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Speaker 1: Sitsy and with her with Kate Ritchie podcast I.

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Speaker 2: Tell you what I mean Maths. We go on there

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Speaker 2: every year. Let's be honest, we say this every year.

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Speaker 2: It's very controversial that these experts, so called experts, put

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Speaker 2: these people together and we know that there's not going

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Speaker 2: to be any connection there.

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Speaker 3: They want friction and that's what happens.

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Speaker 2: So Duncan went on the show and he was matched

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Speaker 2: with Alyssa, and Evelyn went on the show. She was

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Speaker 2: matched with Rupert. They're not together with their partners now,

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Speaker 2: but they are together.

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Speaker 3: And they join it.

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Speaker 4: Good morning everyone.

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Speaker 5: Is a huge relief to publicly come out and say, guys,

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Speaker 5: we did find love on the show.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no more sneaking around, no more walking down the

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Speaker 1: streets pretending not to know each other. So it's good.

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Speaker 3: We can go out now.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, well I think you have been out. Were some

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Speaker 6: photos floating around not that long ago when you had

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Speaker 6: a bit of a big night in a nightclub.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think if you're trying to be in conspicuous,

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Speaker 1: you shouldn't take your shirt off that we'll drink too

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Speaker 1: much wrapped around your waist while you dance around doing

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Speaker 1: diddy dancing.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Now, look, can we go back because people want

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Speaker 2: to know when you were on the actual show, was

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Speaker 2: there any flirting going on then? And I know you

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Speaker 2: had respective partners, but was there any flirting or is

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Speaker 2: there any conversations you had on the show where you

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Speaker 2: thought there could be something here?

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Speaker 4: Everly, it was strictly friend zone. Obviously when Duncan walked in,

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Speaker 4: I could tell he was attractive, yes, but obviously as

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Speaker 4: a woman and takes a little bit more than a

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Speaker 4: six pack and a beautiful face.

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Speaker 3: True, there's a lot more to it.

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Speaker 4: To get to know something goodness.

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Speaker 3: For whipper, you see what you see.

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Speaker 5: But so that's a great question fits because my mind

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Speaker 5: runs so on the show when you were sitting there

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Speaker 5: saying the couch with your other partners, it would have

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Speaker 5: been weird because you could kind of looking at each other,

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Speaker 5: going but there's something special here.

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Speaker 1: It actually wasn't because you're so it's such an emotionally

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Speaker 1: charged situation and for me anyway, I was doing everything

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Speaker 1: that I possibly could to try to create like a

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Speaker 1: good environment and a good scenario in the situation that

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Speaker 1: I was in with my partner, and it felt like

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Speaker 1: it was crumbling and everything that was going on in

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Speaker 1: that situation, Like all my energy and focus was on that.

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Speaker 2: So can we can we go to the Maths dinner party?

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Speaker 2: We had the Maths dinner party. Now this was after

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Speaker 2: filming you all got you guys got together again. There

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Speaker 2: was a little bit of friction there. Harrison was there

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Speaker 2: and that as well. But what were you guys together?

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Speaker 3: Then? Yes, that's yes, we plead the fifth.

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Speaker 2: Were you so you actually did quite well? Not to

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Speaker 2: give anything away, but you were actually hooking up with

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Speaker 2: each other.

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Speaker 3: Then we'll hanging out goodness?

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Speaker 6: Okay, Well can I then just intrigue now, so okay,

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Speaker 6: I'm just going to run with it for it. Just

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Speaker 6: imagine if the two of you were together at the

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Speaker 6: dinner party. Rewind a little bit. When was the first

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Speaker 6: time that you were together. When did you first lock

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Speaker 6: lips or first know that this could go somewhere?

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Speaker 3: Do you want to go? Yeah? I mean set the

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Speaker 3: scene now?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So you know, mrighty grass a pretty big, big

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Speaker 1: a dance together. Nothing even happened that night, but that

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Speaker 1: a little bit of time together as friends and realized

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Speaker 1: that maybe there was something more there. And then over

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Speaker 1: the next couple of weeks you hung out and then

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Speaker 1: there was a kiss after that at something.

