WEBVTT - F**K, WE GOT MATCHING TATTOOS 0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:02.720 I want the fairy tale. I want the prince charming. 0:00:03.120 --> 0:00:06.040 She how do I put this? Isn't a fan of 0:00:06.080 --> 0:00:07.880 my kissing style with. 0:00:08.240 --> 0:00:10.680 The boyfriend and girlfriend for about twelve hours. 0:00:10.760 --> 0:00:11.760 He's in a trash bin. 0:00:11.840 --> 0:00:13.960 He's non recyclable, catching them up. 0:00:15.280 --> 0:00:18.800 I love being love, I love love. On today's episode, 0:00:18.840 --> 0:00:21.479 we are talking about that big moment when you finally 0:00:21.520 --> 0:00:22.920 declare your love to someone. 0:00:23.200 --> 0:00:26.400 Matt also is sharing some very exciting news as as 0:00:26.440 --> 0:00:34.120 so stay tuned. Where's Your Head At is a podcast 0:00:34.159 --> 0:00:39.080 that talks all things relationships, breakups, reality TV, trending shows, 0:00:39.120 --> 0:00:40.360 and everything in between. 0:00:40.640 --> 0:00:43.360 This is your new go to destination for laughs, gossip, 0:00:43.520 --> 0:00:52.000 intimate details, advice, and much more. Hello Matt, Hello Anna, 0:00:52.120 --> 0:00:52.680 how are you going? 0:00:53.159 --> 0:00:54.800 I'm going well, how are you going? 0:00:54.920 --> 0:00:56.040 Yeah? Good? Good? Good? 0:00:56.360 --> 0:00:58.600 Do you know what? I was actually thinking about something 0:00:59.200 --> 0:01:03.960 the other and I actually remembered that you hadn't addressed 0:01:04.560 --> 0:01:08.240 something that we spoke about last season on this podcast 0:01:08.440 --> 0:01:11.040 in regards to saying the big L word. 0:01:11.440 --> 0:01:16.160 Oh yes, actually so coming back? Yeah, I forgot about that. 0:01:17.319 --> 0:01:19.440 So what happened when I left it that Jen hadn't 0:01:19.480 --> 0:01:20.520 said I love you back to me? 0:01:20.760 --> 0:01:24.720 Yeah? So Matt shared with everyone that he had told 0:01:24.840 --> 0:01:28.760 his beloved girlfriend Jen that he loved her. Then they 0:01:28.800 --> 0:01:31.760 had a bit of a makeout sesh, and then she 0:01:32.000 --> 0:01:34.880 didn't say it back out. 0:01:35.440 --> 0:01:37.880 Yeah, so if you haven't listened, Jen didn't want to 0:01:37.880 --> 0:01:39.760 say it back because she didn't want it to be 0:01:39.880 --> 0:01:41.200 like I love you. She didn't want to have to 0:01:41.240 --> 0:01:42.920 say it because I said it. She wanted to set 0:01:42.959 --> 0:01:44.800 it in her own time, in her own time when 0:01:44.840 --> 0:01:48.760 she felt ready. So coincidentally, actually, I don't really tell 0:01:48.800 --> 0:01:50.240 her what we record that day. I don't go into 0:01:50.240 --> 0:01:52.200 too much depth. I just say, oh, we've spoken about 0:01:52.200 --> 0:01:55.640 this that you'll have to listen in as we always do. 0:01:56.960 --> 0:01:59.680 That needs the extra Yeah, you know, I bade her in, 0:02:00.160 --> 0:02:03.400 so she didn't know exactly. But coincidentally, that night she 0:02:03.520 --> 0:02:06.120 actually set it back to me. Yeah, well not to 0:02:06.160 --> 0:02:07.440 say back to me. She actually said it to me. 0:02:07.480 --> 0:02:10.040 Should I say, did she know that we did the episode? 0:02:10.360 --> 0:02:11.120 No, she didn't. 0:02:11.440 --> 0:02:13.160 You didn't tell her a single thing. 0:02:13.320 --> 0:02:15.359 No. I think we recorded another one that day as well, 0:02:15.400 --> 0:02:17.919 and I just touched over. I didn't really say anything. Yeah, 0:02:17.960 --> 0:02:20.360 she actually told me though she wanted to say I 0:02:20.400 --> 0:02:22.880 love you to me a couple of days earlier, when 0:02:22.880 --> 0:02:24.800 we had a dinner, but we were puppy sitting a 0:02:24.840 --> 0:02:26.160 puppy and that was sort of in the. 0:02:26.080 --> 0:02:27.760 Way, so she was being everywhere. 