Speaker 1: Welcome back to the Where's Your Head At? Hotline, our
Speaker 1: weekly show where we catch up with each other and
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Speaker 2: one of our episodes. I'm Anna and I'm Matt.
Speaker 1: Let's jump in. Okay, guys, Hi, Matt and I are
Speaker 1: currently having We haven't spicured in a while, so yeah,
Speaker 1: have we realistically realistically?
Speaker 2: No? And I came in a little bit late and
Speaker 2: I undermanded apology, sorry for the traffic.
Speaker 1: I'm going to put it to our Where's your Head at? FAM?
Speaker 1: Would you in here at nine o'clock? Right? Matt Rolton?
Speaker 1: Matt Rolton at nine point fifty? And all I said
Speaker 1: was you couldn't apologize for being late?
Speaker 2: And I said, well, I can't apologize for traffic. Do
Speaker 2: you want me to fly No?
Speaker 1: I don't want you to fly here. I want you to, like,
Speaker 1: you know, respect my time as iris sect yours.
Speaker 2: No, that makes sense. Sorry, I left my house. I
Speaker 2: was in trod for an hour and a half. Bump
Speaker 2: at a bumper. It gets me so agitated and so
Speaker 2: fucking antsy, and then look at you when I get
Speaker 2: here rest the disaster.
Speaker 1: The thing is, you just don't need to be defensive.
Speaker 1: You can just say oh sorry and then move on.
Speaker 2: Sorry. On the phone when I called you, I.
Speaker 1: Said sorry, it's the defensiveness for me. It's just not
Speaker 1: going down.
Speaker 2: That Well, okay, well let's go on to a happier note. Guys.
Speaker 1: I like your jumper by the way, Oh thank you.
Speaker 1: He's got the Dashound jumper on.
Speaker 2: Yes, So I wore this yesterday and I thought I'll
Speaker 2: wear it in today. We went to the Dashound world
Speaker 2: record for the most dashounds in one place, No, the
Speaker 2: most breed of dog in one place, right. So the
Speaker 2: record was held by UK for Beagles and it was
Speaker 2: one twenty nine. And I spoke to the organizer afterwards
Speaker 2: and they said they had one thy five hundred wristbands,
Speaker 2: which is a registration they give it to you, so
Speaker 2: it was one person one dog equals one like eligible
Speaker 2: for the record, and they gave out fifteen hundred.
Speaker 1: So you guys made the record, yeah.
Speaker 2: And plus everyone else. It was like a big as
Speaker 2: line as well. After they did the fifteen hundred, so
Speaker 2: I reckon it was like two thousand dashounds there.
Speaker 1: Wow, I was okay.
Speaker 2: I was so overstimulated. I was looking at him everywhere
Speaker 2: and they always barked. I'm just like, oh, it was
Speaker 2: the best I ended up. Obviously, I don't have my
Speaker 2: own dashounds, so I was meant to walk someone so like,
Speaker 2: if you had two dashounds, they would give it to me.
Speaker 2: So that's one for the record. But Jess, it was
Speaker 2: too frantic. Everyone was everywhere, so I didn't get one,
Speaker 2: so I just walked to my friends one.
Speaker 1: I did see it on morning TV, and I was
Speaker 1: half expecting to see you like fronting up, being like
Speaker 1: the you know, ambassador of dash house.
Speaker 2: I got asked to, but actual at the last second,
Speaker 2: why well half of it, but just one of the organizers.
Speaker 2: I was like, damn it. I was ready to go on.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, God, you would have absolutely talked the
Speaker 1: dashounds up.
Speaker 2: I was going to be like, I'm holding my wiener
Speaker 2: on national television.
Speaker 1: No, you won't actually say that, of course you were.
Speaker 2: No, that was a great day, so I was really
Speaker 2: happy with that. I met so many new dashounds. I
Speaker 2: was fucking over the moon.
Speaker 1: About it, so you can go on dashound Doggie dates. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Literally, I'm well Beck he was on our podcast. She
Speaker 2: was there. She has a dashound. Oh so I finally
Speaker 2: met hers. That was really nice.
Speaker 1: Wow, that's so funny. Do you know what's interesting about
Speaker 1: dashounds is I had a message on my Instagram page
Speaker 1: because obviously you talk about dashounds a lot on the podcast, right,
Speaker 1: like you're obsessed. We all know it. If someone wants
Speaker 1: to be like, who listens to the podcast is like,
Speaker 1: what's Matt's like number one thing in life that he loves.
Speaker 1: We're all gonna say dashounds. It so for me. But
Speaker 1: someone sent me this message being like it's cruel that
Speaker 1: people breed dashhounds. It's not fair on them because they
Speaker 1: have little legs and a big body and it's all
Speaker 1: for like humans pleasure, but it's like mean to the
Speaker 1: dog and blah blah blah. And I was like, is it,
Speaker 1: like I've never even thought of?
Speaker 2: Well, dashounds were bread years ago for their body and
Speaker 2: their small legs to hunt badges in holes, So they
Speaker 2: would that's why they diggers. So they would dig into
Speaker 2: the holes of badges and like scare them out, and
Speaker 2: then they would hunt them and kill them. So that's
Speaker 2: why they were bred. So I don't think it's bread
Speaker 2: for humans to like look at them and think they're cute.
Speaker 2: I mean as cute as they fucking are, Like there's
Speaker 2: nothing cuter. And seeing the side of a dashy.
Speaker 1: Walk, don't you on the back of them?
Speaker 2: Because yeah, but then then like they're facing they.
