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Speaker 3: I'm Britney Saunders and I'm all right.
Speaker 2: Hey, and this is High Scrollers, the podcast version of
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Speaker 1: We've been sharing our lives online for over ten years,
Speaker 1: so who better to catch you up on everything that's
Speaker 1: going viral.
Speaker 2: Plus we talk a lot about ourselves too. Coming up
Speaker 2: on this episode, we are talking all things divorce. We're
Speaker 2: talking all things the things that we would never want
Speaker 2: to do in our lives, our anti bucket list. If
Speaker 2: you would we saw a trend on the internet we
Speaker 2: thought you'd give. We'd give you the things that we
Speaker 2: never want to do in our lives, and we don't
Speaker 2: care if we die and don't do them. Plus, we're
Speaker 2: starting off this episode with a big twist, buckin' twist,
Speaker 2: So deal me in Dole, let's go.
Speaker 3: Good morning, Matthew.
Speaker 2: Oh is it a good morning though? Brittany?
Speaker 3: Oh wow? Is it a good morning has happened.
Speaker 2: Now I'm shaking things up this week. Okay, sorry to
Speaker 2: alarm everyone, and if you've just woken up on this gorgeous,
Speaker 2: gorgeous Tuesday morning, I'm about to flip this episode on
Speaker 2: its head because I just need to get someone off
Speaker 2: of my chest.
Speaker 3: It looked out are we doing Matt's rant?
Speaker 2: Play the intro Hannah Matt's rid of the week, And
Speaker 2: you know what, this week, I'm all about that intro.
Speaker 2: Fuck it up because I need to get something off
Speaker 2: my chest, and I feel like I can't wait till
Speaker 2: the end of the episode to do this. First of all,
Speaker 2: it's got to do with washing your car. And I'd
Speaker 2: like to ask you, Brittany, do you wash your own car?
Speaker 2: Do you go to an automated car wash? Or do
Speaker 2: you get someone? Do you pay someone to clean your car?
Speaker 1: I have paid someone to clean my car twice, like
Speaker 1: just at the shopping center. How you just leave your
Speaker 1: car with him and go shopping and that's it. I
Speaker 1: think I've only ever washed it like twice in its lifetime.
Speaker 2: You never watch your car? Are you washing your car?
Speaker 3: I don't have time. I do it when I go
Speaker 3: home to the farm.
Speaker 1: I've washed it myself a couple of times, but yeah,
Speaker 1: just hose on the driveway. Yeah, but like otherwise, I
Speaker 1: don't have the fucking time. It's one of those things
Speaker 1: where I'm like, don't have time.
Speaker 2: Okay, So I'm a clean car girlye. I love my
Speaker 2: car being clean. Yeah, not even just the outside, the
Speaker 2: inside specifically as well.
Speaker 1: Inside of mine's clean, like I keep that clean and tidy,
Speaker 1: but the outside, like you look, closes.
Speaker 2: Just like dir and you know how people are like, oh,
Speaker 2: like you know Star, we know Star, friend of the pod.
Speaker 2: She put up a story being like I'll give fifty
Speaker 2: bucks to anyone who can show me a boot with
Speaker 2: nothing in it, and we'll transfer me. Here's my best
Speaker 2: being account number.
Speaker 3: Do something in it, like a couple of tops or
Speaker 3: something random that I've shoved.
Speaker 2: In the spotless everything's spotless. I never have anything on
Speaker 2: my back seat, never have anything on the floor. All
Speaker 2: the rubbish needs to be out of it as true
Speaker 2: much as possible.
Speaker 1: See, but I work full time and we fucking go
Speaker 1: to photo shoots and like stuff gets thrown in the car.
Speaker 2: Yours is more of a work car.
Speaker 1: Yeah, sure, so mine's always just like random shoes from
Speaker 1: a shoot or just random shit from work.
Speaker 2: Well, anyway, my car is always clean, and I like
Speaker 2: it being clean now. I used to do the shopping
Speaker 2: center one as well, just because it was when I
Speaker 2: was living where I was living in Sydney and East
Speaker 2: Gardens Westfield was right next door. And also I think
Speaker 2: the closest like do it yourself car wash that I
Speaker 2: knew of anyway that was really accessible and easy to
Speaker 2: go to was in Marrickville, and I was like, fuck,
Speaker 2: I can't be bothered, because you know, I'm a penny
Speaker 2: pincher and I love to make sure I'm saving money
Speaker 2: where I can, so obviously doing it yourself you're going
Speaker 2: to save a lot of money. Yes, But I do
Speaker 2: think that when those little shopping center ones do a
Speaker 2: great job and they shammy it down and it's spotless
Speaker 2: and they they have all the two.
Speaker 1: Times that I've done that to my car, I like
Speaker 1: drive out and I'm like, oh my god, I feel amazing,
Speaker 1: and then I say I'm going to get this done
Speaker 1: once every two months or whatever, and then I just never.
Speaker 3: Fucking go back. Yeah, because I didn't go to the
Speaker 3: shops these days. Yeah, Like I didn't go to the
Speaker 3: Are you.
Speaker 2: A click and collector yeah? Or a delivery click and collect? See,
Speaker 2: I still do my groceries again, it's the penny pinching
Speaker 2: in me. It's the growing up with no money because
Speaker 2: I need to physically be in store to see the specials.
Speaker 3: True.
Speaker 2: I love seeing the discounted rack where they've put you know,
Speaker 2: this box is broken, so this is now fifty cents
Speaker 2: for this. Whatever it may be, like, I'm all about that.
Speaker 2: I'm still a bargain hunter. I'm like, let's get all
Speaker 2: the specials. I rarely buy something that's not on special.
Speaker 2: Isn't that crazy. There are some things that I'm setting
Speaker 2: in my ways and I'll buy them regardless. But also
Speaker 2: the things that i'm setting my ways, I watch for
Speaker 2: when they're on special and I buy four of them.
Speaker 2: I'm such a special person. Anyway. The point is back
Speaker 2: to cars. Sorry, Yeah, right of the week, I have
Speaker 2: been doing my own because there's a car wash nearby
Speaker 2: now and it's much more accessible for me for where
Speaker 2: I'm living. And I do it myself, and I go
Speaker 2: and do the brush and do this, bry and do everything,
Speaker 2: and you know.
Speaker 3: To do that back in the day.
Speaker 2: The end it's got the spot free Yeah, spot free rints.
Speaker 2: You spray it on. It's like a weird kind of
Speaker 2: waxy kind of water that goes on and it's meant
Speaker 2: to be a spot free rince. You've washed your car,
Speaker 2: you put it on, it's meant to leave no spots.
Speaker 2: Why the fuck? And there're always spots on my car.
Speaker 2: It's not a spot free rints. Every time I do it.
Speaker 2: There's spots all over the fucking windscreen, all over the
Speaker 2: front of the.
Speaker 3: Car, the side mirrors, side wears.
Speaker 2: Body everywhere's got spots all over it. It's not a spot.
Speaker 3: Free rint got to be the biggest scam.
