WEBVTT - #2047 Brain Literacy - Harps (PT1)

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<v Speaker 1>Good, are you, bloody champs? Welcome to the show. So

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<v Speaker 1>I've decided to do a few episodes with more of

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<v Speaker 1>an educational focus while keeping the vibe and the language

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<v Speaker 1>user friendly. So I thought I'd just do something different

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<v Speaker 1>and see how that goes, rather than spinning the wheels

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<v Speaker 1>and having some of the repetitious conversations that can be

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<v Speaker 1>had when we're doing the psychology, human behavior, human performance stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>So we'll see how we go, and you, my audience,

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<v Speaker 1>let me know. So these work, These episodes are a

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<v Speaker 1>fair bit more work, which I'm happy to do, but

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<v Speaker 1>it'd be great to hear whether or not you vibe

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<v Speaker 1>with these kind of more We're not going to do

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<v Speaker 1>them all the times that I'm panic, but a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit more academic, a little bit more educational, a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit more teaching than coaching, and a little bit more

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<v Speaker 1>kind of downloading information and nulle than it is specifically

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<v Speaker 1>inspirational motivation. So today I'm going to do a deep

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<v Speaker 1>dive into the single most powerful, confusing, brilliant, and occasionally

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<v Speaker 1>uncooperative piece of tech that you own or I own,

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<v Speaker 1>and that is our brain. Your brain, my brain. So

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<v Speaker 1>I guess before we dive in I should unpack the title,

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<v Speaker 1>which is brain literacy. So what does that mean? Thanks

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<v Speaker 1>for asking? So it's it's what is it? It's basically

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<v Speaker 1>the you understanding how your brain works. It's you understanding

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<v Speaker 1>what it does, how it works, how you and it

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<v Speaker 1>can relate because it's not you and you're not it,

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<v Speaker 1>but you're kind of intertwained. So understanding it not in

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<v Speaker 1>a medical or necessarily necessarily an anatomical or academic or

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<v Speaker 1>a physiological sense, but in a way that helps you

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<v Speaker 1>think and live and choose and feel and behave better.

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<v Speaker 1>So it means knowing the fundamentals, like that your brain

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<v Speaker 1>is a prediction machine, not a reality machine. That most

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<v Speaker 1>of your reactions are automatic, not in the moment, not intentional.

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<v Speaker 1>They almost happen, like a lot of our reactions happen

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<v Speaker 1>almost despite us, not because of us. If that makes sense.

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<v Speaker 1>That stress changes what's happening in your brain. That habits

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<v Speaker 1>are wiring neurological wiring, not will power. That thoughts aren't facts,

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<v Speaker 1>just thoughts, constructs, just stories. Sometimes the story turns out

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<v Speaker 1>to be true. So I guess something can be a

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<v Speaker 1>thought or an idea or a belief and also a fact.

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<v Speaker 1>But in general terms, just because we think something doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>mean it's true. I guess it's also understanding your brain

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<v Speaker 1>is allso so knowing that you can train it, and

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<v Speaker 1>you can calm it, and you can consciously manipulate what

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<v Speaker 1>your brain is doing and how it works, you can

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<v Speaker 1>rewire it over time, and also understanding that your your

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<v Speaker 1>brain's job is not happiness, it's survival. It's protecting you,

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<v Speaker 1>it's safety. And it's also knowing that self awareness, understanding you,

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<v Speaker 1>the understanding of the self that's in the middle of

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<v Speaker 1>your life. I know that's a bit philosophical, but that

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<v Speaker 1>changes behavior. You understanding how you work, you understanding your responses,

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<v Speaker 1>and you starting to open the door on understanding your

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<v Speaker 1>mind and brain. We maybe will dissect and separate those later.

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<v Speaker 1>That's more important than motivation from a creating behavior, a

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<v Speaker 1>change and real world change on planet you. So brain

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<v Speaker 1>literacy isn't it's not neuroscience trivia. It's about you understanding

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<v Speaker 1>the mechanics behind your thoughts and emotions and behaviors so

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<v Speaker 1>that you can work with your brain instead of being

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<v Speaker 1>confused and frustrated and controlled by it. So I guess

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<v Speaker 1>in simple terms, it's knowing brain literacy is knowing how

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<v Speaker 1>your brain functions well enough to improve how you function.

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<v Speaker 1>And I guess it's important that we all have a

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<v Speaker 1>basic understanding of how our brain works, because like, it's

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<v Speaker 1>the author of your story, it's running the show, it's

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<v Speaker 1>running Planet you, it's the operating headquarters on planet you.

