1 00:00:05,921 --> 00:00:07,281 Speaker 1: Apoche production. 2 00:00:18,161 --> 00:00:21,441 Speaker 2: There was this guy from South Australia that I did 3 00:00:21,481 --> 00:00:25,121 Speaker 2: time with in Pebridge and we got to know each other. 4 00:00:26,081 --> 00:00:27,321 Speaker 1: What a crazy story. 5 00:00:27,441 --> 00:00:30,961 Speaker 2: This guy met a childhood friend that I went to 6 00:00:30,961 --> 00:00:33,361 Speaker 2: school with and they got married and she was from 7 00:00:33,441 --> 00:00:36,801 Speaker 2: Muwey and Victoria, where I come from. Oh wow, he 8 00:00:36,881 --> 00:00:40,040 Speaker 2: got out of jail. I got out of jail. I'm 9 00:00:40,081 --> 00:00:44,521 Speaker 2: in this little country town called Erica. I'm shooting up, 10 00:00:44,840 --> 00:00:49,040 Speaker 2: I'm drinking, I'm smoking. I'm not in a good place, man, 11 00:00:49,241 --> 00:00:52,361 Speaker 2: I'm not in a good blak. And this car falls 12 00:00:52,441 --> 00:00:55,801 Speaker 2: up and it was a Statesman with South Australian red 13 00:00:55,840 --> 00:00:59,921 Speaker 2: Jack Bates on it and he gets out and I 14 00:00:59,961 --> 00:01:02,641 Speaker 2: don't know this dude, so I walk out with a 15 00:01:02,681 --> 00:01:08,001 Speaker 2: baseball bat. Dawn gets out of the car and I 16 00:01:08,121 --> 00:01:13,601 Speaker 2: recognized her. Then it all clicked who this dude was. 17 00:01:13,681 --> 00:01:16,920 Speaker 2: And he looked at me and said, no, I'm not leaving. 18 00:01:16,961 --> 00:01:20,200 Speaker 2: He bro, I'm not leaving here. 19 00:01:20,360 --> 00:01:22,200 Speaker 1: Man. You've got two choices. 20 00:01:22,280 --> 00:01:22,640 Speaker 3: Cannie. 21 00:01:23,161 --> 00:01:25,241 Speaker 1: You can get in the backseat of the car. I'm 22 00:01:25,280 --> 00:01:27,321 Speaker 1: going to knock you the fuck out and I'll put 23 00:01:27,321 --> 00:01:29,961 Speaker 1: you in a book, and you're coming back with me. 24 00:01:30,920 --> 00:01:34,440 Speaker 2: Wow, And he said, and he walked across and he 25 00:01:34,481 --> 00:01:37,881 Speaker 2: told the person at the caravan part, you're gonna have 26 00:01:37,920 --> 00:01:43,200 Speaker 2: your airback. And he brought me back to Adelaide. He 27 00:01:43,241 --> 00:01:46,761 Speaker 2: brought me to Adelaide and for the first time, he 28 00:01:46,761 --> 00:01:50,641 Speaker 2: put me up. They put me up, they supported me. 29 00:01:51,001 --> 00:01:57,841 Speaker 2: I've got a job. I got off the gear. I 30 00:01:57,921 --> 00:02:02,201 Speaker 2: got clean. That was hard worked because I did a 31 00:02:02,241 --> 00:02:06,281 Speaker 2: cold turkey. I didn't do any medication enough and I 32 00:02:06,441 --> 00:02:10,121 Speaker 2: just I'd had enough. I knew when I came here 33 00:02:10,161 --> 00:02:12,241 Speaker 2: that something better was going to happen in my life. 34 00:02:12,281 --> 00:02:12,481 Speaker 1: Mane. 35 00:02:13,601 --> 00:02:15,601 Speaker 2: I came here with a passion. And I say this 36 00:02:15,721 --> 00:02:18,400 Speaker 2: to Tracy and I were only talking about it last night. 37 00:02:20,520 --> 00:02:24,161 Speaker 2: So when I came here thirty years ago to South Australia, 38 00:02:25,800 --> 00:02:27,121 Speaker 2: I'm coming down off the gear. 39 00:02:28,561 --> 00:02:29,520 Speaker 1: I'm hanging out. 40 00:02:29,641 --> 00:02:33,960 Speaker 2: I have anxiety, depression, post traumatic stress. I'm scared. I 41 00:02:34,001 --> 00:02:37,921 Speaker 2: don't know anybody except two people. And I said, just 42 00:02:38,281 --> 00:02:42,641 Speaker 2: this bloke that Sparah, I said, Brus and I'm sitting 43 00:02:42,641 --> 00:02:45,201 Speaker 2: at his kitchen table here in Adelaide. I said, I'm 44 00:02:45,201 --> 00:02:49,321 Speaker 2: going to change my life. I'm going to make a difference. 