WEBVTT - WHY WE DATE PEOPLE SIMILAR TO OUR PARENTS… 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:02.640 I want the fairy tale. I want the prince charming. 0:00:03.120 --> 0:00:06.000 She how do I put this? Isn't a fan of 0:00:06.040 --> 0:00:07.360 my kissing style. 0:00:07.720 --> 0:00:10.600 With a boyfriend and girlfriend for about twelve hours. 0:00:10.680 --> 0:00:11.680 He's in a trash bin. 0:00:11.760 --> 0:00:13.880 He's non recyclable. Catching him up. 0:00:15.200 --> 0:00:18.640 I love being love. I love love. On today's episode 0:00:18.640 --> 0:00:20.800 of Where's Your Head Out, we are celebrating Father's Day 0:00:20.840 --> 0:00:23.600 and we are pleased to welcome Ana's dad, Brian McAvoy 0:00:23.680 --> 0:00:24.280 to the studio. 0:00:24.520 --> 0:00:27.080 We will be asking my dad what he has thought 0:00:27.160 --> 0:00:30.240 about my previous boyfriends and what are his thoughts on 0:00:30.400 --> 0:00:31.040 Michael two. 0:00:31.360 --> 0:00:32.200 So stay tuned. 0:00:37.120 --> 0:00:39.560 Where's Your Head At is a podcast that talks all 0:00:39.640 --> 0:00:44.920 things relationships, breakups, reality TV, trending shows, and everything in between. 0:00:45.200 --> 0:00:47.919 This is your new go to destination for laughs, gossip, 0:00:48.080 --> 0:00:50.240 intimate details, advice, and much more. 0:00:55.200 --> 0:00:57.360 Hey Dad, Happy Father's Day. 0:00:57.720 --> 0:01:01.040 Thank you very much, Happy Father's Day. Welcome to the studio. 0:01:01.080 --> 0:01:02.080 It's good to see you. 0:01:02.480 --> 0:01:03.280 Good to see you too. 0:01:03.520 --> 0:01:05.680 You're looking good. He's all he's in his suit. 0:01:05.840 --> 0:01:07.400 I'm a lot better than the last time you saw 0:01:07.400 --> 0:01:10.080 me at an it's thirtieth I was incohesive at that point. 0:01:10.800 --> 0:01:13.479 We're having a long chat and I can't remember. 0:01:14.000 --> 0:01:16.479 You were both pretty drunk in my thirties to be. 0:01:16.400 --> 0:01:19.039 Honest, so you don't remember it, then I do remember. 0:01:19.560 --> 0:01:21.119 There's a lot of Red Warrior. We had to get 0:01:21.160 --> 0:01:26.600 rid of someone shirts some good drug good night. 0:01:26.480 --> 0:01:29.200 Thought it was good for it was a good out 0:01:29.240 --> 0:01:32.399 on a park bench and got my phone and stolen No, 0:01:35.360 --> 0:01:38.800 that was the winner of the night. Yeah. So I 0:01:38.880 --> 0:01:41.000 ended up the passing out and didn't have a phone 0:01:41.080 --> 0:01:44.039 or anything and kiled a cab on Chapel Street, got home, 0:01:44.480 --> 0:01:48.840 climbed through the window and just passed out. All right. 0:01:48.880 --> 0:01:50.880 So do you guys have much plan for Father's Day? 0:01:52.520 --> 0:01:56.480 No, not the year because that was on a weekend 0:01:56.520 --> 0:01:58.680 trip to the country. 0:01:58.880 --> 0:02:02.720 I'm actually Missing's Day. So Father's Day is this Sunday. 0:02:03.240 --> 0:02:05.920 Little reminder for any of ours, your head out listeners 0:02:05.920 --> 0:02:08.920 who haven't got their data present, this is your queue 0:02:09.040 --> 0:02:09.560 to do that. 0:02:10.600 --> 0:02:10.840 Yeah. 0:02:10.880 --> 0:02:13.920 So we're actually going up to Moldura to see Michael's 0:02:13.919 --> 0:02:15.839 sister's baby because we haven't. 0:02:15.560 --> 0:02:16.560 Seen him in a while. 