Speaker 2: Stop telling me it's a spot free rints when it's
Speaker 2: not a spot free rints. There are spots all over
Speaker 2: my car.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree with you on that one, even when
Speaker 1: you go through like the laser wash kind of thing
Speaker 1: and it does. The last one is the spot free rints.
Speaker 1: But then yeah, you like look in the side mirror
Speaker 1: and it's spots.
Speaker 2: Well, that's actually worse the automatic ones where you don't
Speaker 2: get out and brush the car yourself. The automatic one
Speaker 2: is almost worse because they have the big fans at
Speaker 2: the end, so it does the spot free rints. Then
Speaker 2: you get to the fans and the fans are blowing
Speaker 2: your car. Well it's not it is spot free, but
Speaker 2: it's now streaky because the spots have been blown by.
Speaker 1: The bank says spot free rints. So stripes don't count.
Speaker 2: Stripes don't come. My car looks like a tiger and
Speaker 2: it's all got stripes all over it because where the
Speaker 2: fans have done the spot free rints and the spot
Speaker 2: free rince isn't spot free. And then today, like I
Speaker 2: washed my car yesterday, you wouldn't tell because my car
Speaker 2: looks like it's been rained on and all the spots
Speaker 2: have dried on it. And so that's my run other
Speaker 2: the weekend. I just need to get that off my
Speaker 2: chest because I wanted to get that negative energy out
Speaker 2: of me before coming into this episode. And I feel
Speaker 2: a lot better after getting that off my chest.
Speaker 1: Well, actually, this just reminded me my first ever car.
Speaker 1: This has got nothing to do with washing, but I
Speaker 1: blew up my first car.
Speaker 2: What happened.
Speaker 1: It's actually a funny story. So at the time I
Speaker 1: was hanging out, had he's of friends that lived on
Speaker 1: the Central Coast, So like forty five minutes from my house,
Speaker 1: and we would hang out and then I would like
Speaker 1: he out with them and then go home late at night,
Speaker 1: so we driving back to Newcastle like midnight or whatever.
Speaker 2: Just as someone who's from the Central Coast, I just
Speaker 2: need to know where on the Central Coast these friends
Speaker 2: lived because it'll paint a picture.
Speaker 1: Oh like, yes, why did you not? Yeah, because it's
Speaker 1: a different time in my.
Speaker 2: Life, little militia vines. I'm assuming it's that era. Its error, yeah, Gorican, yes,
Speaker 2: continue and.
Speaker 1: So because yeah, they all lived at like blue Haven,
Speaker 1: Gorican whatever. And so I would come back the Swansea Way.
Speaker 1: This is just really niche for anyone who is it
Speaker 1: from New York the Central Coast. And one night I
Speaker 1: was coming back and it was late. It must be
Speaker 1: like eleven o'clock at night or whatever. And I must
Speaker 1: have been seventeen, because yeah, this was when I was
Speaker 1: not eighteen yet.
Speaker 3: But I had a fake ID? Can I say that?
Speaker 2: I don't know? So we all did. I didn't, true, No,
Speaker 2: all my friends, like a lot of my friends did.
Speaker 2: But see, because sorry to go on another tangent, but
Speaker 2: when you say fake ID, were you just using someone
Speaker 2: else that looked like you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, have I I've got another little story too, just
Speaker 1: while we're here. I out smart it's so bad, But like,
Speaker 1: what are you gonna do? I'm fucking in my thirties now,
Speaker 1: you can't come for me now. So what I did.
Speaker 1: I had a couple of fake id's and I had
Speaker 1: three or four different girls' licenses.
Speaker 4: Because they would just the way we would do it
Speaker 4: back in the day was they would have their p's
Speaker 4: and then they would go to the RTA because that's
Speaker 4: what it used to be called before it was Service
Speaker 4: New South Wales, and they would just say, I've lost
Speaker 4: my license?
Speaker 3: Can I get another one? They'd get theirs printed, then
Speaker 3: I'd have their old.
Speaker 2: One and they'd sell it. Would they sell it you.
Speaker 3: Like fifty dollars whatever? And so I had one.
Speaker 1: Girl that I went to school with who I looked
Speaker 1: a lot alike and people used to like get us
Speaker 1: mixed up because we worked at macas together. And then
Speaker 1: I had a couple of other random girls over the years.
Speaker 3: And then I had.
Speaker 1: One of my friends who I looked really quite nothing like,
Speaker 1: but like close enough, like we both kind of had
Speaker 1: like chubby cheeks or whatever, but like it definitely wasn't me,
Speaker 1: but like same hair color, but we just didn't look
Speaker 1: the same. And so I was worried about hers in
Speaker 1: particular because I got some taken off me, like you
Speaker 1: didn't get let in. Sometimes I go, this isn't you,
Speaker 1: and you just walk away in shame.
Speaker 2: And so that's what I was scared of. That's why
Speaker 2: I never did it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was always fucking nerve wracking. You're waiting around
Speaker 1: the corner, like, oh fuck, am I gonna get in
Speaker 1: or not? Because this was before scanners, like you just
Speaker 1: would show them the ID. So this one friend of
Speaker 1: mine at the time, Jess, I had hers, and I
Speaker 1: knew we didn't really look alike. And so I'm like,
Speaker 1: can you give me like any old bank cards or
Speaker 1: old Medicare cards? So she gave me a few of
Speaker 1: her other cards, and then to just take it to
Speaker 1: the next level, I went to a local leagues club.
Speaker 3: Have I told this story on the pod before?
Speaker 2: Huh?
Speaker 3: I went to a local leagues club.
Speaker 1: I signed up her with her ID, and I got
Speaker 1: a league's club membership card and it was back when
Speaker 1: you had to get a photo on it, so I
Speaker 1: got my photo on.
Speaker 2: Isn't a legal going to let this be released.
Speaker 3: Yeah, sign seventeen.
Speaker 2: So this is crazy but so smart.
Speaker 1: And so I got the photo and I remember in
Speaker 1: the photo when I was getting it done, I was
Speaker 1: trying to do because this is back when we could
Speaker 1: smile in her license photos.
Speaker 3: I was doing the exact same smile as her.
Speaker 1: I was like posing boom my face on a card
Speaker 1: that has her name, and then I had that in mother.
Speaker 3: So then I would go out and I remember one
Speaker 3: time I went.
Speaker 2: Out, will be a daily article about this?
Speaker 1: And I went out and let you show them the
Speaker 1: license first, and then they'd say watch your name, like
Speaker 1: this is when they still do it because of the scanners,
Speaker 1: but they go watch your name, watch your dead of birth.
Speaker 3: Start signed yep. And I had it all down to
Speaker 3: a t.
Speaker 1: Then he pulled out his notepad, made me do the
Speaker 1: signature a thousand times, which I have obviously memorized and
Speaker 1: practiced at home.
Speaker 2: Then they're all to go to a shitty club and
Speaker 2: get attend to go to.
Speaker 1: The Cambridge in Newcastle, rip Cambridge, and then they'd go
Speaker 1: do you have any other forms of ID? And then
Speaker 1: I'd whip out the stack of like other things along
Speaker 1: with that, like league's club card with my face on it,
Speaker 1: and you can imagine their confusion when they're like holding
Speaker 1: them together and they this guy was like, you look
Speaker 1: a bit different, blah blah blah. I'm like, yeah, like
Speaker 1: people change, you know, And so I got let in
Speaker 1: and it worked.
