1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,680 Speaker 1: Hi, guys, it's easy. Welcome back to hear me out. 2 00:00:02,720 --> 00:00:05,120 Speaker 2: I wanted to give you a little heads up before 3 00:00:05,160 --> 00:00:07,560 Speaker 2: you start the episode. It sounds like I am recording 4 00:00:07,560 --> 00:00:11,200 Speaker 2: outside under a storm, so we tried to edit out 5 00:00:11,200 --> 00:00:12,880 Speaker 2: the rain as much as we could, But of course 6 00:00:13,000 --> 00:00:14,560 Speaker 2: we had that a little bit of bad luck that 7 00:00:14,600 --> 00:00:17,200 Speaker 2: it started bucketing the moment we got in. I could 8 00:00:17,360 --> 00:00:19,480 Speaker 2: not push through for you, guys and give you all 9 00:00:19,520 --> 00:00:22,759 Speaker 2: of my updates. So enjoy the episode and I will 10 00:00:22,880 --> 00:00:24,880 Speaker 2: speak to you next week with a little bit less 11 00:00:25,239 --> 00:00:28,240 Speaker 2: background noise. He tells me he likes to embarrass his 12 00:00:28,240 --> 00:00:30,320 Speaker 2: friends in public by getting down on all VORs and 13 00:00:30,400 --> 00:00:31,720 Speaker 2: chasing them like a dog. 14 00:00:32,960 --> 00:00:37,839 Speaker 1: Oh my god. All right, guys. 15 00:00:37,880 --> 00:00:42,320 Speaker 2: Hello, we're back recording in Melbourne, and I actually couldn't 16 00:00:42,360 --> 00:00:46,560 Speaker 2: be happier. I think being in places like Bali, hear 17 00:00:46,560 --> 00:00:47,040 Speaker 2: me out. 18 00:00:47,640 --> 00:00:50,320 Speaker 1: I couldn't live in Bali. I could never live in Bali. 19 00:00:50,360 --> 00:00:52,360 Speaker 2: I love it, but I honestly think like a week 20 00:00:52,440 --> 00:00:55,320 Speaker 2: to two weeks is absolutely enough for me. I think 21 00:00:55,440 --> 00:00:58,120 Speaker 2: I like cooking, and I know that sounds like people 22 00:00:58,280 --> 00:00:59,800 Speaker 2: you can cook give you live in Bali, but like 23 00:00:59,840 --> 00:01:02,480 Speaker 2: a lot of people probably don't cook that much. I 24 00:01:02,560 --> 00:01:05,600 Speaker 2: just think the heat, the constant heat. I just feel 25 00:01:05,600 --> 00:01:07,560 Speaker 2: like not being able to drink tap water. There's so 26 00:01:07,600 --> 00:01:10,360 Speaker 2: many little things about Bali that I'm like, maybe I'm 27 00:01:10,400 --> 00:01:12,200 Speaker 2: too much of a lady of leisure, but I really 28 00:01:12,280 --> 00:01:14,240 Speaker 2: don't see that I could live in a country like that. 29 00:01:14,760 --> 00:01:17,200 Speaker 2: You know, I love it for a holiday and it's 30 00:01:17,240 --> 00:01:19,480 Speaker 2: so much fun and you meet so many amazing people. 31 00:01:19,920 --> 00:01:22,800 Speaker 2: But I feel like it would actually be incredibly challenging 32 00:01:22,840 --> 00:01:25,919 Speaker 2: to live in a place where it's very tourist based, 33 00:01:25,920 --> 00:01:28,680 Speaker 2: because you meet someone and then they're leaving, Like even 34 00:01:28,760 --> 00:01:30,840 Speaker 2: friends are coming in and out and going through. And 35 00:01:30,880 --> 00:01:34,040 Speaker 2: I know I have some friends in Bali, and you know, 36 00:01:34,120 --> 00:01:35,520 Speaker 2: it's like, how hard is it to meet a guy? 37 00:01:35,560 --> 00:01:36,840 Speaker 2: You might meet a guy in a night out and 38 00:01:36,880 --> 00:01:38,280 Speaker 2: they're from fucking England. 39 00:01:37,920 --> 00:01:40,760 Speaker 1: But oh they here for five more days. Sorry bye. 40 00:01:41,120 --> 00:01:43,640 Speaker 2: And I think because of that, the men there that 41 00:01:43,760 --> 00:01:46,080 Speaker 2: live there, they're not men I would want to date, 42 00:01:46,120 --> 00:01:47,840 Speaker 2: because in the way they're like they view you as 43 00:01:47,840 --> 00:01:49,560 Speaker 2: someone that's only going to be there for a little bit. 44 00:01:49,600 --> 00:01:50,960 Speaker 2: They just want to like get in your pants and 45 00:01:51,040 --> 00:01:53,559 Speaker 2: kick you to the curb. And it's like I didn't 46 00:01:53,560 --> 00:01:55,240 Speaker 2: have any interaction with any men that live in Bali. 47 00:01:55,560 --> 00:01:56,480 Speaker 1: Don't worry, guys, I'm. 48 00:01:56,400 --> 00:01:59,760 Speaker 2: Safe, but the energy there is so hectic. If you 49 00:01:59,800 --> 00:02:03,000 Speaker 2: live I think Chengu. Maybe a luatu would be completely different. 50 00:02:03,040 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 2: And like, I'm not someone that lives there, so I'm 51 00:02:05,080 --> 00:02:07,520 Speaker 2: not being judgmental. The lifestyle would be incredible if you're 52 00:02:07,560 --> 00:02:12,160 Speaker 2: like a surfer or someone that like likes swimming. The 53 00:02:12,160 --> 00:02:15,400 Speaker 2: beach scares me though, but I just living there. It's 54 00:02:15,440 --> 00:02:17,239 Speaker 2: like sometimes it makes you so glad to be home. 55 00:02:17,280 --> 00:02:20,840 Speaker 2: But that Bali holiday was definitely more relaxing, more what 56 00:02:20,919 --> 00:02:24,360 Speaker 2: I needed versus the hectic party time of my birthday trip. 57 00:02:24,480 --> 00:02:27,519 Speaker 2: So I've come back happy, refreshed and ready to go. 58 00:02:27,840 --> 00:02:29,919 Speaker 2: But we have blakey on to give us a hear 59 00:02:29,960 --> 00:02:30,320 Speaker 2: me out. 60 00:02:30,560 --> 00:02:34,240 Speaker 3: Oh hello, oh hello, I missed you more and we 61 00:02:34,280 --> 00:02:36,639 Speaker 3: haven't even unpacked. So like the updates we're getting. 62 00:02:36,639 --> 00:02:37,480 Speaker 1: We haven't unpacked. 63 00:02:37,520 --> 00:02:39,079 Speaker 4: They're fresh, they're fresh. 64 00:02:38,919 --> 00:02:41,639 Speaker 3: But I'm coming with a less fresh hear me out. 65 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:44,160 Speaker 3: But I just want to claim this one because there 66 00:02:44,200 --> 00:02:46,799 Speaker 3: was a trend going around on TikTok. Yeah, I had 67 00:02:46,800 --> 00:02:47,880 Speaker 3: an opinion about it. 68 00:02:48,200 --> 00:02:50,560 Speaker 1: I actually said it to you, did I read rely? 69 00:02:51,400 --> 00:02:51,560 Speaker 4: No? 70 00:02:51,919 --> 00:02:54,600 Speaker 3: We spoke about it after a recording. I had got 71 00:02:54,600 --> 00:02:56,359 Speaker 3: my hear me out and I got into such a 72 00:02:56,400 --> 00:02:57,880 Speaker 3: bad mood. I was like, where did I go? 73 00:02:58,000 --> 00:02:59,160 Speaker 1: Oh, that was the one you forgot. 74 00:02:59,320 --> 00:03:01,520 Speaker 3: I remember it, but it is kicked off on TikTok. 75 00:03:01,560 --> 00:03:05,760 Speaker 3: Now it's going really viral. It's about the unfortunately I 76 00:03:05,840 --> 00:03:10,080 Speaker 3: do love tram. Yeah you say things that, oh. 77 00:03:10,240 --> 00:03:11,520 Speaker 1: And it's like unfortunately. 78 00:03:12,160 --> 00:03:14,160 Speaker 2: People will like write out a bunch of things that 79 00:03:14,200 --> 00:03:17,799 Speaker 2: they like, like staying up past two am, like two 80 00:03:17,880 --> 00:03:18,960 Speaker 2: bottles of red wine. 81 00:03:19,040 --> 00:03:21,560 Speaker 4: But then there's someone too muches. 82 00:03:22,040 --> 00:03:22,280 Speaker 1: Yeah. 83 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:25,320 Speaker 2: Some focks are like, sorry, not actually, I'm not sorry. 84 00:03:25,800 --> 00:03:28,720 Speaker 2: If you're writing this new TikTok, take it down. They're like, unfortunately, 85 00:03:28,800 --> 00:03:32,200 Speaker 2: I do love going to bed by nine pm, making 86 00:03:32,200 --> 00:03:34,880 Speaker 2: my bed every morning. A lot of people like that stuff. 87 00:03:34,920 --> 00:03:36,680 Speaker 2: That's not unfortunate at all, Like good on you. 88 00:03:36,840 --> 00:03:38,520 Speaker 4: That sounds like a normal I feel like a lot 89 00:03:38,560 --> 00:03:39,119 Speaker 4: of people. 90 00:03:38,880 --> 00:03:41,320 Speaker 2: Are using that as like a way to like, unfortunately, 91 00:03:41,360 --> 00:03:44,000 Speaker 2: I do love saying on a Saturday night, yeah babe, 92 00:03:44,080 --> 00:03:45,840 Speaker 2: same but yeah cool. 93 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:47,960 Speaker 3: But it's literally like hear me out, you're all a 94 00:03:48,000 --> 00:03:51,120 Speaker 3: bit boring, Like what are you doing? That's actually yeah, 95 00:03:51,160 --> 00:03:52,200 Speaker 3: I don't want to say interesting. 