0:02:16.680 --> 0:02:20.520 Will Michael's father be there, No, so we're not. We're not. See. 0:02:21.360 --> 0:02:24.399 Yeah, it's a double fail this year. But we will 0:02:24.440 --> 0:02:26.760 celebrate Father's Day on Monday. If that's okay with. 0:02:26.800 --> 0:02:29.520 You, It's not as good as some people. 0:02:31.360 --> 0:02:33.280 The guilt trip has garden. 0:02:35.760 --> 0:02:37.079 Well, you better get him a good present. 0:02:37.080 --> 0:02:39.760 Then I might have to give him like an extra 0:02:39.800 --> 0:02:41.720 good present. What is the best Father's Day present? 0:02:41.720 --> 0:02:42.040 I've got? 0:02:42.120 --> 0:02:42.240 Here? 0:02:43.240 --> 0:02:45.240 Being with me on Father's Day it is probably the 0:02:45.280 --> 0:02:45.920 best present. 0:02:47.960 --> 0:02:49.520 Now I'm actually feeling good. 0:02:50.520 --> 0:02:55.040 He's really all right. Well, let's let's dive straight into 0:02:55.080 --> 0:02:57.040 it because we're a dating podcast here, so we want 0:02:57.040 --> 0:03:00.360 to talk about your dating history as well as anna 0:03:00.560 --> 0:03:02.320 dating history and what your history. 0:03:02.360 --> 0:03:05.079 I wasn't expecting that draw. 0:03:05.720 --> 0:03:08.680 Well see where it goes, but and what your opinion 0:03:08.720 --> 0:03:11.360 on Anna's dating history has been. So, how did you 0:03:11.360 --> 0:03:12.880 feel when Anna started dating? 0:03:14.040 --> 0:03:16.400 Nervous Detective. 0:03:17.320 --> 0:03:19.080 Did you put any rules in of what age she 0:03:19.120 --> 0:03:21.440 could start dating or were you just like, go out 0:03:21.520 --> 0:03:22.079 of your own thing? 0:03:22.160 --> 0:03:24.799 We did, but she wanted to negotiate when we said 0:03:24.840 --> 0:03:28.400 twenty five, so we moved it back down to twenty one. 0:03:30.720 --> 0:03:34.760 Still, she was seventeen seventeen eighteen, if I. 0:03:34.680 --> 0:03:37.400 Remember right, But you were quite strict growing up. 0:03:37.720 --> 0:03:38.320 We were strict. 0:03:38.600 --> 0:03:40.520 I think there was a rule, wasn't there She couldn't 0:03:40.680 --> 0:03:42.760 date while she was studying or am I. 0:03:42.920 --> 0:03:45.640 Yeah, that was the plan? That was the rule. Wasn't 0:03:45.640 --> 0:03:46.520 always said that a. 0:03:46.520 --> 0:03:49.120 Bit of a rebel. Things didn't always go to plan. 0:03:49.280 --> 0:03:49.960 She's pretty good. 0:03:50.360 --> 0:03:53.080 Did you out going on dates or sneaking out? 0:03:53.400 --> 0:03:56.480 No, it was just the old ones where all the 0:03:56.520 --> 0:03:59.000 girls told someone else they were staying at someone else's house. 0:04:00.040 --> 0:04:03.640 When you folded it out, you could never just there 0:04:03.680 --> 0:04:04.680 was a bit of that going on. 0:04:04.720 --> 0:04:06.640 Why do we think the parents never clicked on to that. 0:04:06.720 --> 0:04:09.240 It's so obvious as well when you think, yeah. 0:04:09.920 --> 0:04:11.720 I know, I know there was. 0:04:11.920 --> 0:04:14.280 There was definitely a couple of times where I said 0:04:14.320 --> 0:04:16.279 I was staying at friends houses and we would go 0:04:16.320 --> 0:04:18.159 out clubbing and my parents didn't know about it. But 0:04:18.200 --> 0:04:20.400 I mean it only happened like twice, So I feel 0:04:20.400 --> 0:04:23.080 like in general I was actually very good. 0:04:23.080 --> 0:04:24.960 And I think it was because. 0:04:24.880 --> 0:04:27.160 They were so strict that like even just doing a 0:04:27.200 --> 0:04:29.720 little bit felt like really bad and like really naughty, 0:04:29.720 --> 0:04:31.800 like I was really doing the wrong thing, so like 0:04:31.839 --> 0:04:34.800 I wasn't going like full ham at the club every weekend. 