Speaker 3: So that was that.
Speaker 2: It's one of my favorite stories you've ever told. That's
Speaker 2: so iconic. People are gonna love.
Speaker 3: That we all did it. No, maybe just me might be.
Speaker 2: A bit divisive, but people are gonna love that.
Speaker 1: Look, I was seventeen and it was a different time, Okay,
Speaker 1: I just wanted to go clubbing and get fort dollar
Speaker 1: vodka raspberry. Anyway, back to the car thing. So I
Speaker 1: was driving back from the Central Coast late at night.
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure it was a week night, like we've
Speaker 1: just been hanging out, and finally enough, I was driving
Speaker 1: home and towards the Swansea area, and you go from
Speaker 1: like doing like eighty and ninety the whole way to
Speaker 1: then like slowing down. And as I was doing eighties
Speaker 1: in that eighty and ninety area on the freeway, I
Speaker 1: had my music blaring Evanescence of course, and I was
Speaker 1: singing to told my lungs I couldn't hear anything. Then
Speaker 1: I got to the Swansea roundabout and slowed down. That's
Speaker 1: when you just get back into like your sixty zone.
Speaker 1: And I turned the music down because all of a sudden,
Speaker 1: you know, when you like slow down, you need to
Speaker 1: turn the music again.
Speaker 2: And also you then are like in house, Yeah, there's
Speaker 2: houses arounds. You like her better.
Speaker 3: So I'm driving along and i can just see.
Speaker 4: This tick t t T tick and I'm like, what.
Speaker 3: The fuck is that ticking?
Speaker 1: Nice?
Speaker 3: Like, I'm just it's seventeen year old. Got all the way.
Speaker 1: From I know this is so niche, but got from
Speaker 1: Swansea to Belmont for those of you that know Belmont,
Speaker 1: and I pulled up. I pulled up into a seven
Speaker 1: eleven and at Belmont, and I noticed that my heat
Speaker 1: gauge was right up to the top. And so I'm like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, what the fuck have I done? And
Speaker 1: I rang my mom and woke her up because it
Speaker 1: was like a work night. I was like, I don't
Speaker 1: know what I've done, but the thing is like a
Speaker 1: full like heat like and it's ticking in the engines, ticking,
Speaker 1: and I had just fully blown the fucking motor.
Speaker 3: Who and she blew up at me and like we
Speaker 3: couldn't fix it.
Speaker 1: It was only like a five thousand dollar car, so
Speaker 1: it like wasn't worth fixing.
Speaker 3: But I'd just blown.
Speaker 1: I don't know what I'd blown, but because I was
Speaker 1: just driving and I didn't even hear.
Speaker 2: I think the same thing happened to my car. The
Speaker 2: old Holden Brina that I had that was my first car,
Speaker 2: was a belt. The ticking was actually the belt that
Speaker 2: had broken and was slapping against the motor or something.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know what happened to mine, but it
Speaker 1: was it was gone, and I've gotten so much.
Speaker 2: Also, is it your fault? Like, because this is the thing.
Speaker 2: I think, like that Holden Burna that I had, fuckingl
Speaker 2: it was a Hearst car. It had problem after a problem.
Speaker 2: Like the thing was probably only worth three grand and
Speaker 2: I probably spent seven grand.
Speaker 1: It probably was my fault because I probably hadn't checked
Speaker 1: the oil for ages or something. I think it was
Speaker 1: something to do with that. And then yeah, I just
Speaker 1: didn't notice the heat thing going up because my music
Speaker 1: was blaring on singing. I just wasn't paying attention to
Speaker 1: like you know, so rip it was a little red
Speaker 1: Mazda Estina.
Speaker 2: Yeah, rap Astina.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but good times.
Speaker 2: What lessons did you learn? That's the important part. Check
Speaker 2: your fucking oil.
Speaker 3: Check your oil.
Speaker 1: Yes, but see now, I feel like cars are so
Speaker 1: smart that it would alert us if something's going going wrong.
Speaker 2: My car alerted me not long ago to one of
Speaker 2: the tire pressures not being correct, and I ended up
Speaker 2: having a big nail in it and had to get
Speaker 2: a whole new tire. But I was like, wow, we're
Speaker 2: living in the future. It was and we actually checked
Speaker 2: back right, wheel, checked tire pressure, and I pulled over
Speaker 2: and it was flat.
Speaker 3: Yeah, what did I learn? Hang out with people from
Speaker 3: the central Coast?
Speaker 2: Oh? Well, sorry, you're sitting opposite me, babe.
Speaker 5: Please be upstanding for the royal flush.
Speaker 2: All right, let's get onto our royal flush of the week. Brittany,
Speaker 2: you go first. I haven't letting you go first a
Speaker 2: lot lately. I'm kind of loving the vibes.
Speaker 3: Thank you so much.
Speaker 1: Mine's a little bit old news now, like a few
Speaker 1: weeks old, but I think it's still fine for me
Speaker 1: to say.
Speaker 3: And it's an easy little one. I know.
Speaker 1: We like to leave the quicker ones put the quicker
Speaker 1: ones at the start. Mine is that Tricia Patus is
Speaker 1: having another baby. Oh yeah, when I saw about pop up,
Speaker 1: I know this was a while ago.
Speaker 3: Now I'm just like, go fucking Trisha.
Speaker 2: And you know what because this When I first saw
Speaker 2: the announcement, the first thing I thought is she had
Speaker 2: just come off two weeks prior to the announcement her
Speaker 2: Broadway debut. How she did that Broadway show. And for
Speaker 2: anyone who doesn't know, Trisha has always wanted to be
Speaker 2: on Broadway but has never been like casting anything. So
Speaker 2: she said, stuff it, I'm actually gonna hire a Broadway
Speaker 2: theater and put my own show on and sell tickets
Speaker 2: to my own show. And she did like the story
Speaker 2: of her life in a music hall. That is so cool,
Speaker 2: and it was her and backup dancers. And she has
Speaker 2: really still a lot of music over her career, so
Speaker 2: like she used a lot of her own songs, and
Speaker 2: I think some covers and things like that. Costume changes
Speaker 2: the whole lot. But now knowing that she did all
Speaker 2: of that, pregnant is even more wild than And I
Speaker 2: even saw some videos of her joking about it on stage,
Speaker 2: and actually she actually said like, no, I'm not pregnant.
Speaker 2: I'm just fat, but she was pregnant at the time,
Speaker 2: and also people did the math and I'm pretty sure
Speaker 2: that she fell pregnant like six to eight weeks after
Speaker 2: the last baby was born. Oh, which is very quick,
Speaker 2: I think.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I just love this for her.
Speaker 1: Like I remember watching Tricia Payters back when I discovered
Speaker 1: YouTube in high school. She was one of those first
Speaker 1: YouTubers that I've watched, and she had like a bedroom
Speaker 1: full of stuffed animals and all sorts of stuff.