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<v Speaker 1>So because every thought that you and I have, every

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<v Speaker 1>feeling that we feel, every decision that we make, every

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<v Speaker 1>habit that you and I repeat, and every relationship that

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<v Speaker 1>we navigate is filtered through this kind of one point

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<v Speaker 1>three kilo if you're in America, three pound, give or

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<v Speaker 1>take this lump, this prediction machine, this lump of meat

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<v Speaker 1>that sits between our ears. And when we understand how

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<v Speaker 1>it works, the wiring, the shortcuts, the biases, the alarms,

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<v Speaker 1>the habits, the patterns, we stop taking everything personally and

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<v Speaker 1>start seeing it mechanically. Yeah, a bit more objective, a

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<v Speaker 1>bit less subjective. We stop blaming ourselves for being weak

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<v Speaker 1>and broken and start recognizing old wiring survival responses and

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<v Speaker 1>that long established not always good for us, often destructive

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<v Speaker 1>automatic programming. And once we get it, once we understand it,

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<v Speaker 1>like we can't develop, we can't work with we can't solve,

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<v Speaker 1>we can't mitigate the thing that we don't understand. So

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<v Speaker 1>once were understand or begin to understand our brain, we

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<v Speaker 1>can begin to work with it, not fight it. We

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<v Speaker 1>can calm it, we can we can work at training it,

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<v Speaker 1>rewiring it, and ultimately steer our life with far more

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<v Speaker 1>clarity I guess, and control and confidence and self awareness.

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<v Speaker 1>So for me, learning about the brain, you learning about

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<v Speaker 1>the brain, Understanding how our brain works, brain literacy. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not just interesting, it's really really important, and it's also

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<v Speaker 1>kind of life changing. It's liberating. So our brain runs,

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<v Speaker 1>our body, shapes our personality, creates our reality, stores memories,

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<v Speaker 1>controls emotions, forms habits, and makes about ninety five I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what the exact number is, but over ninety

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<v Speaker 1>they say about ninety five percent of our decisions before

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<v Speaker 1>we're even where we've made them. So much of what

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<v Speaker 1>we do and how we do it is not even

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<v Speaker 1>really conscious. It's almost just this as I always talk about,

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<v Speaker 1>it's this autopilotness, this groundhog day, where we just we

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<v Speaker 1>don't even really choose consciously, we just respond automatically. And

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<v Speaker 1>most of us have never really been taught about how

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<v Speaker 1>this stuff works, and honestly, I'm still solving this problem.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm still learning this thing. And part of the reason

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<v Speaker 1>I want to do some of these sessions with you

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<v Speaker 1>is because I'm learning as I'm teaching. I'm consolidating and

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<v Speaker 1>clarifying information as I go with you. So we're really,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, this is introduction to your brain, one oh one,

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<v Speaker 1>this is the fundamentals. You're not going to come out

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<v Speaker 1>the other side of neuroscientists. Neither am I. But we're

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<v Speaker 1>just stripping it back. So no jargon, no neuroscience flexing,

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<v Speaker 1>just clear, relatable, Oh that makes sense, explanations of why

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<v Speaker 1>your brain does what it does, and more importantly, how

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<v Speaker 1>you can work with it consciously rather than being dragged

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<v Speaker 1>around by it by your old wiring unconsciously. So we're

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<v Speaker 1>going to explore why your brain sometimes works against you,

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<v Speaker 1>how much of your thinking is automatic, why you repeat patterns,

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<v Speaker 1>why what stress does to your operating system, and how

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<v Speaker 1>your brain can struct your reality and whether or not

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<v Speaker 1>we can truly rewire it. So for the purpose of

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<v Speaker 1>this episode, I've decided to explore ten what I think

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<v Speaker 1>are important, powerful, fascinating brain related questions. So keep in

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<v Speaker 1>mind that you're going to forget most of what I

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<v Speaker 1>share a So this for some of you might be

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<v Speaker 1>something that you come back and revisit. You might want

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<v Speaker 1>to listen through. You might not want to listen, or

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<v Speaker 1>you might go fuck your educational series, Craig, stick it

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<v Speaker 1>up your clacker, not interested. But for some of you,

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<v Speaker 1>I know some of you want to understand yourself and

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<v Speaker 1>understanding yourself, understanding your mind, understanding your actions and reactions,

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<v Speaker 1>your biases, your default setting, why you do the way

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<v Speaker 1>you do, why you do life the way you do.

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<v Speaker 1>A big part of that is trying to understand your

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<v Speaker 1>own brain. So this might be something that you revisit.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe you come back and take notes and do a

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<v Speaker 1>deeper dive on some of the ideas and concepts that

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<v Speaker 1>I present here. So question one of my I think

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<v Speaker 1>I've got ten is what is the role of my brain?

