:50:23,360 Speaker 1: Like he he wouldn't know anything. Let's be completely honest. 1007 00:50:23,400 --> 00:50:27,240 Speaker 1: He wouldn't know anything. The conversations would be very different. Yeah, 1008 00:50:27,280 --> 00:50:34,600 Speaker 1: he wouldn't know anything. What gives off big dick energy 1009 00:50:35,360 --> 00:50:38,160 Speaker 1: when they put their hand on the back of the 1010 00:50:38,239 --> 00:50:45,120 Speaker 1: passenger seat when they're reversing the car old classic, Yeah, 1011 00:50:45,239 --> 00:50:51,040 Speaker 1: does it matter what car you're in? What gives off 1012 00:50:51,120 --> 00:50:54,399 Speaker 1: big dick energy? Someone that is loud and proud about 1013 00:50:54,440 --> 00:50:58,719 Speaker 1: their partner facts facts. I like that. I feel like 1014 00:50:58,760 --> 00:51:01,160 Speaker 1: one thing that social media has brought up is like 1015 00:51:01,239 --> 00:51:06,120 Speaker 1: some people are maybe afraid to betray their relationship online 1016 00:51:06,680 --> 00:51:09,399 Speaker 1: because some people judge them, yeah, or some people think 1017 00:51:09,400 --> 00:51:11,719 Speaker 1: of them differently. But I think people it's such an 1018 00:51:11,760 --> 00:51:14,719 Speaker 1: attractive trait when guys are like guys, especially when they're like, yeah, 1019 00:51:14,719 --> 00:51:17,879 Speaker 1: it's my girlfriend. Yeah yeah, no facts, idt a line 1020 00:51:17,920 --> 00:51:20,520 Speaker 1: at naming bio. I'm glad that's gone out of fashion. Yeah, 1021 00:51:20,520 --> 00:51:21,880 Speaker 1: I'm not doing that name and by like that's some 1022 00:51:21,920 --> 00:51:24,080 Speaker 1: ownership top shit. Yeah I did it when I was younger. 1023 00:51:24,120 --> 00:51:26,640 Speaker 1: Really did you? I think I definitely? Oh No, I 1024 00:51:26,640 --> 00:51:28,799 Speaker 1: don't think I did. Name. I did like it was 1025 00:51:28,840 --> 00:51:32,080 Speaker 1: like I did a little riddle. That's okay. I feel 1026 00:51:32,080 --> 00:51:33,800 Speaker 1: like a name is so weird, such a weird concept 1027 00:51:33,800 --> 00:51:35,160 Speaker 1: to me, I have done. I feel like with my 1028 00:51:35,239 --> 00:51:37,040 Speaker 1: very first girlfriend, I might have did naming by it 1029 00:51:37,239 --> 00:51:41,479 Speaker 1: yeah right, but it's still it's it is still a thing. Yeah, 1030 00:51:41,520 --> 00:51:44,279 Speaker 1: some people still do it. It's their own, not for me, 1031 00:51:44,400 --> 00:51:49,640 Speaker 1: not for me. Okay, this one is this one could 1032 00:51:49,680 --> 00:51:56,360 Speaker 1: be sexy. What gives off big dick energy being dominant 1033 00:51:56,760 --> 00:52:02,920 Speaker 1: and in control but not in a controling way. Nah here, 1034 00:52:03,400 --> 00:52:07,239 Speaker 1: yeah I hear that. Yeah, yeah, yeah, you're like I 1035 00:52:07,280 --> 00:52:11,799 Speaker 1: see that working. You're in control, but like you're not 1036 00:52:12,120 --> 00:52:15,799 Speaker 1: ordering shit around, You're not being like, yeah, control, so. 1037 00:52:15,760 --> 00:52:20,480 Speaker 3: You're not a controlling person, but you're dominant and in control. 1038 00:52:20,560 --> 00:52:22,640 Speaker 3: I dare say it's specifically bedrooms. 