Speaker 3: Do you remember that?
Speaker 1: And she would have like bleach bleach bleach white blonde
Speaker 1: hair and like hello kitty everything and thick black eyeshadow,
Speaker 1: and she would do like a video talking as quick
Speaker 1: as she could, like, and that was the content that
Speaker 1: she was making and showing off her bedroom and all
Speaker 1: of her stuffed animals. And she's been around for the
Speaker 1: longest out of everyone I know, and we've watched her
Speaker 1: go through so many different phases in her life. And
Speaker 1: now I just love this phase of her life for
Speaker 1: her because.
Speaker 2: That's a good point that you make. Who else would
Speaker 2: be as you know, be on social media as long
Speaker 2: as Tricia Payters has Because just when I.
Speaker 1: First discovered YouTube, it was literally like her, Shane Dawson.
Speaker 2: Who we never see anywhere anymore, Michelle fun who we
Speaker 2: never see anywhere anymore.
Speaker 3: Oh, yeah, he's canceled. Uh.
Speaker 2: I mean, Jeffrey Starr did have YouTube videos, but really
Speaker 2: wasn't a prominent like YouTuber like Tricia Peters.
Speaker 1: Was a guy could tells story times and now he's
Speaker 1: on TikTok and it's always got the animation playing along
Speaker 1: with him telling the story.
Speaker 3: I don't know, this guy fell down a stairs.
Speaker 2: Not Ray William Johnson.
Speaker 3: Yeah, he was on YouTube back then too, I.
Speaker 2: Know, but he's not really like relevant. I feel like
Speaker 2: Tricia Petters is.
Speaker 3: The most Yeah, she's remained the most relevant.
Speaker 2: Yeah, which is crazy.
Speaker 1: I know, good on her, Like she's done a lot
Speaker 1: of fucking crazy things over the years, I know, but
Speaker 1: I'm just like good on her. When I saw her
Speaker 1: little announcement, I was like, that's so nice, because I
Speaker 1: think none of us really ever saw like Tricia going
Speaker 1: into this chapter of her life on social media, like
Speaker 1: and now she's just full mum.
Speaker 2: She's a bit Sharon Strizleky in the way that she
Speaker 2: was always a bit desperate and dateless and hopeless, and
Speaker 2: she would tell story times of like guys she was
Speaker 2: seeing and then it didn't go well.
Speaker 1: Watched her have so many bad boyfriends. Yeah, I remember
Speaker 1: the dancer guy and they would make dances together like
Speaker 1: that was fucking weird. And then she obviously went out
Speaker 1: with that older guy Jason.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah.
Speaker 3: But then there was the dancer guy, and I swear
Speaker 3: maybe he could have been gay.
Speaker 2: Yeah I remember that. Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 1: So it's just cool to see her just her life
Speaker 1: has complete life still kind of the same, but also
Speaker 1: like flipped around.
Speaker 2: Yeah, crazy settled down, So she'll have three kids. Yep,
Speaker 2: she's had two, three kids, She's done her Broadway debut.
Speaker 2: They married her and Moses is that his name?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm pretty sure they got married married.
Speaker 2: Yeah. You know, my memory is awful, hopeless. I think
Speaker 2: it's actually not my fault. I think it's that there's
Speaker 2: so much to take in that I can't remember everything,
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, Absolutely, there's so much going on.
Speaker 2: And that's another testament to Tricia is there is so
Speaker 2: much going on on the Internet. Yeah, we're getting fed
Speaker 2: so many things each day. So for her to be
Speaker 2: relevant for that long mm hmm, it's kind of wild
Speaker 2: and congrats to her friend of the pod, Tricia paid Us.
Speaker 2: She loves listening to high scrollers, she texted me earlier today.
Speaker 1: Actually, I think if we were to meet you know,
Speaker 1: we talk about if we were to meet famous people,
Speaker 1: blah blah blah, we would get along really well with Tricia.
Speaker 2: Paids absolutely just eating. Yeah, would just sit there and
Speaker 2: eat and talk and catch and have fun and just laugh.
Speaker 2: We'd just be pissing the whole time. Yeah. Yeah, she
Speaker 2: seems like such a vibe. So that's your royal flush,
Speaker 2: Tricia paid Us being pregnant.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's my royal happy flush and happy for Tricia
Speaker 1: and hope she's happy. I feel like we all feel
Speaker 1: the same about her in that way. She's just like
Speaker 1: our friend.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I have a really good royal flush this week
Speaker 2: that I want to talk about. So this is a
Speaker 2: little hard for me to explain the video, but it's
Speaker 2: like more about the conversation that I want to have
Speaker 2: after this. So I saw this video on my for
Speaker 2: you of this mother and daughter having a conversation but
Speaker 2: you know, to the beat of a song and all
Speaker 2: the rest of that. Let me try and explain it.
Speaker 2: It's hard to explain when we can't play the song
Speaker 2: on the podcast for legal reasons, but also it's just
Speaker 2: text on a screen. Basically, it's the mum and she says,
Speaker 2: why do you still talk to my ex boyfriend?
Speaker 3: Ooh?
Speaker 2: And then the daughter says, he's literally my dad, and
Speaker 2: then the mum gets pissed off and sticks her finger up.
Speaker 3: That's the trend, oh.
Speaker 2: Why do you still talk to my ex boyfriend? So
Speaker 2: it's a mother and daughter having a conversation. The mum's going,
Speaker 2: why do you still talk to my ex boyfriend? Or
Speaker 2: why do you still talk to my ex?
Speaker 3: Let's just say my mum is saying that to the daughter.
Speaker 2: And the daughter goes, he's literally my dad. And it's
Speaker 2: hilarious because I have never thought about this in my life,
Speaker 2: but it actually makes so much sense.
Speaker 1: I have thought about this, okay, because when my oh,
Speaker 1: my mom and dad broke up when I was like nine,
Speaker 1: so I was like young, but I knew exactly what
Speaker 1: was going on. And then when I was fourteen, my
Speaker 1: dad stopped talking to me like permanently, and then I
Speaker 1: went through like years of devastation that my dad hadn't
Speaker 1: spoke to me in six months, a year, two years,
Speaker 1: blah blah blah. And I was so depressed and so
Speaker 1: upset for like all those developmental years in my teenage childhood,
Speaker 1: that I would be crying most days and didn't go
Speaker 1: to school, I couldn't get out of bed, and my
Speaker 1: mom showed me no.
Speaker 3: Like empathy in any of that, which is fucked up.
Speaker 1: But she showed me no empathy and would just say
Speaker 1: things like get the fuck out of bed, like get
Speaker 1: over it. He's a fucking piece of shit anyway, blah
Speaker 1: blah blah. And in that time, all I could feel
Speaker 1: was hurt because I was so hurt that my dad
Speaker 1: stopped talking to me, like I was devastated, and I
Speaker 1: didn't think about it at the time, but like upon
Speaker 1: reflect in my adult life, I can see why she
Speaker 1: didn't give a fuck and was like get over him
Speaker 1: because that's her.
Speaker 3: Ex fucking husband.