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<v Speaker 1>So the role of our brain is to run the

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<v Speaker 1>human system, you and me. That's to unplanet you. It's

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<v Speaker 1>in charge. So it's the control center that keeps you alive,

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<v Speaker 1>it helps you navigate the world, and it creates the

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<v Speaker 1>experience that we call us or you call you, I

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<v Speaker 1>call me. At the basic level, the brain regulates the

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<v Speaker 1>essentials heartbeat, breathing, temperature, hunger, hormones, and unity, movement and

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<v Speaker 1>survival responses. It's constantly scanning our external and internal environments,

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<v Speaker 1>predicting what's happening, what might happen, what we think is

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<v Speaker 1>going to happen, and adjusting everything physiologically, psychologically, emotionally, adjusting

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<v Speaker 1>everything according to what we think is happening or will happen.

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<v Speaker 1>But it also does not just in that moment, in

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<v Speaker 1>the moment kind of predictive intuitive survival stuff that it

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<v Speaker 1>does the high level stuff thinking, planning, learning, remembering, imagining,

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<v Speaker 1>problem solving, creating meaning. It builds stories, expectations and interpretations.

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<v Speaker 1>It decides what matters or it predicts what's dangerous, what's possible,

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<v Speaker 1>and who you think you are identity. So, in short,

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<v Speaker 1>the brain's role is to manage the body, interpret the world,

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<v Speaker 1>and create your reality. They're probably very key things. It's

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<v Speaker 1>both the hardware and the software, the engine that keeps

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<v Speaker 1>you alive and the storyteller that shapes your life. But

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<v Speaker 1>question two is somewhat philosophical, but it's a really good

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<v Speaker 1>and powerful question and relevant, and that is can I

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<v Speaker 1>manage my brain or does it manage me, And the

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<v Speaker 1>answer is you're probably going to guess what I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to say. The answer is both. So your brain is

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<v Speaker 1>the automatic pilot, and you're the pilot in training, learning

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<v Speaker 1>how to take the controls. On the one hand, your

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<v Speaker 1>brain absolutely manages you. It fires before you think, It

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<v Speaker 1>predicts stuff before you're aware, it reacts before you've even

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<v Speaker 1>got the full picture or the context. And it keeps

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<v Speaker 1>you alive using systems that you can't consciously access. Heartbeat, fear, responses, habits,

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<v Speaker 1>all these things that happen autonomically. Impulses, cravings, hormones, endocrime system,

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<v Speaker 1>nervous system, stress, chemistry. So that's the brain in action.

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<v Speaker 1>But you also you also have the capacity to manage

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<v Speaker 1>the manager. So every time you pause instead of react,

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<v Speaker 1>every time you question a thoughts instead of believing it,

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<v Speaker 1>choose the uncomfortable but useful option or practice the new behavior,

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<v Speaker 1>that's you taking the controls back from the autopilot. So

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<v Speaker 1>you can't stop the brain from running its programs, but

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<v Speaker 1>you can rewire them. You can train your attention, regulate

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<v Speaker 1>your reactions, rewire your habits. Not quickly, by the way,

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<v Speaker 1>it takes a while. Update beliefs, change beliefs, challenge beliefs,

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<v Speaker 1>choose better behaviors. Calm your nervous system again takes a while,

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<v Speaker 1>takes training, takes patience, takes courage, and you can build

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<v Speaker 1>a smarter what would we call it, internal operating system.

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<v Speaker 1>So the brain manages you by defaults. You manage the

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<v Speaker 1>brain by intention, and that's the work. That's the work.

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<v Speaker 1>Is you learning to manage your brain. You learning to

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<v Speaker 1>be the operator of this thing that's just happening all

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<v Speaker 1>the time anyway. So I'll say that again, the brain

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<v Speaker 1>manages you by default. You manage the brain by intention,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's the work, that's the opportunity, that's that's the upgrade.

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<v Speaker 1>So question three, how do I keep my brain healthy?

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<v Speaker 1>This is the thing that really fascinates me. And I'm

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<v Speaker 1>you know, when we know, like we all kind of

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<v Speaker 1>instinctively and inherently know that the brain is the epicenter

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<v Speaker 1>of us from a physiological and day to day living

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<v Speaker 1>and functioning point of view. Some people might argue the

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<v Speaker 1>soul is the epicenter, but I'm not speaking spiritually or philosophically.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm speaking scientifically and physiologically here. So I'm surprised that

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<v Speaker 1>we don't care about our brain. We might say we care,

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<v Speaker 1>but we don't seem to practically behaviorally show that we

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<v Speaker 1>care about our brain as much as we should. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>just look at people shoving drugs into their body, fucks

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<v Speaker 1>up their brain, people under sleeping. I know, there's a

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<v Speaker 1>few variables around it, fucks up your brain. People eating

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<v Speaker 1>bad shit fucks up your brain. Drinking too much booze

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<v Speaker 1>fuckx up your brain, or at the very least impact

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<v Speaker 1>your brain negatively. All of these things, and there's a

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<v Speaker 1>few others that we can't always easily control, like stress

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<v Speaker 1>and anxiety has a detrial effect on brain chemistry, neurochemistry,

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<v Speaker 1>and cognitive function. Right, So keeping our brain healthy it

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<v Speaker 1>should be something we think about. So it's not complicated,

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<v Speaker 1>but it needs to be consistent. So think of it

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<v Speaker 1>like compound interests. So it's the small things that you

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<v Speaker 1>do every day, the habits that you build to create

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<v Speaker 1>a calmer, smarter, more resilient brain or system over time.