0:02:27.840 --> 0:02:29.919 Yeah, so she didn't get the chance to. Then we'd 0:02:29.919 --> 0:02:34.680 cooked a nice dinner dates, but that night she said it, cue, okay. 0:02:34.520 --> 0:02:37.000 Tell us the contacts. Let's rewind that because I need 0:02:37.000 --> 0:02:40.880 to know all the details. So where were you her sister? 0:02:41.040 --> 0:02:44.919 Her twin sister was house sitting her boyfriend's parents' house. 0:02:45.200 --> 0:02:47.880 We'd come over, had a couple of drinks, nothing too big, 0:02:48.400 --> 0:02:51.440 We'd gone to bed, passionately made love. 0:02:55.639 --> 0:02:59.080 And just after the visuals are like coming through, you know. 0:02:59.680 --> 0:03:02.840 Yeah, you know, in any healthy relationship, after that you 0:03:02.960 --> 0:03:05.600 like kiss and caudle and all that sort of stuff. 0:03:05.639 --> 0:03:08.720 And she just said I love you, and I replied 0:03:08.800 --> 0:03:11.919 with one of my favorite movie star Wars. I replied with, 0:03:12.080 --> 0:03:16.640 I know, like hand Solo says to Princess Leia before 0:03:16.639 --> 0:03:19.960 he gets frozen. I just replied with a suave I know. 0:03:20.280 --> 0:03:22.840 So it was a post sex declaration. 0:03:23.120 --> 0:03:26.239 It's safe to say I may have rocked her world. 0:03:27.400 --> 0:03:33.600 My god, you're so gross. I can't well, look, I'm 0:03:33.760 --> 0:03:36.800 very happy for you, and I know that that was 0:03:36.840 --> 0:03:39.200 a really big deal for you, because you know, it's 0:03:39.240 --> 0:03:42.840 a huge declaration, something that you have been waiting for, 0:03:43.400 --> 0:03:47.200 hoping for, praying for, and finally it's happened and come 0:03:47.240 --> 0:03:51.400 to fruition. So I'm really happy for you. So I 0:03:51.440 --> 0:03:55.160 guess in this episode we're going to talk about huge 0:03:55.200 --> 0:03:57.240 declarations of love. Let's jump in. 0:04:00.600 --> 0:04:02.600 All right, and I so we've spoken about when Michael 0:04:02.640 --> 0:04:06.000 said I love you too. That's the biggest declaration of love. 0:04:07.360 --> 0:04:12.720 Has he done any other let's say, gestures, gestures, any 0:04:13.120 --> 0:04:14.880 more ways of showing that he loves you in a 0:04:14.920 --> 0:04:17.320 big declaration sort of way, if that's the right way. 0:04:17.400 --> 0:04:20.120 Yeah. I mean, I don't know if you remember this, 0:04:20.320 --> 0:04:23.200 but I went away to the UK and then to 0:04:23.279 --> 0:04:26.720 Dubai and I came home and I was like, I 0:04:26.839 --> 0:04:29.640 cannot miss Valentine's Day. This is Michael and I's first 0:04:29.760 --> 0:04:33.720 Valentine's Day. I refused to miss it. And I actually 0:04:34.160 --> 0:04:36.599 arrived home at like midnight, but it was on the 0:04:36.600 --> 0:04:40.360 fourteenth of February, so we literally, yeah, like first hour 0:04:40.400 --> 0:04:43.720 of Valentine's Day. And I came home to our apartment 0:04:43.800 --> 0:04:47.080 and he had lit tea candles in a love heart 0:04:47.120 --> 0:04:49.480 shape with some flowers in it, and it said will 0:04:49.520 --> 0:04:52.360 you be my Valentine's on a little whiteboard. And he 0:04:52.440 --> 0:04:55.080 also played our song, which was very cute. 0:04:55.160 --> 0:04:56.160 So what's your song? 0:04:56.480 --> 0:04:59.560 It's called Let's Stay Together. So yeah, we love that song. 0:04:59.600 --> 0:05:02.039 We always put it on in like nice little moments. 