96 00:03:52,360 --> 00:03:54,280 Speaker 2: I saw one that was fun Like I think it 97 00:03:54,360 --> 00:03:58,000 Speaker 2: was Lucy Jackson from Happy Hour, Happy Hour and she 98 00:03:58,120 --> 00:04:02,120 Speaker 2: said ignoring the ato and I'm like, that's funny, is 99 00:04:02,160 --> 00:04:03,680 Speaker 2: like the tax tax people. 100 00:04:03,520 --> 00:04:05,000 Speaker 4: Would ignoring parking? Fine? 101 00:04:05,200 --> 00:04:07,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, like that's yeah, okay fair. But I'm like, yeah, 102 00:04:07,760 --> 00:04:10,200 Speaker 2: there's people going unfortunately. I do love having it too, 103 00:04:10,280 --> 00:04:15,280 Speaker 2: matches a day whoa slow down girl? That is crazy? 104 00:04:15,360 --> 00:04:17,800 Speaker 2: Someone called the police. Like there's a whole lot of 105 00:04:17,800 --> 00:04:19,559 Speaker 2: that going on, and it makes me laugh. 106 00:04:19,680 --> 00:04:22,279 Speaker 3: I really I've been challenged finding one and I'm like, 107 00:04:22,400 --> 00:04:25,120 Speaker 3: I do that, and that's funny, that's outland. 108 00:04:25,080 --> 00:04:27,159 Speaker 2: Yeah, because the point of these are to be like funny, 109 00:04:27,160 --> 00:04:28,919 Speaker 2: and it'd be like, holy fuck, like that's something that not. 110 00:04:28,960 --> 00:04:30,920 Speaker 4: A lot of people do, but like I do that, legit, 111 00:04:30,960 --> 00:04:32,880 Speaker 4: that's what I mean looking for. But it's just been 112 00:04:32,960 --> 00:04:34,840 Speaker 4: so unrelatable and I've just. 113 00:04:35,120 --> 00:04:37,880 Speaker 2: Well not even unrelatable, like so incredibly relatable. But I 114 00:04:37,960 --> 00:04:40,240 Speaker 2: already do all of those things you're saying and it's 115 00:04:40,320 --> 00:04:41,480 Speaker 2: nothing outlandish about it. 116 00:04:41,560 --> 00:04:43,239 Speaker 4: Yeah, Like I do that thinking it's healthy. 117 00:04:43,440 --> 00:04:43,680 Speaker 1: Yeah. 118 00:04:44,000 --> 00:04:48,760 Speaker 2: Unfortunately, I really love making my bed. Oh cute, same sis, 119 00:04:49,040 --> 00:04:52,279 Speaker 2: glad to hear it. It's yeah, it's some people I 120 00:04:52,279 --> 00:04:54,080 Speaker 2: feel like, don't realize that. 121 00:04:54,200 --> 00:04:55,040 Speaker 4: These things are normal. 122 00:04:55,800 --> 00:04:57,360 Speaker 1: These are normal habits. 123 00:04:57,480 --> 00:04:58,440 Speaker 4: Some people just. 124 00:05:00,080 --> 00:05:02,360 Speaker 1: It was a mixtween a hobby and habits. That's where 125 00:05:02,400 --> 00:05:03,120 Speaker 1: that came from. 126 00:05:03,240 --> 00:05:05,040 Speaker 4: Not but anyway, I just have to let that off 127 00:05:05,040 --> 00:05:05,479 Speaker 4: my chest. 128 00:05:05,600 --> 00:05:07,520 Speaker 1: I totally agree with you. It annoys me. 129 00:05:07,560 --> 00:05:09,359 Speaker 2: I think they're funny to watch though, because I'm like, 130 00:05:09,440 --> 00:05:10,600 Speaker 2: is this one gonna make me. 131 00:05:10,600 --> 00:05:11,520 Speaker 1: Laugh or piss me off? 132 00:05:11,600 --> 00:05:12,599 Speaker 4: And rarely do they do. 133 00:05:14,560 --> 00:05:14,720 Speaker 1: Laugh. 134 00:05:14,880 --> 00:05:17,320 Speaker 2: But on another note, I am obviously yeah, I got 135 00:05:17,320 --> 00:05:20,040 Speaker 2: back in Melbourne last night. I think I got back 136 00:05:20,080 --> 00:05:22,479 Speaker 2: home at like twelve thirty. Thank you Mom for picking 137 00:05:22,480 --> 00:05:26,160 Speaker 2: me up. She oh, you'll die, You'll die, Mom said, 138 00:05:26,480 --> 00:05:28,320 Speaker 2: I will only pick because I was like having a 139 00:05:28,360 --> 00:05:29,760 Speaker 2: bit of a meltdown in the airport. 140 00:05:29,800 --> 00:05:30,760 Speaker 1: I will explain why. 141 00:05:31,600 --> 00:05:33,800 Speaker 2: But I was like calling all my family members, someone 142 00:05:33,839 --> 00:05:35,640 Speaker 2: please pick me up my lines at like ten thirty. 143 00:05:35,680 --> 00:05:37,720 Speaker 2: But obviously with international it's like I probably won't be 144 00:05:37,760 --> 00:05:40,640 Speaker 2: getting out till like eleven fifteen. And I was flying 145 00:05:40,640 --> 00:05:43,240 Speaker 2: on my own and I hate, I really don't like 146 00:05:43,320 --> 00:05:45,200 Speaker 2: doing that on a good day, and I'm like, please 147 00:05:45,240 --> 00:05:47,839 Speaker 2: some one, please, please please calling all of them. No no, no, 148 00:05:48,040 --> 00:05:51,080 Speaker 2: Mom goes. If you see a psychologist I will come 149 00:05:51,080 --> 00:05:55,720 Speaker 2: pick you up slow. So I said, fine, fine, I'll 150 00:05:55,760 --> 00:05:56,600 Speaker 2: see a psychologist. 151 00:05:56,640 --> 00:05:57,960 Speaker 1: So I've I. 152 00:05:57,880 --> 00:06:00,440 Speaker 2: Now have a psychologist that I have to book morning, 153 00:06:00,640 --> 00:06:02,600 Speaker 2: Oh my god, to go start seeing, which I think 154 00:06:02,680 --> 00:06:04,120 Speaker 2: is gonna be a good thing for me. I think 155 00:06:04,160 --> 00:06:06,480 Speaker 2: there's a lot of things that I have very unhealthy 156 00:06:06,480 --> 00:06:09,800 Speaker 2: coping mechanisms, and if you are around me regularly, I 157 00:06:09,800 --> 00:06:13,600 Speaker 2: think you can see that, Like I'm always very highly strung, 158 00:06:13,720 --> 00:06:16,320 Speaker 2: Like it's a very fine line between me being calm 159 00:06:16,360 --> 00:06:20,840 Speaker 2: and something like really overwhelming me all my larms. That's 160 00:06:20,839 --> 00:06:24,039 Speaker 2: not a coping mechanism, that's a mental health disorder. And 161 00:06:24,400 --> 00:06:27,840 Speaker 2: my calendar is one of the most disorganized, scary, and 162 00:06:27,880 --> 00:06:30,400 Speaker 2: intimidating things you've ever seen. Just because it's color coded 163 00:06:30,440 --> 00:06:35,640 Speaker 2: easy doesn't mean it's helpful. And I still still think 164 00:06:35,680 --> 00:06:38,720 Speaker 2: I have a real, real mental block with men. They 165 00:06:38,720 --> 00:06:40,560 Speaker 2: scare the fuck out of me quite frankly. Talk to 166 00:06:40,640 --> 00:06:42,560 Speaker 2: me on a night out. Absolutely not. But I'm like, 167 00:06:42,560 --> 00:06:44,280 Speaker 2: that's what I want, that's what I like. I get 168 00:06:44,360 --> 00:06:46,039 Speaker 2: dressed up, I get excited, like, oh, there might be 169 00:06:46,040 --> 00:06:48,120 Speaker 2: some cute men there, but I'm like, don't you fucking 170 00:06:48,160 --> 00:06:49,640 Speaker 2: look at me, because. 171 00:06:49,440 --> 00:06:50,520 Speaker 1: I won't know how to talk to you. 172 00:06:50,560 --> 00:06:53,000 Speaker 2: But it's like, I'm so good at talking to people 173 00:06:53,040 --> 00:06:54,960 Speaker 2: I love and like girls, and it's like, I just 174 00:06:55,040 --> 00:06:56,720 Speaker 2: think I have a lot to work through, and I 175 00:06:56,760 --> 00:06:59,200 Speaker 2: think there's absolutely no shame in talking to someone, because 176 00:06:59,240 --> 00:07:02,600 Speaker 2: what there's no And I've definitely I've seen a psychologist 177 00:07:02,600 --> 00:07:05,360 Speaker 2: throughout my life, like with the intention of getting over 178 00:07:05,400 --> 00:07:08,359 Speaker 2: specific things that had happened to me, like after my 179 00:07:08,400 --> 00:07:12,960 Speaker 2: first breakup and then after the second one. I saw 180 00:07:12,960 --> 00:07:15,680 Speaker 2: a psychologist for periods where I felt like I needed 181 00:07:15,960 --> 00:07:18,240 Speaker 2: help with. But I'm like, I probably just need one 182 00:07:18,280 --> 00:07:20,680 Speaker 2: to help me work through, like life in general and 183 00:07:20,800 --> 00:07:23,840 Speaker 2: certain things. I definitely think it will be good for me, 184 00:07:24,200 --> 00:07:26,560 Speaker 2: and I owe Moum that because she picked me up 185 00:07:26,600 --> 00:07:29,360 Speaker 2: from the airport. The fuck thing was I actually get 186 00:07:29,360 --> 00:07:31,480 Speaker 2: off the phone with Mum and because I was whining 187 00:07:31,560 --> 00:07:33,480 Speaker 2: like a bitch in the group chat about someone coming 188 00:07:33,480 --> 00:07:35,840 Speaker 2: to get me, I then have a message from Dad 189 00:07:35,840 --> 00:07:38,240 Speaker 2: in the same group chat saying fine, I'll do it. 190 00:07:38,480 --> 00:07:41,080 Speaker 2: When's the flight, And I went, I could say yes 191 00:07:41,120 --> 00:07:44,640 Speaker 2: to Dad for right now and not see the psychologists, 192 00:07:44,760 --> 00:07:46,640 Speaker 2: but I said, it's okay. 193 00:07:46,840 --> 00:07:47,840 Speaker 1: Mom's coming to get me. 194 00:07:47,960 --> 00:07:49,679 Speaker 2: I've promise her if she does, I'll see a psych 195 00:07:49,800 --> 00:07:52,040 Speaker 2: so I will keep you updated on how that's going. 