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<v Speaker 1>So in this whole question of or process or challenge

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<v Speaker 1>of keeping our brain healthy, and this is all research based,

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<v Speaker 1>you know this, so and no surprise for me to

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<v Speaker 1>say this. The first big piece is movement. So exercise

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<v Speaker 1>is as close as we can get to a miracle

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<v Speaker 1>drug for the brain. I spoke about this with doctor

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<v Speaker 1>Bill yesterday or the day before. It boosts blood flow,

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<v Speaker 1>supports learning and memory, sharpens focus, improves mood, and dramatically

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<v Speaker 1>reduces the risk of cognitive decline. So the next not surprising,

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<v Speaker 1>non negotiable, or super important factor is sleep quality. Sleep

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<v Speaker 1>is like when we're sleeping. It's when the brain basically

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<v Speaker 1>repairs itself, clears waste, consolidates memories, and resets our emotional

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<v Speaker 1>system kind of like just hits the replenish button. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we need sleeper is super crucial. I know that that's not,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, a revelation, but it kind of. It's very

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<v Speaker 1>very protective and restorative for the brain. And then there's

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<v Speaker 1>fuel or food. So your brain is sixty percent fat,

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<v Speaker 1>incredibly metabolically active. In other words, it uses a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of calories. A little known fact is that it uses

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<v Speaker 1>Your brain uses about twenty percent of your daily calorie intake.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's say you had two thousand calories in a day.

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<v Speaker 1>That little motherfucker in your skull uses twenty percent of

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<v Speaker 1>two thousand calories is four hundred calories, so four hundred

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<v Speaker 1>of your two thousand calories, So it uses about twenty

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<v Speaker 1>percent of calories, so four hundred of those two thousand

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<v Speaker 1>in this theoretical example would go just for brain fuel. So,

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<v Speaker 1>like I said, your brain sixty percent fat. It's incredibly

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<v Speaker 1>metabolically active, and it relies heavily on great nutrition. If

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't get great nutrition, even if it gets the calories,

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<v Speaker 1>it can't work as well. So AMEGA three is antioxidants, polyphenols,

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<v Speaker 1>whole foods, And of course your brain is largely water also,

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<v Speaker 1>so it needs to be hydrated, so well fed, well

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<v Speaker 1>hydrated to keep it working well and ultraprocessed crap, albeit

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<v Speaker 1>still lots of calories. But it's kind of like putting

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<v Speaker 1>really shitty fuel in your car. When your car needs

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<v Speaker 1>ninety eight octane and you're putting ninety one octane or

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<v Speaker 1>eighty one octane, it'll kind of go, but it's certainly

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<v Speaker 1>not going to run. So you're putting something in it,

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<v Speaker 1>but you're not putting in the optimal fuel for that

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<v Speaker 1>particular system. And it's the same with your brain. Also,

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<v Speaker 1>we know stress is a factor in terms of brain function.

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<v Speaker 1>Brain health. So managing stress is ruual. And again, this

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<v Speaker 1>is a multi dimensional thing, isn't it me saying manager stress?

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<v Speaker 1>That doesn't help I understand that because there's no solution

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<v Speaker 1>in that, but just highlighting the fact that stress is

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<v Speaker 1>an issue. Stress itself isn't the problem as in a

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<v Speaker 1>one off, but it's the unrelenting, constant, unmanaged stress, constant anxiety,

0:18:24.440 --> 0:18:30.520
<v Speaker 1>constant overthinking, constant all those physiological symptoms that are attached

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<v Speaker 1>to that overthinking that's what does the damage and the inflammation,

0:18:34.520 --> 0:18:37.720
<v Speaker 1>that's what does the damage to the brain over time.

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<v Speaker 1>So you know, slow breathing, movement, recovery, rituals, healthy boundaries,

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<v Speaker 1>any kind of meditative practice, whatever meditation looks like for you.

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<v Speaker 1>For me, and we spoke about this the other day,

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<v Speaker 1>for me, meditation has been on a motorbike. So the

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<v Speaker 1>thing that would excite a lot of people's nervous system

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<v Speaker 1>or switch on there, you know, their sympathetic nervous system

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<v Speaker 1>through the roof, For me, it actually makes me calm,

0:19:05.440 --> 0:19:09.960
<v Speaker 1>It actually gives me joy, It actually weirdly relaxes me.

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<v Speaker 1>And in terms of keeping your brain working, well, don't

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<v Speaker 1>forget learning so constantly training our brain just like we

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<v Speaker 1>train our biceps and our quads and our back and

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<v Speaker 1>all our bits and pieces. Our brain loves to be stimulated.