0:05:02.040 --> 0:05:04.719 So that was a huge show of his love. And 0:05:04.760 --> 0:05:06.839 I thought that was so cute and also like it 0:05:06.920 --> 0:05:09.640 was kind of funny because in situations when a guy's 0:05:09.680 --> 0:05:12.799 being like super romantic, like he was just like laughing, 0:05:12.960 --> 0:05:15.479 so it made it like it wasn't uncomfortable. It was 0:05:15.560 --> 0:05:17.200 just funny but like cute, and I was. 0:05:17.200 --> 0:05:18.400 Like awkward laughing. 0:05:18.960 --> 0:05:21.719 No, he was just like this is for you, babe. 0:05:22.440 --> 0:05:24.280 You go happy Valentine's Day. 0:05:24.320 --> 0:05:25.919 Did he obviously come down and get you, take you 0:05:25.920 --> 0:05:28.120 off in the elevator, open the door for you and 0:05:28.200 --> 0:05:29.960 usher you in, or did you open the door to 0:05:30.040 --> 0:05:30.880 him there? 0:05:31.040 --> 0:05:32.920 So he obviously had picked me up from the airport, 0:05:32.960 --> 0:05:35.400 but he was like, sit in the bedroom for five minutes. 0:05:35.640 --> 0:05:37.840 I just need to do something really quick. I've planned 0:05:37.839 --> 0:05:45.080 a little thing. Leave them lit for like an hour. 0:05:45.240 --> 0:05:47.279 Last he picked me up for the airport. That would 0:05:47.320 --> 0:05:48.560 be a fire has. 0:05:48.760 --> 0:05:50.640 Highly recommend against that to our listeners. 0:05:50.800 --> 0:05:53.719 Yeah. And then I think the next thing that he 0:05:53.800 --> 0:05:56.359 did was on our six month anniversary, he took me 0:05:57.080 --> 0:05:59.200 away for the weekend to talk. Hey, he knows I 0:05:59.240 --> 0:06:01.719 absolutely love talkey, which was like a tick because I 0:06:01.760 --> 0:06:05.320 was like, he listened, and yeah. I think that was 0:06:05.400 --> 0:06:07.600 like the two big things that he's done for me, 0:06:07.640 --> 0:06:12.719 and I really appreciated those. But Matt, yes, I know 0:06:12.839 --> 0:06:18.520 that recently you made a very big declaration of your 0:06:18.600 --> 0:06:23.640 love to Jen. It happened in Sydney when we went 0:06:23.720 --> 0:06:26.480 away to record season two of Where's Your Head At? 0:06:26.520 --> 0:06:29.560 So it was me, you, Jen, and Michael. You guys 0:06:29.560 --> 0:06:33.280 had went away on a romantic evening out and do 0:06:33.279 --> 0:06:34.800 you want to tell everyone what happened? 0:06:35.279 --> 0:06:39.159 Yes? Okay. So Jen and I have just been talking 0:06:39.200 --> 0:06:42.800 back and forth about this idea we had, and we 0:06:42.920 --> 0:06:44.560 kept going back and forth on it, and we actually 0:06:44.560 --> 0:06:46.800 mentioned it on the plane. We're like, oh, like, what 0:06:46.880 --> 0:06:49.400 happens if we get like matching tattoos together? 0:06:49.760 --> 0:06:51.560 So was this a joke at the start, Like it 0:06:51.640 --> 0:06:53.360 was like, oh, let's get matching tattoos? 0:06:53.400 --> 0:06:55.800 Ha ha ha ha, this should be cute. Yeah, let's 0:06:55.800 --> 0:06:58.080 you get matching tattoos. And then we're sitting there having 0:06:58.120 --> 0:07:00.000 a couple of drinks. And this is where it's quite funny. 0:07:00.120 --> 0:07:02.520 We weren't even drunk by any stretch of the imagination. 0:07:02.640 --> 0:07:06.320 I actually drove to the tattoo parla sober. 0:07:06.080 --> 0:07:07.839 So you can't blame it on the drunken. 