WEBVTT - WHAT? | Cafe Owner BANS All Young Children After This Incident. 0:00:01.600 --> 0:00:04.880 Get your every day adelaides. 0:00:07.480 --> 0:00:10.800 Here's a question for you, Andrew Hayes. If your toddler's 0:00:10.800 --> 0:00:14.760 going Coco banana's in a cafe, you should remove them. Yeah, 0:00:14.800 --> 0:00:17.160 but does the cafe owner have the right to go 0:00:17.360 --> 0:00:18.160 Oi out? 0:00:19.079 --> 0:00:19.400 Jesus? 0:00:19.440 --> 0:00:23.320 Depends how insane and they're all insane, but just how 0:00:23.360 --> 0:00:24.680 crazy the toddlers. 0:00:24.280 --> 0:00:28.040 Are and typical toddlers crazy. 0:00:28.280 --> 0:00:29.320 Just ridiculous. 0:00:29.760 --> 0:00:31.840 My kids in that situation, no doubt, go through this 0:00:31.880 --> 0:00:33.600 little phase where they get the sugars and just. 0:00:33.560 --> 0:00:35.120 Open them up and throw them everywhere. 0:00:35.120 --> 0:00:35.400 Cool? 0:00:35.680 --> 0:00:39.040 Good, That's fine. Isn't sugar sachets everywhere? 0:00:39.120 --> 0:00:42.440 Yeah? Good work, guys. We had a good chat about 0:00:42.760 --> 0:00:46.360 one man, particularly up in North Queensland, who went, OI 0:00:46.760 --> 0:00:47.280 get out. 0:00:47.600 --> 0:00:51.120 Yeah in that voice, OI get out and the kids 0:00:51.159 --> 0:00:53.199 don't even care. And depends where you're from, like and 0:00:53.520 --> 0:00:55.880 not just each different part of the country, how old 0:00:55.920 --> 0:00:57.160 you are, whether you have kids or not. 0:00:57.520 --> 0:00:59.760 Very much divided opinion in terms of toddler tantrums. 0:00:59.760 --> 0:01:01.760 Isn't they're sure is enjoyed? 0:01:02.640 --> 0:01:05.520 If you've got toddlers, how much of a joy are they? 0:01:05.720 --> 0:01:07.600 You can speak firsthand on this, can't you? Because you've 0:01:07.680 --> 0:01:08.840 educated about a million of them all. 0:01:11.040 --> 0:01:15.720 They are absolute little nutters. Situation the other day when 0:01:15.760 --> 0:01:18.000 mine was so overtired that she was up on about 0:01:18.000 --> 0:01:19.440 at the gym and she's singing at the top of 0:01:19.480 --> 0:01:21.480 her lungs and everyone loved her and everyone's laughing, and 0:01:21.480 --> 0:01:23.560 I'm like, how good's having a toddler. And then you 0:01:23.600 --> 0:01:24.960 get to the car park and she realized she had 0:01:25.000 --> 0:01:26.040 to get into a car seat. 0:01:26.640 --> 0:01:29.200 Ah, what there you go with jan. 0:01:30.440 --> 0:01:34.280 And straight back and I'm like, you're a psychopath. Two 0:01:34.400 --> 0:01:37.000 minutes ago, you're in the best mood ever. Anyway, they're fun, 0:01:37.080 --> 0:01:38.240 go real fun. 0:01:38.920 --> 0:01:41.240 An Australian cafe owner has doubled down on his decision 0:01:41.280 --> 0:01:43.480 to kick out a family with two children who were 0:01:43.520 --> 0:01:48.040 crying and allegedly throwing things around. So this is at 0:01:48.040 --> 0:01:51.560 the Horseshoe Bay Cafe way up north. Just bloke decided 0:01:51.560 --> 0:01:54.080 the arses guys to leave a tantrum that unfolded for 0:01:54.080 --> 0:01:55.360 around fifteen minutes. 0:01:55.400 --> 0:01:56.160 Okay, that's tough. 0:01:56.240 --> 0:01:58.440 So just imagine that you're sitting there enjoying your breakfast 0:01:58.480 --> 0:02:00.000 and this is going on. And I'm someone who's going 0:02:00.040 --> 0:02:02.400 toddlers as well, so I know exactly what went on. 0:02:02.720 --> 0:02:05.520 Absolute mayhem. The children are thought to be aged between 0:02:05.520 --> 0:02:07.640 two and three, and I have said to become upset 0:02:07.840 --> 0:02:12.320 after being told they had to share an ice cream. Oh, 0:02:12.720 --> 0:02:14.240 Mom and Dad, worse move. 0:02:15.120 --> 0:02:16.880 Don't ask Toby to share anything. 