WEBVTT - Bonus: Reflecting On Eric Dane's Last Words

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, guys, I saw this thing on Instagram over the

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<v Speaker 2>weekend that had me in bed on Saturday morning sobbing.

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<v Speaker 2>And when I say sobbing, I mean like tear in

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<v Speaker 2>floods of tears. I'm talking about Eric Dane, the actor

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<v Speaker 2>who passed away last week. Now, he he was battling

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<v Speaker 2>with als, which is it paralyzes your body basically.

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<v Speaker 3>A form of murder Europe, like what what.

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<v Speaker 2>Neil Dannaher has.

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<v Speaker 3>Now.

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<v Speaker 2>If you don't know who Eric Dane is, he was

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<v Speaker 2>mc steemy in Gray's Anatomy. You'll never will never forget

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<v Speaker 2>that scene where he walks out of the steamy shower.

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<v Speaker 1>In the town. How he got the name?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so he was MCS see me. He was all

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<v Speaker 2>so cal Jacobs in Euphoria. But most importantly he was

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<v Speaker 2>a dad to two daughters and as a family, I

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<v Speaker 2>can't even imagine watching someone you love suffer with a

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<v Speaker 2>hideous disease where your brain stays sharp but your body just.

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<v Speaker 3>And correct me if I'm wrong. He went downhill very quickly.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it was a very brief battle, maybe nine

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<v Speaker 3>or ten months.

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<v Speaker 2>It was quick Jesus, and he's an advocate for als,

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<v Speaker 2>and he decided to sit down and do an interview

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<v Speaker 2>for Netflix. It goes throughout fifty minutes, and I haven't

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<v Speaker 2>brought myself to watch the whole thing yet. I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>I need to be in the right head space to

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<v Speaker 2>watch this. But it's called Famous Last Words, and it's

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<v Speaker 2>He did the interview knowing it wouldn't be released until

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<v Speaker 2>after he'd passed away.

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<v Speaker 1>So how soon after he passed away?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, he passed away last week and it's out now.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow.

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<v Speaker 2>So the clip that they released on Netflix was a

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<v Speaker 2>message to his daughters about oh, it's so sad, about

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<v Speaker 2>how to embrace life and how to live life because

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<v Speaker 2>it's and while it's a message to his daughters, it's

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<v Speaker 2>a poignant reminder of how fragile life is, how quickly

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<v Speaker 2>it can be taken away from you, and how important

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<v Speaker 2>it is to live in the present now It's a

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<v Speaker 2>five minute clip. I've clipped up a little bit. Some

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<v Speaker 2>of his language is hard to understand in parts, obviously

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<v Speaker 2>because he's suffering from als. But it's so incredibly important

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<v Speaker 2>to listen to this and just take a moment to

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<v Speaker 2>think how precious life is.

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<v Speaker 4>Silly and Georgia, these words are for you. I want

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<v Speaker 4>to say four things that I've learned from this disease,

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<v Speaker 4>and I hope you won't just listen to me. I

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<v Speaker 4>hope you'll hear me. First, live now, right now, in

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<v Speaker 4>the present. It's hard, but I learned to do that

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<v Speaker 4>for years and whileing and worrying and self petty shame

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<v Speaker 4>and down. Second, guess mas, they should have done this

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<v Speaker 4>and never should have done that, the president and all

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<v Speaker 4>you have treasure, cherish every moment. Second, fall in love,

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<v Speaker 4>not necessarily with a person, although I do recommend it

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<v Speaker 4>as well, but fall in love with something. Find your passion,

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<v Speaker 4>your joy, your purpose, your dream. Then go for it,

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<v Speaker 4>really go for it. Third, choose your friends wisely. Find

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<v Speaker 4>your people and allow them to find you, and they

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<v Speaker 4>give Yourselose to them. My friends come to me, We

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<v Speaker 4>eat together, watch a game, listen to music, and don't

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<v Speaker 4>do anything specialated show up. That's a big one. Just

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<v Speaker 4>show up and love your friends everything you have. Hang

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<v Speaker 4>on to them. They will entertain you, guide you, help you,

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<v Speaker 4>support you, and some will save you. Finally, fight when

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<v Speaker 4>you face challenge, health or otherwise. Fight, never give up,

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<v Speaker 4>fighting to your last breath. This disease is notly taking

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<v Speaker 4>my body, but it will never take my spirit. Million Georgia,

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<v Speaker 4>you ow my everything, good night, I love you. Those

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<v Speaker 4>are my last work.

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<v Speaker 2>M Wow.

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<v Speaker 3>There's actually an amazing symmetry between Eric Dyane and Neil

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<v Speaker 3>Denahos some of the things. Then he touched on the

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<v Speaker 3>whole show up messaging. You know, always show up.

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<v Speaker 2>Fought and choose your friends, your time and the people

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<v Speaker 2>that will show up to you.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of simplicity. I don't have to be going out,

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<v Speaker 1>have a laugh, listen to music.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeap, and fall in love and if it's not with

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<v Speaker 2>a person, which he high recommends you do do but

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<v Speaker 2>if it's not that, fall in love with just something, something,

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<v Speaker 2>something that makes you happy and living life right now,

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<v Speaker 2>which I think is so important because we get so

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<v Speaker 2>caught up in in things that have happened in the

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<v Speaker 2>past and what might happen in the future, and sometimes

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<v Speaker 2>we do forget to live in this very moment that

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<v Speaker 2>we're living in, and he's a walking example of how

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<v Speaker 2>quickly that can be taken away.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember just thinking it's a cliche, but you're at

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<v Speaker 1>the end of the year of I's like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>how am I going to approach to you differently? And

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, live, not exist? Do you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean? So easily we can get our routines totally.

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<v Speaker 3>Those beautiful girls of him have lost, have lost clearly

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<v Speaker 3>something special, but they will always have those incredible, haunting

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<v Speaker 3>words to live by.

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<v Speaker 2>Also so brave, I think, in that moment when you

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<v Speaker 2>know your life is being taken away rapidly, to actually

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<v Speaker 2>sit down and do something which is going to help

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<v Speaker 2>other people. What a man mixed me.

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<v Speaker 1>And nice of the family to share that, do you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean? Because that'd be tough.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a fifty minute Netflix interview and I just think

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<v Speaker 2>I need to be in the right space to watch it.

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<v Speaker 2>But I actually can't wait to sit down. I think

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<v Speaker 2>it'll give everybody a different perspective on life.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm glad you put that up. It's just a good

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<v Speaker 1>little reminder.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, sorry, I know that was heavy, but I

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<v Speaker 2>highly recommend if you watch the whole thing, that you

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<v Speaker 2>go and watch that five minute clip. We'll put it

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<v Speaker 2>on our socials as well, but just stop for a

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<v Speaker 2>moment and appreciate what we do have. Wake up feeling

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<v Speaker 2>good following them on the socials.