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Speaker 1: Coming up on Relatables, Give it a go if you

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Speaker 1: want him to want you. You wanted to yearn, you

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Speaker 1: wanted to ask you to be your girlfriend. You want this,

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Speaker 1: and you know what, he can give a go his hand.

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Speaker 1: He can give his hand to go. That's for the rest

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Speaker 1: and fucking time. Yeah. I like that word yearning. You

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Speaker 1: want a man, You want your partner to yearn for you.

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Speaker 1: The Relatables podcast is hosted by myself, Audie Clark aka

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Speaker 1: Mummy and my partner in crime, mister Jake Craig aka Daddy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah that's me. You know what, you don't sound enthusiastic

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Speaker 1: to be daddy anymore? Why not? I would say I

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Speaker 1: am enthusiastic to be daddy because daddy is a state

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Speaker 1: of mind. Daddy is a state of my Anyway, what

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Speaker 1: have we got straight up for the Vardies this week?

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Speaker 1: Oh Jake?

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Speaker 2: Sometimes more often than not, you like the chit chat

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Speaker 2: at the start.

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Speaker 1: Yep. And I said to you today, fuck you, Jake,

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Speaker 1: enough chat chit chat. We're gonna go straight into the

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Speaker 1: i G question, which is things men do that live

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Speaker 1: rent free in your head? Yep.

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Speaker 2: And you could have taken this two ways, couldn't you badies. Yes,

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Speaker 2: you could have rent free in a good way or

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Speaker 1: Do you reckon?

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Speaker 2: There's things that live rent free in your head more

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Speaker 2: often not than not be good or bad.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna say the things that live rent free in

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Speaker 1: from past things I've done so bad. Yeah, I feel

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Speaker 1: like for me, when it rains, it paus. But like

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Speaker 1: most of the time, it's normally good things. But then

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Speaker 1: when something bad happens, it's hard to get over that. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's a lot easier to get over a good thing

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Speaker 1: I know, like it's good and then it's gone weird. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we're all like, oh, a new phone would be nice.

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Speaker 1: I really want that new phone. Then you get the

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Speaker 1: new phone, you're like, it is a phone, Okay, put

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Speaker 1: excitement of things wears off. One of my friends who

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Speaker 2: He had a Samsung. First person I've seen him, yees

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Speaker 2: Jake have a Samsung. But it was kind of like,

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Speaker 2: I was like, I respect that dude against the normal.

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Speaker 2: Respect that like it takes a certain type of person

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Speaker 1: What the fuck is that? You know Samsung is starting

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Speaker 1: like an iPhone? Really, Yeah, well that's what Yeah, play

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Speaker 1: into your strengths. Don't try and copy people Samsung, and

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Speaker 1: I had a Wuahwei Samsung. You give that vibe. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Google pixel. Yeah, yeah, Google pixel. That went. I went

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Speaker 2: Let me start a things men do live rent free

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I kind of feel naked sometimes doing it.

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Speaker 1: So you feel naked without you keys and wallet? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, But like people raw dog it and girls make

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Speaker 2: Forget my wallet off and now I will give Apple

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Speaker 1: Right there. That was good. That is good. It's fucking

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Speaker 2: What I saw a lot of girls must keep mind

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm hooded up, ganggang motherfucker hood gang.

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Speaker 1: You're part of the hood gang. No, No, I'm used

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Speaker 1: to my my gets out there touching everything, touching the

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Speaker 1: Things men do live rent free in your head. I

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Speaker 1: Things men do live things men do that live rent

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Speaker 1: slash anxious, so he squeezes your hand and pulls you close.

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Speaker 1: Oh a good one. We haven't had a good one.

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Speaker 1: I like that. Yeah, especially when a man can gauge

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Speaker 1: a situation if you sow there, if you feel like

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Speaker 1: if it's an anxious situation, pull her in close. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Have you could you say you've done that with your

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Speaker 2: it was a tough time.

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Speaker 1: I was like, oh, yeah, hold her hand, held her hand.

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Speaker 3: She didn't touch me, and I was like, well, I

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Speaker 2: I was like, this is a tough situation. She might

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Speaker 2: want some support. No, no, that I'm here. Yeah, I'm

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Speaker 1: I was like, all right, fair, I think things men

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Speaker 1: and free in your head, Gray sweat pants. Yes, women

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Speaker 1: for statistic purposes, Lis, this has gassing you up too?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god? Yeah, maybe over sexualizing a little bit.

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Speaker 5: Once a week, like put a link up, everybody, come

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Speaker 1: If you guys eat Gyg, I think people would respect

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Speaker 1: it would take say Patreon. Patreon is very hardcore fans. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: same sort of sense to me. But then they lent

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Speaker 1: I'll tell you what. I'll leave this to live went

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Speaker 1: free in some heads. You know how predominantly discussing men

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Speaker 1: are buying only fans, Yes, buying only fans. Do you

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Speaker 1: If any man's doing that. Do we respect an organized

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Speaker 1: out there that I do think it's fucked that people

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Speaker 1: pay for only fans. But like if someone again, like

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Speaker 1: I'm not super hard on any stances, like as of

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Speaker 1: think that's fucked. But if someone was to be like,

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Speaker 1: he's why it's not fucked, then I'd be like, okay, fair,

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Speaker 1: Like if it's a good argument, I'm happy to be like, okay,

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Speaker 1: fair fair. One of my ones actually was I didn't

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Speaker 1: do it. What's something the things that men do that

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Speaker 1: live rent free in your head and it's making your

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Speaker 1: opinions your whole personality. Oh that's the opposite of you,

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Speaker 1: that is Oh yeah, I hate an opinion. I hate

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Speaker 1: an opinion. Suppose you just had one of our only fans.