45 00:02:51,161 --> 00:02:53,201 Speaker 2: He looked at me and he said, yeah right. 46 00:02:53,240 --> 00:02:54,321 Speaker 1: Bro had another. 47 00:02:54,081 --> 00:03:04,601 Speaker 3: Bomb broken and you just stayed, just just dribblings. 48 00:03:05,281 --> 00:03:06,800 Speaker 1: One of the funny things. 49 00:03:07,001 --> 00:03:09,081 Speaker 2: One of the funny things about it, But I actually 50 00:03:09,121 --> 00:03:12,681 Speaker 2: caught up with the same person I haven't seen now 51 00:03:13,161 --> 00:03:17,720 Speaker 2: for probably fifteen years, and I actually caught up to 52 00:03:17,800 --> 00:03:19,721 Speaker 2: him and he said to me, you did it, didn't you? 53 00:03:19,721 --> 00:03:19,881 Speaker 1: Bro? 54 00:03:21,201 --> 00:03:25,321 Speaker 2: He chose chat same blow, He said, you did it, bro, 55 00:03:25,401 --> 00:03:26,280 Speaker 2: didn't you? 56 00:03:26,281 --> 00:03:30,041 Speaker 1: It changed your life of where you are now? I said, yeah, man, I. 57 00:03:30,001 --> 00:03:32,721 Speaker 4: Said, where where's he? If you don't mind asking? Is 58 00:03:32,761 --> 00:03:35,001 Speaker 4: he in a good spot in life? Is is he 59 00:03:35,081 --> 00:03:36,521 Speaker 4: somebody that or is he can. 60 00:03:36,361 --> 00:03:37,161 Speaker 1: Do where he was? 61 00:03:38,081 --> 00:03:38,321 Speaker 2: Yeah? 62 00:03:38,401 --> 00:03:41,281 Speaker 1: Where you know? And how do you feel about that? 63 00:03:41,681 --> 00:03:46,321 Speaker 4: Like knowing that they sort of rescued you from a 64 00:03:46,481 --> 00:03:50,521 Speaker 4: terrible place, but yet you must have the utmost respect 65 00:03:50,561 --> 00:03:51,361 Speaker 4: for him, but. 66 00:03:51,321 --> 00:03:54,961 Speaker 1: He's still in that same world. Yeah, and were able 67 00:03:55,001 --> 00:03:56,161 Speaker 1: to break the cycle of. 68 00:03:56,961 --> 00:04:00,761 Speaker 2: He acknowledged the same thing, you know, he said, Man, 69 00:04:00,841 --> 00:04:03,521 Speaker 2: he said, I don't know, He said, what's going on? 70 00:04:03,601 --> 00:04:06,201 Speaker 1: He said, Look, you've come, I'm still here. 71 00:04:07,201 --> 00:04:09,841 Speaker 4: And it'd be hard to look that man in the 72 00:04:09,841 --> 00:04:12,881 Speaker 4: eyes knowing he saved you. Literally it is put his 73 00:04:12,961 --> 00:04:15,401 Speaker 4: fucking heart and soul in a meaning you didn't know 74 00:04:15,801 --> 00:04:17,200 Speaker 4: on behalf of his partner. 75 00:04:17,521 --> 00:04:21,720 Speaker 1: It is man, it is so because that's really powerful 76 00:04:21,801 --> 00:04:22,321 Speaker 1: right there. Bro. 77 00:04:23,201 --> 00:04:26,121 Speaker 2: Yeah, I came here thirty years ago to build a family. 78 00:04:27,521 --> 00:04:30,561 Speaker 2: That's something that I always wanted. Was Yeah, as I 79 00:04:30,561 --> 00:04:32,400 Speaker 2: always said to people, I was the bad person. I 80 00:04:32,481 --> 00:04:36,321 Speaker 2: just got a bit loss. And then you know, with 81 00:04:36,361 --> 00:04:38,561 Speaker 2: everything that was piled on top of it, with the 82 00:04:38,641 --> 00:04:40,761 Speaker 2: abuse and everything and everything. 83 00:04:40,401 --> 00:04:42,481 Speaker 1: I really I last. 84 00:04:43,961 --> 00:04:46,481 Speaker 2: And today sitting here talking with you, I built that 85 00:04:46,561 --> 00:04:49,320 Speaker 2: family and I've got beautiful grandchildren. 86 00:04:49,401 --> 00:04:51,481 Speaker 1: And I never thought this was possible. 