196 00:07:52,040 --> 00:07:53,920 Speaker 2: Because I know a lot of people it might be 197 00:07:53,960 --> 00:07:56,760 Speaker 2: something they think about or have contemplated, and like, I 198 00:07:56,760 --> 00:07:57,760 Speaker 2: think there's a fear in it. 199 00:07:57,800 --> 00:07:58,320 Speaker 1: In my mind. 200 00:07:58,360 --> 00:08:01,280 Speaker 2: I'm like worried it will be boring quite frankly to 201 00:08:01,320 --> 00:08:03,480 Speaker 2: sit there. But I sit there and talk about myself 202 00:08:03,560 --> 00:08:05,200 Speaker 2: to you guys every week for an hour, So why 203 00:08:05,200 --> 00:08:07,640 Speaker 2: can't I do it to a site? So yeah, that's me. 204 00:08:07,840 --> 00:08:10,760 Speaker 2: I'm growing frontal lobe developing. I'm finally giving it to 205 00:08:10,800 --> 00:08:13,040 Speaker 2: go again, and hopefully it can be a bit more 206 00:08:13,040 --> 00:08:15,520 Speaker 2: of a long term thing, because I think your girl 207 00:08:15,640 --> 00:08:17,400 Speaker 2: needs a little bit of assistance every. 208 00:08:17,200 --> 00:08:17,800 Speaker 1: Now and again. 209 00:08:18,280 --> 00:08:21,120 Speaker 2: But the reason I was having an airport meltdown is 210 00:08:21,160 --> 00:08:23,960 Speaker 2: because the girl I was traveling with, Annabelle, she was 211 00:08:24,000 --> 00:08:27,160 Speaker 2: doing staff travel, which I don't know if everyone knows, 212 00:08:27,240 --> 00:08:29,400 Speaker 2: but generally you can get staff travel if you have 213 00:08:29,440 --> 00:08:32,920 Speaker 2: a family member that is a flight attendant or a 214 00:08:32,960 --> 00:08:33,840 Speaker 2: pilot or whatever. 215 00:08:34,600 --> 00:08:37,040 Speaker 1: So it's just a cheaper version of travel. 216 00:08:37,080 --> 00:08:39,160 Speaker 2: But you don't really know if you're on the flight 217 00:08:39,320 --> 00:08:42,839 Speaker 2: until like quite soon before the flight. Sometimes they'll lock 218 00:08:42,880 --> 00:08:45,000 Speaker 2: you in the day before or the morning of, I think, 219 00:08:45,080 --> 00:08:47,560 Speaker 2: but we rock up to the airport her not knowing 220 00:08:47,559 --> 00:08:49,360 Speaker 2: if she's on the flight or not, because I think 221 00:08:49,400 --> 00:08:51,880 Speaker 2: basically the way it works, and correct me if I'm wrong, 222 00:08:51,920 --> 00:08:54,640 Speaker 2: because I've never done it. There's like a said amount 223 00:08:54,679 --> 00:08:57,760 Speaker 2: of seats available for staff on each flight, but it 224 00:08:57,800 --> 00:08:59,839 Speaker 2: goes in order of priority. So if you're like a 225 00:08:59,880 --> 00:09:02,160 Speaker 2: seeing your flight attendant, you're going to get that seat 226 00:09:02,160 --> 00:09:04,520 Speaker 2: over like a family member of a flight attendant, you 227 00:09:04,559 --> 00:09:06,960 Speaker 2: know what I mean. So we get to the airport 228 00:09:07,040 --> 00:09:08,920 Speaker 2: and we are running a little bit behind because you 229 00:09:08,960 --> 00:09:11,920 Speaker 2: know that Barley traffic can be temperamental. 230 00:09:12,160 --> 00:09:16,640 Speaker 1: The flight leaves at two point fifty. Holy fuck, I've 231 00:09:16,679 --> 00:09:17,079 Speaker 1: just here that. 232 00:09:18,200 --> 00:09:21,240 Speaker 2: Okay, guys, I'm sitting here trying to record listen. 233 00:09:21,360 --> 00:09:22,040 Speaker 1: Can you hear it? 234 00:09:22,800 --> 00:09:26,160 Speaker 2: Who gets a studio with the tin roof? This is crazy, 235 00:09:26,360 --> 00:09:27,840 Speaker 2: But we're pushing through. 236 00:09:28,320 --> 00:09:32,199 Speaker 1: You're doing and look at Blake, you're doing great. 237 00:09:32,240 --> 00:09:32,480 Speaker 4: CD. 238 00:09:34,800 --> 00:09:37,600 Speaker 1: It's we've got a lull. 239 00:09:38,000 --> 00:09:40,320 Speaker 2: It was probably one pm when we get to the airport, 240 00:09:40,360 --> 00:09:42,960 Speaker 2: which I know is late for an international flight. Anyways, 241 00:09:43,320 --> 00:09:45,120 Speaker 2: we get in line, we get to the front probably 242 00:09:45,160 --> 00:09:49,120 Speaker 2: at like one twenty, and they say, oh, sorry, Annabell, 243 00:09:49,160 --> 00:09:50,160 Speaker 2: it's still on standby. 244 00:09:50,440 --> 00:09:52,400 Speaker 1: The flight before yours, the Jetsull flight. 245 00:09:52,200 --> 00:09:55,720 Speaker 2: Before yours was canceled, meaning there's a whole group of 246 00:09:55,720 --> 00:09:57,200 Speaker 2: people that were meant to be on that plane that 247 00:09:57,240 --> 00:09:58,319 Speaker 2: can no longer get on it. 248 00:09:58,720 --> 00:10:01,160 Speaker 1: Therefore they give those spare teats. 249 00:10:02,600 --> 00:10:06,480 Speaker 2: They're giving those spare seats to people from the flight 250 00:10:06,520 --> 00:10:09,120 Speaker 2: before us. But they're like, come back in half an hour, 251 00:10:09,240 --> 00:10:11,319 Speaker 2: and we're like half an hour. The plane like boards 252 00:10:11,320 --> 00:10:13,480 Speaker 2: in half an hour. Whatever fuck. We went and got 253 00:10:13,520 --> 00:10:16,360 Speaker 2: some food. I got some Yokie, needed it, and then 254 00:10:16,400 --> 00:10:18,600 Speaker 2: we come back and I'm like, I just need to 255 00:10:18,640 --> 00:10:21,680 Speaker 2: check in now because I'm actually on this flight, checked in, 256 00:10:21,760 --> 00:10:23,880 Speaker 2: drop my bags in. We wait there for another like 257 00:10:23,920 --> 00:10:25,760 Speaker 2: ten minutes, and by this time I look at the clock, 258 00:10:25,840 --> 00:10:27,600 Speaker 2: the plane's boarding and I haven't even gone. 259 00:10:27,480 --> 00:10:28,439 Speaker 1: Through security yet. 260 00:10:28,880 --> 00:10:31,400 Speaker 2: They say, sorry, Annabelle, because of the cancel flight, you 261 00:10:31,440 --> 00:10:33,840 Speaker 2: can't get on this one. She's like, okay, what about 262 00:10:33,840 --> 00:10:34,320 Speaker 2: the next one? 263 00:10:34,480 --> 00:10:34,560 Speaker 3: No? 264 00:10:35,000 --> 00:10:35,960 Speaker 1: What about the next one? 265 00:10:36,120 --> 00:10:36,200 Speaker 3: No? 266 00:10:36,800 --> 00:10:38,280 Speaker 1: All the flights for the rest of the day. 267 00:10:38,240 --> 00:10:40,600 Speaker 2: Completely booked out because they're putting all the people from 268 00:10:40,679 --> 00:10:44,720 Speaker 2: the cancel flights onto those ones. It is one hundred degrees. 269 00:10:44,800 --> 00:10:47,079 Speaker 2: We haven't eaten, We have only had three and a 270 00:10:47,120 --> 00:10:50,439 Speaker 2: half hours sleep. Stupidly, I didn't have a big night 271 00:10:50,520 --> 00:10:52,120 Speaker 2: the whole fucking time I was in Bali. 272 00:10:52,360 --> 00:10:53,840 Speaker 1: And then on Sunday night. 273 00:10:53,760 --> 00:10:56,439 Speaker 2: I go, fuck it, let's stay out till four fucking 274 00:10:56,480 --> 00:11:01,600 Speaker 2: am stupid, stupid, stupid bitch. Anyway, so I've got the 275 00:11:01,600 --> 00:11:04,200 Speaker 2: hangover sweats and I'm fucking starving, and then Yochi is 276 00:11:04,280 --> 00:11:09,000 Speaker 2: hitting my stomach badly, and I'm like, fuck, I don't 277 00:11:09,080 --> 00:11:11,560 Speaker 2: like flying alone, like I really don't, but being in 278 00:11:11,920 --> 00:11:14,480 Speaker 2: like an international airport scares me more than save. I 279 00:11:14,559 --> 00:11:16,559 Speaker 2: was in Sydney and I was like, I've got to 280 00:11:16,640 --> 00:11:17,960 Speaker 2: leave her, but I don't know her. 281 00:11:18,040 --> 00:11:18,680 Speaker 1: Internet all of. 282 00:11:18,640 --> 00:11:20,720 Speaker 2: A sudden is refusing to work for this whole day. 283 00:11:21,160 --> 00:11:23,160 Speaker 2: She has no way to contact me, no way to 284 00:11:23,200 --> 00:11:25,400 Speaker 2: get money out, no way to search up anything. I'll 285 00:11:25,400 --> 00:11:28,480 Speaker 2: call anyone online, and I just have to go through security. 