0:02:16.919 --> 0:02:19.240 It's like you when I asked to share your food. 0:02:19.760 --> 0:02:22.359 And you absolutely throw the toys out of the cop 0:02:25.200 --> 0:02:28.200 I'm maype both of us. Actually, the older child showed 0:02:28.240 --> 0:02:31.360 his unhappiness by clearing our shelf. This is from the cafe, 0:02:31.440 --> 0:02:33.840 and clearing our shelf with all of the shells and 0:02:33.880 --> 0:02:36.840 items on the counter, so he physically went nuts. Then 0:02:36.840 --> 0:02:38.519 he picked up one of the metal flasks and threw 0:02:38.560 --> 0:02:41.160 it on the tiles. I was surprised didn't smash the tiles. 0:02:41.639 --> 0:02:44.160 His decision to ask the family to leave spark outrage 0:02:44.160 --> 0:02:48.360 from an onlooker named Laura Laura, who branded the owners 0:02:48.400 --> 0:02:52.520 as disgusting after watching the scene unfold. But he told 0:02:52.520 --> 0:02:55.240 the towns of Wilton the cafe and I only interviewed 0:02:55.280 --> 0:02:58.560 because the children were vandalizing the shop and disrupting other customers. 0:02:58.600 --> 0:03:01.359 It's tough because toddlers will be crazy. But at the 0:03:01.400 --> 0:03:04.279 same time, they can't turn your cafe upside. 0:03:03.960 --> 0:03:04.840 Do you can? 0:03:04.880 --> 0:03:07.720 I just add that this is on Magnetic Island. So 0:03:07.840 --> 0:03:10.360 Horseshoe Bay is on Magnetic Island. So you go over 0:03:10.520 --> 0:03:15.240 and it's picturesque. You're literally on paradise in paradise this place. 0:03:15.720 --> 0:03:17.760 So the last thing you would want is to hear 0:03:17.760 --> 0:03:19.280 a screaming child for fifteen minutes. 0:03:19.360 --> 0:03:22.680 Look, it's a very fine line because as when you 0:03:22.720 --> 0:03:26.560 see a child go nuts like another person's child, a 0:03:26.760 --> 0:03:29.200 you thank god it's not yours, but you try to 0:03:29.240 --> 0:03:31.040 have a bit of empathy because we all know what 0:03:31.120 --> 0:03:34.440 it's like. But see, and this is the asterisk to 0:03:34.480 --> 0:03:37.080 this story, there is a point as a parent where 0:03:37.080 --> 0:03:40.200 you have a responsibility to remove that child after six 0:03:40.320 --> 0:03:42.320 or seven minutes if they're losing their shots. 0:03:42.440 --> 0:03:43.800 Yeah, and time up and put them in the car. 0:03:43.880 --> 0:03:44.600 Then you've got to start. 0:03:44.840 --> 0:03:49.320 Yeah, no way, that's Southwest and New South I was 0:03:49.320 --> 0:03:49.960 back in the eighties. 0:03:51.000 --> 0:03:53.200 But hang on a sac like six or seven minutes, 0:03:53.240 --> 0:03:53.800 wouldn't you. 0:03:53.920 --> 0:03:56.920 So I went to a play the other day. 0:03:57.040 --> 0:03:58.160 What do you mean, you went to a play? 0:03:58.320 --> 0:04:00.960 So I took I took my nieces to in Wonderland 0:04:01.440 --> 0:04:04.440 and there was a gentleman there with a baby slash no, 0:04:04.520 --> 0:04:06.320 maybe one and a half two years old, who was 0:04:06.440 --> 0:04:10.760 intermitionently crying and fussing, and he would get up kind 0:04:10.760 --> 0:04:12.440 of walk to the back of the theater so you 0:04:12.480 --> 0:04:14.320 can still hear, Like we were sitting up there, so 0:04:14.840 --> 0:04:17.320 this child's going off, and then he'd randomly walk out 0:04:17.400 --> 0:04:19.560 come back in. He was still the baby was still 0:04:19.560 --> 0:04:23.359 losing its mind instead of just like removing to you. Yeah, 0:04:23.400 --> 0:04:25.080 so no one, you can't hear because it's a play, 0:04:25.160 --> 0:04:27.400 so they're just speaking down on stage. You could hear 0:04:27.440 --> 0:04:29.839 them only just because this baby was fussing. 