0:07:07.920 --> 0:07:10.720 I can't blame it on any alcohol. Yeah, we just 0:07:10.720 --> 0:07:12.280 said it, had a couple of drinks and we're like, 0:07:12.440 --> 0:07:16.160 let's do it, so fuck it. Fuck it. Actually, actually, 0:07:16.160 --> 0:07:19.640 the day before when we were dead sober, we were 0:07:19.640 --> 0:07:21.840 actually trying to find one. We were walking around Sydney 0:07:21.840 --> 0:07:25.360 trying to find a tattoo parlor, calling different parlors. No 0:07:25.400 --> 0:07:27.720 one did walk in, no one was open, one was closed, 0:07:27.720 --> 0:07:30.000 were following Google Maps. They're like, all right, well, it 0:07:30.040 --> 0:07:32.480 wasn't meant to be. But then the next night we're like, no, 0:07:32.520 --> 0:07:34.400 it's meant to be. We want these tattoos for each other. 0:07:34.600 --> 0:07:37.360 So got up. First person I called, I said, hey, 0:07:38.040 --> 0:07:40.600 in Bondai, do you guys do walk in? So they're like, yeah, sure, 0:07:40.640 --> 0:07:42.960 it's going to be with our apprentice. And I was like, 0:07:43.040 --> 0:07:46.080 you know what, like whatever, as long as he knows 0:07:46.080 --> 0:07:47.960 how to tattoo. So I was like, all right, we'll 0:07:47.960 --> 0:07:49.520 book us in for this and put down the down 0:07:49.560 --> 0:07:52.360 payment and drove there maybe fifteen minutes. I was a 0:07:52.400 --> 0:07:54.840 bit nervous, She was a bit nervous. We were just 0:07:54.880 --> 0:07:57.840 tossing up ideas of what we wanted. Walked in there. Well, 0:07:57.840 --> 0:08:00.760 I'll tell hers first. She ended up settling with a M, 0:08:01.160 --> 0:08:03.400 just an M on her wrist. 0:08:03.720 --> 0:08:08.640 So Jen has an M on her wrist for life, Yeah, 0:08:08.680 --> 0:08:09.160 for life? 0:08:09.160 --> 0:08:12.520 For me, Wow, it matches the aesthetics more of a tattoo. 0:08:12.560 --> 0:08:14.679 She has an S there for a dog that passed away. 0:08:14.800 --> 0:08:17.720 She's just like a love heart, So just matches her tattoos. 0:08:18.280 --> 0:08:20.200 And you have tattoos as well, right. 0:08:20.080 --> 0:08:21.720 Yeah, I have a couple of ship tats on my 0:08:21.800 --> 0:08:23.880 foot that like you tattoo on your foot. 0:08:24.000 --> 0:08:26.000 Yeah, well, says living Yeah. 0:08:26.040 --> 0:08:27.800 I got it with two of my mates. We've got 0:08:27.840 --> 0:08:30.080 matching tattoo. And then I got another one of my 0:08:30.120 --> 0:08:32.400 mate's names on the other side of my foot, so 0:08:32.440 --> 0:08:35.679 I have more like those yeah names. Yeah, I have 0:08:35.720 --> 0:08:38.280 all those. I have all those sort of tattoos on me. 0:08:38.679 --> 0:08:39.160 Yeah. 0:08:39.200 --> 0:08:43.079 But I settled on getting Jen with a love heart 0:08:43.880 --> 0:08:47.880 on my bum. Now. The tatoo artist said to me, 0:08:47.960 --> 0:08:51.959 what cheek and I said, look, she's always right, so 0:08:52.040 --> 0:08:52.960 let's put it on the right. 0:08:55.720 --> 0:08:56.400 I love it. 0:08:56.640 --> 0:08:59.520 So yeah, a lot of my mates and that have said, well, 0:08:59.640 --> 0:09:02.680 I think that, like you've got the shit end of 0:09:02.720 --> 0:09:04.680 the deal here, Like she's only. 0:09:04.440 --> 0:09:07.920 Got an m she's going to change into mom. Yeah. 0:09:07.960 --> 0:09:10.000 Oh she's got a dog called Moker, so she's gonna 0:09:10.000 --> 0:09:13.440 get mockery. So that and they said, like, I got 0:09:13.480 --> 0:09:15.480 the ship end because I actually got gen tattooed on me. 0:09:15.559 --> 0:09:17.040 They're like, what are you going to do if things 0:09:17.040 --> 0:09:19.800 go belly up? I was going to get some tatoo 0:09:19.960 --> 0:09:26.240 removal and teach myself to like gin. But no. Yeah, 0:09:26.280 --> 0:09:28.000 but I said to them, like she said to me, 0:09:28.120 --> 0:09:29.920 she said, well, you don't have to look at yours. 0:09:30.280 --> 0:09:32.360 She's like, I have to brush my teeth, I'd have 0:09:32.400 --> 0:09:34.600 to like write down, I'd have to type on the keyboard. 