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Speaker 1: I have opinions to make that your personality. See, like,

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Speaker 1: I'm not a big fan of people that have like

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Speaker 1: these really strong opinions about something. When it's like an

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Speaker 1: opinion that okay, actually he's okay, who cares what I

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Speaker 1: was about to talk about? Actually? Who actually cares what

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Speaker 1: I was about to talk about? He was about to

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Speaker 1: have an opinion? Guy, and he's like, wait, actually was yeah,

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Speaker 1: well that's not me. I about to have an opinion,

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Speaker 1: And I'm thinking, wait, who I am? But in my opinion,

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Speaker 1: Relatables Patreon is really good. Oh yeah, ninety the next

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Speaker 1: episode every Thursday, you're going to get the Monday also

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Speaker 1: on Patreon, you're going to get the Thursday's actual episod.

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Speaker 1: You're probably going to get Fridy on page into. All

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Speaker 1: But I'm so no. Sorry that's aud by the way,

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Speaker 1: so if you live in the US the UK, it's

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Speaker 1: going to be cheaper. But okay, what I was going

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Speaker 1: to say was I find it weird. Could be the

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Speaker 1: way I find it when people will have like such

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Speaker 1: a strong opinion on something and then it's so disagreed

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Speaker 1: with because it is actually just wrong. But then people

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Speaker 1: can defend that person because they're like, oh, it's their opinion,

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Speaker 1: like people are allowed to have opinions, like in my opinion.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes there is cases where it is a difference of opinion,

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Speaker 1: but sometimes there is cases where it's a difference of

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Speaker 1: right and wrong.

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Speaker 2: There's harmless opinions, then there's right and wrong which affect

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Speaker 2: other people.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think, like just because someone like you can't

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Speaker 1: let someone of the hook by saying it's their opinion

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Speaker 1: when they have like the actual wrong.

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Speaker 2: I've always struggled to comprehend when someone is wrong and

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Speaker 2: they think they're right but they're wrong.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, sometimes I think they do it for attention, Yes,

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Speaker 6: so do what And I genuinely think people will legitimately

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Speaker 6: prove them wrong with cold, hard cash evidence, throw it

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Speaker 6: in their face and they're wrong, But they still die

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Speaker 6: on their hill.

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Speaker 2: And I'm just like, how can you process that and

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Speaker 2: still have that opinion after all the details and.

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Speaker 1: All the facts. Here's what they do, right, Because it's

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Speaker 1: majority of the time men, unfortunately unfortunately for us because

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Speaker 1: we're part of that gender AnyWho. But what will happen

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Speaker 1: is a man will have a very strong opinion that

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Speaker 1: is wrong, and then another man or a woman will

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Speaker 1: tell them why it's wrong. And then the man will go,

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Speaker 1: well that's your opinion. Yeah, they will fall back on

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Speaker 1: the whole opinion thing. Bloody double nded sword. You can't win,

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Speaker 1: you can't lose. It kills me. Yeah, it kills me too.

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Speaker 1: I know soon want to talk about it, and I

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Speaker 1: don't really remember what it is. Hopefully it wasn't very important.

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Speaker 1: It was probably another opinion.

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Speaker 2: The way Jake seeing is you forgot actually have an

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Speaker 2: idea slash proposition to you. Okay, we talked about Patreon

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Speaker 2: the value of it, but also we're talking about rent free.

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Speaker 2: Should we give a prize two one Patreon member who

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Speaker 2: also shares this episode on their Instagram story and we

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Speaker 2: will pay their rent for a week.

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Speaker 1: That's actually a really cool idea.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so all you have to do is ninety nine

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Speaker 2: a month, be a Patreon member and share this episode

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Speaker 2: or any episode on your story tag us. We'll see

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Speaker 2: them and we'll pay one Battie's rent.

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Speaker 1: I've always kind of felt weird about like getting members

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Speaker 1: that way by being like we're gonna do like one

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Speaker 1: hundred dollars a week giveaway, so we choose a random

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Speaker 1: member that with bux a week or like two hundred

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Speaker 1: whatever you can afford or whatever we could afford. But

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Speaker 1: if we if we just do a one off every

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Speaker 1: now and then we do all one off, like random

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Speaker 1: baddies getting their rent paid this week, I'm fine with that.

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Speaker 1: Hopefully some baddies aren't living like bougie. I was gonna say,

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Speaker 1: if your rent is like if you pay like a

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Speaker 1: thousand bucks a week rent on your own, you're doing fine.

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Speaker 1: You're doing fine, you can fine. You don't need a unio. Okay,

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Speaker 1: here's some you need to be at. You need be

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Speaker 1: wishing casually, no for real, whatever it is going to

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Speaker 1: give a sharehouse. If it's a sharehouse, you'rreu only covering

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Speaker 1: your rent, not there rent. Okay, a couple of things

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Speaker 1: to keep note of, but I don't I love it. Okay,

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Speaker 1: if you go over to patron, sign up by linking

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Speaker 1: the description link in the description, and then I'm going

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Speaker 1: to say, after this episode, I don't know, we'll give

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Speaker 1: it two weeks, we'll give it a couple of weeks,

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Speaker 1: and then we'll pay someone. That is time for a dilemma. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So once again, if you want to submit a dilemma.

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Speaker 1: We say this every week. If you're new here. If

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Speaker 1: you have a dilemma, will answer it if you want

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Speaker 1: to submit. One link in the description is all anonymous.

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Speaker 1: I'm feeling in a good mood to help to though. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: I'm feeling good. Hey, guys, love the pod. I've got

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Speaker 1: a bit of a confusing one and could really use

535
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Speaker 1: an outside perspective. I reconnected with the guy I knew

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Speaker 1: from high school, hadn't seen him in years. Randomly ran

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Speaker 1: into him and he messaged me that night. We started

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Speaker 1: hanging out, slept together, and in the first week we

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Speaker 1: actually saw each other a couple of times and talked properly. Actually,

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Speaker 1: at first communication was normal text here and there, but

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Speaker 1: then it slowly shifted to mostly snapchat, face picks, a

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Speaker 1: little chat, and a lot of late night come over messages.