Speaker 1: Don't have heaps of health issues.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So I don't know it off by heart, it's
Speaker 2: I FV. I don't know what off by heart. It's
Speaker 2: this back problem. So because they jump off things, their
Speaker 2: back jars in the back of their like the end
Speaker 2: of their back jars, and they get really bad problems
Speaker 2: and then they lose mobility in their back legs. It's
Speaker 2: really sad.
Speaker 1: That's such a shame.
Speaker 2: It's really sad. So I met one a couple of
Speaker 2: weeks ago who lost their back legs but could still
Speaker 2: walk because it had memory from its legs, So it
Speaker 2: had no feeling in its back legs, but it was
Speaker 2: still walking because it's memory was it was working off memory.
Speaker 2: But it was there on the weekend and it had
Speaker 2: a wheels.
Speaker 1: That's a shame. They have health issues.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's it's so cute, like I can't. I don't know.
Speaker 2: That's what it's sort of scaring me as well about
Speaker 2: getting my own imagine. I think it's like issues. I
Speaker 2: wouldn't be able to take it.
Speaker 1: You were saying to me the other day that you're
Speaker 1: thinking of like potentially rescuing a dashhound. Is that right?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I would want to rescue one, but like it's
Speaker 2: just like the same thing every time I think about
Speaker 2: it and I go on the page and I'm looking
Speaker 2: at one, I'm like, I can't give it the life
Speaker 2: of like me being there for it all the time,
Speaker 2: and a lot of them saying needs the human to
Speaker 2: be there with them. They're used to a human. I'm like,
Speaker 2: I can't do that.
Speaker 1: I mean, it could come into the podcastdio, of course
Speaker 1: it's bad.
Speaker 2: I'd love that, but that's I mean, like I take
Speaker 2: it in and like with me do that stuff, but
Speaker 2: like it wants to be home with its human all
Speaker 2: the time. Yeah, and I can't give that to it.
Speaker 2: So I sort of get like a bit like, oh,
Speaker 2: I can't that's not compatible with that one to rescue
Speaker 2: that one.
Speaker 1: Well, look, I've got an apology for everyone who was
Speaker 1: listening to last week's hotline because I had a sore
Speaker 1: throat and I was like, had a soother in my mouth.
Speaker 1: And I listened to the episode back like a couple
Speaker 1: of days ago, and I can just hear the soother
Speaker 1: in my mouth, and it's so irritating to me. So
Speaker 1: I can only imagine how irritating that.
Speaker 2: I didn't even notice that.
Speaker 1: I don't know if you guys heard it, but if
Speaker 1: you did, like let me know on our Facebook page.
Speaker 1: But fuck, it was so annoying. I could just hear
Speaker 1: like this sutha like on my teething I missed.
Speaker 2: Sorry, Oh no, I think I did it. Was it
Speaker 2: a I thought it was.
Speaker 1: I think we were both eating things, which is just
Speaker 1: not a good idea when you're on Mike. So lesson learned.
Speaker 1: I will I won't do that again. Sorry, guys, Well you've.
Speaker 2: Got some exciting news You've.
Speaker 1: You won't to tell everyone I bought a house.
Speaker 2: Congrats.
Speaker 1: It's pretty crazy to say, like, I bought a house.
Speaker 1: I never thought those words would ever, ever, ever, ever
Speaker 1: come out of my mouth. But I'm so grateful that
Speaker 1: I've been able to. Yeah, I'm just so excited.
Speaker 2: What's like, what's the next step? You've bought it obviously,
Speaker 2: Like it wasn't at auction.
Speaker 1: No, it wasn't auction. It was a private sale. We
Speaker 1: actually move in in two weeks, so we put the
Speaker 1: offer in initially, and I didn't obviously want to jinx
Speaker 1: it because there was like a lot of back and
Speaker 1: forth and finance and we had pre approval, but then
Speaker 1: we needed to get all the other approval and it's
Speaker 1: just such a headache getting a house. But yeah, I
Speaker 1: know that there's a lot of people who are currently
Speaker 1: house hunting who listen to this, because so many people
Speaker 1: have messaged me who listened to the podcast, and I
Speaker 1: think it's just like I just want to make note
Speaker 1: of the fact that house hunting is so hard. It's
Speaker 1: so difficult, it's so challenging, and like I think it's
Speaker 1: underestimated how mentally strenuous it really is, especially because at
Speaker 1: the moment, like personally, like houses that I loved that
Speaker 1: they said they were in my price budget, they ended
Speaker 1: up going for like two hundred k over and it's
Speaker 1: just so like devastating because you think you're in the
Speaker 1: running but you never work. Yeah, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: You're like, damn, I really couldn't have afforded that place.
Speaker 1: But yeah, we're very very happy, very lucky, and we're moving.
Speaker 1: So if you want to help in two weeks time, it's.
Speaker 2: A that's a serious art. That's up there with the
Speaker 2: airport drop offs.
Speaker 1: House moving ends until this morning when that drop rolled
Speaker 1: in fifty minutes.
Speaker 2: Late with a coffee. You love how I run up
Speaker 2: the stairs if I've been rushing the whole time as well?
Speaker 1: In all serious is I woke up on Saturday morning,
Speaker 1: and maybe this is because I'm thirty one. I stretched
Speaker 1: in the middle of the night and my whole neck
Speaker 1: seized up.
Speaker 2: Well like as you're asleep.
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, in the middle of the night, so like
Speaker 1: literally was woken up by me stretching and my whole
Speaker 1: neck just jarred up.
Speaker 2: That'd be the worst thing ever imagine being like a
Speaker 2: sleep half asleep and then like that's why when you
Speaker 2: wake up with cramps in your leg.
