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Speaker 1: This is the City and with her with cade Woki podcast.

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Speaker 2: I want to bring you across some content I found

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Speaker 2: over the weekend as I was munching through social media.

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Speaker 2: This woman has a great story to tell on the

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Speaker 2: celebration for all young mums out there that may have

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Speaker 2: experienced these sorts of moments. In thirteen twenty fourteen, if

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Speaker 2: you'd like to get involved, this lady shared her story

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Speaker 2: of what happened putting her child in the car the

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Speaker 2: other day.

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Speaker 3: I have a three year old daughter, so I often

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Speaker 3: have a shower with her, and she asks questions about

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Speaker 3: body parts and what things are called, and I tell her,

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Speaker 3: have a shower this morning, take it downstairs, put her

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Speaker 3: shoes on, get outside. One of the men that I

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Speaker 3: do see quite regularly is walking his dog and he

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Speaker 3: waves to Olive and says good morning, and Olive says

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Speaker 3: good morning. I lift Olive up to put her into

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Speaker 3: the car seat, so she's facing towards the man who

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Speaker 3: is walking past his dog, and she yells, mummy has

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Speaker 3: a hairy front bottom. And I don't think I can turn.

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Speaker 4: I'm frozen.

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Speaker 3: I can't turn, I can't make eye contact with him.

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Speaker 5: But what I hear is him.

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Speaker 3: Say sorry, lovely, and I think, shall I put my

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Speaker 3: hand over your mouth?

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Speaker 1: What do I do?

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Speaker 3: Olive shouts again, Mummy has a hairy and I'm trying

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Speaker 3: to cover her mouth. Mummy has a hairy front bottom.

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Speaker 2: Mum never turned around.

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Speaker 3: I didn't make eye contact with him. There was no

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Speaker 3: other words that came out of that man's mouth. He

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Speaker 3: was gone by the time I turned around.

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Speaker 1: Do I need to move house?

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Speaker 4: Oh no, poor mom. First of all, there's a couple

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Speaker 4: of questions. There is the.

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Speaker 1: Questions because it's funny we all hear the same audio,

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Speaker 1: but we're all just compute it so differently, Like what

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Speaker 1: is the biggest issue here?

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Speaker 2: What a beautiful moment. I love the awkwardness. I would

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Speaker 2: have celebrated that awkwardness and you can feel it through

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Speaker 2: the video of her talking about it. This went on

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Speaker 2: to receive over five thousand comments, and what's great is

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Speaker 2: the comments are in support of her, with people sharing

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Speaker 2: their own stories. So one comment was, my daughter told

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Speaker 2: the police officer that her mum has the same silver

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Speaker 2: bracelet as him in her drawer.

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Speaker 1: The handcuffs.

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Speaker 4: Oh that's great, that's great, was a cop.

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Speaker 2: My five year old son walked in on a woman

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Speaker 2: going to the bathroom and shouted, why is she peeing

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Speaker 2: out of her fur? Daughter?

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Speaker 6: Can you see them through the tom first before your

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Speaker 6: sense I don't think anyone.

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Speaker 2: And my daughter found an adult friend of mine and

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Speaker 2: took it to school and pretended she was Harry Potter

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Speaker 2: and was casting spells.

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Speaker 1: What's it called? I can't recall killing a man? What's

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Speaker 1: the I can't you know? No, there's another one. What's

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Speaker 1: the other one?

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Speaker 7: Like?

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Speaker 1: Maybe the dead?

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Speaker 4: This is just one that's Leno would have about five up?

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Speaker 2: What five of those.

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Speaker 4: Spells?

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Speaker 2: You mean?

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Speaker 4: Just in his slop? Didn't you go to his draw?

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, he's got a briefcase under his bed,

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Speaker 2: Paul Lens, I was on a shake. I was on

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Speaker 2: a packed bus the other day with my kids. My

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Speaker 2: son decided to shout out, remember when you pooed your

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Speaker 2: pants last week?

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Speaker 4: Mum, oh, oh yeah?

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Speaker 1: Were you just in those situations?

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Speaker 4: You're right, Kate.

