WEBVTT - There is to be NO more fun!

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<v Speaker 1>Appodjay Production. Welcome back to another episode of Am I

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<v Speaker 1>A Bad Mum Podcast?

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<v Speaker 2>We are in may I know, tell me about it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's like we're halfway through the year.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we are. It really ramps up right now. We

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<v Speaker 2>go into full swing of every sport you can think of,

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<v Speaker 2>every dance competition that's physically available in Brisbane. Are rocked

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<v Speaker 2>up to dance to practice her production and clearly I

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<v Speaker 2>had got myself so mixed up Katie. I brought the

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<v Speaker 2>wrong costume and she goes, no, we're not wearing that costume.

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<v Speaker 2>We're wearing this costume. And then you needed to bring

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<v Speaker 2>that Did you bring that other costume? No? I didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>And then Paul Gracie's standing there looking at me, going

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<v Speaker 2>I've got all.

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<v Speaker 1>The wrong stuff and it's your fault.

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<v Speaker 2>Luckily it was all practice. It was all practice. It's fine.

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<v Speaker 2>But she even made comment was like, oh is that

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<v Speaker 2>what she's wearing? Well, clearly not. Her mom is just

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<v Speaker 2>useless and missed the whole brief of two dancers, two dances, Katie,

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<v Speaker 2>how do you mess that up? And then I had

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<v Speaker 2>two moms come up to me and go, did you

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<v Speaker 2>have a big weekend? You look really tired. You look

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<v Speaker 2>really tired.

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<v Speaker 1>You look tired. That's such an insult me. I was right,

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<v Speaker 1>I went to bed at seven o'clock. Am I a

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<v Speaker 1>bad mum for putting a stop to it. My kids,

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<v Speaker 1>as we know, are obsessed with concerts, obsessed. They want

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<v Speaker 1>to go to everything. They wanted to go to Lady

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<v Speaker 1>Gaga recently. I'm like, do you even know who she is?

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<v Speaker 2>Like? I think every hours, Like everyone knows who Lady

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<v Speaker 2>Gaga is. And Lady Gaga is playing at SUNCRP for

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<v Speaker 2>any one that's in Brisbane. But you've got to be

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<v Speaker 2>like selling a kidney to be able to get there.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so expensive. Because Holly went she was banging on,

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<v Speaker 1>do you want to get a Lady Gaga? Like we

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<v Speaker 1>really want you to come, blah blah blah blahah Oh

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<v Speaker 1>that's nice. I want to hang out with us.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>No, they wanted us to pay for the tickets. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and she said, and then she made a comment of going,

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<v Speaker 1>I only want to spend my money on the artist

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<v Speaker 1>that I really really want to see. I was like, oh, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so you want me to pay money, not only to

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<v Speaker 1>pay the money for the tickets, but me to pay

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<v Speaker 1>money for tickets to a concert that you don't really

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<v Speaker 1>really want to see.

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<v Speaker 2>My answer is no, I said, I don't want to

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<v Speaker 2>go see Lady Gargina.

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<v Speaker 1>We are not going.

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<v Speaker 2>Lady Gaga, are not. They are obsessed with concert concepts.

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<v Speaker 1>Gracie Abrams.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, my girls are also going to Gracie. I actually

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<v Speaker 2>know about three songs. Yeahs Lisa.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I'm not going. But the thing is, and you'll

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<v Speaker 1>remember probably me talking about Billie Eilish and what with

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<v Speaker 1>them camping out for Billie Eilish to make sure that

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<v Speaker 1>they got barricade. It's called they were going to be

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<v Speaker 1>at the front. It was a mission. The same thing

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<v Speaker 1>happened again, Rach. I remember when they book the tickets

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<v Speaker 1>and they said we want to camp out. I said,

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<v Speaker 1>absolutely not. You are not doing that again. As it

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<v Speaker 1>got closer to the day, Jay realized that the concert

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<v Speaker 1>was on a Tuesday, and actually the public holiday was

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<v Speaker 1>on Monday. And so then we started thinking allowing them

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<v Speaker 1>to camp out, thinking, well, the Monday's a public holiday anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>Tuesday is the day of the concert. Yeah, Ye're right,

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<v Speaker 1>And so they did it all again, Rach. They went

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<v Speaker 1>on Sunday and they're on the like tiktoks and the

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<v Speaker 1>bloody snapchat whatever they're researching when people are arriving. They

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<v Speaker 1>got winds that people would camping already, and so they

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<v Speaker 1>freaked out and was like, we have to go on

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<v Speaker 1>the Sunday, and we were like okay, And I think

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<v Speaker 1>in my mind, I kind of thought, well, knowing what

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<v Speaker 1>we know from last time, it's a nice little community

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<v Speaker 1>of people. It feels very unsafe to leave your sixteen

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<v Speaker 1>year old daughters in a tent boondle train station overnight.

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<v Speaker 1>And I wasn't okay with that the first time around,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's why Jay there with them this time. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, Okay, I think I'm alright with it because

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<v Speaker 1>there's lots of them. They're not there on their own.

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<v Speaker 1>So they stayed in a tent that first night. It

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<v Speaker 1>rained a lot that night, right, so they called me

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning and when all our stuff swet, everything

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<v Speaker 1>was wet from it was water was coming in underneath

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<v Speaker 1>and obviously the sides where things were touching the sides,

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<v Speaker 1>and so they were soaked and they were cold, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, okay, you're nipping the budgy go home.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you want to go home? No, we've done this far.

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<v Speaker 1>We've got you know, our wristbands. Blah blah blah blah blah.