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Speaker 1: A couple of times he asked me to come over

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Speaker 1: and then fell asleep or bailed because he was tired.

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Speaker 1: Where kind of similar people. Neither of us have ever

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Speaker 1: been in a relationship, and we're both avoidant with emotional conversations.

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Speaker 1: It took me ages to work up the courage, but

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Speaker 1: I finally brought it up in person on Friday night,

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Speaker 1: I asked where things were going. He said he likes me,

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Speaker 1: but doesn't really know if he wants a relationship, doesn't

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Speaker 1: fully know what he wants in life yet, but suggested

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Speaker 1: we give it a go. I also said I hate

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Speaker 1: texting and prefer calls, and he said he'd call me

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Speaker 1: more since then the next morning he had work, I left.

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Speaker 1: We didn't really talk Saturday, I was out all day.

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Speaker 1: Neither of us messaged. On Sunday, around lunchtime, I sent

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Speaker 1: a casual text, just asking how his weekend was, and

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Speaker 1: still haven't had a reply. I do like him, but

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Speaker 1: the conversation we had doesn't really match up to what's

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Speaker 1: happening now. I'm not sure if if this is just

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Speaker 1: how he is emotionally inexperienced, a bit of avoidant, or if

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Speaker 1: the science is already telling me what I need to know.

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Speaker 1: How do you tell the difference? And at what point

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Speaker 1: do you take behavior as the answer? Oh, that's a

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Speaker 1: good question. At the end. At what point do you

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Speaker 1: take behavior as the answer, Because it's hard to take

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Speaker 1: that as the answer at the start, because actions do

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Speaker 1: speak lotter than words, but words talk more. They do

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Speaker 1: do that words do tend to do that, they talk more.

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Speaker 1: I was going to say, PSA to all the young,

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Speaker 1: beautiful bad he's listening right now. If your man's main

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Speaker 1: form of communication is Snapchat and you're not dating and

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Speaker 1: he's asking you to come over late at night, I

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Speaker 1: would run. Yeah, something about snapchat being the main form

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Speaker 1: of communication is giving red flag.

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Speaker 2: I went to why could We be wrong? I went

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Speaker 2: to a Lord concert. Predominantly the demo is young women. Yes,

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Speaker 2: I didn't see it because he told me about it after,

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Speaker 2: and there was three young ladies behind us I don't know,

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Speaker 2: probably sixteen eighty and or whatever, and the whole concert

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Speaker 2: just snapchat.

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Speaker 1: And video snapchat, Snapchat, snapchaps, steps actute Snapchat. I also

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Speaker 1: say about Snapchat as well. Yeah, so Snapchat came out

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Speaker 1: when we were younger. All of us had it. I

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Speaker 1: still have it. Yeah, I don't go on it. But

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Speaker 1: so Snapchat was in and then out with our generation

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Speaker 1: in my opinion, but it's stuck in for the young EASA.

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Speaker 1: So I actually think that it's just so like it's

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Speaker 1: the older half of gen Z trying to be cool

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Speaker 1: not using Snapchat. So I'm calling us out here because

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Speaker 1: younger end of millennials love Snapchat the young young, and yeah,

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Speaker 1: like Joinna's on the cusp. So Joina's like technically gen z,

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Speaker 1: but she's really more millennial. She'll still use Snapchat a lot.

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Speaker 1: And I'm kind of like, you're weird. But it's like,

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Speaker 1: so we're trying to bother us, and below us are

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Speaker 1: all Snapchat lovers, and then us in the middle are

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Speaker 1: like Snapchat haters. So I think it's us that's the problem.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, all right, Well we can take away what

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Speaker 2: I said about Snapchat, but we can still listen to

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Speaker 2: If he's asking you to come over late at night, run,

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Speaker 2: I don't like that. I feel like those intentions is

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Speaker 2: really annoying me.

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Speaker 1: Ready, also, she goes, but okay, ready, I asked where

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Speaker 1: things were going. He said, he likes me. He doesn't

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Speaker 1: really know what if he wants a relationship, doesn't really

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Speaker 1: know what he wants in life yet, but suggested we

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Speaker 1: could give it a go. This guy off if you

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Speaker 1: want him to want you, You wanted to yearn you

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Speaker 1: wanted to ask you to be your girlfriend. You want this,

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Speaker 1: and you know what, he can give a go his hand.

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Speaker 1: He can give his hand to go. Yeah, that's for

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Speaker 1: the rest and fucking time. Yeah. I like that word yearning.

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Speaker 1: You want a man, you want your partner to yearn

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Speaker 1: for you. Yeah, And I would say in the beginning,

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Speaker 1: I did yearn. Yeah, and now that I live with

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Speaker 1: my girlfriend, I actually would. I would admit I don't

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Speaker 1: yearn anymore. I actually think that the whole yearning thing

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Speaker 1: is like good and bad. Well, let's let's not mitigate

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Speaker 1: what we just said. We want him to yearn at

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Speaker 1: the start. Yeah, at the beginning, it's like yearning is

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Speaker 1: kind of like it's like the honeymoon. You want to

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Speaker 1: feel wanted. It's like that, Yeah, you want to be wanted.

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Speaker 1: You want him to want you, Like, this guy's not

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Speaker 1: acting like he wants you.

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Speaker 2: Well, A big problem with young men especially and young

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Speaker 2: people is that they don't know what they want in life.

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Speaker 2: But also I feel like I can't be empathetic towards

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Speaker 2: not wanting.

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Speaker 1: A person when you're talking to him. Yeah, because I

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Speaker 1: can be empathetic you're like, I don't know what I

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Speaker 1: want to do in my career, but I couldn't be

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Speaker 1: empathetic if you're going on dates and then you say

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Speaker 1: like I don't know if I want a relationship or not,

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Speaker 1: and don't give him excuses by saying like is he

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Speaker 1: just emotionally avoidant? Like who fucking cares? Yeah, there's a

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Speaker 1: couple of cheeky red flags here, But it's hard, like

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Speaker 1: I remember being young, dumb, full of come like, it's hard.

