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Speaker 1: the fucking hospital. Hi, guys, welcome back to hear me Ow.

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Speaker 1: I'm your host, Eazy Armitage. We also have Blaky here.

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Speaker 2: Hi, honey, But this is a.

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Speaker 1: Solo app kind of I have, like because it's like

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Speaker 2: To a wall. This is a lot going up in that.

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Speaker 1: There's a lot and I need someone to be like,

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Speaker 1: welcome back. Our episode with Logan went live last week.

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Speaker 1: That was so much fun. Logan and I will be

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Speaker 1: lapping it up in Bali by the time you guys

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Speaker 1: lot to say when we get back. I actually am

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Speaker 1: thinking of getting leg. You guys, I think know about Allego.

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Speaker 1: coming to Bali with me. It's my twenty fifth birthday

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Speaker 1: any other updates. I got my nose. They injected steroids

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Speaker 2: And I don't need to see your reshare get continuously

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Speaker 2: So what's the cap. Let's actually make a cab five

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Speaker 2: But when people start the story thread that's their birthday,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but not like morning guys, I'm twenty.

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Speaker 1: No, but in saying that whatever makes you happy on

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Speaker 1: Absolutely, everyone's allowing entitled to their own opinion, and that

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Speaker 2: It's just our opinion. You do what you want.

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Speaker 1: you guys listen to me talk every day. I think

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it would take out.

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Speaker 2: I find you very like joyous and freeing. Is that?

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Speaker 1: But I think the one thing that I hope enters

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Speaker 3: So but you know, we'll see put it out that.

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Speaker 3: I feel good about it. This is the year.

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Speaker 1: This is my year, guys, twenty five was am Didges year.

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Speaker 3: Always a sock and ugbirt combo in my house.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Like, if I'm walking to the pool like.

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Speaker 2: I'm really bad with fee like I've just always had.

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Speaker 1: to go to a water park. No, I'd rather life

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Speaker 2: I'd rather eat that.

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Speaker 3: I literally would rather shit in my hands and clap.

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Speaker 3: That's my favorite thing.

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Speaker 2: My mom uses that all the time.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, I just my brother, for example, was just

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Speaker 2: Guys are good at wearing slides. Why can't we just

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I just it's like the only time I'm barefoot

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Speaker 3: Or if I'm in bed.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like desperate, yes, beyond that, I will have socks

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Speaker 3: Do feet need to breathe? I need to know that

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Speaker 2: Hopefully not you'd probably get some serious don't extend my fear.

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Speaker 3: Just make sure you're feet to drive before you.

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Speaker 3: All right, guys, so on TikTok.

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Speaker 1: Recently, I have been blessed enough to have my algorithm

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Speaker 1: And I actually have been quite lucky that I don't

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Speaker 1: think I have anything notable, Like, there's nothing I could

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Speaker 3: I'm like, that was a really really shitty day somebody.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like some of them the chemistry isn't there, but

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Speaker 1: nothing I'm like, holy.

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Speaker 2: Fuck, Yeah, mine's moll down that root. Yeah, I'll quickly

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Speaker 2: say fine because it's not that bad. I vet all

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Speaker 2: of these responses and go through them. I feel embarrassed

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Speaker 2: saying this one because it's nowhere near as good as half.

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Speaker 3: Well that's how you got a start.

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Speaker 2: But I went on a date with the guy, and

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Speaker 2: I didn't do enough research forehands in like asking his situation,

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Speaker 3: Does that mean he's a backpacker?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think so, or he's traveling. We didn't get

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Speaker 2: that far in a combo. Really, Yeah, it was just

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Speaker 3: You're just here for a bit of fun.

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Speaker 1: There is totally that disconnected with some people on what

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Speaker 3: Like I went on a date with.

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Speaker 2: Like, yeah, and you don't want that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, once again, such a great guy.

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Speaker 1: But bottom line is now I guess that maybe I

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Speaker 1: maybe even ever more picky, just trying to figure out

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Speaker 2: And I wasn't upset that we were maybe after different things,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And it just felt like I was on a

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Speaker 3: How long did the date go for?

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Speaker 2: So I ordered my strawberry milkshake.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, you're so cute.

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Speaker 2: It's my favorite.

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Speaker 1: But can I tell you if I went on a

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Speaker 1: I don't know if I would get the ecor like

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Speaker 1: you do it everyone.

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Speaker 2: Well if he got the ick good, Like, yeah, it.

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Speaker 1: Was a terrific It's like what we were saying. I

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Speaker 2: So already I reckon. Within five minutes, I've ordered that milkshake.

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Speaker 2: I walked past the barista and I was like, hey,

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Speaker 2: can you please put that in a takeaway car? And

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Speaker 3: Oh, she's brought it to him.

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Speaker 2: In a not takeaway car, so he's he's drinking then,

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Speaker 2: I'm so sorry. I've got exams coming up, so I'm

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Speaker 1: See I have a thing where it's like, oh, I

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Speaker 1: time again. Second dates are fucking harder than first dates

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Speaker 1: and then the second day it's like, I don't actually

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Speaker 1: That never happened. I should have never done this with

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Speaker 1: me with what like questions?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I should.

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Speaker 1: I don't know why I didn't, like, you're so good

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Speaker 2: If I was so young and anxious that it wasn't

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Speaker 2: and he's like, what happens? Was it something about me? Oh?

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Speaker 3: That's sad. See, that's quite sad.

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Speaker 2: Like I'm remembering as I speak this out loud, and

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Speaker 2: I feel, really do you never.

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Speaker 1: Want someone to feel really badly about themselves if they

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Speaker 3: Weren't doing anything wrong. They're just not your person.

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Speaker 1: But you also are well within your right to leave

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00:18:25,800 --> 00:18:27,439
Speaker 1: if you're not comfortable, and I wish I had more

442
00:18:27,480 --> 00:18:29,040
Speaker 1: of the balls to do that. I just think I

443
00:18:29,080 --> 00:18:30,040
Speaker 1: haven't been on about enough.

444
00:18:30,080 --> 00:18:30,240
Speaker 3: Well.

445
00:18:30,280 --> 00:18:32,040
Speaker 2: It's just like he rolled out at the hostel. It's

446
00:18:32,040 --> 00:18:35,600
Speaker 2: talking about how he was going to a farm soon

447
00:18:35,720 --> 00:18:38,600
Speaker 2: to work. I'm just like, a, You're not the guy

448
00:18:38,640 --> 00:18:40,680
Speaker 2: I see myself being, And it was just a grouchiness.

449
00:18:40,680 --> 00:18:42,480
Speaker 2: I was like, I need to get out. Yeah, I

450
00:18:42,480 --> 00:18:44,880
Speaker 2: didn't really want to go beforehand. I think I think

451
00:18:44,880 --> 00:18:45,560
Speaker 2: that was another thing.

452
00:18:45,600 --> 00:18:47,880
Speaker 3: And then just skip away with the strawberry milkshaken off.

453
00:18:47,760 --> 00:18:49,239
Speaker 2: You again, yeah, And then he was like yelling at

454
00:18:49,280 --> 00:18:51,720
Speaker 2: me over message. I was just like ah and blocked him.