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<v Speaker 1>It loves to learn. Might you might not necessarily love it,

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<v Speaker 1>but your brain stays young by forming new neural pathways.

0:19:31.760 --> 0:19:34.920
<v Speaker 1>And that happens when we expose ourselves to new ideas,

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<v Speaker 1>new lessons, new information. So our brain, like our biceps

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<v Speaker 1>and triceps and quads, our brain needs to be stimulated.

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<v Speaker 1>There needs to be some what would the analogy be,

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<v Speaker 1>almost like progressive overload to keep it adapting, to keep

0:19:51.920 --> 0:19:55.479
<v Speaker 1>it creating those new neural pathways, to keep it healthy.

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<v Speaker 1>So read stuff, practice stuff, ask questions, solve problem, explore

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<v Speaker 1>new things, have new conversations with new people, expose yourself

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<v Speaker 1>to different ideas, stay curious. We're nearly there. Also we

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<v Speaker 1>know from keeping your brain healthy point of view, human

0:20:13.359 --> 0:20:18.280
<v Speaker 1>connection matters a lot, and it matters more than people think. Like.

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<v Speaker 1>Good relationships are literally protective for your brain. They protect

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<v Speaker 1>cognitive function. They keep your brain, believe it or not,

0:20:30.640 --> 0:20:37.720
<v Speaker 1>bigger and healthier while isolation while social disconnection while loneliness

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<v Speaker 1>literally shrinks your brain and can be associated with cognitive

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<v Speaker 1>decline or in other words, your brain not working as

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<v Speaker 1>well as it could or should, and of course I

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<v Speaker 1>need to. I can't finish this section without talking about

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<v Speaker 1>the obvious brain killers, you know, smoking drugs, excess of alcohol,

0:20:59.280 --> 0:21:03.080
<v Speaker 1>chronic anger. People don't think about that, chronic anger. You're

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<v Speaker 1>getting yourself into a state all the time, producing all

0:21:06.760 --> 0:21:11.360
<v Speaker 1>of those stress hormones all the time, which produces inflammation

0:21:12.200 --> 0:21:18.200
<v Speaker 1>in your brain and in your body, which is super destructive,

0:21:18.520 --> 0:21:24.520
<v Speaker 1>super inflammatory, super super negative impact on your body. And

0:21:24.560 --> 0:21:27.440
<v Speaker 1>of course sitting on your ass for years at a time.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll chuck that in as the final one. And none

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<v Speaker 1>of this, you know, our brain needs movement, our body

0:21:32.240 --> 0:21:34.879
<v Speaker 1>needs movement, and none of this is fancy. It's just

0:21:35.040 --> 0:21:40.800
<v Speaker 1>daily kind of brain friendly living. All right. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>positive about this next section, but fuck it, I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to do it anyway. You may or may not resonate

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<v Speaker 1>with this. I was trying to think of, how can

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<v Speaker 1>I explain, explain on an interesting way, on a pretty

0:21:52.280 --> 0:21:56.280
<v Speaker 1>fundamental level, the anatomy and the physiology. So, in other words,

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<v Speaker 1>what's in the brain and how it works? What are

0:21:58.560 --> 0:22:02.040
<v Speaker 1>the bits of the brain where are they? That's the anatomy.

0:22:02.520 --> 0:22:05.800
<v Speaker 1>The physiology is how does it work. And I know

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<v Speaker 1>for some of you this will be confusing, some of

0:22:07.840 --> 0:22:12.080
<v Speaker 1>you fascinating, maybe enlightening, But here we go. So I've

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<v Speaker 1>come up with a bit of a metaphor. Imagine your

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<v Speaker 1>brain as a massive, old, but upgradeable house that you've

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<v Speaker 1>lived in your whole life. You didn't pick the floor plan,

0:22:25.080 --> 0:22:27.320
<v Speaker 1>you didn't choose the day corps. You just woke up

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<v Speaker 1>here one day as a kid, and you've been learning

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<v Speaker 1>the layout of that place ever since. So this house

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<v Speaker 1>has a few key rooms that run the whole operations.

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<v Speaker 1>So downstairs, near the front door is the security office

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<v Speaker 1>in this place. That's the amygdala. We call that. Generally,

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<v Speaker 1>we see that as the emotional epicenter of the brain.