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Speaker 6: If you laugh with that, and you know the person

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Speaker 6: that's walking pass has a laugh as well, don't they?

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Speaker 2: Twenty four ten If you've been in this situation, my

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Speaker 2: niece exclaimed my mother in law the other day in

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Speaker 2: front of several people, Nan, why do you have a

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Speaker 2: beard on your nuts?

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Speaker 1: Did you say that? Oh? My friend, can we just

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Speaker 1: do this till night, because I've actually got a story

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Speaker 1: to share as well.

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Speaker 2: That may friend of your sanatory tales elbow and knee

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Speaker 2: pads and correctly not knowing what she was doing for

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Speaker 2: a skateboard?

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Speaker 1: What that one.

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Speaker 4: She's gone down at the local skate park and the

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Speaker 6: I thought we thought you were in character, then we

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Speaker 6: thought you were in character.

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Speaker 1: Do you want me to tell my story now? Well,

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Speaker 1: it's just embarrassed, just embarrassing because we go down my

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Speaker 1: husband at the time, So Stuart and I went down

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Speaker 1: to Tasmania to go to the museum Mona Museum and

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Speaker 1: I don't know if you've been before. It's amazing. Have

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Speaker 1: you seat?

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Speaker 6: Am I allowed to say there's a wall a wall

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Speaker 6: of vaginas well, there's a.

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Speaker 4: Wall of front bottoms?

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Speaker 8: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Well, am I allowed to describe it?

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Speaker 1: I think medically it's the medical terms, so you can

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Speaker 2: I'm cool with that.

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Speaker 1: Let's grow up. Yeah, and I have got one, so

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Speaker 1: I'm allowed to say it as loud as I like, congratulations,

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Speaker 1: thank you? So anyway, we're at the museum and where

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Speaker 1: perusing the wall of vaginas and three times. And it's

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Speaker 1: funny a bit like now where it's art and we're

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Speaker 1: adults and so, but everyone's basically in a room together

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Speaker 1: looking at all different kinds, you know, the wonderful world

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Speaker 1: of vaginas. And and then so where standing there and

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Speaker 1: everyone's trying to be super cool about it. And it's quiet,

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Speaker 1: and I'm carrying my daughter in my arm. She must

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Speaker 1: have been about two and a half at the time,

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Speaker 1: just walking along. It's so it's really really crowded, right,

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Speaker 1: and I'm just like, and you want to look, you

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Speaker 1: want to look that, you don't want to look. You're like, wow,

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Speaker 1: we really like all of that stuff in my daughter.

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Speaker 1: I've never moved so quickly. By the way, my daughter

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Speaker 1: points at one and goes money. It's just like you.

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Speaker 1: I've never never hit her, I know it's I know

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Speaker 1: it's like slapped her arm down so quickly because the

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Speaker 4: Which watch one. I had no idea for you that

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Speaker 2: Jobs more than one. Oh my god, Jeels is in

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Speaker 2: the Blue Mountain. Welcome Jewels your kid for are you

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Speaker 2: one of the buses. Did they mate.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, I was in cols with my daughters, was about

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Speaker 9: too and I dropped this like stumongous fart, was like

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Speaker 9: first shattering, and there was no one in the aisle,

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Speaker 9: And we got to the end of the aisle and

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Speaker 9: then my daughter very loudly proclaimed the next person was

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Speaker 9: walking around the corner. My daddy farted back.

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Speaker 10: Then he's the word humongo, shattering, shattering.

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Speaker 2: That's a pretty unique category to billion jewels.

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Speaker 6: You can you can hear how proud Jewels is of

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Speaker 6: what he did.

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Speaker 4: Tony and Penrith, what happened to Utah?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, good morning guys. It was a few years ago now.

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Speaker 8: We were introducing ourselves to ourselves to the new neighbors

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Speaker 8: and my son was riding his scooter around. He came

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Speaker 8: over and he stood patiently, and we thought he was

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Speaker 8: just going to introduce himself, and he looked at the

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Speaker 8: new neighbors and he goes on My dad's cleanises this

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Speaker 8: big and you kens, I was proud of him, and

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Speaker 8: he really gave me a good rap. General wife and

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Speaker 8: I look at each other mortified, but I'm thinking this

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Speaker 8: is good. He got my back?

