1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:03,200 Speaker 1: This podcast is being recorded and produced on gadiicol Land. 2 00:00:03,440 --> 00:00:05,960 Speaker 2: We pay our respects to the traditional custodians of this 3 00:00:06,040 --> 00:00:07,800 Speaker 2: country and elders past present. 4 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:11,559 Speaker 1: We extend our respect to any First nations Aboriginal and 5 00:00:11,640 --> 00:00:13,600 Speaker 1: Torres Strait island of people joining. 6 00:00:13,320 --> 00:00:22,520 Speaker 2: Us today, always was, always will be Aboriginal Land. Welcome 7 00:00:22,640 --> 00:00:28,120 Speaker 2: christ Rand. You've rather intro. How's your sleeping pattern going? 8 00:00:28,120 --> 00:00:31,720 Speaker 2: Give me an update that you're still an insomnia. 9 00:00:33,040 --> 00:00:35,920 Speaker 1: It's a lot better, but I still feel like I'm 10 00:00:36,000 --> 00:00:40,080 Speaker 1: having not as good of sleep as I used to. Right, So, 11 00:00:40,400 --> 00:00:43,400 Speaker 1: if you miss the episode, I have been having fucked 12 00:00:43,440 --> 00:00:45,680 Speaker 1: up sleeps and one night in particular, it was a 13 00:00:45,720 --> 00:00:49,240 Speaker 1: Sunday night, like two Sundays ago, I had no sleep 14 00:00:49,280 --> 00:00:51,200 Speaker 1: at all. And I spoke about this in our main 15 00:00:51,240 --> 00:00:56,480 Speaker 1: episode last week. Anyway, I forgot to mention in that 16 00:00:56,640 --> 00:00:59,280 Speaker 1: episode with you, Matt another thing that I did on 17 00:00:59,360 --> 00:01:01,600 Speaker 1: that night that I was having no sleep at all. 18 00:01:01,640 --> 00:01:03,480 Speaker 1: I'm talking the sun was coming up and I was 19 00:01:03,480 --> 00:01:06,800 Speaker 1: still awake. I also googled. I'm not really into this 20 00:01:06,840 --> 00:01:09,000 Speaker 1: sort of stuff, but I know that it's a thing 21 00:01:09,400 --> 00:01:13,759 Speaker 1: I googled is something going on with the moon? Cause 22 00:01:13,760 --> 00:01:15,440 Speaker 1: you know how they say like when it's a full moon, 23 00:01:15,520 --> 00:01:18,000 Speaker 1: this happens, and half moon and whatever all the planets. 24 00:01:18,120 --> 00:01:20,640 Speaker 1: I'm not into that kind of stuff, but I thought 25 00:01:20,640 --> 00:01:22,920 Speaker 1: I was desperate. I'm like, fuck, it is it a 26 00:01:22,920 --> 00:01:25,399 Speaker 1: full moon or something? Because why can't I sleep? But 27 00:01:25,480 --> 00:01:27,959 Speaker 1: I forgot to mention that to you in the pod. Anyway, 28 00:01:28,280 --> 00:01:30,760 Speaker 1: the day that that episode of ours came out, I 29 00:01:30,840 --> 00:01:35,679 Speaker 1: got a DM from a clairvoyant. Oh, let me find it. 30 00:01:36,080 --> 00:01:38,200 Speaker 1: I'm sure she won't mind if I read it out, 31 00:01:38,240 --> 00:01:43,880 Speaker 1: because she messages me every day. I meant about certain things. Okay, hey, Britt, 32 00:01:44,000 --> 00:01:46,399 Speaker 1: just listen to your high scrollers and had to message you. 33 00:01:46,520 --> 00:01:50,040 Speaker 1: Are you're insomnia? It sounds like and because you know, 34 00:01:50,080 --> 00:01:51,800 Speaker 1: I's talking to you about my period and the cycle 35 00:01:51,840 --> 00:01:53,240 Speaker 1: and everything, and how I thought I had something to 36 00:01:53,280 --> 00:01:55,920 Speaker 1: do with that. Well, she said, it sounds like your 37 00:01:55,960 --> 00:01:58,680 Speaker 1: period is in sync with the full moon. And the 38 00:01:58,760 --> 00:02:04,320 Speaker 1: last full moon we had last Sunday was a rare supermoon, 39 00:02:04,640 --> 00:02:08,200 Speaker 1: which means that it's much closer to Earth, so felt 40 00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:13,280 Speaker 1: more intensely. There was also a rare once in a 41 00:02:13,440 --> 00:02:17,920 Speaker 1: decade planetary alignment in conjunction with this supermoon, and the 42 00:02:17,919 --> 00:02:20,799 Speaker 1: effects of it were felt hugely for days last week. 43 00:02:21,160 --> 00:02:23,720 Speaker 1: I also couldn't sleep last Sunday night, and I had 44 00:02:23,760 --> 00:02:26,119 Speaker 1: a lot of people and clients I spoke to had 45 00:02:26,120 --> 00:02:29,200 Speaker 1: the worst insomnia last week that lasted for days, And 46 00:02:29,240 --> 00:02:30,720 Speaker 1: this is exactly what happened to me. It was on 47 00:02:30,800 --> 00:02:33,200 Speaker 1: that Sunday night and all the way through to the Thursday, 48 00:02:33,280 --> 00:02:37,480 Speaker 1: I couldn't sleep. We've also been having huge solar flares 49 00:02:37,560 --> 00:02:39,959 Speaker 1: over the last week too, which can cause a whole 50 00:02:40,120 --> 00:02:43,600 Speaker 1: array of mental and physical symptoms. So to me, it 51 00:02:43,680 --> 00:02:46,079 Speaker 1: sounds like your cycle is in sync with the full 52 00:02:46,160 --> 00:02:48,760 Speaker 1: moon every month, which a lot of women are, and 53 00:02:48,840 --> 00:02:51,480 Speaker 1: I believe this is why you're not sleeping some food 54 00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:56,079 Speaker 1: for thought. Wow, And I'm like, I'm I believe that. 55 00:02:56,160 --> 00:02:58,760 Speaker 1: Like I've never really gotten into all that kind of stuff, 56 00:02:58,840 --> 00:03:01,600 Speaker 1: but I know it's like a thing, and that I mean, 57 00:03:02,360 --> 00:03:04,520 Speaker 1: I kind of I believe it, oh for sure. 58 00:03:04,560 --> 00:03:07,959 Speaker 2: I mean, the Moon controls the water on the Earth, right, 59 00:03:08,120 --> 00:03:11,120 Speaker 2: the Moon controls water and tides and blah blah blah, 60 00:03:11,160 --> 00:03:14,799 Speaker 2: which is fucking what aren't we eighty five percent water? Yeah, 61 00:03:14,880 --> 00:03:16,960 Speaker 2: so no one in the moon controls us. I fully 62 00:03:16,960 --> 00:03:19,040 Speaker 2: believe that as well. I'm all about the planets and 63 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:20,240 Speaker 2: the mercury retrograde. 