286 00:11:28,720 --> 00:11:31,840 Speaker 2: I get through security and it's two twenty five. My 287 00:11:31,960 --> 00:11:35,200 Speaker 2: flight is scheduled to leave at two fifty five. I'm like, 288 00:11:35,400 --> 00:11:38,280 Speaker 2: boarding probably closes in about five minutes, and I don't 289 00:11:38,320 --> 00:11:40,520 Speaker 2: know where my fucking gate is and I'm on my own. 290 00:11:41,040 --> 00:11:43,920 Speaker 2: I see a sign after about five minutes gates two 291 00:11:43,920 --> 00:11:47,080 Speaker 2: to nine to the left. Great, Oh wait, Gate nine 292 00:11:47,120 --> 00:11:49,560 Speaker 2: is at the very end of a fucking two kilommeater hallway. 293 00:11:49,960 --> 00:11:51,920 Speaker 1: So I ran through the airport. 294 00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:54,079 Speaker 2: I stopped and started because I don't have the endurance 295 00:11:54,080 --> 00:11:56,480 Speaker 2: to run that far in the single go. But I 296 00:11:56,600 --> 00:11:59,040 Speaker 2: was the last person on the plane, sweating buckets. They'd 297 00:11:59,040 --> 00:12:01,319 Speaker 2: made me pull my water out to get through security. 298 00:12:01,840 --> 00:12:03,880 Speaker 2: I was like, actually worried I was gonna have a 299 00:12:03,880 --> 00:12:05,680 Speaker 2: panic attack because like I'm on those people. I'm like, 300 00:12:05,840 --> 00:12:07,719 Speaker 2: I drink like five leads of water a day, and 301 00:12:07,760 --> 00:12:08,800 Speaker 2: I'm like I can't breathe. 302 00:12:08,880 --> 00:12:09,440 Speaker 1: I'm sweating. 303 00:12:09,520 --> 00:12:11,320 Speaker 2: Everyone's staring at me because I've like held up the 304 00:12:11,360 --> 00:12:14,160 Speaker 2: fucking plane And when you see on those planes on 305 00:12:14,200 --> 00:12:17,120 Speaker 2: the tarmac and you're in your trackies because you put 306 00:12:17,200 --> 00:12:19,640 Speaker 2: trackies on because you're about to go to Melbourne, I'm like, 307 00:12:21,360 --> 00:12:24,240 Speaker 2: it was fucked anyway. I don't really get to complain though, 308 00:12:24,280 --> 00:12:27,160 Speaker 2: because right now I'm sitting in Melbourne. Annabel pull little 309 00:12:27,160 --> 00:12:30,440 Speaker 2: Anna Belly. You know, we call each other bean now 310 00:12:30,880 --> 00:12:32,920 Speaker 2: because of the summer, I term pretty and it's like, 311 00:12:33,080 --> 00:12:35,240 Speaker 2: you know how her mum calls her a bean and 312 00:12:35,280 --> 00:12:37,800 Speaker 2: it's like the eakiest thing ever. Anyway, because she's Annabelle 313 00:12:37,800 --> 00:12:42,120 Speaker 2: and I'm Isabelle. Were like belly bean. Anyway, no one 314 00:12:42,120 --> 00:12:45,400 Speaker 2: gives a fuck she is in Bali. She went back 315 00:12:45,480 --> 00:12:48,760 Speaker 2: to she couldn't get a gojack or any kind because 316 00:12:48,760 --> 00:12:51,600 Speaker 2: her Internet wasn't working, So she's like, fuck, I'm gonna 317 00:12:51,600 --> 00:12:53,920 Speaker 2: have to get one of these guys. You know how, 318 00:12:54,200 --> 00:12:56,280 Speaker 2: if you've ever been to Bali, there's like hundreds of 319 00:12:56,320 --> 00:12:59,560 Speaker 2: men waiting to like potentially get you in their taxi 320 00:12:59,640 --> 00:13:02,040 Speaker 2: or their fucking car with all the sign with all 321 00:13:02,040 --> 00:13:03,640 Speaker 2: the signs, but a lot of them don't have signs, 322 00:13:03,640 --> 00:13:05,600 Speaker 2: and they're just like taxi taxi, like I'll drive you. 323 00:13:05,840 --> 00:13:07,599 Speaker 2: She's like, this is my only fucking option because I 324 00:13:07,640 --> 00:13:10,400 Speaker 2: don't have a way to order it, book anything. So 325 00:13:10,920 --> 00:13:13,760 Speaker 2: she gets a guy, gets in the car with him. 326 00:13:14,000 --> 00:13:17,040 Speaker 2: Doesn't have any money because she needs to transfer money, 327 00:13:17,080 --> 00:13:20,360 Speaker 2: but she doesn't have internet. This guy keeps trying to 328 00:13:20,400 --> 00:13:23,040 Speaker 2: hold her hand, like puts his hand out over the 329 00:13:23,320 --> 00:13:24,880 Speaker 2: center console and like keeps trying to. 330 00:13:24,880 --> 00:13:25,840 Speaker 1: Hold her hand. 331 00:13:26,000 --> 00:13:28,800 Speaker 2: He then whips out his phone on FaceTime to his 332 00:13:28,880 --> 00:13:33,400 Speaker 2: buddies and is showing his friends Annabel's sitting there. She's like, 333 00:13:33,520 --> 00:13:35,440 Speaker 2: in the car, she doesn't have any internet. She can't 334 00:13:35,440 --> 00:13:38,160 Speaker 2: go on her phone do anything. She's like sitting there 335 00:13:38,160 --> 00:13:39,760 Speaker 2: with this man who's trying to hold her hand, who 336 00:13:39,840 --> 00:13:43,560 Speaker 2: is like successfully holding her hand, occasionally taking videos of 337 00:13:43,600 --> 00:13:46,199 Speaker 2: her to send to his friends. Has to get him 338 00:13:46,240 --> 00:13:48,280 Speaker 2: to drop her off at the villa, Go in, get 339 00:13:48,280 --> 00:13:51,000 Speaker 2: Wi Fi, transfer money for her account, go get cash out, 340 00:13:51,160 --> 00:13:53,240 Speaker 2: and then she's home. She tries to go to the 341 00:13:53,280 --> 00:13:56,319 Speaker 2: airport today. Oh, flight's been delayed six hours. 342 00:13:56,600 --> 00:13:59,280 Speaker 1: Go back. I was like, oh, Annabelle, but it's fine. 343 00:13:59,320 --> 00:14:01,319 Speaker 2: You get another day in the sun, Like, just relax, 344 00:14:01,360 --> 00:14:03,840 Speaker 2: sit by the pool. We didn't get a single fucking 345 00:14:03,920 --> 00:14:05,480 Speaker 2: drop of rain for the whole time we were there. 346 00:14:05,840 --> 00:14:09,560 Speaker 2: It is bucketing all fucking day, no torrential rain, so 347 00:14:09,640 --> 00:14:13,000 Speaker 2: the weather's delayed all the flights. So while I'm recording this, 348 00:14:13,120 --> 00:14:15,920 Speaker 2: she's still sitting in our villa in Bali, and I'm 349 00:14:15,960 --> 00:14:18,440 Speaker 2: sending her thoughts and prayers. So I've found like a 350 00:14:18,480 --> 00:14:21,480 Speaker 2: fucking brat for complaining about anything that happened yesterday. But like, 351 00:14:21,560 --> 00:14:24,760 Speaker 2: I just really don't like flying alone anyway. That was 352 00:14:24,880 --> 00:14:28,200 Speaker 2: my story, but Bali was great. I wouldn't say anything 353 00:14:28,200 --> 00:14:31,720 Speaker 2: of interest happened. We did meet a couple odd characters, 354 00:14:32,000 --> 00:14:35,720 Speaker 2: but the trip itself was great. Obviously, do always love 355 00:14:35,760 --> 00:14:38,600 Speaker 2: Bali for a holiday. But that is enough of my 356 00:14:38,880 --> 00:14:42,640 Speaker 2: rant and my bullshit. We're getting into your dilemmas today. 357 00:14:43,280 --> 00:14:45,040 Speaker 2: You guys have sent a couple in and we're gonna 358 00:14:45,040 --> 00:14:46,440 Speaker 2: go through them and see. 359 00:14:46,280 --> 00:14:48,480 Speaker 1: How we go. Look, see what you guys are working with? 360 00:14:50,760 --> 00:14:53,080 Speaker 1: All right, guys, help me out number one. 361 00:14:53,800 --> 00:14:55,840 Speaker 2: Hey, babe, I thought i'd share this because I'm still 362 00:14:55,840 --> 00:14:58,440 Speaker 2: trying to wrap my head around it months later. So 363 00:14:58,480 --> 00:15:00,720 Speaker 2: I'm twenty and I went on my first real date 364 00:15:00,800 --> 00:15:04,520 Speaker 2: a few months ago. Basically I got approached at Glebe Markets, 365 00:15:04,760 --> 00:15:07,960 Speaker 2: Where's Thats and Sydney, which is rare because Ozzie men 366 00:15:08,080 --> 00:15:11,160 Speaker 2: never approached. Yeah, Ozzie men should really start doing that more. 367 00:15:11,200 --> 00:15:14,040 Speaker 2: If I got approached at a coffee shop or walking 368 00:15:14,080 --> 00:15:18,080 Speaker 2: the street, I would absolutely fucking love it. Like sober approaches, 369 00:15:18,160 --> 00:15:20,440 Speaker 2: I know they're scary, but I feel like they mean more. 370 00:15:21,240 --> 00:15:22,520 Speaker 1: You're more inclined to. 371 00:15:22,520 --> 00:15:24,600 Speaker 2: Be like, oh, yeah, I will go on a date 372 00:15:24,640 --> 00:15:26,920 Speaker 2: with you than if someone like some drunk guy likes 373 00:15:26,920 --> 00:15:29,280 Speaker 2: can I blow you a drink? Yeah you can, but 374 00:15:29,320 --> 00:15:30,880 Speaker 2: I don't want to talk to you anymore. Thank you, 375 00:15:31,560 --> 00:15:33,960 Speaker 2: he had an accent, so it made sense right. He 376 00:15:34,000 --> 00:15:35,720 Speaker 2: came every and said, I saw you sitting here, and 377 00:15:35,760 --> 00:15:36,600 Speaker 2: you have beautiful eyes. 378 00:15:36,640 --> 00:15:37,320 Speaker 1: Can I get you? 379 00:15:37,400 --> 00:15:39,640 Speaker 2: First of all, how did he see my eyes from 380 00:15:39,640 --> 00:15:44,360 Speaker 2: a mile away? A man can try, but we always know. 381 00:15:44,520 --> 00:15:46,400 Speaker 2: Second of all, well, he was kind of hot. 382 00:15:46,440 --> 00:15:47,840 Speaker 1: Okay, great. He was tall. 383 00:15:47,920 --> 00:15:51,000 Speaker 2: He had good style, like a Walmart version of Vinnie Hacker. Haha, 384 00:15:51,800 --> 00:15:54,080 Speaker 2: Vinie Hacker's hot. Even a Walmart version would be hot. 385 00:15:54,440 --> 00:15:57,200 Speaker 2: His name was Jack and he was Canadian. He asked 386 00:15:57,200 --> 00:16:00,520 Speaker 2: me to coffee and I agreed. Oh see, I don't 387 00:16:00,520 --> 00:16:02,480 Speaker 2: know if I would coffee date for a first date, 388 00:16:02,560 --> 00:16:05,400 Speaker 2: but I'm proud of you, girl, I agreed. He handed 389 00:16:05,440 --> 00:16:09,640 Speaker 2: me his phone and iphoned five. Huh, I didn't even 390 00:16:09,680 --> 00:16:11,840 Speaker 2: know those things still ran? How do you find a 391 00:16:11,920 --> 00:16:14,120 Speaker 2: charger for that bad boy? Isn't it the wide one? 392 00:16:14,280 --> 00:16:14,640 Speaker 4: I think? 393 00:16:14,760 --> 00:16:17,040 Speaker 1: So shit, so cracked. 394 00:16:17,080 --> 00:16:19,560 Speaker 2: I couldn't even see the keyboard first red flag, but 395 00:16:19,600 --> 00:16:21,440 Speaker 2: I thought maybe he's just traveling. 396 00:16:21,720 --> 00:16:22,080 Speaker 1: Okay. 397 00:16:22,680 --> 00:16:25,280 Speaker 2: Two days later, it's date day. I'm nervous, but I go. 398 00:16:25,760 --> 00:16:27,560 Speaker 2: First thing he says to me when I arrive is 399 00:16:27,680 --> 00:16:32,160 Speaker 2: are you stoned? And I'm like sorry, He repeats it says, 400 00:16:32,160 --> 00:16:34,480 Speaker 2: I have glassy eyes, but he doesn't mind if I 401 00:16:34,520 --> 00:16:38,560 Speaker 2: am stoned is high on marijuana, in case anyone watching 402 00:16:38,600 --> 00:16:41,320 Speaker 2: doesn't realize. If we walk for thirty minutes trying to 403 00:16:41,320 --> 00:16:43,560 Speaker 2: find a cafe that he knows, why do you need 404 00:16:43,600 --> 00:16:46,080 Speaker 2: to know the cafe? There's a forty five minute wait, 405 00:16:46,160 --> 00:16:48,880 Speaker 2: So I take him somewhere else. We get coffee, we're chatting. 406 00:16:48,920 --> 00:16:52,000 Speaker 2: It's fine. He tells me he's been traveling for six months, 407 00:16:52,440 --> 00:16:54,800 Speaker 2: just came from Byron. I asked where he stayed, and 408 00:16:54,840 --> 00:16:57,840 Speaker 2: he says, oh, I lived in the woods. Hang on, 409 00:16:58,200 --> 00:17:01,200 Speaker 2: I'm like cool, like a tent. That's fucking cool. That's 410 00:17:01,240 --> 00:17:05,840 Speaker 2: weird too, and he goes, nah, a hammock. Apparently, if 411 00:17:05,880 --> 00:17:08,359 Speaker 2: it rains, he just lay in a hammock full of water, 412 00:17:08,880 --> 00:17:12,480 Speaker 2: didn't shower six months. And I'm trying to keep a 413 00:17:12,520 --> 00:17:16,600 Speaker 2: straight face. That is crazy behavior. Well, he's lying in 414 00:17:16,640 --> 00:17:19,320 Speaker 2: a fucking hammock. He's basically in a bath. If it rains, 415 00:17:20,240 --> 00:17:22,960 Speaker 2: we leave, and while walking through Chinatown, he suddenly blunts 416 00:17:22,960 --> 00:17:25,920 Speaker 2: out of rude comment about the people around us. 417 00:17:26,119 --> 00:17:29,520 Speaker 1: I'm gonna assume that he's being racist. I go silent. 418 00:17:29,680 --> 00:17:30,800 Speaker 1: I'm sure how to respond. 419 00:17:31,240 --> 00:17:34,399 Speaker 2: He keeps insisting it's fine to say okay, Bud, but 420 00:17:34,440 --> 00:17:36,400 Speaker 2: I'm walking so fast at this point, I'm just wanting 421 00:17:36,400 --> 00:17:39,280 Speaker 2: to get out of the situation. Then he goes, you 422 00:17:39,359 --> 00:17:41,840 Speaker 2: know how, you don't know me. I could be an actor. 423 00:17:42,000 --> 00:17:44,040 Speaker 2: My name might not even be Jack, and you've just 424 00:17:44,080 --> 00:17:47,600 Speaker 2: believed me. I'm shitting myself. Who says that that's like 425 00:17:47,840 --> 00:17:49,960 Speaker 2: I had a guy wants to be like, I could kill. 426 00:17:49,760 --> 00:17:50,879 Speaker 1: You right now with this pillow. 427 00:17:51,080 --> 00:17:54,120 Speaker 4: I've had similar and I was like, what the fuck 428 00:17:54,200 --> 00:17:55,800 Speaker 4: is wrong with you? I never thought that? 429 00:17:56,200 --> 00:17:58,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, I now I do, and now I want you 430 00:17:58,040 --> 00:18:00,720 Speaker 2: out of my fucking house. How about that who says 431 00:18:00,760 --> 00:18:03,040 Speaker 2: that he tells me he likes to embarrass his friends 432 00:18:03,040 --> 00:18:05,400 Speaker 2: in public by getting down on all fours and chasing 433 00:18:05,400 --> 00:18:06,280 Speaker 2: them like a dog. 434 00:18:07,520 --> 00:18:08,640 Speaker 1: Oh my god? 435 00:18:09,119 --> 00:18:11,480 Speaker 2: What's that cosplay that people are into where they like 436 00:18:11,480 --> 00:18:13,200 Speaker 2: like to be animals? 437 00:18:13,320 --> 00:18:15,639 Speaker 4: Oh, I SA know what you mean, and they. 438 00:18:15,560 --> 00:18:17,680 Speaker 2: Like meet in like parks altogether and run out with 439 00:18:17,840 --> 00:18:24,280 Speaker 2: mask saying it's like pop, Yeah, I know what you mean, puppy. 440 00:18:22,800 --> 00:18:23,480 Speaker 1: Play or something. 441 00:18:24,520 --> 00:18:27,000 Speaker 2: Someone was talking about that in a previous submission that 442 00:18:27,040 --> 00:18:28,960 Speaker 2: they went to a park and there's like a gathered 443 00:18:28,960 --> 00:18:31,280 Speaker 2: annual gathering of these people that fetish that. 444 00:18:31,840 --> 00:18:35,120 Speaker 4: No, I fuck, it's fluffies. You're fluffy. 445 00:18:35,520 --> 00:18:37,280 Speaker 1: Oh maybe this guy's a secret fluffy. 446 00:18:37,520 --> 00:18:39,560 Speaker 4: I hate that's called not fix fluffy sounds cute. 447 00:18:39,560 --> 00:18:41,720 Speaker 2: Fluffy's cute, and I'm not not here to kick shame. 448 00:18:41,800 --> 00:18:44,639 Speaker 2: But like, it's just not my style. He tries to 449 00:18:44,640 --> 00:18:46,639 Speaker 2: do it right there. I had to physically pull this 450 00:18:46,680 --> 00:18:49,439 Speaker 2: six foot man off the floor. At this point, I 451 00:18:49,440 --> 00:18:52,160 Speaker 2: text my sister to come rescue me. She did, thank god. 452 00:18:52,640 --> 00:18:55,480 Speaker 2: He wouldn't leave, even after I said bye three times. 453 00:18:55,920 --> 00:18:58,480 Speaker 2: Later that night, he texts, you're taking out space in 454 00:18:58,520 --> 00:18:58,880 Speaker 2: my head. 455 00:18:58,880 --> 00:19:01,280 Speaker 1: Do I get to see you as soon? Sir? What 456 00:19:01,359 --> 00:19:02,040 Speaker 1: year are you in? 457 00:19:02,640 --> 00:19:06,240 Speaker 2: I said, thanks, but I'm not interested. He replies, well, 458 00:19:06,320 --> 00:19:09,240 Speaker 2: considering I'm not from here, I wasn't looking for anything either. 459 00:19:09,840 --> 00:19:12,560 Speaker 2: I have a real dislike for men that like to 460 00:19:12,600 --> 00:19:14,840 Speaker 2: act like it was a mutual ending just because you've 461 00:19:14,880 --> 00:19:17,040 Speaker 2: done it first. There's a guy I know that I've 462 00:19:17,080 --> 00:19:19,600 Speaker 2: done that with my sister and she said she was 463 00:19:19,640 --> 00:19:22,840 Speaker 2: just seeing someone, and he's like, no, totally agree, same page. 464 00:19:22,880 --> 00:19:25,800 Speaker 2: It's like you've just asked her sixteen times to go 465 00:19:25,840 --> 00:19:28,560 Speaker 2: out for dinner with her again and she's ended it 466 00:19:28,600 --> 00:19:30,720 Speaker 2: with you, and you're like, so glad we're on the 467 00:19:30,720 --> 00:19:33,200 Speaker 2: same page, Like just be like, no worries. 