455
00:18:51,840 --> 00:18:55,720
Speaker 2: I never I don't advise I've never done it before,

456
00:18:55,800 --> 00:18:56,840
Speaker 2: I haven't done it after.

457
00:18:57,640 --> 00:18:58,880
Speaker 3: Sometimes it has to be done.

458
00:18:58,960 --> 00:18:59,679
Speaker 2: I'm the asshole.

459
00:19:00,200 --> 00:19:02,760
Speaker 3: Judgment from you. I love am I the assholes.

460
00:19:02,760 --> 00:19:06,040
Speaker 1: We must do that sometime soon, guys, am I the

461
00:19:06,040 --> 00:19:07,640
Speaker 1: assholes are my favorite things to read.

462
00:19:08,680 --> 00:19:10,680
Speaker 3: Okay. Number one.

463
00:19:11,160 --> 00:19:13,240
Speaker 1: It was the night before my nineteenth birthday and a

464
00:19:13,280 --> 00:19:15,040
Speaker 1: guy I'd been talking to you for a few weeks

465
00:19:15,040 --> 00:19:16,880
Speaker 1: asked me on a sunrise date by the water.

466
00:19:17,640 --> 00:19:18,560
Speaker 3: Sounds really cute.

467
00:19:18,800 --> 00:19:21,400
Speaker 1: He worked on a boat, so it seemed perfect. At

468
00:19:21,400 --> 00:19:25,840
Speaker 1: four am, I was just really confused. But sunrise, Actually,

469
00:19:25,840 --> 00:19:28,760
Speaker 1: I just said that sounds really perfect. I'd rather fucking no,

470
00:19:28,880 --> 00:19:31,480
Speaker 1: I'm not getting umper that time, but it is sweet

471
00:19:31,520 --> 00:19:32,000
Speaker 1: if you like that.

472
00:19:33,040 --> 00:19:35,240
Speaker 3: At four I am on the road halfway there and

473
00:19:35,280 --> 00:19:35,840
Speaker 3: I call him.

474
00:19:35,840 --> 00:19:38,880
Speaker 1: He picks up, sounding weird, and I'm like, hey, I'm

475
00:19:38,880 --> 00:19:41,800
Speaker 1: almost there, and he goes where and then he says,

476
00:19:41,960 --> 00:19:46,679
Speaker 1: I'm in a hospital bed fuck. Apparently he crashed his

477
00:19:46,720 --> 00:19:50,040
Speaker 1: car after a party but remembers nothing. Then he says,

478
00:19:50,080 --> 00:19:52,800
Speaker 1: I've unplugged myself and I'm running out of the hospital.

479
00:19:53,400 --> 00:19:54,040
Speaker 3: Oh my god.

480
00:19:54,400 --> 00:19:56,440
Speaker 1: Instead of turning around like a normal person, I offered

481
00:19:56,440 --> 00:19:59,440
Speaker 1: to pick him up, breaking him out of the fucking hospital.

482
00:20:00,640 --> 00:20:02,200
Speaker 1: An hour and a half later, I pull into a

483
00:20:02,280 --> 00:20:05,399
Speaker 1: KFC car park and there he is passed out in

484
00:20:05,440 --> 00:20:07,119
Speaker 1: the back of a police patty wagon.

485
00:20:07,200 --> 00:20:08,880
Speaker 3: What's Fuck's a paddy wagon.

486
00:20:08,800 --> 00:20:10,040
Speaker 2: Like police car?

487
00:20:10,640 --> 00:20:11,600
Speaker 3: Such a cute lit man.

488
00:20:12,480 --> 00:20:15,359
Speaker 1: The cops literally hand him over to me with his phone,

489
00:20:15,480 --> 00:20:18,280
Speaker 1: I melted chocolate bar, a pack of Citas and send.

490
00:20:18,080 --> 00:20:20,760
Speaker 3: Us on that way. He's unconscious in my.

491
00:20:20,760 --> 00:20:23,720
Speaker 1: Passenger to say, oh my God, and I'm sobbing on

492
00:20:23,760 --> 00:20:25,560
Speaker 1: the side of the road. I use his face lady

493
00:20:25,640 --> 00:20:28,439
Speaker 1: to call his friend, slap him awake, drive him to

494
00:20:28,480 --> 00:20:31,240
Speaker 1: his mate's place, which is basically a hot box bedroom

495
00:20:31,280 --> 00:20:35,879
Speaker 1: with eight dudes inside. My date just joins them without

496
00:20:35,920 --> 00:20:38,480
Speaker 1: saying thank you. When I drive home in silence. A

497
00:20:38,520 --> 00:20:40,600
Speaker 1: few weeks later, he has the audacity to invite me

498
00:20:40,640 --> 00:20:45,359
Speaker 1: to his birthday party. I did politely declined, Bro, that

499
00:20:45,520 --> 00:20:46,960
Speaker 1: just got worse and worse and worse.

500
00:20:47,000 --> 00:20:48,520
Speaker 2: So many things went wrong in that.

501
00:20:48,680 --> 00:20:51,800
Speaker 1: Firstly, don't pick up a random man from the hospital.

502
00:20:51,840 --> 00:20:54,600
Speaker 1: But I understand that sometimes you're like, I'm already fucking here,

503
00:20:55,200 --> 00:20:58,199
Speaker 1: I need to see this through. But to them, like

504
00:20:58,480 --> 00:21:00,360
Speaker 1: you don't even get to continue the date because he's

505
00:21:00,480 --> 00:21:01,080
Speaker 1: passed out.

506
00:21:01,200 --> 00:21:02,040
Speaker 3: He's disgusting.

507
00:21:02,160 --> 00:21:03,960
Speaker 1: He's with the cops, and then you drop him over

508
00:21:04,000 --> 00:21:05,879
Speaker 1: to his room where all of his friends are on drugs.

509
00:21:05,880 --> 00:21:06,359
Speaker 2: Like yuck.

510
00:21:07,640 --> 00:21:08,880
Speaker 3: I would have blocked the man.

511
00:21:09,600 --> 00:21:11,360
Speaker 2: And I just want to know, like how we ended

512
00:21:11,440 --> 00:21:15,159
Speaker 2: up a chofc Did you see a commotion or something

513
00:21:15,160 --> 00:21:17,760
Speaker 2: where he was getting arrested stuck with the police. I

514
00:21:17,800 --> 00:21:20,080
Speaker 2: don't know. It must have been near the hospital, I reckon, yeah,

515
00:21:20,200 --> 00:21:23,960
Speaker 2: but I sense like she's on her way to a

516
00:21:24,040 --> 00:21:26,320
Speaker 2: date at four am, and he says, I'm in hospital,

517
00:21:26,359 --> 00:21:28,320
Speaker 2: Like you almost do want to be the good He'd.