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Speaker 1: It's hard to see. It's hard to see it is

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Speaker 1: it is?

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Speaker 2: It is, especially when you're in it and you don't

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Speaker 2: have I don't want to give excuses and say you

642
00:32:10,080 --> 00:32:12,840
Speaker 2: don't have the skills to be emotionally intelligent, but also

643
00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:16,880
Speaker 2: you just don't like I've done I've said dumb shit

644
00:32:16,960 --> 00:32:18,960
Speaker 2: like that I've done dumb shit because I was just dumb.

645
00:32:19,000 --> 00:32:21,840
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I'm just a dumb man. He's a question

646
00:32:23,120 --> 00:32:26,480
Speaker 1: like what is avoidant attachment? I wouldn't say it's a

647
00:32:26,480 --> 00:32:28,760
Speaker 1: fucking thing. I suppose it's just gonna say, like, I

648
00:32:28,800 --> 00:32:30,400
Speaker 1: don't know if it's an ad hot take to be, like,

649
00:32:30,520 --> 00:32:32,840
Speaker 1: is avoidant attachment even a thing? Because if it is,

650
00:32:32,840 --> 00:32:34,960
Speaker 1: I don't want to be out of here saying it's not. Yeah,

651
00:32:35,040 --> 00:32:37,080
Speaker 1: I also feel like you know how we talk about

652
00:32:37,160 --> 00:32:43,040
Speaker 1: like what are they called when you're different loving style?

653
00:32:43,080 --> 00:32:46,440
Speaker 1: What are the acts of service. Yeah, different types of weight,

654
00:32:46,520 --> 00:32:48,080
Speaker 1: the ways you give love and the way you receive love,

655
00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:50,600
Speaker 1: everyone's a little different. Yeah, yeah, and you're a little different.

656
00:32:50,640 --> 00:32:52,960
Speaker 1: I feel like it's especially when you're young, it's kind

657
00:32:52,960 --> 00:32:54,959
Speaker 1: of like the way you saw love of your parents,

658
00:32:55,400 --> 00:32:57,440
Speaker 1: and that's just your pretense of what love is. But

659
00:32:57,480 --> 00:32:59,320
Speaker 1: then the older you get, you figure out your own

660
00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:01,920
Speaker 1: way of loving. And especially with that guy, like he's

661
00:33:01,920 --> 00:33:05,000
Speaker 1: probably seen his parents never fucking kissing hit and like

662
00:33:05,040 --> 00:33:07,200
Speaker 1: he hasn't really built up his own version of love yet.

663
00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:10,360
Speaker 1: And I don't know, as my realization a little bit,

664
00:33:10,640 --> 00:33:12,240
Speaker 1: but can I actually quickly, I just want to look

665
00:33:12,240 --> 00:33:14,320
Speaker 1: at what is like avoidant attachment because I want to know.

666
00:33:14,720 --> 00:33:17,160
Speaker 2: I don't think avoidant is a thing, like, well, I

667
00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:18,400
Speaker 2: love you, but I want to avoid you.

668
00:33:19,000 --> 00:33:20,960
Speaker 1: Like what is avoid Is it a disorder? Like would

669
00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:25,520
Speaker 1: I say what is avoidant detachment? I'm just gonna say

670
00:33:25,520 --> 00:33:30,640
Speaker 1: what is avoidant attachment? Avoidant attachment? So, avoidant detachment is

671
00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:34,080
Speaker 1: a pattern where someone emotionally distances themselves from others, especially

672
00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:38,240
Speaker 1: in close or romantic relationships, to avoid vulnerability, dependence, or

673
00:33:38,280 --> 00:33:41,720
Speaker 1: feeling overwhelmed. That's an issue. It's commonly linked to avoid

674
00:33:42,040 --> 00:33:45,520
Speaker 1: avoidant attachment styles in attachment theory, what it looks like.

675
00:33:45,640 --> 00:33:48,840
Speaker 1: Someone with avoidant detachment might pull away when things get

676
00:33:48,880 --> 00:33:52,960
Speaker 1: emotionally intense, Struggle to express feelings, downplay the importance of relationships,

677
00:33:53,240 --> 00:33:56,720
Speaker 1: feel uncomfortable with too much closeness, shut down during conflict,

678
00:33:56,840 --> 00:34:00,840
Speaker 1: need excessive independence, seem fine after breakups for quickly. They

679
00:34:00,880 --> 00:34:03,840
Speaker 1: often value your self reliance and can appear calm or unaffected.

680
00:34:03,920 --> 00:34:08,040
Speaker 1: But that's usually a protective strategy. Why it happens. Avoidant

681
00:34:08,040 --> 00:34:11,960
Speaker 1: detachment often develops when someone grew up with emotionally unavailable

682
00:34:11,960 --> 00:34:16,400
Speaker 1: caregivers learned that expressing needs led to rejection, felt shamed

683
00:34:16,520 --> 00:34:20,000
Speaker 1: for vulnerability, had to be independent too early, so the

684
00:34:20,080 --> 00:34:24,040
Speaker 1: nervous system learned it's safer to need to not need anyone.

685
00:34:24,360 --> 00:34:28,600
Speaker 1: It's not that they don't feel, it's that closeness can

686
00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:31,120
Speaker 1: trigger discomfort or a threat.

687
00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:33,600
Speaker 2: I'll tell you what that used to me, and I'll

688
00:34:33,640 --> 00:34:35,520
Speaker 2: tell you what I wasn't ready for a relationship.

689
00:34:35,840 --> 00:34:41,719
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, here we go. Core in dating slash relationships

690
00:34:41,719 --> 00:34:43,760
Speaker 1: in the talking stage, which I know you love unpacking

691
00:34:43,760 --> 00:34:46,600
Speaker 1: on the pod chutch you beteenas me so well. Avoidant

692
00:34:46,600 --> 00:34:50,320
Speaker 1: detachment might look like strong at the start, then sudden distance. Quote.