64 00:03:20,440 --> 00:03:22,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, me too, Like I've never really like gotten heaps 65 00:03:22,840 --> 00:03:24,680 Speaker 1: into it or whatever, like watch videos here and there 66 00:03:24,720 --> 00:03:27,760 Speaker 1: on TikTok and whatever. Yeah, google things when I'm feeling weird, 67 00:03:27,760 --> 00:03:29,120 Speaker 1: I'm like, is it a full moon right now? You 68 00:03:29,120 --> 00:03:32,240 Speaker 1: know how they say when there's a full moon, like 69 00:03:32,520 --> 00:03:35,160 Speaker 1: weird things happen, or like people act weird or whatever. 70 00:03:35,560 --> 00:03:38,040 Speaker 1: So I'm fully believing in that. And for her to 71 00:03:38,520 --> 00:03:40,640 Speaker 1: message that and say that that was that Sunday night 72 00:03:40,640 --> 00:03:42,800 Speaker 1: that the moon was doing that fucking crazy shit, I'm like, 73 00:03:42,840 --> 00:03:46,760 Speaker 1: this all fucking makes sense, so that that's my answer. 74 00:03:46,760 --> 00:03:47,640 Speaker 1: I'm going to run with that. 75 00:03:47,800 --> 00:03:49,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, so you're blaming it on the moon, So 76 00:03:49,560 --> 00:03:52,440 Speaker 2: how do we destroy the moon then, because clearly we 77 00:03:52,560 --> 00:03:53,040 Speaker 2: call out. 78 00:03:52,960 --> 00:03:57,240 Speaker 1: The guy from Despicable Me, he catches the norse. 79 00:03:57,600 --> 00:04:00,480 Speaker 2: Any of the Minions movies you want to. 80 00:04:00,400 --> 00:04:03,520 Speaker 1: Call you AJN, I just want to go with a 81 00:04:03,840 --> 00:04:10,560 Speaker 1: j mahew with me. The most feel good movies. 82 00:04:10,520 --> 00:04:13,360 Speaker 2: In what world? No, I haven't watched any of the 83 00:04:13,400 --> 00:04:17,000 Speaker 2: Minions movies. I don't get the Minion's hype and like 84 00:04:17,080 --> 00:04:19,520 Speaker 2: you know how people like bag on like Disney adults 85 00:04:19,600 --> 00:04:21,880 Speaker 2: and stuff. I don't really care about Disney adults. I 86 00:04:21,920 --> 00:04:24,679 Speaker 2: feel I am one myself. If you love like Mickey 87 00:04:24,760 --> 00:04:26,760 Speaker 2: Mouse and Mini Mouse, I can get around that. If 88 00:04:26,760 --> 00:04:29,960 Speaker 2: you love to speaking with me, fuck off. It's such 89 00:04:30,000 --> 00:04:34,920 Speaker 2: a if you love a minion, get over yourself. 90 00:04:34,480 --> 00:04:37,600 Speaker 1: Get real the main guy and the three girls, Like 91 00:04:37,600 --> 00:04:39,920 Speaker 1: it's more than just the minions in the movie, and 92 00:04:39,960 --> 00:04:44,520 Speaker 1: it's like feel good, make you laugh, make you get emotional, 93 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:47,200 Speaker 1: Like it's just one of those feel good movies. 94 00:04:47,279 --> 00:04:52,080 Speaker 2: You need to I never will I watched it, I 95 00:04:52,080 --> 00:04:56,479 Speaker 2: would say no, I don't think. So what do you 96 00:04:56,560 --> 00:04:58,400 Speaker 2: love it? Has AJ watched it? 97 00:04:58,600 --> 00:04:59,080 Speaker 1: I don't know. 98 00:04:59,440 --> 00:05:02,000 Speaker 2: I love that. I'm loving that song on TikTok? Who 99 00:05:02,839 --> 00:05:05,880 Speaker 2: we do know? That's the Oh, that's a question. I 100 00:05:05,920 --> 00:05:06,800 Speaker 2: mean got the lyrics wrong. 101 00:05:06,800 --> 00:05:08,840 Speaker 1: But you see there's good soundtracks in it. Like it's 102 00:05:08,839 --> 00:05:11,279 Speaker 1: a fucking feel good movie. If you haven't seen it, 103 00:05:11,480 --> 00:05:13,880 Speaker 1: go watch the first one. Yeah, it's just like chuck 104 00:05:13,880 --> 00:05:16,159 Speaker 1: it on on a Friday night, have some popcorn at home. 105 00:05:16,640 --> 00:05:17,679 Speaker 1: I'm going to watch it again. 106 00:05:17,760 --> 00:05:22,200 Speaker 2: But I don't hello, I need blood Guts Murder, like 107 00:05:22,240 --> 00:05:24,880 Speaker 2: I watched SAUV the other day, saw five the other day, 108 00:05:25,240 --> 00:05:29,960 Speaker 2: Like that's that's wait, No, was it five? What's the 109 00:05:30,000 --> 00:05:32,640 Speaker 2: most recent one? Where is it ten? How many fucking 110 00:05:32,680 --> 00:05:36,279 Speaker 2: saws are they? Anyway? I want that, I want drama. 111 00:05:36,520 --> 00:05:38,120 Speaker 2: I want I'm on the edge of my seat, Like 112 00:05:38,160 --> 00:05:39,360 Speaker 2: are you on the edge of your seat when you're 113 00:05:39,360 --> 00:05:40,880 Speaker 2: watching the Minions movies. 114 00:05:40,720 --> 00:05:43,400 Speaker 1: At some moments maybe if you think something bad's gonna happen. 