Speaker 1: Yeah, like at thirty one, you can't even stretch safely
Speaker 1: in your sleep without the potential of Like, fully.
Speaker 2: I've just done any exercise the day before or anything
Speaker 2: like that.
Speaker 1: No, like nothing, which could be the problem. Maybe if
Speaker 1: I was working out my neck and strengthening the muscle.
Speaker 2: Do you just get new pillows as well?
Speaker 1: No, that was a while back, and those pillows are good.
Speaker 1: I don't think it's the pillows. I think it's like
Speaker 1: just the fact that I've been so stressed out. Obviously,
Speaker 1: I've been behind a screen like doing all this like
Speaker 1: house stuff, and we've got so much other stuff going
Speaker 1: on as you know, behind the scenes. And yeah, I
Speaker 1: just completely cooked my neck and I've been like walking
Speaker 1: like bloody a robot like weekend. It actually is a
Speaker 1: lot better, as you can say. I'm kind of moving around.
Speaker 1: Michael was literally saying.
Speaker 2: I did swing your neck to the door when I
Speaker 2: walked up the stairs and anger, Yeah, and that was
Speaker 2: a big swing. So I think it's all right.
Speaker 1: But anyway, we have a house. I'm so excited. The
Speaker 1: offer is there if you'd like to help.
Speaker 2: When is it? What date? What's the date?
Speaker 1: Ninth is when we settle, so like, so you'll be
Speaker 1: moving in probably the day after the thirtieth. Yeah, how's
Speaker 1: your schedule looking packed out?
Speaker 2: Actually? Yeah, my birthday.
Speaker 1: Weekend, I know it is your birthday.
Speaker 2: Wead I've got a bid on. I can see what
Speaker 2: I can do. I'll come cause I want to see
Speaker 2: the house in your house for me.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I want to show you the house. It's very cute.
Speaker 1: Someone actually on social media was like, oh, that's not
Speaker 1: very family friendly of you to get a two bedroom unit.
Speaker 1: I was like, do you understand the housing market? It's
Speaker 1: so expensive to buy a house in Melbourne? Like the
Speaker 1: audacity of you like miscellaneous Instagram user one five seven
Speaker 1: four three.
Speaker 2: It's pretty funny though, because what did I say to
Speaker 2: I was like, is that what's the second bedroom going
Speaker 2: to be? Is in be your makeup room or like
Speaker 2: a spare bedroom or a baby room or a baby room,
Speaker 2: makeup room?
Speaker 1: One that one makeup room all day every day. Hello,
Speaker 1: we haven't spoken about the biggest thing that's happened to
Speaker 1: where's your head ever?
Speaker 2: What is it? Guys?
Speaker 1: We hit two million listens?
Speaker 2: Yay, thank you everyone and every one of you that listened, Like,
Speaker 2: it's amazing. I can't believe it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's pretty wild. Like Matt and I obviously for
Speaker 1: five hundred k listens on the podcast, we had a cake,
Speaker 1: right and we kind of wrote the five hundred by
Speaker 1: ourselves that was so long ago, different studio, like crazy,
Speaker 1: that was a huge milestone for us. We could not
Speaker 1: believe that we hit five hundred thousand listens.
Speaker 2: I was shook then.
Speaker 1: And then we were Then we hit one million listens,
Speaker 1: and we couldn't believe that because that was like the
Speaker 1: biggest number ever. Like we never even starting the podcast,
Speaker 1: we've never thought about how many people would actually listen.
Speaker 2: A million is a lot when you think about a
Speaker 2: million is huge.
Speaker 1: And we did the balloons, remember, so we got the
Speaker 1: we popped them. We thought they were going to pop
Speaker 1: immediately they did it in but the videos went ya
Speaker 1: and then never in our wildest dreams do we think
Speaker 1: we'd hit two million. But Matt did say to me,
Speaker 1: he goes, if we hit two million listens, I'll get naked.
Speaker 1: And what did we do?
Speaker 2: Got naked? We both don't put it on a billboard
Speaker 2: for everyone to see.
Speaker 1: Pretty epic, right, it was on do we want to
Speaker 1: explain the billboard?
Speaker 2: Yes? Where it was? Yeah, so if you're familiar with Melbourne,
Speaker 2: it was say, you're coming to.
Speaker 1: Out of the still up by the way?
Speaker 2: Is it in this morning? I can see it?
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's still up. They change between Yeah.
Speaker 2: I was hoping to see it. I was looking did
Speaker 2: you see it.
Speaker 1: No, I wasn't looking actually, but I could have seen it.
Speaker 2: So you come out of the Burnley Tunnel towards the
Speaker 2: West Skate and the Bolty Bridge. It's way easier to
Speaker 2: see if you're going towards the Boltsy Bridge and around
Speaker 2: that loop towards the airport. Yeah, it's right there. Smack
Speaker 2: bang huge.
Speaker 1: Yeah. So it's in South Melbourne. It's on a building,
Speaker 1: like a super high building. So on the day that
Speaker 1: we went to see this billboard, we were thinking like, okay,
Speaker 1: like you know, we'll just like climb some stairs from inside.
Speaker 2: Inside climbing hat as well roof.
Speaker 1: What actually happened was the stairs were on the outside
Speaker 1: of the building. I'm mildly scared of heights, right, what
Speaker 1: about you? What would you say?
Speaker 2: I don't do we don't love it.
Speaker 1: I love it, but obviously when our billboard's on the roof,
Speaker 1: we're going to make the exception.
Speaker 2: I mean I always say that I'm like higher than
Speaker 2: everyone else, so imagine how high that high is for me.