1039 00:52:22,680 --> 00:52:25,840 Speaker 1: It's basically ah yeah, like in the bedroom, it just 1040 00:52:25,880 --> 00:52:30,400 Speaker 1: sort of flows with you instead of her. Yeah, I 1041 00:52:30,440 --> 00:52:32,560 Speaker 1: think I see it. I see it. That's hard to describe. 1042 00:52:32,560 --> 00:52:35,800 Speaker 1: It is hard. What gives off big dick energy ordering 1043 00:52:35,840 --> 00:52:39,960 Speaker 1: a fruity little drink? I like it. 1044 00:52:40,320 --> 00:52:45,080 Speaker 3: I like that trend where it's ah, it's the waiter 1045 00:52:45,880 --> 00:52:49,440 Speaker 3: that is going and for the lady a salad, and 1046 00:52:49,480 --> 00:52:52,439 Speaker 3: then and then it's the it's a girl's voice going. 1047 00:52:52,840 --> 00:52:55,080 Speaker 3: I don't think so I'll have the steak blah blah 1048 00:52:55,120 --> 00:52:57,919 Speaker 3: blah blah blah. And the trend going around right now 1049 00:52:58,000 --> 00:53:01,000 Speaker 3: is a girl with a fruity drink going and for 1050 00:53:01,040 --> 00:53:02,840 Speaker 3: the lady a salad but on the screen says and 1051 00:53:02,920 --> 00:53:04,880 Speaker 3: for the boy a beer, and it goes to the 1052 00:53:04,880 --> 00:53:08,560 Speaker 3: boy with a freddy drink and he goes, no, no, no, it's. 1053 00:53:08,440 --> 00:53:13,760 Speaker 1: Actually pretty funny. I love a freddy drink. Oh okay, same. 1054 00:53:14,840 --> 00:53:19,920 Speaker 1: What gives off big Dick energy? Skinny white boys? Yeah, 1055 00:53:20,640 --> 00:53:24,320 Speaker 1: I have one? Where was it lean introverted men? Fair 1056 00:53:27,520 --> 00:53:30,480 Speaker 1: they think? I mean? I saw there was two Jake 1057 00:53:30,560 --> 00:53:32,920 Speaker 1: Craigs and one Oldie Clark let's go, and they're all 1058 00:53:32,920 --> 00:53:41,040 Speaker 1: sent in by men. Hey, I was like our nine 1059 00:53:41,040 --> 00:53:43,600 Speaker 1: percent male audience on Instagram coming in clutch. I'll take 1060 00:53:43,640 --> 00:53:46,080 Speaker 1: what I can get. I'll take what I can get. 1061 00:53:46,160 --> 00:53:48,600 Speaker 1: I saw in the comments of a video someone commented, 1062 00:53:48,640 --> 00:53:50,840 Speaker 1: I wonder what these boys stats are for like gender, 1063 00:53:51,560 --> 00:53:53,800 Speaker 1: and heaps of people thought it was like sixty forty 1064 00:53:54,040 --> 00:53:55,400 Speaker 1: like everything like that. I was like, I'm just going 1065 00:53:55,480 --> 00:53:57,719 Speaker 1: to comment and like tell them what it is. Fucking night. 1066 00:53:59,560 --> 00:54:02,440 Speaker 1: I think it's even like ninety three seven. Yeah, we 1067 00:54:02,480 --> 00:54:08,840 Speaker 1: love it. What gives off big Dick energy? Painted nails? Okay? Really, 1068 00:54:09,200 --> 00:54:11,240 Speaker 1: I've been meaning to get mine done in Australia. Apparently 1069 00:54:11,280 --> 00:54:16,120 Speaker 1: not to the lady that painted your nails. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. 1070 00:54:16,440 --> 00:54:19,120 Speaker 1: I don't care about them. You care about my girlfriend. 