518
00:21:28,200 --> 00:21:31,320
Speaker 1: Be worried first that you wouldn't think he's like fuck

519
00:21:31,400 --> 00:21:34,120
Speaker 1: eyed and going to be passing out on you. You'd think

520
00:21:34,160 --> 00:21:36,400
Speaker 1: maybe he's like, oh, I'm okay, like got to an accident,

521
00:21:36,440 --> 00:21:38,800
Speaker 1: but just a little bit knocked up. Let's go in

522
00:21:38,880 --> 00:21:42,960
Speaker 1: our sunrise date. The man also like, who goes, yeah,

523
00:21:43,000 --> 00:21:44,560
Speaker 1: come pick me up and drop me to my mate's

524
00:21:45,520 --> 00:21:49,440
Speaker 1: ick poor thing. I'm glad you declined his birthday, girl

525
00:21:49,920 --> 00:21:50,239
Speaker 1: all right?

526
00:21:50,400 --> 00:21:51,680
Speaker 3: Number two? Oh my god?

527
00:21:51,720 --> 00:21:51,840
Speaker 2: Hi?

528
00:21:52,000 --> 00:21:52,760
Speaker 3: Is he love you? Queen?

529
00:21:52,920 --> 00:21:55,800
Speaker 1: Thanks honey, love you too. So when I was nineteen,

530
00:21:55,840 --> 00:21:57,639
Speaker 1: I met with this guy on Tinder. He asked me

531
00:21:57,680 --> 00:22:02,480
Speaker 1: to lunch, he says, Grilled at Knox City. Okay, firstly,

532
00:22:03,200 --> 00:22:05,480
Speaker 1: I'm not going to grilled on a day. You're taking

533
00:22:05,480 --> 00:22:08,000
Speaker 1: me somewhere with actual cutlery, or we're not going on

534
00:22:08,119 --> 00:22:11,160
Speaker 1: to lunch, do you know what I mean? And it's

535
00:22:11,240 --> 00:22:13,679
Speaker 1: like it has black plastic cutlory. You can go on

536
00:22:13,720 --> 00:22:14,040
Speaker 1: your own.

537
00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:17,240
Speaker 2: I like a casual day, like remember we went strike bowling.

538
00:22:17,280 --> 00:22:18,840
Speaker 2: I thought that was really fun, not that that was

539
00:22:18,880 --> 00:22:19,399
Speaker 2: a day.

540
00:22:22,119 --> 00:22:24,760
Speaker 1: No, if it's totally different, if it's like someone that

541
00:22:24,800 --> 00:22:27,200
Speaker 1: you've been seeing a little while and you're just going

542
00:22:27,240 --> 00:22:29,720
Speaker 1: to get lunch, but like this is a first date.

543
00:22:30,400 --> 00:22:34,280
Speaker 2: Like who collects the order when the buzzer goes off?

544
00:22:34,359 --> 00:22:35,880
Speaker 2: Like this is just a no.

545
00:22:37,119 --> 00:22:39,480
Speaker 1: Don't go to Grilled or Nando's or anything on a

546
00:22:39,480 --> 00:22:42,119
Speaker 1: first date. Go to a pub for all like it

547
00:22:42,240 --> 00:22:44,879
Speaker 1: Like that to me is better if you need to

548
00:22:44,920 --> 00:22:48,160
Speaker 1: go somewhere that's like not that booge, go to a putub.

549
00:22:48,440 --> 00:22:49,840
Speaker 2: We love a pub, Love a pub.

550
00:22:49,960 --> 00:22:52,320
Speaker 1: I love a pub day because it's so much atmosphere

551
00:22:52,400 --> 00:22:54,639
Speaker 1: going on, you know, and sometimes in the footies on.

552
00:22:54,680 --> 00:22:56,679
Speaker 1: Then you don't have to like there's things going on

553
00:22:56,720 --> 00:22:58,280
Speaker 1: around you see the convos not so like.

554
00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:00,720
Speaker 2: And I don't know if you relate to this, but

555
00:23:00,720 --> 00:23:02,520
Speaker 2: I feel really sporty being in a pub and the

556
00:23:02,520 --> 00:23:06,199
Speaker 2: foot is playing. I'm like, yeah, I feel you. I

557
00:23:06,240 --> 00:23:06,800
Speaker 2: actually do.

558
00:23:08,920 --> 00:23:11,080
Speaker 1: He says, Grilled at No City and then he'll meet

559
00:23:11,119 --> 00:23:13,800
Speaker 1: me there because he's catching the bus. Oh my god,

560
00:23:13,840 --> 00:23:17,080
Speaker 1: it keeps getting worse. I get there and he's wearing

561
00:23:17,119 --> 00:23:21,040
Speaker 1: an Everlast tracksuit with sketches. Not quite the vibe from

562
00:23:21,080 --> 00:23:22,440
Speaker 1: what's an Everlast track suit?

563
00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:25,919
Speaker 2: Oh, it's just like, I think that's not a big

564
00:23:26,080 --> 00:23:28,840
Speaker 2: w or target. It's like an athletic.

565
00:23:28,720 --> 00:23:33,840
Speaker 1: Right, Okay, it's giving like boxing coach from a movie,

566
00:23:35,520 --> 00:23:38,639
Speaker 1: not a real one. Not write the vibe from his picks.

567
00:23:38,680 --> 00:23:42,200
Speaker 1: He tells me order whatever you want, wow, bowler. So

568
00:23:42,320 --> 00:23:46,960
Speaker 1: I do, and he goes, no, you pay. Oh I

569
00:23:47,000 --> 00:23:48,760
Speaker 1: think at that point, if I'm at Grilled, I'd just

570
00:23:48,760 --> 00:23:50,159
Speaker 1: be like, I'm taking his burger to go and I'm

571
00:23:50,160 --> 00:23:50,720
Speaker 1: gonna eat.

572
00:23:50,600 --> 00:23:53,560
Speaker 2: In my car. Yeah, you take the QR like.

573
00:23:53,560 --> 00:23:56,320
Speaker 1: Your company is not what I need right now. Then

574
00:23:56,359 --> 00:24:00,479
Speaker 1: he orders eight beers for himself next to them five minutes,

575
00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:04,320
Speaker 1: let's out the biggest ber smashes two burgers with chips

576
00:24:04,359 --> 00:24:06,760
Speaker 1: and says it nice to meet you and heads back

577
00:24:06,800 --> 00:24:09,760
Speaker 1: to the bus stop safe to say I was catfish

578
00:24:09,800 --> 00:24:12,760
Speaker 1: and block him immediately. I'm not gonna lie to you, honey,

579
00:24:13,040 --> 00:24:15,760
Speaker 1: he was looking for a meal. That man was looking

580
00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:17,520
Speaker 1: for a beer and a meal, and.

581
00:24:17,560 --> 00:24:20,240
Speaker 2: She thinks came out with those eight beers.

582
00:24:20,359 --> 00:24:21,360
Speaker 3: You would just never know.

583
00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:24,119
Speaker 1: But then it's also like I'm telling you in future,

584
00:24:24,160 --> 00:24:25,280
Speaker 1: don't go on grill dates.

585
00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:28,000
Speaker 2: But also with the eight beers, I think he wanted

586
00:24:28,040 --> 00:24:29,879
Speaker 2: a meal, but like, surely eight beers.