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<v Speaker 1>So the amigdalar, it's got motion senses, alarms, and a

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<v Speaker 1>guard who's very enthusiastic but not always very accurate. He

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<v Speaker 1>thinks every noise is a threat designed to keep you

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<v Speaker 1>alive but not comfortable. And when he senses real danger

0:23:05.080 --> 0:23:08.720
<v Speaker 1>or sorry, when he senses danger, real or imagined, he

0:23:08.840 --> 0:23:11.960
<v Speaker 1>slams the shutters, locks the doors, and sends panic signals

0:23:12.400 --> 0:23:15.639
<v Speaker 1>through the whole house. And often that dude does that,

0:23:15.800 --> 0:23:19.760
<v Speaker 1>the security dude, the amigdala the security office in our metaphor,

0:23:20.320 --> 0:23:23.720
<v Speaker 1>he does that for no logical reason, but because of

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<v Speaker 1>a perception. And which is why you know our overthinking

0:23:29.200 --> 0:23:32.400
<v Speaker 1>can turn into all these this cascade of physiological problems.

0:23:32.440 --> 0:23:35.000
<v Speaker 1>And also why we can we can. We have the

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<v Speaker 1>capacity to literally invent a problem out of thin air,

0:23:39.680 --> 0:23:42.919
<v Speaker 1>and while there is no real problem, it actually becomes

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<v Speaker 1>a real problem for us as an experience, not because

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<v Speaker 1>in our external world there's some kind of danger, but

0:23:49.960 --> 0:23:53.399
<v Speaker 1>because our internal world, in our internal world, there's a story,

0:23:53.440 --> 0:23:57.439
<v Speaker 1>and that becomes a problem. So right next to the

0:23:57.480 --> 0:24:00.520
<v Speaker 1>security office is the memory filing room. We call that

0:24:00.520 --> 0:24:05.080
<v Speaker 1>the hip of campus, and that's where new memories get sorted, labeled,

0:24:05.119 --> 0:24:07.840
<v Speaker 1>and stored. When the security when the guard in the

0:24:07.880 --> 0:24:11.720
<v Speaker 1>security office panics, the memory team can't work properly, which

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<v Speaker 1>is why fear and stress often shut down clear thinking

0:24:15.760 --> 0:24:21.720
<v Speaker 1>and learning, which is why performing under pressure is such

0:24:21.760 --> 0:24:25.960
<v Speaker 1>a skill. Like if you see somebody like I guess

0:24:25.960 --> 0:24:29.119
<v Speaker 1>my story out of this is when my training partner

0:24:29.200 --> 0:24:31.439
<v Speaker 1>died at the gym, mark when he temporarily died when

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<v Speaker 1>he had a cardiac arresque cardiac arrest and he was

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<v Speaker 1>on the floor and all of the things that happen

0:24:38.440 --> 0:24:41.960
<v Speaker 1>when somebody is dead on the floor were happening. All

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<v Speaker 1>of those physiological changes. Not a very pretty sight. And

0:24:44.680 --> 0:24:50.040
<v Speaker 1>in the middle of all of that, everyone in that room,

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<v Speaker 1>thankfully other than me, everyone panicked, nobody was thinking clearly,

0:24:55.480 --> 0:25:02.320
<v Speaker 1>nobody was helpful. So people who are normally quite capable

0:25:02.359 --> 0:25:07.800
<v Speaker 1>and quite confident and competent in certain situations, they become

0:25:07.840 --> 0:25:10.880
<v Speaker 1>the opposite of that. So being able to perform under pressure,

0:25:12.560 --> 0:25:14.880
<v Speaker 1>being able to perform in the middle of stress, being

0:25:14.920 --> 0:25:20.119
<v Speaker 1>able to perform when things aren't going well is something

0:25:20.119 --> 0:25:26.119
<v Speaker 1>we need to hopefully try to develop. So upstairs in

0:25:26.200 --> 0:25:29.680
<v Speaker 1>our house, with the bright lights and big windows, that's

0:25:29.720 --> 0:25:32.720
<v Speaker 1>the executive office. We call that the prefrontal cortex. So

0:25:32.800 --> 0:25:36.919
<v Speaker 1>that's where all the smart stuff happens. So this is

0:25:37.000 --> 0:25:39.840
<v Speaker 1>the smart part of the house. It does the planning

0:25:39.880 --> 0:25:44.000
<v Speaker 1>and the reasoning and the critical thinking and the decision

0:25:44.080 --> 0:25:49.480
<v Speaker 1>making and the emotional regulation, the long term thinking, and

0:25:49.680 --> 0:25:52.960
<v Speaker 1>it's incredible, but it can be slow to activate. And

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<v Speaker 1>if the security office downstairs hits the alarm, the executive

0:25:58.720 --> 0:26:02.680
<v Speaker 1>office often gets low down instantly, So no meetings, no decisions,

0:26:03.200 --> 0:26:07.240
<v Speaker 1>no logic, just survival mode. So when the amigdala, remember

0:26:07.280 --> 0:26:10.879
<v Speaker 1>the emotional epicenter, When that goes nuts, then quite often

0:26:11.280 --> 0:26:15.679
<v Speaker 1>the prefrontal cortex where logic and decisions and critical thinking happen,

0:26:15.800 --> 0:26:20.880
<v Speaker 1>that goes offline and it just goes into survival mode.