693
00:34:50,360 --> 00:34:54,920
Speaker 1: I just don't like labels, avoiding conversations, mixed signals, needing

694
00:34:55,040 --> 00:34:58,040
Speaker 1: space right after intimacy. Wait, hold up, I need space

695
00:34:58,120 --> 00:35:00,960
Speaker 1: right up into me, like, don't touch me. It's not

696
00:35:01,000 --> 00:35:03,800
Speaker 1: avoided detachment though, that's like I feel like that's space

697
00:35:03,840 --> 00:35:06,320
Speaker 1: space like if you went home for like three days.

698
00:35:07,719 --> 00:35:10,560
Speaker 1: It's true. Yeah, we need like space, not like like

699
00:35:10,640 --> 00:35:12,319
Speaker 1: I just need like a bubble, like like a meter up.

700
00:35:14,080 --> 00:35:16,279
Speaker 1: But okay, so look, it's a thing. I don't want

701
00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:17,480
Speaker 1: to be out here saying that it's not a thing

702
00:35:17,480 --> 00:35:19,359
Speaker 1: because I was gonna be like avoid an attach. It's

703
00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:21,280
Speaker 1: not even a thing. They just said that it's an excuse.

704
00:35:21,640 --> 00:35:25,640
Speaker 1: Is it's a thing. It's an excuse though. It's an

705
00:35:25,640 --> 00:35:28,279
Speaker 1: excuse for the way I am, when the way you

706
00:35:28,320 --> 00:35:32,080
Speaker 1: are isn't very healthy. In conclusion, wait, okay, yeah, go on.

707
00:35:32,120 --> 00:35:35,880
Speaker 1: In conclusion, I think this man is not ready for

708
00:35:35,880 --> 00:35:41,440
Speaker 1: a relationship. Yeah, fucking off, and you can do better, agreed.

709
00:35:47,719 --> 00:35:51,400
Speaker 2: Alright, baddies, close your eyes and picture this. You're on

710
00:35:51,440 --> 00:35:55,840
Speaker 2: a first date with a lovely man. He's beautiful, good looking,

711
00:35:56,160 --> 00:36:01,120
Speaker 2: looks like recent arm mains are popping a few buttons

712
00:36:01,160 --> 00:36:02,680
Speaker 2: are Undone, you're.

713
00:36:02,560 --> 00:36:06,000
Speaker 1: Going a date with Jake Cray, you think wake up

714
00:36:06,000 --> 00:36:10,160
Speaker 1: at tonightmare and you're thinking to yourself, is it too

715
00:36:10,200 --> 00:36:12,759
Speaker 1: good to be true? I have him in front of me.

716
00:36:12,800 --> 00:36:14,880
Speaker 1: A couple of questions you can ask to see if

717
00:36:14,880 --> 00:36:19,200
Speaker 1: he's a psychopath. Okay, did you like? Did you look up? Like?

718
00:36:19,800 --> 00:36:22,040
Speaker 1: Actual questions you can ask Beau he is a psychopath? On?

719
00:36:22,080 --> 00:36:23,480
Speaker 1: That is it from your brain? Oh? These are from

720
00:36:23,480 --> 00:36:23,759
Speaker 1: my brain?

721
00:36:23,760 --> 00:36:26,480
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, this is from and I think they do

722
00:36:26,719 --> 00:36:28,120
Speaker 2: conclude if you're a psychopath or not.

723
00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:30,200
Speaker 1: We can see if you're a psychopath too.

724
00:36:30,200 --> 00:36:32,080
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, So questions to ask to find out

725
00:36:32,080 --> 00:36:33,000
Speaker 2: if he's a psychopath.

726
00:36:34,080 --> 00:36:36,080
Speaker 1: Can you fall asleep with a light or lamp on?

727
00:36:38,640 --> 00:36:43,640
Speaker 1: That's a good one because if the answer is yes, psychopath, Yeah,

728
00:36:43,719 --> 00:36:46,840
Speaker 1: I'm a big I like darkness. But wait, living in Sydney,

729
00:36:47,000 --> 00:36:50,040
Speaker 1: I've been able to learn to live with your house light.

730
00:36:50,239 --> 00:36:50,919
Speaker 1: That doesn't count.

731
00:36:51,040 --> 00:36:52,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, like you fall asleep and there's a

732
00:36:52,560 --> 00:36:55,520
Speaker 2: lamp on next to you. That's not a psychopathic? Who

733
00:36:55,520 --> 00:36:56,719
Speaker 2: knows what the next phase is after that?

734
00:36:57,640 --> 00:36:58,000
Speaker 1: All right?

735
00:36:58,080 --> 00:37:00,640
Speaker 2: Questions to ask to find out if he's psychopathic m M.

736
00:37:01,400 --> 00:37:03,680
Speaker 2: Do you have a shower after a night out?

737
00:37:04,560 --> 00:37:07,560
Speaker 1: The question, sorry, the answer better be fucking yes if

738
00:37:07,600 --> 00:37:10,799
Speaker 1: it's not what you gotta run. I definitely have had

739
00:37:10,800 --> 00:37:12,719
Speaker 1: some big nights out where I've just like flopped into bed.