115 00:05:43,960 --> 00:05:45,479 Speaker 2: I can't think of anything worse than me and Sky 116 00:05:45,600 --> 00:05:48,279 Speaker 2: sitting down to watch a fucking Minions movie. Oh my god, 117 00:05:48,279 --> 00:05:50,560 Speaker 2: I'd believing so fast if he said, babe, let's sit 118 00:05:50,600 --> 00:05:53,039 Speaker 2: down and watch Minions tonight. Just wiggle with me. I'll go. 119 00:05:53,120 --> 00:05:54,279 Speaker 2: You can get it to my house. 120 00:05:57,320 --> 00:06:01,440 Speaker 1: Sorry, Scott. Speaking of Sky, I saw that you shared 121 00:06:01,880 --> 00:06:04,760 Speaker 1: the other day on Instagram that it was yours and 122 00:06:04,839 --> 00:06:06,360 Speaker 1: Sky's five. 123 00:06:06,160 --> 00:06:08,640 Speaker 2: Year How crazy? 124 00:06:09,000 --> 00:06:09,279 Speaker 1: Yeah? 125 00:06:09,360 --> 00:06:11,159 Speaker 2: Do you remember when my whole brand was being like 126 00:06:11,200 --> 00:06:13,480 Speaker 2: desperate and dateless and single and like no one would 127 00:06:13,480 --> 00:06:13,960 Speaker 2: ever love me? 128 00:06:14,120 --> 00:06:16,240 Speaker 1: And you would. You would have little boyfriends every now 129 00:06:16,240 --> 00:06:17,880 Speaker 1: and then, and then you would tell me about him, 130 00:06:17,960 --> 00:06:20,560 Speaker 1: and then the next time I saw you, nah, yea, 131 00:06:21,279 --> 00:06:23,880 Speaker 1: now I hate him. Now now we're done with him? 132 00:06:23,960 --> 00:06:26,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, because I fell hard and fast and then they 133 00:06:27,839 --> 00:06:33,239 Speaker 2: ghost me. How did you Sky meet at a drag show, 134 00:06:33,400 --> 00:06:35,680 Speaker 2: So oh yeah, I went. I was coming down to 135 00:06:35,680 --> 00:06:37,560 Speaker 2: Sydney on a Thursday night. They had this thing called 136 00:06:37,640 --> 00:06:40,800 Speaker 2: Drag for dollars at Arc Sydney on a Thursday night. 137 00:06:41,480 --> 00:06:43,359 Speaker 2: And my friend and I were coming down from the 138 00:06:43,360 --> 00:06:46,719 Speaker 2: Central Coast each week and going out like multiple times 139 00:06:46,720 --> 00:06:49,400 Speaker 2: a week. We just discovered drag. We loved it. When 140 00:06:49,440 --> 00:06:53,440 Speaker 2: I saw Sky across the room looking absolutely so gorgeous 141 00:06:53,480 --> 00:06:57,559 Speaker 2: and perfect and was Sky and drag No, just sitting 142 00:06:57,640 --> 00:06:59,440 Speaker 2: watching the drag And we were over the other side 143 00:06:59,440 --> 00:07:04,440 Speaker 2: of the room watching the drag as well. And I 144 00:07:04,520 --> 00:07:06,720 Speaker 2: leant over to my friend and was like, look at 145 00:07:06,720 --> 00:07:10,200 Speaker 2: that guy over there, and I said, that's my future husband. 146 00:07:11,320 --> 00:07:14,360 Speaker 1: I was like, and you didn't know each other, any 147 00:07:14,440 --> 00:07:15,320 Speaker 1: mutuals or anything. 148 00:07:15,400 --> 00:07:17,520 Speaker 2: No, I never spoke a word, never saw him before 149 00:07:17,520 --> 00:07:20,240 Speaker 2: in my life, no mutual friends or anything. Saw him 150 00:07:20,240 --> 00:07:22,040 Speaker 2: across the room. This is one of my first times 151 00:07:22,240 --> 00:07:25,160 Speaker 2: going to see Dragon Sydney. Saw him, said that's my 152 00:07:25,200 --> 00:07:27,720 Speaker 2: future husband. My best friend was like, oh my god, 153 00:07:27,840 --> 00:07:32,000 Speaker 2: that is so like your type. He is so everything mother. 154 00:07:32,800 --> 00:07:34,560 Speaker 2: But I was really shy, and I also had just 155 00:07:34,760 --> 00:07:38,560 Speaker 2: like gotten out of this like weird thing with a guy, 156 00:07:38,760 --> 00:07:40,800 Speaker 2: and so I was a little bit like shy and 157 00:07:40,840 --> 00:07:43,800 Speaker 2: reserved and like not really ready to do any of that. 158 00:07:43,840 --> 00:07:51,200 Speaker 2: So I funnily enough, his friend was actually a follower 159 00:07:51,240 --> 00:07:55,000 Speaker 2: of mine who's Christina. By the way, I've ended up 160 00:07:55,080 --> 00:07:57,080 Speaker 2: living with him. It's one of my close friends now, 161 00:07:57,160 --> 00:07:59,680 Speaker 2: like we So she came up to me that night 162 00:07:59,720 --> 00:08:01,440 Speaker 2: and was like, oh my god, hey, can we get 163 00:08:01,480 --> 00:08:03,320 Speaker 2: a photo and everything like that, like I love you, 164 00:08:03,480 --> 00:08:06,760 Speaker 2: And she's actually friends with Sky, and I'm going, oh 165 00:08:06,760 --> 00:08:09,760 Speaker 2: my god, this is perfect. And then for probably three 166 00:08:09,800 --> 00:08:12,920 Speaker 2: four five months we just kind of connected, like me 167 00:08:13,120 --> 00:08:17,040 Speaker 2: and my friend connected with her and Sky, and then 168 00:08:17,080 --> 00:08:19,040 Speaker 2: there was like a larger group as well, and we 169 00:08:19,120 --> 00:08:21,120 Speaker 2: kind of like just joined the friend group in a way. 170 00:08:22,000 --> 00:08:23,640 Speaker 2: And then anyway, I was crushing on him for a 171 00:08:23,640 --> 00:08:24,800 Speaker 2: while and. 172 00:08:25,200 --> 00:08:27,640 Speaker 1: Crushing on you, No, it was a feeling mutual at 173 00:08:27,640 --> 00:08:30,560 Speaker 1: the start, n so I but. 174 00:08:30,600 --> 