Speaker 1: Anyway, we start climbing this, Matt goes.
Speaker 2: First, just premise that there was you couldn't you have
Speaker 2: to climb a ladder to get to the stairs.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, on the outside of the building.
Speaker 2: Yeah. So it wasn't evil.
Speaker 1: Oh sorry, yeah, it wasn't even stairs.
Speaker 2: To the ground. You had to set a ladder up
Speaker 2: to get to the stairs.
Speaker 1: Yeah. And it was terrifying, Like my life flashed before
Speaker 1: my eyes. At least three times. I was like, is
Speaker 1: this not good? Like, yes, I've our podcast has just
Speaker 1: hit two million listens. We could stop at two million
Speaker 1: because we're going to be dead by the end of this.
Speaker 2: Let me jump forward as well. When we were walking
Speaker 2: down when we were about to so I went last
Speaker 2: and I could go before me. You were shitting yourself
Speaker 2: and we were making our way.
Speaker 1: Off when we were coming down.
Speaker 2: To walk backwards down there.
Speaker 1: Oh, I had like an almost panic attack, and then
Speaker 1: I was like talking thinking to myself. I always tell
Speaker 1: people to think positive, don't say negative things, because I
Speaker 1: was like, I can't do this. I'm gonna have to
Speaker 1: get Like I was thinking, am I going to get
Speaker 1: a helicopter off the building to get off of this?
Speaker 1: Like I was freaking.
Speaker 2: Out going down and I was just like just go.
Speaker 1: But anyway, apart from the trauma, we endured to get
Speaker 1: to this billboard. It was epic. The summer setting in
Speaker 1: the background. We had me and that naked on the billboard,
Speaker 1: two million listens in huge writing, and it was honestly
Speaker 1: like a moment that I will never ever ever forget,
Speaker 1: Like epic, epic moment.
Speaker 2: I remember I went up there first before, like you,
Speaker 2: and I obviously went up and like went and went
Speaker 2: and looked at the sign and it flashed up and
Speaker 2: I like took a second and looked at her. I'm like,
Speaker 2: this is fucking cool. Yeah. I took it in. I
Speaker 2: was like, this is really cool. I was like all
Speaker 2: the traffic and the sunsetting and I was like, man,
Speaker 2: all these people are seeing it's cool.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and like it's all you guys, Like we realize
Speaker 1: that this is all you, each and every one of
Speaker 1: you who've shared this podcast. You know, sharing to your
Speaker 1: friends and family is the way that we really hit
Speaker 1: more people and can help more people. So thank you
Speaker 1: to everyone who has shared. You know, we are eternally grateful.
Speaker 1: We don't take it for granted one little bit. So
Speaker 1: thank you, thank you, thank.
Speaker 2: You, thank you, guys. I appreciate it.
Speaker 1: Mathey, Yeah, I was thinking, Okay, So we went from
Speaker 1: five hundred k celebrating that to one million to two million,
Speaker 1: so we're kind of like doubling, right, if we double
Speaker 1: two million, we hit four four doesn't seem that good.
Speaker 1: I feel like you need to celebrate at five million,
Speaker 1: and like we've never really thought ahead of what we're
Speaker 1: going to do, but I feel like now is the
Speaker 1: time to think about what we would do if we
Speaker 1: celebrate five million listens, which would be epic.
Speaker 2: What's bigger than a billboard? A big billboard?
Speaker 1: Well, I have an idea, no hear me out? So
Speaker 1: I was thinking maybe we could get like where's your
Speaker 1: head at tattoos, So we could get w y h
Speaker 1: A tattooed. But we could also invite any listener who
Speaker 1: wants to come and get it tattooed with us, and
Speaker 1: we'll pay for the tattoo so we can all have.
Speaker 2: W I h A, just like in writing WI yeah done.
Speaker 2: I'll do it done. I'll do it any any just anywhere.
Speaker 1: I mean yeah anywhere. Like we'll like find a tattoo studio,
Speaker 1: we'll hire it out for like a couple of hours,
Speaker 1: and anyone who wants to come.
Speaker 2: Done, I'm down. If there are any listeners down, I'll
Speaker 2: get I'll get why is it where's your what about
Speaker 2: the full writing of it? Not too big?
Speaker 1: Too big? I don't want a tattoo like that be
Speaker 1: why I hate J's kid, Like, I could definitely do that.
Speaker 2: Where would you get it?
Speaker 1: I don't know. I'd have to think about it. Like
Speaker 1: I think we've only just hit two million listens, not
Speaker 1: just I shouldn't say that we've just hit two million listens.
Speaker 1: I think there's probably a bit of time we have
Speaker 1: to really think about it.
Speaker 2: Oh no, I want to get it going. I reckon,
Speaker 2: I'll probably get it. I think it's a foot tattoo.
Speaker 2: Maybe the rest of them foot.
Speaker 1: Would be good for you to say, like neck or something.
Speaker 2: On the cheek, the check imagine that.
Speaker 1: I mean, that's the best of promotion. E what's that?
Speaker 2: Maybe a tramp stamp?
Speaker 1: Yeah? So anyway, are we locking this in?
Speaker 2: Yes? Done?
Speaker 1: And I think we're going to play this clip like
Speaker 1: just before we're about to do it with all of
Speaker 1: the whar's your head out? So we're not getting it tattooed.
Speaker 2: So when you're backing out, we'll be like, now listen
Speaker 2: to this committed shake on it?
Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, I shut my sore shoulders could be in
Speaker 1: the grave, geez.
Speaker 2: You might be not moving well. Talking of commitments actually
Speaker 2: brings you to my next scene.