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, and yes, I think she should have been
Speaker 1: more comforting towards me in that time and had a
Speaker 1: bit more empathy.
Speaker 3: But let's not even fucking go there.
Speaker 1: But I get it that she was like, get the
Speaker 1: fuck over him, he's a piece of shit anyway, because
Speaker 1: that's just her ex husband.
Speaker 3: Like that's not her dad.
Speaker 1: So she couldn't relate to me, but still should have
Speaker 1: been a better mother no offense.
Speaker 2: So this is like something that I'm only discovering after
Speaker 2: watching that TikTok is. I'm like, you know, you like
Speaker 2: you hear all the time about how like in divorced,
Speaker 2: like I mean, I feel in my experience, I've heard
Speaker 2: a lot more about like how the mother does get
Speaker 2: really angry and and just talk about the ex husband,
Speaker 2: which is awkward for a child because it's like that's
Speaker 2: my dad.
Speaker 3: Oh we got fucking dragged through the trenches.
Speaker 1: But actually from both of our parents when they divorce,
Speaker 1: like I would hear the worst things in the world
Speaker 1: about dad, and from dad I would hear the worst
Speaker 1: things in the world about mum, which I think is
Speaker 1: so fucking unhealthy.
Speaker 3: Like grow the fuck up.
Speaker 1: Like, I have a lot of respect for people that
Speaker 1: have kids and they split up their divorce or whatever,
Speaker 1: and they can be amicable for the kids. Any parents
Speaker 1: that do that, I like take my hat off to
Speaker 1: them because I know what it's like to be dragged
Speaker 1: through a divorce as a kid.
Speaker 2: Okay, So in my experience and with my friend group,
Speaker 2: the running theme has been that our moms act like
Speaker 2: that or acted like that, but our dads and my
Speaker 2: dad especially would like never say a bad word about
Speaker 2: my mum.
Speaker 1: My mum definitely was a lot more vocal than my dad,
Speaker 1: but dad did say little things, but mum was definitely
Speaker 1: the perpetrator of he's a piece of shit.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, yeah, I saw that TikTok, and I was like,
Speaker 2: that actually is one of those things that I just
Speaker 2: learned today and realized where it's like, oh my god,
Speaker 2: like no wonder because I remember thinking, obviously when my
Speaker 2: parents got divorced, I remember thinking like we went from
Speaker 2: this household where it was like so loving to all
Speaker 2: of a sudden just like vicious really is like the
Speaker 2: word that's coming to mind, Like like it just went
Speaker 2: from zero to one hundred really quick. And I'd never
Speaker 2: really experienced that. And obviously at the time, I was like,
Speaker 2: why is my mom like being so one mean to
Speaker 2: my dad? But also just like where's this mom come from?
Speaker 2: Because like she's never really like acted like this at least,
Speaker 2: I'd never seen that kind of side of her so
Speaker 2: to speak. Yeah, and I guess I now am like,
Speaker 2: no fucking wonder because that's her ex Yeah, I think
Speaker 2: about all of my exes.
Speaker 1: It creates such a mess, especially when kids are involved,
Speaker 1: like because then your kids are getting flung between these
Speaker 1: two exes that in most cases absolutely hate each other's guts.
Speaker 2: And also the fact that, like I think about all
Speaker 2: my exes and the way that it like when it down,
Speaker 2: it was fucking vicious, like we would go at each other.
Speaker 2: But now you know, like, for example, the exit, the
Speaker 2: first exit comes to mind is like disgusting, and we
Speaker 2: obviously you know, ended on like very very bad terms,
Speaker 2: et cetera, et cetera. And the last thing he said
Speaker 2: to me was I hope you get cancer, which is
Speaker 2: just so fucking wild, right, And I always think about that.
Speaker 2: I'm just like, I wonder if he regrets or thinks
Speaker 2: about that moment, because I think about that moment all
Speaker 2: the time. I'm like, that is such a fucked up
Speaker 2: thing to say to someone. Even though we were going
Speaker 2: at each other's throats and we hated each other and
Speaker 2: we're going through a breakup. I was like, I feel
Speaker 2: that was just a little too far, you know what
Speaker 2: I mean. Anyway, so he said that's the last thing
Speaker 2: he ever said to me. The thing is that like,
Speaker 2: then you know, a year later, I've not forgotten about him,
Speaker 2: but I'm like over it. And I'm because obviously I
Speaker 2: was the one that got hurt in that relationship and
Speaker 2: I had a lot of healing to do. I feel
Speaker 2: like he just carried on with his life and went
Speaker 2: on to the next guy two weeks later. But what
Speaker 2: I'm saying is now I haven't thought or felt anything
Speaker 2: about him, or he hasn't impacted my life at all
Speaker 2: in the last like ten fifteen years. I can't remember
Speaker 2: when I dated him, but it was a long time ago.
Speaker 2: But when you have kids with the person you are with,
Speaker 2: like they will be in your life or you will
Speaker 2: have a reminder of them or whatever you want to
Speaker 2: call it. Yeah, like you will have to be in
Speaker 2: contact with them for drop offs and things like that.
Speaker 2: You even if you're not in contact, you're still the
Speaker 2: kid connected to the other person, even if you're not.
Speaker 2: Like let's take your situation where your dad wasn't talking
Speaker 2: to you and I'm assuming your mum then, like, you're
Speaker 2: still connected through you. She's still connected to him through you,
Speaker 2: So every time she looks at you, like it's like, oh,
Speaker 2: it's still a reminder.
Speaker 1: Well, like with my situation is like my sister stayed
Speaker 1: connected to my dad the whole time that he wasn't
Speaker 1: talking to me, So it was even me dealing with
Speaker 1: because Emma and I would go to we went to
Speaker 1: the same high school together, like a few years apart,
Speaker 1: but like Sharon would go to work in the morning
Speaker 1: and then we'd have to.
Speaker 3: Get ourselves to school.
Speaker 1: So Dad would come and pick Emma up from our house,
Speaker 1: and Emma was too young to know and would go nan.
Speaker 3: Nani, nah, nah, Dad's picking me up and not you.
Speaker 3: You have to catch the bus.
Speaker 1: And then I would deal with the sadness of seeing
Speaker 1: her drive off with him, knowing I'm about to go
Speaker 1: get on the bus, and then crying to my mum,
Speaker 1: but her hating him because that's her ex fucking husband.
Speaker 2: Traumatic.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like it's a lot. So I think the lesson
Speaker 1: to take away from this is be careful who you
Speaker 1: have kids with.
Speaker 2: Well, first of all, was absolutely.
Speaker 1: Like people don't think what people clearly think, but people
Speaker 1: don't think like when you're choosing to have kids with
Speaker 1: your partner, like is your relationship gonna fucking last the
Speaker 1: test of time because if not, and then you've got kids,
Speaker 1: Like it just causes literally trauma for the kids. And
Speaker 1: so whenever I just see someone who has parents that
Speaker 1: are split up, but they're just like friendly and get along,
Speaker 1: Like my uncle and his first wife split up, but
Speaker 1: they had all my cousins together, but they have remained
Speaker 1: friends the whole time. And I've always really admired that, Like,
Speaker 1: I just really can admire Obviously, not everyone can stay
Speaker 1: friends and get along because stuff happens in relationships and whatever,
Speaker 1: but I just can really appreciate when people are grown
Speaker 1: up enough to put all the shit aside, put all
Speaker 1: the relationship stuff aside, and just get along to get
Speaker 1: along for the sake of the kids.