0:26:21.600 --> 0:26:24.520
<v Speaker 1>So down the hall from that is the habit workshop,

0:26:24.840 --> 0:26:27.560
<v Speaker 1>the basal ganglia. Now this is where your routines and

0:26:27.560 --> 0:26:32.240
<v Speaker 1>default behaviors are built and stored. And once something becomes

0:26:32.240 --> 0:26:36.560
<v Speaker 1>a habit in your brain, it's like installing automated lighting.

0:26:36.600 --> 0:26:40.120
<v Speaker 1>You don't think about it, it just happens. So good

0:26:40.160 --> 0:26:44.200
<v Speaker 1>habits feel like helpful upgrades. Bad habits feel like wiring

0:26:44.320 --> 0:26:47.920
<v Speaker 1>errors that you can't undo, even though you actually can.

0:26:49.320 --> 0:26:53.320
<v Speaker 1>And then there's the control panel, the autonomic nervous system

0:26:53.720 --> 0:26:57.920
<v Speaker 1>that quietly regulates breathing and heart rate and digestion and

0:26:58.000 --> 0:27:03.120
<v Speaker 1>body temperature without thinking in inverted commons, without the prefrontal

0:27:03.200 --> 0:27:07.280
<v Speaker 1>core text needing to come online and make these decisions,

0:27:07.280 --> 0:27:10.399
<v Speaker 1>so that all just that happens despite you, not because

0:27:10.440 --> 0:27:13.440
<v Speaker 1>of you, and all behind the scenes. These are behind

0:27:13.480 --> 0:27:17.800
<v Speaker 1>the scenes jobs that you don't notice until something goes wrong.

0:27:18.400 --> 0:27:21.400
<v Speaker 1>Then we notice the shit out of it and scattered

0:27:21.400 --> 0:27:24.679
<v Speaker 1>through the house as the renovation team. That's neuroplasticity. So

0:27:24.760 --> 0:27:28.960
<v Speaker 1>every thought, every repetition, every reaction becomes a blueprint for

0:27:29.000 --> 0:27:34.600
<v Speaker 1>a tiny remodel. It's slow but relentless. So use a

0:27:34.680 --> 0:27:37.520
<v Speaker 1>room enough and it strengthens. Avoid it long enough and

0:27:37.560 --> 0:27:41.399
<v Speaker 1>it weakens. So learn something new, as I was talking

0:27:41.400 --> 0:27:44.800
<v Speaker 1>about before and keeping our healthy, our brain healthy. Learn

0:27:44.920 --> 0:27:48.520
<v Speaker 1>something new, so train our brain and we literally build

0:27:48.600 --> 0:27:52.800
<v Speaker 1>new circuitry and the person. And the interesting part is

0:27:54.040 --> 0:27:56.840
<v Speaker 1>you're not just the person living in the house. You're

0:27:56.880 --> 0:28:01.320
<v Speaker 1>also the apprentice builder and the trainee site manager. You

0:28:01.320 --> 0:28:03.919
<v Speaker 1>can teach the security office not to freak out at

0:28:03.960 --> 0:28:06.800
<v Speaker 1>every noise. You can strengthen the executive office so it

0:28:06.880 --> 0:28:11.720
<v Speaker 1>stays open during those tough traumatic times. You can clean

0:28:11.840 --> 0:28:15.520
<v Speaker 1>up the memory room by sleeping well. You can redesign

0:28:15.600 --> 0:28:19.399
<v Speaker 1>the habit workshop one behavior at a time, and you

0:28:19.440 --> 0:28:23.280
<v Speaker 1>can guide the renovation team by choosing what to practice

0:28:23.320 --> 0:28:27.880
<v Speaker 1>and repeat. So the brain House, the brain Dash House,

0:28:27.920 --> 0:28:31.440
<v Speaker 1>will never be perfect, but you and I can absolutely

0:28:31.520 --> 0:28:34.720
<v Speaker 1>learn to run it better. And once we understand the

0:28:34.760 --> 0:28:38.000
<v Speaker 1>different rooms, the wiring and the systems, we can stop

0:28:38.040 --> 0:28:41.760
<v Speaker 1>being dragged around by the house and instead start shaping

0:28:41.760 --> 0:28:47.440
<v Speaker 1>it into something that we can actually survive and thrive

0:28:47.480 --> 0:28:52.240
<v Speaker 1>in something we can live well in. All right, Question

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<v Speaker 1>five is why does my brain sometimes work against me?