Speaker 1: But just quickly share the podcast so we can hit
Speaker 1: five millions, so we can all get tattoo is okay
Speaker 1: and go?
Speaker 2: So, speaking of commitments, this next thing I want to
Speaker 2: talk about. We may have talked about committing to it,
Speaker 2: but here we are. It's June, with this dried July.
Speaker 2: Drive yourly where's your head at? Anna?
Speaker 1: My head? My head? I think I could do it personally.
Speaker 1: I know it's your birthday coming up and that would
Speaker 1: be kind of like difficult for you.
Speaker 2: I could have done my birthday, could.
Speaker 1: Have He's already not doing it, guys.
Speaker 2: Just hear me, hear me. I would have done my
Speaker 2: birthday if this I didn't get invited. So I've been
Speaker 2: invited to Young Essendens Nights at the Football. I love
Speaker 2: nothing more than watching the football and having a beer. Okay, yes,
Speaker 2: I love that. I'm going with my two sisters. It's
Speaker 2: a great company and a function for Essendon. Who I
Speaker 2: go for?
Speaker 1: I want to have a meat pie instead match just Wizzard,
Speaker 1: it's free, Piers. You should not be how many people
Speaker 1: in our where's your head out? Fam on our Facebook
Speaker 1: page have been like, I'm keen if you guys are
Speaker 1: doing well.
Speaker 2: This is my this is okay. So I spoke to
Speaker 2: my psychologists about this the other day and I explained
Speaker 2: that I want to be a better person and one
Speaker 2: of them is not drinking, and she was like, well,
Speaker 2: drijel is coming up, and I said, I was thinking
Speaker 2: about dry July doing it. I said, I've done a
Speaker 2: month dry. Okay, I've done months dry before. It doesn't
Speaker 2: I don't know when I've done probably three weeks. One
Speaker 2: would argue I put up a photo with a wine
Speaker 2: that was just for an aesthetic photo. I didn't drink.
Speaker 1: This is the conversation everyone. You can't just because you
Speaker 1: didn't drink for three weeks just out of free choice,
Speaker 1: doesn't mean that you could do four weeks because you
Speaker 1: have to like set the goal and then follow through.
Speaker 1: It's not just that you didn't drink for three weeks.
Speaker 2: Okay, so July, let's look at you like I have
Speaker 2: that on the first maybe I buy a token and
Speaker 2: drink on that Yeah, because I drinking a beer while watching.
Speaker 2: So let me finish with my psychologist. I said, it's
Speaker 2: not about not drinking. At all. Okay, I think I
Speaker 2: can do that. It's when I go out not drinking
Speaker 2: binge drinking and excessively to the point that, like I mean,
Speaker 2: I went to that engagement party a couple of weeks ago.
Speaker 2: We left at like four am from the house where
Speaker 2: the next day we were sitting with my mates and
Speaker 2: my mate came and he was like, I left it
Speaker 2: like twelve, Like I left the bathroom and I looked around.
Speaker 2: I'm like, nothing's happening here. I'm gonna leave. He goes,
Speaker 2: what the fuck did you guys do for another four hours?
Speaker 2: I me and my me and my mates are like, well, yeah,
Speaker 2: Like that's the point. I don't want to hang around
Speaker 2: drinking for the hell of it. I want to sort of,
Speaker 2: you know, have like a few get of fun and leave,
Speaker 2: not get like excessively drunk. And we know that I
Speaker 2: do love to drink with my mate and go okay.
Speaker 1: So the bottom line is you don't want to do
Speaker 1: drive your life? Is that what I'm is that what
Speaker 1: you're putting down?
Speaker 2: Well, there's the first on my birthday, which is a
Speaker 2: we'll be drinking and then we have something coming up
Speaker 2: that's three to four days of I think it's going
Speaker 2: to be drinking, potentially drink. It's going to be very
Speaker 2: hard not to drink a little bit of drink, a
Speaker 2: little bit of drink. We've both said we don't want
Speaker 2: to drink drink.
Speaker 1: Could we just pay fifty dollars to the charity? Is that? Like?
Speaker 2: Well, are you going to drink where we're going? I'll
Speaker 2: have a couple so you couldn't do it either. We've
Speaker 2: dug ourselves into a serious hole.
Speaker 1: Don't bring me into this. I was happy to do it.
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, let's do it. Not drink it what we're doing?
Speaker 1: Fine, you can't do that.
Speaker 2: It's impossible. That would be impossible. That's like that would
Speaker 2: be That's like going to mac. Isn't getting a salad?
Speaker 1: I have gone to I's gonna salad. That's fine. Okay, look, Matt.
Speaker 2: How about we do it right? This is what I
Speaker 2: think is the best way to do it. Let's do
Speaker 2: drive your lie because I want to support the charity.
Speaker 2: I actually want to do it. I've been talking about
Speaker 2: it for ages. I'll buy a token for the football.
Speaker 1: And how much is a token? Fifty dollars?
Speaker 2: Fifty dollars? Okay, I'll buy a token for the football
Speaker 2: on the first on the first, which is fucking starting off.
Speaker 2: He's not starting good.
Speaker 1: A token for your birthday.
Speaker 2: I want to drink on my birthday?
Speaker 1: Really, I won't drink. I don't know about my house warming.
Speaker 2: I'll have a glass of champagne. When's that token?
Speaker 1: I mean maybe it's going to be the first of all,
Speaker 1: because I just push it back and back.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because then and then where we go for three.
Speaker 1: Days, we'll buy tokens for that.
Speaker 2: We'll buy tokens for that.