0:04:29.600 --> 0:04:32.600 The whole time. Obviously, I don't have children. 0:04:32.240 --> 0:04:33.839 And so I feel like I can't say much on this, 0:04:34.000 --> 0:04:35.920 but it was really really annoying. 0:04:36.000 --> 0:04:38.919 No place, don't take children toddlers to place. 0:04:39.400 --> 0:04:40.800 I don't care what they're saying, but I don't think 0:04:40.800 --> 0:04:43.080 if they're four children, just don't take them. 0:04:43.120 --> 0:04:46.240 My thought process, wills should be a children free space. 0:04:48.279 --> 0:04:49.239 Yes, it should be. 0:04:51.200 --> 0:04:53.640 So you got a thought on this because you are younger, 0:04:53.800 --> 0:04:56.880 and you're probably someone who, with your lovely, gorgeous, flawless 0:04:56.880 --> 0:04:59.560 boyfriend Alex, probably enjoys a little breakfast every now and then. 0:05:00.240 --> 0:05:01.479 I do, and I'm the same. 0:05:01.720 --> 0:05:04.240 It's always empathy, I think, yes, because you're looking at 0:05:04.240 --> 0:05:06.800 the parents, going, oh god, you poor things. You'll be okay, 0:05:06.920 --> 0:05:09.800 But if they're being destructive, it's. 0:05:09.680 --> 0:05:13.719 Time to remember. Also, who started it? You know, parents 0:05:14.600 --> 0:05:15.240 just started it. 0:05:15.279 --> 0:05:17.000 But the parents said that they had to share the 0:05:17.000 --> 0:05:18.640 ice cream, so that's how it all kicked off. 0:05:19.080 --> 0:05:20.440 But who started throwing things the caf? 0:05:22.680 --> 0:05:25.080 Yes, I think we can all agree though. I think 0:05:25.080 --> 0:05:29.280 we can all safely in the space agree that Toddlers is. 0:05:32.640 --> 0:05:35.080 Double nine my nine? Are we right? 0:05:36.880 --> 0:05:38.520 What you're waking up to? Adelaide? 0:05:40.360 --> 0:05:42.480 Breaking news? What's the news today? 0:05:42.920 --> 0:05:46.599 My snooze news gets to the tennis in just a moment. 0:05:46.720 --> 0:05:49.760 And that was me. I was supposed to be speaking 0:05:49.800 --> 0:05:52.000 off air about where Oftener was from last night, who 0:05:52.040 --> 0:05:54.560 played an epic match against against Cock and Arcus, And 0:05:54.600 --> 0:05:57.240 I've guessed Austria, but we'll get someone to confirm that. 0:05:57.240 --> 0:05:59.719 That's fine, right, keep your thoughts yourself for goodness sake. 0:06:00.000 --> 0:06:02.400 I'm just joking. I actually asked you where you're from. 0:06:05.279 --> 0:06:07.720 It's like, where's he from? And you're I think he's from. 0:06:08.000 --> 0:06:09.279 Soon as I ask you the question. 0:06:09.120 --> 0:06:09.360 I turned. 0:06:10.160 --> 0:06:13.200 I know that whe's the biggest setup of all type 0:06:13.600 --> 0:06:15.360 where's he's off? And the bloat from Oh yeah, I 0:06:15.360 --> 0:06:20.240 think he's from much On anyway, Abby, what do we 0:06:20.240 --> 0:06:21.000 need to know today? 0:06:21.080 --> 0:06:23.640 Good morning? He is Austrian. By the way, he's their 0:06:23.720 --> 0:06:28.720 number one player. As we've discussed just before, too down 0:06:28.880 --> 0:06:31.760 it's all happening in Adelaide. Tour down Under the test 0:06:31.760 --> 0:06:34.039 starts today as well. So the toodown Under is one 0:06:34.120 --> 0:06:37.560 hundred and forty one kilometers and it's from Norwood to Lobethal. 0:06:37.600 --> 0:06:40.640 They'll go through Summertown, Boalhanna and Woodside as well, so 0:06:40.720 --> 0:06:43.000 that's exciting. It all kicks off from about eleven ten. 0:06:43.240 --> 0:06:45.760 Is your eye appointment before after eleven forty? 