00:08:32,520 Speaker 2: He didn't know that I was crushing on him. And 175 00:08:32,600 --> 00:08:35,560 Speaker 2: I like said to Christina, I was like, I knew 176 00:08:35,679 --> 00:08:38,040 Speaker 2: she was going out for dinner with Sky, And I said, 177 00:08:38,120 --> 00:08:39,480 Speaker 2: when you go out for dinner, can you just like 178 00:08:39,600 --> 00:08:42,040 Speaker 2: gauge if he's like interested in anyone or if he's 179 00:08:42,040 --> 00:08:44,360 Speaker 2: like looking to date anyone. Or anything like that, and 180 00:08:44,440 --> 00:08:46,400 Speaker 2: Christina came back to me the next day and was 181 00:08:46,440 --> 00:08:48,560 Speaker 2: like yeah, So I spoke to Skuy and was like 182 00:08:48,559 --> 00:08:51,160 Speaker 2: like like, are you looking to date anyone? And Sky 183 00:08:51,320 --> 00:08:53,719 Speaker 2: was like nah, not interested, don't want to don't want 184 00:08:53,880 --> 00:08:56,360 Speaker 2: any anyone right now, not interested in anyone. Can't be 185 00:08:56,360 --> 00:08:58,320 Speaker 2: bothered with a relationship. Ba bah. And I was like, 186 00:08:58,520 --> 00:09:01,440 Speaker 2: oh okay. So then like two weeks later, we all 187 00:09:01,480 --> 00:09:03,320 Speaker 2: planned out to go out as a friend group, but 188 00:09:03,480 --> 00:09:07,040 Speaker 2: then something weird happened and everyone got the wrong memo 189 00:09:07,240 --> 00:09:10,120 Speaker 2: and no one showed up except me and Sky, and 190 00:09:10,320 --> 00:09:12,760 Speaker 2: we were both just like oh, like this is and no, 191 00:09:12,960 --> 00:09:15,000 Speaker 2: you're both looking at me like oh, I think this 192 00:09:15,240 --> 00:09:17,560 Speaker 2: wasn't as if this wasn't set up. No, it genuinely 193 00:09:17,679 --> 00:09:21,360 Speaker 2: wasn't set up. Like Christina was pissed, bitch Likena was 194 00:09:21,480 --> 00:09:23,920 Speaker 2: angry that like the wrong time had been told to her. 195 00:09:23,920 --> 00:09:25,720 Speaker 2: And then another friend that was meant to come like 196 00:09:25,880 --> 00:09:28,000 Speaker 2: literally couldn't get off work, and then it was just 197 00:09:28,040 --> 00:09:29,360 Speaker 2: all these things happened and it was just me and 198 00:09:29,400 --> 00:09:31,000 Speaker 2: Sky and I was like, well, we're both here, so 199 00:09:31,040 --> 00:09:32,400 Speaker 2: we might as well just like get a drink and 200 00:09:32,559 --> 00:09:35,360 Speaker 2: like chart and then like we spoke for like a 201 00:09:35,400 --> 00:09:37,480 Speaker 2: few hours, and then we met up with the friend 202 00:09:37,480 --> 00:09:40,760 Speaker 2: group afterwards because everyone was then ready to come out. 203 00:09:40,840 --> 00:09:42,840 Speaker 2: But we like kind of like had this like moment 204 00:09:42,880 --> 00:09:45,600 Speaker 2: where we like discussed our lives and really got to 205 00:09:45,640 --> 00:09:50,240 Speaker 2: know each other. And then it was his birthday. This 206 00:09:50,520 --> 00:09:54,720 Speaker 2: so funny and just so me and just so us, 207 00:09:55,080 --> 00:09:57,240 Speaker 2: but we obviously didn't know it at the time. So 208 00:09:57,480 --> 00:09:59,679 Speaker 2: he sky tells me that his birthday, we went out 209 00:09:59,679 --> 00:10:03,000 Speaker 2: to the new Town Hotel to again watch Drag and 210 00:10:03,520 --> 00:10:05,679 Speaker 2: I just felt so hot, Like I was just like 211 00:10:05,800 --> 00:10:07,839 Speaker 2: I'm killing it at the moment, Like I just looked 212 00:10:07,880 --> 00:10:09,880 Speaker 2: so hot, and I was like, you know what, like 213 00:10:09,920 --> 00:10:11,960 Speaker 2: I'm putting the charm on tonight and see if it 214 00:10:11,960 --> 00:10:14,120 Speaker 2: gets anywhere. And if it doesn't get anywhere, then like cool, 215 00:10:14,200 --> 00:10:17,559 Speaker 2: I've I've given it a goyah and I don't care. 216 00:10:17,760 --> 00:10:19,760 Speaker 2: We can move on, you know what I mean. And 217 00:10:19,840 --> 00:10:24,240 Speaker 2: so it's his birthday. We're out and you know, I'm 218 00:10:24,280 --> 00:10:27,000 Speaker 2: just like being flirty but overly like just you know, 219 00:10:27,120 --> 00:10:31,080 Speaker 2: touching his back and things, and like he wanted. He 220 00:10:31,160 --> 00:10:34,080 Speaker 2: went to the bar to get some food because we 221 00:10:34,080 --> 00:10:36,400 Speaker 2: were there to have food and watch Drag, and like 222 00:10:36,520 --> 00:10:39,920 Speaker 2: I paid for his food, like literally such the smallest 223 00:10:40,360 --> 00:10:44,440 Speaker 2: gesture and Sky literally goes like, when you paid for 224 00:10:44,480 --> 00:10:49,920 Speaker 2: my chips, I knew there was something there. I'm like, 225 00:10:50,120 --> 00:10:53,480 Speaker 2: he's like the moment that likes he reckons that like 226 00:10:53,559 --> 00:10:55,640 Speaker 2: that night is the night he like first felt like 227 00:10:55,679 --> 00:10:59,680 Speaker 2: butterflies for me because I paid for his fucking chips 228 00:10:59,679 --> 00:11:03,040 Speaker 2: and I at the Newtown Hotel. Like it's just the 229 00:11:03,080 --> 00:11:05,440 Speaker 2: most unromantic but us thing ever. 230 00:11:05,760 --> 00:11:07,800 Speaker 1: That's a little thing. So I love the little things 231 00:11:07,840 --> 00:11:08,160 Speaker 1: like that. 232 00:11:08,240 --> 00:11:10,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, and then it was pretty clear. And then it 233 00:11:11,040 --> 00:11:13,200 Speaker 2: was like, you know, a few more weeks of just 234 00:11:13,240 --> 00:11:15,600 Speaker 2: like flirting, talking all the rest of it, and then 235 00:11:16,080 --> 00:11:17,880 Speaker 2: we I've told you before. I don't know if I've 236 00:11:17,880 --> 00:11:19,320 Speaker 2: said it on this podcast, but I think a lot 237 00:11:19,320 --> 00:11:21,480 Speaker 2: of people do it because I've discussed it before. I 238 00:11:21,480 --> 00:11:24,360 Speaker 2: always had this vision for my life that like I 239 00:11:24,400 --> 00:11:31,360 Speaker 2: would propose to my boyfriend in the place that we 240 00:11:31,440 --> 00:11:35,040 Speaker 2: had our first kiss. Our first kiss was in a 241 00:11:35,080 --> 00:11:40,480 Speaker 2: toilet cubic cool at Stonewall Nice, So that's gone out 242 00:11:40,520 --> 00:11:43,160 Speaker 2: that we won't be doing that. But I had this 243 00:11:43,240 --> 00:11:45,200 Speaker 2: thing picture, this picture in my brain of like I 244 00:11:45,200 --> 00:11:46,959 Speaker 2: can't wait to repose in like the place that we 245 00:11:47,080 --> 00:11:49,320 Speaker 2: share our first kiss. We've both got so drunk on 246 00:11:49,360 --> 00:11:51,600 Speaker 2: Long Island iced teas. I went to the bathroom, he 247 00:11:51,640 --> 00:11:53,360 Speaker 2: went to the bathroom, and then we were just like, 248 00:11:54,240 --> 00:11:57,880 Speaker 2: come in here and let's go for it. So very 249 00:11:58,000 --> 00:12:03,000 Speaker 2: romantic first kiss in there, and the risk is history. 250 00:12:04,640 --> 00:12:07,160 Speaker 1: That's so cute. It feels like just yesterday that you 251 00:12:07,240 --> 00:12:09,360 Speaker 1: like started dating. And I feel like when you did 252 00:12:09,400 --> 00:12:11,920 Speaker 1: start dating, that's when you had come off the back 253 00:12:11,960 --> 00:12:14,560 Speaker 1: of like, you know, some little flings here and there 254 00:12:14,640 --> 00:12:17,120 Speaker 1: kind of thing. So I feel like at that point 255 00:12:17,200 --> 00:12:19,560 Speaker 1: when I found out that you actually had like a 256 00:12:19,679 --> 00:12:24,080 Speaker 1: boyfriend boyfriend, I think you were like kind of hesitant 257 00:12:24,120 --> 00:12:26,360 Speaker 1: about the whole thing as well, because you had just 258 00:12:26,679 --> 00:12:29,480 Speaker 1: like sort of dated a couple of guys kind of thing. 259 00:12:29,640 --> 00:12:33,040 Speaker 1: So it's just crazy to think now it's been five years. 260 00:12:33,120 --> 00:12:37,360 Speaker 2: I know, before Sky, I don't think I'd had an 261 00:12:37,480 --> 00:12:40,960 Speaker 2: actual official relationship for longer than like three months. Lots 262 00:12:41,000 --> 00:12:43,800 Speaker 2: of situationships, lots of three month relationships. Then we broke 263 00:12:43,880 --> 00:12:45,960 Speaker 2: up and then we still slept together six months or whatever, 264 00:12:46,000 --> 00:12:47,560 Speaker 2: you know, things like that. But we hated each other, 265 00:12:47,559 --> 00:12:50,000 Speaker 2: but it was just convenient, like all that sort of stuff. Yeah, 266 00:12:50,080 --> 00:12:52,200 Speaker 2: like an actual like relationship. I don't think I dated 267 00:12:52,240 --> 00:12:55,520 Speaker 2: anyone officially for longer than three months. 268 00:12:55,559 --> 00:12:59,160 Speaker 1: See. I think when you find yourself in like a 269 00:12:59,200 --> 00:13:02,360 Speaker 1: good solid relationship, like I feel like both of us 270 00:13:02,360 --> 00:13:06,079 Speaker 1: are in now, it does make every other fling or 271 00:13:06,160 --> 00:13:09,600 Speaker 1: relationship just seem like it wasn't even legit. 272 00:13:09,880 --> 00:13:10,200 Speaker 2: Yeah. 273 00:13:10,240 --> 00:13:13,640 Speaker 1: Like I even look at my relationships before AJ and 274 00:13:13,760 --> 00:13:16,600 Speaker 1: yeah I had boyfriends, but like comparing it to us 275 00:13:16,600 --> 00:13:19,240 Speaker 1: being together now for seven years, I look at all 276 00:13:19,280 --> 00:13:20,880 Speaker 1: those boyfriends that I had for a year here and 277 00:13:20,920 --> 00:13:24,240 Speaker 1: a year then, and it like they weren't relationships. Yeah, 278 00:13:24,360 --> 00:13:25,880 Speaker 1: Like even though you said it was and that like, 279 00:13:25,920 --> 00:13:28,480 Speaker 1: oh yeah, that was my boyfriend, Like wasn't really fucking 280 00:13:28,559 --> 00:13:29,200 Speaker 1: your boyfriend? 281 00:13:29,320 --> 00:13:32,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like it wasn't, especially when I was so young. 282 00:13:32,080 --> 00:13:34,240 Speaker 2: I make I don't even know, And isn't it funny 283 00:13:34,240 --> 00:13:36,840 Speaker 2: that like I couldn't even tell you, Like there's one 284 00:13:36,880 --> 00:13:39,520 Speaker 2: boyfriend I'm like, I wouldn't even know his last name. 285 00:13:40,240 --> 00:13:42,160 Speaker 2: Like I wouldn't even know his last name. 286 00:13:42,160 --> 00:13:45,080 Speaker 1: It definitely wasn't a boyfriend then, but he was for 287 00:13:45,120 --> 00:13:45,720 Speaker 1: two months. 