87 00:04:52,521 --> 00:04:52,721 Speaker 3: You know. 88 00:04:53,201 --> 00:04:56,401 Speaker 2: Fourteen years ago, I kept doing what I said before, 89 00:04:56,481 --> 00:05:02,760 Speaker 2: sim look setting yourself up for failure. I would go 90 00:05:02,801 --> 00:05:04,880 Speaker 2: out and get that good job and then go to 91 00:05:04,921 --> 00:05:07,280 Speaker 2: the hub. I would go out and get that good woman, 92 00:05:07,561 --> 00:05:09,960 Speaker 2: go and screw someone else. I would go out and 93 00:05:10,001 --> 00:05:11,801 Speaker 2: get this, and do this, go out and get this, 94 00:05:11,921 --> 00:05:15,121 Speaker 2: go out and achieve everything I ever wanted in my life. 95 00:05:15,201 --> 00:05:18,921 Speaker 1: And fucking do everything I could to fuck it up. Yeah. 96 00:05:19,001 --> 00:05:24,521 Speaker 2: I was very successful at that, and about fourteen years ago. 97 00:05:26,161 --> 00:05:31,601 Speaker 1: I ended up homeless. I'm in my fifties and I'm 98 00:05:31,681 --> 00:05:36,681 Speaker 1: under a bridge. I've got nothing. I've got no income 99 00:05:37,761 --> 00:05:41,361 Speaker 1: because I actually had a severe workplace injury. 100 00:05:42,041 --> 00:05:46,201 Speaker 2: I was on work cover. They'd stop paying me. Then 101 00:05:46,561 --> 00:05:50,241 Speaker 2: the doll wasn't paying me. So here in South Australia 102 00:05:50,320 --> 00:05:52,921 Speaker 2: we get fucked. We get ten cents for our cans 103 00:05:52,961 --> 00:05:57,121 Speaker 2: and our bottos that you do yes, so then it 104 00:05:57,241 --> 00:06:00,841 Speaker 2: was five cents. So here I am walking around creek beds, 105 00:06:00,880 --> 00:06:04,521 Speaker 2: looking at rubbish bins, doing what I could to find 106 00:06:04,521 --> 00:06:09,081 Speaker 2: a feet. I sit back today and in hindsight, I 107 00:06:09,121 --> 00:06:10,760 Speaker 2: could have raced out and got a bit more help 108 00:06:10,801 --> 00:06:12,840 Speaker 2: than I did. But I guess I just kicked into 109 00:06:12,880 --> 00:06:17,361 Speaker 2: my old prison ways and I became inverted. 110 00:06:17,641 --> 00:06:20,760 Speaker 1: Would you say you became a survivor. 111 00:06:20,880 --> 00:06:24,281 Speaker 4: I mean you're a survivor again of your environment. 112 00:06:24,721 --> 00:06:28,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, back to survivor and again. That went on 113 00:06:28,880 --> 00:06:32,640 Speaker 2: for quite a while. A few weeks. I was blessed 114 00:06:32,721 --> 00:06:38,041 Speaker 2: enough to get a unit here in Salisbury and South Australia. 115 00:06:38,801 --> 00:06:41,801 Speaker 2: I'll never forget it. I remember the first night I 116 00:06:41,841 --> 00:06:46,601 Speaker 2: slept in that year. I slept on the carpet. I'll 117 00:06:46,601 --> 00:06:50,520 Speaker 2: never forget that carpet. I didn't have a knife for FORKSP. 118 00:06:50,481 --> 00:06:53,561 Speaker 4: Did it matter like knowing that you had this home, 119 00:06:53,721 --> 00:06:55,001 Speaker 4: this place to call home? 120 00:06:55,440 --> 00:06:58,681 Speaker 2: Yeah, and the beautiful lady the rest of it, Yeah, 121 00:06:58,841 --> 00:07:01,601 Speaker 2: she didn't. She didn't see anything except I think she 122 00:07:01,681 --> 00:07:04,721 Speaker 2: knew I needed help. You know. Her name was Ricky. 123 00:07:05,481 --> 00:07:09,281 Speaker 2: I'll never forget her. It's a beautiful lady. And I 124 00:07:09,320 --> 00:07:12,961 Speaker 2: think that she just seen that I needed a hand up. 125 00:07:13,921 --> 00:07:18,041 Speaker 2: So she said I could have the flat. I got up, 126 00:07:18,081 --> 00:07:21,561 Speaker 2: and I remember as I put it. I borrowed a pen, 127 00:07:21,641 --> 00:07:24,521 Speaker 2: a bit of paper from the newsagent. I wrote a 128 00:07:24,521 --> 00:07:26,361 Speaker 2: reference with my left hand and a reference with my 129 00:07:26,481 --> 00:07:26,961 Speaker 2: right hand. 130 00:07:27,001 --> 00:07:33,441 Speaker 1: And I was a good bloke, and you write your 131 00:07:33,481 --> 00:07:43,881 Speaker 1: own reference. I had to get invented, bro, I had 132 00:07:43,921 --> 00:07:45,840 Speaker 1: to survive. I was getting invented again. 