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<v Speaker 1>Second night, I left my car down there. More than rage.

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<v Speaker 1>I slept in the car.

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<v Speaker 2>Look, I think it's a bit safe fur than tense,

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<v Speaker 2>if I'm honest.

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<v Speaker 1>Honestly, I wish i'd taken photos. We had a bloody

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<v Speaker 1>sunshade for the front window, so they had a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit of privacy. I had tea towels hanging from each window.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and then they would have been at least warmer, Yeah, safer.

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<v Speaker 2>Lock the doors.

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<v Speaker 1>They were in their reach with their laptops doing their

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<v Speaker 1>fucking assignment for school that they hadn't finished in the

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<v Speaker 1>school holidays. It's like, this is insane. I went from thinking, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, let them, you know, then let them melt Robins, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>says let them. I'm like, okay, let them. And I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, no, this is still actually really stressful for me.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm getting phone calls all the time. I'm needing to

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<v Speaker 1>take down food. If I don't take down food, rache,

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<v Speaker 1>they just get Uber eats and its statched to my

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<v Speaker 1>car and I'm like, you're not just constantly getting Uber

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<v Speaker 1>eat Yeah yeah, yeah, And so I have now gone

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<v Speaker 1>this is stressful, but it's also expensive. Yeah, even the

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<v Speaker 1>bloody sunshade I got for the front of the cars

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<v Speaker 1>one hundred dollars. I was like, I literally don't even

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<v Speaker 1>need this after this, it's.

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<v Speaker 2>Wrong with you. Why did we one hundred dollars for that?

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<v Speaker 1>Because nothing was open on the public holiday. It's indeed bloody.

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<v Speaker 1>Where did you go fishing, BCFC?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah yeah, I thought you could still wire them from

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<v Speaker 2>like petrol stations. Petrol station, Yeah, is that all they are?

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<v Speaker 2>Like the foil thing that goes across the front just

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<v Speaker 2>to protect like to keep heat out of your car. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>one hundred dollars. Was it made of gold? Should be

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<v Speaker 2>telling you, I've never seen it so expensive, But I

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<v Speaker 2>mean it was a public holiday.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I said to them, like this has cost so much,

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<v Speaker 1>Bunny and yeah, this and this was that. But they

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<v Speaker 1>were like, thank you so much for buying that. But

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<v Speaker 1>we didn't ask you to get that. You got that

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<v Speaker 1>because you're a nice person. I went, oh, thank you

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<v Speaker 1>because I wanted this is the thing, though, Rache, just

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<v Speaker 1>because I wanted them to have a bit of privacy.

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<v Speaker 1>And when I think to myself, if I was sleeping

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<v Speaker 1>in my car, which I hope I never am. Then

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<v Speaker 1>would I want something covering the windows? Yeah, yes I would.

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<v Speaker 1>But what I've got to remember is actually they didn't

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<v Speaker 1>really care.

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<v Speaker 2>No, it was me that that I would have loved

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<v Speaker 2>to see if you hadn't gone out of your way

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<v Speaker 2>to get that sort of stuff, what they would have

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<v Speaker 2>come up with themselves if they got halfway through and

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<v Speaker 2>was like, oh, you know, I need some privacy in here. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>like what would towel? You could have gone a towel.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Rache. I don't think that they even got changed.

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<v Speaker 1>I think they just stayed in the same clothes. And

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<v Speaker 1>you know what my kids are like, they're a bit

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<v Speaker 1>ocd with showers and stuff. No, it goes out the

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<v Speaker 1>window when they're camps with right, they enjoy it, Like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I readly enjoy it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm putting a stop to it because it's too stressful.

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<v Speaker 1>It's too much.

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<v Speaker 2>You need to get your card off their oubies. You

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<v Speaker 2>need to get your card deleted, and not just.

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<v Speaker 1>That, like there's a laziness around. They will order Uber

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<v Speaker 1>eats even when they're home during this skit. Yes, I

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<v Speaker 1>have to put a stop to that and go no,

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<v Speaker 1>make yourself down. But also the lunch box food you

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<v Speaker 1>buy being eaten at home, that really gets someone of

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<v Speaker 1>you don't need prepacked cheese and crackers, oh home, just

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<v Speaker 1>slice the cheese.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, or buy the tasty slices like and then you

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<v Speaker 2>just get a few slices out and layer.

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<v Speaker 1>That convenience food for lunch boxes. If you're at home,

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<v Speaker 1>you make it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, one hundred. Speaking about food, this is where I

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<v Speaker 2>went because we know how much Ice sidetrack on this.

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<v Speaker 2>But like, speaking of food, how has your cat's appetite

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<v Speaker 2>gone since he had his seven thousand dollars surgery? I

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<v Speaker 2>need to follow up to the I just thought of him.

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<v Speaker 2>Your kids might not eat at home, but gosh, your

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<v Speaker 2>cat does and he had surgery. Has he found his

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<v Speaker 2>appetite yet? Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Back in he's adding again he's not as extreme as

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<v Speaker 1>he once was. Okay, I'm just going to keep giving

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<v Speaker 1>him what he wants from now on. That cat cost

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<v Speaker 1>me seven thousand dollars.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, he's like basically gold. He's gold walking around

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<v Speaker 2>on legs.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, a couple of days after the surgery he went missing.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know where he was. I was looking everywhere.

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<v Speaker 1>I was looking in under beds and everywhere, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, if he's gone and fucking died after I

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<v Speaker 1>spent seven thousand dollars, I am going to be so bad.

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<v Speaker 2>I found him, luckily, It's like you're he was just

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<v Speaker 2>hiding in the bread bin.