288 00:13:45,880 --> 00:13:47,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, but like if you asked me what his last 289 00:13:47,960 --> 00:13:49,480 Speaker 2: name was, I couldn't fucking tell you. 290 00:13:49,600 --> 00:13:51,440 Speaker 1: See. I think when you finally get into like a 291 00:13:51,559 --> 00:13:56,200 Speaker 1: nice solid relationship that is actually like what a relationship 292 00:13:56,240 --> 00:13:58,280 Speaker 1: should be. Like you just look at everything else that 293 00:13:58,320 --> 00:13:59,840 Speaker 1: you did and you're like, why the fuck did I 294 00:13:59,840 --> 00:14:02,680 Speaker 1: do that? And also like, yeah, we were so young. 295 00:14:03,800 --> 00:14:05,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I just. 296 00:14:05,080 --> 00:14:08,080 Speaker 1: Think of eighteen year olds getting into relationships now, I'm like, 297 00:14:08,160 --> 00:14:11,880 Speaker 1: don't fucking do it? Yeah, wait till you're above twenty five. 298 00:14:13,760 --> 00:14:15,479 Speaker 1: But you do those things to learn. 299 00:14:15,480 --> 00:14:17,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the thing. Everything in life is a lesson 300 00:14:17,960 --> 00:14:20,760 Speaker 2: or a blessing or a lesson. So learn a lot 301 00:14:20,800 --> 00:14:24,120 Speaker 2: of lessons before I came to the blessing exactly right. 302 00:14:25,560 --> 00:14:27,760 Speaker 2: But yeah, what's your like? I don't know, I don't 303 00:14:27,800 --> 00:14:29,880 Speaker 2: really know what to ask you, but I feel like 304 00:14:29,920 --> 00:14:31,720 Speaker 2: I've just spoken a lot, So I'm trying to throw 305 00:14:31,720 --> 00:14:34,440 Speaker 2: you at throw your bone here to be like, what 306 00:14:34,480 --> 00:14:38,040 Speaker 2: do you think the scrollers would like to hear about 307 00:14:38,280 --> 00:14:41,240 Speaker 2: long term relationships? And maybe something that they don't What 308 00:14:41,320 --> 00:14:42,400 Speaker 2: am I trying to say here? 309 00:14:42,840 --> 00:14:45,880 Speaker 1: What's the key to? Yeah? What a key to a 310 00:14:45,920 --> 00:14:46,840 Speaker 1: long term relationship? 311 00:14:46,880 --> 00:14:47,320 Speaker 2: Yeah? 312 00:14:47,520 --> 00:14:50,200 Speaker 1: Let me give you my five top tips for a 313 00:14:50,200 --> 00:14:55,760 Speaker 1: long lasting relationship? Am just kidding? 314 00:14:56,080 --> 00:14:57,840 Speaker 2: I don't want to do asma all? Here is my 315 00:14:57,920 --> 00:14:58,600 Speaker 2: nose whistle. 316 00:15:01,600 --> 00:15:03,720 Speaker 1: You know you're in a long term relationship when you're 317 00:15:03,760 --> 00:15:06,080 Speaker 1: laying in bed at night and then you say, can 318 00:15:06,120 --> 00:15:09,600 Speaker 1: you please stop breathing like that? Lay there with his 319 00:15:09,720 --> 00:15:13,560 Speaker 1: mouth shut and his nose is just doing the tiniest 320 00:15:13,800 --> 00:15:16,040 Speaker 1: I'm like, can you go like that because your nose 321 00:15:16,080 --> 00:15:16,600 Speaker 1: is whistling? 322 00:15:17,080 --> 00:15:19,000 Speaker 2: I never do that. We've never told each other that 323 00:15:19,000 --> 00:15:22,160 Speaker 2: we're breathing weird. I tell him to get off me. 324 00:15:22,880 --> 00:15:25,080 Speaker 2: I'm like, you are on my side of the bed. 325 00:15:26,120 --> 00:15:28,360 Speaker 1: You know, when someone's got their mouth shut but they're 326 00:15:28,360 --> 00:15:30,640 Speaker 1: breathing through their nose, but there's like that faint whistle. 327 00:15:30,920 --> 00:15:33,160 Speaker 2: Yeah me. Sometimes you can hear it on this podcast. 328 00:15:33,720 --> 00:15:35,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, sometimes I can't hear it from You have to have. 329 00:15:35,880 --> 00:15:38,240 Speaker 2: My microphone so far away because if it's too close. 330 00:15:38,360 --> 00:15:40,080 Speaker 2: Sometimes you can hear my nose whistle. 331 00:15:40,160 --> 00:15:41,800 Speaker 1: And then I go, can you please go like this? 332 00:15:42,800 --> 00:15:47,360 Speaker 1: Like you've got something in your nose? I feel like, honestly, 333 00:15:47,840 --> 00:15:51,080 Speaker 1: like people always say that relationships are hard, and it's 334 00:15:51,160 --> 00:15:53,560 Speaker 1: not to say that they aren't gonna be hard at times, 335 00:15:53,600 --> 00:15:55,880 Speaker 1: Like you're gonna have your hard times and your challenging times, 336 00:15:55,920 --> 00:15:58,880 Speaker 1: and like you're going through life together, and like life 337 00:15:58,920 --> 00:16:01,840 Speaker 1: isn't always perfect and amazing, So when you're in a relationship, 338 00:16:01,880 --> 00:16:04,400 Speaker 1: you're going to experience some hard times together. But I 339 00:16:04,480 --> 00:16:09,560 Speaker 1: truly think that when you are in a good, stable relationship, 340 00:16:10,160 --> 00:16:13,320 Speaker 1: it feels fucking easy. Yes, Like I know people like 341 00:16:13,360 --> 00:16:16,280 Speaker 1: relationships are hard. I'm sure, Like, yeah, I'm seven years 342 00:16:16,280 --> 00:16:18,880 Speaker 1: into my relationship with AJ, you're five years in with Sky. 343 00:16:18,960 --> 00:16:21,840 Speaker 1: I'm sure we will still yet to be like, we're 344 00:16:21,840 --> 00:16:24,320 Speaker 1: going to face some challenges together, and maybe our relationship 345 00:16:24,360 --> 00:16:26,080 Speaker 1: will be tested in the future, like you never