468 00:19:33,240 --> 00:19:34,280 Speaker 1: It was so lovely to meet you. 469 00:19:34,320 --> 00:19:36,840 Speaker 2: Like wish you the best, you know what I mean literally, 470 00:19:37,160 --> 00:19:38,639 Speaker 2: like you don't need to always be the one in 471 00:19:38,680 --> 00:19:39,040 Speaker 2: the rot. 472 00:19:39,160 --> 00:19:40,240 Speaker 4: I just hope it all go as well. 473 00:19:40,280 --> 00:19:42,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, I hope it all goes well. It was nice 474 00:19:42,040 --> 00:19:43,880 Speaker 2: to hang out with you fucking widows. 475 00:19:44,320 --> 00:19:44,720 Speaker 1: Anyway. 476 00:19:44,840 --> 00:19:47,679 Speaker 2: I saw him once again in public and nearly shout myself, 477 00:19:47,720 --> 00:19:49,960 Speaker 2: but I haven't heard from him since. Haven't been on 478 00:19:50,000 --> 00:19:53,040 Speaker 2: another day either, and I'm scared. Love you is keep 479 00:19:53,119 --> 00:19:54,680 Speaker 2: up the body. It's my favorite time of the week. 480 00:19:54,720 --> 00:19:56,919 Speaker 2: Thank you, beautiful girl. And I'm so glad that this 481 00:19:57,000 --> 00:19:58,720 Speaker 2: man is. Does he live in Melbourne? No, he lives 482 00:19:58,720 --> 00:20:00,640 Speaker 2: in Sydney, thank god. Because I see a six foot 483 00:20:00,680 --> 00:20:02,160 Speaker 2: man running around on all fours, I'm going to run 484 00:20:02,160 --> 00:20:04,160 Speaker 2: the other way. I wonder if anyone else has gone 485 00:20:04,160 --> 00:20:05,960 Speaker 2: on dates with this guy since, because he seems. 486 00:20:05,760 --> 00:20:06,200 Speaker 1: Like a freak. 487 00:20:06,440 --> 00:20:08,560 Speaker 2: Sorry that's really rude, but I'm not really in the 488 00:20:08,600 --> 00:20:09,919 Speaker 2: mood to sugarcoat things today. 489 00:20:10,480 --> 00:20:12,440 Speaker 1: All right, we have another hear me out? 490 00:20:12,640 --> 00:20:15,000 Speaker 2: Hi is just oh I love all you guys for 491 00:20:15,080 --> 00:20:17,879 Speaker 2: saying such cute things at the beginning, I just want 492 00:20:17,920 --> 00:20:19,639 Speaker 2: to say, I'm super proud of you for thriving with 493 00:20:19,640 --> 00:20:21,200 Speaker 2: the potty and I love hearing you. 494 00:20:21,119 --> 00:20:24,920 Speaker 1: With laky what. Okay, help me out. 495 00:20:25,240 --> 00:20:27,240 Speaker 2: I'm having some issues with my partner at the moment 496 00:20:27,640 --> 00:20:31,000 Speaker 2: her reference. We're only both at nineteen. Growing up, I've 497 00:20:31,000 --> 00:20:33,520 Speaker 2: always I was always told I was emotionally intelligent and 498 00:20:33,600 --> 00:20:35,280 Speaker 2: really aware of how things affected people. 499 00:20:35,359 --> 00:20:36,280 Speaker 1: My boyfriend is not. 500 00:20:37,280 --> 00:20:38,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, he loved that. 501 00:20:38,880 --> 00:20:40,639 Speaker 2: We've been together for two and a half years and 502 00:20:40,800 --> 00:20:43,879 Speaker 2: met just after school. Since the beginning, we've had issues 503 00:20:43,880 --> 00:20:46,480 Speaker 2: with his loyalty to me in regards to sexual desires. 504 00:20:47,160 --> 00:20:49,359 Speaker 2: I'm going to start by saying I think you should 505 00:20:49,400 --> 00:20:51,040 Speaker 2: not be with this man, but we'll see how we go. 506 00:20:51,600 --> 00:20:53,520 Speaker 2: He has actively told me he would fuck other girls 507 00:20:53,560 --> 00:20:54,720 Speaker 2: because his mates think they're hot. 508 00:20:54,760 --> 00:20:55,000 Speaker 1: Okay. 509 00:20:56,400 --> 00:20:59,359 Speaker 2: I hate men make their partners feel self conscious, like 510 00:20:59,440 --> 00:21:02,280 Speaker 2: even like, well that goes so hot when she's like 511 00:21:02,320 --> 00:21:04,879 Speaker 2: walking down the beach, Like you don't get you cannot 512 00:21:04,920 --> 00:21:06,320 Speaker 2: say that in front of me, do you know what 513 00:21:06,400 --> 00:21:06,720 Speaker 2: I mean? 514 00:21:06,760 --> 00:21:09,000 Speaker 4: And as if the other girl's looking at you, like. 515 00:21:09,080 --> 00:21:11,639 Speaker 2: I'll say, while that girl's gorgeous, if I'm with a partner, 516 00:21:11,680 --> 00:21:13,480 Speaker 2: you can't agree. 517 00:21:14,280 --> 00:21:15,040 Speaker 4: That's a hear me out. 518 00:21:15,160 --> 00:21:16,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a hear me out. 519 00:21:17,359 --> 00:21:19,919 Speaker 2: By five months into the relationship, I found emails on 520 00:21:19,920 --> 00:21:22,240 Speaker 2: his phone, by the way, we both go through each 521 00:21:22,240 --> 00:21:25,880 Speaker 2: other's phones casually. I found subscriptions to only fans where 522 00:21:25,880 --> 00:21:27,720 Speaker 2: he was spending at least fifty dollars a week on 523 00:21:27,840 --> 00:21:29,320 Speaker 2: private messages with these women. 524 00:21:30,400 --> 00:21:30,520 Speaker 1: Oh. 525 00:21:31,880 --> 00:21:34,280 Speaker 2: I confronted him, which was hard because I didn't know 526 00:21:34,480 --> 00:21:36,879 Speaker 2: him that well yet. And of course he lied, and 527 00:21:36,920 --> 00:21:37,800 Speaker 2: he told me he'd stop. 528 00:21:38,280 --> 00:21:41,000 Speaker 1: How do you lie? Look, it's there? Is it? Your 529 00:21:41,000 --> 00:21:42,200 Speaker 1: friend's doing it on your phone? 530 00:21:42,400 --> 00:21:44,040 Speaker 4: Is that my brother was using my account? 531 00:21:44,320 --> 00:21:46,879 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not my account and I'm just logged in 532 00:21:46,960 --> 00:21:49,320 Speaker 2: with my friend. Months down the track, I found out 533 00:21:49,359 --> 00:21:52,000 Speaker 2: he was still subscribing. And this has happened about five times. 534 00:21:52,680 --> 00:21:53,880 Speaker 1: I'm sorry to hear that, girl. 535 00:21:54,000 --> 00:21:56,200 Speaker 2: I do also think it can be so challenging though 536 00:21:56,240 --> 00:21:59,240 Speaker 2: to leave sometimes. It finally got to a point about 537 00:21:59,240 --> 00:22:00,920 Speaker 2: eight months ago I just kind of gave up and 538 00:22:00,960 --> 00:22:04,040 Speaker 2: started following the let them theory fast forwards. Ton How 539 00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:07,160 Speaker 2: we haven't had an issue in a while. By that, 540 00:22:07,240 --> 00:22:09,679 Speaker 2: do you mean like just let him do it? Like 541 00:22:09,800 --> 00:22:12,080 Speaker 2: meaning he's doing it and you're just letting him. Is 542 00:22:12,119 --> 00:22:13,040 Speaker 2: that what you mean by that? 543 00:22:14,119 --> 00:22:14,919 Speaker 1: Fast forward to now. 544 00:22:14,960 --> 00:22:17,080 Speaker 2: We haven't had an issue in a while, other than 545 00:22:17,119 --> 00:22:19,359 Speaker 2: the fact I walked on on him wanking while watching 546 00:22:19,400 --> 00:22:22,040 Speaker 2: something on his phone. I don't know what while I 547 00:22:22,160 --> 00:22:28,560 Speaker 2: was two rooms away. I push Some people have issues 548 00:22:28,560 --> 00:22:33,600 Speaker 2: with their partners watching porn while like while they're dating. 549 00:22:34,600 --> 00:22:36,159 Speaker 2: I feel like I don't have an issue with it, 550 00:22:36,200 --> 00:22:38,120 Speaker 2: but it's like if I'm two rooms away, like, why are. 551 00:22:38,000 --> 00:22:39,960 Speaker 1: You doing that? Do you know what I mean? In that? 552 00:22:40,040 --> 00:22:42,680 Speaker 4: If I'm there, I don't want to walk in on it. 553 00:22:42,960 --> 00:22:45,280 Speaker 2: I just also think you don't need to be doing 554 00:22:45,280 --> 00:22:49,120 Speaker 2: that when your girlfriend is like right there, Like, that's 555 00:22:49,200 --> 00:22:50,320 Speaker 2: your partner, Do you know what I mean? 556 00:22:50,480 --> 00:22:52,399 Speaker 1: Why are we watching porn when your girlfriend's right there? 