0:06:46.920 --> 0:06:51.279 Yeah? Your stuff? Yeah, I'm going to go to my 0:06:51.400 --> 0:06:53.560 appointment and the optomicist is going to say I can 0:06:53.720 --> 0:06:55.440 see you having traffic problems. 0:06:55.680 --> 0:06:57.359 Yeah, yes, correct. 0:06:57.839 --> 0:07:02.200 Now Adelaide Oval obviously will be it's all happening Adelaide Oval. 0:07:02.520 --> 0:07:05.720 So we've got the West Indies Test. Obviously, cans in 0:07:05.760 --> 0:07:08.279 our permanent part of the food and beverage lineup, so 0:07:08.360 --> 0:07:10.120 no longer do you have to have a plastic cup 0:07:10.160 --> 0:07:12.840 for your drink, which is brilliant because I'm not a 0:07:12.840 --> 0:07:17.520 fan of those. They're also they were also introduced twenty 0:07:17.640 --> 0:07:21.520 self checkout food and beverage terminals, So essentially AI is 0:07:21.560 --> 0:07:23.960 going to recognize and ring up your food and drink 0:07:24.040 --> 0:07:25.480 so you can check out faster. 0:07:26.160 --> 0:07:29.640 That's interesting. Can you imagine that's controversial? Forty seven beers 0:07:29.680 --> 0:07:31.360 by the end of the day just checking out their 0:07:31.360 --> 0:07:32.760 own tubs and their hot dogs. 0:07:33.200 --> 0:07:35.240 It's like when you go to Woollies and it tells 0:07:35.240 --> 0:07:38.200 you that you're stealing, but you've been to another shop 0:07:38.480 --> 0:07:40.240 and you've got stuff in your trolley. 0:07:40.440 --> 0:07:41.480 Yeah what Yeah. 0:07:41.600 --> 0:07:43.120 I went to Alice the other day and they said 0:07:43.120 --> 0:07:46.040 they were buzzing going. The checkout was telling me I 0:07:46.080 --> 0:07:47.520 had stuff in my trolley and I was like, oh, 0:07:47.520 --> 0:07:49.240 this is from Big w I've got a receipt and 0:07:49.280 --> 0:07:51.120 the woman's like, yeah, that's fine. And I thought you 0:07:51.160 --> 0:07:53.200 didn't check that I could have had anything in here. 0:07:53.360 --> 0:07:53.560 Yeah. 0:07:53.560 --> 0:07:55.400 I often think that as well, like just how casual 0:07:55.440 --> 0:07:57.440 they are, we're checking your stuff. I'm like, if it 0:07:57.480 --> 0:08:00.720 really went hard, really steal some stuff, it's something to 0:08:00.720 --> 0:08:01.120 think about. 0:08:01.320 --> 0:08:01.720 Anyway. 0:08:01.800 --> 0:08:04.640 I know we're absolutely digressing here, but I was in 0:08:05.400 --> 0:08:07.600 I won't say the other day. It was a supermarket 0:08:07.640 --> 0:08:09.840 and there was a guy who was clearly under the 0:08:09.880 --> 0:08:11.680 influence of something who had a backpack and was just 0:08:11.680 --> 0:08:15.520 walking down picking off the big electronic toothbrushes and putting 0:08:15.520 --> 0:08:17.680 them in his bag, right, And so I said, oh, 0:08:17.720 --> 0:08:19.120 you might want to check out the guy in I'll 0:08:19.200 --> 0:08:21.440 thirteen and he's just having a good old time helping himself. 0:08:21.480 --> 0:08:23.200 And they're like, oh, there's nothing we can do. 0:08:23.440 --> 0:08:24.880 Well, see that's our thing that I've heard as well, 0:08:24.960 --> 0:08:27.040 and I think it's applied to some service stations. 0:08:27.600 --> 0:08:30.440 You can't, you can't. You can't touch them, you can't touch. 0:08:30.240 --> 0:08:33.360 Them, So like, get over here. 0:08:33.760 --> 0:08:34.439 But isn't that the thing? 0:08:34.440 --> 0:08:36.920 All we can do is say, excuse me, are you shoppling? 0:08:36.920 --> 0:08:38.640 If they go no, then there's not much he can do, 0:08:38.880 --> 0:08:39.920 no exactly. 