1071 00:54:19,880 --> 00:54:23,160 Speaker 1: No fair yeah, fair, you should find like a good one, 1072 00:54:23,239 --> 00:54:25,280 Speaker 1: That's what I mean. I just am struggling to justify 1073 00:54:25,360 --> 00:54:28,120 Speaker 1: spending like one hundred and twenty bucks in Australia. I think, yeah, 1074 00:54:28,160 --> 00:54:30,120 Speaker 1: but that's just you're not going to find one cheaper, 1075 00:54:30,160 --> 00:54:32,600 Speaker 1: and then like two weeks later my nails have grown. Yeah, 1076 00:54:32,640 --> 00:54:34,239 Speaker 1: it just is what it is. Yeah, that's why it's 1077 00:54:34,680 --> 00:54:36,759 Speaker 1: because like it's thirty dollars true. Yeah, and just like 1078 00:54:36,800 --> 00:54:39,560 Speaker 1: they their cost of livings because here you got to 1079 00:54:39,600 --> 00:54:43,399 Speaker 1: think about like the cost of living and then you've 1080 00:54:43,400 --> 00:54:44,960 Speaker 1: got to pay rent for the place you're in. You 1081 00:54:44,960 --> 00:54:47,160 Speaker 1: gotta pay rent for the place you live for you. 1082 00:54:47,239 --> 00:54:49,200 Speaker 3: Gotta like buy all the fucking products, and everything's so 1083 00:54:49,239 --> 00:54:49,759 Speaker 3: expensive here. 1084 00:54:49,800 --> 00:54:52,759 Speaker 1: So it's probably like pretty fairly. Yeah, I don't think 1085 00:54:52,760 --> 00:54:54,680 Speaker 1: there's anything wrong with that. I also feel high walking 1086 00:54:54,719 --> 00:54:57,880 Speaker 1: into an Australian now alsoon for some reason, like the smells, 1087 00:54:57,920 --> 00:55:01,000 Speaker 1: the smell, the smells are so intense. No Bay just 1088 00:55:01,040 --> 00:55:02,839 Speaker 1: smells normal. You know what? Though? 1089 00:55:02,880 --> 00:55:04,759 Speaker 3: In Bali I noticed because we did it a couple 1090 00:55:04,760 --> 00:55:08,000 Speaker 3: of times. You go in and there was like three 1091 00:55:08,120 --> 00:55:10,439 Speaker 3: places where you could get your nails done in this nice, 1092 00:55:10,480 --> 00:55:12,839 Speaker 3: big area. It's all pretty like there was only about 1093 00:55:12,840 --> 00:55:14,279 Speaker 3: three places where you can get your nails on, and 1094 00:55:14,280 --> 00:55:16,680 Speaker 3: then over there there was like maybe something else here. 1095 00:55:18,239 --> 00:55:21,160 Speaker 3: They jam pack, so like twenty people can be getting 1096 00:55:21,160 --> 00:55:24,640 Speaker 3: their nails because they need to make the body true ridiculous, 1097 00:55:24,640 --> 00:55:25,680 Speaker 3: It is ridiculous. 1098 00:55:26,000 --> 00:55:32,320 Speaker 1: Ah okay. What gives off big dick energy? Making jokes 1099 00:55:32,400 --> 00:55:37,080 Speaker 1: about it being small? That's you to a team. You 1100 00:55:37,120 --> 00:55:42,719 Speaker 1: know what you're doing. Everybody, it definitely didn't do that. 1101 00:55:45,560 --> 00:55:48,799 Speaker 1: What gives off big dick Angie quote? Tell me if 1102 00:55:48,800 --> 00:55:54,759 Speaker 1: you feel uncomfortable, damn healthy little tip that is a 1103 00:55:54,800 --> 00:55:59,479 Speaker 1: good one. One. That's being controlling in an uncontrolling way. Yeah, 1104 00:55:59,560 --> 00:56:01,880 Speaker 1: that is being dominant and controlling in an uncontrolling way 1105 00:56:01,880 --> 00:56:04,000 Speaker 1: because he's about to do something, but he's saying, let 1106 00:56:04,000 --> 00:56:08,680 Speaker 1: me know if you feel uncomfortable. Damn. Okay, imagine if 1107 00:56:08,680 --> 00:56:12,200 Speaker 1: he's like driving his car really fast, just let me 1108 00:56:12,239 --> 00:56:20,600 Speaker 1: know if you feel uncomfortable. What gives off big Dick energy? 