133 00:07:47,241 --> 00:07:50,681 Speaker 2: Wow. And I went to the housing what they call 134 00:07:50,761 --> 00:07:52,801 Speaker 2: on the Housing trust her here I think they call 135 00:07:52,881 --> 00:07:55,721 Speaker 2: on the Housing Commission in Victoria, like the housing. 136 00:07:55,401 --> 00:07:56,441 Speaker 1: People that look after you. 137 00:07:56,761 --> 00:08:00,361 Speaker 2: We can go and the bond so you can get 138 00:08:00,361 --> 00:08:03,361 Speaker 2: assistance with four weeks bond and two weeks around or something. 139 00:08:04,361 --> 00:08:04,641 Speaker 1: All right. 140 00:08:04,841 --> 00:08:08,361 Speaker 2: I go to these people here in Salisbury and I said, hey, 141 00:08:09,521 --> 00:08:14,521 Speaker 2: guess what, I'm living homeless under a bridge and I've 142 00:08:14,521 --> 00:08:18,961 Speaker 2: got somewhere to live. Can you please give me or 143 00:08:19,001 --> 00:08:23,001 Speaker 2: even lend me the bond and the rent? And they 144 00:08:23,121 --> 00:08:29,241 Speaker 2: said no. I said what they said, we can't help you, 145 00:08:29,361 --> 00:08:32,121 Speaker 2: mister kay, I said, what do you mean, you can't 146 00:08:32,121 --> 00:08:35,001 Speaker 2: help me? You see what I didn't know, and I 147 00:08:35,041 --> 00:08:37,881 Speaker 2: don't know whether a lot of people realize, is that 148 00:08:37,961 --> 00:08:40,401 Speaker 2: if you want assistance from the housing, I don't know 149 00:08:40,401 --> 00:08:43,281 Speaker 2: about any other state. I'm only talking about here in sales, right. 150 00:08:44,361 --> 00:08:47,801 Speaker 2: If you want assistance from the housing, you need to 151 00:08:47,841 --> 00:08:51,121 Speaker 2: have an income. You see, if you don't have an income, 152 00:08:51,481 --> 00:08:53,881 Speaker 2: they won't help you. And she said to me, and 153 00:08:53,961 --> 00:08:56,321 Speaker 2: I don't know if it's changed since then. We're going 154 00:08:56,361 --> 00:09:00,721 Speaker 2: back forteen years, so maybe it's not. If you do 155 00:09:00,761 --> 00:09:03,961 Speaker 2: not have an income, they will not give you the 156 00:09:04,001 --> 00:09:06,561 Speaker 2: bond or the rent. The girl said to me, I'm sorry, 157 00:09:06,761 --> 00:09:10,561 Speaker 2: I can't help you. I hear you, but I can't 158 00:09:10,601 --> 00:09:14,681 Speaker 2: help you. And I said to her, I said, darlan, 159 00:09:15,881 --> 00:09:18,881 Speaker 2: if you send me back to that bridge, I don't 160 00:09:18,961 --> 00:09:23,921 Speaker 2: know if I'm coming out from under there tomorrow. And 161 00:09:24,241 --> 00:09:29,961 Speaker 2: she said, look, I'm sorry, I can't help you. So 162 00:09:30,041 --> 00:09:33,881 Speaker 2: I got up and I started to leave. I put 163 00:09:33,881 --> 00:09:36,601 Speaker 2: my hand on the door, and the lady in the 164 00:09:36,681 --> 00:09:39,201 Speaker 2: cubicle next to us was the manager, and she turned 165 00:09:39,201 --> 00:09:41,481 Speaker 2: herround and said, mister Kate, you get your ass back here. 166 00:09:42,761 --> 00:09:44,761 Speaker 2: And then she turned around and said to the girl, 167 00:09:45,281 --> 00:09:47,401 Speaker 2: you get the check made up for him, and you 168 00:09:47,481 --> 00:09:51,641 Speaker 2: do it now. So they gave me the check and 169 00:09:51,681 --> 00:09:55,121 Speaker 2: I moved in. I remember I stayed in that platform 170 00:09:55,921 --> 00:09:59,841 Speaker 2: three years and I bought the biggest ass cheese cake 171 00:09:59,881 --> 00:10:05,561 Speaker 2: I could ever buy, and trust in South Australia Allsbrey 172 00:10:05,641 --> 00:10:10,161 Speaker 2: to say thank you Jee's on that day, I. 173 00:10:11,281 --> 00:10:16,321 Speaker 4: You know, shows the sort of heart that you've got. 174 00:10:17,281 --> 00:10:20,281 Speaker 4: That that right there, that's that's that's a special thing. 175 00:10:22,041 --> 00:10:22,081 Speaker 2: H