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Speaker 6: Where was the kiss on the lips obviously, but.

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Speaker 3: Where were you?

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Speaker 1: You can't go out anywhere, so a few of the

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Speaker 1: dates were at my house or at Evelyn's.

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Speaker 3: We haven't played that game where you put the plastic thing,

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Speaker 1: What, a really sexy way to get everything going.

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Speaker 3: That's like each other's Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, yeah, this is exactly what I want to do.

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Speaker 4: I want to go over to your apartment and I

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Speaker 4: want to play a silly gone game that's hotam.

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Speaker 3: Hang on.

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Speaker 5: When the show was actually filming cameras rolling, there was

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Speaker 5: no kissing between the two of you then at all.

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Speaker 4: Absolutely not.

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Speaker 2: No, this is and this is what I because you

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Speaker 2: two had respect for your partners at the time. That's

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Speaker 2: what you're going on the show for so now now,

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Speaker 2: So when you get off the show, there is there's

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Speaker 2: a period that they edit everything up before it goes

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Speaker 2: to where right, and you guys are told social media

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Speaker 2: and you're not allowed to go on social media, but

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Speaker 2: you've got to stay really you basically have to say

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Speaker 2: that you're still with your partner because they're just about

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Speaker 2: to show it on television.

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Speaker 3: Correct, they're building drama.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So what I want to know is what point, Evelyn,

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Speaker 2: did you have to sit down with Rupert and go, look, Rupid,

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Speaker 2: we're not together. We're not together, but I just want

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Speaker 2: to be honest with you and tell you Duncan and

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Speaker 2: I have got something going on.

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Speaker 3: Did you do that? I did do that.

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Speaker 4: So me and Rupert actually talk quite regularly, so we

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Speaker 4: have like a fun band between us. We've been a

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Speaker 4: support system for each other throughout the show, pepping each

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Speaker 4: other up, laughing, Like especially our wedding, we cracked up.

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Speaker 4: We had a really good laugh about it.

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Speaker 3: And as soon as I kind of.

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Speaker 4: Saw where the situation was going, we both reached out

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Speaker 4: and kind of gave him the heads up. And he

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Speaker 4: can't what did he say? He's like, I think he

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Speaker 4: said he saw it coming.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well, of course saw it coming. Was he agree

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Speaker 3: with you? I think before we did it? Not at all?

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Speaker 1: Where he's one of my closest guy mates from the show.

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Speaker 2: Okay, other for Alyssa. We need to talk about Alyssa

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Speaker 2: because she's not even in the country at the moment.

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Speaker 2: Have you spoken to Alyssa before you went into this

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Speaker 2: relationship with Evelyn.

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Speaker 1: I've reached out to a Lessen numerous times after the

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Speaker 1: show and no reply. Yeah, And look, that's okay because

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Speaker 1: she wasn't obviously, she's probably hurting and not feeling too good.

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Speaker 1: So look, all I tried to do was, yeah, say

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Speaker 6: So yeah, because any at the end of any relationship

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Speaker 6: is incredibly hard. And watching a partner that you have

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Speaker 6: been with, especially through something so emotionally charged like what

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Speaker 6: you guys have done, to see them move, to see

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Speaker 6: your ex partner move on is always hard. Times it

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Speaker 6: by a thousand. When you're not just quietly moving onto

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Speaker 6: the next relationships, it's for all to see. I mean

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Speaker 6: yesterday was an example of that. You guys post a photos,

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Speaker 6: it's it's now public, you've acknowledged it, you've kind of

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Speaker 6: controlled the narrative around it, and it blows up. You know,

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Speaker 6: everyone wants to know about it, and that would be hard.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, definitely, it's even a bit scary, Like you know,

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Speaker 1: me and ev starting our relationship together and thinking, God,

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Speaker 1: these you are a fair bit of public part public

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Speaker 1: parts to that, and so you know there's a bit

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Speaker 1: more pressure on it around. Like, are we both on

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Speaker 3: Same quite yet?

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Speaker 5: So would you move in Evelyn to Dunks?