587
00:24:30,000 --> 00:24:33,840
Speaker 1: It's like some people just have no fucking thought, like they.

588
00:24:34,040 --> 00:24:37,720
Speaker 2: Just are you just like, let's just change the shots,

589
00:24:38,119 --> 00:24:39,919
Speaker 2: Like do we really need eight beers?

590
00:24:40,160 --> 00:24:42,360
Speaker 3: Do you really need eight beers at a dinner.

591
00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:45,760
Speaker 2: With a moss is grilled the atmos for eight beers?

592
00:24:45,960 --> 00:24:48,960
Speaker 3: Yeah? Fucking I don't like what happens when dead as

593
00:24:50,359 --> 00:24:50,960
Speaker 3: you poor thing?

594
00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:51,800
Speaker 2: All right?

595
00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:52,680
Speaker 3: K three.

596
00:24:52,800 --> 00:24:55,200
Speaker 1: I was house sitting and decided to get first aid

597
00:24:55,200 --> 00:24:57,440
Speaker 1: experience with a hinge guy for a casual wine.

598
00:24:57,720 --> 00:24:59,280
Speaker 3: I love a casual wine, but I feel like I'm

599
00:24:59,280 --> 00:24:59,840
Speaker 3: not gonna like this.

600
00:25:00,520 --> 00:25:03,160
Speaker 1: He was so nervous that he drank himself stupid, talking

601
00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:06,760
Speaker 1: about Shrek and Melbourne suburbs. He kept buying me drinks,

602
00:25:06,760 --> 00:25:08,840
Speaker 1: so when he go to the bathroom, I tip them

603
00:25:08,880 --> 00:25:09,560
Speaker 1: over the fence.

604
00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:13,040
Speaker 2: That's actually quite smart girl.

605
00:25:13,720 --> 00:25:15,520
Speaker 1: We ended up back at my place, but he was

606
00:25:15,520 --> 00:25:17,640
Speaker 1: too drunk to do anything, so I told him to leave.

607
00:25:18,520 --> 00:25:20,600
Speaker 1: The next morning, I wake up to a bunch of

608
00:25:20,680 --> 00:25:23,560
Speaker 1: messages from him. Turns out he left his pants and

609
00:25:23,600 --> 00:25:25,920
Speaker 1: his belt at my house and got into an uber

610
00:25:25,960 --> 00:25:29,199
Speaker 1: with no pants on. He tried to use it in

611
00:25:29,240 --> 00:25:30,919
Speaker 1: his excuse to see me again, but I said I

612
00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:33,399
Speaker 1: wasn't interested, and I ended up donating his pants to

613
00:25:33,520 --> 00:25:35,119
Speaker 1: Selbos and haven't dated since.

614
00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:40,600
Speaker 3: Oh honey, firstly, don't use this experience as all experiences

615
00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:42,120
Speaker 3: go on another day.

616
00:25:42,320 --> 00:25:45,560
Speaker 2: Respectfully, it's not terrible, it's not.

617
00:25:45,480 --> 00:25:48,119
Speaker 1: That bad, but it's like, to be that drunk that

618
00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:50,960
Speaker 1: you get in an uber without pants on is like crazy.

619
00:25:51,080 --> 00:25:52,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, I can't believe he got in.

620
00:25:52,680 --> 00:25:54,840
Speaker 1: But then sometimes I think the nerves of dates can

621
00:25:54,840 --> 00:25:56,600
Speaker 1: make people drink a lot more than they would like to.

622
00:25:56,680 --> 00:25:59,080
Speaker 1: But it's also like he shouldn't continuously keep buying new

623
00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:00,960
Speaker 1: drinks if it's not something you're saying you want.

624
00:26:02,400 --> 00:26:06,040
Speaker 3: But I feel like this isn't that bad.

625
00:26:06,200 --> 00:26:09,840
Speaker 1: It's just he unfortunately got like way too fucking funk.

626
00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:11,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, you were just a witness at that point.

627
00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:12,520
Speaker 3: You were just a witness.

628
00:26:12,760 --> 00:26:13,760
Speaker 2: You've come out of this, you.

629
00:26:13,840 --> 00:26:17,399
Speaker 1: Came out of this unscathed, and carm is loving you

630
00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:20,840
Speaker 1: because of your donation. So happy days onto the next

631
00:26:20,960 --> 00:26:22,640
Speaker 1: Calma will make sure you have a good date next time,

632
00:26:24,160 --> 00:26:24,520
Speaker 1: all right?

633
00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:26,800
Speaker 3: Number four? This happened when I was sixteen.

634
00:26:28,240 --> 00:26:31,359
Speaker 1: I don't think I went on an actual date until

635
00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:36,280
Speaker 1: after till after I like my two boyfriends, like, because

636
00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:38,240
Speaker 1: neither of my boyfriends actually took me on like a

637
00:26:38,359 --> 00:26:39,920
Speaker 1: date when they were getting to know me, do you

638
00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:40,520
Speaker 1: know what I mean?

639
00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:42,600
Speaker 2: I was not datable at success.

640
00:26:43,040 --> 00:26:45,440
Speaker 1: So God is happening the like I think anyone who's

641
00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:47,320
Speaker 1: bold enough to ask someone on a date at sixteen like,

642
00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:50,320
Speaker 1: good on your I was working at Boosts Juice with

643
00:26:50,359 --> 00:26:53,280
Speaker 1: a creepy boss who treated the roster like a dating show.

644
00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:55,560
Speaker 1: That's fucking disgusting because everyone who works at boost is

645
00:26:55,560 --> 00:26:58,480
Speaker 1: like under the age of seventeen. And to Max, who

646
00:26:58,520 --> 00:27:01,080
Speaker 1: was obsessed with me, but I wasn't to him. One

647
00:27:01,160 --> 00:27:02,639
Speaker 1: day he asked me to the footy and for some

648
00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:05,960
Speaker 1: reason I said yes. After the game, while waiting for

649
00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:07,760
Speaker 1: the tram, he randomly went in for a kiss, and

650
00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:10,000
Speaker 1: I dodged so hard I nearly dislocated my neck.

651
00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:13,000
Speaker 3: People the kiss without without.

652
00:27:12,760 --> 00:27:15,280
Speaker 1: Being sure that the other person almost I wants to

653
00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:17,720
Speaker 1: do that, But then you're so young at that point

654
00:27:17,720 --> 00:27:19,320
Speaker 1: that I feel like they're like, this is my first kids.

655
00:27:19,359 --> 00:27:20,480
Speaker 1: I just tend to get it over and done with that.

656
00:27:20,960 --> 00:27:24,520
Speaker 1: Here I had my first kiss down on fucking alleyway,

657
00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:26,280
Speaker 1: and I just got picked up against a wall. And

658
00:27:26,280 --> 00:27:29,560
Speaker 1: I don't like, I did not say I wanted that

659
00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:30,119
Speaker 1: to happen to me.

660
00:27:30,160 --> 00:27:31,440
Speaker 3: But then by the time I was done, I'm like.

661
00:27:31,400 --> 00:27:33,960
Speaker 1: Thank fucking god, I've had my first kiss.