0:09:34.600 --> 0:09:37.040 I'd have to drink my tea, drink my coffee and 0:09:37.080 --> 0:09:40.839 be continuously reminded of you and that tatoo and that 0:09:41.000 --> 0:09:41.760 nice hairs. 0:09:41.840 --> 0:09:45.400 Is a lot more public if someone says to her, oh, 0:09:45.400 --> 0:09:49.200 what's the M for? It's Matthew, my boyfriend. 0:09:48.600 --> 0:09:52.640 And I think we should actually stress as well that 0:09:52.679 --> 0:09:54.520 she got that tatoo before she said I love you 0:09:54.559 --> 0:09:58.120 to me as well. No, she did it, Yeah she did. 0:09:58.200 --> 0:10:00.560 And this might sound even crazier. It was two months 0:10:00.600 --> 0:10:01.080 into our. 0:10:01.000 --> 0:10:04.480 Relationship, so you guys got matching tattoos. It was it 0:10:04.520 --> 0:10:05.960 two months official. 0:10:05.640 --> 0:10:06.800 Two months official, two. 0:10:06.679 --> 0:10:10.240 Months official into your relationship. That is huge. 0:10:11.440 --> 0:10:13.520 Yeah, I'm pretty full tilt like that. 0:10:14.120 --> 0:10:16.760 Do you know what? It actually makes more sense why 0:10:16.840 --> 0:10:19.520 you were so okay with the fact that she hadn't 0:10:19.600 --> 0:10:22.280 told you that she loved you back yet, because like 0:10:22.679 --> 0:10:25.800 she hasn't m tattooed on her wrist. Like that's the 0:10:25.920 --> 0:10:29.680 biggest declaration of love, more so than even saying it right. 0:10:29.720 --> 0:10:31.280 And some people say it's more than a ring. You 0:10:31.280 --> 0:10:33.320 can take a ring off, you can't just get rid 0:10:33.360 --> 0:10:35.440 of a tattoo. And that's what I said when we 0:10:35.520 --> 0:10:37.439 spoke about her not saying I love you. I said 0:10:37.760 --> 0:10:40.640 that her actions speak louder than her words, and I 0:10:40.840 --> 0:10:42.760 was comfortable in her actions. 0:10:42.840 --> 0:10:48.400 You weren't lying, But in all seriousness, I think you 0:10:48.440 --> 0:10:51.040 guys did that because you're pretty serious about each other. 0:10:51.320 --> 0:10:51.760 Exactly. 0:10:51.840 --> 0:10:55.360 You clicked straight away, like she was called magical date girl, 0:10:55.440 --> 0:10:57.600 Like I mean, who was called magical date girl. 0:10:57.920 --> 0:11:00.400 I know, well, I started saying like, look to get 0:11:00.480 --> 0:11:03.760 underneath another love heart, saying like forever in a day, 0:11:03.800 --> 0:11:05.480 because that's what we say to each other, we're together 0:11:05.520 --> 0:11:07.240 forever in a day. I said, I want to get this, 0:11:07.679 --> 0:11:09.480 and she was like, calm down, Matthew, you're going to 0:11:09.520 --> 0:11:13.000 start to make it a fucking try. You're right thumb cheek, 0:11:13.400 --> 0:11:15.240 and I was like, yeah, you're probably right, and. 0:11:15.120 --> 0:11:18.959 You'll have her face on there exactly. Okay, So that's 0:11:19.080 --> 0:11:21.960 like a pretty big declaration of your love. 0:11:22.440 --> 0:11:24.400 Doesn't get much bigger than a tattoo permanent. 0:11:24.520 --> 0:11:27.760 Yeah, it's a pinnacle. Can you top this in the future? 0:11:29.320 --> 0:11:32.000 I guess an engagement ring would be the next step naturally. 0:11:33.400 --> 0:11:35.840 Is that happening anytime soon? I mean, if there's a 0:11:35.880 --> 0:11:40.360 tattoo after two months, I feel like that's definitely on 0:11:40.400 --> 0:11:41.800 the horizon, right. 0:11:42.080 --> 0:11:46.400 Yeah, let's just let's see what happens. 0:11:46.920 --> 0:11:47.679 We'll pause that. 0:11:48.000 --> 0:11:51.120 I mean, we've definitely I've definitely know which ring she wants. 0:11:51.240 --> 0:11:52.520 That's been addressed. 