0:04:34.920 --> 0:04:36.760 Were you as strict on Chris as you were with 0:04:36.800 --> 0:04:41.960 Anna or by that point were you just like we. 0:04:41.400 --> 0:04:45.200 Were kind of strict, but I think Anna encouraged him. Well, 0:04:45.279 --> 0:04:48.359 she used to take him out. 0:04:46.160 --> 0:04:48.800 So I was a bad influence, was. 0:04:50.120 --> 0:04:54.200 Trying to bring Chris because she would take him out. 0:04:55.080 --> 0:04:58.080 It's also like I reckon, Like when you're the first child, 0:04:58.160 --> 0:04:59.760 you have to break your parents in. 0:05:00.200 --> 0:05:01.880 You reckon Like I was the oldest in the first 0:05:01.880 --> 0:05:02.200 as well. 0:05:02.640 --> 0:05:04.880 Yeah, like you have to you have to feel like 0:05:04.960 --> 0:05:07.719 you have to set the standard. And I set the standard. 0:05:07.800 --> 0:05:09.920 And like Christopher and my brother, he just got an 0:05:09.920 --> 0:05:10.640 easy run through. 0:05:12.160 --> 0:05:16.000 Yeah, family, I got it well as strict as my 0:05:16.160 --> 0:05:18.400 parents could have been there. We were with me and 0:05:18.440 --> 0:05:20.720 now with Emma. She she's the ruler of the house. 0:05:20.720 --> 0:05:21.560 She's a matriarch. 0:05:21.880 --> 0:05:25.520 But Emma, his younger sister, is so mature, like she's eighteen, 0:05:26.000 --> 0:05:29.960 eighteen eighteen, and like I mean sometimes she seems a 0:05:29.960 --> 0:05:31.520 bit more mature than you now. 0:05:31.880 --> 0:05:35.440 Well growing up she if she did anything immature, Lara 0:05:35.440 --> 0:05:37.320 and me were like straight onto her for it. Yeah, 0:05:37.480 --> 0:05:38.320 giving her a hard time. 0:05:38.360 --> 0:05:38.880 And it's good. 0:05:38.880 --> 0:05:41.840 It's worked because she's like she's unreal, Like I think 0:05:41.880 --> 0:05:42.520 she's amazing. 0:05:42.800 --> 0:05:46.200 Yeah, she is a great girl. So there were there 0:05:46.200 --> 0:05:50.679 were no ground rules set for Anna. She had to be. 0:05:48.880 --> 0:05:53.800 Oh yeah, we Actually we went everywhere together, didn't we. Yeah, 0:05:53.839 --> 0:05:57.159 we went over together, we went for dinner together. 0:05:56.880 --> 0:05:59.240 We traveled together. 0:06:01.800 --> 0:06:05.919 Side of it, I was constantly on family holidays and 0:06:05.920 --> 0:06:09.240 all my friends around, my friends and another. But I like, 0:06:09.440 --> 0:06:12.240 I'm obviously very grateful for it now looking back, like 0:06:12.320 --> 0:06:16.279 it was amazing and that's why I'm a daddy's girl. 0:06:18.160 --> 0:06:20.719 Well, I've always been a daddy's girl, that's true. 0:06:20.920 --> 0:06:22.680 So would you say you're closer with your dad then 0:06:22.800 --> 0:06:23.000 than you? 0:06:24.080 --> 0:06:26.719 I think that me and my dad are very similar 0:06:27.400 --> 0:06:29.640 personality wise, wouldn't we say? 0:06:29.839 --> 0:06:31.600 I think so, And I think. 0:06:31.400 --> 0:06:34.360 That's why we click and bond more because I think 0:06:34.440 --> 0:06:37.400 like he can probably see a little bit of himself 0:06:37.520 --> 0:06:40.880 is always rebelliousself in me, and I kind of like 0:06:40.960 --> 0:06:43.840 look up to him, and I think, like, you're very 0:06:43.880 --> 0:06:46.000 successful and that's inspiring to me. 0:06:46.440 --> 0:06:49.360 And you know, I think we respect one another. 