662
00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:36,040
Speaker 3: I was a late bloom or two in that regard.

663
00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:37,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, so I was like the last one. So

664
00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:39,440
Speaker 1: I was like, whoo, it's done.

665
00:27:39,600 --> 00:27:40,879
Speaker 2: Get the away from me.

666
00:27:41,880 --> 00:27:44,879
Speaker 1: We missed the tram, so he ordered an uber with

667
00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:47,400
Speaker 1: both our stops. I fell asleep and woke up outside

668
00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:50,280
Speaker 1: of his house and he goes, oh, you were asleep,

669
00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:55,320
Speaker 1: so I removed your stop. Want to stay over? No, No,

670
00:27:56,320 --> 00:27:58,600
Speaker 1: not even at that. Oh my god, I think that's

671
00:27:58,600 --> 00:28:02,160
Speaker 1: fucking crazy. I was seeing horrified, got out, called another

672
00:28:02,240 --> 00:28:05,280
Speaker 1: uber and left fair Play Girl. Now I'm twenty two

673
00:28:05,320 --> 00:28:07,560
Speaker 1: and see this man has a girlfriend but still brings

674
00:28:07,640 --> 00:28:10,960
Speaker 1: up that game every time I see him in woolies, Like,

675
00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:12,080
Speaker 1: let's not reminisce.

676
00:28:12,240 --> 00:28:13,960
Speaker 3: It's not a fun thing to look back on.

677
00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:16,320
Speaker 2: You were especially not fun for him.

678
00:28:16,760 --> 00:28:19,399
Speaker 1: No, I just removed your stop cul because you were

679
00:28:19,440 --> 00:28:20,720
Speaker 1: ausly don't.

680
00:28:20,440 --> 00:28:23,760
Speaker 2: Do that and you rejected my.

681
00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:26,200
Speaker 3: I rejected your kiss. Why would I want to stay over?

682
00:28:27,240 --> 00:28:27,440
Speaker 2: Ah?

683
00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:28,080
Speaker 3: Boys?

684
00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:32,000
Speaker 1: Number five, I've been chatting to this guy on Instagram

685
00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:34,040
Speaker 1: for a few weeks and decided to grab food and

686
00:28:34,080 --> 00:28:36,359
Speaker 1: hit a lookout. He didn't have a car, so I

687
00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:39,440
Speaker 1: picked him up. We spent four hours talking at it

688
00:28:39,520 --> 00:28:41,800
Speaker 1: sounds like a pretty good day, like you just lung

689
00:28:41,880 --> 00:28:44,240
Speaker 1: really well. Yeah, And at one am my car a

690
00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:46,920
Speaker 1: baut Tree dies. None of my friends answered, so I

691
00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:48,880
Speaker 1: had to call my dad to come jumpst out my

692
00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:50,600
Speaker 1: car while I was with this random guy.

693
00:28:51,320 --> 00:28:52,640
Speaker 2: Fuck, what would you do?

694
00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:58,160
Speaker 1: I My dad would say no, as in if he's sleeping,

695
00:28:58,160 --> 00:28:59,720
Speaker 1: he'd be like no, oh if I was with a

696
00:28:59,800 --> 00:29:01,640
Speaker 1: ramy and he didn't know if I would safe, I

697
00:29:01,640 --> 00:29:03,320
Speaker 1: think he would help, but like he wouldn't be fucking

698
00:29:03,320 --> 00:29:06,480
Speaker 1: happy about it. The jumble leads didn't work, so we

699
00:29:06,560 --> 00:29:08,480
Speaker 1: had to get in my dad's car. He dropped the

700
00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:11,520
Speaker 1: guy home before taking me home. The car ride was

701
00:29:11,600 --> 00:29:14,040
Speaker 1: dead silent, and we never spoken again. I'm assuming you

702
00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:16,680
Speaker 1: mean the boy, not your dad, but I think that

703
00:29:16,680 --> 00:29:18,760
Speaker 1: would be pretty well what happened to me, Like what

704
00:29:18,840 --> 00:29:20,680
Speaker 1: would happen to me? My dad would just like sit

705
00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:22,120
Speaker 1: there silently and they can't went the way home and

706
00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:23,600
Speaker 1: be like what are you doing?

707
00:29:23,760 --> 00:29:25,680
Speaker 2: And he's like tired and grouchy. He wouldn't want to

708
00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:28,080
Speaker 2: entertain it or no, he's like, we'll talk about in

709
00:29:28,080 --> 00:29:28,440
Speaker 2: the morning.

710
00:29:28,520 --> 00:29:29,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'd get one of those.

711
00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:33,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I'm glad you're safe though.

712
00:29:32,880 --> 00:29:34,160
Speaker 3: And go dad for actually coming.

713
00:29:34,760 --> 00:29:37,480
Speaker 1: Number six, a guy from up North WA came down

714
00:29:37,480 --> 00:29:40,160
Speaker 1: to Perth to take me out. That's already a good start,

715
00:29:40,760 --> 00:29:43,160
Speaker 1: he said, he'd surprise me. He picks me up in

716
00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:45,480
Speaker 1: a bucket hat with fishing rods in the back while

717
00:29:45,480 --> 00:29:47,320
Speaker 1: I'm standing there and a cookie dress, heels in a

718
00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:48,960
Speaker 1: blowout with a Chanelle handbag.

719
00:29:49,480 --> 00:29:52,600
Speaker 3: Ah. I hate that.

720
00:29:53,000 --> 00:29:55,680
Speaker 1: I hate when I'm like, yes, I would always rather

721
00:29:55,720 --> 00:29:59,240
Speaker 1: be overdressed than underdressed, but like, dressing for a date

722
00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:02,600
Speaker 1: is actually something I really struggle with. Do I wear heels?

723
00:30:02,640 --> 00:30:04,600
Speaker 1: Do I wear runners? Do I wear sandals? Like that

724
00:30:04,760 --> 00:30:05,600
Speaker 1: is so hard to me?

725
00:30:06,080 --> 00:30:08,320
Speaker 2: And he said it's a surprise, so like, so it's like,

726
00:30:08,560 --> 00:30:10,880
Speaker 2: I'm just gonna dress nice. Yeah, but you can't.

727
00:30:10,880 --> 00:30:14,080
Speaker 1: You can't be like surprise fishing. I'll wear something totally different.

728
00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:15,640
Speaker 2: You need to let me know. Yeah, But when someone

729
00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:18,520
Speaker 2: says it's a surprise, like you can't pick your outfit

730
00:30:18,560 --> 00:30:20,840
Speaker 2: and confidently go this is the one. Yeah, feel like

731
00:30:20,840 --> 00:30:22,120
Speaker 2: what am I going to be doing?

732
00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:24,640
Speaker 1: She goes safe to say I won't lie about liking

733
00:30:24,680 --> 00:30:25,560
Speaker 1: fishing ever again.

734
00:30:25,640 --> 00:30:26,080
Speaker 2: Oh so she.