0:08:40.400 --> 0:08:40.720 Anyway. 0:08:40.840 --> 0:08:43.160 Lastly from me, Sarah Stork has had a three pet 0:08:43.280 --> 0:08:47.280 She's won the Emmy for Shivroy in succession, so good 0:08:47.280 --> 0:08:48.720 old Adelaide actress there. 0:08:48.760 --> 0:08:50.680 She's yeah, doing very well. 0:08:50.800 --> 0:08:56.520 Represent Yeah newss. Do you want to talk to tennis now? Yeah? 0:08:56.559 --> 0:08:59.240 Sure, Okay, let's talk to Narsi Cock and Arcas our 0:08:59.280 --> 0:09:02.319 boy the Teacock. He's through pretty epic first round to 0:09:02.360 --> 0:09:04.120 be honest, with your five sets and not good for 0:09:04.160 --> 0:09:07.079 the rig but still got through seven six, which was 0:09:07.080 --> 0:09:09.880 a tiebreak in the fifth at ten eight over Sebastian Offner, 0:09:09.960 --> 0:09:11.439 who is who is Austrian? 0:09:11.559 --> 0:09:12.199 Austrian? 0:09:12.400 --> 0:09:15.560 Yeah, it was in the epic match and he was. 0:09:15.679 --> 0:09:18.000 He lost the second two sets and he looked gone 0:09:18.040 --> 0:09:20.319 for all money and then came back. The difference was 0:09:20.360 --> 0:09:23.280 between the two. Oftener was showing his emotions and getting 0:09:23.280 --> 0:09:25.640 involved in the crowd. Who was sort of sense that 0:09:25.920 --> 0:09:27.920 and we're giving it to him in between serves if 0:09:27.920 --> 0:09:29.200 you missed the first and all that sort of stuff. 0:09:29.240 --> 0:09:31.719 But Cocknuncas was cool as a cucumber, Yeah, and got 0:09:31.720 --> 0:09:33.199 through the Nyl's good. 0:09:33.040 --> 0:09:34.480 Isn't he? Yeah? Spoke after the match. 0:09:34.720 --> 0:09:36.480 I had a sort of top end for last year, 0:09:36.559 --> 0:09:39.000 top starts to this year. And I know it's the 0:09:39.040 --> 0:09:41.439 first round, but this one meant a lot. Obviously last 0:09:41.520 --> 0:09:43.959 year that one hurt. I had a couple of junkies 0:09:44.000 --> 0:09:45.920 come up to me a crawd casino ripping miss that 0:09:46.080 --> 0:09:47.160 loss against Murray, so. 0:09:47.880 --> 0:09:50.160 I didn't enjoyed that too much. 0:09:50.200 --> 0:09:52.920 But glad I could make amends and win a five 0:09:52.960 --> 0:09:54.560 set of here. As I said, I can't thank you 0:09:54.559 --> 0:09:55.920 guys enough. It's ridiculous In. 0:09:55.840 --> 0:09:59.320 Here, so thank you every time to Nasi speaks. 0:09:59.440 --> 0:10:02.720 Yeah, yes, so he nearly dropped an F bomb, but 0:10:02.760 --> 0:10:05.000 he sensed himself. You can say, remember when him and 0:10:06.040 --> 0:10:09.600 God Curios used to do press conferences after their doubles 0:10:09.640 --> 0:10:11.440 and you're like, this is gonna be a loose man. 0:10:12.160 --> 0:10:13.319 You didn't know what they were going to say. 0:10:13.320 --> 0:10:16.120 It's great because they're trying to shock each other. 0:10:16.160 --> 0:10:20.960 Almost yes, yeah, absolutely. He also opened on so into it. 0:10:21.480 --> 0:10:21.840 What about? 0:10:21.920 --> 0:10:25.800 Terry Irwin jumped on stage with her son Robert, and 0:10:26.160 --> 0:10:29.440 they were at a veterinary conference in Florida over the weekend, 0:10:29.960 --> 0:10:31.960 and she asked the audience. She said, has anyone got 0:10:31.960 --> 0:10:34.959 a Steve Irwin tattoo? And a couple of people for 0:10:35.040 --> 0:10:37.280 their hands up. She said, oh wow, I'm shocked by that. 0:10:37.360 --> 0:10:39.920 She goes, I don't even have a Steve Irwin tattoo, 0:10:41.040 --> 0:10:43.920 and then she made a real X rated gag in 0:10:43.960 --> 0:10:46.760 front of Bobby Irwin, and this is what she had 0:10:46.800 --> 0:10:48.400 to say. If you can't hear it, I'll explain it 0:10:48.400 --> 0:10:57.920 for you afterwards. I have Steves. 