0:06:49.560 --> 0:06:51.240 Yeah, that's nice. So would your mum be closer with 0:06:51.279 --> 0:06:51.840 your brother than you? 0:06:51.960 --> 0:06:58.040 Reckon, I'd say so, would you, although you're quite close 0:06:58.080 --> 0:07:00.720 with my brother as well as both of us. 0:07:01.000 --> 0:07:11.080 This was my best Yeah, I was just when you 0:07:11.080 --> 0:07:13.200 said we were very somewhow it reminded of the time 0:07:13.240 --> 0:07:15.200 when we had an argument. 0:07:15.200 --> 0:07:16.360 You're about seventeen. 0:07:16.480 --> 0:07:18.280 Oh god, don't tell the story. 0:07:19.240 --> 0:07:21.560 I think we drove. I think we drove around the 0:07:21.600 --> 0:07:22.600 car for three hours. 0:07:23.240 --> 0:07:24.480 I don't know what it was about, but it was 0:07:24.480 --> 0:07:27.480 about something about taking the car or doing something, or 0:07:27.520 --> 0:07:28.360 she hadn't understudies. 0:07:28.400 --> 0:07:31.360 You take the car and we both and I jumped 0:07:31.400 --> 0:07:31.760 in the car. 0:07:31.880 --> 0:07:36.400 He said to me, he said to me, I'm taking 0:07:36.440 --> 0:07:37.360 the car off of you. 0:07:37.560 --> 0:07:39.160 I said, no, you're not, and I'm going to stay 0:07:39.160 --> 0:07:39.920 in here all day. 0:07:40.000 --> 0:07:42.720 And it was just like this Mexican standoff where we 0:07:42.880 --> 0:07:45.000 both sat in the car for like three hours. 0:07:45.040 --> 0:07:48.480 Yeah, we started driving and for three hours in the car. 0:07:49.080 --> 0:07:51.160 Given would you say you get your stubborn side away 0:07:51.160 --> 0:07:53.120 from your old man? Yes? 0:07:53.480 --> 0:07:57.960 Absolutely, but in fairness, so imagine us like we're both 0:07:58.040 --> 0:08:00.600 like in the car and then my dad all of 0:08:00.640 --> 0:08:06.120 a sudden goes, should we go get a drink? He's like, 0:08:06.400 --> 0:08:08.320 He's like, I'm stubborn, but I need a beer at 0:08:08.320 --> 0:08:08.800 this point. 0:08:09.520 --> 0:08:11.680 Too much three hours of arguing. 0:08:12.040 --> 0:08:14.240 The thing is is like, it's all good and well 0:08:14.320 --> 0:08:16.240 to have an argument with someone else, but you were 0:08:16.400 --> 0:08:18.320 arguing against yourself because I am here. 0:08:18.600 --> 0:08:20.560 But I didn't give him you never give him, but 0:08:20.840 --> 0:08:22.239 we settled on I'm. 0:08:25.200 --> 0:08:28.600 Just too much pressure and well, Anna's stubborn side will 0:08:28.680 --> 0:08:30.000 be the vein of my existence. 0:08:30.320 --> 0:08:32.240 You're as well. 0:08:33.280 --> 0:08:37.079 We're on a table here with three very stubborn people. 0:08:37.600 --> 0:08:41.400 Yeah, I guess all right, Well let's dive into what 0:08:41.480 --> 0:08:44.160 have you thought of Anna's previous boyfriends? Is there any 0:08:44.240 --> 0:08:46.199 that stand out to you that you've gone an absolute 0:08:46.320 --> 0:08:49.040 twat or any that you've gone you know what I mean? 0:08:49.160 --> 0:08:52.160 You had to sit from afar and let Anna realize 0:08:52.200 --> 0:08:53.640 that this wasn't the one. 0:08:54.160 --> 0:08:56.600 I felt if I did that was that she probably rebel. 0:08:57.840 --> 0:08:59.880 Yeah, so you can't really so I didn't. 0:08:59.600 --> 0:09:03.120 Want to say he's really bad because which you would 0:09:03.120 --> 0:09:08.120 have rebelled. But there's some odd ones, not that it's 0:09:08.440 --> 0:09:12.360 really three people are remember, but Michael's top of the 0:09:12.400 --> 0:09:13.160 tree is doing well. 0:09:13.240 --> 0:09:15.600 He's Michael. He's good. 0:09:15.679 --> 0:09:17.480 So what are your thoughts on Michael? Then? 0:09:18.080 --> 0:09:20.760 I think it's a good bloke. I think he's intelligence. 