0:11:52.640 --> 0:11:55.360 Have you guys spoke about a potential proposal. 0:11:57.320 --> 0:12:00.000 I mean, the jokes get thrown around in any relationship. 0:12:00.080 --> 0:12:03.080 I feel, yeah, the joke sets throwing about where when 0:12:03.960 --> 0:12:05.680 ring all that sort of stuff. I'm lucky enough that 0:12:05.679 --> 0:12:07.600 she has a twin sister, So anything I need to know, 0:12:07.600 --> 0:12:10.400 I would just ask her. Yeah, perfect, yeah, when it 0:12:10.400 --> 0:12:11.680 should be ready to rock and roll. 0:12:11.720 --> 0:12:16.920 But yeah, wow, now that the dust has actually settled, 0:12:17.120 --> 0:12:19.200 you guys have the tattoos. How long ago did you 0:12:19.240 --> 0:12:19.559 get them? 0:12:19.800 --> 0:12:20.680 What was that? December? 0:12:21.000 --> 0:12:21.480 December? 0:12:21.760 --> 0:12:23.200 Yeah, months ago? 0:12:23.280 --> 0:12:25.520 Yeah. Do you think it was too soon? 0:12:25.920 --> 0:12:28.320 No? I mean I haven't regretted it at all. I 0:12:28.360 --> 0:12:31.600 think maybe in one heated conversation, I said, get the sandpaper. 0:12:37.400 --> 0:12:40.839 I said that once. It's like savage that I think 0:12:40.840 --> 0:12:42.720 it was. I think it was. Yeah, it was more 0:12:42.800 --> 0:12:45.040 or less. I knew it was so more or less 0:12:45.040 --> 0:12:46.720 was to try and break the ice in this like 0:12:47.040 --> 0:12:48.800 like heated conversation. Wud say it was an argument, but 0:12:48.840 --> 0:12:49.880 it was a heated conversation. 0:12:50.080 --> 0:12:51.840 It sounds very yeah, and I. 0:12:54.120 --> 0:12:56.760 My bum. Nonetheless, that would be quite painful if I 0:12:56.880 --> 0:12:58.400 was to do that. So I think she knew. She'd 0:12:58.400 --> 0:13:02.160 probably called my bluff. She's so mad she'd be like, well, then. 0:13:02.040 --> 0:13:08.600 Go on, Okay, So there are other ways to show 0:13:08.640 --> 0:13:11.640 your love without saying it. The first one that we're 0:13:11.679 --> 0:13:14.480 going to touch on is giving someone your full attention 0:13:14.640 --> 0:13:16.600 while speaking to them. So that's giving a lot of 0:13:16.640 --> 0:13:20.200 eye contact, not scrolling on your phone. 0:13:20.520 --> 0:13:23.200 Yeah. Look, I think I've said it on here before. 0:13:23.400 --> 0:13:26.320 With my ex, literally she would just scroll on her 0:13:26.320 --> 0:13:29.280 phone the whole time Instagram, actually view her own stories 0:13:29.600 --> 0:13:31.400 over and over again, believe it or not, while you're 0:13:31.440 --> 0:13:33.920 talking to her. And it was just it's so uncomfortable 0:13:33.960 --> 0:13:35.800 and it's so disheartening and all that sort of stuff. 0:13:35.840 --> 0:13:36.920 How did that make you feel? 0:13:37.320 --> 0:13:39.400 Not valuable? What I'm saying is not valid? 0:13:39.559 --> 0:13:41.720 Like just valuable, Yeah, yeah, just. 0:13:41.640 --> 0:13:43.600 Not like what I'm saying is not worth it, not 0:13:43.679 --> 0:13:45.880 worth the time. Yes, I ended up just not even 0:13:45.920 --> 0:13:47.439 really talking to it, and we just would just sit 0:13:47.480 --> 0:13:49.600 there and just scroll her phone and even then trying 0:13:49.600 --> 0:13:51.800 to spend quality time together and she just was on 0:13:51.840 --> 0:13:53.679 her phone the whole time. That's one of my pet 0:13:53.720 --> 0:13:54.319 hates that. 0:13:54.720 --> 0:13:58.360 Yeah, and like actively listening as opposed to listening whilst 0:13:58.400 --> 0:14:00.720 you're on your phone, and like multi time asking is 0:14:00.760 --> 0:14:01.840 such a different thing. 