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<v Speaker 1>So let's start with a big, uncomfortable truth. So, your

0:29:00.440 --> 0:29:05.520
<v Speaker 1>brain isn't built to make you happy or joyful. It's

0:29:05.560 --> 0:29:10.040
<v Speaker 1>not built for happiness or fulfillment or personal growth. It's built,

0:29:10.120 --> 0:29:12.680
<v Speaker 1>as I've said to you before, it's built for survival,

0:29:12.760 --> 0:29:15.920
<v Speaker 1>for safety, to keep you safe. So that's how it

0:29:15.960 --> 0:29:19.400
<v Speaker 1>comes out of the factory. That's the factory setting. So

0:29:19.400 --> 0:29:23.800
<v Speaker 1>when your brain in inverted commas works against you, it's

0:29:23.920 --> 0:29:26.360
<v Speaker 1>usually not trying to ruin your life. It's trying to

0:29:26.440 --> 0:29:28.640
<v Speaker 1>save your life. It's trying to protect you by using

0:29:30.800 --> 0:29:36.240
<v Speaker 1>I guess ancient software. In a modern world, there aren't

0:29:36.240 --> 0:29:39.720
<v Speaker 1>too many sabertoothed tigers. There aren't too many threats that

0:29:39.880 --> 0:29:45.280
<v Speaker 1>were imminent threats two ten thousand years ago. It's different now, obviously.

0:29:45.360 --> 0:29:48.560
<v Speaker 1>But your brain's first job is literally to keep you alive,

0:29:49.120 --> 0:29:51.800
<v Speaker 1>not to help you thrive, not to help you innovate

0:29:51.880 --> 0:29:56.920
<v Speaker 1>or become a bloody ig Instagram superstar or podcast or

0:29:57.640 --> 0:30:00.640
<v Speaker 1>success or. Your brain's job is literally key you alive.

0:30:02.360 --> 0:30:06.640
<v Speaker 1>And so that's what it does. It prioritizes predictability over possibility,

0:30:06.640 --> 0:30:13.880
<v Speaker 1>familiarity over improvement, certainty over growth, safety over progress. And

0:30:13.920 --> 0:30:17.320
<v Speaker 1>that's why you can desperately want to change but still

0:30:17.320 --> 0:30:22.400
<v Speaker 1>cling to old habits, and why you avoid discomfort even

0:30:22.440 --> 0:30:25.000
<v Speaker 1>when you know that that discomfort is probably the thing

0:30:25.080 --> 0:30:27.600
<v Speaker 1>that you need to be doing or leaning into or embracing.

0:30:27.600 --> 0:30:32.320
<v Speaker 1>And it's why you can overthink, catastrophize, freeze, procrastinate, and

0:30:32.360 --> 0:30:36.040
<v Speaker 1>self sabotage. So the brain's not trying to punish you,

0:30:36.080 --> 0:30:42.440
<v Speaker 1>it's trying to protect you from perceived risk. The problem

0:30:42.560 --> 0:30:46.520
<v Speaker 1>is your brain can't tell the difference between a real

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<v Speaker 1>threat and actual legitimate, genuine threat, a social threat, an

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<v Speaker 1>emotional threat, and what we might call a growth opportunity

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<v Speaker 1>that just feels scary to survival wiring. Giving a presentation

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<v Speaker 1>might feel like meeting a tiger, not for me, but

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<v Speaker 1>maybe few. Having a tough conversation for some people feels

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<v Speaker 1>like just immersing themselves in danger. Trying something new can

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<v Speaker 1>feel like a threat to stability. But I guess here's

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<v Speaker 1>the kicker. The same brain that tries to keep you safe,

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<v Speaker 1>that same brain is also trainable, so you can manage it.

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<v Speaker 1>The security guard in your head. The amigdala can learn

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<v Speaker 1>the difference between danger and discomfort. The prefrontal cortex can

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<v Speaker 1>be strengthened, Your automatic fear responses can be what can

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<v Speaker 1>they be recalibrated, recalibrated, and your habits can be changed.

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<v Speaker 1>We can create new neural pathways. Those habits can be

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<v Speaker 1>reprogrammed and rewritten. So when your brain seems to be

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<v Speaker 1>working against you, remind yourself it's not broken, lazy, or defective.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just doing what it was built to do. It's

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<v Speaker 1>just doing its job. But based on an out dated

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<v Speaker 1>rule book. Your job is to create a new one. Alrighty,

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<v Speaker 1>So I've just hit the pause button here because I'm

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<v Speaker 1>looking at the time and I'm realizing I didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>that this would take so long. So I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>make this two parter. So I'm going to call that

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<v Speaker 1>the end of part one. I'll be back tomorrow to

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<v Speaker 1>you know, hopefully getting something out of this. I just

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<v Speaker 1>think it's really important. Maybe it's just to me, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm just fascinated with the brain and the mind

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<v Speaker 1>and the intersection and human behavior. And maybe it's because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm getting old and I think, fuck, I want my

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<v Speaker 1>brain to work as well as it can for as

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<v Speaker 1>long as it can, but maybe you want that for

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<v Speaker 1>you too. Nonetheless, I'll be back tomorrow, same bat channel

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<v Speaker 1>for part two. See then,