1109 00:56:21,760 --> 00:56:26,600 Speaker 1: Henry Cavill, who's that? You don't know? Who Canry Cavilly? 1110 00:56:26,680 --> 00:56:29,080 Speaker 1: I've heard the name. I'm not even gonna tell you why. 1111 00:56:29,239 --> 00:56:31,680 Speaker 1: I don't know. I just feel like I'm not. I'll 1112 00:56:31,800 --> 00:56:35,880 Speaker 1: just say this, what you watched him in a few things? 1113 00:56:37,400 --> 00:56:41,319 Speaker 1: What's his Did you ever watch The Witcher? Is that 1114 00:56:41,360 --> 00:56:46,359 Speaker 1: Henry Cavill? Yeah he's very hot. He's really hot in 1115 00:56:46,440 --> 00:56:49,920 Speaker 1: that Yeah. Yeah, yeah, he's depicted very well. And yeah, 1116 00:56:50,000 --> 00:56:51,480 Speaker 1: if I ever became an actor, I would want to 1117 00:56:51,480 --> 00:56:53,440 Speaker 1: get like a film where I just seen they make 1118 00:56:53,520 --> 00:56:56,920 Speaker 1: me sexy? He just something about it. Yeah, there is 1119 00:56:56,920 --> 00:56:59,120 Speaker 1: something about it. You know what it is? In that 1120 00:56:59,360 --> 00:57:04,520 Speaker 1: show he grunts a lot instead of speaking. He instead 1121 00:57:04,560 --> 00:57:07,440 Speaker 1: of showing someone that he's acknowledged them, he'll just go 1122 00:57:08,640 --> 00:57:13,239 Speaker 1: mmm M. And American girls just drop panties at that 1123 00:57:13,280 --> 00:57:22,960 Speaker 1: little grunt when you do it? What gives off big 1124 00:57:23,000 --> 00:57:37,600 Speaker 1: dick andy? Matching rhythm and pace? Yeah? Matching rhythm pace? Okay, 1125 00:57:37,960 --> 00:57:40,600 Speaker 1: yeah fair? Maybe maybe my remember how I said that 1126 00:57:40,640 --> 00:57:43,959 Speaker 1: breathing thing, how you match their breathing when Yeah, maybe 1127 00:57:43,960 --> 00:57:45,640 Speaker 1: that adds into that. Yeah, true. 1128 00:57:45,680 --> 00:57:47,720 Speaker 3: So if you can link up with their breathing rhythm, 1129 00:57:48,720 --> 00:57:52,000 Speaker 3: so okay, you link up with their breathing right and then. 1130 00:57:52,280 --> 00:57:54,600 Speaker 1: And then she starts moaning, so you start linking up 1131 00:57:54,600 --> 00:58:00,560 Speaker 1: with the moaning. In the graphic audio of the first couple, 1132 00:58:00,640 --> 00:58:05,720 Speaker 1: chapters of according Miss and Fury graphic audio bro. When 1133 00:58:05,760 --> 00:58:09,800 Speaker 1: I listened to the normal audio of Acatore, and it's 1134 00:58:09,880 --> 00:58:11,600 Speaker 1: kind of sexy when you're like just walking on a 1135 00:58:11,600 --> 00:58:13,600 Speaker 1: normal street and then there's like a sexy scene. 1136 00:58:13,960 --> 00:58:17,960 Speaker 3: Actually, I was at the gym, just like warming up 1137 00:58:18,000 --> 00:58:20,520 Speaker 3: on the stairs, and I was listening to this and. 1138 00:58:20,520 --> 00:58:22,760 Speaker 1: I was like, no one knows what I'm listening to. 1139 00:58:23,280 --> 00:58:27,440 Speaker 1: This is what it feels like. Yeah on the stairs, 1140 00:58:27,520 --> 00:58:32,040 Speaker 1: too good on you rand. What gives off big dick energy? 