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Speaker 4: Not quite at this stage, but we're definitely spending a

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Speaker 3: Has the A word been dropped? The L like, the

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Speaker 2: Can I all right now that you're out of the experiment,

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Speaker 2: can I ask you this? Were you disappointed when we

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Speaker 2: talk about the experts and everyone knows what the show

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Speaker 2: is all about and we need that friction on the show.

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Speaker 2: Were you disappointed with who you were matched up with

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Speaker 2: on the show?

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Speaker 3: Obviously at the time.

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Speaker 6: Do you mean or just no?

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Speaker 4: Like?

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Speaker 3: Are you like?

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Speaker 2: Is there an element of are you really unhappy with

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Speaker 2: the choices that they went with on the show?

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Speaker 3: Are you Are you upset with the experts? No?

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Speaker 1: They are the experts bought me and Evelyn together, so

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Speaker 1: it couldn't be.

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Speaker 3: You are so amazed. I wanted I just want to

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Speaker 6: When you're saying that there are so many elements to

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Speaker 6: your relationship and because it is very public and are

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Speaker 6: we going to Are we going to go public with this?

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Speaker 3: Because what if it does.

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Speaker 6: End tomorrow, then we've you know, we've just kind of

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Speaker 6: added to all of this this hype. What are the

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Speaker 6: we going to orchestrate this?

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Speaker 3: Like how do you how have you been living.

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Speaker 6: For all this time wanting to be you know, proud

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Speaker 1: There's been lots of boat days where it's just me

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Speaker 1: so away from everyone else. But I think it makes

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Speaker 1: you have to have harder conversations early on, like you

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Speaker 1: wouldn't normally have, Like we had really like stayed up

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Speaker 1: what we want and what we like and all those

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Speaker 1: things because you need to know them otherwise you don't

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Speaker 1: want to jump big, deep first into a big public relation.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Do you know what I'm excited about?

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Speaker 5: I reckon there's a new reality.

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Speaker 3: Series moving forward after Maths. Yeah, Life After maths.

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Speaker 5: We love from Maths where we just follow you around

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Speaker 5: a bit, wait for the l words.

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Speaker 1: They will last, you know, learn to a model shoes.

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Speaker 2: Is this have you had feelings about a man like

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Speaker 2: this before, Evelyn? Or is there are these really strong feelings?

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Speaker 3: That's a bit answer that. That's a great question. I

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Speaker 4: It's it's been a while. It's been a long time,

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Speaker 4: so yeah, it's refreshing though. I like it, and I

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Speaker 4: think what we agreed on was it's kind of special

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Speaker 4: because we're both going through new things together at the

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Speaker 4: same time. So we've been super supportive of each other.

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Speaker 5: So is it like one hundred percent Yeah, like true love.

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Speaker 5: You know, I'm feelings.

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Speaker 1: If I didn't say a long term future with Evan,

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Speaker 1: wouldn't get into the relationships.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's it's a lot for not a long term relationship.

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Speaker 6: It is because everyone's already It's like when you when

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Speaker 6: you first get married, you even have a family saying,

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Speaker 6: so when you're gonna have a baby and when you're

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Speaker 6: going doing this, that's exacerbated in your situation because once

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Speaker 6: everyone knows about it, they're telling you what your relationship

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Speaker 6: is without even really knowing much about it at all.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like my sister before she before she met Evelyn,

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Speaker 1: she already knew who she was, right, So it's just

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Speaker 1: like it's just a weird done every Yeah, alright.

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Speaker 3: It's sweet.

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Speaker 2: It is.

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Speaker 3: No, No, we're not doing it.

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Speaker 2: I feel it's really weird because I've just finished an

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Speaker 2: interview and I don't get to say maths this Sunday.

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Speaker 3: Night on that was that was the last six months. No,

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Speaker 3: thank you very much for coming and guys appreciate it

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Speaker 3: and good luck. Yeah, thank you for your honesty for

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Speaker 3: having us appreciate it.

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Speaker 4: Ditsy and Wipper with Kate Ritchie is a Nova podcast.

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Speaker 3: For more great comedy shows.

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