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, you know front? Oh my welcome to

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Speaker 4: the show.

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Speaker 7: How are you good?

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Speaker 5: We were looking at a unit to rent and my

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Speaker 5: son told the real estate agents that I fart in

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Speaker 2: Did that help get the unit over the line? Car or.

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Speaker 8: No? No?

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Speaker 7: I didn't use that one.

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Speaker 2: Shattering that's what we need.

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Speaker 1: I think kids know exactly what they're doing. If you're

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Speaker 1: thinking your head like that kid coming up on the driveway,

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Speaker 1: they just you think they're cute riding up for their scooter.

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Speaker 1: They don't know anything there, so they don't even know

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Speaker 1: what they're saying.

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Speaker 2: You know that they are exactly what's going on. Oh

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Speaker 2: we've got one more. Emily and Helensburg, Hello, and what happened?

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Speaker 7: Hi?

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Speaker 3: My son he's only eighteen months old, so he doesn't

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Speaker 3: know many words, but he definitely knows what to be.

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Speaker 8: Harry Hunkson looks like and we're in the bus the

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Speaker 8: other night and he just pointed.

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Speaker 4: And said by spy, yeah, Les.

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Speaker 11: Fits in with her with cap Ridgie podcast.

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Speaker 2: Instance, spark let's talk about love right and whether the

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Speaker 2: instant spark, which is like love at first sight, is

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Speaker 2: actually a good thing. People believe in it. I think

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Speaker 2: that's because they've watched too many Hollywood films.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, or Disney. I don't think. I don't think instant

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Speaker 1: spark is the same as love at first time.

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Speaker 2: Have you ever looked at somebody in a room and thought,

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Speaker 2: oh God, that's my kind of person and then ended

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Speaker 2: up with that person?

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Speaker 7: Well?

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Speaker 4: I married her?

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Speaker 6: Yes, yeah, yeah, I knew straightaway, straighta.

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Speaker 4: I there was, I fell in love with her. Strada.

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Speaker 4: Why it took me two years?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because she had another boyfriend.

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Speaker 6: And three ye's in silver Water, just following there around.

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Speaker 6: But I but yeah, here, I just knew straighta. I

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Speaker 6: I just went off.

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Speaker 4: I'm going to end up marrying that girl.

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Speaker 2: I love that. Really, he's the dangers.

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Speaker 1: I think that's when you meet people.

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Speaker 2: Leah, here's the danger of it. How do we listen

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Speaker 2: to this the spark?

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Speaker 12: Here's what's wrong with the spark. First of all, people

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Speaker 12: think that the spark can't grow over time. That's not true.

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Speaker 12: The spark can and often does grow. Another problem is

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Speaker 12: that people think, if I feel the spark, then this

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Speaker 12: must be a good thing. That's just not true. Plenty

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Speaker 12: of really hot charismatic and yes, narcissistic people give off

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Speaker 12: the spark. Some people are just really sparky, and this

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Speaker 12: is more of a reflection on them than what's developing

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Speaker 12: between the two of these.

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Speaker 2: So the spark can be clearly misleading.

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Speaker 1: Oh it absolutely can't. I actually think the spark when

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Speaker 1: you have a full on a like an initial spark.

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Speaker 1: I wish I could remember the the problem. The proper

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Speaker 1: wording for this, no, no, not lust is like this.

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Speaker 1: If you feel a spark from someone, quite often what

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Speaker 1: that person is doing is triggering something in you that

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Speaker 1: is maybe unresolved or it's not. It's not necessarily a

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Speaker 1: positive thing. It's kind of like it gets your jues flowing,

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Speaker 1: but it tends to be the thing that you continue

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Speaker 1: to be drawn to, but is quite often negative, like.

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Speaker 2: A bad boy.

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Speaker 4: Now, it's an instinct.

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Speaker 6: I think it's an instinct, and you this is the

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Speaker 6: thing where you trust your own instincts. So when you

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Speaker 6: get a feeling about someone and it can be a

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Speaker 6: negative one, this is the thing. But it's when you

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Speaker 4: You've got to trust that feeling.