735
00:30:26,080 --> 00:30:30,760
Speaker 1: Obviously said fishing girl, Like I wouldn't mind going fishing

736
00:30:30,760 --> 00:30:34,280
Speaker 1: on a date. Like I've actually went fishing when I

737
00:30:34,320 --> 00:30:37,560
Speaker 1: was younger, to a salmon farm, which is like with

738
00:30:37,600 --> 00:30:39,680
Speaker 1: my dad and his friend and my siblings, And it's

739
00:30:39,720 --> 00:30:41,480
Speaker 1: like one of those things where you can literally catch the.

740
00:30:41,480 --> 00:30:43,040
Speaker 3: Fish with your hands if you fucking want to.

741
00:30:43,160 --> 00:30:46,840
Speaker 1: They are everywhere, like the whole leg is swarming with salmon,

742
00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:48,680
Speaker 1: and I still didn't fucking catch one.

743
00:30:48,960 --> 00:30:50,720
Speaker 2: I would have been so scared that like their fin

744
00:30:50,800 --> 00:30:52,920
Speaker 2: would have cut my hand.

745
00:30:53,280 --> 00:30:55,640
Speaker 1: With what fishing don't they have? Or grabbing it with

746
00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:57,600
Speaker 1: your hand, grabbing it. I'm not actually saying, grab it

747
00:30:57,600 --> 00:30:59,880
Speaker 1: with your hand. I'm saying, there's so many of them

748
00:31:00,240 --> 00:31:02,200
Speaker 1: that you would be able to reach in and pluck

749
00:31:02,280 --> 00:31:02,640
Speaker 1: one out.

750
00:31:02,800 --> 00:31:04,760
Speaker 2: See it shows how little I know about you. I

751
00:31:04,800 --> 00:31:06,360
Speaker 2: was like, that's such a cool thing that you can

752
00:31:06,400 --> 00:31:07,440
Speaker 2: just go to pick up.

753
00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:11,080
Speaker 3: But I'm saying like they were everywhere and I.

754
00:31:11,000 --> 00:31:13,240
Speaker 1: Still didn't catch one. So yes, I would go fishing

755
00:31:13,280 --> 00:31:15,000
Speaker 1: on a date. I wouldn't be very good at it,

756
00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:17,200
Speaker 1: and I need a heads up, definitely a head You

757
00:31:17,200 --> 00:31:20,040
Speaker 1: can't take a girl on a surprise fishing day. They

758
00:31:20,120 --> 00:31:21,040
Speaker 1: need to know what to add.

759
00:31:21,040 --> 00:31:22,880
Speaker 2: I would fake it till I make it, but you

760
00:31:22,960 --> 00:31:24,080
Speaker 2: need to give me like two Yeah.

761
00:31:24,160 --> 00:31:25,960
Speaker 1: But if you're in a Chanelle handbag in heels and

762
00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:27,880
Speaker 1: you're about to jump in a dinghy and go fishing

763
00:31:27,920 --> 00:31:28,760
Speaker 1: on the fucking yarrow?

764
00:31:28,760 --> 00:31:29,720
Speaker 3: Can you fish on the arrow?

765
00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:34,440
Speaker 2: Good question? I think randomly, Yes you can my house.

766
00:31:35,000 --> 00:31:36,680
Speaker 1: I don't think you should eat anything that you catch

767
00:31:36,720 --> 00:31:37,680
Speaker 1: in the fucking arrow though.

768
00:31:37,800 --> 00:31:40,480
Speaker 3: But this is completely side note.

769
00:31:40,520 --> 00:31:43,440
Speaker 1: But a funny video I saw on like it has

770
00:31:43,560 --> 00:31:45,920
Speaker 1: no relevance to what we were just talking about. There

771
00:31:45,960 --> 00:31:47,720
Speaker 1: was a funny video I saw on TikTok of these

772
00:31:47,760 --> 00:31:51,880
Speaker 1: guys at a pub and they taged girls and Samini

773
00:31:51,880 --> 00:31:54,160
Speaker 1: and it was so funny because one of the boys

774
00:31:54,160 --> 00:31:56,560
Speaker 1: is relaying like why Just for Girls is over and

775
00:31:56,560 --> 00:31:59,320
Speaker 1: why we have our own podcast and he's getting it

776
00:31:59,400 --> 00:32:02,960
Speaker 1: like hang on, and it's so funny because all of

777
00:32:03,000 --> 00:32:05,120
Speaker 1: his mates being like Just for Girls number one fan. Anyway,

778
00:32:05,120 --> 00:32:06,480
Speaker 1: I want to let you guys know I saw the video.

779
00:32:06,520 --> 00:32:08,560
Speaker 1: I thought it was really really funny, so slay love

780
00:32:08,600 --> 00:32:09,200
Speaker 1: the support.

781
00:32:09,400 --> 00:32:10,080
Speaker 3: Did you see it?

782
00:32:10,200 --> 00:32:12,000
Speaker 2: I did. It was the first thing I opened on

783
00:32:12,040 --> 00:32:13,560
Speaker 2: TikTok on Saturday morning.

784
00:32:13,680 --> 00:32:14,640
Speaker 3: It was so funny.

785
00:32:14,840 --> 00:32:17,880
Speaker 2: I woke up on Saturday morning open TikTok and it's

786
00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:20,240
Speaker 2: the first TikTok I saw. I was like, what is

787
00:32:20,280 --> 00:32:22,840
Speaker 2: this going to be? Especially seeing a group of guys.

788
00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:24,479
Speaker 1: And you just see Just for Girls, And yeah, I

789
00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:26,000
Speaker 1: was worried. The whole time I was watching it. I

790
00:32:26,120 --> 00:32:27,760
Speaker 1: was on edge until I get to the end and

791
00:32:27,800 --> 00:32:28,640
Speaker 1: I'm like they were being there.

792
00:32:28,680 --> 00:32:30,160
Speaker 2: It was funny, kind of just laughing at that, And

793
00:32:30,160 --> 00:32:32,240
Speaker 2: I feel like we have every right to say that,

794
00:32:32,320 --> 00:32:35,080
Speaker 2: like men engage on Just for Girls and both of

795
00:32:35,080 --> 00:32:39,560
Speaker 2: your podcasts on TikTok and are not particularly nice, No at.

796
00:32:39,400 --> 00:32:40,360
Speaker 3: All, No they're not.

797
00:32:40,440 --> 00:32:43,880
Speaker 1: But I find that recently, Like I think that was

798
00:32:43,920 --> 00:32:46,200
Speaker 1: definitely something that was happening at the beginning, but I

799
00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:49,600
Speaker 1: think recently it's almost not really the case any more.

800
00:32:49,640 --> 00:32:52,440
Speaker 1: I find like they either don't talk about it at

801
00:32:52,480 --> 00:32:54,520
Speaker 1: all or of anything. Like I get a lot of

802
00:32:54,640 --> 00:32:56,800
Speaker 1: support when I'm out and even I went to film

803
00:32:56,880 --> 00:32:59,320
Speaker 1: a video at a shopping chatson the other day and

804
00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:01,520
Speaker 1: one of the girls was like, my friend's boyfriend is

805
00:33:01,560 --> 00:33:03,840
Speaker 1: obsessed with you, like, could you make a video for him?