557 00:22:52,520 --> 00:22:56,520 Speaker 2: Anyway, I pushed him away for a while after this 558 00:22:56,600 --> 00:22:58,800 Speaker 2: because we haven't been having sex, and I'm assuming it's 559 00:22:58,840 --> 00:23:01,959 Speaker 2: because he isn't attracted to me anymore. My main problem 560 00:23:02,000 --> 00:23:04,200 Speaker 2: is the other day he admitted he probably watches porn 561 00:23:04,240 --> 00:23:07,160 Speaker 2: eight times a month when he's horny. I wouldn't say 562 00:23:07,160 --> 00:23:09,240 Speaker 2: eight times a month is that bad? But again, again, 563 00:23:09,240 --> 00:23:11,080 Speaker 2: I'm not a man. Do you know what I mean. 564 00:23:11,200 --> 00:23:13,639 Speaker 4: Yeah, and I don't really do that. 565 00:23:13,600 --> 00:23:17,040 Speaker 1: So I don't know. Is that bad? Yeah? I feel 566 00:23:17,080 --> 00:23:17,320 Speaker 1: like it's not. 567 00:23:17,520 --> 00:23:20,560 Speaker 2: I mean, I feel like there's people with like sex 568 00:23:20,560 --> 00:23:22,240 Speaker 2: addictions that like watch porn every single day. 569 00:23:22,320 --> 00:23:25,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, I'm just gonna say no without explaining like. 570 00:23:25,080 --> 00:23:26,480 Speaker 1: I don't think it's that bad. Yeah. 571 00:23:26,560 --> 00:23:29,679 Speaker 2: I felt gross and annoyed because we literally never sleep together, 572 00:23:29,760 --> 00:23:31,840 Speaker 2: and at nineteen, I want to be living my best life. 573 00:23:32,240 --> 00:23:33,600 Speaker 2: I don't know what to do because he told me 574 00:23:33,640 --> 00:23:36,080 Speaker 2: he'll stop, but I'm traumatized about him lying about only 575 00:23:36,080 --> 00:23:36,880 Speaker 2: events for so long. 576 00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:40,000 Speaker 1: Please give me whatever advice you have, Queen. I love you, honey. 577 00:23:41,000 --> 00:23:43,160 Speaker 2: I really hope that you Sometimes when you write things 578 00:23:43,160 --> 00:23:45,720 Speaker 2: out or when you, like say, explain things to people, 579 00:23:46,320 --> 00:23:49,480 Speaker 2: you realize, holy fuck, what am I doing? You need 580 00:23:49,520 --> 00:23:52,280 Speaker 2: to break up with this man before this episode even 581 00:23:52,320 --> 00:23:56,880 Speaker 2: fucking contact, Like this is not a loyal man. Imagine 582 00:23:56,960 --> 00:23:59,080 Speaker 2: being together with him when you're twenty five. Imagine I'd 583 00:23:59,080 --> 00:24:00,600 Speaker 2: be a kid with this man. This guy can't even 584 00:24:00,640 --> 00:24:02,200 Speaker 2: keep his dicking his pants for the first five months 585 00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:02,960 Speaker 2: when you're nineteen. 586 00:24:04,359 --> 00:24:05,000 Speaker 1: Not worth it. 587 00:24:06,000 --> 00:24:08,080 Speaker 2: I just think it's gonna always be lying. It's gonna 588 00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:10,080 Speaker 2: always be sneaking around. And like you said, you want 589 00:24:10,080 --> 00:24:11,480 Speaker 2: to be living your best life. You want to be 590 00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:13,760 Speaker 2: with someone that makes you happy, It makes you feel 591 00:24:13,800 --> 00:24:14,960 Speaker 2: wanted and gets you excited. 592 00:24:14,960 --> 00:24:17,800 Speaker 1: And this guy is not that, not at all. 593 00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:20,000 Speaker 2: You've been given a million reasons to break up with him, 594 00:24:20,040 --> 00:24:21,560 Speaker 2: and if you need to start listing them all out 595 00:24:21,560 --> 00:24:23,840 Speaker 2: and hand him a fucking written note so we can 596 00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:25,680 Speaker 2: understand them, fine, but I just feel. 597 00:24:25,480 --> 00:24:27,280 Speaker 1: Like that guy is going to be better in your 598 00:24:27,280 --> 00:24:28,040 Speaker 1: rearview mirror. 599 00:24:28,280 --> 00:24:29,560 Speaker 4: Just send him this episode. 600 00:24:29,840 --> 00:24:30,400 Speaker 1: Send him this. 601 00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:32,919 Speaker 2: Episode and be like, this is what you've done, and 602 00:24:32,960 --> 00:24:33,679 Speaker 2: this is why I'm. 603 00:24:33,600 --> 00:24:35,320 Speaker 4: Leaving, and this is what is he said about it. 604 00:24:35,440 --> 00:24:38,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, so fuck him honestly hope he enjoys his fucking 605 00:24:38,640 --> 00:24:41,320 Speaker 2: porn addiction. No, I actually don't think eight months, eight 606 00:24:41,320 --> 00:24:43,000 Speaker 2: times a month is a porn addiction. But like I 607 00:24:43,119 --> 00:24:44,720 Speaker 2: just think, if he wants to talk to his only 608 00:24:44,760 --> 00:24:47,359 Speaker 2: fans girls instead of his girlfriend, then leave him to 609 00:24:47,400 --> 00:24:50,000 Speaker 2: do that in the privacy of his own home because 610 00:24:50,000 --> 00:24:53,760 Speaker 2: you deserve better. All right, help me out. I have 611 00:24:53,840 --> 00:24:56,520 Speaker 2: this friend, let's call it Tara. I've known Tara since UNI. 612 00:24:56,600 --> 00:24:59,119 Speaker 2: We were super close, always leaning on each other, venting 613 00:24:59,160 --> 00:25:02,720 Speaker 2: about boys. Sharing secrets, the whole package. Then I met 614 00:25:02,720 --> 00:25:06,400 Speaker 2: someone Let's call him Eli. Eli's such a random name 615 00:25:06,480 --> 00:25:07,920 Speaker 2: to say, like, let's call him Eli. 616 00:25:07,960 --> 00:25:08,920 Speaker 1: Do you know what I mean? Yeah? 617 00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:09,520 Speaker 4: Where'd you get that? 618 00:25:09,640 --> 00:25:11,240 Speaker 1: Yeah? What'd you get that? It's kind of cute. 619 00:25:12,080 --> 00:25:14,720 Speaker 2: We clicked fast and there was chemistry. We've been casually 620 00:25:14,760 --> 00:25:17,280 Speaker 2: seeing each other for a few months. When am I 621 00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:19,680 Speaker 2: going to click fast with someone? 622 00:25:20,280 --> 00:25:20,600 Speaker 4: Happy? 623 00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:23,840 Speaker 1: For you? Girl? And Eli? Now here's the thing. 624 00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:28,359 Speaker 2: Eli and Tara used to date briefly, super briefly, maybe 625 00:25:28,359 --> 00:25:31,360 Speaker 2: two years ago, nothing serious, but enough that Tara had 626 00:25:31,400 --> 00:25:34,000 Speaker 2: feelings and she never really moved on, or at least 627 00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:37,960 Speaker 2: she never said she did. There is such a fine line. 628 00:25:38,200 --> 00:25:42,320 Speaker 2: In my opinion, it is such a situation. The situation 629 00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:45,040 Speaker 2: basis with these sort of things. Never date a friends X, 630 00:25:45,080 --> 00:25:49,480 Speaker 2: but it's like, yes to some extent, yes, but it's 631 00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:53,399 Speaker 2: like I dated a friend's X my last boyfriend, but 632 00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:56,000 Speaker 2: it's like that girl was no longer a friend of mine, 633 00:25:56,200 --> 00:25:59,439 Speaker 2: no longer someone that particularly fucking liked me or treated 634 00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:04,000 Speaker 2: me nicely, and she was already dating someone else for 635 00:26:04,040 --> 00:26:07,720 Speaker 2: multiple years at that point. And I just think it's 636 00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:10,320 Speaker 2: so situation situation, Like there've been people I've gone on 637 00:26:10,400 --> 00:26:11,960 Speaker 2: dates with the friends of mine have gone on dates 638 00:26:11,960 --> 00:26:14,280 Speaker 2: with a year earlier, and they just like fizzled, nothing happened, 639 00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:16,160 Speaker 2: and they're like, go for it. Is like it doesn't matter. 640 00:26:16,640 --> 00:26:18,600 Speaker 2: So I think we'll read into this. But I do 641 00:26:18,640 --> 00:26:23,040 Speaker 2: think it's so situation the situation. I think conversations need 642 00:26:23,080 --> 00:26:25,800 Speaker 2: to be had before. Generally, though, if you are still 643 00:26:25,800 --> 00:26:28,720 Speaker 2: friends with the girl. When I started seeing Eli, she 644 00:26:28,720 --> 00:26:31,639 Speaker 2: didn't say anything, not outwardly, but lately I catch the 645 00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:34,840 Speaker 2: way she looks at him, and sometimes she slips comparing 646 00:26:34,880 --> 00:26:37,080 Speaker 2: me to what she remembers or hinting at when they. 647 00:26:37,000 --> 00:26:39,159 Speaker 1: Were together stories. I'm stuck. 