0:14:01.960 --> 0:14:04.920 I don't care what anyone says, you're not fully giving 0:14:04.920 --> 0:14:06.240 someone your attention if you're on your phone. 0:14:06.280 --> 0:14:06.600 I agreed. 0:14:06.679 --> 0:14:09.280 If someone says, oh, I'm multitasked, No, you're not. Yeah, 0:14:09.320 --> 0:14:11.080 you're not. You'll always miss a bit of the story. 0:14:11.080 --> 0:14:13.800 You'll always miss a bit, and you always it's noticeable 0:14:13.840 --> 0:14:16.120 when they go, wait what, yeah, like, well you weren't listening. 0:14:16.160 --> 0:14:18.880 And I mean even like we've spoke about this before 0:14:19.000 --> 0:14:21.120 on here, like when you're on a day and just 0:14:21.240 --> 0:14:24.280 having your phone like not even on the table, just 0:14:24.480 --> 0:14:27.760 so that someone feels like they're here to talk to me, 0:14:28.040 --> 0:14:29.960 listen to me, they're giving me their full attention. 0:14:30.240 --> 0:14:30.480 Yes. 0:14:30.760 --> 0:14:34.200 Another thing that I like is sending cute messages or 0:14:34.320 --> 0:14:37.520 texts or even a handwritten no. Every once in a while. 0:14:37.280 --> 0:14:38.600 You love a handwritten note. 0:14:38.600 --> 0:14:41.680 Don't you know what Michael did which was actually really cute. 0:14:41.720 --> 0:14:43.880 I don't think I've told you about this. So he 0:14:43.960 --> 0:14:46.920 actually has made me like my own poem book. And 0:14:46.960 --> 0:14:49.600 then anytime because he loves writing poems, he's so good 0:14:49.600 --> 0:14:52.920 at it, and anytime there's like a special moment in 0:14:52.920 --> 0:14:56.040 our relationship, like the moment that he said I love 0:14:56.080 --> 0:14:58.120 you to me, he writes in the books, it's like 0:14:58.160 --> 0:15:01.160 an ongoing presence. So like we have our first date 0:15:01.240 --> 0:15:03.280 and then he wrote a poem about that day, and 0:15:03.320 --> 0:15:05.760 like when he first saw me. He's like written about that. 0:15:05.800 --> 0:15:08.080 It's so special to me, Like, I just you. 0:15:08.040 --> 0:15:10.720 Know on that. Jen and I actually while we were 0:15:10.720 --> 0:15:14.360 away last we bought a coffee table book and it 0:15:14.440 --> 0:15:17.080 is a bucket list and we've made it our bucket 0:15:17.080 --> 0:15:18.760 list and we've filled it in with things we want 0:15:18.800 --> 0:15:21.640 to do together. So it's really nice. We filled in 0:15:21.800 --> 0:15:24.640 likely over the Love Heart in the Great Beery reef, 0:15:24.840 --> 0:15:26.880 like do this stuff, and we've it's got like a 0:15:26.880 --> 0:15:28.360 bit where you can print off a photo and put 0:15:28.360 --> 0:15:30.520 it in. So yeah, we haven't really started it yet. 0:15:30.560 --> 0:15:33.000 We haven't had a chance to take anything off, but yeah, 0:15:33.000 --> 0:15:34.280 we've started a bucket list together. 0:15:34.480 --> 0:15:36.640 And how nice is that when you have something that 0:15:36.680 --> 0:15:39.400 you're both sharing together and like goals that you can 0:15:40.000 --> 0:15:40.640 reach together. 0:15:40.720 --> 0:15:42.840 There's a byre house in there. It's like goal slash 0:15:42.920 --> 0:15:46.200 like I have yeah, yeah, the goal Slash bucket list 0:15:46.200 --> 0:15:47.000 sort of stuff in there. 0:15:47.120 --> 0:15:51.280 Wow. Love that, Yeah, PDA, that's a big one. Like 0:15:51.400 --> 0:15:54.240 showing someone you care about them. It's a huge declaration 0:15:54.360 --> 0:15:57.880 of love. Super uncomfortable for those around. So you think 0:15:57.880 --> 0:15:58.760 about this on. 0:15:58.760 --> 0:16:01.160 That, well, you've gone a record saying you feel uncomfortable 0:16:01.200 --> 0:16:05.400 with the amount of PDA that genevieven myself show in public. 