806
00:33:03,880 --> 00:33:05,640
Speaker 3: And he's like a five FO worker and says they

807
00:33:05,680 --> 00:33:08,160
Speaker 3: all listen to it, and I'm like, that's so nice.

808
00:33:08,560 --> 00:33:11,200
Speaker 2: It's cute. I think some of the guys have found

809
00:33:11,200 --> 00:33:13,640
Speaker 2: hobbies and they just focused on it anymore. But like

810
00:33:13,720 --> 00:33:16,160
Speaker 2: I saw that video and just like alarm bells.

811
00:33:16,680 --> 00:33:19,080
Speaker 3: But the comments weren't even that bad, to be honest.

812
00:33:19,520 --> 00:33:22,440
Speaker 2: And I think it was really cute. He really he

813
00:33:22,520 --> 00:33:24,840
Speaker 2: knew what was up. You could tell he's listened to this,

814
00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:27,040
Speaker 2: he's listened to other podcasts, both of you.

815
00:33:27,200 --> 00:33:29,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, And one of the guys asked the question. He goes, oh, mate,

816
00:33:29,840 --> 00:33:30,479
Speaker 3: I don't even know.

817
00:33:31,080 --> 00:33:34,800
Speaker 1: And then someone's like, well, you know, a bit like everything.

818
00:33:35,120 --> 00:33:36,000
Speaker 3: But it was so funny.

819
00:33:36,000 --> 00:33:38,120
Speaker 1: But I just wanted to thank all my male hear

820
00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:41,600
Speaker 1: Me out listeners. I see you, and I'm really really

821
00:33:41,640 --> 00:33:44,000
Speaker 1: grateful because I know there's like that stigma of like, oh,

822
00:33:44,000 --> 00:33:45,880
Speaker 1: it's a girls podcast. I feel like it was different

823
00:33:45,880 --> 00:33:47,520
Speaker 1: with Just for Girls because it had girl in the

824
00:33:47,600 --> 00:33:50,520
Speaker 1: name itself, and everyone was like, oh, you listen to

825
00:33:50,800 --> 00:33:51,240
Speaker 1: for Girls.

826
00:33:51,280 --> 00:33:53,480
Speaker 2: I think that was a polarizing name for man. They

827
00:33:53,520 --> 00:33:55,040
Speaker 2: really struggled to get around that one.

828
00:33:55,200 --> 00:33:58,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, they really really did well. If they're here, still,

829
00:33:59,360 --> 00:34:03,120
Speaker 1: thank you, appreciate you all right. Number seven, We're meeting

830
00:34:03,120 --> 00:34:05,200
Speaker 1: at my house and when he rocked up, he had

831
00:34:05,240 --> 00:34:08,480
Speaker 1: an overnight bag in hand, assuming he'd stay over after dinner.

832
00:34:08,760 --> 00:34:11,560
Speaker 2: This is like triggering for you.

833
00:34:11,719 --> 00:34:12,719
Speaker 3: I've had that happen to me.

834
00:34:13,840 --> 00:34:16,520
Speaker 1: Nothing happened, but I was so icked that I told

835
00:34:16,600 --> 00:34:18,880
Speaker 1: my friend, who told his friends, and it became a

836
00:34:18,920 --> 00:34:21,760
Speaker 1: meme on his Facebook with a photo of a backpack

837
00:34:21,800 --> 00:34:23,280
Speaker 1: and boys roasting him in the comments.

838
00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:25,920
Speaker 3: We never spoke again. That is so sad.

839
00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:29,120
Speaker 1: I do think it's very presumptuous to assume that you

840
00:34:29,120 --> 00:34:31,759
Speaker 1: will be staying over at someone's house, and I have

841
00:34:31,800 --> 00:34:33,440
Speaker 1: had that happen to me, and it just made me

842
00:34:33,440 --> 00:34:35,359
Speaker 1: feel like I had to have him stay over, which

843
00:34:35,400 --> 00:34:38,879
Speaker 1: I wasn't planning on, So I'm glad that you were.

844
00:34:38,920 --> 00:34:41,840
Speaker 1: Like nobody, I just think, surely you can stiff it

845
00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:44,719
Speaker 1: a night without your overnight stuff, especially at a girl's house.

846
00:34:44,719 --> 00:34:47,840
Speaker 1: We have all the amenities. You do not need to

847
00:34:47,840 --> 00:34:51,799
Speaker 1: bring your overnight bag. Okay, It's like that's better than

848
00:34:51,920 --> 00:34:54,080
Speaker 1: making the assumption. I feel like a lot of the

849
00:34:54,120 --> 00:34:57,279
Speaker 1: time unless it's been pre discussed, which in that guy

850
00:34:57,360 --> 00:35:00,520
Speaker 1: spring your overnight bag away. Very cute, but that's really

851
00:35:00,520 --> 00:35:02,080
Speaker 1: sad that his friends were taking piece out him.

852
00:35:02,800 --> 00:35:03,200
Speaker 3: Number.

853
00:35:04,320 --> 00:35:06,680
Speaker 1: We went to a restaurant on Valentine's Day because he

854
00:35:06,680 --> 00:35:09,600
Speaker 1: didn't want anyone to see us since he just split

855
00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:10,719
Speaker 1: with his ex Sophie.

856
00:35:10,840 --> 00:35:12,040
Speaker 3: We've got names and everything.

857
00:35:13,520 --> 00:35:15,359
Speaker 1: As we walked in, we saw Sophie and her new

858
00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:18,200
Speaker 1: guy on a date. Luke ran upstairs and left me

859
00:35:18,320 --> 00:35:20,719
Speaker 1: standing there. We ended up having to walk back past

860
00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:22,640
Speaker 1: them because our table was actually on the first floor.

861
00:35:22,880 --> 00:35:25,560
Speaker 1: So awkward. We've been together since, but it was the

862
00:35:25,560 --> 00:35:29,160
Speaker 1: most awkward Valentine's Day ever. There's honestly a few things

863
00:35:29,200 --> 00:35:32,120
Speaker 1: more less awkward than seeing your ex in public like

864
00:35:32,120 --> 00:35:34,080
Speaker 1: that when you're like both on another day, like I've

865
00:35:34,120 --> 00:35:37,839
Speaker 1: never done it, but something like that happened to her.

866
00:35:37,920 --> 00:35:39,879
Speaker 2: I have, and I just went mute for the rest

867
00:35:39,880 --> 00:35:41,239
Speaker 2: of the night. It was really awkward, Like.

868
00:35:41,360 --> 00:35:42,560
Speaker 3: The vibes are just weird.

869
00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:45,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, so all feels very performative at that point because

870
00:35:45,480 --> 00:35:47,520
Speaker 1: you're kind of looking at each other and it's like, oh,

871
00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:48,319
Speaker 1: I just think it's FD.

872
00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:50,360
Speaker 2: Yeah. The guy I was on a date with and

873
00:35:50,400 --> 00:35:52,680
Speaker 2: we ran into my ex so I was saying previously

874
00:35:52,719 --> 00:35:54,400
Speaker 2: before that we got back to mind and I just

875
00:35:54,440 --> 00:36:00,560
Speaker 2: wasn't talking and he's like, is everything okay? Should I leave? Bye?