Speaker 2: Yeah, definitely admire that too. But I think that like,
Speaker 2: even if you can't be amicable amicable and get along,
Speaker 2: I've always my whole life been like why does it
Speaker 2: get so vicious and bitchy and why does it get
Speaker 2: so cutthroat all of a sudden?
Speaker 1: And now I'm like, duh, yeah, because people fucking do
Speaker 1: fucked up shit, right, and.
Speaker 2: It's and I feel like when i'd come home from
Speaker 2: my dad's house, my mom would just be like in
Speaker 2: a bad move.
Speaker 1: I wasn't And then when when my dad got with
Speaker 1: Jackie my stepmom. Oh didn't my mom fucking hate Jackie?
Speaker 1: You know? And I get it, yeah, Like, but I'd
Speaker 1: be like, Jackie's really nice.
Speaker 2: I've always been like, why are people acting this way?
Speaker 2: Why is it? And I'm not trying to throw my
Speaker 2: mom or my dad or my family under bus I
Speaker 2: feel like it's a recurring thing with a lot of people.
Speaker 2: But my whole life, I've been like, why is it
Speaker 2: this way? And now this one TikTok has simplified all
Speaker 2: of that trauma for me, and I've gone, it's still
Speaker 2: a relationship and there's a new girlfriend on the scene,
Speaker 2: or you know, a relationship is broken down, and then
Speaker 2: add a house into it and add kids into it
Speaker 2: and all the rest of it. I think about my
Speaker 2: breakup with that ex boyfriend and how that ended. I go,
Speaker 2: can't imagine having a house and a kid and two
Speaker 2: kids with him and all the rest of that and
Speaker 2: having to sort out, you know, twenty twenty years being together.
Speaker 2: We were together only six seven eight months or something
Speaker 2: like imagine any fucking child support, You've got careers, baby, Like,
Speaker 2: oh my god, no, wonder people go psychotic.
Speaker 3: I'm not a marriage breakdown I don't wonder.
Speaker 2: It just makes so much sense to me. So that's
Speaker 2: all I wanted to say, is that changed my life
Speaker 2: and my perspective on a lot of things. This week
Speaker 2: I saw a new trend called the anti bucket list.
Speaker 2: Have you seen this?
Speaker 3: Yes?
Speaker 2: And it's basically for those who don't know the things
Speaker 2: that would never be on your bucket list and that
Speaker 2: you'd never want to do. So obviously we have our
Speaker 2: bucket list, as we know, I'm taking a lot of
Speaker 2: things off this year, and the bucket list is the
Speaker 2: things that you have to do before you die. The
Speaker 2: anti bucket list is things that you would be happy
Speaker 2: to die and not have done. The first thing that
Speaker 2: comes to mind for me skydiving, Yeah.
Speaker 3: I'd never do that my life. Skydiving. Never do bungee
Speaker 3: jumping actually.
Speaker 2: A lot of bunge jumping is another one for me.
Speaker 2: Would never do a lot.
Speaker 3: Of things that Tanya said. I was like, yes.
Speaker 1: She also said the cave diving, which I know we've
Speaker 1: spoken about on the pod already.
Speaker 2: Uh huh.
Speaker 3: Never going to climb in.
Speaker 2: A fucking cave, not doing cave diving.
Speaker 1: And same with hers climbing a mountain like Mount Everest
Speaker 1: and whatever the fuck?
Speaker 2: Yeah? No, thanks, Yeah, I feel like I have no
Speaker 2: interest in going above and beyond in life. Like to
Speaker 2: put it simply, I have nil interest in going going
Speaker 2: above and beyond in life. I'm happy to live my life.
Speaker 2: Do fun things exist. You know. I'm not climbing Mount Everest,
Speaker 2: I'm not going cave diving. I'm not going skydiving. I'm
Speaker 2: not changing the world. I'm happy to sit this one out, baby,
Speaker 2: someone else can do it for me. I'm happy to
Speaker 2: not be a billionaire.
Speaker 3: I'm trying to think of anything that I got more.
Speaker 2: Oh what do you mean her?
Speaker 3: Okay, you tell me.
Speaker 2: One other one of mine?
Speaker 3: Ab sailing, yep, oh don't.
Speaker 2: A lot of these. You will see there's a running
Speaker 2: theme here with physical activity. Another one of mine. Now,
Speaker 2: this one isn't as big as the other ones. But
Speaker 2: scuba diving.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I'd never do that.
Speaker 2: That's I'm happy to die and never scuba diving.
Speaker 3: Shark cage diving.
Speaker 2: Now. I have tried scuba diving before when I was
Speaker 2: in Fiji, and I didn't get past the So you
Speaker 2: have to do a training session in the pool, Yeah,
Speaker 2: one on one. You put the scuba you put all
Speaker 2: the stuff in, and then they just have the swimming
Speaker 2: pool like a little scuba swimming pool, and you just
Speaker 2: have to like sink to the bottom and learn how
Speaker 2: to breathe, and they just go, Yep, you're good, let's
Speaker 2: go out. I couldn't get past that, even with like
Speaker 2: not even two meters of water above my head. I
Speaker 2: was like, I feel like I can't breathe with this tank,
Speaker 2: and get me out of here. I was very claustrophobic,
Speaker 2: and I don't often feel claustrophobic, so I can't imagine
Speaker 2: actually doing it in the ocean neither.
Speaker 3: I think.
Speaker 1: Another one I wouldn't do is just like be interested
Speaker 1: in hiking.
Speaker 2: Yeah I would hike, though would you hike?
Speaker 3: I don't think so.
Speaker 1: And is it like to take it to another level
Speaker 1: going on a holiday day to go hiking. Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: fucked like people that go on holidays to go hiking.
Speaker 2: So what constitutes a hike? Like could you go google
Speaker 2: girl please, Hannah? What what makes it a hike as
Speaker 2: opposed to an outdoor walk? Because I when I was
Speaker 2: in La went to Runyon Canyon.
Speaker 3: Yes see, I'll do that.
Speaker 2: So have you done that?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 2: Okay, but like.
Speaker 1: I would do that when I'm like you go see
Speaker 1: a two risty little walk. But just like hiking in general,
Speaker 1: going on different trails and paths, and I don't know,
Speaker 1: it's different if you're like in La and wanting to
Speaker 1: see like the Hollywood Hills.
Speaker 2: So Google says a hike versus a walk. So while
Speaker 2: both involved being outdoors, a hike is generally considered a
Speaker 2: more strenuous activity than an outdoor walk, typically typically involving
Speaker 2: uneven terrain, significant elevation changes, and potentially longer distances, offering
Speaker 2: or crying, often requiring sorry, well I can't fucking read today,
Speaker 2: requiring specialized foot wearing gear, whereas an outdoor walk is
Speaker 2: usually on a fl a well maintained path. Okay, so
Speaker 2: it's about the you're going up a rocky mountain and
Speaker 2: you're actually hiking up all.