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Speaker 1: Well, yes you do. But for example, history might say

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Speaker 2: What Kate is saying is that every relationship needs to

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Speaker 6: This is an extremely personal question, Kate, and it might

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Speaker 6: But what can you give us an example in your life,

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Speaker 1: No, the thing is you're not. You don't have a

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Speaker 2: You with a with cake whichie podcast.

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Speaker 1: I want to talk about most ridiculous jobs in Sydney.

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Speaker 1: Do you think you've got a most ridiculous job? I

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Speaker 1: mean sometimes I think this job is ridiculous.

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Speaker 2: What about the guy that rang earlier talking about how

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Speaker 2: see if it was off. That's an actual chicken sniffer.

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Speaker 1: Foul. Oh we should have done a fowl.

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Speaker 6: Getting back on your pros and cons, A roast chok

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Speaker 4: Out of the oven is magnificent. That's but a chock

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Speaker 4: that spain off for a couple of weights.

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Speaker 1: Isn't it funny Fitzy that they are essentially the same

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Speaker 2: Wow? Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Good.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, if you've got a ridiculous job, give us a

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Speaker 1: I just want to ask whether you even knew that

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Speaker 1: this job existed in Sydney. It came up on my feed.

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Speaker 1: I'll let this guy explain what it is. This job

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Speaker 13: About dogs patrolling the opera house, and I finally found them.

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Speaker 13: No wonder for a while. Now when I'm around this area,

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Speaker 13: I see less siagulls. There are multiple dogs that in

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Speaker 13: them using a cute uniform tagged with seagull patrol. I

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Speaker 13: did not realize that seagull cumulatively cost businesses a lot

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Speaker 2: Mad dogs?

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Speaker 4: To see them? No opera house?

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Speaker 1: I thought dogs when I saw the video without the sound,

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Speaker 1: I thought they might have been like police dogs.

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Speaker 6: If you know, well, then the opera bar is the

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Speaker 6: patrols up and down. Obviously it has a minder on

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Speaker 4: But I'll always just keep going up and down, up

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Speaker 2: It's got booties on as well. Yeah, it's up on

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Speaker 1: Is that what the dogs for? The dog needs a drink.

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Speaker 1: It's it's panting, But it does mean it's it's working hard,

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Speaker 1: because I guess in a place like that it is

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Speaker 1: many places to eat. Those seagulls. As soon as someone

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Speaker 2: The table, disaster and not her everywhere.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so I'm guessing that's what the dogs do. I mean, look,

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Speaker 1: you might not find it that in your dog.

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Speaker 2: And he looks very lazy.

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Speaker 1: Oh, Annie's an and he could work dog.

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Speaker 2: You could do that. After nine you could head down

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Speaker 2: and be a mad dog patrol with Annie and I

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Speaker 6: Can we We've just got a We've got a phone

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Speaker 4: Are you there, Jim?

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Speaker 8: Yeah?

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Speaker 11: Hi, how are you going?

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Speaker 1: Can I James?

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Speaker 4: James? How many dogs have you got on the roster.

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Speaker 11: Oh right, probably about twenty twenty one or something like that.

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Speaker 1: Wow, is this a relatively new concept because I did

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Speaker 1: I didn't know about this job. I didn't know it existed.

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Speaker 1: I didn't know those beautiful dogs down there that that

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 11: Yeah, we've been down there since two thousand and eighteen,

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Speaker 2: Day week and it's the local council or the government

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Speaker 11: The restaurants there. So we have the we have the

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and who gets paid there? Does the dog?

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Speaker 2: Dog?

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Speaker 1: Is it worth the Is it worth the restaurants forking

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Speaker 1: results in a much more pleasant dining experience?

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Speaker 11: Yeah, yeah, definitely. Well the dogs don't get paid because

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Speaker 11: So actually it actually does actually pay for itself.

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Speaker 4: Do the dogs get four weeks in your leave? James?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, they get pretty good work.