Speaker 1: Yeah done? Okay, shall we are you now? It's coming
Speaker 1: up here to tell you guys, he's not doing it.
Speaker 1: He looks it deflated that.
Speaker 2: I just think it's just like, yeah, all right, well
Speaker 2: let's do it. Let's let's don't have to Let's take
Speaker 2: it to the Facebook page and see what people.
Speaker 1: Want to is handling it to the Facebook.
Speaker 2: We're always driving there.
Speaker 1: What's the date? Okay, it's like the twentieth of June.
Speaker 2: Well, what about if I do ten days now?
Speaker 1: How it's meant to. It's not like a miscellaneous ten
Speaker 1: days here and three days here. This is like dry
Speaker 1: motherfucking July. Okay, guys, we're gonna pause on this. We're
Speaker 1: gonna come back to you, come back because we can't decide.
Speaker 1: This has been a ramble and a half.
Speaker 2: This is our live chat about it. We haven't chatted
Speaker 2: till now about it.
Speaker 1: Okay, we have a special announcement right Matt. Yes, that
Speaker 1: is going live on our Facebook page right now. So
Speaker 1: if you're listening to this episode, this is live on
Speaker 1: our Facebook page. Where's your head out, fam, it's live.
Speaker 1: I have currently and it's a very special announcement.
Speaker 2: We've dropped it first for the people on our Facebook page.
Speaker 1: So there's two days early access to this special exciting
Speaker 1: venture thing that Matt and I are doing. I'm trying
Speaker 1: to use words to like not give it away.
Speaker 2: I'm very excited, nervous, so excited, but very excited.
Speaker 1: I think little nervous, very excited. So anyway, it's going
Speaker 1: live to everyone else on Thursday. If you want to
Speaker 1: know what it is right now, then head over to
Speaker 1: our Facebook group. We're very excited.
Speaker 2: I'm very excited and I'm very excited. Everyone should be
Speaker 2: there right now taking a look, getting in early before
Speaker 2: everyone else starts to gee.
Speaker 1: There that we're there, What are you going to say
Speaker 1: to not make it up here.
Speaker 2: What's chance?
Speaker 1: Chance? Okay?
Speaker 2: Like it chance? That doesn't give much away, does it? Okay?
Speaker 2: So my recommendation this week is before I go to
Speaker 2: my recommendation, I have taken your recommendation.
Speaker 1: Up and I watched Ultimatum.
Speaker 2: No sorry, I'm starting. I'm behind Extreme Sisters.
Speaker 1: Oh my god? How good is it? How good is it?
Speaker 2: Such a good TLC show, like just you know, just
Speaker 2: like harmless. Watch in the background, Yeah.
Speaker 1: Just like mindless, Like it's just chill right.
Speaker 2: I watched it with Jen and we were watching like
Speaker 2: their twins that are like just fucking you know what,
Speaker 2: we talk about twins dating twins and that and the
Speaker 2: two twins from per fuck That was hilarious. So they
Speaker 2: have to do everything the same things.
Speaker 1: I would love to get them on the podcast more
Speaker 1: than anything. I've reached out. I haven't heard anything back.
Speaker 1: I think you should reach out now.
Speaker 2: I'll reach out.
Speaker 1: Anna and Lucy. If you're listening to this, we really
Speaker 1: want you on our podcast. You guys are hilarious. You're
Speaker 1: so funny. If you're watching this video or watching this
Speaker 1: listening to this podcast right now, tag them in our podcast.
Speaker 1: Let's get them on the show.
Speaker 2: Message them guys because we really want them on here.
Speaker 2: They have would have the best fucking stories. It's the best.
Speaker 2: But this week's recommendation is another show. I love Naked
Speaker 2: and Afraid, say it all the time. The English have
Speaker 2: done their own version, so you know it's good the English.
Speaker 2: The Brits have done their own one. You know it's
Speaker 2: going to be good naked alone and racing home. Right,
Speaker 2: So they dump to two different couples they can be.
Speaker 2: Some were strangers, some were couples into the British wilderness
Speaker 2: and they have to like survive there. Sorry, the countryside, countryside, wilderness, countryside.
Speaker 1: I don't know if we have the wilderness in Britain.
Speaker 2: I mean there's no bears or anything that's going to
Speaker 2: kill you, just just the cold. And they dump them.
Speaker 2: They're naked and they have to find their way to
Speaker 2: the money in the nearest town first. So we know
Speaker 2: British TV they don't blame anything out. So I'm used
Speaker 2: to Naked and Afraid where it's all pixelated and then
Speaker 2: you just see them. And I said this journ as
Speaker 2: I watched it, I've never seen another man's limp penis,
Speaker 2: like I've just never seen it. And I was just like, Oh,
Speaker 2: there's a penis, limp, flaccid just sitting there and I
Speaker 2: was just like like, looks just like mine. Yeah, I'm
Speaker 2: just like wow, do you know what I made? And
Speaker 2: then and then there was girls like that. You could
Speaker 2: see everything of theirs. One was like rock in the seventies,
Speaker 2: pubic hair. Really it was just full on and it
Speaker 2: was a good show. Like they it's funny, like you
Speaker 2: had this couple argue because they're naked and like struggling.
Speaker 2: It's it's good watch.
Speaker 1: They would be freezing in the UK naked. That is wild?
Speaker 1: Where can you.
Speaker 2: Watch this on Fox? Tubls what I was streaming it
Speaker 2: on and I think Binge as well, how do you
Speaker 2: can You and Michael would go naked together? They're trying
Speaker 2: to find money.