0:09:20.800 --> 0:09:23.320 I think he's he looks after Anna, which is the 0:09:23.320 --> 0:09:26.400 most important thing. And he has a common influence on 0:09:26.640 --> 0:09:29.880 which is Anna, which is hard to do. There's some 0:09:30.000 --> 0:09:31.679 previous boyfriend. 0:09:32.520 --> 0:09:37.840 It was just explosions so it did no name. So 0:09:37.880 --> 0:09:41.000 he's quite charming in that way. 0:09:41.920 --> 0:09:44.360 He's quite charming in that way. So I think it's good. 0:09:44.679 --> 0:09:45.720 I think I think it's great. 0:09:45.920 --> 0:09:47.880 I like him, Yeah, I like him. 0:09:47.920 --> 0:09:51.600 It's so true, Like I feel like when you're around 0:09:51.679 --> 0:09:55.439 different personalities, like you can really clash before someone can 0:09:55.520 --> 0:09:57.840 really have a positive impact on you. And I think 0:09:58.080 --> 0:10:00.079 that was one of the reasons where I really it 0:10:00.240 --> 0:10:02.640 was like Michael is like it for me, Like he 0:10:02.800 --> 0:10:05.680 is amazing because even with like little things that I 0:10:05.720 --> 0:10:09.160 would normally be like a bit like agitated or aggy about, 0:10:09.440 --> 0:10:11.800 Michael just has such a soothing influence on me. And 0:10:11.840 --> 0:10:13.560 I think that's one of the reasons why I do 0:10:13.960 --> 0:10:14.719 love him so much. 0:10:14.720 --> 0:10:16.000 I think that's something that you need to look for 0:10:16.000 --> 0:10:18.320 in a partner as well, someone that like finds, like 0:10:18.520 --> 0:10:21.400 understands your quirks and instead of antagonizing it and making 0:10:21.400 --> 0:10:23.679 it worse. And like I like to say to Jen, 0:10:23.960 --> 0:10:25.880 when you're in a spiral, because you and me both 0:10:25.920 --> 0:10:30.360 spiral very very bad, not to like add to the 0:10:30.400 --> 0:10:32.360 spiral and make it go quicker, to rip you out 0:10:32.360 --> 0:10:34.000 and be like you've been in a fuckhead, like come 0:10:34.040 --> 0:10:34.800 back to reality. 0:10:35.000 --> 0:10:38.359 Yeah, yeah, let's put two feet on the ground and let's. 0:10:38.120 --> 0:10:40.240 Just get grounded and understand what's going on. 0:10:40.520 --> 0:10:41.079 Absolutely. 0:10:41.160 --> 0:10:43.320 Look, I've got to admit, if I'm ever blessed enough 0:10:43.360 --> 0:10:45.360 to have a daughter, I think one of the hardest 0:10:45.360 --> 0:10:48.320 things would be them dating. I reckon watching them go 0:10:48.440 --> 0:10:51.920 out and you know, your precious little girl going out 0:10:52.000 --> 0:10:54.040 and into the big bad world and dating. It would 0:10:54.080 --> 0:10:57.640 be really confronting and hard. So bit of respect for that. 0:10:57.760 --> 0:10:59.560 I'm watching that smack on your face, But that's because 0:10:59.559 --> 0:11:02.000 you know what you all like. That's that's a that's 0:11:02.040 --> 0:11:04.760 a bit of guilt factor. It's called right. 0:11:05.480 --> 0:11:12.960 I was literally about to say, mate, I am I've 0:11:13.040 --> 0:11:13.760 said that a lot. 0:11:13.920 --> 0:11:15.120 Yeah, is that a thing? Dad? 0:11:15.600 --> 0:11:18.640 Well, I don't know. I think. 0:11:20.000 --> 0:11:22.880 Quick to answer your question, I think with that and 0:11:23.040 --> 0:11:26.679 she's very strong and yeah, I was actually more worried 0:11:26.840 --> 0:11:28.880 about Chris when he was going I was not the 0:11:28.960 --> 0:11:31.120 decent side of the board going to the club and scene. 