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Speaker 11: They get pretty good working conditions, much better than any

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Speaker 8: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I love If I dressed up as a dog, I

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Speaker 1: Your addressed is the seagulls down there? Aren't you picking

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Speaker 2: All right, mate, James, can I ask has one of

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Speaker 7: No?

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Speaker 11: they've had one one of my dogs maybe pulled a

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Speaker 11: God knows, no damage done.

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Speaker 1: I love them. We're looking at the photos here now,

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Speaker 1: what is it? Mad dogs? Seagull patrol?

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Speaker 11: Both an Englishman?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's right. They are good looking dogs.

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Speaker 11: Oh yeah, definitely.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 11: People come down just to see the dogs and meet

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Speaker 6: So yeah, well, James, you've got a snake in a

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Speaker 4: Don't you, James?

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Speaker 2: When so you're the mad dog right, awesomebody Randwick, Welcome

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Speaker 2: to the show. Note what is your ridiculous job?

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Speaker 9: Hi?

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Speaker 7: So it's not my ridiculous job, but I'm a barber

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Speaker 7: and I'm a local barber at Ramwick and I met

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Speaker 7: a gentleman who looks after the disease and ill body

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Speaker 2: What do you like thes?

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Speaker 7: Not exactly the cadavers, but like you said, they just

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Speaker 4: Is just to study them net or is this what

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Speaker 4: they can't get rid of them?

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Speaker 7: So it's the Ramwick Hospital and the university which do

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Speaker 7: like I think, different types of studies and kind of

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Speaker 1: It's a unique to just across the road from each other.

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Speaker 1: Really and if if.

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Speaker 2: Someone's to get I don't know, and also or assist

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Speaker 2: then if somebody else comes in with the same one,

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Speaker 2: they go, go and check out that sistere.

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Speaker 1: Well, you think about it when you look at all

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Speaker 1: those vintage jaws, antique kind of jars where they keep

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Speaker 6: Imagine that his kids, imagine showing what you could take

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Speaker 6: into show and tell.

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Speaker 2: Out of someone's head today.

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Speaker 6: This is somebody's hemorrhoids. Everybody d got it. We got

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Speaker 6: it from work, Christaph from Paramatta. Your friend has a

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Speaker 6: ridiculous job.

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Speaker 7: Good morning, guys.

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Speaker 5: He certainly does so. He works on a turkey farm

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Speaker 5: and his job is to extract deemen from the males

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Speaker 5: and exterminate the female. But how he does it is

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Speaker 5: with a straw and his mouth.

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Speaker 2: You're the best caller I have this morning, Chrystal.

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Speaker 5: I think true story, true story.

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Speaker 2: I mean, if he's coming towards you.

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Speaker 8: Say that.

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Speaker 10: On the leaf, there have to be a video on

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Speaker 10: the internet that wouldn't he gets excited at Christmas time?

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Speaker 1: It does change the meaning of.

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Speaker 5: The wold new concept.

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Speaker 1: Now come on, thanks.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I don't want to get to graphic here.

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Speaker 2: But so then he gets it out right with the straw,

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Speaker 2: and then he has to inseminate the chicken with the

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Speaker 5: It, go into I can't get past the part that

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Speaker 5: he actually has to extract it in the straw. I

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Speaker 5: don't know really what happens after that?

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Speaker 2: You have to excite the turkey?

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Speaker 4: Well, I don't know. I mean, you don't have to

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Speaker 6: I'm just more you know, when you're driving to work

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Speaker 6: every day and you think about what's on your plate

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Speaker 6: that day, Like you go, okay, going to take that off.

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Speaker 4: Have I got enough straws? Am I ready to go?

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Speaker 2: Annoying plastic straws have been come out?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: You go into the water cooler, grab yourself a coffee,

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Speaker 6: and you have a chat to Jeane in there.

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Speaker 4: You mean Jean good Well, I better go and a

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Speaker 4: couple of Turkey's ready to go. I'll be back in

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Speaker 4: an hour.

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Speaker 1: Farm on for you wouldn't let him buy a breakfast

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Speaker 1: for the team.

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Speaker 2: You wouldn't because you never know what it's going to

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Speaker 2: Kate Ritchie is a nov podcast walk great shows like this.

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