Speaker 1: We wouldn't. I just don't think I would ever do that, Like,
Speaker 1: I just wouldn't want to be naked on TV's just stuff.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, no, shit, Like can you imagine you must
Speaker 1: be pretty confident in yourself to do that. Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: just like so out of your comfort zone that you're
Speaker 1: like fuck it, Like fuck.
Speaker 2: It, this story. Who cares? Like we tell the world
Speaker 2: about it, people can watch it.
Speaker 1: Would you do it?
Speaker 2: I feel like I would. Yeah, would you Yeah? I
Speaker 2: feel like I could.
Speaker 1: So just everyone just stare at.
Speaker 2: Your car, my flaccid veenis.
Speaker 1: They'd be like checking out the grooming. They'd be like, oh,
Speaker 1: I could.
Speaker 2: Do this, they could do this. Well. The couple that
Speaker 2: went in there and argued the whole time, they didn't
Speaker 2: make it to the money first. The strangers did. This
Speaker 2: is a spoiler alert for anyone that wants to watch it,
Speaker 2: but trust me, it's a good one. He ended up
Speaker 2: proposing to her naked. Yeah, naked as they got to
Speaker 2: the finish line.
Speaker 1: Geez, that's like these people like nudists. Maybe is that
Speaker 1: why they're so comfortable being nude? I'd assume so you
Speaker 1: don't want to be proposing. Imagine like the legs spread
Speaker 1: as well? What angles are they getting on that fucking
Speaker 1: and it was like.
Speaker 2: A rocky driveway where they went and you just got
Speaker 2: on one knee.
Speaker 1: I feel like Michael did say that when you jump,
Speaker 1: when you drop a knee, it's pretty sores.
Speaker 2: I probably never got everyone, ye one knee? What did
Speaker 2: you go to one knee for?
Speaker 1: Maybe, like if you're at church and you like dropping
Speaker 1: dropping to the knee, maybe yeah, but maybe if you
Speaker 1: liked drop onto one first and then to the other, if.
Speaker 2: You're leaning under a sink to fix a sink.
Speaker 1: Or potentially you go into confession. Not that I go
Speaker 1: to church anymore, but you know, back in my heyday,
Speaker 1: when I was young and forced into it, I did you.
Speaker 2: I went to a Catholic school with you had like
Speaker 2: a communion like.
Speaker 1: Once to turn Yeah, yeah, Catholic.
Speaker 2: Now I was baptized Catholic communion. Did you do your communion?
Speaker 1: Yeah? I did my communion and my confirmation. I did
Speaker 1: it all.
Speaker 2: I'd go up and just put back in my hands
Speaker 2: like this. I wouldn't take the bread.
Speaker 1: I didn't you I did.
Speaker 2: He took the bread. Do you know that our father
Speaker 2: who ate in heaven.
Speaker 1: Our Father who ain't in heaven.
Speaker 2: I don't know. I just I just say that.
Speaker 1: Anyone who knows the prayer our Father, that is not
Speaker 1: a world, our Father who art in heaven, not in heaven.
Speaker 2: Our kingdom, calm. I shall be done. Okay, okay, everyone
Speaker 2: who's everyone who's.
Speaker 1: Like tuning out to this podcast.
Speaker 2: Then all right, let's go to our hot line.
Speaker 1: Okay, let's do it. Hello, you've reached Anna and Nut.
Speaker 2: We can't get to the phone right now.
Speaker 1: But please leave us a message on our hot line
Speaker 1: after the beep.
Speaker 2: Okay, so this hot line comes from Bronti.
Speaker 1: Okay, windows winding up? Windows, Holy, that was okay? Okay, Manana, Hi,
Speaker 1: I can't introduce so I don't want to because it's
Speaker 1: throw me off, make me feel cringe. I'm gonna grow up.
Speaker 2: Okay, Wait, what's happening.
Speaker 1: I can't do this. I'll come back. I'll go to
Speaker 1: record this round less socially anxious.
Speaker 2: I'm about.
Speaker 1: Was it around two? No?
Speaker 2: There is it? That's all we've got.
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, so we just had a look at our
Speaker 1: phones because we're like, is that it? We're confused, and
Speaker 1: our producer has said that Bronti has quite bad anxiety.
Speaker 1: We're gonna watch this space because apparently she is gonna
Speaker 1: send us another message soon. But I mean, what better
Speaker 1: time to talk about anxiety?
Speaker 2: That anxiety sucks.
Speaker 1: How's your anxiety going?
Speaker 2: Well, I'm feeling okay. How's your anxiety?
Speaker 1: My anxiety is good. I think like anxiety is such
Speaker 1: a funny thing, right, because like, when you're in the
Speaker 1: heart of it, it's so all consuming, and it just
Speaker 1: like takes up all of your mental capacity and it's
Speaker 1: all you think about or whatever you're stressing about. Well,
Speaker 1: sometimes there's like nothing that you're stressing about, and then
Speaker 1: other times times, like more recently, I've been not very
Speaker 1: anxious at all, Like I've been quite leveled out. I
Speaker 1: think Michael's contributed a lot to that, because he's quite
Speaker 1: calming on me.
Speaker 2: And do you take anything for your anxiety, like vitamins.
Speaker 1: Or CBD oil or I take a CBD gummy at
Speaker 1: night because my anxiety tends to peak at night. Michael
Speaker 1: and I both do. Do you interesting?
Speaker 2: I also put CBD oil at night, and I have these.
Speaker 1: In your tea or something I don't just under my tongue.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, but I do. I have these big what
Speaker 2: do you call him vials in the fridge from a
Speaker 2: while ago, and I tripped some of that in my
Speaker 2: morning smoothie.
Speaker 1: Oh there you go. So you're on the CBD.