0:11:31.360 --> 0:11:34.520 Yeah, I was moorried about him than because I was. 0:11:34.840 --> 0:11:36.760 I think my mom. Yeah, my mum was the exact 0:11:36.760 --> 0:11:39.080 same like with me and my sister. She knew that, 0:11:39.120 --> 0:11:42.679 like they're strong, independent women and that I sort of 0:11:42.720 --> 0:11:44.720 have a mouth me and I have said this before. 0:11:44.800 --> 0:11:47.000 Chris and myself, I think have a lot of common 0:11:47.040 --> 0:11:49.679 in that sort of way. I don't want to call 0:11:49.760 --> 0:11:52.760 Chris out or anything, but have taken a while to mature. Yeah, 0:11:52.920 --> 0:11:55.880 and that like we've learned the hard way and through 0:11:55.960 --> 0:11:56.800 life lessons and that. 0:11:56.920 --> 0:11:57.679 Yeah, yeah, I think. 0:11:58.320 --> 0:11:59.960 Yeah, My mum was the same. She was worried about 0:12:00.120 --> 0:12:01.600 me going out more than my sister. 0:12:02.240 --> 0:12:05.160 Which is so interesting. Hey, like you that you worry 0:12:05.200 --> 0:12:06.160 more about like a son. 0:12:06.200 --> 0:12:08.480 But I guess if like you have a daughter who 0:12:08.600 --> 0:12:13.439 is a strong woman, exactly right. 0:12:13.520 --> 0:12:16.680 But then, like you know, other people weren't brought up 0:12:16.720 --> 0:12:18.000 the same way as us, So that's what you're going 0:12:18.040 --> 0:12:20.319 to be more worried about, you know, which brings me 0:12:20.360 --> 0:12:22.200 to my next point. You've done a very good job 0:12:22.200 --> 0:12:26.480 at raising Anna. I mean I did say that a 0:12:26.559 --> 0:12:30.840 stubbornness is annoying, but we worked through it. We come 0:12:30.920 --> 0:12:31.600 out the other end. 0:12:31.720 --> 0:12:33.960 Don't make out like we work through it. From my sub. 0:12:37.200 --> 0:12:38.920 We've come out the other end quite well. 0:12:39.840 --> 0:12:41.920 You know how you asked my dad a question before 0:12:42.040 --> 0:12:44.760 about like guys that I've dated that are bad. I 0:12:44.840 --> 0:12:48.000 actually just thought of his story and it actually makes 0:12:48.080 --> 0:12:50.360 me laugh so much. It's actually probably one of my 0:12:50.480 --> 0:12:54.280 funniest stories of you. And it was when my dad 0:12:54.840 --> 0:12:57.680 picked me up from the airport and I was seeing 0:12:57.720 --> 0:12:59.640 a guy at the time, and I was like, hey, 0:12:59.679 --> 0:13:01.760 can we pick him up on the way because me 0:13:01.760 --> 0:13:03.679 and him are going to go out after my Dad's 0:13:03.720 --> 0:13:05.400 like okay, like if I have to. 0:13:06.360 --> 0:13:08.080 He was out. 0:13:08.120 --> 0:13:09.920 He had been at the races all day, so he 0:13:10.040 --> 0:13:11.200 was like a little bit drunk. 0:13:11.320 --> 0:13:14.280 A little bit drunk every day every day the race. 0:13:15.280 --> 0:13:17.080 And so we picked him up in the car and 0:13:17.080 --> 0:13:19.840 then I'm going to throw it to you because do 0:13:19.880 --> 0:13:22.199 you remember what he said when he got in the car. 0:13:23.640 --> 0:13:26.520 This is the guy that we'd actually just previously in 0:13:26.800 --> 0:13:29.640 the UK And we got the train from Glasgow to 0:13:29.679 --> 0:13:33.400 Liverpool and you spoke to him all the way for 0:13:33.520 --> 0:13:35.839 like three hours. You know, I'm thinking this guy must 0:13:35.880 --> 0:13:37.680 be interesting if you speak to someone for three hours, 0:13:38.120 --> 0:13:43.319 like talking talking the phone anyway, use a long story sideways. 