know. 346 00:16:26,440 --> 00:16:29,640 Speaker 1: But I think for the most part, like a relationship 347 00:16:29,720 --> 00:16:34,280 Speaker 1: shouldn't be hard to try and make good. Yeah, to work, 348 00:16:34,320 --> 00:16:36,960 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. And those other factors that 349 00:16:37,000 --> 00:16:40,360 Speaker 1: come in through life, like stress from money and then 350 00:16:40,400 --> 00:16:42,560 Speaker 1: like I know when people have kids, like that can 351 00:16:42,600 --> 00:16:46,280 Speaker 1: add so much stress to people's relationships because then it's 352 00:16:46,320 --> 00:16:48,600 Speaker 1: just a whole other element to your fucking relationship, and 353 00:16:48,600 --> 00:16:50,840 Speaker 1: then the kids of the priority and your relationship gets 354 00:16:50,840 --> 00:16:52,920 Speaker 1: put on the back burner. But for the most part, 355 00:16:52,960 --> 00:16:56,120 Speaker 1: like doing life with AJ and being in my relationship 356 00:16:56,120 --> 00:17:00,160 Speaker 1: with him is like a piece of piss. Yeah, same easy, 357 00:17:00,200 --> 00:17:02,960 Speaker 1: And I think that's how a healthy relationship should feel 358 00:17:03,240 --> 00:17:04,000 Speaker 1: most of the time. 359 00:17:04,119 --> 00:17:06,639 Speaker 2: And also it's so different to any other relationship that 360 00:17:06,680 --> 00:17:11,080 Speaker 2: I've had because I I just it's so like cliche, 361 00:17:11,119 --> 00:17:13,600 Speaker 2: but like when you know, you know vibes, because every 362 00:17:13,600 --> 00:17:17,280 Speaker 2: other relationship I've had has been like we've either had 363 00:17:17,320 --> 00:17:20,880 Speaker 2: problems or I'm like checking the Snapchat location like where 364 00:17:20,960 --> 00:17:24,720 Speaker 2: is he? What mean there's trust issues? We're on and off? 365 00:17:25,080 --> 00:17:27,360 Speaker 1: Is that girl on Instagram that you just followed? Why 366 00:17:27,359 --> 00:17:29,480 Speaker 1: does the girl keep liking your photos? Like That's not 367 00:17:29,520 --> 00:17:32,359 Speaker 1: how a relationship should be. No, Whereas like when you're 368 00:17:32,359 --> 00:17:35,440 Speaker 1: in a really solid relationship, you never have those thoughts. 369 00:17:35,560 --> 00:17:38,399 Speaker 2: No, Like I never have to I Sky and I 370 00:17:38,440 --> 00:17:41,720 Speaker 2: have location on, but it's like it's never like what's 371 00:17:41,760 --> 00:17:44,280 Speaker 2: he doing? It's like is he home from work yet? 372 00:17:44,600 --> 00:17:47,080 Speaker 2: Like that's why I'm checking the location And that's like the. 373 00:17:47,080 --> 00:17:49,720 Speaker 1: Biggest I'm all for having a location on, especially for 374 00:17:49,800 --> 00:17:53,520 Speaker 1: like emergency situations, Like imagine if something happened to your partner, 375 00:17:53,560 --> 00:17:56,919 Speaker 1: touch would and they the location wasn't on, but imagine 376 00:17:56,920 --> 00:18:00,000 Speaker 1: if it was, and like how many like missed opportune 377 00:18:00,160 --> 00:18:03,040 Speaker 1: is there could be with that. I don't have any 378 00:18:03,200 --> 00:18:07,800 Speaker 1: keys to having a long lasting relationship. I think when 379 00:18:07,800 --> 00:18:10,600 Speaker 1: you just find your right person, Like it just makes 380 00:18:10,640 --> 00:18:12,800 Speaker 1: it a lot easier for you. And there's all the 381 00:18:12,840 --> 00:18:16,479 Speaker 1: things like communicate blah blah blah, understand one another, all 382 00:18:16,520 --> 00:18:20,080 Speaker 1: those things. But I think if you're going to be 383 00:18:20,280 --> 00:18:24,240 Speaker 1: in a relationship, it's just all about finding that right 384 00:18:24,280 --> 00:18:28,240 Speaker 1: person where you can just so easily do life together. Yeah, 385 00:18:28,280 --> 00:18:30,239 Speaker 1: And I'm grateful for that because I know a lot 386 00:18:30,280 --> 00:18:34,200 Speaker 1: of people are in shit situations or struggle to find 387 00:18:34,240 --> 00:18:38,200 Speaker 1: a good partner. So touch would. I think we're lucky. 388 00:18:38,720 --> 00:18:41,400 Speaker 2: And one of the biggest things I think that is 389 00:18:42,000 --> 00:18:43,800 Speaker 2: I've said it before, but I'll say it again. One 390 00:18:43,800 --> 00:18:47,440 Speaker 2: of the biggest things for my relationship is that Sky 391 00:18:47,560 --> 00:18:49,919 Speaker 2: has his friends and I have my friends. And although 392 00:18:49,920 --> 00:18:54,760 Speaker 2: they coexist and we do mingle together, we don't I'm 393 00:18:54,800 --> 00:18:58,040 Speaker 2: not ingrained in his friends' lives. It's a bit different 394 00:18:58,080 --> 00:19:00,320 Speaker 2: from that core group that we kind of create when 395 00:19:00,320 --> 00:19:02,640 Speaker 2: we're all going out. But I mean, he's got work 396 00:19:02,680 --> 00:19:04,800 Speaker 2: friends and things like that. And in the past, I 397 00:19:04,840 --> 00:19:07,719 Speaker 2: think with boys that I've dated, I've been like, this 398 00:19:07,760 --> 00:19:09,679 Speaker 2: is who I'm dating, and you must be friends with 399 00:19:09,720 --> 00:19:11,639 Speaker 2: my best friend and this friend and this friend, and 400 00:19:11,640 --> 00:19:13,320 Speaker 2: everyone needs to be a big, happy family and You're 401 00:19:13,359 --> 00:19:15,600 Speaker 2: like now a part of my life fully, and everyone 402 00:19:15,640 --> 00:19:20,679 Speaker 2: in my life has to be you know, whereas he 403 00:19:20,760 --> 00:19:22,480 Speaker 2: goes and spends time with his friends, I go and 404 00:19:22,560 --> 00:19:25,719 Speaker 2: spend time with my friends, and sometimes they coexist. If 405 00:19:25,720 --> 00:19:27,800 Speaker 2: we have a little you know, house swarming, or someone 406 00:19:27,840 --> 00:19:30,320 Speaker 2: has a birthday and his friends come over. Obviously I'm 407 00:19:30,320 --> 00:19:32,680 Speaker 2: still like a part of their lives. But I think 408 00:19:32,680 --> 00:19:34,639 Speaker 2: in the past I've really been ingrained. 