Speaker 2: Quite frequently, Yeah, quite frequently.
Speaker 1: Do you think it makes a difference?
Speaker 2: Yes? And no. Like I got stuck in before I
Speaker 2: went out for dinner on Saturday night, I got stuck
Speaker 2: in traffic, and traffic I don't know there's something about
Speaker 2: it that I can't. I can't like I get agitated.
Speaker 2: I hate like the whole stopping and like starting. I
Speaker 2: hate it like it makes me to be somewhere at
Speaker 2: a certain time. So then I get in my own
Speaker 2: head and I can't do it, and I am scott
Speaker 2: really anxious. I got like really tired, and I got
Speaker 2: really like I really So if you ever alongside me
Speaker 2: in traffic, I know that I'm struggling.
Speaker 1: Okay, So if you're if you know you're about to
Speaker 1: be in that mindset or mood, is there anything that
Speaker 1: you can implement that's gonna make you feel less stressed?
Speaker 1: Because I know personally, for me, if I'm in the
Speaker 1: car and I feel stressed out, I always put the
Speaker 1: Ziggy albrets Like album on from start to finish, and
Speaker 1: his music is very soothing to me and it's very relaxing.
Speaker 1: And I've told myself, like, when I'm anxious, I can
Speaker 1: listen to that and it calms me down, and it
Speaker 1: really does.
Speaker 2: Is eminem eminem. Yeah, it's probably not the most part
Speaker 2: of the other stuff, but yeah, that probably does. I
Speaker 2: get opening from that music. So there you go. Whatever works, Yeah,
Speaker 2: maybe it doesn't he talking about like rapping and I'm
Speaker 2: just sitting there life.
Speaker 1: You know what. I love the eminem song Love the
Speaker 1: Way You Lie Oat song, you know with Rihanna so good.
Speaker 1: I know every lyric I can wrap it as well.
Speaker 1: I thought I was like session, that's pretty easy, pretty standard.
Speaker 2: Think of put my fist through the.
Speaker 1: Stuff. And yeah, I like the lyrics for it. Says
Speaker 1: like they sit at the window. I guess that's why
Speaker 1: they call it window pane, like.
Speaker 2: They're looking at it, staring out the window.
Speaker 1: Yeah, like sad. The music video as well, Yes, and
Speaker 1: the house is burning down.
Speaker 2: I had the guy from the Lord of the Rings
Speaker 2: in it and Meghan Yeah it Megan Fox.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I thought it was a famous actual Yeah she was.
Speaker 2: She was so hot and the guy was one of
Speaker 2: the hobbits from Lord of the Rings.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, very good video clip. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: go watch that it as well.
Speaker 2: Your part too. It was just Rihanna, Oh did they? Yeah?
Speaker 2: It was good.
Speaker 1: Wait the music video, the music the music yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: look CBD. I don't know, I think it could be
Speaker 1: a place ebo. But it's also good for me to
Speaker 1: like have a CBD gummy at night and just to think, Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm good. It's not every night, it's mainly when I'm
Speaker 1: starting to feel a bit like you know, addressable or anxious.
Speaker 2: You know, you have to take it continuously for it
Speaker 2: to work.
Speaker 1: I know I do take it.
Speaker 2: You reckon if you take it and then you feel calm.
Speaker 1: Well, don't tell me that fucking help spoiling my anxiety trick. No,
Speaker 1: we do take it pretty regularly at night, but not
Speaker 1: every night, but still regularly enough.
Speaker 2: I would say, I remember had these like smells that
Speaker 2: you would smell like you put some of your.
Speaker 1: Hand, had me to lavender.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that was a leavender one, but there was another one.
Speaker 2: And then there was one that was like got bitch
Speaker 2: be Gone and it was like a spray, and that
Speaker 2: was meant to make you feel less bitchy and less anxious,
Speaker 2: was one of our rants.
Speaker 1: That's so funny. That's so funny. Yeah, I know, like, look,
Speaker 1: we both suffer from quite that anxiety, and I think
Speaker 1: it's it's something you have to be so mind right,
Speaker 1: you need to be so on top of it, and
Speaker 1: there needs to be things that you implement when these
Speaker 1: things happen, Like you know, We've all been on the
Speaker 1: verge of a panic attack, and it's like, what do
Speaker 1: you do in that situation? Do you just like fully,
Speaker 1: like let yourself just be in the moment and have
Speaker 1: a full blown meltdown, or are you like, Okay, I'm
Speaker 1: going to do some box breathing, I'm going to do this,
Speaker 1: I'm going to do that, Like these are my tactics
Speaker 1: to help me to like try to get back to neutral.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I think it's finding those out and trying
Speaker 2: and searching, maybe talking to the right people, professionals and
Speaker 2: see what you can do.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Absolutely, well, Look, Brontie, we are still waiting to
Speaker 1: hear that voicemail.
Speaker 2: Please send it in. We want to know what you
Speaker 2: guys are going to talk about.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we know that you have anxiety. We also have
Speaker 1: it too, but we are awaiting your message in the hotline. Look, guys,
Speaker 1: that's all we have time for. As always, send us
Speaker 1: your voicemails. It can be literally anything. It can be
Speaker 1: you having a meltdown in the car and we'll talk
Speaker 1: about anxiety. If you have any funny stories, any crazy
Speaker 1: sex stories, send them through. All you have to do
Speaker 1: is record a voice note to where's your head at
Speaker 1: pod Instagram or to our email address which is on
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Speaker 1: involved in the conversations that we have after our episodes. Okay, Matt,
Speaker 1: until next time, Saya, bye bye