Speaker 3: Please form the same category like ab sailing, Like I
Speaker 3: never do that. Yeah, I'm trying to think of like non.
Speaker 1: Thing.
Speaker 2: Yeah, are there any places in the world. We've spoken
Speaker 2: about this before, though. You couldn't give shit about anywhere
Speaker 2: in the world, could you. You know, there's places on
Speaker 2: my bucket list, but there's.
Speaker 3: There's things that go lots of places.
Speaker 2: I have been to the Olympics before, but that's one
Speaker 2: thing that I couldn't give shit about. Sorry, sports people,
Speaker 2: but if I never went to the Olympics in my life,
Speaker 2: I would that wouldn't hate myself for that if I died?
Speaker 3: What else?
Speaker 2: What else? Go to church?
Speaker 3: Okay?
Speaker 2: I don't know if that's a bucket startum for anyone, though,
Speaker 2: do you know what I mean? I feel like that's
Speaker 2: like what could you please look up? Go Google? Sorry,
Speaker 2: I'm really put in your salary. Can you type in
Speaker 2: like the top things on people's bucket lists?
Speaker 3: See the lights?
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's on my bucket list.
Speaker 3: See I couldn't care less. I didn't see that.
Speaker 2: Float on the Dead Sea is one of the most
Speaker 2: popular ones.
Speaker 1: That's not learn a foreign language. I'll never learn another language,
Speaker 1: I don't think really, unless I'm like old and bored.
Speaker 2: Just because you can't be bothered or because you don't
Speaker 2: think you could, I can't be bothered. Yeah, okay, buy
Speaker 2: a house, go whitewater rafting. I did that in Bali.
Speaker 2: It was quite fun, really, run a marathon. A lot
Speaker 2: of these very physical but of course I actually it's
Speaker 2: not on my bucket list, But I do think that
Speaker 2: I will run a marathon in my life.
Speaker 1: Visit the Stone Henge. Have you seen that video where
Speaker 1: the girl is going?
Speaker 3: Is that it? Have you seen that?
Speaker 2: Yeah? It's tiny, Like she's saying how tiny it is? Yeah,
Speaker 2: isn't she? Yeah? I feel like bucket list things seem to.
Speaker 3: Be a lot of go horseback riding. Yeah, would you
Speaker 3: ever do that?
Speaker 2: But see why is that on your bucket list? Is
Speaker 2: that like not accessible to a lot of people. I've
Speaker 2: done horseback riding, have you?
Speaker 3: I've only been on like the pony.
Speaker 2: Bruce Magooch, Like I was like, really sore.
Speaker 3: Who's a horse girl?
Speaker 2: You've got a bone like right under there?
Speaker 3: Yes, I'll tell you your tail bone.
Speaker 2: No, no, underneath Like it's hard to describe, but it's
Speaker 2: like in between, in between that be in between. If
Speaker 2: you push on that, there's like, well it's not really
Speaker 2: a bone, but you can just it's firm.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Fuck it was Bruce for weeks after a horse run.
Speaker 2: I think because you're going up and down, up and down,
Speaker 2: up and down, and I was hitting, hit and hitting. Anyway,
Speaker 2: who's a horse.
Speaker 3: Girl, April? Would you pick that?
Speaker 2: Oh? She's genuinely a horse girl that rides horses. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I thought you just meant because horse girl, I feel
Speaker 2: these days, doesn't even mean.
Speaker 3: That's just weird. I went to boarding school.
Speaker 2: Oh, here we go down on the mike, Hannah. Hannah
Speaker 2: wants to have a toll. Let's see what she's got
Speaker 2: in store for us this week? Is that watermelon? Is
Speaker 2: it potato? Under the scene?
Speaker 3: Is this a rare thing?
Speaker 5: And people look at you funny when you say this.
Speaker 5: I went to boarding school, but I took my horse
Speaker 5: to boarding school with me, and he lived at school
Speaker 5: with me.
Speaker 3: That's cute.
Speaker 5: We had a question in school at our school, So
Speaker 5: six am every morning I was down there giving him pay.
Speaker 5: That's c And then after school every day I had
Speaker 5: to ride him. And then every weekend I went to competitions.
Speaker 3: I reckon, that's cute.
Speaker 2: Okay, we'll leave it at that. I've got so much
Speaker 2: to say, and I don't know where to begin.
Speaker 3: First name was Timothy?
Speaker 2: Can I ask? How does that? How does that? I
Speaker 2: love when animals have a real human name. Calling a
Speaker 2: horse Timothy is fucking unhinged and I love it. Sorry,
Speaker 2: How does having the horse and bringing it and having
Speaker 2: all that responsibility how does that feed into the curriculum
Speaker 2: and you know your your sport.
Speaker 3: It was like my Saturday sport.
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, I see that. But do you
Speaker 2: get points for that? In school?
Speaker 5: It was just like an extra points. It's like drama club.
Speaker 2: Yeah okay, yeah, but I got points from a drama
Speaker 2: you know they counted towards my atar is what I'm on.
Speaker 2: The horse riding does it? It was just like you
Speaker 2: just had a real passion for it.
Speaker 5: Yeah, and we had an equestrian school connected.
Speaker 2: Anyway, there are a lot of things on this list
Speaker 2: here on Google that I feel are like kind of
Speaker 2: you know, like on the bucket list. It also says
Speaker 2: adop a pet, it says ride in a hot air balloon.
Speaker 2: I feel these are really like accessible things that people
Speaker 2: could do. Have you ridden in a hot air balloon, Brittany.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was fun for the first like two minutes,
Speaker 1: and then you're just like, man, Yeah, By the way,
Speaker 1: I'm speaking of subjects like that just reminded me. I
Speaker 1: checked my Facebook memories today and on this day, fifteen
Speaker 1: years ago, I wrote freeze by yourself so fun like
Speaker 1: a free period.
Speaker 3: It's good looking forward to tape. Freeze as in like
Speaker 3: frozen free period bias.
Speaker 2: Yeah, freeze by yourself looking forward to what were you
Speaker 2: learning at tape hairdressing?
Speaker 3: Surely no, Weirdly enough, I was doing business studies. Wow,
Speaker 3: who would have thought? And also, Matt, I've got.
Speaker 2: A did you complete the tape course?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 3: But Matt, I've got a memory of you and I
Speaker 3: eleven years ago?
Speaker 2: Oh what were we doing eleven years ago? What would
Speaker 2: that have been?
Speaker 5: Fourteen?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't even think I had started YouTube then.
Speaker 1: I don't even understand what this is. You posted this
Speaker 1: on my wall and you wrote in like speech quote marks.
Speaker 1: You know how people are like, oh my god, I
Speaker 1: idolize Kirkcoleman dot dot dot dot dot me. Are you
Speaker 1: saying that you?