0:11:01.280 --> 0:11:04.920 Okay, Serry, and then she. 0:11:04.960 --> 0:11:07.080 Followed up with I don't think I can show you 0:11:07.120 --> 0:11:07.719 all where it. 0:11:07.800 --> 0:11:12.400 Is really come on mam okay Mom. When mom says 0:11:12.400 --> 0:11:13.600 stuff like that, you're like, oh. 0:11:13.440 --> 0:11:18.360 It's nothing sexual. Mom. If I say, aren't you bless her? 0:11:19.320 --> 0:11:20.720 Good on your test, I'm sure. 0:11:22.480 --> 0:11:24.440 I'm sure the big fellow's upstairs looking down and going 0:11:26.480 --> 0:11:30.800 terry at your post those news it's six at thirteen 0:11:30.880 --> 0:11:31.599 or no, my not. 0:11:32.320 --> 0:11:34.880 I think every couple plays that game where they're together 0:11:34.960 --> 0:11:37.199 and a hot woman walks past, and the partner takes 0:11:37.280 --> 0:11:40.400 great joy at watching your husband or your boyfriend or 0:11:40.440 --> 0:11:42.480 whoever it may be, trying not to look at said 0:11:42.480 --> 0:11:45.120 hot woman, and you're just giving them the side. I like, 0:11:45.160 --> 0:11:46.720 I know you're gonna look. I know you're gonna look. 0:11:46.960 --> 0:11:48.640 And my hobby, Greg and I play that game where 0:11:48.640 --> 0:11:50.839 I'll watch him and his head swivels and he has 0:11:50.840 --> 0:11:53.079 a little look and his excuse since I met him 0:11:53.080 --> 0:11:55.000 has always been a thought I. 0:11:55.040 --> 0:12:01.400 Knew it, And you go, what what do you mean? 0:12:01.440 --> 0:12:04.360 You thought you knew? He's just straight down path. 0:12:06.000 --> 0:12:07.720 And so it's got to the point now where when 0:12:07.720 --> 0:12:09.520 he has a little perva, go oh do you know 0:12:09.600 --> 0:12:11.280 what did you and he's like, yeah, yeah, thor on 0:12:11.360 --> 0:12:13.280 you anyway. So that's the game we based. 0:12:13.320 --> 0:12:15.320 We could go by the way Voke's listening right now. 0:12:15.360 --> 0:12:17.680 That is a really really smart. 0:12:17.400 --> 0:12:20.320 Intelligent way, which doesn't work anymore. No, but in the 0:12:20.360 --> 0:12:22.040 initial stages we'll played Gregor. 0:12:21.960 --> 0:12:24.200 I think I've outed it. But do you do that 0:12:24.240 --> 0:12:25.320 with your boyfriend Alex? 0:12:25.480 --> 0:12:28.840 Yeah, well sort of, he's not too obvious. I do it, 0:12:29.040 --> 0:12:31.439 especially on Instagram or like if scrolling something, I go 0:12:32.480 --> 0:12:34.680 kind of the opposite a little bit. I shoot myself 0:12:34.720 --> 0:12:37.640 on the footbet I go, oh god, she's gorgeous. Yeah, 0:12:37.679 --> 0:12:41.440 and then you'll have a look and he goes, yeah, oh. 0:12:44.240 --> 0:12:45.160 That's what I was thinking. 0:12:46.960 --> 0:12:48.800 And I can't even get you know, grumpy with him, 0:12:48.800 --> 0:12:49.959 because he'll go, well, you said. 0:12:49.760 --> 0:12:53.560 It, yeah, you've putted it out. So on our holiday, 0:12:53.720 --> 0:12:57.880 there were supermodels absolutely everywhere. In this particular location, there's 0:12:57.920 --> 0:13:01.360 lots of expats, and there was a running track out 0:13:01.400 --> 0:13:05.120 the back of where we were staying, and so every 0:13:05.200 --> 0:13:07.600 single morning, let's just be these hot women in active 0:13:07.960 --> 0:13:10.560 active wear strolling around with their little designer dogs. It 0:13:10.640 --> 0:13:13.640 was hilarious. My husband fell in love seventy eight times 0:13:13.720 --> 0:13:17.360 on her Christmas holiday, and it