740
00:37:13,560 --> 00:37:16,360
Speaker 1: That's pretty disgusting because also if I'm dating you and

741
00:37:16,400 --> 00:37:18,319
Speaker 1: you're doing that and sleeping next to me, I'm like, oh,

742
00:37:20,680 --> 00:37:22,200
Speaker 1: I've got to be honest. Though, If Beth got home

743
00:37:22,200 --> 00:37:23,880
Speaker 1: from a big night out and goes, I'm so fucked

744
00:37:23,880 --> 00:37:26,640
Speaker 1: I can't be bothered shower, I'd be like, don't really. Yeah,

745
00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:29,359
Speaker 1: I'd be like I don't care. I would be like, chat,

746
00:37:29,600 --> 00:37:32,399
Speaker 1: change the sheets tomorrow. But I would also be like, god,

747
00:37:32,520 --> 00:37:35,600
Speaker 1: that's a I'm gonna say, you're not. I actually think, yeah,

748
00:37:35,600 --> 00:37:37,800
Speaker 1: you're not a psychopaths, you dn't whatever or whatever, whatever,

749
00:37:37,920 --> 00:37:41,360
Speaker 1: because if you're drunk, whatever whatever. Questions to ask to

750
00:37:41,360 --> 00:37:44,480
Speaker 1: find out if he's a psychopath. Do you clap when

751
00:37:44,480 --> 00:37:49,239
Speaker 1: the plane lands. I've never actually experienced someone climbing when

752
00:37:49,239 --> 00:37:51,640
Speaker 1: the plan. Have you actually have you had? It's because

753
00:37:51,680 --> 00:37:54,880
Speaker 1: you've got to experience bad turbulence, like within half an

754
00:37:54,880 --> 00:37:57,920
Speaker 1: hour of landing, and it's a bit of a tough landing.

755
00:37:57,960 --> 00:38:00,760
Speaker 1: And then they landed, and everyone's like, I've been so lucky.

756
00:38:00,760 --> 00:38:03,120
Speaker 1: Then I've been so so I've experienced it, like twice,

757
00:38:04,160 --> 00:38:08,480
Speaker 1: people clapping as that's the funniest thing. Discuss that thing ever, So, Psycho,

758
00:38:08,560 --> 00:38:10,600
Speaker 1: do you want to know what I have experienced on

759
00:38:10,640 --> 00:38:13,359
Speaker 1: a plane? When I was young, I was flying as

760
00:38:13,360 --> 00:38:16,160
Speaker 1: an unaccompanied minor with my sister. We're both under the

761
00:38:16,160 --> 00:38:18,480
Speaker 1: age of fifteen. So you like, you wear like this

762
00:38:18,560 --> 00:38:20,840
Speaker 1: lanyard you're an unaccompanied minor, and like a worker at

763
00:38:20,880 --> 00:38:22,680
Speaker 1: the airport has to take you past because your parents

764
00:38:22,719 --> 00:38:24,520
Speaker 1: can take you to security, and then they take you

765
00:38:24,600 --> 00:38:27,080
Speaker 1: they're allowed to go through security, and so then an

766
00:38:27,200 --> 00:38:29,200
Speaker 1: airport worker you get to go on like a golf

767
00:38:29,239 --> 00:38:30,680
Speaker 1: curt and they take you all the way to the gate.

768
00:38:30,760 --> 00:38:35,200
Speaker 1: Walking on the plane. First halfway through a flight from

769
00:38:35,239 --> 00:38:38,880
Speaker 1: like Canada or to Australia, this guy has a seizure,

770
00:38:39,200 --> 00:38:42,600
Speaker 1: really scary, two three seats away from us. This guy

771
00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:45,040
Speaker 1: like unfortunately, I felt really bad for him. I didn't

772
00:38:45,040 --> 00:38:46,600
Speaker 1: know what it was at the time, but like he

773
00:38:47,800 --> 00:38:52,520
Speaker 1: I think that he must have had them often because

774
00:38:53,600 --> 00:38:57,120
Speaker 1: I he like it's like pitch black, or like when

775
00:38:57,160 --> 00:38:59,359
Speaker 1: they turn it down the lights down the pitch black,

776
00:38:59,800 --> 00:39:02,840
Speaker 1: but everyone's like sleeping and he just like goes ra

777
00:39:03,520 --> 00:39:05,400
Speaker 1: really and it's like he was fighting it because he

778
00:39:05,440 --> 00:39:06,880
Speaker 1: knew it was going to happen. And I feel like

779
00:39:07,080 --> 00:39:08,960
Speaker 1: when I got a little older and a little more

780
00:39:09,000 --> 00:39:11,960
Speaker 1: self aware, I felt really bad for this guy. I like,

781
00:39:12,400 --> 00:39:14,279
Speaker 1: thinking back, feels so bad for him because like he

782
00:39:14,320 --> 00:39:16,320
Speaker 1: was clearly fighting it, but then it took over and

783
00:39:16,360 --> 00:39:18,480
Speaker 1: he just had a seizure and I was like, I

784
00:39:18,560 --> 00:39:21,480
Speaker 1: was like fucking nine. I was like, what is going on?

785
00:39:21,800 --> 00:39:24,160
Speaker 1: And you meant to just leave him too? I think

786
00:39:24,200 --> 00:39:27,759
Speaker 1: a siez. Yeah, so that an epilepsy. I actually don't know,

787
00:39:27,840 --> 00:39:29,640
Speaker 1: but they did a PA thing was like anybody a

788
00:39:29,640 --> 00:39:31,239
Speaker 1: doctor blah blah blah, and so like it's some guy

789
00:39:31,239 --> 00:39:33,319
Speaker 1: that was a doctor. That's scary too because also as

790
00:39:33,320 --> 00:39:35,400
Speaker 1: a nine year old is no figure of nine nine

791
00:39:35,480 --> 00:39:36,920
Speaker 1: year old. It's like it kind of would look like

792
00:39:36,960 --> 00:39:41,000
Speaker 1: a zombies coming. I was terrified. Questions to ask to

793
00:39:41,000 --> 00:39:44,520
Speaker 1: find out if he's a psychopath? Do you change out

794
00:39:44,520 --> 00:39:45,960
Speaker 1: of your work uniform as soon as you get home

795
00:39:45,960 --> 00:39:47,920
Speaker 1: from work? Yeah, great question. And if he doesn't he's

796
00:39:47,920 --> 00:39:50,560
Speaker 1: a psycho, one great question? Do you set more than

797
00:39:50,560 --> 00:39:56,719
Speaker 1: one alone in the morning. Oh I think that. Oh

798
00:39:57,320 --> 00:40:03,520
Speaker 1: whah Okay. When I needed to set an alarm, I

799
00:40:03,520 --> 00:40:06,359
Speaker 1: definitely had two or three. Why just wake up on

800
00:40:06,400 --> 00:40:08,239
Speaker 1: the first time. I think it's crazy to be able

801
00:40:08,239 --> 00:40:09,160
Speaker 1: to wake up on the first one.