409 00:19:34,720 --> 00:19:37,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's important to have your own things and get 410 00:19:37,480 --> 00:19:39,119 Speaker 1: too caught up in one another. I know that can 411 00:19:39,160 --> 00:19:42,240 Speaker 1: happen a lot, especially in like the early days of relationships, 412 00:19:42,280 --> 00:19:43,880 Speaker 1: you know, when you're just like infatuated with. 413 00:19:43,880 --> 00:19:45,320 Speaker 2: One and a hour with them every second. 414 00:19:45,440 --> 00:19:47,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, but it is really important, especially as the years 415 00:19:47,920 --> 00:19:50,320 Speaker 1: go on, that you are still independent and can do 416 00:19:50,359 --> 00:19:53,239 Speaker 1: your own things and enjoy doing those things, and then 417 00:19:53,280 --> 00:19:55,200 Speaker 1: you enjoy like coming back together again. 418 00:19:55,480 --> 00:19:55,720 Speaker 2: Yeah. 419 00:19:56,320 --> 00:19:57,639 Speaker 1: So yeah, that is really important too. 420 00:19:57,760 --> 00:20:02,280 Speaker 2: I'm a part is so important as much as time together. 421 00:20:02,640 --> 00:20:03,680 Speaker 1: I couldn't agree more. 422 00:20:04,560 --> 00:20:07,560 Speaker 2: I sort of thing in really healthy long term relationships. 423 00:20:07,560 --> 00:20:10,760 Speaker 1: It's crazy we are a relationship pod now as well, 424 00:20:11,000 --> 00:20:14,080 Speaker 1: like we're really covering it. Also, Hannah changed the category 425 00:20:14,160 --> 00:20:18,359 Speaker 1: to relationships on Spotify and Apple Podcasts please. 426 00:20:18,400 --> 00:20:21,159 Speaker 2: People are also begging for another photo update because like 427 00:20:21,200 --> 00:20:23,400 Speaker 2: another photo shop for the cover and it's been a year, 428 00:20:23,400 --> 00:20:26,280 Speaker 2: but you've got different You've got short and brown hair. 429 00:20:26,520 --> 00:20:30,080 Speaker 2: My hair is different. I no longer spark it up. Yeah, 430 00:20:30,119 --> 00:20:33,080 Speaker 2: so we might need and I just feel like our 431 00:20:33,119 --> 00:20:35,440 Speaker 2: styling and now that we know what the podcast is. 432 00:20:35,359 --> 00:20:37,160 Speaker 1: We can we can change it up. Well, I reckon, 433 00:20:37,400 --> 00:20:40,359 Speaker 1: Like I think, let's just fucking leave it until next year, 434 00:20:40,840 --> 00:20:42,439 Speaker 1: Like that's going to be you you want to do 435 00:20:42,480 --> 00:20:42,800 Speaker 1: it now? 436 00:20:43,000 --> 00:20:45,040 Speaker 2: I don't care. No. Oh actually I've got a real 437 00:20:45,080 --> 00:20:47,680 Speaker 2: good idea, but I can't say it on this podcast 438 00:20:47,720 --> 00:20:49,920 Speaker 2: because next year we'll coincide with something else. 439 00:20:49,920 --> 00:20:52,200 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah yeah. And I'm just like to me, 440 00:20:52,400 --> 00:20:54,120 Speaker 1: in my mind, we're at that point of the year 441 00:20:54,119 --> 00:20:55,520 Speaker 1: now where the year is basically. 442 00:20:55,280 --> 00:20:57,600 Speaker 2: Fucking well, not worry about it. 443 00:20:57,720 --> 00:20:59,679 Speaker 1: Like I said to any new idea at work, I'm 444 00:20:59,720 --> 00:21:01,879 Speaker 1: not you can do it next year because like you know, 445 00:21:01,960 --> 00:21:03,679 Speaker 1: it's this time we're leading up to like the crazy 446 00:21:03,720 --> 00:21:06,280 Speaker 1: busy spring and slumberperia like boom, it's going to be over. 447 00:21:06,480 --> 00:21:08,160 Speaker 1: But I agree, we're definitely going to do a new 448 00:21:08,320 --> 00:21:12,480 Speaker 1: cover art. But maybe let's just like start fresh in 449 00:21:12,520 --> 00:21:14,840 Speaker 1: the new year. I reckon, let's just keep riding out 450 00:21:14,840 --> 00:21:16,520 Speaker 1: this year with the og artwork. 451 00:21:17,400 --> 00:21:19,639 Speaker 2: So that's good. All right, Sorry, I'm so tired. 452 00:21:20,359 --> 00:21:23,280 Speaker 1: That's about it. See you next Tuesday. Oh yeah, a 453 00:21:23,280 --> 00:21:24,600 Speaker 1: bunch of see you next Tuesday. 454 00:21:24,640 --> 00:21:27,280 Speaker 2: Oh my god, thanks for listening. I love you at 455 00:21:27,359 --> 00:21:29,440 Speaker 2: least I don't know about her, but I love your 456 00:21:29,440 --> 00:21:33,159 Speaker 2: support and thank you havingly trying to get have a 457 00:21:33,160 --> 00:21:37,040 Speaker 2: fabulous weekend. Yes, if anyone wants to transfer me money, linkin. 458 00:21:41,080 --> 00:21:43,600 Speaker 2: See your next Tuesday.