wasn't with me, But 0:13:17.400 --> 0:13:20.480 there was one blonde woman in particular who even I 0:13:20.520 --> 0:13:22.959 was like, oh my god, what are you doing here? 0:13:23.080 --> 0:13:25.760 You should be on a Paris catwalk. So she we 0:13:25.840 --> 0:13:28.600 dubbed her the Russian supermodel. So over the course of 0:13:28.640 --> 0:13:31.520 a couple of weeks, he's just like, eh, Russian super 0:13:31.559 --> 0:13:33.720 model was in the dog park. I'm like, oh yeah. Anyway, 0:13:33.760 --> 0:13:35.760 on the last day, she walks past us as we're 0:13:35.760 --> 0:13:38.040 taking a walk with the kids down the running track, 0:13:38.400 --> 0:13:40.880 and I said, well, last day of our trip, shoot 0:13:40.880 --> 0:13:43.560 your shot mate, go for it, Like, if this is 0:13:43.600 --> 0:13:45.720 going to happen, you may as well confess you're undying 0:13:45.840 --> 0:13:47.559 love to her. And he's like, yeah, all right, okay, 0:13:47.559 --> 0:13:49.480 we'll see how we go. I got caught up with 0:13:49.520 --> 0:13:52.480 the toddler in the playground and she walked past him 0:13:52.800 --> 0:13:54.480 and I caught up and I said, how do you go? 0:13:54.640 --> 0:13:58.520 He goes, yeah, no, she's accepted it. She's she's happy 0:13:58.559 --> 0:14:00.240 to go ahead. And I went, oh, yeah, cool, Well 0:14:00.240 --> 0:14:01.800 the kids and I will jump on the plane tomorrow. 0:14:01.800 --> 0:14:03.840 Off you trot. And then the twelve year old who 0:14:03.880 --> 0:14:06.520 was eavesdropping her she always does, pipes up and she goes, well, 0:14:06.559 --> 0:14:13.920 you got a new mummy. In my mind, I think 0:14:13.960 --> 0:14:16.320 a lot of people spend time pondering Am I a 0:14:16.320 --> 0:14:21.920 good person? You know that introspection? Am I contributing to 0:14:22.000 --> 0:14:23.960 the world and society? Well, I'm about to give you 0:14:24.000 --> 0:14:27.280 the answers because I'm about to give you these signs. Well, 0:14:27.320 --> 0:14:30.080 there are twenty seven green flags, not red flags that 0:14:30.120 --> 0:14:31.960 make you a bad person, but green flags that show 0:14:31.960 --> 0:14:34.200 you that you're a good person. So if you meet someone, 0:14:34.480 --> 0:14:36.880 have a think about these things, and then you can 0:14:36.920 --> 0:14:39.160 tell almost immediately if they're a good person or not. 0:14:39.200 --> 0:14:39.760 Do you want to hear them? 0:14:39.800 --> 0:14:39.960 Wow? 0:14:40.000 --> 0:14:41.800 Okay, sounds very black and white too. 0:14:42.680 --> 0:14:44.640 It sounds like if you don't pass some of these 0:14:44.640 --> 0:14:47.520 tests immediately, then automatically you're just an absolute piece of 0:14:47.520 --> 0:14:47.920 you know what. 0:14:48.120 --> 0:14:50.920 No, I'm not saying that. They're open for debate, which 0:14:50.960 --> 0:14:53.080 is why this is a nice, happy space where we 0:14:53.120 --> 0:14:54.040 can discuss things just. 0:14:54.040 --> 0:14:54.720 Before we start. 0:14:54.720 --> 0:14:56.200 What if we met for the first time and you 0:14:56.240 --> 0:15:00.880 said hello, and I said good, thanks, get out of 0:15:00.880 --> 0:15:01.360 my life. 0:15:01.600 --> 0:15:02.200 Red flag? 0:15:02.360 --> 0:15:03.840 All right, I'm going to do about ten of them 0:15:03.840 --> 0:15:06.440 because there's too many to go through. But one of 0:15:06.440 --> 0:15:09.560 them is they speak to weight staff. Will you speak 0:15:09.560 --> 0:15:12.560 to weight stuff politely? Or anyone in the service industry 0:15:12.920 --> 0:15:15.680 that's a good indicator is indicator. If you're rude to 0:15:15.720 --> 0:15:19.200 those people, get out