802
00:40:09,680 --> 00:40:12,640
Speaker 2: I reckon one. One alarm is psychopathic? Really, Yeah, to

803
00:40:12,680 --> 00:40:13,799
Speaker 2: set it for the time you want to wake up

804
00:40:13,800 --> 00:40:16,520
Speaker 2: and get up, I think you're a psycho for being

805
00:40:16,520 --> 00:40:17,040
Speaker 2: able to do that.

806
00:40:17,239 --> 00:40:21,640
Speaker 1: What ever, no, I can cycle for being able to

807
00:40:21,640 --> 00:40:24,400
Speaker 1: do that. Who has their life together enough to be

808
00:40:24,440 --> 00:40:26,439
Speaker 1: able to wake up on the first one. When I'm awake,

809
00:40:26,440 --> 00:40:28,040
Speaker 1: im awake. So as soon as I'm awake, I can't

810
00:40:28,040 --> 00:40:31,040
Speaker 1: go back this sleep anyway? Oh really, Like, if it's

811
00:40:31,200 --> 00:40:34,919
Speaker 1: between probably five and seven, I can't go back to sleep.

812
00:40:35,120 --> 00:40:37,600
Speaker 1: So maybe it doesn't mean I'm like a three alarm guy.

813
00:40:38,000 --> 00:40:40,760
Speaker 1: All right? Do you put milk in your cereal first?

814
00:40:41,040 --> 00:40:45,040
Speaker 1: Or cereal then milk? Oh my god, imagine if somebody

815
00:40:45,080 --> 00:40:48,359
Speaker 1: did milk first. Yeah, imagine that. I imagine if someone

816
00:40:48,360 --> 00:40:50,120
Speaker 1: didn't milk, that's like they're going to jail for something

817
00:40:50,120 --> 00:40:51,680
Speaker 1: after this. The only reason I could think of someone

818
00:40:51,719 --> 00:40:54,160
Speaker 1: wanted to do milk first is because they don't like

819
00:40:54,239 --> 00:40:56,759
Speaker 1: they want this cereal to stay like crunchy and dry

820
00:40:56,800 --> 00:40:58,759
Speaker 1: and get like a lot of crunch and a little

821
00:40:58,760 --> 00:41:01,440
Speaker 1: bit of milk, but like just kind of pour the

822
00:41:01,480 --> 00:41:03,879
Speaker 1: milk in one spot instead of pouring it all over.

823
00:41:03,960 --> 00:41:06,040
Speaker 1: There'd be some weird people out there. Questions to ask

824
00:41:06,080 --> 00:41:08,399
Speaker 1: to find out if he's psychopathic? Can you bite ice?

825
00:41:09,680 --> 00:41:13,120
Speaker 1: I hate people that chew on ice? I know who.

826
00:41:13,360 --> 00:41:15,399
Speaker 1: I'm sorry whoever I'm upsetting right now. I actually don't

827
00:41:15,400 --> 00:41:16,640
Speaker 1: even know if Beth likes to do this or not.

828
00:41:16,640 --> 00:41:19,920
Speaker 1: But if she does, hates a strong word, hates a

829
00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:21,640
Speaker 1: very strong word. But if you can chew on ice,

830
00:41:21,960 --> 00:41:25,520
Speaker 1: then you have metal for teeth, Like, what is going on?

831
00:41:25,560 --> 00:41:27,800
Speaker 1: What else you chewing on? Yeah? What are you brushing

832
00:41:27,840 --> 00:41:32,560
Speaker 1: your teeth with? People who eat ice? Box? That's crazy

833
00:41:32,560 --> 00:41:35,200
Speaker 1: to me. Suck on that shit? Are you not? Yeah?

834
00:41:36,719 --> 00:41:39,279
Speaker 1: I feel like that was the best question. Best all right?

835
00:41:39,360 --> 00:41:42,080
Speaker 1: Last one? Questions to ask to find out if he's psychopathic?

836
00:41:42,800 --> 00:41:46,359
Speaker 1: Are you a Gemini? Oh? Is that the most psycho? One?

837
00:41:46,360 --> 00:41:48,560
Speaker 1: Two face, chaotic, emostly inconsistent?

838
00:41:48,840 --> 00:41:51,279
Speaker 2: Damn to look out? Twenty first of June to the

839
00:41:51,360 --> 00:41:54,600
Speaker 2: twentieth of July. Oh no, sorry, made the twenty first

840
00:41:54,600 --> 00:41:57,880
Speaker 2: to June and the twentieth. Oh really, sorry too. We

841
00:41:57,960 --> 00:42:00,000
Speaker 2: know a Gemini who is about to be a farmer.

842
00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:03,680
Speaker 1: Oh no, she's having to keep it the wrong man.

843
00:42:06,360 --> 00:42:07,919
Speaker 1: So only one the Gemini is out there. I didn't

844
00:42:07,960 --> 00:42:12,080
Speaker 1: know that asked that question. Must be news to the first.

845
00:42:12,920 --> 00:42:16,279
Speaker 2: I'm pretty confident you can gaslight any star signed to

846
00:42:16,320 --> 00:42:20,319
Speaker 2: be toxic. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, you're pretty sure

847
00:42:20,320 --> 00:42:20,799
Speaker 2: you can read.

