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Speaker 1: This is the fitsy and with her with Kate Richie podcast.

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Speaker 2: Acceptance is key, guys, and this woman has it in spades.

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Speaker 2: I cannot believe this story. H yes, ever, I mean

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Speaker 2: I'll let you be the judge because she doesn't seem

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Speaker 2: to have a problem with it. How about this this

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Speaker 2: is the headline. Woman takes care of paralyzed husband for

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Speaker 2: six years, gets dumped after he recovers. I mean, talk

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Speaker 2: about payback or some kind of you know, appreciation, gratitude

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Speaker 2: for what somebody has done for you. Okay, I'll talk

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Speaker 2: you through it, give me the details. Story is coming

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Speaker 2: out of Malaysia. This guy's been awfully injured in a

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Speaker 2: car accident but paralyzed. She is doing absolutely everything for him.

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Speaker 2: In fact, she documents his recovery on Facebook and shares

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Speaker 2: her journey with the world, like forty thousand followers or something.

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Speaker 2: She is posting videos of him, you know, her changing

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Speaker 2: his clothes, her bathing him, her being freaked out when

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Speaker 2: he coughs, like is he gonna is he going to

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Speaker 2: wake up? Is he going to recover? Am I ever

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Speaker 2: going to get my husband back? She's documented their entire

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Speaker 2: daily life for six years and people have really encouraged her,

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Speaker 2: and I mean she's basically mother to raise her.

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Speaker 1: Yep.

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Speaker 2: So he gets better and they drop off the face

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Speaker 2: of the earth the Facebook for a while there, and

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Speaker 2: now she's come out congratulating whatever his name is. Let

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Speaker 2: me just try and find it. In a rule congratulating

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Speaker 2: her ex husband and his new bride. In a Facebook post,

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Speaker 2: she says, congratulations to my husband. I hope you are

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Speaker 2: happy with the one you chose, Ipha, and please take

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Speaker 2: good I've got a few things to say about this.

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Speaker 2: Please take good care of him like I did. I

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Speaker 2: am done with him now. Now it is your turn

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Speaker 2: to take over now.

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Speaker 1: Of course, people are worst bloke ever ever, Honey, the

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Speaker 1: job you've done has actually been too good. I'm even

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Speaker 1: better than I was before and I'm hitting the town, babe.

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Speaker 2: This woman, as I said, her level of forgiveness and

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Speaker 2: acceptance is incredible and is a selfless woman by the.

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Speaker 3: Looks of things.

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Speaker 2: She's nursed and cared for this guy for six years,

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Speaker 2: and then on the other side, he just doesn't want

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Speaker 2: a bar of her and has a new wife. But

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Speaker 2: you do you hear these stories quite often, and it's

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Speaker 2: so disheartening, and I'm not likening. It's just popped into

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Speaker 2: my head there. I'm not saying that these people are

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Speaker 2: like no rule and this lovely wife in Malaysia. But

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Speaker 2: didn't we talk recently about the people on the block

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Speaker 2: where there was the relations He was having the relationship

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Speaker 2: with the woman and he went and participated on the block,

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Speaker 2: left his business to the girlfriend to look after, won

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Speaker 2: the block or something, I don't know what he did.

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Speaker 2: He came out and then he had begun a relationship

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Speaker 2: with the makeup Artistan.

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Speaker 1: That's wrong, see you later.

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Speaker 2: So she was heartbroken because she good time on the show,

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Speaker 2: stood by him over that.

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Speaker 1: One of the other entries we've had on the show

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Speaker 1: for worst bloke ever was the guy who.

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Speaker 2: Sorry, I'm not saying that guy's the worst.

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Speaker 1: He's definitely a submission in worst Bloke over well done

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Speaker 1: on the Block. It was the guy who they didn't

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Speaker 1: realize until the Hen's party that all their friends were

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Speaker 1: pregnant at the same time.

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Speaker 3: Two sisters and a best friend were pregnant at the

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Speaker 3: same time to the one guy, and they only put

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Speaker 3: it together when it was the hen's party and they said,

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Speaker 3: you know what, why don't we do cupcakes and things

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Speaker 3: at the start, and then our men can come and

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Speaker 3: join us towards the end of the Hens party. Sorry,

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Speaker 3: baby showers a baby show. Towards the end of the

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Speaker 3: baby shower, the dad can turn up. Dad turned up,

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Speaker 3: all three of them. No wotraordinary, worst bloke ever? Do

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Speaker 3: reckon this guy in the coma or who's paralyzed?

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Speaker 1: Do you reckon? He's lying? They're going this is good,

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Speaker 1: but she still can't cook. What is the reason?

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Speaker 2: Actually very much.

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Speaker 1: He needs his temperature taken and he needs to be

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Speaker 1: dressed because he can't move. But she still can't cook. Darling,

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Speaker 1: You've got me back on my feet. It's been fantastic,

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Speaker 1: don't get me wrong. I just want to roast chicken fellas.

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Speaker 2: She still can't play that again? Yes, please ever, Oh look,

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Speaker 2: I'm sure there are lots of people listening thinking. I

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Speaker 2: know the worst bloke came. I was in hospital having

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Speaker 2: out their child and he was off with Amanda. I

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Speaker 2: don't know who Amanda is.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, what a twist.

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