of my life. They love animals 0:15:19.280 --> 0:15:21.200 and are kind to them. I don't know if I 0:15:21.240 --> 0:15:22.920 subscribed to that because I didn't like dogs for a 0:15:23.040 --> 0:15:25.280 very long time. But no, but I had to argue 0:15:25.280 --> 0:15:27.000 to people that doesn't make me a bad person. I 0:15:27.080 --> 0:15:28.280 just never grew up with dogs, you know. 0:15:28.440 --> 0:15:29.840 I just wanted to smash it there for a second, 0:15:29.840 --> 0:15:33.240 but then I realized that I didn't like little dogs. 0:15:33.800 --> 0:15:37.680 And then our little Indiana who's recently passed away, was 0:15:37.760 --> 0:15:41.440 Carra's dog, little white thing, and I've never loved I've 0:15:41.560 --> 0:15:42.720 never loved an animal more. 0:15:42.920 --> 0:15:43.200 I no. 0:15:43.360 --> 0:15:45.600 But also a way to bring down the mood by saying, 0:15:45.600 --> 0:15:47.400 your dog just died. Thanks mate, No. 0:15:47.480 --> 0:15:51.080 I'm sad anyway. Now I'm back up. 0:15:51.080 --> 0:15:55.560 Another green flag. They ask questions about you. Okay, so 0:15:56.600 --> 0:15:58.640 if we're having a conversation, you don't just talk about 0:15:58.640 --> 0:16:00.520 yourself the whole time. You go, how are you? 0:16:01.400 --> 0:16:02.680 I watched the tennis last. 0:16:06.600 --> 0:16:09.320 Oh this is a good one. So they compliment other 0:16:09.360 --> 0:16:11.240 people behind their backs. I like that. 0:16:11.640 --> 0:16:13.920 Yeah, there's not a lot of that these days. 0:16:14.240 --> 0:16:15.120 He talks crape. 0:16:14.920 --> 0:16:17.840 About you or really, what's he say? 0:16:18.040 --> 0:16:20.400 I'd never never give someone a compliment to their face, 0:16:20.480 --> 0:16:21.560 only do it behind their back. 0:16:21.880 --> 0:16:23.040 There's not a lot of that going. 0:16:22.880 --> 0:16:25.600 On, is okay. Yeah, so that's one. Like what sort 0:16:25.640 --> 0:16:30.240 of stuff though? I'll tell you later. Okay, they're not 0:16:30.400 --> 0:16:32.680 This is a big one for me. They're not constantly 0:16:32.760 --> 0:16:35.240 checking their phone. There is nothing worse than when you're 0:16:35.280 --> 0:16:37.320 trying to have a conversation with someone and they're just 0:16:37.320 --> 0:16:38.840 sitting on their phone the whole time. 0:16:39.440 --> 0:16:40.760 Yeah, I'm on the phone way too much. 0:16:41.040 --> 0:16:44.680 Yeah, wa laughing at I'm not laughing producers? Are we? 0:16:46.200 --> 0:16:49.160 They ask if you've eaten? You're right? Do you need 0:16:49.200 --> 0:16:49.840 something to drink? 0:16:50.280 --> 0:16:50.480 Yeah? 0:16:50.520 --> 0:16:51.880 That's yeah, food. I like that. 0:16:51.880 --> 0:16:52.440 That's enough. 0:16:52.520 --> 0:16:52.720 Yeah. 0:16:53.760 --> 0:16:58.080 Another one is this person is your personal assistant? Have 0:16:58.240 --> 0:16:59.880 you do you need to be burned? 0:17:02.840 --> 0:17:04.399 He's a good one. They put their rubbish in their 0:17:04.440 --> 0:17:07.040 ban and clean up after themselves. I'm a big one 0:17:07.080 --> 0:17:09.080 for that in food courts, Like if you eat in 0:17:09.119 --> 0:17:10.480 a food court and then you just get up and 0:17:10.560 --> 0:17:12.959 leave you tray there and no no, no, no no no, yeah, sai. 0:17:13.000 --> 0:17:14.479 Do you know what I'm a big one for If 0:17:14.480 --> 0:17:17.680 you're at a pub and you finish your beer, you're 0:17:17.680 --> 0:17:18.680 going up to get another one. 0:17:18.920 --> 0:17:21.080 Just take your faster, take your glass. 0:17:21.200 --> 0:17:24.800 Don't wait for some poor like seventeen year old pimply 0:17:24.920 --> 0:17:26.400