0:16:05.720 --> 0:16:08.240 I think, like it's not even about Jen. I think 0:16:08.360 --> 0:16:11.160 you as a person are a big PDA guy. 0:16:11.680 --> 0:16:13.640 Yeah. I mean, I don't give a fuck who's around. 0:16:13.720 --> 0:16:15.880 I'm just there to show them. I love it. 0:16:15.880 --> 0:16:16.880 It's all too much. 0:16:17.000 --> 0:16:20.120 I love affection, I love giving it, I love receiving it. 0:16:20.240 --> 0:16:23.280 So but can't you do it like when people aren't there? 0:16:23.600 --> 0:16:27.000 No, trust me, I do, I know I do. I 0:16:27.080 --> 0:16:28.120 do it when they're there or not? 0:16:29.080 --> 0:16:30.440 Tell us what your sister said. 0:16:30.840 --> 0:16:33.600 Ah, so my eighteen year old sister Emma, when we 0:16:33.600 --> 0:16:35.160 were walking out the cinema. We all went as a 0:16:35.160 --> 0:16:37.720 family for something night movie night, like my sister Laura, 0:16:37.840 --> 0:16:40.520 boyfriend Jaden with their mum, and we were walking out. 0:16:40.520 --> 0:16:42.960 We're talking about like recapping the movie, and Emma just 0:16:43.000 --> 0:16:44.880 turns to me and goes, I'm never going to the 0:16:44.880 --> 0:16:45.920 movies with you two again. 0:16:47.320 --> 0:16:48.600 Were you guys making out? 0:16:49.280 --> 0:16:51.240 Yeah, I make an air. 0:16:51.240 --> 0:16:53.640 Well, your mom's to the left, your sister's. 0:16:53.240 --> 0:16:53.840 To the right. 0:16:54.800 --> 0:16:55.040 Yeah. 0:16:55.160 --> 0:16:58.000 When it went me Jen, Emma than the rest of 0:16:58.040 --> 0:17:01.600 the family. But yeah, Emma was just front row seats 0:17:01.600 --> 0:17:03.200 to an absolute makeout session. 0:17:04.200 --> 0:17:05.919 Like seeing that I think is not normal. 0:17:06.000 --> 0:17:07.119 It wasn't the whole movie. 0:17:07.320 --> 0:17:09.000 I mean, it was just if I was around my 0:17:09.080 --> 0:17:11.639 parents with Michael, Like, if he gets a peck on 0:17:11.640 --> 0:17:12.639 the lips, he's lucky. 0:17:13.080 --> 0:17:15.639 It's funny that you say that, because when I'm around 0:17:15.680 --> 0:17:19.720 her family, I'm really not affectionate. Maybe her sister and 0:17:19.720 --> 0:17:22.439 her sister's boyfriend. Yeah, but if her mom or a 0:17:22.560 --> 0:17:25.919 dad or other sister around, I'm a bit. Yeah, Like 0:17:25.960 --> 0:17:28.880 I can't. I rain in quite a lot. 0:17:29.480 --> 0:17:31.480 So don't you feel uncomfortable to it in front of 0:17:31.560 --> 0:17:32.280 your family? 0:17:32.640 --> 0:17:36.040 No, they know who I am, they know take it. Yeah, 0:17:36.080 --> 0:17:40.240 they know who I am. Yeah, they know I love Yeah. 0:17:40.480 --> 0:17:45.440 I personally like handholding, but I think like making out 0:17:45.600 --> 0:17:49.040 is like a line that probably shouldn't be crossed in public. 0:17:49.200 --> 0:17:51.160 You know. I used to see a girl who would 0:17:51.240 --> 0:17:54.880 not hold hands for her. It was like, bro, She'd 0:17:54.920 --> 0:17:57.000 wig out every one time I grab her hand in 0:17:57.080 --> 0:17:59.280 public to hold it, and she fucking really freaked out 0:17:59.280 --> 0:17:59.520 with me. 0:17:59.640 --> 0:18:03.480 Really, I mean, is that trauma? Is that like passing? 0:18:04.000 --> 0:18:06.800 She brought up that her X was a bit Yeah, 0:18:07.040 --> 0:18:08.640 it was a bit what I don't know. She said 0:18:08.640 --> 0:18:10.440 that he was a bit weird with handholding. And now 0:18:10.520 --> 0:18:11.680 she's just not used to and. 0:18:11.600 --> 0:18:14.959 Now she's kind of yeah, and she had a lot 0:18:15.000 --> 0:18:17.440 of trauma in regards to that X because I know 0:18:17.480 --> 0:18:20.240