648 00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:40,880 Speaker 2: On one hand, I feel like I should step back 649 00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:42,760 Speaker 2: because I don't want to be the other person in 650 00:26:42,800 --> 00:26:45,520 Speaker 2: her heart. But on the other hand, I really like Eli. 651 00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:47,159 Speaker 2: I like how things feel with him and how he 652 00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:50,040 Speaker 2: treats me. I'm not sure Tara actually wants him back, 653 00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:52,000 Speaker 2: or if she's just hur and I don't know how 654 00:26:52,040 --> 00:26:53,359 Speaker 2: to stop feeling weird about it. 655 00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:53,920 Speaker 1: Is he help? 656 00:26:55,480 --> 00:26:59,200 Speaker 2: I think if Tara hasn't actually said like, she doesn't 657 00:26:59,240 --> 00:27:01,800 Speaker 2: seem like she got annoyed or anything when this begun, 658 00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:04,520 Speaker 2: Do you know what I mean? Like, I feel like 659 00:27:04,600 --> 00:27:06,840 Speaker 2: maybe there might be some lingering issues. But if it 660 00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:09,120 Speaker 2: was super super brief and you and Eli probably will 661 00:27:09,200 --> 00:27:11,679 Speaker 2: end up surpassing the time that they spent together, I 662 00:27:11,720 --> 00:27:14,879 Speaker 2: think it's okay if she hasn't verbalized to you that 663 00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:15,320 Speaker 2: it's not. 664 00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:16,680 Speaker 1: Do you know what I mean? 665 00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:19,880 Speaker 2: Because I with a close friend of mine would absolutely 666 00:27:21,359 --> 00:27:23,080 Speaker 2: I would hope that would be like, hey, you went 667 00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:24,880 Speaker 2: on a couple dates with this guy, you were seeing 668 00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:27,000 Speaker 2: him briefly, do you mind? And I'd be like, yeah, 669 00:27:27,000 --> 00:27:29,560 Speaker 2: I do mind, or no I don't. And it seems 670 00:27:29,600 --> 00:27:32,440 Speaker 2: like she didn't say anything to that, Like she didn't 671 00:27:32,480 --> 00:27:36,040 Speaker 2: say anything like that at the beginning. So I'm like, yeah, 672 00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:39,399 Speaker 2: maybe it's not ideal and uncomfortable for her, but you 673 00:27:39,400 --> 00:27:41,840 Speaker 2: should also hope that a friend of yours would vocalize 674 00:27:41,880 --> 00:27:44,359 Speaker 2: if she was uncomfortable with something like that. If that 675 00:27:45,000 --> 00:27:48,840 Speaker 2: does happen, maybe there needs to be a bit of reevaluating. 676 00:27:48,840 --> 00:27:50,840 Speaker 2: But I also think it totally depends on how long 677 00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:52,560 Speaker 2: these two were seeing each other, and if it was 678 00:27:52,640 --> 00:27:54,000 Speaker 2: just a couple of dates, or if they were seeing 679 00:27:54,040 --> 00:27:56,399 Speaker 2: each other for a couple months, if it was exclusive, 680 00:27:56,480 --> 00:27:59,720 Speaker 2: if it was just casual, like oh, it varies, but 681 00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:03,679 Speaker 2: I'd say cutting off a connection with someone like Eli 682 00:28:03,680 --> 00:28:05,600 Speaker 2: who you really clicked with and a good with him. 683 00:28:05,640 --> 00:28:07,720 Speaker 2: Right now, it seems like you're also still friends with Tara. 684 00:28:08,080 --> 00:28:10,520 Speaker 2: She's not being rude about it, she's not saying anything outwardly. 685 00:28:10,560 --> 00:28:13,320 Speaker 2: I think maybe she's just struggling to get her head around. 686 00:28:13,040 --> 00:28:13,600 Speaker 1: It a little bit. 687 00:28:13,960 --> 00:28:15,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, it just seems uncomfortable and. 688 00:28:15,840 --> 00:28:17,840 Speaker 1: Like maybe it is really tall. 689 00:28:17,920 --> 00:28:20,760 Speaker 2: But I think with time that should pass unless she 690 00:28:21,040 --> 00:28:22,000 Speaker 2: has anything about. 691 00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:23,720 Speaker 3: It, and like I don't want to assume, but the 692 00:28:23,800 --> 00:28:28,400 Speaker 3: fact that Tara is sticking around and not really sharing 693 00:28:28,640 --> 00:28:31,399 Speaker 3: maybe how she feels it seems she still wants a 694 00:28:31,440 --> 00:28:33,400 Speaker 3: friendship as well, and she doesn't want it. 695 00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:35,320 Speaker 1: To be an issue. She's trying her best to not match. 696 00:28:35,359 --> 00:28:37,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, but I think my solution would be to talk 697 00:28:37,840 --> 00:28:39,200 Speaker 3: to her, but not from it. 698 00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:40,760 Speaker 4: Do you have a problem with this way? 699 00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:44,760 Speaker 3: Like I felt by you saying ABC, this might be 700 00:28:44,840 --> 00:28:45,640 Speaker 3: uncomfortable for her. 701 00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:46,920 Speaker 2: I just want to let you know I do really 702 00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:49,840 Speaker 2: like him, Like, yeah, don't be like do you have 703 00:28:49,920 --> 00:28:51,720 Speaker 2: a problem, because then it's easy for her to be 704 00:28:51,760 --> 00:28:52,280 Speaker 2: like yeah I do. 705 00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:53,360 Speaker 4: Yeah. 706 00:28:53,680 --> 00:28:57,280 Speaker 3: No, just also reiterate how much you value the friendship 707 00:28:57,320 --> 00:28:58,200 Speaker 3: with her as well. 708 00:28:58,440 --> 00:28:59,920 Speaker 4: Because yeah, it doesn't seem and. 709 00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:02,600 Speaker 1: It doesn't seem like there's drama. 710 00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:07,040 Speaker 2: It seems like maybe she's just uncomfortable and getting the 711 00:29:07,080 --> 00:29:09,640 Speaker 2: hang of things. It might be odd if I saw 712 00:29:09,640 --> 00:29:11,400 Speaker 2: a guy I'd been on a date with and I 713 00:29:11,480 --> 00:29:13,160 Speaker 2: went out and he was on a date with my friend, 714 00:29:13,240 --> 00:29:16,240 Speaker 2: like seeing it, I think would be a lot weirder 715 00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:18,200 Speaker 2: than like me just saying yeah, of course, girl, go 716 00:29:18,280 --> 00:29:18,480 Speaker 2: for it. 717 00:29:18,520 --> 00:29:21,040 Speaker 1: I like, I only saw him very briefly, so. 718 00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:23,040 Speaker 2: I think maybe the being around you two in that 719 00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:24,960 Speaker 2: regard might be what's hard. But I don't think it 720 00:29:24,960 --> 00:29:27,200 Speaker 2: seems like there's an issue, or I think she would 721 00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:33,120 Speaker 2: have vocalized her already. All Right, that was only three 722 00:29:33,200 --> 00:29:35,720 Speaker 2: dummers today because your girl was yapping at the beginning. 723 00:29:35,760 --> 00:29:37,600 Speaker 2: But we do have so many good ones, so we're 724 00:29:37,640 --> 00:29:39,200 Speaker 2: going to do a part two to that soon and 725 00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:42,720 Speaker 2: then maybe we even might get your favorite guests on again. 726 00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:48,200 Speaker 1: My fucking sister h nah, she is good. I like 727 00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:50,480 Speaker 1: coming on. It makes a FuMB But thank you guys 728 00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:51,959 Speaker 1: so much for your constant support. 729 00:29:52,040 --> 00:29:55,360 Speaker 2: I love you, guys, and I will see you next Thursday. 730 00:29:55,360 --> 00:29:57,200 Speaker 1: Bye.