876
00:36:00,840 --> 00:36:01,280
Speaker 1: Goay?

877
00:36:02,880 --> 00:36:03,680
Speaker 2: Literally all right.

878
00:36:03,840 --> 00:36:05,839
Speaker 1: Last one, I was crushing on this guy who had

879
00:36:05,840 --> 00:36:07,719
Speaker 1: just broken up with his girlfriend and we hung out

880
00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:10,600
Speaker 1: a lot. I have such a funny thing about dating

881
00:36:10,600 --> 00:36:12,160
Speaker 1: people that have rite out of relationships.

882
00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:14,520
Speaker 3: I always really worry, like, are you actually over them?

883
00:36:14,880 --> 00:36:18,560
Speaker 2: Yeah? Do you know what I meant to be the rebound?

884
00:36:18,760 --> 00:36:20,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, not that you are.

885
00:36:20,320 --> 00:36:22,640
Speaker 1: I'm just saying that's like something that's always like stressed

886
00:36:22,680 --> 00:36:24,120
Speaker 1: me out if by someone's like right out of a

887
00:36:24,120 --> 00:36:26,480
Speaker 1: relationship and like on hingjump, Like is there any point

888
00:36:26,560 --> 00:36:28,640
Speaker 1: or are you kind of just here for a bit

889
00:36:28,640 --> 00:36:30,160
Speaker 1: of a rebound to get over X?

890
00:36:30,160 --> 00:36:30,360
Speaker 2: You know?

891
00:36:30,360 --> 00:36:30,759
Speaker 3: What I mean.

892
00:36:31,360 --> 00:36:33,839
Speaker 1: Anyway, one day, he spent two hours on a call

893
00:36:33,920 --> 00:36:37,279
Speaker 1: ranting about how much he misses. I should have kept reading,

894
00:36:37,680 --> 00:36:41,319
Speaker 1: and my crush disappeared instantly. Now we're best friends, but

895
00:36:41,360 --> 00:36:43,919
Speaker 1: I'm catching feelings for him again, even though he tells

896
00:36:43,920 --> 00:36:44,719
Speaker 1: me about other girls.

897
00:36:44,760 --> 00:36:46,040
Speaker 3: Should I tell him or let it go?

898
00:36:47,040 --> 00:36:49,640
Speaker 1: I actually would tell him because I think you will

899
00:36:49,680 --> 00:36:52,239
Speaker 1: always regret not And there's always that chance that maybe

900
00:36:52,239 --> 00:36:54,960
Speaker 1: he's talking to you about other girls in the hopes

901
00:36:55,000 --> 00:36:56,920
Speaker 1: to gauge a reaction from you, to see if that's

902
00:36:56,920 --> 00:36:59,160
Speaker 1: something you would care about, or if you know what

903
00:36:59,160 --> 00:36:59,480
Speaker 1: I mean.

904
00:36:59,560 --> 00:37:01,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think there's playful ways you can go about it.

905
00:37:02,040 --> 00:37:05,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think what have you got to lose in telling? Oh,

906
00:37:05,040 --> 00:37:08,319
Speaker 1: you say you're best friends. I get that, but I'm like, yeah,

907
00:37:08,320 --> 00:37:10,640
Speaker 1: there's a lot to lose. I just do it anyway.

908
00:37:10,840 --> 00:37:12,759
Speaker 1: I think you need to put yourself out there and

909
00:37:12,800 --> 00:37:13,520
Speaker 1: do things like that.

910
00:37:13,719 --> 00:37:17,400
Speaker 2: And I think you can confront this and like, not

911
00:37:17,480 --> 00:37:20,640
Speaker 2: a dishonest way, but you can kind of manipulate thing.

912
00:37:20,760 --> 00:37:22,560
Speaker 1: I think you engage it by a bit more like

913
00:37:22,640 --> 00:37:26,080
Speaker 1: flirty conversation, just like take slow steps to get there.

914
00:37:26,160 --> 00:37:28,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, And just like when our friendship was developing. I

915
00:37:28,360 --> 00:37:31,080
Speaker 2: was so confused because I was like, do I like

916
00:37:31,160 --> 00:37:32,960
Speaker 2: you or do I see you as a friend. I

917
00:37:32,960 --> 00:37:34,719
Speaker 2: did get confused at the start, Like you can kind

918
00:37:34,719 --> 00:37:36,399
Speaker 2: of well you still like each other.

919
00:37:36,800 --> 00:37:38,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think you need to start with a bit

920
00:37:38,600 --> 00:37:41,200
Speaker 1: of a flirty conboscy if he gives it back to

921
00:37:41,239 --> 00:37:43,799
Speaker 1: you before you go straight off the edge and be

922
00:37:43,920 --> 00:37:46,680
Speaker 1: like I like you, how do you feel? But I'd

923
00:37:46,680 --> 00:37:49,080
Speaker 1: say there's absolutely no how I'm been trying because like

924
00:37:49,160 --> 00:37:50,880
Speaker 1: I get the whole Like sometimes he might just be

925
00:37:50,920 --> 00:37:53,839
Speaker 1: talking to you about other girls in hopes to like

926
00:37:54,480 --> 00:37:56,680
Speaker 1: gauge a feeling about it, because like, that's definitely happened

927
00:37:56,680 --> 00:37:57,240
Speaker 1: to me before.

928
00:37:57,320 --> 00:37:59,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, And then I think something going to keep in mind,

929
00:37:59,719 --> 00:38:02,080
Speaker 2: say he moves on, I feel like she might become

930
00:38:02,120 --> 00:38:05,359
Speaker 2: really resentful towards him, Yeah, and be pissed off quite

931
00:38:05,400 --> 00:38:07,200
Speaker 2: frankly if she never says anything. Yeah.

932
00:38:07,400 --> 00:38:11,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, And it's like if he's not interested, then that's fine.

933
00:38:11,160 --> 00:38:12,680
Speaker 1: You can move on with your life and then hopefully

934
00:38:12,719 --> 00:38:13,799
Speaker 1: you can stay friends at some point.

935
00:38:14,760 --> 00:38:15,279
Speaker 3: You can do it.

936
00:38:15,400 --> 00:38:19,000
Speaker 1: I believe in you, all right, guys, thank you so

937
00:38:19,080 --> 00:38:21,839
Speaker 1: much for listening to hear me out Once again, If

938
00:38:21,880 --> 00:38:24,200
Speaker 1: you have any episode ideas or hear me out or

939
00:38:24,200 --> 00:38:26,000
Speaker 1: anything to submit. You can do that all through the

940
00:38:26,040 --> 00:38:29,560
Speaker 1: link in the hear me Out with Easy Instagram in

941
00:38:29,640 --> 00:38:32,520
Speaker 1: the bio. But I love you all and I will

942
00:38:32,560 --> 00:38:36,760
Speaker 1: chat to you after my post Bali trip Slate.

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Speaker 3: Bye guys,