1141 00:58:33,160 --> 00:58:36,840 Speaker 1: Calling a date a date and making solid plants facts? 1142 00:58:38,520 --> 00:58:40,919 Speaker 1: I feel like that's another thing we've learned. A date 1143 00:58:41,120 --> 00:58:43,240 Speaker 1: is a date. A date is a date. Just admit 1144 00:58:43,280 --> 00:58:46,160 Speaker 1: that shit. Yeah, even if it doesn't work out, own it. 1145 00:58:47,080 --> 00:58:49,240 Speaker 1: I fuck. I mean yeah, just like people. I don't know, 1146 00:58:49,400 --> 00:58:51,080 Speaker 1: not everything's going to work out, but at least admit 1147 00:58:51,160 --> 00:58:54,040 Speaker 1: that you tried. Yeah exactly. This is my last one. 1148 00:58:54,120 --> 00:58:56,680 Speaker 1: It's sort of going off the one in the bedroom. 1149 00:58:56,880 --> 00:59:04,040 Speaker 1: What gives off big dick angie confidence? Not cocky confident? Okay? Yeah, true, 1150 00:59:04,040 --> 00:59:07,040 Speaker 1: sometimes confidence can come across bad. Yeah. I think a 1151 00:59:07,080 --> 00:59:11,520 Speaker 1: lot of men steer the line towards cocky and miss 1152 00:59:11,600 --> 00:59:13,760 Speaker 1: the confidence. What is it it's kind of like I 1153 00:59:13,760 --> 00:59:18,480 Speaker 1: guess the difference between cocky and confidence is because I 1154 00:59:18,520 --> 00:59:21,000 Speaker 1: think the word cocky comes from obviously a rooster, because 1155 00:59:21,000 --> 00:59:25,400 Speaker 1: they're called cock and they roosters literally they do they 1156 00:59:25,480 --> 00:59:28,480 Speaker 1: like struck and like show off that they're the top dog. 1157 00:59:28,920 --> 00:59:31,479 Speaker 1: So cockiness is obviously someone that's just like doing too much. 1158 00:59:31,560 --> 00:59:34,320 Speaker 1: I thought rooster's got the name like cock from they 1159 00:59:34,360 --> 00:59:40,280 Speaker 1: do cocka doo. Well, I didn't say why that's a 1160 00:59:40,320 --> 00:59:43,200 Speaker 1: good reason. That's still why they caught a cock. Can't 1161 00:59:44,480 --> 00:59:52,480 Speaker 1: or yeah, get good, good observation, you got your animal 1162 00:59:52,600 --> 01:00:00,760 Speaker 1: sounds down. I didn't get my auro back. When the 1163 01:00:00,760 --> 01:00:03,200 Speaker 1: grunting is forced to say, it's just not doing. 1164 01:00:03,040 --> 01:00:04,160 Speaker 2: It for me, do it. 1165 01:00:04,920 --> 01:00:08,880 Speaker 1: We'll see, Okay, is my last one? What gives off 1166 01:00:08,920 --> 01:00:13,640 Speaker 1: big dick energy? I don't when they walk with their 1167 01:00:13,680 --> 01:00:17,200 Speaker 1: hands in their pockets, and even they said in brackets, 1168 01:00:17,240 --> 01:00:20,520 Speaker 1: I have no idea why. Okay, when a man walks 1169 01:00:20,520 --> 01:00:22,640 Speaker 1: with his hands in his pocket, so when my hands 1170 01:00:22,640 --> 01:00:24,240 Speaker 1: are cold and I've got him in my pockets, people 1171 01:00:24,280 --> 01:00:30,480 Speaker 1: are like, he's got a big hands in pockets. Okay, 1172 01:00:30,680 --> 01:00:32,960 Speaker 1: I like it. I always kind of try and go 1173 01:00:33,600 --> 01:00:35,680 Speaker 1: away from hands in pockets I feel like you look 1174 01:00:35,680 --> 01:00:38,080 Speaker 1: a bit boxy when you do that. Maybe you look big, 1175 01:00:38,120 --> 01:00:40,160 Speaker 1: broad and big, and that's why. Maybe, yeah, it's like 1176 01:00:40,200 --> 01:00:44,040 Speaker 1: flexing about flexing. Kind of interesting. Hands. I feel like 1177 01:00:44,040 --> 01:00:46,480 Speaker 1: that one's a little bit debunked. I gotta disagree. You 1178 01:00:46,480 --> 01:00:49,600 Speaker 1: don't think hands of pockets. They said they don't know 1179 01:00:49,600 --> 01:00:51,960 Speaker 1: why they would just affects them. Maybe yeah, they could 1180 01:00:51,960 --> 01:00:53,760 Speaker 1: have been yeah, maybe let us know in the comments 1181 01:01:00,640 --> 01:01:09,280 Speaker 1: a good episode. I enjoyed that. M M, you have 1182 01:01:09,400 --> 01:01:11,720 Speaker 1: more conversation. You know what we just said. If you 1183 01:01:11,760 --> 01:01:14,160 Speaker 1: want to sign up to call off the episode, sign 1184 01:01:14,160 --> 01:01:16,040 Speaker 1: off the episode. Sorry. Link is in the top of 1185 01:01:16,080 --> 01:01:18,280 Speaker 1: the description or linking by on Instagram. 1186 01:01:18,320 --> 01:01:20,479 Speaker 3: And that's the thing about a grunt, Okay, it says 1187 01:01:20,560 --> 01:01:21,880 Speaker 3: so many more words. 1188 01:01:21,560 --> 01:01:24,320 Speaker 1: Than just one. What did I just say? Now we 1189 01:01:24,360 --> 01:01:25,720 Speaker 1: are calling Jamie. Let's do it. 1190 01:01:26,240 --> 01:01:28,800 Speaker 2: HI, This is Jeremie. Please leave your name and number 1191 01:01:28,800 --> 01:01:31,360 Speaker 2: and I'll get back to you as soon as possible. Thanks, say. 1192 01:01:32,800 --> 01:01:36,640 Speaker 1: Jamie jaking out from relatables. Pick up next week. Please 1193 01:01:38,920 --> 01:01:43,880 Speaker 1: we'll call you in about a week. So what we're doing, 1194 01:01:45,480 --> 01:01:47,720 Speaker 1: I mean we could. If you want, we'll try again it. 1195 01:01:47,760 --> 01:01:51,840 Speaker 1: If not, we'll use that Hi. 1196 01:01:52,040 --> 01:01:54,240 Speaker 2: This is Jeremie. Please leave your name and number and 1197 01:01:54,280 --> 01:01:56,760 Speaker 2: i'll get thank you. Thanks, say. 1198 01:02:00,280 --> 01:02:03,680 Speaker 1: Jamie. It's Jake and Audie. Please pick up next week. 1199 01:02:03,760 --> 01:02:06,080 Speaker 1: We're begging you. We tried you twice in one day. 1200 01:02:06,520 --> 01:02:08,080 Speaker 1: This is going in the episode. We'll have you know 1201 01:02:08,840 --> 01:02:14,600 Speaker 1: come next week. Please please, Sorry, you don't. 1202 01:02:14,400 --> 01:02:16,240 Speaker 3: Get any The only advice you've got today is that 1203 01:02:16,400 --> 01:02:17,480 Speaker 3: runting is sexy. 1204 01:02:17,520 --> 01:02:19,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, it is too. We love you. And don't eat 1205 01:02:19,720 --> 01:02:23,040 Speaker 1: passion fruit in fucking balley. I think that's a given. 1206 01:02:26,320 --> 01:02:28,680 Speaker 1: Just don't need to kill a passion fruit. Ever, I 1207 01:02:28,680 --> 01:02:33,120 Speaker 1: don't how to finish it. You said, stay bad