0:13:43.400 --> 0:13:46.679 What happens is says he wants to pick this guy up. 0:13:47.280 --> 0:13:48.719 He gets in the car, he's in the back of 0:13:48.760 --> 0:13:50.439 the car. He did a few jakes, and I thought, well, 0:13:50.480 --> 0:13:52.000 we'll allow for that. 0:13:52.080 --> 0:13:52.960 The races. 0:13:53.400 --> 0:13:56.000 Yeah, but this guy was like, your daughter is the 0:13:56.040 --> 0:14:00.280 most beautiful girl. The wells she did, she can do this, 0:14:00.400 --> 0:14:04.480 she could do everything. She's fantastic. You're so lucky that 0:14:04.480 --> 0:14:06.360 that you brought this beautiful. 0:14:05.920 --> 0:14:08.840 Girl as the world just going on and it was 0:14:08.880 --> 0:14:10.360 just too much. And in the end, I just said, 0:14:10.559 --> 0:14:11.280 you're full of ship. 0:14:11.880 --> 0:14:15.520 And I've never said that to anyone, never mind Anna's boyfriends. 0:14:15.520 --> 0:14:18.640 But he was really bad and it was it was painful. 0:14:19.080 --> 0:14:20.800 So what happened after this thing? 0:14:21.000 --> 0:14:25.680 It was dead silence, laughed and then someone got a 0:14:25.720 --> 0:14:27.720 nervous laugh to take the heat out. 0:14:27.640 --> 0:14:34.920 To Can you imagine your parents saying to someone you're seeing, 0:14:35.280 --> 0:14:36.200 you're full of ship? 0:14:36.360 --> 0:14:39.160 I was like, Dad, you're a subtle as a brick. 0:14:39.400 --> 0:14:40.640 Well, I've never ever said that. 0:14:41.160 --> 0:14:44.560 You haven't actually said that to anyone, and I kind 0:14:44.560 --> 0:14:47.040 of understand where you were coming from, kind of. I 0:14:47.120 --> 0:14:48.600 still think maybe it could have been a bit more 0:14:48.640 --> 0:14:51.160 subtle about there you're full of ship comments. 0:14:52.560 --> 0:14:57.360 I remember when you first met over zoom Josh on 0:14:57.440 --> 0:15:00.840 my violence. Didn't you do that? I think to him, done, Yeah, 0:15:01.320 --> 0:15:04.320 I remember that was quite Have you been intimidating then 0:15:04.360 --> 0:15:06.840 to Anna's partners when she's brought him home, because that's 0:15:06.880 --> 0:15:09.160 too intimidating counters. 0:15:09.200 --> 0:15:12.040 So maybe, yeah, maybe I'm just trying to weed them out, 0:15:12.600 --> 0:15:13.720 but obviously not Diflent. 0:15:15.760 --> 0:15:17.240 We needn't weed out the ones. 0:15:17.480 --> 0:15:21.760 He's had a good job of yourself, all right, So 0:15:21.800 --> 0:15:23.720 then if that didn't work to win you over, what 0:15:23.760 --> 0:15:26.480 would win you over? And found the one? But yes, 0:15:26.800 --> 0:15:28.760 what would be some tips of people that are listening 0:15:28.760 --> 0:15:32.320 and they want to win their partners father over, just. 0:15:32.320 --> 0:15:35.880 Be natural, bringing lots of gifts, not the wine known 0:15:35.960 --> 0:15:37.720 again good wine of. 0:15:37.680 --> 0:15:39.840 Course, top shelf. 0:15:41.200 --> 0:15:43.880 I think for me it's the fact if you forget 0:15:43.920 --> 0:15:48.160 everything else Michaels, let yourself full of job and personality. 0:15:48.520 --> 0:15:59.760 I have to agree with that you It gives me 0:15:59.760 --> 0:15:59.960 a lot. 0:16:00.360 --> 0:16:01.760 Yeah, excives me. 0:16:01.960 --> 0:16:04.320 But I think it's the most importantly the fact that 0:16:04.480 --> 0:16:08.000 the way maker looks after Anna and calms it down 0:16:08.040 --> 0:16:09.440 and keeps a ground. 