Speaker 2: I think, yeah, I, oh yeah I did back in
Speaker 2: the day. Absolutely, So I think you must have said
Speaker 2: that either on a more stories. Probably won't a thing,
Speaker 2: but like maybe you've said that in a video and
Speaker 2: I'm quoting your video on your like I've watched your
Speaker 2: video and then I've quoted you because you've gone I
Speaker 2: don't understand how people idolize Kirk Coleman, And I'm saying
Speaker 2: I'm one of those people. Yes, I fucking love and
Speaker 2: I will be a Kirk Coleman stand till the day
Speaker 2: I die. I love or actually you know what I
Speaker 2: will say, shit, that's from that music. Fesseval was that
Speaker 2: when years ago, seven year ago, what music was a
Speaker 2: hot dub wine machine. God, that was a crazy day.
Speaker 2: Was it was insane? Actually? But yeah, actually I take
Speaker 2: back what I said. I love Kirk. He's a good
Speaker 2: friend of mine, gorgeous. There are some things that he
Speaker 2: says that I absolutely cannot agree with and think is
Speaker 2: think her a bit fucked. But for the most part
Speaker 2: and for the back in the day, I just saw
Speaker 2: someone who was their true, authentic self, just trying to
Speaker 2: get through life and they were constantly bullied every day
Speaker 2: on the Internet. And as someone who was constantly bullied
Speaker 2: all throughout high school, I was like, I'm team Kirk
Speaker 2: Coleman because all he's doing. Who cares if he wants
Speaker 2: to fake tan every day and put on the bloody
Speaker 2: orange just fake tan? Who cares if he wants to say?
Speaker 2: I like Kirk Common really was like the blueprint for
Speaker 2: the self love movement. Hello him standing there going I
Speaker 2: love myself. And now we're in a time and age
Speaker 2: where like, if you don't love yourself, why don't you
Speaker 2: love yourself? You're so beautiful, you need to yourself.
Speaker 3: But him saying that trigger it everyone back in the day,
Speaker 3: and we're up yourself.
Speaker 2: So I always was like I understood Kirk Coleman and
Speaker 2: what he was trying to say and what he was
Speaker 2: trying to do, and I probably I wrote that on
Speaker 2: your wall before I even started YouTube, so he had
Speaker 2: no idea who I was. But then through social media
Speaker 2: I got to actually become friends with him, and now
Speaker 2: I do love him. As I said, can't stand by
Speaker 2: everything you say, Kurt, some of the things you say
Speaker 2: are a little bit unhinged. But I will be a
Speaker 2: Kirk Coleman stand forever because I just he is. He
Speaker 2: is real. He is real. He's one of the most
Speaker 2: real people I've ever met. What you see online is
Speaker 2: exactly what you get. Also, before we go, yeah, I
Speaker 2: just want to also say, on top of this, like
Speaker 2: the climbing Mount Everest thing especially that's not on my
Speaker 2: bucket list, but to really fucking double down on it,
Speaker 2: I couldn't give a shit if you climb it.
Speaker 3: No, I couldn't care less either.
Speaker 2: People who climb Everest and go, oh, I climbed Mount Everest,
Speaker 2: fucking get a line.
Speaker 1: Jay's mates did it years ago and one of them
Speaker 1: had to get air lifted off the mountain.
Speaker 2: Oh pathetic, pathetic, because why would you even do it in.
Speaker 1: The you know, I Jo said to me actually the
Speaker 1: other day, I don't know if it's just a new rule,
Speaker 1: but now you have to pick up your pooh on
Speaker 1: the mountain because apparently before people wouldn't and it.
Speaker 3: Was just people's shit everywhere.
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is just like, why would you want to
Speaker 2: do it to your It's just dead. Like I don't
Speaker 2: find it it's special or amazing. I'm like, you've you've
Speaker 2: gone on a walk, You've walked Upper Mountain, so you've
Speaker 2: gone on a hike.
Speaker 1: As we learned earlier, see climbers on Mount Everest are
Speaker 1: required to bring their poop back to base trigger warning.
Speaker 1: Talking about poop back to base camp to be disposed of.
Speaker 1: I couldn't think of anything fucking worse, which it says.
Speaker 2: It's because it adds to pollution, but I'm thinking.
Speaker 3: Look, is that just pool all on the ground?
Speaker 2: Is that does look like poo? There's dead bodies and everything.
Speaker 3: Yeah, what the fuck?
Speaker 2: It's not fun, not fun. I can't think of anything
Speaker 2: worse climbing Mount Everest. If any of our scrollers have.
Speaker 3: You any amount of money, Like, there's.
Speaker 2: Nothing if any of our scrollers have climbed Mount Everest.
Speaker 2: Just no, I couldn't give a ship And it's really
Speaker 2: not a spectacular feet to me. Like if someone goes
Speaker 2: I've climb Mount Everest, I go, and I had chicken
Speaker 2: for dinner last night, sweetie, Like I couldn't give a shit. Sorry,
Speaker 2: I hate to say when I'm with you on that,
Speaker 2: well never will never never never.
Speaker 3: Next minute you get off at a brand deal a
Speaker 3: million dollars to climb Mount Everest.
Speaker 2: See at the top down and raise the fucking flag
Speaker 2: A million dollars.
Speaker 3: Though, come on, I wouldn't do it for a million.
Speaker 2: Oh you reckon my fuck that? But I'd attempt't attempt.
Speaker 3: I can't be bothered.
Speaker 2: I don't know. But see, I think if it was
Speaker 2: a brand deal, you wouldn't have to climb to the
Speaker 2: top like you. I'd go. The brand isn't going to
Speaker 2: force me to the top. I'd go as far as
Speaker 2: I could. And you know, if that's only a kilometer,
Speaker 2: I'm going. I can't do any more. Guys, just cut
Speaker 2: me check and let me go. You know what I mean.
Speaker 2: I film it from this angle so it looks like
Speaker 2: I'm at the top. It's a million dollars. You bitchers
Speaker 2: would do it too. You bitches would do it too.
Speaker 2: Don't say you wouldn't.
Speaker 3: Anyway, Well, that's another episode done and dusted.
Speaker 2: What a fun one. Yeah, at the time of my life. See,
Speaker 2: it was the rant at the start really just got
Speaker 2: everything off my chest and then I was able to
Speaker 2: have a good time. We spoke about so much divorce,
Speaker 2: poo on Mount every and spot three rinses. Anyway, we'll
Speaker 2: catch you on Friday for an episode of Close Friends.
Speaker 2: Don't forget to rate us five stars, leave us a review,
Speaker 2: send us an email. By the way, Yeah, I know
Speaker 2: we've got some traveling happening, so if you while we're away,
Speaker 2: you might want to send in some emails and things
Speaker 2: like that and we'll do a big Maybe we'll do
Speaker 2: a Close Friends episode. W would just read out everyone's emails,
Speaker 2: tell us whatever you'd like, tell us the gossip story,
Speaker 2: tell us a story, tell us a gossip from your
Speaker 2: friend group, tell us the t We'll keep everything anonymous,
Speaker 2: but we'll read out all of your emails when we
Speaker 2: get back anyway, Dale, but I'll let you go. There's
Speaker 2: a bruise on a gooch.