848
00:42:20,719 --> 00:42:22,600
Speaker 1: The signs in whichever way possible. I've always wanted to be,

849
00:42:22,680 --> 00:42:24,880
Speaker 1: you know, one of those people who like read cards

850
00:42:24,920 --> 00:42:26,520
Speaker 1: and ship terror card reader. Yeah, I'd love to be

851
00:42:26,560 --> 00:42:29,520
Speaker 1: one of those people. And it's like gaslight people a time.

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Speaker 1: Do you remember when we have a great future? Do

853
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Speaker 1: you remember when we got five thousand listens? Oh remember

854
00:42:42,480 --> 00:42:44,400
Speaker 1: when we forgot about that. I don't know how many

855
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Speaker 1: episodes we were into the public, so we weren't getting

856
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Speaker 1: like five thousand per episode. It was like we had

857
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Speaker 1: hit five thousand all time listening. Let's do a fucking

858
00:42:52,080 --> 00:42:54,759
Speaker 1: extra episode. We went on like Facebook, marketplace or some

859
00:42:54,840 --> 00:42:56,879
Speaker 1: ship and found this guy that does like terrort card

860
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Speaker 1: readings over the phone. Was a woman or a man

861
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Speaker 1: that was a man. It was It was a weird

862
00:43:00,840 --> 00:43:02,759
Speaker 1: young dude and he did the two of us and

863
00:43:02,960 --> 00:43:05,880
Speaker 1: like it was the weirdest thing. Like we just did

864
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Speaker 1: this fucking random extra episode where bad is If you

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Speaker 1: want another another terror card, We're actually about to hit

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Speaker 1: six million listens. That's insane to me. We're about to

867
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Speaker 1: hit six million listens. So for a six million listen special,

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Speaker 1: do you want us to do terror card reading? But

869
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Speaker 1: we'll actually go in, make it a Patreon exclusive vlog

870
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Speaker 1: and we'll go in and film it. Yeah, that's a

871
00:43:27,400 --> 00:43:29,359
Speaker 1: great bit of style. Let us know, let us Finn

872
00:43:29,360 --> 00:43:31,359
Speaker 1: to film. We've got little friend Finn that like film

873
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Speaker 1: stuff is best. Let's go. That is time for comments.

874
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Speaker 1: I've got YouTube from Julia dash x five uu. She said, Yes,

875
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Speaker 1: I'm the same as Jake any admin, and I'm running

876
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Speaker 1: the other direction. Anytime my friends or family want to

877
00:43:49,800 --> 00:43:51,800
Speaker 1: organize a time to meet up or hang out, I

878
00:43:52,120 --> 00:43:55,640
Speaker 1: am able to leave them on red slash delivered for hours,

879
00:43:56,480 --> 00:44:00,440
Speaker 1: sometimes even until their next organizing related message. Whoops, it's

880
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Speaker 1: not on purpose, but planning equal stress must be nice,

881
00:44:03,680 --> 00:44:08,200
Speaker 1: say just to like disconnect from life. Yeah, it is jealousy.

882
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Speaker 2: I have Spotify and if you want to get a

883
00:44:10,520 --> 00:44:13,120
Speaker 2: comment read simply comment on the episode you are listening to,

884
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Speaker 2: I've got Courtney Dot Rose dot Robinson.

885
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Speaker 1: Ha ha.

886
00:44:16,080 --> 00:44:19,200
Speaker 2: My husband has always laughed when he comes. I wouldn't

887
00:44:19,239 --> 00:44:21,480
Speaker 2: call it a creepy laugh though. It's actually kind of

888
00:44:21,560 --> 00:44:23,920
Speaker 2: cute and makes me giggle too. And we have been

889
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Speaker 2: together for sixteen years, so it certainly didn't make me run.

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Speaker 1: So we're wrong, are we though? Proofs in the putting?

891
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Speaker 1: Are we proofs in the what if? It's like a

892
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Speaker 1: ha ha? Like A he comes, he's like, well, it's

893
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Speaker 1: just like Tucky's heading, Like what's yeah, but that's kind

894
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Speaker 1: of cool. No, what if it's what's the difference about it?

895
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Speaker 1: But I feel like that's better than like A I

896
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Speaker 1: want to hear a fuck yeah? What about like A yeah,

897
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Speaker 1: that's all right, it's so fucking creepy. I disagree.

898
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Speaker 2: His time for one of you to sign off the episode.

899
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Speaker 2: If you want to get called by us, the link

900
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Speaker 2: is in the description And Jake, who are we going

901
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Speaker 2: to call dude?

902
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Speaker 1: Dud dude? Let's call her dude? Hello? Was this Sasha? Yeah, Sasha,

903
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Speaker 1: it's jaking not from the relatables? How are you? Oh

904
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Speaker 1: my god? No way. The second week in ear that

905
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Speaker 1: one of the baddies been like, hello, I was just

906
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Speaker 1: listening to you all day. Let's go all right, Well,

907
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Speaker 1: we are calling to see if you could do the

908
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Speaker 1: honors of signing off the episode. Have you got anything

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Speaker 1: for us? Yes? Okay, So this is kind of what

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Speaker 1: I go by now because I'm a very stressed baddie

911
00:45:56,760 --> 00:46:06,960
Speaker 1: related exactly. Stress is called by giving a fuck, especially

912
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Speaker 1: if you can't control it. I like the can't control it,

913
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Speaker 1: but only give a fuck about what you can control.

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Speaker 1: I would wear that if that was on a shirt

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Speaker 1: or something. Yeah, I really like that. That's some good advice. Oh,

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Speaker 1: thank you very much, Sessa. Enjoy the rest of your day.

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Speaker 1: Thank you. I think she was driving, Yeah, I think

918
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Speaker 1: it was still good advice. And what was it against? Stress?

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Speaker 1: Stress is caused by giving a fuck pretty much. I'm

920
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Speaker 1: just not going to give a fuck. Ask me something.

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Speaker 1: Do you give a fuck? I don't give a fuck.

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Speaker 1: We love her, stay mad.