0:16:09.840 --> 0:16:12.080 The main point is just be good to the daughter 0:16:12.160 --> 0:16:13.240 or the partner and then you. 0:16:14.840 --> 0:16:17.360 Yeah you think, I think, yeah, that should be part 0:16:17.400 --> 0:16:19.400 of the deal anyway, if you're not, if it's false, 0:16:19.440 --> 0:16:20.880 it's what I reckon. 0:16:20.920 --> 0:16:22.800 Like you said, a father knows best, so they know 0:16:22.960 --> 0:16:24.800 if their daughter or son is not happy in a 0:16:24.800 --> 0:16:26.720 relationship like they can see through you. 0:16:26.680 --> 0:16:27.880 Can see it a mile away. 0:16:27.920 --> 0:16:30.600 Like even with friends, Like you see your friends and 0:16:30.600 --> 0:16:33.320 they're in toxic relationships and they're like, oh yeah, yeah, 0:16:33.320 --> 0:16:34.000 I really love them. 0:16:34.000 --> 0:16:35.600 I love them, but like you. 0:16:35.560 --> 0:16:38.080 Know, ninety percent of the time they're like crying and 0:16:38.120 --> 0:16:41.160 having a meltdown in a terrible mood. Like it's not 0:16:41.280 --> 0:16:44.520 hard to see someone who is in a bad relationship, 0:16:44.560 --> 0:16:46.960 and it's not hard to see when someone's not making 0:16:47.000 --> 0:16:47.600 someone happy. 0:16:47.640 --> 0:16:49.360 You've got to look into their eyes. They could be smart, 0:16:49.400 --> 0:16:53.520 but their eyes they help me. Please. 0:16:54.080 --> 0:16:55.320 That's it, all right. 0:16:55.360 --> 0:16:57.560 So we've spoken a lot about Anna's dating history, so 0:16:57.600 --> 0:17:02.479 after this, let's speak about yours. 0:17:03.320 --> 0:17:04.880 Okay, my dad is in the studio. 0:17:05.080 --> 0:17:08.720 He's just talked about how it has been for him 0:17:09.160 --> 0:17:11.440 dealing with having a daughter dating. 0:17:12.000 --> 0:17:14.000 But what was your dating life like? 0:17:14.840 --> 0:17:18.960 It was probably a bit like yours. Everyone else's boy 0:17:19.000 --> 0:17:19.760 beats girl. 0:17:19.800 --> 0:17:21.800 Or yeah was it wild? 0:17:21.920 --> 0:17:27.320 Was there toxic relationships before you met mum? 0:17:27.359 --> 0:17:27.960 Not really? 0:17:28.520 --> 0:17:30.320 A few relationships but nothing. 0:17:30.840 --> 0:17:32.800 So you grew up where'd you grow up? 0:17:32.800 --> 0:17:33.080 Again? 0:17:33.119 --> 0:17:36.000 In Liverpool and England you might hear from the accent. 0:17:36.840 --> 0:17:38.760 So what was it like over the dating road? 0:17:39.080 --> 0:17:41.320 Yeah, No, it was just like anywhere else. There's no 0:17:41.400 --> 0:17:44.600 difference in dating. You went to the pouview and the 0:17:44.680 --> 0:17:47.040 night club. Actually usually where you met someone. There was 0:17:47.080 --> 0:17:52.399 no apps, there was no phones. When I first met 0:17:52.800 --> 0:17:58.200 your lovely mother over in a southern part of Spain, Yeah, 0:17:58.280 --> 0:17:59.359 beautiful little village. 0:17:59.440 --> 0:18:02.480 Were out the other day about meeting people on vacation. 0:18:02.720 --> 0:18:03.439 So you go. 0:18:05.200 --> 0:18:09.000 And the points get that was when we first started dating. 0:18:09.320 --> 0:18:11.080 I had to go to a phone box and call 0:18:11.160 --> 0:18:14.840 at a certain time with loads of coins. And sometimes 0:18:14.840 --> 0:18:19.720 when your granddad or your papa John a dancer, sometimes 0:18:19.800 --> 0:18:21.879 you'd see she wasn't in, but she was in, and 0:18:23.480 --> 0:18:25.840